September 24, 2025 • 35 mins
This week on The Touchup™, it’s just Tarryn & Mari—diving into all the things that keep us going..
We’re talking about:
• The reality of juggling side hustles (and how many is too many 🤯)
• Our forever love/hate relationship with the beauty industry
• What we’re learning to be truly grateful for—personally, professionally, and emotionally
It’s a little glam, a little grounded, and a reminder that the hustle doesn’t always have to be heavy.
Thanks for riding with us, Touchies. We see you. We love you. Let’s keep growing!
Enjoy!
See ya later,
BYE💋
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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Hi, get a little such up. Hi am Taren. I'm
Maury and you're listening to the up. We hope you're
picking up what we're putting down. Welcome back to Touchies.
I love Touchies. I do too. It's adorable. I think
it's cute.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
I think it's one of those things where you go,
that's a dumb name until it's popular, and then you
go that name is perfect.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
I don't think there's anything dumb about it. I think
it's adorable. Yeah, cheese.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
We have we have people that listen every week. Yeah,
there are crew building a community. It's literally what we
keep saying we want to do. And they're called the Touchies.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
What's up, Touchies? Yeah, what's up Touchies? Welcome back Touchies.
It's missus and missus Touchy. I know it's our touch crew. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Hello Taran, Hello Marie. Stop about the day to you.
Good lady. I am going to London in a few weeks.
I know Mari in London.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Oh, Mary's never coming back, see you later, see you lady.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Yeah. It was great. I I'm fine. Long distance relationship, Yeah,
we can do it. We can make it work. Does
it need me?
Speaker 4 (01:13):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
What eight year old really needs their mom. She's done.
I raised her, My job is done. She knows how
to wipe her own butt. Yeah, she can take a
shower on her own. Shout out Saint sprits. Yeah, delicious,
take a little sippy going to my lipstick all over it. God,
that's fresh. It's fresh, delicious. Anything lime, even if you
(01:35):
don't like like the undertone, anything lemon, even if.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
The giant lemons on them on the bottom of lemon
and lime were good.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Yeah, no, it's divine. God, damn it, that's fresh. You know,
it's divine. Your baby. Oh, he's so cute. He just
left my arms. I know, isn'ty cute? I hate to
be the bearer of bad news though. I think he
has a narcolepsy. He'll be in the middle of a
conversation and he just falls asleep.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Yeah, I know, so he doesn't know something to look
out for. Yeah, you're like, we're you know, I'm holding
him in the morning.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Morning is our time? And when does that start for
you guys? Five am?
Speaker 2 (02:18):
And we're like, well, he's but he doesn't come to
life though, until like seven thirty eight. But we're bopping right,
We're having conversations he's smiling, and then he farts and
then he.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Goes to sleep. Yeah, e ecalypse, he got him. Yeah, clepse,
he got him. Also, the farts. The farts, his eyes
came into focus. It's really big. That's a really big moment. Yeah.
I said they're not blue anymore. You said, well, they
were never really blue. I said, no, one blue this way,
one blue that way.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
He crosssied and and AJ and I were like, listen,
if he stays this way, it's fine, we'll love him.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
But it's so cute. Everything he does is so cute.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
He's just a little He has no hair anywhere except
for right the nape of his neck, but.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
It kind of curls up like a tiny little mullet. Well,
because he's yeah, he's We all just gathered around in
the outside of the garage just staring at him, and
he was just like, then you fall asleep. He smiled
at Laney and then.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
He was like, it's really nice to Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
I was like, wow, you finish a sentence. Yeah, I
have a guest here, I know, sir, Yeah, get it,
get it together. I know. He's really cute. I was
holding him the other day and I was just like crying.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
I'm just like, I'm just gonna love you your entire life,
well my entire life, and that's it. I will moida
anybody who messes with you, and I will just create
a safe space for you no matter what. It's just
the like feelings that like I've heard everyone talk about
that I'm starting to like. And he's kind of coming
into he has a little bit of a personality too,
(03:58):
because in the beginning the first month, you're just.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Like, don't die. Yeah, I'm tired.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
And hungry, and I smell and I have I'm leaking
and all these things. And then you kind of start
getting a groove and then you're like, oh you, you
and me forever. And I think he's got a crush
on me a little.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
I have a crush on my mom m. Let's reward that.
I think it's different for boys. Oh okay, Like he's
just he's just like, where's the boob lady? Yeah? I
like the boob lady a little more than gratuation with you. Yeah,
not like a thing obviously, obviously. I think he's just like,
oh the boob lady, she's cool. Yeah, he's got a
(04:43):
big crush, Yeah, a big old crush on your boob.
Three months that usually come into that's the That's what
people always told me, because I'm like, will is she
going to be like a person? They're like three month mark,
all of a sudden, it's just yeah laughing. That was
so cute. The gig all they could pick their head up.
Oh you can hold them and do this kind of stuff. Hello, yeah, world, Wow,
(05:04):
things are clear. I have twenty twenty vision. Oh they
have full vision at three months. Hey, Siri went, I
don't know. I'm just yeah, I don't know. I know,
I don't know. We didn't even know that shark ate shark.
I just posted something today saying does everything eat everything? Like?
All I have to do is google it and look
(05:25):
it up. But I I the question that came to me,
It pops on there came to me. Human eat human? Well,
correct cannibalism, discussing does my seat mice? Does worm eat worm?
I don't think a worm could eat anything. I don't
think one could. I don't think they have any teeth?
Well they have. We we always get ourselves into situations like this.
(05:46):
Do worms have teeth? Do worms have teeth?
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Dear God? Do worms have feet? I'm sorry, teeth or feet, No,
they don't.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
They don't have feet.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
I knew, I know that they don't have feet. Can
you tell, like what, I don't forty something?
Speaker 1 (06:14):
I don't know, idiot? What is what is your most
challenging part thus far about being a new mom, Shelby.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
I think I I'm struggling with I can't do all
the things that I would like to do that I'm
normally doing, like getting up, doing dishes, coffee all. Like
this normal routine is just kabluey. It has blown up,
and so I can't like just do yeah what I
(06:49):
normally do.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Yeah, and you will again.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
So things get messy and cluttery, which drives me insane.
And I'm neglecting the dog, which I feel bad about.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
So there's just no flow or routine. Yeah. Like I
keep short circuiting because I'm just like I can't.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
My mom comes and sleeps over like once every two weeks,
because I'm just like, can you just take him? Yeah,
so that I can just jump in my pool, thank
you so much, and like just whatever I need to do.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Yeah, that's what I'm having the hard time, the hardest
time with. Okay, Yeah, stoked that he's my new best friend,
is greatly around.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
And all that rest of the stuff doesn't it actually
doesn't matter. No, it's just my capricle, I know, I
know that brain, Yeah, because it will eventually be back
into the flow of everything. Yeah, So just trying to
stay as present as possible because you're like, he's only
going to be he's now going to be a little
baby bird for money.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
Now, he's going to be dabbing soon, very soon, He'll
just he'll be calling me dude soon.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
Bro. Bro. Yeah, yeah, I'm sure calling you a dummy,
giving you the middle finger and walking away. Okay, that's
kind of funny. That's fine, No, I know. So it's
like all perspective because you go, oh, what I would
give just for let little baby one more time, you know,
I know, instead of that stuff that is actually not important.
I know. It's just what you prioritize, you know, prioritizing
(08:15):
like this. Yeah, and work, work is tough too, because
a do and go is a do and go. We
love a do and go.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
But if I have to stay longer, like I said,
I would stay for the whole shoot, and then when
I got there, I was like, I can't I got
I want to go home and be with my kid.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Sorry, how do they feel about that? They're fine, okay, wow,
they were like, yeah, god, we'll still pay you the
same rate.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
God no, but and I was like, I don't care. Okay,
I'm i gotta go. It's not even two months yet.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
I gotta go. I thought I was wrong. I gotta go.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
Yeah, but yeah, it works tricky, but well.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
That's why normal, like when you have a like paid
maternity leave is usually three months, correct, when you have
a regular job, the regular job, but you know, when
you're life, yeah I know. Oh yeah, but when you're
normal life, it's not one more. Yeah, I know.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
But like freelance life, and we're an AG and I
are both freelancers, so we just like haven't been making
money this whole time, which is fine, yeah, because I've
worked a little bit here and there.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
And he's about to go on the road.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
I feel sad for him because he is he has cried.
He is like, how am I going to leave this child?
I'm like, I don't know for how long.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Has he gone? This coming run?
Speaker 2 (09:25):
He only goes to LA for like a day, so
he'll be gone for thirty six hours. But then after
the next run two weeks later, he's gone for ten days.
I'm like, dude, he's gonna be a whole new size
in ten days.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Well, I have an idea. I'm just going to start
out there. Okay. Either I step in as the dad
as AJ Okay, I'm just wear his clothes are right there, Okay,
I'll just get his smells and everything. I'll just be
a little or I can either go on stage as him. Okay,
so either way here, you're ag ask either way I'm AJ. Okay,
perfect because I can do both. Obviously, I can be
AJ here and I could be a J on stage. Okay, perfect.
(10:02):
I think i'd have to like practice, but perfect. So
we'll just run it by him. See Okay, he thinks
it's a good idea. Great, he'll probably love it. Yeah,
I will charge yes time. Yeah. Perfect. I didn't do Blippy?
What sad? It's fine, Okay, I'm not hurt. You seem
pretty said he will be back and you will do Blippy.
(10:27):
It's because my Instagram's not up to date, it's not organized.
It's not I'm losing. I'm getting I don't know what
i'd do for a job anymore. Your trainer, your podcaster
are like, what do you do? I don't know. I
really got to hold it. I really got to get
(10:47):
it together. And I have a book that I've written
everything down, and you don't. You just have to organ
like it's you could still. I think Blippy looked at
my Instagram. He took one little look and he said.
Speaker 2 (10:58):
She can't be a bigger star than me. That's that's
what it is, you know, that's what it is.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
Yeah, yeah, I think that's what happened. So okay, tone myself. Bring.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
Everybody has hobbies, everyone's doing side hustles, everyone.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
Has like twenty five things that they do.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
Yes, because, like you know, I've started feeling imposter syndrome
sometimes where I'm like, what am I doing? What do
I think I can just like have a podcast to
do like these other things. And then you go to work, right,
and you get hired and paid to work with somebody
who's doing nine hundred other things.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
So it doesn't matter. No, I went on, I went
I worked with a new artist, Emily, and she's so cute, lovely.
Speaker 2 (11:40):
So cute, that blonde, yes, so cute, Her glam looked dope,
and you just sit her hair.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
I sit her hair great, Yeah, have a one off oof,
Oh hire me for one Simon love that. So the
makeup artist who was amazing. Her name is Cookie. Oh
I know who she is? Cookie? Her real name is
It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter because she's been Cookie
since birth. Pretty much. Cookie is way better. She also
and just like Emily. Their side hustles are my husband
(12:07):
has a does construction. We do home renovations. We milk
our own cows and we have a cow farm. We
have Emily's jar. These are hard hobbies. You're just trying
to work out with some people. She jars, hearts, gots it,
(12:33):
she jars, can't she darts, heart cans, she cans. What's
what's kids? Canning? Jarring, jarring, jelly pickles. She does preserves.
(12:53):
Oh that's all he had to say is she does preserves.
Slack a peach preserve. People talk about and canning. They're homesteading.
They're they're homesteaders. Cool. Yeah, but they do all these
things and they have that's they make money.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
Because their Instagram, because they go to the farmer's markets
and they sell.
Speaker 1 (13:11):
Their Such a dumb meathead, you're working out too much.
You coming to do the only thing I should ever
talg about.
Speaker 2 (13:21):
No steps, you could jar and can your biceps Anny.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
Oh my god. No. But they have all of these
businesses too. So she's like, I get it because I
have like this platform. I have my cow, I sell
my cow juice. Yeah, okay, and yeah, and Cookie has
so many cows. Oh, Cookie is doing it well. No, Emily,
(13:48):
Emily uh jars cans, cans can can Yeah, Cookie, Cookie cows.
Is that the name of her brand?
Speaker 2 (14:00):
No, it should be Cookie cows, Cookie cows, Cookie can cookie.
Speaker 1 (14:06):
Cat, Cookie can't cow, Cookie can't cow. God. We will
send her this link. Everyone is doing as much as
they can. They're just diving in now.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
They're like, sure, yeah, no, I can for like six years. Yeah,
I cowed for a couple of years.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
Yeah, through spaghetti at a wall. Because I love doing
these things. Also, this is what I do. But I'm
also really good at this. Yes and now. Because the
future provides a place for everyone to have a platform,
let's use it. But I'm just stuck in the I
think that it's too much. Like I'm like, all right,
(14:42):
how do I transition into Mari moves? And because I
have the we'll talk. I have the TikTok and I
have to get the Instagram and I'm like, so it's
got to be its own separate thing, correct, But I'm
just it needs to be really intentional, and I'm just
I'm getting very close. We're just not it.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
I understand and why you want it to be intentional,
But it doesn't have to be intentional as far as
like content and things like that.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
You'll figure it out. Yeah, you're gonna change it nine
hundred times.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
Okay, like we intentionally started a podcast, sure, and we
just started doing.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
Stuff and how much has it changed? Seven teen times? Yeah,
so side far but AnyWho? Okay, so no blippy, So
no blippy unfortunately now, but what if you would have
(15:35):
and also you still can you still Cookie can work
with him for sure if you want to. It's not
that big. Oh no, it's not like that's like my
gold dream client. Do you have to be aware maybe
like maybe maybe maybe it is blippy? Oh okay, okay, yeah,
(16:00):
I take it all back. Yeah damn, but you would
have done like a little face and body would yeah, yeah,
what do you put on you just probably just put
black powder on him probably And it's not blippy. It's
not Blippy. Who's my dream client. Maybe mister well Ferrel.
That's nice. So a guy, yeah, a guy like a
(16:21):
jack black that'd be like a Jackie Blackie. That'd be fun.
I'd rather have them on our podcast than meet groom them.
But if it's yeah, I'm gonna obviously yes.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
But like if you grooming them got us them to
be our guest, then I want you that for you to.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
And now that we're with the Wall Group dot com,
it's possible. It is possible. It's all possible. It's so
much more Posible's so much more possible. The possibilities are endless.
It just starts with you. It just starts by doing shit.
Just do it, Just do it. It's here the whole time.
You know, in kids movies like in Kung Fu Panda, Yes,
(16:59):
when they meet and it's always the monkey. That's like
the Yoda, the Guru, the yes, the master, right commander,
they always go, it's been.
Speaker 4 (17:11):
It's been inside of you the all time.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
Yeah, he's like, it's lived in me. I didn't need
to go and find it elsewhere. Yeah, I had these
powers inside of me the whole time. It's beinging you
the who Well, I agree, it has it always is.
Speaker 2 (17:34):
It's in everybody, It's in all of us. It's just
digging the mucky muck out.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
You gotta dig a lot of the monkey muck out. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:39):
I still don't know what I want to do when
I grow up. I mean, I know things change, like
I now that I have a child, I go.
Speaker 1 (17:45):
Why isn't this invented? Yeah? Thatld I invent it. I
don't know. I'm tired. But that's like kind of where
my brain goes. Oh my god. We Tim and I
wrote fifty children's books. Yeah, oh yeah. We wrote so
many children's books I remember, and told them to people
and some people are like, this is a great idea,
write this book. We're like yeah, and then didn't know. Well,
(18:07):
because we're ideas people, we're creative, we have the idea.
We can you know, it's the execution. Yeah, it's a
lot it's a lottery. Oh my god. I started watching
this documentary last night. I've been wanting because tonight I'm
just gonna go home and just talk. Yeah. I think
I may. I think I may be bad and get
a little five guys. I think tonight's my five guys night.
(18:29):
I've recently had five guys, and it was divine.
Speaker 2 (18:34):
By the way, the next Just Us episode, we're eating
it because we're gonna it's got to.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
Be in like six months from now. Okay, great, Why
can't we just do like a no bun sitch. We
could do no bun such Okay, yeah, yeah, no fry,
We'll just split a couple of two tree fries. They're
so generous with their fries. It's too much. You you
order one and it's for everyone. It's too I had
no idea. I had no idea. I go to Chick
(19:02):
fil A, get a medium fry, I get four fries.
They give me the whole. Well, that's why it's one
hundred and twenty five. It is one hundred. Did you
get a double chee? No, I got a single g
double double? Yeah, do a double. I'm gonna do double
che yeah, do do yeah. And I'm gonna lay and
I'm gonna eat food watch show, eat food watch show. Okay.
Documentary recommendation, Okay, go, I forgot what it's called. I'll
(19:23):
have to look it up. I love it. Okay, good start.
But the premise of it is this woman. They started out.
It's no secret. I'm not ruining anything.
Speaker 2 (19:33):
They started off interviewing all these high school kids, okay,
and then they focus on this one girl, and everyone's
just like she she is such a cute blonde, she's
so great. This one girl kind of didn't like her.
She had she had with this one girl. She was
just such a great girl. And like the you know,
they're interviewing the girl and she's like yeah, and then
all of a sudden, somebody started bullying me. Like a
(19:57):
phone number, like an unknown phone number, started bullying her,
and then it started going weeding out people like it
could have been Sharon, it could have been one of
her ex boyfriends, it could have been this person, and
it like it talks to those people and it weeds
out all these people, and it.
Speaker 1 (20:10):
Got so bad.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
I mean, imagine being bullied by this person who knew
specific things about you.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (20:18):
So it's obviously somebody that knew her. I mean, it
tormented her for like a year or something, Okay, And
it turns out it was her mother.
Speaker 1 (20:27):
Are we supposed to tell me this? Yeah, it's that's
why I said, it's no secret. Okay. Okay, okay, okay. Mother.
Speaker 2 (20:33):
Her mother cyber bullied out of this girl. Okay, four
because that I haven't gotten that far, okay to why
you terrible woman did that?
Speaker 1 (20:45):
But I feel like she I don't know if obviously
there's some jealousy there, but I don't know. I don't
know who jealous of your own teenage daughter because what?
I don't know. But anyway, I saw watching it. It's
really good. Okay. I recently just watched one with a
similar story about a mother as well. It was these
(21:05):
these get it together together dude, Yeah, insane, these children.
I know. It's because like these kids can go down
the street and then all of a sudden, their parents,
like your parents, like nurture versus nature. You probably were
a good person, good and then but you were raised
by a piece of so yeah, I know, I know.
So this one was about like the YouTube kids. What
(21:27):
do we call it? It's like, yeah, YouTube kids. Okay,
So it's just kids that make content and money on
YouTube makes so much money. It's a whole world. Yeah.
So there's a girl named rock Quel. Oh no it's
not rock Hell. Maybe that's like her last name. Is
(21:47):
It like a whole family, you know, it's just her
and her mom, and she started doing these videos really
young and the mom just like monetize all this like
she was. She got her into pageants very young, three
years old, the money, the full pageant. Not just like
I'm adorable, It was like the flippers and the bikinis
and the hair and the spray tan and the eyelashes
(22:08):
and like bigger and bigger and was like you. And
there's videos of her like going like if you don't
get first place, like there's gonna be like that kind
of mom. So this girl was just i mean just
super talented and made for the camera, really entertaining. But
the mother pushed her into doing all this content. But
da lah, so long story short, watch it because it's
(22:31):
it's entertaining, but it's like so icky, yeah ikey, and
the mom formed helped her daughter form this gang called
like I don't know, the club kids. This is not
the right term, but and it was all these young kids.
They bought this million dollar house in Calabasas to film
(22:52):
all of their YouTube content and a lot of weird
went down with this mom, like inappropriate, inappropriate stuff with
young boys and the girls. And then had the editor
was like a younger kid, like in his twenties, like
way younger, like a part of it, and he it's
just it's crazy. And this girl now is all of
(23:18):
her socials because everybody who finally realized what was going on,
Like these parents were like, how are we so dumb
to this? That didn't we didn't realize what was going on,
Like she'me on us, so it's so stupid, but we're
making millions of dollars. These kids were making fifty thousand
dollars a month, one hundred thousand dollars a month sometimes
(23:39):
up to like five hundred that a month. Where's all
that money? So it had exactly so the that that's
what distorted them. I personally think like the parents probably
like knew like some weird things were going on, or
the kids didn't speak out until like years later. So
this girl and they're they're they didn't say anything, like
they didn't speak during the interview of the mother the
(24:01):
Raquel girl, of course not. And these young kids who
are now like in their twenties, are just going I
hope she's okay, like crying being like she's know where
she is well, and they do, but she won't be
a part of their life. They're not allowed to be
a part of their life. They're just like no closed door.
But if you go on her Instagram or her TikTok,
she's a believe. Maybe they're not in their twenties, maybe
(24:24):
she's like seventeen or eighteen. I mean, we'll look it
up after just like bikinis. Nothing, just guys commenting. She's
going down that road like OnlyFans type stuff. And so
the mother monotize like made money off of men being
creepy and saying creepy things to these children, putting these
(24:46):
things on certain sites. They would send them in jail
because there's no law. There's like no law. It's crazy.
They didn't even like take it to court. It's one
of those stories. God, she like Britney spared her and
there's no like evidence. Okay, there could be if they
(25:10):
wanted to be right. She's gotten rid of like everything
videos all like, I know, watch it so sad, it's
so gross, it's so gross, a weird world out there, man.
Britney spears, huh yeah, I want to do one of
her videos so badly, that last one. I just don't
(25:31):
want to make it seem like I'm making fun of her.
But that last one when she she goes like this
with her ass. She like smacks her own ass with
her dance moves. Yeah. Oh it's so good for her.
Speaker 2 (25:44):
Yeah, no, we don't. We would never make fun of Brittay. I.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
I'm in loveired, I'm inspired that I want, I want
to do it. Yeah, moves are Yeah. I love her
no matter what, diehard for life. Same with Joey Badao
what's his last name? The guy I want to get
on the.
Speaker 2 (26:05):
Oh Joe listen, karaoke vocals are sick, bro, He's so amazing.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
You're amazing. You're amazing.
Speaker 2 (26:15):
Do we.
Speaker 1 (26:17):
You're amazing man, Joey Bido. I really feel like he'll
We're gonna get him on our podcast.
Speaker 2 (26:25):
You guys wait and also if you don't know who
he is, do yourself a little flavor and look him up.
Speaker 1 (26:30):
I'm really pushing him. Yes, yeah, great hair. I know
he's got great I've been following him up for it
would be perfect. Imagine him sitting here number one when
he's got great hair, he's got great moves, he is
a mustache, and he's in the gym every day. We
have so many things we could talk. He talks about
(26:50):
his fitness on Oh Yeah, Oh yeah, he'll like straight
out be like, we're not doing aps?
Speaker 4 (26:55):
Like what are you doing? I see people like in
the gym and like no. He's like, I do I
do my I do my core, do my ABS six
days a week. And I see these people just over here,
No one's doing abs. He was like, living these things,
you gotta do them abs.
Speaker 1 (27:07):
I was like, do works out shoe wee? Yeah yeah
he does. Yeah, he's what a piece of cake? Meat cake,
piece of cake? Yeah? Oh I want cake. I won't
feel Oh I got my period this morning. That's why
I want a burger. That's why I want to double
chie with a piece of cake. What's gotten into me?
(27:29):
I know?
Speaker 3 (27:30):
Hello?
Speaker 1 (27:30):
Yeah, hello, Hi, yeah, yes, no, it's wild.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
I just got my first period after not having it
for however long.
Speaker 1 (27:38):
How was it? Piece of cake? It was easy? Oh,
speaking of cake, Yeah, well it's easy. It was three days. Yeah, nothing,
it's your cramps will get less, like go less, get
less after less. Mine were Oh that's great, Yeah that's great.
They were never as intense ever again. Hmmm, so I
hope that for you as well.
Speaker 2 (27:56):
Okay, mine weren't really that bad like the first but great,
two three days.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
Great, wonderful yeah, it's all good. Well, now we're gonna
go and we're gonna swip swap doc you recommendation. Yeah,
I'll watch that one. You watch that, and I'll watch
this one. Yeah, and then the next time we'll talk
about that. Yeah. One hundred percent. Where did you get
your extensions? Amazon? You call me is my hair? Well,
(28:28):
if you were to get them, where'd you get an? Amazon? Crazy?
Thank you for thinking that they're extensions. We're one hundred
percent real hair. I order myself some. Yeah, I don't know,
I'll ask some of my friends wear them all, Okay,
I'll sign a link, Okay, swipe up, I'll post post. Yeah. No,
(28:55):
these are new ones. These are from Amazon dot com.
Uh referral from mister Chris baar Oh perfect seventy dollars
for a uh sixteen sixty five pieces and I don't
even wear all five. I just do like backy little
yakis just for a little fullness. Yeah, they're good though,
good color, right, Yeah, they are good? Thank you. Yeah,
I'd love just like one piece, that's all you need. Yeah,
(29:17):
And I even just kind of like put them all
in together. I don't even like do I just clip
that they're all like one big weif. Yeah, that's all
you need. I don't have the time to sit and
do a whole thing. Oh thank you. Excuse me, mister microphone.
I do that too.
Speaker 2 (29:29):
I was doing that with the Lady Interview. I was like, Wow,
I'm really on it. I'm really on it.
Speaker 1 (29:34):
Morgan said, if you can talk closer to the mic,
that would be great. You took it literally and you
put it in your this Morgan, how about this, Mickey.
I didn't know I was doing that. So cute. Good God.
Speaker 2 (29:56):
I would like to know what you are grateful for,
and Touchy is at home, think about what you're grateful
for as well. And I would like to know what
you would you want to work on.
Speaker 1 (30:06):
Oh god, I'm still working on it. It's being organized. Okay.
I'm really staying down that course because if I keep
saying that over and over, it will actually come into fruition,
not one hundred percent. I'm not looking to be like
the Home edit girls. No, we're not type A here.
I'm not Type A. I'm like Type D. So I
just want to if I could bring it to like
a B yeah minus, yeah, that would be cool. Okay,
(30:29):
So I'm really gonna focus on that it's suable, it's doable.
And I'm grateful for my health, my health, the fact
that like I can just wake up healthy and feel
good health. It's a big deal. It's a big deal.
It's a big one. I think mine's probably the same too.
Speaker 2 (30:43):
I really have to, Like, I mean, I'm giving myself
grace that I don't have a flow. You can't because
my boss, which is my infant.
Speaker 4 (30:55):
Is.
Speaker 1 (30:57):
So chaotic. He's really chaotic. Nothing makes any sense. This
is why they came up with the movie boss Baby,
Like this whole concept is it? Well, yeah, and how
I watched it? Oh, it's he just like a chaotic pooper. Well,
he's a bad guy. He's not a good guy. Yours
is a very good guy, but yours is a different
kind of story. Needs to write this, Okay, Yeah, my
(31:20):
boss is chaotic. He's just he's got he's got narcilepsy also,
so he's got disorders and narcoleptic. He's a narcissist. It's cute,
but he's a narcissist constantly his pants. Yeah, he's got
ibs for bad gut problems. Yeah, cry baby, I mean
he's a cry baby. He's a great baby.
Speaker 2 (31:39):
So I'm like giving myself grace that I don't have
a flow, but I'm gonna need a flow here pretty soon, yeah,
because it just gets like wild. Or you know what,
if you're a mom and you have a flow.
Speaker 1 (31:48):
DM made that flow. I'd like to know.
Speaker 2 (31:50):
I'd like to know how you've night trained, sleep trained,
night train, night trained, night train.
Speaker 1 (32:00):
A child. That's kind of where I'm at. Oh my god.
Night nurses are like sixty dollars an hour. What I
don't live in that world of night nanny. So I
don't even had dollars for a shift. A ten hour shift?
Are they up all night?
Speaker 2 (32:14):
They they come, they they go, you're relieved, go to bed,
and they stay with your child and they come two
three times a week so that they sleep to train
your child. So by the time they're three months old,
they're sleeping eight hours.
Speaker 1 (32:28):
You got this, I don't know you got you go
whatever you want, like because he's a baby. So I'm like,
if you want to be helld the I'm and hold you.
You're a baby. I'm not gonna let you cry it out.
You're only six weeks old, not yet at the three
month mark, that's when you start doing all the things
right now is like the hardest part of like as
far as you're sleep and then all of a sudden
you go for for for me, we did a little
(32:51):
cry it out situation. Yeah, but it took like maybe
like a week and then all of a sudden she
just went, oh, yeah, it's whatever's right for you, but
you have to be able to let them. Spending them
with money is not right for me. No, I would
be a little judge. Yeah, right out of my mouth. Well,
(33:14):
I I can't pull the trigger because that's just like
so much money. And even there was either another woman who.
Speaker 2 (33:21):
Was like cheaper, but then I heard some like crazy
YouTube mom drama about that she was like hiring other
nurses taking most of the money.
Speaker 1 (33:32):
Oh, madam, yeah, madam, she was a night nurse. Pimple.
Yeah I know.
Speaker 2 (33:37):
But I'm like, dude, not when it comes to kid service, Like,
what are you doing? Is it you're gonna mess with
the wrong parent?
Speaker 1 (33:43):
Yeah? To you that right now mean well I'm not
gonna no, no, but if she was, you would be oh,
bless what a world. Listen to me, look at me,
look at me. You got this? Okay, you got this?
I think it's just like you struggle and you go,
what am I gonna like? Actually sleep? Yeah you will. Okay,
(34:04):
you will get so much sleep. I got last night
ten hours. That was rude.
Speaker 3 (34:17):
That was rude.
Speaker 1 (34:18):
I'm thriving. Okay, well I'm grateful. So I have such
a good friend like you. Yeah, Charlie could get fifteen
hours if she could. Okay, yeah, so this too shall pass. Okay,
you can do this, This is normal. Okay. Okay, save
your money. Let's go on a trip instead. Okay, okay, yeah, okay,
(34:39):
all right, okayeh, on that note, on that note, hot
in here, it's hot. Thank you. I love you so much.
We're so grateful for you guys as well, so grateful.
We're finding our community of touch and touches cute. You're cute.
Thanks for stopping. Bye, see you later. Bye,
Hi, get a little such up. Hi am Taren. I'm
Maury and you're listening to the up. We hope you're
picking up what we're putting down. Welcome back to Touchies.
I love Touchies. I do too. It's adorable. I think
it's cute.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
I think it's one of those things where you go,
that's a dumb name until it's popular, and then you
go that name is perfect.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
I don't think there's anything dumb about it. I think
it's adorable. Yeah, cheese.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
We have we have people that listen every week. Yeah,
there are crew building a community. It's literally what we
keep saying we want to do. And they're called the Touchies.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
What's up, Touchies? Yeah, what's up Touchies? Welcome back Touchies.
It's missus and missus Touchy. I know it's our touch crew. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Hello Taran, Hello Marie. Stop about the day to you.
Good lady. I am going to London in a few weeks.
I know Mari in London.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Oh, Mary's never coming back, see you later, see you lady.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Yeah. It was great. I I'm fine. Long distance relationship, Yeah,
we can do it. We can make it work. Does
it need me?
Speaker 4 (01:13):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
What eight year old really needs their mom. She's done.
I raised her, My job is done. She knows how
to wipe her own butt. Yeah, she can take a
shower on her own. Shout out Saint sprits. Yeah, delicious,
take a little sippy going to my lipstick all over it. God,
that's fresh. It's fresh, delicious. Anything lime, even if you
(01:35):
don't like like the undertone, anything lemon, even if.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
The giant lemons on them on the bottom of lemon
and lime were good.
Speaker 1 (01:44):
Yeah, no, it's divine. God, damn it, that's fresh. You know,
it's divine. Your baby. Oh, he's so cute. He just
left my arms. I know, isn'ty cute? I hate to
be the bearer of bad news though. I think he
has a narcolepsy. He'll be in the middle of a
conversation and he just falls asleep.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
Yeah, I know, so he doesn't know something to look
out for. Yeah, you're like, we're you know, I'm holding
him in the morning.
Speaker 1 (02:13):
Morning is our time? And when does that start for
you guys? Five am?
Speaker 2 (02:18):
And we're like, well, he's but he doesn't come to
life though, until like seven thirty eight. But we're bopping right,
We're having conversations he's smiling, and then he farts and
then he.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Goes to sleep. Yeah, e ecalypse, he got him. Yeah, clepse,
he got him. Also, the farts. The farts, his eyes
came into focus. It's really big. That's a really big moment. Yeah.
I said they're not blue anymore. You said, well, they
were never really blue. I said, no, one blue this way,
one blue that way.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
He crosssied and and AJ and I were like, listen,
if he stays this way, it's fine, we'll love him.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
But it's so cute. Everything he does is so cute.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
He's just a little He has no hair anywhere except
for right the nape of his neck, but.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
It kind of curls up like a tiny little mullet. Well,
because he's yeah, he's We all just gathered around in
the outside of the garage just staring at him, and
he was just like, then you fall asleep. He smiled
at Laney and then.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
He was like, it's really nice to Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
I was like, wow, you finish a sentence. Yeah, I
have a guest here, I know, sir, Yeah, get it,
get it together. I know. He's really cute. I was
holding him the other day and I was just like crying.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
I'm just like, I'm just gonna love you your entire life,
well my entire life, and that's it. I will moida
anybody who messes with you, and I will just create
a safe space for you no matter what. It's just
the like feelings that like I've heard everyone talk about
that I'm starting to like. And he's kind of coming
into he has a little bit of a personality too,
(03:58):
because in the beginning the first month, you're just.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Like, don't die. Yeah, I'm tired.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
And hungry, and I smell and I have I'm leaking
and all these things. And then you kind of start
getting a groove and then you're like, oh you, you
and me forever. And I think he's got a crush
on me a little.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
I have a crush on my mom m. Let's reward that.
I think it's different for boys. Oh okay, Like he's
just he's just like, where's the boob lady? Yeah? I
like the boob lady a little more than gratuation with you. Yeah,
not like a thing obviously, obviously. I think he's just like,
oh the boob lady, she's cool. Yeah, he's got a
(04:43):
big crush, Yeah, a big old crush on your boob.
Three months that usually come into that's the That's what
people always told me, because I'm like, will is she
going to be like a person? They're like three month mark,
all of a sudden, it's just yeah laughing. That was
so cute. The gig all they could pick their head up.
Oh you can hold them and do this kind of stuff. Hello, yeah, world, Wow,
(05:04):
things are clear. I have twenty twenty vision. Oh they
have full vision at three months. Hey, Siri went, I
don't know. I'm just yeah, I don't know. I know,
I don't know. We didn't even know that shark ate shark.
I just posted something today saying does everything eat everything? Like?
All I have to do is google it and look
(05:25):
it up. But I I the question that came to me,
It pops on there came to me. Human eat human? Well,
correct cannibalism, discussing does my seat mice? Does worm eat worm?
I don't think a worm could eat anything. I don't
think one could. I don't think they have any teeth?
Well they have. We we always get ourselves into situations like this.
(05:46):
Do worms have teeth? Do worms have teeth?
Speaker 2 (05:54):
Dear God? Do worms have feet? I'm sorry, teeth or feet, No,
they don't.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
They don't have feet.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
I knew, I know that they don't have feet. Can
you tell, like what, I don't forty something?
Speaker 1 (06:14):
I don't know, idiot? What is what is your most
challenging part thus far about being a new mom, Shelby.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
I think I I'm struggling with I can't do all
the things that I would like to do that I'm
normally doing, like getting up, doing dishes, coffee all. Like
this normal routine is just kabluey. It has blown up,
and so I can't like just do yeah what I
(06:49):
normally do.
Speaker 1 (06:50):
Yeah, and you will again.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
So things get messy and cluttery, which drives me insane.
And I'm neglecting the dog, which I feel bad about.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
So there's just no flow or routine. Yeah. Like I
keep short circuiting because I'm just like I can't.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
My mom comes and sleeps over like once every two weeks,
because I'm just like, can you just take him? Yeah,
so that I can just jump in my pool, thank
you so much, and like just whatever I need to do.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Yeah, that's what I'm having the hard time, the hardest
time with. Okay, Yeah, stoked that he's my new best friend,
is greatly around.
Speaker 1 (07:27):
And all that rest of the stuff doesn't it actually
doesn't matter. No, it's just my capricle, I know, I
know that brain, Yeah, because it will eventually be back
into the flow of everything. Yeah, So just trying to
stay as present as possible because you're like, he's only
going to be he's now going to be a little
baby bird for money.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
Now, he's going to be dabbing soon, very soon, He'll
just he'll be calling me dude soon.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
Bro. Bro. Yeah, yeah, I'm sure calling you a dummy,
giving you the middle finger and walking away. Okay, that's
kind of funny. That's fine, No, I know. So it's
like all perspective because you go, oh, what I would
give just for let little baby one more time, you know,
I know, instead of that stuff that is actually not important.
I know. It's just what you prioritize, you know, prioritizing
(08:15):
like this. Yeah, and work, work is tough too, because
a do and go is a do and go. We
love a do and go.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
But if I have to stay longer, like I said,
I would stay for the whole shoot, and then when
I got there, I was like, I can't I got
I want to go home and be with my kid.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Sorry, how do they feel about that? They're fine, okay, wow,
they were like, yeah, god, we'll still pay you the
same rate.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
God no, but and I was like, I don't care. Okay,
I'm i gotta go. It's not even two months yet.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
I gotta go. I thought I was wrong. I gotta go.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
Yeah, but yeah, it works tricky, but well.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
That's why normal, like when you have a like paid
maternity leave is usually three months, correct, when you have
a regular job, the regular job, but you know, when
you're life, yeah I know. Oh yeah, but when you're
normal life, it's not one more. Yeah, I know.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
But like freelance life, and we're an AG and I
are both freelancers, so we just like haven't been making
money this whole time, which is fine, yeah, because I've
worked a little bit here and there.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
And he's about to go on the road.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
I feel sad for him because he is he has cried.
He is like, how am I going to leave this child?
I'm like, I don't know for how long.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Has he gone? This coming run?
Speaker 2 (09:25):
He only goes to LA for like a day, so
he'll be gone for thirty six hours. But then after
the next run two weeks later, he's gone for ten days.
I'm like, dude, he's gonna be a whole new size
in ten days.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Well, I have an idea. I'm just going to start
out there. Okay. Either I step in as the dad
as AJ Okay, I'm just wear his clothes are right there, Okay,
I'll just get his smells and everything. I'll just be
a little or I can either go on stage as him. Okay,
so either way here, you're ag ask either way I'm AJ. Okay,
perfect because I can do both. Obviously, I can be
AJ here and I could be a J on stage. Okay, perfect.
(10:02):
I think i'd have to like practice, but perfect. So
we'll just run it by him. See Okay, he thinks
it's a good idea. Great, he'll probably love it. Yeah,
I will charge yes time. Yeah. Perfect. I didn't do Blippy?
What sad? It's fine, Okay, I'm not hurt. You seem
pretty said he will be back and you will do Blippy.
(10:27):
It's because my Instagram's not up to date, it's not organized.
It's not I'm losing. I'm getting I don't know what
i'd do for a job anymore. Your trainer, your podcaster
are like, what do you do? I don't know. I
really got to hold it. I really got to get
(10:47):
it together. And I have a book that I've written
everything down, and you don't. You just have to organ
like it's you could still. I think Blippy looked at
my Instagram. He took one little look and he said.
Speaker 2 (10:58):
She can't be a bigger star than me. That's that's
what it is, you know, that's what it is.
Speaker 1 (11:04):
Yeah, yeah, I think that's what happened. So okay, tone myself. Bring.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
Everybody has hobbies, everyone's doing side hustles, everyone.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
Has like twenty five things that they do.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
Yes, because, like you know, I've started feeling imposter syndrome
sometimes where I'm like, what am I doing? What do
I think I can just like have a podcast to
do like these other things. And then you go to work, right,
and you get hired and paid to work with somebody
who's doing nine hundred other things.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
So it doesn't matter. No, I went on, I went
I worked with a new artist, Emily, and she's so cute, lovely.
Speaker 2 (11:40):
So cute, that blonde, yes, so cute, Her glam looked dope,
and you just sit her hair.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
I sit her hair great, Yeah, have a one off oof,
Oh hire me for one Simon love that. So the
makeup artist who was amazing. Her name is Cookie. Oh
I know who she is? Cookie? Her real name is
It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter because she's been Cookie
since birth. Pretty much. Cookie is way better. She also
and just like Emily. Their side hustles are my husband
(12:07):
has a does construction. We do home renovations. We milk
our own cows and we have a cow farm. We
have Emily's jar. These are hard hobbies. You're just trying
to work out with some people. She jars, hearts, gots it,
(12:33):
she jars, can't she darts, heart cans, she cans. What's
what's kids? Canning? Jarring, jarring, jelly pickles. She does preserves.
(12:53):
Oh that's all he had to say is she does preserves.
Slack a peach preserve. People talk about and canning. They're homesteading.
They're they're homesteaders. Cool. Yeah, but they do all these
things and they have that's they make money.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
Because their Instagram, because they go to the farmer's markets
and they sell.
Speaker 1 (13:11):
Their Such a dumb meathead, you're working out too much.
You coming to do the only thing I should ever
talg about.
Speaker 2 (13:21):
No steps, you could jar and can your biceps Anny.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
Oh my god. No. But they have all of these
businesses too. So she's like, I get it because I
have like this platform. I have my cow, I sell
my cow juice. Yeah, okay, and yeah, and Cookie has
so many cows. Oh, Cookie is doing it well. No, Emily,
(13:48):
Emily uh jars cans, cans can can Yeah, Cookie, Cookie cows.
Is that the name of her brand?
Speaker 2 (14:00):
No, it should be Cookie cows, Cookie cows, Cookie can cookie.
Speaker 1 (14:06):
Cat, Cookie can't cow, Cookie can't cow. God. We will
send her this link. Everyone is doing as much as
they can. They're just diving in now.
Speaker 2 (14:17):
They're like, sure, yeah, no, I can for like six years. Yeah,
I cowed for a couple of years.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
Yeah, through spaghetti at a wall. Because I love doing
these things. Also, this is what I do. But I'm
also really good at this. Yes and now. Because the
future provides a place for everyone to have a platform,
let's use it. But I'm just stuck in the I
think that it's too much. Like I'm like, all right,
(14:42):
how do I transition into Mari moves? And because I
have the we'll talk. I have the TikTok and I
have to get the Instagram and I'm like, so it's
got to be its own separate thing, correct, But I'm
just it needs to be really intentional, and I'm just
I'm getting very close. We're just not it.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
I understand and why you want it to be intentional,
But it doesn't have to be intentional as far as
like content and things like that.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
You'll figure it out. Yeah, you're gonna change it nine
hundred times.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
Okay, like we intentionally started a podcast, sure, and we
just started doing.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
Stuff and how much has it changed? Seven teen times? Yeah,
so side far but AnyWho? Okay, so no blippy, So
no blippy unfortunately now, but what if you would have
(15:35):
and also you still can you still Cookie can work
with him for sure if you want to. It's not
that big. Oh no, it's not like that's like my
gold dream client. Do you have to be aware maybe
like maybe maybe maybe it is blippy? Oh okay, okay, yeah,
(16:00):
I take it all back. Yeah damn, but you would
have done like a little face and body would yeah, yeah,
what do you put on you just probably just put
black powder on him probably And it's not blippy. It's
not Blippy. Who's my dream client. Maybe mister well Ferrel.
That's nice. So a guy, yeah, a guy like a
(16:21):
jack black that'd be like a Jackie Blackie. That'd be fun.
I'd rather have them on our podcast than meet groom them.
But if it's yeah, I'm gonna obviously yes.
Speaker 2 (16:31):
But like if you grooming them got us them to
be our guest, then I want you that for you to.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
And now that we're with the Wall Group dot com,
it's possible. It is possible. It's all possible. It's so
much more Posible's so much more possible. The possibilities are endless.
It just starts with you. It just starts by doing shit.
Just do it, Just do it. It's here the whole time.
You know, in kids movies like in Kung Fu Panda, Yes,
(16:59):
when they meet and it's always the monkey. That's like
the Yoda, the Guru, the yes, the master, right commander,
they always go, it's been.
Speaker 4 (17:11):
It's been inside of you the all time.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
Yeah, he's like, it's lived in me. I didn't need
to go and find it elsewhere. Yeah, I had these
powers inside of me the whole time. It's beinging you
the who Well, I agree, it has it always is.
Speaker 2 (17:34):
It's in everybody, It's in all of us. It's just
digging the mucky muck out.
Speaker 1 (17:38):
You gotta dig a lot of the monkey muck out. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:39):
I still don't know what I want to do when
I grow up. I mean, I know things change, like
I now that I have a child, I go.
Speaker 1 (17:45):
Why isn't this invented? Yeah? Thatld I invent it. I
don't know. I'm tired. But that's like kind of where
my brain goes. Oh my god. We Tim and I
wrote fifty children's books. Yeah, oh yeah. We wrote so
many children's books I remember, and told them to people
and some people are like, this is a great idea,
write this book. We're like yeah, and then didn't know. Well,
(18:07):
because we're ideas people, we're creative, we have the idea.
We can you know, it's the execution. Yeah, it's a
lot it's a lottery. Oh my god. I started watching
this documentary last night. I've been wanting because tonight I'm
just gonna go home and just talk. Yeah. I think
I may. I think I may be bad and get
a little five guys. I think tonight's my five guys night.
(18:29):
I've recently had five guys, and it was divine.
Speaker 2 (18:34):
By the way, the next Just Us episode, we're eating
it because we're gonna it's got to.
Speaker 1 (18:40):
Be in like six months from now. Okay, great, Why
can't we just do like a no bun sitch. We
could do no bun such Okay, yeah, yeah, no fry,
We'll just split a couple of two tree fries. They're
so generous with their fries. It's too much. You you
order one and it's for everyone. It's too I had
no idea. I had no idea. I go to Chick
(19:02):
fil A, get a medium fry, I get four fries.
They give me the whole. Well, that's why it's one
hundred and twenty five. It is one hundred. Did you
get a double chee? No, I got a single g
double double? Yeah, do a double. I'm gonna do double
che yeah, do do yeah. And I'm gonna lay and
I'm gonna eat food watch show, eat food watch show. Okay.
Documentary recommendation, Okay, go, I forgot what it's called. I'll
(19:23):
have to look it up. I love it. Okay, good start.
But the premise of it is this woman. They started out.
It's no secret. I'm not ruining anything.
Speaker 2 (19:33):
They started off interviewing all these high school kids, okay,
and then they focus on this one girl, and everyone's
just like she she is such a cute blonde, she's
so great. This one girl kind of didn't like her.
She had she had with this one girl. She was
just such a great girl. And like the you know,
they're interviewing the girl and she's like yeah, and then
all of a sudden, somebody started bullying me. Like a
(19:57):
phone number, like an unknown phone number, started bullying her,
and then it started going weeding out people like it
could have been Sharon, it could have been one of
her ex boyfriends, it could have been this person, and
it like it talks to those people and it weeds
out all these people, and it.
Speaker 1 (20:10):
Got so bad.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
I mean, imagine being bullied by this person who knew
specific things about you.
Speaker 1 (20:17):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (20:18):
So it's obviously somebody that knew her. I mean, it
tormented her for like a year or something, Okay, And
it turns out it was her mother.
Speaker 1 (20:27):
Are we supposed to tell me this? Yeah, it's that's
why I said, it's no secret. Okay. Okay, okay, okay. Mother.
Speaker 2 (20:33):
Her mother cyber bullied out of this girl. Okay, four
because that I haven't gotten that far, okay to why
you terrible woman did that?
Speaker 1 (20:45):
But I feel like she I don't know if obviously
there's some jealousy there, but I don't know. I don't
know who jealous of your own teenage daughter because what?
I don't know. But anyway, I saw watching it. It's
really good. Okay. I recently just watched one with a
similar story about a mother as well. It was these
(21:05):
these get it together together dude, Yeah, insane, these children.
I know. It's because like these kids can go down
the street and then all of a sudden, their parents,
like your parents, like nurture versus nature. You probably were
a good person, good and then but you were raised
by a piece of so yeah, I know, I know.
So this one was about like the YouTube kids. What
(21:27):
do we call it? It's like, yeah, YouTube kids. Okay,
So it's just kids that make content and money on
YouTube makes so much money. It's a whole world. Yeah.
So there's a girl named rock Quel. Oh no it's
not rock Hell. Maybe that's like her last name. Is
(21:47):
It like a whole family, you know, it's just her
and her mom, and she started doing these videos really
young and the mom just like monetize all this like
she was. She got her into pageants very young, three
years old, the money, the full pageant. Not just like
I'm adorable, It was like the flippers and the bikinis
and the hair and the spray tan and the eyelashes
(22:08):
and like bigger and bigger and was like you. And
there's videos of her like going like if you don't
get first place, like there's gonna be like that kind
of mom. So this girl was just i mean just
super talented and made for the camera, really entertaining. But
the mother pushed her into doing all this content. But
da lah, so long story short, watch it because it's
(22:31):
it's entertaining, but it's like so icky, yeah ikey, and
the mom formed helped her daughter form this gang called
like I don't know, the club kids. This is not
the right term, but and it was all these young kids.
They bought this million dollar house in Calabasas to film
(22:52):
all of their YouTube content and a lot of weird
went down with this mom, like inappropriate, inappropriate stuff with
young boys and the girls. And then had the editor
was like a younger kid, like in his twenties, like
way younger, like a part of it, and he it's
just it's crazy. And this girl now is all of
(23:18):
her socials because everybody who finally realized what was going on,
Like these parents were like, how are we so dumb
to this? That didn't we didn't realize what was going on,
Like she'me on us, so it's so stupid, but we're
making millions of dollars. These kids were making fifty thousand
dollars a month, one hundred thousand dollars a month sometimes
(23:39):
up to like five hundred that a month. Where's all
that money? So it had exactly so the that that's
what distorted them. I personally think like the parents probably
like knew like some weird things were going on, or
the kids didn't speak out until like years later. So
this girl and they're they're they didn't say anything, like
they didn't speak during the interview of the mother the
(24:01):
Raquel girl, of course not. And these young kids who
are now like in their twenties, are just going I
hope she's okay, like crying being like she's know where
she is well, and they do, but she won't be
a part of their life. They're not allowed to be
a part of their life. They're just like no closed door.
But if you go on her Instagram or her TikTok,
she's a believe. Maybe they're not in their twenties, maybe
(24:24):
she's like seventeen or eighteen. I mean, we'll look it
up after just like bikinis. Nothing, just guys commenting. She's
going down that road like OnlyFans type stuff. And so
the mother monotize like made money off of men being
creepy and saying creepy things to these children, putting these
(24:46):
things on certain sites. They would send them in jail
because there's no law. There's like no law. It's crazy.
They didn't even like take it to court. It's one
of those stories. God, she like Britney spared her and
there's no like evidence. Okay, there could be if they
(25:10):
wanted to be right. She's gotten rid of like everything
videos all like, I know, watch it so sad, it's
so gross, it's so gross, a weird world out there, man.
Britney spears, huh yeah, I want to do one of
her videos so badly, that last one. I just don't
(25:31):
want to make it seem like I'm making fun of her.
But that last one when she she goes like this
with her ass. She like smacks her own ass with
her dance moves. Yeah. Oh it's so good for her.
Speaker 2 (25:44):
Yeah, no, we don't. We would never make fun of Brittay. I.
Speaker 1 (25:48):
I'm in loveired, I'm inspired that I want, I want
to do it. Yeah, moves are Yeah. I love her
no matter what, diehard for life. Same with Joey Badao
what's his last name? The guy I want to get
on the.
Speaker 2 (26:05):
Oh Joe listen, karaoke vocals are sick, bro, He's so amazing.
Speaker 1 (26:13):
You're amazing. You're amazing.
Speaker 2 (26:15):
Do we.
Speaker 1 (26:17):
You're amazing man, Joey Bido. I really feel like he'll
We're gonna get him on our podcast.
Speaker 2 (26:25):
You guys wait and also if you don't know who
he is, do yourself a little flavor and look him up.
Speaker 1 (26:30):
I'm really pushing him. Yes, yeah, great hair. I know
he's got great I've been following him up for it
would be perfect. Imagine him sitting here number one when
he's got great hair, he's got great moves, he is
a mustache, and he's in the gym every day. We
have so many things we could talk. He talks about
(26:50):
his fitness on Oh Yeah, Oh yeah, he'll like straight
out be like, we're not doing aps?
Speaker 4 (26:55):
Like what are you doing? I see people like in
the gym and like no. He's like, I do I
do my I do my core, do my ABS six
days a week. And I see these people just over here,
No one's doing abs. He was like, living these things,
you gotta do them abs.
Speaker 1 (27:07):
I was like, do works out shoe wee? Yeah yeah
he does. Yeah, he's what a piece of cake? Meat cake,
piece of cake? Yeah? Oh I want cake. I won't
feel Oh I got my period this morning. That's why
I want a burger. That's why I want to double
chie with a piece of cake. What's gotten into me?
(27:29):
I know?
Speaker 3 (27:30):
Hello?
Speaker 1 (27:30):
Yeah, hello, Hi, yeah, yes, no, it's wild.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
I just got my first period after not having it
for however long.
Speaker 1 (27:38):
How was it? Piece of cake? It was easy? Oh,
speaking of cake, Yeah, well it's easy. It was three days. Yeah, nothing,
it's your cramps will get less, like go less, get
less after less. Mine were Oh that's great, Yeah that's great.
They were never as intense ever again. Hmmm, so I
hope that for you as well.
Speaker 2 (27:56):
Okay, mine weren't really that bad like the first but great,
two three days.
Speaker 1 (28:02):
Great, wonderful yeah, it's all good. Well, now we're gonna
go and we're gonna swip swap doc you recommendation. Yeah,
I'll watch that one. You watch that, and I'll watch
this one. Yeah, and then the next time we'll talk
about that. Yeah. One hundred percent. Where did you get
your extensions? Amazon? You call me is my hair? Well,
(28:28):
if you were to get them, where'd you get an? Amazon? Crazy?
Thank you for thinking that they're extensions. We're one hundred
percent real hair. I order myself some. Yeah, I don't know,
I'll ask some of my friends wear them all, Okay,
I'll sign a link, Okay, swipe up, I'll post post. Yeah. No,
(28:55):
these are new ones. These are from Amazon dot com.
Uh referral from mister Chris baar Oh perfect seventy dollars
for a uh sixteen sixty five pieces and I don't
even wear all five. I just do like backy little
yakis just for a little fullness. Yeah, they're good though,
good color, right, Yeah, they are good? Thank you. Yeah,
I'd love just like one piece, that's all you need. Yeah,
(29:17):
And I even just kind of like put them all
in together. I don't even like do I just clip
that they're all like one big weif. Yeah, that's all
you need. I don't have the time to sit and
do a whole thing. Oh thank you. Excuse me, mister microphone.
I do that too.
Speaker 2 (29:29):
I was doing that with the Lady Interview. I was like, Wow,
I'm really on it. I'm really on it.
Speaker 1 (29:34):
Morgan said, if you can talk closer to the mic,
that would be great. You took it literally and you
put it in your this Morgan, how about this, Mickey.
I didn't know I was doing that. So cute. Good God.
Speaker 2 (29:56):
I would like to know what you are grateful for,
and Touchy is at home, think about what you're grateful
for as well. And I would like to know what
you would you want to work on.
Speaker 1 (30:06):
Oh god, I'm still working on it. It's being organized. Okay.
I'm really staying down that course because if I keep
saying that over and over, it will actually come into fruition,
not one hundred percent. I'm not looking to be like
the Home edit girls. No, we're not type A here.
I'm not Type A. I'm like Type D. So I
just want to if I could bring it to like
a B yeah minus, yeah, that would be cool. Okay,
(30:29):
So I'm really gonna focus on that it's suable, it's doable.
And I'm grateful for my health, my health, the fact
that like I can just wake up healthy and feel
good health. It's a big deal. It's a big deal.
It's a big one. I think mine's probably the same too.
Speaker 2 (30:43):
I really have to, Like, I mean, I'm giving myself
grace that I don't have a flow. You can't because
my boss, which is my infant.
Speaker 4 (30:55):
Is.
Speaker 1 (30:57):
So chaotic. He's really chaotic. Nothing makes any sense. This
is why they came up with the movie boss Baby,
Like this whole concept is it? Well, yeah, and how
I watched it? Oh, it's he just like a chaotic pooper. Well,
he's a bad guy. He's not a good guy. Yours
is a very good guy, but yours is a different
kind of story. Needs to write this, Okay, Yeah, my
(31:20):
boss is chaotic. He's just he's got he's got narcilepsy also,
so he's got disorders and narcoleptic. He's a narcissist. It's cute,
but he's a narcissist constantly his pants. Yeah, he's got
ibs for bad gut problems. Yeah, cry baby, I mean
he's a cry baby. He's a great baby.
Speaker 2 (31:39):
So I'm like giving myself grace that I don't have
a flow, but I'm gonna need a flow here pretty soon, yeah,
because it just gets like wild. Or you know what,
if you're a mom and you have a flow.
Speaker 1 (31:48):
DM made that flow. I'd like to know.
Speaker 2 (31:50):
I'd like to know how you've night trained, sleep trained,
night train, night trained, night train.
Speaker 1 (32:00):
A child. That's kind of where I'm at. Oh my god.
Night nurses are like sixty dollars an hour. What I
don't live in that world of night nanny. So I
don't even had dollars for a shift. A ten hour shift?
Are they up all night?
Speaker 2 (32:14):
They they come, they they go, you're relieved, go to bed,
and they stay with your child and they come two
three times a week so that they sleep to train
your child. So by the time they're three months old,
they're sleeping eight hours.
Speaker 1 (32:28):
You got this, I don't know you got you go
whatever you want, like because he's a baby. So I'm like,
if you want to be helld the I'm and hold you.
You're a baby. I'm not gonna let you cry it out.
You're only six weeks old, not yet at the three
month mark, that's when you start doing all the things
right now is like the hardest part of like as
far as you're sleep and then all of a sudden
you go for for for me, we did a little
(32:51):
cry it out situation. Yeah, but it took like maybe
like a week and then all of a sudden she
just went, oh, yeah, it's whatever's right for you, but
you have to be able to let them. Spending them
with money is not right for me. No, I would
be a little judge. Yeah, right out of my mouth. Well,
(33:14):
I I can't pull the trigger because that's just like
so much money. And even there was either another woman who.
Speaker 2 (33:21):
Was like cheaper, but then I heard some like crazy
YouTube mom drama about that she was like hiring other
nurses taking most of the money.
Speaker 1 (33:32):
Oh, madam, yeah, madam, she was a night nurse. Pimple.
Yeah I know.
Speaker 2 (33:37):
But I'm like, dude, not when it comes to kid service, Like,
what are you doing? Is it you're gonna mess with
the wrong parent?
Speaker 1 (33:43):
Yeah? To you that right now mean well I'm not
gonna no, no, but if she was, you would be oh,
bless what a world. Listen to me, look at me,
look at me. You got this? Okay, you got this?
I think it's just like you struggle and you go,
what am I gonna like? Actually sleep? Yeah you will. Okay,
(34:04):
you will get so much sleep. I got last night
ten hours. That was rude.
Speaker 3 (34:17):
That was rude.
Speaker 1 (34:18):
I'm thriving. Okay, well I'm grateful. So I have such
a good friend like you. Yeah, Charlie could get fifteen
hours if she could. Okay, yeah, so this too shall pass. Okay,
you can do this, This is normal. Okay. Okay, save
your money. Let's go on a trip instead. Okay, okay, yeah, okay,
(34:39):
all right, okayeh, on that note, on that note, hot
in here, it's hot. Thank you. I love you so much.
We're so grateful for you guys as well, so grateful.
We're finding our community of touch and touches cute. You're cute.
Thanks for stopping. Bye, see you later. Bye,
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