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got to tell the truth, your chance to get to
know the show better. What was challenging you with that box?
I watched you fidget with whatever that was. You were
opening all that little black container there. So it's a

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little black container we had and we put in a lab.
Remember we did a bit a long time ago called
Devil's Advocate, Sure Sure whatever, And it was a piece
of paper that was taped on it that had that
label on there. So we knew what that particular container
was or we're using it for something new now.

Speaker 1 (03:45):
So I'm like, well, there's no sense in having this
on it.

Speaker 7 (03:47):
I didn't want to get you were, Lindsey confused when
I bring it to the studio. I was just watching
you fidget with it and then you put it down
and shrug your shoulders.

Speaker 1 (03:56):
Yeah. So at the bottom of this, go to show
you how long it's been since we used this.

Speaker 7 (03:59):
Thing, look in there and there's like a small handful
of thumb tacks and like three old ass sugar packets
and pretty much basically And so I look down in
and it's got some of the sugar that had, you know,
come out of the package somehow in there, and that's
probably seen me trying to dig out the sugar in there.

Speaker 1 (04:19):
Well, it ain't coming out.

Speaker 7 (04:20):
We're just gonna have to deal with it. So whatever
we use that for, it might be a little bit sweeter.
I just I always enjoy watching people get frusted get
because I don't think you're frustrated, but like deal with
something like that, opening a jar whatever. They're like, I'm like,
whatever it is, I'm in advanced stack of carbons.

Speaker 1 (04:39):
Yeah, why can't I figure this out?

Speaker 7 (04:42):
Yeah, that thing was pretty well stuck on her. Again,
it's been seven, eight or longer years that that that's
been on there. So the tape was really really stuck on.
Have you seen the whell You know, like when you
buy a plate or something that's got a glass and
it's got a stick on the bottom of it for
the price tag, that all you have to do. I

(05:04):
don't know if this is true, is you take a
piece of packaging tape, okay, and put that on there,
and I think, like, take a hair dryer for like
a second.

Speaker 1 (05:16):
It's like it's like.

Speaker 7 (05:18):
Two seconds, like it's not very long, and then it
just comes right off. Okay, I'll keep that in mind
for next time I'm at the house and I have
packaging tape and a hair dryer for what I needed before.

Speaker 1 (05:28):
Right now, I'm not gonna bring all this.

Speaker 7 (05:29):
It's easy top. We know you have a hair drying
damn straight and I need a new dude. Man, I'll
tell you what. I never knew that, like hair dryers
were so sophisticated, right because back of my day, and
the one that I use now was ten dollars at
the Dollar General, right, And then I was like, good,
it was a little too much, right, But it's it's
got two speeds high and low. That's it, you know,

(05:52):
and it blows out hotter and it does what I
need it to do. It blow dries my beard because yes,
as gay as it sounds like, blow dry.

Speaker 1 (05:58):
My bead doesn't so gay.

Speaker 7 (06:00):
But it keeps it nice and straight and I don't
have a bunch of curly pubes up on my chin.
I like it, you know, it looks it look real good.
And how long does that take to dry? Maybe two minutes?
I'm just so do you stand there like with the
towel you gotta plug it in brush?

Speaker 1 (06:14):
Okay, your naked and you're just like pretty much pretty much.
I got that.

Speaker 7 (06:21):
I hold my hair dryer in my little hand because
I don't have an elbow to brush with, so I
can use my good hand to run the brush it.
And yeah, I'll start with the front, brush it down
a few times, and then uh brush it out underneath,
and then I get the blow dr and it gets
it just dries everything underneath and in between.

Speaker 1 (06:41):
So I'm a little excited there.

Speaker 7 (06:42):
Yeah but uh but nah, So like I went and
bought my daughter.

Speaker 1 (06:45):
One a new hair dryer. Yeah this is years ago
for Christmas or something. I spend sixty dollars. Oh yeah,
damn hair dryer.

Speaker 7 (06:54):
Oh yeah, but it's got so many different it's got
hot and cold and high and low and medium in.

Speaker 1 (07:00):
A cold blast and dah dah da duah.

Speaker 7 (07:02):
And uh, the more that I read on like beard care,
like that cold blast really helps out set it in
a place when I didn't know that. So I'm looking
at it and I'm like, oh, I got this ten
dollars job here that works.

Speaker 1 (07:16):
Maybe I should finish on extra crash and get one,
you know as all the Well maybe in between brunch
you can do that. Yeah, maybe, so put down the avocatave. Well, no,
we go get you hang in here right.

Speaker 7 (07:29):
Well, and you said that one was that much? Uh,
the one that I have personally ten bocks? No, no, no,
the one that was buy my daughter, it's like sixty dollars.
That's not how it Just so you know, it was
high end enough for me. I know they could probably
get way more expensive. But oh yeah, oh yeah, all right,
Lindsay you're the you're the female oxer. You use a
way more than I do, and we definitely more than
Corbyn does. How much did you pay for your hair?

Speaker 1 (07:50):
Greg?

Speaker 6 (07:51):
Two and twenty dollars?

Speaker 1 (07:54):
That's that's not even the most expensive.

Speaker 6 (07:56):
No, it's not because I didn't get the one that
Corbyn bought his lucky wife, because I know that one
is real expensive. You've bit in the store and I'm like,
this is nice.

Speaker 1 (08:06):
It's an amazing hair dryer.

Speaker 6 (08:07):
Yeah, but then the one that I got U is
a Shark is Shark brand and like my vacuum, I
will get my entire head of hair dry in about
less than ten minutes.

Speaker 1 (08:21):
By the way, we just found out we're number one again.

Speaker 7 (08:22):
Keep going, Yeah, that's pretty impressive for all that thick
ass Greek hairt.

Speaker 1 (08:26):
Yeah, oh yeah, yeah, And.

Speaker 6 (08:28):
I mean it's got all of the attachments so I
can use it when I straighten and diffuse for curly. Also,
it does have the cooling button on it, but it's
got three different settings of heat, and they do say
that when you are blow drying your hair with heat,
anytime you use heat, you should always shoot it with
a blast of cold there so it doesn't ruin your end.

Speaker 1 (08:47):
I try to tell my wife. Yeah, I'm curious, Corbyn, Yeah,
how much did you pay for this high fangled hair
dryer that you bought your old lady that apparently Lindsay's
in love with.

Speaker 7 (08:57):
But I'm not going to come off that much cash
for it. Yeah, no, listen, it is. My wife is
a queen and she gets whatever she wants. And I
don't care what you think about that. Absolutely, five hundred
and fifty dollars.

Speaker 1 (09:11):
Damn, that's a lot for a hair dryer. But it
is up front.

Speaker 7 (09:16):
But when you talk about per day and like somebody
like my wife, who cares about that immensely, right, then it's.

Speaker 1 (09:25):
Completely worth it. Yes, it'll last your ten years.

Speaker 7 (09:28):
I was going to ask if there was like a
warranty or how long it's expected to last as their
money back here and I mean it's Dyson, Okay, okay,
wow shark. Yeah, yeah, I got a piece of crab
brown one that I get. If you're fine with that,
all good, right, But in my opinion, we all work

(09:50):
pretty hard in our lives and if you want to
have a little bit of luxury.

Speaker 1 (09:53):
And that's that is luxury to you, go for it.
I'm with you. Life is too short.

Speaker 7 (10:00):
The only reason I have this ten dollars hair dryer
is because when I got divorced, I did not get
the hair dryer in the divorce.

Speaker 1 (10:09):
She took that with her and that's awesome. So I
was like, Okay, hell, I.

Speaker 7 (10:13):
Think my daughter's going in there, I'll go in there
and looking and uh, and she did have one. But
when they moved out, when when they went back to
their mom's house, she took out one with her. Of
course naturally it's hers, right, And so here I am
stuck without a hair drying. I'll be damned if I
go a day without blow drying my beard. I hate

(10:34):
having that curly ranso nest on my gin or whatever.
So I was like, I was living with my brother
at the time. I was like, well, there's a dollar.

Speaker 1 (10:41):
General down the road.

Speaker 7 (10:43):
I'll go see what they have, and lo and behold
they had one ten bucks. Yeah, that's that's my price
point right there. For at that point in time in
my life. I'm like, oh, even then.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
Were right pack of cigarettes or clean looking beard?

Speaker 6 (10:59):
I wonder what it would look like if we used
a hair straightener on your beard.

Speaker 7 (11:03):
Okay, it looked pretty close to that, probably just a
little more flat or softer. I mean it's pretty soft.
Strainers are not good. You're burning your hair, right, you're
ironing it.

Speaker 6 (11:15):
You're iron depending on the heat.

Speaker 1 (11:17):
But okay, we're getting way too far in the week. Yeah,
I never I thought about that. Once. My little brother
had a beard tool for his beard.

Speaker 7 (11:27):
I'm sure she was a very nice person and covered
everything up for the long, for as long as he needed.

Speaker 1 (11:35):
But it's uh, and I probably still have it a
the house. That's the best gay joke I think. Yeah,
I've ever said on the air beard tool.

Speaker 7 (11:48):
Yeah, I think I still have it as a matter
of fact, because he left a lot of stuff when
he moved out. But it's a brush for your beard
that heats up and allows it to kind of straighten
it that way. I've never used it because I'm like,
I think I'm just gonna stick with what I've been doing.

Speaker 1 (12:07):
It seems to work out.

Speaker 7 (12:08):
Yeah, maybe tomorrow I'll check it see if I got
it at home, and maybe tomorrow I'll plug it in
if I still have it, and try it and see
if that makes a difference, because oh oh lie, sometimes
that blow dryer is a giant pain in the kning dong.
Yeah it is. You mean your beard? You know that too,
because that's what it is. It's the maintenance for the
beer essentially. Yeah, So if I guess if that brush works,

(12:28):
all I gotta do is just plug it in. You know,
and just brush my beard out normal and it gives
me the same results, then then I'll ride fantastic.

Speaker 1 (12:36):
Two things. One I was buying for a while.

Speaker 7 (12:39):
I was buying hair dryers for the toy drive and
it just was getting so excited. I was like, this
is ridiculous spending thirty dollars. I mean it wasn't cheap, right, right,
because I was going to Target and trying to buy them,
and so yeah, they are not cheap in any form.
And the I remember my dad had a hair dryer,
but it was a masculine hair dryer. It wasn't like

(13:01):
hair like he couldn't have like a woman looking hair dryer, right,
So it had like this weird uh shape that was
more of like we almost a gun actually, but not
like a woman's hairdre It was like long and then
the blowing part was at the top, almost like a comb.
Looks okay, And it had an attachment like a brush

(13:21):
because you know, you can't be seen blow drying your hair.

Speaker 1 (13:23):
You're brushing your hair right.

Speaker 7 (13:26):
And yeah, and my dad had short hair like me,
and so having I I can't tell you the last
time I dried my hair right with a blow dry
yeah right. I don't know how I know how to
blow dry hair because I have two little girls and
there's many times I do that for them. But the
idea of blow drying my hair, I'd be like, oo,

(13:48):
when you.

Speaker 6 (13:48):
Go to the barber shop, do they style your hair
and blow dry it? Did you get the shampoo and no?

Speaker 1 (13:53):
No, no, no no they just get the little extras off.

Speaker 6 (13:58):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (13:59):
But yeah, now if I go to a salon to
get a hair cut, yes, they do all that. Okay,
there's not very many times I go to the barber
and have him massage my scalp. Yeah, I'm not gonna
lask a little weird, a little weird. It's it's all right.
One of the big breasted woman from the you know,
clear cuts, Yeah, yeah, that's okay.

Speaker 1 (14:22):
But some dude with his masculine calloused hands, hey man,
just do that game. He's like he's like that game man. Yeah, bro,
not gonna you don't want to close your eyes and
go keep down inside that what you're thinking, though, No,
I'm not. I'm like, I'm like, uh, starters, lug nuts, guns, guns, steak.

Speaker 6 (14:52):
I'm a smoker.

Speaker 1 (14:53):
Girl, can you.

Speaker 7 (14:59):
But a girl does I'm like it's there might as
will be jazz playing in the background. I'm like, this
isn't crazy.

Speaker 1 (15:04):
Start purring like a damn cat. But you gotta be
you don't want to be too creepy.

Speaker 7 (15:08):
You're laying there with your head and a bowl and
you you don't want to be like, oh right, but
if they bring you food, Like if you go to
a restaurant, a woman, pretty woman, brings you food and
you eat and you go, oh, completely fine. Yeah, a
woman rubbing your head and your eyes closed and doing
that a little too close to the line, Yeah, Jeff
don't care, right, He's like, I'll get it.

Speaker 1 (15:31):
Man.

Speaker 7 (15:32):
There is a barber I go to and they're awesome,
and uh, they'll be like, hey, do you want the
hot towel today?

Speaker 1 (15:40):
And I'm like, no, I'm good, which is nice. It's nice.

Speaker 7 (15:44):
If you've ever had a hot towel on your face
after they shave, it feels.

Speaker 1 (15:48):
Awesome, yeah, but not necessary.

Speaker 7 (15:52):
I would I would counter that with yes, in the
best possible take care of your face after shaving regiment.

Speaker 1 (15:59):
Yes, okay, yeah, I don't think I've ever gotten a
hot towel treatment at a barber shop or salon or anything.

Speaker 7 (16:05):
Or a foot rub place, yeah, or a foot rub place. No,
min you want a hotel.

Speaker 1 (16:10):
My girl cuts not my girlfriend.

Speaker 7 (16:12):
But the girl that cuts my hair doesn't her garage,
so I want to have to hit her.

Speaker 1 (16:15):
I'd be like avery, a hot towel, treat hold on
does it in a garage?

Speaker 7 (16:19):
Like hey, it's a friend or that, so you just
she puts in a chair and then just cut your hair.

Speaker 1 (16:24):
She used to have a booth here in town. And
that's what she does, is she cuts hair. When I
would go there is downtown or whatever, you know, like
six and pe worry or some jibe.

Speaker 7 (16:34):
And I'd go down there. But then she had a
baby and I kind of had, you know, stop working.
But she does this on her side or whatnot. And
I love the way she cuts my hair. She's done
a great job for the past I don't know, five
years or whatever. And I just go to her go
to her house is right around the corner for my house.
Even better, don't have to drive downtown. It's also it's
just right around the corner from my house.

Speaker 1 (16:52):
And we'll sit in the garage and hang out and
shoot the s and she cuts my hair and we
catch up and that's about as far as it goes.
But does she have like other people she does this
so I think so, I'm not one hundred percent sure.
But when you go in, does it look like she's
trying to have a shot out? No? No, no, this
is you got to move the hot power wheels and
you know, the lawnmower and stuff.

Speaker 7 (17:12):
But or it's all situated around the around. There ever
a thing that's you. It's that oh yeah.

Speaker 1 (17:21):
Cheap right, yeah, no accouterments at all. She was when
she was she does awesome by the way, when she
was when she was working downtown or whatever, she go
all out, matt wash and condition shampoo, condition my hair
with that tingling mint shampoo, and give me the scout

(17:41):
shot masage. Yes, right, all along, did all that, you know,
but I don't have that in the garage. So and
I'm little no, listen, I just need.

Speaker 7 (17:50):
It's just a little harder for you to lean over
and her grab the hose. Right it's cold outside, well yeah,
but I'm sure when it gets above freezing, you'll be
able to do. They'll open the garage door and they'll
go to work.

Speaker 1 (18:03):
I love that. I love that. Ready to wash your hair.

Speaker 7 (18:10):
Yep, they watch out for the tricycle. Don't mind the
kitty litter. The car's leaking. It's so boy, it's just
a little bit of a watch a step. Does she
at least put like a thing around her shoulder, so
keeping everything all that?

Speaker 1 (18:27):
Okay?

Speaker 7 (18:28):
Yeah, like a real water, just like a real one,
not not a towel like my mom used to.

Speaker 1 (18:33):
Yeah, the good old mom cuts.

Speaker 7 (18:36):
I stopped having mom cuts when she jacked up my
hair when I was fifteen. I was growing it out
nice long, and.

Speaker 1 (18:42):
She's like, let me trim up your hair for you.
I'm like, okay, yeah, trying to appease my right and
somehow it came out at like a forty five degree
angle slant, and I got made fun of so much,
and I blamed it on the woman next door because
she actually had cut hair out of her house or whatever,

(19:03):
and I didn't want to embarrass mam or speak of
her in a bad light. It was actually a terrible
hair cut, so I.

Speaker 7 (19:09):
Just blamed on the woman next door. But after that moment,
I said, I'm never to myself. I never told my
mom this, right, never going back to that woman for
another we're service ever, right, Yeah, when the you know,
COVID thing was happening, we were at home and I
was joking with my wife. I'm like, you can cut

(19:30):
my hair because it was getting really long.

Speaker 1 (19:33):
I was like, I can't. I'm not going anywhere when
you cut my hair.

Speaker 7 (19:35):
She was like okay. I didn't think she would do it. Yeah,
And so I was like, no, you got to wear
like a low cut shirt like I want the whole thing.
And so she I got to drink a beer wide
it was awesome, right, and she did.

Speaker 1 (19:48):
She did fine. I'm not somebody who's ever been like,
oh boy, that looks horrible, right, It's just hair.

Speaker 6 (19:54):
It grows back.

Speaker 7 (19:55):
Yeah, Because I own a couple of hats right exactly
at forty something, that's all right, a right, But as
a teenager when you're facing from school right way, yeah,
and I couldn't. I mean, I could have worn a hat,
but I don't feel like long hair and hats go
together unless you know you're a hot chick and you
know it's a baseball cap or something that's about as
far and you.

Speaker 1 (20:15):
Got to put it up in a bun. Yeah right,
So yeah, it would it. It didn't work for me.

Speaker 7 (20:22):
So uh, somebody's saying, it doesn't really matter.

Speaker 1 (20:25):
Just use beard oil. Do you use beard oil?

Speaker 7 (20:27):
I do not as often as I used to. I
usually use it soften things up.

Speaker 1 (20:33):
But it's really my beard. It's pretty soft as it is.

Speaker 7 (20:36):
So sometimes if I'm going out, I'll use a bomb
to uh to form it and keep it in place
for the most part, but event make it look devilish. Yeah,
but eventually the bomb dries and it still goes.

Speaker 3 (20:49):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (20:50):
I use uh. I found this place.

Speaker 7 (20:52):
Is it called Viking Beard? I forget what it is?
And uh, it's it's awesome, funny story. I'll tell the
story quick. A guy I do jiu jitsu with. He's
a fireman, and he does. He did beard oils and
got like it got started growing and getting big, like
making them yes, oh okay.

Speaker 1 (21:10):
And uh, we're sought after.

Speaker 7 (21:12):
And so he would go to like you know, trying
to people, like to conventions and whatever, and he got
He kept client tell that he would get He would
go visit them, and I don't this is just his story.

Speaker 1 (21:25):
That they would be of.

Speaker 7 (21:28):
A lifestyle that was not congruent with his, and it
got uncomfortable for him, and so he was like I'm
done and got out of the business.

Speaker 1 (21:37):
Okay.

Speaker 7 (21:38):
I mean that's his prerogative one hundred percent, right, Yeah,
And I was like, huh, like I would just think
beard oil, like everybody needs beard oil. I didn't know
it would be niche down, So I was like, what
were you putting in it? Like petunias?

Speaker 1 (21:54):
Hey, don't do that. Don't do that. Lavender's a great smell, man,
I'm it's very relaxing.

Speaker 7 (22:02):
I'm sure it is. I've smelled lavender for I've had
a lavender bush before. It does smell delicious. Don't call names.
They have been nice ladies in your life, with the
exception of maybe two small, three four five, damn it,
never mind, they were all bitches.

Speaker 6 (22:23):
All right.

Speaker 7 (22:23):
We got tickets the Theory of a Dead Man we're
gonna give away. We've got listener emails, and we've got
to tell the truth.

Speaker 2 (22:28):
To take a break.

Speaker 7 (22:42):
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Speaker 6 (23:07):
At the five kod, woman buys stacks of lottery tickets
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She said she showed her husband and kids what she'd
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Speaker 7 (24:07):
And laughed at everyone else. She gave tickets too. That's
cold hearted to do it right in front of everybody.
You just gave lottery tickets too, because you know what,
you know they didn't win.

Speaker 6 (24:17):
Yep, it was the only winner. And she said that
her dad always said that one of these years someone's
gonna win big.

Speaker 1 (24:24):
Yeah, no kidding.

Speaker 6 (24:25):
She's planning on using some of her winnings to travel
and put the rest in savings.

Speaker 7 (24:30):
And not give any to it exactly. I think that's
cold hearted, man, a little bit. I think to give
get and then be like keep one for yourself to
open in front of everybody after they've gotten theirs.

Speaker 6 (24:41):
Uh huh. Almost look sketch.

Speaker 1 (24:43):
It's way sketch.

Speaker 8 (24:45):
Now.

Speaker 7 (24:45):
There's no way she could have known she was gonna win, right,
But like you gave everybody gifts and you're like, I
kept one for me, then that just say you bought.

Speaker 1 (24:54):
Them for you you could have so you could have one.

Speaker 6 (24:58):
It's good on her though, too, because at the same
time she's buying them every single year.

Speaker 1 (25:03):
You know she is she getting one for herself every year?

Speaker 6 (25:05):
Yeah? I don't know. Yeah, she said she just kept
one for herself.

Speaker 1 (25:09):
Say, I know, I know, I hope.

Speaker 7 (25:11):
Sure, her tailo doesn't get tarnished, right, so you have
one for herself.

Speaker 1 (25:16):
Oh, she's so good.

Speaker 7 (25:19):
Yeah, but if it was a loser, wouldn't make that
much of a story, no, would it. It wouldn't be
like woman who bought you know, a lot ofy ticket
for her sister. Her sisters win.

Speaker 1 (25:27):
Yeah, I mean it would might be a story. I mean,
because it's a it's a story of generosity, right.

Speaker 6 (25:32):
If the sister want to go, Well, you bought the
ticket for me, so I would like to share it
with you, right, Or.

Speaker 1 (25:37):
She won a million?

Speaker 6 (25:38):
Is that what you said?

Speaker 1 (25:39):
And not like, hey, we're going on vacation for the family, right,
screaky guys. I don't want to be around you right now. Yeah.

Speaker 6 (25:46):
When my mom goes to the casino, which she does
quite often hurt her friends. If someone hits big, they
tend to either split up some of the money, or
here's twenty for you to go play longer, here's twenty
for you, or the lie around of drinks or something,
or lunch.

Speaker 1 (26:02):
Share the loves.

Speaker 7 (26:02):
Yeah, absolutely, yeah, absolutely, But this lady wins a million dollars? Yeah,
and isn't like next Christmas is going to be off
the chain.

Speaker 6 (26:11):
Right, first thing she did was lock it up in
a safe because she didn't trust anyone in her family
did not take that ticket.

Speaker 1 (26:17):
How many years have those people gotten nothing for Christmas?

Speaker 9 (26:21):
Right?

Speaker 1 (26:22):
What if she breaks off like.

Speaker 7 (26:23):
A hondi, you know, for each of them, then we're
getting close. For all the years that you haven't gotten something.

Speaker 1 (26:29):
I didn't even have to give you that much. Bitch.
You lucky, you got a chance it went in. Yeah,
not everybody's as lucky as mommy.

Speaker 6 (26:38):
Right.

Speaker 7 (26:38):
Goddamn attorney hits a man over the head with the
plate at a wedding buffet. So this comes out of
Florida where a fifty two year old attorney named Mark
Roher he's at this wedding and he's in line at
the meat cutting station, ready to get some prime rib. Right,

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and the mugshot of the guys on our Facebook page,
and you look at him, you're like, yeah, I can
totally see him in line at a buffet waiting for
some prime rib.

Speaker 1 (27:09):
Regardless.

Speaker 7 (27:09):
So he's out a line, he's waiting for his meat,
and two little girls cut in line in front of him,
and that upsets Mark because Mark, so Mark, he was
near the end, right, So Mark, Mark confronts the dad
of one of the girls nearby. They start going at

(27:29):
it back and forth, and eventually Mark takes his plate
and smashes it over the head of the dad.

Speaker 1 (27:35):
Right.

Speaker 7 (27:36):
Well, then that starts a whole big old brawl with
all the other guests that are at the web. The
police come out. Mark admitted that he started it all
by pushing the victim, but he denied hitting him over
the head with a plate. Anyhow, he went on to
say that it was a dry party. That means dry,

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like they didn't serve alcohol or this.

Speaker 1 (27:58):
Usually that's what that means. I know, maybe they were
asking how much have you had to drink tonight? Well,
I mean that's prime rib man. That stuff ain't cheap.
It ain't salmon her chicken, right right. Anyhow, so they
ended up taking him in for aggravated battery with a
deadly weapon.

Speaker 7 (28:14):
I mean, I guess there are people that go to
wedding receptions and they see there's a meat carving station
and they're like, oh yeah, oh yeah, this is good.
If you're not I want yourself, you're getting in line.
I know you don't like prime rib, but you're getting
something because I want it.

Speaker 6 (28:31):
He doesn't look like an attorney.

Speaker 1 (28:33):
What does that mean? What is the what is an
attribute of an attorney?

Speaker 6 (28:36):
I mean he looks he's wearing a looks like a
T shirt. Who wears a T shirt to a wedding
that has served prime ribs?

Speaker 1 (28:45):
Are you talking about are you talking about his mug shot? Yes,
well he might have been arrested after the fact, right,
maybe as the T shirt that he was wearing underneath
his his dressed shirt.

Speaker 7 (28:54):
Right or they investigated and then the next day. Either way,
they're little girls who that much and there will be
prime and.

Speaker 1 (29:05):
Who cares if you? If you are an attorney, I
would think you would be able to afford a GC
once in a while.

Speaker 7 (29:11):
Like, I don't know what you're talking about. There's no
way this was good prime rib. There's no way this
was the prime rib of prime ribs. But maybe he
doesn't get prime rib that off and he's, oh, this
is the first time in five years. If the Bill
Belichick of prime rib made this prime rib, you might
be able to persuade me in the argument.

Speaker 6 (29:30):
Maybe he's on a carnival and eye and all he
can eat at that wedding was the prime rib.

Speaker 7 (29:35):
Then there must have been a lot of meat based
on what you guys are describing him to look like.

Speaker 1 (29:38):
Again, they're two little girls. They're not gonna eat that much.
They're probably not even really gonna eat the primary. That's
probably what pissed him off. You little bitches aren't even
gonna eat that. He's gonna throw it in the trash.

Speaker 7 (29:50):
He's just gonna throw it in the wasting I'll get it.
Principal and teacher found it underage house party in Florida,
where two school employees are facing child neglect charges after
they were found at a house party with dozens of
kids in Florida. Coco Beach. Police say they discovered the
more than one hundred children, many of whom had been

(30:12):
drinking at home on January nineteenth. One young attendee was
treated after experiencing an alcohol related medical event in the
front yard bombiting. The property is owned by an elementary
school principal by Elizabeth hey hey Hill Bartigan, and a
teacher at the same school, Carla count me In. Anderson
told investigators that she had also been at the party,

(30:34):
though she was drunk and unknowingly told the police that
she was just kind of she came up to the
kid that was having the medical event in the front
yard and was like, you did matter than miss scene,
and that's when she said she was at the party
and the arrest. Her school district has placed both employees
on administrative leave while law enforcements continue their investigation. Now,

(30:54):
apparently the invitation for this party went out via snapchat
and they included any different schools.

Speaker 1 (31:02):
The story is a little misleading. It makes you believe
it's the principle of the school these people attended.

Speaker 7 (31:06):
That is not what happened. As far as I can
read investigate. There were no elementary students there. But and
she didn't I didn't say she had a kid in
high school. And this teacher was a third grade teacher.
So it wasn't like they were like it was their
kids and they're like, I'm a cool mom.

Speaker 6 (31:24):
Right.

Speaker 7 (31:25):
This was like I'm having I'm hosting a party for
underage kids.

Speaker 1 (31:29):
Which is creepy.

Speaker 7 (31:31):
Yes, if this was a man, it would feel pimpish, drugs.

Speaker 1 (31:36):
Alcoholic gun.

Speaker 7 (31:37):
Yeah, they were going through some kids' phones, which I
don't understand, but like went through their phones and there
was one photo of a person pointing a gun at
the person holding the camera.

Speaker 1 (31:50):
Whoa, I mean, it's a party. I don't know.

Speaker 7 (31:52):
I'm not you don't know who's showing up, especially when
you invite everyone. Apparently the neighbors called the police and
that's what triggered their involvement because of the loudness and
so many cars parked in the driver, which got me thinking,
if I hear my neighbors having a party, I ain't
saying something people parked in the street.

Speaker 1 (32:12):
I don't think I'm saying anything.

Speaker 7 (32:14):
If I can deduce that there's a party, I just
assume like somebody's having a reunion or a birthday party
or whatever. So what's the trigger point to call the police?

Speaker 6 (32:23):
Maybe they saw underage? No for you, oh mmmm, I
guess if it's super duper loud.

Speaker 1 (32:34):
And I am super duper loud, it's.

Speaker 6 (32:36):
If I'm sick. Let's say I'm sick, or if I.

Speaker 1 (32:39):
Have a newborn more than you currently are.

Speaker 6 (32:42):
Yeah, Or if I have a newborn baby, maybe why
does that sleepy cloud for it to sleep?

Speaker 1 (32:48):
Maybe?

Speaker 6 (32:49):
Okay, I don't know if I would ever.

Speaker 7 (32:53):
Call gimbi start tearing up my property? Yeah, No, it's
one thing if you're like in my front yard having
a coal incident. You know, I'll let that slide, right, you, sir,
are saying, I'll let that one sly. But if you
know people from your party you're coming over and ripping
the siding off of my house, I mean, of course,

(33:17):
you know you've taken my dump in your front yard.
I might even let that one slide to really, yeah,
because I want to like, whoever's at the house.

Speaker 1 (33:26):
I would be like, check this out. There's somebody crapping
in my front yard. And I wouldn't call the police.

Speaker 7 (33:33):
I probably wouldn't even confront them about it, you know,
I'm justna be like, that's weird. Probably at least open
up the door and at least tell them their own mess,
you know. But even then, it's nothing that a hose
can't you know, take care of. Listen, No, that's true.
It is not about the effort I have to do
to clean it up. At that point, I'm like, all right,
there's clearly no boundaries with this group of individuals. God

(33:56):
knows what else they might be capable of. There's no
way the police are going to show up in time
to catch them before they pinch it off, right, And
so for me, it's about all right, preserve self preservation.
At that point, let's get the police involved. Clearly, this
needs to be dealt with because you know, it all
starts with pooping in the yard. If they crapped in
my yard, I might go next door and be like, hey, man, listen,

(34:19):
having a party at all, and that's great, fantastic, Okay,
Boomer and I get a beer, we'll sit and hang out.

Speaker 1 (34:25):
But I don't you want to be involved in the
delinquency of a minor. Huh. I don't want y'all crapping
in my yard. That's it. It's pretty simple. No way
you knock on that door. You're publicly to be number one.
Who's this gift? Listen.

Speaker 7 (34:37):
I know you think you're cool, but now you're the
old man at that point when you show up at
a high school party, Hey, you're being too Listen. You've
seen the movie Neighbors. They were super cool until.

Speaker 1 (34:51):
It wasn't till it wasn't.

Speaker 7 (34:53):
And I think if I'm as old as the hosts
of the party, I think you're older.

Speaker 1 (34:57):
Dude.

Speaker 7 (34:58):
I know again, I know you. I think you're young,
not anymore. I'm looking at the mugshots of the ladies.
I think we're close to the same age. That's what
I'm talking about. If I'm like their age and they're
host of the party, just go straight to them.

Speaker 1 (35:10):
Now.

Speaker 7 (35:10):
If it's like parents out of town, right and it's
just a bunch of debauchery from kids, Uh, you're right.

Speaker 1 (35:17):
You're gonna be that grumpy old man.

Speaker 7 (35:19):
I think you show up at a house and you're like,
turn it down, let me hang with you kids. You're
like that Steve Buscemi meme of him like, what's up
my my friends? Yeah, I got in a feud with
my neighbor before he died over that all he killed
him right, yeah, before it caused him to kill himself.

Speaker 1 (35:36):
I killed him. Yeah, happy, Can you can you turn
the music down? Yeah?

Speaker 7 (35:41):
Sure, can you do it now? Okay, Dick, thanks, shut
the door. And we have not been the same since. No,
because he's down. He couldn't continue with life.

Speaker 1 (35:55):
All right.

Speaker 7 (35:56):
We got tickets to the Theory of a Dead Man
we're gonna give away, and uh, we also got this
emails coming out.

Speaker 1 (36:02):
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Speaker 6 (36:41):
A group of Louisiana lawmakers are asking the NFL to
make sure that the Super Bowl halftime show is family friendly.
Republican state Senator Valerie Hodges, sixteen other state legislators, and
fifteen organizations sent a letter to the chairs of the
Greater New Orleans Sports Foundation and the Louisiana Stadium Expo District.
The letter expressed concern about past halftime shows with lowt lyrics,

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suggestive dances, and wardrobe failures. Grammy Award winner Kendrick Lamar
set to headline the halftime show at the Super Bowl
on Sunday, February ninth, when the Chiefs take on the Eagles.

Speaker 1 (37:15):
I think it's gonna be awesome.

Speaker 6 (37:16):
Yeah it is.

Speaker 7 (37:17):
I think it's gonna be I don't know what there were?
What do they think is going to happen?

Speaker 1 (37:21):
Gyrating? What do you mean? Wardrobe malfunctions? That old Janet
Jams thing. Yeah, come on, man, that was a long Yes,
what is there gonna be women dancing? Yes? Uh huh
In turtlenecks and sweatpants.

Speaker 7 (37:38):
This feels a little bit of you're seeing your kids
want to participate at the dance at the end of
summer at the retreat you're in and Upstate New York
and they're doing a sexy dance allat dirty dancing.

Speaker 1 (37:55):
Yeah, it feels a little bit like that.

Speaker 6 (37:57):
Big Time Who.

Speaker 1 (38:00):
Cares?

Speaker 6 (38:01):
Right, kid?

Speaker 7 (38:02):
Was like, I saw the Kendrick Lamar halftime show and
now I'm turning to a life of prostitution.

Speaker 1 (38:10):
Settled down.

Speaker 6 (38:11):
You don't like it, have your kids leave during halftime,
let them go play on their Xbox or whatever.

Speaker 7 (38:16):
Watch the Nickelodeon halftime. There you go, SpongeBob can dance suggestively.

Speaker 6 (38:22):
Right, Yeah, I think it's gonna be a great show.
And that's your balls to the Wall sports. I'm Lindsay
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Speaker 7 (39:28):
So I saw this thing online and I had to
investigate it because I saw it was so fascinating and
the person tells the story of their interaction with another
human being and starts this story off with the idea
that everyone in their life will cross paths with a

(39:49):
serial killer, which seems outlandish to me. And so I
did some investigating on this and it's pretty much an
urban myth, and that it into the idea that people
are living these hidden lives, and the reality is, unless
you live in an area where there's an active serial killer,

(40:15):
the chances of that is pretty slim, yeah, even if
you live in an area where that's happened.

Speaker 1 (40:20):
Right, But this is what got me.

Speaker 7 (40:25):
Estimates suggests they're about twenty five to fifty active serial
killers in the US at any given time. I don't
know about you, guys, I kind of go, oh, we
haven't had a serial killer in a long time. No, no, no, no, no,
those are happening at any time now. The FBI classifies
serial killings as any three murders congruently, right, that have

(40:50):
some similar similarities. Right, And so I went down a
rabbit hole of recent serial killers and Rex Huerman, who's
the Jilgo Jilligo Beach serial killer? This has kind of
made some news in the last year, a couple of
years or so. He was arrested in twenty twenty three

(41:12):
and charged with the murders of several women whose remains
were discovered along a beach in Long Island. In December
of twenty twenty four, he faced additional charges linked to
a sex worker who disappeared in two thousand, bringing the
total charges against him to seven. Investigators have cited DNA
evidence and detailed planning documents as key components in his case.

Speaker 1 (41:32):
Wow.

Speaker 7 (41:34):
Wesley Brownly between twenty one, twenty twenty one and twenty
twenty two is he allegedly fatally shot six individuals in
California in Stockton and Oakland. Authorities believe he also shot
and wounded another woman in Stockton, and he was arrested
in his currently awaiting trial. Another one. I just love

(41:55):
the name of this person. The shopping cart killer one
Anthony Robinson was charged with murders of two women in
d C Metro. Authorities believe he met his victims on
dating websites, lured them to motels, killed them, and transported
their bodies in shopping cards, and he is suspected in
the deaths of additional women and is currently waiting trial.

Speaker 1 (42:17):
Wow.

Speaker 7 (42:18):
That is like on another level to put a body
in a shopping cart and push it down the street.
Perez Reid, He's charged with shooting seven people in twenty
twenty one from Kansas City, Kansas to Saint Louis, Missouri.
Upon his arrest, he was found in possession of firearm
matching ballistics evidence from crime scenes.

Speaker 1 (42:38):
He's a waiting trial.

Speaker 7 (42:41):
And here are some unidentified unsolved ones. The Redhead murders
from seventy eight to ninety two, a series of murders
occurred across multiple states, including Tennessee, Arkansas, and Kentucky, involving
women with reddish hair. The exact number of victims is
own certain, with estimates being as high as fourteen. The killers,

(43:03):
sometimes referred as the Bible Belt Strangler, has never been identified. Well, now,
I know I'm into this. I have plenty of friends
who jered this genre. I know, Lindsay is I've never
heard of the redheaded Strangler. Another one the Zodiac Killer
North Carolina, northern California from the sixties to seventies. The

(43:27):
Zodiac Killers confirmed to have murdered at least five individuals,
but claim to have killed thirty seven. The killer taunted
law enforcement and media cryptic messages and ciphers. Despite extensive
investigations and numerous the case remains unsolved. But they do
think they have the person. I thought they solved that.
And then there's a couple other that I'm going to

(43:49):
tell you about that culminate into something I didn't know
was happening at all in our country. In two thousand
and nine, the FBIS Serial Killer Highways Initiative was created
because of a pattern of murdered individuals along the highways
in the United States, hitchhikers. I don't think it's Maybe

(44:17):
it could be hitchhikers, but I don't think hitchhikers is
as common as it is in the seventies. I agree,
right like they make it sound like that's a thing
when it's not really a thing. But I think because
of the danger, what this unit is designed to do
is to investigate.

Speaker 1 (44:34):
Truckers.

Speaker 7 (44:35):
Are long haul truckers as murderers, Okay, And this division
of the FBI has a special website and everything, the
Highway Serial Killers Initiative. It was created in two thousand
and nine. They believe most of the women that were
killed were part of a transient lifestyle involving drug abuse

(44:57):
and prostitution with mo to the murders happening on the
interstate forty quarriter between Oklahoma, Texas, Arkansas, and Mississippi. And
they the map that they have that shows these shows
a large number in Oklahoma that they think happen. There

(45:22):
are between three hundred thousand and five hundred thousand long
haul truckers in America and the majority of them are
upstanding workers committed to helping with the supply chain. But
there's a large number of murders that happen that go unsolved,
and this unit is designed to try and find out

(45:45):
who's killed these people. There have been approximately eight hundred
and fifty murders along America's Highway since nineteen eighty, and
over two.

Speaker 1 (45:55):
Hundred of them are unsolved.

Speaker 6 (45:58):
So then to these officers just planned steakouts at certain
truck stops along the highway, I mean.

Speaker 1 (46:06):
I think that they.

Speaker 7 (46:07):
I don't think they do steakouts because I don't think
you're going to catch it in real time, right, But
they take the evidence and try to piece things together.
Real real police, real like catching criminals is in the
police work.

Speaker 1 (46:23):
It's not in the steakouts. Yeah, it's going undercover, dressed
as a hooker or a lot lizard and picking up
truck drivers and seeing what happens. Maybe being a truck.

Speaker 6 (46:35):
Driver, m I'm talking to them and.

Speaker 1 (46:37):
Maybe I don't know.

Speaker 7 (46:40):
I've had I've never had any friends, but I had
an uncle who was a truck a long haul driver,
and he's pretty recluse. Right any family gathering, he wasn't
real chatty.

Speaker 1 (46:55):
No, that's not what I'm implying.

Speaker 7 (46:57):
I'm implying when you have a lifestyle that is individuality
and isolation, you suddenly just aren't real chatty.

Speaker 1 (47:06):
You get used to it. And so I can't imagine
that genre of people. They all sit at a table
at the loves after their showers that they had to
exchange receipts for.

Speaker 7 (47:23):
And talk about who's killing people. Because you can be
in Washington on Friday and in Florida by Monday. And
if you if if I were going to commit a murder,
that's the perfect cover. Because you're constantly moving. You're not

(47:44):
in one spot long enough to get caught. That makes sense.
You have an you have an alibi. Why were you
on I forty near Shawnee. I'm just moving a load, right,
you can you can move and covids right. And you're
usually by yourself, so nobody's there to you know, vouch

(48:05):
for you or you know, vote against you.

Speaker 6 (48:08):
When trucks stop at the way stations along the highways,
do they get there they are they just weighing the
truck itself or are they opening it up and looking
into the back of the truck.

Speaker 7 (48:22):
So my understanding nowadays is that it's a multiple checkpoints system. Yeah,
and when you approach the way station. A lot of
the documents are digital now and so that stuff is
being uploaded at that time, and they can check to
make sure your logs are accurate because you can only

(48:42):
drive so often. Yeah, and making sure you're in compliance
and also getting weighed.

Speaker 6 (48:48):
And I think it's random, yeah, yeah, because half the
time when I see one on the side of the road,
it's closed, right, so.

Speaker 7 (48:57):
Right, And that's because you're not really looking for it,
you know what I mean, because they are open. The
idea is it's not always again, it's they're trying to
catch individuals, but when they like they have a special
unit out of the state Patrol has a special unit
for I forty four and forty I'm sorry, I forty
four and thirty five and to track and catch drug

(49:19):
trafficking and human trafficking, right, and they are highly trained
on what to look for in vehicles, drivers, time of day, and.

Speaker 1 (49:31):
They're really good at it.

Speaker 7 (49:32):
I don't think our Highway Patrol gets enough recognition for
how good they are, and they don't seek it out.
But they have special units for like missing persons, and
it is a quick action unit, so when a missing
they go and they're really good at it. I don't

(49:53):
think people know that it isn't highlighted, which I think
it should be. If anything, it would deter people from
making kids. Yeah, and to sort of cut down through
the through the red tape right anyway, But like I
didn't know that there was a special unit of truckers
that is kind of niche niched down into like being
serial killers. Yeah, enough that the FBI had to create

(50:17):
a special unit and half for it. This says there's
currently an active serial killer in Austin.

Speaker 1 (50:22):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (50:24):
As a former over the road trucker, I can tell
you we have certain weights we can put on each
axle to be heavy as dangerous to you and everyone else.
Most ways are done near state borders, as they all check.
There used to be a check in Texas. Every car
that came into Texas.

Speaker 1 (50:40):
Had to be checked. Wow, okay, there was a Texas checkpoint.

Speaker 7 (50:44):
So when you cross the Red River there was you
can still see the building and you had to go
and they randomly picked cars to.

Speaker 1 (50:50):
Check, which feels wild, doesn't it? Right? I get it.
If we're crossing the border into like Mexico, we're back again,
got it? Any drugs in here? People that shouldn't be along, right,
but I'm coming from Oklaholma, sir, right.

Speaker 6 (51:06):
Then you're really suspicious.

Speaker 7 (51:08):
I mean, High we Control has special units just to
pull over truckers to check I guess paperwork and their loads.
A big load you got here, son, and most of
its compliance and all good. But and if you watch,

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like to catch a smuggler, the amount of stuff that
goes through semis.

Speaker 1 (51:33):
It's crazy, right right, it's crazy. Unbeknownst usually to the driver.
I didn't know there were fifty people in the back
of my trucks are hidden behind a pallet of watermelon.
Not that so, Like, here's an example.

Speaker 7 (51:47):
They pulled a truck over and something didn't seem right
with the floor when they were walking on it, and
they made it go. They did a deeper investigation and
found that there was a false floor and they had
they had taken a meth and made it into long
rails to fill the groove and then put another fake

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floor on top of it.

Speaker 1 (52:09):
It looked like it was a real floor. Wow. Oh yeah.

Speaker 7 (52:11):
And the trucker had the driver, I don't know, had
no idea that that was. He's like, I pull up,
I grab a trailer. I go right. So it's fascinating
how how in depth it is.

Speaker 1 (52:27):
Oh yeah, take the the tires off of the wheels
and then fill them full of contraband and yeah, to
get them around. Yeah.

Speaker 7 (52:36):
I think everybody knows that, right, But this was like
one I had never heard before.

Speaker 1 (52:40):
Right. It's like that Cheech and Chong movie where they
made the entire van out of weed. On the catch Smuggler.

Speaker 7 (52:45):
They catch people all the time with their suitcases and
you know how they slide up and down and filling
that with drugs.

Speaker 1 (52:53):
Wow, or you know.

Speaker 7 (52:55):
The hardshell cases making exact form of that and making
that the suitcase. I mean, it's it's it isn't as hey,
stuff this in your pants, right, but it happens, dude,
even as going as far as taking bananas, I don't
know how they did it and taking the banana out
of the middle and filling that with drugs and then

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it looks like it's never been impeded at all. That
show is so fascinating, and their argument is to them,
it's worth trying any idea to see if it gets through.

Speaker 1 (53:30):
Right, if it gets through, you know you can do
that again.

Speaker 7 (53:32):
Maybe, Yeah, any little bit counts as a win. These
are This isn't you know the Street Gang. It's a
highly sophisticated group of individuals with a military that are
highly trained and scientists. They're governments essentially. It's really fascinating show.

(53:55):
All Right, we got to take a break.

Speaker 1 (53:57):
We'll be back.

Speaker 9 (53:58):
More of the Big Men Morning sh is next ninety KMOD.

Speaker 1 (54:14):
Good morning.

Speaker 7 (54:14):
It's the Big Mad Morning Show. Nine one, eight four six,
oh kmo D. You can also text bmms and then.

Speaker 1 (54:20):
What you want to say to eight two nine four five.

Speaker 7 (54:27):
Let's play a game because we got tickets to Theory
of a dead Man. Theory of the dead Man's gonna
be at the Tulsa Theater on February eighth. That's a
Saturday an acoustics show which unplugged. I guess I should
say uh, And it's supposed to be awesome. The opener
I forget the name is also supposed.

Speaker 1 (54:42):
To be really good as well. Again Tulsatheater dot com.

Speaker 7 (54:45):
We're gonna play sing sing current record is Will Corbusin's
I'm pretty much awesome and everything I do. I'm in
the lead with two you all got none. Last week's
winner it would be me so uh Corbin and Lindsay
at nine one eight four six. Oh kmo d nine
one eight six, So kmode call up, decide.

Speaker 1 (55:01):
Who you're going to be your clue giver. Whoever gets
the most right.

Speaker 7 (55:03):
Is winning tickets to see Theory of a Dead Man
Unplugged on Saturday, February eighth at the Tulsa Theater.

Speaker 1 (55:09):
Good morning, you're on the air. What is your name, Chris? Chris?
How are you today? Pretty good? Chris? Who do you
want to give? Clues? Lindsay or Corbyn?

Speaker 3 (55:19):
Let's go with.

Speaker 1 (55:21):
Lindsey.

Speaker 7 (55:22):
Sixty seconds are on the clock. Timer starts after the
first clue. Are you ready?

Speaker 3 (55:27):
Yeah, here we go?

Speaker 6 (55:30):
All right? This singer saying black and White. Also Man
in the Mirror. But this song was a huge Halloween
really Yes, this is a club song sung by the
Fresh Prince of Belaire. He's an actor singer. D this

(55:53):
actor singer, he played the Fresh Prince of Belaire.

Speaker 10 (55:57):
Yeah, Wills Man, uh huh.

Speaker 6 (55:58):
And no love for the Hated, the haters mad because
I got Yes, okay, this is we don't have this
yet for cancer. But this is the name of the band,
uh huh. And it's the day of the week, the
last day before the weekend Friday. Uh huh. And if

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you have a partner and you feel very heart felt
for them, you are what.

Speaker 10 (56:28):
Yeah, well Friday, weve Friday.

Speaker 6 (56:31):
You're close. You're almost the song Uh huh, Nope, start
with the day of the week and not you. But
but yeah.

Speaker 7 (56:39):
You No, she did say again, I was trying to
help her time.

Speaker 1 (56:45):
Uh.

Speaker 7 (56:45):
And you got two man, which is pretty good. That
could be enough for the win. Hang on the line, okay,
all right, good morning, you're on the air.

Speaker 3 (56:57):
What is your name, Sean?

Speaker 1 (56:59):
Sean?

Speaker 3 (56:59):
How are you to I'm good man.

Speaker 1 (57:01):
All right, buddy, we got to beat two. Are you ready?

Speaker 3 (57:04):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (57:04):
Yess go? Here we go? All right, here we go.
This is f It's fine, fine, I said this. This
is the video with the women and short black skirts
and playing the guitar and red lipstick, their hair pulled back.

Speaker 3 (57:30):
Yeah no, I don't know what.

Speaker 7 (57:33):
Yeah, I can't tell you the band name? All right,
So the this is when somebody enjoys taking drugs a lot,
they are what.

Speaker 1 (57:44):
Right? And when the opposite of hate? There you go.
This is a rap song from the nineties about having
sex and denying it wasn't he Yes?

Speaker 5 (58:02):
Uh?

Speaker 7 (58:02):
This is Lisa Left Eye Lopez and her band Correct.

Speaker 1 (58:09):
Nineties banned and the song.

Speaker 7 (58:11):
About doesn't matter man. Congratulations, you're getting those tickets to see.

Speaker 1 (58:20):
Theory of a Dead Man Unplugged Saturday, February eighth at
the Tulsa Theater. My Life Gone by my Friends online
segment contained enough to talk to Gimpy. I'm so sorry, Chris.
It wasn't enough good stunk enough anyway.

Speaker 10 (58:40):
Day Thanks you all right?

Speaker 1 (58:42):
This is the one that Lindsay ended up. Yeah, I mean,
this is Robert Smith's band, and this is the song
not Saturday, not Sunday, the day before Saturday. Uh.

Speaker 7 (58:56):
And this is what you declare when you have affection
for an individual.

Speaker 1 (59:02):
Yeah, you can getting getting get a better clue than that,
like something Monday, Tuesday, I'm wasted Wednesday, but can you
say day, No, it's Friday, it's not.

Speaker 7 (59:15):
And I was trying to get you to say the
opposite of like out, get him to say that word,
because he was so close to it, like Friday, I'm
in love by the cure.

Speaker 6 (59:23):
Yes, great, this one is a struggle for everyone. Maybe
think of synonyms for this word one inconceivable maybe or unlikely.

Speaker 1 (59:38):
I mean even if you could say EPs and mad
funkers and people. I don't think people would know.

Speaker 6 (59:43):
That true our British band.

Speaker 7 (59:47):
Yeah, uh yeah, I don't even I was trying to
get them to say, figure out believable, and I was
gonna go.

Speaker 1 (59:56):
With truth the opposite of truth.

Speaker 7 (59:59):
Yeah, And when someone thinks something's false, they would make
a profound statement of that's unbelievable. Yeah, because in the song,
oh would be a but we've kind of always.

Speaker 1 (01:00:15):
Wavered on whether that's okay or not?

Speaker 9 (01:00:18):
Right right?

Speaker 1 (01:00:18):
That is probably the most popular part of the song,
most recognizable, not the chorus, not the chorus, but it
is a sound of a is it is a word?
Right right? I know That's why I didn't go with it.

Speaker 6 (01:00:36):
How does that even start? You? You f me with
your question something like that. I can't think of the words.

Speaker 7 (01:00:47):
Well, I tell you, but it's taking forever for our
system to cue up the song so I could play
it for you, and this.

Speaker 8 (01:00:56):
Wild thing with your questions you.

Speaker 1 (01:01:11):
Got, oh yeah, the things you say, I would think
that's the chorus right at the super Purple Prons tweets

(01:01:31):
Purple Brons, your unbelievable pawns like the Giant shrimp right.
I don't think that's what he's saying.

Speaker 11 (01:01:39):
All right.

Speaker 7 (01:01:39):
The record now, well, it keeps me going to leave
with two, puts you on the board with one, but
Lindsay still has none.

Speaker 9 (01:01:46):
Tulsa's Morning Show is coming right back, a big morning show.

Speaker 1 (01:01:50):
Tulsa's Rock station. Good morning.

Speaker 7 (01:02:04):
It's the Big Mad Morning Show nine six KMOD. You
can also text bmms and then what you want to
say to eight two nine four five. I went up
listener emails. But right now we got to see what
Gimpi has in his four by four cob and it
says here that Quakers are suing DHS over ICE arrests

(01:02:28):
at sensitive locations.

Speaker 1 (01:02:31):
The Oape bills really good. I'm more of a quick
oats guy. That's where it stopped, MANU. Quakers are good people.

Speaker 7 (01:02:39):
The Department of Homeland Security is being sued over the
recent policy change that now allows ICE agents to make
arrest as so called sensitive locations. The lawsuit was filed
yesterday in a federal district court in Maryland by a
group of Quaker church congregations. The lawsuit argues that the
threat of arrests by Immigration and Customs Enforcement agents de

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tours congregants from attending services and obstructs the guarantee of
religious liberty. President Trump rescinded a long standing White House
policy that prevented arrests at houses of worship, playground, schools,
and hospitals without prior approval from officials at such facilities.

Speaker 1 (01:03:19):
I was just looking.

Speaker 7 (01:03:22):
That this says the number of Quaker meetings. Yeah, Oklahoma
comes in at five a month. I didn't know that
we had a Quaker community here. Amis, yes, but not
the Quaker. I mean it's a branch of Christianity. Okay,
out of the Protestants, I know that.

Speaker 1 (01:03:41):
But do they wear the hats and the long socks
and short pants? I don't know. But all I know
is that apparently in Oklahoma not a high Quaker population.
The top state is Pennsylvania, the North Carolina, and then
California and then Indiana, New York, Ohio. It's mostly like
a Northeastern Okay, all right, what else we got here?

Speaker 7 (01:04:04):
Kansas City area TV outbreak is the largest recorded There
are currently nearly seventy people being TV.

Speaker 1 (01:04:12):
I mean they got plenty of TVs TV as a tuberculosis,
not television like that.

Speaker 7 (01:04:21):
I mean, why every state in City has TVs fans
City area TP outbreak, toilet paper maybe just different things
that we can have to and how nearly so many
people are being treated for tuberculosis On the Kansas side
of Kansas City, Nearly eighty latent cases have been confirmed.
Latent cases are when people are infected with the tuberculosis

(01:04:45):
bacteria but don't have the disease. It's the largest outbreak
since the state first started monitoring and reporting it in
nineteen fifty.

Speaker 1 (01:04:53):
What do you think are the common symptoms for tuberculosis?

Speaker 6 (01:04:57):
Coughing yes, it sounds like it's totally respiratory.

Speaker 7 (01:05:01):
Sweating, fever yes, fever yes, maybe rash, eating from your orifices,
persistent cough more than three weeks, chest pain during breathing
or coughing okay, Fatigue, fever a low grade but won't
go away, night sweats, unexplained weight loss and loss of appetite.

(01:05:29):
And it can affect lymph node, bones and joints, your
nervous system, kidneys like blood in your urine or flank, pain, headache, nausea, uh,
swelling in your abdomen, and if any of those, like
a persistent cough lasts more than three weeks. You should
go see a doctor because you might have the TV hayd.

Speaker 1 (01:05:51):
That's something I thought we got rid of that a
long time ago. We did.

Speaker 7 (01:05:54):
But when a bunch of people decide to not get
their shot, that's what happens that.

Speaker 1 (01:05:59):
They have out the tuberculosis shot. Have you had a
tuberculosis shot? Yes, okay, Yeah.

Speaker 7 (01:06:04):
They give it and it's a little it'll like it
looks like a bump in your arm, and then it
goes away like it dissipates.

Speaker 1 (01:06:10):
Okay, yeah, everybody got a tuberculosis shot. When was the
last time he had a turberculosis shot? Ten years ago? Okay,
Oh my god.

Speaker 6 (01:06:20):
I don't know if it's one that you keep getting that.

Speaker 1 (01:06:23):
No, no, it is. When you can't you can, Yeah,
but when you don't give it to your kids. Natural selection?
What else we got here?

Speaker 7 (01:06:32):
Trump signs transgender military ban executive order. President Trump assigned
a number of executive orders that ban any diversity related
programs in the military. As a result of yesterday's move,
any new diversity related practices will be subject to an
internal review by Secretary Defense Pete Hegseth. Trump signed two
other orders, including one that reinstates those who were discharged

(01:06:53):
for refusing the COVID vaccine, and one that bans those
identifies transgender from serving in the armed forces. A fourth
call for the creation of a so called next generation
iron Dome missile defense system to protect the US. And
then lastly here Creek County Sheriff's Office announces the retirement
of canine Ranger. Greek County Sheriff's Office announced the retirement

(01:07:16):
of their canine Ranger, who has served the community since
twenty eighteen. A Ranger is a German short haired pointer
and his name was choosen through a country Excuse me,
a county wide contest involving local grade schools. Doggy mcdog
face did not make the list.

Speaker 1 (01:07:32):
Well to what we say, who's a good boy? He's
a good boy. He was certified through the Council on
Law Enforcement Education and Training as part of a narcotics
canine team and was nationally recognized by the United States
Police Canine Commission in detection.

Speaker 7 (01:07:48):
This is a pretty badass little dog. Ranger has taken
part in one hundred and fifty five narcotics deployments over
his career, which led to discovery of two hundred and
sixty one pounds of marijuana, twenty eight grands of meth
and one grammoth heroin, and a number of unidentified pills.

Speaker 1 (01:08:04):
I stand correct. He's a real good boy. To go
ranger and enjoy your retirement. Now you'll see in a
Walmart would you want a movie? Rat? Can I see
your receipt?

Speaker 7 (01:08:16):
Do retired police dogs go like work at schools?

Speaker 1 (01:08:19):
Sorrade?

Speaker 6 (01:08:21):
Yeah? America's team. As a new head coach, the Dallas
Cowboys introduced Brian Schottenheimer as the tenth coach in franchise
history yesterday. The former offensive coordinator and career assistant coach
will look to help the Cowboys put an end to
a twenty nine year drought without a Super Bowl or
NFC Championship game appearance. Schottenheimer said that he believes that

(01:08:44):
the team can win quickly and that the main objective
is to win the Super Bowl. The fifty one year
old assigned a four year deal in his first shot
at a head coaching gig.

Speaker 1 (01:08:54):
He said he was like, we're gonna win it.

Speaker 7 (01:08:56):
We're gonna bring a championship to Dallas, of which I
would reply, you better say that in a press concert.

Speaker 6 (01:09:03):
He has to say that. I mean the objective of
all coaches.

Speaker 7 (01:09:07):
Yes, if the Super Bowl is played at Jerry Land,
they are bringing a championship to Dallas.

Speaker 3 (01:09:16):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:09:17):
I just find it like he's like, we're gonna do
like settle down.

Speaker 6 (01:09:21):
Yeah, you don't know what you're gonna do because you
ain't never done this before.

Speaker 1 (01:09:26):
I hope it works out.

Speaker 7 (01:09:28):
But Jerry Jones made some statement about glory holes yesterday.

Speaker 1 (01:09:32):
I was like, what is happening. I'm not joking, I'm
not joking.

Speaker 6 (01:09:37):
I missed it.

Speaker 7 (01:09:38):
He said, I believe something to the effect of everybody
think this is going to be fun and glory holes, which.

Speaker 1 (01:09:45):
Makes a question, how many glory holes have you been to?

Speaker 7 (01:09:48):
Jered I cannot speak with certainty that glory holes are
good nor bad because I have never been a part
of one on either. Yeah, so I don't I don't
you know if they're good or bad? And isn't that
subjective by who is exposed to it?

Speaker 6 (01:10:05):
Right?

Speaker 1 (01:10:05):
What part are you playing in it? Where'st glory whoever?
By whose definition? I think? Maybe if the whole, if
it's rigid, I don't know. I don't know. People are
weird today.

Speaker 6 (01:10:18):
The drywall may be scratchy, or the cardboard or the cardboard,
or it's just too small.

Speaker 7 (01:10:23):
I just I'm just saying, like, by whose definition, I'm
just gonna make a wager that at least fifty percent
of the people involved in the Gloryhole think it's awesome, Right,
I'm just saying.

Speaker 1 (01:10:37):
You're probably right.

Speaker 7 (01:10:38):
The other fifty percent are like, ah, really need the money,
it's a job.

Speaker 1 (01:10:46):
Yes, I'm just so.

Speaker 7 (01:10:48):
It's just a weird thing for somebody to say in
a public forum when referencing a billion dollar organization.

Speaker 6 (01:10:54):
And that's your balls to the wall sports I'm lindsay
in ninety seven five KMOD, Good morning.

Speaker 1 (01:11:09):
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Good luck, all right. Time for listener emails. You can
always email us show at kmod dot com. Show at
kmod dot com. We read an email on the air,
and then you.

Speaker 1 (01:12:10):
Guys get to help give advice.

Speaker 7 (01:12:12):
A couple ways do that in nine one, eight four six,
oh kmod, or you can text bmms and whatever that
is to eight two nine four five. This says, I
need some wisdom here. I've got a problem. Every time
my wife and I get into an argument, big or small,
she drops the D word, yeah, divorce. It's like her
go to weapon in the heat of battle. Now, don't
get me wrong, I'm no saint. I've got my flaws,

(01:12:34):
but I'm working on them. But hearing that word tossed
around so casually, it's like a sucker punch to the
gut every time. Marriage is supposed to be about riding
out the storms together, not threatening to jump ship when
the waters get rough. How do you handle it when
the person you love the most pulls the nuclear option
in a fight? How do I steer the ship back
on course without letting it sink under the weight of

(01:12:54):
those words.

Speaker 1 (01:12:55):
I'm not ready to give up. I could use some perspective, or.

Speaker 7 (01:12:58):
Even just a reminder that I'm not the only only
one fighting to keep it all together. Listener email from
someone who says that when they're arguing with their partner,
they like to they like to throw the baby.

Speaker 1 (01:13:10):
Out with the bathwater. Mm hmm, Yeah, you want to
get divorced. Huh, that's interesting. Do you, Lindsey? You and
your husband have ground rules for fighting?

Speaker 6 (01:13:21):
We do now because that used to happen a lot
in the beginning of our marriage.

Speaker 1 (01:13:26):
If there was a fight, someone would say divorce.

Speaker 6 (01:13:28):
Yeah, wow, wasn't me.

Speaker 7 (01:13:31):
I'm glad you've vindicated yourself. Gimby, when you were married,
did you have ground rules for arguing?

Speaker 1 (01:13:37):
No, there really wasn't any arguments.

Speaker 7 (01:13:40):
Yeah, my wife and I don't really argue that much,
but we do have ground rules.

Speaker 1 (01:13:44):
Should that come up? Yeah, never rually anything, should that
come up? You know it just you know, if it happened,
it happened. I guess the only Really, it really wasn't
a rule. It was just an unspoken thing.

Speaker 7 (01:13:56):
Just walk away and then come back, you know, cool
things down a little bit. So phrases like that don't
get thrown around, right right, Yeah, Because argue it can
spiral pretty fast. I think one of the most interesting
things about couples when they argue is how quickly you
protect your side. Yeah, instead of talking about the idea

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of this is a together thing. This isn't a you
and you versus me thing. It's not like work we
have a problem with a co worker or your boss.
It is we're in this together, and you take it
personally and then you start, you know, taking shots across the.

Speaker 1 (01:14:40):
Bow, right like, oh yeah, well you're fat.

Speaker 7 (01:14:45):
And stech says. My wife did that in every argument
for almost two years. Finally I went and filed for
divorce and she was shocked when I presented her with
the papers. Another one sounds like she's already checked out.
You should surprise her and file first, or man up
and tell her she can't keep using that as a threat.

(01:15:07):
Another one, I think this person sends us every week,
what's her name, I'll talk to her. I think going
to file paper like file like paperwork is an expensive Aha. Yeah,
that feels like, Oh, that feels like you're getting it.
You're wrestling with the pig. Yeah, you're just getting uddy.

Speaker 6 (01:15:28):
It feels like you could get the point across the
same way just by leaving the name and number of
an attorney on the countertop or something.

Speaker 1 (01:15:36):
Okay.

Speaker 7 (01:15:37):
Another one, you want to file for divorce by felicia.
See you don't let the door hit you in the
on the way out. Another one, get your financial house
in order, consult a lawyer and call her bluff. Life
is too short to be unhappy and living under threat.
Beat her to it. Choose happiness. Uh yeah, life is

(01:15:59):
too short to deal with unhappiness. But to me, there's
a thing of between unhappiness and should we work on it?

Speaker 3 (01:16:07):
Right?

Speaker 6 (01:16:07):
Right? It doesn't sound like he's not happy with his wife.
He just doesn't like the way his wife argues, which.

Speaker 1 (01:16:14):
Is makes him unhappy. Right.

Speaker 6 (01:16:16):
Sure?

Speaker 1 (01:16:16):
I didn't say in that even how long they'd been together,
did it? Did not?

Speaker 7 (01:16:19):
I didn't think so should that matter like one way
or another? You know, I was thinking with Lindsey's story
and with this text message. You know, for almost two
years and in the beginning for the first couple of years.
And maybe that's just the thing that you know, some
couples do in the beginning because they don't know how
to handle their emotions or how to work through that

(01:16:41):
kind of trouble, so they just go for the easy
jab or the easy you.

Speaker 6 (01:16:46):
Know, right, it feels it feels like throwing that word
out is a quick way to end an argument, like, well,
I better not have this argument if they're going to
just threaten me with divorce.

Speaker 1 (01:16:57):
Or if you're conditioned to think that's what happens when
agreements happening wrong, it's true too, like you're like, let
me cut to the chase, right, instead of trying to
work it out. There's oh, we're gonna get divorce then yeah, No,
I just want you to pick up your socks. That's it.
I'm calling Jeff. This says maybe you should stop.

Speaker 7 (01:17:16):
You should figure out how to stop arguing and divorce
won't get brought up. My wife and I do not argue.
It's pointless. I here's the problem with that. Argue can
look like many different things. You hear the word argue,
and whatever that definition is to you, your perspective of
it is what you envision. But an argue can be

(01:17:38):
a conversation, a discussion. It isn't necessarily like no, you're dumb, No,
you're dumb, right right. They can be like, hey, I
think we should go to Disney World, and the other
go I think we should go to Da Da Da.

Speaker 1 (01:17:48):
Well, I want a divorce. Yeah, right, there's a little disagreement.
It's more of a douce, That's what I'm saying. It's
light mayo, it's light mayo. Right.

Speaker 7 (01:17:57):
My wife filed for divorce, but now she's says she
regrets doing it now that we're divorced.

Speaker 1 (01:18:04):
Oh wow, good for you. Yeah, purely the grass was
not greener for her.

Speaker 6 (01:18:09):
And I think in the beginning you don't know how
to argue with your partner. Everything's new. You go from
being a dating couple to a married couple living with
one another, and things happen and you're like, uh, I
don't know that. There's no roadmap, and so you want
to shut it down. You say things you don't mean,
and you learn how to have arguments in a more

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calm matter.

Speaker 7 (01:18:33):
I'll do you one better. You learn how the other
one wants to do it. Yes, you don't learn the
right way.

Speaker 1 (01:18:39):
To do it.

Speaker 7 (01:18:40):
We don't teach people to have discussions. We don't teach
people to have disagreements in school. We don't teach people
to have, you know, discourse.

Speaker 1 (01:18:50):
Over a topic, right, And so you just go with
whatever you're taught at home, and you think that's the
right way.

Speaker 6 (01:18:58):
And I know that they are. They do have like
pre marriage counseling or sessions that couples do go to.
I didn't go to one of those, but I know
they and maybe that's one of the things that they
teach you, is how to work out a disagreement without
being they I've.

Speaker 1 (01:19:12):
Been to them. They absolutely do well. My wife and
I got married.

Speaker 7 (01:19:15):
We knew second marriage statistically not awesome, doesn't end well,
and we were committed to doing the best we could
with it, and so we went to two different seminars.

Speaker 1 (01:19:25):
They were awesome.

Speaker 7 (01:19:27):
They taught some things you're like, I guess I never
thought about it that way, and it creates a base
point should things go south, we can go back to
the Hey, remember we did this thing.

Speaker 1 (01:19:37):
Can we get back to that?

Speaker 6 (01:19:38):
Right?

Speaker 7 (01:19:39):
Uh, make her her head spin, treat her like a queen.
So you don't have to argue. I just because you
treat someone really well doesn't mean they don't want to.

Speaker 1 (01:19:50):
Argue, right. They may just take advantage of you.

Speaker 7 (01:19:55):
They may or they may still be a grouch. Just
because you treat saidone awesome doesn't mean they stopped being
a grouch. Maybe you should figure out how to stop
arguing and divorce won't get brought up my wife or not,
it's pointless. We throw that one reasonable answer. She's going
for the throat in every argument. If you want to
save this marriage, you probably need some professional help. Nuclear answer,

(01:20:18):
call her bluff, have the papers drawn up, and next
time she throws that out there, hand them to her.

Speaker 1 (01:20:22):
Boom from the top rope.

Speaker 7 (01:20:25):
No comment about something on a desk, huh, maybe I
don't own a desk at home kitchen table. We used
to argue ten years ago. She left one night and
I said see you later. She was shocked that I
was going to let her leave. I told her that
I was not going to be in a relationship full
of fights and disagreements. Been perfect ever since. Yeah, kind

(01:20:46):
of like when a kid's going well, I'll just run away.
Let me get your.

Speaker 6 (01:20:50):
Backpack, right, Well, that happened to me as a kid.

Speaker 1 (01:20:53):
Let me. You tried to run away?

Speaker 6 (01:20:54):
I said, I just want to run away. My dad
was like, I'll help you back. And we walked up
to my room. He grabbed a suitcase and started on
stuff in it, and he looks back at me, and
I'm bawling my shs out, and he's like, what's wrong?
I really believe? Like, Oh, I can't believe you would
let me go. Well, if you don't want to be here,
and if you're gonna be here, you're gonna live by

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my rules.

Speaker 7 (01:21:15):
What a weird way to celebrate your sixteenth birthday.

Speaker 1 (01:21:19):
How old were you? Oh?

Speaker 6 (01:21:20):
I was probably nine, maybe ten? Yeah? Young?

Speaker 1 (01:21:26):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (01:21:27):
Are arguing is a really like some people think that's healthy,
right to argue in a relationship, Like you're not really
in a relationship until you're arguing. I'm sure it is
all the time, though, oh maybe every now and again.
It's good to get that out.

Speaker 1 (01:21:42):
I mean, I think it's I think it's normal with
two different people, have two different backgrounds, have disagreements.

Speaker 7 (01:21:47):
I think that's normal. Sure, I don't necessarily know if
arguing is normal. I don't know if arguing makes it
a healthy relationship. You have two people with two different brings.
It's only logical that I think that you're gonna not
see things the same way.

Speaker 6 (01:22:05):
Right, you're gonna bump heads.

Speaker 1 (01:22:07):
I don't even think you're just not gonna see things
the same way. Yeah, bump heads implies two animals hitting horns. Yeah,
I don't think that has to be that way. You
can just go you know, it's a disagreement, It doesn't
have to be an argument.

Speaker 7 (01:22:22):
Argument sounds like such an aggressive term, right, Uh can
you read the Emailgan? I can thank you for the prompt.
I love that this email says I need some wisdom here.
I got a problem. Every time my wife and I
get into an argument, big or small, she drops the
D word. Yeah, divorce. It's like her go to weapon

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in the heat of battle. Now, don't get me wrong,
I'm no saying I've got my flaws and I'm working
on them. But hearing that word tossed around so casually,
it's like a sucker punch to the gut every time.
Marriage is supposed to be about riding out the storms together,
not threatening to jump ship when the waters get rough.
How do you handle it when the person you love
most pulls the nuclear option?

Speaker 1 (01:23:02):
In a fight.

Speaker 7 (01:23:02):
How do I steer the ship back on course without
letting it sink under the weight of those words.

Speaker 1 (01:23:07):
I'm not ready to give up. I could use some
perspective or just a reminder that I'm not the only
one fighting to keep it all together. What do you think, lindsay?

Speaker 6 (01:23:16):
I think that over time that's a marriage is always work,
hard or easy, it's still work, and over time you
learn how to communicate with your partner. I think they
definitely need to set some boundaries when things get heated.
Maybe it is taking a moment and walking away from
the situation and thinking for yourself alone and then coming

(01:23:40):
back to it so you don't throw or throw around
words like divorce because that word can hurt, and whether
you mean it or not, it's still being said. So
he's thinking that that's what she wants to do every
time they argue, and that's they simply need some sort
of boundary. If we're going to get heated, we can't

(01:24:00):
be throwing around words like this because it hurts and
I want to work on this marriage. We're going to
disagree sometimes we have to work at it calmly. So
set some boundaries with her.

Speaker 1 (01:24:13):
GIMPI I say call her on her as man. You know,
have those papers ready. You can go to the law
library at any public library and you can get the
proper forms. You don't have to hire a lawyer for
all that, right, because again you're just calling her bluff.
And I think if she's like fine and then signs

(01:24:36):
them and you got your answer right there, she was
ready to go right, you'd have to go, well, those
aren't real ones.

Speaker 7 (01:24:42):
Let me go get right exactly, you know, And it's
too late to I already see where your heart's at
in this, so bye.

Speaker 1 (01:24:48):
Yeah, it's just me.

Speaker 7 (01:24:50):
I would say that if she's thrown the If you're
in a conversation about your socks on the floor and
she throws around the word divorce, that's a different conversation.
We're now not talking about the socks. You're saying you
don't want to be with me anymore. We are not
rowing in the same direction. Is saying that keep us

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moving forward as a couple. That's it Because to me,
when we're having a discussion about you want steak and
I want chicken for dinner, and you're getting heated and
then you're like, well, now you want to divorce me?
WHOA that feels a little aggressive and reminding, like, hey,

(01:25:33):
I'm on your team. This doesn't feel like we're on
a team. When you say that might jar the thing together.
And I would imagine if they really wanted to be
with you, they go, you're right, I just say that.

Speaker 1 (01:25:44):
When I get angry. Okay, can we not?

Speaker 7 (01:25:48):
Can you say Rumpelstiltskin instead, so I know you're upset
rather than just try to cut us down or cut
me down, why don't you just call me fatty?

Speaker 1 (01:26:00):
Because it hurts the same, like I want to be
in this with you. She's a cheating horror get out
while you still can't. Okay, hey fatty?

Speaker 7 (01:26:07):
Somebody did text in and say that if she's quick
to throw the divorce around, she's quick to cheat. I
don't think those two are connected.

Speaker 1 (01:26:15):
No, they could be. They could be, but not necessarily.
Or here's a wild take.

Speaker 7 (01:26:23):
In my psychology hobby world, It's possible she may not
feel like she's worthy of being in a relationship with you,
and when things get tough, like a disagreement over socks,
she may do some self preservation and try to end
it to not get hurt. It's possible, so it may

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be more of a cry for help than in a
learned condition because of past whatever's than an actual she
wants to divorce you.

Speaker 1 (01:26:56):
Throwing the divorce word around. Whoof rough? All right, we
got to take a break.

Speaker 7 (01:27:01):
You can always email us a show at kmod dot com.

Speaker 9 (01:27:04):
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Speaker 7 (01:27:20):
Good morning, It's the Big Mad Morning Show and I'm
on eight four six oh. KMOD. Can also text bmmass
and then what you want to say to eat?

Speaker 1 (01:27:29):
Eight two nine. That's all the thing. I don't know
if this is true, But do you know Ethan Hawk's
living here? What?

Speaker 7 (01:27:38):
I know he he's been in town a lot, but
I didn't know that he was living here. I know
he's been spotted, there's people been taking picture, he's posted
on Facebook or whatever, but I didn't know he was
living here. Apparently he's shooting a series, but he's like
not just you know, coming going, Like when Stallone was here,
he would do a little bit and then be gone.

Speaker 1 (01:27:56):
Right, He's got a house and making a home out
of it. I guess I don't know. Well, that's cool.
James Franco too, By the way, see I didn't know
that that's interesting.

Speaker 7 (01:28:05):
He was working with a local artists and have been
doing this art thing, and now they're on tour with
this art thing.

Speaker 1 (01:28:10):
Huh. You know, I see a lot of celebrity picks
around here in town, you know, and I'm like, I
wouldn't recognize them out in the wild, you know what
I mean? Because I look, I would be like, I
would love to run into some of these people, Dude,
I think they'd be fantastic. I think the only one
that I probably would recognize out in the wild would
be Sylvester Stallone because he is so you I want

(01:28:33):
to say unique, but you know what he looks like.
You know, ethan Hawk. You put on a hat and
a car heard jacket, like I've seen him in pictures.
He looks like a regular Joe. Well, no, I think
that that's fair.

Speaker 7 (01:28:43):
They're not going to be wearing a suit and their
face chiseled out and like he's got.

Speaker 1 (01:28:48):
A beard and he's.

Speaker 7 (01:28:50):
Trying to blend in right, right, Like if Arnold Schwarzenegger
came and told us to hang out for whatever reason,
I don't know, it would recognize I don't know, I
don't know if you would based off that same statement
holds true for him and Sylvester Stallone, Like he's not
gonna be wearing some you know, Italian suit, you know,
looking all squared shoulders. But he's got very distinct features,
especially in his face, that I think you would recognize

(01:29:13):
like Sylvester Stallone, unlike you know, James Frank or Ethan
Hawk if they're dressed down. And also I don't really
look at people's faces when I'm walking around.

Speaker 1 (01:29:26):
I don't.

Speaker 7 (01:29:27):
I might glance up. If I glance up, and it
registers instantly. But like people saying they seeing Ethan Hawk
at Target, and you're like people getting picked one picture
and boom, it's off.

Speaker 1 (01:29:42):
Right.

Speaker 7 (01:29:42):
You do one photo and then everybody's like, hey, who's that?
And then you get people taking photos with him and
they're like, who are you?

Speaker 1 (01:29:49):
I seen everybody take a picture to want it in
on it? Hey, listen.

Speaker 7 (01:29:52):
I would love to talk to Ethan Hawk. I think
he's awesome. He is very interesting individual. Great Expectations is
one my favorite movies I've ever done.

Speaker 6 (01:30:02):
What was the last movie he was in was on
the Netflix one with Julie Roberts.

Speaker 7 (01:30:08):
Okay, I think there's probably been in a couple others
since then, because that movie's.

Speaker 1 (01:30:12):
A couple of years old.

Speaker 6 (01:30:13):
No, that was last year.

Speaker 1 (01:30:14):
You may have watched it last year.

Speaker 7 (01:30:17):
But to me, like he's got an interesting story arc
that isn't normal, So it'd be fun to talk to
him about that. Anyway, we're doing listener emails. You can
always email us show at kmod dot com. Show at
kmod dot com. This email says, my wife's been out
of work for over a year now and she's been
grinding applications flying out every week, but no interviews.

Speaker 1 (01:30:38):
She's putting in.

Speaker 7 (01:30:39):
The effort, but it looks but it's like she's throwing
rocks into the ocean and waiting to hear a splash.

Speaker 1 (01:30:45):
I see how much this is wearing on her.

Speaker 7 (01:30:46):
She's tough, no doubt, but even the strongest can feel
the weight of rejection after a while. I want to
support her, but I'm stuck between being her cheerleader and
feeling like I should be doing more to help.

Speaker 1 (01:30:57):
So what do I do here?

Speaker 7 (01:30:58):
How do I keep her spear it's up without sounding
like a broken record, or it'll happen eventually. Is there
some way to shake her up, shake up her strategy
or maybe even help her see the light at the
end of the tunnel. She's smart, talented, has so much
to offer, but it feels like the world's just not
seeing it. And honestly, watching her fight this fight is

(01:31:19):
breaking my heart. Any tips, advice, or even just a
fresh perspective would be awesome. Listener email from a guy
whose wife has been applying for jobs and hasn't gotten one,
and he wants to keep being her cheerleader, but he
also doesn't know how to keep supporting her through the rejection.

Speaker 1 (01:31:39):
What can you do?

Speaker 6 (01:31:39):
Yeah, rejection is hard.

Speaker 1 (01:31:41):
Rejection is hard. What's her name? I'll talk to her.
Damn it. We barely got through the the email.

Speaker 3 (01:31:53):
Right.

Speaker 7 (01:31:53):
Maybe she doesn't Oh, I didn't even think about it.
Maybe she doesn't want a job. Okay, Maybe maybe she's
getting responses and telling him nah that she's not What
do you mean by that? I mean, just because you
see me working on you know, an application or something,
doesn't mean I'm turning it in.

Speaker 1 (01:32:15):
Right, that's true.

Speaker 6 (01:32:17):
Or she's making excuses not to get to take the
job because she doesn't want to work.

Speaker 1 (01:32:23):
That's another one that I could see that more so
than anything else, you know, I've always said, you know, oh,
I'm bro there's no jobs out there. BS go to McDonald's,
go shovel some fries. You know, well, I can't do that.
That's beneath me. Yeah.

Speaker 7 (01:32:38):
But even let's go with that for a second, because
you and I share that same sentiment. But if you
have been working at a bank, yeah, and you get fired,
they're not just gonna hire you.

Speaker 1 (01:32:50):
They're gonna be like, why do you want this job?

Speaker 7 (01:32:52):
This is much lower than what you were doing, And
you can tell them I just need a job, right.
But if they think you're gonna jump ship when you
finally get another banking job, they may not hire you.

Speaker 1 (01:33:04):
That is true, that's a chance you're gonna have to take.

Speaker 7 (01:33:06):
But I guarantee you there's other places after that would
hire you, whether you jump ship or not. This one
says maybe your wife needs a new skill set.

Speaker 1 (01:33:18):
Doesn't sound like she is qualified. That's possibility she.

Speaker 7 (01:33:23):
Only wants the perfect job and is turning anything else
down and refuses to take something temporary until they get
that perfect job.

Speaker 1 (01:33:31):
I don't know if this is true.

Speaker 7 (01:33:32):
I've always thought temporary jobs you could get pretty easily.

Speaker 1 (01:33:35):
Yeah, it's a temp job. It ain't awesome, but it
gets money in your pocket. That's what pay the bills.

Speaker 7 (01:33:42):
Yeah, and someone does kind of the legwork for you.
And when you meet with a temp agency, they are
going to help you and try. They want to get
you a job, so they get paid. So that is
definitely an interesting text. Come in only accept pretty much everybody,
and she would get to be her own boss. I

(01:34:05):
can understand why anybody in their twenties would do an
only fans, I get it.

Speaker 1 (01:34:12):
And if you have.

Speaker 7 (01:34:14):
No boundaries, having an only fans to sell pictures of
your feet, I think people would eat that up.

Speaker 1 (01:34:23):
So maybe that isn't the worst scenario. Who do we
got online? One a guy named Ryle ry al Hi, Ryle?
How are you?

Speaker 3 (01:34:32):
I'm good? How are you sir?

Speaker 1 (01:34:33):
Good? Sarah? What do you got for us?

Speaker 3 (01:34:36):
So the I was listening to one of the emails
that somebody sent you. The husband is trying to sport
the wife and she's putting in all these job applications
and everything. Yeah, so it come to realization because I'm
doing the same thing for my fiance and you know,
we just recently gotten a car wreck. But you know,

(01:35:01):
y'all are saying that she may not want the job,
but I mean sometimes you look at it through woman's eyes.
What if what if she really wants this job, you know,
like or what if she just wants a job in
general to help support her husband and their family together,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 7 (01:35:19):
Yeah, but if someone wants a job just to support
then they'll just go get one, as Gimpie pointed out,
shoveling fries.

Speaker 3 (01:35:27):
Right right right, And there's there's nothing wrong with that.

Speaker 11 (01:35:30):
I mean, you know, he could be or she could
be shoveling fries at McDonald's, and he could he could
still love her to the fullest.

Speaker 1 (01:35:41):
Of course, how long has your fiance been without a job? Right?

Speaker 3 (01:35:46):
And you know, I mean it's like I said, me
and my wife we got in a car act Saturday.
But you know, she came into my life at my lowest.
I was in and out of jobs. I was at
dead end job driving a semi five days a week,
fifty hours a week, you know, And she didn't see
it through my eyes. And I do everything that I

(01:36:06):
can to help and love and support her, and she
does the same for me. And last night we had
a deep, deep discussion on our imperfections, and you know,
she was supposed to have a job Monday and she didn't.
Well it's because she hain't got a car. And her
her boss that she was supposed to work for or

(01:36:28):
understood her and was like, well, if you need help
with any any type of transportation, let me know. And
we talked and she was like, you know, she said,
I think it's best for me to move home and
use mom and Dad's vehicles for a little bit and
then you know, we can move back in, which is
which is fine with me, because we just we haven't

(01:36:52):
had a break, we haven't had time to relax with
each other, and you know, so it's not that I'm
not trying to defend her. I'm not trying to defend him.
If he's showing the love and support, then he needs
to keep doing so. And that's that's what a man
should do. In my opinion, all you're there for a

(01:37:13):
woman is to love and support and show her all
the love that you can give.

Speaker 1 (01:37:21):
Right on, man, I hope everything works out with you
and your fiance.

Speaker 3 (01:37:25):
Yes, sir, thank you guys very much. I've been a
big fan of the show, and I just figured i'd
had to call and say something.

Speaker 1 (01:37:31):
I love it, man, thank you so much for sharing.
Good luck with everything, friend.

Speaker 3 (01:37:35):
Yes, sir, y'all take care of you.

Speaker 1 (01:37:40):
All right, Corey is on. Hi Corey, how are you?

Speaker 10 (01:37:44):
I'm good, y'all good.

Speaker 1 (01:37:45):
What do you got, sir?

Speaker 10 (01:37:48):
The way I did it? My girl, she lost her job,
what you know, and she's having trouble herself finding her
niche in the industry or whatnot. So I got a
better job until she wants to I'm doing Oh I'm
listening to the radio to saying that my pat but yeah,
I'm I just got a better job. So while she

(01:38:10):
finds her nitch in the industry, I feel like I
love her enough to get something better so she can
find where she wants to be in the world.

Speaker 1 (01:38:17):
How long has she been without how long has she
been without?

Speaker 10 (01:38:21):
A year?

Speaker 1 (01:38:22):
A year? How long will you let her go without
a job?

Speaker 10 (01:38:26):
About maybe six more months?

Speaker 1 (01:38:30):
So you're saying there's a limit, there's a cap.

Speaker 10 (01:38:34):
Yeah, I am a moneymaker, I'm from Vegas. But it's
it's there's a there's a there's a limit where I
see her just sitting chilling, you know, But and.

Speaker 7 (01:38:41):
What does she do during the day while you're out
busting your ass supporting her.

Speaker 10 (01:38:46):
She definitely uh gets on TikTok a lot, which aggravates
me a little bit, But she does for a lot
of applications and she is going to school, so it's
not like she's not completely not trying at all, you know,
she is. She she wants to be somewhere, and she
quit a couple of good jobs with aggravating me a
little bit, but she's still trying.

Speaker 1 (01:39:04):
Right, Ultimately, what control do you have over the situation?

Speaker 10 (01:39:09):
Six months and I'm going back to Vegas?

Speaker 1 (01:39:13):
You'll just up. So how long have you been with her?

Speaker 10 (01:39:16):
Nine years?

Speaker 7 (01:39:17):
You will end a nine year relationship in six months?

Speaker 10 (01:39:21):
You're a damn right, I've been I've been sitting like
she's been chilling for a year, right, And I gave
her that year. I told her, yo, I'll give you
a year and a half. And I told her at
the beginning of this, you know, like I know that
you want to be somewhere, and you know everybody has
the right to I jumped ten dollars up from where
I was making to let her sit, you know, And

(01:39:42):
she's just been doing it and I'm not mad at
it at all. But she kind of.

Speaker 1 (01:39:47):
Mad at it. You're kind of mad at it, dude,
you're going to throw a relationship out the window.

Speaker 10 (01:39:52):
Oh I'm I mean, you know it's been a year,
but yeah, you know, when you're sitting there working a
forty plus hour week job and you have to come
home growing dinner ain't on the table sometimes, you know
it really ain't because I usually cook. So I mean,
I'm one of those do it all guys.

Speaker 1 (01:40:06):
Would be different if the house, if you came home
from work in the house was clean and she got
dinner ready and she got you up in my tail,
you'd be all right with her not working at all.

Speaker 10 (01:40:16):
Damn right, Well, then tell her that then, oh sure
he knows that, so she knows six months is going down.
So like, I know she's trying. So I'm I'm probably
just so like acting hard or nothing. But I mean,
I'm probably not gonna leave her in six months.

Speaker 1 (01:40:31):
But literally, I thought you were from Venus. Man, ain't
no pussies from VA.

Speaker 10 (01:40:37):
I mean, I'm I mean, I'm not cold like that.
I just couldn't leave it. And we got like, you know,
like a Savannah cat and all that stuff. So it's
like you know we got do it for the cat.

Speaker 1 (01:40:50):
Yeah, right on the pussy thing, but I appreciate your calling. Man,
have a good day, friend that later, all right, And
like easily the weirdest phones we've ever had. A listener
email from a guy whose wife has been out of

(01:41:10):
work over a year now and she's been grinding applications,
flying out every week, but no interviews. She's putting in
the effort, but it's like she's throwing rocks into the
ocean and waiting for her splash fast forward it.

Speaker 7 (01:41:20):
She's smart and talented and has so much to offer,
but it feels like the world's just not seen it.
And honestly, watching her fight this fight is breaking my heart.
Any tips, advice, or even just a fresh perspective would
mean the world right now.

Speaker 6 (01:41:34):
Lindsey, Well, it sounds like he is being very supportive,
And I mean, I think patience is key. When I've
lost jobs in the past, I've freaked out and felt
like I have to find something right away instantly, and
she might be feeling that too, but it is it's

(01:41:56):
a struggle, but some you just got to be patient
and maybe call around about headhunter if those are still
in existence, and see what they can do for you
or her.

Speaker 1 (01:42:10):
Gimbi, I think he's doing everything that he can and
that he should. I mean he's trying to be supportive.
I think he's getting tired of being supportive though. That's
probably what it is. What can you do, well, you know,
tell her that there's plenty of jobs out there. It
may not be what you're looking for, it may not

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be your ideal job, but it's something for now, you know,
and go out there shovel fries for a little while
while you're continuing to put in resumes at other places
to get that dream job. At least it's something gets
you out the house. You know, why not be an
Uber driver or an instacart driver. You know, Uber eats

(01:42:52):
something to that effect. That's making money, putting it in
your pocket. And it's not backbreaking work either.

Speaker 7 (01:42:58):
Okay, people that the Walmart delivery drivers stuff like it.
There's plenty of options out there.

Speaker 1 (01:43:07):
This Texa came in. There's my dog right there.

Speaker 7 (01:43:10):
Bro said he fed up with it, lmao, never mind,
he puss.

Speaker 1 (01:43:19):
Man.

Speaker 7 (01:43:20):
I guess my first feeling on it is no interviews
in a year, sums up, not something up to like
she's being deceptive. Sums up. That doesn't make sense. She's
not even get an interview, and she asking to be
a nuclear physicist and she's never went to school, right,
Like something main adding up, that's not how the system works.

(01:43:43):
She could be overshooting because she wants to make six
figures or nine whatever.

Speaker 1 (01:43:49):
I'm just saying.

Speaker 7 (01:43:50):
She may not want to hear that from you though,
with your fancy job, so that is delicate.

Speaker 1 (01:43:58):
Oh good, I.

Speaker 7 (01:44:00):
Think ultimately, ultimately for me, it ain't your thing to fix.
You can ask her where can I help you? Do
you need my assistance? But beyond that, you got to
just be supportive. You can't make another person do things

(01:44:21):
you just can't. If who's got her ear, her mom,
her best friend, maybe they can help. You. Don't want
to be the wedge. She already feels probably insecure, and
now you're gonna try and tell her what to do.
That ain't gonna help.

Speaker 1 (01:44:38):
Uh.

Speaker 7 (01:44:39):
Go with the uh there's the golden rule, right, but
kind of go with the golden you rule, which is,
how would you want her to treat you and then
do that? Maybe she wants someone to just give her
a job. I see on neighborhood facebook pages all the time,
people going I need someone to watch my cat. Yeah,

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was Savannah Cat. He ain't gonna need any help because
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Speaker 7 (01:47:47):
The question was I finally get to see kid Rock
in April. Been a want of mine forever. My wife
bought us tickets for my birthday last week. My question is,
have you guys ever seen him? I know all of
his old music. How were his concerts, Lindsey.

Speaker 6 (01:48:02):
I wouldn't know how his concerts are. I have heard
the show a few years back when he was here
in town, that the venue ran out of beer before
before the cutoff time, and that a couple in the
front row had gotten kicked out for having sex during

(01:48:23):
the show.

Speaker 1 (01:48:25):
So I gotta be honest, I don't believe any of that.
I don't believe a couple got kicked out for having
sex in the front.

Speaker 7 (01:48:30):
Row because the security is right there. It would never
get that far, and how boring is the show?

Speaker 1 (01:48:38):
Right? Maybe they were hopped up on ecstasy.

Speaker 7 (01:48:43):
And you don't have to be completely naked. No, she
could have been wearing a short skirt and a loll
His junk would have to be out. It could be concealed.
I had sex and a DJ booth. They could do
it with the concert with the blocking of a booth. Ah,
there's still the back end was open. People go walk

(01:49:06):
up and see what's going on.

Speaker 1 (01:49:07):
This says that he was here in twenty eighteen, was
his last show. I don't know if that's I don't
know if that's accurate or not. And then this says,
I don't even know where this is. Oh, he's gonna
be down in He's gonna be in Wichita in April.

(01:49:28):
That must be the show, Jimmy, what about you? Have
you ever seen him? How's the show? Yeah, I've seen
him a couple of times. It's a great show. If
you're a fan of kid rock, you're going to like it.
That's all that there is to it. I mean, there
is a slight chance. And I say this from experience.
I'm a huge fan of Stony LaRue and I went
and saw that cat three times before I finally said,

(01:49:48):
all right, this sucks.

Speaker 7 (01:49:51):
These shows that you're doing are not near what I
was expecting. I was expecting something totally different and awesome,
like Live a Billy Bob's and this is hot herbage. Right,
So there is a chance that he could totally suck ass,
but I doubt it.

Speaker 1 (01:50:10):
Yeah, his show's good.

Speaker 7 (01:50:12):
If you like him, I think that you shouldn't have
a problem in joining his show.

Speaker 1 (01:50:19):
But I think Gibbie's right. What is he playing? What
his what's his set list look like? That's a good question.
We can look that up.

Speaker 7 (01:50:28):
I'm looking at it right now. And he hasn't done
a standalone show. He's been doing like rallies, Inaugural balls, Sturgis,
which you can't. You cannot put Sturgis in the same
line as his other shows. It's a different event. Inaugural balls, rallies,
those are different. You can't not that they would be

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batter good. They just the performance is designed to be different.
And this show is he the last one Magravine. He
played in Ashley, Kentucky in April of twenty twenty four,
and all the songs look like it would be a
good show.

Speaker 1 (01:51:09):
I can't.

Speaker 7 (01:51:09):
He's quite the showman, so I'm confident it would be
a good show. I think I've seen him twice and
each time been like, yeah, that's exactly what I expected
a kid.

Speaker 1 (01:51:19):
Rock show to be. Like, here's one from a country
fest that he did. I'm sure you saw it.

Speaker 7 (01:51:23):
I'm sure we're on the same page back in July
of twenty four, so I'm sure you're gonna get close
to that set list, and it's all the greatest hits,
the Cowboys and the Pictures and the Only God Knows Why.

Speaker 1 (01:51:35):
And the Bow but the Ba Bang Bang to beat.

Speaker 7 (01:51:40):
Yeah, yeah, I can't imagine it would be a bad
show to tell the truth. Anything you want to talk about,
bring up something new, go back to something, Corbin, you're
a narcissist, asshole.

Speaker 1 (01:51:54):
Pus you don't know everything. Well I'll tell you what
I do know.

Speaker 7 (01:51:59):
You don't know anything. I always love when people go,
you're a narcist, you're an asshole. Well then what are
you to think you're better than me? Isn't that a
narcissist attitude to think you're better? And aren't you an
asshole to text in and call someone?

Speaker 6 (01:52:19):
That?

Speaker 1 (01:52:21):
Just an observation.

Speaker 7 (01:52:24):
What movie franchise would you like to see do a
crossover Fast and Furious slash Jurassic Park Muppets slash Jurassic
Park or Jurassic Park slash Sex in the City.

Speaker 1 (01:52:36):
Does it have to evolve Jurassic Park. I think somebody
has got a heart off for dinosaurs over here, I listen.

Speaker 7 (01:52:43):
I think Jurassic Park is a weak franchise of all
the franchises. I think it's pretty weak. What storyline are
you going to advance?

Speaker 6 (01:52:55):
True, there isn't There isn't much there.

Speaker 7 (01:52:58):
It isn't like you know, Fast and Furious, where you
can have different cars, you can go, different venues, different
advancements of the car, celebrity appearances, you know. But like
Jurassic Park, what are you gonna doing involving a velociraptor.

Speaker 1 (01:53:13):
Yeah, Jurassic Park, I fast and Furious consurs raising fast
cars sounds like.

Speaker 6 (01:53:22):
It could be a good time them they wouldn't fit.

Speaker 1 (01:53:25):
I think the dinosaur go what is this? Yeah? What
do you think?

Speaker 6 (01:53:30):
I think the Muppets and Jurassic Park would be the
most humorous fun time Like, Yeah, that'd be good. It'd
be a good probably kids movie at that point.

Speaker 7 (01:53:41):
Okay, dude, there are so many different combinations that you
could use to make an awesome franchise crossover. Let's take
let's take the Muppets and cross them over with the
Saw franchise.

Speaker 6 (01:53:56):
Oh I like it.

Speaker 1 (01:54:01):
Yeah, that's good.

Speaker 7 (01:54:04):
I mean I'm gonna go with Harry Potter and Lord
of the Rings.

Speaker 1 (01:54:10):
Okay, that's the crossover I want to see. You're still
gonna get a three hour movie. Regardless the makeup crew
is gonna be boozy.

Speaker 7 (01:54:20):
Really, Mary Bank kill chicken terryaki, chicken palm or chicken fahidas.
Mary Bank killed chicken teriaki, chicken palm, or chicken fihedas.

Speaker 6 (01:54:32):
Lindsay, I gotta marry chicken fijidas because that's what I
would have the most. I'll bang chicken teraiyaki. I love
me some good teriaki sauce and chicken parmesan. I will
kill because I don't eat it often enough. It's good,
it's fine, but it's a lot of carbs.

Speaker 1 (01:54:56):
GIMPI. I guess I'm gonna go ahead and kill off
the chicken parm Yeah, sure, why not marry me some
pietas and I guess I want to have I'm on
bang the karaokee. I guess there's a lot of chicken chickens,
all right, it's just basic. It's the vanilla of chicken

(01:55:18):
of proteins.

Speaker 7 (01:55:21):
I do not like chicken KARAOKEI, so I'm killing ch
chicken KARAOKEI I'm marrying chicken palm. I've not met a
chicken parm I didn't like. And I'll bang chicken fietas
because I could just push the bell peppers and onions
to the side.

Speaker 1 (01:55:37):
Let's get to work. Just get to work. Not everything
you're interested on a hookup, but you're interested in Sometimes
you're just there for the adventure.

Speaker 6 (01:55:46):
You like chicken parm, But do you like eggplant parm?

Speaker 1 (01:55:49):
A good one, Yeah, but I've had bad egg part.
That is one that I've found many I don't like
because it gets slimy pretty.

Speaker 6 (01:55:55):
How about the veal parm?

Speaker 1 (01:55:56):
Heck, yeah, yeah, I'm not a big deal. They don't
like baby cow not so nice. They just cry less.
They're easier to catch. My whole family has been down
with flu a and I'm finally on the backside. Well,
good for you. What's the most sick you've ever been?

Speaker 6 (01:56:16):
Oh, the most sick I've me.

Speaker 7 (01:56:20):
We're not talking about like a disease that you have
to go to the hospital. I mean you can go
to the hospital, but like, sure, you've.

Speaker 1 (01:56:25):
Ever been hi.

Speaker 6 (01:56:27):
I feel like I feel like the flu is always
the whichever. I don't know if it's a B C,
deary whatever, but when I'm vomiting, every time I vomit,
I cry, and I just feel like, oh, this is
the worst thing ever. And your muscles are aching, and
if it lasts for three days and then you're finally

(01:56:51):
over it, you're like, oh, thank god, I'm in the clear.
But also on the flip side, it's always kind of
I don't want to say nice, but it's like, oh,
I've lost a lot of calories having the flu.

Speaker 1 (01:57:02):
Yeah, it's not a recommended weight loss props.

Speaker 6 (01:57:04):
Right, it's totally not. But I like to see the
cup half full.

Speaker 1 (01:57:09):
I've never had the flu where I vomit and all that.
I've never had that. Gimme yeah, probably the same flu.

Speaker 7 (01:57:15):
I don't get the flu that often, but when I do,
it's it's pretty hardcore, and.

Speaker 1 (01:57:20):
I know when i'm getting it. You know, cigarettes don't
taste the same. I can't smoke pot because it tastes weird.

Speaker 7 (01:57:29):
And then that's when I know, all right, I'm in
for a doozy and then I'm usually down for five
days and then I'm that good. Never really vomiting like
like yourself, like Lindsay said, but it's it still sucks.
When I had COVID twenty twenty was it twenty twenty

(01:57:50):
over Christmas? Which time over Christmas? Like we went on
Christmas break Gimpy gave us COVID and then that's not
I'm just reciting what other people have. Yeah I aren't.
I I just what other people say. But I posted
mantest and I came back clear. Yeah, well you were
over it already, right, and so but that was that

(01:58:12):
was that sucked. That would have been the worst I've
that I can recall. I would be like okay and
like laying on the couch and then I would sleep
for like my wife and I had at the same time,
and we would like sleep for like four or five hours.

Speaker 1 (01:58:26):
And our kids would be like doing whatever.

Speaker 7 (01:58:29):
Yeah, run in the house, and we tried to do Christmas.
We did our best for the girls and stuff. Our
garbage disposal went out the same day. We couldn't use
the dishwasher and we were sick and so we were
serving on paper plates and I had when I finally
felt like I had the energy, I got a garbage

(01:58:52):
disposal delivered from our picked up. I drove the lows
and they put it in my trunk and then I had
to do it like feeling like fifty percent.

Speaker 1 (01:59:02):
And that felt. That sucked pretty bad.

Speaker 7 (01:59:05):
Yeah, that's the one that's sticking out in my brain
because I would just not know what's going on.

Speaker 1 (01:59:10):
I'd be pretty delirious when I had COVID.

Speaker 6 (01:59:12):
I just I got through it with dummies. I was
the only thing I could do. Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 7 (01:59:20):
You get the opportunity to go back in time and
change one detail from your past, do you But to
do so, you have to hang out with your co
workers outside of work.

Speaker 1 (01:59:29):
Do you do it?

Speaker 6 (01:59:31):
Yeah, I'll do it.

Speaker 7 (01:59:32):
I have the opportunity to go back in time change
one detail from your past. But to do so, you
have to hang out with your coworkers outside of work.

Speaker 1 (01:59:37):
Do you do it?

Speaker 6 (01:59:38):
Yeah? I hang out with my co workers outside of
work anyway, I.

Speaker 1 (01:59:42):
Don't Yeah, yeah, not all of them. Just what she likes. Okay,
you've invited listen invited with everyone else in a group.
Invite is not hardly invited. Sure it is might as well. Yeah,
it is a bitch about Yeah exactly.

Speaker 6 (02:00:02):
And what do you go back and change? I go
back and change a couple of things.

Speaker 1 (02:00:06):
I will pick one because that's the question.

Speaker 6 (02:00:08):
It all has to do with my dad. I would
have changed what motorcycle he actually bought, or maybe not
have even had him get one at all. So pick
one he probably Yeah, yeah, I think it was too
much power for him and he should have went with
a cruiser. But I would say I would take away

(02:00:29):
the idea of him even wanting a motorcycle GIMPI.

Speaker 1 (02:00:32):
Oh, yeah, I totally do it anyway. Again, much like Lindsay,
do hang out outside of work sometimes, so far as
which detail would I change, There's a part of me
that like wants my real dad to drop his wallet
like on his way out the door.

Speaker 7 (02:00:50):
There's a part of me that wants that. But again,
I've said it many times. I've gone forty five, almost
forty five years not knowing any good that's a good one,
So I think, like in realistically, realistically.

Speaker 1 (02:01:03):
See, I think the one you picked is good. It is,
it is. But you know, I.

Speaker 7 (02:01:10):
Spent a couple of years with the gal that I
feel was a real waste of my life, and I
would like to get those years back in those recent years.

Speaker 1 (02:01:17):
So you probably know which one I'm talking about. You
actually know. But but yeah, like everything happens for a reason,
I think.

Speaker 7 (02:01:26):
Yeah I would. I wouldn't mind. Here's the deal, I
wouldn't mind cheat hanging out with Lindsay. I wouldn't mind
hanging out with Gimpi outside of the show or anyone else.
I just like my wife and kids more. Uh, And
I would go back to just any moment with my dad.
It doesn't matter what I would change. You go on

(02:01:48):
a two week road trip with anyone from history, alive
or dead, but you have to bring your kids with you.
Who you taking and what are you doing? Oh my god,
I love this question, this quest as I.

Speaker 6 (02:02:00):
Am absolutely one taking my dad and my kids and
we are going on a ski trip.

Speaker 7 (02:02:06):
Okay, I interpreted as like a historical figure, anyone from history,
not your personal history.

Speaker 6 (02:02:15):
M Then I'm not so sure. Yeah, I'm not so
sure who I want to take because I don't really care.
I mean, you know what I mean, Like, there's no
one that my kids have been like, Okay, I'll take

(02:02:36):
Kobe Bryant because my kids like basketball. They we were
just playing categories around the dinner table last night and
he was the first famous basketball player to be brought up.
So I'll take Koby.

Speaker 1 (02:02:48):
Yeah if he's like, all right, but we gotta take
my private helicopter. Oh, he doesn't seem like a road
trip guy, just based off what I know yeah, gimbe totally.

Speaker 7 (02:03:03):
I love this because my kids are all grown up
now we can have a whole lot of fun. So
me and my three kids, we're getting Hunter as Thompson
and we are living fear and loathing in Las Vegas.

Speaker 1 (02:03:15):
Doesn't feel like he would enjoy being around young people.
I mean they're adults, they're young adults. They're young. They're
not like you're bringing a nine and an eighteen year old,
you know what I mean.

Speaker 7 (02:03:25):
So I think that could be a Hunters stems and
never felt like a tolerable person, like he could tolerate people.
He was kind of annoyed by people in general and
how they lived their lives.

Speaker 1 (02:03:36):
So that would be where I'm that's coming from. Do
with that every day. So that's a game.

Speaker 7 (02:03:44):
I'm picking. I'm picking. And Frank, Okay, my kids would
get along with great. She's a kid, they're kids.

Speaker 1 (02:04:03):
They're all kids. Okay, that makes sense. Okay, what would
you What were you thinking? I did? I don't know.
It's not going for me. I was just what are
you gonna do us?

Speaker 7 (02:04:16):
And I was probably in the mindset of this is
you know, time has passed and and Frank has grown up,
you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (02:04:22):
But you're right.

Speaker 7 (02:04:24):
If you're doing that with an Frank that she's now
some adult, then Hunter Us Thompson would be the crypt keeper.

Speaker 1 (02:04:30):
Yeah, it's still fun though.

Speaker 7 (02:04:32):
Last one, Mary bang kill lemons, limes or oranges.

Speaker 6 (02:04:37):
Oh man, this is this is hard. I can't kill
oranges because then I could have mimosas. I mean it could,
but not the original way.

Speaker 1 (02:04:47):
Ah, everybody knows pineapple juice the only hand.

Speaker 6 (02:04:51):
Hey man, I was just thinking that too. I do
love him with m m I guess I could kill oranges.
I do love the smell of oranges, but limes. I
can't do drinks without limes, and lots of good cooking comes.
There's lemon in the recipe. So I'm going to marry limes,
bang lemons, and I guess kill oranges.

Speaker 7 (02:05:13):
Gimbi, Oh, we're killing lemons off absolutely if I can
abolish that fruit, that man made fruit, not even a
natural fruit from the planet, By golly, we're doing it.
Lemons are natural. Lemons are not natural. Lemons are actually
limes that were created by some stupid scientists or whatever.

Speaker 6 (02:05:36):
Blood.

Speaker 1 (02:05:37):
Yeah, look at the lemon trees. Just because there's a
tree doesn't mean anything, right, Lemons, right, right? Right? What
was it?

Speaker 7 (02:05:44):
I was talking with a buddy of mine and he's like,
life doesn't give you lemons because lemons are not natural.

Speaker 1 (02:05:50):
Lemons are man made. Yeah, lemons are man.

Speaker 7 (02:05:52):
Made fruit, created through selective breeding over many centuries. They're
crossed between a citron and a sour orange. Yeah, let's
go ahead and get that Frankenstein creation a hell out
of here.

Speaker 6 (02:06:05):
Huh.

Speaker 1 (02:06:06):
Okay, so kill lemons. Yeah, I'm marrying an orange. Oranges
are solid, man, They're dependable every time. Ores not have
been a moment in time short of this orange has
been sitting on a counter for way too long, and
it's rotten a little bit. I've never been disappointed by
an orange. Okay.

Speaker 7 (02:06:25):
Orange is also great for cleaning. Okay, it's the citrus
that's in it. Lemon's great for more superior. We're killing
the lemons though, I'm I'm just saying, but uh yeah,
I think oranges can be very diverse. They're very delicious,
and they have never let me down. And uh I'll
have a little side fun with lime every now and again.

Speaker 1 (02:06:46):
So let's, you know, come in delicious, little sultry looking line.

Speaker 7 (02:06:52):
This is fun. I'm killing oranges. They're overrated at best.
An orange drink is obviously good, but that's not made
of oranges. It's a simulated orange flavoring, so it's not
the same. Orange juice is not good. It's really sugary
and weird. I'm going to bang lemons because I'm gonna
bang limes because who doesn't love a lime and a cocktail? Yeah,

(02:07:16):
or squeeze on top of tacos or anything else. Now,
a lemon so versatile, so many chicken pikada, chicken scallapinie,
lemon on fish, lemon in a salad, lemon to clean with.
I'm marrying lemon like I need your help, lemon, and
you I don't care. Clearly a man made you because

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you're awesome and men are awesome. H I wanted to
bring this up because this is just a fun question.
Now we'll do it when we come.

Speaker 1 (02:07:46):
Back Elsa's Morning Show. Good Morning, It's the Big Man
Morning Ko. We don't normally do this, but I wanted
to ask this question. Would you rather fight a ninja

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or a pirate? And why would you rather fight a
ninja or a pirate?

Speaker 6 (02:08:17):
And why I'm taking the pirate because more than likely
they'll have me walk the plank and I can swim.

Speaker 7 (02:08:27):
So, just for the record, no one can swim in
the ocean. Now understand that that means you might for
a while.

Speaker 1 (02:08:38):
It's gonna be a long swim back to shore.

Speaker 6 (02:08:40):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:08:40):
Also, I think when you walk the plank, you're tied
up for the most.

Speaker 6 (02:08:45):
Pop in movies.

Speaker 1 (02:08:47):
Okay, the plank is a movie thing. Yeah, gimpim, I'm
fighting the ninja or excuse me, the pirate. For sure.
Ninjas are fast, they're sneaky, are right. I feel like
my chances of beating off a pirate are way better
than beaten off a ninja. Okay, if you look at

(02:09:10):
the history, all right, nin at least all right, let
let me rephrase it. If you look at the TV
and movie history of ninjas and pirates, right, Ninjas are
very nimble. They jump there. Next thing you know, they're
up on the rafters and then they're jumping down and
attacking you from the sky. They got ninja stars that
they throw at you. Not to mention, they're big swords

(02:09:33):
and nunchucks and stuff like that. Okay, So with the pirates,
I mean, you're gonna have to fight a one legged pirate,
sometimes even a one eyed pirate, sometimes even a one
handed pirate because the other hand is a hook.

Speaker 7 (02:09:49):
Okay, So as nasty as as pirates can be, because
you look at them, at least through TV and movie history,
they're gnarly people like just you know, they got the scurvy. Oh,
and they're just dirty. And I feel if I, you know,
I might get tetanus or something. But the ninjas, I think,
are just way smarter, way faster, way more nimble and

(02:10:14):
can cause way more damage. I feel like I got
better chances against a pirates than I do a ninja.

Speaker 1 (02:10:21):
I mean a ninja, a shanobi. Uh. They're highly trained
in tiu jitsu. They are lethal individuals. A water cowboy?
Which one are we talking about? A water cowboy? Are
we talking about? I am the captain now are we talking?

Speaker 9 (02:10:41):
But?

Speaker 1 (02:10:41):
Like?

Speaker 7 (02:10:42):
What kind are we talking here? I think we have
to go with the traditional sense water cowboy? Yes, not
not I am the captain now, because I mean there
was but or but there are real pirates out there, right,
I'm the captain now, yeah, And they have a k's
and guns and stuff like that.

Speaker 1 (02:10:58):
You don't see your hero a line.

Speaker 7 (02:10:59):
Maybe they're on planks either, or cannons. Ninjas you don't
hand they have hand cannons. They have hooks to climb
up on the boat. But you don't hear much from
modern time about ninjas. Well that's secret stealth. Uh So
I would rather fight the water cowboy. I mean tenacious, yes, gritty.

Speaker 1 (02:11:25):
Yes.

Speaker 7 (02:11:25):
Traditionally cowboys when they searched for people to go on
a boat for a mission, if you will, they found
anybody that could take and no one wanted to really
do it, even though back in those days it was
considered to be like cuveted because they all kept journals
and they would come back and then sell their journal

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for money. But they weren't great individuals.

Speaker 1 (02:11:52):
They were really.

Speaker 7 (02:11:54):
Backstabbing drunks a lot of the time, weren't of prime health, right,
but got the rickets. Tenacious yes, gritty, Yes, the guy
you'd want to be around if you're you know, trying
to stay afloat and putting a masked up in the rank. Yes,
climbing up the pole to keep watt yes, crow's nest.

Speaker 1 (02:12:17):
But I've got to pick one of these two. I'm
taking the water cowboy. Yeah, because all I gotta do is.

Speaker 7 (02:12:26):
Uh, I don't know, push him down, yeah right, offer
him a drink, and then blindside him.

Speaker 1 (02:12:36):
You guys could be buddies after that. Yeah, who knows.

Speaker 7 (02:12:40):
It feels like my odds would be higher compared to
the guy who knows how to be seen and then
not seen, right, and the guy who knows how to
you know, put me to sleep in two seconds, and
the guy who, unbeknownst to me is throwing us fart.

Speaker 1 (02:12:58):
Even fat ass Chris Arly and Beverly Hills Ninja had
some skills as a ninja, right, I'm just saying. Even Panda.

Speaker 7 (02:13:10):
From Kung Fu Panda, he was a ninja, right, and
he was but ass the uh praying mantis?

Speaker 1 (02:13:20):
But ass right? So ninja?

Speaker 7 (02:13:24):
Oh no, thank you water cowboy. Yes, I'm taking that
for sure. Fun question. Yeah, you think about those. I mean,
there's talk that pirates in the sense that you know
them from movies, didn't exist, that that's not the way
it was, same with ninjas, that it didn't exist. That
there's a question whether ninjas really even existed. The folklore

(02:13:45):
is there, but were they actual people.

Speaker 1 (02:13:49):
Right, weren't they like supposed to be like assassins? Or whatever,
higher disasters. Mercenary which are not people that follow the rules,
more reason to stay wave.

Speaker 7 (02:13:59):
Usually the mercenaries don't have a code of ethics, because
then suddenly you're not a mercenary.

Speaker 1 (02:14:08):
Nobody's a good he's a nice one.

Speaker 7 (02:14:10):
Then we got to give him a different title, right
billyeve the nice mercenary. You just can't say mercenary. Mercenary
has no sympathy, right, They're only out for one thing.
I got some standards. I'll join your militia, right, but
I have some rules. All Right, We got to take
a break.

Speaker 1 (02:14:30):
We'll be back.

Speaker 9 (02:14:32):
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Corbyn prefers a traditional barber shop, and Gimpy prefers a
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and all of this time I thought the only artificial
thing in my kitchen was my enthusiasm for cooking.

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Gimpy, what'd you learn today? I learned that staying with
her for the kitty is different for everyone. And I
also learned that Corbyn wants to take a two week
road trip with three underage girls.

Speaker 7 (02:15:30):
I learned Gimpy can get a blow driver for ten
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Corbyn saying, make sure those dishwashers are loaded.

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Speaker 7 (02:16:53):
So I found this list that this woman shared of
questions her dad asks her before she can invite her
boyfriend over. Oh wow, and I'm curious to you guys'
take on on these What are important personal stories that
shaped who he is today? Okay, I mean I don't

(02:17:17):
I don't hate. I don't hate the idea behind that question,
like do you know him? I think that's what the
you know that dad's trying to get to. I was
almost curious as to that. I kind of figured that's
what the case was. But like, it doesn't say how
long they've been together. No, this is for any This
is just what the dad does before he can invite

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a boy.

Speaker 1 (02:17:41):
Exactly what does that matter?

Speaker 6 (02:17:43):
Well? I mean, is she a thirteen year old with
a boyfriend or right?

Speaker 1 (02:17:49):
How many life experiences does he have?

Speaker 6 (02:17:51):
Right? Is this an adult woman who's hopefully going to
marry this human or.

Speaker 7 (02:17:57):
This guy that I think if it's an adult human,
then this is weird. I think he's trying to like
give her tools to know on whether rather than he's.

Speaker 1 (02:18:08):
Cute, maybe like a sixteen seventeen year old girl. Yeah, okay,
so here's no where did he go to school? And
did he graduate? Okay, so this is definitely after high school?

Speaker 7 (02:18:19):
Then maybe I think these are good questions, Like here,
I'm trying to give you tools for when I'm dead.

Speaker 1 (02:18:26):
Okay another word, or don't.

Speaker 6 (02:18:30):
Waste my time bringing him home. I don't want to
meet him if if you don't know enough about him.

Speaker 7 (02:18:35):
Does he have a family history of diabetes, blood disorders,
sickle cell sickle cell disease.

Speaker 1 (02:18:40):
Or cancers? Now we've taken a turn. Okay, Core, Yeah,
he just got black all of a sudden. Is he black?

Speaker 7 (02:18:46):
The girl that posted this was black? Okay, that makes sense.
Then having those sickle cells?

Speaker 1 (02:18:52):
Absolutely absolutely, you did not preempt us with what race
she was. It doesn't matter, no, but makes sense, it does.
I mean if if it's a white Dad asked if
that could be perceived as extremely racist.

Speaker 7 (02:19:05):
I don't think that's what I'm saying. If I ask
all these diseases, I'm not judging. I'm just covering all
the diseases, all of them.

Speaker 1 (02:19:12):
Has he ever had AIDS? Has he ever had sex?

Speaker 6 (02:19:14):
With medical history?

Speaker 7 (02:19:17):
Which I think is weird. I think there's nothing wrong
with trying to teach your kid like, hey, you get
to know someone, Oh yeah, ask questions. But when you
start going like the next one, does he have any
past surgical procedures? I am not clear on what that
would be important for other than to get to a
deeper layer of information.

Speaker 6 (02:19:37):
Maybe plastic surgery was it?

Speaker 7 (02:19:40):
Well, a lot of men don't have plastic surgery, and
a lot of them aren't spies.

Speaker 6 (02:19:45):
True, But I maybe for you know, if you're thinking
about having children with this person, don't expect them to
necessarily look like that.

Speaker 7 (02:19:53):
Again, I think that question is like a really deep level.
We're trying to get into the third or fourth level
of your life rather than I'm just trying to get
to know you.

Speaker 1 (02:20:03):
Yeah, that question is a little bizarre.

Speaker 7 (02:20:06):
You may be right, But if we're having that question,
I think there's nothing wrong with asking your partner if
they've had surgical procedures, but you're just coming over for dinner.
I don't know if that's an important question rather than
what was your life like?

Speaker 1 (02:20:20):
What was growing up like?

Speaker 7 (02:20:23):
Oh my dad was never there and I was a
latchkey kid and I've never you know.

Speaker 1 (02:20:28):
Used a fork. That kind of shit's important. I think.

Speaker 7 (02:20:34):
When did you start dating him? And how many girls
has he dated prior to you? So I like this question,
and I also don't like this question. I like this
question from a dad's standpoint, I don't like this question
on a I trust you as somebody that is an
offspring of mine.

Speaker 1 (02:20:52):
Right, it feels like I don't trust you. I would
agree with that.

Speaker 7 (02:20:57):
I I don't see what the point of it is
because people, Yeah, it's the past. People date, and sometimes
people date a lot of different people. Sometimes people just
don't date. Maybe just that one person he fell in
love with the first piece of ass.

Speaker 1 (02:21:10):
You got a hold of. Those people do exist. I
don't think it's any of the dad's business. I don't disagree.

Speaker 7 (02:21:16):
I wouldn't ask my daughter that. I know she's dated
people more than just one person.

Speaker 1 (02:21:23):
I think. I don't care.

Speaker 7 (02:21:24):
I think a lot of parents try to parent in
a reactionary way. For example, Hey, I want to bring
this guy i'm dating over, Okay, does he have any.

Speaker 1 (02:21:33):
Past surgical procedures? What's his family history? Does he have sickle?
Sell like, that's not the time to parent.

Speaker 7 (02:21:39):
You know that that is out the window at that point,
and you're not learning anything about the person. To me,
I think their character is way more important the boyfriend
in this case, the character is way more important than
the past surgical procedures or you know, stuff like that,

(02:22:01):
and you don't get to find out. Maybe you can
see what kind of character they are? By asking him
these questions, I agree that character like, what's their character like?
And maybe a question of what personal story shape? You
can kind of give examples of that character, but ultimately
you'll lie, So your character I cannot judge until you

(02:22:22):
are in front of me. Until I see you conduct
yourself in public. That will tell me your character. How
you act when a grandma is on the street corner
trying to cross the street, if you see trash, if
you throw trash on there, You know what I'm saying, Like,
I'm going to start judging your character off those behaviors.
Do you hold the door open for my daughter? I'm

(02:22:44):
judging you in those moments. Another one, What does he
do for a living? That feels like a fair question.
I think there's some primer questions, like to get me
ready for the visit that are fair game.

Speaker 1 (02:22:57):
Hey, what does he do for a living? He's a
he's a copy machine salesman. Okay, well, I mean it's
better than being a crack salesman. I don't know.

Speaker 7 (02:23:10):
One of them you saw a business future, right? One
of them you didn't?

Speaker 1 (02:23:16):
Uh? Who does he live with? Another great question?

Speaker 7 (02:23:20):
Okay, does he still live with his parents. Is he
twenty seven and still living with parents? Okay? Or is
he on his own?

Speaker 1 (02:23:26):
Does he every probably? If he will copy printers or
if he sells crack? Yeah? True? Why did he break
up with his last girlfriend? Again, we're into a question.

Speaker 7 (02:23:37):
I think that you should have had that seed planeted
with your kid a long time ago to get to
know someone and not just go off looks.

Speaker 1 (02:23:45):
But you said it before. What's it matter because they'll
there's a chance, a good chance they'll just lie about it.

Speaker 7 (02:23:51):
Doesn't mean that because someone could lie, you shouldn't try
to find out because then they can go, well you
didn't ask, it's on your.

Speaker 1 (02:24:01):
At least if he goes, oh he dated.

Speaker 7 (02:24:03):
You know, Lindsey, and you go, I know, Lindsay, Lindsay,
did you date George right?

Speaker 1 (02:24:09):
His piece of shit?

Speaker 7 (02:24:10):
Right?

Speaker 3 (02:24:10):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (02:24:11):
Every day? Yeah? Uh? Does he meet make you feel
supported and safe?

Speaker 6 (02:24:18):
It's a good question for a dad to ask a daughter.

Speaker 7 (02:24:21):
Yes, But here's my problem with that question. If she
really likes him and he's I'm just gonna go with
the leather jacket, you know, cigarettes rolled up in the
sleeve kind of ship. Yeah, well yeah, yeah, but that
like that mentality. Ah, she's gonna tell him, yes, a kid,

(02:24:42):
unless you have a solid relationship with your kid, which
if you did, you wouldn't need to ask these questions.
They're they're gonna just say yes, right because they want
to date them.

Speaker 1 (02:24:52):
What do you like most and least about him? I
think that's a great question.

Speaker 7 (02:24:56):
That's probably the best question on that list. And asking
to me like blood work.

Speaker 1 (02:25:05):
Right, it's weird, man, unless it's like looking for like
does he have a family history of cancer, like with
the diabetes or whatever? If I get it, trying to
see if there's long term here. But it's still weird.
It is. It feels a little old school.

Speaker 6 (02:25:23):
Right, like if he did have a history of cancer
in his family, what she's supposed to just dump him?

Speaker 1 (02:25:28):
Yes? Right?

Speaker 7 (02:25:29):
What answer here is going to negate the situation because
a kid, if they really want to date this individual,
is going to circumvent that answer.

Speaker 1 (02:25:37):
Right, And again, I think the works.

Speaker 7 (02:25:41):
You've missed the chance for work by this point, and
to set that stuff up. Yeah, my kid goes, hey,
I want to bring George over. I'm gonna be I'm
gonna be like, great, let me ask you some questions
about George, So I know who he is, right, Not
like I need to approve his visit in a home
we share together, exactly.

Speaker 1 (02:26:00):
You just bring him over and I'll ask him the question.
Now that's a different thing.

Speaker 7 (02:26:05):
I got no problem whoever my daughter dates bringing over
and making them feel uncomfortable.

Speaker 1 (02:26:10):
Right.

Speaker 6 (02:26:10):
My dad was never like I want to make him
feel uncomfortable. Like, sure, he joked about, oh, when you
start dating and bring a guy home, I'm going to
be sure to cleaning my shotguns or something. But he was.
It was very simple for him. If he could hold
a conversation with a guy that I was seeing, then
it was cool. But if he couldn't, if he could
not converse with this gentleman, he wasn't for me.

Speaker 1 (02:26:32):
Okay, So I think that's wild.

Speaker 6 (02:26:34):
Yeah, it was this dead flag, I know, but that's.

Speaker 1 (02:26:36):
Not an accurate red flag.

Speaker 7 (02:26:38):
Meeting the father of somebody you're dating's incredibly nerve wracking, right,
And to put make that be the threshold on whether
they're worthy or not, it's hardly fair.

Speaker 1 (02:26:49):
Right. What if he's just, you know, very charismatic and
knows how to answer the question. Sure, but he did,
right the beaver.

Speaker 6 (02:26:56):
Uh, it did work. I mean there was there's one
guy in particular that I remember that I really crushed on,
really hard, and he could not hold a conversation with me.
It was like he was he was nervous, and it
didn't matter how many times he would come over and
he just My dad was like, I can't get anything

(02:27:16):
out of him, Like, what did he want? He just
wanted to hold a conversation.

Speaker 1 (02:27:21):
Maybe he didn't want to talk to your dad.

Speaker 6 (02:27:22):
Yeah, but it didn't work out, right, But you know.

Speaker 7 (02:27:25):
But in the grand scheme of things, maybe he just
didn't want to talk to your dad, right, Yeah, him
not talking to your dad hardly warranted whether you guys
worked out or not.

Speaker 1 (02:27:35):
Well, I didn't look where they're at now.

Speaker 7 (02:27:37):
No, I get the correlation, right, I get the correlation,
But that doesn't mean anything because maybe your husband met him.
But would he have passed that test. You'd like to
think yes, right, but there's no way to know.

Speaker 6 (02:27:52):
Well, what's weird is the first night that I ran
into my now husband. I was twenty two years old
and at a bar having dinner with my dad, and
Kevin had came up and approached us, and we hadn't
seen each other since high school. And I said, holy shit, Kevin,
what's going on? And he was like, lindsay wow. And

(02:28:13):
then he stuck his hand out and introduced himself to
my dad writer and my dad was like, oh, do
you have is your dad so and so? And he's like, no,
that's my uncle. He's like, oh, we work together. And
they just started chatting, so.

Speaker 7 (02:28:24):
That your dad's yeah, your dad's all went down immediately
because of somebody he knows.

Speaker 1 (02:28:32):
Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 7 (02:28:34):
I'm just saying that those type of things hardly warrant
a real threshold test in relationships, because any of these
questions kids in.

Speaker 1 (02:28:46):
Dating is like wild, Yeah, for sure. I found out yesterday.
Hold on, I got a day.

Speaker 7 (02:28:53):
I found out yesterday somebody I dated in high school died.

Speaker 1 (02:28:58):
Wow?

Speaker 7 (02:29:00):
Right that I told her they died, But I didn't
remind her I dated that.

Speaker 6 (02:29:05):
Oh, I just didn't mean serious when you dated?

Speaker 1 (02:29:11):
What are you talking about? What define serious at that age?

Speaker 6 (02:29:15):
Well? Was it a high school sweetheart?

Speaker 7 (02:29:17):
What does that mean when you say serious? What does
that mean.

Speaker 1 (02:29:21):
At that level? Did we talk about marriage? No? Were
we married? No?

Speaker 6 (02:29:27):
Were you sexually active with her?

Speaker 1 (02:29:29):
I was trying to remember that. I don't recall maybe
that's horrible, but I don't. I don't think so. I
don't think so. I didn't get a handy.

Speaker 7 (02:29:41):
No, No, we had a I think I had a
really great relationship.

Speaker 1 (02:29:48):
I thought we had a Listen. I'm confident in my
life I have caused unconsciously harmed people. Sure, dated everybody has.
But I don't think people are aware of that. No, no,
hell no. They don't think about it until you go
to therapy, and that brings that ship up.

Speaker 7 (02:30:07):
I can reflect on my life and know that there
are people that, maybe on purpose and most of the
time not on purpose, that I have caused undo real
harm on right, And maybe she was one of those people.
I don't know. It's like my ex, my ex wife, right,

(02:30:28):
who died. I'm confident I caused harm on her.

Speaker 1 (02:30:32):
I don't know what.

Speaker 7 (02:30:33):
It was, right, she would probably say you did. She
would probably and give you all kinds of examples, probably
probably a list, likely, But maybe it's because does that
make me bad?

Speaker 1 (02:30:45):
Though? And the great and really I'm speaking in general terms,
but like, does that make you bad? I don't think so,
Because trauma on somebody, they can and it sucks.

Speaker 7 (02:30:54):
But one could also say it's on them. You know,
it's not your action, it's their reactions. Yeah, that caused
the trauma. Right, It's not anything you did. It's just
how they reacted to it and how they continue to
react to it that causes the trauma.

Speaker 1 (02:31:13):
I don't think it makes you a bad person.

Speaker 7 (02:31:15):
I'm sure there's people out there that that that do
things on purpose and to cause harm and trauma to people,
But I think a lot of us do it subconsciously.
We don't even know that we're doing it until way
later down the road when they that other person has
had their therapy session and they're like, you need to
go talk to the therapist. Is like, you really need
to go talk to this person so you can get

(02:31:36):
over it. And then they come back they're like, hey,
it's like, no, you did some shit to me. Yeah,
fucked me up pretty good.

Speaker 1 (02:31:43):
And I didn't think about it at the time, but
my therapist says so, And I just wanted to let
you know that's how you feel. Yeah, that's how I feel.
We'll come back.

Speaker 7 (02:31:50):
But to tie that up to what the list is,
I got crossed with her dad, oh wow, and like
to the point where like he got mad at me
and he was a He was a very large presence
of an individual, even though I was in high school.
I mean just he was a He was a large man,
and every any trouble I got in with him was

(02:32:12):
all because of her getting caught drinking all these things,
because I wasn't drinking she was. But I got in
trouble because I was the older one, right, and they
just pinned it on me. And I didn't throw under
the bus, and but I got cross with him, and
I didn't mean I did anything wrong. So my point

(02:32:32):
being is that those things there's no way to know. Now,
as far as I don't think you, I don't think people, Milicia,
people sit down and plan to do harmful things. I think, like,
let's take a classic example of like an abuser. I
don't think an abuser goes, how can I abuse this
person today? I think that's what they know. They think

(02:32:53):
that's a relationship.

Speaker 1 (02:32:54):
That's fair to say, that's fair to say. They do
it all subconsciously. You're the hero of your own story.
And so I don't I don't think people, well, some
people too, I don't think so. I'm sure there's some people.

Speaker 7 (02:33:07):
There's there's a small group of people that are just
fucking hateful assholes that are like, ow cann't I destroy
this person's world in the worst case scenario. Right, Hitler
thought he was doing good right right, So I know
he wasn't like, how can I hurt these people today?

Speaker 1 (02:33:25):
He was believing in the.

Speaker 7 (02:33:26):
Cause right right right, So to him it wasn't bad.
He wasn't twiddling his thumbs in an evil way.

Speaker 1 (02:33:33):
Though. We know that now, right, and I mean we
knew it. We kind of knew it. Then I could
go down that rabbit hole. I won't. Maybe it is
all subconscious, regardless of who you are. Maybe it is
all subconscious. We don't mean to I don't mean to
hurt anybody. It happens. But again that goes back to
is it is it something I did? Or is it
just just your reaction? Okay, so this is okay, I'll

(02:33:55):
go down. This is fucking wild.

Speaker 7 (02:33:57):
So there's this theory that you're subcond just doesn't exist.

Speaker 1 (02:34:01):
It's just a thing that we have said for.

Speaker 7 (02:34:03):
A long time that you have the subconscious that to
almost absolve you from responsibility, and that what happens is
if you will you have a case, you have a
plethor of Marvel characters in your head, and the majority
of them are really bad actors in your mind, and
you learned you have a managing of traffic air on

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who you let run your life. And then you say
things like subconscious to absolve yourself, like it wasn't me,
it was my subconscious rather than you have these thoughts
are characters you and I've kind of talked about this before,
that you have a responsibility to police the thoughts in

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your brain and go, I don't want to be that
type of person.

Speaker 1 (02:34:55):
That every now and again that character will get out
and then it becomes normal. Right.

Speaker 7 (02:35:00):
It doesn't feel odd the more that that protector is, yes,
an abuser, think of like an abuser or.

Speaker 6 (02:35:06):
A serial killer who says, well, they were hookers and
that's why I was correct.

Speaker 1 (02:35:11):
Right.

Speaker 7 (02:35:12):
If you're choosing, hey, I shouldn't kill anybody regardless of
what they do, just because I don't agree with it,
then yeah, you would know that, Hey, that's not okay.

Speaker 1 (02:35:25):
What about the child molesters? Can we kill them? Yeah?

Speaker 7 (02:35:28):
Hot, take No, I don't think you should kill the
child molesters. They should go through due process and be
handled that way. And then what happens in the jailhouse
stays in the jailhouse.

Speaker 1 (02:35:37):
Is that big stand? I think is what it was
the movie with Rob Schneider and it's like Rob's like
he runs the prison now, right. I think I've talked
about this movie on this podcast before as a matter
of fact, and it's like, all right, from here.

Speaker 7 (02:35:49):
On out, there's no more rape. And it goes one
of those big things like brings this kid down. He's like,
what are you in here for? And he's like, I
mean here for twenty years for selling weed? And he's like, now,
should this.

Speaker 1 (02:36:00):
Guy right here get raped every day for selling a
little bit of weed? Right? No? And then one of
the other inmates is like, what about the child molesters?
Can we rape them? And he's like, the punishment fits
the crime. I'm for it, go for it. There's a
comedian that tells it.

Speaker 7 (02:36:16):
I think I've said this on the air that he
tells a funny thing about like we all are pretty
lucky that we're not child molesters, because if you think
about it, when I was little, I liked little girls.
But I don't need more. But I still love grape juice.

Speaker 1 (02:36:34):
That's fair. We all make our decisions now, was it
your subconscious that said, no, I need grape juice? I
still like that, right?

Speaker 7 (02:36:45):
At some point you made the logical choice to not
like little girls anymore, but liking you know, sweet tarts
was still okay, right, and animal crackers.

Speaker 1 (02:36:58):
So what you're saying, because we all have a child
in luster inside us, but we just keep it down
inside Michael dot Com, No, you said that. I never
said that.

Speaker 7 (02:37:10):
But with that thought process, it explains why people you know,
go off the rocker. Uh and you know, like you
hear the statements of eyewitnesses going.

Speaker 1 (02:37:18):
He was a great neighbor. There was never a problem
until there was.

Speaker 7 (02:37:25):
The idea of like grilling your kid's date, Like what's
more important grilling and showing that you don't trust or
I trust you and it is what it is.

Speaker 6 (02:37:41):
Lindsey, I trust you. What is?

Speaker 1 (02:37:45):
It is?

Speaker 6 (02:37:45):
What it is?

Speaker 1 (02:37:47):
That's it hardly matters, right, Okay.

Speaker 6 (02:37:50):
You'll figure it out because you just have to have
faith in yourself that you raised someone who can find
good characterize characteristics in people and bad ones, and she'll
figure it out on her own.

Speaker 7 (02:38:04):
That series of questions hardly will decide if they're worth
being around. Now because you can pass all the tests.
This is what I was kind of saying with your
dad and his If they can't hold a conversation, you
can pass all the tests and it's still end h Exactly.

Speaker 1 (02:38:20):
I don't know about you.

Speaker 7 (02:38:22):
I think I'm a pretty good guy and I've been
in many relationships right and they ended.

Speaker 1 (02:38:29):
Yeah. Everything happens for a reason, and it.

Speaker 7 (02:38:31):
Isn't because I did or didn't answer a question correctly,
or was holding a conversation, or used the salad fork
with salad, or haven't had sickle cell right.

Speaker 1 (02:38:48):
Yeah, I just think about.

Speaker 7 (02:38:50):
These things like, as you get older, you can do
all the right steps. And well, Jason Bateman's got a
really great thing about being an actor, and he's asked,
how do I become an actor? How do people come
him an actor? And he's like, you know, the idea
that you can go to Juilliard and you can have
the best acting coach and have the best agent and

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still not get signed. Tells me it's about ninety percent luck, right, and.

Speaker 1 (02:39:17):
Being brought into it as a young child and groomed
by Hollywood producers. But even then, it's luck. How many
people lasted? How many people do you think let take
their kids to be actors. Right. I'm sure there's a
lot of people that want that.

Speaker 7 (02:39:33):
They see their kid, you know, he's got some kind
of talent, whether it's singing or acting, like, oh, you
should hold.

Speaker 6 (02:39:39):
My mom took me for oh, Michael J. Fox movie.
They were filming in Chicago or doing auditions in Chicago,
and we drove because they were looking for a nine
year old girl with curly long hair, and I fit
that mold. It was life with Mikey was the name.

Speaker 1 (02:39:56):
I was going to ask what the movie was. Yes, yes,
woul your kids to do that? Yeah?

Speaker 6 (02:40:04):
I would. I mean if it was some if they
would want to go, sure, sure, that's it.

Speaker 1 (02:40:10):
That's a fun way to word that.

Speaker 7 (02:40:12):
If there was something you knew is not good for them,
would you encourage them to do it because they are
expressing interest?

Speaker 6 (02:40:23):
Yeah, I mean I let my kid play football, it's
you know, not necessarily good for him, right, So yes,
I would. However, I think I would make sure that
I was there every step of the way so I
could be involved.

Speaker 1 (02:40:40):
Until you know, a movie that Ryan Roholds is on
and he was like, hey, come talk to me over here,
and then you not have eyes on your kid or
hang out on my trailer for a little bit. All right,
so you're the real deadpool? Yeah, what about you, gimpie?

Speaker 7 (02:40:52):
Uh, Well, figured it out on your own. That's the
thing about life, man, You gotta figure it out on
your own. You gotta let them figure down on it.

Speaker 1 (02:40:58):
You can protect your kids or try to protect them
until the fucking day is done and and things are
going to happen regardless. Yeah, you know what I mean.
And if they're expressing interest in this and they want
to do it, go for it, have ad it. I
will support you one hundred percent. I'll be there if
it falls apart. Yeah, but you got to figure that

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out on your own. I cannot. I cannot protect you
all the time, right, I just can't.

Speaker 7 (02:41:26):
It's impossible, Right. I don't disagree with that. That doesn't
mean I'm knocking on too now. And I kind of
have the attitude of if you wanted to sell drugs,
would I let you?

Speaker 1 (02:41:38):
Okay, what's the answer. No? Why not? They're showing interest.

Speaker 6 (02:41:42):
Because it's illegal?

Speaker 7 (02:41:43):
Well, so what we just made an argument, both of
you did that they should be able to do whatever
they want.

Speaker 1 (02:41:50):
I love them. Do it, well, then sell tic TACs like, no,
you don't know.

Speaker 7 (02:41:55):
Now, you're changing what they want to do, right, right,
you can't do that. If they want to sell drug
let them do it.

Speaker 1 (02:42:01):
They've got question. No, they've got to figure it out.
They've got to figure it out that like, Okay, this
is something you want to do, but there are also
consequences that go with it, and you can't protect them
all the time. So if they want to go and
fucking sell drugs, then go fucking sell drugs. Just know
that if you get caught, you're fucked. You're in jail,
and I'll be there to bail you out, and I'll

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go to your court I'll go to your courtrooms with you.

Speaker 7 (02:42:25):
But them there's consequences because they have to learn on
their own. But it doesn't balling them out show them
that there's an out.

Speaker 6 (02:42:33):
Yeah, that you're enabling it.

Speaker 1 (02:42:35):
You give them that one free pass like my parents
told me. And if it's only had to been done one,
I will bail you out of jail one time. After that,
no more, my friend will do it. I'll bail you
out of jail one time, and uh.

Speaker 7 (02:42:49):
And I would do it for either one of my kids,
if all three of them got fucking all three of
them got locked up at the same time. Then shit,
all right done, all three of you done, un car
But but I did it once.

Speaker 1 (02:43:01):
I belgie out one time. The rest of that you're
on your own. You gotta figure, you gotta learn.

Speaker 7 (02:43:06):
Yeah, I'm not far from what you're saying. Like I
believe you've got to give your kids room to make mistakes.
But I think I have a responsibility to try and
keep you out of danger as best as possible, right,
and sometimes that might mean you're not selling drugs. And
I don't think you should be a child actor.

Speaker 1 (02:43:22):
Again, but this goes back to you know, my daughter's
dating a black guy. You know, I don't want you
dating that black guy. She'd go fucking do it anyway
before that you do anything that you push against them,
They're going to do it anyway, don't.

Speaker 7 (02:43:38):
I just want to help clean you help that clean
that up. I don't think that's a fair comparison to
like something that.

Speaker 1 (02:43:43):
Is illegal, like who you date that that is what
it is, like that there is zero wrong there's a
zero wrong person right right right.

Speaker 7 (02:43:51):
I'm just saying that, like whatever they want to do,
they're going to do. It anyway, regardless of what it is,
whether it's dating somebody of another ethnicity or what we're
selling drugs or selling feet picks on fucking only fans,
They're gonna do it anyway, and there's nothing I can
do about it.

Speaker 1 (02:44:07):
That is true. I I you and I agree on
that one hundred percent.

Speaker 7 (02:44:10):
But when I signed up to be a parent, I
took on the responsibility of trying to steer them away
from those things. And that is fantastic until they turn
eighteen and then they're they're their own people.

Speaker 1 (02:44:22):
That's a different conversation adults.

Speaker 7 (02:44:24):
And maybe that's why I'm like looking at things differently
than you can.

Speaker 1 (02:44:28):
Perspective exactly. All my kids are all grown up. Every
fucking one of them's eighteen and over. They're all adults. Yeah,
and who's to saying they could still get fucked up
later on down the road. But listen, I did my part.

Speaker 7 (02:44:40):
I did my part and did everything I could to
make sure that these people grow up to be upstanding citizens.
You know, Now they're adults, and there's nothing I can
think about it. I mean, I think that's a fun
question too, is what is an upstanding citizen? Well, and
and that's rhetorical that it's gonna be different for everybody.
What is an ups Is it someone who goes to
church every day? Is it someone who pays their taxes?

Speaker 1 (02:45:02):
Is it someone who Are you a good person if
you pay your taxes but also work in arms deals? Yeah?
Do you pay the taxes on the arms deals? Yeah?
Do you see what I'm saying?

Speaker 7 (02:45:14):
Like, what's the movie with Denzel Washington and he's the
drug guy in New York?

Speaker 1 (02:45:22):
No, he's that's a police officer. Still drugs involved, drugs
are involved, but.

Speaker 7 (02:45:29):
With t I and uh, he's the boss and he
goes up to that guy and shoots that guy in
the other drug guy.

Speaker 6 (02:45:34):
In the face something was it something? Brothers?

Speaker 1 (02:45:37):
No?

Speaker 7 (02:45:38):
Anyway, in that movie, he's a good dude, but he's
also not a good dude.

Speaker 1 (02:45:47):
So American gangster. Yeah, that's what it is. Yeah. Yeah,
he was a bad motherfucker in that movie, but a
good person too, exactly for for his community. So he
was a good person, but there is a different story,
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 7 (02:46:02):
He provided turkeys for everybody and Thanksgiving. He took care
of people in the neighborhood and they insulate. But you
could argue he wasn't good because he made those moves
to insulate himself.

Speaker 6 (02:46:12):
Right, kind of like Dexter. He was a serial killer,
but he only killed bad people that.

Speaker 7 (02:46:19):
Were He wasn't a good dude at all. No, Dexter's
not a good dude at all, no way, shape or form.

Speaker 1 (02:46:26):
He thought he was. He was that is a serial killer.
They think they're doing good, these people, these people that
kill prostitutes, they think they're doing God's work. That's what
Dexter's doing. He thinks he's doing the work of justice
without judge or jury.

Speaker 10 (02:46:46):
Right.

Speaker 7 (02:46:47):
Fascinating all because you want to know who's got sickle cell?
I may start doing that with my daughters when they're
of age. Does he have sickle cell?

Speaker 6 (02:46:58):
My favorite?

Speaker 1 (02:47:01):
Right? No?

Speaker 7 (02:47:01):
Does he like green peppers? There you go hit the
hard hitting questions right there.

Speaker 1 (02:47:07):
Yeah, that's for me.

Speaker 7 (02:47:08):
I want to know the things you don't like because
I can just roll you for it. Okra, you'll never
have ochre in this house.

Speaker 1 (02:47:16):
Yeah, he eats meatless Fajida's dad. It's a little weird,
but it's okay. It's just onions and peppers, vegetarian fadas
kind of sabas. You mean grilled peppers and onions.

Speaker 7 (02:47:31):
Rights, show me your gringo without showing me your greeno.

Speaker 1 (02:47:38):
I'm all for it, but give me the meat.

Speaker 7 (02:47:40):
But the goddamn steak chicken or you know, shrimping there mane,
I love the combo.

Speaker 1 (02:47:45):
Oh that's the best way to do it. Yeah, it's
salsa and skytook. They do shrimp chicken, shrimped chicken, steak
covered in caeso. Yeah. Place there, man Oh, it's one
of the best mass Mexicans in town. I take a
road trip up there on a bike just because, Yeah, okay,
I want to ride go up there, and then we

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hit uh, we hit up the biker bars on the
way in. It's easily the best. Yeah, I'm good with
this statement.

Speaker 7 (02:48:11):
The best, if not one of the top ten Mexican
restaurants in the metro.

Speaker 1 (02:48:15):
That's fair. And that's not the only one of those.
There's like two or three other one not the same,
not the same, that's the fun thing, same name, same menu.

Speaker 7 (02:48:24):
Yeah, because I've had El Tequila's and been to different ones,
and I'm like, this isn't as good as another one
I've been to. Yeah, Mexican food that is all right,
you guys have a fantastic week. Make sure you ask
your kids who they're dating, get to know their life events,
people are with. Their life goes what you already see
yourself in five years.

Speaker 1 (02:48:44):
Right, yes, you guys have a great week. Ye