BMMS 10-28-24

Welcome Back From The Weekend!!! We talk About The Best & Worst Parts, Imagine Dying From A Hug, Don't Give That Man Your Belly Button, Mailman Throwing Mail Away, We Spoke To An Awesome Listener, Jeff Hensley Stops By, Signs You're In A Cult, & Why Did This Man Go On A Rampage?!?!?!?

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Speaker 1 (02:24):
Good morning, It's the Big Man Morning Show. Nine one
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each and every day. Good morning, Lindsey, Good morning, Corbin,
Good morning, Good morning. We've got tickets to see Rise Against.

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They're gonna be at the Canes Bonarroom on Thursday, November
seventh at Katesbowling dot com to get your tickets. We've
got best and Worst of the weekend. What's the best
thing that happened this weekend and the worst thing that
happened this weekend? We'll do Our listeners are awesome where
we talk to a listener and they share part of
their life with us. Tell us some adversity they overcame
or didn't hooray, and then Jeff Heinsley will join us. Hey,

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you got a question about divorce, custody, guardianship, name change,
any of those things. Jeff will be in to answer
them for you at nine o'clock. A couple of ways
to get your question to us. You can call it
nine one, eight four to six, oh, KMOD when he
is in the studio, you can call that at that time.

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You can text bmms and whatever that is to eight
two nine four five, or you can email show at
kmod dot com. Show at kmode dot com. I saw
that Phil Lesh died. Who feels appropriate from you, Phil

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Lesh of the Grateful Dead.

Speaker 9 (04:14):
Ah.

Speaker 1 (04:15):
But to my point, we play this little thing called
death pool, Yeah, where you've got to try and guess
the famous person that's gonna die. And it's not easy.
Oh it sounds easy, but it's not. And I'm just
going to run through a brief list of people that
are celebrities that have died. Maybe they were on our

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death pool, maybe they weren't, that have died just this year, Okay.
And I don't know if you can see, but like
it's a lot, it's a lot. And Phil Lesh kind
of skated through the news cycle this weekend. I didn't
see anything till of it until this morning. Jesse Jane
the porn star that's kind of more notoriety because the

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proximity to us. She lived in Oklahoma City. She's been
a part of the show a couple times. Carl Weathers,
Toby Keith, can you gout points for that. Richard Lewis,
the comedian Lewis Gossip Junior, Eric Carmon, who's Eric Carmon,
Lindsay Singer Singer, Yes, all by myself, Yes, O. J. Simpson,

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Dicky Betts, the All My Brothers, David Sanborn, uh Morgan Spurlock,
Bill Walton, Jerry West, Willie Mays, Donald Sutherland, Shifty shell Shock,
Shelley Duvall, Phil Donahue, Lou Dobbs, Bob Newhart. We got

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points for doctor Ruth Westheimer, Richard Simmons, Shannon Doherty. And
then there's this and I'm not even like through the
whole year. And then there's this one. And this is
the fast. This is why I'm bringing this up. This
Brazilian musician by the name of Ari's SASASKI if I've
got that right, I've probably mutilated it because it's Portuguese

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and I don't know how to speak Portuguese. I'm assuming
it's Portuguese if he's Brazilian. Anyway, he died. He's young,
like thirty something. He died performing at a show. Oh wow,
he went out doing what he loved. I don't know
when I tell you how he died.

Speaker 7 (06:23):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (06:23):
And this is the example of what makes this game
game so hard. He died by hugging a fan? Oh
my goodness. Uh did he get pierced with something that
come down with a horrible disease? Uh you died from someone?

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No on both those and yeah, no on both There
we go, okay, yeah, there we go. No, No, he
died with because of a fan. They like squeezed him
too much. Kind of okay, kind of not like bear
hug right right right right, didn't be like not that

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not didn't smother him. Okay, So what is the reason
on his death certificate? Is it? You know, cause of
dequestion hug?

Speaker 7 (07:21):
No, something you don't see ever.

Speaker 1 (07:24):
No, but you could argue that is why he died. Electrocution?
What Okay? Like you know when you touch a doorknob
and you know, the static shocks sometimes throws this microphone
out and I gotta everything. No, no, no, no, we'orthy

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standing in a puddle and one was about to plug
in a toaster oven. That's the closest you've been to
the answer. Wow. So even though like we're like one
hundred and one, no, like, who's the reckless idiot? Who
hugs a fan. Yeah, uh huh. So apparently the fan

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was soaking wet because it was raining, and he hugged
the fan unknowingly connected to some because of his guitar
or maybe his mike, I don't know, and uh electrocuted
himself to death.

Speaker 7 (08:23):
Oh wow, did the fan get elect I.

Speaker 1 (08:26):
Didn't read that far. The fans all right, but he's dead?
Oh wow? So did he die?

Speaker 7 (08:32):
Do him?

Speaker 8 (08:33):
And he love?

Speaker 1 (08:33):
Probably not? I don't know if hugging fans was his
favorite tan and he died of hugging you buy electrocution,
You would think that, like, let's just say it was
a wireless mike, right, you know, well wepell Mike or
whatever he's got to mike pack yet Yeah, I don't
think that there's not enough power. No, I didn't think

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it would be. No, So it has to be something.
But an I came or a pedal cable laying across okay,
or a speaker cable right that is, X has exposed wires.
Maybe I don't know. I don't know, man, but that
is maybe the wildest death of a quote celebrity not

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celebrity to us. Now, could you imagine being the fan? Right?
You just go up and you meet this, you know,
your favorite musician, and you're like, oh, hey, I'm such
a big fan. Da da da da, Hey can I
get a hug? Yeah? Sure? And then they die in
your arms. Right. Ari's Sasaki thirty five, died almost instantly

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after he hugged a soaking wet concert goer during his
performance on stage in Brazil. The contact then triggered a
nearby cable to jolt, which caused a fatal electric shock.
It's unclear why the fan was moist, sorry wet, and
police are investigating. This happened in July. Witnesses have shared
statements and the authorities have requested expert reports about the incident.

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The place where this happened released to statement clarifying the
facility is cooperating with authorities. We have free firm our
commitment to fully cooperating. Our thoughts and condolences are with
the family friend during this difficult time. That would be amazing,
I mean it would be tragic, but also amazing to

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witness that you're at it and you're like, hey, why
is he laying down right right? How was the show?
It was? Electrical? Was good? Until if you're at a
concert and a performer is performing, maybe playing the best
they've ever played, but then dies. Is it the best

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concert you've ever been to? Or the worst?

Speaker 7 (10:48):
The worst?

Speaker 1 (10:50):
Definitely memorable. That wasn't the choice, I know, I know.
I'm thinking that it depends on how the rest of
the show went. If the rest of the show sucked ass, right,
then it's going to be the worst guy died. Maybe
that might be the best part.

Speaker 7 (11:08):
No, here's a question. When does the artist die? Is
it during the encore?

Speaker 1 (11:14):
Yeah, that doesn't matter. If he's played well, like every
song he just n or she nails. Yeah, right, and
you're like, this is and you've been waiting forever to
see this performer. Yeah, and at some point middle I
mean the first song that I don't think you could
say it's the best, right, you got to experience a
little bit of middle near the end, encore whatever. But

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they perform amazing, You've been excited to see them, you
never got to see them your whole life, and then
they croak on stage because they touched a fan or whatever.
Best our worst concert you've ever been to? I call
her the best?

Speaker 7 (11:54):
Yeah, you know I'm leaning towards the best. If they
were playing everything amazingly. And if this was an artist
that was on my bucket list, chances are they're probably
not going to be making new music anyways. If this
is the you' turn.

Speaker 1 (12:09):
A lot of hypotheticals in the're just you're making up
stuff in there. But you shot from the hip and
said yeah, worst Immediately? What changed?

Speaker 7 (12:15):
Well, because I thought, ah, the worst, because you obviously
love this artist, it's one of your faves. Then you
won't see them make anything new, and you know it's devastating.
But if they're playing everything that you've loved and so perfectly,
especially if it's an encore, then you can say that
was the best concert you'd ever seen.

Speaker 1 (12:37):
Sometimes that the encore is not the best part, right, no,
but oh god, it's overplaced.

Speaker 7 (12:42):
The concert's over so and so is they are too.
But at least you got to see the best concert.

Speaker 1 (12:49):
I think it depends on how they die. If they
get shot, ah, it's going to kind of ruin. It's
going to overshadow any anything they did on stage. True,
or somebody jumps up in violently he stabs them multiple times. Yeah,
it's probably going to ruin the event for me. Probably
probably if they collapse and the show ends, ibody like,

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that's weird. I wonder what happened. Yeah, I don't know
if I'll jump to immediately they died and then later
you know, like you didn't know they died, or they
died on their way to the hospital. Right then, for
sure it'll be like maybe one of the best shows
I've ever been to, assuming it's somebody in my bucket,
assuming they're played everything perfectly. Yeah, the beer was delicious, Yeah,

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people are with was great, you know all that stuff.
But he died. But he died. Hey have you ever
seen in rivers refer? Yeah, it was man so good,
played every song whatever, and then he died. Oh man,
that sounds horrible. No, man, it was great. It's awesome.
I've never been to a console or something died before,

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have you, right, m Yeah, yeah, And maybe this guy
was big in Brazil or maybe he was on his
way up and they were like, yeah, but did you
see him when he played Hotels he died? Yeah, right right.
Jeff Buckley is a pretty good example. Like Jeff Buckley,
he was on his way up. I hadn't really played

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a ton of shows like the way we know them now,
so somebody probably saw him before he died. Right, hey, Jeff,
what are you gonna do? I'm just gonna go for
a swim. I need to reset. Yeah, I'm gonna go
swim in the Mississippi.

Speaker 7 (14:34):
That sounds good.

Speaker 1 (14:35):
He must have been a real pos right. Nobody stopped him? Yeah,
please do right? He look like you need help getting in.
I'll throw you a life jacket. Oops. Wrong way, yeah,

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because who in their right mind would be like unless
he was somebody and no disrespect, but like somebody like
Gimpy who's like, hey man, I don't know if that's
a good idea. Ah, well you.

Speaker 7 (15:04):
Know, yeah, right, it's my time.

Speaker 1 (15:09):
It's my time. God damn, do I know you are right?

Speaker 4 (15:14):
Right?

Speaker 1 (15:15):
He could have been not really. If he's somebody who
lives that type of mentality, then maybe they were like,
hey man, not a good idea to drive your motorcycle
in the rain. And he was like, what do you know?
I know me right? And Jeff is not. How many

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times do you think they said something to him and
he did it and he was like, hey, I told
you I make it still here. Yeah, listen, I just
swam a river last week. By god, you can't stop me.
But not this river, Jeff, I'm just gonna go right
here by the bank. He's fine, It's fine. So I
don't know if I've told you I've read this book.
I'm trying to read this book about the Mississippi and
how insane the mississip is and how they they to

(16:02):
try and advert flooding. They would like blow up parts
of the Mississippi to redirect it so they're part of town. Yeah,
just insane stuff. But in the book it talks about
like how much sediment gets moved south, riveting, doesn't it
How much sediment the Mississippi moves to demonstrate how strong
the Mississippi is, And it's insane the amount of sediment

(16:24):
that the So you're just like a DIRP and DIRP
gotta go first. The film it's a creek. Nope, Nope,
all right. So yeah, phil Leshtyce, That's all I wanted
to talk about was phil Leshdyine and how it went
over our heads completely. I didn't see anything about it.
I was he was, I mean he was eighty something, wow,

(16:47):
eighty three if I remember correctly. And obviously Grateful Dead
not my cup of tea huge influence though Grateful Dead
a lot of people love Grateful Dead and you know,
people like Okre two. So I don't know what to say.

Speaker 7 (16:59):
But I wonder if he was still touring.

Speaker 1 (17:02):
I don't. I think he had done some stuff because
if if I remember right, Mayer had been playing with them,
but I don't know if he was a part of
and then for a while he did his own thing,
Phil Lush and Friends, okay away from that, So I
don't know. Those bands evolved so much to keep you know,
to sell the name. Right, it wouldn't surprise me if

(17:22):
they were doing the Grateful Dead thing without him one
original member, and then he went out and would just
do Phil Leshon friends. But yeah, so Phil Lesh and
a bunch of people have died. And again I didn't
even go through all the list. Yeah, and meanwhile, we
barely have any points in that game, right, damn it, Jimmy, heck,

(17:44):
just hold on till next year, Jimmy, That's all I
got to ask, man, Just hold on til next year.
I think, like November six, he might die. I think
so after less all Right come out. He already cast
his vote. It counts, right, did he really cast it? Though?
I don't think he rased his hand to hit the
button or fill in the bubble or however it is that.

(18:05):
You know. They put it in his hand and then
hand it around in a circle. Right, he didn't cast
as his body cast it a vote. Yeah yeah, yeah,
I so I did mine absentee, right, And so I
had to go and and get it a thing, and
like they had to see me sign it, which is
all fine whatever. It just the the the the the

(18:28):
barriers in place to make it to I had to
drive to a place to do it. I had to
wait and then I have to mail it in and all.
And you're like, it's kind of convenient, all right. We
got to take a break. We got tickets to give
away for Rise Against and we've got best and worst
of the weekend. We'll get to We'll be back. He
tells his vooting.

Speaker 10 (18:47):
Show, The Big Bed Boarding Show, The Assaulting Congenuus.

Speaker 2 (18:51):
Next nine KMOT, good morning, It's the Big Man Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (19:09):
Nine one, eight four six, oh k m O D.
Can also text bmms and then what you want to
say to eight two nine four five. Let's do news quikies.
These are stories that you may have missed in the news.
It's time for news quakies. World news, local news and

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news that just makes you say, what the Here's Corbyn,
Gimbe and Lindsay with what's going on news Quakies from
The Big Man Morning Show in nineties.

Speaker 7 (19:37):
On The Five, woman regrets removing her belly button and
giving it to her boyfriend as a present. Yeah, body mind, my.

Speaker 1 (19:48):
Wife doesn't love maddic fascinating.

Speaker 7 (19:52):
Twenty three year old Paulina Casillas landor Ros from Jalisco, Mexico,
underwent numerous ories, such as a back corset, which involves
piercings on either side of the spine and a split tongue.
She later decided to remove her belly button as it

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is what makes us human, before giving it as a
present to her then boyfriend Daniel Ramirez back in twenty fifteen.
But following the removal three years ago, she says she
ultimately regrets her decision, describing it as reckless and impulsive.
She says, I was very angry. I wanted to cut

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all unions from everything and everyone. I wanted to de
humanize myself in a symbolic way. She says she wanted
to do something controversial. She underwent an operation done by
a professional, but says he gave me very bad advice
on how to take care of the trauma, so it

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got infected. She said she was suffering. She spent days
in bed as if she were quarantined. She couldn't wretch, push,
stand up.

Speaker 1 (21:01):
Or laugh.

Speaker 7 (21:02):
It gradually healed itself, but not one hundred percent. It
will never close entirely. She said that she knew she
wanted to give the body part to Daniel as an
ultimate token of love. They are no longer together, but
they will always be friends and always have love for

(21:24):
each other. No, yeah, yeah, crazy. Is there any body
part that you would accept as a gift from your
significant other and not think it was a weird.

Speaker 1 (21:39):
No, it's a body part, right, Yeah. I can't think
of one me either. I think it's weird. People keep
teeth of their bait their kids. No, I get it.
Gimbi's got all his kids teeth.

Speaker 7 (21:53):
I get it.

Speaker 1 (21:54):
I just think I know all of them. No, you
got every single one around by Yeah, it's in a
drawer next to the ketchupacket. I just I don't, I don't.
I don't get it. It's like when Angelina Jolie and
the Vile Blood thing with Billy Bob Thorton, Like, I don't,
I don't. I don't get that. Uh uh, I don't know.

Speaker 7 (22:15):
A wedding ring does the exact same thing, right, Like, no,
committed to each other, we don't have to worry each
other's blood around our necks.

Speaker 1 (22:23):
I no, I mean no, they're not to me. They're
not the same. Maybe I guess in ancient ceremonies there
was blood shared. Sure, but yeah, that's a very it's
very bizarre. And what do you mean they give you
poor advice and it got infected. So this really great doctor. Yeah,
I didn't know how to handle the the healing settled down. Yeah,

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and like one not a nipple? Right? Why a belly button?
Belly button? You only have one? You know, you have
two nipples, and you would look weird just one nipple. Look,
we were no belly button. No, that is true. But
you know, at least you you know it's it's symmetrical.
What happened to your belly button? Funny story?

Speaker 7 (23:03):
Yeah, why would a doctor even allow her to remove it?

Speaker 1 (23:07):
I mean, doctors allow people to do a lot of
things that don't make sense to some people. Plastic surgery
is a bizarre industry. Yeah, sure, if you pay him enough,
they'll do whatever you want. There are plenty of doctors
out there that are looking to get money. US postal
worker arrested for throwing away mail. This comes out of
Florida where Friday, federal authorities arrested Otis McCoy for stealing

(23:32):
mail and dumping in in the woods instead of delivering
it like he should have. According to court documents, a
co worker told Otis's manager that he had came back
from his route a little bit earlier despite having a
very large load of mail. So the manager goes and
checks Otis's vehicle's GPS and he finds out that Otis

(23:56):
deviated from the root and went to a wooded area
where the coworker found several pieces of male scattered around.
So now it's time to get the inspector involved, and
a postal inspector with the US Postal Inspection Service begins investigating,
because that's what the postal inspector does, they inspect anyhow,
So they went and got some surveillance footage from a

(24:18):
nearby house that shows Otis arriving at this wooded lot
and then taking the mail out of the van and
then scattering it all over the place, it says. Stills
from the surveillance video include the showing the man standing
near the van and then throwing the mail into the
trees and bushes, and then other pictures show pieces of

(24:39):
male littered in the bushes and trees across the ground,
as well as one of the pictures shows what seems
to be a Florida's absentee mail and ballot that was
in the bush. Post inspectors people sleep on a man like.
They are one of the country's oldest law enforcement agencies.
They are federalized law officers. They can they can execute subpoenas,

(25:04):
search warrants, make arrests. They carry firearms. He's a general,
they're no, Well he's the leader, but yeah, the local
inspector general is a giant fan of the show. He's
come out to remotes before. Yeah. Good dude. Yeah, So
if I have a male problem, you better watch it.
If I have a male problem or knows somebody. Judge

(25:29):
blocks expulsion of fifth grader over rap lyrics. Judge. A
judge is blocking the expulsion of this fifth grader in
Los Angeles. This week, a judge ordered the reversal of
the student's expulsion pending a trial. The parents of the
fifth grade filed to lawsuit with the Curtis Middle Curtis
School on mohalland Drive, claiming the expulsion was arbitrary and

(25:50):
that the school didn't provide any evidence their son broke
the rules. The student is in trouble for sending emails
to another student that included lyrics from a rap song,
as well as squirt emojis, which are commonly used as
slang for firearms. The song in question is h HYNW
Mellie's Murder on My Mind, which references gun violence. Okay,

(26:14):
I think context would be important, like where they're like, hey,
I know what you did to me on the playground
and then quoted song lyrics. Yeah, Or were they like,
hey have you heard the new the new song murder
for violence or whatever.

Speaker 7 (26:30):
I can't understand what they're saying. Do you know what
the lyrics are?

Speaker 1 (26:33):
Another great example context I think is really important. Or
my mom took away this album, this is the lyrics,
this is the song, or the like right, this is
stupid that knee jerk reaction expel this kid for being violence. Yeah,
I think the schools have a definitely have a responsibility
to try and intervene when school violence is a potential, right,

(27:00):
I don't know if it's song lyrics, No, I don't
think so. I'm not an expert in child psychology. I'm
not an expert in violence. But I don't think music
is the reason. You gotta start somewhere now. These kids
are showing issues. Who's to say that it wasn't the

(27:21):
song lyrics that pushed them over the edge and caused
them to kill everybody in the classroom.

Speaker 7 (27:26):
What video games was he playing?

Speaker 1 (27:28):
Right? Right? Also ridiculous. I'll never forget when my parents
took Pantera away from me all because the cover and
it had that stupid sticker on it, the parental advice
yea like, oh no, no, no, no, no, you can't be
listening to this garbage. All right, we got to take
a break. We'll be back.

Speaker 10 (27:49):
Tulsa's Morning Show continues next with The Big Man Morning
Show on Tulsa's rock station ninety.

Speaker 1 (28:16):
Good Morning, It's the Big Mad Morning Show nine one, eight, four,
six oh kmod coming up best and worst of the weekend.
What's the best thing that happened to you this weekend?
And the worst thing that happened to you? This weekend.
Get it over to us BMOMSS and whatever that is
to eight two, nine four five, Let's see what Lindsay
has for balls to the wall Sports.

Speaker 7 (28:47):
Oklahoma led fourteen to ten at halftime, but fell to
number eighteen Ole Miss twenty six to fourteen Saturday afternoon
at Vadheming Waste Stadium. The Southeastern Conference contest marked the
first game in Oklahoma history played in the state of Mississippi.
Sophomore quarterback Jackson Arnold looked good in the beginning, finished

(29:07):
twenty two for thirty one, passing for one hundred and
eighty two yards and two touchdowns, connecting with the red
shirt junior tight end Bower Sharp on an eleven yard
touchdown in the first quarter and evening the square at
seven all with two eighteen left in the first frame.
Sharp registered a career and game high eight receptions for
a team high fifty three yards in the game. After

(29:30):
Ole Miss pulled ahead on a thirty five yard field
goal by Caden Davis in the second quarter, Arnold found
freshman wide receiver Jacob Jordan for nine yard touchdown with
six seconds remaining in the half, capping OU's thirteen play
ninety two yard touchdown drive and giving Oklahoma the fourteen
to ten edge at the break. It was OU's longest

(29:50):
drive of the season in terms of distance. The Sooners
outgained the Rebels two hundred and thirty five to one
hundred and sixty two in total yardage, and Convert did
seven of nine third down attempts. And Arnold completed ten
of thirteen passes for one hundred and ten yards and
two touchdowns and rushed thirteen times for forty four yards
in the first half. Ole Miss scored sixteen unanswered points

(30:14):
in the second half, though, including two touchdowns in the third.
Oklahoma hosts Maine next Saturday at one thirty.

Speaker 1 (30:23):
Thank god, they're taking on Maine. Yeah right, Yeah, they've
got I think they've got a serious problem. I don't
know what it is.

Speaker 7 (30:32):
But it looked good right away and then it was like,
oh hell, what happened?

Speaker 4 (30:38):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (30:38):
I think you have to look at the overall picture.
I mean, if you're trying to make lemonade, I hear you. Yeah,
but you didn't win. No, no, and they haven't been
really winning. That's all that matters.

Speaker 7 (30:51):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (30:51):
Hey, they had a good half. Hey they had a
good drow. Hey they improved winning. I know they went
into the Everybody's like, well, they went into the SEC.
We've got to give him a chant. Huh, what are
you talking about, right, You're supposed to allow losing. Okay.

Speaker 7 (31:10):
The Dodgers hope to take a commanding lead over the
Yankees in the World Series when La visits New York
for Game three tonight. The Blue Crew is leading the
Fall Classic two to nothing after winning both games at
Dodgers Stadium. Manager Dave Roberts says superstar Slugger Show Hey
Otani has been cleared to play after suffering a subeluxation
of his left shoulder during an attempted steal in Game two.

(31:34):
Clark Schmid is getting the start for the Pinstripes, who
are looking to win their first World Series game since
two thousand and nine. Schmid has allowed four runs on
nine hits over nine and the third innings this postseason.
He'll be opposed by Walker Buehler, who has gone zero
to one with six runs allowed over nine innings in
the playoffs.

Speaker 1 (31:54):
Part of that game, I was like, man, the Yankees
look good in this, and then they had that walk
off homer on the I was like, what that was?
That was exciting. Yeah, And it's crazy how I find
myself excited to watch it when I don't care about
either team. Uh huh and uh Big Joe and ice
Cube are supposed to perform, not Big Joe tonight night.

Speaker 7 (32:18):
They go Saturday?

Speaker 1 (32:19):
Was he Saturday? Okay? Which is okay? That's exciting too.

Speaker 7 (32:22):
Yeah, because he had a little diss on the Yankees
in his little rap.

Speaker 1 (32:27):
Sure yeah, sure go East West. I get it. But
it's good. I think it's going to be exciting to
watch this. If Dodgers win, this Yankees fan should start
panicking to go to Bronx and win. It's a big,
big deal.

Speaker 7 (32:40):
Yeah, And that's your balls to the wall sports. I'm
Lindsay in ninety seven five dam.

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rocks kemod dot com. Best and Worst of the weekend.
What's the best thing that happened to you this weekend?
And the worst thing that happened to you this weekend?
Text it to us bmms and whatever that is to

(33:50):
eight two nine four five h lindsay what's the best
and what's the worst of the weekend.

Speaker 7 (33:55):
The best of the weekend was yesterday. I checked out
for brunch. We celebrated my girlfriend Kimmy's fiftieth birthday. She
now lives in Connecticut, but she came home over the
weekend celebrate and it was fantastic.

Speaker 1 (34:11):
Have you ever been there before?

Speaker 7 (34:12):
No, that was my first time, and holy moly, was
it good. The definitely the buffet was just incredible. Not
just breakfast items, but they had shrimp and some garlic
in a white wine sauce, whitefish that was perfection, perfection.

(34:34):
Then they make their omelets fresh oh, anyway you want them?
They were just I told our server, I said, I'll
let you. I said, I do want to try the omelet,
but I'll let you choose for me what's in it?
And it was it was amazing.

Speaker 1 (34:49):
What was it?

Speaker 7 (34:50):
Some sort of cheese like bree. It's not brie, but
he said, it's that's what it reminds you of. I
don't remember the name of the specific cheese, but it
was really cream. And then there was mushroom spinach onions.

Speaker 1 (35:05):
What spinach?

Speaker 7 (35:07):
What's spinach? Makes you strong? To the finach? Eat it?
And the worst was going home afterwards, waking up from
a nap with a horrible migraine.

Speaker 1 (35:23):
Hororra bull Some people call those hangovers.

Speaker 7 (35:27):
Yes, most definitely from brunch because we drank a lot
of craft mimosas. Yes, so.

Speaker 4 (35:36):
Not.

Speaker 7 (35:37):
Yeah, I can't do it, can't party like I used to.

Speaker 1 (35:39):
How do you know if it was a migraine or
a like a hangover thing.

Speaker 7 (35:45):
Well, the difference for me is a headache is definitely sucks,
but a migraine is I can't watch television, I can't
turn on the lights, I cannot I just have to
continue to relax, lay down, eyes closed and I had
to take an immatrex for it, which totally knocks me out.

Speaker 1 (36:06):
I've been hungover like that before. Yeah, best and worse
of the weekend. What's the best thing that happened this weekend?
And the worst thing that happened this weekend? Gimp? What's
the best and what's the worst. Best part of the weekend.
I went to a friend's Halloween party on Saturday. That
was fun. Me and my lady had got all dressed
up in costume and went and party with friends. It

(36:28):
was pretty simple stuff. Did you do a couple's costume
or individual costumes? I guess you could call it a
couple's costs. Okay, yeah, okay, I was you want to
guess I do? Okay, what do you think, lindsay?

Speaker 7 (36:39):
I already know, so I can't guess.

Speaker 1 (36:41):
Okay.

Speaker 7 (36:41):
I saw pictures a cow.

Speaker 1 (36:44):
One of you was the ass ah, we all know
who that would be. I was, she's nice, stop that,
she's a nice lady. I was an inmate from the
Department of Erections. I busted out that costume. Haven't warn
itt and like fourt years I think it was the
last time I put that costume on and then she
was sexy police.

Speaker 7 (37:04):
Officer, smoking hot police officer. You know what kind of
reminded me of if you say it was a couple's costume,
the the inmate and the jailer that she broke him
free and they went on the run together a couple
of years back. Yeah, yeah, that's what it reminded me of.

Speaker 1 (37:22):
Okay, fair enough. Worst part of the weekend. My girlfriend
does photography on the side, like a side gig, what
a little side hustle whatnots, And she had a lot
of gigs book this weekend, so I didn't get to
really spend as much time with her as I really
wanted to. But oh that was pretty simple. Easy weekend,
beast and worst of the weekend? What's the best thing
that happened in the worst thing that happened? Bmms? And
what that is to eight, two, nine, four or five?

(37:44):
Worst part of the weekend? Wash We had cheerleading and
it pretty much took all day Saturday to go to
the games because one was really early in the morning,
and then we had one in the afternoon, but they
were running two hours behind, so standing around waiting for
the game and then it playing and waiting for that
to end, and that might have been the worst part

(38:07):
of the weekend. Best part of the weekend is cheerleading's over.
Nice hooray. So what's next to them? I don't know,
But all I know is like at my saturdays for now,
for now, Yeah, yeah, I don't know if they'll do
it again. We'll see. I was standing there watching them,
going this might be the last time they cheer, because

(38:28):
I don't know, it changed their mind a lot. Yeah,
the oldest is at that age where some of them
start filtering out because it's there are other social opportunities available,
got you right, because in the like kindergarten first second,
that's like the only social thing that's available for them
to do is sports. So we'll see if they come
up and are like, yeah, I want to continue to

(38:49):
do unless you'd be all right with it. But if
they said I'm out, you're like, sweet, nope, yeah I'm not.
My only thing is if you want to quit in
the middle of the season, you have to quit on
a day you're having fun, right. You can't quit on
a day that when you don't want to go or
it isn't you know, you lose or any of that stuff.
Best and worst of the weekend. What's the best thing

(39:11):
that happened this weekend and the worst that happened this weekend?
Steck says. Best of the weekend finally going to a
haunted house. Worst of the weekend. I was more scared
than my eight year old son. What I gotta know
what haunted house? Then? For real, you were more scared? Well?
Could you possibly have been scared of the fakeness? Right?

(39:32):
It's not real, pussy, that's the pot. It's like going
to a magic show and going that really made that
person disappear? No, he sawder in half? I've seen him,
No he didn't, hint. Best was the old Lady and
I spent four days, three nights Panama City Beach for
thunder Beach Motorcycle Rally. Worst was we both have some

(39:53):
sore butts from the six hour ride home yesterday. Only
six hours. Huh yeah, they must not live here, right right.
Best part of the weekend is moving into our dream
forever home or dream forever home. Worst part would be
the stickers goat heads all throughout the back yard. We
got our work cutout for us. Goat heeads? Is that

(40:19):
a plant? Oh yeah, A little like briars. Oh you
know they stick to your socks and when you go
them pull them off, they stick to your hands. I've
never heard them called goat heads.

Speaker 7 (40:30):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (40:32):
Best thing this weekend nothing. Worst thing this weekend nothing. Best.
I was able to have a four day weekend. Worst
I was stuck in bed most of the time with
my sciotica acting up. That's funny. It isn't funny. It
can't be fun Best cleaned out my dryer vent with

(40:53):
a twenty dollars tool from Amazon. You definitely have to
be over the edge of forty. But that does sound
like a That sounds like something I would say, And
you're like, oh, tell me about the tool. Wait what.
I cannot believe the difference it made in dryer times.
Worst took last Friday off but ended up working all

(41:16):
day from home. Yeah. I love a good dryer cleaning session.
I wish I was lying. I wish I was cooler,
but I'm not. I'm not getting the I have a
special tool for my vacuum to vacuum out inside the
dryer to get the dry that's down in the collecting area,

(41:38):
and then I have this different tool to like clean
out the dryer vent. And then I move the dryer out,
take my leaf blower, put it in the dryer vent,
and then turn it on and blow everything out. Let
any other x other remnants out right.

Speaker 7 (41:58):
So you unhook the back of the dryer, move.

Speaker 1 (42:01):
The dryer, yeah, uh huh, hook it from the wall. Yeah,
put the leaf blower in, turn it on any other
stuff that's left, and then do you go outside to
the backyard and get all the lint that you just
blew outside? Or yeah? Yeah, I collected the best I can,
of course, but you know birds need nests too, dude.

(42:24):
It's just soft pillow, thanks corn? Yeah, hell is this tiperpedic? No,
it's lint. Best. I got a small vacation, went to
Houston to visit the grandparents. Worst was supposed to go
on a cruise on the Regal Princess and found out
Friday night, two days before the departure, whole ship canceled
a cruise. According to someone on Reddit, it was engine issues,

(42:45):
that's what she said. The uh I have you heard
about the Taylor Swift cruise where a sixty six year
old woman fell off? No? Yeah, crazy story, right, And
so I saw it online. I'm like, oh, that's weird.
And then I was talking with one of our friends
and he was like, we just got back from a cruise.
I'm like, oh funny, he's like, yeah, the Taylor Swift cruise.
Craziest thing happened. I was like, could you push over?

(43:07):
And I learned something. Did you know that the doctors
on a cruise ship can only do so much. They're
not really allowed to treat you, and that there's a
certain threshold that if it's that, they have to either
port or call the coast guard to come get you.
So there's no real medical care on the ship. They
can give you a bandage about the equivalent of the

(43:28):
school nurse pretty much. So that yeah, so there's another
reason for me not to get on one.

Speaker 7 (43:36):
Yeah, for sure, because they have that new cruise show
called Doctor Odyssey.

Speaker 1 (43:40):
Now it's on the belief show.

Speaker 7 (43:42):
Okay, but it's all about the doctors that are on
the cruise show.

Speaker 1 (43:46):
You make believe right, mm hmm yeah, why are you
referencing a make believe show?

Speaker 7 (43:51):
Well, it's just interesting, like I just don't believe what
just kind of like the fire in shows and stuff
like that. It's nothing like the real thing. So yeah,
this is nothing it's nothing like the real thing.

Speaker 1 (44:05):
Best heard from my son, who apologized to me for
shutting me out of his life for the last year.
Worst went to Oklahoma City for Halloween festivities and was
sick the whole time. Now my fiance and daughter have
what I had. I'm curious to why your son shut
you out? Right. Best part of the weekend, I want
a sandwich on Friday. Worst part can't find the sandwich

(44:27):
coupon in my emails. It's a tough life. I think
I'll go with the cliche. Check your spam, right, yea oh.
Someone commenting on the scar of the Haunted House chain
sauce traumatized from chain sauce. But they're not I mean
they're real, but they cannot cut you. I don't know.

(44:49):
Do they have the chains on them. They're not supposed
to have the chains on them, right exactly, but it's
still a real chainsaw.

Speaker 8 (44:57):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (44:57):
You smell the fumes and it says traumatized by chain
sauce say more. Also, these haunted house people can't hurt you,
touch you at all. What's I mean? They could touch you,
but they can't hurt you. You can touch you, Yeah, they
can't hurt you though. I mean, they're not supposed to.
This isn't like the mccainy mannor when you come out
missing an eyebrow or whatever. You know. Yeah, the most

(45:18):
part that I just get up real close and go, well, goot, bookie,
book a boogie, and that's about as good as it gets.
And I'm intrigued by the idea that you were traumatized
from chain sawce what traumatized you? And if let's just say,
you know, you saw somebody hack somebody up with a chainsaw,
did you think that wasn't a possible skit in a
haunted house? Oh right, I feel like that's a go
to skit in a haunted house. I'm so intrigued by that.

Speaker 3 (45:43):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (45:44):
Best, grown kids in car telling stories from their childhood
and listening to them to laugh. Worst, waking up with
the cold, Best checking out a couple of haunted houses
with my friends. It was fun. Worst does haunted? The
haunted houses are way too expensive? I agree, I think
they are. We did nothing one. I'm trying to think

(46:06):
the last haunted house I went to, I don't even
know what the when you guys went to the cornfield
or whatever.

Speaker 7 (46:11):
How much was that lindsay, I want to say twenty
five a person. Yeah, I really wanted to go. I
don't think I'm going to make any others this year,
but I wanted to go to the one in Sperry
Psychopath but didn't this year.

Speaker 1 (46:30):
Okay, And I.

Speaker 7 (46:31):
Think that one they have two different things you can
do there, and I think it's like thirty bucks a person.

Speaker 1 (46:38):
So I'm looking at one here in town. I ain't
naming no names. Thirty five dollars just to get in
speed pass fifty five dollars. They expedite your entry and
you save tons of time, and then instant access is
seventy five dollars. Wow, so you can pay seventy five dollars,
show up, don't wait in line, and go right in.
Yeah you want to drop that kind of coin out.

Speaker 8 (47:04):
Man.

Speaker 1 (47:06):
I will say this though. When we were in New York,
we went to the one of the museums and I
saw online like buy your tickets ahead of time, don't
buy them there, So we bought them reserved. Our spot
went up the museum. The line was out the door
down the street. We went like right when it opened
ten am, and we showed the person They're like, oh,
you have tickets, go right up and go right in.

(47:28):
We were like great, we thought we were just gonna
have to go and there's a queues inside. Like six
or seven times we went right in and I was like,
now we didn't pay extra, right, you just got them
ahead of time, just bought them online ahead of time.
So that is a nice feeling though, to feel like
you're you do feel a little vipsh when that happens.

(47:49):
But seventy double more than double. So if there's four
of you, three hundred dollars, right, yeah, just to get scared,
no offense, but to a hunted house.

Speaker 7 (48:04):
Right, And is that just it's just one hunted house.

Speaker 1 (48:08):
Yeah, that's one attraction, that's what it says. Yeah, that's
wild to do that.

Speaker 7 (48:14):
You get a T shirt, put that ticket something.

Speaker 1 (48:19):
There's no in best Niners win worst. They still don't
look like a super Bowl team. No they do not.
Oh no, no, no they do not. I know we
will get into that. Uh all right, we got to
take a break. We got tickets to rise against we're
gonna give away and we come back Telsa's Morning.

Speaker 10 (48:36):
Show, The Big Man Boarding Show. The Assault continues next
thirty seven.

Speaker 1 (48:52):
Good Morning, it's the Big Men Morning shown six oh
K m O D. You can also text BMMS and
then what you want to say to eight two nine
four five. Let's play a game as we are gonna
give away tickets to see Rise Against. And that is

(49:15):
gonna be November seventh, Thursday, November seventh at the Caaynes Ballroom.
Tickets available Canes Ballroom dot com. And we're gonna play
our new game, flicked off, flick off, go flick yourself,
flick off, flick off. Uh. And the way this works is,

(49:37):
I'm gonna give you three movie quotes. You've got to
tell me what movie they are part of. You have
one that you can get wrong. You got to get
at least two right to get those tickets to Rise Against.
Nine one eight four six oh K m O D.
Good morning, you're on the air. What is your name, Chris? Chris?
How are you today? Man?

Speaker 4 (49:54):
Pretty good?

Speaker 1 (49:55):
Good? Chris? Would you say you know your movies.

Speaker 4 (50:00):
So yeah?

Speaker 1 (50:01):
Would you say you know masculine movies?

Speaker 4 (50:05):
Sure?

Speaker 1 (50:06):
Sure?

Speaker 4 (50:06):
Like that Christmas movie Diehard? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (50:08):
Sure, yeah, yeah. I could tell you're gonna do great
at this. I will name three movies. These are all
masculine movies. I'm sorry. I'll give you three movie quotes.
You've got to tell me the movie the quote is
associated with. You can get only one wrong. Are you
ready ready? First one? First one, King Kong ain't got
s on me.

Speaker 4 (50:29):
That is training day.

Speaker 1 (50:30):
Excellent job. That is exactly right, Denzel Washington. Maybe one
of his best roles ever. You watch it today and
you're still like that movie's fire man. It's so good.

Speaker 4 (50:39):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (50:40):
Second one, One time I wrestled a giraft to the
ground with my bare hands. One time I wrestled a
draft to the ground with my bare hands.

Speaker 4 (50:55):
Oh, another ring of bell.

Speaker 1 (50:57):
I want to take a guess.

Speaker 4 (51:03):
No, I'm going a blank.

Speaker 1 (51:05):
Uh well, so obviously you're getting that one incorrect. That
is from step Brothers. Okay, last one here, Yeah, well
you know that's like your opinion. Man. Here it is again. Yeah,
well you know that's just like your opinion.

Speaker 4 (51:25):
Man, I wanted to get shot in the dark.

Speaker 1 (51:30):
Here say dazed and confused. Dazed and confused, that is incorrect, man,
that was the big Lebowski. Sorry, brother, thanks for playing.
Thank you everybuddy, See you later. Good morning, You're in
the air. What is your name? Sean Sean, how are
you today, Sean turned your radio down. Okay, here we go, man,

(51:56):
I'm gonna I'm gonna give you three movies, one at
a time. Here. You gotta get our quotes. You've got
to connect to the quote with the movie. Here's your
first one.

Speaker 4 (52:03):
You ready, go ahead?

Speaker 1 (52:06):
Pain don't hurt, Pain don't hurt.

Speaker 4 (52:21):
I don't know. I'm gonna take a guess.

Speaker 1 (52:23):
Jerry maguire, Jerry McGuire, that is incorrect, Sean, that would
be roadhouse. Here's the second one. I've had it with
these mff ing snakes on this mffing plane. Excellent job, Sean,

(52:47):
excellent job. You gotta get this one right to get
the tickets to see Rise Against November seventh, Yeah, November seventh.
All right, I don't this may be a tough one.
I know kung Fu. M I know, I know kung Fu. Actually,

(53:16):
I'll give it to I'll try to give it to
you as in the scene. I know kung Fu.

Speaker 4 (53:30):
Oh is it.

Speaker 1 (53:35):
I'm going to give you another clue. I'm going to
change the quote just a bit. Neo knows kung Fu hm.

Speaker 4 (53:53):
Ah, cung Fu Panda, kung.

Speaker 1 (53:56):
Fu Panda is incorrect. That is from the Matrix. All right, buddy,
thanks for playing man, see you later. I knew that
one was kind of a tough one. Good morning, you're
on the air. What is your name, Stephen Steven? How
are you today, Buddy? You're good man, good man. Here

(54:19):
is your first clue or your first quote? You asso
connect the movie. Okay, here's the first movie quote. Okay,
YIPI kaye.

Speaker 4 (54:27):
Mfor I know what it is, but it's not coming out.

Speaker 1 (54:37):
Yeah, yippy kaye m.

Speaker 4 (54:44):
Oh my god.

Speaker 1 (54:48):
One of the beauties about this game, Stephen, is there
are people hitting their radio right now, and your friends
will now make fun of you for not knowing the movie.

Speaker 4 (54:56):
Yeah, take a.

Speaker 1 (54:58):
Guest friend, Diehard. That is correct. You have to take guesses. Okay,
all right, here's the second one. You're so ugly you
could be a modern art masterpiece. You're so ugly, you

(55:21):
could be a modern art masterpiece. Yeah, you took a
guess last time. What's your guess?

Speaker 9 (55:37):
Uh?

Speaker 4 (55:39):
White chicks, white chicks.

Speaker 1 (55:45):
I feel good to say this. I'm never going to
use a White Chicks movie quote in this game. So
we're all rowing in the same direction. That is from
Full Metal Jacket. You're so ugly. You could be a
modern art masterpiece. All Right, last chance here, this is
the apps, the last chance to win any tickets today. Uh.

(56:06):
They may take our lives, but they'll never take our freedom.
Braveheart of course.

Speaker 4 (56:13):
Man.

Speaker 1 (56:13):
Congratulations, you're getting those tickets for Rise Against November seventh.
That's the Canes Ballroom. Buddy Steven, hang on the line,
so kimp you can get your info. Okay, all right, man,
all right, good job man. Funny thing about them. And
I picked all manly movie quotes and someone like you
you could argue the full metal jacket one might be
a little obscure, but if you know the movie, it's

(56:34):
a famous scene where he is yelling getting yelled at
and he's screaming at him. Your so up, good morning.

(56:56):
It's the Big Mad Morning Show nine eight four six
O k M. You can also text bmms then what
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See what Gimpie has in his four x four and
well I'll call it it, says here the number of E.
Coli cases linked to McDonald's is now at seventy five.

(57:18):
CDC says outbreak has impacted people in thirteen states and
has led to twenty two hospitalizations. One person died in Colorado.
McDonald's removed its quarter pounder hamburger from the menu at
around a fifth of its locations and response to the outbreak,
but says it will resume sales in the coming weeks
after testing results rule out the beef patties as the

(57:42):
source of the outbreak. More than forty million votes for
November election have already been cast. That's according to the
University of Florida's election Lab. Nearly half of those ballots
were cast in person. Slightly more of those votes who
voted early were a registered Democrat compared to Republicans. The

(58:02):
female voters head to the polls more than men by
over ten percentage points. How about done? How about that dough?
And what else we got here? Playing in dirt and
boost your child's immune system? Ail to their data on
the connection a dirt eat that dirt. Data on the
connection between dirt play sounds kinky when you say it

(58:24):
like that. I think it's a different meaning between dirt
play and probability of getting allergies and autoimmune diseases. Found
that mud and dirt exposes children to micro organisms, which
helps with immune training. Researchers say exposure to an array
of microbes teaches the child's immune system to differentiate destructive

(58:48):
microbes versus mild ones.

Speaker 4 (58:51):
How about that?

Speaker 1 (58:52):
And then lastly here the City of Bristow to host
a benefit for new animal shelter. The shelter that have
currently holds ten, but the city says that they reach
capacity often. It's also right next door to the wastewater
plant and isn't open to the public. There will be
a silent auction, local music and more. The benefit is
scheduled for Saturday, November two at six pm. Excuse me

(59:16):
from six pm to midnight at Venue sixty till midnight
till midnight at Venue sixty one rolling huh right, and yeah,
it's an of Bristo and it's only cost you ten
dollars to get in till midnight.

Speaker 7 (59:32):
Partying. The Lions extended their lengthy winning streak following a
fifty two to fourteen victory over the Titans from Detroit.
Jared Goff completed twelve of fifteen passes for eighty five

(59:53):
yards and three touchdowns. David Montgomery rushed for a score
and threw for another, while Jamar Gibbs also found Paydirt
on to go with one hundred and twenty seven yards.
Sam Laporzo was one of the four different receivers to
catch a touchdown as Detroit won its fifth straight game
and improved to six and one on the season. Mason
Rudolph went twenty two to thirty eight for two hundred

(01:00:14):
and sixty six yards, one touchdown and two picks. Kelvin
Ridley caught ten balls for one hundred and forty three yards,
while Tony Pollard had twenty carries for ninety four yards.
Tennessee is lost three in a row and is one
in six.

Speaker 1 (01:00:28):
Yeah, I mean, I don't think he might expect a
Tennessee to be good this year, and Detroit is looking good. Yeah, yeah, good,
yeah very.

Speaker 4 (01:00:38):
C J.

Speaker 7 (01:00:39):
Stroud toss for two hundred and eighty five yards in
a touchdown as the Texans beat the Colts twenty three
to twenty at NRG Stadium barely. Joe Mixon chipped in
with one hundred and two yards and a touchdown on
twenty five carries as Houston improved to six and two.
Tank Dell cot for four passes for thirty five yards
in a score, while Stefan Diggs had five catches for

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eighty one yards. Diggs left the game with a non
contact knee injury. Colts quarterback Anthony Richardson struggled in the loss.
He was ten for thirty two with one hundred and
seventy five yards, one touchdown in one interception. Running Back
Jonathan Taylor had one hundred and five yards and a
touchdown on twenty carries. Indy fell to four and four

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on the season.

Speaker 1 (01:01:22):
There's only been one other quarterback beside C. J. Stroud
to sweep the Indianapolis Colts in a season. Yeah, brock Osweiler,
Old brock Osweiler. Huh, Yeah, I miss him. Yeah, that
game was close. Richson the quarterback for the Colts. I
think he might be the only person on the Colts
team plane. He looks like he's by himself.

Speaker 9 (01:01:45):
A lot out there.

Speaker 1 (01:01:46):
Yeah, it was a very close game. It was yeah,
a lot of them. Yeah.

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where we chat with the listener. They share parts of
their lives with us and on the phone with this
right now is Peter, Hey, Peter.

Speaker 4 (01:02:43):
How are you good? How are you good?

Speaker 1 (01:02:47):
Peter? Is uh fifty plus man? How was it turning fifty?
How did you feel about changing over into the next
half century?

Speaker 4 (01:02:55):
Actually it didn't feel any different than the first half,
except for well, my body hurts a little bit more right.

Speaker 1 (01:03:01):
It takes a little longer to get out of bed
in the morning.

Speaker 4 (01:03:04):
Yeah, a little bit longer than just to wake up.

Speaker 1 (01:03:08):
It says here you've been married for fourteen years. That's great, congratulations,
But it says you have a small farm. Tell us
what animals you have.

Speaker 4 (01:03:20):
Yes, me and my wife. We have four dogs, which
are two miniature Dotson's and two miniature Snauzers. Now we're
down to six cats and two chickens. We for the cats,
what we did is we rescued a family out in

(01:03:40):
the wild and brought them in when they're like a
week old. So we're just fostering them.

Speaker 1 (01:03:45):
Okay, so you've been giving them away as you find
them better homes.

Speaker 4 (01:03:49):
Yes, because we in our menagerie, we don't have any
more room.

Speaker 1 (01:03:54):
Okay, anything else besides the cats.

Speaker 4 (01:03:58):
And then two chickens.

Speaker 1 (01:04:00):
Can you name all twelve animals?

Speaker 4 (01:04:05):
All twelve animals, Yes, Penelope, Babe, Luna, Cinnamon. The cats
are going to be Breather Chini, Alfredo, Flurkin Spirit. Then
we have Jack's Cinder, a coal monkey for the kittens,

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and then the chickens are Henny, Penny and Peepers.

Speaker 1 (01:04:35):
How manly do you feel in this moment? Right now?

Speaker 4 (01:04:39):
I feel very secure in my manhood.

Speaker 1 (01:04:43):
Right all right, So you got why did you get chickens?

Speaker 4 (01:04:48):
My wife wanted chickens, which are you know, great source
of you know, laying eggs, which they do for us
quite a bit. And they're fresh eggs. We love them.

Speaker 1 (01:04:59):
And do you keep I'm guessing in the backyard you
have like a hen house, Like, tell me about that.

Speaker 4 (01:05:03):
Yeah, we have a chicken run. It's like a small
coup for about two chickens that they get to go
out and and then that it's like a little kettle
run that they can go out and play in.

Speaker 1 (01:05:17):
What's the most surprising, Like what surprised you the most
in a good way about owning chickens?

Speaker 4 (01:05:24):
How fresh, how good those fresh eggs taste.

Speaker 1 (01:05:28):
What's the thing that surprised you in not a good way?

Speaker 4 (01:05:33):
The smell?

Speaker 1 (01:05:34):
Mmm, they chickens are an atrocious smell there. The their
poop is like this weird ammonia smell.

Speaker 4 (01:05:43):
Yes, it is very very bad. We have to wash
the area out like once a week.

Speaker 1 (01:05:50):
Maintenance from what I've been told, maintenance on chickens, like
having chickens in your backyard is is what most people
are surprised how much work it takes.

Speaker 4 (01:05:58):
It is a little bit of work. But since there
are only two chickens and we have kind of like
an auto feater for water and food, eh, we just
give him a whole bunch at one time, check on
him every few days, throw some scraps out to him,
because well, chickens eat everything, do you.

Speaker 1 (01:06:16):
What do you do like when it's super hot or
super cold?

Speaker 4 (01:06:20):
We actually have solar fans that blow into the area.
We also have a big missing fan that can cool
them off.

Speaker 1 (01:06:31):
Okay, it says here you were in the army.

Speaker 4 (01:06:34):
What made you want to join the army was when
I was twenty three. I needed a little bit more
direction in my life, and I wanted to join at eighteen,
but it never happened. So I waited until twenty three,
got my poop in a group and joined the Army.

Speaker 1 (01:06:51):
What was the thing that was happening in your life
that made you go, Okay, now is the time to join?
What was happening?

Speaker 4 (01:06:59):
I just wasn't really going anywhere with my life. I
was going from just job to job to job and
not like any anything. And then I just finally said,
I'm done with this. I want to go into the Army.

Speaker 1 (01:07:13):
What'd you do in the Army?

Speaker 4 (01:07:15):
I was a medical specialist.

Speaker 1 (01:07:17):
What does that mean?

Speaker 4 (01:07:19):
I was a combat medic. If we were to going
to combat, I would be the medic that would patch
you up in the front line battlefields. I was also
an EMT.

Speaker 1 (01:07:29):
What was one of the crazier injuries you saw while
you were in the army.

Speaker 4 (01:07:36):
The craziest one I saw was when I was working
in the er one night, an ambulance came in with
a airborne ranger. That parachute did not open up. Wow.
And he was still alive when they brought him in.
And I had a sergeant that was she was laying

(01:07:58):
on top of him try and keep him compressed so
that he would not die.

Speaker 1 (01:08:04):
Wow. So you get you get that call that that's
what's in root. What goes through your mind?

Speaker 4 (01:08:16):
Shocked at first, surprise, and then it's just down to business.

Speaker 1 (01:08:21):
Right, everything muscle memory, everything just kicks in.

Speaker 4 (01:08:24):
Yep.

Speaker 1 (01:08:25):
And did that person survive?

Speaker 4 (01:08:28):
No, he ended up not surviving. I think that he
didn't make it into surgery. They tried to get him
in as fast as possible, but there's really nothing they
are going to be able to do.

Speaker 1 (01:08:40):
What's that like in that environment? What's that like to
be an emergency person like that and somebody pass away
in front of you?

Speaker 4 (01:08:52):
It's a little It stops you for a moment and
you just have to ponder about life. And then you
just kind of keep that memory there and just keep
on going. Because I'm still alive at this point in time.
We're good to go.

Speaker 1 (01:09:10):
Yeah, because it's just part of the job, right, Like
sometimes people die.

Speaker 4 (01:09:14):
Yep, and we're not and we're not all powerful that
we can say of everybody. We can only do the
best we can to patch them up and get them
back out there.

Speaker 1 (01:09:26):
I want to ask you a question that you may
not know the answer to. How many people do you
think you've seen pass away?

Speaker 4 (01:09:34):
Like right in front of my eyes? Two? Three, about fifteen?

Speaker 1 (01:09:45):
Wow, it's a big number, man.

Speaker 4 (01:09:48):
Yeah, I saw, you know, two when I was in
high school, friend two for a couple of friends got
in a car accident that they died instantly in. Then
that one in the military, and then no, I guess
I've only seen five. And then the one in the military,

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and then the two at Disneyland.

Speaker 1 (01:10:13):
Right, because it says here you worked at Disneyland. How
old were you when you worked at Disneyland.

Speaker 4 (01:10:18):
I was twenty six when I hired in, So.

Speaker 1 (01:10:22):
You were out you got out of the military and
then joined Disneyland like a different type of military.

Speaker 4 (01:10:27):
Yeah, yes, what, well, it's actually it's actually a big
transition to going from stern to casual.

Speaker 1 (01:10:37):
Sure, I can't even imagine. Why did you get out
of the military. What happened?

Speaker 4 (01:10:42):
I actually I act accidentally I did. I hurt my
ankle so bad that I couldn't run anymore, and they
just medically discharged me.

Speaker 1 (01:10:53):
Well, if you were an EMT, how'd you hurt your
ankle running information?

Speaker 4 (01:10:58):
Somebody stopped in front of me and I ran up
the back of their leg. I stepped up on the
back of the leg and my leg came down on
my ankle on the side.

Speaker 1 (01:11:09):
And when that hit like an l oh ow. Yeah,
when that happened, did you know it was bad that
that was probably the end of your military career?

Speaker 4 (01:11:19):
No, because that happened to be basic training, as in
what just kept on happening? Is it never healed because
you know, you're always on the move in the military,
and it was such a It was a severe sprain,
is what it was, and what it didn't break it?

Speaker 1 (01:11:36):
Do you still have what? Do you still have problems
with it to this day?

Speaker 4 (01:11:40):
No, because it has tightened up over time, it has
healed itself. I haven't had a problem with it since
two thousand and five.

Speaker 1 (01:11:51):
So you get discharged, and how come you don't go
into the medical field out of the.

Speaker 4 (01:11:56):
Military, Because at that point in time in California, where
I was going back to the medical field for EMTs,
which I would have been to pay for it for
what you do was atrocious. It was not going to
be worth it. I made more money going to Disneyland.

Speaker 1 (01:12:15):
Okay, so you go to Disneyland. What's that like? It
feels it's got to feel surreal and exciting to work
for Disneyland. Or maybe if you're from California that feels normal.
But from somebody not from California or Florida, that feels
like that's cool.

Speaker 4 (01:12:30):
Yeah, I mean it was. It was more excitement just
to be there and actually the work there and have
making people happy.

Speaker 7 (01:12:43):
How did you make them happy?

Speaker 4 (01:12:45):
Oh, just by getting them through the lines, make sure
that they have a good time, that there weren't any problems,
trying to stay calm, trying to keep them calm, try
not to get angry. But it was a challenge. But
I was very excited about being there, and it's all

(01:13:08):
it's all about making the kids happy. It's just so much,
you know, some of the adults, but it's just so
much fun watching kids their eyes be you know, light
up at just this, you know, everything that's going on
in Disneyland.

Speaker 1 (01:13:26):
How long did you work at Disneyland?

Speaker 4 (01:13:29):
Ten years?

Speaker 1 (01:13:30):
And do you get like a watch at ten years
or did they acknowledge that type of longevity?

Speaker 4 (01:13:35):
Yes? I did. I actually got a very nice plaque
saying that I worked there for ten years.

Speaker 1 (01:13:40):
That's nice. Where is that plaque now.

Speaker 4 (01:13:45):
In a box somewhere?

Speaker 1 (01:13:46):
Yeah, it is. Why did you quit?

Speaker 4 (01:13:51):
I actually met my wife. She was my you know,
my sister's friend at the time. We talked on the
phone because I was working overnights at Disneyland, and we
just got to know each other really well, and I
decided to move out to Florida to be with her.

Speaker 1 (01:14:10):
You said overnights at Disneyland. What happens in the overnights
at Disneyland?

Speaker 4 (01:14:15):
Just the maintenance. There's on the rivers of America, there's
an island called Tom Sawyer's Island. They have to do
the maintenance out there on everything that's out on the island.
So that's what we had to do. We had to
drive them over.

Speaker 1 (01:14:31):
It says here that you rode Splash Mountain for twelve
hours straight for fun or for maintenance.

Speaker 4 (01:14:40):
They were testing a new system on it, and the
cast members that worked the ride had to be on
the ride for twelve hours, going up and down on
that ride. I mean, the ride wasn't going straight for
twelve hours. They'd stop for a little bit adjust, then
we'd have to ride stop, adjust and stuff and so on.

(01:15:01):
So needless said, was very cold and very wet because
it happened in the middle of winter.

Speaker 1 (01:15:06):
Oh, winter in California.

Speaker 4 (01:15:10):
Winter in California. Yeah, fickle degrees night.

Speaker 8 (01:15:14):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (01:15:15):
Earlier, you said two people died at Disney. Tell me
what you saw of the two people that died when
you worked at Disney.

Speaker 4 (01:15:22):
Uh. The first one that I saw was I was
running a canoe around the rivers of America and the
sailing ship Columbia was docking and it they threw the
rope on the cleat and it was supposed to be
a breakaway rope because they're going in too fast, and
it did not break. It ripped the cleat out of
the dock, and it swung out and hit somebody that

(01:15:44):
wasn't supposed to be standing there and took the leg off. Now,
that rope also hit a couple of the cast members
and just flung them, but they weren't seriously injured, like
having a leg taken off.

Speaker 1 (01:15:55):
Wow, cleat is the thing the rope gets tied around, right,
Yes it is. Wow. And you saw that. You witnessed that, Yes,
I did.

Speaker 4 (01:16:04):
And then after that it's kind of hard trying to
evacuate half of the park over to the other side
of the park to keep that area.

Speaker 1 (01:16:12):
Clear, right, because now it's crime scene, right.

Speaker 4 (01:16:16):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:16:17):
Would you say those people left saying they had a
good time?

Speaker 4 (01:16:21):
Probably not.

Speaker 1 (01:16:23):
I mean, they may have had fun up until that moment.

Speaker 4 (01:16:27):
Yeah, they He could say he left a souvenir at Disneyland.

Speaker 1 (01:16:30):
Yeah, do you know did that person sue Disney or
anything like that?

Speaker 4 (01:16:36):
As I remember, right, everything was taken care of and
they did a settlement out of court because they Disney
knew they were at fault on that one.

Speaker 1 (01:16:46):
It's what was the other time you saw somebody get injured.

Speaker 4 (01:16:51):
Right across the way from one of the sailing ship
Columbia is there's a right called Big Thunder Mountain. In
one day a train got decoupled and killed a few people.
So we had to clear that area once again. And
I saw the bodies when they were bringing them down
to put on the tarps and cover them up, and

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we had to keep people out of that area.

Speaker 7 (01:17:15):
So when the train derailed the cars, yep, did they
dig yeah once or something?

Speaker 4 (01:17:24):
Yeah? Yeah, because it was it's the roller coaster and
it just came uncoupled from the train the engine, and
they just it derailed at that point in time.

Speaker 1 (01:17:40):
I'm sorry, I'm going down a rabbit hole. Of all
the accidents that have ever happened at Disneyland, it's wild
the number of times something happens.

Speaker 4 (01:17:47):
Yes, it's not uncommon.

Speaker 1 (01:17:51):
It is not uncommon. That is true, Peter, It's very common.
And I'm just talking Disneyland, I'm not talking about the
other resort. Yes, that that's so. Does Disney then just
keep it covered up?

Speaker 4 (01:18:06):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:18:06):
They?

Speaker 4 (01:18:06):
I mean since it's since it was known publicly, they
don't cover anything up. They you know, give the report
and everything like that, and they just kind of move
on and try to fix what the problem was.

Speaker 1 (01:18:22):
So why why do you.

Speaker 8 (01:18:25):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:18:25):
No, I've been sorry. Uh So you get out? What
do you go do after you work at Disneyland?

Speaker 4 (01:18:32):
I go and I'm working in Florida, at a bed
bathroom Beyond as a customer service manager and also as
a valet overnight.

Speaker 1 (01:18:45):
Okay, and how did that? How was that?

Speaker 4 (01:18:48):
That was fun? I mean the bed bathroom beyond. But
I did love doing my valet job. That was a
lot of fun. No, no famous people, even though I
was down in Fort Lauderdale when I did it. It
was more the type of cars that I got to drive.
Drive nineteen thirty two ex Caliber.

Speaker 1 (01:19:11):
It was the worst car.

Speaker 4 (01:19:17):
Any Toyota that came in that was older than ten years.

Speaker 1 (01:19:27):
I mean, what the most one night?

Speaker 4 (01:19:30):
Two hundred and fifty dollars.

Speaker 1 (01:19:32):
Okay, what do you do now?

Speaker 4 (01:19:36):
Right now? I work at Saint Francis Hospital in the
ingredient room, which is where all the food gets delivered
to you, and then we sort it and sent it
to the different various places within the hospital system.

Speaker 1 (01:19:49):
How'd you get relocated to Tulsa? How if you guys
were both in Florida? What caused you to move here?

Speaker 4 (01:19:54):
My wife got a job I've been actually Lincoln, Nebraska,
and then we were there for a few years, and
then she ended up getting another job down here in Oklahoma,
which she is a native of Oklahoma. This area, and
I followed her and just we've ended up here and

(01:20:15):
we've been here for the last nine years.

Speaker 1 (01:20:17):
Now it says here you had open heart surgery at
forty eight. What was the warning sign that you needed
open heart surgery?

Speaker 4 (01:20:27):
I didn't feel any warning signs. Back in twenty seventeen,
I had an angioplasty done and they said that when
they were doing it that I must have had a
heart attack at some point in time, but I did
not feel it. And then a few years later, when
I was forty eight, they did an angioplasty again and
then said nope, we got to go in and do
open heart surgery.

Speaker 1 (01:20:48):
What was the reasons did angioplasty.

Speaker 4 (01:20:52):
Because the artery that's called the widow maker was blocked
and that's the main one that goes into the heart.

Speaker 1 (01:21:00):
Yeah, how did they know they needed to do an angioplasty?

Speaker 4 (01:21:05):
The stress test They inject you with nuclear dye, make
you get on a treadmill, get your heart right up
to one hundred and fifty so they could take pictures
of it.

Speaker 1 (01:21:18):
And what made them want to do that?

Speaker 4 (01:21:23):
At first? It was just because I was you know.
The first time was because I was short of breath.
I was having troubles breathing, and I just thought it
was you know, because I was working in a freezer
at the time for you know, hours at a time.
I thought it was just my you know, having a cold.
But then I went and got it checked and they said, oh, no,
you got blockage. We need to get you in there.

Speaker 1 (01:21:44):
So you were just working like normal and feeling like
a sense of exhaustion. You're like, I should probably have
this checked out. And then it snowballed into angioplasts and
then eventually you had to have open heart surgery. Yes,
And what was that like waking up after open heart surgery?

Speaker 4 (01:22:01):
Uh, kind of surreal. I didn't really want to wake up.
It was kind of you know, you're intubated. But the
my nurse said, I was like one of the coolest
people that ever was because a lot of people wanted
to try to pull that tube out. I just wanted
to go back to sleep right and and it it

(01:22:21):
is the whole thing is after you have that done,
you feel like you have no strength left in your
body and you have to rebuild that back up.

Speaker 1 (01:22:34):
How long were you in the hospital.

Speaker 4 (01:22:37):
I was in the hospital for six days.

Speaker 1 (01:22:40):
That's wild.

Speaker 4 (01:22:42):
And I was off of work. I was off of
work for three months.

Speaker 1 (01:22:45):
No kidding, just trying to rehab.

Speaker 4 (01:22:48):
Yep.

Speaker 1 (01:22:50):
Wow, how that's dude, that's wild.

Speaker 4 (01:22:55):
And it's still even when I got back to work
and I was feeling okay, it still took me a
couple of months to get back in to actually doing
the manual labor that I do.

Speaker 1 (01:23:05):
Yeah, yeah, dude, that's crazy. Man. Well, listen, it's been
awesome talking to you. Glad you're doing well. Now take
care of your small farm and that wife. And thanks
for taking the time to talk to.

Speaker 4 (01:23:17):
Us, No problem, Thank you very much. You guys are great.

Speaker 1 (01:23:20):
Have a good day, buddy.

Speaker 4 (01:23:22):
All right.

Speaker 1 (01:23:22):
Bye, that's Peter. Our listeners are awesome. We'll take a
break and we'll be back.

Speaker 10 (01:23:25):
Tulsa's Morning Show is coming right back, The Big Man
Morning Show, Tulsa's Rock Station nine.

Speaker 1 (01:23:56):
Okay, good morning. I'm gonna call this what all right,
I'll read a story and I'm you'll go what Because
these are absolutely wild. The idea that this this has

(01:24:16):
happened to somebody, I cannot okay, sorry, I'm just caught
a little off guard with some of these. All right.
Travel photographer dies while backing into a plane propeller. Oh damn, yeah, what.

Speaker 4 (01:24:36):
She was?

Speaker 7 (01:24:38):
Go ahead, I want to know.

Speaker 1 (01:24:40):
She was taking photos of people getting on and off
of planes at the Air Capitol drop Zone in suburban
Wichita when she accidentally backed into an active propeller. She's
a skydiver. She was rushed to the rush of the
hospital in extremely critical condition, but died due to her injuries. Quote.

(01:25:02):
She died doing what she loved, skydiving and taking pictures,
according to a fundraiser that has raised over six thousand dollars.

Speaker 7 (01:25:11):
Don't you hear the propeller behind you?

Speaker 1 (01:25:15):
Yes? But if there's other props running like the one
maybe you're taking a picture of, they would all sound
the same. Do you think you would feel like the
wind off of it or some Yeah? Yeah, I mean
I feel like it sounds like she worked in the
air industry. She should have known better. Oh yeah, for sure.

(01:25:37):
Walking in front of the prop near the prop is
a massive no. No, Now, maybe one was taxiing, maybe
it moved on. Who knows, right, but whoa what what?
I bet she didn't feel a thing. No, if she

(01:25:58):
was alive, she did. Yeah, they say they rushed her
to the hospital. But I guess you have no place
else to take him. You can't just leave him there
on the ground. Yeah, they thought there was a chance
that they could help her, right. Yeah, this one's pretty
great too. Husband goes on rampage after finding wife having

(01:26:21):
sex with his brother in car w as his mom
sat in the front seat. There's a lot going on there.
What it feels like the appropriate response. This takes place
in Australia where a man went on a rampage with

(01:26:43):
a shovel after he busted his wife having sex with
his brother in the back seat of the car while
mama was in the front seat. It unfolded when a
suspicious the husband was suspicious track down his spouse after
she failed to answer her phone multiple times. He found
his wife of six years, who has four kids with

(01:27:05):
in the back of the vehicle with his brother going
to poundtown in a parking lot close to the brother's
apartment building, and his own mom was sitting in the
front seat when the pair were caught in the act.
He started punching his brother in the chest and body,
before then striking his wife in the head. He then

(01:27:28):
says he grabbed a shovel from his car, I'll be
right back, and started beating the pair with the shovel
as he shouted, quote kill them all. At one point,
he smashed the shovel so hard it broke in two
According to court records. His mom tried to intervene, but

(01:27:50):
ended up being pushed into a nearby trash can. The
wife and brother were both hospitalized with minor injuries from
the attack. During the sentencing, the judge acknowledged that the
saga must have been upsetting for him, but it is
because of a breach of trust between family members. Quote.
I accepted it as a motive response to the circumstances

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you discovered. He ended up pleading guilty to a slew
of assault charges, as well as possessing weed and possessing
a fireharm and ammunition. He was sentenced to three years
in prison.

Speaker 7 (01:28:23):
That's it, that's all he got. Three years.

Speaker 1 (01:28:25):
Well it's just assault.

Speaker 7 (01:28:27):
Yeah, who with intent to kill?

Speaker 1 (01:28:31):
I mean he said it right, Yeah, he didn't go
get it. If you wanted to kill me, would have
got his gun. That sounds like he had.

Speaker 7 (01:28:38):
I love how the mom tried to intervene and stop him,
but not her other son from right right, you know. Oh,
my god, well.

Speaker 1 (01:28:52):
Hear me nowt Fornicating is a little different than violent, true,
so one feels permanent. You would think the mom would have,
I don't know, stopped the fornication before it ever happened,

(01:29:12):
instead of just staring straight forward. Maybe they were being quiet.
Don't look in the back seat? Why is she sitting
in the cars? Actually? The big question and where are
these people's kids who gets horned up with their mom
right in front of them? No kidding, Okay, okay, act

(01:29:33):
as if your mom's alive, GIMPI. It can be with
your current partner. Doesn't have to be as nefarious as this. Absolutely,
Can you have sex with your partner in the back
seat while your mom sits in the front seat? Lindsay now,
don't don't just shoot from the hip there, linz df this.

(01:29:55):
Can you have sex with your partner while your mother
sits in the front seat?

Speaker 7 (01:30:02):
Can? I? Yes?

Speaker 1 (01:30:04):
Okay, gimpy uh you know part of me wants to
say yes. Part of me wants to say yes, like,
oh yeah, I could, I could totally you know, bang
one out when my mom's in the front seat. I think, though, realistically,

(01:30:31):
there is new way that things are going to arise
like they should with my mom in the front seat?
Is she talking that that?

Speaker 2 (01:30:43):
Man?

Speaker 1 (01:30:43):
I mean, I don't know, man, could you gorby? No?
Sex in the back seat is already a giant challenge, right.
It was good when we were kids and didn't have
any other place to go, and I saw the picture
of these people. They definitely aren't small. Small would not
be a phrase you would use to describe their physiques.

(01:31:06):
So they're not doing in the back of Ahanna Civic.
I mean they could have. Maybe that's why they couldn't
see mom, all right, But then to do like to
do it with your brother's wife is a whole other
psychosis thing to deal with. Forget your mom in the

(01:31:27):
front seat. The only explanation would be drugs, okay, that
they were both so high, or one of them was
so high they couldn't really decipher that it was their
their siblings partner and their mom is in the front seat. No, no, no, no,
that's a relationship that's been going on for a while.

Speaker 7 (01:31:45):
I think so too. You know it was I wanted
you the whole time, but I settled for your brother. Well,
I wanted you the whole time. Well, then let's make
this happen.

Speaker 1 (01:31:55):
I think that just sounds hurry up and bang and
get it over with that. It may have already been
a thing, But what you're describing, lindsays, just sounds like
it's romantic, like I've been wanting you Like, No, they
could have just banked. They could have been high and
just banked, or drunk and just banged. Maybe mom is
a napper when in the car. You know, I only

(01:32:17):
napping the car. Get out of here. But moms same,
Mom's asleep, is hopping a back seat real quick. Christmas
is gonna be weird. You get him a new shovel. Hey,
that's like that text we got earlier about somebody who
their kid, you know, blocked them out or whatever for
a year or whatever. I don't know if you recover

(01:32:40):
from this, Oh, no chance in hell, but feels like
a worthy reason to out them from your life. Absolutely.
So the question do you ousd both the brother and
the mom and the wife all three of them, or
just the brother and the wife all of them?

Speaker 8 (01:32:59):
Uh?

Speaker 1 (01:32:59):
Oh you can't the mom because you have kids with them,
right the wife in this case, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,
you still get rid of her, But yeah, I get
what you're saying, You're still going to be a part
of her life. I think at some point you could
get to a place where you can be in the
same room with them. But there you're definitely not getting
You're the Best mother Ever card on Mother's Day. And

(01:33:22):
if I pull your name at Christmas for the gift,
you ain't getting a gift. No, it's Texas, man, you
really know who the favorite kid is there. All right,
we got to take a break. We'll be back.

Speaker 10 (01:33:36):
You're listening to the Big Mad Morning Show. This is
Tulsa's Morning show ninety KMOD.

Speaker 1 (01:34:00):
Good morning, It's the Big nine Morning SHOWMOD can also
text BMMS and then what you want to say to
eight two, nine, four five. Our NFL picks from the weekend,
and we had Chiefs Raiders. We all picked the Chiefs
and the Chiefs defense looked pretty good. The offense finally clicked.

(01:34:23):
And those games are always close, man, like you, I
never count those games out with Raiders, but it's nice
to have a home stadium on the West Coast too.
Bears and Commanders. That game was atrocious for the first half,
and then the second half it looked like Caleb came alive.
And had a pretty good run at the to try

(01:34:45):
and take the lead at the vinyl into the game
with like twenty seconds left, and then the defense, specifically
one of the cornerbacks, decided to play stupid and taunt
the commander's crowd. And then this happened to one last
play And it's gonna be getting longer by the second.

(01:35:06):
You want to be back at the thirty yard line.
Now you can step into it.

Speaker 9 (01:35:11):
Here comes to hail Marry, but the game on the line.

Speaker 1 (01:35:15):
And then, oh, I hate that this happened to Lindsay's
team because we have to play this audio. It's easily
gonna be one of the more magical plays of all time. Impressive,
insanely impressive that it happened. Impressive, well, just simply because

(01:35:41):
he got tipped and then it like he just happened
to be right there. You know, everybody's down there in
the end zone. Oh my god, I got I gotta
tipped and then just fell right into his hands. That's
why I say it was lucky there. That play encompasses
the problem with the Bears. Their coach play calling is atrocious.
What are you doing on the goal line when you
have DeAndre Swift and Kaylen Williams, and you're letting a

(01:36:03):
lineman run the ball in. That's so stupid. What are
you doing on a hail mary? Not blitzing? That's the
whole point of of of the hail mary. How you
stop it is stop the ball from leaving the quarterback's hands. Yeah,
that's how you make a hail Mary not happen. So
to me, it's just really bad play calling all around.
And I don't think the defense looked like they were

(01:36:24):
gonna be good, but they were not good. They were
not good.

Speaker 7 (01:36:27):
I was upset with all the posts on Facebook and
it was like Bears win, Bears win. It's like, uh to,
I spoke too soon.

Speaker 1 (01:36:36):
No, Statistically they had that game, yeah right. I mean
you talk about commanding an offense down the down the
field to take the lead. I mean Caleb did that.
That is a defining moment for him for sure. But
you're going against another Heisman Trophy winner. I don't know
what you want. Yeah, that was amazing. Uh of course,

(01:36:57):
Lindsay took the Bears Gimby and I took the Commanders
and that ended up being points for us, and then
forty nine Ers and Cowboys I mean, the forty nine
ers won, but it didn't look like a stellar performance
at all, barely And Cowboys fan, I think you can
safely say the season's over. Yeah. So overall, Lindsay's two

(01:37:17):
and one, got two out of one, two of one
for the week. Kim Be and I both went three
and oh. So Lindsay's sixteen to eight, I'm sixteen eight
and give you a seventeen and seven for this week.

Speaker 8 (01:37:28):
So yeah.

Speaker 7 (01:37:42):
Drake May is learning to deal with the NFL. The
third overall pick from the twenty twenty four draft, exited
Sunday's game between the Patriots and Jets with a concussion.
The injury appeared to come on a play where May
scrambled for eighteen yards. May's helmet came in contact with
the helmet of Jets linebacker Jamien Sherwood while sliding at

(01:38:03):
the end of his run. He had completed three of
six pass attempts for twenty three yards while rushing three
times for forty six yards, including a score. The rookie
QB was replaced by veteran backup Jacoby Brissette, who started
the first five games of the season for New England.

Speaker 1 (01:38:19):
The backup got hurt, so the backup's replacement was who
he replaced. Here's Aaron Rodgers talking about what they need
to do because of the loss. By the way, they're cooked,
they're over.

Speaker 11 (01:38:32):
I've been in the darkness. You've got to go in
there make peace with it. Offensively, our goal has just
got to be score thirty. Doesn't matter what the other
two sides are doing. You know, we have trust in
our defense and teams, but we're not scoring thirty. We're underachievement.
This offense can do that every single week.

Speaker 1 (01:38:52):
What are you talking about for those are no. Thirty
is the magical number in the NFL to win games, right,
every team score thirty. The probability, the chance, the statistical
probability of you winning raises dramatically if you can score
thirty points. Yeah. Right, So he isn't saying anything, And
what are you talking about? Zach Wilson was a better

(01:39:15):
quarterback with the Jets. Yeah, we should also point out
that I don't think solid was the problem. Nope, you've
lost every game since his departure. Man, I think they've
got a massive problem on their hands. Cause unless Aaron
Rodgers just leaves, by the way, they've only scored thirty

(01:39:37):
points twice. Nope, nope, They've never scored thirty points this season,
So I don't know what you're talking about.

Speaker 7 (01:39:46):
Yeah, it's now. It's time for your Dallas Cowboys update,
brought to you by our friends at Miller Lte. It
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While he threw two fourth quarter touchdown passes to Lamb,
Prescott became the first Cowboys quarterback with two interceptions in
three straight games since Troy Aikman in nineteen ninety two.
According to ESPN research, Prescott finished twenty five of thirty

(01:40:09):
eight for two hundred and forty three yards and was
sacked twice. The Cowboys have lost two in a row
and sit third in the NFC East at three and four.
They travel to play the Atlanta Falcons in week nine.
If you want to win standing room only tickets to
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(01:40:31):
I'm Lindsay in ninety seven to five km OD.

Speaker 1 (01:40:48):
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then what you want to say to eight two nine
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throughout the day. Join us in the studio. Now is
Jeff Heinsley of Heinsley and Associate. It's good morning, Jeff,
a good morning. Jeff's here to answer any question you
have about family law, custody, name change, guardianship. Maybe you

(01:41:41):
found out you're going to be a dad. He can
answer how paternity works. You need to call with your
question at nine one eight four to six ozh KMOD.
You can text your question BMMS and whatever that question
is to eight two nine four five, or you can
email show at kmod dot com. This is one we
got last week and it's a good morning. My eighteen
year old daughter got into a little trouble and was

(01:42:02):
given a court date, not arrested. She has had her
first appearances and was given a new date to return.
At no point has anything about a lawyer been mentioned.
Is she allowed to have a lawyer?

Speaker 4 (01:42:14):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (01:42:14):
Absolutely, I mean in those situations, you're always allowed to
show up with a lawyer or consult with a lawyer
or anything. So please give us a call. We'd be
happy to talk to you about that. I mean, they're
not gonna so in these initial situations, if it's what
I'm thinking is, is you know, the incident happens, and
then you're given a court date, and when you go
to that first court date, that's when you find out
if there's actually been any charges filed or not, because

(01:42:34):
a lot of times you walk up to the list
and you'll see your name and it'll say dismissed or
not charged or something like that. But if it's if
that's not the case, and you go in and you
said it for another date, maybe it's because the judge
is sick or too busy. I don't know what the
reason they would reset it sometimes, but yeah, you're always
allowed to have a lawyer at your side anytime you're
in those situations. I would suggest you have a lawyer

(01:42:55):
at your side so you're not trying to negotiate with
district atorneys who know that you're represented by yourself, and
you might not get the deal, the best deal for
what you're trying to do, So please give us a call.
We'd like to help you with that.

Speaker 1 (01:43:11):
Well. And people, it can be an overwhelming experience to
show under the court. And there's countless stories of people
that go when they have been evicted from their homes
from rental properties and they go to the judge sends
them out to talk and the lawyer note for the
people that on the property, I know how to strong
arm them, and the people just showed up. They didn't

(01:43:33):
even know what to do. But there are very few
scenarios where a lawyer does not need to go.

Speaker 9 (01:43:38):
Very few, very very few, very very few. I can
count on my one hand less than three. So yeah,
I mean there's every situation when you're dealing with it.
Any courthouse or in a courtroom. You want to have
an attorney there like ours that know exactly what's going on.
We know the judges, we know the laws, we know
what's required. So if you're in that situation, please give
us a call. We'd love to help you with it.

Speaker 1 (01:44:00):
I've also noticed too that judges will be more grateful
that there's an attorney there.

Speaker 9 (01:44:04):
Yes, judges, no offense to pro say people. Okay, judges
don't like dealing with pro sae people, not because they
don't like the person individually. Okay, so don't take it personally.
It's just that when you don't know the law, and
the law says, well, if you're going to represent yourself,
you're going to be held to the same standards as
a practicing attorney who has gone to law school, who's

(01:44:25):
taken them bar exam, and who has practiced in this
area for a while. So with that expectation and you
not knowing any of those things, all right, it makes
things difficult for the court in the sense that there's
a lot of extra time that goes into it, a
lot of dragging of feet and things of this that
and the other that happened because you don't know what

(01:44:47):
to do, and the judge can't give you legal advice.
That's not their job and they're not allowed to do that.
So when you say, well, what am I supposed to
do and the judge says, I'm sorry, I can't give
you that, that causes frustration for the individual too because
they don't know what to do and the judge can't
tell them. So again, don't represent yourself. Give us a call.
We'd love to help you.

Speaker 1 (01:45:06):
On the phone right now is someone they're saying their
name is sweetie and sweety. What's your question for? Jeff
Hensley of Hensley and Associates.

Speaker 12 (01:45:14):
Hi, I've been married a little over forty years and
i want a divorce. However, I'm stingy and I'm going
to be coming into some retirement phones in about five years, okay,
and I want to know if I divorce him now, well,
I have to pay.

Speaker 9 (01:45:31):
Him those Yes, any increase from the death Yes, any
increase of anything in your marriage from the date of
marriage to the data separation or the date that you
file the the divorce petition. He's going to be entitled
to fifty percent of that. So any of those those
proceeds you're about to get in five years, all right,

(01:45:51):
you're gonna have to pay him half if they were
you know, if they've been purchased or done sometime between
the dated marriage and the date you file for divorce.
So if you don't want him to get a dime
of those things, you know, it's a hard situation because
even once you get them in five years, he's still
going to be entitled to half of them. And so

(01:46:11):
you're you're kind of that that's kind of the catch
twenty two there, But it goes both ways.

Speaker 12 (01:46:15):
Right, this is this is an aesoft that won't be
available for that long, and so it's still going to
fall under that.

Speaker 9 (01:46:25):
Any increase, correct, any increase in marital asset, Yes, it
doesn't matter what the marital asset is. Didn't care if
it's aesop or a pension or a four to one
K or four three K or any of that kind
of stuff. Any increase is going to be divided between
the two parties, that's correct.

Speaker 1 (01:46:40):
Does he have does he have retirement funds as well?

Speaker 12 (01:46:44):
Okay, yeah, yeah, but you know what, you answered my question.
I'm staying married. He's not going to get it, and
I can make sure you don't get it that way.

Speaker 1 (01:46:52):
Yes, but he has retirement funds as well. Correct, not as.

Speaker 12 (01:46:56):
Many as I did.

Speaker 9 (01:47:00):
All right, Well, if you change your mind, won't.

Speaker 12 (01:47:02):
His won't compared to mine by a thousand and volve.

Speaker 1 (01:47:07):
Well, this doesn't have to do with attorney stuff. But
why after forty years are you ready to be divorced
from him?

Speaker 12 (01:47:14):
Because I realized that I'm not as important as alcohol,
and I'm more important than alcohol.

Speaker 9 (01:47:24):
You absolutely are, and I agree with that. If you
do change your mind for a divorce, please give us
a call. We'd be happy to help you with that.
And if you have any further questions, please don't hesitate
to reach out to my office.

Speaker 12 (01:47:33):
Okay, okay, thank you very much.

Speaker 1 (01:47:36):
All Right, good good luck. That's not an uncommon tale.
People will stay married to avoid giving the other party money.

Speaker 9 (01:47:42):
That's part of it. Yeah, I mean the other big
one is is staying married until the kids graduate high
school and get out to college. That's another big one.
There's a lot of different reasons people stay married. I mean,
it's a very different we're a very different society now
than where we were thirty, forty, fifty years ago, even
twenty years ago. In our mentality and how we think
about divorce, and how we think about staying together and

(01:48:08):
trying to choose what we do with our lives. Right,
I mean, I think there's a lot more self empowerment
these days than there were obviously fifty years ago, especially
dealing with marriages and women in the home and women working.
I mean, there's just it's just a very different society,
you know. And unfortunately, and this is I'm glad we
got to talk on this for two seconds, and I'll

(01:48:29):
get off it very quickly. I feel like, and this
is my personal opinion, this is this is the Gospel
by Jeff Okay, So just listen for two seconds. Some
of our laws are antiquated. And what I mean by
antiquated is is they were written many, many, many many
moons ago, all right, long before the change of society.
And so we're starting to see a change in some
of those laws, all right, especially since we've added in

(01:48:52):
gay marriage and all those things. And so it's good
to see that society is changing. But you know, some
of our laws will old so again, and I say
this almost every time because I'm a big proponent of this. Guys,
anytime you have a problem with any law, doesn't matter
what it is, all right, marriage ratherwise, divorce ratherwise, cars

(01:49:12):
driving whatever, all right, contact your local legislator. Find out
who your legislator is for your district, all right, and
contact them, email them, write them, go to their office.
They're the ones that can make a difference and a.

Speaker 1 (01:49:26):
Change good pertaining to her situation. Is there any scenario
in with state law in Oklahoma where you don't have
to pay or give fifty percent to the other people.

Speaker 9 (01:49:37):
No, I mean he's still be entitled. I mean, obviously
she's going to be entitled to. Okay, so let me
let me illustrate this. So let's say hers is I
don't know what it is, lady, And if you're listening,
I'm trying to insult you by number. I'm using it
for easy math. Okay, say you've got hers worth one
hundred thousand and his is worth ten thousand, all right,
And I know that's not a thousandfold, but whatever. So

(01:49:59):
my point being is that she would still be entitled
to five, he would be entitled to fifty. They're being
offset for her five and he would get five less.
I mean, there's different ways to handle it and break
all it up.

Speaker 1 (01:50:10):
And deal with it.

Speaker 9 (01:50:11):
But yes, you know, for anybody.

Speaker 1 (01:50:13):
Any or he could get the home and then she
would they would right that way.

Speaker 9 (01:50:17):
That's what I'm saying. If there's equity in the home,
we can offset it that way. There's all sorts of
ways we can try and offset so that you keep
a retirement intact as opposed to having to do it's
called a quadra. That's qd R. It stands for a
qualified domestic relations order. Okay, it's just a fancy term
for and I paraphrase the document that splits up your

(01:50:40):
four one k. All right, there's ways to protect your
your retirement item, whatever it may be, four one k, esop, pinch,
whatever it may be, all right, So we don't have
to break into it by offsets if they are available,
I mean not everybody has those other things that we
can divide up and kind of splice because at the
end of the day, you know what we do with
the edge does is they put your name at the

(01:51:01):
top of both sides. They draw a line down in
the middle and says, okay, she gets this, he gets this,
and at the bottom they equal the same amount. And
that's when we play tic tac toe and memory and
match by trying to figure out where to give offsets,
so they end up with the same number at the bottom.

Speaker 1 (01:51:15):
Now that's an important point. It's not everything split fifty
to fifty. It is an overall amount.

Speaker 9 (01:51:20):
Right, as long as it's fifty to fifty, because the
idea is that it's an equitable division, all right. Equitable
typically means fifty to fifty, and that doesn't mean well, again,
we take everything in half and then try and switch it,
it becomes a big mess. I mean, we try to
make it as easy as possible. And remember when we
break into a four one K or any kind of
pension or any or any kind of retirement item, whatever
it may be. For example, with the four one k,

(01:51:43):
if you break into it with a quadro, there's a
processing fee for that. And what I mean by that is,
whoever your four one K company is, all right, whoever
they are, it doesn't matter if it's heck, I don't know,
pick any company you want, all right, they will give
you a processing fee to break that four one k
up into different pieces. I've seen it as cheap as
two hundred, I've seen it as high as three thousand,

(01:52:04):
and I've seen everything between so you lose money just
paying to have it done then, So you know, that's
one of the reasons we try not to break in
if we don't have to, because there are fees associated
with the quadro processing.

Speaker 1 (01:52:17):
Your best BET's always to consult the folks at Hindling
Associates to know what your options are. Nine one eight
four six oh Cambody is a question as a way
to ask a question right now to Jeff, or you
can email like this person to show a kmod dot com.
Could a person sue for reimbursement if they've paid child
support and later it's determined they're not the father.

Speaker 9 (01:52:39):
You can try. You probably won't be successful, but yes,
you can definitely try. When I said that our laws
are antiquated, this is the one that we have problems with,
or at least I personally have problems with, is when
you have these scenarios where you find out you're not
the dad. You've been paying these child support obviously even
given money to somebody for child support and the child's
not yours all right, or for example, when a kid

(01:53:02):
ages out and you've overpaid I mean these overpayment issues
when there's no more child support to pay and you've
got this big lump of oh I overpaid. No matter
what the scenario is, collecting, it's always a pain in
the butt because you can't do it through the family court.
That's the stupid part of the whole law is you
really can't. You can try, all right, but I've never
seen anybody be successful. I've tried myself in almost twenty

(01:53:24):
years of practice now, and that's you just can't do it.
The only way to be trying successful is do a
small claims action, and even then it's a hard proof.
So you know, this is one area who whatever legislator
is listening to this. I'm sure you guys listening because
this is an awesome radio station and it's an awesome
morning show. No it is, seriously, and whoever's listening, please

(01:53:45):
take this to the legislature, take it to your buddies
up there, and say, look, this is messed up. We
have constituents that are overpaying and not getting reimbursed. We
need to figure out a law for this, so you know,
and if you need some guidance on that, give me
a call. Be happy to help the legislature out with that.
But man, we've that's one area that really sucks for
people because it's a hard way to get the money back.

Speaker 1 (01:54:04):
To get your money back. It is a civil suit
at that point, right that point.

Speaker 9 (01:54:07):
Yeah, And it's a real pain in the butt to
try and do it, and it's time consuming and costly,
and it's a lot of people don't know just because
of the cost.

Speaker 1 (01:54:14):
Jeff Finsley's joining us from Hensley and assoc. Suits. If
you have a question, you can email show at kmod
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it nine one eight four six, Oh kmod to ask
your family law questions. This said, would it be easy
enough for me to get custody of my wife's little
boy whose father hasn't came around and isn't on the
birth certificate?

Speaker 9 (01:54:35):
You would have to do it through an adoption, That
would be the only way, and you would have to
be did they say they were married? I'm sorry, maybe
maybe it's that. Uh no, Okay, so you've got to
be the only way to do that would be it
through an adoption, which means you'd.

Speaker 1 (01:54:47):
Have to be my wife's So we'll just assume.

Speaker 9 (01:54:49):
Okay, So yes, if you're married, you have to be
married to do it, and you could do it that way. Yes,
you know, we would get into the adoption issues at
that point, which is one Number one? Is the child
native a marriag all right? And if so, then we've
got the tribe. We know, we have to figure out
which tribe it is and give them notice and the
bure of Indian Affairs and all that. But then number two,
you know, question is is have they maintained a substantial

(01:55:11):
relationship in twelve of the fourteen months before you file?
All right? Which sounds like this person has not. Have
they paid child support in twelve of the fourteen months
all right before filing? I'm guessing probably not?

Speaker 1 (01:55:24):
So yeah.

Speaker 9 (01:55:24):
I mean, whoever this is, please give us a call.
We'd love to talk to you about it and help
you with that. But yes, adoption would be the way
to do it. That would be the only way to
make that happen.

Speaker 1 (01:55:33):
This is kind of a question on paying child support
and perth certificates. What do I do if my baby
mama is trying to get child support but I'm not
on the birth certificate? Another man, is is that a misconception?
You have to be on the per certificate to you
as child.

Speaker 9 (01:55:48):
It is a misconception, I mean, because what will happen
is is when she files for child support or for
DHS daycare assistance or for sooner care, DHS is going
to get involved and they're going to look at that.
You know, first they're going to go after the guy
on the birth certificate and then they're going to do
a DNA test to see if he's in fact dad,
because he's probably going, well, I'm not the dad. So
when they find out he's not the dad, then they

(01:56:10):
go to her and say, well, who could be next?
And then they go down the line, I mean, and
once they find the individual that is the dad, that's
the one that gets stuck with paying child support at
that point. I had that happen. And I think I've
said this before. I've had a client about ten twelve
years ago who had this happen. He was number six.
He was test number six before they found out who

(01:56:30):
he you know, that he was dad. He didn't know
the child existed because it's kind of a short term relationship,
s last one night stand kind of deal, and you know,
she kind of went her way, and so yeah, he
was number six before and he's the one that got stuck.
After five guys other guys being tested, he was number
six and he got stuck with that. So yeah, it

(01:56:52):
can happen.

Speaker 1 (01:56:52):
We've never talked about this, and obviously the first step
would be to call Hinsley Associates. But if you get
a Facebook message or a knock on your door that says, hey,
I think you're the child the father of this child,
should you comply with those requests immediately or make sure
you retain counsel with Hinsley Associates.

Speaker 9 (01:57:10):
First, retain counsel, and then let's do a DNA test
and find a few are dad, because I've had cases
where they said that person's dad and we do a
DNA test and find out they're not dad. And remember,
just because you do want and we talked, we have
talked about this portion before of the test at Walgreens
and CBS and research and everything else. Those are good
tests just to get for peace of mind, all right,

(01:57:32):
but they cannot be used in court because once they
go out in the mail, we don't know who touches them.
All right. They're great for peace of mind, but they're
not good for court results. So you have to go
to a local you know, like like Pick med and
some other companies here in Tulsa that do DNA testing.
Those are court approved. But yeah, if you have that issue,

(01:57:55):
please give me a call love to help you with that.

Speaker 1 (01:57:56):
Is there any other steps you should or should not
do when somebody says I think you're the father to
this child or shows up at your door and goes,
i'm your kid.

Speaker 9 (01:58:06):
Well, yeah, I mean the first thing you should always
question is is this true? And I don't mean to
be like that. I mean, I hate to be cynical,
but you know, after doing this for so long, I
am a little cynical. You want to make sure that
the information you're being given is correct, all right, which
means if you don't know, if you don't believe, or
you have no idea, we need to do that test

(01:58:27):
to see if you are that parent. And if you are,
great we'll deal with it. And if not, then you
don't have to worry about it. But just don't take
somebody's word at it, all right, unless they've got a
DNA test that you've been a part of. All right,
Just don't take somebody's word that you are dad, because
it doesn't work that way. And there are lots of
people who will, unfortunately in this world, try to exploit

(01:58:49):
for those kind of things, So you have to be careful.

Speaker 1 (01:58:52):
And though some people may be eager to be a
father or eager to look cooperative in that scenario, have
you ever seen that in court them go, hey, he
was real cooperative and showing leniency and payment or child'spread
or anything like that.

Speaker 9 (01:59:06):
You don't get a break just for being a nice guy.
You don't get a break just for being cooperative. I mean,
you want to This is a cya thing, and it's
not being selfish, it's not being rude, it's not being hateful.
It's making sure the facts are correct moving forward so
that you're not on the hook for somebody that you
may have no biological connection.

Speaker 1 (01:59:25):
To which you've already demonstrated. You probably won't get the
money back if it's incorrect exactly. So that's why you
need representation. That's why you need to hire the folks
at Hinsling Associates. If you're going to something like this,
it can get confusing as well, even if it's just
showing up at court. You're like, I don't know if
I need an attorney and that's why Jeff has graciously
given a free consultation over the phone. Nine three, nine,

(01:59:46):
eight five, six ninety two. For Hinsley Associates, you call up,
you talk to them, telling what's going on. They're gonna
give you some guidance to get you started. Nine one,
eight three, nine eight five six nine two nine eight three,
nine eight five six nine two For Hinsley Associates. Make
sure you' and you guys practice in other areas in
long besides family law.

Speaker 9 (02:00:04):
All right, So through our office in Pehuskin, and don't
worry about the location, all right, they go over all
the state. All right. Our office up there, who's run
by a guy named Colin.

Speaker 4 (02:00:11):
All right.

Speaker 9 (02:00:11):
Colin does a great job of in addition to family law.
If you've got any issues in regards to you know,
speeding tickets, murder charges, molestation charges, whatever, anything criminal, all right,
he can handle any. If you've got any probate issues,
if somebody has passed away in your family and now
you're dealing with the will and all that stuff in court,
he can help you with that. If you've got an

(02:00:32):
issue where you need a will drawn up, all right,
we're a trust drawn up. He can help you with that.
Pronuptial agreements. We do pronuptial agreements too, so you can
give Colin or I both a call and pernuptial agreements.
We can help you with that, so you make sure
that your assets are protected going into a new marriage.
So literally anything in addition to Colin can help you with,
So give them a call. The name of the firm
up there is the Shoemake Law Firm. Yes the name

(02:00:54):
is different, but it is Hensley. We just kept the
name when we took over the firm. So give cal
On a call up there, or you can give us
a call on Tulsa and we can connect you with
them there as well. But we'd love to help you
with anything in addition to Famielow. We've got your back.
We can help you with it.

Speaker 1 (02:01:09):
Five six nine two for Hensley associates, Jeff, have a
great week a you too, We'll be back.

Speaker 10 (02:01:13):
Rush four of The Big Mad Morning Show is next
ninety seven five MT.

Speaker 1 (02:01:28):
Good morning, It's the Big Mad Morning Show. Four six
oh k m O. So I was texting with Mike
from Mandolini's. This literally just happened in the last fifteen minutes,

(02:01:48):
and uh, He's like, look at this video. Who what
do you see? And I click it and it's a
video of this woman. I will circle back to that.
He wanted to show me a picture of who does
this look like? And who does that look like? Lindsay, Gimpy.

(02:02:12):
It looks like Gimpy. Yeah, that's what he was showing me.
Oh fun, Yeah, it's it's a man with a beard
stocking camp. Kind of the same feacial. He's got less
hair on his face, but like it looks like you
to a degree. Right, I totally see this where he
went with that. But this is how wild the world is, huh.
I click on it thinking he wants me to watch
the video. And I watched the video and I enter

(02:02:35):
a rabbit hole that I didn't know existed for a
thing called rebuilding Atlantis. All because hold on, all because
he sent me a picture. He just want me to
see a picture of someone who looked like Gimpy. Yeah right,
stay with me, Stay with me? Uh, And so I

(02:02:57):
go down this rabbit hole. There's this guy in West
Texas that has this land and he's letting people come
live there for free as he builds a new community. Okay, right,
and people on TikTok. There's a lot of them going.
I live here now documenting it because we can document everything, right,

(02:03:22):
And rarely do we get to experience cults happening in
real time, all right, it's usually after the fact. Usually, yeah,
I gotta wait for the Netflix special or wait till
the ATF invades them, right, Rarely do we get to
see it happen in real time. And I'm so fascinated

(02:03:42):
by this. First of all, going to West Texas ain't
a joke, man, like that is a commit mint. Yeah,
a lot of people think what West Texas is beautiful?
Besides sunrises and sunsets, I'm not sure what's beautiful a
whole lot of other other Right, it's pretty desolate right time.
One point, my wife was like, hey, we might have

(02:04:03):
to take a job in Midland, and I was like, no,
you may have to take a job in Midland. I'll
see it on the weekend. I got here. I got
no desire to go to Midland. So I found these
are the signs you are joining a cult in case
you're unsure, Because to me, though this sounds good on

(02:04:23):
the surface, like, hey, come to my free land. You
can live here for free. At some point because people
be people, You're gonna have to deal with punishment, have rules,
provide things, help, not help deal with people in their

(02:04:43):
manic situations, medical care and sex. And you're gonna have
to decide who's going to be the authority figure. Right,
you would imagine it'd be the landowner, right, he would
be like supreme ruler over that cult area. I don't know.

(02:05:06):
If you're trying to build a community and you come
live here for free and then you go, but now
you're under my roof, that feels not what you sold me.

Speaker 7 (02:05:16):
Nothing's free, I don't believe.

Speaker 4 (02:05:18):
So.

Speaker 8 (02:05:19):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:05:20):
So one of them on this of warning signs you
may be in a cult is absolute authornitarianism without accountability,
so they can do whatever they want without punishment. I
can take your water supply because I just want to
zero tolerance for criticism or questions. Okay, let me know

(02:05:40):
if any of these feel familiar to interview about something's
going on in your life, because some of these probably
boxes will get checked. Lack of meaning, financial disclosure regarding budget. Yeah, yeah,
we we spent money on that. Well, can I see it?
You don't need to see it. You know that it
got paid for unreasonable fear about the outside world that

(02:06:01):
often involve evil conspiracies and persecutions. Right again, let me
know if any of these are ringing bells to any
of you, because there's no way I'm gonna read this
list and you can't go. This sounds familiar. Think of
the movie The Village right with the m Night Shyamalan
movie where they talk about can't go to the outside,

(02:06:23):
how evil it is? Yeah, right, right, Uh. But belief
that former followers are always wrong for leaving. There's never
a legitimate reason for anyone to leave. Yeah, you're in
a cult, bro. Again, let me know if any of
these sound familiar, because you should be hearing this. Going,

(02:06:46):
this sounds vaguely familiar. That's going on in our society.
A lot abuse of members, records, books, articles are programs
documenting the abuse abuses of the leader or group. Followers
feeling they are never able to be good enough. A
belief that the leader is right at all times. A

(02:07:07):
belief that the leader is the exclusive means of knowing
truth or giving validation. Only one person decides what the
truth is.

Speaker 7 (02:07:22):
Sounds a lot like scientology.

Speaker 1 (02:07:25):
Just that one huh, all of it, all of.

Speaker 7 (02:07:28):
Them those rules or reasons being in occult.

Speaker 1 (02:07:33):
You're naming one religion, Is that what you're doing?

Speaker 7 (02:07:37):
Yeah? But I mean like the trying to get out
of scientology and then you're you know, banned from everyone
and everything that you knew and loved.

Speaker 1 (02:07:49):
Yeah, I wouldn't say just Scientology. There are a lot
of religions that have subcultures that do that to their people. Well,
why would you want to be that religion? They they
don't believe X Y Z. We see that a lot
with leaders of groups, or don't go join that group, right,

(02:08:11):
they're horrible. That text says it sounds like my entire
childhood in a Pentecostal church. When you worship a zombie
that was resurrected after three days, you're in a cult. No,
that probably be true. That would be true. I lived
in West Texas for years. Unless you love some brown
it ain't. It ain't what anyone would call beautiful. No,

(02:08:34):
but the sunsets are amazing in West Texas and the sunrises, yeah,
for sure, for sure, because there's nothing to block your view.
It's just what and dust d Yeah, duh. St car
washing alone. Really, there's no point. I actually know some

(02:08:54):
people that live in Midland, and they say their biggest obstacle,
because everybody has a pool, is finding people to maintain
their pools because it gets so dirty, because it's so
hot and hard to deal with and who wants to
go work out in the sun all day? True? Yeah,
uh so there you go rebuilding Atlantis. That's like a
thing happening right now.

Speaker 7 (02:09:15):
I had no idea.

Speaker 1 (02:09:17):
No, of course we didn't. Of course we did, because
we're all on our own little cults. Why would we
be looking for another one? Right right, We'll be back.

Speaker 10 (02:09:24):
More of The Big Men Morning Show is next ninety KMOD.

Speaker 1 (02:09:45):
Good morning, It's the Big Mad Morning Show. Nine four
six oh KMOD. But also text bmms and then what
you want to say to eight two nine four five lindsay,
what'd you learn today?

Speaker 7 (02:09:59):
I learned it if you can't keep it in your pants,
keep it in the family. And I also learned that
one photographer got an unexpected lesson in photo cropping, Gimpy.

Speaker 1 (02:10:09):
What'd you learn today? I learned with all the dead
bodies at Disney, I'm kind of glad that I've never been.
And I also learned to meet my cat Pasta Prima
Bira I learned Dad, I love him so much. How
can I show my love? Here's my belly button. You
ever seen dead skin? It's gross?

Speaker 4 (02:10:27):
Yeah?

Speaker 8 (02:10:28):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (02:10:28):
And I also learned that Disney lit World is one
of the Dame most dangerous places. Over thirty people have
been killed. Over thirty people. Corpin say, make sure that
dishwashers loaded right face.

Speaker 7 (02:10:39):
It's lindsay stop tracking my cycle.

Speaker 1 (02:10:41):
This is kimpy and can I get.

Speaker 11 (02:11:00):
To me?

Speaker 8 (02:11:00):
It told, don't.

Speaker 1 (02:11:02):
Make some noise.

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