BMMS 3-17-25

Welcome Back From The Weekend!!! We Talked About The Best & Worst Parts, Men Are Shaving Their Eye Lashes, Smacked With Salsa, I'll Gladly Pay You Tuesday For A Lap Dance Today, Don't Suck The Venom, We Talked To An Awesome LIstener, Jeff Hensley Stops By, Too Many Pets, & Lost At Sea!!!!

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It may include solo cup, It may include running for
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dot com for that. It's a good time. I recently

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saw a trend that's happening trend. It was online says
it was a trend. I don't know if it's really
a trend. I've never seen anybody do it. And the
story implies that manly people are doing this, which I
always laugh at that statement, because what is manly? Light mail? Right,
And there are many things that people would never do

(04:53):
because that's not manly and it's feminine that they do. Now,
ear piercing comes to mind. Yeah, that's a pretty simple
one that a lot of people do that at one
point you were considered feminine if you did that. Another
one would be waxing hair, definitely, But men do that
now in different capacities. Some even do the router to

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the tutor. Some men shave their arms, shave their legs
to make them look muscular, which is like the funniest
thing ever. Again, these are all examples of things we
used to say weren't manly, but that now we accept
as being okay for men to do. Wearing necklaces come

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to mind. Pearl necklaces, gold necklaces, diamond necklaces, right.

Speaker 6 (05:41):
Slim fit gene.

Speaker 1 (05:44):
Sure, well, now apparently men women don't do this, I
don't think. But men are shaving their eyelashes, not eyebrows.
What why I mean, why would you shave your body hair?
I don't know. Yeah, people do it for different reasons.
Swim faster if you're a swimmer, okay, right right right?

Speaker 6 (06:08):
Bodybuilders no competition.

Speaker 1 (06:12):
You don't also oil up. You don't see a lot
of hairy bodybuilders out there. Again, you're trying to show
off your muscle. You need your eyelashes to dirt, keep
the dirt out of your eyes. That's what they're there for.
You need hair in your nose to keep dirt out.
But people do get rid of that, well not all

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of it, though, I guess those ones that do, yeah,
because y'all get your nose waxed, get your nose hair
is waxed with to keep dips and rip it all out. Yeah,
you see someone professionally right right right. I just use
a little trim or whatever that's to keep the you know,
the things for flying away right, a little spider frowing out.

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But eyelash, uh, I'm gonna that. There's Google pictures out there.
There is. Okay, I've got I've got it. I'll send
it to you. Good. There is somebody that said, my
biggest the reason I do it is because the and
I don't have this problem. But it is the their

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eyelashes hit their glasses.

Speaker 6 (07:21):
Okay, that is a terrible.

Speaker 1 (07:24):
And smudge it. I mean, that's happened to me where
they get smudged up. But I just I just wipe
my glasses off. I don't. I don't really get into
it that often now, just because you see one or
two people. There's also a video online of people getting
haircuts and using a flame to like trim it up. Weird,

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that doesn't make it a thing that's a little weird.
But this guy here, the one in the video that
you just said, that's that's bizarre. Man, that is so weird.
That's not dude, I just sent you one. There are yes, yes, why,
I mean, I guess if you're trying to make everything tight,

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you know, but here's my complaint about that. It's only
tight for like a day and then it's then it's
wiry again. If you that's the problem. If you're gonna
keep something pristine lined out right, it's only lined out
for like a day or so, right, And that goes

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with any kind of haircut, dram whatever. Not just your eyelids.
I mean, ops, are having somebody that close to my
ball with clippers? No, thank you? Yeah?

Speaker 6 (08:38):
That and just the fact that think about how much
money women pay to have longer eyelashes and thicker, fuller
eyelashes and they're shaving them.

Speaker 1 (08:50):
Off, right, But don't you think women also go to
extreme lengths to take care of their hair, and then
some women are men shave it off. Yeah, it's kind
of the same, just because one group of people thinks
it's awesome.

Speaker 6 (09:03):
But an eyelash, oh, it just beautifies the eye so
much more to.

Speaker 1 (09:13):
Some people. Yeah, this is not something that was on
my radar things that I am all about. I like,
I'm a believer in being well kept right, Yeah, I'm
not doing that. No. Yeah, that's to the extreme. Man,
that's just too much. And you you know, comple like,
oh it's to keep their hair out, okay, but already

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keep the dirt out unless you live where we live Friday.
I don't know if it's a big thing for everybody.
And you could wear goggles. I don't know why that's like,
I mean, people do wear weird things, people just walking
around like horror grant grant. Yeah, for everybody that doesn't

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know that it's not it's kind of an old reference
videah yeah, oh man, no, thank you, no, thank you.
I think I'm just going to keep my eyelashes the
way that they are. Yeah, I ain't no sense, and
I'll trim you know, I'll have her trim up my
brows for sure. You know, I get a little wild

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and out of control. But that's about as far down
as it goes, you know what I mean. Yeah, every Monday,
eyebrows inside ear top, ear nostrils. Yeah, find my lips again. Yeah,
I've recently discovered I have to start doing the inside

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of my ear right because I pull my earbut out
right and then I'm like, I grab a hold like
a handful and my ear right here, and I'm like,
oh God, okay, let's let's let's buzz that thing down.
My kids like we have a thing to look in
their ears for, like when their ears are bothering or
you know. And they were like, let me look in
your ear and they look in there. I can't see anything.
It looks like weeds. It was like, it looks like weeds.

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I told my wife. She was like, let me look.
She's like, yeah, you have a ton of ear hair.
No kidding, it's not something you think about all the time.
You don't see it, you know what I mean. You
don't see it, so therefore you don't think to shave
it until you pull your ear butt out and you
got a handful of me. Fair enough, there are some
areas that you know there is hair that you do
not shave, right.

Speaker 6 (11:26):
Yeah, I would think you would feel the hair in
your ear though it would bug Yet I'd.

Speaker 1 (11:31):
Never feel it, even when the wind's blowing. Yeah, I
never feel it. I'll look like if I look in
the mirror, and sometimes it's too late, like the spider's
already crawling out, and I'm like, why didn't you tell
me there's this weird old man stuff happening. Yeah, She's like,
I don't care, like I care.

Speaker 6 (11:52):
It's not always about you, right, I don't do it
for you.

Speaker 1 (11:58):
But eyelashes so weird. Go ahead, we can all say it.
I had kids today. This guy says, I shaved my
arms to better see my sleeve before. That kind of
makes sense, you know, if you've got tattoos, But how
hairy are your arms? If it's covering up the ink

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on your on your arm?

Speaker 6 (12:23):
I mean some people. I mean I think I have
pretty hairy arms for a girl.

Speaker 1 (12:28):
I mean, you have dark hair. I wouldn't say you
have harry. You don't give me, you don't say thank you.
I'm just being honest. I'm just stating facts as somebody
with full sleeve. I did it one time, and I
was like, this is dumb, right, it's one. It's more
work too again, unless you stay on top of it,

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it is a prickly I.

Speaker 6 (12:56):
Don't like prickly. I don't want to be with someone
who's got prickly hairs on their bodies, and to keep
up with that, Yeah, I would assume I'm heavy.

Speaker 1 (13:05):
Chore, got to lather up your whole body and then shave,
right right. That's why poor sols that shave their head.
I'm like, that's some work, yo. The only people that
really need to do that are the ones that look
like they're wearing a sweater when they got their shirt off,
you know, those extremely like Robin Williams was a hairy,
hairy dude, you know, and I could see like, all right,

(13:26):
get your climber clippers, trim your arm hairs down a
little bit, just so you don't look like a hairy beast. Yeah.
I've had friends or people I know that are like, oh,
my hairy back or my receding hairline, or I have
trouble grown a full beard, or my eyebrows are out

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of control, or angry little spiders coming out of my ears,
or you know, my arm hair is too dark, so
I shave it off, show off my tattoo. I've heard
all those things, not once for eyelashes, No, No, probably
because it's stupid. Yeah, these people, I wonder who started
that stupid trend. Somebody somewhere was like hey, and then

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somebody else was like, hey, that looks good. I'm gonna
do it too, and then it's just snowballed out of
control from there. Doesn't look good, it doesn't. It looks
weird when they close their eyes, there's nothing there. It's
just weird looking. There's like this thing happening with some
current musicians where they're either bleaching or removing their eyebrows

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for whatever. The next generation of their character is their performances.
And I'm like, oh, anybody who has like pure blonde
eyebrows or no eyebrows, you always double take you Okay, yeah,
mostly albinos, but yeah, right.

Speaker 6 (14:48):
And unfortunately they they don't their skin or hair won't
take dye, so they can't like color them, so they
look like they have eyebrows.

Speaker 1 (14:59):
So it's always like that again. That'd be something you
have to stay on top of, right. The only thing
I can say about the eyelash thing was I was
a little like, damn it. Because in all the times
we had the wheel and we've always had to try
and punishments, we never brought up eyelashes, never once. No,
we brought up some really extreme ones that would make
people go damn. Yeah. Yeah, we had shaven eyebrow on

(15:22):
there once, but we did shave the eyelash, yeah, for sure,
a couple of times. You know, eyelashes something you really
think about. No, it's not, no, it's not. We had
to shave mustache beards, and I think that was the one.
Give me was like, no, yeah, right, shave the entire thing, beard, mustache, eyebrows,

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all of it, one round Russian let yes, right, shave
my beard. No right, I'll get you a bullet with
my teeth. People think I'm being like an embellishy huh
No A good time, Yeah, yeah, all right. We've got
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Speaker 6 (17:07):
Woman hit boyfriend with salsaejar after seeing him with another woman.
This happened in Waco, Texas, where Jessica Haley Luan was
charged with aggravated assault with a deadly weapon and assault
causing injury. So what had happened was, according to the
arrest warrant, Jessica's boyfriend was at a restaurant with another woman,

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and Jessica had a friend who was out at the
same establishment and witnessed him out, so she notifies Jessica
of what she's seeing, and a short time later, Jessica
shows up at the bar and starts swiping food and
drinks off the table of her boyfriend and his little mistress.

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She then picks up a glass salsaejar and throws it
at her boyfriend strike, looking him behind the ear. That's
when things escalated outside the establishment. The manager and other
witnesses tell police the couple argued outside, and Jessica attempted
to run him over with her vehicle. She's the witnesses

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says that she deliberately swerved her vehicle in the direction
of the victim. When police officers arrived, they met with
the victim, who said she hit the hell out of me.
While police officers were speaking with him at the scene,
Jessica called the victim multiple times and reportedly said, so,
you're really about to put me in jail. I didn't

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mean to I was just angry. She repeatedly stated to
police she was upset and did not mean to cause harm,
but she did.

Speaker 1 (18:49):
You threw a salsa jar at the main right, I
mean we talked with those little like half cups things
that's to see on the table. Oh did they grab
a jar? That's what I get pictured in my head. Yeah,
but they were at a restaurant, right, right, Yeah, you
could probably just one of those small containers, you know,
a little bottle or whatever. Still, I always I love

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when you go to Mexican restaurant and they bring you
the little tiny pictures and filled with salso with the
saran wrap over the top of like, yeah, it's all ah,
this is just for me, right, there's like two on
the table. You're like, oh, man arrested for a lap dance. High.
So there's this dude, he's thirty nine, his name's John Elberson,

(19:34):
and he goes to the rain Ladies and Gentlemen's Club
there in Clearwater, Florida on a Tuesday, and he racks
up about one hundred and sixty dollars worth of lap dances. Well,
time's over, gotta pay, and he's like, I ain't got
the money to pay for this bill. Well, they went
ahead and called the cops, and cops come out. They

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went ahead and arrested him for misdemeanor theft, saying that
the dances were the property of rain Ladies and Gentlemen's Club.
So he ends up going to jail, spent twelve hours
in the big house, and then the judge lets him out.
Places three hundred and sixty five reviews on Google A
lot do people go online and review strip clubs? Is

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that a thing? Why you want everybody to know how
good or bad your experience, that's true.

Speaker 6 (20:24):
Where is it located Florida? Yeah, yeah, that seems accurate.
It's in Florida and a vacation destination spot maybe.

Speaker 1 (20:32):
But it's a strip club. You're not gonna be like, well,
this one has said they have long lines, right, that's
not that's not a thing. And I wanted to see
where this place was and to find out what's the
neighbor neighboring strip clubs? All right, Yeah, they're Instagram solid, man, solid,
because in my mind, there's always like a couple near it, right,

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it's next to a cracker barrel that's good comfort ins
and sweets, the diamond store cause you know you might
need the one, a subway, a hookah lounge, pond plays. Man,
it's wild, but like down there, you just assume that
strip clubs are always near like bad places, and maybe

(21:22):
these are, but typically you're not gonna have a cracker
barrel and a diamond store and a gold store next
door to a strip club. A dunkin Donuts, yes, Taco
bell yeah, to lots of hotels. So I'm so fascinated

(21:43):
by the strip club scene in Florida, right, because you know,
there's only so many people available to work at these places,
but not down there. This is interesting. Snake bite victims
are making these key mistakes. According to the story, people
who are bitten by venomous snakes often make two dangerous mistakes.

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They wait too long to seek treatment, or they use
outdated methods to treat the bite themselves. A study on
snake bites from the University of Florida shows it's often
more than an hour before a victim is seen by
a doctor. More than ten percent of bite victims were
found to have first tried methods that are no longer

(22:27):
considered effective, like using tourniquets, okay, or sucking out the venom.
That's what the movie's taught us. Yeah, some seven to
eight thousand people are bitten by venomous snakes each year
in the US. Wow, I knew the like sucking out
venom thing was not really a thing. Like if you

(22:49):
have no other choice and you're like, okay, but that
it makes no sense for you to take on the venom,
right was the biggest one that I came to, was like, Yeah,
why would I put the venom in my body? Hey,
we're gonna get We're gonna go down together band of brothers. Man,
oh I may, I might go, but I am not.

(23:16):
Hold on brother, right, let me suck that out of
your leg. Wait, like I don't even know, like if
we get below the hips, I'm not where to bite
you right here on my ass right, not even there,
like on the side of your hip, like right on
your hip bone.

Speaker 9 (23:37):
Good.

Speaker 1 (23:39):
Sorry, man, you were a good friend. Say to my dad. Yeah,
I got you. Man.

Speaker 4 (23:45):
Let me get on my knees.

Speaker 1 (23:51):
No, no, hell it bit me right on my ass.
Come on, man, just suck it out. It was nice
knowing you. It's it's just right above the knee, were like,
right here by your kneecap. No, no, higher, higher to
the left. No, it's just on the back of my knee.

(24:12):
Let my knees. Suck it. I'm so sorry. I take
care of your wife. That's right.

Speaker 6 (24:20):
I snelling you.

Speaker 1 (24:21):
I'll say some some good works for you at your funeral.
We'll start at college fud for your kid. All right.
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Speaker 6 (25:22):
The Falcons are keeping their veteran backup quarterback for now.
Kirk Cousins earned a ten million dollar bonus on Saturday
for staying on the roster. The thirty six year old
got benched in Week sixteen last season for rookie QB
Michael Pennix. After signing a megadeal in free agency that offseason,
Atlanta O's Cousins more than twenty seven million this upcoming season.

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Even if the four time Pro bowler gets released.

Speaker 1 (25:50):
I'm really fascinated by this. I'm not sure if you
don't plan on playing him? Yeah, my pay him that much, right,
not just cut him, right exactly? You lost ten million
dollars and you're on the hook for the cap.

Speaker 6 (26:04):
Yeah. The Ravens are going to add a new backup
quarterback to the roster. Former Dallas Cowboys QB Cooper Rush
has signed with Baltimore. According to ESPN, the deal is
a two year contract that has a maximum value of
over twelve million dollars and that includes a little over
four million dollars fully guaranteed. Rush is thrown for over

(26:26):
thirty four hundred yards with twenty touchdowns and ten interceptions
in thirty eight career games. The Cincinnati Bengals are reportedly
given big money to their top wide receivers. Fox Sports
NFL insider Jordan Schultz is reporting that Jamar Chase and
t Higgins told him they are agreeing to extensions with

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the team. Schultz says Higgins signed an extension for four
years and one hundred and fifteen million dollars, while Chase
signed for four years and one hundred and sixty one
million dollars, including one hundred and twelve million guaranteed. The
deal would make Chase the highest paid non QB in
NFL history.

Speaker 1 (27:10):
I mean, here's what I don't understand. They're not getting
it done with this threesome anyway.

Speaker 6 (27:16):
Right, So you can keep them okay and pay him
that big a money.

Speaker 1 (27:25):
Yeah, good luck.

Speaker 6 (27:26):
Yeah. The forty nine ers are bringing back a familiar
face on a new contract. ESPN reporting that San Francisco
is signing full back Kyle Usedcheck to a two year,
eight million dollar deal. The Niners had released used Check
last week before bringing him back on a new deal.
The nine time Pro bowler has spent the past eight

(27:48):
seasons with the Niners. He will be thirty four years
old at the start of next season.

Speaker 1 (27:54):
I think there's something up with the forty nine ers.
I don't know what's going on going on that they
don't look solid. No, maybe after last season they're like,
let's just try anything, see what sticks.

Speaker 6 (28:09):
Yeah, the Seahawks are adding a former Pro bowler to
the offense to compliment new starting quarterback Sam Darnold. ESPN
says that Seattle signed wide receiver Cooper Cup to a
three year, forty five million dollar contract over the weekend.
The thirty one year old has spent his entire eight

(28:30):
year NFL career with the NFC West rival Los Angeles Rams.
Cup has six hundred and thirty four receptions for seven thousand,
seven hundred seventy six yards and fifty seven touchdowns during
his career. Reports are now suggesting that there are two
directions that Aaron Rodgers could go and after being released

(28:55):
by the New York Jets, it seems that Rogers' preference
is to suit up four the Minnesota Vikings, who are
taking their own sweet time and making the call, even
though the New York Giants and the Pittsburgh Steelers are
said to be heavily pursuing Rogers. The word is that
Rogers wants the starting gig with Minnesota, and if he

(29:15):
doesn't get it, then retirement is a very real option.

Speaker 1 (29:19):
He's going to the Vikings, do it. He's not retiring.
He was a top ten quarterback again last year. I mean,
come on, yeah, he's going to the Vikings. They think
he can he can help well JJ.

Speaker 6 (29:31):
And following in Brett Farve's foot, Yes.

Speaker 1 (29:34):
Completely comedic. Yeah, comedic. It's awesome. It is awesome. And
they'll be good. They got Justin Jeffers. They'll be good.
Oh yeah, and they the forty nine ers just traded
Jordan Mason there. Yeah, so they're gonna be good. And
with Aaron Rodgers, I mean Sam Darnold, Aaron Rodgers.

Speaker 6 (29:57):
Right the bracket. The twenty twenty five NCAA Men's Basketball
Tournament is now out, and it's time for the inner
office way during to begin. Your number one and two
seeds are for the South Auburn at number one and
Michigan State number two. In the West, Florida is number
one and Saint John's at number two. In the East,

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Duke number one and Alabama number two. Houston is number
one in the North, and Tennessee number two. The first
of four play in games fire off Tuesday Wednesday, and
the first round on the tournament will begin on Thursday
and Friday. The SEC has set a new record with
fourteen teams being invited to the Big Dance. Kansas has

(30:39):
also set a record by making it to the tournament
for a thirty fifth straight season.

Speaker 1 (30:45):
God Ou plays on Thursday, I'm sorry on Friday against Yukon.
People thought they were gonna be on the bubble, not
make it in, and they got canon in the nine seeds.
So that's that's pretty good. Grand Canyon University female head coach,
really pretty awesome story that I think they may surprise
some people. I don't know if they'll upset, but they'll
surprise him. And then Drake University is playing Missoo, and

(31:09):
I think that may be an upset. I think people
might be surprised that Drake could win that game. Their
head coach, Bin McCollum was the head coach where I
went to school and like dominated everybody. They played everyone.
Now I understand it's a different buddy winning mindset carries
over to Drake where he takes them to the tournament

(31:30):
outright destroys everybody in the championship. I think there might
be I think people are gonna be like Drake huh.
And you might see him leave there and go to
like maybe Minnesota, maybe Iowa as a head coach, and that's.

Speaker 6 (31:45):
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do best and worst of the weekend. What's the best
thing that happened this weekend? And the worst thing that
happened this weekend? On BMA mass and whatever that is

(32:57):
to eight two nine four five, lindsay what's the best
and what's the worst?

Speaker 9 (33:01):
Uh?

Speaker 6 (33:01):
The worst was the damn wind and fires and sickness
it caused. And my oldest was outside on Friday for
a while, and husband was, of course he works outside,
of course, and he came home shaking and feeling like crap.

(33:22):
My son was sick and throwing up like projectile vomiting
Friday night.

Speaker 1 (33:30):
So from from being outside, from.

Speaker 6 (33:32):
Being outside, Yeah, well that we don't know if it
was all of that or if he ate something bad,
who knows, but he he was very sick on Friday night.
And I ended up sleeping on the couch just in
case he needed me in the middle of the night.
Didn't want him waking up the entire house. So I
was on uh on nurse duty Friday night, waking up

(33:57):
checking on him. I think overall he must have thrown
up about four or five times. But he woke up
Saturday feeling fine, which was great. The best of my weekend.
Oh and that wind. I had so many branches and
sticks in my yard to clean up on Saturday. It
was crazy. But the best of my weekend would have

(34:17):
been Saturday. Me and a girlfriend of mine we had
our wax appointments and thought I was gonna have to
get my rear done again. No, it's still nice and smooth.
So instead got my eyebrows wax and my nose waxed,
and yeah, got nice and cleaned up.

Speaker 1 (34:38):
And I thought your eyebrows were tattoos.

Speaker 6 (34:41):
No, No, I had eyeliner tattoos. Okay, okay, years and
years ago, but I think it since faded off. But
then we went and had some lunch at the water's
edge in Broken Arrow. Had little wine tasting. It was lovely.
Had a real good grilled cheese panini and some tomato
basil soup. It was delicious, and yeah, it was just

(35:04):
a really really nice day. Went to Magnolia Soap. They
were having a seventeen percent off entire storre seventeen.

Speaker 1 (35:11):
Yeah, yeah, that's a good odd number, right, Why.

Speaker 6 (35:16):
I think the seventeen I think probably to celebrate Saint
Patrick's Day.

Speaker 1 (35:20):
Oh got it?

Speaker 6 (35:20):
Yes? Uh huh so yeah, got some new laundry detergent
while I was in there, and good smelling stuff. Yeah, awesome,
awesome Saturday.

Speaker 1 (35:32):
Yeah, best and worst of the weekend. What's the best
thing that happened this weekend? And the worst thing that
happened this weekend? BMMS and whatever that is to eight two, nine,
four five, gimbi, what's the best and what's the worst?
I guess Saturday probably be the best Saturday. We had
the Shamrock showdown the Party Bus pub Crawl tour. That
was really cool listeners that gathered together and well, we

(35:56):
drank and we drank and we drank some more. It
was awesome. And then the party finally comes to an
end and I says to a small group of people,
house party. Yeah, so party in my house afterwards? You
took everyone to your house. I didn't take everybody. It's
just a small group of a couple of my friends.

Speaker 9 (36:16):
Whatever.

Speaker 1 (36:16):
And then my brother shows up with his old lady
and then his kid and his new girlfriend, and my
little house had a lot of people in there. What
time was this, like, you let everybody showed up at
your house? Oh, anywhere from like nine thirty to like eleven.
I think people stayed. I think I asked my brother's like,
what time everybody leaves, like midnight or whatever? And uh,

(36:37):
I'm sure my new neighbor might not. He didn't say
anything about it. I mean, you know, music's playing and
whatnots and we're all just you know, being drunk and stupid.
But he never said anything. So, uh, Okay, that's good.
That's a good thing. And I guess the worst part
of the weekend would would be that Dango hangover yesterday. Man,

(36:58):
I stayed literally stayed in bed all damn day yesterday.
I finally got up at like five o'clock in the evening.
I was like, I guess I want to make dinner now,
got up, made dinner, it was good, and then went
back to sleep. Fantastic best and worst of the weekend.
What's the best thing that happened this weekend? And the
worst thing that happened this weekend? BMMS and whatever that

(37:19):
is to eight two nine four five. Best of the weekend.
We had a little date night, went with some friends
to go eat dinner and have a couple of drinks,
and that was pretty awesome. We went to Talkers by
Mescal down at eighteenth of Boston. They do pretty good margarita's,
and my wife and my friends they like margaritas. I'm
not a margarita guy, but so it was fun to

(37:42):
have like a hibiscus margarita that they they all like,
had a little taste. I'm like, yep, I have a
really good breakfast Burta there if you ever go there
for brunch, their brunch is sick and solid. Yeah. So
we did that. That was pretty fun, and then the
worst part of the weekend would be uh, so I'm
mowing my yard this year. I'm taking that on myself.

(38:03):
Bought a zero turn mower and bought a gas can.
And I found this gas can at Sam's where the
bottom part it has it on the bottom and then
a trigger on the top so you can fill it
rather than try to dump it. Yeah, yeah, totally right.
I was like, hell, yeah, makes complete sense. I do

(38:24):
the spickett put in the hole. That's that I don't
have to like lean it over and get it all
over well for some reason, probably because that's why no
one's ever done this. It leaks in my garage. It's
brand new, and the pressure change and the fast evaporation
of gasoline bloated the container up, pressured some gas out,

(38:50):
and I went out there and it's got a release valve.
Of course, I did the release valve, and I guess
it's spit on me, and so it's all over my club.
You can smell like it smells, you know, gases overpowering,
and so I'm like, okay, I move it, but I
can't get it off my clothes. So now I'm soaking
my clothes to get the gasoline out. It in vinegar.

(39:12):
Later I move it again, I get it on me again.
I don't even know how I'm it's like a skunk, like,
I don't even know how I'm getting it on me.
So now I got to buy a new gas can
because I ain't playing this all summer. Right, You're gonna
get a traditional Yes, I'm gonna get like I'm gonna
see if I can't find like my grandpa's gas can.
You know that's metal. It's designed to be effishient good

(39:35):
luck with that. Oh they have them. Oh yeah, there's
not cheap.

Speaker 6 (39:40):
I was like, yeah, Sam's yeah, that sounds like such
a great idea.

Speaker 1 (39:43):
Yeah yeah, bastard. Worst of the weekend. What's the best
thing that happened to you? And the worst thing that
happened to you? This says, best was to go camping
for the first time this year with the kids to
start off spring break. Worst being evacuated from the fires
in Manford. Did you go camping because of the fires? Right?

Speaker 4 (40:01):
Like?

Speaker 1 (40:01):
You didn't? Okay?

Speaker 9 (40:04):
Uh?

Speaker 1 (40:04):
Worst living Blackburn, Oklahoma, was surrounded by fires. Managed to
get the wife and animals to safety first, stopped two
blocks from home. Best town didn't get any major damage.
Good for you, man. My wife and I had a
fun conversation because they were talking on the news like, Hey,
they're going to evacuate certain cities or whatever. And I said,
if I called you, assuming everybody safe, And I called

(40:25):
you and said you had five minutes to get out,
what are you grabbing what? And I say, grab what
you can? What in your mind is the things you
need to grab? And her different, Her answer was dramatically
different than mine. Not that hers wasn't necessary or good call.
It was just I was just shocked with how different

(40:46):
our idea of things we need to grab. So for
her it was things like our kids, loves, our glasses,
a couple of prescriptions we have to have. And I'm like,
and she never mentioned the safe. And I'm like, no, like,
open the safe, put everything from the safe in there, right,

(41:06):
And she's like, yeah, but who cares about that stuff.
I'm like, it's like the most important, that's why it's
in a safe. Yeah, but it's fireproof safe. Yeah, up
to a certain amount.

Speaker 6 (41:16):
Oh that's true.

Speaker 1 (41:17):
I'm sure you're not dropping it on the sun. It's
not going to melt it. It just yeah, let's get
into the debate about whether it's Nonetheless, you can get
a new prescription, you can get stuff refilled pretty fast.
The loves might be the best argument for the kids
because you can't find a well loved levey all you're

(41:40):
talking like stuffed animals, yeah, like yeah, yeah, okay, yeah,
and to get a new one. They're like, this is
the same, Like, I ain't dealing with all that. That
feels like it makes sense, But I encourage you to
ask your partner like what they would grab and I
guarantee you your answers are going to be dramatically different,
and it's really fascinating to hear for all those people

(42:00):
I had to deal with that. This weekend is just
so tragic. Worst, I missed the Giovanni and the Higher
Guns concert. I want tickets from you guys, because the
damn fires. I live in Manford. It was crazy, but
my house didn't get burned down. Good for you, that's good.
Best went to Giovanni and the Higher Guns Friday and
was on the party bus Saturday.

Speaker 9 (42:17):
Worst.

Speaker 1 (42:17):
The party bus really wasn't a party bus. It was
a passenger bus. What's what does one designate as a
party bus? Oh? I think you see some of those
ones around town where it's got the speakers and the
subwarfers and they're blasting music. There's probably a stripper pole
in there. Okay, you know where this was? Uh, transportation
limo bus is what it was. So it was like

(42:39):
a short bus with like tinted windows, and yeah, was
there speakers there was?

Speaker 4 (42:43):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (42:44):
Yeah? Was the music blaring? Uh? No, he didn't have
He had it turned up up front and I was like, hey, Eric,
he turns the music on back here and that's about
as far as I went. Worst I had to drag
the mower out and mow the lawn for the first
time of the year. Best to get my mower, I
fired up my project truck and it moved under its
own power for the first time since I've owned it.
I mowed. I scalped my art this weekend too.

Speaker 4 (43:06):
Man.

Speaker 1 (43:07):
By the way, my neighbors had been laughing, because if
you've never done a zero turn, there's a learning curve. Yeah.
Best thing to happen, everyone is safe. Worst thing to happen.
The fire in Cleveland got extremely close to my brother's
house burnt too, burnt down two houses before his. We

(43:28):
snuck back in during the fire and helped keep it away.
Then when we eat we find a good friend of
ours house completely burned down. It was rough telling them
the news. I get the mentality of like sneaking back
in to protect your home, but also no, right, I
get it. I'm not saying you were wrong for doing it.

(43:49):
I just the idea for me to go in and
try and fight a fire. A wildfire, nonetheless is crazy.
Let's see me move back up here. Uh. Best of
the weekend was getting to see my kiddo. Worst part.
I just replaced the steering components in my Dakota Friday morning,
took it to the alignment done with to drive and

(44:10):
it lost power steering again. Best got my car repaired Friday,
same day. Worst broke down this morning again. I don't
know if there's anything more frustrating when you pay to
have a car repaired and then it breaks down immediately. Yeah.
Best gimp shamrock barkrawl. Worst. The fire was miles from
my house. Worked for an hour from home and called

(44:33):
my wife to let her know about the fires. Did
call her phone, her phone lost service and couldn't get
a hold of her. She managed to get all the
important papers and animals in a car she did. Great.
Think that like getting stuff out of your house younger,
you'd like collect photo albums, Yeah, right, because you know
you but now like it's all on my phone, or

(44:54):
all those photo albums we've had made were done online
so we can just reorder right right right the book
or more photos are they're on my phone? Or I
got photo albums from like childhood. Yeah, probably would snag
and pick up minor in the attic, So like what
like I'm gonna go up into the attic and get.

Speaker 6 (45:14):
Them all right, No, no, no, I feel like my
add would kick in and I would be spinning out
of control on what to grab. I would just not
know what to do. I would go crazy, and exactly
I know. I would grab important papers, like make sure
I have everyone social security cards and grab that whole

(45:36):
file cabinet type thing and try to make it out
with that the cat of course.

Speaker 1 (45:41):
And see that's another reason I don't want to pet,
like I don't have to worry about that.

Speaker 7 (45:45):
Where is it right now?

Speaker 1 (45:46):
And do I food for where the seeing? I'm with
the id idea of like social security cards and probably
like marriage life, all those things we can get copies
of all that's those aren't a big ordeal, right right right,
It's not like pretty much. And this is where my
wife was. She goes, like, pretty much anything in the

(46:07):
safe we can get replaced easily. I'm like, I guess
that's true. Then why do we have a safe to
keep things safe? Uh? Definitely. The worst part of the
weekend was the fires and the winds because with my job,
I go on storm control, so it was a sixteen
hour days all on my days off. But I love

(46:29):
the money, and the best part of the weekend is
that I celebrated ninety days clean and sober by playing
music over at the cimarron Ingrat. What is storm control?
How do you control a storm? Get back? I know,
I will turn this car around. You will sit there

(46:50):
storm and like it. I'll tell your mother. I don't
know what storm control is, and you do it on
your days off. I don't understand. I've never heard of that.

Speaker 6 (47:00):
Maybe volunteer fire department or something.

Speaker 1 (47:04):
Well, that's volunteer fire department. That's not storm control.

Speaker 6 (47:09):
Maybe it's just a fancy your word or fancy your
name network feature.

Speaker 1 (47:13):
The monitors incoming traffic levels and drops packets when a
specified threshold is exceeded, preventing broadcasts multicast. Now, that just
doesn't seem right. Yeah, that doesn't sound that's sound like
any of that. Listen, we got tickets to Kevin Hart.
We're gonna give away. We'll do that when we come back.
Tell USA's Morning.

Speaker 2 (47:29):
Show, The Big Man Boarding Show. The assault continues next
thirty seven to five.

Speaker 1 (47:45):
Good Morning, It's the Big Mad Morning Show. Nine four
six oh kmo D can also text bmms and then
what you want to say to eight two nine four five.
Let's play a game. Kevin Heart's gonna be over at
the pay Com Center on Thursday, April ninth. I'm sorry,
April tenth is the ninth that, oh, it's the tenth,

(48:08):
the ninth. At the end of the April there was
a type who at the pay Com Center in Oklahoma City.
Tickets available ticketmaster dot com. And uh, we're gonna play
a little game that I have trouble remembering every week,
even though I created the game. Note off note you

(48:30):
you you go, note yourself. It is one note from
a song. Famous song, super famous song that you should
have no problem knowing or remembering. It was a top
five Billboard Hot one hundred four times platinum nominated for

(48:51):
a Grammy. It is once the song was once about
he told Ustry about saving a seventy year old man's
life during the session of recording the song. Crazy song,
super popular. If you can guess it in one note,
You're getting tickets to see Kevin Hart nine one eight

(49:14):
four six oh kmod nine eight four six oh kmod.
It's go to the phones. Good morning, you're on the air.
What is your name?

Speaker 9 (49:20):
It's Boomer, Boomer. How are you, buddy, I'm good man,
How are you good?

Speaker 1 (49:25):
I'm gonna play the clip. It's one note. Guess it correctly.
You're getting tickets to see Kevin Hart.

Speaker 9 (49:28):
You ready, as I'm gonna be all.

Speaker 1 (49:32):
Right here it is? Play it again?

Speaker 11 (49:36):
Oh, go ahead?

Speaker 9 (49:46):
One note, inner sand Man.

Speaker 1 (49:57):
The tallica Inner sand Man is not correct, Boomer, I'm sorry, buddy.
At least he took a guess. Yeah, some people don't
even take a guess. So, good morning. You're on the air.
What is your name?

Speaker 9 (50:10):
Mike?

Speaker 1 (50:11):
Mike? Listen, Mike. You could win tickets to see Kevin
Hart down in Oklahoma City if you can guess this
song in one note? Are you ready?

Speaker 9 (50:20):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (50:22):
What is it? A drink? Tepan? That is incorrect. You're close,
but you're incorrect. See you later. It's okay, man, we'll
talk to you later. Good morning, you're on the air.
What is your name?

Speaker 9 (50:38):
I've got all right?

Speaker 1 (50:41):
All right, right, calm down. What's your name? What's your name?

Speaker 9 (50:46):
Mark?

Speaker 1 (50:47):
Mark? Excited? Mark? If you guess it correctly, you get
tickets to see Kevin Hart. Here's the clue. What is it? Mark?

Speaker 9 (50:56):
Tonight?

Speaker 1 (50:57):
Phil Collins in the air tonight, you were so confident
and you are so wrong? What all right? Mark, have
a good day friend, see you later. I mean I
hear it, I hear what, but it might be Jesus

(51:20):
in the toast. Now of course I know what it is.
Good morning, you're on the air. What is your name, Nicholas, Nicholas?
How are you today?

Speaker 11 (51:28):
I'm good?

Speaker 9 (51:29):
All right about you?

Speaker 1 (51:30):
Good buddy. I'm gonna play the note. If you guess
it correctly, you're getting tickets to see Kevin hart Here
is the note? What song that is correct? Man? Congratulations?
He was so close the other guy, but he did
not say the correct song today. It wasn't his day,

(51:52):
but Nicholas, it was yours. You're getting tickets to see
Kevin Hart. Man. Hang on the line so Gimi can
get your info. Ky last night so I went to
had t Pain Right. He's awesome. I'm like, good dude.
His interviews are awesome. He's really nice, catchy songs. But
you hear his music, you go, that sounds like Phil Collins.

(52:15):
That's exactly what I thought. Did you know?

Speaker 9 (52:18):
No?

Speaker 6 (52:18):
I thought it was an Akon song.

Speaker 1 (52:20):
It's not. You're not far off because Acon is on
that song. Yeah, yeah, do you know Gimpy. I was
trying to remember the lyrics. I'm like, I know this song.
I've heard this song. I played this song a million times.
What the hell is this song? Yeah? And then finally,
right when Mike was getting like right before that, all
the lyrics in my head hit and I was like,
Bartender got it. Yeah, all right, we gotta take a break.

(52:42):
We'll be back.

Speaker 10 (52:44):
The Big Mad Morning Show returns next Tulsa's Morning Show
ninety seven KMOT.

Speaker 1 (53:02):
Good Morning, It's the Big Mad Morning Show nine one
eight four six, oh kmo d. You can also text
bmms and then what you want to say to eight
two nine four five. Jeff Inzon is going to join
us at nine. If you have a question about divorce
or custody or guardianship or any family lost scenario, he
can answer it when he's in the studio at nine.

(53:22):
Gets you a question to us ahead of time. The
email addresses show at kmod dot com. You can text
it BMMS and whatever that question is to eight two
nine four five, or you can call when he's in
the studio at nine at nine one eight four six,
oh kmo d Well Morman. It says here that the
stranded astronauts a board of the ISS are set to
return to Earth or now still not on the ship yet,

(53:45):
yeah right, Satday Quilliams and Butch will Moore are about
to wrap up an unexpected nine months stay aboard the
ISS due to issues with their booing. Storeliners. Spiece Graph,
a SpaceX capsule that will be their ride home, docked
at the ISS over the weekend. Massa says they're set
to begin their journey on Tuesday. When they docked and

(54:09):
got off the ship into the space station, the astronauts
who've been stuck there for longer than a week, decided
to wear masks and scare them. Gotta have fun somehow. Yoh,
we know you were on the other side of the door.

(54:32):
USPS two layoff ten thousand employees in a DOGE deal.
The layoffs are in cooperation with Elon Musk's Department of
Government Efficiency. According to a letter sent to Congress Postal
CEO Postal Service to CEO Louis de Joy has agreed
to work with the Muscle led department on the downsizing.

(54:54):
This is part of the Delivering for America Plan, a
ten year project looking looking to modernize the USPS operations
and reach financial sustainability. The Joy was hired by Trump
in twenty twenty and recently announced that he is stepping
down from his position. Cost of eggs is coming down, hooray.

(55:15):
The US Department of Agriculture is reporting that the national
average wholesale price of a dozen eggs dropped two dollars
since seventy cents last week, landing at four point fifteen,
still too much. That marks three weeks of declining prices
according to USDA. And then lastly here OSDH confirms two

(55:37):
more measles cases in Green Country. The Oklahoma State Department
of Health announced two more probable measle cases in Green Country.
Officials say they started investigating the case after learning about
the cases on March fourteenth, which was Friday. Then they
started investigating where these people went while contagious potential measles exposures.

(55:59):
Locations include Cole's in a Wasa from on February twenty
seventh from one thirty in the afternoon till five thirty
in the evening, and then all these in Ajasa February
twenty seventh from four twenty to seven pm. Oh dude,
it goes on and on Sam's Club same day from

(56:20):
seven pm to nine twenty one. Damn, they just out
shopping all the sprouts in AASA from seven thirty pm
to ten o two pm and then the low's on
Lynn Riggs and Claremore from seven pm to nine twenty
seven pm. And that's pretty detailed. Yeah, Like I went

(56:41):
to all these last week. I don't remember the day
and I don't remember the time. I would have to guess,
but I wouldn't be like one till about one oh three, right,
I wouldn't get it down to the minute, right, but crazy.
At least they could tell you where this person was

(57:02):
at or peopole whatever. Yeah, that's good.

Speaker 6 (57:17):
Shay Gilges Alexander had thirty one points and it assists
as the Western Conference of leading Oklahoma City Thunder defeated
the Milwaukee Bucks one twenty one twe oh five last night.
Isaiah Hartenstein added a career high twenty four points plus
twelve rebounds to help the Thunder win for the tenth
time in eleven games. Isaiah Joe scored nineteen points off

(57:41):
the bench. Chad Holmgren had sixteen points and eight rebounds.
Milwaukee'sianas Tatokumpo had twenty one points twelve rebounds and ten
assists for his fifty second career triple double. Damian Lillard
added nineteen points for the Bucks despite shooting just three
of nine from the floor. Oklahoma City pulled ahead for

(58:01):
good early in the second quarter and eventually led by
as many as twenty five points. The Thunder shot fifty
one point seven percent while holding Milwaukee to thirty nine
point eight percent. Both teams were playing for a second
straight night. The Thunder one one thirteen to twenty oh
seven at Detroit on Saturday, while the Bucks beat the
Indiana Pacers won twenty six to one nineteen at home.

(58:24):
Oklahoma City showcased its depth by winning on a night
when it was missing Jalen Williams and Dort do to
hip issues. Williams sat out a third straight game. The
Thunder hosts the Philadelphia seventy six ers on Wednesday. De
copes to have its star freshmen available for the beginning
of the NCAA tournament. Head coach John Chayer said Sunday

(58:47):
that the goal is to have forward Cooper Flag play
in Friday's first round game against either American University or
Mount Saint Mary's. Flag missed the final two games of
the ACC Tournament with an ankle injury. He is projected
to be the top pick in the twenty twenty five
NBA Draft. On Sunday, the Agency Sports Trust Advisors revealed

(59:09):
that defensive tackle Derek Noddy is leaving the Chiefs to
join the Jets as a free agent for the twenty
twenty five NFL season. The player spent seven years at Arrowhead,
playing each of the last three seasons on a one
year deal before taking a different direction in twenty twenty five. Nadi,
who turns twenty nine in May, was one of the

(59:30):
few remaining players who celebrated all three Super Bowl titles
with Reied, Mahomes, and Kelsey in Kansas City. In fact,
he was also the last remaining player from the twenty
eighteen NFL Draft class on the Chiefs. Dick Vital got
emotional during a live broadcast while speaking about his multiple
cancer diagnosises. The longtime sports announcer whose eighty five, spoke

(59:54):
candidly about his return to work after his most recent
health ordeal at the Atlantic Coast Comp Tournament championship game
on Saturday. He says, it's a miracle to sit here
with you guys, sitting here between ESPN colleagues Dave O'Brien
and Corey Alexander, he said, I can't tell you how
much you've meant to me. It's been unbelievable, a tough
three years, those four cancer battles. He continued emotionally, I

(01:00:19):
don't wish it on anybody. Cancer sucks. Child then shared
an inspirational message to those in a similar situation. Anybody
battling cancer, please listen, think positive always, and have faith
and believe. The sportscaster added that those who know someone
with cancer should send them a text message or make
a phone call. It means so much, he explained, I

(01:00:41):
know it meant a lot to me in my darkest
moment when I was in the hospital doing chemo and
had a bad, bad day.

Speaker 1 (01:00:48):
I know that. First of all, his story's amazing, right.
I can't imagine the joy he and his family have
that he is alive today. Absolutely, With that being said,
as someone whose parent died of cancer, and I never
like hearing and this is probably my own undoing that

(01:01:12):
the implication that maybe my dad didn't want it enough
or didn't fight enough, you know what I'm saying. Yeah,
And because I know he did. I know we did,
and I know anybody who's lost someone to cancer they
also did the same. And it's just always interesting to
me when I hear somebody that's alive today, you know,

(01:01:35):
after their cancer situation, and be like, you gotta fight hard,
you gotta get it like and again, I think it's
probably my own undoing of like, because I don't think
they're going well, your dad didn't try hard, right, But
I can't help but hear that sure when they're like,
you gotta fight hard, you gotta not all cancer survivable. No,

(01:01:56):
it's not no matter how hard you fight.

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of their lives with us and on the line with

(01:03:14):
us right now is Ben. Hey Ben, how are you
good about yourself? Good? Ben is married, been married for
eight years. How did you meet your wife?

Speaker 9 (01:03:25):
I met my wife, Jessica at a zoo conference up
in Cincinnati. She was working at Arizona Zoo and I
was working Oklahoma City Zoo and we had a conference
and ended up meeting up there.

Speaker 1 (01:03:37):
What did you do at the zoo? Were you a
zoo keeper? Oh?

Speaker 9 (01:03:41):
Horticulturalists?

Speaker 1 (01:03:42):
Okay, for anybody that doesn't know like me, What does
that explain that I took.

Speaker 9 (01:03:47):
Care of the landscaping, so your plants everything like that,
you mowed the yard.

Speaker 1 (01:03:54):
Yes, I'm sure he took care of some flowers. Now
I know it's more than that. I'm being sarcast think
I'm just but you did more than just mow the yard.
Some might say that landscaping it's a little more involved
than hey, let's.

Speaker 9 (01:04:09):
Weed, Oh very much.

Speaker 1 (01:04:13):
What do you love about being a horticulturist?

Speaker 9 (01:04:17):
I was just growing the plants, taking care of everything,
and then at the end of the day, at the
end of the day, getting done with a big project,
able to look back on it and see that you've
actually got something accomplished.

Speaker 1 (01:04:27):
Today, when you go to a convention for whole horticulturists,
how crazy does it get?

Speaker 9 (01:04:38):
On the first night you get in? It's later and
the first night, to my surprise, was basically an open
bar to a point, and all of us were in
basically the riff. And let's say most people didn't leave
till about two and then some people are just going
out when some people were coming in.

Speaker 1 (01:05:00):
So it gets crazy.

Speaker 9 (01:05:01):
Oh yeah, yeah. A horticulturalists as horticulturists have our fun too.

Speaker 1 (01:05:08):
I believe, I believe you. I think every industry definitely
has that. Uh now I'm going to give a really
broad statement and we can unpack it. But you're kind
of a big deal in the horticultural thing, aren't you.

Speaker 9 (01:05:24):
I can, I can go about anything out there, and
I'm I've been in some magazines and getting known pretty well.

Speaker 1 (01:05:31):
So when do you remember the moment that started happening
where people will get to what you've done, but that
people started noticing you went, oh no, I may have
something here.

Speaker 9 (01:05:44):
This was about two years we're talking about the growing
or the battery growing. Talk about okay growing about two
thousand and well to fourteen when I went to school
to issue okay, see, I went there for turf grass
actually to mow, and got into the greenhouse to start

(01:06:08):
growing plants, sald bananas and some oranges, and actually designed
my first hydroponic system. There after I got in a
school there, I put an ad on Craigslist before you know,
it was just completely crazy and creepy and told a
guy or actually put a one ad on there and
saying that I'm looking for a job. A guy emails

(01:06:29):
me for a few months. I think it's a scam,
so I tell him to call me. He called this
in fifteen minutes, tells me he's the world's first internet stockbroker.
Come down here and let's let's see what we can do.
So I go down there and we try to do hydroponics,
but since it's fertilizer, they won't ship that much, so

(01:06:50):
I had to learn aquaponics. Aquaponics there is like hydroponics
where you're growing plants in water, but instead of using
nutrients and fish for the nutrients for these plants, so
it's a real symbiotic system. The plants take up the
nutrients in the fish fish poop and they create the nutrients.

(01:07:13):
At that point, we built a eight thousand square foot
greenhouse down there in the mountains and we were growing
ten thousand plants, including bananas, peppers, lettuce, pineapples, and our
fish was twenty five hundred blueno salapia in a fifty
five hundred gallons fish chain.

Speaker 1 (01:07:34):
Wow, what that's wild, dude, Like that's a lot and
you say down there, what is down there?

Speaker 9 (01:07:47):
Where was that down It was in the mountains of
Puerto Rico Kye, Puerto Rico. It was about forty minutes
inland from San Juan on the coast. I lived there
for the first few months, going back and forth the
pharmonium before we did the greenhouse. Flew in people from
all over the world and decided to go as my plan.

(01:08:08):
And so we threw up a small greenhouse twenty by
one hundred and did thirty five hundred plants in there,
started selling to some schools. Then we got the big
one going and we started selling to seventy two Windys
and Demmies on the island. At one point farmers markets,
grocery stores, and then Walmart came in and said rip

(01:08:28):
out everything and put up four more greenhouses with just
bell peppers.

Speaker 1 (01:08:36):
Does fish poop fed plants taste different than plants grown
in the.

Speaker 9 (01:08:43):
Soil, No, it does not, because basically the same thing
that's happening in your soil. It's you know, debris and
stuff breaking down and for the plants to update nutrients,
it's going for the nurification cycle where it's breaking down
the organisms into nitrogen for the plants that take so
it's the same thing your fish poop goes and the

(01:09:05):
solids will actually get filtered out the little particles go
to a biofilter and that'll actually convert the rest of
that little waste from a fish p ammonia to a
nitrate for the plants.

Speaker 1 (01:09:18):
I got to ask this question, can this work with weed?

Speaker 9 (01:09:23):
Yes? It can?

Speaker 1 (01:09:24):
And does it make a better product?

Speaker 9 (01:09:27):
It makes a cleaner product. On hydroponics, you have to
flush your system where you're because that's because your nutrients
you're buying a bottle have so much salt content, so
you need to flush that out. I don't know if
you've ever got some stuff where you're like, holy, you know,
holy crap it. It's almost like salty or taste really

(01:09:49):
bad when you're smoking it and consuming it, and that's
not supposed to be there. It's supposed to be a nice,
clean taste.

Speaker 1 (01:09:56):
And because I've been to weed farms that are high
draponic weed farms, but I've never been doing aquaponic with
the with fish poop. Are they pretty common?

Speaker 6 (01:10:06):
No?

Speaker 9 (01:10:07):
They or not? The The little one we have in
chalk Taw, Oklahoma right now is five hundred square feet
indoors and we're producing roughly three thousand pounds a month
and over five hundred pounds of tilapia a year and
sell them to the Oklahoma City Zoo and have zoos

(01:10:27):
all around the nation. Interested right, there's we should no
one else doing it.

Speaker 1 (01:10:31):
We should clarify you're not producing weed for the zoo.

Speaker 9 (01:10:35):
No, no, no, no vegetables. Yeah yeah, yes, let us
bought chroid, dandelion, greens, spinach, chalet. Like I said, the
telafia doesn't seem to be other things like playfish?

Speaker 1 (01:10:47):
Now now does it? Does it produce faster?

Speaker 9 (01:10:50):
Like?

Speaker 1 (01:10:50):
And you can produce an all season like? There's no
there's every every time as a grow time, there's no
seasonal growing.

Speaker 9 (01:10:58):
Yeah, exactly, I'll quaponics is like hydroponics where it does
grow faster. So aquaponics is thirty to forty roughly days
for ahead of lettuce, whereas in the field it's fifty
to sixty.

Speaker 1 (01:11:14):
So fascinating this time of thing. All right, So you
create this and you've got this product to help with
the zoo, but then you create this whole.

Speaker 9 (01:11:21):
Other item, yes, to help battery.

Speaker 1 (01:11:26):
Yeah, tell me how you can't this was even a
problem you needed to solve.

Speaker 9 (01:11:30):
Okay, Well, being a grower and everything, I've grown cannabis
everything like that. Actually moved up with the lass to
Missouri to grow hemp, grow CBD and industrial hemp. Started
growing that and started looking into the industrial side. Whereas

(01:11:53):
himp crete stuff like that where you're making building blocks
for houses, now they're actually making can you know, springing insulation,
they're making dry wall, they're making hardwood floors out of it.
So that was really neat, and so I looked on
YouTube and I came across the video from a guy

(01:12:14):
named Robert Murray Smith from London, and he actually was
working with all this hint material. So what he did
was he was turning this himp fiber into a carbon source,
which he was trying to get to a graphene, which
is now like the holy grail of basically electronics to

(01:12:37):
a point now. And it was so expensive to make
it because you had to grow graphing. There was a
lot of mining involved. He figured a way to make
it from himp bath fibers, which is the fibers on
the hip plant. I mean, it makes it a thousands
of the cost and now it's doable. So I started
looking at that, experimenting, working working with two guys Jesse

(01:13:03):
Matt Locke and Tyler Fleming, and we've made a big
breakthrough on this and developed it all the way into
a battery and even other things. But we've had interest
on our battery from people calling us saying they're from
Harley Davison GM an incubator hear in Tulsa actually told
me some crazy numbers on it. Hey, how do you

(01:13:25):
within fifteen minutes? How would you fill about selling out
for blah blah blah million dollars? And you know, of
course sign me up.

Speaker 1 (01:13:33):
And what I just did a quick read this says
that HIMP batteries last eight times longer than lithium, they're
three hundred times more powerful, they charge faster, and they're
more sustainable obviously, so this feels like a home run.
Why is it so slow to catch on?

Speaker 9 (01:13:54):
Well, when it first came out with the graphing, before
the hip process, it was so expensive for the graphing,
so the research was real slow. Now that they're seeing
the possibilities of this and not that you have to
you know, gotten mine it. You have to grow this
graphing from graph graphite, blah blah blah blah blah. You

(01:14:15):
had a chemicals they said. Now it's a lot simpler
you're basically heating up these HEMP fibers super hot and
turn it into a graphing. They said, well, the other
process is super long intensive, and now you have it available.
There's a company in the United States and forget where

(01:14:37):
they're at. They're working on a help supercapacitor, which is
almost like a battery, but it doesn't hold a charge
like a battery. So it was in your car and
you had a supercapacitor, you don't have to basically use
it right then, you can, you know, go for a
day or two, let your car sit, then come start it.

(01:14:58):
And that's our that's our first battery working on.

Speaker 1 (01:15:00):
Are there any HIMP batteries in use today?

Speaker 4 (01:15:06):
Are?

Speaker 9 (01:15:06):
There are none in use that I know of, And
there's a few with different chemistries because you're not just
using the hymp graphing uh in there, so there's a
few different ones. Come they're trying to come out, And
of course that goes back to three four years ago
where you know, they mention it and they're still raising

(01:15:26):
hundreds of millions, where you know, we've we've raised not
even one hundred thousand, going against these big boys, and honestly,
it looks like making more progress.

Speaker 1 (01:15:38):
So as of right now, hip batteries aren't a thing.

Speaker 9 (01:15:42):
No, not not publicly, not not available.

Speaker 1 (01:15:45):
And are there any hip batteries in a testing facility
that have been being used for a long.

Speaker 9 (01:15:52):
Time, not, not to my knowledge.

Speaker 1 (01:15:59):
So this feels a little bit like the pig liver,
like this is a good idea, they're trying to make
it work, but there has been no real success with
it yet.

Speaker 9 (01:16:10):
Yes, they have success in the hip graphene mixed batteries,
where it's basically they're putting with the lithium batteries instead
of the graphite they're putting now like graphite graphene blocks
and everything like that, and they're able to replace that
because of that, cost has went so far down.

Speaker 1 (01:16:35):
So how much do you personally have invested into the
hip battery?

Speaker 9 (01:16:40):
Oh? I I I'm not exactly sure and won't say
it because the wife's fibly listening, but we got probably
somewhere around one hundred with investment and stuff like that.
One one hundred thousand.

Speaker 1 (01:17:02):
And what is your expectations? What's the hope here?

Speaker 9 (01:17:08):
The hope here is to finish this prototype. We actually
have ex military we've met that are willing to do
feather testing for us. We've already worked out everything. One
of them is a flight test, take the battery up
in the air, make sure it doesn't explode with him
would explode. To finish, and then to finish about three

(01:17:29):
to four prototypes and take them to these companies we've
had interests where they've talked about these dollar amounts and
everything like that, and just go take these batteries straight
to them.

Speaker 1 (01:17:40):
And this is a side hustle, right, this is something
you're doing on the side from your normal full time job.

Speaker 9 (01:17:45):
Yes, from the growing Wow, I can't.

Speaker 1 (01:17:50):
Figure out how to get groceries today, and this guy
is like making him batteries. That's wild man, It's appreciate it.
It says here to ask about feeding convicts, When did
you have time to feed convicts?

Speaker 9 (01:18:05):
So last year I worked with a nonprofit in Oklahoma
City and they had a little farm they wanted to start.
So we worked on an idea and we ended up
getting seven greenhouses up out there and we did everything
from strawberries to watermelon. We even did nineteen tables in

(01:18:26):
one greenhouse of hydroponics to teach the guys that we
were going to go aquaponics and then we had you know,
cells around, we had places ready to buy everything like that.
What else did we do? Peppers? Tomatoes? And I ended
up training the guys. They'd bring guys out there. They
had a few of them that lived on site. I
stayed there in my trailer for almost six months with them,

(01:18:50):
going back and forth to my house, and I would
train them to everything to build the greenhouse, to how
to run, how to harvest it. That gave them job
skills because these were the people that were coming out
of prison, and you know, when you come out five
ten years, they're not giving you the training you need.

(01:19:10):
You're coming out. And I was around guys who when
they went in there was hardly any cell phones or
internet and they're coming out and the wall was just
completely changed, and you feel so bad. I mean, I understand,
I don't you know, they've some of them, don't you know.
I'm not going to say my personal beliefs. They've done

(01:19:31):
their time all that, and they're out. So that's at
that point, you know, I'm training them, I'm helping them,
and they need to have these skills. And they were
super excited because they're like, hey, you might up to
use you as a reference and say I helped you
and I had no problem with it. I mean it's
going to help them go from Hey, my last five
ten years was in prison.

Speaker 1 (01:19:52):
People are texting and asking like, how can they learn
from you? Do you do seminars on hydroponics or aquaponics?

Speaker 9 (01:19:59):
Yes, i'd I Actually when cannabis became medical and Oklahoma,
I was on a few of the news channels in
Oklahoma City teaching that. Right now, you can just reach
out to me. I'll just give my email if that's
all right.

Speaker 1 (01:20:16):
I'd rather you not because we'll take it. We'll make
sure Gimpie has it, and well for the people that
are asking, we'll send it to them directly. I don't
want to broadcast your email address because you know, the
coucuos will get a little cocoon. Man.

Speaker 9 (01:20:32):
So that's what I was saying about back in twenty
fifteen when I posted on Craigslist. It was before it
got to what it is.

Speaker 1 (01:20:40):
Yeah. Yeah, well, Ben, extremely fascinating man. I hope that
works out for you. I hope you know people have
aspirations for things. I think that's so exciting. So good
luck with the hip battery and congratulations on all the aquaponics. Aquaponics, aqua, yeah, aerobics,
all that, man, really really interesting stuff. Man, have a

(01:21:02):
great day, and thanks for taking the time.

Speaker 9 (01:21:04):
All right, thank you for your time too. You'll have
a good one you too.

Speaker 4 (01:21:07):
Man.

Speaker 1 (01:21:07):
That's been Our listeners are awesome. We'll take a break
and we'll be back.

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Speaker 1 (01:21:27):
Good morning, It's the Big Mad Morning Show. Nine six
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and then what you want to say to eight two
nine four five. Do you know who Millie Bobby Brown is?

Speaker 6 (01:21:45):
Eleven from Stranger Things?

Speaker 1 (01:21:47):
Yeah, she's an actress. She is well, okay, we tease
Gimby that he has a little farm, ohiah, but in
reality he's got like less than five animals yeah, six
seventy nine, ten, ten, so well more than five. Yeah
that was planned. Yeah, I knew it, but I don't

(01:22:13):
have any like goats or chickens yet. Yeah, there's an
ellipsis at the end of that sud right, right, she
has sixty.

Speaker 6 (01:22:21):
Two whoa does she live in a farm?

Speaker 1 (01:22:24):
Well, that's the thing that people do that have farms,
is they go, these are all my pets. Yeah, but
you don't. To me, a pet is something domesticated that
lives in your house.

Speaker 6 (01:22:35):
Yeah, agreed, or you you.

Speaker 1 (01:22:42):
Like cuddle with.

Speaker 6 (01:22:43):
It's hard to call a pig a pet when you
plan on taking it to the butcher to eat it,
you know, or.

Speaker 1 (01:22:49):
Cow best tasting pet ever her right, But if you don't,
you're feeding it and taking care of it, much like
the pets in your home, right, right right, maybe taking
it to shows and showing it off. Yeah, that's a
good question. Is your if you raised now Gimbi was
in four h oh, spent the whole year?

Speaker 4 (01:23:09):
Why not?

Speaker 7 (01:23:09):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:23:10):
I just love to drop that one. I'm here, right,
And if you take care of a pig during four
h yeah, is that your pet?

Speaker 4 (01:23:18):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:23:19):
I mean, I mean, I don't know. I mean you're
taking care of it. You're just like you would any
other livestock, any other animal. You want to keep it alive.
But again, much like Lindsay said, or is it going
to go to slaughter? I think that's where the difference where. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
because you don't slaughter your pets for food, right, you don't.

(01:23:41):
You you raise them you take care of them, and
then you send them off to slaughter so you can
enjoy them later after life. Right across the Rainbow Bridge.
Yeah exactly. But if you're not sending them to slaughter,
and you are raising them until they die naturally and
then you you know, bury him in the backyard or
whatever ever you know, then then then yeah, they're pets

(01:24:02):
at that point. We'll come back to Millie Bobby Brown
in a second, because something is just into my brain
that I wanted to hit. Huh before I do that.
Our plants pets then, because you take care of them, dude.

Speaker 6 (01:24:16):
Right here, I was thinking the same thing. And if
you are my mother, you talk them to them as well.

Speaker 1 (01:24:21):
Yeah, they bring you comfort. Yes, they very well could be.
It's a living organism and you are feeding it and
taking care of it to make sure it doesn't die.
And so therefore, and much like Lindsay's mom, if you
talk to him, they keep you company. Whatever. Yeah, I
think it's at it's a pet at that point. So
Jimmy Carr the comedian, has this really funny bit where

(01:24:43):
he's doing crowd work and the person tells him he's
that she's a veterinarian nurse and he's just appalled by it,
and he's like, that has to be the worst job ever,
of which you know. That person takes the bait and goes,
why would you say that, And he goes, well, let's
take this as an example. I've killed zero cats this week,

(01:25:06):
and I'm gonna guess your numbers more than none. And
all those people that are vet nurses kill animals. Yeah,
I've never thought of that. Now, I'm not sitting here
saying a vet nurse is like the worst job ever.
I have no idea, but when you I never contemplated

(01:25:28):
that in a nurse scenario, part of your job is
to kill pets. Yeah, because they're sick or whatever, their
parents don't want them anymore. Yeah, whatever that is.

Speaker 6 (01:25:39):
They bit someone, well that would be a kill shelter.
Then that would have to.

Speaker 1 (01:25:43):
Be an animal shelter. Yeah, we're talking about a vet
nurse in a hospital, like a vet clinic, right right.
You take your dog there because he's old, and they
give him the lethal injection and then that's that. They like,
that's a regular thing for vat nurses, and.

Speaker 6 (01:25:57):
The nurses have to do that, not the actual vet.

Speaker 1 (01:26:01):
I mean the top. I'm my friend's a vets so
like I went to him, right, yeah, right, so, but
I don't know what the sop is. I'm sure if
it's a busy day, they might have the nurse go
in and give them the injections. Yeah you know, sorry,
we're stacked up, Susan. I'm going to need you in

(01:26:22):
there to inject Duke.

Speaker 6 (01:26:24):
I think it would be the worst part about being
a vet nurse would be like the anal Glands expression
of doing that for dogs or cats.

Speaker 1 (01:26:37):
So back to Millie Bobby Round eleven from Strangers Things.
She has twenty five farm animals, twenty three foster dogs,
and ten dogs in the house that she says are
her personal dogs and four cats she just can't say, no, right,
that's all that that is.

Speaker 6 (01:26:55):
She is her own animal shelter.

Speaker 1 (01:26:57):
She says that she has gotten them real single bit,
and that her husband has strict rules about animals sleeping quarters.
Only one is allowed in the bed now because he
said no more in the bed. One of the dogs
is a Rottweiler, a Golden Retriever, a Great Dane, an
eighteen year old blind dogs and dude eighteen and blind.

(01:27:21):
Put that goddamn dog down. Why are you making that
animal suffer? She says, I picked him up, found him
on the side of the road, thinking he wasn't gonna
live long. He's blind, he couldn't find his way through.
This dog is now jumping on my couch. He has
a new lease on life, is at it for over

(01:27:43):
a year and blind. Yeah, if I met like single
corbut and I meet a girl and everything's great, and
then I go to our house and she has no
Offen Skimpy nine pets. Yeah, I'm out, I'm out. I'm out.
I'm out. That's you don't have time for me?

Speaker 6 (01:28:05):
Actly?

Speaker 1 (01:28:07):
Sure we do, just don't you know, mind the dog toys? Yeah,
crap in the corner and being in relationships is hard enough.
And now we got to add the argument of dogs
sleeping in the bed and the amount of money it
takes to feed them and vet bills, and you have

(01:28:28):
personal dogs, and then you have dogs that just what
roam the land, right because she said, what was it,
twenty three foster dogs. Twenty three dogs. That's just like
they just need a place to crash for a little bit.
I think at some point a number of pets becomes
you you're neglecting At some point, you think you're doing

(01:28:52):
God's work right, like all pets have a home for me,
And if you're not a business that has some responsibilities legally,
I think you're just being neglectful towards some of them.
For sure. Somebody not saying because there's like there's animal
hoarders out there. Yeah, right, we've seen them on TV

(01:29:14):
and how you might have even read some locally and
the news get busted recently, you know, how come man,
Maybe maybe she has a staff of people, you know,
as opposed to you know, Mildrid and Bobby over here,
who it's just them and they just they just won't
help out. You see what I'm saying. Maybe maybe she
has a staff of people that are helping to take

(01:29:36):
care of them and they actually have decent living conditions.
I would I would hope so, I would hope. So
she's got the financial means to do that, I would hope.

Speaker 7 (01:29:43):
So.

Speaker 1 (01:29:43):
But they all have the same story, which is I
can't say no, and then it grows out of control,
and then then they have shame. Yeah, and then they
don't want to bring up that they can't say no,
and then they have ninety five dogs and they're living
in feces and their hairs matted. Yeah, and you can't
feed them, and now you gotta go fund me, And
I gotta help with the go fund me because I'm
an animal lover, and I think that's a joke, right right, wild.

Speaker 6 (01:30:09):
I would assume, though, with twenty five farm animals alone,
that she has the proper storage storage. You would think,
you know, housing for these animals.

Speaker 1 (01:30:19):
I would think when you're making eighty million dollars, your
net worths eighty million dollars, that you would afford someone
to come check on you daily when you're sick and
dying at ninety five. But you know, right, Gene Hackman,
I was just trying to see if I can't find
pictures of Millie's home online, see what kind of where's
she living at? Is she living out in the country.

(01:30:40):
Does she have a place with acres and acres and
acres and plenty of room for all these animals? Non
Los Angeles? Yeah, exactly, exactly, non Los Angeles. But you know,
who knows. Maybe it's a second home. I'm just saying,
like when someone's like, I have sixty two pets. Red flag, yeah, yeah,
red flag. You are common and saying for something.

Speaker 4 (01:31:01):
I mean, you live in a zoo, right, at.

Speaker 1 (01:31:04):
What point is it a zoo? How many pets is
it before it's a zoo? I mean I think more
than fifteen? Yeah, yeah, when you have more than fifteen pets,
let's exclude goldfish, you have a zoo. A zoo is

(01:31:26):
not defined by a specific number of pets, but rather
by its purpose two thousand display animals for public education, conservation,
and research, right, not for private ownership. How many pets
do you have to have before it's a rescue? Then? Okay? Right,
because I know a couple places that are rescues. Get bees.

(01:31:48):
Talked about that place that lost their lease up in Collinsville.
We've talked about the animal rescue, some of the dog rescues.
It's got to paws and clauses, all those like yeah,
it says here. That's again, there isn't a specific number
of pets that make it a rescue, but rather a
rescue organization or individual takes on the responsibility of caring

(01:32:10):
for and finding homes for the animals in neat So
you could have just one and call yourself a rescue. Yeah,
you know, I saved this cat from living in deplorable conditions.
Yeah right, so therefore I am the Animal Rescue. Gotta
take a break, We'll be back.

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Speaker 6 (01:33:13):
It appears that the UFC is looking for a divorce
from ESPN. Tech issues with UFC three point thirteen are
just the latest issue the UFC has had with ESPN,
and Dana White is far from thrilled dealing with fans
who are angry about issues with the ESPN Plus streaming platform.

(01:33:33):
After the event, ESPN acknowledged the issues, praised tech Cruise
for resolving them, and apologized to unhappy subscribers. Meanwhile, the
UFC is said to be talking to Netflix about finding
a new streaming home there.

Speaker 1 (01:33:47):
I'll say this as someone who likes watching mixed martial
arts and likes the UFC. I think they have too
many fights yeae, because who wants to pay sixty dollars
every weekend, right, and they're not that great, right, you
know what I mean. They're good fights. These people are
well trained, but when you talk about a highly entertaining

(01:34:09):
fighter show, there are times when all the fights end
in draws. That's not exciting. Now, why not like a
UFC network where like that's just what they do. Put
it on cable, right, and that's all you do, because
like you said, they're oversaturated with fights. I think that
they tried that with the UFC. They had the UFC

(01:34:31):
app and they put everything on there and no one
was buying it. Huh, Well, because it didn't get you
free pay per views. You still had to pay for
a pay per view and if it went to Netflix
and it was included already a right, think about boxing,
Not every boxing match is pay per view. Big ones are, right,

(01:34:52):
but you can Showtime has a deal where they show some, Right,
there's some on ESPN sometimes. That's what I'm talking about,
Like a UFC network. Let the little fights just go
free of charge and get the big ones out there
for the for the paper. Well, they do fight nights
and those are up and comers. Occasionally they might have

(01:35:13):
one person who's like a big name associated with it.
They use it as leverage to hey, if you want
to be on a pay per view, you got to
show get some viewership here. But I think they're just
in a growing pain and trying to figure out the
next phase of what the business model looks like, because
in the beginning, it was when you had Ultimate Fighter

(01:35:33):
that lured people into watching it, and you would see
these guys get developed, and then they get signed and
you follow them into a career, and then you'll pay
for pay per views. But to ask the consumer to
buy a pay per view twice, let's just go twice
a month, yeah, I think that's wild business model. Those
are like what fifty bucks a little more? Yeah, And

(01:35:56):
then you go on to well what's the marketing. Let's
like think of the WWE right T shirts things like that.
That just doesn't exist in the UFC model. Because the
fighters did have their own shirts that they would sell.
They made them stop. You have to buy an official
UFC sanctioned one. They aren't cool, right, And so there's

(01:36:19):
no where's the marketing at, where's that second revenue stream
coming from? And then you have spinoffs, Well, where are
those at? The things you buy because Connor McGregor is
a unique model. Nobody's buying the Henry Shudo whiskey, which
some of you are going, Who's Henry c. Jujudo? Not

(01:36:41):
only a good fighter, he's a gold on Olympic gold medalist.
You see what I'm saying, Like, these are well established
people in that world, but I'm not buying Henry Shudo's
gloves as a recreational guy.

Speaker 6 (01:36:58):
Josh Barry is making LASCAR history after securing the checkered
flag in the Pennzoil four hundred from Las Vegas Motor Speedway.
The driver of the number twenty one car held off
Daniel Suarez to become the only racer to claim their
first ever Cup Series win from Vegas. Ryan Priest, William Byron,
and Ross Chastain rounded out the top five finishers. The

(01:37:19):
field heads to Homestead, Miami next Sunday for the Straight
Talk Wireless four hundred and March Madness begins this week,
and with it comes the potential for the economy to
lose billions of dollars. That's according to a recent survey
by sports betting and media brand Action Network that predicts
March Madness could cause the US economy to see roughly

(01:37:40):
twenty billion dollars in lost productivity. The loss productivity can
come in a number of forms, from simply being distracted
while on the clock to the forty percent of survey
respondents to admit to calling in sick to watch a game.
And Tiger Woods continues to make headlines. This month alone,
the golf legend has undergone surgery that will keep him

(01:38:02):
out of the Masters, and then came word that the
Obamas are involved in a film project chronicling his life. Now,
whispers have started growing louder about the forty nine year
old billionaire's private life. The Daily Mail was the first
to report that Woods has been quietly dating Vanessa Trump
for several months. The forty seven year old Trump is
the ex wife of President Trump's oldest son, Don Junior.

(01:38:25):
Seeming to confirm the relationship, People is reporting that a
source with knowledge of the situation says Don Junior is
cool with it.

Speaker 1 (01:38:32):
Yeah, it's his ex wife. What does he care?

Speaker 6 (01:38:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:38:34):
Uh, I don't know why this is getting so much traction.
Is it because it's Tiger Wood's and it's a named
Trump at rutly because he's not a profile name. Yeah,
she just kept the name which why wouldn't you definitely
And by the way, he has a type, Yes he does.
This looks like his wife mm hmm yeah.

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Jeff Hensley of Hensley and Associates. Good Morning, Jeff. Jeff
is here to answer your questions about family law, custody, guardianship,

(01:40:17):
name change, alimony, any of those things that have to
do with family law. He can answer them. You can
get your question to us a couple of ways. You
can email show at kmod dot com. You can call
it nine one eight four six oh KMOD, or you
can text your question BMMS and whatever that is to
the phone number eight two nine four five. That's how
we got this question. Can you get an emergency custody

(01:40:39):
order if the child constantly comes back with HEADLCE from
the ex's house. They only treat one child over at
their house and doesn't treat the betting or linens. This
is has now been an issue several times, and I
have discussed it with them. Do I have to let
my child go over there knowing they don't take care
of this issue?

Speaker 7 (01:40:59):
Prop you know, I've actually had this issue pop up
with an emergency once, so I in a particular county. Yes,
I was able to get an emergency on it. It
was something like this where it was constant, It was
never treated properly. It kept coming back over and over
and over and over and over. I forget how many times.
It happened before we moved down on the emergency. And
the reason we waited is typically judges don't care about

(01:41:22):
things like head lice. They just don't, you know, unless
it's recurring over and over and over and over and over.
It's kind of like, you know, if a child misses
a couple of days of school, that's different than missing
forty days in one semester kind of thing. You know,
So can you do it? Yes, I have done it
in the past. Every situation is different, obviously, but you know,

(01:41:43):
if what they're saying is correct, then there's a potential
for getting an emergency. It just depends on the county.
Some counties a little more choosy about those things than others. So,
but I have done it. I've done that. It's probably
have five six years ago.

Speaker 1 (01:41:55):
How do you prove that, because I'm sure the other
party would go, no, it's not that bad, Like, how
do you prove it?

Speaker 7 (01:42:01):
Well, what we did in that particular case is we
actually had somebody go over. We paid, if I remember correctly,
we paid a company that dealt with lice and those
kind of things, bed bugs and whatnot. We had somebody
go over and actually do an evaluation to give us
a report so we could present that to the court.

Speaker 1 (01:42:20):
That's how we did that, and they let that person
into the home.

Speaker 7 (01:42:23):
You got a quarter or to let them do it
for Wow, they're required to do that.

Speaker 1 (01:42:26):
That's impressive. So wow, So it.

Speaker 7 (01:42:29):
Can be done. I mean, you know, bed bugs live,
things like that. But it's got to be I mean,
it's got to be major, guys. I mean we're not
talking like once or twice. We're talking just over and
over and just massive amounts of kind of stuff. So
it's don't misunderstand what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:42:43):
Well, and there's also the implication of you think they're
not handling it well, right.

Speaker 7 (01:42:48):
Right, I mean there's always that disconnect between the two
parties is one thinks they're doing it right, one party
thinks they're not doing it right, and then of course
the disconnect disconnect in between. So yeah, I mean it's
it's yeah, Jeff Finzy, the case is different.

Speaker 1 (01:43:01):
Jeff Finsley from Hensley Associates is in the studio to
answer your questions about family law BMMS and whatever that
question is to eight two, nine four five you can
call it nine one, eight four to six. Oh kmod,
or you can email like this one I'm about to read.
Show at kmod dot com is where you send your
question for Jeff Hensley of Heinsley and Associates. This email says,
this is a three part question.

Speaker 7 (01:43:21):
Okay, so let's break it down.

Speaker 1 (01:43:22):
We'll do one at a time. I'm currently paying child
support and have been paying regularly for a while, more
than three years without missing a payment. I owe back
child support more than five thousand. Question one. My son
is sixteen now. My now wife and I bought my
son a truck twenty five thousand dollars. Can I use
that to reduce what I owe in child support?

Speaker 7 (01:43:44):
Absolutely not.

Speaker 1 (01:43:47):
People think this a lot. I love that this got asked.

Speaker 7 (01:43:49):
Absolutely not, because it's not it's not child support. I mean, remember,
driving is a privilege. It is not a requirement. It
is not a that's what I'm looking for. It's not
something that has to happen. It's a privilege to be
able to drive, no matter what your age. And so
when you're talking about buying a child a car, great,

(01:44:11):
I'm glad you could afford it perfect, you know. But
at the same time, too, it does not count as
child support because it's not supporting that child in any way,
shape or form. Now, of course they're going to say, well,
it hopes to get him to two in school and
they can get a job, and dah dah dah, dad out. Well,
that's not child's support. That's not how the state looks
at it. What you did is you gave that child
a twenty five thousand dollars gift essentially, and you know

(01:44:34):
that's great, but it doesn't count towards child support in
any way or your rear is in any way. Sorry,
that's just how the state of Oklahoma and most states
looks at it.

Speaker 1 (01:44:44):
Someone's good too. Question two, When my son turns eighteen,
can I get it to where the money I owe
goes to my son? No, instead of his mother. It is,
after all child support meant for him.

Speaker 7 (01:44:56):
Sorry, so right, but the child's still living at home.
The eighteen year old's still living at home until they graduate,
you know. Typically remember we're talking about a kid that
turns eighteen sometime between August of their senior year in
May of their senior year, right within those nine months
in there. So, with that being said, they're still living
at home and it will pay for things like food
and electricity and insurance and excuse me, clothes and all

(01:45:21):
that kind of stuff. So no, I mean, you can't
just send it directly to the kid. Now, there is
a caveat a weird little caveat all, right, And this
doesn't happen often, but it does happen. I've had this happen.
If the child were turn eighteen and move out and
not have finished high school yet and we're living on
their own for some strange reason, which just happened in

(01:45:43):
a case or two of mine in my career, there
is a possibility that we can get the child support
sent to the child if there really is no support
coming from the parent that's supposed to be paying the
child support or not paying but receiving the child support.

Speaker 1 (01:45:58):
But those are.

Speaker 7 (01:45:58):
Ultraraary cases, very case specific, very fact specific. So give
me a call if you've got any questions about.

Speaker 1 (01:46:05):
That question three of their three part question. Lastly, when
he turns eighteen, can I get a passport? Or do
I have to pay it off completely or at least
down to the minimum twenty five hundred before I can
get a passport?

Speaker 7 (01:46:21):
So who's the passport for them?

Speaker 1 (01:46:24):
I think the dad is what I'm interpreting.

Speaker 7 (01:46:26):
My understanding of that is is it's going to be
all paid off for the passport to be able to
be not renewed or given or whatever. I'd have to
double check that. That was my understanding, and it has
always been my understanding. You know. That's one thing that
the state and the FEDS, you know, joined forces to
do is to prevent those passports. So part of it
is is the idea is not to keep people from vacationing.

(01:46:49):
It's from keeping people from absconding outside of the United
States and flying to I don't know, the Netherlands and
never coming.

Speaker 1 (01:46:57):
Back because they keep your passport if you're behind.

Speaker 7 (01:47:02):
What they do is they put a flag on it,
so if you try to use it, they won't let
you through customs. They won't let you out of the country.

Speaker 1 (01:47:10):
This text says question. My ex husband was sentenced to
nine years in prison in twenty twelve for molesting my daughter,
not his. We had a child support order in place,
but he never paid. Our son was twelve, he's now
twenty five. Is there a statute of limitations on collecting?
He has now been released.

Speaker 7 (01:47:28):
So you know, is there a statute of limitations? This
is where it gets a little sticky. And what I
mean by that is this we're if you're dealing with somebody.
Let me guess is what nine they said? What nine
years ago?

Speaker 1 (01:47:40):
Twenty twelve? So thirteen years ago.

Speaker 7 (01:47:41):
Thirteen years ago? If he was sentenced to nine years,
why is he getting out after thirteen?

Speaker 1 (01:47:48):
I do what you got to do in prison there, Joe, Well.

Speaker 7 (01:47:51):
I guess. I mean anyway, my point being is this
all right? Is there a statute of limitations? Technically no,
but at some point the other side is going to
argue that you should be equitably as stopped, meaning you
should be prevented from trying to collect for waiting too long.

Speaker 9 (01:48:08):
Now.

Speaker 7 (01:48:08):
Luckily you've got something here where the child would be
twenty five now, so you're looking at, you know, what
is that seven years past the eighteen year deadline? Give
or takes six months or a year for that last
senior year, So you're looking at, you know, six years.
We might be able to do it. It just depends
on the county and the judge and how they want
to handle it. It's a very gray area. It's not

(01:48:31):
written in stone. Because I've been able to do some cases.
I mean, I had one one time where I was
able to collect over forty thousand because and the kids
were in their late twenties, early thirties, and we were
still able to get that for a child or for
my client for unpaid child support. And then I've had
other cases where the judge says, no, it's been too long,

(01:48:51):
even after five or six years. So it just depends,
I mean the orders. And this is something that I
truly think needs to be addressed by the Oakmam Supreme
A lot of times we don't take it to the
Supreme Court simply because of the costs involved going up
to bringing something up to the child to the Supreme
Court of Oklahoma is very expensive, lots of drafting, appeal

(01:49:13):
work is a pain in the but we don't do it.
We have somebody else that does it for us. So
a lot of times it's going to be financially worth
it to do it, which is why a lot of
these cases don't get addressed. It's why a lot of
cases don't ever get addressed, is simply because of the
costs involved to take it to the Supreme Court. But
it's very again, very case specific. What county you're in,

(01:49:35):
what judge're in front of all that kind of stuff.

Speaker 9 (01:49:38):
This one.

Speaker 1 (01:49:39):
Sorry, the we're in the time of the year where
this question comes up. Everybody remembers, Oh, is it my turn?
I paid quite a bit of child a month in
child support for one child. I also have a fairly
well paying job, so I get taxed to no end.
I'm just curious if there's any way that I can
get something done to be able to switch off years
or something on claiming my child on taxes, or if

(01:50:00):
I'm just sol and she gets to claim him every year.

Speaker 7 (01:50:03):
Well, I mean it again, it depends and here's why.
So typically if we're just talking about a child support
only order that comes out of administrative court for dhs, remember,
all they can deal with is money. They can't deal
with visitation or any of that kind of stuff, including
tax credits. Okay, So if there's just an order for
that individual to pay through it administrative court, what we

(01:50:25):
d they're not married? Okay, they were. This is let's
assume this is a paternity case, all right, because that's
what it sounds like. All right. With a paternity case,
we would have to file for paternity in district court. Say, look,
he's already been adjudicated Dad, he's already got a child
support order. But we need to address these other issues,
such as visitation, holiday schedule, tax exemptions. I mean, typically

(01:50:46):
the idea and the practice in every single court in
the state is if you're paying child support and your
current on it, then you should get an alternating credit
on that. Assuming there's one kid, or if you've got
two you each claim one, or if you've got three.
I mean, there's all sorts of ways to do it.
My point is, if you're paying child support, you should
be getting that credit at some point on a rotating basis.
So with that being said, it sounds like there's no

(01:51:09):
child support or there's no visitation order, which means they
couldn't have addressed the tax issue because again DHS doesn't
have that authority to do that. Their job is just
to collect money, not to deal with anything else but
collection of money. So whatever this says, please give me
a call. I'd be happy to help you with that.
Let's get something in place, because you do deserve that
credit if you're current and you're paying your child support.

Speaker 1 (01:51:31):
Well, I think we need to say that louder for
the people in the back paying child support and claiming
taxes or the order are not the same thing. One
can be done without the other.

Speaker 7 (01:51:42):
Correct, Absolutely one can be done. So you can. You
can have an administrative court. Administrative court is nothing more
than DHS court. Okay, so DHS court at DHS you
can have that order come out of DHS only for
child support. But they don't deal with anything else other
than child support. That's their job. Their job is to
collect money. That's all they do. They cannot do anything

(01:52:05):
with custody. They cannot do anything with visitation, they cannot
do anything with tax credits, they cannot do anything with
holiday schedules. All right, That all has to be done
through the district court. And we have to have an
order out of the district court to be able to
deal with those issues. So if you want those issues addressed,
give me a call. We can get those issues taken
care of through district court. To make sure you're taking

(01:52:26):
care of guys.

Speaker 1 (01:52:27):
Just make the mistake. They're like, oh, I'm paying child support.
That's the end of.

Speaker 7 (01:52:30):
It, right, Well, and they get the idea. Well, they
found me dad, so I should be able to do
this too. Well not really, not on the stack, well
not without an order. I mean again, the law has
been since November first of twenty eleven, the law has been.
Dads who have children outside out of marriages, all right,
paternity cases, all right, have zero rights to their children

(01:52:50):
until they're adjudicated dad by a court, whether it be
DHS court which is administrative court or district court. Now again,
even if you're adjudicated dad in a child support DHS court,
all right, all they're going to say is, well, we
found you to be dad, But that doesn't give you
any visitation rights, It doesn't give you any custody. That
just says we have found you legally to be dead

(01:53:12):
and we're going to stick you with the bill. That's
all that means. So if you want to fill in
all the other holes, you give us a call so
we can handle that in district court.

Speaker 1 (01:53:20):
Jeff Finsley from Hensley and Associates is in the studio.
If you have a question about child support or custody
or name change or anything like that, he can answer
right now. Nine one, eight, four to six, Oh kmod.
You can email show at kmod dot com or text
like this one. What if my wife passed away but
still owes child support? To her son, and it was
coming out of our social Security she got every month.

Speaker 7 (01:53:40):
Now, what will happen, Well, they'll come after it out
of her estate. So if there's a pay out in
the estate somewhere there's money left in the state, they'll
come after it that way. I've seen them do that.

Speaker 1 (01:53:50):
And if there is no money in the estate.

Speaker 7 (01:53:52):
There's no money in the estate, then there's no money
in the estate. I mean, you can't squeeze blood from
a turnip. So right, you like to say you can't
sue dead people, right, make dead people pay? Right, you
can't make them pay. The only thing we can do
is we can dig them up to get DNA samples.
But that's about all we can do. I know it's terrible, right,
I'm sorry.

Speaker 1 (01:54:11):
Variation of what we just talked about with child support
and custody. If I'm paying child support in the time
of our split custody agreement, my child's mom didn't have
a job, so I never got it brought up. How
do I go about claiming my child on taxes? I've
had to pay in thousands every year since he was
born because she has started claiming him.

Speaker 7 (01:54:30):
Read that one more time. The basic let me get
the basic just is is she doesn't work, she's been
taking the credit and he wants it. Yes, So we
get into this big argument of.

Speaker 1 (01:54:40):
Well, you didn't work this year, so you shouldn't.

Speaker 7 (01:54:42):
Get the credit. Well, remember there's different forms of these credits. Okay,
there's the in home credit, there's the educational credit. All right,
there's different credits to be considered. Now, if the person
hasn't worked and the credit's not going to give them anything,
or they're not going to file tax says, what's the
right thing to do? Okay? The human thing, the right

(01:55:04):
human thing to do would be say, you know, I
didn't work this year. We're not I'm not filing taxes
because I didn't work. Why don't you take the credit
this year? Okay, that's what a decent human being would do. Now,
remember when we get into these kind of cases, high energy,
high emotions, so a lot of times those things don't happen. Now,
there can be provisions put in decrees that talk about

(01:55:25):
these issues. Those are rarities for those to be in there,
because the vast majority, i mean, remember, nine times out
of ten, somebody is working, all right, or they're taking
care of the trial. The full time or whatever it
may be. And this is why you want to give
an attorney like us a call so we can help
you walk through these issues because it can get complicated
very quickly. And so you know, if you're having these issues,

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please give us a call. Would be happy to walk
you through it.

Speaker 1 (01:55:49):
Sean is On From Sean is On with Sean. You're
on with Jeff of Finsling Associates.

Speaker 12 (01:55:54):
Go ahead, Yes, away from his mother a couple of
years ago, and I was never notified through DHS.

Speaker 11 (01:56:05):
Do her do nobody? They placed it in his his
girlfriend or his mom's boyfriend custody. And I just now
started getting my visitations and stuff back. But I feel
the DHS dropped the balls. She dropped the ball, and
I told them that my son was taken away from
her and putting someone else's custody.

Speaker 7 (01:56:26):
Well, and that may have happened. Let me ask a
few questions. What county was this in?

Speaker 11 (01:56:32):
That would have been Seminal County, Okay.

Speaker 7 (01:56:35):
So while I practiced in Seminole, I'm not familiar with
their DHS down there and how they handle those cases.
Although I can tell you what state law says. I mean,
state law says that when a child is taken into
custody for whatever reason, away from the parent, they're supposed
to get a master list of any and all individuals
that the child could go to. Now, had you been

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found to be legal dad, have you been adjudicated as
dad before this happened.

Speaker 11 (01:57:01):
I've been I was wanting to do all that. I
wonder then when he was actually born to sign the
birth certificate. You know, I was going to. I was
going through some tough times in our lives, and so
confusion whatever.

Speaker 7 (01:57:13):
And there's there. There is the problem. Okay. The problem
is is that no one found you to be legally dad,
and you weren't on the birth certificate. Now, should she
have told them about you, Absolutely, if she knew you,
you were the potential dad. But at the same time, too,
without anything on the birth certificate, and if she doesn't
say anything, they're not going to know you exist.

Speaker 11 (01:57:33):
Yeah, and I'm beyond that now. But I'm wanting to
raise my son. I mean, but it's kind of a well,
I mean, the situation, trying to ask her if I
can go ahead and raise him and everything, and well
the kid.

Speaker 7 (01:57:49):
Okay, listen, is the kid still with the boyfriend?

Speaker 11 (01:57:53):
No, she she's got him back now. But I feel
that he's where he needs a father figure in his life.

Speaker 7 (01:58:00):
So what we so, what we have to do is
we've got to file a paternity action and gets you
custody visitation. Absolutely so, if you'll give your name a
number to GIMPI, I will call you this week and
we will talk about how to get all that setup
so you can get all that taken care of.

Speaker 1 (01:58:12):
Hang on the line there, Sean, so Gimpee can get
your info if you need. These are all so different.
Every case is completely different than Just because you have
two custodies doesn't mean they're similar. Mini X factors are involved,
and that's why the folks at Hinsley Associates set up
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two for Hinsleyan Associates, they'll give you a free consultation
if you mentioned KMOD over the phone. And if you
find yourself in something a situation outside of family law,
hinsleand Associates can help with that as well.

Speaker 7 (01:58:46):
Absolutely so, if you've got any other issue through our
office in Pohusco. Don't worry about the location. It's just
where we have the attorney's handling. It is is if
anything in addition to family law, So if you've got
any sort of criminal case from as lowly as a
speeding ticket all the way to you know, manslaughter and
murder and stuff. If you've got any issues in regards
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a trust drafted, or if you need a prenuptial agreement,
or if you get a contract issue or oil and gas,
anything in addition on top of family law, we can
help you with. Give us a call at Hinsley. We
can hook you up with that office out there, or
give them a call directly. It's the Shoemake Law Firm
and out there, different name. It's us though, we just
didn't change the name. So give us a call. We'd
love to help you with all those other issues.

Speaker 1 (01:59:29):
Five six, nine two For Hinsling Associates. Jeff, have a
great week.

Speaker 7 (01:59:33):
Hey you too, Thank you back.

Speaker 1 (01:59:34):
That's Rosh.

Speaker 2 (01:59:35):
More of The Big Mad Morning Show is next ninety.

Speaker 1 (01:59:39):
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four or five. Wild story in the news where this
man in Peru went missing on December seventh in his
boat at sea, and he had enough food with him
to last for two weeks. Ten days into his trip,
the sixty one year old straight off course due to

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bad weather sent his boat drifting into the Pacific Ocean.
When he didn't return home, his family reported him missing.
Patrols started happening scanning the waters for him. No luck.
He hadn't been found until months later, when a fishing
patrol found him drifting six hundred and eighty miles from

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the coastline. He was found heavily dehydrated and in critical
condition on March eleventh. He said he survived on rain
water he collected on the boat and tried to ration
out what he had left on his food before. He
went fifteen days without eating and resorted to extreme measures

(02:01:08):
to stay alive. Quote. I ate birds, I ate turtles,
and I ate roaches. Roaches on a boat in the
middle of the ocean. Huh yeah, yeah, they don't die.
Seventy two hearts or whatever. Twelve chambers twelve chambers. How

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did they get on the boat? To begin with the
boxes question, produce whatever. Probably didn't even know that they
were there until he stranded, and he's like, oh, what's that?
That's lunch. I was reading this book about a shipwreck
in seventeen forty nine or something like that. It's called
The Wager And in the book they talk about rats

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and stuff on the boat and they resort to eating them.
So same thing. Yeah, yeah, when docked herds though, huh. So,
like this goal lands on whatever you're floating on, right,
and you gotta sneak behind it, grab it. Furthermore, Susan,
you gotta pluck the feathers, right, I don't know. I
don't know if you're cooking, you're you're not. You don't

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have a fire on that, I don't know, right, So
he just grab it and I mean he had probably
had ways to cook, Okay, And how many birds did
you miss? Right? If you watch, if you watch alone
and you watch them hunt, things may miss a lot
or they catch something and then it slips out of
their hands. By the way, he's a fisherman, fish fish.

Speaker 6 (02:02:40):
Probably how he got the turtles?

Speaker 1 (02:02:41):
No, not once did he give that as an answer,
So he must be a really not only is he
a bad navigator, horrible horrible fishermen, stay stay on land, bro.
That's this is why I hate that phrase. And I
teach a man to fish, and I'll never go hungry
b s. He said, I did not want to die

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for my mother. He said his thoughts about his hat
his mother every day while waiting to be rescued, and
his granddaughter, who was just introduced to the family months
before he went missing at sea, kept him alive. Quote.
I had a granddaughter who's a few months old. I
held on to her. I'm thankful to God for giving
me a second chance. I told the Lord, whether he's

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alive or dead, just bring him back to me. That's
what his mother said. Yeah, my daughter's never lost faith.
They kept telling me, Mom, he'll come back, He'll come back. Damn. Yeah.
Impressive things you do to survive, man, right, And the

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ocean's gnarly too, So you're out there whatever, getting some
burnt and wind chapped and never seeing land right, and
then you start making crazy ration rational thoughts like what
you think are rational thoughts like I could probably just
swim right there. I could probably make it to that island.

(02:04:09):
I probably could do this. I could probably do that.
Wonder what kind of boat he had? It doesn't go
into detail on that. It had to have been a
small boat. Do you think I would think so? Yeah,
I guess right, small person, but not on a yacht
or anything like that, or I don't. I don't think

(02:04:30):
he was a I don't think he was a yacht. Okay,
it says an Ecuadorian fishing boat. That helps me out?
Is that like a Russian ak?

Speaker 10 (02:04:42):
Like?

Speaker 1 (02:04:43):
Is that something I should just know?

Speaker 5 (02:04:45):
Yo?

Speaker 6 (02:04:46):
Dude?

Speaker 1 (02:04:49):
So all right, so here's one version of it. I'll
put in the in the thing here, and then there's
another one. Get out of town, dude. It is a
little bit bigger than a rowboat. And here's a different one. Yeah,

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that sucked, My guess it's it's probably the first one,
you hope, because it has cover, right, two engines and
then a boat. That's it. That's it a little bit
better than a rowboat.

Speaker 6 (02:05:28):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:05:30):
The crazy part is it says he's back at work today.
How long was he gonna lost his sea? Since ninety
five days? So since December seventh? Do you go straight
back to work after ninety five days lost its sea.

Speaker 6 (02:05:43):
You have to because you lost out on all your
vacation time.

Speaker 1 (02:05:47):
Right, you're sick time, your vacation time. How about your income? Right?
You lost forget all that, you lost your income, and
now you gotta Your family has been not working because
they've been too worried. Right, take at least another week
off and be like, bro, I just got back lost
at c for ninety five days? Can you the TPS

(02:06:08):
reports can wait? How about this all right? Your spouse
goes missing? Huh? How many days off from work are
you getting or is she getting? No, you're not even missing,
just your partner is right? How many days off do
you and they're gone for ninety five days? How many

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days do you get.

Speaker 6 (02:06:29):
Off while they're missing or once they return?

Speaker 1 (02:06:32):
No, they're gone. You don't know they're back, but they've
been missing ninety five days. How many days do you
get off? When should I expect you back at work?
You lazy?

Speaker 6 (02:06:43):
Yeah? I mean, I mean I don't know. Am I
going to do? I have to travel to another state
to try to find them?

Speaker 1 (02:06:51):
Like? How many days off do you get? Should your
company be tolerable for.

Speaker 6 (02:06:58):
I would hope that my company would say as many
as you need.

Speaker 1 (02:07:01):
Nobody ever means that when they say that they have
a number in their head.

Speaker 6 (02:07:06):
I would hope that it would be until they are found.

Speaker 1 (02:07:10):
So what if they're never found, you just get to
be gone for ninety five days and Carol gets.

Speaker 6 (02:07:15):
To do your job, right?

Speaker 1 (02:07:16):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (02:07:18):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (02:07:20):
So how many days are you picking?

Speaker 6 (02:07:22):
The ninety five? However long they're gone?

Speaker 1 (02:07:25):
Okay, GIMPI I'm going to say. I'm going to say
you get in the beginning when when they first go missing, right,
give them a cup like two weeks, try to you know,
help you know, find them, you know, and then you
go back to work after that, because they're gone for
ninety five days, so then you work and then when
they finally return home. That's the key, right there. Finally

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return home, you get a week. You get a week
Monday through Friday. See you next Monday. What if they
find they find you on a Friday? Oh okay, yeah, yeah,
you get the week so Friday and then all the
next week and then all the next week, and then
you're back to work again on that Monday. Do I
get to leave early on Friday? Did you get all
your work done yet? How about you? What do you

(02:08:13):
I mean, of course, you should be allowed as much
as you want. But I'm gonna pick a day, just
one day. No, No, I'm gonna pick an amount because even
though they're gonna take as long as you need, right,
they have a time and you might need to get
back to work, like to get your mind occupied. Right,

(02:08:33):
I'm gonna a month, so we'll go four weeks, okay.
I mean they were gone for three, so I guess
maybe a month would be all right. I think a
month is too long. It's too long, too long to
be off work. Yeah, yeah, I mean we kind of
need you back. You just said it yourself, man, Carol.

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Don't need to be doing your job and her job
for a month weeks? Maybe.

Speaker 6 (02:09:02):
I think it depends on the situation. What if they
are lost in another country or even just another.

Speaker 1 (02:09:08):
Lost in another country is not the same as lost
at sea? Lost in another country is I know the
country you're in, not like this poor girl who's missing
down in the Dominican right right now, that we're not
talking about that. That's you go there, you meet with
the police, like, right, the chances of finding them are
a lot better, it feels real, yeah, because that's such

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such a smaller area to canvas lost at sea. Yeah,
the ocean. I know my uncle, my great uncle or
whatever went missing. My great aunt she went down there
and she and then she moved down there, right, even
though there was no sign, they didn't know where he went.

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There's no sign, not a blip, not a piece of styrofoam,
not an id, not a fly vest, nothing.

Speaker 6 (02:09:59):
Because of hope, how did he disappear?

Speaker 1 (02:10:01):
They went out for a fishing trip, never came back
Permuta triangle. That When I was younger, I was like, oh, no, kidding,
that's not a thing, right. The belief is they came
across some sort of drug thing and they took them
or blew up their shit for the boat, I should say.

(02:10:22):
But yeah, I think four weeks is a realistic amount
of time. I think I think at four weeks you
don't go come back to work. I think at four
weeks you go. Listen, why don't you take a leave
of absence so we can move on? But do you
expect you to be waiting for any and when when

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he comes home, she comes home, whatever, we'll have a
job for you. Yeah, you may be getting demoted, but
you still you got something. Listen, I'm sympathetic, and we'll
still pay you. You have all your benefits, We'll still
pay you. You'll get a weekly check. But at some point,

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right we've got a there are ninety five other people
who work here. I think you can do both. I
think you can be have empathy and also, hey, we've
got other people here that need.

Speaker 6 (02:11:17):
To Yeah, and you can always do check ins.

Speaker 1 (02:11:23):
Check ins Wayne, right, exactly, check ins Wayne. Because then
a year goes by and you've you know, you still
and then you're like, hey, remember we said we pay you.
That had an end date, and we're the hey, did
you find Harry. No, we're still looking, so sad. Yeah, hey,

(02:11:45):
so the reason for my call. Remember we said we'd
pay you last year, we said we'd keep paying you Texas.
How does FML work for missing persons two days? I
don't think it does. It's a grief thing. I mean,

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I don't know what the family medical LEVAC says, but
I know in this building, I don't it doesn't. It
says grief death. It doesn't say missing. And even then
we'll just we're assuming they're dead because they haven't found them.
In ninety five days. You still only get three days.
You know that part in a job interview and they're like,

(02:12:27):
do you have any questions?

Speaker 6 (02:12:30):
Right, that's one of.

Speaker 1 (02:12:31):
Them sidebar that'll red flag you immediately. All right, we
got to take a break. We'll be back.

Speaker 2 (02:12:39):
More of The Big Man Morning Show is.

Speaker 1 (02:12:41):
Next n Good Morning. It's The Big Man Morning Show.
Find out what everybody learned. We'll start with Lindsay. Lindsay,

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what you learn today?

Speaker 6 (02:13:04):
A bad day of fishing is still better than a
good day at work, unless that bad day it turns
out to be four months loss at sea eating roaches
to survive. And the FMLA doesn't cover missing persons because
think of all the families whose dads just went out
for a pack of smokes and never came back.

Speaker 1 (02:13:22):
It would have to cover gimb What'd you learn today? Well,
I learned that Lindsay's butthole is still smooth. I also
learned and I'm going to be at the all new
quick Clack car wash forty first, excuse me forty fifth
and shared in today from four to six, swing bine,
get washed, Get clean. I learned I've been bit by
a snake on my thigh. O ouch, I can't sit down.

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You need to suck out the venom. Just get on
your knees and put your lips on my hairy thigh
and get to work. That's an overeat dog, right. And
I also learned what's the difference between a magician and
a stripper. One has a cunning stunt. It's Corbin saying,
make sure that dishwash is loaded?

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Right, it's subtracking.

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Can't be.

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Yeah?

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