BMMS 8-3-26

Welcome Back From The Weekend!!! We Talk About The Best & Worst Parts, News Quickies, We Talk WIth An Awesome Listener, Hygiene Facts You Didn't Know, Jeff Hensley Stops By, & Road Side Veggie Stands!!!!

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We're gonna do best and Worst of the weekend.

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What's the best thing that happened this weekend and the
worst thing that happened this weekend. Feel free to get
yours to us ahead of time, bmomss and whatever that
is to eight, two, nine, four or five.

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Coming up in a little bit and Jeff Finsley's gonna
join us. Going through a family law situation, divorce, maybe
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question to us ahead of time. The email address is
show at kmod dot com or texted bmmss and whatever
that is to eight to nine four five. I was
reading a story about Rod Stewart because apparently Rod Stewart

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got stuck in an elevator.

Speaker 6 (04:19):
That sucks.

Speaker 7 (04:20):
Now, luckily he was with his son and his son's girlfriend.
His son, who's twenty by the way, he's eighty one.
He had a kid at sixty one.

Speaker 1 (04:31):
Sorry, that's just wild.

Speaker 7 (04:32):
Shown even I didn't even hit the right button. I
just went to a place of having a kid at
sixty one.

Speaker 6 (04:39):
Sorry, you're not taking care of it at sixty one.

Speaker 2 (04:43):
There was a rolling stone that did it too.

Speaker 7 (04:47):
Oh, I'm a lot of Yeah, celebrities have done Yeah.
Who was at the al Pacino? Yeah, yeah, a lot
of people do. But the idea of doing that right now,
I can't even envision myself at sixty one. Right, kids
graduate from college. I'm going to be sixty sixty one
and I can't get my head there.

Speaker 6 (05:06):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 7 (05:07):
From high school, I can't get my head there, right,
But to have a kid at sixty one.

Speaker 6 (05:13):
Right, all over two o'clock feedings, diaper changes.

Speaker 1 (05:19):
Yet to go on tour?

Speaker 6 (05:21):
Right?

Speaker 3 (05:22):
Oh?

Speaker 6 (05:22):
No, I gotta go to.

Speaker 1 (05:23):
Mat Yeah, I gotta go on.

Speaker 7 (05:26):
But he was stuck in a Prada elevator apparently it
was at a Prada store, and even Prada elevators apparently
break down. And I was thinking of all the celebrities
who I would want to get stuck in an elevator with.

Speaker 2 (05:38):
I don't know if.

Speaker 7 (05:38):
Frod's Stewart would be that bad. He doesn't come across
as very annoying. Here's an example. I think Billy Joel's
pretty annoying.

Speaker 2 (05:46):
Okay, any I'd love to get stuck in an elevator
with Billy Joel.

Speaker 7 (05:51):
You've never seen a real interview with him, then, because
he's cuckoo, like, go down that rabbit hole.

Speaker 1 (05:58):
So I don't want to. He's stuck in an elevator
with someone who's.

Speaker 7 (06:02):
You know, as a conspiracy like a really crazy conspiracy theorist.
Yeah no thanks, I'm already stressed out that we're stuck
in an elevator. I don't need you to try and
explain to me that this is all part of the plan.
So the question is what celebrity would you like to
get stuck in an elevator? And, as we just demonstrated

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with Billy Joel, Lindsay likes Billy Joel, you can't just
jump to that. You got to think about what they're
like in real life.

Speaker 2 (06:29):
I think Kevin Hart would be fun to get stuck
in an elevator with because he's down to earth. He's funny.
You could ask him questions about did he p did
he I feel like he wouldn't mind going there, like
he wouldn't mind you know.

Speaker 1 (06:50):
That about sex and trafficking.

Speaker 7 (06:54):
Let's talk about your involvement in that.

Speaker 1 (06:57):
He might not give me what he got.

Speaker 6 (07:00):
Eddie Murphy comes to mine. He's a funny kind of guy.

Speaker 2 (07:04):
I feel like he would like Yeah, I don't feel
like he would be talkative. I think he would be like,
leave me alone, man, just let me alone. I don't.
I just want to get off this elevator and not
be messed with.

Speaker 6 (07:15):
Dave Chapelle is another one that comes to mind.

Speaker 2 (07:17):
He would be good.

Speaker 6 (07:18):
I think I like I like old Dave Chappelle, not
the new Dave Chappelle. The new revins to Dave Chappelle.

Speaker 1 (07:24):
Yeah, I don't know if I I like Dave Chappelle.

Speaker 7 (07:27):
I just don't know if I want to be stuck
in an elevator for hours where he goes off.

Speaker 1 (07:30):
On his tangents.

Speaker 6 (07:32):
Oh done? Why Why didn't I think of this in
the beginning? Snoop Snoop a loop right, because he's carrying
always always, and we just sit in there and get
ripped waiting for them to open up his elevator.

Speaker 1 (07:44):
That's really good.

Speaker 6 (07:45):
Like they open it up and it's like.

Speaker 2 (07:47):
And if he's not, hopefully GIMPI is, so they can
just enjoy the time.

Speaker 6 (07:52):
Oh no, I ah, man, I would not want to
embarrass myself with the quality of weed.

Speaker 1 (07:57):
You know hoops with Kobe it exactly right.

Speaker 6 (08:01):
So so yeah, the weed that the get is good,
but it ain't Snoop a Loop good.

Speaker 1 (08:05):
Come on now, right.

Speaker 6 (08:06):
They'd be like, what is what is this trash? Like, well, sorry, broh,
it's all of God.

Speaker 7 (08:11):
He's not going to the local dispensary, you know, the
goat pee dispensary, right, He's got his own probably grow facility,
right that is highly curated, always has that person with
him who is paid to roll the blunts for him.

Speaker 1 (08:26):
Yeah, yeah, that's his job.

Speaker 6 (08:29):
Yeah, so of course, yeah snoop, forget all those other ones.

Speaker 7 (08:32):
I said, that's a solid day, that's a solid good
I think I'm picking Dolly Parton. Okay, she just hasn't
had very many you know. Her conversations always feel like
scripted in character. Yeah, and maybe you get to see
the guard come down a lot.

Speaker 6 (08:50):
Right, or she's just gotten really good over the years
of keeping that appearance up. Yeah, no matter what the
situation is. That's the fun thing about when we do
the select questions and stuff like that. Like for me,
I think it's all an act.

Speaker 1 (09:05):
Oh well, who you see.

Speaker 6 (09:07):
In the news and on television and in their music
and stuff. That's I don't think that's who they really are.
I agree, And maybe that's that's the benefit of being
stuck in an elevator with him. Like you said, with Dolly,
you actually get to see the real person.

Speaker 7 (09:21):
I think you see tidbit like pieces of what they are,
but they do it in character form. Meel Manson's a
great example of that, right. You see him in his
character form and you think he's all about throwing salami
on girls asses, which he's done and admitted. But he's
a very intelligent human being.

Speaker 1 (09:36):
Yeah right. Another one would be Kine from wrestling WWE.

Speaker 7 (09:44):
Right, Okay, you see him as the wrestler and you,
but he's a sophisticated financial expert.

Speaker 6 (09:49):
Right. Rob Zombie is another great example of something like that.

Speaker 1 (09:53):
Would be so you see who they.

Speaker 7 (09:54):
Are, but they're also a character, and it's easy to
see the separation. Someone like Dolly, you get an I
think you get an idea of who she is as
a person, but she does it in character, right, And
so being in an elevator that long, you would hope
that would break down.

Speaker 6 (10:08):
Maybe maybe it just gets too hot. She's got to
release two pops.

Speaker 2 (10:12):
I doubt it.

Speaker 6 (10:14):
I don't care. We've been staring at take off the.

Speaker 1 (10:17):
Suits for her. You got a cups what they're all
just built into her shirt. She's got that missdown fire
suit on. Jim it, Dolly, you fooled this all.

Speaker 6 (10:29):
Good for years.

Speaker 1 (10:30):
Good for you. She's like down. In the beginning, it
was kind of tough, but now the suits get really sophisticated. Right,
do you know very many women? She's eighty three, is
that right?

Speaker 7 (10:39):
I believe so yes, let's find Do you know very
many women that can walk in heels like she can
at eighty she's eighty at eighty.

Speaker 1 (10:46):
Much less thirty eight?

Speaker 2 (10:50):
No, Jane Fonda, Maybe.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
I don't think. I don't know.

Speaker 7 (10:54):
I don't think I've seen Jane Fonda and heels in
a while. Yeah, but she does it effortlessly. Share SHARE's
pretty tall, right, Yeah, I don't know if she needs
the heels anymore. Right, it's always like like you think
they wear these boots, like boots, and then you see
videos of Vince Neil on stage and you're.

Speaker 1 (11:15):
Like, le's wear a new balance, Right, he didn't mow
the lawn before us?

Speaker 6 (11:19):
Right?

Speaker 2 (11:20):
How old is Madonna?

Speaker 6 (11:22):
Oh, she's got to be in their seventies.

Speaker 7 (11:24):
And to me, I feel like, you don't see Madonna.
I got I don't know if I see her feet
that often, But Dolly, you'll always see she's wearing the
thick pantyhose huh and heels.

Speaker 6 (11:36):
Madonna's sixty seven years old, and there's pictures of her
feet on the Internet, a little website called Wiki Feet.

Speaker 1 (11:45):
Oh geez, yep, it's sixty seven at her and no,
it's just different pictures throughout the years of Madonna and
her feet. It's weird.

Speaker 6 (11:56):
It is a little bit, a little bit.

Speaker 7 (11:58):
Yeah, but she she does it effortlessly. All right, who's
the worst? Who would be the worst person to be
stuck in an elevator with? I got a great answer,
Candace Owens. Why Hi, she's just annoying at her.

Speaker 2 (12:14):
Every video right now is all about Erica Kirk, and
it's just.

Speaker 6 (12:20):
Well, that's because her friend was murders and also that's
what she does.

Speaker 1 (12:25):
Yea.

Speaker 7 (12:25):
Scorpions do scorpion things. Yeah, and wasn't Erica Kirk pregnant?
I don't know anyway, I don't want to do that.
Who would you pick, Gimpie.

Speaker 6 (12:35):
That's a tough one, right, because we were talking about
Jane Fonda. You can say Jane fond of Bette Midler
and a whole bunch of those other ones Rosie O'Donnell
with their over political views and just get out of here.
I'm tired of hearing about it.

Speaker 1 (12:49):
Yeah, I don't want to get yeah.

Speaker 6 (12:50):
Yeah, So outside of that, hmmm, I don't know. Part
of me, says Miley's Irish. I feel like it might
smell fun. Oh no, Britney spears Brittany, I do not
want to be stuck in an elevator with that bitch.

Speaker 1 (13:06):
Yeah no, that's not a bad take either.

Speaker 2 (13:08):
Just start dancing.

Speaker 6 (13:09):
Oh god, And there's always turns in her video, so
eventually one's gonna come out. There's gonna be one of
the elevator Brittany, Come on, Harvey Weinstein.

Speaker 1 (13:28):
Me either, that's what you didn't pick. You picked a Candice.

Speaker 7 (13:33):
I'm picking Harvey Weinstein because I just don't want to
be associated.

Speaker 1 (13:36):
I don't even want to be like, well, you spend
a day in an e.

Speaker 6 (13:41):
There's only one way to pass the time in this elevator.

Speaker 1 (13:45):
Settle down. I'm gonna kick your walker out from underneath her.

Speaker 6 (13:49):
Ron Jeremy is another one, just yeah, standing.

Speaker 7 (13:55):
I don't okay, I don't think though they've done similar things,
I don't think Ron Jermy is on the same level
as Harvey Weinstein.

Speaker 6 (14:02):
Not when it comes to that. But I'm just talking
about sheer appearances. He's so goddang greasy, and I'm just like,
you look like you smell funny. Yeah, I don't want
to be stuck in an elevator because there's no air blowing,
there's no circulation, so you be the.

Speaker 7 (14:17):
Heart can stink too, though that is true. You don't
know what people smell like. Just because they're bad people
doesn't mean they automatically stink.

Speaker 2 (14:23):
Yeah, they could have just left the gym. We don't know.

Speaker 6 (14:25):
You're stuck in an elevator with snoop. You know it's
gonna smell like we Yeah, maybe it will eventually.

Speaker 2 (14:31):
I don't want to be stuck in at elevator with
one of the Paul brothers, either Jake or Logan.

Speaker 1 (14:36):
I don't know.

Speaker 6 (14:37):
I don't know enough about I'm gonna make that call.

Speaker 7 (14:39):
I'd take some I'd take some drippings, you know what
I'm saying, Like, you want to involve me in a video?

Speaker 6 (14:44):
Okay? Right?

Speaker 1 (14:47):
Why why would you?

Speaker 6 (14:49):
What?

Speaker 1 (14:50):
Curiously? For curiosity reason?

Speaker 7 (14:52):
What puts them on the same level as Candice Owens
to not be stuck in an elevator with I.

Speaker 2 (14:57):
Just can't stand the side of them. They are just
s talkers, They're just annoying, they're trolls.

Speaker 7 (15:04):
They're also brilliant marketers and business people, brilliant. I'm surprised
you didn't say Jade Pikett.

Speaker 1 (15:11):
Smith, Oh was it?

Speaker 2 (15:15):
She hates I don't like her?

Speaker 1 (15:17):
Never have. It's not doesn't like her, she hates her.

Speaker 2 (15:20):
Yeah, I just.

Speaker 1 (15:24):
Hates hates like murder.

Speaker 2 (15:25):
Yeah. I don't like to say hate because hates like murder,
but hates.

Speaker 1 (15:29):
Like I don't understand that.

Speaker 2 (15:31):
I just don't like the word hate because it's like murder.

Speaker 1 (15:33):
What does that mean?

Speaker 2 (15:35):
It's such a strong word.

Speaker 1 (15:37):
Hate and murder are equal for you?

Speaker 2 (15:39):
Pretty much?

Speaker 1 (15:40):
Yeah, huh.

Speaker 2 (15:41):
I dislike her very much. I just think she's a
waste of space.

Speaker 1 (15:46):
And that's not worse.

Speaker 2 (15:49):
Yeah, I think she ruined her. I think she ruined
our boy. Will she ruined him?

Speaker 6 (15:56):
That's possible.

Speaker 7 (15:57):
Yeah, I think any of these people would not be awesome.
Britney Spears is good just because I don't, you know,
need to see a video. I don't want to be
the background of a video.

Speaker 2 (16:08):
Can you imagine us standing there like all awkward? Yeah,
just dancing around you. They should have used that in
the New Scary Movie movie for that, Yes, spoof her dancing.

Speaker 7 (16:21):
They just go with the same old Trumps though, so yeah,
they wouldn't need to. I would like to be stuck
with Donald Trump because we would only be stuck for
about five minutes.

Speaker 6 (16:29):
Maybe we're in his elevator. It's the greatest elevator until
it broke down. Now it's not the greatest elevator.

Speaker 1 (16:38):
If I would have had the elevator but been fixed already,
yeah right, right, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 7 (16:42):
You're probably right though. Any president can get unstuck pretty fast. True, right,
but Rod Stewart wouldn't be that bad and be stuck
with your kids wouldn't.

Speaker 1 (16:53):
Be bad either.

Speaker 6 (16:55):
Really, get to know each other at that time.

Speaker 1 (16:57):
I would hope you already know each other pretty well.

Speaker 7 (16:59):
Really, they are your kids, so I would hope they
would know you would don't pretty well. All right, we
got to take a break. We're gonna do best and
worst of the weekend. What's the best part of the weekend.
What's the worst part of the weekend.

Speaker 1 (17:08):
We'll be back.

Speaker 6 (17:12):
It's time for newsquakies. World news, local news, and news
that just makes you say, what the Here's Corbyn, Gimpi
and Lindsay with what's going on news quakies from the
Big nd Morning showing ninety seven.

Speaker 2 (17:22):
Five woman arrested for drunk driving a lawnmower inconvenience store
parking lot. This happens in Tiffin, Iowa, where thirty six
year old Michelle Hudson showed up at a Casey store
on a riding lawnmower, and witnesses called police after she

(17:43):
appeared intoxicated. She was stabbed about a mile from her home.
Officers noted slurred speech, poor balance, and bloodshot eyes. During
a field sobriety test, her breath test registered under the
legal limit, but police believe she was impaired by drugs.
Hudson refused to provide a urine sample. She was charged

(18:09):
with operating under the influence driving while barred, both aggravated misdemeanors.
Her prior record included theft, assault, meth possession, and other offenses.

Speaker 1 (18:26):
Matthew, don't say here, right.

Speaker 2 (18:29):
Yeah, she had a prior drunk driving conviction from twenty
twenty two as well.

Speaker 6 (18:36):
Yeah, hey, if it's good enough for George Jones, it's
good enough for this lady.

Speaker 1 (18:44):
Get that on a shirt, that's right.

Speaker 2 (18:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (18:46):
Well, that arrested for appointing gun on KFC employee over
slow service. So this actually happens in Kentucky, all right,
where this thirty three year old gal Naita Roman goes
into her local KFC. It actually happened back in May,
but the story's just coming out. She's in the drive through.
As fried chicken does it takes some time to cook,

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so they're like, well, you're gonna have to wait a
little while. She didn't like it, so after exchanging words
with the employees there, she pulls up a little bit,
gets out of her car, goes back to the back
of her car, opens up the trunk, pulls out an
ar oh my, points it at the employee before taking off.

Speaker 1 (19:26):
Huh.

Speaker 6 (19:27):
Of course police get called. They use the video surveillance
footage from the store, along with body cam footage from
earlier traffic stops, to identify the woman. They also used
a photo lineup with the employee and they're like, yep,
that's her, that's the one. So they went ahead arrested her,
got her for first degree want in danger names.

Speaker 1 (19:50):
Listen, you shouldn't point guns at people. It's one thing
to point a handgun, right, it's a whole other two holster,
I'm sorry, right, A long rifle.

Speaker 6 (20:02):
Yeah, yeah, that kind of gets the message across. And again,
I don't know if it does. It's just like, hey,
you scare people. That's true, That's what I'm saying. I
don't know if it's the message across them. I'm trying
to scare them.

Speaker 7 (20:13):
Yeah, Trooper id's high speed chase suspect through social media
and he's facing charges after the Tennessee State Highway Patrol
used social media to identify him as a suspect in
a high speed chase. The trooper reportedly tried to stop
Devin I'm gonna post this and get clicks Jackson Sunday,
but says he refused to pull over in his red
Corvette he was driving douchebag. Instead, he allegedly fled, reaching

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speeds of one hundred miles an hour. The next day,
the trooper went online to search for post about police
pursuits in the county and found pictures of him and
his car tagged on Instagram. He now faces charges including
evading arrest in a vehicle, reckless driving, and reckless endangerment.

Speaker 1 (20:54):
Good yeah, right, you got what you deserve for.

Speaker 7 (20:57):
Posting it, because it's the world called wide Web, or
in this case, the County Wide Web.

Speaker 6 (21:04):
Social media actually doing good for a change.

Speaker 1 (21:06):
Right, red corvette? Huh yeah?

Speaker 6 (21:09):
I think he was listening to Prance.

Speaker 1 (21:10):
I think the top was down, oh of course, yeah?
Or was it t top covet.

Speaker 6 (21:15):
I don't think they have t tops anymore, target top
if anything. Yeah, not a little convertible. Yeah, solid piece
goes in the drunk.

Speaker 1 (21:23):
I just don't think it sounds cool to go hold
on buckle.

Speaker 6 (21:30):
I've seen an older guy and his lady in a
Mustang convertible Saturday, and I thought to myself, it's been
a long time since I've seen a convertible out on
the road. Oh no, No, I just think you just
don't as much anymore. You're right, And I was like,
would I ever want a convertible? Maybe? I don't know.

(21:54):
I don't know if I want a convertible or not.

Speaker 1 (21:56):
If you want jokes, but I always find it funny
when you see guys in their guys girl.

Speaker 6 (22:02):
I don't think it works. It seems to make sense
for girls to be driving.

Speaker 7 (22:06):
But a guy and then he's got the windows up
right in the ConL I'm like, no, I get it.

Speaker 1 (22:11):
You don't want the wind.

Speaker 6 (22:12):
Right right, but I want the openness. It's called a
sun roof, exactly. You still get that wide openness wind.

Speaker 1 (22:20):
What models coming convertible right now?

Speaker 6 (22:23):
Well, we know the Mustang because I just mentioned that one. Yeah,
I think the Camearo does as well. I'm pretty sure.
I don't know if they still calling me out as
m X five or whatever.

Speaker 1 (22:33):
Met is still a car like that still comes out
every year?

Speaker 2 (22:36):
Yeah it does, I believe so.

Speaker 6 (22:39):
I think they change it.

Speaker 7 (22:40):
BMW four series, N eight series, Chevrolet, Corvette Portion nine
eleven and seven eighteen Boxter, Mercedes Benz SL Class Mini
Coop Bentley.

Speaker 1 (22:54):
Yeah, what did you say?

Speaker 2 (22:55):
What Carr do you think Volkswagen has like a EOS
or Iron or something.

Speaker 7 (23:04):
They do not offer any convertibles right now in the US.
The last one was the t Rock Cabrolet.

Speaker 6 (23:13):
I gotta look to see what this Volkswagon it looks
like at Cruiser pt Cruiser to be honest.

Speaker 7 (23:19):
The EOS they discontinued it after twenty fifteen, lindsay eleven
years ago, over a decade ago.

Speaker 1 (23:31):
Uh.

Speaker 7 (23:31):
And then the Golf Rabbit they used to I remember
the Rabbit? What we used to have one?

Speaker 1 (23:38):
Did the Saturn? Do one remember Saturn's Yeah?

Speaker 6 (23:41):
The car made of plastic?

Speaker 1 (23:42):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (23:45):
I don't think they did.

Speaker 7 (23:47):
Uh, Jeep Wrangler, that's not a convertible.

Speaker 2 (23:51):
NA Chrysler. Chrysler had one. Was the uh oh Sea Bring.

Speaker 6 (24:02):
Or yeah, what was You're right with the sea bring
oh way back?

Speaker 8 (24:07):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (24:07):
Yeah, they don't make those.

Speaker 1 (24:09):
No, I don't even think there's a Toyota or Chevrolet
that does it.

Speaker 6 (24:14):
Uh, Camaras, I've seen, okay, I've seen convertible Camaras, funny looking.

Speaker 7 (24:24):
My mom had a convertible, had a Cutlass Supreme seventy
eight colors, Supreme Fire orange.

Speaker 1 (24:29):
Now that's badass, right, that's a muscle car.

Speaker 9 (24:32):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (24:33):
I took my driver's license in a convertible.

Speaker 2 (24:36):
Nice.

Speaker 6 (24:37):
It was ninety five ninety four Dodge Shadow convertible, Yes night,
it was blue wed. We'd just moved here to Tulsa
and my parents had gotten that car and they'd already
had a Shadow and they liked it. So they got
that one cheap. And uh yeah, I mean Mama rolled

(24:59):
around with that damn hood or that top down constantly.

Speaker 2 (25:03):
I don't remember the year. My dad had a white
Mustang with red leather interior. It was so cool.

Speaker 1 (25:09):
Was he single at that time?

Speaker 2 (25:10):
No? No, he he had a little pick him up truck.

Speaker 1 (25:16):
And pick him up truck, yeah, I mean a pickup truck, yeah.

Speaker 2 (25:19):
Okay, And he traded that in and got this I
think it was like my mom called it his midlife
crisis car. Yeah, and then we h we had to
take it up up north in Michigan and he spun
out and it was so scary, and that was the

(25:40):
last time he drove that. He traded it in and
got scared of cheavy blazer.

Speaker 6 (25:45):
Yeah, this is too much power for me.

Speaker 2 (25:48):
No, just not enough traction.

Speaker 6 (25:49):
We'll get new tires.

Speaker 1 (25:50):
Then being up north and in the winter, what are
you gonna do? Put the chains on right right? All right,
we got take a break. We'll be back. Morning show,
Read turns.

Speaker 2 (26:04):
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Speaker 6 (26:18):
Good Luck, Good morning, Gimpie All, Good morning, Corbin. So
this Friday is my birthday and I want you to
come celebrated with me. I want to be at Lady
Goodivas from seven to nine, So come on out, have
a couple drinks with me, and maybe get a lamp
dance again. Lady Good Divas, this Friday, seven and nine,
come party with me.

Speaker 7 (26:33):
Best and worst of the weekend. What's the best thing
that happened this weekend? And the worst thing that happened
this weekend? Bm my mass and whatever that is to
eight two, nine, four five. I'll read those in a minute.
Lindsay what was the best and what was the worst
of the weekend?

Speaker 2 (26:45):
The best? I had a fantastic Saturday at the Creek.
I posted a picture of it on Facebook and everyone
was like, where is this? Where is this? Well, it
doesn't really have a name that I am aware of.
A girlfriend of mine, this is where we're going, but
we have to go early. I said, all right, I'm down.
It's before Smoky Valley, That's all I can tell you.

(27:09):
And it is a long strip of beautiful rocky land
that is a gem of a find if you get
there early.

Speaker 1 (27:17):
Because are there a lot of people that go there.

Speaker 2 (27:19):
Throughout the day. Yes, So we got there really early.
We left the house around seven forty five in the
morning and got there around nine, and we were the
second people to pull up there. But by noon it
was pretty packed, but we still had our own little area.
No one really bothers you. I mean there was a
big rope for kids to jump and play, and I

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mean It was really nice. The water was super clear
and nice and cold and refreshing, some deep areas, just
everything you would expect. It was the perfect day. And
finally it wasn't so hot, but we knew if we
went to the lake it would be just kind of
swampy still the water, you know. We witnessed a baptism

(28:04):
while we were there, which was cool. One of our friends,
their vehicle was kind of stuck trying to get out
in the rocks, and so that same group came and
helped them push her vehicle out, which was awesome. I
was afraid leaving because you're going up this giant incline
to get back onto the highway. I thought, oh my god,

(28:27):
is my palace. I'd gonna make it up this. Sure
enough it did. I was nervous, but it made it up.
The worst part of the weekend. Later on Saturday, my
left hip. I don't know what I did, but it's
killing and I had to have a little doctor visit yesterday.

Speaker 1 (28:47):
Like a chiropractor.

Speaker 2 (28:49):
Yeah, for an adsement, and yeah, all around my left
side is just inflamed. And now I got a steroid
in me. He started a pack those and.

Speaker 1 (29:02):
Yeah, is our chiropractor's office is always open on Sundays
or is that my I have.

Speaker 2 (29:08):
One that comes to the house. Oh that's he's a
mobile chiropractor. David Harker.

Speaker 1 (29:13):
He just does that name drop even Okay, yeah, that's.

Speaker 2 (29:17):
All he does. No, no office building.

Speaker 7 (29:21):
Best and worst the weekend? What's the best part of
the weekend. What's the worst part of the weekend? BM
mess and whatever that is to eight two, nine, four five?
Gimbe what was the best and what was the worst?

Speaker 6 (29:29):
I'm curious if Lindsay's at home chiropractor does the same
thing like John Redcorn does on King of the Hill.
You know when he goes over to Dale Gribble's house
and services his old lady for her problems.

Speaker 1 (29:41):
Does he have to set up like a big table
and do you have space for that? You just go
to the reading room, like what do you do now?

Speaker 2 (29:48):
Usually in the in the living room sets up the
table behind the couch, like where some people might have
like a table sitting behind their couch, you know, like
a sofa.

Speaker 1 (29:57):
Uh table, No, we don't.

Speaker 2 (29:59):
Have that, you've said. It's up his his big long
table and plugs in the you know those all those
guns that they wear guns, their guns. All those things
are so awesome.

Speaker 6 (30:12):
Easy listening music.

Speaker 2 (30:13):
No.

Speaker 7 (30:15):
One time I had, uh, somebody coming to a massage
at my house. Somebody recommended the guy who does massages
on sark Shanda officer who got shot, and so I
had contacted the guy was like, yeah, came over. He
gave me a I didn't have anywhere to put the
table like it was.

Speaker 1 (30:34):
It was like backed up against a wall trying to
I was like, this is dumb. Why are you here?
I got it. I'll just go to your office next time.

Speaker 9 (30:40):
Right.

Speaker 6 (30:41):
Anyhow, so best and worse the weekend. Best part of
the week on had been Saturday. Uh. I didn't go
to the creek, but my lady and I picked a
car and we went to the lake. Spent a couple
of hours out there hanging out so I and you know,
enjoying the sun. That was a good day. Uh. And
then we came home and cleaned up and went had roadhouse, which,
by the way, when I asked for a fourteen hours Rabbi,
I want a ribbi, not a goddamn New York strip. Sorry.

(31:03):
I just had to get that out of there, all right.
You can clearly tell the difference. But did I send
it back.

Speaker 9 (31:09):
No.

Speaker 6 (31:09):
I was hungry and tired and I just ate it
out of it.

Speaker 1 (31:12):
One are at the same price point there.

Speaker 6 (31:13):
I think that I don't know, be honest with you,
maybe close. Maybe it's just a few dollars off. You know,
it's like two or three dollars. Okay, it's not a
big deal. But if it was like ten or more
like okay, I'm bitching a complaints checked. I ain't worried
about it. But yeah. So that was the best of
the weekend. Saturday, going to the lake. It's good, good,
no kids, none of that stuff, just just going having fun.

(31:35):
Worst part of the weekend it was yesterday. So my
brother and myself and my buddy Josh, we go out
to Chandler Park. We're gonna play some disc golf. It's
been a while since we've all done that. So we
go out there and we play, and I was kicking ass.
I was kicking ass for most of the round. I'm
making long, long birdies shots, you know, just sinking am in.
I was three down, the other two were over par,

(31:58):
and then we get down. I guess I was just
I don't know, I got tired, my foot was hurting
me get down to like the last three holes, and
I asked the bed and ended up losing the match
and my brother ended up coming back and winning, and
I was like, all right, Dan, whatever story, I'm alive.

Speaker 1 (32:17):
Fast and worst of the weekend. What's the best part
of the weekend. What's the worst part of the weekend?
Bmm mass and.

Speaker 7 (32:21):
Whatever that is to eight, two, nine, four or five.
Fast to the weekend? Was uh, one of my friend's house.

Speaker 1 (32:26):
I was a pool.

Speaker 7 (32:27):
We got it was awesome, so windy though it was
so windy, but it's been an all day in the pool.
Fun Hell, yo, had some beaver jes.

Speaker 1 (32:38):
It's great.

Speaker 6 (32:38):
Was this Saturday?

Speaker 1 (32:40):
Yes?

Speaker 6 (32:40):
Yeah, yeah, so that I made the posts. I'm like
Lindsay's at the Greek and GIMP's at the.

Speaker 7 (32:44):
No I saw, yeah, No, I saw Dick tell us
funny they weren't. We'll do one for you and we'll
see how great it is. Yeah, it's it's funny when
it's someone else that's getting insulted.

Speaker 9 (32:56):
I wash.

Speaker 2 (33:00):
They know us.

Speaker 1 (33:02):
Of course they do.

Speaker 7 (33:06):
And then the worst part of the weekend is Friday night,
Pizza night.

Speaker 1 (33:10):
You're going to have some pizza. Had some cocktails. My
mom calls, can't get the garage door closed? Oh no,
like okay, so I'd go over there. The carriage isn't
attaching to the track. I'm like, all right, I'll just
close it and lock it and i'll deal with it
tomorrow morning. Do some research.

Speaker 7 (33:28):
Garage door is over thirty years old, probably not going
to find a part. I could probably have someone service
it for that one part. I could just replace it,
sure for the service call in the report. And so
I just went button new one and installed it a
new whole garage door. Yeah, grudge door opener, O garage
door opener. Yeah yeah, okay yeah, And the opener took

(33:49):
like no time at all. But I had to put
a new carriage kit up to hold the garage door opener.
Well that took, you know, seventy percent longer than it
took to I started at eight thirty.

Speaker 1 (34:01):
I was done by nine thirty. But then I had
to do this carriage kit. I didn't finished almost one.
I gotta figure out the links and the thing. And
you're gonna do geometry. I'm like, what am I doing?

Speaker 2 (34:13):
But you did it?

Speaker 1 (34:14):
I mean it's up there, that's true.

Speaker 6 (34:16):
Yeah, is the door opening and shutting properly.

Speaker 9 (34:18):
It is.

Speaker 6 (34:20):
The belt's a little loose, but I'll figure it out
as long as the door opens and shuts properly.

Speaker 2 (34:26):
Our kitchen sink had a it was a it's like
a touch closet. Yeah, And the batteries. I felt like,
for the past probably three months, we've had to change
the batteries and then it's six takes six double A batteries.
And for the past three months we've been changing the

(34:46):
batteries in it, which it feels like every two.

Speaker 1 (34:50):
Weeks, Like it doesn't feel normal, No, an.

Speaker 2 (34:54):
S ton of batteries. I'm like, you know what I'm
going to I called the company and they sent me
some new parts and I thought, well, this isn't helping,
and it's got a lifetime warranty on it, and I thought,
you know what, I'm just going to remove the the
part to where it's just going to be a manual fawcet.

(35:16):
And I'm reading and I'm like, this looks really confusing,
but I'm like, I'm going to give it my college try.
And I got down and I removed the batteries on
this thing. I removed this cord thing took these little
clasps off, and I turned off the water, of course,

(35:37):
and I'm unhooking these the whatever the line for the water.
And I dismantled this faucet and I put it back
together and I turned the water back on, and I'm like,
I did it. I did it. I felt so good.
I was like, I didn't need a plumber. I didn't
need a tech on the phone with me. I didn't

(35:58):
need my husband.

Speaker 3 (35:59):
So what you do?

Speaker 7 (36:00):
You just turned out you just disconnected the waterline and
then reconnected it well.

Speaker 2 (36:03):
And I removed this product that makes it a touch. Okay,
so it's no longer a touch, no longer fancy. It's
a manual faucet now. But then I realized once I
turned it to a manual faucet, the water pressure for
the cold was way better. I was like, so, okay,
now it's even improved. I was so proud of myself.

(36:25):
I was like, okay, just I'm the handy one in
the house now, okay. I always have that.

Speaker 7 (36:33):
I guess best and worst of the weekend. What's the
best part of the weekend, what's the worst part of
the weekend?

Speaker 6 (36:37):
Best?

Speaker 7 (36:37):
After years of trial and there, I finally made Chili
Verde as good as El Roncho Grande. Worst, I didn't
wear food handling gloves when I peeled my freshly roasted
hatched green chilies, and my hands burned for hours.

Speaker 6 (36:48):
That sucks you least least you know that before you
did anything else.

Speaker 1 (36:54):
You know right right.

Speaker 7 (36:57):
Best, got my nephew a job at Max Barbecue and
took Worst. My dog killed a skunk. Now smells like skunk.
It's not that bad. I like to smell what smells
like weed, and.

Speaker 2 (37:08):
The tomato bath is supposed to help with a skunk.

Speaker 7 (37:11):
Smir Best part of the weekend was getting to recoup
over most of it from a short three day, two
night trip to Nashville that absolutely wore me out, but
in a good way. Worst part was my last day off.
I had to deal with my store receiving customer complaints.
Kind of made me feel like I shouldn't have taken
time off.

Speaker 6 (37:27):
That's what happens, man. Take a day up. Place just
falls apart.

Speaker 1 (37:30):
Bess was. We had a gig just outside of Chicago
this weekend. The old theater was uh may Zine, the
Italian food at Chicago and the Chicago Dogs were unbelievably
delicious and the gig went great. Worst the theater was
three stories, so.

Speaker 7 (37:43):
As I'm coming back up the stairs to the stage
with stuff in hand, I tripped or a theater ghost
gave me a shove. It was one of those trip
and falls where you levitate for a second before you
hit the ground, but no chance of stopping the fall,
and I hit so hard I'm pretty sure I shook
the entire concrete building. Son of a I'll be limping
for days.

Speaker 1 (38:03):
Best part of the week and was the wife had
rare time off, so we got to spend time as
a family.

Speaker 7 (38:07):
Took the little one to see Spider Man. Worst was
I was lazy and failed to mow in great weather.
Somebody told me the Spider Man is visually awesome, all right,
like it's one of the best visual Spider Man's ever,
But they missed the mark on telling the Spider Man story.

Speaker 6 (38:21):
I can't get into Spider Man. I watched that very
first one back in the early two thousands, and I
never watched another one after that.

Speaker 7 (38:28):
Dude, the Spider Verse ones are amazing. I'm not a
big Spider Man guy either, but the Spider Verse ones, yeah,
really good. Best of the weekend was on a cruise
all week in Cozamel and the Ucatam, Mexico. Worst of
the weekend is returning back to reality. Best part of
the weekend got to celebrate my fifteen year old daughter's
birthday and we adopted the cutest little bully. Worst part

(38:51):
fifteen year old has injured her knee and hobbling around
with an immobilizer brace.

Speaker 1 (38:56):
How did she heard it?

Speaker 6 (38:58):
For real?

Speaker 7 (39:00):
Because the mobilizer brace means like you may have done
some real damage.

Speaker 6 (39:03):
Maybe sports, I mean fifteen year old, Okay, I can
see that.

Speaker 7 (39:08):
Yeah, like you or something like it. Mobilizer brace like
is exactly like your leg locked. Yeah, you can't do anything.
You don't kick the ball, so next time or walk whatever?
Yeah right, Yeah that sounds like it sucks. I had
a buddy who got knee surgery. My age got knee surgery,

(39:30):
and I'm like, eh.

Speaker 1 (39:33):
I don't want knee surgery.

Speaker 6 (39:36):
Nope.

Speaker 1 (39:37):
Now they say knee surgery and hip surgery.

Speaker 7 (39:38):
When you have it, like, the recovery time is super fast, right,
Like they get when you get a new surgery, you're
walking the same.

Speaker 1 (39:44):
Day, right.

Speaker 6 (39:45):
They want you rehabit in as quick as pot.

Speaker 7 (39:47):
They want you back on and then hip like the
next day, but they want you walking on it immediately. Yes, yeah, no, thanks,
all right, we gotta take a break. We got tickets
the Smashing Pumpkins we're gonna give away when we come back.
Getch a question to us showykmoty dot com or text
it bmms and whatever that is to eight two nine
four five.

Speaker 1 (40:07):
See what Gimpi has in his four x four.

Speaker 6 (40:10):
Well corviness is here that Louisiana's ag says that the
state will investigate Fauci. Louisiana Attorney General Liz Murrel says
that her state will investigate doctor Anthony Fauci. Of course,
this comes after he repeatedly invoked the Fifth Amendment during
a sentence hearing last week. Old Murrell said in a

(40:32):
post that Fauci claim to not recall many key details
of his own actions, and now we are discovering contemporaneous
records that he kept. Republicans say that Fauci was deliberately
downplaying the theory that COVID originated from China's Wuhan labbed

(40:53):
while reveling in his own celebrity.

Speaker 1 (40:55):
Weack likes first time someone's invoked the fifth.

Speaker 6 (40:57):
There right, yes's on TikTok. He remember that uh Chappelle
episode where he's like, I played fid what two people fifth?
And it was it was Fauci up there doing it.
It was the areush what else we got here? Idaho
police credit armed bystanders with saving lives at deadly in
Now shooting. An armed Good samaritan and an off duty

(41:20):
state trooper are being praised by Idaho police for quick
actions during a deadly fast food restaurant shooting on Saturday.
The bystander and the trooper both opened fire on the
suspect at the In and Out Burger in Twin Falls,
helping drive him away from the scene. That's where the shooter,
Ididas Chad Chad Williams.

Speaker 1 (41:43):
Typical Chad Bead, put his mountain dew down and went
to it.

Speaker 9 (41:49):
Uh huh.

Speaker 6 (41:50):
They say he used an AR fifteen style rifle to
feel three and wound seven before apparently turning the gun
on himself. Twin Falls police chief afew Hits said that
the two armed men prevented further casualties by getting the
shooters away from the restaurant and giving people time to escape.

Speaker 1 (42:08):
Yeah, and he ended up taking his own life. So
we don't know the motive as of right. Now, here's
a question why that place?

Speaker 6 (42:16):
Why the in and out?

Speaker 7 (42:17):
Yeah, I was trying to think of the like what
drove you there? I don't know what time of day.

Speaker 6 (42:22):
It was, with a afternoon like early to late afternoon,
Like that's about three o'clock.

Speaker 1 (42:28):
They're not gonna be that busy, not at two or
three o'clock, you know what I'm saying, Like, if you
were trying, you assume people that do this, they're trying
to inflict the most damage, right, right, And so to
go to in and out Burger or any fast food
place at two or three o'clock in the afternoon doesn't
feel like it's that So it makes me think maybe
there was something personal against the place or an individual

(42:49):
who was there.

Speaker 6 (42:50):
Maybe. So maybe much like that story that I read
this morning, she just got mad because it was taken
too long to get her food and she just pointed
the gun of people. Yeah, he got mad and started
shooting at them. Yeah, terrible story. Hey what else we
got here? Google shuts down AI tool for Google Earth.
Google is scrapping a tool that lets people use AI

(43:11):
to create fake images on Google Earth. The company pulled
the plug after just one day because journalists and researchers
showed that it was easy to manipulate satellite data to
cover up things like war crimes. In one case, the
BBC made an image that falsely showed the Eiffel Tower

(43:32):
in pieces. Google's like, oh, yeah, we shouldn't do that,
why would you? And then lastly here the grand reopening
for Oklahoma Music Hall of Fame following a sixteen month renovation.
After sixteen months of renovations, the Oklahoma Music Hall of
Fame is preparing to welcome visitors back with a grand

(43:52):
reopening celebration on September twenty six. Located inside the historic
Frisco Freight Depot in downtown Mascoe, the museum has undergone
a transportation transformation designed to create more interactive experience while
preserving the building's historic character. The free grand reopening will

(44:13):
feature live bands performing every hour, food trucks, vendor booze,
and guided tours of the renovated museum.

Speaker 1 (44:21):
It's nice, yeah, and the last time you went to
a museum here.

Speaker 6 (44:27):
That wasn't like gil grease or something like.

Speaker 1 (44:28):
That, And I can be that. Then the last time you,
as a citizen of this community, went to a museum.

Speaker 2 (44:34):
Would a church studio is be considered a museum?

Speaker 1 (44:37):
No, because you had to go for work.

Speaker 2 (44:40):
No, I went after that. I've been since, but.

Speaker 1 (44:42):
That wasn't count. Okay, I don't think it's.

Speaker 6 (44:45):
Really a museum. Yeah, it's it's a studio.

Speaker 1 (44:49):
It's not a museum. No historical place. Sure, so last time.

Speaker 6 (44:55):
I've never been to any of the museums around here
at all. Whatsoever?

Speaker 7 (45:01):
Philbrook would be and we went in November and then
turn On went in December for the Christmas stuff.

Speaker 1 (45:07):
But we're members.

Speaker 6 (45:08):
There, Okay, so you like, I gotta get my money's worth.

Speaker 1 (45:11):
Yeah, but we only went because they were doing something
with the kids stuff. They were like, oh, that's fun. Okay,
but I don't remember what it was.

Speaker 9 (45:20):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (45:20):
I haven't been to Gill Christ Philbrook. I haven't been
to any museum.

Speaker 1 (45:23):
I'm not a music The point I'm trying to make
is we have some really great museums here. The Woody
Guthry Museum is awesome.

Speaker 6 (45:29):
And the fact that the Oklahoma Music Hall of Fame
is just right down to Mascogi that's not that far.

Speaker 1 (45:34):
No, No, I think that's a pretty big deal. Yeah.

Speaker 7 (45:36):
I don't think a lot of people realize it's right
down there. Good morning, Lindsay, Good morning Gorbyn.

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Had to step away for some personal stuff, but he
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Speaker 1 (46:21):
And on the line is Nick, Hey, Nick, how are you?

Speaker 9 (46:26):
I'm good? Are you?

Speaker 1 (46:26):
I'm good?

Speaker 10 (46:27):
Uh?

Speaker 1 (46:28):
Nick Is says you're engaged. How long have you been engaged?

Speaker 9 (46:32):
Over around eleven years?

Speaker 1 (46:34):
You've been engaged.

Speaker 8 (46:36):
I've known her for around eleven years. Sorry, oh kay,
I've been engaged since two thousand and one.

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You've been engaged since two thousand and one.

Speaker 2 (46:47):
Five years is still a long time?

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Nick, two thousand and one, Oh.

Speaker 2 (46:51):
Two thousand and one, I was thinking twenty.

Speaker 1 (46:53):
One, twenty one.

Speaker 9 (46:55):
Sorry, okay, twenty one.

Speaker 7 (46:58):
We were gonna have to have a different conversation. That's
a long time to be engaged.

Speaker 8 (47:02):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (47:03):
Cool. When do you guys getting married?

Speaker 8 (47:06):
No date inside bud?

Speaker 1 (47:08):
Okay? Is it the hold up her you or what's
the plan?

Speaker 8 (47:14):
A little both. I don't really want to go through
the state. I don't think it's really a marriage between
us and the state. It's not the way marriage is
supposed to be.

Speaker 1 (47:25):
Okay. What do you think marriag should be?

Speaker 9 (47:28):
You the person and the lord?

Speaker 6 (47:33):
Okay?

Speaker 1 (47:34):
Uh?

Speaker 7 (47:35):
And so will there be a ceremony or anything? Or
do you guys just consider yourself married now?

Speaker 8 (47:41):
I just kind of we've lived at marriage for married
for almost eleven years now, so it's kind of like,
what's the hurry?

Speaker 1 (47:50):
Yeah, how did you meet her.

Speaker 9 (47:55):
Anything?

Speaker 8 (47:56):
I guess it was at a bar, even though I
don't really go to bars. I was at there is
it and her friend that worked there, and yeah, she
approached me.

Speaker 1 (48:05):
Okay, do you remember what her opening line was?

Speaker 9 (48:10):
She didn't have one.

Speaker 8 (48:11):
She just stood by me smoking a cigarette and I said,
you know those things will kill you.

Speaker 7 (48:15):
Right nice and then bliss after that.

Speaker 9 (48:20):
Huh oh a little bit.

Speaker 1 (48:24):
Yeah uh. And you guys have some kids together. What's
the oldest?

Speaker 9 (48:30):
My oldest kid is twenty seven?

Speaker 1 (48:33):
Wow?

Speaker 9 (48:34):
This year?

Speaker 1 (48:34):
Wow?

Speaker 7 (48:36):
Do you remember when it turned into hey, this is
like they're still my kid, but they're an adult and
you have different conversations with them.

Speaker 1 (48:44):
Do you remember that?

Speaker 9 (48:48):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (48:49):
Well, what was it? What was the Do you remember
how it went down?

Speaker 9 (48:57):
Not exactly. There's just been a lot happened since it's been.

Speaker 7 (49:02):
Okay, it says you broke your leg changing a tire.
Tell me how that happened.

Speaker 8 (49:10):
Oh, well, I was changing some tires from one truck
to another for a dealer guy that I was working for.
He bought a truck himself and was just taking some
rims off of a truck at the lot that wasn't running.
And I got all the way through them, all got

(49:30):
the last one was tightening the last lugnut, and it
was on a bigger board truck, so it had like
the extend lugnuts and the last one was broke, so
as I was trying to tighten it, the four way
slipped my leg and body turned, my foot stayed planted,
and I basically collapsed. My ankle was twisted so much

(49:58):
that my accusans tended was right around the hill. It
broke my tiva amphibiula.

Speaker 7 (50:04):
Wow, And it says here you didn't exactly go get
it looked at right away?

Speaker 9 (50:11):
Well, we were.

Speaker 8 (50:14):
We went straight to the urgent care site and they
said it was basically a little too urgent for them,
as offered to call an ambulance, and I was like nah.
So we went to the emergency room and they reset it,
gave me a drug cocktail, and basically sent me on

(50:35):
my way with instructions to call a surgeon that wanted
two fifty up front that I didn't have to.

Speaker 9 (50:41):
Start a surgery. Yeah.

Speaker 8 (50:43):
So I went about a month without anything done to it.
But I think the next day after it all happened,
and went to work.

Speaker 1 (50:54):
And was that did you have to stand in that job?

Speaker 8 (50:59):
I was mechanic, and I mean, honestly, there wasn't much
I could do. I just determination I was gonna do it,
but my boss wouldn't let me I just you don't realize,
like how much you use your leg even when you
are laying down and stuff.

Speaker 7 (51:18):
Now, there's a weird note here that Gimpie gave me,
and it said you slept on a toilet during this time?

Speaker 1 (51:22):
Is that true?

Speaker 9 (51:24):
I had a lot of nights.

Speaker 8 (51:26):
Yeah, because it was the only way I can get
any kind of comfort laying in the bed any like.
I guess the weight of my leg, putting pressure on
my heel would cause me discomfort. So the only place
I could get any kind of comfort was putting my
foot flat footed on the floor and sitting on the toilet,
and I'd fall asleep.

Speaker 2 (51:45):
I can't imagine.

Speaker 7 (51:46):
Yeah, I can't imagine that either. And so when you
finally got it worked on, how long was the recovery?

Speaker 9 (51:53):
Oh? Three months?

Speaker 1 (51:55):
And was the pretty brutal?

Speaker 6 (51:57):
Was that?

Speaker 1 (51:57):
How many times have you had to go through recovery
for an inch? Is that the first time and only time.

Speaker 9 (52:03):
I broke my wrist? Was really young?

Speaker 8 (52:05):
But it was I was so young, I don't remember,
so yeah, I mean for anything that substantial, for sure.
I mean it sucked not being able to put weight
on my foot and having to climb upstairs to an
apartment and.

Speaker 9 (52:22):
Trying to make ends meet.

Speaker 8 (52:25):
I mean, I ended up learning how to drive using
my left foot for the gas pedal and break so
I can go do deliveries or something.

Speaker 9 (52:35):
Yeah, I just got to make money.

Speaker 1 (52:39):
That sounds like it was rough, Oh it was.

Speaker 9 (52:42):
It was.

Speaker 8 (52:43):
I mean the day I got approval to put foot
weight on my foot, I was doing a physical so
I can go.

Speaker 9 (52:50):
Get a job.

Speaker 1 (52:51):
Right, just to get back to what you like doing.

Speaker 7 (52:53):
Yeah, it says you're you're an Uber driver and that
you picked up a guy at a cemetery at two
forty five in the morning.

Speaker 8 (53:02):
Yeah, that was back when I was doing it at night.
I gotta ride for up in Uber up in Edmund,
and when I pulled up it the address just happened
to be a cemetery, and I pulled up there, thinking, oh,
what's going on here? It was actually a really dark
night and I didn't see anyone around. So with Uber,

(53:25):
you gotta wait a certain time before you can cancel
it if you want any kind of pay for driving
up there. So I was sitting there and then all
of a sudden, the guy popped up from behind a
headstone and started walking towards the car, so I let
him in and he actually turned out to be a
pretty cool guy. I had a fun ride on the
way to his destination. A little creepy starting up though.

Speaker 1 (53:50):
Did you ask him what he was doing there?

Speaker 8 (53:53):
No, not really my business. I'm not one to start
conversations a lot. And he started the call conversation and
it went a different direction.

Speaker 1 (54:02):
Now, is what's the longest you've ever gone for an
uber like distance? You think?

Speaker 8 (54:11):
I had to pick up two ladies here in Oklahoma
City at the airport, and I took them to Dallas,
right by dallasport Worth Airport to an apartment complaint.

Speaker 1 (54:22):
Oh my god, how much was that?

Speaker 9 (54:27):
Let's see?

Speaker 8 (54:28):
I think it was one hundred and thirty dollars is
what I ended up getting, and then they gave me
like a twenty dollars tip Ooh, but then I turned
that into a night and half day in Dallas making
money bill.

Speaker 1 (54:43):
So you just stayed down there and picked up ubers?

Speaker 9 (54:47):
Yeah?

Speaker 8 (54:47):
Yeah, I started out delivering thinking it's kind of late,
and then I started about five o'clock doing uber rides.
A lot of them in Dallas were too airport.

Speaker 1 (55:00):
And do you still do that? You still do that?
You do the ubern or are you done doing that?

Speaker 8 (55:05):
I'm doing it at the moment because I had left
the job. I'm just trying to get make ends meet
and I'm about to try to find another job. Not
really sure which direction go, but I've been many directions
over the years.

Speaker 9 (55:21):
So what do you have a quick on anything? Matten
is above me?

Speaker 1 (55:28):
What do you like doing?

Speaker 6 (55:29):
Like?

Speaker 1 (55:29):
What would be your dream job?

Speaker 9 (55:34):
I don't know.

Speaker 8 (55:34):
I can't really say I've ever really had a dream job.
I think building motorcycles would be cool, but I also
built boats for ten years and I enjoyed that quite
a bit.

Speaker 7 (55:48):
It says here that you met Bob Stoops. Tell me
about how you met him and that what was that like?

Speaker 8 (55:56):
Well, my daughter ended up having a Wilms tumor at
four and a half years old, and when she went
through the treatments and stuff and shell there was a
place called Toby Keith Hits Growl in the Oklahoma City area,

(56:18):
and they actually helped a lot, like giving us a
room to stay stuff like that through the treatments and
through them they set up like a charity auction where
we ended up going and doing that. But the time
that we actually met Bob Steps. They were doing that

(56:39):
Toby Keith tribute at ou Stadium and my daughter and
another kid named Jack's was invited to go out on
the field with him and stand there during the tribute.

Speaker 2 (56:51):
That's so cool. Did she even realize who it was?

Speaker 9 (56:55):
It was?

Speaker 8 (56:56):
No, she didn't, but she had a lot of fun
being out on the sure everybody's churn and so on.

Speaker 7 (57:05):
And it says that a band sang to her too
or was that a different thing?

Speaker 8 (57:10):
Yeah, at that charity auction before that, we had seen
Stoops there and there was actually quite a bit of alumni.

Speaker 9 (57:19):
But they had a the Eli Young.

Speaker 8 (57:20):
Band there and it was a charity auction for the
Kid to Kid's Growl. But they h at the end,
like when everything was winded down and they were singing. Uh,
she was hoot up to the stage and he sat
down on the stage with her and sang crazy Girl
to her.

Speaker 1 (57:40):
What was that like when you saw this happened to her?

Speaker 6 (57:43):
What was it like.

Speaker 9 (57:46):
As far as the singing or the cancer?

Speaker 1 (57:48):
Yeah, well, no, the singing, Like what was going through
your mind when you know they were singing to her?

Speaker 9 (57:55):
I thought it was a pretty awesome experience. It was.

Speaker 8 (57:59):
It was pretty cool. I mean, but not only was
that going on. As I was watching that, Toby Keith
sold his daughter was talking with my son and interacting
with him, and.

Speaker 9 (58:13):
I thought that was pretty awesome too. He's got a
pretty awesome family.

Speaker 1 (58:16):
Yeah, that's cool. That's cool. And how is your daughter now?

Speaker 9 (58:21):
She is seven?

Speaker 1 (58:23):
And how's the cancer free.

Speaker 8 (58:25):
Or she's gone? She went through cancer twice because she
went through it, went into remission and then they found
some nodules on her lungs and put her back through
it in a bow marrow transplant and stuff. And for
the last I guess this August seventeenth will be a

(58:46):
year and a half.

Speaker 2 (58:48):
Of being cancer free. Oh wonderful.

Speaker 7 (58:50):
Yeah, that is good news. Well, dude, it's it's been
great talking to you man. Good luck with everything, and
give our best to your family. Man, it sounds like
you've got a great family and good luck with everything.

Speaker 9 (59:03):
Thank you you guys too.

Speaker 1 (59:04):
All right, buddy, I appreciate it. That's nick. Our listeners
are awesome.

Speaker 7 (59:07):
We're going to take a break and we'll be back
if you're listening to the big men.

Speaker 1 (59:11):
Rules came out of hygiene rules. You didn't learn until
you were much later in life, okay, And I didn't
learn you were supposed to trim your pubes until like
I was twenty four. Oh, okay, twenty five.

Speaker 2 (59:26):
A girls like, a you's supposed to look like that?

Speaker 1 (59:29):
Can you the vacant house looks a little uh preoccupied?

Speaker 9 (59:33):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (59:33):
I was.

Speaker 2 (59:34):
Actually I'm kind of in the same boat. I was
a little younger, but I was with a girlfriend of
mine who we were getting ready to go swimming, and she.

Speaker 1 (59:45):
Was like, whoa spider anger spider Yeah.

Speaker 2 (59:48):
Like it isn't like I think the seventies girl, you
gotta trim that up? Why are you looking at me?
And it's like probably sixteen or seventeen years.

Speaker 1 (59:58):
Old, dramatically younger.

Speaker 7 (01:00:01):
Yeah, yeah, that's not a conversation I remember, no one's
ever had with me except this girl I dated.

Speaker 1 (01:00:10):
So I learned that one pretty late. This person said
they didn't learn you were not supposed to rinse your
mouth after brushing your teeth until they were twenty six.

Speaker 2 (01:00:20):
Yeah. I think it was a couple of months ago
when we talked about that on the air, about you're.

Speaker 1 (01:00:26):
Supposed to leave the toothpaste in your mouth.

Speaker 2 (01:00:28):
Yeah, So I brushed my teeth and then I turned
the water onto the shower, so the toothpace does sit
in in my mouth until I hit up the shower
and you're rints in the shower. I do.

Speaker 1 (01:00:42):
Some person said they never washed their belly button was
soap until they were an adult, because you thought the
water running over it would take.

Speaker 9 (01:00:47):
Care of it.

Speaker 2 (01:00:48):
Yeah, it's weird.

Speaker 1 (01:00:49):
I mean, I don't remember being told to wash my
belly button.

Speaker 2 (01:00:54):
I have only because I haven't any belly button. Sure,
so that was one of the things, like, ah, I
don't know since I was my parents bathed me. They're like, yeah,
you take the washcloth and stick it inside your belly button.

Speaker 1 (01:01:07):
Uh.

Speaker 7 (01:01:07):
It used to be earlier, but now I have like
a A I forget what it's called.

Speaker 1 (01:01:13):
I think it's called a numbilical hernia.

Speaker 2 (01:01:16):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, sticks out a little bit.

Speaker 7 (01:01:18):
And that's your I guess it's I don't know if
it's my town. I don't know what it is, but
it's something protruding out of my belly button.

Speaker 1 (01:01:23):
Sure, that's just like we can do surgery, but why, Yeah,
it's fine, it's just there. It's just there.

Speaker 6 (01:01:30):
Uh.

Speaker 7 (01:01:31):
Another person said that they used Q tips to clean
your ears. Every day, and you're not supposed to do that.

Speaker 2 (01:01:39):
Right, I still do because I do too.

Speaker 1 (01:01:42):
After a shower getting all that water, I'm like, oh
my gosh, the other day I did it in a
giant piece of some reason. After I wear earbuds, I
get a ton of wax that comes out for me.

Speaker 2 (01:01:54):
It's when I swim. If I'm swimming for a while,
then I'll get some old wax that's been hardened back
there and I haven't gotten it. Yeah, and it's so
satisfying to pull that out.

Speaker 1 (01:02:06):
How often do you change your toothbrush?

Speaker 2 (01:02:10):
If I get sick, if I have like an upper
respiratory infection, I will change it after I'm recovered from that, yeah,
But otherwise I will change it when the bristles.

Speaker 1 (01:02:23):
Are smoohing out. Yeah, this Is're supposed to change it
every three months apparently.

Speaker 2 (01:02:27):
Eh, that could be. I mean, if that's how long
it takes for him to get smooshed out, then yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:02:35):
I didn't know how long to change it.

Speaker 7 (01:02:37):
But when they started putting the bristle color and when
it fades away, you change it. That's when I was like, oh, okay,
so if you have the little blue streak on yours. Yeah,
it will fade, and as it fades away, when more
white starts showing, you're.

Speaker 1 (01:02:49):
Supposed to ditch it. I was like that perfect for me.

Speaker 2 (01:02:52):
Yeah, I think that's just a way to sell more
toothbrush heads.

Speaker 1 (01:02:55):
Are you a loof of person?

Speaker 2 (01:02:57):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:02:58):
Not really apparently supposed to change your loofah a lot?

Speaker 2 (01:03:01):
Yeah, because they do hold bacteria.

Speaker 1 (01:03:05):
Like a sponge.

Speaker 2 (01:03:06):
Yes.

Speaker 6 (01:03:07):
Uh.

Speaker 7 (01:03:08):
You shouldn't put anti purspirate deodorant on wet armpits.

Speaker 1 (01:03:12):
No, I didn't know. I don't use antip person because
I don't want to block my sweat pores. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:03:17):
I think that's crazy. How you don't smell from not
using it?

Speaker 7 (01:03:21):
Yeah, because it's blocking. It's aluminum blocking your pores. I'm
not a fan of that.

Speaker 2 (01:03:26):
I still sweat my armpits will still sweat. It just
doesn't smell bad.

Speaker 7 (01:03:32):
When you buy new clothes, do you wash them?

Speaker 2 (01:03:37):
If I get them online? Yeah, But if I buy
them from a actual store in the mall, then no.

Speaker 7 (01:03:45):
What's the difference, because to me, you don't know where
it's been from the online.

Speaker 1 (01:03:51):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:03:53):
That's why usually like it. I see it package and
it'll have a weird smell sometimes I don't know, but
then I watch shit. But then like in the store,
it'll smell like it smells nice when it's in the store.

Speaker 7 (01:04:07):
This is you're h This person didn't realize you're supposed
to wash new clothes before wearing them. And they somebody
commented that they worked at Target for a long time
and they'd watched a lot of dirty people try clothes
on and not buy them.

Speaker 2 (01:04:17):
Yeah, that's gross.

Speaker 1 (01:04:18):
Or they end up on the floor, and what do
they do? They just get picked up and put back
on the rack.

Speaker 2 (01:04:21):
I think though, that sometimes you can see, you can
tell when when a piece of clothing has been tried
on and put back on a hand, Oh, there makeup
on it. For a girls, there's makeup on it sometimes,
or that's the obvious. Yeah, there's deodorant marks.

Speaker 7 (01:04:36):
But that's to me, that's not always evidence.

Speaker 2 (01:04:39):
Yeah, but you're taking a chance.

Speaker 1 (01:04:41):
Dirt doesn't always leave a in my mind, it doesn't. Uh.
Somebody said they didn't know they were supposed to wash
their feet. Huh, like the bottom of their feet.

Speaker 8 (01:04:53):
Uh.

Speaker 7 (01:04:54):
I used to brush my teeth immediately if I puked.
You're not supposed to do that. It's bad for your
Nemel sprints with water, wiping down your phone and its
case frequently. Apparently they're as dirty as some toilets. Yep,
that's why I own a phone scrubber. That is the
product name. I think I'm crazy for doing that. I
don't care.

Speaker 2 (01:05:13):
No, you're not. And there's cars now that come with
phone scrubbers.

Speaker 1 (01:05:18):
I've seen those. I want tablet ones for my kids. Tablets.

Speaker 7 (01:05:22):
Yeah, I do the remotes in my phone, I do
my watch, I do my or ring, I do all
that stuff in the phone scrubber.

Speaker 2 (01:05:31):
I just use good old Lesol wipes.

Speaker 1 (01:05:35):
Uh. This person says they didn't wash behind their ears
for the longest time.

Speaker 2 (01:05:41):
Yeah, that's gross.

Speaker 1 (01:05:42):
That is gross.

Speaker 7 (01:05:44):
They said they use Toner for those of them. Know
you can buy I forget the name of the brand.

Speaker 1 (01:05:49):
But if you use.

Speaker 7 (01:05:50):
Toner and then like wipe the back of your neck,
it's so dirty thing except that will drive your skin
really bad.

Speaker 2 (01:05:58):
One. But I mean I like it because if you ever,
like if you break out or if you have oily skin,
using that rubbing alcohol, I mean it can it just
feels refreshing and you see the back of that cut
and swab and it's like.

Speaker 1 (01:06:13):
Oh, so for you, it's the reward of seeing the
dirt on those Yeah.

Speaker 7 (01:06:17):
Yeah, it gives me a little bit of a complex
because I don't think I'm that dirty, and then you
do it and you're like, you are a filthy animal.

Speaker 2 (01:06:25):
It's gross.

Speaker 1 (01:06:26):
It is you, you pig doesn't help the mirrors in front.

Speaker 2 (01:06:30):
Of Also, so if you if you take a shower
at night and then you wake up in the next
morning and you do that, it's unbelievable. You think you're
clean and you haven't done anything but slept, but you wouldn't.
You don't realize how much you sweat in your sleep
and you lose that skin in your sleep.

Speaker 7 (01:06:49):
Yeah, it's gross. I think it's gonna be a wild take.
I think you're not ever clean. You shower, you're only
clean when the water. Even if you're touching the ground,
you're now dirty. And if you touch the handle, you
touch the handle dirty a minute ago.

Speaker 2 (01:07:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (01:07:08):
Some people will go to the bathroom and not wash
their hands and just go get right in the shower,
and then they get out of the shower and they've
touched the handle that was just moments ago touched by
your toilet hand, right.

Speaker 2 (01:07:18):
Like experts say that your towel, once you use your towel,
it is it is dirty and lives that it gets
completely dry one hundred percent. And they're saying you leave
it out so direct sunlight is hitting it, right, it
is completely dirty. That's why I will use a towel
one time for my body, and then the next time

(01:07:39):
it's just using it for my hair, and then it
gets put in the hamper.

Speaker 7 (01:07:44):
Uh the somebody texting, you're supposed to leave the damn
toothpaste in your mouth?

Speaker 9 (01:07:48):
What?

Speaker 2 (01:07:49):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (01:07:49):
Yeah, it's it's not meant to be spit out. You're
not supposed to rinse it out. I mean, don't hold
or a manchr routh right, you can spit it out
the extra, but yeah, it's supposed to hang out on
your teeth and do its work.

Speaker 9 (01:08:02):
Weird.

Speaker 7 (01:08:02):
You know what I learned about washing dishes. I always like,
rinse all the soap off.

Speaker 1 (01:08:07):
You don't have to do.

Speaker 2 (01:08:08):
That, Yeah, you do, otherwise your food is gonna taste
like soap.

Speaker 1 (01:08:12):
No it rints, it comes off.

Speaker 6 (01:08:14):
I know.

Speaker 7 (01:08:15):
I think it's crazy too, but it's just like people
that don't wash cast iron pans, it's okay to wash
it it's fine. Yeah, but the you just wash whatever
pan or plate and you don't have to get all
the soap residue off and you just said it and
then it'll come all the way off.

Speaker 2 (01:08:30):
I don't trust that. I don't trust that at all.

Speaker 1 (01:08:34):
I mean a lot of people do it.

Speaker 7 (01:08:35):
So either they're tasting food that's soapy and they think
that's the way food tastes, or it really does go away.

Speaker 2 (01:08:43):
No, in fact. And also they say you don't have
to rinse your dishes before putting into the dishwasher, but
I do that too.

Speaker 1 (01:08:51):
Yeah, you're not supposed to do that.

Speaker 7 (01:08:53):
Modern dishwashers have technology to determine how dirty it is,
and if you rinse it off, it will go through
the cycle. It determines that, and maybe not do as
aggressive of a wash as of an agitation because it
thinks they're not dirty.

Speaker 1 (01:09:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:09:09):
I'm just trying.

Speaker 1 (01:09:09):
It's not just a line fucks filter, man, what's that.

Speaker 2 (01:09:12):
I'm just trying to hope out my dishwasher filter. I
don't want to see food in my dishwasher.

Speaker 1 (01:09:18):
Well, there's always gonna be food in dishwasher. Yeah, literally,
why why you have it?

Speaker 2 (01:09:23):
I just don't like to see chunks on plates and
stuff when it gets loaded.

Speaker 7 (01:09:29):
When you clean that filter, you realize how gross a
dishwasher is. Yes, yeah, are you supposed to rinse soap
off dishes?

Speaker 6 (01:09:42):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:09:42):
If we want to hear this, you should rinse soap
off dishes, remove residue from a soapy taste on food
and drinks. See there you go straight from Google. We're
gonna take a break. We'll be back.

Speaker 2 (01:09:54):
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Speaker 1 (01:10:14):
Okay, yeah, join us in the studio now. Is Jeff
Heinsley of Hensley Associates. Hello, Jeff, how.

Speaker 3 (01:10:19):
Are you Dan? Well, good morning.

Speaker 7 (01:10:20):
Jeff's here to answer any question you have about childcare.
I'm sorry, child custody, guardianships, maybe a divorce you're going through.
And you can get your question to us a couple
of ways. You can text BMMS and whatever that question
is to eight two nine four five. You can email
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four six Oh KMOD. We got a text one that said,

(01:10:41):
I've heard the possibility of having a burial plot on
my property. Is this a possibility? And can you point
me in the right direction as to who to talk to?

Speaker 10 (01:10:50):
You know, that's a good question I've heard. You know
there are such things as family plots on pieces of
lands and things like that. So but I think it'll
you know, boils down to your owning laws and things
like that. So if you will give Leah a call
at my office up in Pahsca, they can answer that
question and get you the information you need.

Speaker 3 (01:11:07):
That's I haven't had that one before. That's a new one, so.

Speaker 1 (01:11:10):
Right, well, that just shows the scope of things that
you can ask. Jeff.

Speaker 7 (01:11:14):
He's here on the air today to talk about family law,
so custodies and guardianships and things like this. This text
one came in said, my ex and I have worked
out a custody schedule between ourselves, but I want to
make it legally binding so neither of us can change
it on a whim. We have two boys, six and nine.
Is this something I need a lawyer for? Can we
just file paperwork.

Speaker 10 (01:11:34):
Yeah, you need a lawyer for it, so it's done
right for starters and you know, everything's great now. And
you know Corbyn said this forever is it's great until
it's not.

Speaker 3 (01:11:43):
And so you know, I commend you for reaching an agreement.

Speaker 10 (01:11:47):
But you know, people get a little frisky and funky
whenever you start filing paperwork to say, well, I want
to make it legal.

Speaker 3 (01:11:54):
Well don't you trust me, don't you trust me? Don't
you think I'm going to do the right thing.

Speaker 10 (01:11:58):
Well, you know that sounds great now, but sometimes people
get pissed off when you start filing things. So, yes,
you're going to need an attorney to make sure it's
done right, the paperwork's correct. We know the ins and outs,
we know the judges, we know the laws, so we
want to make sure that you're taking care of especially.

Speaker 3 (01:12:13):
At the other side's decides. It gets a little decide
to get a little crazy.

Speaker 7 (01:12:16):
Can we I'm going to push a little bit on that. Yeah,
so let's let's clarify some things. It's great you work
it out, but it's not a document with any powerwithstanding
until a judge signs off on it.

Speaker 10 (01:12:28):
Absolutely, So until there's a judge. Signature in the document
doesn't mean anything. So, you know, let's say you've got
an agreement and she decides to say, well, you know,
screw you, I'm going to keep the kids this weekend. Well,
we have an agreement, we signed it, we have a notary,
and I remember it. Notaries notaries are nothing more than
people saying, yes, the person in front of me is
who they say they are. It doesn't make the document binding.

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That's what's probably one of the biggest urban legends out
there is that a notary makes something legal.

Speaker 3 (01:12:55):
That's not how it works.

Speaker 10 (01:12:56):
All it is is somebody saying, yes, this is the person,
this is their signature, and I'm stamping this because I'm
allowed to do that and I have a.

Speaker 3 (01:13:03):
License to do that. To say that this is who
they say they are, that's all they do. Okay.

Speaker 10 (01:13:09):
So with that being said, it doesn't make the document
binding or legal at that point. So, yeah, if either
one who decides to break it, there's nothing the other
side can do. You can't get rid of assistance to
have the cops go get the kids and bring them
to you. You can't file anything at the core to
say well she or he denied me visitation. So yeah,
you want an actual document signed by a judge.

Speaker 2 (01:13:29):
But at the same time, doesn't a will. Isn't a
will something that needs to be notarized in order to
do it?

Speaker 9 (01:13:36):
Does?

Speaker 10 (01:13:36):
But more importantly, the big thing about wills is is
in addition to the notor, you also have to have
the two witnesses. So you've got a notary and two
witnesses on top of that. And the will's a will
is different than a custody arrangement because well, there's lots
of different reasons and we'll want to but I mean,
it's very different than a custody But yeah, I mean
I see your point. But at the same time, too,
you also have two separate witnesses that come in and

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also witness that will as well.

Speaker 7 (01:14:01):
Jeff from Hensley Associates is in the studio to answer
questions about family law.

Speaker 1 (01:14:05):
See if we can do the phone thing here. Good morning,
you're on the air. What is your name?

Speaker 7 (01:14:11):
Hello, good morning, you're that happens And so we've got
an email one that came in. It says, if one
of my kids ages out of child support and my
alimony payments cut off, do I have to pay a lawyer?
The full retainer or can I pay an hourly for
a new child support computation.

Speaker 3 (01:14:32):
Let's see if I can parse that.

Speaker 10 (01:14:34):
So if your child ages out, you need to model
one if you want, right, So that means you have
other kids. I mean, every firm is gonna have something
different the way they handle that. But I mean the
idea behind it is is that you file to modify
all right, and then the other side gets pissed off.

Speaker 3 (01:14:50):
They just do even if the kid ages out. I
don't know what it is.

Speaker 10 (01:14:53):
But whenever that happens, even when the kid ages out
or you know, graduates high school and it's turned eighteen
and inten clean under the law's age doubt and all
these things, and you go to modify it because you
want to make it right, they get upset. And so, yeah,
you want a lawyer, and you're probably going to need
a retainer and hourly fee all that stuff because at
some point it's probably going to get into an argument

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and unfortunately it's going to have to go to a hearing.

Speaker 3 (01:15:17):
I mean, I've seen these things happen.

Speaker 10 (01:15:18):
You would think it would be as simple as well, yeah,
you're right, the kid is out, let's change it that's rare.
A lot of times it's I can't believe you're doing this,
You're full of crap, blah blah blah, your income has changed,
mind has changed, and they start getting into these arguments.
So yeah, I mean, you're going to probably need a
full retainer because it's going to go to a hearing
more than likely, not eighty percent of the time, it's
going to go to a hearing.

Speaker 1 (01:15:38):
But I can understand where someone is one being to
do it the most cost efficient way they think they
can to which I would say, you would be better
served having somebody you're comfortable with and trust rather than
do it the most cost efficient way.

Speaker 10 (01:15:56):
Sometimes, right, absolutely, And it's one of those things too
that again, just because we file a emotion to modify
something doesn't mean that the other side is going to
sign off on agreed order, at which point it is
going to go to a hearing, at which point you're
going to need an attorney to do that, at which
point they're going to require a retainer. I mean, understand,
retainers are money paid up front for work that we're

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going to do. We do that because that way we
can actually start getting paid for what we're doing, Right, away.
A lot of times if we try to do it
the other way with oh well, I'll just pay if
you just pay an hourly fee, a lot of times
we get stiffed. Okay, I hate to say that, but
the fact of the matter is if we don't get
our money up front, we get stiffed.

Speaker 3 (01:16:35):
And people have.

Speaker 10 (01:16:35):
This idea that they can you know, stiff an attorney
and not pay. And unfortunately that's why we do retainers
because we don't want to get screwed. I hate to
say it that way, but you know, I understand wanting
to do things cost efficiently and I have no problem
doing that, and we try to do that. Our best
at our firm is to make sure we're we're consciences
with people's money and what we're doing with it.

Speaker 3 (01:16:54):
But at the same time too, it is what it is.

Speaker 1 (01:16:58):
Jeff Finsley from hensleyn is SOE. This is in the studio.

Speaker 7 (01:17:01):
If you have a question, you can email show at
kmod dot com, text BMMS whatever your question is to
eight two nine four five or call eight three three
four to six. Oh KMOD. This text says my son
is disabled and receives an SSD check. My boyfriend is
wanting to leave my son money in his will but
doesn't want it to affect his checks.

Speaker 1 (01:17:19):
Is this possible.

Speaker 10 (01:17:21):
I don't think it would affect his checks. It's one
of those things that it depends on the amount. I mean,
if we're talking millions and millions of dollars, that might
affect it, because obviously that money would then go into
a trust and be used to take care of the
kid and that sort of thing.

Speaker 3 (01:17:36):
So I think it would depend on the amount. So
what you need to do.

Speaker 10 (01:17:39):
Give us a call in Tulsa. We'll hook you up
with Leah up in Pascas. She'll give you a call
about that, because that's a will and a trust issue,
so to speak, and so she can get you the
best answer.

Speaker 7 (01:17:48):
Jeff Fensley from Hensey and Associates is with us. This
text says, my brother's going through some mental health issues.
He broke into his ex wife's house caused a disturbance.
I was unable to find him when I got a
call saying he was suicide. We made police reports about
his mental state. What can I do to get him
help he needs? I think this is a tricky question
because when you're talking about dealing with people with mental health.

(01:18:10):
It's a there's still individuals. You don't have control over
them and what they can do at that point, and
trying to get them help is kind of hard to navigate.

Speaker 10 (01:18:20):
Well, it is, and you know, guardianships work in these
situations where you can get them the help that they need.

Speaker 3 (01:18:28):
But again, it's hard.

Speaker 1 (01:18:31):
I mean, it's not Is that enough to get an
emergency guardianship?

Speaker 3 (01:18:36):
Read it again, let me hear it one more time.

Speaker 7 (01:18:38):
My brother's going through some mental health issues. He broke
into his ex wife's house, caused a disturbance. I was
unable to find him when I got a call saying
he was suicidal. We made police reports about his mental state.
What can I do to get him help he needs?

Speaker 9 (01:18:49):
Right?

Speaker 3 (01:18:50):
So, I mean it's hard.

Speaker 10 (01:18:51):
Even a guardianship is hard because you've got to show
that they're unable to make their.

Speaker 3 (01:18:55):
Own decisions, you know what I mean.

Speaker 10 (01:18:57):
It's one of those things you've got to and you
have to have a doctor or sign off on it
that says, yes, this person is incapacitated to the point
that they're no longer able to make any decisions on
their own, whether they be medical or financial or whatever
it may be.

Speaker 3 (01:19:10):
So you can get them help. I mean it's a
really hard place.

Speaker 10 (01:19:12):
I mean, doing everything you can to help your loved one,
no matter what is the key. I mean talking to them,
trying to get them to go to counseling, trying to
get them to go to I mean, if it's caused
by substance abuse, it doesn't sound like that may or

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may not be the case here, but I mean getting
in the rehab or getting the help they need.

Speaker 3 (01:19:38):
I mean, we live in a society today that is.

Speaker 10 (01:19:42):
Far more in tune and astute to mental health than
we've ever had in the history of humanity, in my opinion,
And so what that means is is there are tons
and tons and tons of resources out there that weren't
available even ten years ago. And with that being the case,
I think that there are all sorts of places that

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you can call and say, look, this is the situation,
this is what's going on, this is what happened.

Speaker 3 (01:20:07):
What can we do?

Speaker 10 (01:20:08):
And there are all sorts of places out there they
can say, well, you do this and this and this,
and let's try this and let's do I mean, there's
so many resources out there now that didn't exist in
the past, and so I think first step is trying
to find a place that you know, this city has some,
the county has some. You can call any of the
mental hospitals here in Tulsa and talk to them about options,

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what they can do, so you know, at the end
of the day you can get the list of those resources.
But also too, at the end of the day, if
he doesn't want to go, you can't force somebody to
go unless you have a guardianship. And to get a guardianship,
you have to prove that they're mentally incapacitated and can't
make their own.

Speaker 7 (01:20:48):
Decisions, and and somebody being violent or irrational hardly crosses
that threshold.

Speaker 1 (01:20:54):
Right, Well, it would take a little bit more.

Speaker 10 (01:20:57):
It would take it would take more than that. Yeah,
I mean, maybe he was pissed off at his ex wife.

Speaker 3 (01:21:02):
I don't know.

Speaker 10 (01:21:03):
I mean, what was the reason he broke into the house.
I mean, there's there's a lot of holes we've got here,
but yeah, I mean it's one of those things that
it's a tough place to be.

Speaker 1 (01:21:11):
I mean, is suicidal enough, well.

Speaker 10 (01:21:13):
I mean, if there's suicidal, you can take them and
drive them to the mental hospitals. You can drive him
to Lareed or to Parkside. Well, okay, so park Site's
not doing adults anymore. They're only doing children, which laureate
and other places. You know, you can and see if
they'll go, but again, you can't force them to go.

Speaker 1 (01:21:30):
That's just the bad fifty one fifty one fifties Well
hold for oh being crazy?

Speaker 10 (01:21:38):
Well yes and no, but I don't know that they're
used a whole lot. I mean you've got to show
that someone is a danger to themselves those kind of things,
and with suicidal you know a lot of times you
can get somebody put in a mental place for that.

Speaker 3 (01:21:54):
I mean, there's it's just it's a really sticky situation.

Speaker 10 (01:21:56):
But again I would encourage whoever this is to reach
out to all the resources here and Tulsa if you're
in the Tulsa area and check to see what's available,
and they can lead and guide you. Those professionals can
lead and guide you to it's best to help you
or brother in law.

Speaker 1 (01:22:10):
Whatever is psychiatric holds a thing? Is that something?

Speaker 10 (01:22:14):
There are psychiatric holds, But again those are only a
certain amount of time. I mean they can't hold them indefinitely,
so right, you know, it just all depends. I mean,
if you go in and shoot somebody, uh, because you're insane.

Speaker 3 (01:22:27):
I mean, there's all sorts of things that can.

Speaker 10 (01:22:29):
Cause a psychiatric hold, but at the end of the day,
they can't hold them forever. And unless you've got to
diagnosis and those sorts of things that say they need
to be locked up or put into an institution or
something like that. I mean, there's just there's a lot
of variables, and so again, contact the resources we have
here in the Tulsa area. We've got hospitals and doctors
all over this place. There's lots of people out there

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that can help you.

Speaker 1 (01:22:52):
Jeff Finsley from Hensley and Associates is in the studio.

Speaker 7 (01:22:54):
You have a question about divorce or custody or guardianship,
you can ask it now. Eight three three four six
oh kmod, good morning, you're on the air.

Speaker 1 (01:23:01):
What is your name, April, April? What's your question for?
Jeff Hensley of Hensley and Associates.

Speaker 11 (01:23:07):
Go ahead, Okay, So it's it's kind of a I'm
I'm going to shorten down the story. In twenty fourteen,
I was in a really bad place in my life
and I lost custody of my children through DHS. A
family member got them and she legally adopted them. As
time went on, things I had ended up getting into

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some trouble and I went through a court ordered you know,
rehabilitation program graduated it in twenty twenty, and I have
been clean and sober and on the right shock since
twenty eighteen. In twenty twenty, my relative let me take
my kids back. I still don't have legal custody of them.

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I don't even have a guardianship of them. But I've
had them since twenty twenty and DHS has actually come
in and checked out the situation, and you know, they
say it's fine. I would like to get legal city
back of my kids. I don't see any reason that
I wouldn't be able to. I just don't know the
proper way to go back about or to go about it.

Speaker 3 (01:24:08):
Well that let me stop your idea.

Speaker 11 (01:24:09):
Of one of my children is turned nineteen, so she's
not even really involved anymore in the legal process of it.

Speaker 3 (01:24:16):
So the nineteen year olds out, they're an adult. No,
they're not part of this.

Speaker 10 (01:24:22):
I hate to say it, but there is no way
back once your rights have been terminated to your child,
at least from that standpoint, there's no way to get
legal custody again.

Speaker 3 (01:24:31):
Now you could do.

Speaker 11 (01:24:34):
I mean, so they weren't necessarily terminated. I'd signed them
over in agreeance that at some point maybe you know
that we could we can mend it through it.

Speaker 10 (01:24:44):
No no, no, but but that's let me back up. And
if she did legally adopt them, your rights were terminated
despite what your agreement was, and there may have been
an agreement. There are things called post adoption agreements, where
you know, you say that that the people adopting will
let the parent visit and be a part of the kids,
lie for send pictures. I mean, those those are things,

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but those don't give you custody once your rights have
been terminated. The only way around it in theory, would
be maybe a guardianship, but you'd have to have a
reason for the guardianship. How does the one kid that's left?
I assume you said there, you said two, right.

Speaker 11 (01:25:22):
So, well there's there's two. There's a thirteen or fourteen
year old and they've lived with me in my care
since twenty twenty. I have a power of attorney because
we actually even moved towns, and now because of that,
I'm able to take them to, you know, enroll them
in school, take them to doctors. I mean, they've been
fully in my care.

Speaker 3 (01:25:40):
Since two thousand, right, And I understand you started go ahead.

Speaker 10 (01:25:45):
I was just saying, there's just not a legal avenue
in the state of Oklahoma that, once rights have been
terminated through an adoption, for a parent to come back
and say I'm better now, I want my rights back.

Speaker 3 (01:25:54):
It doesn't work that way.

Speaker 10 (01:25:55):
It doesn't work that way in Oklahoma, never has and
so unfortunately there's not an avenue in Oklahoma. The only caveat,
and again this would be in theory because I've not
ever seen it done. But in theory you could get
a guardianship, which is just an expansion of your power
of attorney.

Speaker 3 (01:26:09):
So to speak.

Speaker 10 (01:26:10):
But the other side would have to be willing to
agree to the guardianship, and the guardianship in this particular
case doesn't get you any more than what a power
of attorney would and what you're already doing, does it
make sense? So, and there's no emergent situation because they've
been with you forever. And I mean everyone says it's
okay and all that, but I think at the end

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of the day, you're just kind of stuck.

Speaker 1 (01:26:34):
Let me ask you. I want to ask you a question.
Do you just want to go through with that part
because it feels like the final chapter of that and
putting it behind you because Jeff's saying you already have
the power pretty much all the rights.

Speaker 10 (01:26:47):
Well, I mean, if you want, well, and I guess
another way would be is wait till they're turned eighteen
and do an adult adoption so that they're then adopted
back and to you so to speak, I mean, that's
another way to do it, is I mean, you could
do it with your nineteen year old now and wait
till the other two get to that point and do

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it that way. If you just want to say I've
adopted them back and I'm now you know legally mom,
if you wanted to do that, that's another option.

Speaker 3 (01:27:17):
But again, going after.

Speaker 10 (01:27:19):
A guardianship now is not going to give you any
more power, so to speak than your power attorney, other
than to say, oh, well, I have a guardianship.

Speaker 2 (01:27:29):
Yeah.

Speaker 11 (01:27:29):
I mean, honestly, I've had no problems with the power attorney.
The only thing that I've had to have, Like, we
went on a cruise vacation and I had to have
her find you know, my relatives find something other than that.
I've had no problems with the power of attorney, So.

Speaker 10 (01:27:43):
Yeah, I'm just saying, and that's probably where you're kind
of stuck until the attorney eighteen and then, you know,
then give me a call and we could do three
adult adult adult guardianships or to me adoptions and do
it that way so that they can be legally yours.
But unfortunately, in the state of Oklahoma, when riots have
been terminated, that's it.

Speaker 3 (01:27:59):
There's just no way back.

Speaker 11 (01:28:02):
There's no way back from Okay, all right.

Speaker 1 (01:28:04):
Thank you so much, girl, have a great day, good luck.
It's just not reversible.

Speaker 10 (01:28:09):
No, I mean, short of showing fraud or deceit or
something like that, there's really not And that's just the
way Oklahoma is. I don't know what the adoption laws
are in other states, but that's how we are here
in Oklahoma. The idea is to give the child or
children some sort of permanency so that they can move
on kind of things like that. I applaud this woman

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for turning her life around and being sober since twenty eighteen.
I think that's awesome. I congratulate you on that. That's
a big accomplishment. Unfortunately, our laws just aren't that way. So,
and I say this all the time when I'm on
the air with you guys, if you have a problem
with the way a law is in Oklahoma, contact your
local legislature. So whoever that is, whether they be in
the House of the Senate, contact them and say, look,

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I have a problem with this, and here's why. And
they're the ones that can make the difference. They're the
ones that can change the law.

Speaker 9 (01:28:59):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:28:59):
Well, and you could probab also say that being a
mom isn't something the court decides you are there doing
that or you're not. And it sounds like she's doing that.

Speaker 9 (01:29:06):
Yeah.

Speaker 10 (01:29:06):
I mean, that's the thing is she's already doing the
mom stuff. She's she's treating it. I mean, she's doing
what she should be doing and loves to do obviously
because she loves her kids. It's just as far as
a terminology of quote unquote custody, it's just that's the
wait is once it's terminated, and you're kind of stuck.

Speaker 7 (01:29:22):
We got this text from somebody and they said, someone
tried to tell me that Oklahoma is no longer a
mother's right state. Is that a true or an accurate
When you have these type of questions which will let
Jeff answer in a second, you need to call the
folks at Hinsley Associates. They can answer those questions at
any time. Nine eight three, nine eight five six nine two.
There's a lot of misinformation. People get it wrong. They
have water cooler lawyer talks with each other and try

(01:29:44):
to decipher what they should or shouldn't do, or can
or can't do. But you need to just go to
an authority that can answer those questions, and the folks
in Hinsley Associates are that mention kmo D you get
a free consultation nine one eight three, nine eight five
six nine two for hinsleyan Associates.

Speaker 1 (01:29:58):
Is Oklahoma no longer a mother's right state?

Speaker 3 (01:30:00):
It's not.

Speaker 10 (01:30:01):
In fact, we're at this particular juncture. We're a fifty
to fifty state when when it comes to divorce and
paternity cases. I just tried a paternity case last two
weeks ago on Friday and one and got joint custody
for my client, who is very very happy. He's a
great dad. But no, we're a half and half state,

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so I call it half and we're a fifty to
fifty state right now. Now, there used to be we
used to be something very much so mother's right states.
A long time ago, there was something called the tender
years doctrine that said that kids from the age of
birth to age four should be mom should have soul
custody and dad should have frequent continuing visitation, but not

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full visitation.

Speaker 3 (01:30:44):
Those kind of things. Those don't exist anymore.

Speaker 10 (01:30:47):
You might get one of those rulings out in some
Podunk county out here somewhere where there's a judge from
who's eighty five years old, but that's very very rare,
because the law is the law. And I will tell
you that in Tulsa County especially, they're following the law
of the fifty to fifty to start, because you have
to show that the other parent is unfit in some
way to come down off of fifty to fifteen if

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they're not unfit. Now, remember, being a jerk is not
unfit as just being a jerk. They're difficult to deal
with and they're a pain in the ass. That's not
good enough for unfitness.

Speaker 7 (01:31:21):
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the folks at Hensley Associates are available.

Speaker 10 (01:31:39):
Too, absolutely so through our office in Pusco. Don't worry
about where it's at. They go everywhere and they talk
to anybody by phone or zoom or in person or
whatever you need.

Speaker 3 (01:31:47):
Give Lee a call up there. Leah does a great job.

Speaker 10 (01:31:50):
She handles everything in addition to family law up there.
So if you've got a criminal case, if something as
benign as a speeding ticket or duy all the way
up to murder and everything in between, she can help
you with. If you've got a will or a trust
that needs to be drafted, if you've got a probate
issue you which is when someone passes away in their
estates now being dealt with by the cord. Or if
you've got a contract review you're selling a piece of land,

(01:32:13):
whatever it may be, literally anything in addition to family law.
Give them a call up there. If you don't want
to call up there. Just call here and Tulsa. We'll
transfer you up to Leah and she will get you
taken care of.

Speaker 1 (01:32:26):
Six nine two for Hensing Associates. We'll be back. I
saw on the side of the road a truck and
it had fruit in it, and I think there were
watermelons if I remember correctly. And it's interesting how people
will go and just buy fruit from those people, like

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buy a watermelon. Sure, I don't have a reason why
you shouldn't trust him, but I don't know along that
fruit's been sitting in the back of that truck. And
I don't know if I've ever seen a fruit truck
with just a couple back there.

Speaker 2 (01:32:58):
No, Right, it's always loads and loads and loads.

Speaker 1 (01:33:01):
Yeah, same with corn onions. Onions is another one. And
I don't know. You just assume they have a farm, yeah,
and that's they're getting them from there, right, I'm just
trust it.

Speaker 2 (01:33:18):
Yeah, they're not driving to the grocery store and buying
every onion that they have.

Speaker 1 (01:33:22):
They might be.

Speaker 7 (01:33:24):
They might be going to buy bags of onions at
Sam's or Costco. I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:33:30):
I feel like they would be like, give me every
single onion in the store.

Speaker 1 (01:33:33):
Though you can buy palettes of onions.

Speaker 2 (01:33:36):
Yeah, and well what does the store care?

Speaker 1 (01:33:41):
Right, They're getting their money and they don't care what
you go do with it.

Speaker 7 (01:33:45):
And so then there's another there's a lady by my
mom's house and she wheels out like a bookshelf every
day and puts some fruits and vegetables there from her
own garden. And you put a little money in the
thing and take what you'd like. It's nice, it's fine, right, Yeah,
But also I don't know how she's grown it.

Speaker 1 (01:34:05):
She could be grown in poop. I don't know, I'm not.
The expectation that she must follow guidelines isn't real, right,
She's just grown up the way that works for her.

Speaker 2 (01:34:19):
Sure, have you ever purchased any of her veggies?

Speaker 1 (01:34:22):
Do you know?

Speaker 8 (01:34:23):
Me?

Speaker 1 (01:34:23):
I don't trust people, right, right?

Speaker 2 (01:34:25):
Has your mom?

Speaker 1 (01:34:26):
No?

Speaker 3 (01:34:26):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:34:26):
Okay no?

Speaker 7 (01:34:28):
But to my point, what do you you take a gamble?
I'm sure it's fine. I'm sure ninety nine percent of
them are fine. Also, people suck. The human race in
general does bad things, or they think it's fine the
way they do it.

Speaker 1 (01:34:45):
Sure, but it may not be. Maybe you're maybe they
cover their fruit and vegetables with seven if you know
what that is, and then they just wash it before
they bring it out there and put it on display.

Speaker 7 (01:34:55):
It's a pesticide for those of another kills pretty much
every bug awesome. So how do you trust that?

Speaker 2 (01:35:04):
You just you just do.

Speaker 1 (01:35:05):
You just take a gamble, which feels wild to me.

Speaker 2 (01:35:10):
You try it once and if you enjoy it, then
you go back.

Speaker 1 (01:35:14):
I always get a kick out of people like I
don't let my kids eat red dye, and then they
go do stuff like that, which feels completely I guess
as reckless as letting them have a red dye.

Speaker 2 (01:35:25):
Yeah, we've actually talked about it, like we would love
to be able to have our own garden. We don't
get enough sun like though in our backyard.

Speaker 7 (01:35:33):
I mean, god, God, listen, have a garden on whatever.
But to then sell it, there's no way you're making
a profit.

Speaker 2 (01:35:39):
No, it's just someone who has an over abundance. They
had a good year.

Speaker 7 (01:35:45):
So now this is just adding to my my conspiracy
because you're not a good judge of what you're supposed
to be doing.

Speaker 9 (01:35:51):
Right.

Speaker 1 (01:35:52):
You overgrew, you overproduced.

Speaker 2 (01:35:54):
Or they thought that they maybe in years past they
didn't overproduce, and then this year. It was like, oh
my gosh, I can't believe it. I finally have a
good garden. Now there's not enough of me to eat
all of this, and I don't want to be wasteful
food bank. So yeah, that's that that too, mm hmm.

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But maybe a food bank can't accept it.

Speaker 1 (01:36:19):
Then you shouldn't. Right, Somebody texting and you're ruining fruit stands.
For one, I'm not trying to ruin it.

Speaker 7 (01:36:27):
I just take notice of very peculiar things that we
accept in society as normal.

Speaker 2 (01:36:33):
And listen, I'm very trusting, So I'll take from a
fruit stand all day every day. As I'm trusting, I
will do that. I will look for them.

Speaker 1 (01:36:42):
And I don't know if me not being trusting is
a good character trait or you trusting is a good care.
I don't know which one's right. You probably could talk
both ways.

Speaker 2 (01:36:51):
No, I don't wind me up in someone's trunk someday,
I'm sure and cut up in a million pieces.

Speaker 3 (01:36:57):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (01:36:57):
So, like I'm reading a book and it all started.
I was driving down a road. It was a rural road,
all gravel, and there was a man on the side
of the road. I pulled over cars weren't going by
for miles. And what did I do? I took food
from him.

Speaker 1 (01:37:16):
We say don't take food from strangers, and here we
are buying food from strangers because you think there's some
bale of security there.

Speaker 2 (01:37:23):
No, I have my limits, like I don't pick up
hitch hikers things like that. I worked with a guy
who did do that on a rag. Oh yeah, picked
up pitch hikers. Someone who worked here used to do that. Yeah, well,
it bothered me. One day he said that he was
traveling down the road with his toddler in the back
seat and he picked up a hitchhiker, a male who

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was probably in his late thirties early forties. And I said,
what possessed you to pick up a hitchhiker with your
child in the back seat? And he said, wow, he
had a veterans hat on.

Speaker 1 (01:38:04):
He was that good will.

Speaker 2 (01:38:05):
That's why I said, he could have gotten it out
of a garbage can, for all you.

Speaker 1 (01:38:09):
Know, killed a veteran. He took it exactly.

Speaker 2 (01:38:13):
It bothered me so much. I was so I said,
you put your child in danger. You're toddler.

Speaker 7 (01:38:18):
Let me ask you this, and why is that so
much more dangerous than stopping on the side of the
road and buying food from a stranger.

Speaker 2 (01:38:24):
Because it's just food and I'm not eating it right
then and there. I'm going to take it home and.

Speaker 1 (01:38:28):
Wash it doesn't mean it can't be contaminated on the
inside or or.

Speaker 2 (01:38:33):
Like I've seen in uh, the television show that I've
been watching, The Cape Fear, he injects stuff into an
apple like snow white, I guess poison, and so that
could happen too.

Speaker 1 (01:38:47):
I'm just saying, like, how far is the distance of
crazy from that guy? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, to stopping and
buying food from a stranger that you don't know. Yeah,
because you just you just have this expectation that they're
hard workers, because they're perceived to be farmers.

Speaker 2 (01:39:02):
Yeah, I guess I feel because I'm probably I'm most
likely not the only one buying from the Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:39:07):
Have you ever stood in line? Have you ever stood
in line with the guy in the truck? Right?

Speaker 10 (01:39:13):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:39:13):
No?

Speaker 7 (01:39:16):
No, you don't usually like the only one and he's
just glad to see somebody, or is just sleep in
the cab of the truck.

Speaker 1 (01:39:24):
It's just a weird thing that we do.

Speaker 2 (01:39:26):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:39:27):
I love farm fresh tomatoes and farm fresh corn and
all squashes and so I love all that. Yeah, and
I have bought stuff from the side of the road,
but when you think about it in a context, you're
like buying food from strangers.

Speaker 2 (01:39:39):
Yeah, we're trusting people.

Speaker 1 (01:39:42):
Gotta take a break, we'll be back.

Speaker 3 (01:39:44):
That's rush.

Speaker 4 (01:39:44):
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