September 2, 2026 • 27 mins
There are normal first-date questions... and then there are whatever Adam was asking Brooke. She tried to go along with it until the questions became suspiciously specific. Once she figured out what might really be going on, the entire vibe of the date changed.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Star 101.3. It's Marcus in the morning. It's 5.59. That's
what's up. Good morning. It's Wednesday. Producer Taylor is here.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
How's it going? So I told you I brought in
about 17 pounds of leftover gluten-free lasagna.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
I'm so excited for this.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
That was my big project yesterday. But what I didn't
tell you was my daughter was upset with me because
she was trying to bake at the same time I
was trying to make dinner. And I told her, I said,
you know, the window for making dinner is like three
30 to five. Yeah. I don't know why you're coming
in here. You already listen. I literally said, so she
was trying to make muffins. I said, we're not all
(00:39):
12 year old girls. We can't all survive on muffins
for dinner.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Anyway, the part I didn't tell you was she specifically
sent over to pumpkin spice muffins. One of them has
your name on it.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
I'm so excited.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
And I'll tell you what, they're really good.
Speaker 4 (00:55):
Really?
Speaker 1 (00:56):
She did a really good job. I was really impressed.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
I don't doubt that at all. I'm very excited for this.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
The fact that they have just sat overnight, like I
ate them right out of the oven. But now that
they've had a time to just kind of chill out
a little bit.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Oh, well, tell her I said thank you.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
I will. I will. But I got one of those.
So I got that for you. We got lasagna. There's
chicken soup in the fridge.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
It's a great day. It's a great day to be me.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
A lot of people getting married this month, next month
because the weather is so lovely. What does it cost
to get married? In these United States, most expensive, less expensive,
I will tell you the average cost is $ 34, 000. Okay.
For a wedding.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
I'm pretty sure Kim K's wedding, the first one, no,
the second one, sorry, was like a million.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
I don't know how to tell you this. She's not average.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
I know, but I was just telling you.
Speaker 5 (01:44):
That.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
That's what my reference to it is.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
It's hilarious because this number comes out every single year.
And when I first started this show 13 years ago,
the number was 25.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Okay, so we've gone up 10K.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Now we're at 34. The most expensive state to get
married in is New Jersey. What?
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Really?
Speaker 1 (02:01):
$ 57, 000 a year.
Speaker 5 (02:03):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
In fact, these are all East Coast. The top five
is New Jersey at 57, Rhode Island at 51, New
York at 49, Vermont at 47. Vermont? I've been to Vermont.
It's fine. It's like living in a national park. Well, okay.
I don't know. Number five, Massachusetts. Number six, Connecticut. Again,
(02:27):
all East Coast. And then finally at number seven, you
get to California at 39K. Hmm.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
That's shocking to me.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
I don't know why I'm upset about not being the
most expensive state in the union for once. What did
we spend? Our spend was 27.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
And this was 2000 and.
Be careful, Marcus. 2012. 2012. Nice.
Speaker 4 (02:50):
Good job.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
And I pulled every favor that I had.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
Like literally the DJ was on trade. We didn't decorate
at all because the venue was already decorated. Because I'll
tell you what, like I realize it's an industry. It's
a business. But I'm not going to call weddings industry
kind of scammy. But boy, do they tug at your emotions.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Oh, for sure.
Speaker 5 (03:14):
God.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
That's why people are eloping now. They just elope and
have like a party.
Speaker 5 (03:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Is that going to be your move? Are you going
destination wedding? I know you've given it zero thought probably.
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
I don't know what I want to do yet. Honestly,
it really depends on who I end up with. But
for something my aunt did, which was really smart. She
was like, I had a destination wedding because I knew
the people that I didn't want to go wouldn't be there.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
I was like, smart.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
I've always told people like, have a massive guest list.
Tell everybody you're going to Thailand.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
Right.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
20 people will show up. And everybody still has to
buy you something pretty.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
And it will be vibes. Like the people that show
up will show out.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
The other crazy notion is, is that there will be
people there that you didn't even expect to come. And
there will be people that you think you're right or
dies that won't show up. It's kind of weddings and
funerals are kind of the same thing.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
I've noticed that.
Speaker 5 (04:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
So most expensive state to get married in New Jersey
at 57 K least expensive South Dakota, uh, At 21K.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
That doesn't shock me.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Like the swing is crazy.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
I wonder where Hawaii is.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Let me see. Not even in the top 10 most expensive.
That's wild.
Speaker 4 (04:24):
Right?
Speaker 2 (04:24):
You would think that it is.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
You know what you need to do? We'll finish strong here.
Go get married in Utah. It's the third least expensive.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Well, there'll probably be a line.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
What do you mean?
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Because everyone's getting married.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Oh, that's what they do there.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
That's what they do there.
Speaker 5 (04:40):
I forgot.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
I forgot.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
You don't understand.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
I literally just went to Utah this last weekend, and
most of my cousins are younger than me, and they
have kids already.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Oh, yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Wife, family, house.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
We all know why.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
I'm like, dang, you guys are way more put together
than me. All right.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
I saw this crazy article. Women share the one line
that made them end the relationship. I'll start strong. According
to this lady, her boyfriend said, Can you do me
a favor and cry a little quieter? I'm trying to sleep.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
That's so messed up.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Oh, my God.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
No, I can't. If anything, I'm going to cry louder.
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Let's see. A group of attracted women walk by in.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
A bar.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
My husband to the whole table. He said, growing up,
I thought I was going to marry someone who looked
like one of them. Looks at me, shrugs. Guess I
was wrong. Wow. Are these even real?
Speaker 2 (05:37):
Divorce babes.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Divorce babes. There was a free pumpkin patch. I asked
my man if we could stop by on the last
day it was open. It was free. Did I mention that?
Only 10 minutes away. We had no other plans. He
said no. I asked him why. He said, I feel
like you get your way too much. And I can't
let you think you're going to get everything you want
all the time. I ask again, are these even real?
(06:04):
I was asking producer Taylor to come up with something
crappy that one of her ex-boyfriends ever said to her.
But then I proceeded to talk incessantly. And so she
couldn't think. Did you come up with anything?
Speaker 2 (06:15):
I did. I have a few.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Okay, good. What do you got?
Speaker 3 (06:18):
Well, one of them told me that he was engaged.
So that ended that relationship real quick.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
Does that follow the heading of crappy things your boyfriend
could say to? I guess so. I guess it does.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
Yeah, my boyfriend told me he was engaged.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
To someone else.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Someone told me one time that my mom was a
bad mother.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
One of your boyfriends said this?
Speaker 2 (06:40):
Yeah. Actually, they said it to her. Oh, dear God.
And to me.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Are they still alive?
Speaker 4 (06:46):
No.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Just kidding. No, it was over after that. No way
can you say that.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
And then there was one guy. I remember we were
playing one of those little card games or whatever.
Speaker 5 (06:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
And one of the things came up about having kids.
Speaker 5 (07:01):
Mm-hmm.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
And he literally said, oh, I wasn't going to tell
you that, but I do.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
That he has kids?
Speaker 4 (07:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
And I was like, what do you mean you weren't
going to tell me that?
Speaker 1 (07:10):
How do you not tell somebody you have kids?
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Right? I think it's because we were like relatively around
the same age. And this is when I was like 19.
So I get it, but I don't. I remember a
couple of bonehead things I've said to my wife. Now
we're still together. So these didn't quite end the relationship.
The first one was, We were sitting there having steaks
for dinner. I looked there and I said, and I quote, hey,
you should probably slow down and you're half my size.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
You should probably only eat half of that.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
Why would you say that?
Speaker 1 (07:36):
Oh, no. I wasn't that smart. Still not.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
What was going through your head?
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Stupidity.
Speaker 5 (07:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
Idiocy.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
The other thing I did was I brought home a
stand up vacuum. I said, hey, I got this for you.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
No, you did not.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Oh, yes.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
Marcus, what's wrong with you?
Speaker 1 (07:52):
And yet, still gave me a baby.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
I hope she's never touched it.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
No, she made me go out and get the dice.
She goes, really? For me? Say it again. To this day,
15 years later, I still get rolled for that one.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (08:08):
All right.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
The one thing someone said to you that made you
end the relationship. That's the assignment. The talkback is open.
In fact, frankly, it's open for anything you want to
discuss this morning. The rant you want to get off
your chest. Somebody's taking you off in traffic right now.
We'll take it. It's the little red microphone. If you're
streaming star one on one three right now, hit the button.
Let us know. Number one thing locally that you're waking
(08:35):
up to happen in the city. Somebody got trapped in
a garbage truck.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Yeah, I saw that on my way to work.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
I'm assuming they mean the back, not the cab.
Speaker 3 (08:45):
I don't, yeah, I think that that's what they mean, Marcus.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Did you really pass it on the way here?
Speaker 2 (08:49):
I did, yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Oh, wow, crazy. Everybody's okay. Got rescued. So thank you, SFFD,
for making it happen. Appreciate you. Miley Cyrus dropping a
new album. Producer Taylor is right about everything this morning.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
It's true.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
It's called Bass Persuades, dropping September 18th, a 10-track project,
including collabs with a few artists And then she's also
apparently going by Simply Miley for this era and will
perform two shows at the Hollywood Bowl, October 16th and 18th.
That's coming up. What kind of swagger do you have
(09:25):
to have that the show's coming up in like a
month or a month and a half and they haven't
even gone on sale and you know they're going to
sell out in five seconds?
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Because she never tours.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Is that the deal?
Speaker 4 (09:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
She said she's not touring like ever again. So the
only time you can catch her.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Oh, so this is a thing.
Speaker 5 (09:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
This is a fly-in.
Speaker 5 (09:42):
Okay. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
The other thing Taylor was right about is that Ariana Grande,
who just wrapped up her Eternal Sunshine tour at the
O2 Arena in London, she thanked her fans. She's taking
a break. She just changed lyrics to honor her new
old mans, Ricky.
Speaker 2 (09:58):
She did.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
So in thanksgiving. U, Next, she's been changing the Ricky lyric.
And this week in her final show, she changed it
to wrote some songs about Ricky, trying to make him
my last.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
She's trying.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
She's trying. I hope it's her last too, honestly, for
everybody's sake.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Hard to keep up sometimes.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
For real.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
Let's see. Rumors flying about Coachella 2027, Dua Lipa, and
Tame Impala reportedly being eyed as headliners.
Speaker 5 (10:29):
Nice.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
Is Tame Impala a headliner? I only know the one song.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
What's that one song?
Speaker 1 (10:34):
Is Dracula?
Speaker 5 (10:36):
Really?
Speaker 2 (10:36):
That's the only song? Yeah, he has way more music
than I have.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
Okay, so he could headline Coachella, no problem?
Speaker 2 (10:41):
I don't know about headline.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
I'm unking out right now. I think for some people
he can. I am unking out right now. Other artists
in the mix reportedly for Coachella. BTS, SZA, Oasis, Radiohead,
all being pursued. So we'll see what happens. Mariah Carey
says she's got more new music coming. When asked when,
she just said soon, dot, next year, period. So we'll
see what happens. Let's see. There was something else I
(11:05):
wanted to share and I completely left. Doesn't matter. Let's
go to Patricia Taylor's Daily Poll to wrap up. What
do you got?
Speaker 3 (11:11):
It is National World Coconut Day today. So we're asking,
how do you coconut? Is it pina colada, coconut shrimp,
a raw coconut, or coconut water?
Speaker 4 (11:21):
All that.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
But then if we go to Hawaii, I'm not truly
on vacation until I am at a roadside stand drinking
out of a coconut.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
So you do raw coconut.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Mm-hmm.
Speaker 2 (11:31):
There you go.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
Oh, I remember what I was going to say. I
just read that Pitbull is teaming up with Los Tucanas
del Norte to do a remix of this song.
Speaker 4 (11:40):
Hey!
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Can you imagine Mr. Worldwide on this track?
Speaker 2 (11:46):
That would be awesome, actually.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
It's going to be vibes. I'll keep you posted on that.
That is what's trending. It's Marcus in the morning. Let's
bring it back in. Second date update. We've got Adam
on the phone. Adam, good morning.
Speaker 5 (11:59):
Hey, how's it going?
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Doing very well. How are you holding up? Okay. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:04):
Weird.
Speaker 5 (12:05):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (12:05):
I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 1 (12:06):
Let's get into it. So her name is Brooke and
you guys are up in Marin. Was it dinner or
drinks in San Rafael? I can't remember. We just had drinks.
Speaker 5 (12:13):
We like, you know, it was like a bar, bar
food atmosphere, but like mostly just like drinks and meeting
in person.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
What's your cocktail? I'm curious.
Speaker 5 (12:21):
First date is, I'll go a margarita. I feel like
it's pretty low key.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
By the second date, it's a Long Island iced tea. No,
I don't know. Exactly.
Speaker 5 (12:30):
Yeah, I'm doing Jagerbomb too.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
Okay. Well, how did it go?
Speaker 5 (12:34):
Honestly, I thought it went well. I mean, like we
had good banter. I mean, we, we met on the app,
so like we had messaged quite a bit, met up,
had like two drinks, maybe nothing too crazy. And it
felt like we had like a good, good vibe going.
And then yeah, kind of just, just crickets now.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Okay. I've been asking this of late, but anything crazy happen?
Not that I know of.
Speaker 5 (12:56):
I mean, like I said, yeah, we were cool. And
she didn't, I never got like any feeling that she
wasn't interested or like something went wrong. I don't think
I said anything wrong. So I really have no idea.
I know she's ghosted.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
So let's call her and try to figure out how
the date went for her. Go ahead and mute your phone. Okay.
Here we go. This is Brooke. Brooke. This is Marcus
calling from star one Oh one three. Good morning.
Speaker 4 (13:25):
Good morning.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
I don't suppose. Oh, my God. You sound like my wife.
And you could have just texted me that. Good. Hi.
Speaker 4 (13:39):
I'm sorry. You're going to have to catch me up
to speed. I wasn't.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
I don't know what.
Speaker 4 (13:43):
Why you're calling.
Speaker 1 (13:43):
So I do the morning show on Star 101.3, which
is a radio station here in San Francisco. I'm going
to guess you don't listen. And that's fine. But I'm
wondering if you have a second to be on the
air with me. I'll explain.
Speaker 4 (13:57):
Yes, please explain. And then I'll let you know if
I have a moment.
Speaker 5 (13:59):
Sure.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
So we do a thing on the station called Second
Date Update. And literally, if somebody goes on a first
date and then they get ghosted, they can call me
and then I will call their date just frankly to
see what they did wrong. Or if something went sideways
or maybe the person who ghosted is just, I don't know,
busy or something. So I got your number from a
(14:20):
guy who says he's been on a date with you
recently and he enjoyed himself. He'd like to take you
out again, but he's feeling like maybe you're disappearing on him.
His name is Adam. So I don't know if you
remember your date with Adam.
Speaker 2 (14:33):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (14:34):
Are you in San Rafael?
Speaker 5 (14:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (14:36):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (14:37):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
So it is you. Did you ghost on Adam?
Speaker 4 (14:40):
Yeah, I did.
Speaker 5 (14:42):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (14:43):
Did he make it weird?
Speaker 4 (14:46):
Yes, he did.
Speaker 5 (14:47):
Okay. All right.
Speaker 4 (14:47):
Let me backtrack.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
This is a lot. I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (14:50):
No, that's okay. Good morning.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
Thank you. Good morning.
Speaker 5 (14:55):
Yes.
Speaker 4 (14:55):
I went out on a date with a man named
Adam just recently. Just drinks, the normal meetup, make sure
that they're a real person thing.
Speaker 5 (15:04):
Right.
Speaker 4 (15:05):
Everything seemed to be fine and normal. He was nice.
Speaker 1 (15:09):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (15:09):
Here's where it gets weird. Just like any date, you
ask questions.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
That's normal. Mm-hmm.
Speaker 4 (15:16):
But his started to get, like, weirdly specific.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
Like, how do you mean?
Speaker 4 (15:20):
So it starts off normal with his, can you dance?
Speaker 5 (15:24):
Mm-hmm.
Speaker 4 (15:24):
Like, yeah. Then he starts asking more things like, well,
do you own anything formal? It's kind of weird, but
how are you around drunk relatives? And I'm like, there's
no context here. That's what started to get weird. I'm like,
why are you asking these questions one after the other
with not explaining why or, you know, why that interests
(15:45):
you about me? Finally, after he started asking me about
food allergies, I asked him and he actually admitted to this.
His sister is getting married. He had an ex that
was supposed to be a plus one. So he needs
a wedding date for his sister's wedding.
Speaker 5 (16:04):
Ah.
Speaker 1 (16:05):
Yes.
Speaker 4 (16:06):
So rather than just tell me that, he made it weird.
And I just, I didn't like that. I don't know.
He made it weird. And it just, it just, it
all led to making me really uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (16:18):
Okay. Speaking of potentially making it weird, I do have
to let you know that. So Adam is listening right now.
He's actually on the phone.
Speaker 4 (16:27):
I mean, could this get any weirder? It's already weird.
Speaker 1 (16:30):
So, all right, let's do it. Can I bring him on?
Speaker 4 (16:33):
Might as well, right here.
Speaker 5 (16:34):
Adam, I have.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
I have questions now. Are you there?
Speaker 5 (16:38):
Yeah, I'm here. I don't know. I feel a little unfair.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
How do you figure?
Speaker 5 (16:42):
I mean, I thought we had a good connection. I
really did like her. And just the whole wedding thing
was like a bonus. I had already thought that like
we were a good match. And I thought, hey, cool.
It'd be cool to bring her along. It wasn't to
like make anyone jealous.
Speaker 4 (16:56):
You didn't make it seem like you liked me. You
were checking things off. that were going to be somebody
you wanted to bring to a wedding after you don't
have your girlfriend. Like, dude, I'm a chick. I see
right through this stuff. And I felt like you were,
I don't know, like you were quizzing me. Like it
was a test, not a meetup. It was weird.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
And I don't know.
Speaker 5 (17:16):
I thought the questions were fun getting to know you questions,
as well as seeing if you wanted to go on
a date to a wedding.
Speaker 1 (17:23):
I know it's a weird first.
Speaker 5 (17:25):
Or second date.
Speaker 1 (17:26):
In a week, though?
Speaker 4 (17:30):
Can I jump ahead? What were your plans for the
sleeping arrangements?
Speaker 1 (17:37):
That's a fair question.
Speaker 4 (17:38):
What were you thinking about the accommodations?
Speaker 1 (17:43):
What is the hotel situation, Adam?
Speaker 5 (17:45):
I mean, I did book a hotel room. It's one king,
but there's a couch.
Speaker 2 (17:51):
No, no, no.
Speaker 4 (17:53):
I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
Are you following this Dajon love story? It's crazy.
Speaker 2 (17:59):
Who?
Speaker 1 (18:00):
This is the guy who faked being a 49er to
scam 1.3 million plus dollars out of 20, at least
26 women that he dated online. Some of these stories
are wild. And it's honestly from the cheap seats. It's
easy to make fun. It's easy to laugh.
Speaker 4 (18:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:20):
But he was really good at it. I did a
deep dive on some of the stuff that he did. So,
for example, the number one story that hit the Chronicle
is this lady named Dominique who lives in Manteca. She
said that he popped up on Hinge. He claimed to
play for the 49ers, showed himself decked out in gear.
A video from inside the team locker room. She said
she was skeptical, so she pulled a tailor and she
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started doing research. Checked his Instagram. He's got 85,000 followers.
And then they FaceTimed. He spoke from inside a fancy
apartment he said was in Walnut Creek. More photos of houses,
fancy cars, bank statements. Left really strangely detailed info about
being a 49er, even though she didn't ask. And then...
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She sees his face pop up and all this stuff.
You're seeing this around the news. There is a Facebook
page called Victims of Dajon Love that has at least
80 people in it.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
Oh, gosh.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
And like I said, he has reportedly scammed over a
million dollars from at least 26 women. Now, I asked
Taylor off the air if you've ever been catfished on
a date or whatever, and you said you do pretty
good research.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
I really do try my best not to get catfished.
Speaker 3 (19:29):
I don't really do dating apps that often, but when
I do, I feel like, You kind of have to
go the extra mile and make sure that you FaceTime
them beforehand, you know, check out all the social media accounts.
Speaker 2 (19:41):
Like even if you have to go check out like
a family member just to like verify.
Speaker 1 (19:45):
I'm going to tell you something wild because this guy,
Dajon Love, so he was, you know, started dating. a
lady in Oregon talking about he's a millionaire, he's an investor, properties, blah, blah, blah, whoop-de-whoop.
And then she agreed to a date. He showed up
at her house to take her to the movies in
a neon green Lamborghini.
Speaker 2 (20:04):
Okay. So I'm confused. How did he steal money from people?
Speaker 1 (20:09):
What he would do is he would start talking about
being in a relationship, love bombing, blah, blah, blah. He
would gain their trust. And then he would be like,
let's buy a property together. I'm an investor. Ten grand.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
No.
Speaker 1 (20:21):
Five grand.
Speaker 2 (20:22):
Why does he need you for that? He's a rich
football player.
Speaker 1 (20:25):
He's doing it for you. He wants you in on it. No.
I'm not doing it for me. I'm doing it for you.
Speaker 2 (20:30):
No.
Speaker 3 (20:31):
Millions.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
Unbelievable. So how do you not get scammed? I looked
it up. There's some pro tips here.
Speaker 2 (20:38):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
Number one red flag, fast-paced love bombing. They start telling
you all the things that you want to hear.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
Well, that's what love bombing is. That's where the term
came from. You have to be very careful. If someone
tells you that they love you in the first month,
it's a red flag.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
Early demands for cash or account info. That's an easy one, right?
Speaker 2 (21:00):
I don't know. Honestly, I don't give.
Speaker 3 (21:03):
money away like that like if you need something i'll
buy you lunch but i'm not gonna give you 20 bucks.
Speaker 1 (21:08):
For lunch in a million years i could never look
a woman in the face and be like i just
need a thousand bucks to get by i.
Speaker 2 (21:13):
Just can't do it it's broke boy behavior.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
Here's one that i thought was really good advice that
we'll wrap with uh harmless chit chat gathering personal data
they ask you about your background your job your friends
your family just they're just chatting.
Speaker 2 (21:29):
Yeah, they're just like, oh, yeah, what happens to be,
you know, your first pet's name?
Speaker 1 (21:32):
What are the last four digits for social?
Speaker 2 (21:34):
Yeah, your mom's maiden.
Speaker 1 (21:37):
Name. Don't reveal anything in the early stages of a
romance and ask to meet in person if you feel
that spark. It's just so easy to be casual with
somebody that you're really into, I guess.
Speaker 2 (21:48):
Yeah, I could see that. This reminds me of the
Tinder swindler. Like kind of the same vibe.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
Same kind of deal. Be careful out there.
Speaker 5 (21:56):
It's time for good news, Bay Area.
Speaker 1 (22:00):
So we give you good news twice a morning, 740
and 840. This is out of Southern California as a
couple welcomed what they are calling a very rare set
of triplets on dad's birthday. So these are naturally conceived triplets.
They were four weeks early and they were born on
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August 18th. So just a few days ago also happened
to be dad's birthday. Greatest birthday gift ever. The triplets,
two being identical twins, have a combined weight. This is
the preemie thing, and I can resonate with this being
a preemie. The combined weight of the three babies was
19 pounds, just a few pounds shy of the Guinness
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World Record for heaviest triplets at birth. Excuse me, for preemies.
Newborn's mom, totally healthy, heading home three days later, On
Dad's birthday was the birth. Again, what a great birthday present.
My good news. It's Marcus in the morning. It's time
to play the Bay's favorite trivia games called What You
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Know About That. Brought to you by Cameron's Pub in
Half Moon Bay. Come through for the weekend. It's 30
minutes from the city, 30 minutes from San Jose. Say
good morning to our contestants. We take you to the
Sunset District here in San Francisco and say hi to Paul.
Good morning, Paul. Good morning, Marcus Taylor. We love you guys.
What's up, Paul? Who's in the car with you?
Speaker 4 (23:18):
My kid, Sebastian.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
What's up, Sebastian? Well, welcome to the show, you guys.
Are you guys Inner Sunset or Outer Sunset, Paul?
Speaker 3 (23:25):
We are at Outer Sunset at AP Giannini right now.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
Oh, there you go. Let's go, Jaguars.
Speaker 5 (23:30):
Awesome.
Speaker 1 (23:31):
Don't forget, tonight, Taylor does trivia in the Outer Sunset.
Speaker 2 (23:34):
I do, at Riptide.
Speaker 1 (23:36):
Yeah, maybe we'll see you there one.
Speaker 5 (23:37):
Day, Paul.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
I don't know. Oh, yeah? 7 o'clock. You can play
for free.
Speaker 2 (23:40):
All right, we'll be there.
Speaker 1 (23:41):
I'll let you grow. All right, let's go to Fremont.
Say what's up to Jay. Good morning, Jay. Good morning,
Mike and Taylor. How are you? What's going on this morning?
Speaker 5 (23:48):
I just dropped off my wife in Fremont, bud. I'm
going to start my work.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
What's the wife's name? Let's say hi. Perfect. Thanks for
being on. Let's get started. Game's super simple. It's five
trivia questions, 50 seconds to answer them all. You yell
out pass if you don't know an answer. We'll come
back to it if there's time. Okay, fellas? All right.
All right, so Jay goes on hold in Fremont, and
we start with Paul and Sebastian there in the outer sunset. Now, Seabass,
you know the rules. No helping, right?
Speaker 5 (24:13):
Yep.
Speaker 1 (24:13):
Okay, bud. Here we go. Question number one. Which cereal
has Tony the Tiger as its mascot? Cross the plate.
How many color cards are used by referees in an
official soccer match?
Speaker 4 (24:28):
Two.
Speaker 1 (24:29):
What state was 49ers owner Jed York recently arrested in? Ohio.
Other than, how do you say that word?
Speaker 2 (24:37):
Oh, echidnas.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
Other than echidnas, I almost said enchiladas. What is the
only mammal that lays eggs? Platypus. How many calories are
there in one gram of protein? 120.
Speaker 5 (24:51):
120. All right.
Speaker 1 (24:57):
Paul, great job. You had an answer for everything. He
goes on hold in the sunset. He should come out
to Riptide just for the enthusiasm.
Speaker 2 (25:02):
I know, right? I love it.
Speaker 1 (25:04):
Honestly, Paul's at a 10. Oh, yeah. Hang on, Paul.
Paul goes on hold in the sunset, and we pick
up Jay in Fremont.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
Question number one.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
Which cereal has Tony the Tiger as its mascot?
Speaker 5 (25:19):
Pause. Pause.
Speaker 3 (25:21):
How many color cards are used by referees in an
official soccer match? What state was 49ers owner Jed York
recently arrested in? Other than echidnas, what is the only
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mammal that lays eggs? How many calories are in one
gram of protein?
Speaker 1 (26:02):
Zero. Just under the wire.
Speaker 3 (26:04):
Hang on a minute.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
All right. Paul comes back in the sunset. See how
he did against Jay in Fremont. Question number one. Which
cereal has Tony the Tiger as its mascot?
Speaker 2 (26:13):
Paul knew that that was Frosted Flakes.
Speaker 1 (26:15):
All right, points on the board. Next question. How many
color cards are used by referees in an official soccer match?
Speaker 2 (26:21):
Paul said two. Jay said three. The correct answer is two.
Speaker 1 (26:26):
Number three. What state was 49ers owner Jed York recently
arrested in?
Speaker 2 (26:31):
Jay said Florida. Paul said Ohio.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
The correct answer is Ohio.
Speaker 1 (26:36):
I would have guessed despair. Stop. Other than echidnas, what
is the only mammal that lays eggs?
Speaker 2 (26:42):
Paul knew that that was a platypus.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
And finally, how many calories are in one gram of protein?
Speaker 2 (26:48):
Paul said 120. Jay said zero.
Speaker 3 (26:52):
The answer we were looking for was four calories. That
brings our final score to four to zero. Paul is
our winner.
Speaker 1 (26:57):
You've got that gift card for Dave and Buster's. A
hundred bucks. Congratulations. Yeah, let's go. What are you talking about?
Speaker 3 (27:04):
Play with us again weekday mornings at 8.05 a.m.
Speaker 1 (27:07):
And add to what you know about that podcast as
a preset on our iHeart app and never miss an episode.
It is Marcus in the morning. I'm getting out of here.
Thank you for being on with us this morning. Appreciate you.
It's going to start warming up a little bit, so
the weather should be super nice. I suggest lunch outside.
Also suggesting that you set a reminder to wake up
with us again tomorrow morning. Lots of fun. Lots of winning.
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Second date update after 7. Hopefully I'll talk to you then.
Have an awesome day.
Star 101.3. It's Marcus in the morning. It's 5.59. That's
what's up. Good morning. It's Wednesday. Producer Taylor is here.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Good morning.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
How's it going? So I told you I brought in
about 17 pounds of leftover gluten-free lasagna.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
I'm so excited for this.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
That was my big project yesterday. But what I didn't
tell you was my daughter was upset with me because
she was trying to bake at the same time I
was trying to make dinner. And I told her, I said,
you know, the window for making dinner is like three
30 to five. Yeah. I don't know why you're coming
in here. You already listen. I literally said, so she
was trying to make muffins. I said, we're not all
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12 year old girls. We can't all survive on muffins
for dinner.
Speaker 3 (00:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Anyway, the part I didn't tell you was she specifically
sent over to pumpkin spice muffins. One of them has
your name on it.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
I'm so excited.
Speaker 1 (00:53):
And I'll tell you what, they're really good.
Speaker 4 (00:55):
Really?
Speaker 1 (00:56):
She did a really good job. I was really impressed.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
I don't doubt that at all. I'm very excited for this.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
The fact that they have just sat overnight, like I
ate them right out of the oven. But now that
they've had a time to just kind of chill out
a little bit.
Speaker 2 (01:08):
Oh, well, tell her I said thank you.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
I will. I will. But I got one of those.
So I got that for you. We got lasagna. There's
chicken soup in the fridge.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
It's a great day. It's a great day to be me.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
A lot of people getting married this month, next month
because the weather is so lovely. What does it cost
to get married? In these United States, most expensive, less expensive,
I will tell you the average cost is $ 34, 000. Okay.
For a wedding.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
I'm pretty sure Kim K's wedding, the first one, no,
the second one, sorry, was like a million.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
I don't know how to tell you this. She's not average.
Speaker 2 (01:41):
I know, but I was just telling you.
Speaker 5 (01:44):
That.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
That's what my reference to it is.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
It's hilarious because this number comes out every single year.
And when I first started this show 13 years ago,
the number was 25.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Okay, so we've gone up 10K.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Now we're at 34. The most expensive state to get
married in is New Jersey. What?
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Really?
Speaker 1 (02:01):
$ 57, 000 a year.
Speaker 5 (02:03):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
In fact, these are all East Coast. The top five
is New Jersey at 57, Rhode Island at 51, New
York at 49, Vermont at 47. Vermont? I've been to Vermont.
It's fine. It's like living in a national park. Well, okay.
I don't know. Number five, Massachusetts. Number six, Connecticut. Again,
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all East Coast. And then finally at number seven, you
get to California at 39K. Hmm.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
That's shocking to me.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
I don't know why I'm upset about not being the
most expensive state in the union for once. What did
we spend? Our spend was 27.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
And this was 2000 and.
Be careful, Marcus. 2012. 2012. Nice.
Speaker 4 (02:50):
Good job.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
And I pulled every favor that I had.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
Like literally the DJ was on trade. We didn't decorate
at all because the venue was already decorated. Because I'll
tell you what, like I realize it's an industry. It's
a business. But I'm not going to call weddings industry
kind of scammy. But boy, do they tug at your emotions.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Oh, for sure.
Speaker 5 (03:14):
God.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
That's why people are eloping now. They just elope and
have like a party.
Speaker 5 (03:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Is that going to be your move? Are you going
destination wedding? I know you've given it zero thought probably.
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
I don't know what I want to do yet. Honestly,
it really depends on who I end up with. But
for something my aunt did, which was really smart. She
was like, I had a destination wedding because I knew
the people that I didn't want to go wouldn't be there.
Speaker 4 (03:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
I was like, smart.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
I've always told people like, have a massive guest list.
Tell everybody you're going to Thailand.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
Right.
Speaker 1 (03:43):
20 people will show up. And everybody still has to
buy you something pretty.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
And it will be vibes. Like the people that show
up will show out.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
The other crazy notion is, is that there will be
people there that you didn't even expect to come. And
there will be people that you think you're right or
dies that won't show up. It's kind of weddings and
funerals are kind of the same thing.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
I've noticed that.
Speaker 5 (04:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
So most expensive state to get married in New Jersey
at 57 K least expensive South Dakota, uh, At 21K.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
That doesn't shock me.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Like the swing is crazy.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
I wonder where Hawaii is.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
Let me see. Not even in the top 10 most expensive.
That's wild.
Speaker 4 (04:24):
Right?
Speaker 2 (04:24):
You would think that it is.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
You know what you need to do? We'll finish strong here.
Go get married in Utah. It's the third least expensive.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Well, there'll probably be a line.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
What do you mean?
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Because everyone's getting married.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Oh, that's what they do there.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
That's what they do there.
Speaker 5 (04:40):
I forgot.
Speaker 1 (04:40):
I forgot.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
You don't understand.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
I literally just went to Utah this last weekend, and
most of my cousins are younger than me, and they
have kids already.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
Oh, yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
Wife, family, house.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
We all know why.
Speaker 3 (04:54):
I'm like, dang, you guys are way more put together
than me. All right.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
I saw this crazy article. Women share the one line
that made them end the relationship. I'll start strong. According
to this lady, her boyfriend said, Can you do me
a favor and cry a little quieter? I'm trying to sleep.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
That's so messed up.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Oh, my God.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
No, I can't. If anything, I'm going to cry louder.
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Let's see. A group of attracted women walk by in.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
A bar.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
My husband to the whole table. He said, growing up,
I thought I was going to marry someone who looked
like one of them. Looks at me, shrugs. Guess I
was wrong. Wow. Are these even real?
Speaker 2 (05:37):
Divorce babes.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
Divorce babes. There was a free pumpkin patch. I asked
my man if we could stop by on the last
day it was open. It was free. Did I mention that?
Only 10 minutes away. We had no other plans. He
said no. I asked him why. He said, I feel
like you get your way too much. And I can't
let you think you're going to get everything you want
all the time. I ask again, are these even real?
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I was asking producer Taylor to come up with something
crappy that one of her ex-boyfriends ever said to her.
But then I proceeded to talk incessantly. And so she
couldn't think. Did you come up with anything?
Speaker 2 (06:15):
I did. I have a few.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Okay, good. What do you got?
Speaker 3 (06:18):
Well, one of them told me that he was engaged.
So that ended that relationship real quick.
Speaker 1 (06:25):
Does that follow the heading of crappy things your boyfriend
could say to? I guess so. I guess it does.
Speaker 2 (06:30):
Yeah, my boyfriend told me he was engaged.
Speaker 1 (06:33):
To someone else.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
Someone told me one time that my mom was a
bad mother.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
One of your boyfriends said this?
Speaker 2 (06:40):
Yeah. Actually, they said it to her. Oh, dear God.
And to me.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
Are they still alive?
Speaker 4 (06:46):
No.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Just kidding. No, it was over after that. No way
can you say that.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
And then there was one guy. I remember we were
playing one of those little card games or whatever.
Speaker 5 (06:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
And one of the things came up about having kids.
Speaker 5 (07:01):
Mm-hmm.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
And he literally said, oh, I wasn't going to tell
you that, but I do.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
That he has kids?
Speaker 4 (07:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
And I was like, what do you mean you weren't
going to tell me that?
Speaker 1 (07:10):
How do you not tell somebody you have kids?
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Right? I think it's because we were like relatively around
the same age. And this is when I was like 19.
So I get it, but I don't. I remember a
couple of bonehead things I've said to my wife. Now
we're still together. So these didn't quite end the relationship.
The first one was, We were sitting there having steaks
for dinner. I looked there and I said, and I quote, hey,
you should probably slow down and you're half my size.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
You should probably only eat half of that.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
Why would you say that?
Speaker 1 (07:36):
Oh, no. I wasn't that smart. Still not.
Speaker 2 (07:40):
What was going through your head?
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Stupidity.
Speaker 5 (07:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:42):
Idiocy.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
The other thing I did was I brought home a
stand up vacuum. I said, hey, I got this for you.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
No, you did not.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Oh, yes.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
Marcus, what's wrong with you?
Speaker 1 (07:52):
And yet, still gave me a baby.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
I hope she's never touched it.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
No, she made me go out and get the dice.
She goes, really? For me? Say it again. To this day,
15 years later, I still get rolled for that one.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (08:08):
All right.
Speaker 1 (08:10):
The one thing someone said to you that made you
end the relationship. That's the assignment. The talkback is open.
In fact, frankly, it's open for anything you want to
discuss this morning. The rant you want to get off
your chest. Somebody's taking you off in traffic right now.
We'll take it. It's the little red microphone. If you're
streaming star one on one three right now, hit the button.
Let us know. Number one thing locally that you're waking
(08:35):
up to happen in the city. Somebody got trapped in
a garbage truck.
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Yeah, I saw that on my way to work.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
I'm assuming they mean the back, not the cab.
Speaker 3 (08:45):
I don't, yeah, I think that that's what they mean, Marcus.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Did you really pass it on the way here?
Speaker 2 (08:49):
I did, yeah.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Oh, wow, crazy. Everybody's okay. Got rescued. So thank you, SFFD,
for making it happen. Appreciate you. Miley Cyrus dropping a
new album. Producer Taylor is right about everything this morning.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
It's true.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
It's called Bass Persuades, dropping September 18th, a 10-track project,
including collabs with a few artists And then she's also
apparently going by Simply Miley for this era and will
perform two shows at the Hollywood Bowl, October 16th and 18th.
That's coming up. What kind of swagger do you have
(09:25):
to have that the show's coming up in like a
month or a month and a half and they haven't
even gone on sale and you know they're going to
sell out in five seconds?
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Because she never tours.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Is that the deal?
Speaker 4 (09:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (09:35):
She said she's not touring like ever again. So the
only time you can catch her.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Oh, so this is a thing.
Speaker 5 (09:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
This is a fly-in.
Speaker 5 (09:42):
Okay. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
The other thing Taylor was right about is that Ariana Grande,
who just wrapped up her Eternal Sunshine tour at the
O2 Arena in London, she thanked her fans. She's taking
a break. She just changed lyrics to honor her new
old mans, Ricky.
Speaker 2 (09:58):
She did.
Speaker 3 (09:59):
So in thanksgiving. U, Next, she's been changing the Ricky lyric.
And this week in her final show, she changed it
to wrote some songs about Ricky, trying to make him
my last.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
She's trying.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
She's trying. I hope it's her last too, honestly, for
everybody's sake.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
Hard to keep up sometimes.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
For real.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
Let's see. Rumors flying about Coachella 2027, Dua Lipa, and
Tame Impala reportedly being eyed as headliners.
Speaker 5 (10:29):
Nice.
Speaker 1 (10:30):
Is Tame Impala a headliner? I only know the one song.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
What's that one song?
Speaker 1 (10:34):
Is Dracula?
Speaker 5 (10:36):
Really?
Speaker 2 (10:36):
That's the only song? Yeah, he has way more music
than I have.
Speaker 1 (10:39):
Okay, so he could headline Coachella, no problem?
Speaker 2 (10:41):
I don't know about headline.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
I'm unking out right now. I think for some people
he can. I am unking out right now. Other artists
in the mix reportedly for Coachella. BTS, SZA, Oasis, Radiohead,
all being pursued. So we'll see what happens. Mariah Carey
says she's got more new music coming. When asked when,
she just said soon, dot, next year, period. So we'll
see what happens. Let's see. There was something else I
(11:05):
wanted to share and I completely left. Doesn't matter. Let's
go to Patricia Taylor's Daily Poll to wrap up. What
do you got?
Speaker 3 (11:11):
It is National World Coconut Day today. So we're asking,
how do you coconut? Is it pina colada, coconut shrimp,
a raw coconut, or coconut water?
Speaker 4 (11:21):
All that.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
But then if we go to Hawaii, I'm not truly
on vacation until I am at a roadside stand drinking
out of a coconut.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
So you do raw coconut.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Mm-hmm.
Speaker 2 (11:31):
There you go.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
Oh, I remember what I was going to say. I
just read that Pitbull is teaming up with Los Tucanas
del Norte to do a remix of this song.
Speaker 4 (11:40):
Hey!
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Can you imagine Mr. Worldwide on this track?
Speaker 2 (11:46):
That would be awesome, actually.
Speaker 1 (11:48):
It's going to be vibes. I'll keep you posted on that.
That is what's trending. It's Marcus in the morning. Let's
bring it back in. Second date update. We've got Adam
on the phone. Adam, good morning.
Speaker 5 (11:59):
Hey, how's it going?
Speaker 1 (12:00):
Doing very well. How are you holding up? Okay. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:04):
Weird.
Speaker 5 (12:05):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (12:05):
I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 1 (12:06):
Let's get into it. So her name is Brooke and
you guys are up in Marin. Was it dinner or
drinks in San Rafael? I can't remember. We just had drinks.
Speaker 5 (12:13):
We like, you know, it was like a bar, bar
food atmosphere, but like mostly just like drinks and meeting
in person.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
What's your cocktail? I'm curious.
Speaker 5 (12:21):
First date is, I'll go a margarita. I feel like
it's pretty low key.
Speaker 1 (12:26):
By the second date, it's a Long Island iced tea. No,
I don't know. Exactly.
Speaker 5 (12:30):
Yeah, I'm doing Jagerbomb too.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
Okay. Well, how did it go?
Speaker 5 (12:34):
Honestly, I thought it went well. I mean, like we
had good banter. I mean, we, we met on the app,
so like we had messaged quite a bit, met up,
had like two drinks, maybe nothing too crazy. And it
felt like we had like a good, good vibe going.
And then yeah, kind of just, just crickets now.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Okay. I've been asking this of late, but anything crazy happen?
Not that I know of.
Speaker 5 (12:56):
I mean, like I said, yeah, we were cool. And
she didn't, I never got like any feeling that she
wasn't interested or like something went wrong. I don't think
I said anything wrong. So I really have no idea.
I know she's ghosted.
Speaker 1 (13:07):
So let's call her and try to figure out how
the date went for her. Go ahead and mute your phone. Okay.
Here we go. This is Brooke. Brooke. This is Marcus
calling from star one Oh one three. Good morning.
Speaker 4 (13:25):
Good morning.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
I don't suppose. Oh, my God. You sound like my wife.
And you could have just texted me that. Good. Hi.
Speaker 4 (13:39):
I'm sorry. You're going to have to catch me up
to speed. I wasn't.
Speaker 1 (13:41):
I don't know what.
Speaker 4 (13:43):
Why you're calling.
Speaker 1 (13:43):
So I do the morning show on Star 101.3, which
is a radio station here in San Francisco. I'm going
to guess you don't listen. And that's fine. But I'm
wondering if you have a second to be on the
air with me. I'll explain.
Speaker 4 (13:57):
Yes, please explain. And then I'll let you know if
I have a moment.
Speaker 5 (13:59):
Sure.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
So we do a thing on the station called Second
Date Update. And literally, if somebody goes on a first
date and then they get ghosted, they can call me
and then I will call their date just frankly to
see what they did wrong. Or if something went sideways
or maybe the person who ghosted is just, I don't know,
busy or something. So I got your number from a
(14:20):
guy who says he's been on a date with you
recently and he enjoyed himself. He'd like to take you
out again, but he's feeling like maybe you're disappearing on him.
His name is Adam. So I don't know if you
remember your date with Adam.
Speaker 2 (14:33):
Oh.
Speaker 1 (14:34):
Are you in San Rafael?
Speaker 5 (14:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (14:36):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (14:37):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (14:37):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
So it is you. Did you ghost on Adam?
Speaker 4 (14:40):
Yeah, I did.
Speaker 5 (14:42):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (14:43):
Did he make it weird?
Speaker 4 (14:46):
Yes, he did.
Speaker 5 (14:47):
Okay. All right.
Speaker 4 (14:47):
Let me backtrack.
Speaker 3 (14:48):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (14:49):
This is a lot. I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (14:50):
No, that's okay. Good morning.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
Thank you. Good morning.
Speaker 5 (14:55):
Yes.
Speaker 4 (14:55):
I went out on a date with a man named
Adam just recently. Just drinks, the normal meetup, make sure
that they're a real person thing.
Speaker 5 (15:04):
Right.
Speaker 4 (15:05):
Everything seemed to be fine and normal. He was nice.
Speaker 1 (15:09):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (15:09):
Here's where it gets weird. Just like any date, you
ask questions.
Speaker 1 (15:14):
That's normal. Mm-hmm.
Speaker 4 (15:16):
But his started to get, like, weirdly specific.
Speaker 1 (15:19):
Like, how do you mean?
Speaker 4 (15:20):
So it starts off normal with his, can you dance?
Speaker 5 (15:24):
Mm-hmm.
Speaker 4 (15:24):
Like, yeah. Then he starts asking more things like, well,
do you own anything formal? It's kind of weird, but
how are you around drunk relatives? And I'm like, there's
no context here. That's what started to get weird. I'm like,
why are you asking these questions one after the other
with not explaining why or, you know, why that interests
(15:45):
you about me? Finally, after he started asking me about
food allergies, I asked him and he actually admitted to this.
His sister is getting married. He had an ex that
was supposed to be a plus one. So he needs
a wedding date for his sister's wedding.
Speaker 5 (16:04):
Ah.
Speaker 1 (16:05):
Yes.
Speaker 4 (16:06):
So rather than just tell me that, he made it weird.
And I just, I didn't like that. I don't know.
He made it weird. And it just, it just, it
all led to making me really uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (16:18):
Okay. Speaking of potentially making it weird, I do have
to let you know that. So Adam is listening right now.
He's actually on the phone.
Speaker 4 (16:27):
I mean, could this get any weirder? It's already weird.
Speaker 1 (16:30):
So, all right, let's do it. Can I bring him on?
Speaker 4 (16:33):
Might as well, right here.
Speaker 5 (16:34):
Adam, I have.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
I have questions now. Are you there?
Speaker 5 (16:38):
Yeah, I'm here. I don't know. I feel a little unfair.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
How do you figure?
Speaker 5 (16:42):
I mean, I thought we had a good connection. I
really did like her. And just the whole wedding thing
was like a bonus. I had already thought that like
we were a good match. And I thought, hey, cool.
It'd be cool to bring her along. It wasn't to
like make anyone jealous.
Speaker 4 (16:56):
You didn't make it seem like you liked me. You
were checking things off. that were going to be somebody
you wanted to bring to a wedding after you don't
have your girlfriend. Like, dude, I'm a chick. I see
right through this stuff. And I felt like you were,
I don't know, like you were quizzing me. Like it
was a test, not a meetup. It was weird.
Speaker 1 (17:14):
And I don't know.
Speaker 5 (17:16):
I thought the questions were fun getting to know you questions,
as well as seeing if you wanted to go on
a date to a wedding.
Speaker 1 (17:23):
I know it's a weird first.
Speaker 5 (17:25):
Or second date.
Speaker 1 (17:26):
In a week, though?
Speaker 4 (17:30):
Can I jump ahead? What were your plans for the
sleeping arrangements?
Speaker 1 (17:37):
That's a fair question.
Speaker 4 (17:38):
What were you thinking about the accommodations?
Speaker 1 (17:43):
What is the hotel situation, Adam?
Speaker 5 (17:45):
I mean, I did book a hotel room. It's one king,
but there's a couch.
Speaker 2 (17:51):
No, no, no.
Speaker 4 (17:53):
I'm sorry. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
Are you following this Dajon love story? It's crazy.
Speaker 2 (17:59):
Who?
Speaker 1 (18:00):
This is the guy who faked being a 49er to
scam 1.3 million plus dollars out of 20, at least
26 women that he dated online. Some of these stories
are wild. And it's honestly from the cheap seats. It's
easy to make fun. It's easy to laugh.
Speaker 4 (18:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (18:20):
But he was really good at it. I did a
deep dive on some of the stuff that he did. So,
for example, the number one story that hit the Chronicle
is this lady named Dominique who lives in Manteca. She
said that he popped up on Hinge. He claimed to
play for the 49ers, showed himself decked out in gear.
A video from inside the team locker room. She said
she was skeptical, so she pulled a tailor and she
(18:42):
started doing research. Checked his Instagram. He's got 85,000 followers.
And then they FaceTimed. He spoke from inside a fancy
apartment he said was in Walnut Creek. More photos of houses,
fancy cars, bank statements. Left really strangely detailed info about
being a 49er, even though she didn't ask. And then...
(19:03):
She sees his face pop up and all this stuff.
You're seeing this around the news. There is a Facebook
page called Victims of Dajon Love that has at least
80 people in it.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
Oh, gosh.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
And like I said, he has reportedly scammed over a
million dollars from at least 26 women. Now, I asked
Taylor off the air if you've ever been catfished on
a date or whatever, and you said you do pretty
good research.
Speaker 2 (19:26):
I really do try my best not to get catfished.
Speaker 3 (19:29):
I don't really do dating apps that often, but when
I do, I feel like, You kind of have to
go the extra mile and make sure that you FaceTime
them beforehand, you know, check out all the social media accounts.
Speaker 2 (19:41):
Like even if you have to go check out like
a family member just to like verify.
Speaker 1 (19:45):
I'm going to tell you something wild because this guy,
Dajon Love, so he was, you know, started dating. a
lady in Oregon talking about he's a millionaire, he's an investor, properties, blah, blah, blah, whoop-de-whoop.
And then she agreed to a date. He showed up
at her house to take her to the movies in
a neon green Lamborghini.
Speaker 2 (20:04):
Okay. So I'm confused. How did he steal money from people?
Speaker 1 (20:09):
What he would do is he would start talking about
being in a relationship, love bombing, blah, blah, blah. He
would gain their trust. And then he would be like,
let's buy a property together. I'm an investor. Ten grand.
Speaker 2 (20:21):
No.
Speaker 1 (20:21):
Five grand.
Speaker 2 (20:22):
Why does he need you for that? He's a rich
football player.
Speaker 1 (20:25):
He's doing it for you. He wants you in on it. No.
I'm not doing it for me. I'm doing it for you.
Speaker 2 (20:30):
No.
Speaker 3 (20:31):
Millions.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
Unbelievable. So how do you not get scammed? I looked
it up. There's some pro tips here.
Speaker 2 (20:38):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (20:40):
Number one red flag, fast-paced love bombing. They start telling
you all the things that you want to hear.
Speaker 3 (20:46):
Well, that's what love bombing is. That's where the term
came from. You have to be very careful. If someone
tells you that they love you in the first month,
it's a red flag.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
Early demands for cash or account info. That's an easy one, right?
Speaker 2 (21:00):
I don't know. Honestly, I don't give.
Speaker 3 (21:03):
money away like that like if you need something i'll
buy you lunch but i'm not gonna give you 20 bucks.
Speaker 1 (21:08):
For lunch in a million years i could never look
a woman in the face and be like i just
need a thousand bucks to get by i.
Speaker 2 (21:13):
Just can't do it it's broke boy behavior.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
Here's one that i thought was really good advice that
we'll wrap with uh harmless chit chat gathering personal data
they ask you about your background your job your friends
your family just they're just chatting.
Speaker 2 (21:29):
Yeah, they're just like, oh, yeah, what happens to be,
you know, your first pet's name?
Speaker 1 (21:32):
What are the last four digits for social?
Speaker 2 (21:34):
Yeah, your mom's maiden.
Speaker 1 (21:37):
Name. Don't reveal anything in the early stages of a
romance and ask to meet in person if you feel
that spark. It's just so easy to be casual with
somebody that you're really into, I guess.
Speaker 2 (21:48):
Yeah, I could see that. This reminds me of the
Tinder swindler. Like kind of the same vibe.
Speaker 1 (21:53):
Same kind of deal. Be careful out there.
Speaker 5 (21:56):
It's time for good news, Bay Area.
Speaker 1 (22:00):
So we give you good news twice a morning, 740
and 840. This is out of Southern California as a
couple welcomed what they are calling a very rare set
of triplets on dad's birthday. So these are naturally conceived triplets.
They were four weeks early and they were born on
(22:21):
August 18th. So just a few days ago also happened
to be dad's birthday. Greatest birthday gift ever. The triplets,
two being identical twins, have a combined weight. This is
the preemie thing, and I can resonate with this being
a preemie. The combined weight of the three babies was
19 pounds, just a few pounds shy of the Guinness
(22:41):
World Record for heaviest triplets at birth. Excuse me, for preemies.
Newborn's mom, totally healthy, heading home three days later, On
Dad's birthday was the birth. Again, what a great birthday present.
My good news. It's Marcus in the morning. It's time
to play the Bay's favorite trivia games called What You
(23:02):
Know About That. Brought to you by Cameron's Pub in
Half Moon Bay. Come through for the weekend. It's 30
minutes from the city, 30 minutes from San Jose. Say
good morning to our contestants. We take you to the
Sunset District here in San Francisco and say hi to Paul.
Good morning, Paul. Good morning, Marcus Taylor. We love you guys.
What's up, Paul? Who's in the car with you?
Speaker 4 (23:18):
My kid, Sebastian.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
What's up, Sebastian? Well, welcome to the show, you guys.
Are you guys Inner Sunset or Outer Sunset, Paul?
Speaker 3 (23:25):
We are at Outer Sunset at AP Giannini right now.
Speaker 1 (23:28):
Oh, there you go. Let's go, Jaguars.
Speaker 5 (23:30):
Awesome.
Speaker 1 (23:31):
Don't forget, tonight, Taylor does trivia in the Outer Sunset.
Speaker 2 (23:34):
I do, at Riptide.
Speaker 1 (23:36):
Yeah, maybe we'll see you there one.
Speaker 5 (23:37):
Day, Paul.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
I don't know. Oh, yeah? 7 o'clock. You can play
for free.
Speaker 2 (23:40):
All right, we'll be there.
Speaker 1 (23:41):
I'll let you grow. All right, let's go to Fremont.
Say what's up to Jay. Good morning, Jay. Good morning,
Mike and Taylor. How are you? What's going on this morning?
Speaker 5 (23:48):
I just dropped off my wife in Fremont, bud. I'm
going to start my work.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
What's the wife's name? Let's say hi. Perfect. Thanks for
being on. Let's get started. Game's super simple. It's five
trivia questions, 50 seconds to answer them all. You yell
out pass if you don't know an answer. We'll come
back to it if there's time. Okay, fellas? All right.
All right, so Jay goes on hold in Fremont, and
we start with Paul and Sebastian there in the outer sunset. Now, Seabass,
you know the rules. No helping, right?
Speaker 5 (24:13):
Yep.
Speaker 1 (24:13):
Okay, bud. Here we go. Question number one. Which cereal
has Tony the Tiger as its mascot? Cross the plate.
How many color cards are used by referees in an
official soccer match?
Speaker 4 (24:28):
Two.
Speaker 1 (24:29):
What state was 49ers owner Jed York recently arrested in? Ohio.
Other than, how do you say that word?
Speaker 2 (24:37):
Oh, echidnas.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
Other than echidnas, I almost said enchiladas. What is the
only mammal that lays eggs? Platypus. How many calories are
there in one gram of protein? 120.
Speaker 5 (24:51):
120. All right.
Speaker 1 (24:57):
Paul, great job. You had an answer for everything. He
goes on hold in the sunset. He should come out
to Riptide just for the enthusiasm.
Speaker 2 (25:02):
I know, right? I love it.
Speaker 1 (25:04):
Honestly, Paul's at a 10. Oh, yeah. Hang on, Paul.
Paul goes on hold in the sunset, and we pick
up Jay in Fremont.
Speaker 2 (25:11):
Question number one.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
Which cereal has Tony the Tiger as its mascot?
Speaker 5 (25:19):
Pause. Pause.
Speaker 3 (25:21):
How many color cards are used by referees in an
official soccer match? What state was 49ers owner Jed York
recently arrested in? Other than echidnas, what is the only
(25:44):
mammal that lays eggs? How many calories are in one
gram of protein?
Speaker 1 (26:02):
Zero. Just under the wire.
Speaker 3 (26:04):
Hang on a minute.
Speaker 1 (26:04):
All right. Paul comes back in the sunset. See how
he did against Jay in Fremont. Question number one. Which
cereal has Tony the Tiger as its mascot?
Speaker 2 (26:13):
Paul knew that that was Frosted Flakes.
Speaker 1 (26:15):
All right, points on the board. Next question. How many
color cards are used by referees in an official soccer match?
Speaker 2 (26:21):
Paul said two. Jay said three. The correct answer is two.
Speaker 1 (26:26):
Number three. What state was 49ers owner Jed York recently
arrested in?
Speaker 2 (26:31):
Jay said Florida. Paul said Ohio.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
The correct answer is Ohio.
Speaker 1 (26:36):
I would have guessed despair. Stop. Other than echidnas, what
is the only mammal that lays eggs?
Speaker 2 (26:42):
Paul knew that that was a platypus.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
And finally, how many calories are in one gram of protein?
Speaker 2 (26:48):
Paul said 120. Jay said zero.
Speaker 3 (26:52):
The answer we were looking for was four calories. That
brings our final score to four to zero. Paul is
our winner.
Speaker 1 (26:57):
You've got that gift card for Dave and Buster's. A
hundred bucks. Congratulations. Yeah, let's go. What are you talking about?
Speaker 3 (27:04):
Play with us again weekday mornings at 8.05 a.m.
Speaker 1 (27:07):
And add to what you know about that podcast as
a preset on our iHeart app and never miss an episode.
It is Marcus in the morning. I'm getting out of here.
Thank you for being on with us this morning. Appreciate you.
It's going to start warming up a little bit, so
the weather should be super nice. I suggest lunch outside.
Also suggesting that you set a reminder to wake up
with us again tomorrow morning. Lots of fun. Lots of winning.
(27:29):
Second date update after 7. Hopefully I'll talk to you then.
Have an awesome day.
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