Jordan feels like the spark in his marriage is fizzling between him & Viv, so he calls for help!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Well, I got kind of a problem in my marriage
right now. Nobody's cheating or anything like that. Nothing bad.
But we've been married for thirteen years and I love
my wife. This is the best woman on the planet.
I lovel with all my heart. But lately we just
not on the same page. We're not in sync like
we usually are before things get worse. I just want

(00:20):
to fix whatever may be wrong. Like we have kids,
you know, we get busy, you know, paying mortgages, bills
and trying to keep the house right. But I just
feel like we need something to get us back to
that old feeling we used to happen.

Speaker 2 (00:31):
Yeah, okay, Jordan, are you still dating your wife? That's
a big question, Fred Partner. Yeah, man, what the last
time you to go out?

Speaker 1 (00:37):
That sounds good, but I'm gonna be real, I ain't
really done that in a long time. That's all me.

Speaker 3 (00:42):
Well, I mean I get it, though, you know, you
get in your hamster wheel of how the day goes.

Speaker 4 (00:46):
Who's got who for going to soccer.

Speaker 3 (00:48):
Or who's taking Yeah, you know, then they need stuff
and then before you know what, the fun to go
out has diminished down to nothing.

Speaker 1 (00:56):
Tired. That's exactly what's going on, Like romance is taking
a back seat lately because he's so busy.

Speaker 3 (01:00):
Right, okay, so this is just part of your you know,
basically letting her know. Look, I'm gonna I'm gonna step
it up, you know, and I think she should also
know that it takes two, so it can't just be you,
right right, right.

Speaker 1 (01:15):
Right, Yeah, no, I'm going to do my part. But yeah,
but yeah, you gotta do hers too.

Speaker 4 (01:20):
So I'm sorry. What was your wife's name?

Speaker 1 (01:22):
Her name is Vivian, but I call her.

Speaker 5 (01:23):
Viv Hey, good morning y'all to the show.

Speaker 3 (01:27):
Thank you, baby, So your husband so on hold, we've
been talking to Jordan this morning.

Speaker 5 (01:32):
Wow. Yeah, wow.

Speaker 4 (01:34):
It's absolutely a good thing, though, girl, like with.

Speaker 3 (01:37):
This part of our h okay, this part of our show,
like we try to promote, you know, people getting together,
staying together, you know, figuring things out.

Speaker 4 (01:46):
So I'm gonna let him take over though.

Speaker 1 (01:47):
Jordan's Yeah, hey baby, how you doing, viv.

Speaker 5 (01:50):
Hey, honey, I'm good what we do.

Speaker 1 (01:53):
First off, I didn't do anything bad, but I did
reach out for help. I know you probably felt this too.
In our relationship, lady, we don't spend as much time
as we used to together, and I kind of felt
like we're drifting apart, like we're not who we used
to be. Do you feel that too?

Speaker 5 (02:08):
You know? You know it's that life be life, And
I think, I mean, I think everybody know, like if
you've been married for a while and you've got kids
and stuff happens, but we're not like we used to be.

Speaker 1 (02:19):
I mean, no, no, no, and and honestly, if I
just wanted to tell you something, I just want you
to know this because I don't say it enough. You
are the most important thing in my life and I
love you with all my heart and I never want
this to go away. So whatever we need to do,
let's do it. Let's get back to who we used
to be. I love you, I love you, so I

(02:42):
just want to work on it. I need to start
bringing you flowers like I used to. We need to
start stating again. I need to take you out. I
need to do stuff. But you got to meet you halfway. Yeah,
like you got to do some stuff too.

Speaker 5 (02:52):
Oh my gosh, you got me crying right now. I
mean this is so I mean not because it's like
I thought it was just me. I thought it was
just me. I thought like, and it seemed like you
were kind of shutting off. And I know we're busy,
but you know the type of person that if you
shut off, I shut off pouring into the kids and
stuff like that. And that's forward with me. But now

(03:13):
I'm probably like, oh, this is so.

Speaker 4 (03:15):
Let's get on. Well, don't do that.

Speaker 2 (03:17):
Let's let's pull out one of them dresses and how
about y'all go out on a date. Okay, just if
you can make it happen tonight or tomorrow, and we'll
cover everything and just let us talk to you on Friday.

Speaker 5 (03:27):
Oh my god, can somebody take the kids for two days?

Speaker 3 (03:29):
No, you can, business house got to make it all ready,
so you might as well.

Speaker 4 (03:35):
Watch a couple more.

Speaker 2 (03:36):
I'm already getting beat up.

Speaker 4 (03:37):
I can't take no more swings.

Speaker 3 (03:41):
All right, let's we're gonna get the details together and
let you know what's going on.

Speaker 4 (03:44):
And then we just asked that we're able to check
in with you on Friday.

Speaker 1 (03:47):
That's fine, that's good, perfect, All good