Ryan wants to apologize to his sister-in-law after cussing her out in hopes that Crystal will forgive him in time for Christmas

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
We really do. There's like a family risk going on
right now.

Speaker 2 (00:02):
Okay, well tell me about it. What's going on?

Speaker 1 (00:05):
My brother's wife honestly hates me, and I've now been
disinvited from coming to any future holiday parties or anything.

Speaker 3 (00:12):
So hate you?

Speaker 2 (00:13):
Why bro?

Speaker 1 (00:14):
Like the last time they had me over, I kind
of just let her have it. I told her how
I really felt, acts like, I hate how she treats him,
and I can't stand it anymore.

Speaker 2 (00:23):
You know, that is why I let her.

Speaker 1 (00:24):
You know, my kids aren't going to know their cousins.
You know, some family members are taking mind sides and
we're taking their side. So I'm thinking maybe you guys
can massage the situation a little bit, you know, kind
of help me, you know what I mean. It's really bad.

Speaker 4 (00:38):
No, I got you, and you don't want to keep
the kids apart. You don't want the cousins to not
hang out for the holidays. But she clearly doesn't like
you either. House Yeah, I mean, you know that's his wife.
If he's comfortable with however they communicate and navigate through
their family, and then you kind of just have to
respect that. But I get what you saying those times

(01:00):
it's hard to watch people kind of you know, be
talked to a certain way, especially if you didn't ever
know them that way.

Speaker 2 (01:05):
But people change for their families.

Speaker 1 (01:08):
If they're happy, they're happy. You know, it's not for
me to judge.

Speaker 4 (01:11):
Yeah, well, we can definitely call her and see if
she's willing to talk to you, because I think you
have all the best intentions, so I do.

Speaker 1 (01:19):
I've come around on this.

Speaker 4 (01:20):
Okay, Okay, hold on, let me get Crystal on hold on?

Speaker 3 (01:24):
Okay, Oh god, what does he want.

Speaker 2 (01:30):
To give you an apology?

Speaker 3 (01:31):
I don't know. This is if he really wanted to apologize,
he could have called me. So yeah, I don't know.
This is weird.

Speaker 4 (01:38):
I think there's been so much, like he said, she said,
like a bunch of different stuff that's festered since last
year's situation.

Speaker 2 (01:45):
That he just.

Speaker 4 (01:46):
Felt like you didn't want to hear from him. So
he was like, well, I listen to these guys. You know,
maybe if they call her, it'll be a softer, you know,
cushion for him to try to just have a conversation
with you.

Speaker 2 (01:57):
So he's on hold. If you're okay with me putting him.

Speaker 3 (01:59):
On Okay, sure, whatever, I guess okay, Ryan.

Speaker 1 (02:03):
Hey Chrystal, thank you for listening. I just want to
apologize for everything. And I didn't treat you respectfully in
your own home. You know, I understand that, and I
kind of stepped over the line a little bit. It's
not right.

Speaker 3 (02:15):
I mean, yeah, I'm pretty sure you should just be
respecting me period, regardless of the location, but definitely in.

Speaker 1 (02:21):
My own You're right about that. I want to want
to be happy, and I respect you guys. If you
guys are happy, then I'm happy for you.

Speaker 3 (02:28):
He's your brother. But you don't know our relationship. You
don't know what's going on. Like you're so judgmental when
you see what a fraction of what it is. You
don't see Frank and I coming over and talking about
how out of it and zombie like your wife is
when we know she's drank three bottles of wine already

(02:50):
and is on two quanticans like this is. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (02:54):
It's like these Hire family knows my wife has issues.

Speaker 3 (02:56):
You know.

Speaker 1 (02:57):
I don't know what to say. We don't need to
go down that road. But that's beside the point, and
you accept my apology or not. That's all I'm trying
to do here.

Speaker 2 (03:04):
That's true.

Speaker 3 (03:05):
I'm not going to keep my children away from their
cousins during Christmas, nor am I going to keep my
husband from his family.

Speaker 2 (03:12):
That's true.

Speaker 3 (03:13):
But you have to learn how to be respectful and
you have to learn, like you know, your wife's not
the only one with problems. I think you have some
things to work on too. So if you guys want
to come over, FID, but I hope.

Speaker 2 (03:24):
You've worked first.

Speaker 4 (03:25):
I mean, it sounds like all families have issues, everybody
all like it doesn't matter. But the thing of it
is is just you know, if you want to have
a conversation or you feel a way about someone, it
shouldn't happen by calling that person out of their name
or pointing fingers, like, have a real conversation because at
the end of the day, you guys are family by
marriage or otherwise.

Speaker 2 (03:44):
Like it just you know, is that a yes?

Speaker 3 (03:47):
Yeah? But I'm really not going to be giving a
whole lot of other chances, So.

Speaker 1 (03:51):
Okay, protection at that time, let's start you to pass
and try to move forward. We can try you.

Speaker 3 (03:58):
We'll see you guys at Christmas.