The Daily Mess Things Guys Do Girls Dont Understand Plus Stop Being In The Jury

I’m always asking questions.  The fun begins when you start researching for answers. Such as…   The things a guy does that girls will never understand.  Plus…learning how to stay out of the everyday jury.  The art of not judging others.   I’m Arroe…  I am a daily writer.  A silent wolf.  I stand on the sidelines and do nothing but watch, listen study then activate.  I call it The Daily Mess.  A chronological walk through an everyday world.  Yes, it’s my morning writing.  As a receiver of thoughts and ideas, we as people tend to throw it to the side and deal with it later.  When a subject arrives, I dig in.  It’s still keeping a journal!  By doing the research the picture becomes clearer.  This is the Daily Mess…

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's actually been a fun adventure collecting all the conversations
I have since twenty sixteen, with those that have been
featured on NBC's The Voice. Now, the question is can
we put them all in one place and not let
them be forgotten in history? Yeah you can. It's called
Arrow dot net, Rrie dot net. Look for that voice,
enjoy the exploration. I am known for always asking questions,

(00:23):
and the reason why is because the fund begins when
you start researching for answers such as the things that
guys do that girls will never understand. Plus learning how
to stay out of the everyday jury, you know, the
art of not judging other people. My name is Arrow.
I'm a daily writer, a silent wolf. That means I

(00:44):
stand on the sidelines and do nothing but watch, listen, study,
then activate. I happen to call it the Daily Mess,
a chronological walk through an everyday world. Yeah, it's my
morning pages. As a receiver of thoughts and ideas, we
as people tend to throw things to the side, beigas
we're so convinced that we're gonna deal with it later. Yeah,
let me know how your memory cycle is. Okay. When

(01:07):
a subject arrives inside of me. I know it's time
to dig in. It's still keeping that daily journal, but
by doing the research, the picture becomes clearer. This is
the daily mess. Things that guys do that girls will
never understand. Is there anything worse than being on the
opposite side of one of those disappointing staredowns with the

(01:31):
person in your life. One example is how guys tend
to use the word nothing a lot. It's like the
ultimate answer, So what are you doing right now? Nothing?
How would you describe your emotions? I'm fine, I feel nothing,
everything's great. The guy nod is up next. I see
it as total body language. But then again, I'm a dude.

(01:54):
Studies show most girls have no clue what the guy
nod is or what we even mean. Now, I'm gonna
argue with number three on the things that guys do
that girls will never understand. It is written and well
studied that guys tend to ignore pain until it becomes
a crisis. See that's where I need to turn in

(02:16):
my man card. Oh hell no, if I'm in pain,
you're gonna know about it. Number four guys, Oh yeah,
we lean on things, doors, tables, cars, the edge of
this chair that I'm in inside the studio, it's seen
as the great place of resting. Number five guys love

(02:38):
their pockets. Oh hell yes, and there is never enough
for the girls and they are upset about this. Number
six guys complimenting objects but not each other. Hey, nice car, dude,
whoa look at those shoes. Number seven guys can bond

(03:00):
for hours without saying one word to each other. Yeah.
And finally, guys are not afraid to say, I'm fine, honey,
what's wrong? You really look like you're down today. I'm fine. No, no, no, seriously,
did somebody jump on your case at work? I'm fine,
I'm fine, I'm fine, I am fine. Coming up next.

(03:22):
A recent watching of the George Burns Show a quote
hit me that is so powerful today, but nobody is
doing it, which means have we accepted judgment? Hey, thanks
for coming back to the daily mess. George Burns recently
set free a quote on Antenna TV. If you don't

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get involved in the story, you'll end up on the jury,
basically meaning if you don't take part in shaping that
moment around you, your community, your workplace, your relationship, it's
going to be forced to deal with one thing. The consequences.
Let's break this down even more. The word jury is

(04:05):
looked upon as being a symbol word. What does it represent.
Most people don't participate with building or creating something needed,
Yet they'll stand on the sidelines and they'll just judge everything. Well,
I think you should move it here. Oh I think,
oh no, you got it wrong. I know I've been
here before, but they haven't lifted one red finger. If

(04:28):
you don't steer the ship, you're gonna end up evaluating
the wreckage. I mean, look at how many people reach
for their smartphones to film anything bad that's going on.
All of that time used to hold that smartphone, but
no time or ambition to help the person that's in trouble.
If you don't get involved in the story, you'll end

(04:49):
up on the jury. It's nothing to shove aside. It's
a nudge to take action rather than letting life put
you in a place of react. I'm Errow, and that's
the daily mess.