Prince Israel Zaar on: Love Thy Mother as I Loved Mine 08092025

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
I miss my mother. She is gone, but not gone.
Since the person of my mother, it's almost almost a
year today, I still find it difficult to accept, but

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I'm faced with a reality that one day this body
shall be left to this earth, and the eternity and
the infinity of the being shall live with us forever.

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Just thinking of my mother, it means she lives the
essense of being, transcend the physicality of being itself. I
think of my mother all the time. I see her

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and everything that I do that is good, I self
reflect for what time together, her warmth, her love. Okay,
I came to realize that she was the only person.

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But truly we understand who I am. Do you imagine
my thought? What I was doing? Sometimes what I'm thinking,
you tell me, I don't think about it. I mean
something that is not right? She will questioned the dimples

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on my face on the wrinkers to know what is
troubling me. Just happy when I'm happy, she said, When
I'm sad, she's satisfied with life because we give her hope.

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When I sit in this physical being, when I have
physical presence, it elevates the magnitude of her stature in
my mind. The gloriousness of being, the immortality of existence,

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the tenaty of the soul, and the infinitiness of the mind,
that mind or have, that memory that we must keep,
and that memory which that we must make, and the

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positivity of that memory. It's the thing that keeps us on.
The energy of life is looking back and thinking of
the good the good times, the happy times. Think of
the mother. You think of that little kid, that sygod

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that figures that baby, all in the womb of one person,
and that time coming that baby is released to this world,
the baby's giving the name and the warm in arms
of the mother. Breast fat fat, the diaper changes a

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band mens to the doctor. That mom always been there
to fit here, to nurture you, to protect, here, to
teach you, to kid ly, to guide here that tender,
loving care of a mother that sees you for what

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you are, and always see you as an extension of
the mother herself, something connected to the womb. I remember
that wound's state. When I'm in the womb, or when
I was in her womb, I will breathe her breath.

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I will eat the food she eats. If she is sick,
I'll be sick. She is healthy, I'll be her healthy.
She if active, I'll be active. I became her, she
became me, for I was her and she was me

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until she sent me to this world, this war that
I am in. And now she is gone, but not gone,
because I am her. She lives in me and I
live in her. Oh, her wisdom, her kitchens and mentoring.

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All the experiences I had with her, the hard work,
the discipline, I cannot forget that, teaching me right and wrong,
reinforcing right action, day after dinner, time after time, making

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show I was okay, making show my dresses well, okay,
test the food I add. I can show the what
I was warm when it's called, or what I was
called when his heart, making show my temperature was good,

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constantly caring and worrying about me. That mother, that love,
a kindness, a tenderness, a graciousness, that blissfulness, that blessings.

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What can that be? Only to be grateful, unhappy? And
she was my mother. I think of her day after that,
when we last met, when we last spoke, and what
we're talking about. How did it? How didn't I know

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that was the last thing we were made? How did
I know that was the last thing who speak, But
that's the physiological or biological realities of life. But that

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behaved that she is gone. H She is TOI here.
If I'm the seal of nature, then she is that nature.
If where I come from it's from the wound, then
she is to here. If if well I was born,

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was in the hospital, then she is to here. If
who I am is not wich she taught me, then
she is to here. How lucky was I to come
from a womb like that, something mother like her, always

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doing her best for a life, a life to be better,
loving all the children with that discrimination, caring for the
last among us, teaching us to help others, to give
a cloth to somebody who need, wha to care for

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his sake, to be open minded, open hearted, and generous
in our hands or with our hands, generals with our minds,
and generals with our deeds. Her faith was his strength,

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Believing in hope, believing in forgiveness, believe in the realities
of life. Her boldness overcoming cancer with a smile and

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overcoming life it's difficulties, it's challenges, it's pretense, the hate,
But with that she still have grace, unhappiness, never seen

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a person like that. Despite all that whish life gave
to her that she didn't expect. She raised eight beautiful children.

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She gave us everything we needed. There's nothing more you
expect from a mother than the loving mother, a mother
that truly loves. Here from the heart, from the heart,

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the mother that knows what love is, and she gave
it to you. She implanted love in my heart, the
gene of love, the gene code of love. She implanted
humanity in my heart. To see the world as he has,

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To be kind to one another, to ask for forgiveness
and you go wrong, To always know that when you're fighting,
I mean, somebody is wrong, and be the first to
realize your mistakes and be the first to correct it.

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The power of communication, talking to one another, checking on
one another, making sure that everybody is okay, and even
those who don't wish you well. To live life knowing
this life after that, before life there was life, and

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after this physical life is gone, no stable life. Remember
her always telling us, don't worry about me, because I will.
I will always be here. I can't understand what I meant.
She is here with me, talking about her. She lives

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thinking about her good She seemed eternal, explaining the expanse
of my mind makes her to be infinite. Her story
is with me, her Gane is with me. Her life

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is for me to remember. Her deeds is for me
to venerate, and her mistakes, her mistakes is for me
to fix. Who am I by just a happy child?
I was blessed with a loving mother. And when I

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look into the door, always remind people to be happy.
To what with what you have, the one thing that
the human being has as a mother. They don't know
who and what your mother is until when she is

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not here. As long as your mother lives, celebrate her,
venered her, show her your care, show her your apprecision,
why she is still alive, Tell her you love her,

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show her you love her why she is still alive.
I was just blessed to do that with my mother
when she was here. I remember her last call to
me reminding me to keep doing the things are doing
in life that you have sayen that that is my

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own way, my own way as having a larger heart,
thinking about those who cannot think of themselves, trying to
be there for those whom nobody cares, trying to be
with the bad ones as he must re sigh. If

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I learned from my mother, Do not judge, do not conclude.
Humans are what they are all love us are mistaken creatures.
Sometimes we act by impulse or by accident. Sometimes we
think we know when we don't. Now we just be generous.
We are sore and we are mind to know that

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they don't know everything, and that you can never know everything.
Happy to have a mother like that. Always pray and
ask unto others to love your mother accept their mistakes,

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for she accepted yours. Don't seek to judge your mother.
I want your mother tobo what she cannot be. Perfection
is not human. Humans can only do what they can
dore with what is to them. Some can stretch their minds,

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some can't stretch their limbs. Some can't do what others
can do. Some can't do what they can do, and
some mothers we fall short. It's not for us to judge.

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I tell upon you to care for your mother. To
constantly care for your mother. The way you are with
your mother, I always think the days she will not
be there. Don't waste your time with your mother for futilities, trivialities,

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empty fights and quarrels. Disrespect, abandonment of the mother. Are
good not right action? Asked? My mother always say, I
always remember right action. Right action is something I learned

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from my mother. Even when you have the right to
do something, You can have the right to hurt somebody.
You can have the right to fire somebody. You can
have the right to discipline somebody. You can have the
right to punish somebody. You can have the right to

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kill somebody. But always ask yourself is it the right
thing to tell? I learn that from my mother etcha
ambiguity or eticha dilemous, and that sometimes you do the

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right thing every when it might be wrong based on
human calculations. I remember you always remind me growing up
as a kid, to teach me come on science, Come
on sense, She would say, Prince common sense. That if

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somebody knocks on the door, you say yes, it means
the person can come here. That if you are in
the restroom, are you knocked somebody, say yes, it means
do not come here. That stays with me, It means

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my mother lives. I remember my mother teaching me on
rite action and comme on science. That if a child
runs from danger and comes to you, and that danger
stands knocking on your door, asking if that child is

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in there. You will say no. You don't say no
because it's true. You say no because you're lying. When
you're lying to save the life of that child. Remember
my mother telling me lying it's a survivor too. You

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remind me not don't lie when your life is not
a stick. Do not lie when the life of others,
when the lives of others are not a stick. Don't
necessarily lies destroys the person itself. And when you're lying,
it means you're not crying. Now, when you're lying, it

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means you're making somebody else to look bad. My mama
tell me it's not good. A line makes you in fear,
line makes you insecured. Remember, my mother will tell me

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that the power of the human being, or the absence
of it, is the magnitude of their lies. That a
free human is an objective human, very difficult, very challenging
to practice. Are to be realistic and not too sick

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to be liked or to be loved, or to place
orders or to seek validation. When you are doing something wrong,
a mom will remind me that that is not right.
That even when nobody is saying to what is right,
even when there is nobody to say. Thank you, do

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what is right. Don't do right for others. They don't
do good for others. You do good for goodness sake.
You do right because the right thing to do. When
I studied law and jurisprudence, when a minor in psychology

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destroy the minds of humans. When I studied criminal justice
to PhD level, I start to think that my mother
was right in law. They casts something in law. There's
something I got. Discretion. The judge has the discretion, The

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police officer has discretion, the teacher has discretion, the boss
has discretion. The person with authority has discretion. That discression
means that even with the rights and powers vested in

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your hands like that of a mother, you still love
a cad. You still forgive that cad, and that when
you punish the caid, that punishment is not for pain,
That punishment is not dictiveness, The punishment is not hurt.

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That punishment is measured and calculated just to teach the
caid to be better than the prayerence of the discretion.
After the conditions, the circumstance, and the situation, that prayerence

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of the discussion to be better. And no matter the
person you are married to, no matter the second constances
in the house, no matter the treatment, but no matter
what is the right thing for the mother to love

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and care for the child? No excuse, no excuse. When
I studied criminal justice and I traveled around the world,
I talk to so many people and visited presence, I

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get to see that a broken society comes from a
disrespected mother. When the woman is shot a side, when
the woman is disrespected, when the woman is appealsed, a

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child is not raised. Wow, I was just lucky to
have a loving mother and a loving father. I was
not blessed lucky. They gave me the wisdom of life

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to be happy with this life. I go to bed happy,
I wake up happy because happiness is a state of pay.
It's not that things are making me happy. Is that
I'm trying to make myself happy. Because happiness is me,

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It's not anything else. I can only express happiness onto others.
A state of fulfillment, feeling sufficient, feeling adequate, is given
to that child by the mother. They must love the

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child and let the chad know he loved the child.
You must care for the child and let the child
know that you care for that child. He must be
there for the child, no matter the conditions, with their circumstances.
The mother must sacrifice their lives for the child. You

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cannot give an excuse not to be there with the child.
And even if you are not with a man, you
cannot not be with a child. No matter the system
of government or the system of laws in which you
find yourself, you must find it to be with a child.

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Because you give birth to that child. They give birth
to that child. I was lucky to have a mother,
not fulfill the responsibilities of a mother. You don't need
to have much to take care of a child. It

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don't need that much material wealth. It only give that
child that spirit, your wealth, the intennal wealth, that wealth
of love, that wealth of care, the wealth of being there.
Thus being there for a child means a lad parents

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being there for their children. You have society, you have
the community. It's time I see a broken human It's
time I go on the nails. It's time I see
the killings, the shuldings, the robbery, the crime they hate,

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the violence, the inhumanity, the cruelty, the savagery, the killings,
the rape of children. The abduction, the trafficking. It's time.
I see this world. I see a broken wall, I

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see a broken home. I see a home in which
the mother was not there and the father was not there.
But even if the father is not there, the mother
must be there. And even if that mother is not there,

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there must be a mother in a guardian. There must
be a mother in a sponsor. There must be a
mother in a mentor. There must be a mother in
the teacher. There must be a mother in a coach.
There must be a mother somewhere, a mother somewhere for

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a child. And mother without warmth, that embrace, that hark,
that tap in the back, and mother and looks into
your eyes and see you eat. The mother that is
happy when you're eating. The mother does happy on your

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out there playing with your friends. Then mother does happy
to call you to come back home, to take your shower,
to eat your food, to do your home work. Then
mother does there to check in your dresses to see
if it is a barg if there's something discomfanted, discomforting you.

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And mother does that, give you a kiss and presses
her forehead to your forehead, That mother, what's there for me?
And no matter the distance on my travels, I won't
separated us because you make a man out of me.

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She told me to take care of myself, to behold
in myself. A broken human comes from a broken house.
The mother must teach the child to be self sufficient.
The mother must teach the child to work. The mother

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must teach the child to take care of itself. And
mother making sure that a child can take care of
itself and that chid can be happy with itself no
matter what the world throws that hear. That mother that
teaches a child not to see the discrimination, not to

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see the discrepancies, not to see the hate or the hurt.
The mother that teaches a child to rise above all that,
to find God or to find good, or to find salvation,

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or to find a community or to belong into something
that makes their life to be bigger than itself. And
mother that teaches a child to contribute, to give themselves
to the community, to sacrifice themselves for the sec of God,
to see beyond itself, to see past itself. And mother

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that takes away narcissism from a kid and instilled in
the kid humility that takes away done me, me, Me, Me,
The mother that takes away in entitlement. I'm victims without

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of a cat, that mather. I'll take you to sit
now and listen, and mother, I can make a child
to listen that mother, that will take away distraction from
a child. Thou don't do things to place that child

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or that's right for the child. That mother does not
begin to be laughed by a child. Whore's teaching a
child how to laugh. That mother does not begin for
attention from a child, but teaching a child to be attentive.

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That mother who cares. That mother that became the mentor
of the teacher, the doctor, the coach, the friend, the companion,
the first laugh, and mother that's always there. If you

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don't have that in a mother and need to instill
that in the matter. The job of a child is
to be pleased with the love of the matter. I
tell people, when you see God, see your mother. When

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there is no God, there is your mother. When nobody
loves you, Your mother loved you. When nobody cares about
about you. Your mother cared for you. Those who discomminate
against you, your mother didn't those who disinfranchises to you.

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Your mother didn't those who steal away from here your
mother didn't. Those who cheat on here your mother didn't.
Those who exploit here your mother didn't. Those who laughed
at ear your mother didn't. My mother gave me everything

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I needed in this life. I cannot be generous to
this life. My mother leaves, she lives because I'm here.
I just wish. I pray that you have to sign,
And if you don't make it to bey, looke it

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to pay. You can creately. You two pay off your mother.
You can create positive illusions of your mother. You can't
write a script or your mother. You can give your
mother what she doesn't have. You can peel a home
for your mother if he has no harm. You can

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build a hospital in the name of your mother, if
you ask your if you have the means, you can
build a nation for the sake of your mother. You
can be a good leader in unor of your mother.
You can care for humans in unor of your mother.
You can be a good police officer in honor of

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your mother. You can be a good firefighter in honor
of your mother. It can be a good doctor, a
good nurse, or a good janitor. You can't do the
work you do in honor of your mother. It can
be the wish. You are the greatest of thanks and
honor of your mother. You can be the best student
and an of your mother. You can be a genius

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and an inventor. You can be a creator or maker,
or move or shaker in and of your mother. Why
do you think humans or the ancients called this space

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that we are mother Earth? Mother Earth? Because it started
with the mother, the woman. It's my intelligence than a man.
The woman lives longer than a man. From the womb
of the woman's everything made. The woman is a better

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leader because she brought us up. The woman is a society.
The woman is the eight that it was. The womb
in the beginning was the womb, and the woman was

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the woman. The woman to the woman was Jesus' maid
was Socrates or Platter or Aristotle, the founding fathers, all
the nobel lords, and all the greatness of being. When

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the life of a human being is broken, it can
never be because of the mother. When the human being
falls short, it can never be because of the murder. Psychopathy,
social party can never be because of the woman. When

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you take a gun to go ahead another person, it
can only be because of a woman. Racism sexism or
bakertry was not because of the woman. The first Second War,
World War, what's not because of the woman, the war

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in Ukraine, and what is happening in the mirror is
it's not because of the woman. The nuclear bomb, it's
not because of the woman. All the wars we fight
and conflicts around the war, around the war, it's not
because of the woman. People not being paid well, it's

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not because of the woman. Violence and anarchy and chaos
and instability, it's not because of the woman. Because that
woman is the womb. And that womb was peaceful, that
womb was tab, that womb was tender, that woman was carried,

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That woman was fair, that womb was just. That womb
was tolerant, tolerant, That womb was right, that whom was peace,
that womb was harmony, That womb what was God, That

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womb was science, That womb was the molecular atoms. That
womb was the egg, and that womb was a woman.
And out of that womb humans was born out of
that egg? What was creatures made out of that mother?

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What's this earth? You cannot come from that womb and
not be a good person. I'd be a nice person
and be a loving, caring human after If after the
womb something went wrong, it cannot be the woman. It

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cannot be the woman. Love that matter as I do,
and your life will be blessed. Your life will be happy.
Your life cannot be whole. Whether you're loving your mother,
or whether you're forgiving your mother, or without you you're
coonciling or your mother. We must hold that truth to

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be self evident. But our mother, our mothers, that's our happiness.
The meaning and purpose of life will not be without
a womb. When I the tender, loving care of a mother.

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If you forget your mother, you forget yourself. If you
forget your mother, you forget love. If you forget your mother,
you forget tender care. If you forget your mother, you'll
not find your way. And the human beings empty because

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they like the love of a mother, or they minimize
the love of their mother. And a human being inside
because it will not talk, laugh or they didn't laugh.
Be the mother. If you're a man, learn the love

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of the woman. A good man, remember the mother. What
with the mother, that the matter will take care of
a child. So we should take care of this world,
this earth, this ecology, of us and the future of things.

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The future lies in the hands of a younger generation,
and the younger generation shall be procreated, nurtured, and teach

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or taught by their matters. What becomes a society that
you suspects the woman? What becomes of a society that
marginalized marginalizes women. What becomes of a society that this
infranchises women. What becomes of a society that discriminate against

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hum against women? What becomes of society that creates laws
who use or write books in the names of religion
that make a woman to be submissive, to be disrespected,
to be discriminated upon in the name of sexism. Why

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should we betray that solemn oath to all our mothers
to love one another as we love our mothers. I
was blessed. I was lucky to find in myself the

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reasons to love my mother. You can't. And if your
mother is still here, go to her, love her. And
if you have issues with your mother, please fail said
why she still here as you're alive shall be futer,

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hollow and empty when she is gone. And when she
is gone, thing good about her in your life shall
be fulfilled. Thank you and remembrance of my mother. Philosopher

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Prince they are intelligences. Philosopher Prince is Raizore from the
philosophical city of Las Vegas, August the ninth, twenty twenty five.
On my mother and the love for her. The love

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I have for my mother, It's eternal and it's infinity.