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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Madison Beer is on Kiss FM. Tuesday's my least favorite
day of the week, but we try and make it
feel as good as a Thursday.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
See, the energy is a Thursday energy.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
I do your energy today.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
I'm glad you feel that. All right, we're gonna pay bills.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
I got a second date, update this hour, all those
tickets to six likes Magic Mountain. But first I want
to stop the entire show to find out is there
a true tension between the two of you your best
friends or have you gotten past it yet?
Speaker 4 (00:29):
It's an underlying tension. Just feel we need to settle.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
This, all right, let's I'm happy to settle this. I'm
happy that you came in to settle this. This is
a big deal. But she's here in person. So your
friendship goes for how many years now, Becka, you and Tanya.
Speaker 4 (00:44):
I'm gonna say since twenty fifteen, so.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
About a decade.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Yeah, I need to know that someone at the gym
came up to me and said I'm Tanya's best friend
and it wasn't you.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Yeah, that happens a lot, and you're okay with that.
I'm fine with that. But if roles are reversed, somebody
would viral. Really, yeah, tiny would spiral. If that happened
the other way, we would have to have a full
conversation and I'd have to validate her feelings.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Yes, let her know.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
She's also my best friend.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Yeah, a lot of to be her best friend.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
Listen. I thought the engagement would take some of the
pressure off, but it's it's maybe increased.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
Territorialism. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Oh wow.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
I can't believe I'm doing this by myself without today.
All right, So what happened and let's get to the
bottom of this and figure out who's right.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Okay, So this happened last weekend. I texted my best
friend Becca and I said, Hey, do you have plans
this weekend? I'm going to try and go dress shopping.
Would love for you to come. And she hit me
back and said, it's my sister's birthday and I know
her sister lives in Orange County, so I'm gonna go
be with her. And then Haley's moving on Sunday, so
(01:52):
I'm going to be helping her with that.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Haley your significant other.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
Correct, So in my mind, she's down for the count
for the weekend. You know, that's what she says.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
So did she say, I'm out for the weekend.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
She said, I'm since my sister's birthday on Saturday, so
I'm gonna be celebrating that, and on Sunday, I'm helping
Haley the weekend. Okay, So come to Sunday and we
decide to have just impromptu barbecue. We'd just go to
the grocery store and get a couple meats and shrimps.
And I invite two of my other best friends over,
(02:23):
and Becca is upset that I did not invite her. However,
I had reinvited her earlier for weekend festivities and she
was out, So why would I open myself up to
rejection if I knew she was busy?
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Becca, what say you?
Speaker 4 (02:38):
Well, the meat, the meats and shrimps was never mentioned,
so I never even had a chance. And I was thinking, man,
what would have been so good after a long moving
day barbecue some grilled shrimps friend and my friend's backyard.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Sort of like yeah, without any work on mysel because
I've been working with my partner moving. Uh So here's
the thing, why does it are you? Why does it
matter so much? Like I feel like if you didn't
invite it it's fine, Like, it's.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
More about the sentiment of like if roles were reversed.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
To think she's the whole thing.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Yeah, and let's not talk about the shrimps and the
meats and the Sundays. This is about the level of
pressure because I keep hitting rolls reversed. It doesn't sound
like a balanced friendship. It doesn't. The theme here is
Tanya needs more than I need, and I'm aware of that,
but I'm kind of it's laborious, I.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Know, but it's about love languages with your best friends.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
So I get you needy for Becca, but I respect.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Her non neediness and I rarely.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Respect my non neediness.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
So she tries to say she was trying to respect
the boundary because I told her I had plans, but
she never respects that.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
So if it was convenient for her this time, no
doubt when I called her.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Out, I've stopped face timing. I now call her on
the phone without face time, because that's what she refers.
That's me speaking.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
I would have thought her fiance would have taken some
of the load off of you for this.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Yeah, Robbie, Robbie in the text, that's true.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Wait, I hear we're part of the wedding together are we? Yeah,
I had not gotten any news.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
I heard it was on Thanksgiving and officiating when she performing?
Speaker 2 (04:23):
What are you performing? I too, am performing great of honor.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
I'm one of one of a few.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
How many do I have?
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Just one?
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Okay? Great?
Speaker 4 (04:31):
But I just if you needed to get together and
review some things, because I know, like public speaking is hard, and.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Yes, the crowd.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Matter of fact, I'll go shrimps shopping and Saturday or
sun deck perfect, get the meat and you enjoy.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Robbie and Becka and I we're planning to perform.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
We're planning.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
We're planning the Robbie and Tanya festival.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
If you guys have a barbecue and don't invite me spiral.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Oh, I can't wait for this week pictures too. Yeah,
thanks for coming in. You guys are a lovely friendship.
Let's not let this rock the boat, but tiny, maybe
a little less push and be Thanks for your patience.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
I'm so chill.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
You're not chill.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
One thing you are not chill is next to me.
The alarm goes off, doesn't bother her. I know you
are waking up before it.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
That's true, all right?
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Yeah, you and I are not chill. No, okay, let's
come back. When is scrubbing in next episode?
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Up?
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Oh? Thanks Ryan, Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
We actually just released a really good episode with Daisy Kent.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
Yes, she was on the Bachelor, Okay, Daisy Kent doesn't
ring a bell.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
My head was like.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
An America sweetheart.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Yeah, America's sweethearted stimmy fallon.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
I could argue it's Daisy Kent.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
All right, let's come back with Jasmine martin In l
Madison Beer is on Kiss FM. Tuesday's my least favorite
day of the week, but we try and make it
feel as good as a Thursday.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
See, the energy is a Thursday energy.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
I do your energy today.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
I'm glad you feel that. All right, we're gonna pay bills.
Speaker 1 (00:15):
I got a second date, update this hour, all those
tickets to six likes Magic Mountain. But first I want
to stop the entire show to find out is there
a true tension between the two of you your best
friends or have you gotten past it yet?
Speaker 4 (00:29):
It's an underlying tension. Just feel we need to settle.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
This, all right, let's I'm happy to settle this. I'm
happy that you came in to settle this. This is
a big deal. But she's here in person. So your
friendship goes for how many years now, Becka, you and Tanya.
Speaker 4 (00:44):
I'm gonna say since twenty fifteen, so.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
About a decade.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
Yeah, I need to know that someone at the gym
came up to me and said I'm Tanya's best friend
and it wasn't you.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Yeah, that happens a lot, and you're okay with that.
I'm fine with that. But if roles are reversed, somebody
would viral. Really, yeah, tiny would spiral. If that happened
the other way, we would have to have a full
conversation and I'd have to validate her feelings.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Yes, let her know.
Speaker 4 (01:07):
She's also my best friend.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Yeah, a lot of to be her best friend.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
Listen. I thought the engagement would take some of the
pressure off, but it's it's maybe increased.
Speaker 3 (01:20):
Territorialism. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:22):
Oh wow.
Speaker 1 (01:23):
I can't believe I'm doing this by myself without today.
All right, So what happened and let's get to the
bottom of this and figure out who's right.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Okay, So this happened last weekend. I texted my best
friend Becca and I said, Hey, do you have plans
this weekend? I'm going to try and go dress shopping.
Would love for you to come. And she hit me
back and said, it's my sister's birthday and I know
her sister lives in Orange County, so I'm gonna go
be with her. And then Haley's moving on Sunday, so
(01:52):
I'm going to be helping her with that.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Haley your significant other.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
Correct, So in my mind, she's down for the count
for the weekend. You know, that's what she says.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
So did she say, I'm out for the weekend.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
She said, I'm since my sister's birthday on Saturday, so
I'm gonna be celebrating that, and on Sunday, I'm helping
Haley the weekend. Okay, So come to Sunday and we
decide to have just impromptu barbecue. We'd just go to
the grocery store and get a couple meats and shrimps.
And I invite two of my other best friends over,
(02:23):
and Becca is upset that I did not invite her. However,
I had reinvited her earlier for weekend festivities and she
was out, So why would I open myself up to
rejection if I knew she was busy?
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Becca, what say you?
Speaker 4 (02:38):
Well, the meat, the meats and shrimps was never mentioned,
so I never even had a chance. And I was thinking, man,
what would have been so good after a long moving
day barbecue some grilled shrimps friend and my friend's backyard.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Sort of like yeah, without any work on mysel because
I've been working with my partner moving. Uh So here's
the thing, why does it are you? Why does it
matter so much? Like I feel like if you didn't
invite it it's fine, Like, it's.
Speaker 4 (03:09):
More about the sentiment of like if roles were reversed.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
To think she's the whole thing.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Yeah, and let's not talk about the shrimps and the
meats and the Sundays. This is about the level of
pressure because I keep hitting rolls reversed. It doesn't sound
like a balanced friendship. It doesn't. The theme here is
Tanya needs more than I need, and I'm aware of that,
but I'm kind of it's laborious, I.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Know, but it's about love languages with your best friends.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
So I get you needy for Becca, but I respect.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
Her non neediness and I rarely.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Respect my non neediness.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
So she tries to say she was trying to respect
the boundary because I told her I had plans, but
she never respects that.
Speaker 2 (03:51):
So if it was convenient for her this time, no
doubt when I called her.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
Out, I've stopped face timing. I now call her on
the phone without face time, because that's what she refers.
That's me speaking.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
I would have thought her fiance would have taken some
of the load off of you for this.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
Yeah, Robbie, Robbie in the text, that's true.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
Wait, I hear we're part of the wedding together are we? Yeah,
I had not gotten any news.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
I heard it was on Thanksgiving and officiating when she performing?
Speaker 2 (04:23):
What are you performing? I too, am performing great of honor.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
I'm one of one of a few.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
How many do I have?
Speaker 3 (04:30):
Just one?
Speaker 2 (04:31):
Okay? Great?
Speaker 4 (04:31):
But I just if you needed to get together and
review some things, because I know, like public speaking is hard, and.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Yes, the crowd.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Matter of fact, I'll go shrimps shopping and Saturday or
sun deck perfect, get the meat and you enjoy.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
Robbie and Becka and I we're planning to perform.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
We're planning.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
We're planning the Robbie and Tanya festival.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
If you guys have a barbecue and don't invite me spiral.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Oh, I can't wait for this week pictures too. Yeah,
thanks for coming in. You guys are a lovely friendship.
Let's not let this rock the boat, but tiny, maybe
a little less push and be Thanks for your patience.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
I'm so chill.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
You're not chill.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
One thing you are not chill is next to me.
The alarm goes off, doesn't bother her. I know you
are waking up before it.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
That's true, all right?
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Yeah, you and I are not chill. No, okay, let's
come back. When is scrubbing in next episode?
Speaker 3 (05:25):
Up?
Speaker 2 (05:25):
Oh? Thanks Ryan, Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 3 (05:27):
We actually just released a really good episode with Daisy Kent.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
Yes, she was on the Bachelor, Okay, Daisy Kent doesn't
ring a bell.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
My head was like.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
An America sweetheart.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Yeah, America's sweethearted stimmy fallon.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
I could argue it's Daisy Kent.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
All right, let's come back with Jasmine martin In l
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