May 8, 2024 • 20 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio
and the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back
on the air. Welcome back to yet another carefully reckless
episode with your Girl just hilarious.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
If I sound tired, you guys are here.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
I'm coming from Baltimore just getting my hair done, and
I live in New York, New Jersey. Now, like you know, between,
I'm loyal thought and everybody's like, you know what, It's
plenty of places that you could have got your hair
done in Jersey and in New York and Brooklyn and
Queens and all that, but I don't know them.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
I'm gonna stick to what I know. Person.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Now, I didn't go to Baltimore in the Hood to
get my goddamn had done because we were head of
a caller call up and.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Envy sold to call.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
I had drove to Baltimore and I got my head
and he's gonna say, stop the hood book a mess.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Sorry, don't nobody going to to get it for her?
Hand on?
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Trust me, I'm not leaving one to go to my
old hood to get my hair done.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
No, I'm not.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Kara Mac is definitely professional of all the professionals, and
she has her own sweet so shout out to her.
She's in Baltimore and it's not Baltimore City, it's Notingham, Maryland.
And you know how you just say that one person
that knows your head, that knows, like exactly how you
like your parts, because I got full lockshaw knows how
you like your parts, knows just enough baby hair to
(01:27):
leave out or edges or whatever if you got them.
If you don't, you have to take from your hairline
like I used to, but now I have a little
bit edges. So she knows exactly the amounts to leave
out and everything. And have you ever gone to the
hair salon and you get up and you like it,
but then you have to go home and fix it
to your exact liking. I hate having to do that,
(01:48):
especially with the amounts of money that I pay to
get my hair done. I don't have to do that
with Kara at all, not one bit, not single a
little bit. So I will be traveling no matter what.
I will cross the ocean for Karra. Even though that
sounds a little gap. It's about my hair, Okay, So
we're gonna get into it.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
What do I be doing?
Speaker 1 (02:04):
I'll be fixing mess, and I'm gonna have Taylor reed
because I don't feel like it.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
You already know what it is, so Taylor kick it off. Girl.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
All right, hey, Jess. So there's gonna be a lot
of information that's taken. But I was in relationship for
three years and I was unfaithful.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
I'll be honest.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
There was this one girl I was seeing for quite
a while on the side that my girl.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
Also knew about.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
Then this third girl came as in my girlfriend, the
side chick and now another side chick, and I kind
of fell head over heels for her, so she fell
in love with the side chick. So I started seeing
this third girl.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
We hit it off.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Everything's good, and I tell her that I'm in a
relationship and she says that she's cool with it, so
as long as I'm honest with her and tell her
the truth about everything. Mind you, she had just gotten
out of relationship herself where the boyfriend was cheating in
this and that. So I started to pursue something with
this girl while still in a relationship. And one day
I'm at work and she calls me saying that she
(03:01):
found out that I had a second snapchat and that
I was still talking to the one girl from before,
and then she said that she basically couldn't trust me
anymore and she couldn't see herself being with me. Not
I only knew this girl for like a month when
this happened, but I was head over heels for her
and wanted her to be mine.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
So I did everything.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Hold on, men, this person is doing all this in
a relationship with somebody else.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
Yeah, but what I think it's her girlfriend found out.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
That's how it's making seem okay.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
So her girlfriend found out about the other girl that
she fell in love with, she was head over heels
with okay, all right, And then.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
I did the second snapchat. I dropped all my hoes
and I tried to be faithful to her, but she
just wanted to be friends and wanted nothing to do
with me. Now, mind you, behind the scenes, I have
a friend of four years who knows about everything about
the side chick, about everything in my relationship at a time,
and about this girl, every small detail. So after everything,
and after she said she just wanted to be friends,
(04:06):
she texted me one day and says that her and
my friend hung out and that he confessed to have
feelings for her. Mind you, this was a couple of
days after she had decided to break things off with me,
so I was still a little heartbroken.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
She said that she felt the same for him. There's
a guy involved. Now I am so confused with the.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
How, and I have a retaliation anger of whatever you
want to call it. I dropped both of them. I
stopped talking to both of them. I called him a
piece of shit. To me, he's scum. And the fact
that he would do that to someone that calls him
my brother is shitty.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Okay. So her friends or brother, oh, okay.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Okay, So her brother started fucking one of her bitches,
like her homeboy who she considers a brother, started fucking
with one of the girls that she liked.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
But she is a serial cheater, so it shouldn't matter. Okay,
go ahead.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
And as for her, I think she's a homie hopping
bitch that they both s that I was overreacting to
the situation and I had no right to be upset,
which I can't understand because I fucked up and betrayed
her trust. Okay, So her ex basically was fucking with
her homie.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
So the first girlfriend who she kept on cheating on
like willingly and intentionally non mistakingly starts dealing with her
homeboy that she considers to be a brother.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Yeah, m lord.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
So she seeks comfort under the sheets with the homie
and the girlfriend finds out, you know, the world, the cheater,
the original cheater finds out and she can't take that. Yes,
they can dish it, but they can't take it. Yeah, okay,
is that story done?
Speaker 3 (05:43):
No?
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Oh, jesus go in there's more homie hopping bitch girl
after you done slept?
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Whatever? Read? What the hell please? She goes.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
I had no right to be, they said, had no
right to be upset, which I can understand because I
fucked up and betrayed her trust, but I try my
best to get her back. And the fact that my
best friend would go and think that it's okay to
take a girl that he knew I want so bad,
it's fucked up. So I'm sending this message to ask
was I wrong for feeling the way I do this
day and holding a grudge against these two people that
(06:14):
I call friends, and one of them that I would
have liked to call my girlfriend. It's been four months
since we've spoken to either of them, and I have
no intention on going back, but I want to know
from you guys firsthand if I was wrong or right.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Don't try and put this out on my mask. She
did not say I want to know from you guys.
She said, I want to know from you.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Jess. Then what you are not the expert here, you're
just the reader. Thank you.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
I love this show all right now, y'all see, I'll
tailor try to get in on the girl.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
You are just the narrator.
Speaker 4 (06:45):
Huh.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Hold up, hold up, I know the shit getting good,
but listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial.
If you love me, you'll listen. Okay, So, hell yeah,
I think you was wrong. What the fuck you mean
you was wrong? You was wrong from the jump. You
just got a taste of your own medicine. Now, as
far as the loyalty lies with your homeboy, okay, there's
(07:06):
a few things I would like to say about that.
Maybe he thought it was a free for all. Maybe
y'all have shared bitches before. You can't say what bitches
off of them? And what bitch is you feel me,
especially if you're treating the main bitch like a side bitch.
You know what I'm saying, so, and then is this
a woman or is this a okay, and so your
girl it seems like it is a woman man Okay,
(07:29):
either way, I'll just answer two ways, just in case
you are a woman or a man. So, if you
are a woman, your girlfriend was bisexual, because ain't no
way a man cause still if she was a full
blown gay, okay. If you are a man, yeah, he
broke the brother code. You're a homeboy that you considered
to be a brother. However, he said he hasn't spoken
to either one of them. This person said it either
(07:51):
one for four months. Oh, you're giving them more time
to be bumping the ground and then, baby, it no
matter whether you speak to them or not now because
they both give you a taste of your own medicines.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
They've been fucking Oh.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Believe that the longer you don't talk to them, the
more they talk to each other. So I just want
to let you know you lost them and that's karma
for your ass you need to do. I hate telling
people to go heal because sometimes that's just how people are.
You know what I'm saying. I don't know where you
would be healing from, because I don't know your whole story.
You just gave me the whole story. I'm talking about hoe.
(08:23):
You gave me the whole story, not your whole story.
So I don't know what I would be telling you
to recover from, or to seek therapy on, or anything
like that. But you lost them, and it is what
it is. But you know what, this is a perfect
case of you never know what you got til it's gone.
Because you missed this bitch. I know you miss her.
(08:43):
I know you do, or you wouldn't be writing me
and revealing all of that crazy business surrounding your relationship
when you know you're in the wrong. Sometimes people just
need to hear their own shit repeat it back to
them because you know you were wrong. You dropped the
ball on a good girl eyes. I don't know she
was to be fucking your home boy, but before she
fucked your home boy, she was a good girl apparently,
(09:05):
and you were sleeping around on it. Then you said
you even fell head over heels for a second side, bitch,
not the first one. Now, at first, I thought you
were saying you were bringing these girls into your relationship,
like that's one of you guys's desire. I mean, like
that's a desire of both of you. Like you guys
have like a not an open relationship, but what is
it called? Like, yeah, a polyamorous relationship. We y'all have
(09:28):
a third girlfriend and a fourth girlfriend and y'all actually
go get bitches together or something like that.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
That's what I was like hoping that that was.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
But no, you was just outright cheating and falling in
love on her, and now that she fell in love
with your homie, you ain't talking to neither one of them.
It is what it is. You obviously need a new
friend and a wake up call because you need to
be loyal. That's what loyalty is all about. That's what
being faithful is all about. You love doing it, but
you don't like when it's done to you. So your
question to me was were you wrong?
Speaker 2 (09:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (09:58):
You were wrong because, like I said, this is just
your karma. Bookie back, So it is what it is.
Get back to me because I want to be updated.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
I want to know. I don't want to misgender you.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
I want to know if you're a woman, if you're
a man, I want to know what you went through
to actually get here, why you couldn't stop cheating on
your girl. I want to know, do you tell that
it's any reconciliation between you and your homie?
Speaker 2 (10:18):
How long y'all been homies? Is some shit?
Speaker 1 (10:20):
You know, you left quite a lot of meat off
the bone. So yeah, period, Moving on, Go ahead, Taylor.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
Hey Jess, I can't believe I'm even saying this, but
I'm very much attracted to my sister in law.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Wait a minute, what the hell is going on? Oh,
I can't even believe I'm saying this. I can't believe
you feel that way with the five All right, go ahead.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
Me and my fiancee have been together for almost sixty
years now. I'm thirty years old and my fiance is
thirty one. Don't get me wrong, I love my girl
and I want to be with her. I don't know
where these feelings for my sister in law came from,
but here we are.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
My sister in law has always.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
Been around and me and her are real close because
I did over smoking, even.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
Showed her how to roll her first blunt.
Speaker 3 (11:05):
She ended up moving to Virginia last year because her
husband is in the military and got stationed out there.
She came back here to Arizona after being going for
about seven months she started for like two months and
I didn't even I didn't get the feelings.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
Until like two days before she was about to leave.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
I always thought she looked good, but never looked at
her in the way I do now. You have been
texting every day since she has left and went back
to Virginia. Nothing crazy, just TikTok videos and talk about
random shit. I would never tell her how I feel
because I don't want her sister my fiance to find
out and wanted want to mess up our close relationship either.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
Well, if you got damn wife listened to can't fleet
reckless baby, you'll be divorced by them all.
Speaker 3 (11:46):
I don't know what to do you ever, just think
sometimes you ended up with the wrong sister.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
Oh god, Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
The sister in law was ambitious, sexy, and a hustler.
My fiance, on the other isn't too ambitious. I think
that's the reason I'm so attragic to my sister in law.
Help me out, give me some advice on what I
should do here.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
Oh my god, what is the matter with you? You
already married to the system. They're married, yet you're not
married yet. Nigga talking about if they ain't married yet
girl would still hope.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
Ah oh gosh, Okay.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
Now we got a commercial and if you click off
of this podcast, I swear I'm gonna beat your ass.
Listen now, I'm not even gonna lie neck like I've
never been in this situation, but not the same.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
Not not mess with the wrong brother, no, but the friend.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
Like you know how you'd be like, damn, I gonna
mess with the wrong friend because you jumping out.
Speaker 2 (12:39):
They are early in shait. You see this nigga driving
you cute.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
He got his head on straight, and then you see
another niggaho got his head on a little straight up.
He'd be like, ah thish onng boy. Damn, I made
a choice to quick all right. So I've been in
that situation before, however I did not act on it.
But this is even worse because these are siblings. Bookie,
the fuck? What the fuck is wrong with you? Your
(13:05):
fiance is gonna be mighty pissed with you. Now, you
said you didn't want to tell the sister how you feel.
Do you think the sister feels the same about you?
That's something that you didn't let me know. And then
I'm bonding over smoking baby, I even sort of how
to roll her first blunt?
Speaker 2 (13:22):
What the hell is.
Speaker 4 (13:25):
Y'oll?
Speaker 2 (13:26):
That is crazy? That is so crazy to me.
Speaker 1 (13:31):
It's a little childish, you know, y'all bonding over being
high and shit, that's crazy. But you said there are
certain things that you do like about her, her ambition
and so on and so forth. Are you insinuating that
your fiance does not have ambition, she does not have
like goals and you know, potential success? Is that what
(13:55):
she lacks? Because I'm trying to figure out how you
are more into her, sister. And then you said at first,
you you know, did the we do all that like
make you attract as her two days before she left?
And then honestly, I don't think it's just innocent tiktoks
and random shit that y'all speaking about. If you feel
this strongly about her, and if you're writing me about her,
(14:15):
it has to what you think, Taylor, I feel like
it's it's definitely more. Don't get too happy, just answer
and that's it.
Speaker 3 (14:23):
I think this sister likes him too, because why are
you talking to my fiancees like y'all too close to talking?
Speaker 2 (14:30):
Yeah? Yeah, do you believe they don't they did anything
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
Yeah, I wouldn't just jump ahead and say like, yeah,
they've had sex, but I do believe that they've probably
had conversations about it lightly or they have mentioned, oh,
if I could be with you, this will happen if
you weren't dating my sister, or I wish things were
different those type of situations, as innocent as they could
probably get it without crossing that line of physical intimacy
(15:02):
or whatever.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
But I but what was the question again? How do
I go about it? Or what the hell? Because what
do you do well?
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Because the whole family knows you, so say if you
do act like you in the movie, because they do
the shit in the movies, they'll leave what they wit
and who their heart lies with. The family gonna hate
your ass, favel because if this is your fiance, the sister,
you've met her family already and they'll hate the sister
(15:36):
and they'll hate you. They're gonna be looking at you
all for the rest of you all lives like these
clown as holes.
Speaker 2 (15:41):
You know what I'm saying. They're gonna look at y'all
real crazy.
Speaker 1 (15:44):
And then think about the heartbreak that the sister would
feel that your future wife would feel and you talking
about y'all wanted to find out. This is a big
secret that you would be keeping from her. I have
no idea how this will play out for you, but
I do think both of your asses need to be
put on blast. And I'm sorry you are very wrong,
and you should go about it by first sitting down
(16:05):
with your fiance, telling your fiance how you feel.
Speaker 2 (16:08):
I know he probably listening to this shit like bitch, I.
Speaker 1 (16:10):
Would never go sit down with my but I think
you should because this feeling is not gonna go away.
And then you talk to her sister, and then you
talk to the sister like, well, I told her, so
we're sol and for some reason, I don't know if
the sister will be with him though.
Speaker 2 (16:27):
I just think it's or the sister could be trapping
the fiance. Like see, I told you, m.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
If they play a little games like that and my
baby drop, I'm hungry, I'm pregnant the baby.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
If they playing little games like that, bitch, I ain't
gonna lie.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
I would do that too, I ain't gonna lie uh
my sister, I would cry lad on thinking everything.
Speaker 2 (16:58):
They'd be like, I got you, but that's.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
Wighty you know if they really doing that, that's all
pretty that shit that I did in my early twenties,
late teen. It's like, no, we're not doing that just
to somebody's life. Y'all planning on walking down the aisle,
be real with your wife. Sarpy can get you do
any and everything. Tom heals all wounds. I don't know
about this one, but buddy, you gotta be honest with
the one that you're walking down the aisle with because
(17:22):
when y'all exchange those vowels, y'all are best friends. You're
making a commitment, like you gotta be honest, and sometimes
honesty definitely pierces, like it hurts. But Tom heals all wounds,
and I think that she would respect your honesty. She
probably want to beat the hell out of her sister
and push back the wedding, if not break up with
your ass. But at least you got your truth out
(17:42):
because if you don't tell her, i'ma tell him.
Speaker 2 (17:44):
So we got we got his name. His name is Jeremy, Jeremy.
Speaker 1 (17:49):
Jeremy Taylor, Jeremy. Like I said, I will find your wife,
your fiance and tell her. If you tell, I'm giving
you two weeks get back with me, update me, love
you and ladies and gentlemen. Just like that, we've come
to yet another ending of another episode with your girl.
Jo's hilarious and Taylor so and I have something note
(18:13):
soon announce this is the end of season three. However,
I've just been renewed for season four Carefully Records, so
I will be continuing to fix mess in the future.
And I'm only taking a few weeks off, y'all. Nothing
nothing big, nothing major, maybe like two weeks and then
I'll be back with season four, new cover art, news stories,
(18:33):
bigger stories. Taylor, you're gonna read again until I had
this baby. Yeah, yeah, so she's gonna read from me, y'all,
either her or Naya. Love y'all and in my deepest panboys, peace.
Speaker 4 (19:08):
Taken a.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:20):
If I sound tired, you guys are here.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
I'm coming from Baltimore just getting my hair done, and
I live in New York, New Jersey. Now, like you know, between,
I'm loyal thought and everybody's like, you know what, It's
plenty of places that you could have got your hair
done in Jersey and in New York and Brooklyn and
Queens and all that, but I don't know them.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
I'm gonna stick to what I know. Person.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Now, I didn't go to Baltimore in the Hood to
get my goddamn had done because we were head of
a caller call up and.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Envy sold to call.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
I had drove to Baltimore and I got my head
and he's gonna say, stop the hood book a mess.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Sorry, don't nobody going to to get it for her?
Hand on?
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Trust me, I'm not leaving one to go to my
old hood to get my hair done.
Speaker 2 (01:03):
No, I'm not.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Kara Mac is definitely professional of all the professionals, and
she has her own sweet so shout out to her.
She's in Baltimore and it's not Baltimore City, it's Notingham, Maryland.
And you know how you just say that one person
that knows your head, that knows, like exactly how you
like your parts, because I got full lockshaw knows how
you like your parts, knows just enough baby hair to
(01:27):
leave out or edges or whatever if you got them.
If you don't, you have to take from your hairline
like I used to, but now I have a little
bit edges. So she knows exactly the amounts to leave
out and everything. And have you ever gone to the
hair salon and you get up and you like it,
but then you have to go home and fix it
to your exact liking. I hate having to do that,
(01:48):
especially with the amounts of money that I pay to
get my hair done. I don't have to do that
with Kara at all, not one bit, not single a
little bit. So I will be traveling no matter what.
I will cross the ocean for Karra. Even though that
sounds a little gap. It's about my hair, Okay, So
we're gonna get into it.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
What do I be doing?
Speaker 1 (02:04):
I'll be fixing mess, and I'm gonna have Taylor reed
because I don't feel like it.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
You already know what it is, so Taylor kick it off. Girl.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
All right, hey, Jess. So there's gonna be a lot
of information that's taken. But I was in relationship for
three years and I was unfaithful.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
I'll be honest.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
There was this one girl I was seeing for quite
a while on the side that my girl.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
Also knew about.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
Then this third girl came as in my girlfriend, the
side chick and now another side chick, and I kind
of fell head over heels for her, so she fell
in love with the side chick. So I started seeing
this third girl.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
We hit it off.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Everything's good, and I tell her that I'm in a
relationship and she says that she's cool with it, so
as long as I'm honest with her and tell her
the truth about everything. Mind you, she had just gotten
out of relationship herself where the boyfriend was cheating in
this and that. So I started to pursue something with
this girl while still in a relationship. And one day
I'm at work and she calls me saying that she
(03:01):
found out that I had a second snapchat and that
I was still talking to the one girl from before,
and then she said that she basically couldn't trust me
anymore and she couldn't see herself being with me. Not
I only knew this girl for like a month when
this happened, but I was head over heels for her
and wanted her to be mine.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
So I did everything.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Hold on, men, this person is doing all this in
a relationship with somebody else.
Speaker 3 (03:23):
Yeah, but what I think it's her girlfriend found out.
Speaker 2 (03:30):
That's how it's making seem okay.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
So her girlfriend found out about the other girl that
she fell in love with, she was head over heels
with okay, all right, And then.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
I did the second snapchat. I dropped all my hoes
and I tried to be faithful to her, but she
just wanted to be friends and wanted nothing to do
with me. Now, mind you, behind the scenes, I have
a friend of four years who knows about everything about
the side chick, about everything in my relationship at a time,
and about this girl, every small detail. So after everything,
and after she said she just wanted to be friends,
(04:06):
she texted me one day and says that her and
my friend hung out and that he confessed to have
feelings for her. Mind you, this was a couple of
days after she had decided to break things off with me,
so I was still a little heartbroken.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
She said that she felt the same for him. There's
a guy involved. Now I am so confused with the.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
How, and I have a retaliation anger of whatever you
want to call it. I dropped both of them. I
stopped talking to both of them. I called him a
piece of shit. To me, he's scum. And the fact
that he would do that to someone that calls him
my brother is shitty.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Okay. So her friends or brother, oh, okay.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Okay, So her brother started fucking one of her bitches,
like her homeboy who she considers a brother, started fucking
with one of the girls that she liked.
Speaker 2 (04:52):
But she is a serial cheater, so it shouldn't matter. Okay,
go ahead.
Speaker 3 (04:56):
And as for her, I think she's a homie hopping
bitch that they both s that I was overreacting to
the situation and I had no right to be upset,
which I can't understand because I fucked up and betrayed
her trust. Okay, So her ex basically was fucking with
her homie.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
So the first girlfriend who she kept on cheating on
like willingly and intentionally non mistakingly starts dealing with her
homeboy that she considers to be a brother.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Yeah, m lord.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
So she seeks comfort under the sheets with the homie
and the girlfriend finds out, you know, the world, the cheater,
the original cheater finds out and she can't take that. Yes,
they can dish it, but they can't take it. Yeah, okay,
is that story done?
Speaker 3 (05:43):
No?
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Oh, jesus go in there's more homie hopping bitch girl
after you done slept?
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Whatever? Read? What the hell please? She goes.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
I had no right to be, they said, had no
right to be upset, which I can understand because I
fucked up and betrayed her trust, but I try my
best to get her back. And the fact that my
best friend would go and think that it's okay to
take a girl that he knew I want so bad,
it's fucked up. So I'm sending this message to ask
was I wrong for feeling the way I do this
day and holding a grudge against these two people that
(06:14):
I call friends, and one of them that I would
have liked to call my girlfriend. It's been four months
since we've spoken to either of them, and I have
no intention on going back, but I want to know
from you guys firsthand if I was wrong or right.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
Don't try and put this out on my mask. She
did not say I want to know from you guys.
She said, I want to know from you.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Jess. Then what you are not the expert here, you're
just the reader. Thank you.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
I love this show all right now, y'all see, I'll
tailor try to get in on the girl.
Speaker 2 (06:42):
You are just the narrator.
Speaker 4 (06:45):
Huh.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Hold up, hold up, I know the shit getting good,
but listen to just a couple seconds of a commercial.
If you love me, you'll listen. Okay, So, hell yeah,
I think you was wrong. What the fuck you mean
you was wrong? You was wrong from the jump. You
just got a taste of your own medicine. Now, as
far as the loyalty lies with your homeboy, okay, there's
(07:06):
a few things I would like to say about that.
Maybe he thought it was a free for all. Maybe
y'all have shared bitches before. You can't say what bitches
off of them? And what bitch is you feel me,
especially if you're treating the main bitch like a side bitch.
You know what I'm saying, so, and then is this
a woman or is this a okay, and so your
girl it seems like it is a woman man Okay,
(07:29):
either way, I'll just answer two ways, just in case
you are a woman or a man. So, if you
are a woman, your girlfriend was bisexual, because ain't no
way a man cause still if she was a full
blown gay, okay. If you are a man, yeah, he
broke the brother code. You're a homeboy that you considered
to be a brother. However, he said he hasn't spoken
to either one of them. This person said it either
(07:51):
one for four months. Oh, you're giving them more time
to be bumping the ground and then, baby, it no
matter whether you speak to them or not now because
they both give you a taste of your own medicines.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
They've been fucking Oh.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Believe that the longer you don't talk to them, the
more they talk to each other. So I just want
to let you know you lost them and that's karma
for your ass you need to do. I hate telling
people to go heal because sometimes that's just how people are.
You know what I'm saying. I don't know where you
would be healing from, because I don't know your whole story.
You just gave me the whole story. I'm talking about hoe.
(08:23):
You gave me the whole story, not your whole story.
So I don't know what I would be telling you
to recover from, or to seek therapy on, or anything
like that. But you lost them, and it is what
it is. But you know what, this is a perfect
case of you never know what you got til it's gone.
Because you missed this bitch. I know you miss her.
(08:43):
I know you do, or you wouldn't be writing me
and revealing all of that crazy business surrounding your relationship
when you know you're in the wrong. Sometimes people just
need to hear their own shit repeat it back to
them because you know you were wrong. You dropped the
ball on a good girl eyes. I don't know she
was to be fucking your home boy, but before she
fucked your home boy, she was a good girl apparently,
(09:05):
and you were sleeping around on it. Then you said
you even fell head over heels for a second side, bitch,
not the first one. Now, at first, I thought you
were saying you were bringing these girls into your relationship,
like that's one of you guys's desire. I mean, like
that's a desire of both of you. Like you guys
have like a not an open relationship, but what is
it called? Like, yeah, a polyamorous relationship. We y'all have
(09:28):
a third girlfriend and a fourth girlfriend and y'all actually
go get bitches together or something like that.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
That's what I was like hoping that that was.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
But no, you was just outright cheating and falling in
love on her, and now that she fell in love
with your homie, you ain't talking to neither one of them.
It is what it is. You obviously need a new
friend and a wake up call because you need to
be loyal. That's what loyalty is all about. That's what
being faithful is all about. You love doing it, but
you don't like when it's done to you. So your
question to me was were you wrong?
Speaker 2 (09:57):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (09:58):
You were wrong because, like I said, this is just
your karma. Bookie back, So it is what it is.
Get back to me because I want to be updated.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
I want to know. I don't want to misgender you.
Speaker 1 (10:07):
I want to know if you're a woman, if you're
a man, I want to know what you went through
to actually get here, why you couldn't stop cheating on
your girl. I want to know, do you tell that
it's any reconciliation between you and your homie?
Speaker 2 (10:18):
How long y'all been homies? Is some shit?
Speaker 1 (10:20):
You know, you left quite a lot of meat off
the bone. So yeah, period, Moving on, Go ahead, Taylor.
Speaker 3 (10:27):
Hey Jess, I can't believe I'm even saying this, but
I'm very much attracted to my sister in law.
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Wait a minute, what the hell is going on? Oh,
I can't even believe I'm saying this. I can't believe
you feel that way with the five All right, go ahead.
Speaker 3 (10:41):
Me and my fiancee have been together for almost sixty
years now. I'm thirty years old and my fiance is
thirty one. Don't get me wrong, I love my girl
and I want to be with her. I don't know
where these feelings for my sister in law came from,
but here we are.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
My sister in law has always.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
Been around and me and her are real close because
I did over smoking, even.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
Showed her how to roll her first blunt.
Speaker 3 (11:05):
She ended up moving to Virginia last year because her
husband is in the military and got stationed out there.
She came back here to Arizona after being going for
about seven months she started for like two months and
I didn't even I didn't get the feelings.
Speaker 2 (11:17):
Until like two days before she was about to leave.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
I always thought she looked good, but never looked at
her in the way I do now. You have been
texting every day since she has left and went back
to Virginia. Nothing crazy, just TikTok videos and talk about
random shit. I would never tell her how I feel
because I don't want her sister my fiance to find
out and wanted want to mess up our close relationship either.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
Well, if you got damn wife listened to can't fleet
reckless baby, you'll be divorced by them all.
Speaker 3 (11:46):
I don't know what to do you ever, just think
sometimes you ended up with the wrong sister.
Speaker 2 (11:52):
Oh god, Oh my god.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
The sister in law was ambitious, sexy, and a hustler.
My fiance, on the other isn't too ambitious. I think
that's the reason I'm so attragic to my sister in law.
Help me out, give me some advice on what I
should do here.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
Oh my god, what is the matter with you? You
already married to the system. They're married, yet you're not
married yet. Nigga talking about if they ain't married yet
girl would still hope.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
Ah oh gosh, Okay.
Speaker 1 (12:21):
Now we got a commercial and if you click off
of this podcast, I swear I'm gonna beat your ass.
Listen now, I'm not even gonna lie neck like I've
never been in this situation, but not the same.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
Not not mess with the wrong brother, no, but the friend.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
Like you know how you'd be like, damn, I gonna
mess with the wrong friend because you jumping out.
Speaker 2 (12:39):
They are early in shait. You see this nigga driving
you cute.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
He got his head on straight, and then you see
another niggaho got his head on a little straight up.
He'd be like, ah thish onng boy. Damn, I made
a choice to quick all right. So I've been in
that situation before, however I did not act on it.
But this is even worse because these are siblings. Bookie,
the fuck? What the fuck is wrong with you? Your
(13:05):
fiance is gonna be mighty pissed with you. Now, you
said you didn't want to tell the sister how you feel.
Do you think the sister feels the same about you?
That's something that you didn't let me know. And then
I'm bonding over smoking baby, I even sort of how
to roll her first blunt?
Speaker 2 (13:22):
What the hell is.
Speaker 4 (13:25):
Y'oll?
Speaker 2 (13:26):
That is crazy? That is so crazy to me.
Speaker 1 (13:31):
It's a little childish, you know, y'all bonding over being
high and shit, that's crazy. But you said there are
certain things that you do like about her, her ambition
and so on and so forth. Are you insinuating that
your fiance does not have ambition, she does not have
like goals and you know, potential success? Is that what
(13:55):
she lacks? Because I'm trying to figure out how you
are more into her, sister. And then you said at first,
you you know, did the we do all that like
make you attract as her two days before she left?
And then honestly, I don't think it's just innocent tiktoks
and random shit that y'all speaking about. If you feel
this strongly about her, and if you're writing me about her,
(14:15):
it has to what you think, Taylor, I feel like
it's it's definitely more. Don't get too happy, just answer
and that's it.
Speaker 3 (14:23):
I think this sister likes him too, because why are
you talking to my fiancees like y'all too close to talking?
Speaker 2 (14:30):
Yeah? Yeah, do you believe they don't they did anything
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (14:35):
Yeah, I wouldn't just jump ahead and say like, yeah,
they've had sex, but I do believe that they've probably
had conversations about it lightly or they have mentioned, oh,
if I could be with you, this will happen if
you weren't dating my sister, or I wish things were
different those type of situations, as innocent as they could
probably get it without crossing that line of physical intimacy
(15:02):
or whatever.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
But I but what was the question again? How do
I go about it? Or what the hell? Because what
do you do well?
Speaker 1 (15:12):
Because the whole family knows you, so say if you
do act like you in the movie, because they do
the shit in the movies, they'll leave what they wit
and who their heart lies with. The family gonna hate
your ass, favel because if this is your fiance, the sister,
you've met her family already and they'll hate the sister
(15:36):
and they'll hate you. They're gonna be looking at you
all for the rest of you all lives like these
clown as holes.
Speaker 2 (15:41):
You know what I'm saying. They're gonna look at y'all
real crazy.
Speaker 1 (15:44):
And then think about the heartbreak that the sister would
feel that your future wife would feel and you talking
about y'all wanted to find out. This is a big
secret that you would be keeping from her. I have
no idea how this will play out for you, but
I do think both of your asses need to be
put on blast. And I'm sorry you are very wrong,
and you should go about it by first sitting down
(16:05):
with your fiance, telling your fiance how you feel.
Speaker 2 (16:08):
I know he probably listening to this shit like bitch, I.
Speaker 1 (16:10):
Would never go sit down with my but I think
you should because this feeling is not gonna go away.
And then you talk to her sister, and then you
talk to the sister like, well, I told her, so
we're sol and for some reason, I don't know if
the sister will be with him though.
Speaker 2 (16:27):
I just think it's or the sister could be trapping
the fiance. Like see, I told you, m.
Speaker 1 (16:36):
If they play a little games like that and my
baby drop, I'm hungry, I'm pregnant the baby.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
If they playing little games like that, bitch, I ain't
gonna lie.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
I would do that too, I ain't gonna lie uh
my sister, I would cry lad on thinking everything.
Speaker 2 (16:58):
They'd be like, I got you, but that's.
Speaker 1 (17:01):
Wighty you know if they really doing that, that's all
pretty that shit that I did in my early twenties,
late teen. It's like, no, we're not doing that just
to somebody's life. Y'all planning on walking down the aisle,
be real with your wife. Sarpy can get you do
any and everything. Tom heals all wounds. I don't know
about this one, but buddy, you gotta be honest with
the one that you're walking down the aisle with because
(17:22):
when y'all exchange those vowels, y'all are best friends. You're
making a commitment, like you gotta be honest, and sometimes
honesty definitely pierces, like it hurts. But Tom heals all wounds,
and I think that she would respect your honesty. She
probably want to beat the hell out of her sister
and push back the wedding, if not break up with
your ass. But at least you got your truth out
(17:42):
because if you don't tell her, i'ma tell him.
Speaker 2 (17:44):
So we got we got his name. His name is Jeremy, Jeremy.
Speaker 1 (17:49):
Jeremy Taylor, Jeremy. Like I said, I will find your wife,
your fiance and tell her. If you tell, I'm giving
you two weeks get back with me, update me, love
you and ladies and gentlemen. Just like that, we've come
to yet another ending of another episode with your girl.
Jo's hilarious and Taylor so and I have something note
(18:13):
soon announce this is the end of season three. However,
I've just been renewed for season four Carefully Records, so
I will be continuing to fix mess in the future.
And I'm only taking a few weeks off, y'all. Nothing
nothing big, nothing major, maybe like two weeks and then
I'll be back with season four, new cover art, news stories,
(18:33):
bigger stories. Taylor, you're gonna read again until I had
this baby. Yeah, yeah, so she's gonna read from me, y'all,
either her or Naya. Love y'all and in my deepest panboys, peace.
Speaker 4 (19:08):
Taken a.
Speaker 1 (20:00):
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