August 10, 2023 • 24 mins
On this week’s episode, Amara explores trust and forgiveness after a significant other cheats. Is it possible to forgive a cheater and trust again? If you’re contemplating how to forgive someone after being cheated on or maybe you did the stepping out, this episode offers advice for anyone navigating the aftermath of a betrayal.
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We talk about this all the time.
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But I just wanted to start up a little motivation
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Speaker 1 (02:01):
Your body will only have so much time that it
is going to be willing to do that. So that
being said, let's really get down to today's topic.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Do you forgive a cheater?
Can you retrust a cheater? And cheating comes in many
many forms. It could be cheating as as a friendship
or obviously, as we mainly know, cheating in a relationship.
Once a cheater, can you forgive a cheating you know,
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spouse partner?
Speaker 1 (02:33):
Can you trust them again? How do you move on? Personally?
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Let me start here, I have been cheated on. I
wouldn't say that I have cheated and I know that. No,
it depends what you consider cheating. If texting is cheating,
I've definitely cheated. If flirting with other people is cheating,
I've definitely flirted. But to me, everything is cheating. Obviously,
once you start the emotional connection, you're definitely cheating. But
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the sexual part, to me, that's like the biggest cheat,
right when you're physically exchanging you know, fluids, and you're
like you're physically there. Oh, that's you're cheating, cheating, Like,
we can't come back from that.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
It's terrible.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
If we're texting someone, but if you haven't met them,
that's bad because you're entertaining them. You're using that mental
space to entertain and that's really how relationships start. Once
you get into the emotional part because in many occasions,
you can have sex with someone, right, So I've heard
from men you can have sex with them and still
love your girl and it don't mean nothing.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
You're just having a moment. You had sex, Boom done,
that's over.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
But in my case, I feel like if you have
sex as a woman, for many of us, it becomes
an emotional thing, right, It becomes an emotional an emotional experience.
But then again, I don't know when you get to
see it anymore, because these days, I feel like women
are so empower where they just feel like, I just
want to have sex.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
I'm gonna have it. It doesn't mean anything.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
I'm just, you know, is a body, I'm a desire
and then that's it and it's over. But cheating is
definitely a sensitive emotional subject that you know, can trigger
feelings and be feelings of betrayal, of being heard, of
being angry. How do we surpass that? Do we go
to therapy? Do we talk it out? Do we take
a break? Do you believe in taking breaks? You know,
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if someone cheats on you, you know, I just think that
we need a break to self reflect and then we
come back. I don't know I don't believe in that.
If we, if you, if any man ever comes to be,
I need a break. That means you're not into me anymore,
because I feel like, if you really want a relationship
to work out, you gotta you gotta tug it out,
you gotta stick it through, you gotta you gotta be
in that space, whether we're not talking, but we're here
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together because we're trying to figure it out. The moment
you give space, space gives opportunity, opportunity for somebody else
to come, opportunity for them to realize the true self.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
Worth and be like, you know what, screw this. I'm
not gonna forgive you. I'm just gonna, you know, move on.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
And I will say, there's no perfect relationship. There is
no perfect relationship. Even if you think all.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
This person cheating on me.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
I'm not I'm saying forgive your cheating, you know, partner,
I'm not saying that.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
But think about this too.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
If you already put in so much time and effort
and all these things, is there a possibility that.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
You can work things out?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
You know, I'm not saying the cheating is a mistake,
because it's not a mistake. It's a choice. You chose
to entertain this person. You chose to physically be in
this place.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
You chose that. You know, nobody forced you. You decided
to do that. However, there is no perfect relationship. There
is no perfect relationship. It's tough out hearing these streets.
And if you find someone that you are.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Really compatible, that you guys get along, that everything is great,
but there was a cheating situation. Is there any possible
way that you guys can work it out? Do you
believe in talking to your mother, to your father, to
your sisters, to your brother, to a family member about
your personal relationship?
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Do you think that's helpful?
Speaker 2 (05:51):
You know, if you have maybe like somebody in the
family who's been married for like thirty forty years, right,
should you go to them and ask for advice? I
would say most definitely, but hopefully not someone in your family.
I think that getting advice from someone who's been through
it already is super important. I think that it's the
best way to go, not to be out here talking
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to your single friends. I'm not saying that your single
friends can't give you good advice, right, but you single,
you ain't got nobody, you haven't figured it out yourself.
For those that have been married and through the good,
through the bad, through the thin, they've been rocking together solid.
Whether you sleep in the couch, I sleep in the band.
So we can figure this out. I think it's important
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to get advice from people that are there in that space, right.
I also think it's important not to give up that
quickly on you know, don't give up so quickly on
your relationship because of cheating. I know it's gonna sound crazy,
y'all is gonna come for me. I'm not saying forgive
your cheating partner. And it also, I guess it doesn't
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matter how much you've been cheating, does it, ladies? Because
I feel like women forgive quicker than men do.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Why is that? Is it because we're more accustomed to being,
you know, forgiving? I don't know. I feel that men.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
Can't take the pain that they bring to women when
they cheat. When a woman cheats on a man, he
can go through a depression. All types of things is
gonna happen. A woman is gonna cry, She's gonna probably
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feel insecure herself. She's gonna but deep down inside because
she loves this person or cares about this person, she's
gonna try to figure out a way to make things work.
She's gonna try to figure out a way to push through.
But that also has its limits. How much cheating, how
much betrayal, how much disrespect, how much all of that
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hurts anger can you really take before you decide to
just leave? In many occasions, I know that there's women
that have stayed because of their kids, you know, because
of their family. In many occasions, you know women and
also man, I know men that been like you know
what gentlemen whip put me seahos I do only because
of my children. I want to see them grow. I
want to be part of their life. I am so
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in love with my children that I am putting up
with this situation with this woman right just so that
I can be in this space. I'm trying to do
the best that I can, but that can be very
tough too. For example, I personally, I did the best
that I could to stretch out my relationship with the
father of my children because I really wanted to. I
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really wanted to have a family. I wanted to figure
out how to bring this together. What can I do?
In many occasions, you blame yourself for other people's behaviors
you feel as a failure.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
You blame yourself because someone else.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
Chose to betray you or chose to and you feel
like it's your fault. I must have done something. No,
I feel that we're all adults, we're all grown. Whoever
decides to cheat, whoever decides to betray, whoever decides to
not complete their part of the agreement in the relationship,
it is not your fault.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
You shouldn't feel guilty about it. You shouldn't feel bad
about it.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
You shouldn't question your body, you shouldn't question your personality.
You shouldn't question none of those things. I think that
communication is key, right, and that's part of rebuilding a
relationship after after someone has cheated.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
How do you rebuild, you know?
Speaker 2 (09:29):
I think that having conversations, going back out on dates,
all those type of things, going to therapy, going to church,
if you have to go see your local pastor be like, look,
we love each other, but right now the energy has shifted.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
We can't, you know, we can't trust each other anymore.
How do we fix this?
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Sometimes the biggest thing, sometimes though it is always the
biggest foundation of a solid relationship is God, you know,
being able to ask God to give you the strength
that you need to forgive some that you really love
because they have betrayed you, you know, because they have
done you dirty, but you still want to make things work.
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I think that maybe going to church should be like
the number one thing, going to see a pastor, you know,
in prayer together in your bed before you go to sleep,
both holding hands and praying to God to you know,
give you strength to push through. Because I also have
to say, these days, through social media, through dating apps,
through everything else, cheating has become even more accessible. Yes,
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aren't there back in the days they were Chico Lavecina
e lechiro. You know, you would chieve with your local
people in your neighborhood, and I get those things right.
But social media and the Internet now has exposed a
whole different type of world now that in many occasions
you may not even try to you may not even
be trying to look for it, and it just comes
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to you. I'm talking about social media now has become
a catalog for people looking to have either just sex
or being into the relationship or you know, I have
my man, but I want to cheat. I want to
have a fling. I want to have an open relationship.
I want to have a good time. You know. Now
social media has become a catalog, so it's become very
much more difficult to have a solid relationship. So hi forgiveness,
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forgiving your cheating partner. Have you ever been through it?
By the way, hit me up on the comments. Have
you been able to forgive them one hundred percent? Or
do you think that? You say, yeah, I forgive you,
But every so often they're still in the back of
your mind.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
You can look at them and be like, are you
cheating on me? Now?
Speaker 2 (11:34):
Who are you on the phone with? You're in the bathroom,
wait too long? Why did you take your phone into
the bathroom? Why did you turn around your phone? Do
you think that makes you toxic? Do you think that
after you've been cheated on? Those are the reasons why
there's a lot of women that are toxic, those women
that have been hurt and betrayed in the past. And
now you started a new relationship with this woman that's
been slightly damaged by her past experiences.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
Do you think that affects the new relationship.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
If you start a relationship with someone that's been hurt
in the past, whether cheating you know, boyfriend or girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
How do you help them heal?
Speaker 2 (12:13):
I think that that's very important these days. I think
the healing is a very important part of it all.
We're getting into relationships with people that have been hurt,
with people that have been damaged, with people that are bringing.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
Their own baggage.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
And if we're not willing to understand what their experiences
have been, what they've been through, how were we supposed
to have a solid relationship with someone you have to
push through. Don't do anything that's gonna make your significant
other feel like you are being unfaithful. For example, if
your a girl doesn't like you liking other females pictures
on social media, don't do it. Look at it if
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you want, but don't do it. You know why, because
it's gonna be that one like that one like to
you gonna have been like, Oh, I just think that
she's pretty. I think that she's sexy. I think that
whatever the hell, but that one like in this other
person's mind could be like a whole world of you
may be cheating. If you were willing to like her publicly,
you might be talking to her on DM. What about
if you flew her in? What about if you already
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met her, that's too much. And feeling insecure these days
is not just for women. Men go through it too.
There's a lot of men now on social media as well.
Your girl's DM is loaded of men that are waiting
for you to fuck up for two seconds to take
your place, do you know? And I also think it's
important for women if you're in a real relationship and
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men don't entertain it, don't entertain it because even saying hi,
thank you, oh my god, yes you said I'm beautiful,
even the smallest little things like that can destroy a good,
solid relationship with someone that actually has a real foundation.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
I'm just saying. And something else I want to know.
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (13:49):
Ladies, help me figure this out. Do you really believe
that once a cheatter, always a cheater. Do you think
that once they cheat one time, they repeat the same patterns.
Can you forgive them and be like, okay, you know
what you do know me, once you said you were sorry,
you're not even do it again.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
Do you think that people can.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Actually just make mistakes of like, oh, you know, I
was going through a vulnerable moment and I just cheated
on my girl, or I just cheated on my man,
but I really love my man. Can you cheat and
still love your partner, meaning like I just went and
had sex, I just want to entertain this person because
I was bored, because I was emotionally not fulfilled or whatever,
and still realistically love your partner.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
Can you I don't know. I'm trying to figure it out.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
You guys tell me, because I am the type of
woman personally, don't know. Personal I am the type of
woman that if I push and push and push and
push before I go ahead and cheat, I will try
to the end of me. That's something very common in women.
Speaker 1 (14:45):
When a woman.
Speaker 2 (14:45):
Cheats, usually she's already tired, she's over it, she's already
tried to fix her relationship for a long time. Men,
in the other hand, can have sex or cheat and
still come back home like nothing happened, Like this is
my girl. You were just a fling or you were
just the moment, right. I I can't if I cheat,
I don't. I can't cheat. That's too much pressure.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
That's another thing.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
The pressure of cheating is a lot you gotta be
worried about. They get Let me turn my phone or around,
let me put my phone on silent. What about if
you call me? What about if you text me? What
about if you FaceTime me and my girl picks up
the phone, my or my guy is like, Yo, who's this?
You gotta be deleting conversations. You gotta be You got that, listen.
That is a lot of work. Mentally, is very stressful.
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I know that maybe in the beginning it will be
fun and you got it. But once you know, some
time passes, emotions are gonna get involved. You know something
is gonna happen, or you're gonna feel like, oh no,
this is this is too much.
Speaker 1 (15:42):
So I'm not a good cheater. It doesn't work for me.
Speaker 2 (15:46):
You know.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
Usually whenever, even if I start one.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
Relationship right back to back to the other, I've already
finished one. And by the time I finish that one,
we've already been been done while being together. That means
that either we're not even having sex anymore, but we're
supposedly still together.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
You know, because I've heard that too.
Speaker 2 (16:03):
Oh if you cheat and then you start a relationship
like the next day or the next week, oh, you're
already cheating. No, not necessarily, because we see people that
get divorced and like a month later, they're already engaged
to someone else. The way that love is set up
or new relationships, there's no guide book. There's no rule
book on how to find love, on how to be
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in a relationship.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
You know, you never know when things are going to happen.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
I'm just saying, you know, you have to live your
life and live for you, because if you live based
off people's opinions, you're never going to be happy. Rebuilding
trust is the most challenging process of it all.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
You know, being able.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
To to just trust that person. How do you move
past that? How do you trust again after someone has
cheated on you? Is it possible? I believe it is.
With a lot of work and effort, I believe it's possible.
I also do believe that in the back of their minds,
once you cheat and you have I've been able to
forgive them for it. There's a part of me that
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feels like, oh, they think you soft because they know
that you really love them. So it's like, yeah, you
forgave me, but I'm still gonna do it again. Now
this time I'm going trying to do a better sound
and get caught or she just leaves and me like
you know what, you betrayed me, You're disrespectful, you cheated
on me.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
I trusted you and is over.
Speaker 2 (17:18):
But then the next person that you get, what does
that guarantee you that they're not.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
Gonna cheat on you?
Speaker 2 (17:29):
I had a friend that recently just filed for divorce
because her man cheated on her.
Speaker 1 (17:34):
It wasn't one cheat. If you cheated like multiple, multiple, multiple.
Speaker 2 (17:39):
Different type of women in a course of like fifteen years.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
That you've been married, is that for should you forgive?
Speaker 2 (17:46):
And that's another thing I'd be asking because I wonder,
like I've always wanted to get married, that that was
my dream since that was a little girl, my white dress,
blah blah blah blahh and they great, fantastic. These days,
the concept of love, relationship, commitments, all those things have changed.
We have so many people now that are in open
relationships because they don't want to feel like they're being
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cheated on, because they don't want to feel as if, okay,
you know, I don't know, now I got to forgive
you for cheating on me. Meanwhile, if we're both in
a com you know, in an understanding that we're in
an open relationship, you get to do your thing, I
do my thing too, and we're so cool.
Speaker 1 (18:22):
Man. That's a tough one right there.
Speaker 2 (18:24):
I can never be in an open relationship because I
am very panicky about STDSG. You know, that's just me.
I feel like a lot of people are not thinking
about all those things too. Cheating is not just the
fact that of betrayal. It also comes with the physical aspect.
You know. I know a lot of beautiful women who
have been burnt and they don't say anything because I
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even told them, did you tell this person that you
know that you're They're like, no, they didn't ask me,
so I don't got to say. I don't gotta tell.
And that's a terrible mindset. But we find a lot
of men that will go out and about to have
a good time. Right you selfishly decided to make a
decision of enjoying your body, enjoying yourself while having a partner.
Now you go home, you have sex with your partner,
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and now you burn your partner as well.
Speaker 1 (19:10):
All these things can really really like you really got
to think it through these days.
Speaker 2 (19:16):
Imagine just going out to have a good time and
starting to feel weird a week later, going to the
doctor and finding out you have an STD, you know, gone.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
Rhea, syphilis, herpes, HIV.
Speaker 2 (19:27):
Like, there's so many things to protect yourself, and that
doesn't just come from you know. I'm not saying to
be panicky and have when it comes to it, because
I guess that's maybe one of the reasons why I'm
also panicky sexually, and I have been practicing celibacy til
I find someone that I'm like, you're for me, and
I'm for you, and we're here.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
Let's dug it out. Cool. If you feel like you need.
Speaker 2 (19:47):
To be sexually satisfied with multiple women or multiple men
out here in these streets, then you need to be
out here in these streets because I'm trying to be
inside the house. I'm not trying to be part of that,
but I think that is important to all. So think
about that, you know, And the same thing goes for women.
You could have gone outside to have a good time
and just you know, oh, this guy was really cute,
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and then a month.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
Later you come, you know, pregnant or whatever.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
So I'm just saying, let's think about let's think about
the whole picture when it comes to cheating, when it
comes to forgiving the person that you're with you you
can lose a really good relationship because of cheating. You
can lose your trust, you can lose their friendship, you
can lose everything you've ever built with someone because of
a couple of minutes of having fun, of having a
good time. You can physically be damaged. You know, you
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can physically go through a terrible situation because of just
having a good time for a little bit. I think
if you want to be if you want to be
single and you want to have fun, you go ahead
and you do that, but don't be in a committed
relationship with someone who is supposedly trying to be faithful
to you and you go and you do them dirty
behind their back.
Speaker 1 (20:55):
You know, it.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
Affects the trust, It affects your self esteem, It affects
the way that they view themselves, that they view relationships.
It affects your sexual experience with this person, because now
every time you have sex in the back of your mind,
you're thinking about this person.
Speaker 1 (21:08):
That they cheated on.
Speaker 2 (21:10):
You know, you question that whoever it is that they
cheated on, was there sex better?
Speaker 1 (21:16):
You know, why did you go so many times to
the same person?
Speaker 2 (21:19):
What were you looking for that I'm not providing for
you where you're looking for comfort, where you're looking for
a different type of sexual experience, which happens in many occasions.
You know, if you like bondage, if you like a
certain type of sexual experience that your partner is not
giving you at home, You're gonna go find it somewhere else.
If you have someone that likes to be very conservative sexually,
for example, because sex is a very important part of
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a relationship and is one of the reasons why people
cheat for the most part. But if you are with
someone that's very conservative and you like to have you know,
wild sexy fun, you know, sex, and this person is
not providing that. Are they not providing it because you
don't want to tell them? Are they not providing it
because you feel embarrassed? I think it is important to
have the those conversations.
Speaker 1 (22:00):
Listen. I don't want to cheat on you. I don't.
Speaker 2 (22:03):
I but but there's things that I'm into, there's things
I want to experience, there's things I want to experience.
And before I go out of my way to do
it with somebody else and do it the wrong way,
I'd rather do it with you. All those things are
important to me, I don't know if you understand where
I'm coming from.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
If you agree, let me know because I want to
know your opinion.
Speaker 2 (22:24):
There's so many things that we could talk about when
it comes to forgiving, you know, forgiving a cheating spouse,
for getting a cheating boyfriend girlfriend, There's so many layers
into it.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
Do you forgive? Do you not forgive? How do you
move on? You know?
Speaker 2 (22:38):
Do we go to therapy, do we have an open relationship,
do we try different sexual experiences?
Speaker 1 (22:45):
Do we talk to our family? To I done? Though?
Speaker 2 (22:48):
There's so many layers to this is so complex that
I want to know your opinion.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
Oh cheater, cheater, pumpkin eater. Mmm, I don't know. I'm
trying to figure it out just like y'all.
Speaker 2 (23:01):
But anyways, with that being said, that brings us to
the end of today's episode. God, I really want to
know your opinion. Have you ever forgiven someone this cheated
on you? Did it work out? Is it worth even
forgiving them because you.
Speaker 1 (23:15):
Just let it go? I'm not show bar.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
Anyways, listen to the end of today's episode on Exactly Amada,
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We talk about this all the time.
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But I just wanted to start up a little motivation
or let you know, put in the work, work as
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you got to force yourself to get up, pushed through.
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Your body will only have so much time that it
is going to be willing to do that. So that
being said, let's really get down to today's topic.
Speaker 2 (02:11):
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Do you forgive a cheater?
Can you retrust a cheater? And cheating comes in many
many forms. It could be cheating as as a friendship
or obviously, as we mainly know, cheating in a relationship.
Once a cheater, can you forgive a cheating you know,
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spouse partner?
Speaker 1 (02:33):
Can you trust them again? How do you move on? Personally?
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Let me start here, I have been cheated on. I
wouldn't say that I have cheated and I know that. No,
it depends what you consider cheating. If texting is cheating,
I've definitely cheated. If flirting with other people is cheating,
I've definitely flirted. But to me, everything is cheating. Obviously,
once you start the emotional connection, you're definitely cheating. But
(02:58):
the sexual part, to me, that's like the biggest cheat,
right when you're physically exchanging you know, fluids, and you're
like you're physically there. Oh, that's you're cheating, cheating, Like,
we can't come back from that.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
It's terrible.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
If we're texting someone, but if you haven't met them,
that's bad because you're entertaining them. You're using that mental
space to entertain and that's really how relationships start. Once
you get into the emotional part because in many occasions,
you can have sex with someone, right, So I've heard
from men you can have sex with them and still
love your girl and it don't mean nothing.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
You're just having a moment. You had sex, Boom done,
that's over.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
But in my case, I feel like if you have
sex as a woman, for many of us, it becomes
an emotional thing, right, It becomes an emotional an emotional experience.
But then again, I don't know when you get to
see it anymore, because these days, I feel like women
are so empower where they just feel like, I just
want to have sex.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
I'm gonna have it. It doesn't mean anything.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
I'm just, you know, is a body, I'm a desire
and then that's it and it's over. But cheating is
definitely a sensitive emotional subject that you know, can trigger
feelings and be feelings of betrayal, of being heard, of
being angry. How do we surpass that? Do we go
to therapy? Do we talk it out? Do we take
a break? Do you believe in taking breaks? You know,
(04:18):
if someone cheats on you, you know, I just think that
we need a break to self reflect and then we
come back. I don't know I don't believe in that.
If we, if you, if any man ever comes to be,
I need a break. That means you're not into me anymore,
because I feel like, if you really want a relationship
to work out, you gotta you gotta tug it out,
you gotta stick it through, you gotta you gotta be
in that space, whether we're not talking, but we're here
(04:39):
together because we're trying to figure it out. The moment
you give space, space gives opportunity, opportunity for somebody else
to come, opportunity for them to realize the true self.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
Worth and be like, you know what, screw this. I'm
not gonna forgive you. I'm just gonna, you know, move on.
Speaker 2 (04:53):
And I will say, there's no perfect relationship. There is
no perfect relationship. Even if you think all.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
This person cheating on me.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
I'm not I'm saying forgive your cheating, you know, partner,
I'm not saying that.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
But think about this too.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
If you already put in so much time and effort
and all these things, is there a possibility that.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
You can work things out?
Speaker 2 (05:12):
You know, I'm not saying the cheating is a mistake,
because it's not a mistake. It's a choice. You chose
to entertain this person. You chose to physically be in
this place.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
You chose that. You know, nobody forced you. You decided
to do that. However, there is no perfect relationship. There
is no perfect relationship. It's tough out hearing these streets.
And if you find someone that you are.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Really compatible, that you guys get along, that everything is great,
but there was a cheating situation. Is there any possible
way that you guys can work it out? Do you
believe in talking to your mother, to your father, to
your sisters, to your brother, to a family member about
your personal relationship?
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Do you think that's helpful?
Speaker 2 (05:51):
You know, if you have maybe like somebody in the
family who's been married for like thirty forty years, right,
should you go to them and ask for advice? I
would say most definitely, but hopefully not someone in your family.
I think that getting advice from someone who's been through
it already is super important. I think that it's the
best way to go, not to be out here talking
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to your single friends. I'm not saying that your single
friends can't give you good advice, right, but you single,
you ain't got nobody, you haven't figured it out yourself.
For those that have been married and through the good,
through the bad, through the thin, they've been rocking together solid.
Whether you sleep in the couch, I sleep in the band.
So we can figure this out. I think it's important
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to get advice from people that are there in that space, right.
I also think it's important not to give up that
quickly on you know, don't give up so quickly on
your relationship because of cheating. I know it's gonna sound crazy,
y'all is gonna come for me. I'm not saying forgive
your cheating partner. And it also, I guess it doesn't
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matter how much you've been cheating, does it, ladies? Because
I feel like women forgive quicker than men do.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Why is that? Is it because we're more accustomed to being,
you know, forgiving? I don't know. I feel that men.
Speaker 2 (07:10):
Can't take the pain that they bring to women when
they cheat. When a woman cheats on a man, he
can go through a depression. All types of things is
gonna happen. A woman is gonna cry, She's gonna probably
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feel insecure herself. She's gonna but deep down inside because
she loves this person or cares about this person, she's
gonna try to figure out a way to make things work.
She's gonna try to figure out a way to push through.
But that also has its limits. How much cheating, how
much betrayal, how much disrespect, how much all of that
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hurts anger can you really take before you decide to
just leave? In many occasions, I know that there's women
that have stayed because of their kids, you know, because
of their family. In many occasions, you know women and
also man, I know men that been like you know
what gentlemen whip put me seahos I do only because
of my children. I want to see them grow. I
want to be part of their life. I am so
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in love with my children that I am putting up
with this situation with this woman right just so that
I can be in this space. I'm trying to do
the best that I can, but that can be very
tough too. For example, I personally, I did the best
that I could to stretch out my relationship with the
father of my children because I really wanted to. I
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really wanted to have a family. I wanted to figure
out how to bring this together. What can I do?
In many occasions, you blame yourself for other people's behaviors
you feel as a failure.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
You blame yourself because someone else.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
Chose to betray you or chose to and you feel
like it's your fault. I must have done something. No,
I feel that we're all adults, we're all grown. Whoever
decides to cheat, whoever decides to betray, whoever decides to
not complete their part of the agreement in the relationship,
it is not your fault.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
You shouldn't feel guilty about it. You shouldn't feel bad
about it.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
You shouldn't question your body, you shouldn't question your personality.
You shouldn't question none of those things. I think that
communication is key, right, and that's part of rebuilding a
relationship after after someone has cheated.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
How do you rebuild, you know?
Speaker 2 (09:29):
I think that having conversations, going back out on dates,
all those type of things, going to therapy, going to church,
if you have to go see your local pastor be like, look,
we love each other, but right now the energy has shifted.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
We can't, you know, we can't trust each other anymore.
How do we fix this?
Speaker 2 (09:47):
Sometimes the biggest thing, sometimes though it is always the
biggest foundation of a solid relationship is God, you know,
being able to ask God to give you the strength
that you need to forgive some that you really love
because they have betrayed you, you know, because they have
done you dirty, but you still want to make things work.
(10:07):
I think that maybe going to church should be like
the number one thing, going to see a pastor, you know,
in prayer together in your bed before you go to sleep,
both holding hands and praying to God to you know,
give you strength to push through. Because I also have
to say, these days, through social media, through dating apps,
through everything else, cheating has become even more accessible. Yes,
(10:29):
aren't there back in the days they were Chico Lavecina
e lechiro. You know, you would chieve with your local
people in your neighborhood, and I get those things right.
But social media and the Internet now has exposed a
whole different type of world now that in many occasions
you may not even try to you may not even
be trying to look for it, and it just comes
(10:49):
to you. I'm talking about social media now has become
a catalog for people looking to have either just sex
or being into the relationship or you know, I have
my man, but I want to cheat. I want to
have a fling. I want to have an open relationship.
I want to have a good time. You know. Now
social media has become a catalog, so it's become very
much more difficult to have a solid relationship. So hi forgiveness,
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forgiving your cheating partner. Have you ever been through it?
By the way, hit me up on the comments. Have
you been able to forgive them one hundred percent? Or
do you think that? You say, yeah, I forgive you,
But every so often they're still in the back of
your mind.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
You can look at them and be like, are you
cheating on me? Now?
Speaker 2 (11:34):
Who are you on the phone with? You're in the bathroom,
wait too long? Why did you take your phone into
the bathroom? Why did you turn around your phone? Do
you think that makes you toxic? Do you think that
after you've been cheated on? Those are the reasons why
there's a lot of women that are toxic, those women
that have been hurt and betrayed in the past. And
now you started a new relationship with this woman that's
been slightly damaged by her past experiences.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
Do you think that affects the new relationship.
Speaker 2 (12:04):
If you start a relationship with someone that's been hurt
in the past, whether cheating you know, boyfriend or girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
How do you help them heal?
Speaker 2 (12:13):
I think that that's very important these days. I think
the healing is a very important part of it all.
We're getting into relationships with people that have been hurt,
with people that have been damaged, with people that are bringing.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
Their own baggage.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
And if we're not willing to understand what their experiences
have been, what they've been through, how were we supposed
to have a solid relationship with someone you have to
push through. Don't do anything that's gonna make your significant
other feel like you are being unfaithful. For example, if
your a girl doesn't like you liking other females pictures
on social media, don't do it. Look at it if
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you want, but don't do it. You know why, because
it's gonna be that one like that one like to
you gonna have been like, Oh, I just think that
she's pretty. I think that she's sexy. I think that
whatever the hell, but that one like in this other
person's mind could be like a whole world of you
may be cheating. If you were willing to like her publicly,
you might be talking to her on DM. What about
if you flew her in? What about if you already
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met her, that's too much. And feeling insecure these days
is not just for women. Men go through it too.
There's a lot of men now on social media as well.
Your girl's DM is loaded of men that are waiting
for you to fuck up for two seconds to take
your place, do you know? And I also think it's
important for women if you're in a real relationship and
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men don't entertain it, don't entertain it because even saying hi,
thank you, oh my god, yes you said I'm beautiful,
even the smallest little things like that can destroy a good,
solid relationship with someone that actually has a real foundation.
Speaker 1 (13:46):
I'm just saying. And something else I want to know.
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (13:49):
Ladies, help me figure this out. Do you really believe
that once a cheatter, always a cheater. Do you think
that once they cheat one time, they repeat the same patterns.
Can you forgive them and be like, okay, you know
what you do know me, once you said you were sorry,
you're not even do it again.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
Do you think that people can.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Actually just make mistakes of like, oh, you know, I
was going through a vulnerable moment and I just cheated
on my girl, or I just cheated on my man,
but I really love my man. Can you cheat and
still love your partner, meaning like I just went and
had sex, I just want to entertain this person because
I was bored, because I was emotionally not fulfilled or whatever,
and still realistically love your partner.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
Can you I don't know. I'm trying to figure it out.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
You guys tell me, because I am the type of
woman personally, don't know. Personal I am the type of
woman that if I push and push and push and
push before I go ahead and cheat, I will try
to the end of me. That's something very common in women.
Speaker 1 (14:45):
When a woman.
Speaker 2 (14:45):
Cheats, usually she's already tired, she's over it, she's already
tried to fix her relationship for a long time. Men,
in the other hand, can have sex or cheat and
still come back home like nothing happened, Like this is
my girl. You were just a fling or you were
just the moment, right. I I can't if I cheat,
I don't. I can't cheat. That's too much pressure.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
That's another thing.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
The pressure of cheating is a lot you gotta be
worried about. They get Let me turn my phone or around,
let me put my phone on silent. What about if
you call me? What about if you text me? What
about if you FaceTime me and my girl picks up
the phone, my or my guy is like, Yo, who's this?
You gotta be deleting conversations. You gotta be You got that, listen.
That is a lot of work. Mentally, is very stressful.
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I know that maybe in the beginning it will be
fun and you got it. But once you know, some
time passes, emotions are gonna get involved. You know something
is gonna happen, or you're gonna feel like, oh no,
this is this is too much.
Speaker 1 (15:42):
So I'm not a good cheater. It doesn't work for me.
Speaker 2 (15:46):
You know.
Speaker 1 (15:46):
Usually whenever, even if I start one.
Speaker 2 (15:48):
Relationship right back to back to the other, I've already
finished one. And by the time I finish that one,
we've already been been done while being together. That means
that either we're not even having sex anymore, but we're
supposedly still together.
Speaker 1 (16:01):
You know, because I've heard that too.
Speaker 2 (16:03):
Oh if you cheat and then you start a relationship
like the next day or the next week, oh, you're
already cheating. No, not necessarily, because we see people that
get divorced and like a month later, they're already engaged
to someone else. The way that love is set up
or new relationships, there's no guide book. There's no rule
book on how to find love, on how to be
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in a relationship.
Speaker 1 (16:26):
You know, you never know when things are going to happen.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
I'm just saying, you know, you have to live your
life and live for you, because if you live based
off people's opinions, you're never going to be happy. Rebuilding
trust is the most challenging process of it all.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
You know, being able.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
To to just trust that person. How do you move
past that? How do you trust again after someone has
cheated on you? Is it possible? I believe it is.
With a lot of work and effort, I believe it's possible.
I also do believe that in the back of their minds,
once you cheat and you have I've been able to
forgive them for it. There's a part of me that
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feels like, oh, they think you soft because they know
that you really love them. So it's like, yeah, you
forgave me, but I'm still gonna do it again. Now
this time I'm going trying to do a better sound
and get caught or she just leaves and me like
you know what, you betrayed me, You're disrespectful, you cheated
on me.
Speaker 1 (17:16):
I trusted you and is over.
Speaker 2 (17:18):
But then the next person that you get, what does
that guarantee you that they're not.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
Gonna cheat on you?
Speaker 2 (17:29):
I had a friend that recently just filed for divorce
because her man cheated on her.
Speaker 1 (17:34):
It wasn't one cheat. If you cheated like multiple, multiple, multiple.
Speaker 2 (17:39):
Different type of women in a course of like fifteen years.
Speaker 1 (17:42):
That you've been married, is that for should you forgive?
Speaker 2 (17:46):
And that's another thing I'd be asking because I wonder,
like I've always wanted to get married, that that was
my dream since that was a little girl, my white dress,
blah blah blah blahh and they great, fantastic. These days,
the concept of love, relationship, commitments, all those things have changed.
We have so many people now that are in open
relationships because they don't want to feel like they're being
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cheated on, because they don't want to feel as if, okay,
you know, I don't know, now I got to forgive
you for cheating on me. Meanwhile, if we're both in
a com you know, in an understanding that we're in
an open relationship, you get to do your thing, I
do my thing too, and we're so cool.
Speaker 1 (18:22):
Man. That's a tough one right there.
Speaker 2 (18:24):
I can never be in an open relationship because I
am very panicky about STDSG. You know, that's just me.
I feel like a lot of people are not thinking
about all those things too. Cheating is not just the
fact that of betrayal. It also comes with the physical aspect.
You know. I know a lot of beautiful women who
have been burnt and they don't say anything because I
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even told them, did you tell this person that you
know that you're They're like, no, they didn't ask me,
so I don't got to say. I don't gotta tell.
And that's a terrible mindset. But we find a lot
of men that will go out and about to have
a good time. Right you selfishly decided to make a
decision of enjoying your body, enjoying yourself while having a partner.
Now you go home, you have sex with your partner,
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and now you burn your partner as well.
Speaker 1 (19:10):
All these things can really really like you really got
to think it through these days.
Speaker 2 (19:16):
Imagine just going out to have a good time and
starting to feel weird a week later, going to the
doctor and finding out you have an STD, you know, gone.
Speaker 1 (19:24):
Rhea, syphilis, herpes, HIV.
Speaker 2 (19:27):
Like, there's so many things to protect yourself, and that
doesn't just come from you know. I'm not saying to
be panicky and have when it comes to it, because
I guess that's maybe one of the reasons why I'm
also panicky sexually, and I have been practicing celibacy til
I find someone that I'm like, you're for me, and
I'm for you, and we're here.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
Let's dug it out. Cool. If you feel like you need.
Speaker 2 (19:47):
To be sexually satisfied with multiple women or multiple men
out here in these streets, then you need to be
out here in these streets because I'm trying to be
inside the house. I'm not trying to be part of that,
but I think that is important to all. So think
about that, you know, And the same thing goes for women.
You could have gone outside to have a good time
and just you know, oh, this guy was really cute,
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and then a month.
Speaker 1 (20:08):
Later you come, you know, pregnant or whatever.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
So I'm just saying, let's think about let's think about
the whole picture when it comes to cheating, when it
comes to forgiving the person that you're with you you
can lose a really good relationship because of cheating. You
can lose your trust, you can lose their friendship, you
can lose everything you've ever built with someone because of
a couple of minutes of having fun, of having a
good time. You can physically be damaged. You know, you
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can physically go through a terrible situation because of just
having a good time for a little bit. I think
if you want to be if you want to be
single and you want to have fun, you go ahead
and you do that, but don't be in a committed
relationship with someone who is supposedly trying to be faithful
to you and you go and you do them dirty
behind their back.
Speaker 1 (20:55):
You know, it.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
Affects the trust, It affects your self esteem, It affects
the way that they view themselves, that they view relationships.
It affects your sexual experience with this person, because now
every time you have sex in the back of your mind,
you're thinking about this person.
Speaker 1 (21:08):
That they cheated on.
Speaker 2 (21:10):
You know, you question that whoever it is that they
cheated on, was there sex better?
Speaker 1 (21:16):
You know, why did you go so many times to
the same person?
Speaker 2 (21:19):
What were you looking for that I'm not providing for
you where you're looking for comfort, where you're looking for
a different type of sexual experience, which happens in many occasions.
You know, if you like bondage, if you like a
certain type of sexual experience that your partner is not
giving you at home, You're gonna go find it somewhere else.
If you have someone that likes to be very conservative sexually,
for example, because sex is a very important part of
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a relationship and is one of the reasons why people
cheat for the most part. But if you are with
someone that's very conservative and you like to have you know,
wild sexy fun, you know, sex, and this person is
not providing that. Are they not providing it because you
don't want to tell them? Are they not providing it
because you feel embarrassed? I think it is important to
have the those conversations.
Speaker 1 (22:00):
Listen. I don't want to cheat on you. I don't.
Speaker 2 (22:03):
I but but there's things that I'm into, there's things
I want to experience, there's things I want to experience.
And before I go out of my way to do
it with somebody else and do it the wrong way,
I'd rather do it with you. All those things are
important to me, I don't know if you understand where
I'm coming from.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
If you agree, let me know because I want to
know your opinion.
Speaker 2 (22:24):
There's so many things that we could talk about when
it comes to forgiving, you know, forgiving a cheating spouse,
for getting a cheating boyfriend girlfriend, There's so many layers
into it.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
Do you forgive? Do you not forgive? How do you
move on? You know?
Speaker 2 (22:38):
Do we go to therapy, do we have an open relationship,
do we try different sexual experiences?
Speaker 1 (22:45):
Do we talk to our family? To I done? Though?
Speaker 2 (22:48):
There's so many layers to this is so complex that
I want to know your opinion.
Speaker 1 (22:54):
Oh cheater, cheater, pumpkin eater. Mmm, I don't know. I'm
trying to figure it out just like y'all.
Speaker 2 (23:01):
But anyways, with that being said, that brings us to
the end of today's episode. God, I really want to
know your opinion. Have you ever forgiven someone this cheated
on you? Did it work out? Is it worth even
forgiving them because you.
Speaker 1 (23:15):
Just let it go? I'm not show bar.
Speaker 2 (23:17):
Anyways, listen to the end of today's episode on Exactly Amada,
and I just want to thank you guys for joining
us and being part of this meaningful conversation. Don't forget
to subscribe to the podcast and leave a review and
share with your friends and family and everybody that you
love and cheat me, baby, and cheat me. If you
know somebody that's going through it, be like, yo, listen
to this podcast because you need to hear this immediately.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
If you have any topic, suggestions or personal stories that
you'd like to share, feel free to reach out to
me on social media. You could just hit me up
at exactly Amada. You can hit me up on ama
aled which is my personal instagram, which, by the way,
go follow me at Amada ama aln and.
Speaker 1 (23:54):
Just sell me listen. I'm going through this.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
I want to continue to cater to my audience. You
know this show really I did it with so much
love for you guys and is for you.
Speaker 1 (24:03):
So if there's anything you want, let me know because
I'm down for whatever.
Speaker 2 (24:07):
Catch my show by searching for micro through that podcast
on YouTube and clicking on exactly Amata. Okay, that's all
you gotta do so you can watch or listen to
past episodes super Lit. There's a couple that I've personally
gone back to to listen because I'm like.
Speaker 1 (24:20):
Oh, this was some really good information.
Speaker 2 (24:22):
And just in case you forgot, this has been a
production of ihearts Micro through that podcast network. Four more
podcasts from iHeart, Visit the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts,
or wherever you listen to your favorite show. This has
been your girl. Amada la Negra Cheeter Cheeter fromping Eater
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