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Speaker 1 (00:02):
I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the
Fred Show, Ashley, good morning, welcome to the show. How
are you? I'm good. Are you doing well? Thank you?
Welcome to waiting by the phone. We're trying to figure
out what's going on with this guy, Drew. I have
your email, But why don't you explain to everybody listening
how you met Drew, about any dates you've been on,
(00:23):
and why you think you're being ghosted?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Okay, gosh, So I met Drew on Hinge and we
hung out twice, and both times we went to his
place and had some drinks, and I don't know, ever since, like,
I thought we had really good conversation. I've always had
a really good time. We definitely were like super flirty
(00:47):
for like the whole time, and I felt like we
had a good connection. But ever since then, he hasn't
reached out, and I just want to figure out why,
because I really liked him and I thought we could
work out.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Okay, all right, So honestly, and I asked the question
all the time, But you look back on this date,
you thought it was a success. You left thinking, oh,
we're gonna go out again, and I'll hear from him,
you know, I don't know tomorrow or the next day,
but nothing. And I assume you've reached out to him
and he hasn't responded.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Yeah, I texted him like twice, and I didn't want
seem too desperate, so I stopped it twice.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
You can't double text, right, you can't do it. But
I mean maybe, I mean maybe maybe once and then
one more Hail Mary. You know you try it? Yeah,
maybe not. Maybe that's just maybe that's just me. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
that's just me. Shut up. Whatever. What's you like not
(01:42):
to have? What's you like? Not to be pseudo desperate? Sometimes?
What's that like? Kiki? It's not that fun. You know,
you enjoy yourself. It's a thrill. Okay. Rufo probably never has.
He's never been on a dating app in his whole life. Paulina,
I don't know you ever double texted. I'm sure I have. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
If I tied the doumble tucks to you guys, I
probably double text other people too.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
Yeah, because one of you double texts. Hey, actual question,
that's famous, Paulina. Hey, can I ask you a question
on the text? It's okay. I feel much better now
actually about my about my texting in my private life.
So let's call this guy Drew and see what's going on.
(02:23):
Good luck, Ashley. Hello, Hi is this Drew? Hey Drew,
good morning. My name is Fredam calling from the Fred Show,
the morning radio show. I have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now, and I do
need your permission to continue with the call. He said, Okay,
if we chat for just a second.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Sure.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Yeah, I know it's it's kind of a startling thing
to get a call from a radio morning radio show,
but I'll get right to it. We're calling on behalf
of a woman named Ashley, who I guess you met
on Hinge and went on a date with recently. Do
you remember Ashley?
Speaker 3 (02:58):
I do?
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Yeah, Okay, so what's going on with her? Because you know,
she called us and had a lot of nice things
to say about you. I was excited to meet you,
said the date went well in her opinion, says, she's
texted you since the date. You have not responded, You
haven't reached out, you haven't planned another date. She feels
like she's being ghosted. Is that the case?
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:16):
I mean I'm not really that interested. I think she's
looking for more like a sugar daddy type of situation.
Oh than like a dating situation.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Okay, well tell us more. What does that mean, because
she didn't share any of that with us.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Uh. Well, she came over my house kind of out
of the blue. She's called me and said she was
in the area or whatever and asked if she can
come over, and I was like, yeah, okay. She got
there and she said she was hungry. I didn't have
any food in the house, so she just ordered food
and she definitely she wanted if I wanted some too
or whatever. I said no, I'm fine, and then she
(03:48):
ate it, you know, and we hung out for a
little bit, and then as she was leaving, she asked
me if I wanted to reimburse her for the food
that she just ordered and ate.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
And you didn't even have told.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Her no, I'm good.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Oh wo, so you were supposed to be okay, So
she shows up at your house, orders food for herself,
eats it, leaves, but before she goes, she asks, like,
for if you wanted to venmo her for the food or.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
So give her cash or something, and I, yeah, that's
not my that's not my bag.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
You know.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
She invites herself over, orders food, eats it, and I'm
supposed to pay for it. Yeah, that's not equality the
last time I checked, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
No, I'm good. Oh that's not equality. Well, I mean,
I guess it would have been one thing if you
had I guess you could have offered like, oh, hey,
you know, can I get that for you? You could
have ordered it to begin with. But since you didn't,
which you have no obligation to do, by the way,
but since you didn't, then I think it's entirely unheard to.
You know, she bought it. It was her decision. You
don't owe her any money. I barely know her.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
We went on one date and this is the second
time we're hanging out, and now I'm supposed to buy
her food every time we hang out.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Now, come on, well, let me bring Ashley. Ashley, you
did not mention this whole thing about the food, So
you went to his house ordered food that you wanted.
He didn't get anything, and you expect him to pay
for that.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Well, I mean, he's the guy.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
I don't really see the issue.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
He's the guy, and we just said.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Dating he should pay. And also, Drew, don't Actually you
didn't have a bite you did.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Oh, he had a bite, so he should pay for
it the whole thing. That's hilarious.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
Yeah, I had a bite of a chicken wing.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
I mean that was that? Like five dollars? You want
me to vend you five dollars break that chicken? That
was it? Was it? Was it a drumstick? Or wasn't that?
Because that's going to depend on how did you have
any of the celery? Didn't come with celery? Because and
was there an extra ranch? Or did you double dip?
Did you guys share the same ranch, because honestly, that's
(05:44):
going to cost you more. No double dipping.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
I just got one bite of a regular wing, just
a buffalo wing.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Now see, one could argue, though, if you're at my home,
I should be hospitable and offer you something to eat
or drink or it's nothing, you're my house. But if
I don't hold on to hear me out. If I don't,
and then you make the choice that you're hungry and
you want to do something, that doesn't mean that after
you order that I then have to pay you back.
(06:11):
That's not exactly what that means. Correct, Yeah, right, But.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
I do think that he's the guy and we just
started dating, like we were out.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
If we went on the date and we were out
and we were having.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Food, he would normally pay drawing.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
I also think an important distinction here is that he
did not actually ask you out. You showed up at
his house. So what you're like, It wasn't even like
he said, come over, let's have chicken wings with ranch
and celebert you yourself. You showed up looking for food, right,
and you wanted to eat, and he didn't have anything
because he wasn't planning on you coming again, maybe if
he had invited you over. My whole thing about paying
(06:47):
is if I initiate, I should definitely pay. He did
not initiate. You just showed up at his house.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Right, I mean, I still think it's my school disagree,
but I guess.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
I mean he has paid your cell phone bill too,
because you use the phone to order the food. Nah,
that's probably on his WiFi. Oh yeah, wait a minute, hey, Drew,
did she connect to a Wi fi? Because that's not note,
not a day unless she's a platinum.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Are you gas money too for coming over my house?
Speaker 2 (07:14):
I'm gotta give you.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Twenty all the time.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
That's an excell one.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
This is crazy, anyone nuts nowadays?
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Man, what the hell is going on? Yeah? No, I
have to agree with you here. Again, the only distinction
would have been, I think if you had invited her over,
but you didn't, she shut up. So no, not on you, Ashley,
It's not on him. But look, Drew, now that we've
straightened that out, would you like to go out with
her again? I mean, I'm sure you're probably gonna have
to reimburse her for something, but do you want to
(07:41):
do you want to try again? No, I'm good.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
I'm gonna save my money, uh, spend it in the
right ways, and now you're good.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
You're good, Okay, Ashley, he's not interested. That's the reason why.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
That's okay. I'm not either.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
I mean, if he's not going to buy I should
for what, like it was like twenty five bucks, then
I'm good. He's a cheap ass.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Oh interesting, that's that's that's the hot takes you broke, right,
I guess. So all right, it's not going to work out, Ashley, Drew,
thank you for your time. Best to buck of both
of you. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
Yeah, I think
I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the
Fred Show, Ashley, good morning, welcome to the show. How
are you? I'm good. Are you doing well? Thank you?
Welcome to waiting by the phone. We're trying to figure
out what's going on with this guy, Drew. I have
your email, But why don't you explain to everybody listening
how you met Drew, about any dates you've been on,
(00:23):
and why you think you're being ghosted?
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Okay, gosh, So I met Drew on Hinge and we
hung out twice, and both times we went to his
place and had some drinks, and I don't know, ever since, like,
I thought we had really good conversation. I've always had
a really good time. We definitely were like super flirty
(00:47):
for like the whole time, and I felt like we
had a good connection. But ever since then, he hasn't
reached out, and I just want to figure out why,
because I really liked him and I thought we could
work out.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Okay, all right, So honestly, and I asked the question
all the time, But you look back on this date,
you thought it was a success. You left thinking, oh,
we're gonna go out again, and I'll hear from him,
you know, I don't know tomorrow or the next day,
but nothing. And I assume you've reached out to him
and he hasn't responded.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Yeah, I texted him like twice, and I didn't want
seem too desperate, so I stopped it twice.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
You can't double text, right, you can't do it. But
I mean maybe, I mean maybe maybe once and then
one more Hail Mary. You know you try it? Yeah,
maybe not. Maybe that's just maybe that's just me. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
that's just me. Shut up. Whatever. What's you like not
(01:42):
to have? What's you like? Not to be pseudo desperate? Sometimes?
What's that like? Kiki? It's not that fun. You know,
you enjoy yourself. It's a thrill. Okay. Rufo probably never has.
He's never been on a dating app in his whole life. Paulina,
I don't know you ever double texted. I'm sure I have. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
If I tied the doumble tucks to you guys, I
probably double text other people too.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
Yeah, because one of you double texts. Hey, actual question,
that's famous, Paulina. Hey, can I ask you a question
on the text? It's okay. I feel much better now
actually about my about my texting in my private life.
So let's call this guy Drew and see what's going on.
(02:23):
Good luck, Ashley. Hello, Hi is this Drew? Hey Drew,
good morning. My name is Fredam calling from the Fred Show,
the morning radio show. I have to tell you that
we are on the radio right now, and I do
need your permission to continue with the call. He said, Okay,
if we chat for just a second.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Sure.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Yeah, I know it's it's kind of a startling thing
to get a call from a radio morning radio show,
but I'll get right to it. We're calling on behalf
of a woman named Ashley, who I guess you met
on Hinge and went on a date with recently. Do
you remember Ashley?
Speaker 3 (02:58):
I do?
Speaker 1 (02:59):
Yeah, Okay, so what's going on with her? Because you know,
she called us and had a lot of nice things
to say about you. I was excited to meet you,
said the date went well in her opinion, says, she's
texted you since the date. You have not responded, You
haven't reached out, you haven't planned another date. She feels
like she's being ghosted. Is that the case?
Speaker 2 (03:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:16):
I mean I'm not really that interested. I think she's
looking for more like a sugar daddy type of situation.
Oh than like a dating situation.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Okay, well tell us more. What does that mean, because
she didn't share any of that with us.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Uh. Well, she came over my house kind of out
of the blue. She's called me and said she was
in the area or whatever and asked if she can
come over, and I was like, yeah, okay. She got
there and she said she was hungry. I didn't have
any food in the house, so she just ordered food
and she definitely she wanted if I wanted some too
or whatever. I said no, I'm fine, and then she
(03:48):
ate it, you know, and we hung out for a
little bit, and then as she was leaving, she asked
me if I wanted to reimburse her for the food
that she just ordered and ate.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
And you didn't even have told.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Her no, I'm good.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
Oh wo, so you were supposed to be okay, So
she shows up at your house, orders food for herself,
eats it, leaves, but before she goes, she asks, like,
for if you wanted to venmo her for the food or.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
So give her cash or something, and I, yeah, that's
not my that's not my bag.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
You know.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
She invites herself over, orders food, eats it, and I'm
supposed to pay for it. Yeah, that's not equality the
last time I checked, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
No, I'm good. Oh that's not equality. Well, I mean,
I guess it would have been one thing if you
had I guess you could have offered like, oh, hey,
you know, can I get that for you? You could
have ordered it to begin with. But since you didn't,
which you have no obligation to do, by the way,
but since you didn't, then I think it's entirely unheard to.
You know, she bought it. It was her decision. You
don't owe her any money. I barely know her.
Speaker 3 (04:49):
We went on one date and this is the second
time we're hanging out, and now I'm supposed to buy
her food every time we hang out.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
Now, come on, well, let me bring Ashley. Ashley, you
did not mention this whole thing about the food, So
you went to his house ordered food that you wanted.
He didn't get anything, and you expect him to pay
for that.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Well, I mean, he's the guy.
Speaker 3 (05:08):
I don't really see the issue.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
He's the guy, and we just said.
Speaker 2 (05:10):
Dating he should pay. And also, Drew, don't Actually you
didn't have a bite you did.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Oh, he had a bite, so he should pay for
it the whole thing. That's hilarious.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
Yeah, I had a bite of a chicken wing.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
I mean that was that? Like five dollars? You want
me to vend you five dollars break that chicken? That
was it? Was it? Was it a drumstick? Or wasn't that?
Because that's going to depend on how did you have
any of the celery? Didn't come with celery? Because and
was there an extra ranch? Or did you double dip?
Did you guys share the same ranch, because honestly, that's
(05:44):
going to cost you more. No double dipping.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
I just got one bite of a regular wing, just
a buffalo wing.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
Now see, one could argue, though, if you're at my home,
I should be hospitable and offer you something to eat
or drink or it's nothing, you're my house. But if
I don't hold on to hear me out. If I don't,
and then you make the choice that you're hungry and
you want to do something, that doesn't mean that after
you order that I then have to pay you back.
(06:11):
That's not exactly what that means. Correct, Yeah, right, But.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
I do think that he's the guy and we just
started dating, like we were out.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
If we went on the date and we were out
and we were having.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Food, he would normally pay drawing.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
I also think an important distinction here is that he
did not actually ask you out. You showed up at
his house. So what you're like, It wasn't even like
he said, come over, let's have chicken wings with ranch
and celebert you yourself. You showed up looking for food, right,
and you wanted to eat, and he didn't have anything
because he wasn't planning on you coming again, maybe if
he had invited you over. My whole thing about paying
(06:47):
is if I initiate, I should definitely pay. He did
not initiate. You just showed up at his house.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Right, I mean, I still think it's my school disagree,
but I guess.
Speaker 1 (06:57):
I mean he has paid your cell phone bill too,
because you use the phone to order the food. Nah,
that's probably on his WiFi. Oh yeah, wait a minute, hey, Drew,
did she connect to a Wi fi? Because that's not note,
not a day unless she's a platinum.
Speaker 3 (07:12):
Are you gas money too for coming over my house?
Speaker 2 (07:14):
I'm gotta give you.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Twenty all the time.
Speaker 1 (07:16):
That's an excell one.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
This is crazy, anyone nuts nowadays?
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Man, what the hell is going on? Yeah? No, I
have to agree with you here. Again, the only distinction
would have been, I think if you had invited her over,
but you didn't, she shut up. So no, not on you, Ashley,
It's not on him. But look, Drew, now that we've
straightened that out, would you like to go out with
her again? I mean, I'm sure you're probably gonna have
to reimburse her for something, but do you want to
(07:41):
do you want to try again? No, I'm good.
Speaker 3 (07:43):
I'm gonna save my money, uh, spend it in the
right ways, and now you're good.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
You're good, Okay, Ashley, he's not interested. That's the reason why.
Speaker 3 (07:51):
That's okay. I'm not either.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
I mean, if he's not going to buy I should
for what, like it was like twenty five bucks, then
I'm good. He's a cheap ass.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Oh interesting, that's that's that's the hot takes you broke, right,
I guess. So all right, it's not going to work out, Ashley, Drew,
thank you for your time. Best to buck of both
of you. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
Yeah, I think
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