309: How do you know when it's time to get a divorce? (ft. Jason Lange)

When is it time to stay and work on things in your marriage, and when is it time to let things go? Perhaps you can relate to scenarios like these:

• You're worn out and exhausted because you're always the one reaching out to your wife and never getting anything back
• You're great co-parents but your sex life is DOA
• As a couple you rarely or never openly fight, but there's constant, underlying tension
• You feel like you can never get it right with her, and often feel hopeless about experiencing the intimacy you so deeply crave

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The truth is, sometimes it's clear that a relationship isn't working, but sometimes it isn't. If you're unsure and trying to figure it out on your own, you're not alone.

Many of our clients have been through the muck and confusion of trying to figure out their marriage, and here they share the depth of their hearts in that process.

Both marriage and divorce can be sources of great pain, shame, and longing. They can also be sources of transformation, spiritual growth, awakening, and freedom.

Here we delve into what to do when you don't yet have clarity around your marriage. We also touch on what it takes to improve your relationship, and how to make the determination with as much grace as possible.

And remember: "There can absolutely be miraculous turnarounds in relationships when both partners are committed and willing."

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Memorable quotes from this episode:

• "It’s very easy for men to fall into a place of isolation in life."
• "If one person is not willing to step into the growth, there’s not much you can do."
• "I keep inviting my partner into that and she’s unwilling."
• "Sometimes the greatest act of leadership is to stop tolerating mediocrity."
• "When there’s a vibrant, passionate sexual connection between the couple, it lights up the whole family system."