Nesting: What makes living together work

Love is grand, but what to do so you don't get so drained by yelling over the dishes? When you see each other all the time, how do you still have the passionate enjoy each other? We let you in our our methods and what has worked for us as we celebrate 7 years of nesting. Marcin and I started as roommates. We knew we could nest well. This was super important to me as I have had some challenges living with other people, including my ex-husband, which is why I advocate for a you can love someone and not live with them approach. My parents were bullied into getting married before they lived together as it was the right thing to do. Well thank God we are getting rid of these outdate ideas of purity and being real about what it takes to manage a healthy living space. My darling husband Dr. Marcin Bela and I discuss the pitfalls of the escalator approach to relationships. How we really don't sweat the small stuff and the way our living together has adjusted over the scope of our relationship going from Poly to Mono and to then to an Open Design with Relationship Anarchy.