A Man Has NO Rights In A "Situationship"

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Speaker 1 (00:07):
Hello, who's this this big? What's up? What's up? What's
your what's what's your question? Amazing? You wake me up,
You make me go that damn sleep in the closet

(00:29):
when I get the words shut up, gonna tell nobody. Now,
let's talk business. Absolutely, let's talk Okay, top club off
my subs deal, accepting money from an edge. Are you ready?
I'm ready. I know it's okay. It's like you the
whole boats forget it and waking up in the morning

(00:49):
and had to use the bathroom all day long. So
I feel check us off shoes. I am in a situation. Okay.
It is a living arrangement. It is a sexual expectation. Fellasy.
Oh we all wrapped in one. But I'm getting feelings angeluye. Okay,
So you're not together, You're just roommates. We roommates, slash

(01:16):
six buddies, slash six club, you name it. We're doing that,
but not but not in a relationship. We played with
each other in different conversations. Okay, okay, but not in
a relationship. Right. Are you in a relationship? Yes? Or no? No? Okay,

(01:39):
now continue, Okay, she called her. She taught me one day,
She said, Hey, look, big al what you're doing? I say,
I'm working. She said, I want you to uh already,
I'll call you back, mixing you know. I called her
twenty minutes later. I said, what's up. She's like, I
just come back from my egg house. I'll say what

(02:01):
she said, Yeah, I just came back from my use.
You gave me some money. You gave me a couple
of you know, a couple of bills. I'm like, Okay,
what the hell is you going over his house? But
why do you even need money? You make more money
than I do. Nah. She tells me she did it
because she didn't think it was gonna be no problem

(02:21):
with me. She just want to say, extra change in
her pocket? Why do you say nothing? That could have
donated plans more? What's the day open? Well, it is
a confusing part. That's not your girl, But so legally
she can do anything she wants to do. We're gonna
say she wanted to do. But when you make we help,

(02:44):
but it's profitable or the third it's the male ego,
you you know, and that sounds like that sounds why
I like your problem, and it sounds like you need
to have a conversation with her. Maybe she's testing you.
Maybe she's telling you that to see how you react,
because you're not trying to lock it down. If you're
not with me, if you're not my man, I can

(03:05):
do whatever I want. We've never had that discussion. Do
you do other things too? Do I need a damn camel?
But do you do other dude? Do you mess with
other chicks too? Absolutely? So, what are you mad about?
You're not even in a relationship. Doesn't this sound h

(03:25):
a critical to you? We got we got this. It's amazing,
it is amazing, it is amazing. It causes Yes, the
yellow both single, yellow both single. Yeah, what's the problem? Yeah,
but no, we have we have rules. We can't break wools.

(03:50):
So the rule is that she can't get money from
her ex. We all know. So she didn't do anything wrong.
Sounds like you're having your own ego issues and it's
more something that you need to check. Now. If that
was your girl, I would say that's an absolute no.
But because you're messing with other women, Okay, was my girl?
How can I break that down to her? That's not cool? Well, sir,

(04:15):
there's steps to this. First, she has to be your
girl for your She probably wouldn't have done that if
you guys were in a relationship. Yeah right, okay, so
you gotta figure out what you want to do and
have that conversation. You can't be mad at her for
going to her ex for anything. She could have slept

(04:37):
with him too. Hey, he managed yourself. If no one's
borrowed mama money from my ex boy plan, what would
you say if my wife, Oh so you said my
ex wife. I ain't got an ex wife. But if
my my wife wouldn't be borrowed no money from my
ex boyfriend, my wife would be speaking to her ex boyfriend.

(04:57):
What are you talking about? Huh? What if your wife
bowed money from her ex boyfriend and she didn't tear
you about until after she got the money. I don't know.
That wouldn't happen. My wife don't talk to her ex boyfriend.
Say you cannot compare these two situations. That's not your wife.
That's not even your girl. Yeah, that's not your girl.
You don't even know that girl. You share that girl.

(05:18):
She was in Atlanta this weekend. But if I'm giving her,
she got to bow down. Sometimes she don't. She never
has to the only person give her flato. She was
in Atlanta just making mad. Dudes, gave a falatio this
weekend and if you're giving her fat, you're bowing down.
But listen, my whole point is this, that's not your woman.
You haven't had that discussion, and you just gotta live

(05:40):
with this. She could do whatever she wants. She could
get gang banged if she wants to. She can that.
That's gonna be a little deep. That's deep either either
try to lock it down and be a good man.
And you're messing with other women, how do you think
she feels like? I'm telling you it is some of

(06:09):
the most weirdest type of polhood type stuff going on
with Okay, well, this is what you signed up for, sir.
She's she's doing her, you're doing you, and you guys
are doing each other. Until you change the dynamics of
that relationship. You don't call the shots. I couldn't. I
can't say nothing. Huh you really can't. You can. Yeah,

(06:31):
you have to dig it just like she is from
other people. Oh what is going on here? All right?
And listen, Well, I know nothing and know what he's doing.

(06:53):
Thank you, You're welcome. Why don't y'all spending. Why don't
y'all spend her excess money together? Okay, what what do
you know? What? I don't. I'm sorry, but I didn't
get some of it. Okay, well then don't complain. Goodbye.
Youd have it both You can't have it both ways
when it was you. Don't. You don't supposed to go

(07:14):
to your ex for no money when I'm right though
she makes more than you. Maybe she didn't think you
have it. Oh, drave Man always got money, I bro
bro man, it's crazy. Gotta go. We gotta by asking
you hang up with everybody but him. Dramas