Engagement Number 6 For Jennifer Lopez

According to Jennifer Lopez, it’s not a secret anymore; she and Ben Affleck are engaged again, nearly 20 years after he first popped the question to her. J Lo shared the news with her fans in a video message on her newsletter Friday with teary eyes and simply saying “You’re perfect” with her ring visible on her hand.

An insider told People that Lopez “loves her ring” but the couple wants to keep their engagement quiet for a few days, and they’re not talking about a wedding yet. The couple recently bought a house together, though; a nearly $55 million Bel-Air estate.