Loud Looking Explained

Loud looking is essentially a response to the high supply sexual economy where men have tended to hold the power in relationships, which is in contrast to how things have been throughout history. In the past, sex with such a high risk copy for women that the onus was on them to audition and evaluate a Mail before they chose to commit to them. Then along came the advent of the birth control pill in 1962 and women’s “sexual freedom.” Unfortunately, it put women in a new trap, one where men’s access to easy sex made them less likely to commit.

The added problem, of course, is basic biology. Women have a fertility window that men simply do not have. So, women waited and hoped in unfulfilling and undefined “Situationships” while their fertility window slowly squeaked closed. They hoped that a man might suddenly become commitment oriented. This rarely happens. But all this has changed with “loud looking.” Finally, women are executing boundaries! Women are being very intentional about who they date and who they share their eggs and bloodstream with. And they are finally being clear and honest in their dating profiles and in the early stages of dating.

The biggest benefit is that one will scare off all the players, F-Boys, and commitment-phobes. Yippee!

The only downside is that a woman must grow some alligator skin and a strong backbone because a lot of good-looking lotharios will disappear. Remember these aren’t commitmentoriented men. These aren’t necessarily good, moral, men. But they sure look cute and they’re dating profiles and, yes, they will disappear when you loud-look. (This is a gift to you!)

The best way to implement this strategy is to be fearlessly honest. Say it out loud! But make sure your behavior backs up your words. It’s one thing to say in a dating profile that you’re looking for a long-term, committed, relationship but then suddenly decide to hook up with a guy on a first date, and cash in your cards. This advertises that you’re mostly looking for a short-term relationship. Good, healthy, secure relationships take time to build. Practicing slow love is the best way to make sure that the dreams of your loud looking intentions come true.