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That's right, it's uh scary here with Danielle, Gary, greg
T and David Brody last again, Well, I would count counterclockwise.
You're so nitpicky. Yeah, how the hell was it to
sit at dinner with you two and not? We had
a great time in the moment, it was awesome. We
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had there was no vegetables on the table. It was
fantastic in the moment, it was awesome. As soon as
you got up, you were back to bickering as soon
as you left the table. Okay, So if you don't
know what God's talking about, scary and I finally had
a steak dinner last night, and it was two and
a half hours. It was two time. It was like
a three hour dinner. I'll tell you what's what helped
save the meal. The owner came and sat at our
table the entire time. That's a back handed compliment to you.
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It stay the dinner. Why could you guys just have
a next dinner just the two of you? Was our intention.
But you said the owners saved the dinner. No, no, no, no,
I'm saying, what are you saying about scary? The Garrett
was implying that it was probably like you know, butting
heads the whole night fighting. We did not argue. By
the way, when scary night argue, we still get along.
We're enjoying ourselves. We're just arguing in the moment. But
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you actually get off on the argument. No, I don't.
I don't enjoy our you talking about anything else other
than work, Like what was the topic? It was the
topics of conversation at dinner. Well, when the owner was there.
We're talking about the history of the rutside of the owner,
like you sitting what you were talking about the restaurant,
which is Delmonico's down to the financial district, not a sponsor. Uh.
They actually uh they're the first restaurant to be called
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the word restaurant. They have that old. They coined the
word restaurant. And about seven dishes that you've ordered a
restaurants around the country forever like Baked Alaska invented there,
and about and Strip Stake, Strip Steak and New York
Strip invented there. Ten minute conversation, all right, so you
got in the what we talked about other than what
the owner of the okay, well, albert O Weinstein used
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to eat there, and freaking Charles Dickens. We talked about
We talked about sports for a couple of minutes. Yeah,
the Yankees were on. We hear a loud roar from
the other room from the bar share Yankees went ahead.
That was the Yankees tying up the game, and then
go ahead. You share stories are like, you know, oh, man,
you know last yesterday, I did this, or my buddy
called me, we went out and did this or whatever.
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We're going like normal, everyday, average conversation. You do that
here we recapped our day. I'm just wondering. I remember
when Scary and I were roommates, you know, we would
sit at our kitchen table and we would talk like
normal people and have normal conversation about whatever. Here's the
problem though, with that, T and I agree with what
you're saying. But here's the thing we have we because
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we know each other from work and we're co workers,
and a lot of people listening can actually relate to this.
When you go out with your co workers, you kind
of talk about work type things because you do have
that in common. So it's kind of sometimes have to
break away and talk about those everyday things. But then
you have to actually sit there and say, tonight, we're
gonna talk about other things. But that's but that's what
you like to do. Well, that's normal. No, no, No,
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what's not normal is you think your normal is everybody's normal.
It should be and it is. Yeah, this world when
you think that you you live in a world where
you think work is taboo and that it shut it off.
It is, but you choose to. Okay, so Scary and
I didn't talk about it, only work. Scary and I
went back to our college where we both went and
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and we spoke to we spoke by the way, so
we're talking to I don't know about a hundred kids freshman,
sophomore and uh, and he's using lingo from two thousand
nine and then Brodie's making twenty year old reality TV
show references like road Rules in real world. No, you
graduated from there, Yeah, you've got a degree. Yes, nice, So, um,
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Brody started you know, Brody started in when he was
sixte years didn't know that he went to brotoin college
at sixteen? Did you say the word lit? I didn't
use lit all right, anyway, So we talked about what
a great day we had. We went to the radio
station at the college. They put us on the radio
for the first time ever. Scary and Eye did ideas,
and if you don't know what an idea is, it's
when a celebrity comes up and says, hey, this is
Taylor Swift and you listen to Elvistra in the morning show.
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They had us do I das for the college radio station.
So we talked about that experience, and we talked about
college memories and it was really cool going back. But yeah,
we did talk about real things that weren't work related together.
Then we did our half hour of What's wrong with
Greg t conversation that was went like forty five minutes.
I really love the traffic on the way to love
that he's kidding about that we didn't. I'm sure, and
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it's fine, seriously not serious, but but I mean, this happens.
But that's the thing, like even in relationships, to you
talk to someone every day up until dinner, and you
sit down at dinner, then there's really not a lot
to talk about. You guys were together all day? Was
it a quiet I'm envisioning? The owner came out and
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then it was like about how the neighborhood changed since
we went to college there. We talked about some of
our favorite classes we we have and you failed to
realize Brodie and I didn't know each other as kids
growing up. We don't have those experiences the way you
and I did, Greg t because you and I were roommates.
We can tell stories about friends or things you did,
or what you're doing this weekend. What's going on? You know,
what's just happened at home the other day. I gotta
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be honest, how Robin Melissa. I don't care what he's
doing this weekend, and he doesn't care what I'm doing
this week But we're not We're not real friends then, right?
He talk about your your friends with all seventeen people
in the morning show, what are you do? You know
what anyone is doing this weekend? But that's the problem
is that we should know it's not the time to
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talk to each other. You have friends for that. Just
you have f Paul, and you have all your friend
He has Paul Darren and my my well his his
buddy Dave, he has his out of the work friends.
And how's your friends? I want to know about what
goes on? Do you remember sog Brody learned right here
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on this podcast that his buddy Rob my best friends.
He was sitting here and Rob was on the podcast
with us one morning and Brodie said about talking about
his great wife, and he goes, I left her two
years and two years ago. Brodie found out right there
on the podcast. That's how you know, not out of touch,
but you know you have your You have so much
going on in today you don't realize your own friends
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been to divorced for two years. And Brodie was going
to launch with him that afternoon, and at that point,
he's not really a friend. Turned into South Carolina. It's
phone calls. It's all phone calls, and go, I don't know,
you don't We haven't spoken in two years. I did
not say that. I guess the point that I'm in
two years. I guess the point that I'm getting at,
And I'm just trying to put it out there that
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we all have been working together for a long time
and that I think it's kind of the time where
we should actually look at each other and though do
we really know each other and what's going on with
each other's lives and personally whatever, and not talk about you.
And Garrett's best man at his wedding, but what did
he do this? Weekend. It was his birthday. What did
he do? He and his wife, they had a birthday.
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They fell. Uh, what did you do to dinner? You
assume he went, I know, dinner. I'm just saying that,
like the ball's gotta stop rolling, everybody needs to stop
and take a time out and talk to each other.
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We have conversations that don't talk about work. But here's
the thing. People listening to this podcast all know that
they have work friends. They have the friend that will
help them move a couch, and they have the friend
will help and move a body. Everybody has that right,
so you have it. Now. I have a buddy I
go to concerts with. He's not the guy to go
to the movies with. I have a guy go to
the movies and have dinner with, but I don't go
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to concerts with him. We have niche friends. You were
the guys that we hang out with it work and
if we hang out outside of work, we tended to
talk about work. That was my only point. My only
point was that is time for you for you. It
is a shame that after all these years, when did
you hang out? Everybody could that. Everybody goes, oh, you
know what, we're only work friends. No, I didn't say.
It's a shame. So when it was the last time
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I had lunch with Josh, we should have lunch with
you didn't. When was the last time you hung out
with Jake? But we're all guilty of This is what
I'm trying to tell. You want to make a change,
he says, Okay, agreed, So you want to take the
next step in the relationship. This isn't just on me,
but what is on every on the umbrella. Alright, we
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should all hang out and not talk about the mark.
So when you went to dinner the two of you,
let's get that. Let's recycled. Let's go back to where
we were. You guys should have had other things to
talk about other than warding to you. After all these
years of working together. It's not messing the point. People
work together because they have one thing in common. They
do that thing together. Don't you think it's cool when
a rock band comes together and they're like a garage band,
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They're like the of my favorite thing. All of a sudden,
it's kind of sad when we're all staying in different
hotels and then and then they get together, like all right,
they get together and they put out a great album
and they go back to their houses and my business
what they do. It's a shame to start out in
a garage, you know. It's funny. I think this is
just a guy thin because when Danielle gets together with
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a friend, the last thing she talks about is work. Now,
but she doesn't go out, all right, but she's not
going out with her work friends. But if she goes
out with Bethany, they don't talk about talk about work.
We'll talk about the other. Okay, So give us examples then, Danielle,
because teach us guys how to talk. Beth and I.
Bethany and I will talk about shopping. We'll talk about
probably shoes, We'll talk about different things we found out,
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you know, about our friends. But very rarely does work
forgive me shoes, shopping and gossip. What's different about that
than me and ski? This is the girl thing like that.
To be honest, Bethany and I have talked about, like,
you know, growing up and what it was like and
things we don't know about each other. And um, she
you know, she taught me a little bit about her
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childhood and things that she's been through. And I think
I'd tell her like I would feel nothing going over
to Daniel's house and hanging out with her and Sheldon
in the walls, and like going to get a burger.
But here we just do that. And y'all grew up
in the Bronx. Yeah, Bethany grew up in Wisconsin. They've
only known each other five years. They have tremendously different
lives and experiences. Scary and I know each other twenty
years and grew up in the exact same neighborhood, went
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to the same schools, ate at the same restaurant. I
didn't know each other and I still can't have talked
about aything like we already talked about. Hey, Scary remember
that rice ball? Yep, me too. Okay, Next we went
to We did everything. We have the same lives pretty much.
Our parents still lived in Brooklyn like our whole lives.
We both lived at home until we were We went
to the same college. We spent yesterday going back to
the same college, the same middle school. So we both
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met fans. When we talk about we we talked about
everything already. So we talked about you know, I will say, though,
DT when when when I would go to the We
go to the met game together because we had catching
games together. We do talk about sports to do that's
not work, and we talk about the train and people
on the train in New York City listen. And we
went to Brody and try to talk about something else
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other than this. I would talk about anything, anything, your body,
what you're going on as your car. I don't know anything.
But then I don't want to go to dinner with you.
That's exactly my point is that I'm looking for more
than just talking to you about at this point in
my life. Yeah, I want to take everybody on the show.
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I want you and I were want to You and
I roommates for five years, and you know we've been
we went through a lot together off the air, and
we've had million experiences. We've documented some of those experiences
on the air. So you tell me now, like do
we are we not good enough friends? That I mean
if I'm not, if I'm I do we can talk
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about We talk about anything the whole time. So right,
we don't talk about work all the time never. Okay,
So you need how do you now translate that by
hanging out with Brody and not talking about work? Like,
how do you take that to the next level because
you're asking for dinner by Live by five right away.
So right away, I'm like, right away, we sit down,
I don't know if there's something on the table, I go,
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look at this. We started like I'll start real quick
about like maybe I look at something on the menu
and I go, I go, you know what, Trish orders
this all the time? Like you know, does Melissa always
order the same thing? And they're already We're already talking
about something he's making. You're taking steps right to getting
away from here. But the problem with that, that's normal.
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The problem is I don't care what Trish eats and no,
but it's small talk. He let me, let me expect.
Popn't really care what my life is said, and look,
I told him about sports. I can't talk to about religion.
I can't talk him about politics because we disagree on
everything and anything. He does, the way he raises his children,
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where he lives, it's all different. So we're just gonna argue.
But that's what's saying. But at least trial, but at
work we get along great because because up with everything
I have, I have gone to Tea's house before and
hung out with tea and my kids and his kids,
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and yes, I've actually slept to this house and never
never did we talk about work, not once. We talked
about family stuff. We talked about We talked about organizing
our refrigerators and how we do it differently. Trish and
I talked abouts together and it never did work come up.
We actually had friendship conversation. I am so tired of
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being judged around here like I can't stomach and he
regitimately can't stomach it. I need more from you, Brody,
I need more from everyone. Give you more more anymore.
I don't want to talk to you about work. I
don't want to debate stuff about you anymore. I want
to have a conversation with you like an adult, like
you would talk to your neighbor. That's what I want
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from you. If you deliver that, then that is a problem.
And Trish can over for dinner to my house. One
night we hadn't talking. No no, no, no no, nineteen
years ago. I know it was long, now as it long. Anyway,
we had a great night. We had a good night,
wed some wine with a good time. But there are
people in life and I'm not saying no, please I'm
not saying you, but there are people in life that
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you bond with, and there are people that you click
with you and I click at work. I write with you,
we create stuff together. We have a good working relationship.
But I don't think and I like you as a person.
You haven't even tried though, No no, no, no no.
It was in the last if you're if you haven't tried,
if you're missing out on the state dinner, yeah, if
you're first of all, you're gonna us. You would have
a great time about night time. And I think what
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he's trying to tell you is that when you get
him out of here, he's different. I've been criticizes, he
criticizes how I eat, criticized everybody here. He doesn't care
how I eat. He's aggravated by how I eat. Fifteen
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