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Speaker 1 (00:08):
Mother Knows Dad starring Nicole and Jemmy and Maria qk.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Hi.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Everyone welcome The Mother Knows Death. On today's episode, we're
going to talk about parasite cleanses. Heidi Klum is the
latest celebrity to jump on this cruize and I'm not
can you tell by my tone of voice, I'm not
into it. An unusual, trying true crime story involving a
man who was giving out machetes to homeless people, a
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pregnant woman who has been missing and her photo has
been shared all over social media. Well, they just found
her dead body and guess what the baby isn't with
her body. And we'll get into a person who was
born in an intersex body and had some of the
challenges that they face growing up. And we'll finish off
the episode with a light hearted but secretly terrible story
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of a mom who really did not get what she
wanted when she was pregnant. All that and moral. On
today's episode Parasite Cleanses.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Over the summer, Heidi Klum revealed that she was going
to be doing a worm and parasite cleanse with her
husband because she had seen a lot online about it
and learned you should be doing it once a year.
So now her results are in and she said she
basically doesn't know if anything happened and she hopes they
come out.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Of her body. This is the dumbest shit that goes
around the internet.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
I swear I was talking about this before. It was
like really big with influencers a couple months ago, and
I'm just like, are you guys doing any research or
you're just doing it because somebody else said to do
it online?
Speaker 1 (01:42):
She said. This is what she said, Heidi Klum, Like,
you know what's crazy? These people are multi millionaire celebrities
and they're just like, quote, everything I'm getting on my
Instagram feed at the moment is about worms and parasites.
Why do you think that is? You know what? Everything
that's on my Instagram feed right now is stranger things
(02:02):
because I keep looking at videos like that's how the
algorithm works. So that's why everything in your algorithm is that, Like, Hi,
do you know how this works? By now? Anyway, all
of these parasite cleanses, like obviously the people are trying
to sell them, so they're just trying to tell you
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that you're fill of parasites and you're gonna take this
thing and it's gonna get rid of them, and it's
not true. Like, listen, if you have a parasite, you
will know it, trust me, you'll know. You'll be peeing
out of your butt, you'll know. And then you'll go
to the doctor and they'll give you medicine to make
the parasite go away. And the chance of you getting
a parasite is pretty low, especially if you live in
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this country or the UK or any kind of population
that has good sanitation and you're not, you know, eating
food that's next to pig shit and all this kind
of stuff, like you'll be fine, trust me, you'll be fine.
You don't have a parasite. Not to say that you
can't get them in this country, because you can. There's
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certain ones that you could get for sure, but it's
so rare. We don't stumble across them accidentally at autopsy.
Like when you have one, you know you have one.
It's not like everyone just has them living in there.
There was there was another thing going around when when
I was younger, about these cleanses, and they would show
these videos of what your colon looks like, and they
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would show it to look like a pipe with with
hair stuck to the side and like food clogged, and
it's just like, your colon is not a pipe. There's
not things that are just sitting up on the sides
of the walls of the colon while everything else passes through,
and you're gonna take this miracle drug that's going to
cleanse it out. It's just it just doesn't work like that.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
It's kind of kudos to whoever came up with these
supplements that all these rich people are taking believing this
so good. Good for that.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Person for making people literally have for a long time,
they've been sending me pictures of their poop and saying, well,
what's this, And I'm like, it's part of your mucosa
that shut off. It's like little tiny pieces of food
particles and pieces of the lining of the intestine. It's
not parasites, because I'm like, okay, well, then tell me
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what parasite that is, because no parasites look like that.
Parasites that are worms look like worms. They look like white,
big worms, like an earthworm that's white and smooth. It's
very noticeable that it's a worm. It's not a squiggly
thing in your poop. You could get pinworms around your butt.
If you get pinworms, you'll know it because your butthole
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will it's so bad that you will want to like
rub it against a carpet or scratch it with your fingernut.
You're gonna know something's wrong if you have it.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
So you would think people sending you pictures of poop
was a problem, but it's actually not the worst pictures
you get froma.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
I it had. I get the craziest pictures sometimes and
I love it, So just keep sending them, please, Okay.
I want to be influencer went viral after he posted
videos handing out eighteen inch machetes and alcohol to homeless
people in Austin, New Orleans, and Little Rock, and now
he says he plans to go to Vegas, LA and
New York. So he's saying that he asked the police
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if this was okay, and they said it was not illegal,
and that is why he continues to do it.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Okay. So friend of the pod Joe Jack Loane, was
interviewed for this article, and he had said that owning
a machete is not illegal, so maybe I would assume
it was like some type of weapon, right, But I
guess owning a knife isn't illegal, and especially in certain states,
the length of the knife doesn't matter at all, So
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I thought that was weird. Also that he asked the
police and they said it wasn't illegal. I think the
problem people are mostly facing here is that he's giving
it to them with alcohol, and he's trying to say
he's trying to protect them, but he's making fun of them.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Machetes are totally necessary tools for people to have, like
if you're walking in the woods and you want to
cut branches that are in a way or something like that. Like,
there's no reason that a homeless person living in a
city needs a machete. There's I can't see with it
what the purpose would be.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Well, if they're saying it's not illegal to hand them out,
is he not going to get in trouble if one
of these people end up using.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
It in a crime, I don't know. And Annie's handing
out alcohol at the same time. And also, Okay, aside
from like maybe he's just trying to find some loophole
to go viral, because it certainly is working, right, but
but like, what about the moral issues here that there's
already people that I mean, you would you would say
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that people that are homeless are at a low point
in their life, right, They're not doing great. They don't
have anywhere to live, they don't know where they're next
meal is coming from, they don't have money, and they
have to live with the embarrassment of living on the
street in front of people, right, And there's usually some
kind of substance involved with with those types of situations.
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It's totally cool for someone to go like mess with
these people and like and exploit them like that. I
don't know, Like, I just think it's I think it's wrong.
I think it's so wrong to do to a person
like they're human beings. They're not like, they have feelings,
they have lives, They they deserve some kind of dignity
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and respect, and that is just like, well, it.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Is disrespectful because I think a lot of people that
are homeless are dealing with severe mental health issues or
addiction issues. So then you're going to said people and
handing them tools to make bad decisions. And this guy's like, oh,
I'm just trying to give them things to be safe. Well,
like alcohol isn't safe in any context, so like what's
the alcohol for and like why did they need a machete?
(08:01):
It like doesn't make any sense and I could only
see this going wrong, like one of these people us.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
What did the article say? Like why why? Like why
is he I know he's saying that to be safe,
but why is is he allowed to do this? Like
because he's finding loopholes?
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Well, he's saying he asked the police and he's not
doing anything illegal, and he's going viral online, which is
what he wanted. He got the machetes in bulk for
under five dollars.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
I know that it's but I know that there that
Joe's saying that a machete is not illegal. So but
like are you allowed to carry it? Because I feel
like there's certain I thought you weren't allowed to carry
knives that were certain lengths and stuff.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
Well that's just that's state by state because in Florida
you could carry a really big knife, but in New
Jersey you cannot, and in Philadelphia you cannot. So it
that depends.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
So like if he went to Philadelphia he could get
in trouble for it.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Maybe, Well I experience yes he would because I had
a knife and in my backpack at school and we
went on a field trip to go to the Liberty
bell or something.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
But that's different because like, why is a pocket knife
different than no, I'm saying going to the Liberty bells different.
They're like, you can't, but they you can't go into
the Phillies game with with a Cannesota or they act.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
I didn't finish what I was saying. When it scanned
my backpack and found it, the cops there said, you know,
this is illegal the size knife I had, so they
took it from me. So like, no, you can't have
ones of certain length there. It doesn't matter if you're
going in the public space or not. Like that knife
I brought in, ye, but they weren't going to let
you bring it in anyway. But they said this size
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knife is illegal to have in Pennsylvania.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
Maybe so it I mean, I know Texas could be different,
but he said he's planning on going to LA I
can't imagine that have lax rules about knives.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Well, who knows what goes on there, but New York
I can't see this being okay so far he's gone.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
I guess if they're not technically carrying like, it's weird
because he's I guess, if you want to think about it,
he's giving it as a gift. I don't know. I
know that there's definitely rules about knives though, so I
don't and maybe that's considered more of a tool because
like you could buy an obviously we talked about this
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that someone bought knives at Marshals a few months ago
and tried to stab or did stab someone in the
parking lot with them. So it's like kitchen knife, Like
you could buy a huge kitchen knife, right, like.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Well, like he's not giving them to them saying you
have to carry this.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
On your person. Yes they don't. They don't.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
They don't have a place to live. But if it's
like with their other belongings, not on their physical body,
then it's weird. It could be seen as being different.
I mean, it's a weird situation.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
I don't want to get anybody to get hurt, but
I also kind of want like someone to do something
with this and him get in trouble because because he's
just a moron.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
It's just an idiotic thing to do. I just and
especially when you combine it with the alcohol.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
What is he thinking?
Speaker 2 (11:14):
And it's and he straight up like, well I'm getting
a lot of views. Oh, so it's okay to just
be morally corrupt. Well, I guess it is okay to
be morally corrupt if you're getting a lot of views.
Think of the Kardashians.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
A listener sent this next story in a woman who
was thirty eight weeks pregnant went missing and now her
body's been found, but without the baby.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
Yeah. Do you know that the number one cause of
death in pregnant women is homicide? That's number one mannered death?
I should say current pregnant, it's manner of death. I
should say, yeah. I mean it sounds it sounds outrageous, right,
but it is. And I mean, you don't have to well,
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you don't have to worry about that because you're you know,
it's obviously it's more likely to happen in domestic violence situations.
But it's really it's really unfortunate because this doesn't even
appear to be a domestic violence situation. Again, her sister
was just arrested, right, and her fiance or.
Speaker 2 (12:19):
I mean, this has domestic violence is not just between couples.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
Her mother and.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
Her mother's husband, and her sister and her fiance were
all arrested, So the domestic violence could have been within
her immediate family.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
Yeah, it's just I'm saying it wasn't like a relationship one, but.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
So not that we know of yet.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
So so basically like they killed her to take the baby.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
We don't know where the baby is. We don't know
where the baby is, We don't know what happened, and
we don't know where the baby is. All we know
right now is that it took a couple of days
to identify her body. She was last seen on November three.
Her body was discovered on November twenty fifth, so her sister,
her mom, the mom's husband, and the fiance. They were arrested,
but I think the fiance was arrested on unrelated drug charges.
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So they're all being held in jail right now. And
they're saying she went to the hospital the day before
she went missing, thinking she was in labor. They ended
up sending her home. She was due on the eighteenth,
and they found her body. The baby is nowhere to
be found. They have no idea where the kid is
at all, and the family is claiming she was picked
up by a car with tinted windows and conveniently the
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day she went missing. She received two thousand dollars inheritance
from another family member.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
So we don't know anything right now as far as
how she was found and how she was killed. So
at the autopsy, for example, they're going to look for
different things, like because the baby's not in her anymore,
and she was due to have a baby, so they're
going to see how this baby got out of her body.
Did she give birth vaginally? Is the placentistole up in there?
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Did someone cut the baby out of her belly? Like
did that kill her? Was she alive when that happened?
Was she dead when that happened. They'll be able to
tell all of that at autopsy and get back to us,
But for now, while we're waiting for those results, the
scariest part is like where's the baby? Is the baby alive?
Did they steal the baby to sell the baby? Because
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that's happened before.
Speaker 2 (14:19):
Were We just got a story this week where a
guy was planning or trying to buy baby in Louisiana.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
Like if you think about it, like why would why
else would the sister? Why would they take the baby?
You know what I mean? Like they're doing it, they're
doing it for some reason if they were doing it
for themselves. Don't you think that when the police arrested
them they found the baby. There's like, you don't just
get arrested unless there's a reason to arrest you. They
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have some kind of evidence that links them to this crime.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Well, and the sister's been charged with filing a false
report and tampering with evidence, so they clearly know she
is involved. The mom was just rested because the mom
was the last person that saw or alive, and the details.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
Just aren't adding up.
Speaker 2 (15:05):
I don't know why the mom's husband was also arrested.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
They're not arresting. You can't arrest people for no reason,
so like there's some reason, right, And it's it's just
like such a shame when you hear stuff like this,
because that's just that that must just be the most
awful feeling to I mean, I imagine just when you
know that you're probably going to die because someone's going
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to kill you. It's scary, but imagine being ready, like
you're giving birth in a day, and worrying about what's
going to happen with that, and like someone stealing your
baby and like them being raised by someone else. It's
so freaking scary.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
This episode is brought to you by the grocery guys.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
So the next story we are going to talk about
is about a person that was born intersex, and we're
going to talk all about what potentially they were born
with and what they were dealing with as a child.
And I did write two articles in the Gross Room
about this at some point that I want you guys
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to check out after you're done hearing the story if
you want to learn more about it. One is called
only two Sexes, and then the other one is called
gender and Sex, and that Gender and Sex one is
a real high profile dissection one of the longer articles
that we write about all about being born intersex, but
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also about transgender and all the different surgeries that are
available and things like that. If you have any interest
in seeing how those surgeries are performed or anything, check
out that post in the Grossroom.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
Head over to the grossroom dot com now to sign up.
All Right, a man who was born intersex, meaning he
had both male and female genitalia, sharing his experience and
creepy questions he's been asked throughout his life. So can
you explain what that is?
Speaker 1 (17:04):
All right? So he said this is from the article.
I was born with inverted testicles, and I had a
micro penis and also a vagina hole from birth. I've
always compared myself to a Domino's pizza half and half.
That's basically how I felt when I had both a
penis and a vagina. So based upon that, I think
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that he likely had something called five alpha reductaste efficiency,
which is when that enzyme is missing and the body
can't convert testosterone to DHT and DHT is the hormone
that is required to develop mal external genitalia. So when
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when he was born, he was genetically male but didn't
form a full male genitalia. So imagine when he was
born he looked like a girl, and he was raised
as a girl for a portion of his life until
he was about eleven years old. Once someone that has
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this enzyme deficiency starts going through puberty, all of a sudden,
it's quite obvious that they are in fact male. Their
voice deepens, they have increased muscle mass. Sometimes their penis
or the micro penis starts to grow and it starts
looking a little bit less female and a little bit
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more male when puberty kicks in, So then all of
a sudden, things started making a lot more sense to
him because he always felt like he was male because
technically he is because of his genetics, but externally didn't
look that way. And unfortunately this happens. Intersex happens a lot.
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It's not talked about. It's definitely talked about more now.
It happens a lot. Like there's as many intersex people
in the world as there are redheads, So just think
about that. So and there's different There's lots of different
things that could go that could happen during development that
can make a person be like a Domino's pizza half
and half. They're kind of half this and half that.
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They're not really they're not really one or the other.
So he has since said that he's had surgery to
do a folloplasty, which is to create a penis, because
he's never developed. But he feels like a man, so
he wants he wants to be a man. He doesn't
want to be a girl just because his generals look
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like a girl. So it is interesting. I don't know
how old he is, but in the article he talks
about different things that his friend's parents would say. And
I suppose that this had to come up because until
he was about my daughter's age now, so about in
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fifth grade, he was presenting as a girl and then
changed over to being a boy. And you know, people
ask questions, and I guess his parents and him were
very honest about like what happened and what he was
diagnosed with. Here, So his external genitals looked female, but
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his testicles were still undescended. They were like up inside
of his body still they never came down into the
sack and this, you know, it just looked like he
had labia, like there was no ball in the sack,
you know what I mean. So he always had testicles
and he has his testosterone and everything now going through
puberty like he's a guy. So he wanted to look
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more like that. So these are some of the different
questions that his friend's parents would ask him, which is
which is actually kind of weird to think about, like
adults talking to children about this. I do like, this
is why it's good for us to like I did
a couple of stories of this in the gross room,
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and I also like for us to talk about this
because people are curious and people want to know, and
it is weird to ask a kid this though, because
people don't understand because nobody talks about it, so people
think they don't know anybody that's gone through this, when
actually they probably do. So the friend's parents would say
do you sit down or you stand up when you
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go to the toilet, And then he would say listen,
like I'm a kid, just like you're you're asking me
like these weird questions.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
That one I will admit is a rude question to ask,
but the following are massively inappropriate and borderline sexual, which.
Speaker 1 (21:50):
Said, wait, what did it say? I didn't feel comfortable.
Speaker 2 (21:55):
It was the asking about how he was going to
the bathroom. And then because for a long time he
thought he was female, he was using a female locker
room at school. Oh yeah, and then they were like,
prove it, lift your shirt up, which I just thought
was so inappropriate. You're talking to a child.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
Yeah, and then he was saying that I guess once
he started going through puberty, they wouldn't allow him to
be in the girls room anymore because they said that
his clitorist got so big, like it looked like a penis,
Like it was like a little penis. But like that
day know that, well, I was thinking that too, because
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like I mean, like I'm a different kind of person.
Like when I was having to get changed in the
locker room at school, Like the last thing I'm doing
is exposing my boobs or my badge to anybody. Like
I was covered all the time, but kids take showers
and stuff, and like you could see people. I know
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that the guys do see each other naked, Like you
could see each other naked. It's it's weird to me,
Like I know, I always thought that it was weird.
I never wanted to get changed in front of people
at school because I'm like, I don't want people to
see me naked at school. It's weird, but it happens,
especially if you play sports and stuff and kids, you know,
I recalled my locker rooms at school, like there's just
a bunch of showers, like people were naked in front
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of each other. So this kid is born thinking that
he's a girl and then all of a sudden starts
like getting a deep voice and kind of just looking
more like a man, but like physically, like the genitals
stole female. So it just was like a lot to
go through as as an eleven year old.
Speaker 2 (23:37):
Yeah, don't I don't think the parents were knowing what
his genitals look like and asking him to prove it.
I think his facial appearance started looking more masculine.
Speaker 1 (23:46):
No, but he said in the article, he said about
the locker room with the clitorists getting so big that
it looked like a penis, that they were like, you
can't get changed in front of the girls anymore. Now
he's had the surgery done and looks more how he feels.
So I think it's cool and it's I think it's
really cool that he's like openly talking about it because
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it'll like make adults less weird and ask kids questions
like that.
Speaker 2 (24:12):
Yeah, I mean all the questions he was asked are
completely inappropriate, and I do think it plays a lot
to that of just people being so uncomfortable about it,
and like the fact that you're saying it's as common
as redheads. Like, I don't think redheads are as rare
as they say they are, because I feel like I
see people with red hair. Maybe I'm more exposed because
(24:32):
I am married to a ginger sized family has gingers.
Speaker 1 (24:35):
Yeah, it's it is, It's rarely. It's like two to
three percent of the population.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
I just don't believe that at all. I just feel
like there's so many of them.
Speaker 1 (24:45):
You're with a person that's like a redhead. I don't
ever see redheads like you do. I mean because you're
around his family and stuff. It's not just his family though,
I see them everywhere you're looking. I guess.
Speaker 2 (24:58):
Hopefully my little baby will be a g How cute.
All right, let's wrap up with a later story. So
a mom of three boys was hoping that she would
be having a girl when she found out she was
pregnant again, but then found out she was having triplet boys, Like,
oh my god, having six kids in general is insane,
(25:20):
but six boys. Yeah, I really believe that there's people
in this world that are just made to be. Like
Gabe is a girl dad, Like that's what he was
made to be.
Speaker 1 (25:31):
Like it's just I can't even picture him. Like if
I got pregnant, he knew this too, Like if I
got pregnant five more times, I would have had five
more girls. Like it's just that's his destiny. Kind of
this mom's destiny is to be a boy mom. Like
it's just the way that it is. I can't even imagine,
because like I I think that everybody and and people
(25:55):
are getting more open to say that. Like when you're
pregnant and you find out the sex you're having, Like
sometimes people get disappointed, especially when you have a certain
sex that you want another one. Sometimes sometimes people don't care.
Other times people are like, oh okay, you know and
other whatever, because I mean because for some reason, like
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there's this unseid thing that like the only way that
you could be happy is if you have one of
each at least or something. I don't know, you know,
it's weird.
Speaker 2 (26:27):
Well that's ridiculous, and I mean, also I don't believe
people are I think it's ridiculous when people judge others
for having like gender disappointment, right, because like you have
in your mind you want a certain like I wanted
a boy first, and that's what I'm having luckily, right,
But if I had a girl, I mean, I would
have been just as excited. And maybe it's because I
had to struggle so much to get pregnant in general,
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but like I wouldn't have cared either way. You're getting
a healthy baby. But like to know that this mom
has three boys already and she was open to have
a girl, and now I was having three more boys
is insane. Like the fact that she's having at all
after having three kids, it's insane. And it wasn't she
didn't use any fertility treatment or I VA if there's
natural triplet pregnancy. It's just kind of like I'm gonna
(27:10):
say this and.
Speaker 1 (27:11):
People might judge me for this, which is whatever. Like
I would really really be like depressed and like really
not happy if I found out I was having triplets.
Speaker 2 (27:22):
See you're different that, Like I I wanted to have
twins really like.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
I would even if I had twins, Like I I
seriously would cry. I mean like it would work out,
like obviously I would figure it out and deal with it,
but just like the thought of how overwhelming that would
be to me and just how much it would cost
three times everything like in a row, because at least
(27:46):
sometimes you have stagger so like this year, your kid's
got an expensive trip or has it it needs an
expensive gift or this or that, and it's like staggered
a little. When they're all in the same as that
grade and the same needs, in the same clothes, Like
it's just and that's same attention and everything. One could
say that it might be easier to just like whip
them all out at one time, Like doctor Drew had
(28:08):
three kids, right, they're fine now the kids are your age, right,
they survived it somehow. But I don't know. I just
I just think that that would be like my worst nightmare.
Speaker 2 (28:21):
You're the type of person that you're now. Like I
still every time I go, I'm like, are you sure
there's not two in there?
Speaker 1 (28:26):
It's like yeah, but it's what I wanted. I don't know, Well,
my like, it's hard for me to say because obviously,
you were my first pregnancy, and I was fifteen years old,
so like I wasn't really thinking about anything like that.
But you're on your first pregnancy, like you have no
idea what's about to happen to you, Like as far
as taking care of a kid and having to like
be mid I don't like that. I think it's hard.
(28:50):
Like this mom knows what she's in for because she
already has three kids.
Speaker 2 (28:55):
And the other kids are eleven, four and one, so
she's gonna have like at least one toddler while she has. Listen,
people people that were much poorer than than we are now,
like back in the day had way more kids than
that and figured it out they've had the older kids
taking care of the younger kids, and everybody figures it out.
Speaker 1 (29:17):
I know everyone figures it out. I just think that
I don't know. I just think that it would just
be so awful. No offense to any of you that
are listening, that have listen, like you're like a stronger
person than me. Mentally. I just think I just think
I mentally couldn't deal with it.
Speaker 2 (29:33):
I wouldn't personally want six children, but I think, like,
these big families are nice, right, So it's like I
think she was a little shocked. I think in general,
you'd be shocked if you were learning you were having triplets,
especially if you have three kids in general, and now
you're gonna have all boys. It's just kind of crazy
that that happened. Yeah, I definitely wouldn't say I mean
trying for the girls.
Speaker 1 (29:53):
Like, think about this, if you have six children, what like,
what what kind of CARDI even get.
Speaker 2 (30:01):
A mini van?
Speaker 1 (30:02):
Yeah, but then you have six kids, so six kids
are in the entire back, Like does a minivan seat
eight people?
Speaker 2 (30:11):
A mini van has it? I thought it only had like, no,
there's ones, there's ones with two seats, and then some
of them have three seats in both rows in the back,
so that could be six and the one kid's older,
don't forget, so he gets it in the front seat.
Speaker 1 (30:28):
Yeah, but like what if the mom and dad want
to go out together with the kids, like do you
have to might not be able to. Yeah, like I
that kind of shit, like scared that would just you'd
have to buy like a short school bus. No, they
I would get it and like paint it out. I
would like paint it out and get like black rims
on it and paint it black. At least you can
get like.
Speaker 2 (30:48):
An escalat or something that has more seats in it.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
You don't have to have a minivan people have meeting.
I don't I'm serious. I don't think that I've seen
because I rent cars sometimes when we go on our
road trips and stuff. I don't think I've seen a
car that has eight seat belts. It's just like a
lot and then you can never have their friends.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Like not in the back, Like there's eight seats in
the car. There's two in the front, three in the middle,
three in the back.
Speaker 1 (31:16):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (31:18):
It's then and like car we rented to go to
Sea Hamilton at that setup.
Speaker 1 (31:22):
No, that was only that was only set. They don't
have that many. I'm telling you, I don't think it's
And it's like the car seat too, isn't like really
a seat like it almost spills into the next seat,
you know what I mean? Like three car seats actually
four because she has a one year old. Well, listen,
plenty of people have six children or more and they
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figure it out just fine. So I'm sure they'll figure
out the car situation.
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Speaker 1 (00:21):
Everyone welcome The Mother Knows Death. On today's episode, we're
going to talk about parasite cleanses. Heidi Klum is the
latest celebrity to jump on this cruize and I'm not
can you tell by my tone of voice, I'm not
into it. An unusual, trying true crime story involving a
man who was giving out machetes to homeless people, a
(00:42):
pregnant woman who has been missing and her photo has
been shared all over social media. Well, they just found
her dead body and guess what the baby isn't with
her body. And we'll get into a person who was
born in an intersex body and had some of the
challenges that they face growing up. And we'll finish off
the episode with a light hearted but secretly terrible story
(01:04):
of a mom who really did not get what she
wanted when she was pregnant. All that and moral. On
today's episode Parasite Cleanses.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
Over the summer, Heidi Klum revealed that she was going
to be doing a worm and parasite cleanse with her
husband because she had seen a lot online about it
and learned you should be doing it once a year.
So now her results are in and she said she
basically doesn't know if anything happened and she hopes they
come out.
Speaker 1 (01:29):
Of her body. This is the dumbest shit that goes
around the internet.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
I swear I was talking about this before. It was
like really big with influencers a couple months ago, and
I'm just like, are you guys doing any research or
you're just doing it because somebody else said to do
it online?
Speaker 1 (01:42):
She said. This is what she said, Heidi Klum, Like,
you know what's crazy? These people are multi millionaire celebrities
and they're just like, quote, everything I'm getting on my
Instagram feed at the moment is about worms and parasites.
Why do you think that is? You know what? Everything
that's on my Instagram feed right now is stranger things
(02:02):
because I keep looking at videos like that's how the
algorithm works. So that's why everything in your algorithm is that, Like, Hi,
do you know how this works? By now? Anyway, all
of these parasite cleanses, like obviously the people are trying
to sell them, so they're just trying to tell you
(02:22):
that you're fill of parasites and you're gonna take this
thing and it's gonna get rid of them, and it's
not true. Like, listen, if you have a parasite, you
will know it, trust me, you'll know. You'll be peeing
out of your butt, you'll know. And then you'll go
to the doctor and they'll give you medicine to make
the parasite go away. And the chance of you getting
a parasite is pretty low, especially if you live in
(02:42):
this country or the UK or any kind of population
that has good sanitation and you're not, you know, eating
food that's next to pig shit and all this kind
of stuff, like you'll be fine, trust me, you'll be fine.
You don't have a parasite. Not to say that you
can't get them in this country, because you can. There's
(03:04):
certain ones that you could get for sure, but it's
so rare. We don't stumble across them accidentally at autopsy.
Like when you have one, you know you have one.
It's not like everyone just has them living in there.
There was there was another thing going around when when
I was younger, about these cleanses, and they would show
these videos of what your colon looks like, and they
(03:27):
would show it to look like a pipe with with
hair stuck to the side and like food clogged, and
it's just like, your colon is not a pipe. There's
not things that are just sitting up on the sides
of the walls of the colon while everything else passes through,
and you're gonna take this miracle drug that's going to
cleanse it out. It's just it just doesn't work like that.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
It's kind of kudos to whoever came up with these
supplements that all these rich people are taking believing this
so good. Good for that.
Speaker 1 (03:58):
Person for making people literally have for a long time,
they've been sending me pictures of their poop and saying, well,
what's this, And I'm like, it's part of your mucosa
that shut off. It's like little tiny pieces of food
particles and pieces of the lining of the intestine. It's
not parasites, because I'm like, okay, well, then tell me
(04:18):
what parasite that is, because no parasites look like that.
Parasites that are worms look like worms. They look like white,
big worms, like an earthworm that's white and smooth. It's
very noticeable that it's a worm. It's not a squiggly
thing in your poop. You could get pinworms around your butt.
If you get pinworms, you'll know it because your butthole
(04:40):
will it's so bad that you will want to like
rub it against a carpet or scratch it with your fingernut.
You're gonna know something's wrong if you have it.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
So you would think people sending you pictures of poop
was a problem, but it's actually not the worst pictures
you get froma.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
I it had. I get the craziest pictures sometimes and
I love it, So just keep sending them, please, Okay.
I want to be influencer went viral after he posted
videos handing out eighteen inch machetes and alcohol to homeless
people in Austin, New Orleans, and Little Rock, and now
he says he plans to go to Vegas, LA and
New York. So he's saying that he asked the police
(05:21):
if this was okay, and they said it was not illegal,
and that is why he continues to do it.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
Okay. So friend of the pod Joe Jack Loane, was
interviewed for this article, and he had said that owning
a machete is not illegal, so maybe I would assume
it was like some type of weapon, right, But I
guess owning a knife isn't illegal, and especially in certain states,
the length of the knife doesn't matter at all, So
(05:51):
I thought that was weird. Also that he asked the
police and they said it wasn't illegal. I think the
problem people are mostly facing here is that he's giving
it to them with alcohol, and he's trying to say
he's trying to protect them, but he's making fun of them.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Machetes are totally necessary tools for people to have, like
if you're walking in the woods and you want to
cut branches that are in a way or something like that. Like,
there's no reason that a homeless person living in a
city needs a machete. There's I can't see with it
what the purpose would be.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
Well, if they're saying it's not illegal to hand them out,
is he not going to get in trouble if one
of these people end up using.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
It in a crime, I don't know. And Annie's handing
out alcohol at the same time. And also, Okay, aside
from like maybe he's just trying to find some loophole
to go viral, because it certainly is working, right, but
but like, what about the moral issues here that there's
already people that I mean, you would you would say
(06:53):
that people that are homeless are at a low point
in their life, right, They're not doing great. They don't
have anywhere to live, they don't know where they're next
meal is coming from, they don't have money, and they
have to live with the embarrassment of living on the
street in front of people, right, And there's usually some
kind of substance involved with with those types of situations.
(07:14):
It's totally cool for someone to go like mess with
these people and like and exploit them like that. I
don't know, Like, I just think it's I think it's wrong.
I think it's so wrong to do to a person
like they're human beings. They're not like, they have feelings,
they have lives, They they deserve some kind of dignity
(07:35):
and respect, and that is just like, well, it.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Is disrespectful because I think a lot of people that
are homeless are dealing with severe mental health issues or
addiction issues. So then you're going to said people and
handing them tools to make bad decisions. And this guy's like, oh,
I'm just trying to give them things to be safe. Well,
like alcohol isn't safe in any context, so like what's
the alcohol for and like why did they need a machete?
(08:01):
It like doesn't make any sense and I could only
see this going wrong, like one of these people us.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
What did the article say? Like why why? Like why
is he I know he's saying that to be safe,
but why is is he allowed to do this? Like
because he's finding loopholes?
Speaker 2 (08:23):
Well, he's saying he asked the police and he's not
doing anything illegal, and he's going viral online, which is
what he wanted. He got the machetes in bulk for
under five dollars.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
I know that it's but I know that there that
Joe's saying that a machete is not illegal. So but
like are you allowed to carry it? Because I feel
like there's certain I thought you weren't allowed to carry
knives that were certain lengths and stuff.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
Well that's just that's state by state because in Florida
you could carry a really big knife, but in New
Jersey you cannot, and in Philadelphia you cannot. So it
that depends.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
So like if he went to Philadelphia he could get
in trouble for it.
Speaker 2 (09:03):
Maybe, Well I experience yes he would because I had
a knife and in my backpack at school and we
went on a field trip to go to the Liberty
bell or something.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
But that's different because like, why is a pocket knife
different than no, I'm saying going to the Liberty bells different.
They're like, you can't, but they you can't go into
the Phillies game with with a Cannesota or they act.
Speaker 2 (09:28):
I didn't finish what I was saying. When it scanned
my backpack and found it, the cops there said, you know,
this is illegal the size knife I had, so they
took it from me. So like, no, you can't have
ones of certain length there. It doesn't matter if you're
going in the public space or not. Like that knife
I brought in, ye, but they weren't going to let
you bring it in anyway. But they said this size
(09:49):
knife is illegal to have in Pennsylvania.
Speaker 1 (09:54):
Maybe so it I mean, I know Texas could be different,
but he said he's planning on going to LA I
can't imagine that have lax rules about knives.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
Well, who knows what goes on there, but New York
I can't see this being okay so far he's gone.
Speaker 1 (10:08):
I guess if they're not technically carrying like, it's weird
because he's I guess, if you want to think about it,
he's giving it as a gift. I don't know. I
know that there's definitely rules about knives though, so I
don't and maybe that's considered more of a tool because
like you could buy an obviously we talked about this
(10:29):
that someone bought knives at Marshals a few months ago
and tried to stab or did stab someone in the
parking lot with them. So it's like kitchen knife, Like
you could buy a huge kitchen knife, right, like.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
Well, like he's not giving them to them saying you
have to carry this.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
On your person. Yes they don't. They don't.
Speaker 2 (10:47):
They don't have a place to live. But if it's
like with their other belongings, not on their physical body,
then it's weird. It could be seen as being different.
I mean, it's a weird situation.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
I don't want to get anybody to get hurt, but
I also kind of want like someone to do something
with this and him get in trouble because because he's
just a moron.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
It's just an idiotic thing to do. I just and
especially when you combine it with the alcohol.
Speaker 1 (11:13):
What is he thinking?
Speaker 2 (11:14):
And it's and he straight up like, well I'm getting
a lot of views. Oh, so it's okay to just
be morally corrupt. Well, I guess it is okay to
be morally corrupt if you're getting a lot of views.
Think of the Kardashians.
Speaker 1 (11:25):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
A listener sent this next story in a woman who
was thirty eight weeks pregnant went missing and now her
body's been found, but without the baby.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
Yeah. Do you know that the number one cause of
death in pregnant women is homicide? That's number one mannered death?
I should say current pregnant, it's manner of death. I
should say, yeah. I mean it sounds it sounds outrageous, right,
but it is. And I mean, you don't have to well,
(11:56):
you don't have to worry about that because you're you know,
it's obviously it's more likely to happen in domestic violence situations.
But it's really it's really unfortunate because this doesn't even
appear to be a domestic violence situation. Again, her sister
was just arrested, right, and her fiance or.
Speaker 2 (12:19):
I mean, this has domestic violence is not just between couples.
Speaker 1 (12:23):
Her mother and.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
Her mother's husband, and her sister and her fiance were
all arrested, So the domestic violence could have been within
her immediate family.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
Yeah, it's just I'm saying it wasn't like a relationship one, but.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
So not that we know of yet.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
So so basically like they killed her to take the baby.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
We don't know where the baby is. We don't know
where the baby is, We don't know what happened, and
we don't know where the baby is. All we know
right now is that it took a couple of days
to identify her body. She was last seen on November three.
Her body was discovered on November twenty fifth, so her sister,
her mom, the mom's husband, and the fiance. They were arrested,
but I think the fiance was arrested on unrelated drug charges.
(13:04):
So they're all being held in jail right now. And
they're saying she went to the hospital the day before
she went missing, thinking she was in labor. They ended
up sending her home. She was due on the eighteenth,
and they found her body. The baby is nowhere to
be found. They have no idea where the kid is
at all, and the family is claiming she was picked
up by a car with tinted windows and conveniently the
(13:24):
day she went missing. She received two thousand dollars inheritance
from another family member.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
So we don't know anything right now as far as
how she was found and how she was killed. So
at the autopsy, for example, they're going to look for
different things, like because the baby's not in her anymore,
and she was due to have a baby, so they're
going to see how this baby got out of her body.
Did she give birth vaginally? Is the placentistole up in there?
(13:55):
Did someone cut the baby out of her belly? Like
did that kill her? Was she alive when that happened?
Was she dead when that happened. They'll be able to
tell all of that at autopsy and get back to us,
But for now, while we're waiting for those results, the
scariest part is like where's the baby? Is the baby alive?
Did they steal the baby to sell the baby? Because
(14:18):
that's happened before.
Speaker 2 (14:19):
Were We just got a story this week where a
guy was planning or trying to buy baby in Louisiana.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
Like if you think about it, like why would why
else would the sister? Why would they take the baby?
You know what I mean? Like they're doing it, they're
doing it for some reason if they were doing it
for themselves. Don't you think that when the police arrested
them they found the baby. There's like, you don't just
get arrested unless there's a reason to arrest you. They
(14:50):
have some kind of evidence that links them to this crime.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Well, and the sister's been charged with filing a false
report and tampering with evidence, so they clearly know she
is involved. The mom was just rested because the mom
was the last person that saw or alive, and the details.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
Just aren't adding up.
Speaker 2 (15:05):
I don't know why the mom's husband was also arrested.
Speaker 1 (15:07):
They're not arresting. You can't arrest people for no reason,
so like there's some reason, right, And it's it's just
like such a shame when you hear stuff like this,
because that's just that that must just be the most
awful feeling to I mean, I imagine just when you
know that you're probably going to die because someone's going
(15:27):
to kill you. It's scary, but imagine being ready, like
you're giving birth in a day, and worrying about what's
going to happen with that, and like someone stealing your
baby and like them being raised by someone else. It's
so freaking scary.
Speaker 2 (15:49):
This episode is brought to you by the grocery guys.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
So the next story we are going to talk about
is about a person that was born intersex, and we're
going to talk all about what potentially they were born
with and what they were dealing with as a child.
And I did write two articles in the Gross Room
about this at some point that I want you guys
(16:13):
to check out after you're done hearing the story if
you want to learn more about it. One is called
only two Sexes, and then the other one is called
gender and Sex, and that Gender and Sex one is
a real high profile dissection one of the longer articles
that we write about all about being born intersex, but
(16:36):
also about transgender and all the different surgeries that are
available and things like that. If you have any interest
in seeing how those surgeries are performed or anything, check
out that post in the Grossroom.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
Head over to the grossroom dot com now to sign up.
All Right, a man who was born intersex, meaning he
had both male and female genitalia, sharing his experience and
creepy questions he's been asked throughout his life. So can
you explain what that is?
Speaker 1 (17:04):
All right? So he said this is from the article.
I was born with inverted testicles, and I had a
micro penis and also a vagina hole from birth. I've
always compared myself to a Domino's pizza half and half.
That's basically how I felt when I had both a
penis and a vagina. So based upon that, I think
(17:29):
that he likely had something called five alpha reductaste efficiency,
which is when that enzyme is missing and the body
can't convert testosterone to DHT and DHT is the hormone
that is required to develop mal external genitalia. So when
(17:51):
when he was born, he was genetically male but didn't
form a full male genitalia. So imagine when he was
born he looked like a girl, and he was raised
as a girl for a portion of his life until
he was about eleven years old. Once someone that has
(18:15):
this enzyme deficiency starts going through puberty, all of a sudden,
it's quite obvious that they are in fact male. Their
voice deepens, they have increased muscle mass. Sometimes their penis
or the micro penis starts to grow and it starts
looking a little bit less female and a little bit
(18:38):
more male when puberty kicks in, So then all of
a sudden, things started making a lot more sense to
him because he always felt like he was male because
technically he is because of his genetics, but externally didn't
look that way. And unfortunately this happens. Intersex happens a lot.
(19:00):
It's not talked about. It's definitely talked about more now.
It happens a lot. Like there's as many intersex people
in the world as there are redheads, So just think
about that. So and there's different There's lots of different
things that could go that could happen during development that
can make a person be like a Domino's pizza half
and half. They're kind of half this and half that.
(19:21):
They're not really they're not really one or the other.
So he has since said that he's had surgery to
do a folloplasty, which is to create a penis, because
he's never developed. But he feels like a man, so
he wants he wants to be a man. He doesn't
want to be a girl just because his generals look
(19:43):
like a girl. So it is interesting. I don't know
how old he is, but in the article he talks
about different things that his friend's parents would say. And
I suppose that this had to come up because until
he was about my daughter's age now, so about in
(20:05):
fifth grade, he was presenting as a girl and then
changed over to being a boy. And you know, people
ask questions, and I guess his parents and him were
very honest about like what happened and what he was
diagnosed with. Here, So his external genitals looked female, but
(20:25):
his testicles were still undescended. They were like up inside
of his body still they never came down into the
sack and this, you know, it just looked like he
had labia, like there was no ball in the sack,
you know what I mean. So he always had testicles
and he has his testosterone and everything now going through
puberty like he's a guy. So he wanted to look
(20:50):
more like that. So these are some of the different
questions that his friend's parents would ask him, which is
which is actually kind of weird to think about, like
adults talking to children about this. I do like, this
is why it's good for us to like I did
a couple of stories of this in the gross room,
(21:11):
and I also like for us to talk about this
because people are curious and people want to know, and
it is weird to ask a kid this though, because
people don't understand because nobody talks about it, so people
think they don't know anybody that's gone through this, when
actually they probably do. So the friend's parents would say
do you sit down or you stand up when you
(21:33):
go to the toilet, And then he would say listen,
like I'm a kid, just like you're you're asking me
like these weird questions.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
That one I will admit is a rude question to ask,
but the following are massively inappropriate and borderline sexual, which.
Speaker 1 (21:50):
Said, wait, what did it say? I didn't feel comfortable.
Speaker 2 (21:55):
It was the asking about how he was going to
the bathroom. And then because for a long time he
thought he was female, he was using a female locker
room at school. Oh yeah, and then they were like,
prove it, lift your shirt up, which I just thought
was so inappropriate. You're talking to a child.
Speaker 1 (22:11):
Yeah, and then he was saying that I guess once
he started going through puberty, they wouldn't allow him to
be in the girls room anymore because they said that
his clitorist got so big, like it looked like a penis,
Like it was like a little penis. But like that
day know that, well, I was thinking that too, because
(22:36):
like I mean, like I'm a different kind of person.
Like when I was having to get changed in the
locker room at school, Like the last thing I'm doing
is exposing my boobs or my badge to anybody. Like
I was covered all the time, but kids take showers
and stuff, and like you could see people. I know
(22:56):
that the guys do see each other naked, Like you
could see each other naked. It's it's weird to me,
Like I know, I always thought that it was weird.
I never wanted to get changed in front of people
at school because I'm like, I don't want people to
see me naked at school. It's weird, but it happens,
especially if you play sports and stuff and kids, you know,
I recalled my locker rooms at school, like there's just
a bunch of showers, like people were naked in front
(23:18):
of each other. So this kid is born thinking that
he's a girl and then all of a sudden starts
like getting a deep voice and kind of just looking
more like a man, but like physically, like the genitals
stole female. So it just was like a lot to
go through as as an eleven year old.
Speaker 2 (23:37):
Yeah, don't I don't think the parents were knowing what
his genitals look like and asking him to prove it.
I think his facial appearance started looking more masculine.
Speaker 1 (23:46):
No, but he said in the article, he said about
the locker room with the clitorists getting so big that
it looked like a penis, that they were like, you
can't get changed in front of the girls anymore. Now
he's had the surgery done and looks more how he feels.
So I think it's cool and it's I think it's
really cool that he's like openly talking about it because
(24:07):
it'll like make adults less weird and ask kids questions
like that.
Speaker 2 (24:12):
Yeah, I mean all the questions he was asked are
completely inappropriate, and I do think it plays a lot
to that of just people being so uncomfortable about it,
and like the fact that you're saying it's as common
as redheads. Like, I don't think redheads are as rare
as they say they are, because I feel like I
see people with red hair. Maybe I'm more exposed because
(24:32):
I am married to a ginger sized family has gingers.
Speaker 1 (24:35):
Yeah, it's it is, It's rarely. It's like two to
three percent of the population.
Speaker 2 (24:41):
I just don't believe that at all. I just feel
like there's so many of them.
Speaker 1 (24:45):
You're with a person that's like a redhead. I don't
ever see redheads like you do. I mean because you're
around his family and stuff. It's not just his family though,
I see them everywhere you're looking. I guess.
Speaker 2 (24:58):
Hopefully my little baby will be a g How cute.
All right, let's wrap up with a later story. So
a mom of three boys was hoping that she would
be having a girl when she found out she was
pregnant again, but then found out she was having triplet boys, Like,
oh my god, having six kids in general is insane,
(25:20):
but six boys. Yeah, I really believe that there's people
in this world that are just made to be. Like
Gabe is a girl dad, Like that's what he was
made to be.
Speaker 1 (25:31):
Like it's just I can't even picture him. Like if
I got pregnant, he knew this too, Like if I
got pregnant five more times, I would have had five
more girls. Like it's just that's his destiny. Kind of
this mom's destiny is to be a boy mom. Like
it's just the way that it is. I can't even imagine,
because like I I think that everybody and and people
(25:55):
are getting more open to say that. Like when you're
pregnant and you find out the sex you're having, Like
sometimes people get disappointed, especially when you have a certain
sex that you want another one. Sometimes sometimes people don't care.
Other times people are like, oh okay, you know and
other whatever, because I mean because for some reason, like
(26:20):
there's this unseid thing that like the only way that
you could be happy is if you have one of
each at least or something. I don't know, you know,
it's weird.
Speaker 2 (26:27):
Well that's ridiculous, and I mean, also I don't believe
people are I think it's ridiculous when people judge others
for having like gender disappointment, right, because like you have
in your mind you want a certain like I wanted
a boy first, and that's what I'm having luckily, right,
But if I had a girl, I mean, I would
have been just as excited. And maybe it's because I
had to struggle so much to get pregnant in general,
(26:48):
but like I wouldn't have cared either way. You're getting
a healthy baby. But like to know that this mom
has three boys already and she was open to have
a girl, and now I was having three more boys
is insane. Like the fact that she's having at all
after having three kids, it's insane. And it wasn't she
didn't use any fertility treatment or I VA if there's
natural triplet pregnancy. It's just kind of like I'm gonna
(27:10):
say this and.
Speaker 1 (27:11):
People might judge me for this, which is whatever. Like
I would really really be like depressed and like really
not happy if I found out I was having triplets.
Speaker 2 (27:22):
See you're different that, Like I I wanted to have
twins really like.
Speaker 1 (27:26):
I would even if I had twins, Like I I
seriously would cry. I mean like it would work out,
like obviously I would figure it out and deal with it,
but just like the thought of how overwhelming that would
be to me and just how much it would cost
three times everything like in a row, because at least
(27:46):
sometimes you have stagger so like this year, your kid's
got an expensive trip or has it it needs an
expensive gift or this or that, and it's like staggered
a little. When they're all in the same as that
grade and the same needs, in the same clothes, Like
it's just and that's same attention and everything. One could
say that it might be easier to just like whip
them all out at one time, Like doctor Drew had
(28:08):
three kids, right, they're fine now the kids are your age, right,
they survived it somehow. But I don't know. I just
I just think that that would be like my worst nightmare.
Speaker 2 (28:21):
You're the type of person that you're now. Like I
still every time I go, I'm like, are you sure
there's not two in there?
Speaker 1 (28:26):
It's like yeah, but it's what I wanted. I don't know, Well,
my like, it's hard for me to say because obviously,
you were my first pregnancy, and I was fifteen years old,
so like I wasn't really thinking about anything like that.
But you're on your first pregnancy, like you have no
idea what's about to happen to you, Like as far
as taking care of a kid and having to like
be mid I don't like that. I think it's hard.
(28:50):
Like this mom knows what she's in for because she
already has three kids.
Speaker 2 (28:55):
And the other kids are eleven, four and one, so
she's gonna have like at least one toddler while she has. Listen,
people people that were much poorer than than we are now,
like back in the day had way more kids than
that and figured it out they've had the older kids
taking care of the younger kids, and everybody figures it out.
Speaker 1 (29:17):
I know everyone figures it out. I just think that
I don't know. I just think that it would just
be so awful. No offense to any of you that
are listening, that have listen, like you're like a stronger
person than me. Mentally. I just think I just think
I mentally couldn't deal with it.
Speaker 2 (29:33):
I wouldn't personally want six children, but I think, like,
these big families are nice, right, So it's like I
think she was a little shocked. I think in general,
you'd be shocked if you were learning you were having triplets,
especially if you have three kids in general, and now
you're gonna have all boys. It's just kind of crazy
that that happened. Yeah, I definitely wouldn't say I mean
trying for the girls.
Speaker 1 (29:53):
Like, think about this, if you have six children, what like,
what what kind of CARDI even get.
Speaker 2 (30:01):
A mini van?
Speaker 1 (30:02):
Yeah, but then you have six kids, so six kids
are in the entire back, Like does a minivan seat
eight people?
Speaker 2 (30:11):
A mini van has it? I thought it only had like, no,
there's ones, there's ones with two seats, and then some
of them have three seats in both rows in the back,
so that could be six and the one kid's older,
don't forget, so he gets it in the front seat.
Speaker 1 (30:28):
Yeah, but like what if the mom and dad want
to go out together with the kids, like do you
have to might not be able to. Yeah, like I
that kind of shit, like scared that would just you'd
have to buy like a short school bus. No, they
I would get it and like paint it out. I
would like paint it out and get like black rims
on it and paint it black. At least you can
get like.
Speaker 2 (30:48):
An escalat or something that has more seats in it.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
You don't have to have a minivan people have meeting.
I don't I'm serious. I don't think that I've seen
because I rent cars sometimes when we go on our
road trips and stuff. I don't think I've seen a
car that has eight seat belts. It's just like a
lot and then you can never have their friends.
Speaker 2 (31:08):
Like not in the back, Like there's eight seats in
the car. There's two in the front, three in the middle,
three in the back.
Speaker 1 (31:16):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (31:18):
It's then and like car we rented to go to
Sea Hamilton at that setup.
Speaker 1 (31:22):
No, that was only that was only set. They don't
have that many. I'm telling you, I don't think it's
And it's like the car seat too, isn't like really
a seat like it almost spills into the next seat,
you know what I mean? Like three car seats actually
four because she has a one year old. Well, listen,
plenty of people have six children or more and they
(31:44):
figure it out just fine. So I'm sure they'll figure
out the car situation.
Speaker 2 (31:49):
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