August 27, 2025 • 14 mins
The show plays a ridiculous game—guessing if a name is a Yankee Candle scent or an adult film star. Then it takes a turn: Would you tell your friend if you knew they were being cheated on? Real stories, tough calls, and one gym bust you won’t believe.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Hey, so last night, Nate, you were just flipping around,
couldn't sleep, Yeah, watching late night tea.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Yeah, so I was flipping through and I don't know
what channel headed on to. They played The Family Guy
over and over and over.
Speaker 4 (00:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
I used to watch it, but yeah, I haven't been
watching it lately. So I thought I was catching up
and they had this bit. You know, there's little cutaway
gags they do all the time. Yes, and they were
I think it was Peter was quizzing quagmire on, you know,
was whether it was a Yankee Candle company sent or
a female porn star.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
And I thought it was hilarious.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
So I just wrote a couple of these down and
I figured you could play them today.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Oh well, let's let's play. Let's just play here in
the room. Give me some.
Speaker 5 (00:47):
With the pornhub sound.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Is this little porn music in the background? Seventy seventy
Who would want to have sex to this music?
Speaker 5 (00:58):
Right?
Speaker 6 (01:00):
Instrument called that little woe one.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
That's it's a guitar pedal, right, know what that is? Okay,
something like that.
Speaker 7 (01:07):
Anyway, Welcome to female porn Star or Yankee candle scent.
Speaker 5 (01:12):
Okay, let's just.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Play here in the room, all right, No needs drag
any wheels in all this. We'll start with you. Froggy,
female porn star or Yankee candlesent.
Speaker 5 (01:22):
Brooke Bliss, female pornstar.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
That's correct.
Speaker 7 (01:26):
Yeah, she starred in Sis loves Me three.
Speaker 6 (01:31):
Froggy's gonna ace this.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Danielle.
Speaker 7 (01:33):
Yeah, female porn star or Yankee candlecent meadow showers.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
I'm gonna say Yankee candles that's correct.
Speaker 7 (01:44):
U Gandhi female porn star or Yankee candlecent. Holly Kiss.
Speaker 6 (01:50):
Oh, that's a tough one. I'm gonna go with Yankee
candle scent.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
No, even though I'm sure it would smell nice.
Speaker 7 (01:57):
Holly Kiss was a porn star and she's art in
office Nymphs three candle Holidays.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
What about you.
Speaker 7 (02:09):
Produce your samp hit me female porn star or Yankee
candle Scent Autumn Falls.
Speaker 6 (02:16):
I'm gonna go with Yankee candle scent No.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Autumn Falls was a four porn star. She starred in
Brabusters nine.
Speaker 6 (02:25):
I Gotta watch more porn nine.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
I think it's episode ten. She was just a number nine.
Speaker 7 (02:30):
Scary, a female porn start or Yankee candlecent Lilac blossoms,
Lilac blossom.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
That's gotta be a Yankee candle absolutely nice.
Speaker 7 (02:40):
All right, let's see Froggy, female porn start or Yankee
candle scent Honey Clementine, Honey Clementine.
Speaker 5 (02:50):
I'm gone with Yankee candle.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
It is candle.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
I've never seen missus Clementine in the film.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
It's gotta be gonna because no one knows porn like Scotty. Yeah,
I'm in all right.
Speaker 7 (03:03):
Uh, female porn star or Yankee candle sent Scotty be
Dolcha Vita.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Oh that's a porn star.
Speaker 7 (03:10):
Absolutely yeah, he knows right away.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Your favorite film rear Ending My Girl.
Speaker 7 (03:20):
Yeah, yeah, you know, female porn star or Yankee candle
sent secret bloom.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
That's gonna be a Yankee candle scent.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Absolutely yeah.
Speaker 7 (03:32):
Uh gandhi Yankee candle sent or female porn star Dahlia Sky.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
That's Dahlia Sky.
Speaker 6 (03:40):
I'm gonna go with porn star on that one.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Absolutely yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
She was in hog Tied Hunks.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
I'm sure she was.
Speaker 6 (03:48):
List of things to watch when I go home.
Speaker 7 (03:51):
Froggy, Yeah, finally, female porn star or Yankee candlecent April Showers.
Speaker 5 (04:00):
Now that is a porn star.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Well, it's both a porn star and it.
Speaker 5 (04:06):
Might be, but I definitely seen her in a film
or two.
Speaker 7 (04:09):
Yeah, April Showers started in TNA Housewives, but I can't
tell you what she smells like at the Yankee Candle store.
There you go, thank you for playing female porn star
or Yankee Candle sin.
Speaker 6 (04:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (04:23):
So if you found out that your friend is being
cheated on, do you tell them?
Speaker 8 (04:29):
So I love this topic because it actually happened in
my life and I did not tell her because it
was so rampant and everybody knew about it and everybody
was talking about it that I just assumed she knew too,
and she didn't want to ever address it, so I
never said anything. And she was my best friend. And
I woke up one day on our couch in our
apartment to her jumping a glass of water on me,
(04:50):
and I.
Speaker 6 (04:51):
Was like, what happened? She was like, you knew.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
I can't believe you knew.
Speaker 6 (04:54):
She was so angry.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Wow.
Speaker 8 (04:56):
So from that point I will always tell someone. I'm like, wait,
you didn't know what is going on? She's like, you're
my best friend. I can't believe you wouldn't tell me this.
I think you should tell know that you're going to
lose the friend, But you still got to tell Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
See that's the key there.
Speaker 7 (05:08):
There is a good chance you're going to lose a friend, yes,
because there is a good chance even though someone cheated
on someone else, they could get back together.
Speaker 8 (05:14):
And now you're the enemy, right because of course we
all do that thing where we're like, well I never
liked him anyway, he was a jerk and blah blah,
and when they get back together, then you're the bad guy.
Speaker 6 (05:22):
But you have a clear conscience.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
So I know Danielle would definitely.
Speaker 9 (05:25):
You know you're gonna find out because I feel like
the person deserves the right to decide whether or not
they should continue with that person, yes, and not to
live a life a lot.
Speaker 7 (05:35):
So you you made that your decision, yes, about their.
Speaker 9 (05:39):
Relationship, because I think that because if it was me,
I would want you to tell me because I would
want to know and I would want to be able
to make that decision. So going from what I would
want in my own life, I feel like it's only
fair that other people should get that choice as well.
Speaker 7 (05:55):
So if you guys found out I was being cheated on.
What if you approach Alex and said, hey, we know
what you're doing, cut it out, or we'll have.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
To tell Elvis. There's one that's a better play right there.
Speaker 7 (06:12):
I don't know, he correct his actions and you don't
affect anything.
Speaker 10 (06:16):
But then yeah, he's already done it. You're not gonna
you're you're not gonna let Elvis.
Speaker 7 (06:20):
Know you tell him or we're going to tell him.
The way, this isn't really happening, is it not? Have
you say something?
Speaker 5 (06:27):
I don't know text?
Speaker 2 (06:28):
I think I think we're okay, Hi, Lily, thank you
for holding.
Speaker 11 (06:32):
How you doing, I'm good, just getting ready to go
into work.
Speaker 7 (06:35):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, we all had to do it. But
once you get in there, it won't be so bad. Hey,
So we were talking about this article I read in
the New York Times. Would you tell your friend if
you knew they were being cheated on?
Speaker 2 (06:46):
And so I would and I have. Okay, let's let's
go from there. But yeah, but the.
Speaker 11 (06:52):
Reason let me just like, like, I'm gonna tell because
I would want to be told, but I'm gonna give
that person a chance to tell. Like, say, I found
out yesterday that somebody was cheating. I'm one of my
good friends. If I found out yesterday, I'm gonna talk
to you today. Hey, you got to tell about wednesday
to tell her or I'm gonna tell her.
Speaker 7 (07:15):
All right, so you have so as soon as you
find out, there's a timer ticking, yeah right, yeah.
Speaker 11 (07:19):
Yeah, Like I'm gonna be like if I know the person,
Like if we've been really good friends for years and
I know the husband, and you know, like everything's really
been cool and then I found this crap out, It's like, okay, dude,
look like I love you and I love her, but
you know, you got to say something. I and and
But it's kind of like I feel like it's a
double edged sword because I told a friend of mine
(07:41):
that his girlfriend was cheating and he was talking to
me for two months.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
Yeah, it is a double edged short and glue.
Speaker 11 (07:49):
He called me back and he was like, I'm sorry,
and I was like, you're sorry for what. He was like,
she was cheating, And I said, well, but.
Speaker 7 (07:56):
Gandhi said, you said yourself, you are taking a chance
at losing a friend.
Speaker 8 (08:00):
I think you're always taking a chance because there's the
embarrassment factor and then there's your friend being mad at
you for telling you for telling them, being mad at
you for not telling them sooner. I mean, there's a
lot that goes to you.
Speaker 7 (08:13):
What if you found out that all of your friends
knew you were being cheated on and none of them
told you, you would feel like you were I would
feel like a friend.
Speaker 11 (08:21):
Wouldn't have any friends we would know, like I can't.
I couldn't do that because I told a friend of
mine what I had overheard. I accidentally overheard someone talking about,
like we play Xbox and stuff with a few friends
and a friend of mine. She didn't need her MIC,
so I heard her and her husband have a conversation
(08:41):
about another set of friends. Well, I told her, hey,
I was overheard, you know your husband's been cheating. Well,
she ends up finding a secret cell phone and everything
he had been screwing around like three or four different women.
Like it Like it was worse than what I even thought.
I mean, she lost a couple of friends, and she
(09:01):
actually thanked me, and he even thanked me for telling
her because he didn't know how to stop.
Speaker 4 (09:06):
Like it was.
Speaker 11 (09:07):
It was a crazy situation, but it ended up working
out for him and the end, they're still together, thank god,
you know, expecting the kid and everything. So they're they're
doing good. But I was like, you're better than me
because out of probably fill them out a window.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
Yeah, Lily, thank you for your time.
Speaker 11 (09:21):
Tastes kid to tell you three or four. Yeah, you better,
somebody better come pick you up.
Speaker 7 (09:26):
Yeah, listen, thank you for holding so long. I sure
do appreciate your your insight and have a great day, Lily.
Thanks for listening to well.
Speaker 4 (09:32):
Thank you. I love y'all and listening every morning.
Speaker 11 (09:34):
My daughter even listens to y'all, so I love y'all.
Speaker 7 (09:37):
Thank you, Lily, Thank you so much. Lovely lovely Lily.
Hello Alison, good morning guys.
Speaker 4 (09:43):
Sorry, I'm totally geeking out talking to you all, well.
Speaker 7 (09:46):
As we are geeking out knowing that you're there. So
you told your best friend her husband cheated on her.
Now what led up to that?
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Well, her husband was good friends with my boyfriend at
the time, and I was living with my boyfriend and
obviously she was living with her husband and they didn't
come home the night before, so she was worried and
she was calling and asking me, you know, do you
know where Allan is? Did so and so tell you,
and my boyfriend texted me, Hey, we stayed out and
(10:16):
you know, the husband cheated on my best friend. And
without even a heartbeat, I went over to her and
I was like, hey, I just heard from my boyfriend
and your husband cheated on you.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
Let Wow, how did that go down?
Speaker 4 (10:30):
Well? She was upset. She wasn't upset at me, she
was upset at the situation. And she left work, went home,
changed the locks, and within a month I moved out
with my boyfriend and moved in with her, and he
moved in with the husband.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (10:43):
And then I found that my boyfriend was Then I
found that my boyfriend was cheating me as well, thanks
to Facebook and the girl posting on his Facebook page.
Speaker 7 (10:50):
Oh all right, well, so zero regrets and telling your
friend at the very beginning when you found out.
Speaker 4 (10:58):
Correct, I didn't even link and I I walked right
over as soon as I got to text, and I
was like, hey, just to let you know. You know,
my boyfriend just texted me and this is what they
did last night.
Speaker 10 (11:07):
All right.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Nowadays it's a lot harder to hide it.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
No, you're good, you know, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
I think that's awesome.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Alison thank you very much, Thank you, thanks for listening
to us. Yeah it is.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
Jack asked you should get collect There's.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
A million new ways to catch him. There's also a
million new ways to cheap yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
Which is terrible.
Speaker 9 (11:22):
Those stupid but that stupid thing that we did, Madison,
dumb asses.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Hey, so I have our friend Carolyna on the phone. Hey,
hi Carolina, how are you doing?
Speaker 12 (11:32):
Hey babe? Doing great?
Speaker 2 (11:33):
All right, So tell us what happened?
Speaker 12 (11:36):
Oh my god, So, yeah, I got one of my friends.
We weren't actually close friends. She was one of my
friend's friends, and she spotted them at the same gym
that we were all going together. She told me that
it was like an every week's thing, and he just
thought that I was like one of his trainers or whatnot.
Just so happens. He was lying to me telling me that,
you know, he was working too late, that he couldn't
(11:57):
meet up with me. All along, he was going to
the gym every Tuesday with this girl. So my friend
was like, you know what, just come with me. Let's
bust them. Since he keeps lying to you, come with me.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
Let's bust them.
Speaker 7 (12:09):
So wait, wait, so you guys were gonna she was
gonna take you to the gym and show you what
he was doing.
Speaker 12 (12:14):
Behind your exactly, because apparently he was super flirty hands on.
They were kissing the whole nine yards a gym at
the gym at the gym, so I went with her
and yeah, sure enough, they were there, all up on
each other. I went up to him and I was like, oh, sure,
looks like you're working hard. And he did not know
(12:36):
what to do with himself, Like he was like.
Speaker 11 (12:39):
Oh, I don't know who she is.
Speaker 12 (12:40):
He's nothing to me.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
Exactly.
Speaker 12 (12:43):
That's how the girl reacted. She was like, what you
told me that you were done with her? It was
a whole like a scenario. I ended up just walking out.
The girl walked out as well. She was like, he
told me he was over with you, and I was like, no, no,
he told you wrong, sweetie. We actually, uh became Instagram friends.
She dumped him, I dumped him.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
And you have a new friend.
Speaker 12 (13:05):
Yeah, but that's all me. We became best friends.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
I love that. The reason that happens, you know what,
And I just want to say something.
Speaker 7 (13:13):
Look, you know, I know, I know. It feels great
to get attention from someone. It gives you those butterflies
in the stomach, maybe the same butterflies you felt when
you first met the person that you're actually with. Okay, okay,
I understand that sometimes it's hard to like turn off
that woo they're interested in me saying, even if you
are knee deep or neck deep in a relationship, But
(13:35):
consider the hurt that you can cause by acting on it.
Consider what you could lose, what's at stake here, and
just let those butterflies just fly right out, let them go,
Let them fly fly, butterflies.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
It's true, we love you, and there you have it.
It does, It does feel good. It feels good. I'll
be the first admit it feels good to get attention.
It does.
Speaker 10 (14:03):
But you got to remember the person that you're cheating on.
There was a time that that was the person you
wanted more than anything. Now you're cheating on them, and
now you want somebody else. Yeah, you got to remember
there was a time that what you have that you
wanted more than anything. Put your attention there.
Speaker 7 (14:16):
The reason why bring up those feelings that you do
get when you're tempted. It's good to acknowledge those go Okay,
got it right, Gotta move on.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
It's true.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
It's whack a doodle time.
Speaker 7 (14:29):
It is whack a doodle time, so hard elvist In
in the Morning Show
Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Hey, so last night, Nate, you were just flipping around,
couldn't sleep, Yeah, watching late night tea.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Yeah, so I was flipping through and I don't know
what channel headed on to. They played The Family Guy
over and over and over.
Speaker 4 (00:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
I used to watch it, but yeah, I haven't been
watching it lately. So I thought I was catching up
and they had this bit. You know, there's little cutaway
gags they do all the time. Yes, and they were
I think it was Peter was quizzing quagmire on, you know,
was whether it was a Yankee Candle company sent or
a female porn star.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
And I thought it was hilarious.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
So I just wrote a couple of these down and
I figured you could play them today.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Oh well, let's let's play. Let's just play here in
the room. Give me some.
Speaker 5 (00:47):
With the pornhub sound.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Is this little porn music in the background? Seventy seventy
Who would want to have sex to this music?
Speaker 5 (00:58):
Right?
Speaker 6 (01:00):
Instrument called that little woe one.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
That's it's a guitar pedal, right, know what that is? Okay,
something like that.
Speaker 7 (01:07):
Anyway, Welcome to female porn Star or Yankee candle scent.
Speaker 5 (01:12):
Okay, let's just.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
Play here in the room, all right, No needs drag
any wheels in all this. We'll start with you. Froggy,
female porn star or Yankee candlesent.
Speaker 5 (01:22):
Brooke Bliss, female pornstar.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
That's correct.
Speaker 7 (01:26):
Yeah, she starred in Sis loves Me three.
Speaker 6 (01:31):
Froggy's gonna ace this.
Speaker 2 (01:33):
Danielle.
Speaker 7 (01:33):
Yeah, female porn star or Yankee candlecent meadow showers.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
I'm gonna say Yankee candles that's correct.
Speaker 7 (01:44):
U Gandhi female porn star or Yankee candlecent. Holly Kiss.
Speaker 6 (01:50):
Oh, that's a tough one. I'm gonna go with Yankee
candle scent.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
No, even though I'm sure it would smell nice.
Speaker 7 (01:57):
Holly Kiss was a porn star and she's art in
office Nymphs three candle Holidays.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
What about you.
Speaker 7 (02:09):
Produce your samp hit me female porn star or Yankee
candle Scent Autumn Falls.
Speaker 6 (02:16):
I'm gonna go with Yankee candle scent No.
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Autumn Falls was a four porn star. She starred in
Brabusters nine.
Speaker 6 (02:25):
I Gotta watch more porn nine.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
I think it's episode ten. She was just a number nine.
Speaker 7 (02:30):
Scary, a female porn start or Yankee candlecent Lilac blossoms,
Lilac blossom.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
That's gotta be a Yankee candle absolutely nice.
Speaker 7 (02:40):
All right, let's see Froggy, female porn start or Yankee
candle scent Honey Clementine, Honey Clementine.
Speaker 5 (02:50):
I'm gone with Yankee candle.
Speaker 2 (02:52):
It is candle.
Speaker 5 (02:54):
I've never seen missus Clementine in the film.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
It's gotta be gonna because no one knows porn like Scotty. Yeah,
I'm in all right.
Speaker 7 (03:03):
Uh, female porn star or Yankee candle sent Scotty be
Dolcha Vita.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
Oh that's a porn star.
Speaker 7 (03:10):
Absolutely yeah, he knows right away.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
Your favorite film rear Ending My Girl.
Speaker 7 (03:20):
Yeah, yeah, you know, female porn star or Yankee candle
sent secret bloom.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
That's gonna be a Yankee candle scent.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Absolutely yeah.
Speaker 7 (03:32):
Uh gandhi Yankee candle sent or female porn star Dahlia Sky.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
That's Dahlia Sky.
Speaker 6 (03:40):
I'm gonna go with porn star on that one.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Absolutely yeah.
Speaker 4 (03:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
She was in hog Tied Hunks.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
I'm sure she was.
Speaker 6 (03:48):
List of things to watch when I go home.
Speaker 7 (03:51):
Froggy, Yeah, finally, female porn star or Yankee candlecent April Showers.
Speaker 5 (04:00):
Now that is a porn star.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Well, it's both a porn star and it.
Speaker 5 (04:06):
Might be, but I definitely seen her in a film
or two.
Speaker 7 (04:09):
Yeah, April Showers started in TNA Housewives, but I can't
tell you what she smells like at the Yankee Candle store.
There you go, thank you for playing female porn star
or Yankee Candle sin.
Speaker 6 (04:21):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (04:23):
So if you found out that your friend is being
cheated on, do you tell them?
Speaker 8 (04:29):
So I love this topic because it actually happened in
my life and I did not tell her because it
was so rampant and everybody knew about it and everybody
was talking about it that I just assumed she knew too,
and she didn't want to ever address it, so I
never said anything. And she was my best friend. And
I woke up one day on our couch in our
apartment to her jumping a glass of water on me,
(04:50):
and I.
Speaker 6 (04:51):
Was like, what happened? She was like, you knew.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
I can't believe you knew.
Speaker 6 (04:54):
She was so angry.
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Wow.
Speaker 8 (04:56):
So from that point I will always tell someone. I'm like, wait,
you didn't know what is going on? She's like, you're
my best friend. I can't believe you wouldn't tell me this.
I think you should tell know that you're going to
lose the friend, But you still got to tell Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
See that's the key there.
Speaker 7 (05:08):
There is a good chance you're going to lose a friend, yes,
because there is a good chance even though someone cheated
on someone else, they could get back together.
Speaker 8 (05:14):
And now you're the enemy, right because of course we
all do that thing where we're like, well I never
liked him anyway, he was a jerk and blah blah,
and when they get back together, then you're the bad guy.
Speaker 6 (05:22):
But you have a clear conscience.
Speaker 2 (05:23):
So I know Danielle would definitely.
Speaker 9 (05:25):
You know you're gonna find out because I feel like
the person deserves the right to decide whether or not
they should continue with that person, yes, and not to
live a life a lot.
Speaker 7 (05:35):
So you you made that your decision, yes, about their.
Speaker 9 (05:39):
Relationship, because I think that because if it was me,
I would want you to tell me because I would
want to know and I would want to be able
to make that decision. So going from what I would
want in my own life, I feel like it's only
fair that other people should get that choice as well.
Speaker 7 (05:55):
So if you guys found out I was being cheated on.
What if you approach Alex and said, hey, we know
what you're doing, cut it out, or we'll have.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
To tell Elvis. There's one that's a better play right there.
Speaker 7 (06:12):
I don't know, he correct his actions and you don't
affect anything.
Speaker 10 (06:16):
But then yeah, he's already done it. You're not gonna
you're you're not gonna let Elvis.
Speaker 7 (06:20):
Know you tell him or we're going to tell him.
The way, this isn't really happening, is it not? Have
you say something?
Speaker 5 (06:27):
I don't know text?
Speaker 2 (06:28):
I think I think we're okay, Hi, Lily, thank you
for holding.
Speaker 11 (06:32):
How you doing, I'm good, just getting ready to go
into work.
Speaker 7 (06:35):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, we all had to do it. But
once you get in there, it won't be so bad. Hey,
So we were talking about this article I read in
the New York Times. Would you tell your friend if
you knew they were being cheated on?
Speaker 2 (06:46):
And so I would and I have. Okay, let's let's
go from there. But yeah, but the.
Speaker 11 (06:52):
Reason let me just like, like, I'm gonna tell because
I would want to be told, but I'm gonna give
that person a chance to tell. Like, say, I found
out yesterday that somebody was cheating. I'm one of my
good friends. If I found out yesterday, I'm gonna talk
to you today. Hey, you got to tell about wednesday
to tell her or I'm gonna tell her.
Speaker 7 (07:15):
All right, so you have so as soon as you
find out, there's a timer ticking, yeah right, yeah.
Speaker 11 (07:19):
Yeah, Like I'm gonna be like if I know the person,
Like if we've been really good friends for years and
I know the husband, and you know, like everything's really
been cool and then I found this crap out, It's like, okay, dude,
look like I love you and I love her, but
you know, you got to say something. I and and
But it's kind of like I feel like it's a
double edged sword because I told a friend of mine
(07:41):
that his girlfriend was cheating and he was talking to
me for two months.
Speaker 2 (07:46):
Yeah, it is a double edged short and glue.
Speaker 11 (07:49):
He called me back and he was like, I'm sorry,
and I was like, you're sorry for what. He was like,
she was cheating, And I said, well, but.
Speaker 7 (07:56):
Gandhi said, you said yourself, you are taking a chance
at losing a friend.
Speaker 8 (08:00):
I think you're always taking a chance because there's the
embarrassment factor and then there's your friend being mad at
you for telling you for telling them, being mad at
you for not telling them sooner. I mean, there's a
lot that goes to you.
Speaker 7 (08:13):
What if you found out that all of your friends
knew you were being cheated on and none of them
told you, you would feel like you were I would
feel like a friend.
Speaker 11 (08:21):
Wouldn't have any friends we would know, like I can't.
I couldn't do that because I told a friend of
mine what I had overheard. I accidentally overheard someone talking about,
like we play Xbox and stuff with a few friends
and a friend of mine. She didn't need her MIC,
so I heard her and her husband have a conversation
(08:41):
about another set of friends. Well, I told her, hey,
I was overheard, you know your husband's been cheating. Well,
she ends up finding a secret cell phone and everything
he had been screwing around like three or four different women.
Like it Like it was worse than what I even thought.
I mean, she lost a couple of friends, and she
(09:01):
actually thanked me, and he even thanked me for telling
her because he didn't know how to stop.
Speaker 4 (09:06):
Like it was.
Speaker 11 (09:07):
It was a crazy situation, but it ended up working
out for him and the end, they're still together, thank god,
you know, expecting the kid and everything. So they're they're
doing good. But I was like, you're better than me
because out of probably fill them out a window.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
Yeah, Lily, thank you for your time.
Speaker 11 (09:21):
Tastes kid to tell you three or four. Yeah, you better,
somebody better come pick you up.
Speaker 7 (09:26):
Yeah, listen, thank you for holding so long. I sure
do appreciate your your insight and have a great day, Lily.
Thanks for listening to well.
Speaker 4 (09:32):
Thank you. I love y'all and listening every morning.
Speaker 11 (09:34):
My daughter even listens to y'all, so I love y'all.
Speaker 7 (09:37):
Thank you, Lily, Thank you so much. Lovely lovely Lily.
Hello Alison, good morning guys.
Speaker 4 (09:43):
Sorry, I'm totally geeking out talking to you all, well.
Speaker 7 (09:46):
As we are geeking out knowing that you're there. So
you told your best friend her husband cheated on her.
Now what led up to that?
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Well, her husband was good friends with my boyfriend at
the time, and I was living with my boyfriend and
obviously she was living with her husband and they didn't
come home the night before, so she was worried and
she was calling and asking me, you know, do you
know where Allan is? Did so and so tell you,
and my boyfriend texted me, Hey, we stayed out and
(10:16):
you know, the husband cheated on my best friend. And
without even a heartbeat, I went over to her and
I was like, hey, I just heard from my boyfriend
and your husband cheated on you.
Speaker 2 (10:26):
Let Wow, how did that go down?
Speaker 4 (10:30):
Well? She was upset. She wasn't upset at me, she
was upset at the situation. And she left work, went home,
changed the locks, and within a month I moved out
with my boyfriend and moved in with her, and he
moved in with the husband.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (10:43):
And then I found that my boyfriend was Then I
found that my boyfriend was cheating me as well, thanks
to Facebook and the girl posting on his Facebook page.
Speaker 7 (10:50):
Oh all right, well, so zero regrets and telling your
friend at the very beginning when you found out.
Speaker 4 (10:58):
Correct, I didn't even link and I I walked right
over as soon as I got to text, and I
was like, hey, just to let you know. You know,
my boyfriend just texted me and this is what they
did last night.
Speaker 10 (11:07):
All right.
Speaker 1 (11:08):
Nowadays it's a lot harder to hide it.
Speaker 2 (11:10):
No, you're good, you know, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1 (11:12):
I think that's awesome.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
Alison thank you very much, Thank you, thanks for listening
to us. Yeah it is.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
Jack asked you should get collect There's.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
A million new ways to catch him. There's also a
million new ways to cheap yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:21):
Which is terrible.
Speaker 9 (11:22):
Those stupid but that stupid thing that we did, Madison,
dumb asses.
Speaker 2 (11:26):
Hey, so I have our friend Carolyna on the phone. Hey,
hi Carolina, how are you doing?
Speaker 12 (11:32):
Hey babe? Doing great?
Speaker 2 (11:33):
All right, So tell us what happened?
Speaker 12 (11:36):
Oh my god, So, yeah, I got one of my friends.
We weren't actually close friends. She was one of my
friend's friends, and she spotted them at the same gym
that we were all going together. She told me that
it was like an every week's thing, and he just
thought that I was like one of his trainers or whatnot.
Just so happens. He was lying to me telling me that,
you know, he was working too late, that he couldn't
(11:57):
meet up with me. All along, he was going to
the gym every Tuesday with this girl. So my friend
was like, you know what, just come with me. Let's
bust them. Since he keeps lying to you, come with me.
Speaker 1 (12:07):
Let's bust them.
Speaker 7 (12:09):
So wait, wait, so you guys were gonna she was
gonna take you to the gym and show you what
he was doing.
Speaker 12 (12:14):
Behind your exactly, because apparently he was super flirty hands on.
They were kissing the whole nine yards a gym at
the gym at the gym, so I went with her
and yeah, sure enough, they were there, all up on
each other. I went up to him and I was like, oh, sure,
looks like you're working hard. And he did not know
(12:36):
what to do with himself, Like he was like.
Speaker 11 (12:39):
Oh, I don't know who she is.
Speaker 12 (12:40):
He's nothing to me.
Speaker 2 (12:42):
Exactly.
Speaker 12 (12:43):
That's how the girl reacted. She was like, what you
told me that you were done with her? It was
a whole like a scenario. I ended up just walking out.
The girl walked out as well. She was like, he
told me he was over with you, and I was like, no, no,
he told you wrong, sweetie. We actually, uh became Instagram friends.
She dumped him, I dumped him.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
And you have a new friend.
Speaker 12 (13:05):
Yeah, but that's all me. We became best friends.
Speaker 2 (13:09):
I love that. The reason that happens, you know what,
And I just want to say something.
Speaker 7 (13:13):
Look, you know, I know, I know. It feels great
to get attention from someone. It gives you those butterflies
in the stomach, maybe the same butterflies you felt when
you first met the person that you're actually with. Okay, okay,
I understand that sometimes it's hard to like turn off
that woo they're interested in me saying, even if you
are knee deep or neck deep in a relationship, But
(13:35):
consider the hurt that you can cause by acting on it.
Consider what you could lose, what's at stake here, and
just let those butterflies just fly right out, let them go,
Let them fly fly, butterflies.
Speaker 2 (13:51):
It's true, we love you, and there you have it.
It does, It does feel good. It feels good. I'll
be the first admit it feels good to get attention.
It does.
Speaker 10 (14:03):
But you got to remember the person that you're cheating on.
There was a time that that was the person you
wanted more than anything. Now you're cheating on them, and
now you want somebody else. Yeah, you got to remember
there was a time that what you have that you
wanted more than anything. Put your attention there.
Speaker 7 (14:16):
The reason why bring up those feelings that you do
get when you're tempted. It's good to acknowledge those go Okay,
got it right, Gotta move on.
Speaker 2 (14:26):
It's true.
Speaker 1 (14:28):
It's whack a doodle time.
Speaker 7 (14:29):
It is whack a doodle time, so hard elvist In
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