December 8, 2025 • 16 mins
A college bar was raided for underage drinking, so we talk all about fake IDs!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Hey, I sent a DM to you earlier, Gandhi about
this story out of Tempe, Arizona. Yes, huge college town
as you know, right there, you know, and nestled next to Phoenix, right.
They did a raid at a popular bar, college bar.
Did you see the numbers?
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (00:23):
How many kids were arrested for you know, being underage
in the bar, having fake IDs? I mean, do you
have that distored in front of you. It's kind of interesting.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
It says about fifty seven law enforcement officers made contact
at Tempe Tavern in Arizona and conducted an investigation that
led to two hundred and forty nine arrests of underage
patrons for charges including, but not limited to, possessing fake IDs,
underage intoxication, and providing false information.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
So essentially, this entire bar she got roped up.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Yeah, so I'm assuming the bar is in trouble as well.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
Yeah, of course.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
But look, you know, I've been to Temp many times.
You've been to a college town. That's how it is,
you know. Okay, let's go back, let's let's rewind a
little bit. Has anyone in this room ever had a
fake ID. Yes, yes, yes, yeah, so Daniel says no,
Scary says yes, Ghandi says yes, I say yes. You know,
I no surprise at these answers at all, foggy. Did
(01:23):
you ever have a fake ID?
Speaker 5 (01:24):
I did not?
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Right, well, you didn't need one if you're you know,
growing up in Tampa on radio they could go into
any bar and wanted to didn't care exactly so, but
the numbers are astounding, over two hundred and we're talking
about roughly two hundred and fifty kids in the paddy
wagon as I used to call it, and driven downtown crazy.
(01:48):
Did you see that stack of fake id's? They had
a mountain?
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Yes, fa so good now too, Yeah, you know they
really do well.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
I tell you I had mine, and uh it looked real.
It was the state of Texas. I remember going downtown
Dallas back when no one went downtown Dallas ever, and
I had my picture took and then they said, okay,
go to that door next right over there. We'll have
that ready for you. Have a seat, we'll have it
ready for you in five minutes, twenty five dollars boom,
I'll got my fake ID there you go. So yeah,
(02:19):
that's a lot of arrest. So as a parent and
your kids are away at school, you're like, oh, dear God,
I know little Jimmy was in that group.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
The comments under that story were what I found most fascinating,
because almost every single person was like, this is stupid,
this is a waste of resources. Make the legal drinking
age eighteen. I mean, like every single person was on
the side of these kids.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
It used to be eighteen, right, How long ago is that?
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Back in the day. Yeah, I remember I turned eighteen
the legal agent in Texas and I think the month
I turned eighteen, they moved it to twenty one. I'm like,
a damn you, yeah, froggy.
Speaker 5 (02:57):
When my son first got to college, he had one.
I didn't know about it. Only my wife knew because
Lisa is obviously Lisa had many fake IDs, so Lisa
knew he had when she was fine with it. I'm
more by the book and rule followers. I didn't know.
So he's home and he has to take his wallet
out to do something and he's got a Missouri driver's license.
I'm like, you don't live in Missouri. But he had
(03:21):
to memorize all the information on it because he said,
when you would show somebody. They would say, so what
street dealer on? And it was because it was not
where he lived. But yeah, his was actually pretty good.
You could not tell. It got taken a couple of
times because it didn't swipe on the back. When they
went to swipe it, it didn't work, and so it
got taken a couple of times. He'd just go get
another one.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
A lot of people are texting in about chalking ideas
that I remember. I didn't have to have one printed.
They would take your license and they if you knew
someone who could chalco it, they would, you know, make
it appear to be the real deal. Oh wow, Yeah,
it's so funny interesting. I'm not saying it's funny. I'm
not sidy with these little cretans.
Speaker 6 (03:57):
I remember trying to get into a club in New
York City right before I turned twenty one, literally less
than like two weeks, and the guy at the door
was like no, and I'm like, but I'm twenty one
in two weeks. He's like, so come back in two weeks.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
That bar in Tempee was not checking out closely? Does it?
Celia have an ID story?
Speaker 3 (04:17):
Celia's fake ID story might be the craziest one of
all that I've ever heard.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
I don't think she's here yet.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Oh, Cilia's stories are crazy.
Speaker 4 (04:25):
This is true.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Yes, this one ended up whatever.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
So she went to a Harry Styles concert and she
wasn't old enough to be drinking in the casino, so
she had a fake ID.
Speaker 4 (04:34):
She was able to get one drink with drink with it.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
When they tried to swipe her idea on the second drink,
they realized, oh, this is a fake ID. But she
was in this casino to see Harry Styles and she
had a VIP experience, so she had the wristbands and everything.
As soon as they figured it out, they grabbed her,
started cutting off her wristbands and basically placing her under arrest.
So this is now where the story gets funny, because
she says she started yelling and screaming, I'm gonna die
(05:00):
if I can't see Harry Styles, I'm going to die.
But the next thing you know, she's in the back
of an ambulance, strapped to the bed. So I said, now, Celia,
did you say I'm gonna die or did you say
I'm going to kill my son?
Speaker 4 (05:12):
She said, I don't know. It might have been it
was one of them.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
So she ended up getting fifty one to fifteen and
put into a mental hospital for a couple of days
because of this incident.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
And she never saw Harry Styles.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
She never saw Harry Sauce. She said she saw him
on the gurney as she was being wheeled out.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Oh my god, me, Harry Styles saw her on the
gurney as you think all that. Wow, you remember me?
I met you before Harry Will sort of anyway. So yeah,
Fake Id's tempe Arizona, two hundred and fifty kids snagged busted. Interesting. Hey,
I got a very fascinating text earlier and I wanted
(05:47):
to read it to you. I think we have the
texture on the phone. Yes, and Angie from Tampa, not
her name, not where she's from. Hi, Angie, how are you.
Speaker 5 (06:02):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Okay, you're okay to go in there and talk right?
Speaker 7 (06:06):
Yeah, definitely okay.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
So your text said, Hey, I got a question for Elvis.
How do I know if my man is gay? Because
he does a lot of questionable things and now I'm concerned.
So I texted back to you, Well, it depends on
what those questionable things are.
Speaker 5 (06:25):
Do you want to do?
Speaker 2 (06:25):
You need to read them what you said, or you
wanted to go ahead and recite them yourself.
Speaker 7 (06:28):
He's something you not to like, harp on the stereotypes.
But he loves.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Musicals, right, Okay, he loves musicals.
Speaker 7 (06:36):
He is attracted to trans women, and like the thing is,
if there's beautiful trans women out there, but there's some
that kind of you know, you know, that's the one.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 7 (06:52):
He likes he likes those that clearly.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Looks like dudes, you know, okay with wig And you
also say he likes butt play.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
They also say he's super clean. Okay, he showers after,
he showers after, after he poops. Okay, well, yes, yes,
go ahead.
Speaker 7 (07:14):
Likes a lot of girly stuff.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Okay, Like what do you mean by that?
Speaker 7 (07:19):
Like, I don't know, I can't explain it. If I
have something, he won't just say, baby, it looks good.
He'd be like, you know, as fire, I mean, it's fine,
I like it, and it's even better.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
Okay, all right, all right, Well okay, first of all,
everything you've said, I mean, I just there there's no
way to jump to conclusions that the guy is gay
in my opinion. I mean, let you know, right.
Speaker 7 (07:49):
I mean, you're.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Froggy, loves loves butt play. I think if I was, okay,
he does check a lot of boxes.
Speaker 7 (08:00):
The thing to listen. I tried attempting to play with him,
but he just never wants me to. And it's like,
come over, I want.
Speaker 5 (08:08):
To be you know, I know, I really.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
And all I could say is you know, a man,
I love that, but I know, but but there are
two things at play, Guys, hold on, there are two
things at play here. Number one is you know whether
what he's open minded to do in bed? But is
he gay or not? And you're in a relationship with him,
and so you know therefore you deserve to know. I
firmly believe. Yeah, well how long you went with him?
Speaker 7 (08:37):
For? Ten years? Ten years? Right?
Speaker 2 (08:39):
All right?
Speaker 7 (08:40):
And I mean it's great, it's lovely. I have no complaints.
But I even gave him a hall pass. I'm like, hey,
you know, if you want to venture out, I'll give
you a hall pass.
Speaker 5 (08:47):
You know, does he gay?
Speaker 7 (08:50):
Bisexual?
Speaker 2 (08:51):
Does he keep secrets from you that you know? I mean,
you know their secrets, so maybe you don't know, but
it is he away doing things sometimes you don't really
quite know where he is or what he's doing.
Speaker 7 (09:00):
No, he's usually on point, he's usually home. The thing
that really gets me is the music that he listens to. Okay,
like he listens to k pop, which is fine, but again,
it's always like a gay man or a trans woman
who kind of looks like a man. Yeah, I'm feel
some type of way because am I.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
I don't know. We don't know that, and it doesn't matter,
I know, But the thing is it all I'm just
I'm not thinking of him. I'm thinking of you. I'm
thinking about what you want to get out of life,
and you know who you want to be a partner with.
How long you want to be with this person? You know,
if you're in it for the long term, then you
you know, any situation you can adapt to and he
can adapt to. I get that, But as long as
(09:41):
you're happy with that, you know? Does anyone here want
to add to that?
Speaker 7 (09:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (09:45):
I have some questions. Okay, I'm not saying do this
at all. If you were to go through his phone,
would he freak out?
Speaker 7 (09:54):
He does get nervous, but I think it's because he's
scared that I might find double like type things. I
don't want to say it through the radio. But you
know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
I know things like that the hub.
Speaker 7 (10:08):
Okay, so I didn't know the hub. I's afraid of
me finding the things that he likes on the hub
and o't there you know, very free minded, enjoy what
you like. But I want to know it is he's
not so for one to not waste my time and too.
If he's bisexual, even better, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
But at this, wouldn't you just kind of chalk it up?
Chalk it up to like maybe he is bisexual. He's
with you, so he obviously likes women enough to be
with you for ten years. But maybe he's got some
other things on the side that he's interested in as well.
He just doesn't know how to tell you.
Speaker 7 (10:38):
But I just want him to tell me.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Have you ever come on I don't know if you
said this, have you ever come out and asked him?
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (10:45):
So, like like I said, I gave him a hall pass.
I'm like, hey, if you want to venture all, you know,
like it's okay, and he'll be like, bury, I'm not good.
Speaker 4 (10:53):
Okay, maybe you know, maybe he's not.
Speaker 2 (10:56):
You know, here's the thing, you know, and this may
baffles people. Maybe he's not. You know, we don't know.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
We thought my husband was gay or you did Elvis?
Speaker 2 (11:04):
Remember I did him, I know, until he didn't sleep
with me. I'm like, okay, I go. And he liked you.
Speaker 7 (11:10):
I don't want him cooking.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
And he liked what is Shirley Bassey?
Speaker 6 (11:14):
Airley Bassy? And he liked Broadway musicals and all kinds
of stuff.
Speaker 1 (11:18):
But he did He's not gay.
Speaker 2 (11:20):
But you know, it depends on how far you want
to push this thing. If you need the answer, because
you need to move on. If there's an issue with
it for you, which there may not be. You he
deserved you deserve an answer from him. Yeah, and it
can't be Hey, babe, I'll give you a hall past
to go whatever. It has to be a hate you know, look,
I'm thinking about the red may ask you how old
(11:41):
you are? I'm thirty four, okay, thirty four? All right?
What do you want for the future in your life?
Where do you see you in ten twenty years? You
know that kind of thing. Do you see you being
in the same type of relationship with him not knowing
for twenty more years? You need to ask yourself that,
and you need to let him know that this is
important to you. But if it's not important to you,
then just keep living.
Speaker 7 (12:01):
You know. I don't know what.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
I don't know what to say, you know.
Speaker 7 (12:05):
I think what plays into my mind is that I
don't want him to hold himself back if he is
I want him to be free and explore and try
it all. And if you don't like it, then whatever.
You know what I'm saying. But I think that's just
what it is like because he is kind of shy
and he kind of refrains from a lot of things,
and I just want him to just be free, you know.
I love that.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
That says a lot. It speaks volumes about you being
concerned about him. And also this is about you. If
he isn't living a fulfilled life, then he may be
a little unhappy, you know, and you're gonna have to
be there to help sweep up the sweep it up,
you know. And so this is about both of you,
not just him. It's about you two plus you know.
Speaker 7 (12:49):
I want to be a prejudice. So come on, Oh my.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
God, and there's that there.
Speaker 5 (13:02):
If you offer that up and he's all about it,
then maybe that's a kid.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
Maybe No, No, it doesn't mean he's gay.
Speaker 5 (13:08):
I mean he's gay, but it's a it's a it's
a clue.
Speaker 7 (13:12):
No, it's not eight years Guys out there, Yeah, like
eight years ago we bought something to attempt it and
we still haven't used it. This she's been collecting us.
I've been so mad.
Speaker 2 (13:25):
Well, it's a collectors collectors item. You know, just because
someone gets peck does not mean they're gay, period. You
can that is not it's not that that you need,
but you need to know what he is because it's
what about what he wants in life to It's it's
about what you want to keep that in mind. This
is not all about him much about both of you.
It's about the two of you.
Speaker 7 (13:44):
Yeah, I think that, like guys are so afraid of
being labeled as gay when you know, like there are
bisexual men out there too. Just because you're like men
doesn't mean you're strictly gay, Like it's okay to be by.
I think the best kind of man is a bisexual man,
because not only is he sensitive like a woman and
and understands a woman needs, but he's also masculine.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
You know, Well, not all of them that way, but
some of them yeah, I know some bisexual men who
are not sensitive, and I know some straight guys who
are ultra sensitive. You know, it's hard to put a
label on that, but look, you deserve answers, and I
hope you get them because you you both deserve a
great life, you both both you and him, you know,
and that's it. Definitely all the best to you, and
(14:24):
thanks for reaching out to us.
Speaker 7 (14:25):
Okay, thank you. I love every one of you. Gandhi.
You are such an amazing addition to the morning show.
I've heard all the people that went in and out,
and you are basically like in.
Speaker 4 (14:38):
It just made my day.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
Thanks, there you go. Coming from you, that is definitely
a compliment because you definitely are a wonderful person as well.
And thanks for listening to us. Have a great day, Okay, guys,
to love you too, Love you too, there you go.
You know, everyone's going through something, Yeah, you know, and
she's she's a lot of fun. I think she wants
too for the price of one. If you ask me,
you just want.
Speaker 1 (15:01):
Him to be.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
The edge go for it could be absolutely yeah, She's
very clear about that. But sometimes you got to be
very careful what you wish for. I don't know. You know,
you think about the person you're with, how well do
you know them? It may not be as cut and
dry as the little clues she's seen, but how well
do you know them?
Speaker 7 (15:25):
I mean?
Speaker 2 (15:25):
What what if the person you're with in life has
a great wonderful treasure chest of amazing things hidden behind
that wall that you just don't know about, things that
wouldn't make you want to break up with them or
look elsewhere. But it's just, you know, that's their little
life that they want to live. You know, we all have.
We all have that little room in our hearts that
(15:47):
we don't open for other people. That's not unusual for sure.
It's not a bad thing always, Yeah, gandhi, what's up?
Speaker 3 (15:52):
I think the hard part about this is if he's not,
there's no way to ever prove that you are not something.
You can only ever prove that you or something, because
as long as you keep saying I'm not, another person
could always just be like, well you're hiding it. If
you say you don't have this thing, maybe you hit
it somewhere else. It's really hard to prove a negative.
So it's all about trust in this case, and hopefully
they trust each other enough and are comfortable with each
(16:14):
other enough after ten years.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
To get through this.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
Well, I love it. Scary's curious. He's over there looking
up the word pegasus.
Speaker 4 (16:20):
Wow, it is what I thought it was.
Speaker 2 (16:21):
By the way, Okay, all right.
Speaker 5 (16:23):
It can't be anything else.
Speaker 4 (16:24):
Jeez.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
Well, a lot of people, a lot of people wonder
what what a peg is. Now, you know, that's another
way of looking at it.
Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Hey, I sent a DM to you earlier, Gandhi about
this story out of Tempe, Arizona. Yes, huge college town
as you know, right there, you know, and nestled next to Phoenix, right.
They did a raid at a popular bar, college bar.
Did you see the numbers?
Speaker 1 (00:22):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (00:23):
How many kids were arrested for you know, being underage
in the bar, having fake IDs? I mean, do you
have that distored in front of you. It's kind of interesting.
Speaker 3 (00:34):
It says about fifty seven law enforcement officers made contact
at Tempe Tavern in Arizona and conducted an investigation that
led to two hundred and forty nine arrests of underage
patrons for charges including, but not limited to, possessing fake IDs,
underage intoxication, and providing false information.
Speaker 4 (00:51):
So essentially, this entire bar she got roped up.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Yeah, so I'm assuming the bar is in trouble as well.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
Yeah, of course.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
But look, you know, I've been to Temp many times.
You've been to a college town. That's how it is,
you know. Okay, let's go back, let's let's rewind a
little bit. Has anyone in this room ever had a
fake ID. Yes, yes, yes, yeah, so Daniel says no,
Scary says yes, Ghandi says yes, I say yes. You know,
I no surprise at these answers at all, foggy. Did
(01:23):
you ever have a fake ID?
Speaker 5 (01:24):
I did not?
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Right, well, you didn't need one if you're you know,
growing up in Tampa on radio they could go into
any bar and wanted to didn't care exactly so, but
the numbers are astounding, over two hundred and we're talking
about roughly two hundred and fifty kids in the paddy
wagon as I used to call it, and driven downtown crazy.
(01:48):
Did you see that stack of fake id's? They had
a mountain?
Speaker 1 (01:51):
Yes, fa so good now too, Yeah, you know they
really do well.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
I tell you I had mine, and uh it looked real.
It was the state of Texas. I remember going downtown
Dallas back when no one went downtown Dallas ever, and
I had my picture took and then they said, okay,
go to that door next right over there. We'll have
that ready for you. Have a seat, we'll have it
ready for you in five minutes, twenty five dollars boom,
I'll got my fake ID there you go. So yeah,
(02:19):
that's a lot of arrest. So as a parent and
your kids are away at school, you're like, oh, dear God,
I know little Jimmy was in that group.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
The comments under that story were what I found most fascinating,
because almost every single person was like, this is stupid,
this is a waste of resources. Make the legal drinking
age eighteen. I mean, like every single person was on
the side of these kids.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
It used to be eighteen, right, How long ago is that?
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Back in the day. Yeah, I remember I turned eighteen
the legal agent in Texas and I think the month
I turned eighteen, they moved it to twenty one. I'm like,
a damn you, yeah, froggy.
Speaker 5 (02:57):
When my son first got to college, he had one.
I didn't know about it. Only my wife knew because
Lisa is obviously Lisa had many fake IDs, so Lisa
knew he had when she was fine with it. I'm
more by the book and rule followers. I didn't know.
So he's home and he has to take his wallet
out to do something and he's got a Missouri driver's license.
I'm like, you don't live in Missouri. But he had
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to memorize all the information on it because he said,
when you would show somebody. They would say, so what
street dealer on? And it was because it was not
where he lived. But yeah, his was actually pretty good.
You could not tell. It got taken a couple of
times because it didn't swipe on the back. When they
went to swipe it, it didn't work, and so it
got taken a couple of times. He'd just go get
another one.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
A lot of people are texting in about chalking ideas
that I remember. I didn't have to have one printed.
They would take your license and they if you knew
someone who could chalco it, they would, you know, make
it appear to be the real deal. Oh wow, Yeah,
it's so funny interesting. I'm not saying it's funny. I'm
not sidy with these little cretans.
Speaker 6 (03:57):
I remember trying to get into a club in New
York City right before I turned twenty one, literally less
than like two weeks, and the guy at the door
was like no, and I'm like, but I'm twenty one
in two weeks. He's like, so come back in two weeks.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
That bar in Tempee was not checking out closely? Does it?
Celia have an ID story?
Speaker 3 (04:17):
Celia's fake ID story might be the craziest one of
all that I've ever heard.
Speaker 4 (04:22):
I don't think she's here yet.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Oh, Cilia's stories are crazy.
Speaker 4 (04:25):
This is true.
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Yes, this one ended up whatever.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
So she went to a Harry Styles concert and she
wasn't old enough to be drinking in the casino, so
she had a fake ID.
Speaker 4 (04:34):
She was able to get one drink with drink with it.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
When they tried to swipe her idea on the second drink,
they realized, oh, this is a fake ID. But she
was in this casino to see Harry Styles and she
had a VIP experience, so she had the wristbands and everything.
As soon as they figured it out, they grabbed her,
started cutting off her wristbands and basically placing her under arrest.
So this is now where the story gets funny, because
she says she started yelling and screaming, I'm gonna die
(05:00):
if I can't see Harry Styles, I'm going to die.
But the next thing you know, she's in the back
of an ambulance, strapped to the bed. So I said, now, Celia,
did you say I'm gonna die or did you say
I'm going to kill my son?
Speaker 4 (05:12):
She said, I don't know. It might have been it
was one of them.
Speaker 3 (05:15):
So she ended up getting fifty one to fifteen and
put into a mental hospital for a couple of days
because of this incident.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
And she never saw Harry Styles.
Speaker 3 (05:23):
She never saw Harry Sauce. She said she saw him
on the gurney as she was being wheeled out.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Oh my god, me, Harry Styles saw her on the
gurney as you think all that. Wow, you remember me?
I met you before Harry Will sort of anyway. So yeah,
Fake Id's tempe Arizona, two hundred and fifty kids snagged busted. Interesting. Hey,
I got a very fascinating text earlier and I wanted
(05:47):
to read it to you. I think we have the
texture on the phone. Yes, and Angie from Tampa, not
her name, not where she's from. Hi, Angie, how are you.
Speaker 5 (06:02):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Okay, you're okay to go in there and talk right?
Speaker 7 (06:06):
Yeah, definitely okay.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
So your text said, Hey, I got a question for Elvis.
How do I know if my man is gay? Because
he does a lot of questionable things and now I'm concerned.
So I texted back to you, Well, it depends on
what those questionable things are.
Speaker 5 (06:25):
Do you want to do?
Speaker 2 (06:25):
You need to read them what you said, or you
wanted to go ahead and recite them yourself.
Speaker 7 (06:28):
He's something you not to like, harp on the stereotypes.
But he loves.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Musicals, right, Okay, he loves musicals.
Speaker 7 (06:36):
He is attracted to trans women, and like the thing is,
if there's beautiful trans women out there, but there's some
that kind of you know, you know, that's the one.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 7 (06:52):
He likes he likes those that clearly.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
Looks like dudes, you know, okay with wig And you
also say he likes butt play.
Speaker 3 (07:02):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
They also say he's super clean. Okay, he showers after,
he showers after, after he poops. Okay, well, yes, yes,
go ahead.
Speaker 7 (07:14):
Likes a lot of girly stuff.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Okay, Like what do you mean by that?
Speaker 7 (07:19):
Like, I don't know, I can't explain it. If I
have something, he won't just say, baby, it looks good.
He'd be like, you know, as fire, I mean, it's fine,
I like it, and it's even better.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
Okay, all right, all right, Well okay, first of all,
everything you've said, I mean, I just there there's no
way to jump to conclusions that the guy is gay
in my opinion. I mean, let you know, right.
Speaker 7 (07:49):
I mean, you're.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Froggy, loves loves butt play. I think if I was, okay,
he does check a lot of boxes.
Speaker 7 (08:00):
The thing to listen. I tried attempting to play with him,
but he just never wants me to. And it's like,
come over, I want.
Speaker 5 (08:08):
To be you know, I know, I really.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
And all I could say is you know, a man,
I love that, but I know, but but there are
two things at play, Guys, hold on, there are two
things at play here. Number one is you know whether
what he's open minded to do in bed? But is
he gay or not? And you're in a relationship with him,
and so you know therefore you deserve to know. I
firmly believe. Yeah, well how long you went with him?
Speaker 7 (08:37):
For? Ten years? Ten years? Right?
Speaker 2 (08:39):
All right?
Speaker 7 (08:40):
And I mean it's great, it's lovely. I have no complaints.
But I even gave him a hall pass. I'm like, hey,
you know, if you want to venture out, I'll give
you a hall pass.
Speaker 5 (08:47):
You know, does he gay?
Speaker 7 (08:50):
Bisexual?
Speaker 2 (08:51):
Does he keep secrets from you that you know? I mean,
you know their secrets, so maybe you don't know, but
it is he away doing things sometimes you don't really
quite know where he is or what he's doing.
Speaker 7 (09:00):
No, he's usually on point, he's usually home. The thing
that really gets me is the music that he listens to. Okay,
like he listens to k pop, which is fine, but again,
it's always like a gay man or a trans woman
who kind of looks like a man. Yeah, I'm feel
some type of way because am I.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
I don't know. We don't know that, and it doesn't matter,
I know, But the thing is it all I'm just
I'm not thinking of him. I'm thinking of you. I'm
thinking about what you want to get out of life,
and you know who you want to be a partner with.
How long you want to be with this person? You know,
if you're in it for the long term, then you
you know, any situation you can adapt to and he
can adapt to. I get that, But as long as
(09:41):
you're happy with that, you know? Does anyone here want
to add to that?
Speaker 7 (09:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (09:45):
I have some questions. Okay, I'm not saying do this
at all. If you were to go through his phone,
would he freak out?
Speaker 7 (09:54):
He does get nervous, but I think it's because he's
scared that I might find double like type things. I
don't want to say it through the radio. But you
know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 2 (10:04):
I know things like that the hub.
Speaker 7 (10:08):
Okay, so I didn't know the hub. I's afraid of
me finding the things that he likes on the hub
and o't there you know, very free minded, enjoy what
you like. But I want to know it is he's
not so for one to not waste my time and too.
If he's bisexual, even better, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
But at this, wouldn't you just kind of chalk it up?
Chalk it up to like maybe he is bisexual. He's
with you, so he obviously likes women enough to be
with you for ten years. But maybe he's got some
other things on the side that he's interested in as well.
He just doesn't know how to tell you.
Speaker 7 (10:38):
But I just want him to tell me.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
Have you ever come on I don't know if you
said this, have you ever come out and asked him?
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (10:45):
So, like like I said, I gave him a hall pass.
I'm like, hey, if you want to venture all, you know,
like it's okay, and he'll be like, bury, I'm not good.
Speaker 4 (10:53):
Okay, maybe you know, maybe he's not.
Speaker 2 (10:56):
You know, here's the thing, you know, and this may
baffles people. Maybe he's not. You know, we don't know.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
We thought my husband was gay or you did Elvis?
Speaker 2 (11:04):
Remember I did him, I know, until he didn't sleep
with me. I'm like, okay, I go. And he liked you.
Speaker 7 (11:10):
I don't want him cooking.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
And he liked what is Shirley Bassey?
Speaker 6 (11:14):
Airley Bassy? And he liked Broadway musicals and all kinds
of stuff.
Speaker 1 (11:18):
But he did He's not gay.
Speaker 2 (11:20):
But you know, it depends on how far you want
to push this thing. If you need the answer, because
you need to move on. If there's an issue with
it for you, which there may not be. You he
deserved you deserve an answer from him. Yeah, and it
can't be Hey, babe, I'll give you a hall past
to go whatever. It has to be a hate you know, look,
I'm thinking about the red may ask you how old
(11:41):
you are? I'm thirty four, okay, thirty four? All right?
What do you want for the future in your life?
Where do you see you in ten twenty years? You
know that kind of thing. Do you see you being
in the same type of relationship with him not knowing
for twenty more years? You need to ask yourself that,
and you need to let him know that this is
important to you. But if it's not important to you,
then just keep living.
Speaker 7 (12:01):
You know. I don't know what.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
I don't know what to say, you know.
Speaker 7 (12:05):
I think what plays into my mind is that I
don't want him to hold himself back if he is
I want him to be free and explore and try
it all. And if you don't like it, then whatever.
You know what I'm saying. But I think that's just
what it is like because he is kind of shy
and he kind of refrains from a lot of things,
and I just want him to just be free, you know.
I love that.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
That says a lot. It speaks volumes about you being
concerned about him. And also this is about you. If
he isn't living a fulfilled life, then he may be
a little unhappy, you know, and you're gonna have to
be there to help sweep up the sweep it up,
you know. And so this is about both of you,
not just him. It's about you two plus you know.
Speaker 7 (12:49):
I want to be a prejudice. So come on, Oh my.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
God, and there's that there.
Speaker 5 (13:02):
If you offer that up and he's all about it,
then maybe that's a kid.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
Maybe No, No, it doesn't mean he's gay.
Speaker 5 (13:08):
I mean he's gay, but it's a it's a it's
a clue.
Speaker 7 (13:12):
No, it's not eight years Guys out there, Yeah, like
eight years ago we bought something to attempt it and
we still haven't used it. This she's been collecting us.
I've been so mad.
Speaker 2 (13:25):
Well, it's a collectors collectors item. You know, just because
someone gets peck does not mean they're gay, period. You
can that is not it's not that that you need,
but you need to know what he is because it's
what about what he wants in life to It's it's
about what you want to keep that in mind. This
is not all about him much about both of you.
It's about the two of you.
Speaker 7 (13:44):
Yeah, I think that, like guys are so afraid of
being labeled as gay when you know, like there are
bisexual men out there too. Just because you're like men
doesn't mean you're strictly gay, Like it's okay to be by.
I think the best kind of man is a bisexual man,
because not only is he sensitive like a woman and
and understands a woman needs, but he's also masculine.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
You know, Well, not all of them that way, but
some of them yeah, I know some bisexual men who
are not sensitive, and I know some straight guys who
are ultra sensitive. You know, it's hard to put a
label on that, but look, you deserve answers, and I
hope you get them because you you both deserve a
great life, you both both you and him, you know,
and that's it. Definitely all the best to you, and
(14:24):
thanks for reaching out to us.
Speaker 7 (14:25):
Okay, thank you. I love every one of you. Gandhi.
You are such an amazing addition to the morning show.
I've heard all the people that went in and out,
and you are basically like in.
Speaker 4 (14:38):
It just made my day.
Speaker 2 (14:41):
Thanks, there you go. Coming from you, that is definitely
a compliment because you definitely are a wonderful person as well.
And thanks for listening to us. Have a great day, Okay, guys,
to love you too, Love you too, there you go.
You know, everyone's going through something, Yeah, you know, and
she's she's a lot of fun. I think she wants
too for the price of one. If you ask me,
you just want.
Speaker 1 (15:01):
Him to be.
Speaker 2 (15:04):
The edge go for it could be absolutely yeah, She's
very clear about that. But sometimes you got to be
very careful what you wish for. I don't know. You know,
you think about the person you're with, how well do
you know them? It may not be as cut and
dry as the little clues she's seen, but how well
do you know them?
Speaker 7 (15:25):
I mean?
Speaker 2 (15:25):
What what if the person you're with in life has
a great wonderful treasure chest of amazing things hidden behind
that wall that you just don't know about, things that
wouldn't make you want to break up with them or
look elsewhere. But it's just, you know, that's their little
life that they want to live. You know, we all have.
We all have that little room in our hearts that
(15:47):
we don't open for other people. That's not unusual for sure.
It's not a bad thing always, Yeah, gandhi, what's up?
Speaker 3 (15:52):
I think the hard part about this is if he's not,
there's no way to ever prove that you are not something.
You can only ever prove that you or something, because
as long as you keep saying I'm not, another person
could always just be like, well you're hiding it. If
you say you don't have this thing, maybe you hit
it somewhere else. It's really hard to prove a negative.
So it's all about trust in this case, and hopefully
they trust each other enough and are comfortable with each
(16:14):
other enough after ten years.
Speaker 1 (16:16):
To get through this.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
Well, I love it. Scary's curious. He's over there looking
up the word pegasus.
Speaker 4 (16:20):
Wow, it is what I thought it was.
Speaker 2 (16:21):
By the way, Okay, all right.
Speaker 5 (16:23):
It can't be anything else.
Speaker 4 (16:24):
Jeez.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
Well, a lot of people, a lot of people wonder
what what a peg is. Now, you know, that's another
way of looking at it.
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