FULL SHOW: The Day We Crossed the Line

Today, we tackle the delicate art of saying "I love you," unpack the stages of a breakup, and dive into Froggy’s community board drama. Plus, we debate long-overdue apologies, partner snubs, and witness the ultimate coupon war between Scotty B and Diamond!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:02):
What are you doing every morning?

Speaker 2 (00:05):
You guys are so different.

Speaker 3 (00:07):
You don't become a hero by being normal. And so
I was walking through the living room.

Speaker 4 (00:16):
Interesting conversation going on, which mean Diamond, our friend Nick,
and of course it's Sam.

Speaker 3 (00:21):
The question is how soon is too soon to say
I love you?

Speaker 5 (00:26):
Oh?

Speaker 6 (00:27):
Look, you know what.

Speaker 3 (00:28):
In my opinion, it's it's it's a game. It's it's
it's a game.

Speaker 4 (00:31):
You gotta be careful, like if you say it too early,
then they look at you like, oh you're so cling.

Speaker 7 (00:36):
You don't want to look like you brought the U
haul right away exactly.

Speaker 3 (00:39):
So okay, So Diamond, yes, Hi.

Speaker 4 (00:42):
So the consensus out there with you and Sam and
that Nick.

Speaker 8 (00:46):
Guy, that Nick guy is what? Well, Nick and I
don't agree. We got into a really big argument maybe
a week or two ago about this because he is
in love with his new girlfriend, but he won't tell
her because he's nervous, and he thinks that too soon.
They've been dating for four months, and.

Speaker 3 (01:02):
I hold Nick is straight.

Speaker 5 (01:06):
Revelations.

Speaker 3 (01:07):
All right, Well, okay, good for him, Yeah, so good time.
So he's afraid he's afraid to say I love you
too soon?

Speaker 8 (01:13):
Yes, And my I agree point of view is whoa really?
I just think that like when you feel like you
love someone, you need to tell them. Life is short.
You never know what could happen to you or another person.
And if you feel it, then't just jump right on
out there.

Speaker 4 (01:28):
But what if you feel you quote unquote love them
within like hours of meeting them, would you say it then?

Speaker 8 (01:35):
I've heard of people doing that. I wouldn't be against
it if you feel it like I feel like at
this big age, we all know what love feels like, right,
So like, okay, great, you felt it before and it's
like strong like that.

Speaker 4 (01:45):
The thing is also, here's the thing through experience, you
know what, You hang out with someone and then things
turn south and things aren't good because you feel like
they're clinging too fast. You've been hurt before, so you
want to take your time. Keep in mind you need
to take your time sometimes just to make sure it's
a solid thing.

Speaker 3 (02:04):
It's as a foundation. If I just like you're great,
I love you, it's kind of fast, okay.

Speaker 8 (02:11):
So the thing about that is is like whether you
say it or not, if you feel that way, you
feel that way, right, So like if it's that strong,
I'm not talking about like little frivolous like puppy love
thing like.

Speaker 5 (02:22):
Oh cute, I love you.

Speaker 8 (02:24):
No, like if he he was like really going in
he's in love with this girl, full force foot on
the gas.

Speaker 4 (02:32):
Wouldn't you be afraid to say I love you to
someone until you know that they're ready? They need to
be ready for that being so quiet?

Speaker 1 (02:41):
No.

Speaker 9 (02:41):
I actually was totally on Diamond's side with this. When
they asked me, I said, I don't think there's ever
a time that's too soon.

Speaker 5 (02:46):
If you feel it, you feel it. Life is short.

Speaker 9 (02:47):
People die, like things happen, And what if you love
this person they get hit by a car and you
never said it. You want to carry that with you
forever or risk them thinking you're an idiot.

Speaker 10 (02:56):
I don't care, like whatever, what you gotta be confident
of that I love you return. You got to know
that they're going to say I love you back. A
friend of mine was in love with this girl. They
were dating for three months. He goes, I love you.
She responds with I want to break.

Speaker 3 (03:10):
Up A true story, Yeah, that's she wasn't ready for it, yeah.

Speaker 6 (03:16):
And then he screwed up the relationship. Had he waited
a couple of months, maybe she would have returned with
that ship is a two way thing.

Speaker 3 (03:22):
You'd need to be on the same planet.

Speaker 9 (03:24):
You need to be in the same lane, okay, But
then if you're not, why not figure that out sooner
than later.

Speaker 5 (03:29):
If somebody doesn't love you back and.

Speaker 9 (03:30):
They don't feel the same way, and you're willing to
break up with a person because they said I love
you and you don't love them back, maybe that wasn't
the relationship anyway.

Speaker 3 (03:38):
Well, it could have been on the way to that relationship.

Speaker 5 (03:41):
But then why would they break up with you?

Speaker 1 (03:43):
What? What?

Speaker 3 (03:44):
Sam?

Speaker 8 (03:44):
What?

Speaker 11 (03:44):
I just don't understand why Nate's saying you both have
to be there on the same day for one of
you to express it. I said it to my fiance
William when I felt it, and he didn't say it
for another two months, and we were both totally fine
with that.

Speaker 5 (03:56):
He was worried about me.

Speaker 11 (03:57):
Because he said, I'm just I'm not ready to say
it yet, and he thought I was going to break
up with him because of that. I'm like, I was
just expressing where I was.

Speaker 5 (04:05):
I know it. That's okay if you don't want to
break up.

Speaker 11 (04:08):
That actually says more to me than if you lied
and said I love you back even though you weren't ready.

Speaker 7 (04:13):
But you can handle that. I don't know if everybody
could handle that. Nate could handle that.

Speaker 4 (04:18):
Okay, scary, scary, scary scary.

Speaker 3 (04:20):
How long have you and Robin been together?

Speaker 6 (04:22):
Over ten years?

Speaker 3 (04:23):
He has yet to say I love you? Come on,
that's not true.

Speaker 12 (04:29):
It took me a solid two years to actually say it.
I just feel that it's not an exact science. But
you're under a certain age and maturity level. She's not
gonna be able to handle it because she may just
be living her best life. She may not want to
hear that, no matter how much.

Speaker 3 (04:42):
She likes him best.

Speaker 13 (04:43):
Yeah, Frog what There's a big difference in love you
and I love you? Yes, completely different things. And that's
the thing is that you can you can almost test
the waters with a little love you and see what,
see what the response is. Before you drop the.

Speaker 3 (04:56):
Full I love you, you have to follow it with
mean it. Yeah, love you?

Speaker 14 (04:59):
Mean it.

Speaker 15 (05:00):
My favorite is when you're watching a movie and you
they fall asleep in the bed and the guy goes
in the middle of the night and then she's like,
what do you say? And then she's like freaking out,
either she wants to leave or she's like, say it again?

Speaker 5 (05:13):
What did you say? Say it again?

Speaker 3 (05:15):
Hey? Brian, Brian, is that you?

Speaker 13 (05:17):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (05:18):
So you said it? After how long with them?

Speaker 16 (05:22):
It was three weeks? Actually, see three weeks.

Speaker 6 (05:26):
I mean, look, who are we to judge.

Speaker 3 (05:27):
We don't know what your experiences were during those three weeks.

Speaker 16 (05:31):
I had actually already been at that point, I had
been married twice.

Speaker 3 (05:36):
And you can be married fifty times. You can still
love someone no problem. I don't know.

Speaker 13 (05:42):
I don't know.

Speaker 16 (05:43):
It was great. There was three weeks. Everything was just
everything fit, everything was right, and we've been together for
seven years. We have two kids together. It's great.

Speaker 4 (05:51):
See the difference between me and Gandhi is I'm sensitive
to the other person's needs.

Speaker 3 (05:58):
Oh, it's all about her. It's all about her expressing
her love.

Speaker 7 (06:02):
Absolutely.

Speaker 5 (06:03):
I love you. I don't care if you love me back.
I love you that way.

Speaker 6 (06:09):
It's pretty.

Speaker 3 (06:10):
What's that, Brian?

Speaker 16 (06:11):
I said, that's the approach you have to take, though,
because you got to put yourself out there. You don't
put yourself out there. You never know more risks you take, Yes,
the more you know, the more failures you have, the
more risk you take, the more experiences.

Speaker 4 (06:22):
What she just said was, I don't care what you think.
I'm going to tell you what I think. I love you.

Speaker 9 (06:25):
Yeah, you don't have to love me back. I'm not
saying it to get the I love you back. I'm
saying it because I love you.

Speaker 15 (06:32):
But you could say it in a way where you're
kind of like dangling the carrot, like you go, I
don't know about you, but do you feel this because
this is just I've never felt this before.

Speaker 16 (06:42):
I feel like that's the way people do it when
they're like really insecure about the relationships because they're not
sure if they're going to get it back.

Speaker 7 (06:48):
Yeah.

Speaker 15 (06:48):
I agree, but it's a way to do it. It's
a way to get in an.

Speaker 9 (06:52):
You bust through that door like the koloid many.

Speaker 3 (06:59):
I love you, Brian, thank you, thank you.

Speaker 13 (07:02):
I love you.

Speaker 3 (07:02):
I love you, Brian.

Speaker 13 (07:03):
We've we've only we've.

Speaker 6 (07:05):
Only known each other sixty seconds, but I think I love.

Speaker 5 (07:07):
You, love you.

Speaker 4 (07:10):
Let me talk to Amanda. Amanda makes makes some sense
out of this. So how long did it take for
you to say I.

Speaker 3 (07:15):
Love you.

Speaker 17 (07:17):
My boyfriend and I my ex boyfriend and I we
both said it to one another in about one day,
twenty four hours.

Speaker 3 (07:25):
Again, that was your ex boyfriend. Yes, twenty four hours.

Speaker 2 (07:32):
We are together for a while there.

Speaker 8 (07:34):
Yeah, how long were you together?

Speaker 3 (07:35):
She said, twenty four hours?

Speaker 5 (07:36):
Eight years after.

Speaker 7 (07:38):
That after the I love you.

Speaker 1 (07:40):
Oh, we're together for a while, mostly happily, mostly happily.

Speaker 5 (07:49):
I say, you have to go for it and jump in.

Speaker 3 (07:53):
Good for all of you, guys.

Speaker 17 (07:58):
I also think it does depend and you have to you.

Speaker 5 (08:01):
I think, you know, if that other person feeling it,
you hope, so yeah.

Speaker 3 (08:07):
I mean you're rolling the dice here.

Speaker 18 (08:10):
I still think you should do it. I still think
go for it.

Speaker 19 (08:13):
I think we never know, all right, you never know.

Speaker 3 (08:18):
Thank you, Amanda.

Speaker 7 (08:18):
Did you and Brandon say it really early?

Speaker 5 (08:20):
He said it?

Speaker 9 (08:21):
I think it was like three or four months in
and he texted it to me and I wrote back what.

Speaker 5 (08:28):
He said, testing, testing, I love you too.

Speaker 3 (08:33):
Oh that's so sweet. Look I love love, Don't get
me wrong. I'm I'm a love lover. I love it.

Speaker 1 (08:40):
Elvis Duran, he just keeps opening his mouth stand in
the morning show. This is Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

Speaker 3 (08:57):
I hope I never ever experienced it, but I've never
been dumped in a relationship.

Speaker 6 (09:05):
No.

Speaker 4 (09:06):
I mean there's this one guy who but he was
he was a dumb ass. He didn't really dumped me.
He just like just fell off the planet.

Speaker 5 (09:12):
You were just ready for it, so it didn't matter.

Speaker 3 (09:14):
Yeah, And I'm you know, I'm almost done with life,
so I'm hoping.

Speaker 13 (09:20):
Look, I'm married.

Speaker 3 (09:21):
I'm hoping I'm going to continue the trend of not
being dumped. But the thing is is, if you, depending
on who you talk to, if you're the person who
dumped someone ended the relationship, sometimes you're considered.

Speaker 4 (09:35):
To be the heartless monster, you know whatever. And I'm
hoping that if a relationship is not working out, you
do have the well you have the wherewithal to maneuver
out of that in a nice respectful way.

Speaker 10 (09:50):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (09:51):
Well yes, unless oh no, no, you know, if it
was they had it coming.

Speaker 7 (09:58):
Carry ona would needs to be you know involved.

Speaker 4 (10:00):
Then you know, so it's so easy to immediately think
of the person who was let go out of the relationship.
You're like, oh god, you know, they'll feel awful for them,
and I know what they're going through. Well I don't
because I've never been anything. But what about the person
who dumps it dumps them. I mean there is emotional
stuff going on there too. It's not the easiest thing
in the world to like say this isn't working for

(10:22):
me without a doubt.

Speaker 9 (10:23):
I stayed in a relationship for years after I knew
it was over because I felt so guilty about breaking
up with him, and I was like, what's it going
to do to his life? I feel so sad for him.
I know he doesn't want this, and it was awful,
But you got to pull the trigger and just do
that sometimes.

Speaker 4 (10:38):
I was reading an article yesterday from bold dot com
the seven stages the dumper goes through after a breakup.
They check all the socials, just kind of check on you,
see if you're doing okay.

Speaker 5 (10:47):
Totally I got blocked the last.

Speaker 3 (10:49):
Friends about you. Yep.

Speaker 4 (10:51):
They'll overthink how it went, maybe how could have done
it better? Little regret, They'll reread old messages, they will
inevitably rebound and they'll experience regret and they'll feel relief. So,
if you're the dumper, those are your seven stages?

Speaker 6 (11:07):
Is that what you're gonna go through? Today's the day
you're gonna dump someone.

Speaker 7 (11:10):
You're gonna go through I don't believe it. See, I
don't believe in one hundred friends. I think it depends.

Speaker 15 (11:14):
If someone really did you wrong and you're dumping their
ass for that reason, I'm gonna skip all seven steps.

Speaker 3 (11:21):
You say that, But sometimes it's more complicated than that.

Speaker 4 (11:24):
Sometimes you still love them even though they made a
big old hairy mistake, even though they.

Speaker 5 (11:27):
Totally I would try to talk to his friends and
be like, how's he doing? Is he okay?

Speaker 9 (11:30):
And a couple of his friends were like, I was
specifically told I'm not allowed to answer that question if
you ask.

Speaker 5 (11:35):
Me really okay? All right, you know you go, oh yeah.

Speaker 9 (11:40):
No, I don't care about that part. I just wanted
to know if he was okay, Like, is he doing
all right? Not that I can do anything about it,
but how's he doing? And he also did the thing
where he went to all of our mutual friends and
tried to make them choose.

Speaker 5 (11:51):
Oh, you have to pick between the two of us.

Speaker 7 (11:54):
That's the worst.

Speaker 1 (11:54):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (11:54):
I was like, all right, all right, let's talk about
the seven deadly sins, scarious. Ready, there's seven of them.

Speaker 3 (12:03):
I'm going to assume we each.

Speaker 4 (12:05):
On average harbor three of them in our lives. Oh,
let me give you the seven deadly deadly sins? Right, yeah,
why is it deadly?

Speaker 3 (12:16):
Why do they call them deadly sins?

Speaker 6 (12:18):
I'll they'll google that anyway.

Speaker 3 (12:20):
Okay. So number one is lust.

Speaker 4 (12:22):
Let's discuss lust well, and then they take it to
the degree or whatever.

Speaker 6 (12:28):
So lust being unrestrained sexual craving sounds.

Speaker 5 (12:33):
Like a good time.

Speaker 3 (12:36):
Should we just rethink these may maybe add some to them?

Speaker 4 (12:39):
I think so?

Speaker 1 (12:39):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (12:40):
Okay, so we're saying a question mark next to lust.

Speaker 13 (12:43):
I think I got that all right.

Speaker 6 (12:46):
Number two, God, my favorite gluttony.

Speaker 5 (12:48):
Oh love that one.

Speaker 6 (12:50):
That's to over indulge, especially by over eating.

Speaker 20 (12:54):
I have a problem with that one.

Speaker 9 (12:56):
You do, We all do, because we're gonna die if
we eat ourselves to death.

Speaker 7 (12:58):
Yeabet is Yeah, so we agreed.

Speaker 4 (13:01):
Gluttony that's it's a good thing to fill up and
enjoy food. It's a nother thing just to keep on
eating till you explode, all right, right. Number three cent
greed Absolutely.

Speaker 6 (13:11):
The excessive desire from material things.

Speaker 13 (13:14):
It's pretty bad.

Speaker 3 (13:14):
Totally excessive desire. I mean, you know, Amazon shows up
every day.

Speaker 7 (13:19):
That's a problem.

Speaker 4 (13:23):
So uh froggy, lust, gluttony, greed, any of those good
for you.

Speaker 13 (13:26):
I don't have an issue with lust, but gluttony agreed, Absolutely,
those are no ghosts.

Speaker 6 (13:32):
Number four on scaries list.

Speaker 21 (13:33):
I mean.

Speaker 3 (13:36):
Sloth.

Speaker 6 (13:37):
I think it's sloth. Sloth. I think it's slow.

Speaker 5 (13:40):
Think it's sloth.

Speaker 3 (13:41):
Well, I thought it's named after the animal that's and
I've always heard sloth anyway you have, Yeah, well look
that up. I don't know. I think we can all
learn something.

Speaker 4 (13:49):
Yeah, you're about to convince the majority of the people
listening to Okay, laziness or lack of effort.

Speaker 7 (13:55):
And it would be sloth when I don't know.

Speaker 3 (13:58):
Maybe we're going to find out. But yeah, I got
a little sloth in.

Speaker 5 (14:01):
Me, a little bit.

Speaker 9 (14:02):
But I think people need a little bit more sloth
in them, don't they. People need to kind of stop
every now and then and just enjoy their lives and
take a break.

Speaker 4 (14:10):
Well, the well, the sin isn't relaxation. Their sin is
like over relaxation.

Speaker 3 (14:17):
It's like not doing anything.

Speaker 4 (14:18):
Okay, Nate, if you were wrong about sloth, you will
face my wrath well.

Speaker 6 (14:26):
Better than your lust.

Speaker 4 (14:29):
Okay, so far, lust, gluttony, greed, sloth, but reed sloth again,
could just kind of look at at Gandhi's point, laziness
or lack of effort.

Speaker 3 (14:38):
Okay, all right, they're saying it's a sin.

Speaker 6 (14:42):
On number five, wrath, uncontrolled feelings of hatred and anger.

Speaker 3 (14:49):
Yeah, okay, how's that sloth thing working on it? Slow?

Speaker 10 (14:52):
If it sloth technically both? I just looked it up.
It had the oh with the flat line across which oh.

Speaker 3 (14:59):
Slow, Okay, I didn't know that, did You guys know
about all? You know you will not have to ruve
the day, and.

Speaker 6 (15:06):
It comes from slow meaning lazy?

Speaker 3 (15:09):
Okay, okay.

Speaker 6 (15:12):
Wrath, uncontrolled feelings of hatred and anger.

Speaker 3 (15:15):
Yeah, I think that's a sin.

Speaker 6 (15:17):
Yeah, uncontrolled sure, Envy, jealousy towards another's happiness.

Speaker 5 (15:24):
That's a terrible one. Oh, I hate that.

Speaker 15 (15:26):
Are covering somebody else's stuff. Be happy for people have
their stuff your v What.

Speaker 3 (15:32):
About our friend DJ Nvy on the Breakfast Club, He's different,
I'm DJ Slough. And finally number seven, they're saying it's
a deadly sin.

Speaker 6 (15:45):
Pride.

Speaker 3 (15:47):
I'm like, you know what, My whole house is done
in rainbow colors.

Speaker 5 (15:50):
I don't know what my problem is dedicated to?

Speaker 6 (15:52):
Are going to hell?

Speaker 3 (15:54):
Sinners?

Speaker 13 (15:55):
We pray for it.

Speaker 3 (15:56):
Okay, so explain that to us we need.

Speaker 7 (15:59):
Pride is the most serious and most deadly.

Speaker 3 (16:01):
Yes, it is.

Speaker 10 (16:02):
It's an inflated sense of one's accompanied a slightly different pride.
But I think it's what narcissism I guess would be
something close the.

Speaker 6 (16:16):
Yeah, if you it's carried out too far.

Speaker 4 (16:19):
Okay, So let's uh, we all think lost is Okay,
I think we're about.

Speaker 6 (16:22):
To eliminate lost.

Speaker 5 (16:23):
I think it is.

Speaker 3 (16:24):
You have to replace it with something else though.

Speaker 5 (16:28):
Hmm over photoshopping your Instagram phos done.

Speaker 13 (16:33):
People who say do better?

Speaker 3 (16:36):
Yeah, you know what, what would the word be?

Speaker 4 (16:38):
People who really think they have the right to tell
you you're a piece of trash when they.

Speaker 9 (16:43):
Really are self righteousness a piece of trash.

Speaker 4 (16:47):
Maybe I'm judging that's pride then, right.

Speaker 3 (16:50):
Okay, So next time someone tells me to do better,
I'm gonna.

Speaker 4 (16:55):
Say, hey, you know what, why don't you squelch your pride?

Speaker 1 (16:58):
Do it?

Speaker 22 (16:58):
Do it?

Speaker 3 (16:59):
Squelch your pride? What sketty?

Speaker 12 (17:01):
When people who TikTok and traffic they set up there
ring lights and stuff, those people should be on this list.

Speaker 3 (17:06):
That's the deadly sin talking and traffic.

Speaker 5 (17:08):
We should come up with our own list entirely.

Speaker 7 (17:11):
You could die. I guess people at the.

Speaker 6 (17:14):
Edge of the cliff could be all right.

Speaker 3 (17:17):
Okay, so that was There's gotta be a more general
term for that, self social media or whatever.

Speaker 13 (17:25):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (17:25):
Something pride.

Speaker 5 (17:28):
Would selfishness follow fall under any of those things?

Speaker 3 (17:31):
Pride? Maybe?

Speaker 6 (17:32):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (17:34):
Let's reading.

Speaker 4 (17:35):
Let's review lust, gluttony, greed, sloth, wrath, envy, and pride.
So do we all have a little drop of all
of these or or some worse than others?

Speaker 13 (17:53):
The football game makes me feel wrath?

Speaker 6 (17:56):
Okay, I'm in I would.

Speaker 5 (17:58):
Say I am the biggest defender of gluttony and sloth
for sure. At the same time, one leads to the other,
Come on, so much food.

Speaker 4 (18:07):
And then here's my I'll do this for you. I'll
be such a glutton and I'll be so slothy you
won't lust after me.

Speaker 5 (18:16):
You're helping us, Thank you, I'm.

Speaker 3 (18:17):
Helping you squelch your lust.

Speaker 6 (18:20):
Nate trying this.

Speaker 15 (18:22):
Says here that it's a grouping and classification of vices
within Christian teachings. They're not mentioned in the Bible, but
they're classified under this category if they directly give rise
to other immoralities. So if it because it causes you
to do other bands.

Speaker 5 (18:41):
Yeah, I always thought vanity was one of the sins,
but I guess it's not. I will too, I guess.

Speaker 3 (18:45):
Not scary wants to add deceit, absolutely and hypocrites.

Speaker 7 (18:50):
I think lying should be on there.

Speaker 5 (18:51):
Yeah, I don't understand that it's not.

Speaker 3 (18:54):
Oh someone just said intolerance on the text message.

Speaker 5 (18:56):
That's a good one, bad one.

Speaker 3 (18:58):
It's a sin, right there, let's take out put it
intolerance done? All right? Lust feel free to lust all
your wants, all right.

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in the morning shows. In the morning.

Speaker 4 (19:37):
Show, let's switch gears and talk about the real house
moms of NAT.

Speaker 5 (19:46):
This should be a show.

Speaker 7 (19:47):
This is awesome.

Speaker 4 (19:48):
Okay, so I'm saying it right correct?

Speaker 3 (19:52):
Yeah, okay, okay.

Speaker 4 (19:53):
So donkety is it's a neighborhood near where you live
in Jacksonville, right correct? Yes, and yeah, okay, so they
have this like all great neighborhoods have. They have the
housewives of you know, enter the name of your community
here online you can go on and bitch and moan.
You can find out if there's anyone who can come

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over and clean your pool. You can like I've got
a bed for sale.

Speaker 3 (20:16):
Whatever.

Speaker 4 (20:17):
So read read the post that was put on the
Real house Moms of Nakati.

Speaker 13 (20:23):
This was eight hours ago, so late last night. It says,
does anyone know any good divorce attorneys? I am tired
of my husband's BS. But they did not use BS.
They spelled it out fully, So why wouldn't you keep
something like this, I don't know, like to yourself or
talk to a friend or I mean, And then there's
fifteen comments. The fifteen comments are all completely railing, like

(20:46):
what okay, what she did?

Speaker 4 (20:50):
Yeah, she wanted to blow off some steam, but maybe
she really is reaching out for some advice.

Speaker 3 (20:54):
But what what did they post below her comment?

Speaker 13 (20:58):
Get rid of him, he's lazy, do anything? And then
there are a few attorney suggestions of people that she
should call, so foll on her way.

Speaker 4 (21:09):
But I mean, these people are commenting, do they even
know who it is? They're just like assuming the guy's lazy.

Speaker 6 (21:14):
I don't know, right.

Speaker 13 (21:14):
See, that's what's weird. Most of the time, when you
post in these forums, it says the person's name. All
it says is group member. The reason I only see
group member is because I'm not a member of the
real house moms of NaKaT. Lisa is I'm not because
I'm not a house mom, so therefore I'm not allowed
to be member.

Speaker 4 (21:31):
So she posts, does anyone know any good divorce attorneys?
I'm tired of my husband's b Yes. And then you say,
all these posts come rolling through, and I wonder if
she woke up this morning and said, let me go
check and see if I have any answers.

Speaker 13 (21:42):
You know, I don't know.

Speaker 15 (21:44):
I don't understand the why Lisa doesn't just talk to
you about it before posting something like that.

Speaker 4 (21:48):
Oh my god, but a lack of communication in your
house from anyway. But if you are amber in one
of these neighborhood of posting groups or whatever, did they
get really deep? They get really slicing and dicing in
these things.

Speaker 13 (22:08):
I mean, yeah, there's lots of snarky comments like, oh
I saw so and so last night left their garbage,
I mean, and it just it goes from there.

Speaker 15 (22:18):
We had somebody who was trying to find out who
the person was in the car with their other half
and posted the picture and said, can anybody tell me
who this was with my significant other? I'd like to
know because I think they're having an affair, And then
everybody give their comments underneath as to who they thought
it was.

Speaker 4 (22:34):
I love it here for someone just sent a text
saying that naokot is swingers Central, a community of living
beyond their means and cheaters.

Speaker 13 (22:42):
Wow, well, hey, well.

Speaker 4 (22:45):
You know what, you know what you say, No, but
this is what their opinion is. They're saying, it's the
most surreal place.

Speaker 5 (22:49):
Ever cheaters and debtors.

Speaker 13 (22:53):
It's not that there's no swinging or whether I'm not
saying there's no swinging going on, it could be swing
going on, but it's not a community fellow swingers. We've
lived for three and a half years. Nobody's ever tried
to swing with us, because nobody's ever tried to swing
with us, and I think at least is decently attractive
somebody would have tried.

Speaker 3 (23:05):
To get that.

Speaker 13 (23:09):
I'm not expecting it from me. I'm just saying for her,
she would at least get an offer or too. I
don't know.

Speaker 4 (23:14):
People are checking in, uh, Froggy. They're saying nokate is
for swingers.

Speaker 5 (23:18):
Wow, Swingersville Frog.

Speaker 4 (23:20):
I'm telling you well, but obviously they see a different
perspective of Nicate.

Speaker 13 (23:24):
I want to talk to somebody who has who has
actually had success trying to swing with people in this neighborhood.

Speaker 5 (23:28):
I want to hear asking for a friend.

Speaker 4 (23:30):
Yeah to zero one hundred, Tiffany on line twenty four.
She has all the dirt on what's going on in knockrate.
So Tiffany, first of all, do you read the housewives
of Naicate online?

Speaker 23 (23:42):
I do, very very silently.

Speaker 1 (23:45):
I just watched.

Speaker 4 (23:46):
So do you know who who that was that posted
about looking for a divorce attorney because her husband's full
of BS?

Speaker 23 (23:53):
I do not.

Speaker 22 (23:54):
So.

Speaker 23 (23:54):
One of the features you can do is post anonymously,
and that person posted anonymous.

Speaker 3 (24:00):
Okay, so.

Speaker 4 (24:03):
We're hearing there's a lot of swinging going on there,
but Froggy insists there isn't.

Speaker 23 (24:07):
What do you think, well, Froggy, let me ask you this.
How long have you lived there?

Speaker 13 (24:14):
A little over three years?

Speaker 23 (24:16):
Okay. So there's a restaurant in like the main town
center area of Nakati that is the Swingers subs.

Speaker 13 (24:24):
Oh, which restaurant is it.

Speaker 23 (24:27):
It's oh my gosh, my name just slipped my mind.
It's right next to the public soo to the.

Speaker 13 (24:33):
Last trailer park. Trailer park Okay, yeah, restaurant.

Speaker 3 (24:39):
The restaurant's called trailer Park.

Speaker 13 (24:41):
Yeah. So the guy's name is Trey t r e
Y and it's it's spelled t r e y l
o r tray Lore then park. So it's like, okay,
all right.

Speaker 3 (24:49):
Right, right, so this is where swinging goes on. Okay,
go ahead.

Speaker 23 (24:54):
So there's been a couple of times for my husband
and I have gone in there and there would be
huge of people and we'd be watching couples come in
and then like slowly, those couples would break apart and
someone's wife would be over with someone else's husband, and
then they would all leave, and there's a there's a

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really large help there. Their symbol is the upside down pineapple.
Do you ever see that at anyone's house? It's a thing.
It's real I lived there for about two and a
half years, and the messiness that I just saw was insane.

Speaker 4 (25:35):
Because you don't want to get involved with that. But wait,
hold on, so Tiffany, So if someone hangs the upside
down pineapple in front of their house, that means they're swinging.
Do you just go knock on the door and say, hey,
let's do it? I mean, does that work? Or how
does that?

Speaker 3 (25:48):
Or is there out on the front porch waiting for you.

Speaker 13 (25:49):
To walk by? How does that work?

Speaker 17 (25:52):
Well?

Speaker 23 (25:53):
I don't share, Well, so I don't go knocking on
anyone's door. But I think it's just like it's like
the bat symbol that means symbol. It's just letting people know.

Speaker 4 (26:04):
Okay, Well, like if I put a rainbow flag in
front of my house, it means possibly that I'm gay
and living in this house, But it doesn't mean come on,
knock on the door, come on, knock on my door.

Speaker 3 (26:16):
So it's just it's a symbol.

Speaker 23 (26:19):
Well, yeah, I mean, how many upside down pineapples do
you see? And normally they're upright, So it's it's a
pretty clear deliberate.

Speaker 13 (26:29):
Okay, Well, cool, now I know where we're going to
dinner tonight.

Speaker 6 (26:32):
We're going to trailer park.

Speaker 13 (26:34):
Tonight night and the next night, the next night.

Speaker 4 (26:37):
Well, look, if you ever in, Tiffany, I know you're
you're quietly keeping an eye on the housewives of Knockotia online.
If you see anything uh unruly or festive, let us.

Speaker 23 (26:48):
Know there always is. Just give it, give it an
hour or two.

Speaker 3 (26:54):
You know what you could turn out to be uh
uh what's your name from? Uh Brokerton or Breakerton or yeah,
that way exactly. You have all the gossip. Anyway, thank
you for listening to us, Tiffany.

Speaker 6 (27:10):
Have a great day.

Speaker 7 (27:10):
Okay, thank you y'all.

Speaker 3 (27:13):
Thank you very much for listening. Appreciate it. There you go.

Speaker 4 (27:16):
So it's naive to think that there's not a little
of that going on in every neighborhood, because I know
out here where I live there's a lot. They're all
doing each other, and they all have done each other.
I mean, men, women, men, men, you know the whole thing.

Speaker 5 (27:31):
I think it's so.

Speaker 9 (27:32):
Much more rampant than any of us know about. And
I think a big part of it is discretion. So
they don't just run around talking about it to anybody.

Speaker 5 (27:39):
On the radio. Froggy maybe that's why you're not getting
the invite.

Speaker 3 (27:42):
Oh yeah, talk about it.

Speaker 13 (27:43):
But you know what, Lisa, Lisa does have a pineapple
welcome doormat out our front door. Maybe Lisa's doing some
stuff I don't know about.

Speaker 3 (27:49):
Turn it upside down, see what happens, See how your
day changes.

Speaker 5 (27:53):
Hey, it's Nicki Minamata. This is Rihanna. Hey, this is
Lady Gaga.

Speaker 11 (27:58):
You're listening to Elvis Duran and The Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (28:10):
This is Elvis Duran and the Morning Show.

Speaker 6 (28:15):
You know, one of the.

Speaker 4 (28:16):
Most difficult things to do is to apologize to someone
for something you did.

Speaker 3 (28:22):
A while back.

Speaker 6 (28:24):
It really is.

Speaker 4 (28:25):
I mean, as you know, the longer you wait to
apologize to someone, the more difficult it is to do it.

Speaker 3 (28:30):
Yes, but I got to tell you.

Speaker 4 (28:32):
If you come to me and say, hey, last year,
I X y Z and I'm so sorry, I just
want to let you know it's been bothering me. I
want to just clear the air and tell you I'm
very sorry that happened. I made a mistake. You know
what it tells me, Well, even though it's a year later,
it tells me you've had a year to think about it.

Speaker 3 (28:49):
Ah, And you.

Speaker 4 (28:50):
Know, what And I think that's an even stronger apology
I do. If I just say something and you're like, oh,
you dumbasic?

Speaker 3 (28:58):
How dare you say that? Elvis? And I go, oh god,
I'm I'm sorry. That's an immediate apology and I may
just be doing it just to shut you up, even
though I don't really want to tell you I'm sorry.

Speaker 4 (29:07):
But if it's a year later, that's actually kind of
special that you're apologizing.

Speaker 5 (29:12):
I think, No, I don't know if I feel that way.

Speaker 9 (29:15):
I feel like, what do you want? What have you
been thinking about for a year that you now need
me to do for you? That's how I think about it.

Speaker 3 (29:21):
Hey, Frankie, what are you chewing on? I hear you
chewing on plastic.

Speaker 13 (29:25):
I'm trying to fix I'm trying to fix this cup
back to the way it was.

Speaker 3 (29:28):
With your teeth.

Speaker 13 (29:29):
Yeah, but I'm trying to think. There's certain things that
I need an apology right away for, and then there
are certain things that if it's bothered you for a year,
then that does it gains you a little? Like you
know what, I'm glad it bothered you and now your
apology means a lot more.

Speaker 5 (29:44):
Okay, so, oh, that's good to write back. I'm glad
it bothered you.

Speaker 7 (29:47):
No, you don't write that back. No, don't, Oh my god.

Speaker 4 (29:52):
Look even okay, let's say it's like five years later
and they say, god, you know what, I've been thinking
about what happened five years ago, and I'm.

Speaker 13 (30:01):
Not that's too long.

Speaker 3 (30:02):
No, No, I don't think so an apology is an apology.

Speaker 9 (30:05):
You don't think that there are some apologies that you
just don't have to accept, Like, Okay, you're sorry, and
I get it. That's great, you're sorry, but we're not friends.
You don't need to be part of my life. We
don't need to have a conversation about this.

Speaker 4 (30:14):
Well that's if you choose to keep them out of
your life because you prefer life without them.

Speaker 3 (30:19):
And I get that. Okay, So has someone apologized to
you or yes? Okay, So who was it?

Speaker 9 (30:25):
Well I can't really give out any details, but it
was somebody who I believe crossed me in a horrible
way about a year ago. And then this person reached
out and said, it's been a year and I was
thinking about what happened, and I would like to say
I don't like how it unfolded and that's not how
I would like.

Speaker 5 (30:41):
To operate and blah blah. But I'm kind of like, eh, whatever.

Speaker 3 (30:45):
Okay, Well, if you're ready to move on, I get that.

Speaker 5 (30:47):
Yeah, I mean I moved on a long time ago.
I'm over it. I just I feel like, why do
we have to have this conversation now?

Speaker 4 (30:52):
Well, because you you don't want to invest any of
your bandwidth to this person anymore.

Speaker 5 (30:57):
Yeah, I'm like, you're out of my life. Just stay there. Yeah, yeah,
stay on that Sie.

Speaker 9 (31:00):
But as Froggy said, I'm glad it bothered you.

Speaker 5 (31:03):
Okay, I don't you learned a.

Speaker 4 (31:07):
Lesson because I got an apology once from a very
dear friend saying, you know what I thought about what
you said two years ago about what I did, And
I get it now it makes sense to me. So
I don't know what happened in those two years and
why it took so long, But a two year thinking
that something for two years, Yeah, I'm impressed with that.

Speaker 1 (31:30):
I think so too.

Speaker 7 (31:31):
I think it must have been bothering them.

Speaker 5 (31:33):
I agree.

Speaker 9 (31:34):
It takes a lot to apologize. I suck it apologizing.
I'm really not good at it. But also, I just
think that every now and then there's not a conversation
that we need to have about this.

Speaker 4 (31:42):
My favorite is to pick up the phone, Hey, how
are you doing? Hey, I haven't talked to you so long, Elvis.
I want to say something. I know that I used
to drink heavily and I was not in my right
mind when I was drunk. I'm now in the program,
and as you know, part of my steps, I need
to call people and make amends. I'm calling to say
I'm sorry. And that's happened several times with me, because well,

(32:04):
I have a lot of friends and we all party.

Speaker 3 (32:07):
We lived through the eighties. Hello, you know what I'm saying,
And so I was like, you know, congratulations.

Speaker 4 (32:12):
I think that's so cool that you called and did that.
It's a part of that twelve step program.

Speaker 7 (32:17):
Yeah, that process.

Speaker 5 (32:18):
You're so much bigger than me.

Speaker 3 (32:19):
Why No, I know, But that's different.

Speaker 4 (32:21):
That's a sub that was a substance abuse, ye, and
that's something they needed to do.

Speaker 3 (32:24):
But you don't think your friend was going through substance abuse.

Speaker 5 (32:27):
No, I think this person was just being a giant
b I t H right, I know.

Speaker 4 (32:31):
Did do you sometimes think if they come out of
the wood work and apologize two years later.

Speaker 3 (32:34):
There they have an agenda.

Speaker 5 (32:36):
Yeah, I'm like, no, you're not getting jingle ball tickets.
Whatever it is.

Speaker 1 (32:40):
There there are.

Speaker 15 (32:41):
People that I think in my head, even if they apologized,
I would never accept it.

Speaker 5 (32:45):
Oh there's one person.

Speaker 9 (32:48):
If she apologized and was like in a near vicinity
of me to be speaking, I would jump across.

Speaker 5 (32:52):
The table and probably pull her hair out. Wow this one.

Speaker 4 (32:55):
Wow, Gandhi, because you know Daniel doesn't Gandhi seem like
a live and let live kind of person.

Speaker 3 (33:00):
I didn't know you were so vindictive.

Speaker 9 (33:01):
Now, for the most part, I am, but this this
I'll tell you what this one did.

Speaker 5 (33:05):
Oh, I think you'll all be on my side.

Speaker 9 (33:08):
Okay, so we all know that I had a boyfriend
who passed away. Yes, right, She was very good friends
with him as well. When he passed away, she didn't
show up at anything, not the funeral, not while.

Speaker 5 (33:17):
We were looking for his body for three days. Nothing.

Speaker 9 (33:20):
Then, because it was her birthday, she but dialed me
and purposefully was having a conversation with someone about how
horrible I was for expecting her to go to his
funeral or be there for the search party, and how
I'm selfish and yeah, he died, but he's gonna stay dead.
It's my birthday and I only get to celebrate. Oh yeah,
let me find you all pull your hair out?

Speaker 4 (33:42):
Yeah, and she did the on purpose but dialogue purpose
o lame phone taps. Yeah, you could and talk about
a thing.

Speaker 5 (33:51):
Oh my gosh, I get that's the worst.

Speaker 3 (33:54):
Why would you ever even want to even think of forgiving?

Speaker 5 (33:56):
I will not. I will put out her hair and
it's ugly hair, by the way.

Speaker 3 (34:00):
Okay, good morning Sarah.

Speaker 17 (34:03):
Hi, good morning, case Sulleve.

Speaker 4 (34:04):
I'm on the radio right now, and obviously we said
something that like hit a nerve with you.

Speaker 3 (34:08):
What do you think it, Sarah.

Speaker 17 (34:11):
I've been through two experiences in my life that have
to deal with forgiveness, and they both shape me in
crazy ways, and it's hit a nerve when you guys
started talking about it.

Speaker 3 (34:21):
Okay, well, give us an example. What do you think?

Speaker 17 (34:24):
So the first example is I did something wrong, and
I fully admit that I did something wrong, but the
friend in the situation it's something worse, and I apologize
for my part in it. And the only reason that
person apologized back to me is because I apologized, and
it was the kind of apology that you're that you

(34:46):
were saying you only did it because you had two.

Speaker 23 (34:48):
Kinds of things.

Speaker 17 (34:49):
Wow, and that hit a nerve with me. In another situation,
I was approached with a situation about a birthday party
and I wasn't comfortable going. So I explained my situation
personal reasons as to why I didn't want to go,
and I explained to them that I would love to

(35:09):
celebrate another way. And then I didn't get a response
for almost four or five months. And when that person
finally responded and apologized for the way she reacted, I said,
thank you for the apology. I really appreciate it, but
I'm not interested in being friends with you anymore.

Speaker 13 (35:24):
Wow.

Speaker 17 (35:24):
I just don't like what you did to me, and
it really hurt me. And it's forgiveness and having to
think about that. It's completely changed the way I've acted friendships, relationships, everything.
It's crazy.

Speaker 4 (35:38):
You know what, you just said something that made me
think if you say something that really hurt me, and
I tell you it hurt me that you said that,
that means obviously I still like you and expect more
from you.

Speaker 5 (35:51):
Yeah, that's true.

Speaker 4 (35:52):
But if someone is just if you're so ready to
write someone off and just kick them off your radar.
It doesn't even hurt. They didn't even hurt me any
I'm like done, I just I'm not even who cares
what another U said hurt me?

Speaker 3 (36:03):
Good?

Speaker 17 (36:05):
It had hurt in the moment, definitely, But then after
I had the months to think about it and discuss
it with my friends and my family, was like, I
can't expect it anymore. She did this and it obviously
didn't hurt for her to do this. Goodbye, It doesn't
hurt me anymore.

Speaker 3 (36:18):
Done, I got it. Listen, Sarah, thank you for listening to.

Speaker 17 (36:21):
Us and much I've been listening for over twenty years.
This is insane to me.

Speaker 4 (36:24):
Hope, I don't say something to piss you off, Thank
you very much. I don't know, Yes, Froggy.

Speaker 13 (36:31):
I believe it's how you deliver an apology. Like if
you just say sorry, sorry is not enough. Like there
needs to be adjectives and words in front of the
word sorry that let me know that you really are
truly sorry.

Speaker 7 (36:42):
If you say with that attitude voice.

Speaker 13 (36:45):
Sorry sorry, you're not sorry at that point.

Speaker 3 (36:47):
I'm sure you feel that way. I'm sorry, you know
another one is with me.

Speaker 4 (36:52):
By the time you come to apologize to me, I'm
at a part in my life.

Speaker 3 (36:56):
Where I've probably have already written you off no offense.

Speaker 4 (36:59):
But if I haven't talked to you in months or
you're you're not in You're not even in my You're
not in my world, so you don't even know me
an apology, have a nice day, exactly. And I'm not
trying to be in an ahole. I'm just that's just
the way it is. And I'm going to tell you
through life experience. The older you get, as I'm getting older,
the less you tolerate other people in them trying to

(37:23):
find themselves in this year, you know you may be struggling,
and during your struggle you leave a trail of destruction
by being mean to friends and being reckless with their feelings.

Speaker 3 (37:34):
I don't have time for you. I'm done. I'm so
much happier just eliminating you from my world's letting it go.

Speaker 12 (37:41):
Does it mean less if you apologize when you're drunk.
Some people want to apologize, but it's awkward, so they
maybe just take the edge off of.

Speaker 7 (37:49):
Because half the time you don't remember what you did.

Speaker 5 (37:51):
When you don't mean it.

Speaker 6 (37:52):
Nobody could be meaning. It just.

Speaker 23 (37:56):
Gets you.

Speaker 3 (37:56):
I think if you're going to have a serious conversation
with me, let's let's do it. Yeah. Then if we
like the outcome, then we'll get drunk. Right, you know how?

Speaker 4 (38:05):
What was the lady who wrote the book about cleaning
out your closet.

Speaker 5 (38:09):
Marie Condo?

Speaker 3 (38:10):
Yes, you know what.

Speaker 4 (38:11):
I really think that should be what you do with people.
I agree, tidy up. What is it If you find
a blouse in your closet and it doesn't bring you joy,
you should get rid of it.

Speaker 8 (38:21):
You know.

Speaker 4 (38:21):
If a person doesn't bring you joy, if you are
not nourished by what they bring to their relationship as
you should be nourishing them, and you're maybe not, then.

Speaker 3 (38:31):
What a waste of time?

Speaker 9 (38:32):
One hundred percent. I even apply that method to like
my Instagram people I follow. I'll go through every now
and then and be like, this does not spark joy? Unfollow?

Speaker 17 (38:40):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (38:40):
I mean, am I being just a no?

Speaker 5 (38:42):
It's so important to do that.

Speaker 15 (38:44):
Life is too short to surround yourself by people that
don't spark joy. Right, Really, you don't know what's going
to happen tomorrow. It should be a you know you
should be surrounded by light.

Speaker 3 (38:53):
It's true.

Speaker 5 (38:54):
You get time back. Stop wasting it, all.

Speaker 4 (38:56):
Right, So I'm encouraging everyone go out there and just
douce your friends out. I mean, this town needs an enema.

Speaker 3 (39:03):
Do a good sum Yeah summers e. I'm gonna wash
that matten ride out of my head. Send them on
his way, my scary.

Speaker 1 (39:16):
Scared.

Speaker 4 (39:18):
I know it's kind of a it's a sad way
to look at it, but I would rather spend my
time with myself or with people that I really love.

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Of conversations when we're not on the air during the
commercial breaks, and one of the we were talking about
some of the music we've been playing here is a
little slow. Yes, so you said, oh, it's like a
dirge around here. I said, yeah, it's like a it's
like listening to a funeral dirge. And I had never
heard that word before. So I look up DI I
R G E, and sure enough, it's a like a
funeral rite a song.

Speaker 3 (40:25):
Yeah, it's a jerk, it's a dirge.

Speaker 10 (40:28):
And then we start talking about fish and you go, yeah,
he had the Arctic charge.

Speaker 3 (40:34):
Yeah, Alex had the Arctic char, And scary goes.

Speaker 6 (40:37):
Is that is that a white fish?

Speaker 10 (40:39):
I mean, of course, a very scary thing to say not.
So I looked up arctic char and you're right, it's
like a salmon trout thing.

Speaker 3 (40:46):
It looks like a salmon anyway. So you are officially
the Googler.

Speaker 6 (40:53):
That tried to Googler.

Speaker 4 (41:00):
Ask you a question, what have you heard us say
on this show? Because it's rapid fire and sometimes you
got to go what what have you heard on our
show that made you go Google? It turns you into
the Googler.

Speaker 9 (41:10):
Oh, I'm very worried that if anything ever happens to me,
They're going to search my search history. So I really
need one of you guys to come and delete this
because we'll be talking about things and I just go
ahead and google.

Speaker 5 (41:20):
Yeah, things, I'm not even sure if.

Speaker 7 (41:22):
I can say them. But stuff pops up, pops up,
and it's gonna make me.

Speaker 5 (41:25):
Look real bad. You got to be the googler I
am the That's what happens.

Speaker 9 (41:29):
I feel like I'm just going to rely on the
excuse of show prep for when it courts is why not?

Speaker 4 (41:34):
No, they they'll check your search history. So Ali hi,
ali uh. Brody said he made you be a Googler yesterday.

Speaker 8 (41:42):
Yes, that was a Googler.

Speaker 3 (41:43):
What did you google?

Speaker 8 (41:45):
I googled potatoes all Grotton.

Speaker 13 (41:47):
Why.

Speaker 5 (41:48):
I don't know how to delay.

Speaker 4 (41:51):
There's many ways to say it. If you're in France,
it's I'll the t I N is usually ta. It's
like it's like tang.

Speaker 3 (42:00):
Anyway, So why did you I didn't know.

Speaker 8 (42:02):
I was going to dinner last night and I asked
Brody at Peter Luger's and I asked Brody what I
should get and he told me potatoes Grotton, And but
I didn't know what it was, and he got really
mad at me and told me to look it up.

Speaker 3 (42:21):
The googler. Did you have the you can say all
grotton whatever you No, I did not?

Speaker 6 (42:28):
Why not?

Speaker 3 (42:29):
Oh my god, so good cheesy goodness.

Speaker 5 (42:32):
Well, I didn't know how to order it.

Speaker 6 (42:35):
Peter Lugers, they'll they'll know what you're saying.

Speaker 3 (42:37):
Yeah, yeah, but it's fun to google things. But we
do say a lot of stuff. In the course of
an hour. We just yeah, and it just goes.

Speaker 4 (42:46):
It just goes so fast. But you want to look
it up? And what are they talking about? What's scary?

Speaker 12 (42:50):
Well I was at a diner once and the Boston
scrad was on the medial. I'm like, what is Boston scraad?
I went right to the Googler and I found out
the googler sheepish.

Speaker 15 (43:01):
I do. I do that when we're watching old movies.
I want to see what the actor actress looks like
now and if they died and how they died and
what's going on in their lives.

Speaker 7 (43:13):
And I Google every single time.

Speaker 6 (43:15):
Look, you know what, We've all become addicted to the Google.

Speaker 13 (43:17):
I know you have, Froggy, I do it watching like
award shows or do it watching I I'll see a
commercial and I'm like, wait a second, I recognize that face.
They've been in another commercial, or they've been in a movie,
and then I Google and up, yep, sure enough, that
person has been in this movie, that commercial or whatever.

Speaker 3 (43:31):
You're the googler. Yea, hello, Shannon, how are you good?

Speaker 2 (43:39):
How are you Elvis doing well?

Speaker 3 (43:41):
Are you a googler?

Speaker 4 (43:43):
I am.

Speaker 3 (43:44):
What was one of the things you had to google?

Speaker 18 (43:47):
I had a Google adic dick.

Speaker 3 (43:49):
Yeah, dig dick.

Speaker 5 (43:51):
Animal.

Speaker 13 (43:52):
Yeah.

Speaker 18 (43:53):
Well, you guys were talking about it, and I'm just like,
what is that. I've never heard of that before.

Speaker 3 (44:00):
So funny. It's a dictved ik.

Speaker 5 (44:01):
Make sure that's yeah, d I K.

Speaker 3 (44:04):
Yeah. If you go, if you do a Google on
dick dick d I K D I K, you'll see
it's it's like a small little deer looking thing.

Speaker 6 (44:11):
I spelled it the other way and did not get
an animal.

Speaker 7 (44:15):
You did get an animal, but another animal.

Speaker 3 (44:19):
Shannon.

Speaker 4 (44:19):
I'm glad that you heard us talk about the world
famous Dick Dick and you gave it a look, and
now you know about the whole new world of Dick Dick.

Speaker 18 (44:26):
I know you guys I listen to you guys every
morning when I go to work. My husband's probably listening
in his car right now. I've tried calling in so
many times and this is just awesome being able to
talk to all of you.

Speaker 3 (44:38):
Well, it's easier to get through when we're not giving
away any money.

Speaker 13 (44:40):
So there is that, right.

Speaker 6 (44:42):
Well, now what my question?

Speaker 13 (44:43):
Now?

Speaker 3 (44:43):
Google my Google nation?

Speaker 22 (44:45):
Uh?

Speaker 4 (44:45):
Is dick dick all singular and plural? Is it like
a group of dic dick or dick dix?

Speaker 1 (44:50):
Oh?

Speaker 5 (44:50):
Google that?

Speaker 4 (44:51):
Why are you throwing the phone? This is a brand
new phone drama. Okay, well, thanks for listening to Shannon.
Have a DIT day?

Speaker 5 (44:59):
I think so cult.

Speaker 3 (45:01):
Thank you?

Speaker 11 (45:01):
What dikers dikers.

Speaker 5 (45:08):
Differently?

Speaker 22 (45:08):
Do you?

Speaker 5 (45:09):
Y k E R that?

Speaker 4 (45:14):
I don't know dikers do you? I was just thinking
dikers don't need dig dicks?

Speaker 14 (45:22):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (45:24):
So what else have you googled because of our show? Hello? Rachel, Hi?

Speaker 22 (45:30):
Hi?

Speaker 6 (45:30):
What did you google?

Speaker 3 (45:31):
After hearing about us talk about it?

Speaker 23 (45:33):
Because of Danielle?

Speaker 17 (45:34):
I googled Jason Rulu's Instagram photos.

Speaker 3 (45:38):
Talk about your life?

Speaker 7 (45:41):
Did you get to see it before they pulled it down?

Speaker 3 (45:43):
Yeah?

Speaker 13 (45:44):
Yes I did? Oh my god, yeah I know I.

Speaker 4 (45:47):
Know you got to find it fast. That is a yeah,
you need to be a faster googler like you.

Speaker 3 (45:51):
Rachel. Thanks for being a part of the Elvis drade
Boarding show. Googler Nation. Have a good day, Pier.

Speaker 5 (45:59):
Remember Murk. Yes, when we talked about that for the first.

Speaker 7 (46:02):
Time, I had to google that. I had no idea
what that was.

Speaker 19 (46:04):
It's a very important Hello, Brittany, Hey, how are you guys?

Speaker 1 (46:09):
Do it?

Speaker 3 (46:10):
Okay, Brittany, what did you google because of our show?

Speaker 18 (46:13):
So it wasn't actually me.

Speaker 8 (46:15):
It was my daughter.

Speaker 18 (46:16):
She was ridding with me in the car one day
and you guys had mentioned sex. And she's ten and
I found it in her search history. One is sex.

Speaker 13 (46:26):
Jeez wow.

Speaker 3 (46:27):
And it's because she heard it on our show. Your
ten year old daughter googled the word sex.

Speaker 18 (46:32):
She did.

Speaker 5 (46:33):
Yes, Oh I'm sorry, yeah.

Speaker 3 (46:36):
Yes, I'm a grown man. And I asked, what is sex? Anyway? Well,
thank you tell your daughter, We said.

Speaker 13 (46:43):
Hi, Hi, will, thank you guys, Thank you.

Speaker 3 (46:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (46:47):
People learning a lot from googling the things that use
on our show or other shows too.

Speaker 17 (46:52):
Hello, Ellen, Hi, good morning everybody, good morning, Well, good morning.

Speaker 6 (46:56):
So what did you google after hearing about it on
our show.

Speaker 13 (46:59):
I had a Dutch oven.

Speaker 5 (47:03):
Now, let me ask you a question.

Speaker 7 (47:04):
After you googled it, did you try to perform that?

Speaker 23 (47:09):
I didn't even know what it was.

Speaker 13 (47:11):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (47:12):
It's actually a tool too, isn't it. There's actually a
Dutch oven.

Speaker 4 (47:15):
There's a Dutch oven, yeah, that you can cook in,
and there's a Dutch oven where you get cooked.

Speaker 18 (47:21):
Well I knew about the one that you could cook in,
but not the other one.

Speaker 4 (47:24):
Yeah, Alex is famous for giving me his Dutch open.

Speaker 7 (47:29):
I'm so proud we're teaching people.

Speaker 4 (47:31):
Yeah, this show really is kind of a waste. Alan,
Thank you, having a beautiful day. Thanks for listening to
Thank you, Thank you.

Speaker 1 (47:40):
You know.

Speaker 15 (47:40):
Google's also good for catching up on shows, like when
I missed a couple of episodes of Riverdale and I
wanted to watch it with my son. I was like,
you know what, I need to figure this out. So
I went on Wikipedia.

Speaker 5 (47:49):
It's all there.

Speaker 7 (47:50):
There you go everything that's happened.

Speaker 9 (47:52):
I google significant others of people all the time, Like
I don't know what her boyfriend looks like Danielle.

Speaker 3 (47:57):
I googled how big were Daniel's boobs before her reduction?

Speaker 15 (48:00):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (48:01):
They want to see what.

Speaker 7 (48:02):
Was thirty four double day?

Speaker 3 (48:04):
Yeah, the googler.

Speaker 7 (48:05):
I feel like they're back up there now.

Speaker 3 (48:09):
That's okay, nothing wrong with that. You just be you.

Speaker 1 (48:14):
That's weird. Elvis Duran in the Morning Show. Don't answer
the phone, Elvis Duran, the Elvis Duran phone tap.

Speaker 3 (48:30):
All right, into the phone, tap, dear Elvis. My friend
Jamie gets very very irritable, very very quickly when telemarketers
call her on her cell phone. She gets so mad.
In fact, she recently got into a fight with a
phone operator from a credit card company who solicited her
on her cell phone. Why don't you have our buddy

(48:53):
Michael Oppenheimer give her a call and try to sell
her something. She'll explode. This comes to us from Kem Boshensky.
All right, Kim, We're now going to send Michael Oppenheimer
to the phone to call your friend Jamie on her
cell phone.

Speaker 6 (49:10):
Let's listen it.

Speaker 24 (49:15):
Hello, this is mister Michael up and him with the
Disabled war Veterans Christmas Memorial Fund.

Speaker 14 (49:20):
How are you doing today?

Speaker 3 (49:21):
Miss?

Speaker 20 (49:22):
Why are you calling this number?

Speaker 24 (49:23):
Because there are a lot of disabled war veterans that
need your help today.

Speaker 14 (49:27):
Miss.

Speaker 20 (49:27):
Okay, this is my cell phone. I do not wish
to be solicited on my cell phone.

Speaker 9 (49:31):
Ever.

Speaker 16 (49:32):
I'm very sorry, but I can't do this right now.

Speaker 20 (49:34):
Thank you.

Speaker 24 (49:35):
Are you feeling a little giving this holiday season? Maybe
you'd like to pledge your support this afternoon.

Speaker 20 (49:40):
No, I really don't have the time. You're calling me
on my cell phone. I do not wish to be
solicited on my cell phone. I am working, Thank you.

Speaker 14 (49:46):
This will only take twenty seconds, Miss.

Speaker 1 (49:51):
Hello.

Speaker 24 (49:52):
This is mister Michael Up and him with the Disabled
war Veterans Christmas Memorial Fund.

Speaker 14 (49:56):
How are you doing today?

Speaker 6 (49:56):
Miss You just called me.

Speaker 20 (49:59):
I asked you to call me on my cell phone,
and now you're calling me back. Remove this number from
your list.

Speaker 14 (50:06):
With a pledge of fifteen dollars, you get the Disabled
war Gets Recording Memorial tote. Would you like one of those?
Miss Hello? For one hundred dollars, we'll give you an
umbrella and for a more hundred and fifty.

Speaker 25 (50:19):
Something.

Speaker 14 (50:19):
Excuse me, and this is not a recording.

Speaker 24 (50:21):
This is mister Michael Up in Harmon with the Disabled
war Veterans Christmas Memorial Fund.

Speaker 20 (50:25):
Well, if this is not a recording, why aren't you
listening to what I'm saying.

Speaker 14 (50:28):
I'm hearing you. I'm just choosing to ignore your yelling.

Speaker 20 (50:32):
Well, can you listen to me?

Speaker 3 (50:33):
Please maybe listen to me.

Speaker 14 (50:36):
I'm listening with dated breath.

Speaker 20 (50:38):
Miss good you called me twice in ten minutes on
my cell phone. I do not want solicitation on my
cell phone. Remove this number from your list right now,
or I'll report you to the Better Business Bureau.

Speaker 1 (50:50):
Goodbye.

Speaker 3 (50:54):
Hello.

Speaker 14 (50:54):
This is mister Michael Oop and Harmon with the Disabled
war Veterans with Christmas Memorial Fund. How are you doing today? Miss?

Speaker 20 (51:00):
Stop calling me? Take this number off your list.

Speaker 14 (51:05):
We're looking for individuals today to.

Speaker 24 (51:07):
Share their holiday spirit and spread the joy with a
monetary donation to disabled war veterans.

Speaker 20 (51:14):
I don't care. You will remove this number from your list.
Stop calling me.

Speaker 24 (51:19):
I am on my job, but for a mere fifty
dollars out of your pocket, wouldn't you like this handy
dandy little tote.

Speaker 20 (51:25):
I don't care.

Speaker 14 (51:26):
Give us one hundred dollars and we'll give you this umbrella.

Speaker 20 (51:29):
Take this number off your list right now.

Speaker 14 (51:33):
And for one hundred and fifty dollars you get all
three spectacular gifts, including How the West Was One on
DVD how does that make you feel?

Speaker 7 (51:43):
Sorry?

Speaker 14 (51:44):
Thanks, we must be having a bad connection. I'm having
trouble receiving them.

Speaker 2 (51:47):
Now, let me tell you something.

Speaker 1 (51:48):
Okay, now you're dealing with me, You're not dealing with
the other person.

Speaker 20 (51:52):
Who answered the phone before. And if you continue to
do this, this will definitely be reported because we've had
enough of your gait.

Speaker 14 (51:59):
We are a charity whatever, we are a charitable organization.

Speaker 3 (52:02):
Okay, I don't care.

Speaker 5 (52:03):
This is not charity. You want charity, Winny.

Speaker 14 (52:06):
I don't understand how you came up. It won't be
much longer.

Speaker 1 (52:10):
Now I want your number, and I want your name right.
Excuse me.

Speaker 14 (52:14):
My name is mister Michael Oppenheimer. On behalf of people
I'm calling on, behalf of people who listen to me.

Speaker 13 (52:23):
The hell up?

Speaker 8 (52:25):
Okay, n by again, do.

Speaker 26 (52:28):
You understand people who said or you will get babble
abuse from me?

Speaker 6 (52:32):
Okay, excuse me.

Speaker 20 (52:33):
I am not going to collorate this nonsense.

Speaker 14 (52:35):
I think you should bring it.

Speaker 24 (52:36):
We are talking about people who served in the line
of duty in this country for you and for me,
and stood up for America and all what it believes in.

Speaker 10 (52:47):
Hello.

Speaker 24 (52:48):
Yes, this is mister Michael. I'm with the disabled, more veterans,
Christmas and oil fund? Have you changed your mind?

Speaker 1 (52:53):
Miss, not at all?

Speaker 20 (52:56):
You know you're really using it my minute?

Speaker 1 (52:58):
Didn't there anyone else you could buy?

Speaker 14 (53:00):
If you'd like, I can bother Kim Bashinsky.

Speaker 20 (53:04):
Yes, by all means father kim by Shinski.

Speaker 14 (53:07):
Because Kim Bashinski told us to play his phone tap
on you.

Speaker 20 (53:10):
Oh great, I'd like a killer right now.

Speaker 14 (53:13):
This is Gary Jones Melvis Duran in the Morning Show.

Speaker 6 (53:16):
I'm in the middle of.

Speaker 20 (53:16):
Macy's right now. For some reason, I thought of her
because I tried to call her while you were calling me,
and I said she wouldn't do that to me.

Speaker 1 (53:26):
Elvis Duran's phone tap.

Speaker 13 (53:29):
You know what?

Speaker 1 (53:29):
I love?

Speaker 3 (53:30):
The phone kept bringing, they kept answering, I love her,
mom shot down, hell up.

Speaker 12 (53:35):
This phone table was pre recorded with permission granted by
all participates.

Speaker 1 (53:39):
The Elvis Oran phone tap only on Elvis Daran in
the Morning Show.

Speaker 3 (53:45):
Hey, you know what.

Speaker 4 (53:46):
I was talking to Gandhi earlier about this interesting article.
She read tips on how not to be robbed from
ex robbers and I find this fascinating. I mean, if
you want to learn how to stay safe on the
streets or wherever learn from the people who make the
streets unsafe?

Speaker 13 (54:05):
Right right?

Speaker 21 (54:06):
Why?

Speaker 6 (54:06):
Why not?

Speaker 4 (54:07):
Okay, So you have the article in front of you,
I do, Okay, So what in general, what are we
learning here?

Speaker 5 (54:13):
Okay?

Speaker 9 (54:13):
So these are specifically about home break ins and things
that you should not do, things that we all think
are safe that are really not.

Speaker 1 (54:19):
So.

Speaker 9 (54:19):
One of the first things they say is unless the
safe is bolted to the floor or in a wall,
it's gonna get taken and they're going to get into it.
If you just purchase a safe, even a fireproof safe,
whatever it is, they'll figure it out.

Speaker 5 (54:31):
They said.

Speaker 9 (54:31):
Anything that's going to take them more than fifteen minutes
to get through or get into, they're not gonna mess with.
Closets are a gold mine. Under the bed is a
gold mine. Any drawers you have gold mines. You have
to find better places to hide things, they say keeping
You know how a lot of people have a bowl
that they'll toss all their keys in, or the rack,
the key rack at the front door. Yeah, they say,

(54:52):
don't do that because when they come in, they're going
to go for cars. If there are cars in the garage,
we have your keys right there.

Speaker 4 (54:57):
Interesting, Yeah, I'm wondering if the bedroom is where we
hide most of the stuff in our in our lives.

Speaker 5 (55:05):
I think a lot of people think, yeah, I'm just
gonna put under my bed.

Speaker 7 (55:08):
We find it.

Speaker 4 (55:09):
Do you know once someone broke into my house years
and years ago, they went into the laundry room and
emptied out an entire box of detergent, because people hide
jewelry in detergent. Yes, I'm like, what the doctor, I
mean the doctor the police officers told me, Yeah, that's
what's going on there.

Speaker 14 (55:24):
Wow.

Speaker 9 (55:25):
They're saying, if you really have things that are very
valuable to you, just take it to a safe.

Speaker 5 (55:30):
Deposit box at a bank.

Speaker 9 (55:31):
Pay whatever that fee is for the month to keep
it at a bank because that is actually secure, and
that it's kind of smart if you do live in
an area that's high crime and burglars, burglaries happen stuff
like that, to have a decoy.

Speaker 5 (55:43):
Box, like a little jewelry box with crab jewelry.

Speaker 9 (55:45):
In it, Yeah, put it somewhere that looks like, oh,
they got all the stuff if they come here. Don't
hide things in your laundry baskets. They said, they will
just ransack your entire house. Chop a whatever they can.
But if it's gonna take them a while to get
to it, then they might not do it.

Speaker 3 (55:58):
It's so what would that be. What could you do
that would force them to take a while to get
to it.

Speaker 5 (56:03):
I don't know. They did not specify that far.

Speaker 15 (56:05):
Put it in a safe deposit box, like you said,
then they won't find it there you go, but.

Speaker 4 (56:08):
They're going to ransack your house looking for it and
cause some damage. Here's what I'm thinking. It doesn't make
me sad, it makes me feel safe. I cannot think
of one thing in my house that's worth stealing.

Speaker 6 (56:18):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (56:18):
That they're gonna break in, They'll be like, oh, well,
next next door.

Speaker 9 (56:22):
Maybe they said, be careful about what you're tossing into
your recycling bin. You know, like we all buy a
new computer and then you take the box and you
put it outside in the trash. They drive by, see
that there's a new computer box in the trash.

Speaker 5 (56:34):
They know you have that. They know you have a
TV inside your house.

Speaker 13 (56:37):
If you do like an advertisement like hey look what
we got a brand new TV.

Speaker 3 (56:40):
It's brand new.

Speaker 9 (56:41):
They said specifically after Christmas they will do drive bys
of all of the different neighborhoods and see who's got what.

Speaker 5 (56:47):
Then they hit your house.

Speaker 9 (56:48):
Yeah, I mean there's there's a lot of stuff that
I would never have thought.

Speaker 5 (56:52):
About being the case.

Speaker 9 (56:53):
And the one thing that they say, well absolutely keep
them away from.

Speaker 5 (56:56):
Homes is a dog. They say, big dog, small dog.

Speaker 9 (56:59):
It doesn't matter because you can disable alarm systems if
you want to, if power goes out, you know, there
are things that can happen, but you can't with a dog.
And dogs will sense that people are coming from far
away and start barking, and they don't want they don't
want that.

Speaker 5 (57:11):
So even a little dog keeps burglers away.

Speaker 4 (57:14):
So now I feel guilty for bitching a moment about
my dog's at bark all the time.

Speaker 5 (57:17):
Now they're just looking out for you.

Speaker 3 (57:19):
They do what dogs do.

Speaker 4 (57:21):
Yesterday we had some people here at the house working
on some stuff and it's not stop, you know Max especially, Yes,
I'm sorry about that.

Speaker 3 (57:33):
Yes, Froggy. Froggy actually taught my dogs how to how
to bark, to be taught sorry to bark, and it
is go ahead. I'm sorry.

Speaker 9 (57:43):
No one of the other things that they say, people
really need to take note of is if you're going
on vacation, wait until you're home.

Speaker 5 (57:49):
To post your pictures.

Speaker 9 (57:50):
Because if you're posting, hey, look at me, here I am,
this is where I'm at.

Speaker 5 (57:54):
People know you're not here.

Speaker 15 (57:56):
That's what a lot of people are saying when you
go on Facebook and so excited about my trip to
the bar tomorrow exactly.

Speaker 3 (58:02):
Yeah, we're gonna be gone for for three weeks. Yeah,
come on, come on by.

Speaker 4 (58:07):
Yeah, I know they're scary posting from a foam party
at a pool at the hotel.

Speaker 12 (58:13):
Maybe I should just leave the lights on in my
apartment or something.

Speaker 5 (58:15):
They actually did say leaving a light on is important?

Speaker 12 (58:17):
What about sticking the money in between the stacks of
clothing and your your folded T shirts and your jaws?

Speaker 13 (58:23):
Thanks?

Speaker 3 (58:24):
Thanks, scary, you just told us where to go.

Speaker 13 (58:27):
Look.

Speaker 4 (58:27):
You know, I had a really good friend who lived
in a doorman building and uh, someone got into his
apartment by knocking a hole in the wall in the
hallway and went through their closet to get into their apartment.

Speaker 7 (58:43):
Wow, no, one crazy.

Speaker 4 (58:46):
Someone just walked by and saw a huge hole in
the wall, like what happened here?

Speaker 13 (58:49):
Yeah, frog, this person's got a great idea they texted
in from Mary Code from Miami three or five. If you,
if you have a robber, put valuables in the enclosure
of your reptiles. Nobody's going to go in the snaking exactable.

Speaker 15 (59:04):
When Tonko was alive, I should have put it under
his rock.

Speaker 5 (59:07):
I would have taken a reptile.

Speaker 4 (59:09):
You're coming with me, Yeah, you would have taken the
reptile before you take any money. Gandhi, Is that the
entire list? Because I think it's pretty cool.

Speaker 5 (59:17):
Yeah, that's that's the majority of the list.

Speaker 3 (59:19):
All right.

Speaker 4 (59:20):
Yeah, you know, if you don't want Danielle to rip
you off, put all your stuff in the mayonnaise job.

Speaker 13 (59:25):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (59:25):
Oh yes, you would never not go in there.

Speaker 7 (59:27):
That's not even allowed in the house. In my house.

Speaker 13 (59:29):
There you go.

Speaker 9 (59:30):
Love to hear from somebody who actually did break into
houses or does break in the house.

Speaker 5 (59:34):
Oh, Nate's waving at me.

Speaker 3 (59:35):
You have some Let's go talk to Garrett, a former
burglar Burglar Burglar on line twenty four.

Speaker 2 (59:41):
Hey Garrett, good morning, good morning. How are you well?

Speaker 4 (59:45):
We're doing fine? So you heard Gandhi reading this? Uh
these tips from former robbers. Do you have any to
add to that or are any of those kind of lame?

Speaker 3 (59:53):
What do you think?

Speaker 2 (59:56):
I think it's more of a matter of uh, you know,
people know the person or if they're not.

Speaker 13 (01:00:02):
Going to be home.

Speaker 2 (01:00:03):
Like Gandhi said earlier, it's not really a matter of
driving by, right.

Speaker 4 (01:00:10):
So people who I guess casing the situation, knowing if
they're there or not knowing what their habits are, what
time they usually leave their schedule, stuff.

Speaker 2 (01:00:18):
Like that, right, right, right, So I mean I was
I wouldn't say I was a former burglar. When I
was fourteen, I got into a little bit of trouble
with some friends breaking into a house, ended up with
some felonies. Luckily I was under the age of eighteen.
So yeah, so that was all that was fun.

Speaker 3 (01:00:39):
That was a short lived career for you in the
world of burglary.

Speaker 2 (01:00:43):
It was one and done. It was one and done.

Speaker 3 (01:00:45):
Yeah, okay, good, I'm happy that you said that.

Speaker 4 (01:00:48):
Well anyway, so yeah, I think you bring up a
good point is people watch your schedule, People.

Speaker 3 (01:00:53):
Know what time you leave the house. People know and.

Speaker 4 (01:00:57):
Look here we are at work, you know, when we're
in the studio and we're a live show.

Speaker 6 (01:01:01):
You know exactly where we are.

Speaker 3 (01:01:03):
So, my god, we've.

Speaker 4 (01:01:04):
Got to stop doing this. It's very unsafe. All right,
thank you very much, Garrett. You go have a good day.

Speaker 6 (01:01:10):
Okay, Yeah as well, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 1 (01:01:45):
This is Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

Speaker 3 (01:01:50):
That list of places women don't want to go to
on a first date, Yeah, I think it is. We
never talked about it.

Speaker 6 (01:01:56):
We think, eh, it's never too late.

Speaker 5 (01:01:57):
No, I just think people have lost their only three
places on this. I don't know about those.

Speaker 6 (01:02:04):
I mean, I give you a list and work.

Speaker 3 (01:02:06):
Okay, So a list of twenty eight places not to
take a woman on the first date. Where did these
this list even come from?

Speaker 5 (01:02:12):
Like TikTok and instagram lists?

Speaker 3 (01:02:15):
Okay, have you seen the list?

Speaker 17 (01:02:16):
Have you?

Speaker 3 (01:02:16):
Have you all seen the list?

Speaker 4 (01:02:18):
So a group of women put together this list of
twenty eight places women do not want to go to
on a first date. A lot of it has to
do with chain restaurants, Froggy, And by the way, just
because I'm reading this list doesn't mean we agree.

Speaker 5 (01:02:33):
Yeah, I disagree with the majority of it.

Speaker 3 (01:02:36):
What's Froggy doing? Somebody?

Speaker 4 (01:02:38):
Well, I keep forgetting Froggy is a program director of
another radio station, so he's doing three jobs at once.

Speaker 7 (01:02:43):
Any of something in his eyes?

Speaker 3 (01:02:45):
What do you have in your eye? Are you okay?

Speaker 13 (01:02:46):
I don't know. It just it like flew in my
eye second ago and I cannot get it out.

Speaker 3 (01:02:51):
God, I hate it when it gets in my eyes.

Speaker 13 (01:02:53):
It's not that I didn't say.

Speaker 3 (01:02:55):
What did I say? It was?

Speaker 13 (01:02:57):
I don't know, but it's not that.

Speaker 4 (01:02:58):
Okay, So anyway, on this list of places women don't
want to go on a first date, a lot of
them are chain restaurants.

Speaker 13 (01:03:05):
That's okay, it's the first place I took Lisa. Okay,
with Applebee's. There you go.

Speaker 3 (01:03:09):
That is on the list.

Speaker 5 (01:03:11):
That's a great day.

Speaker 7 (01:03:12):
Even my friend things about it.

Speaker 5 (01:03:13):
Exactly.

Speaker 3 (01:03:14):
I love Applebee's.

Speaker 13 (01:03:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:03:16):
Anyway, so on the list of restaurants they don't want
to go on a date on first date, Cheesecake Factory.

Speaker 5 (01:03:22):
Nonsense.

Speaker 7 (01:03:23):
I would go there in a second.

Speaker 9 (01:03:24):
If you can't find something on a cheesecake factory menu,
you're the problem.

Speaker 7 (01:03:28):
Sniders are insane.

Speaker 4 (01:03:30):
Everything's insane, and you have a leftovers for like ten days.

Speaker 3 (01:03:36):
People, you could even.

Speaker 4 (01:03:37):
Have a first date leftover party with cheesecake factory. Oh yeah, okay,
cheesecake Factory.

Speaker 3 (01:03:43):
Chili's.

Speaker 5 (01:03:44):
I'm going take me with Case Amazing, Ken.

Speaker 13 (01:03:47):
Jimpson, Salsa Man.

Speaker 3 (01:03:48):
Apple Bee's is on there. Chipotle, Now that's a little
more fast foodish delicious. It's a first date. Let's hang out.

Speaker 5 (01:03:55):
Apple Bees on a date night.

Speaker 3 (01:03:57):
Okay, here comes my fine way.

Speaker 4 (01:03:59):
Okay, hey, I know it's a first date, but I've
I've planned an evening at Olive Garden with you.

Speaker 6 (01:04:04):
I will go.

Speaker 7 (01:04:05):
I would go at the breadsteaks and then never ending salad.

Speaker 1 (01:04:07):
Hello.

Speaker 13 (01:04:08):
Yeah, and when you're done, buy the little cheese crater
for them. That's extra bonus.

Speaker 7 (01:04:13):
Yeah, you get the salad dressing to take homes.

Speaker 3 (01:04:15):
Okay, I'm gonna say. I'm gonna say Olive Garden not
on a first date.

Speaker 5 (01:04:18):
Whatever.

Speaker 3 (01:04:19):
Okay, that's an anniversary all right?

Speaker 4 (01:04:23):
Starbucks? Okay, look you know, let's meet for a cup
of coffee. Nothing wrong with that for a quick meet up.
Why not first date?

Speaker 3 (01:04:32):
List? Uh, you don't want to hit on? Is Denny's?

Speaker 5 (01:04:36):
Well, Denny's is after you've partied to be there.

Speaker 7 (01:04:40):
Denny's breakfast that's.

Speaker 5 (01:04:41):
The next morning.

Speaker 4 (01:04:42):
Let's disco friedt you go there for some potin Mimi exactly?
How about I hop for your first day? I like,
I don't want to Buffalo Wild Wings?

Speaker 7 (01:04:54):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (01:04:54):
Why not.

Speaker 3 (01:04:58):
Daniell Wings stuff?

Speaker 5 (01:05:00):
Yes? Sure?

Speaker 3 (01:05:02):
How about red lobster now?

Speaker 5 (01:05:04):
Yeah not me.

Speaker 7 (01:05:05):
I don't want to.

Speaker 3 (01:05:06):
It's for the seafood lover in you.

Speaker 15 (01:05:07):
I don't have no chicken and steak and your biscuits.

Speaker 3 (01:05:12):
Oh here's one.

Speaker 4 (01:05:14):
Would you ever take anyone to like a fight like
the fights for a first day? Well, I spend all
that money we can take into a waffle house. Oh
my god, they throw chairs and crapping there they get that.

Speaker 7 (01:05:27):
And then you played Jonas Brothers on the way.

Speaker 3 (01:05:31):
Scottie B.

Speaker 6 (01:05:32):
Talk to me if you're not going to waffle house
with me?

Speaker 3 (01:05:35):
Seriously? Okay.

Speaker 4 (01:05:36):
So also they say any foods, fast food chain or
any buffet. All right, but that's my drag name, Chalita buffet. Yes,
now non non restaurants.

Speaker 3 (01:05:49):
Uh the list.

Speaker 4 (01:05:51):
Don't take me on the first eight these women said,
don't take me to the movies.

Speaker 9 (01:05:55):
I could kind of see that.

Speaker 4 (01:05:58):
That's good though, isn't this let's not chill with Netflix
at the house.

Speaker 5 (01:06:03):
Oh, never invite me to your house on a first
What if you're.

Speaker 3 (01:06:06):
Ready to do we do wet on the first date.

Speaker 5 (01:06:09):
Yeah, that's how you get killed. I've seen a lot
of special start up.

Speaker 4 (01:06:13):
Well, most of the most of the documentaries on Netflix
are about people going home to watch Netflix and getting killed.

Speaker 3 (01:06:18):
Murder, go into the guy's house. No, okay, how about church?
The first date at church?

Speaker 5 (01:06:24):
For me not to know?

Speaker 3 (01:06:25):
I know, Okay, I do that either.

Speaker 6 (01:06:27):
Well you wouldn't.

Speaker 4 (01:06:28):
But there are some people if they if they find
out before first date that they are they are into
faith at a certain level.

Speaker 3 (01:06:35):
Yeah together, Okay.

Speaker 7 (01:06:36):
What if it's your grandle this funeral at the church?

Speaker 5 (01:06:39):
Okay, it's going to be a banger.

Speaker 4 (01:06:43):
How about the gym? Hey, first date at the gym.
What if you're both health nuts and you really love
to work out. Hey, you know what, tomorrow morning, Saturday morning,
why don't we go to the gym and we'll go
have lunch after.

Speaker 3 (01:06:55):
Would you do that?

Speaker 5 (01:06:55):
God?

Speaker 9 (01:06:56):
No, no, because then I'm also going to feel a
lot of pressure about what I get at lunch because
this idiot's gym buff and I'm like, Oh, we just
worked out and I have to eat a salad.

Speaker 3 (01:07:03):
Not everyone I go to the gym. I'm not a
gym buff.

Speaker 5 (01:07:06):
Whatever.

Speaker 20 (01:07:07):
I know.

Speaker 9 (01:07:07):
There are certain people, though, that you don't want to
eat around because they're so healthy.

Speaker 4 (01:07:11):
Oh I know, Yeah, Tommy, Tommy de Daria. Forget, he's
on the show all the time. I would I ate
with him one time and I will never do it again.

Speaker 5 (01:07:20):
What did he get?

Speaker 7 (01:07:21):
Did you get a salad?

Speaker 5 (01:07:22):
No?

Speaker 3 (01:07:22):
No involved like fish with no oil?

Speaker 18 (01:07:24):
You know.

Speaker 3 (01:07:27):
First date, sporting events ready, let go. I would say,
you're both a fan of you insert team.

Speaker 15 (01:07:34):
Here, Ay, you cheer them on and scream your heads off.

Speaker 5 (01:07:37):
It's a drink, eat some chicken wings, and beat ups.

Speaker 3 (01:07:41):
First date family functions.

Speaker 7 (01:07:44):
God, not a first date.

Speaker 5 (01:07:46):
You don't even know me, my parents meeting people for
at least three years.

Speaker 4 (01:07:51):
Out for ice cream. They're saying coffee dates or no
on this list, a bowling night, night, nightclubs, go ahead.

Speaker 3 (01:07:58):
Diansen made this list.

Speaker 5 (01:08:00):
Have no joy? Understand this?

Speaker 4 (01:08:02):
Hookah barlome hook a bar, or go out just for drinks.

Speaker 3 (01:08:07):
Let's mean out for a drink.

Speaker 7 (01:08:08):
What's wrong with that?

Speaker 3 (01:08:09):
We're all functioning alcoholics?

Speaker 4 (01:08:13):
Or they say another place, not just not to kick
off a relationship for the first day, is on any
place or going to any place that requires a long drive.

Speaker 3 (01:08:21):
I agree with you.

Speaker 5 (01:08:22):
I agree with that you want to be able to
go home quickly?

Speaker 3 (01:08:24):
Yeah, yes, scary.

Speaker 12 (01:08:26):
I want to meet the high maintenance women who put
this list together because coffee dates and going out for
a drink are two of the biggest icebreakers. How are
you supposed to go for a long, five hour dinner
if you can't, like, screen the person first and go
out with them and have a nice converse.

Speaker 3 (01:08:41):
A lot of people would agree with you.

Speaker 4 (01:08:42):
But also, I know, but going after the hi, what
do you call them?

Speaker 13 (01:08:49):
The women?

Speaker 3 (01:08:51):
Well, I know, but that's what they're saying.

Speaker 7 (01:08:54):
Be at the gas station.

Speaker 5 (01:08:57):
I want to do that.

Speaker 3 (01:08:59):
What's that, Garrett?

Speaker 14 (01:09:00):
What's left?

Speaker 5 (01:09:03):
But we just went through everything at a park a beach.
But then someone's gonna be like, it's free at a
puck your cheap skate.

Speaker 15 (01:09:12):
If someone took out a coupon on their first date,
would you be cool with it?

Speaker 3 (01:09:16):
Or would you be like, oh, that's another conversation.

Speaker 5 (01:09:18):
I'd be fine with it.

Speaker 3 (01:09:19):
I have no problem.

Speaker 5 (01:09:19):
I no, I don't care.

Speaker 3 (01:09:21):
Just take their money.

Speaker 4 (01:09:22):
If I would just please someone take me out, I
don't care. I'll go into audi about card.

Speaker 13 (01:09:26):
But if somebody takes you on a on a date
and uses a gift card, I don't see that there's
a problem.

Speaker 3 (01:09:30):
I don't either.

Speaker 6 (01:09:30):
There are some people that would.

Speaker 7 (01:09:32):
I just want to eat.

Speaker 4 (01:09:33):
The video that was going around this woman she's getting
out of the Is this where this came from.

Speaker 3 (01:09:37):
She was getting out of the car and the guy
was taking her to the cheesecake.

Speaker 5 (01:09:40):
She wouldn't get out.

Speaker 3 (01:09:41):
She's like, I'm not getting out of this car and
going in there.

Speaker 5 (01:09:43):
If I was him, I would have been like, fine, stay there.

Speaker 3 (01:09:44):
I would to get out of this car, but I'm
not going in.

Speaker 13 (01:09:47):
You're going to launch her in the hot car and
got in had my dinner date with her.

Speaker 4 (01:09:52):
You know, producers, Sam and I were talking about this
and I couldn't agree more. Christy High, good morning.

Speaker 6 (01:09:58):
Good morning.

Speaker 3 (01:09:59):
So your first day took you where? And did you
like it or not?

Speaker 17 (01:10:03):
We went to Hooters?

Speaker 4 (01:10:06):
Okay, okay, so how did that conversation go? How was
this proposed to you?

Speaker 21 (01:10:12):
Well, well, we were actually supposed to go to a
different restaurant, but the weight was too long and I
was starving because I was about probably an hour and
a half late with meeting him for our first date.
So we saw Hooters and I was like.

Speaker 13 (01:10:29):
I'm finally going there.

Speaker 5 (01:10:30):
Let's go to Hooters.

Speaker 21 (01:10:31):
I said, you know, I love their buffalo chicken salad.
So that's what we did.

Speaker 5 (01:10:36):
I think that's a great date.

Speaker 3 (01:10:37):
Okay, that was the first date. Were there any dates after?

Speaker 13 (01:10:41):
Oh yeah, we're still together.

Speaker 6 (01:10:42):
Oh twenty seventeen.

Speaker 3 (01:10:45):
Yeah, wow, that's so cool. If someone said to me
and Samantha was saying the same thing, Hooters.

Speaker 5 (01:10:50):
Hell yeah, yeah, it was my pick. And he never
called me back. He thought I was kidding. I'm like,
I'm at Hooters.

Speaker 11 (01:10:57):
And then I was at Hooters and he's like, you
want to go somewhere else and like not the most
do you need to And then he just sat there
and didn't have fun all night.

Speaker 9 (01:11:03):
Oh and then you married him?

Speaker 13 (01:11:07):
All right?

Speaker 3 (01:11:07):
Well, Christie, thank you.

Speaker 4 (01:11:09):
I think I'm gonna put Hooters at the top of them,
the top of the first date list. Thank you, Christy,
thank you for listening to us every day.

Speaker 7 (01:11:15):
You imagine going to Buffalo Wildwad with Nate on his
first date.

Speaker 6 (01:11:18):
Hold on, thank you, Christy.

Speaker 13 (01:11:19):
You have a good day.

Speaker 7 (01:11:20):
Okay, he had to put his gloves on.

Speaker 6 (01:11:22):
Yeah, my gloves and bring my.

Speaker 5 (01:11:24):
PEPSI and Nate you should never take a da That's right.

Speaker 4 (01:11:26):
That's why Daniel PEPs because he has gird he has aird.
But no on Nate, he can't eat any finger foods
without his his surgical gloves.

Speaker 17 (01:11:34):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:11:35):
I mean it's the same gloves you use when you
go out to the barn and check the horse.

Speaker 13 (01:11:38):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 10 (01:11:39):
Just imagine the date that I go on that I
put on my gloves and she puts on her gloves
match made.

Speaker 7 (01:11:45):
And it's not gonna happen.

Speaker 15 (01:11:46):
And so you're going on a date and you're you
look like a crazy person, and they're like forget it's
still a killer.

Speaker 3 (01:11:51):
Are those the same gloves you use in your kill room?
Stop it?

Speaker 9 (01:11:57):
If I went on on date and the guy put
on gloves while he was eating, I very take a
picture and send it to my friends, like take a
photo of.

Speaker 7 (01:12:04):
You would give your destination and say if I don't come.

Speaker 4 (01:12:07):
Home, here you go, hey Jermaine, Yes, yes, okay, So
first date?

Speaker 6 (01:12:13):
Where was it who proposed this?

Speaker 3 (01:12:14):
By the way, uh so it was my idea.

Speaker 12 (01:12:18):
I thought it would be super cool, super like, yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:12:20):
Cool guy.

Speaker 6 (01:12:22):
Yeah, we went to hot yoga.

Speaker 3 (01:12:23):
Oh okay, okay, we have a we have a mix
of emotions in the room. Okay. So producer Sam said
she would love a first date at the hot yoga.

Speaker 5 (01:12:31):
Would that.

Speaker 20 (01:12:34):
I would?

Speaker 1 (01:12:34):
I would.

Speaker 5 (01:12:35):
That's where I used to take dates.

Speaker 3 (01:12:36):
Smell the smells that came out of both of us
was definitely on the truck. I don't know, all those
pheromones rolling around, and then of course I would. You know,
I went to hot yoga one time, Jermaine, and I've
never heard so many people farting in the same room. Ever,
it was like a lot of room and it's hot.

Speaker 4 (01:12:55):
So your idea was like, okay, hot yoga and was
there a was there hesitation in your friends and demeanor?

Speaker 21 (01:13:04):
No?

Speaker 3 (01:13:04):
No, it was like, oh cool, I think that's super dope.

Speaker 13 (01:13:07):
Let's do it.

Speaker 3 (01:13:08):
And she was with it and yeah the smells the
parts in Yeah, we didn't see each other. Only one
part's acceptable, germane you know what the one?

Speaker 13 (01:13:23):
Okay, I get it.

Speaker 3 (01:13:24):
We'll stretch it, you know.

Speaker 4 (01:13:29):
And everything that we've mentioned about being off limit for
first dates, I think do we all agree hot.

Speaker 3 (01:13:35):
Yoga is probably the winner. Yeah, yeah, you got it, Germaine,
you got it. Man, Hey, good listening to you, and
thanks for listening to us.

Speaker 26 (01:13:42):
No problem.

Speaker 13 (01:13:43):
You guys have a good big.

Speaker 3 (01:13:45):
This texture says, I have a strict first date, no
go out for drinks policy. I just feel like this
is the bottom of the barrel. Such a basic date.
And he got asked me what told him, hey, be
more creative?

Speaker 9 (01:13:57):
What does everybody expect somebody to like, want and done
and impress the crap out of them on the first date.

Speaker 5 (01:14:02):
That's when you're getting to know a person.

Speaker 9 (01:14:03):
I might hate them, they might like this guy had
fart too much, like you have no idea, and then
you want them to waste all their creative juices on
that first date he did, Yes, thank you.

Speaker 3 (01:14:16):
Here's the thing, we're all different, our profiles as far
as level of humor and sarcasm, it's all different.

Speaker 13 (01:14:25):
Right.

Speaker 3 (01:14:26):
If you say we're going on a first date and we're.

Speaker 4 (01:14:28):
Going to fill in the blanket like the most ridiculous,
screwed up, fed up place ever, I'll be like, Okay,
I'm let's go.

Speaker 3 (01:14:34):
Yeah, just because it's a challenge.

Speaker 5 (01:14:36):
Absolutely. Where's your first date with Alex Do you remember?

Speaker 4 (01:14:40):
Oh, it wasn't really a date, the monster. It's a
gay bar, okay, and everyone in there was so old.
I mean they alsome, like from aldehyde. But that's where
I met Uncle Johnny and drunk Jimmy. Sounds like the mob. Yeah, Jackson. Hello,
So you say going a Starbucks Starbucks? Well, good morning.

(01:15:01):
You're saying Starbucks is actually a really choice first date place.

Speaker 3 (01:15:05):
Why is that? In your opinion?

Speaker 6 (01:15:07):
Starbucks is the number one first date place Elvis.

Speaker 23 (01:15:10):
Okay, especially if it's a date that is blind or
a date that.

Speaker 3 (01:15:13):
You're not really sure of but you made and you don't.

Speaker 20 (01:15:15):
Want to flake out.

Speaker 10 (01:15:16):
All right, It's a cup of coffee, maybe a pastry.

Speaker 16 (01:15:20):
You know, there's a lot of people.

Speaker 1 (01:15:21):
It's public, and it's easy.

Speaker 6 (01:15:23):
To walk away from.

Speaker 16 (01:15:24):
It's a short date.

Speaker 6 (01:15:25):
So if it's dunk.

Speaker 1 (01:15:26):
Great, coffee's over, it's like you need you to buy.

Speaker 4 (01:15:28):
But if the conversation is sparkling and the mood is good,
I mean, it.

Speaker 1 (01:15:33):
Can escalate all the way back to your place. I
don't know, I get it depends on how it goes.

Speaker 4 (01:15:37):
So Jackson, if you invited me on on a first
day of Starbucks, I would immediately think, you know, he's
smart because he knows that if I'm if I'm like,
you know, a piece of crap, he can like exit
quickly and for a blind date.

Speaker 3 (01:15:49):
Starbucks is great. Do they have menus in Braille? No,
they don't, but they should.

Speaker 16 (01:15:57):
Actually that they do.

Speaker 6 (01:15:58):
Elvis like that they do.

Speaker 15 (01:16:00):
It Actually would be nice on like a Saturday morning
you could say, like me me at Starbucks and we'll
see how the day goes.

Speaker 9 (01:16:06):
Now that really in the morning, people aren't getting super
dressed up, so you kind of have a better gauge
on all what do you really Okay?

Speaker 3 (01:16:12):
See Jackson, I see you. You're you're playing You're playing
straight here. I like that. And plus, don't drink coffee
before you go to hot yoga.

Speaker 4 (01:16:19):
Yeah, oh honey, clean up on Aisle four. All right, Jackson,
we'll see you Starbucks. Thank you so much, straight in eight.

Speaker 13 (01:16:28):
Okay.

Speaker 10 (01:16:29):
I think that's brilliant, Jackson, because you can tell a
lot about a person based on their order.

Speaker 3 (01:16:32):
Because if they're doing.

Speaker 6 (01:16:33):
Non fat oat milk, no whip twenty.

Speaker 3 (01:16:37):
Eight degrees celsius.

Speaker 15 (01:16:39):
Than I gotta say that is the one thing that
I think is so horrible. If you go out to
dinner with someone and you're just starting out be you
don't just order the salad because you think that's what
they want, order the cheeseburgen fries because they're gonna see
it eventually.

Speaker 3 (01:16:54):
Anything but what he's saying, like oil extra oat.

Speaker 6 (01:16:59):
So blind.

Speaker 3 (01:17:00):
Sometimes that is being them being don Also.

Speaker 9 (01:17:03):
Name if somebody's lactose intolerant, you don't want them not
to get.

Speaker 5 (01:17:06):
Do you want them to get?

Speaker 6 (01:17:07):
I could somebody's last day?

Speaker 7 (01:17:11):
What's wrong with lactose intolerant people?

Speaker 6 (01:17:13):
I'm sorry, I love my milk.

Speaker 3 (01:17:15):
You're gonna have it and stuff you don't want to
You don't you don't want to rename your first date
mud flaps.

Speaker 13 (01:17:30):
I don't mean that mud flaps.

Speaker 3 (01:17:34):
So here's Nate.

Speaker 4 (01:17:35):
If you watch a dinner with Nate, he's gonna let's see,
looking at your menu, do you have anything binding? And
I get gird.

Speaker 7 (01:17:46):
And I need to take my gloves out, I'm gonna say.

Speaker 11 (01:17:49):
Yeah, what I just realized the irony of the guy
with gloves saying you can't order oat milk?

Speaker 5 (01:17:53):
You maintenance?

Speaker 13 (01:17:55):
What's that? Frog? The guy that thinks it's high maintenance
is also the guy that looks on the menu and goes, hey,
I know you got these things in the back. Why
don't you with this up from Even though it's you.

Speaker 3 (01:18:05):
That's what he does.

Speaker 5 (01:18:07):
What proof is your drink? It's with milk?

Speaker 13 (01:18:10):
Oh my god?

Speaker 3 (01:18:12):
Did you sneak let? What's scary?

Speaker 12 (01:18:14):
Would you agree though, that any date that you go
on that doesn't encourage social stimulation or social interaction is
a bad first date? Like the movies, that's a terrible
first date.

Speaker 4 (01:18:25):
No, because that could be the way you met each other.
You we really want to go see this movie together
because you know, talk and get to know each other well,
because when you leave the theater, you go there someplace
and talk.

Speaker 5 (01:18:35):
Yeah, you can talk about the movie.

Speaker 3 (01:18:36):
Maybe I don't know, I think it's different for everyone.

Speaker 4 (01:18:39):
I think painting everyone into a corner saying I feel
like this about you, and therefore that is who you want.

Speaker 1 (01:18:52):
Elvis term in the Morning Show.

Speaker 3 (01:18:54):
You know, I'm producer Sam. A little while ago, you
were talking about a friend of yours, Yes, who needed
to take a second look at her relationship. She's in correct,
maybe from someone else's viewpoint, and and you helped her
out right, Yes, So can we go back to that
for a minute.

Speaker 8 (01:19:11):
Absolutely.

Speaker 6 (01:19:12):
I mean I don't want to, you know, I don't
want to embarrass anyone to use names or anything.

Speaker 5 (01:19:15):
No, I won't use her name.

Speaker 11 (01:19:16):
And she's a very very smart girl. I've known her
since high school, so yeah, she's a very wise person.
But sometimes when you're in the thick of a relationship
and feeling in love with someone, you fail to see
what was to me.

Speaker 5 (01:19:29):
A really obvious red flag.

Speaker 3 (01:19:31):
Right, So what's the obvious If I may ask, what's
the obvious red flag?

Speaker 11 (01:19:35):
They've been together for over a year and he keeps
coming up with different reasons why he's yet to introduce
her to any of his friends.

Speaker 4 (01:19:43):
Oh okay, well we could break that down it well,
maybe he hangs out with people he's embarrassed to hang
out with, or maybe he doesn't want them to meet her.

Speaker 5 (01:19:53):
So true, there's a bunch of different reasons. So I
was very careful to not be like that means he's
blank because I don't know. I don't know the guy.

Speaker 7 (01:20:01):
I couldn't tell you what it is.

Speaker 11 (01:20:02):
But I couldn't even come up with a best case
scenario where I felt like that was treating her the
way she deserved to be treated in a relationship.

Speaker 4 (01:20:10):
I get that if I had a friend coming to
me and say, hey, you know, we've been dating for
a year and I haven't met anyone that they are
friends with, but they go out with them.

Speaker 3 (01:20:20):
So I'm assuming this person goes out with.

Speaker 5 (01:20:22):
The friend time he goes out with friends, but she's
not invited, correct, I don't know.

Speaker 15 (01:20:28):
I mean, it could be that his friends are just
scumbags and he doesn't want her around them because he
values what he has. But if that's the case, then
do you want to be with someone who has friends
that are scumbags?

Speaker 13 (01:20:40):
Exactly?

Speaker 3 (01:20:41):
So you know you are who you surround yourself with.
But wait, why has she not asked him?

Speaker 11 (01:20:47):
She says she I would she said, she's asked him.
But she's kind of a passive personality, so she's not
like me. It would be like we're doing this this
weekend or not at all. She just kind of like
lets him know and then kind of lets herself get
I think a little walked on.

Speaker 3 (01:21:03):
See I couldn't I couldn't you know me? I'd be
right under that hood.

Speaker 6 (01:21:06):
Man's right? Who are your friends? Who are these friends?

Speaker 17 (01:21:10):
Right?

Speaker 11 (01:21:10):
There's so many reasons that are potential, and most of
them are bad, most of them.

Speaker 3 (01:21:14):
Is there something wonky about her that he doesn't want
them to know about?

Speaker 5 (01:21:18):
I don't think so, not at all.

Speaker 11 (01:21:20):
She's like a little bit of a silently intimidating character,
So I think that like might be possible. But if
we're in a committed relationship, you prioritize me. If you
hate this personality, let me know by actually actively choosing it.

Speaker 4 (01:21:32):
But here's the thing, I don't consider this a committed relationship. No,
if you can't bring me around, yeah, yeah, exactly.

Speaker 7 (01:21:39):
If how do your friends not know about me? That's
like a secret they you know, they know.

Speaker 3 (01:21:44):
The old part of a relationship is you were a
part of their lives. I agree with you, so they
know she exists.

Speaker 11 (01:21:50):
Yes, she's talked to a few of them on social Oh,
he's just never allowed her or invited her, and she
has not invited herself to mesh with these friends. And
when it comes up in conversation, he's, you know, just
kind of does a great job skirting it.

Speaker 3 (01:22:06):
Okay, let's let's consider another possibility maybe as well, sort
of on the heels of.

Speaker 4 (01:22:11):
What Daniel said. There are a bunch of scumbacks. Maybe
they're not, but maybe for some reason, he is ready
for a new life. He wants a life with new people.
But then again, if he's still hanging out with them,
then that's not the case.

Speaker 6 (01:22:22):
I don't know.

Speaker 11 (01:22:23):
Yeah, he says he has one like she says, he
has one core group, like that person you know that
always hangs out with the same friends, and that's that,
that's his social life.

Speaker 4 (01:22:31):
I have a really dear friend who has been in
a relationship for many years and has never met the family,
has never met anyone in his circle ever.

Speaker 3 (01:22:41):
But they continue to move on and life is.

Speaker 5 (01:22:44):
Still whatever it is, and they're both happy about that.

Speaker 3 (01:22:47):
It doesn't seem that way. I think it's more of
a it's just the way it is, so we live
with it. Would I don't know.

Speaker 4 (01:22:53):
I don't want to sit here and say, well, I
would never do that. I would never do that because
I mean, because we're all different.

Speaker 6 (01:22:58):
I mean, we all have.

Speaker 3 (01:22:58):
Different different levels of patience and whatever.

Speaker 11 (01:23:04):
But it wasn't making her feel very secure, Like That's
what started this part of the conversation is the way
she talked about it. She was feeling a little insecure
with herself and her relationship to him. So that's why
I'm like, all right, let's let's just talk about the
potential of this being a serious red flag and maybe
it's not quite as rosy as you feel like it is.

Speaker 3 (01:23:23):
I like this text. Maybe he's a gamer and all
his friends are online.

Speaker 7 (01:23:29):
Maybe maybe all his friends are just imaginary friends.

Speaker 3 (01:23:32):
Maybe or maybe maybe maybe she needs to like follow
follow him some night.

Speaker 5 (01:23:43):
That's the best answer, follow him.

Speaker 4 (01:23:45):
Where's he going with the Let's go see what they're doing,
what they to What if they're like, you know, some Satanists?

Speaker 7 (01:23:51):
Yeah, actually would they work for this CIA?

Speaker 3 (01:23:54):
Yeah? Maybe they're like they're killing frogs and things. Even
I don't know, I don't know.

Speaker 4 (01:24:00):
Hello Melissa, Hi, how are you guys doing very well.
I'm so glad you're listening. I'm so glad you're participating
in the conversation. I know that you said you were
in a relationship for two years, and I.

Speaker 5 (01:24:14):
Never ever, never have a situationship.

Speaker 3 (01:24:16):
A situation ship, and never met his friends. All right,
go ahead, Yeah, So we.

Speaker 26 (01:24:22):
Had met online and it was all great in the beginning,
and then I couldn't wait for him to meet my
family and friends. My sister went on two double dates
with two of my friends, but I never met his family,
never met his friends, and.

Speaker 19 (01:24:40):
It started to make me feel like I was a
cup secret. So I ended up breaking up with him
on Valentine's Day.

Speaker 4 (01:24:49):
Okay, but wait, what's your gut feeling telling you? Why
do you think it may not be accurate? But why
do you what's your hunch? Why do you think he
never ever introduced you to his family? Were friends in
two years?

Speaker 5 (01:25:03):
Well, I think it was a couple things.

Speaker 19 (01:25:05):
His parents, he told me, were really strict.

Speaker 26 (01:25:09):
It was also an inter racial relationship, so I think
he was a little nervous to introduce.

Speaker 18 (01:25:17):
Me and.

Speaker 19 (01:25:19):
Have different aspects that he wasn't used.

Speaker 13 (01:25:22):
To to introduce me to.

Speaker 19 (01:25:23):
But I also think like for him, he had trouble
with commitment, like I was looking to always define it
and he was like, oh, I feel like we're moving
to pass. But he was also older than me. He
was about sixty years older than me, so I'm like,
what do you mean, Like, how long do you think
you know you're looking for a commitment and how.

Speaker 18 (01:25:44):
Long do you think you would know?

Speaker 19 (01:25:45):
And I just felt like I was always making pieces
for him, like why he couldn't come out to meet
out with friends because we were always invited to things
that I would always show up by myself.

Speaker 4 (01:25:57):
Next not a relationship, I mean, well it is, it's
just not a very healthy one in my opinion. I mean,
and you obviously, after two years, realized that you deserve
better than that. So kaboom, you know, goodbye.

Speaker 1 (01:26:09):
Yeah, yeah, exactly.

Speaker 19 (01:26:11):
Now I'm now I'm in a new relationship and couldn't
be happier.

Speaker 1 (01:26:15):
Right away.

Speaker 19 (01:26:16):
He couldn't wait to introduce me to friends and family.
I'm like, to me, it was such a big deal,
but it was also bare minimum and it just made
me realize how easy it is to just be treated
respect and yes, there you.

Speaker 4 (01:26:29):
Go, all right, Well thank you Melissa, and best of
luck with your new fresh I know his friend's relationship.

Speaker 5 (01:26:37):
Thank you so much, guys.

Speaker 19 (01:26:38):
I love you guys so much.

Speaker 18 (01:26:39):
I hope you have a great day.

Speaker 13 (01:26:40):
Oh you too, hope you do too.

Speaker 3 (01:26:41):
And finally we talked to Shannon.

Speaker 6 (01:26:42):
Hi, Shannon, Hi, how are you guying? Doing very well?

Speaker 1 (01:26:46):
We're doing well.

Speaker 3 (01:26:47):
I don't want to speak for everyone. If you're not
doing well, speak now.

Speaker 22 (01:26:52):
So I totally think she should leave him. I mean,
I was in a relationship for four years. I got
engaged in December.

Speaker 18 (01:26:58):
It was by June.

Speaker 22 (01:27:01):
There were so many red flags. I wasn't allowed to
go out with the boys with him.

Speaker 1 (01:27:04):
He would go out all the time.

Speaker 22 (01:27:06):
When I asked, so can I come? No, I was
never allowed to come. I mean I did meet his
family and everything. I mean down the line, there was
some couple there, but uh, he was definitely a Mohamed's boy.
But honestly, I think that it's better off. She's better alone.
There's definitely some piss in this dating pool nowadays. I
think men are dogs, and you know, if they can't

(01:27:28):
bring you around their friends and show you your family,
like I don't understand, I don't see really anything happening there.

Speaker 3 (01:27:34):
There you go.

Speaker 4 (01:27:34):
You want someone that makes you feel secure and loved
and protected and you know and there's there should be
no doubt that they're that they're into you and they
want you to meet their family and friends.

Speaker 6 (01:27:45):
What's that, Danielle Sam did?

Speaker 7 (01:27:46):
She has she ever said hey, can I come out
with you? And the guys?

Speaker 5 (01:27:49):
Yeah, she's him.

Speaker 7 (01:27:51):
He has just said nope, I don't.

Speaker 5 (01:27:53):
He's not He's crafty. He hasn't said no. It's more like,
we'll make a plan. This one won't work, We'll get there.
And it's been a year of not getting which is
say no? What you just saying no?

Speaker 4 (01:28:01):
Basically exactly, Shannon sounds like you know exactly what it
is you want and exactly what it is you deserve.

Speaker 3 (01:28:09):
And I'm so happy that you that it's totally totally
totally uh you your walk in life?

Speaker 17 (01:28:15):
Right?

Speaker 13 (01:28:15):
I love that.

Speaker 7 (01:28:16):
I love that go for it exactly.

Speaker 23 (01:28:18):
Nobody should fight for love.

Speaker 22 (01:28:20):
It should be you know, given and taken and you
should give it in return.

Speaker 6 (01:28:24):
Amen.

Speaker 3 (01:28:25):
I love it all right, Shannon, thank you very much.
I appreciate your call.

Speaker 1 (01:28:28):
Thank you guys, we love you, love you.

Speaker 3 (01:28:31):
See there you go, So best of.

Speaker 6 (01:28:33):
Luck with your friend.

Speaker 17 (01:28:34):
I know.

Speaker 11 (01:28:34):
I think the bare basement of any relationship should be
at least making you feel better about yourself than you
would without them, whatever that.

Speaker 5 (01:28:40):
Means to you.

Speaker 4 (01:28:41):
So if it's not well, at least in dialogue you say, look,
you're making me feel like crap about myself because you
make me feel like there's something wrong, right, right, right,
You're not introducing me to your friends and your family.

Speaker 5 (01:28:50):
Now, if you think you deserve better, you probably do excellent.

Speaker 13 (01:28:53):
I agree.

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Speaker 5 (01:28:59):
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Speaker 9 (01:29:02):
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Speaker 3 (01:29:09):
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Speaker 1 (01:29:22):
Elvist Ran in the Morning Show, Elvis ter Ran in
the Morning Show.

Speaker 3 (01:29:29):
You know Scotty b years and years ago, appeared on
a couponing show. What was the name of the show
you were on? It was extreme coupony. Yes, extreme couponting.

Speaker 4 (01:29:39):
And they went into his basement and they did video
of his It looked like a doomsday.

Speaker 3 (01:29:46):
Basement.

Speaker 4 (01:29:46):
I mean, you had saved so much money on so
many products, and you were stocking up with shelves and
shelves in your basement.

Speaker 19 (01:29:53):
Right.

Speaker 25 (01:29:53):
Yes, for the show, I got four hundred and twenty
nine dollars in groceries and I paid fifteen dollars and
twenty nine cents and most of that was tax.

Speaker 1 (01:30:00):
Wow.

Speaker 11 (01:30:01):
Wow.

Speaker 4 (01:30:03):
Well, the other day, my girlfriend Diamond says, oh, please,
Scotty Bee is old school thinking with couponing. I am
modern day. I know how to do it today, that
you're twenty twenty two. So Diamond is convinced that she's
better at coupon than couponing than you.

Speaker 6 (01:30:22):
Diamond, do you really want to stand behind that?

Speaker 3 (01:30:24):
Do you really think that's true?

Speaker 23 (01:30:26):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (01:30:26):
I mean it.

Speaker 8 (01:30:27):
You know what makes me feel like I'm right? What's
that that he came here today and tried to change
the rules all over again. He's got nervous I.

Speaker 4 (01:30:36):
Gotta be honest, I'm not quite sure what these rules
are because I never came up with rules.

Speaker 3 (01:30:40):
What rules are there?

Speaker 25 (01:30:41):
The rules were, and you said it is, let's see
who can get who can come back with the least
amount of money or the most of money back.

Speaker 6 (01:30:48):
That's what you said.

Speaker 3 (01:30:49):
No, yes, least amount of money.

Speaker 25 (01:30:51):
Yeah, who can spend the least amount of money or
come back with the most cash back?

Speaker 3 (01:30:56):
Exactly? So in other words, you know, it's sort of whatever.

Speaker 4 (01:31:00):
My rule is this, whichever one of you impresses us
the most, and we will take a vote.

Speaker 3 (01:31:05):
You will win this couponting contest. Yes, scary.

Speaker 12 (01:31:09):
So we knew there was gonna be this argument. So
we went back and have Elvis's actual words.

Speaker 3 (01:31:14):
Seven seconds of setting the rules. Oh good, maybe I
said none of the above. We'll find out this is
not unusual for me.

Speaker 6 (01:31:21):
All right, you each get twenty dollars.

Speaker 3 (01:31:23):
One of them is going to either save the most
money or bring back more money getting cash back.

Speaker 4 (01:31:28):
Oh that was really the only rule. But you know,
Danielle and Gandhi, it's very important, Froggy Scary. It's important
that we vote for who we were most impressed by.

Speaker 7 (01:31:36):
I already tell you I'm calling sus on Diamond.

Speaker 5 (01:31:39):
Okay, yes, same here.

Speaker 3 (01:31:40):
Why are you calling suss on Diamond?

Speaker 5 (01:31:42):
Because give me a break.

Speaker 15 (01:31:43):
Look at the amount of stuff that she's got the
paper towels alone or toilet pair, whatever the hell it is,
is like twenty dollars.

Speaker 3 (01:31:50):
Give me a break, all right, right, Diamond.

Speaker 4 (01:31:52):
And for people who are driving can't see your hall,
would you please tell them everything you have on the table, just.

Speaker 13 (01:31:59):
As the navy.

Speaker 8 (01:32:00):
Okay, I want to start by saying that the paper
towel is a part of a deal that I had
to do just in case, because I know Scotty and
I knew that he would have other rules the day of.
So I have a separate deal that the paper towel
is a part of.

Speaker 4 (01:32:16):
Okay, Now this is getting all convol I'll tell you what. Okay,
So I guess we're ready. I don't even know what
you just what you said, I don't know what it means. Okay,
go right ahead.

Speaker 13 (01:32:27):
What do you have.

Speaker 3 (01:32:29):
The microphone?

Speaker 5 (01:32:30):
High?

Speaker 7 (01:32:31):
Okay?

Speaker 8 (01:32:31):
I have three fabric softeners okay, well kind shampoo and
condition that this is uh okay, yeah, optic white, two
optic white hoof pastes, I have a favorite, two Snuggies
dry sheets.

Speaker 17 (01:32:50):
I have.

Speaker 8 (01:32:52):
The Airwick essential oils, you know the plugins I have.
Then I have two for breeze plug in.

Speaker 3 (01:33:00):
Yeah, yeah, okay, your house is gonna smell great.

Speaker 1 (01:33:03):
It is.

Speaker 8 (01:33:04):
It smells great over here. If you want to smell
like nice, then I have three what is this baby wipes?
I have three toothbrushes.

Speaker 20 (01:33:14):
I have.

Speaker 8 (01:33:16):
Snuggle super Fresh fabric softener. Two of those no way,
a way razors, sentimate.

Speaker 3 (01:33:24):
Noors, keep going, keep going, and.

Speaker 8 (01:33:27):
Okay, we'll leave the other one on the side just
in case.

Speaker 4 (01:33:30):
Wow, she has a side gig going. All right, Okay,
that's a lot of stuff, but it means nothing until
we find.

Speaker 3 (01:33:35):
Out how you paid for it.

Speaker 8 (01:33:36):
Okay, would you like the total?

Speaker 3 (01:33:38):
Yes, the total for all that stuff was how much.

Speaker 5 (01:33:42):
For all of this on this table?

Speaker 8 (01:33:44):
Ninety three dollars and ninety three cents. Okay, and I
paid nineteen dollars and ten cents.

Speaker 6 (01:33:52):
No, no way, Wow, it's possible.

Speaker 3 (01:33:55):
Receipts absolutely as possible. She's got receipts, and.

Speaker 4 (01:34:00):
Say, okay, whatever, So you got ninety dollars worth of
stuff for under twenty dollars, is what you're saying. Yes, wow,
all right, the accounting firm of Nate is going to
take a look at your receipts, all right now, Okay,
you know what, if this is all true, I am
mighty impressed. Yeah, Diamond, Mary, And if it's not true, I'm.

Speaker 3 (01:34:19):
Still impressed because I love you. I believe it. It
can be done. All right, now, Scotty, comment on what
she is showing us, and then show us your haul.

Speaker 25 (01:34:28):
I am very impressed by Diamond. This is a friendly competition.
I'm so happy that she she did that. I'd have
done better with all that stuff.

Speaker 6 (01:34:34):
But she did great.

Speaker 3 (01:34:35):
Okay, that was kind of a slap anyway, I'm kidding.

Speaker 25 (01:34:38):
I think she did for a Novice couponer. I think
she did great. Okay, now what are you going on?

Speaker 13 (01:34:44):
All right?

Speaker 6 (01:34:44):
So for me, I got two bottles of for Breeze
air Effects.

Speaker 25 (01:34:48):
I got a bottle of hand sanitizer, some Luigi's Mango
Italian ices, the big box of Nature Valley biscuits, a
dozen of Vital farms or eggs, two boxes of Dove
ice cream bars, two bottles of Nifia body wash, and
a package of antibiotic surface wipes.

Speaker 4 (01:35:12):
Okay, by the way, I am impressed at Scotty's whole Hole.
Sorry tull his Scotty's Hall, because you can actually eat
some of his diamonds is all like stuff you you know,
you brush your teeth with and put.

Speaker 3 (01:35:24):
In your laundry.

Speaker 6 (01:35:26):
Yes, Diamond, I love you.

Speaker 3 (01:35:27):
I think you did great. But let's see what they think.

Speaker 8 (01:35:30):
I just want to bring up a point.

Speaker 3 (01:35:32):
Yea, the price is right, rave verse great, turn it off.

Speaker 6 (01:35:38):
Now what's that diamond?

Speaker 8 (01:35:39):
A few days ago I said that I was a
little nervous because the things that I was getting, the
thing like, the deals that I was getting were things
that I didn't actually use. And you all said, no,
get them anyway.

Speaker 3 (01:35:52):
That's fun here. No one said you did something bad.
You did great. This is not a fight, Diamond. All right,
she's being a little defensive.

Speaker 6 (01:36:00):
But that's you, all right.

Speaker 4 (01:36:01):
All right, So Scottie, all this stuff you just read
off to us. How much did it cost, how much
did you save?

Speaker 13 (01:36:07):
Whatever?

Speaker 6 (01:36:07):
First of all, here's your twenty dollars back.

Speaker 13 (01:36:10):
So you can have that.

Speaker 6 (01:36:11):
Oh my god, that was a smooth move. And I
got back eight dollars and eighty nine cents on top
of that.

Speaker 3 (01:36:18):
Oh my god, god, so you made money.

Speaker 13 (01:36:23):
I did.

Speaker 21 (01:36:24):
So.

Speaker 25 (01:36:24):
The actual retail price was fifty six dollars and eighty
two cents, right with sales and coupons that took off
fifty dollars and twenty one cent, so out of pocket
was six sixty one. I used I bought a cash
back to get eleven dollars and fifty cents back coupons.
Dot Com cash Back gave me four dollars right into
my PayPal account, so that leaves me with negative eight
dollars and eighty nine.

Speaker 6 (01:36:44):
Cents and plus plus.

Speaker 25 (01:36:45):
I used the Fetch app to get two hundred points
toward gift cards you promised for my five twenty nine
college account gave me sixty cents, and box Tops gave
twenty cents to the schools for the kids.

Speaker 3 (01:36:55):
Oh my god, Hello Diamond, he's helping out kids to
play this game.

Speaker 13 (01:37:02):
No, he made money.

Speaker 8 (01:37:03):
He told me that he wouldn't be using Ibota. He
told me he wouldn't be using Ibota, so I didn't
use ibod.

Speaker 13 (01:37:10):
You could do what you want.

Speaker 1 (01:37:11):
What is I, bottle guy? What's I?

Speaker 6 (01:37:16):
It's a cash back app?

Speaker 25 (01:37:17):
And I even gave her a referral link for Fetch
that she could have used and got more stuff back,
but you didn't use it.

Speaker 8 (01:37:22):
You told me, You told me using iybody would be cheating.
So I didn't use it.

Speaker 5 (01:37:25):
Do you know how much money I could have got back?

Speaker 13 (01:37:27):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (01:37:28):
Okay?

Speaker 6 (01:37:28):
Did anyone hear him say that to Diamond?

Speaker 3 (01:37:31):
Did anyone?

Speaker 5 (01:37:32):
I wasn't listening. I believe her.

Speaker 25 (01:37:34):
I didn't say it would be cheating. I just said
I don't normally use that. That's what I said. I
don't use that.

Speaker 13 (01:37:38):
But I Scotty gave you back your twenty dollars. He
made eight more dollars, and he still got all that stuff.

Speaker 3 (01:37:45):
He bought, like a drum for a kid in a
high school band.

Speaker 6 (01:37:48):
But it's all relative. Diamond got a lot of stuff
and it.

Speaker 3 (01:37:52):
Cost her a lot. All right? So a question, yes,
A GANDH. You help me sort through this? Yes?

Speaker 17 (01:37:57):
What?

Speaker 9 (01:37:58):
So let's let's settle the I bought a thing. How
much did you save with Ibata Scotty?

Speaker 6 (01:38:03):
Eleven dollars and fifty cents?

Speaker 7 (01:38:04):
Wow?

Speaker 9 (01:38:05):
Okay, So if we took that into consideration, then he
would have spent about three dollars on all of his stuff,
right right? Okay, And Diamond spent twenty dollars on all
that stuff. So now we have kind of more equal
footing if we're doing it that way.

Speaker 13 (01:38:18):
No, she could have used it.

Speaker 3 (01:38:19):
I didn't say don't use it.

Speaker 4 (01:38:20):
There were no okay even even if okay, let's say
maybe there was a misunderstanding, and obviously there is. And
she felt as if you said no, you cannot use
ibada and you so okay, you still come out ahead
money wise.

Speaker 3 (01:38:33):
Yeah, yeah, you know, No, Diamond, we cannot move.

Speaker 4 (01:38:39):
Forward without saying how impressive your take has been. I mean,
you've done very very well here.

Speaker 7 (01:38:44):
Well, thank you.

Speaker 8 (01:38:46):
I just also want to bring up the fact that
this is the second time today that he's changed the rules.
So I think I should be able to bring on
my extra bag, bring it because.

Speaker 4 (01:38:55):
Hold on, let me point something else out that you
guys haven't realized as far as saving money goes.

Speaker 3 (01:39:00):
She got ninety dollars worth of stuff for only a
nineteen dollars. Yeah, that's great.

Speaker 4 (01:39:06):
See the number, the amount of savings that she got,
I believe is more than what Scotty got if you
do the numbers.

Speaker 7 (01:39:14):
Well, now, isn't the rule the rule was who brings
back more money?

Speaker 8 (01:39:17):
There were no rules, Danielle, No, when we heard Elvis second,
the rule.

Speaker 4 (01:39:22):
The rule is whoever is most impressive. And Danielle, you
you will have to be the judge on that in
a second.

Speaker 6 (01:39:27):
I'm not looking for a win, you know.

Speaker 3 (01:39:29):
Now, what is this? What is this side hustle you're
working over here, Diamond, This I can't.

Speaker 8 (01:39:35):
About an hour ago, Scotti and Nate decided to tell
me that the rules were who could what was it,
who could bring back the most cash?

Speaker 6 (01:39:45):
That was what Elvis said in his Instagram.

Speaker 8 (01:39:47):
Okay, and if that's the case, then I have a
completely separate order.

Speaker 3 (01:39:52):
Oh what's this?

Speaker 10 (01:39:55):
What is this?

Speaker 8 (01:39:56):
Scott's toilet paper?

Speaker 7 (01:39:57):
Five dollars?

Speaker 3 (01:39:58):
Five dollars okay.

Speaker 8 (01:40:01):
To trust May Hair?

Speaker 23 (01:40:04):
What is this?

Speaker 8 (01:40:04):
Uh? Hair sprays?

Speaker 3 (01:40:06):
Okay, hair spray very good?

Speaker 8 (01:40:08):
Three cress Pro Health.

Speaker 13 (01:40:12):
To pas okay, you gotta have toothpaste for an army.

Speaker 6 (01:40:15):
I want to see the dates on all these receipts.

Speaker 8 (01:40:17):
Sure, gladly, Rammell, London Bronzer.

Speaker 7 (01:40:23):
Oh that's as good.

Speaker 3 (01:40:24):
No, where are we getting I'm not quite sure what's
going on.

Speaker 8 (01:40:27):
It's coming and then too?

Speaker 6 (01:40:30):
Okay, okay, what does this mean?

Speaker 3 (01:40:32):
Diamond?

Speaker 8 (01:40:33):
This all came to twenty one dollars and two cents.
And since we're using cash back, I used my Walgreens
cash and it only came to a dollar, but hold
two cents so I could give you your twenty bucks back.
Thank you.

Speaker 7 (01:40:47):
You can't get the twenty back if it came to.

Speaker 3 (01:40:48):
A dollar, okay, okay, no, no, no, you know what,
that's very impressive.

Speaker 4 (01:40:53):
I'm trying to so if we add that to what
you already did, essentially it's used to be just one
big thing.

Speaker 3 (01:41:00):
Right, What what did you just do? I'm a little confused.

Speaker 25 (01:41:03):
Well, what can I say something real quick? I'm sure
I want I drag it on. But I mean, she
that was money that she had stored for buying stuff.
You know a while ago. I could have got a
free turkey in a big box of Matza for free too,
because because I had spent one hundred dollars over the
last month, you know what I mean.

Speaker 8 (01:41:21):
I want to know how it's not true because I
got the twenty cash back from the two the three
Walgreens trips that I took up here.

Speaker 3 (01:41:29):
On this table.

Speaker 6 (01:41:29):
Congratulations time.

Speaker 4 (01:41:31):
So you're saying because of your original purchases, you it
bled over into new purchases from walkan this is what
you're saying. Yep, Okay, I think that's that's totally.

Speaker 13 (01:41:44):
Go ahead.

Speaker 15 (01:41:46):
I wish we could give out a couple of prizes
here because I feel like for effort, Diamond should win.

Speaker 7 (01:41:52):
I mean the amount of effort that went into what
she did. But I think overall, Scottie.

Speaker 15 (01:41:58):
Wins because he did what the game said, and that
was to bring back the most money or save them
you know.

Speaker 6 (01:42:04):
Tough numbers.

Speaker 5 (01:42:05):
Yeah, impressed.

Speaker 3 (01:42:06):
So it's kind of like, you know, well, so it's like,
go ahead, Gandhi.

Speaker 9 (01:42:10):
No, it's like it's like a Miss America pageant where
one of them is super beautiful but the other one
has an incredible.

Speaker 5 (01:42:15):
Talent, and now we're like, oh, which one's.

Speaker 13 (01:42:20):
Wits Gondy, go ahead, tell us which?

Speaker 4 (01:42:22):
All right, I'm gonna go ahead and ask for votes
who is most impressive? And keep in mind that Diamond's
numbers did change at the end, and I think the
way she did it should be acceptable. And if it's
all a part of like this shopping spree that she did,
it wasn't like she was accumulating these Walgreens numbers over

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years and years and years.

Speaker 3 (01:42:44):
She did it. Buying the other stuff is a part
of this competition.

Speaker 14 (01:42:47):
Does that make sense?

Speaker 6 (01:42:49):
Yes?

Speaker 12 (01:42:50):
Okay, Diamond's surprise box at the end put her over
the edge.

Speaker 3 (01:42:54):
There you go.

Speaker 7 (01:42:55):
Her box is very surprising.

Speaker 21 (01:42:57):
It is.

Speaker 4 (01:42:57):
Now that said, let's take a vote, Froggy, who are
who is most impressive?

Speaker 3 (01:43:03):
Diamond or Scotty Bee.

Speaker 13 (01:43:05):
I'm gonna go with Scotty Bee in this case. I
think Scotty. The fact that because the fact that they
have a negative number at the end, the fact that
he basically got all these items, gave you back your
twenty bucks and then made almost nine dollars, that's pretty impressive.

Speaker 3 (01:43:18):
All right, Scotty Bee, All right? What about you? Gandhi?

Speaker 9 (01:43:23):
This is really difficult because I would like it to
be a tie because the rules were not clear. But
I gotta say I was so impressed by what Diamond
has on her table that I thought she was lying.
So I might have to lean into Diamond because there's
just so much stuff there.

Speaker 13 (01:43:37):
There is a lot of stuff.

Speaker 15 (01:43:38):
I'm still not convinced she's not lying, Diamond, but you know,
she keeps waiting her seats, so.

Speaker 3 (01:43:46):
Lying going on? Maybe it's just it's just it's a
it's a creative accounting.

Speaker 13 (01:43:50):
Oh okay, that's right, fraud say that.

Speaker 6 (01:43:56):
What about you?

Speaker 12 (01:43:58):
Well, you know, Scotty's been at this for years, and
if we're asking the question, who's more impressive, Yes, Scotty
doesn't impress me much these days because he's been doing
it for twenty five damn.

Speaker 6 (01:44:07):
So I do think that.

Speaker 14 (01:44:07):
Diamond, in my opinion, is more impressive, came Rodeo.

Speaker 4 (01:44:12):
It's like it's like Dancing with the stars, where they
start and how they ended up. Wow, what an impressive
impressive learning curve here, Danielle.

Speaker 15 (01:44:21):
All right, So, I, like I said, I wish we
could give two prizes out because Diamond I feel like,
put in so much effort it's crazy and it's awesome.
But the amount of resources that Scotty has found that
have saved him money and actually paid him to shop,
he has been paid to shop, is insane. And so
my vote has to go to Scotty.

Speaker 13 (01:44:42):
Thank you.

Speaker 3 (01:44:42):
Okay, Well we are in a tie, right man, Wow.

Speaker 5 (01:44:46):
Tie, we should make them arm wrestle. Diamond will definitely win.

Speaker 4 (01:44:49):
Will, yes, you will, I think, Nate. I have to
ask your opinion here. We got to get your vote. Well,
I was going according to speaking to the microphone.

Speaker 10 (01:44:58):
Ken, I was doing according to receipts all this, and
I was doing some number crunching and you know, at
first we were thinking Diamond was cheating because she had
such a copious amount of stuff.

Speaker 3 (01:45:08):
But no, these receipts are accurate.

Speaker 10 (01:45:10):
So because I'm going according to the numbers, I do
have to give Scotty be the slight advantage because of
the numbers, right, his technically came out ahead, including the
fact that he said he could have gotten a free turkey.

Speaker 4 (01:45:22):
In a box of matza for pre So I am
you cannot. You cannot roll that in as a part
of your decision.

Speaker 13 (01:45:28):
So I still kind of give the itge to Scotty
here tally, technically, didn't Diamond spend more than twenty bucks
because it was nineteen in change and then a dollar
in change?

Speaker 8 (01:45:38):
Why I didn't that in the original order. But if
you want to change the rules, and that's.

Speaker 3 (01:45:41):
My separate.

Speaker 13 (01:45:45):
I'm so confused.

Speaker 7 (01:45:47):
Well, okay, she's hustling, that's for sure.

Speaker 4 (01:45:49):
Well then, okay, so that means Scott has a slight
advantage because of Nate's vote.

Speaker 3 (01:45:55):
Unfortunately, I'm gonna have to vote for Diamonds. So we're
at a tie here.

Speaker 25 (01:45:59):
Well, you know what, I will the tie and vote
for Diamond because I think she was great.

Speaker 6 (01:46:05):
Well, no, she was great. That's my point, Diamond.

Speaker 3 (01:46:08):
Diamond walked into this saying she knew everything about it,
and we all know she didn't know squat about.

Speaker 13 (01:46:13):
Any of it.

Speaker 4 (01:46:15):
And she Diamond, I think you did a beautiful job.
And Scotty Bee, I just you're just on an autopilot.
This is this is like second nature to you.

Speaker 15 (01:46:22):
I feel like I see a podcast here where you
take Diamond under your wing and teach her everything you know,
and she comes back each week and uses your tricks
of the trade, and you can teach.

Speaker 7 (01:46:32):
So many people, so many cool things about shopping.

Speaker 6 (01:46:34):
I mean, she could teach me something. Look at all
she got. That's great.

Speaker 5 (01:46:37):
She got a lot too gracious. It's a little annoying.

Speaker 4 (01:46:41):
So if you have a tie here, Diamond is being
a very bitter, bitter type type and Scotty seems kind
to take the higher road. Other than that, I think
it's a lot of fun. Diamond, We love you, you
did fabulous. Congratulations. Scotty Bee is always a blue ribbon performance.

Speaker 5 (01:46:58):
Thank you, good job.

Speaker 6 (01:46:59):
Get that.

Speaker 19 (01:47:02):
Oh no, we gotta go.

Speaker 1 (01:47:05):
Elvis Duran in the Morning Show, Elvis Ter, Elvis Duran
in the Morning Show.

Speaker 3 (01:47:20):
Hey for what it's worth listening to your favorite music
can reduce pain. This was a story that was out yesterday.
Did you read this, Kandhi?

Speaker 7 (01:47:29):
I believe it.

Speaker 4 (01:47:30):
Yeah, if you're listening to your favorite music, it might
be beneficial. It might be beneficial to your health after all.
And I would think, why are we just now learning this,
because we've known for a fact that people who live
happier lives, live longer and are healthier. And even the
best of medical doctors will tell you it goes beyond medicine.

(01:47:51):
It has to do with your outlook on life, your positivity,
the people you surround yourself.

Speaker 3 (01:47:56):
With, and then you know, exercising and eating well from
time to time. I'm not smoking.

Speaker 4 (01:48:00):
There's a whole list, right, Yeah, and then none of
the all of that can be achieved without going to
a doctor's office. But listening to your favorite music, it's
surely it's the same as being happy, right, I mean,
the pheromones or whatever.

Speaker 3 (01:48:14):
I don't know, I totally agree.

Speaker 9 (01:48:16):
I mean, I know this sounds very silly, but they
say that even if you're in a bad mood and
you start singing your favorite songs, that that's supposed to
help you get better. Not just because one it's your
favorite song and you like to hear it, it elicits
good emotion, but because of the airflow while you're breathing
and singing, it's supposed to be very good for you.

Speaker 13 (01:48:32):
Well, there is that.

Speaker 3 (01:48:33):
See we were talking about that special that's on and
I think it's Netflix. I don't know.

Speaker 4 (01:48:37):
It's called one hundred Years Blue Zones. People that live
in these blue zones around the world who are living
on average, much older lives than the rest of us.
And he went to this one village somewhere and look
at me. All the details were missing, and I think
it was in Greece actually, And these people in this
village and the friends and the families, they get together

(01:48:58):
almost every night or every other night, and they party and.

Speaker 3 (01:49:01):
They dance and they have a little wine and they.

Speaker 4 (01:49:04):
Laugh, and they live much longer lives than the rest
of us. He's like, they don't exercise, but he was
showing them dancing around the campfire.

Speaker 3 (01:49:14):
They were exercising.

Speaker 5 (01:49:15):
They're getting there.

Speaker 6 (01:49:16):
Yeah, they're getting their cardio through dancing.

Speaker 4 (01:49:18):
And and you know, I just when you say, hey,
if you sing your favorite song, it also includes you know,
airflow and oxygen going to your brain because you're breathing
and singing.

Speaker 3 (01:49:29):
It all makes sense.

Speaker 4 (01:49:30):
Doing the things that make you happy at the moment
are doing much more to your body in a positive
way than you'll ever ever realize.

Speaker 3 (01:49:37):
Right, yeah, they say here, you.

Speaker 4 (01:49:41):
Know how if you go to the doctor and you're
feeling pain, he'll say, okay, the pain you have in
your arm the scale of zero to ten, where is it?
And you give him a number? So that's I'm assuming
how they did it. Scientists found that pain was not
just reduced, but strongly reduced among participants if they were
listening to some of their favorite music. They're saying, it
was a very noticeable, noticeable difference.

Speaker 13 (01:50:04):
Right.

Speaker 4 (01:50:06):
My mother, who was living with an awful, awful, awful
life of dementia. Near the end of her days, of course,
she just couldn't remember anything, and every once in a
while she would become a little lucid than not. We
would play music from her from her earlier years. You
put on some Tony Bennett, she would light up and

(01:50:28):
she would sing all the words. And it really shows
you how music leaves a deep footprint in your heart
and in your brain because of the emotions you felt
when you first heard that song that you love I
mean bad example Rio by Duran Duran.

Speaker 7 (01:50:43):
Example.

Speaker 3 (01:50:43):
I know it is for you.

Speaker 4 (01:50:45):
It is because for some reason, and you can't even
explain why, when you hear that song, it makes you
happy and you don't have to explain.

Speaker 7 (01:50:50):
No, it just makes me happy.

Speaker 15 (01:50:52):
It's like a feeling of freedom song, like you know
you can dance around on a beach and have a
good time.

Speaker 7 (01:50:57):
That's how I feel.

Speaker 4 (01:50:58):
So we could do a show where we don't play
any music at all, but you know, for several reasons
we do.

Speaker 3 (01:51:04):
Now I know another reason for your health.

Speaker 4 (01:51:06):
Yes, and so we have time to go pee yah right,
and then we can do all the off color, off
color jokes that HR would have us fired over while
the song's playing.

Speaker 3 (01:51:16):
We're saving you from that. Music is helping us, uh
maintain a career as well.

Speaker 13 (01:51:21):
Music.

Speaker 3 (01:51:21):
We love music, you music, So there you have it.

Speaker 4 (01:51:25):
I was also reading today about birthdays. We've known this,
especially during PMIC pandemic. They're saying that blowing out candles
on a cake is just the most disgusting thing you
can do. It's more disgusting than we thought. Really, the
amounts of bacteria flying onto your birthday cake. Not only

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does the cake get a spray of froggy saliva, but
the cakes already iced with a layer of bacteria.

Speaker 3 (01:51:53):
And they how do you do it any other way?

Speaker 13 (01:51:59):
Or you can also well, you can cut a piece
off and put it on a plate and just put
a handle on that one.

Speaker 3 (01:52:08):
They're not saying. They're saying it's not terribly high risk
in most cases, but it does. It will spread diseases
if someone in your birthday group has a disease.

Speaker 15 (01:52:18):
I even know, if someone's getting ready to come down
with something like you could be fine today, tomorrow you
could be sick.

Speaker 3 (01:52:24):
You know exactly, they already have it.

Speaker 13 (01:52:26):
So there you go.

Speaker 3 (01:52:27):
Music is keeping us alive longer, and birthday cakes are
killing us. I thought I would just give you the.

Speaker 1 (01:52:35):
Who chooses to get up at morning Elvister rand in
the Morning Show.

Speaker 3 (01:52:43):
All right, show's done. We'll come back tomorrow and do
it again. Till next time. Say peace out, everybody, put
everybody