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Speaker 1 (00:00):
More of this program we're pre recorded exciting.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
There's a wonderful and exciting world out there when we
discover that we don't need TV.

Speaker 3 (00:09):
To entertain us, She's said as Elister Ran in the
Morning Show, we're here talking with Froggy's beautiful, wonderful best
friend wife, Lisa. Hi, Lisa, Hi, Good morning.

Speaker 4 (00:26):
So a conversation came up with Froggy and me Lisa.

Speaker 3 (00:29):
We're talking about loving ourselves, like how do we treat
each other? How do we treat ourselves? Are we treating
ourselves as lovingly as we do our friends? And sometimes?
Froggy says that Lisa definitely treats everyone like the kings
and queens that they are in her life, but she
doesn't treat herself like that. Is that right?

Speaker 5 (00:47):
Yep, Yep, you're exactly right.

Speaker 6 (00:48):
I see the way that she uplifts other people and
goes out of her way to make everybody else's day
around her better. But then I see the way that
she talks to herself, see the way that she looks
at herself, and the way that she thinks and feels
about ourself, and it drives me crazy.

Speaker 4 (01:03):
How do you feel about that?

Speaker 7 (01:03):
Don't be true, it's correct. I mean, I am very
critical of myself. I'm never happy on how I look, ever,
whether it's my weight, or if it's my nose, or
if it's anything the clothes I wear, And then my
motivation's just off. I just feel like I can't do anything.
I can't I couldn't get that job. I'm not qualified

(01:23):
when probably I am so.

Speaker 8 (01:25):
I mean, I've been like.

Speaker 7 (01:26):
This all my life, but I do enjoy lifting others me.

Speaker 3 (01:29):
You do a great job. But I got to say
something I don't think in my opinion. Keep in mind,
I'm not a trained psychologist whatever. You know how we
always talk about the most hateful people in life are
that way because they hate themselves. You see, here's what
I believe about you, Lisa, and anyone else that's feeling
like you that really kind of slices themselves in half
as much as they can. I think you do love yourself,

(01:52):
because I don't think that you would be treating all
of us.

Speaker 4 (01:54):
This well if you hated yourself. So what's the deal.

Speaker 3 (01:58):
I truly believe that there is a chance you have
a wall around your heart. It's refusing you to see
how great of a person you really are, and you're
not making You're not loving yourself more than other people,
and you're not. You need to make yourself the superstar
of your life. You really should.

Speaker 8 (02:15):
You right, You're right about that wall.

Speaker 4 (02:17):
You are the most It's true you do love yourself.

Speaker 5 (02:20):
We have to.

Speaker 3 (02:21):
We have to make that connection, though you have to
find a way to do it. You are and need
to be the most important person in your life. I
really truly think.

Speaker 6 (02:28):
That, and it sounds so simple because I always say
to her, I wish she could see what I see.
I wish she could see the person that I look
at and the person that I live with. I mean,
I can tell you that I would never have made
it to where I am now without her caring for
me every single day and making sure that everything was right.
And I've seen her do that for many people. And
I wish she saw what I saw when I looked

(02:49):
at her. And I don't know how to snap my
fingers or turn that switch and make it happen.

Speaker 4 (02:55):
And Daniel, you're you're her best friend.

Speaker 9 (02:57):
She It's so funny.

Speaker 10 (02:58):
She is the first one when like I'm having a
She'll text me you need to talk, you need to talk,
or even if I'm like down on myself or down
on something else, she will smack my face over the
phone and get me right back up.

Speaker 11 (03:11):
And that's what I need.

Speaker 10 (03:12):
A lot of times, you know. And she's just amazing
at it, and she's such an amazing person and she
needs to say that has to see that.

Speaker 3 (03:19):
So Lisa a question what Danielle is describing. Are you
great at doing that for other people? I mean, think
about it. If you could give yourself a grade of
ten being the best at lifting other people up and
making them feel good about themselves, how well do you
do How great do you do it?

Speaker 8 (03:33):
That I would think of ten?

Speaker 7 (03:35):
And I yeah, definitely, you know how I see it
and I you're right, And I see it on social
media a lot because I post a lot of motivational
things and I get a lot of direct messages of
people thanking me. And you have no idea I needed
this today and I'm going through this right now, and
you're so great and keep posting, and I mean that helps.
That's really really nice. That's when I know that I'm
doing something right.

Speaker 3 (03:55):
What about your dark side? What are some things about
you that no really truly? What are things about you
that you you wish were different.

Speaker 7 (04:03):
I just as far as my self esteem is just crap.
I wish I felt better physically about myself. I wish
I didn't worry about wait all the time, and oh
what do you you know? You can't eat that or
you can wear that. You couldn't do this, you couldn't
get this job. I mean, I just, I just I
just beat myself down and I shouldn't be like that.
I used to have some type of small confidence somewhere,

(04:25):
but nothing ever on a large scale. I don't take selfies,
I don't do any of that stuff.

Speaker 8 (04:29):
I'm just not. I'm just it's just not me.

Speaker 3 (04:32):
I don't know, you know what, I'll wash you something.

Speaker 4 (04:33):
But you know what, you're not lacking anything. You've got it.

Speaker 3 (04:36):
You have everything you need to live the greatest life.
It's already in there. You just got to uncover it.
You know what I learned a long time ago is
everything as far as I go, that's dark to me,
my dark side, the things that I didn't like. I
just learned to turn it around and embrace those things.
And I know it's easier said than done. I do have.

Speaker 1 (04:59):
In the morning show, who are they hurting?

Speaker 4 (05:01):
You know, I'm living a great life.

Speaker 3 (05:03):
I really do think we all need to do a
better job at embracing the things about us that are
not perfect.

Speaker 10 (05:09):
I think a lot of times we notice these things too,
and other people don't even notice them, like the fat
thighs or the you know whatever, and people are like,
what are you even talking about?

Speaker 9 (05:17):
Like nobody notices that, you know, they don't, right.

Speaker 7 (05:20):
I know, And that's so funny you said that, because
I'm so insecure about my nose. I can't even I
never ever ever take pictures from the side ever. And
I've been that way all my life. And Scott's my
husband's like, oh, you know, I wouldn't even notice. A
lot of people are like that, I don't see anything,
and I'm like, we don't talking, and no.

Speaker 3 (05:36):
Matter how much we tell you that, you're not gonna
believe us. But you know what, So therefore, if when
you just come to accept the fact that you don't
like your nose, it doesn't matter what we think.

Speaker 4 (05:45):
You don't like your nose, then go with it.

Speaker 3 (05:49):
Don't like it, I mean, just but understand it makes
you unique, and understand it's not the most important. It's
not even in the top one thousand things about me
that are most important.

Speaker 5 (05:57):
You know, right, nobody sees it but you, all.

Speaker 8 (06:00):
Right, and I let it take over.

Speaker 7 (06:01):
It's like it takes over my life, like oh, look
in the mirror, look at that thing again, or look
at this. You know you can't get in these shorts,
so you can't. And I don't want to feel like that.
And you're right, I need the connection. I'm missing a connection,
just something in the middle that can just so I
finally can take that, just that breath of fresh air
and just say I can do this. I can overcome it.
I think if I would live a whole lot happier.
I think I just I don't know.

Speaker 3 (06:23):
It's going to hit you one day and you're going
to go, oh my god, I do love me. But
until then, you know, you have to find these little ways,
these little tricks. Think about all the things that have
happened into your life. I mean things that I don't
want you to talk about here. This is an inner conversation.
Any abuse, anything that was that came across that was
so just mind blowing and bad and difficult to deal with.

(06:44):
From when you're a kid all the way up to
when your husband you know, was in the room of
surgery with his head open. You know, those things do
affect you, Okay, So add on top of those things
the fact that you don't like your nose and the
whole list of things. But I do think you love you.
I really truly think.

Speaker 9 (07:01):
You're the one.

Speaker 3 (07:02):
You love it, Lisa.

Speaker 10 (07:03):
And she's the one who told me, Oh, you're gonna
get to a certain as, Danielle, that you're not gonna
give up. You're gonna tell everyone whatever.

Speaker 3 (07:10):
You know, Danielle, She's obviously not at that age because
she's still giving him.

Speaker 4 (07:14):
So yeah, you know, Lisa, you use that I'm.

Speaker 3 (07:16):
Older than you, and when you're near my age, you're
not gonna give a crap about anyone. You're obviously not there.
Because when you do get to that age, this is
something to look forward to. When you get to that
age in life where you don't give a crap about
the things that aren't important, that's exactly.

Speaker 4 (07:29):
When you're gonna really understand how much you love yourself.

Speaker 3 (07:31):
So maybe the key is we need to we need
to peel away all these things that we really shouldn't
be fretting about.

Speaker 7 (07:38):
Yeah, that's that's a good way to put it, actually
peeling it away for sure.

Speaker 3 (07:41):
Don't even start with yourself. Just talk talk about the
you know, people say rude things. Let it go or
jack ascid. You gotta you gotta drive away from it.
What's up frog?

Speaker 9 (07:50):
You know?

Speaker 6 (07:50):
Lisa always says that because I didn't know her when
she was, you know, much much younger. She always says
that she in her group of friends, she was the
one that never had a boyfriend. Everybody else had a boyfriend.

Speaker 8 (08:00):
Oh yeah, I was the fat friend. I was the
Oh look she's so nice. So for years years that
was me.

Speaker 7 (08:08):
But if you liked me, boy, if you give me
even like not even liked me, gave me an.

Speaker 8 (08:11):
Ounce of attention.

Speaker 7 (08:13):
I was like, oh, I think he likes me. But
and then things never panned out. It should have panned out,
but that was many a times.

Speaker 4 (08:22):
You're a lovely, lovely person.

Speaker 3 (08:23):
And we could sit here and just scream that out
loud from the mountaintops as much as we want. But
until you start to see it, it's not going to matter.
But I do think you love yourself. Jess is online
twenty four. She feels the same way as you. You're
not alone.

Speaker 4 (08:36):
There are a lot of people who feel this way.

Speaker 3 (08:37):
You love making people feel better, right, Jess, But you
feel the same way about yourself. It's like, eh, oh
so much.

Speaker 12 (08:42):
I absolutely do.

Speaker 13 (08:44):
And Lisa, you are fabulous, and don't don't you ever
let yourself feel that that's not the case.

Speaker 8 (08:49):
Oh my god, that's so nice.

Speaker 13 (08:51):
That's what's inside and out.

Speaker 8 (08:54):
Oh thank you, that's so nice. I'm trying.

Speaker 3 (08:58):
I'm trying, keep trying embrace your dark stuff and embrace
the bad side. You're gonna just recognize it's there. Hi, Jess,
thank you for listening. Amy Online twenty three, Hey, Amy,
what's going on?

Speaker 14 (09:13):
Hi know much so are you?

Speaker 3 (09:15):
We're doing well. You know, we're just talking to our
best friend Lisa and everyone else who's in ther same situation.
What's up with you? Amy?

Speaker 15 (09:23):
Nothing. I was just listening to what Lisa was saying.
And I feel like a lot of times it's easy
to identify something and help others with issues that we
see in ourselves with the help that we wish we
could receive.

Speaker 3 (09:38):
Well, Hey, talk to her, make her feel better. Talk
to her, Lisa, as if you be talking to yourself,
because she's talking about the same thing you're going through.
I mean, what do you want to tell someone who
feels like crap about themselves but they are very loving
to other people.

Speaker 7 (09:52):
Well, I would start with the whole we're thankful for
this life, and you have to just kind of embrace that,
and you have to embrace who you are and to
the point, like Danielle said, I do feel like I
don't want to care what anybody else thinks, and we
really and it's a tough time right now, but yeah,
you have to, like Elvis said, you got to learn
to love yourself. I mean, this is this is our
only life, this is it.

Speaker 3 (10:13):
There's a way to love yourself, Amy, Jess Froggy, Danielle, Lisa.
You can't love yourself till you know yourself. And that's
a very very very important thing to remember. You could
be a walking mystery. You may not even know yourself
at all. There are probably friends of yours that know
you better than you know yourself. How many of us

(10:34):
have had friends tell us that, oh, I know you
better than you know yourself. Yeah, yeah, maybe it's true
because there are things in our lives about us, Amy
that we don't like, so we don't want to know it.
So you get you have to get to know yourself
before you can like yourself and then love yourself.

Speaker 7 (10:48):
And surround yourself by people that will uplift you, because
I mean, at least that's a that's a road that
helps for sure. I mean, I have everybody that tells
me and it's so nice. I just have to accept
it myself.

Speaker 14 (11:00):
It's easier to help others than it is to help yourself.

Speaker 4 (11:02):
It is to know yourself.

Speaker 10 (11:05):
Many times, if you said or given someone advice because
I know I do it, and I go.

Speaker 3 (11:09):
Dude, did that just come out of my mouth?

Speaker 9 (11:11):
Dude, that's good advice? I wish I think of myself.

Speaker 3 (11:15):
You're a freaking genius.

Speaker 4 (11:16):
What's scary?

Speaker 16 (11:17):
I really think it has a lot to do with
the circle of friends that you keep around you, because
earlier in life, when I was feeling down in the dumps,
I was with with the wrong crew of people, and
I got myself out of that crew, and now I
have people that are uplifting in my world and all
the toxicity is gone except for maybe a couple of
friends that are just like whatever. But like, I do

(11:39):
believe that part of it. I'm thinking of like that
scene in The Lion king or something. When they raise
they raise up the baby. It's like your friends are
the ones raising you up.

Speaker 3 (11:48):
You are baby Simba making you feel good and that's
You're right though, But that's only a part of it.
Because we know Lisa she is surrounded by very positive people.
So anyway, Amy, thank you for your call. I hope
you have the day ever, and thank you for being
a part of our show. We appreciate you.

Speaker 7 (12:02):
We appreciate just fine you and you you're fabulous, Lisa.

Speaker 4 (12:08):
Get to know get to know yourself.

Speaker 3 (12:09):
Sometimes it's frightening to learn the truth about us, about ourselves.
It is, but you got to do it, and then
you have to embrace it. We love you.

Speaker 6 (12:17):
What if we did it more? You think that would
help you feel better about I'm just trying to help
you guys.

Speaker 3 (12:27):
Yeah, yeah, I think if you would ob sex with
your husband more, that could solve all these problems.

Speaker 8 (12:33):
Yeah, that'll do it right there.

Speaker 3 (12:36):
Let's let's all every single person listening, every single person
on the show today, learn something new about yourself. And
it may be frightening, it may be a downer, it
may be fantastic, but you need to get to know
yourself a little better.

Speaker 4 (12:51):
All right, we got to move on. We love you, Lisa.

Speaker 8 (12:53):
We'll talk to you guys. Thank you so much.

Speaker 17 (12:55):
Have a beautiful day in the morning show.

Speaker 3 (13:08):
Our friend Jamie is here. Can we just san we
talk about this?

Speaker 9 (13:11):
Yeah, we can today.

Speaker 3 (13:13):
Jamie has been at light FM down the hall for
what thirteen years? Yep, just about and Jamie's been on
our show several times. We've talked about the dating world
and how you're out there looking for that guy because
you want to start a family.

Speaker 9 (13:28):
You know, I do you want to start a family?

Speaker 3 (13:30):
Yes, of late, you've been through a couple of health things,
which you know. Okay, so we heard the other day
Jamie has made a decision. Tell everyone the decision you made.
You made And it was announced just a day ago
to I.

Speaker 18 (13:42):
Literally quit my job, like just walked in there and
did it.

Speaker 11 (13:49):
I love it. I'm so proud of you.

Speaker 3 (13:51):
There was no tweek notice.

Speaker 9 (13:53):
I didn't even know how this worked.

Speaker 18 (13:54):
I went into my boss's office and I just told
him the truth. I've been having some health issues and
I need to get my plate, get myself in a
better space. And I did three rounds of IVF last
year and I turned forty in May, and I want
a family, and unfortunately this environment for me anymore, for

(14:14):
my health and wanting a family is not the space
for me anymore. And I have family here and I
loved it, and I loved all my time here and
I'm blessed and grateful for it. But it's time for
me to now go to the next chapter of my life,
which is going to set me up for the rest
of my life.

Speaker 4 (14:28):
And there you good.

Speaker 11 (14:30):
Yeah, scary, but I did it.

Speaker 3 (14:32):
The reason why I'm so grateful that you came in
to share this with our listeners because all a Mega
Tona listeners are going through the same thing. Yeah, they're
trying to find the answers in life and they're just
in a spot that doesn't allow them to see clearly
and find that path they need to be on.

Speaker 18 (14:49):
And I get that, Like I was paralyzed in fear
for over making a decision like this, Where am I
going to go?

Speaker 9 (14:55):
Because I don't have something lined up?

Speaker 19 (14:56):
Now?

Speaker 9 (14:56):
How am I going to pay for things? What am
I going to do? And then the fear of not.

Speaker 18 (15:01):
Having a family was scarier than the fear of just
jumping out of the airplane going universe catch me and
that's what I did. And I'm a little bit shaky,
but I know the universe is going to have my
back and I will land in a place where I'm
supposed to be and have my family one day that
I so desperately want to have there. You go, yeah,
so be brief, just do it. Sometimes you just have
to jump.

Speaker 9 (15:21):
Rip the band aid off, j jump.

Speaker 3 (15:23):
Let's talk about Let's talk about courage.

Speaker 4 (15:26):
That's it.

Speaker 8 (15:26):
Yep.

Speaker 4 (15:27):
And a lot of people listening right.

Speaker 3 (15:29):
Now are going, God, I want that courage. What was it?
Was it any one thing or just a collection of
things that made you go, Okay, I'm pushing the button today.

Speaker 9 (15:40):
A collection of things.

Speaker 12 (15:41):
Really.

Speaker 18 (15:41):
My health was just after the twenty one years of
these hours, it's really rough on the body. And then
I spent so much of my money on IVF last
year and that put my body through a lot. And
I just looked back and thought, I didn't do all
this to go never mind. And when that door closes
for a woman, that's that's it.

Speaker 9 (16:01):
So I was.

Speaker 18 (16:01):
I decided, I'm finding him, I'm having those babies, and
I have to leave. And I just pulled the trigger
and I did it.

Speaker 3 (16:08):
Wow.

Speaker 11 (16:09):
Wow, I love this for you.

Speaker 18 (16:10):
Yeah yeah, I mean you've known me forever. It's like,
it's just it's something I've always wanted.

Speaker 20 (16:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (16:15):
You guys have known each other since before you came here, right, yeah.

Speaker 11 (16:18):
Yeah, so in Boston, Yeah, yeah, I met her.

Speaker 4 (16:21):
You were talking about this plan back then.

Speaker 18 (16:23):
Yeah. And I know not everybody wants kids. It's a
very personal desension. But for me, it's just too important
to wake up one day and I'm my windows shut,
like that can't be me.

Speaker 9 (16:34):
I have to just do it now.

Speaker 3 (16:36):
Good for you? Yeah, but you know, it may not
be kids, it mayn't be found. It may be a
rainbow of reasons why.

Speaker 4 (16:43):
Yeah, someone is listening to other things.

Speaker 9 (16:45):
It doesn't have to be that.

Speaker 3 (16:46):
I have to get the courage to do it. And
you are you're jumping out of the plane with no shoot,
oh yes I did.

Speaker 4 (16:52):
But you know what, Okay, it's all good.

Speaker 8 (16:54):
It's all good.

Speaker 9 (16:55):
It's all good. I feel really good. I feel good.

Speaker 3 (16:57):
Well, do you vacillate with your feeling a little bit,
Like one minute you're a little frightened, the next minute
you're like, so you feel relief, and.

Speaker 18 (17:03):
It's like a base excitement because I know that great
things are going to come my way.

Speaker 10 (17:07):
And you're so talented, you have so many you know
things you can think, you know other places of employment.

Speaker 18 (17:13):
Yeah, so I full disclosure. I jumped without having a
backup plan. And sometimes you just have to do that too,
You just I will land somewhere. And but if I
didn't jump, I wouldn't have done I would never have
done it if I kept thinking about it.

Speaker 4 (17:26):
You know who could be after you? Who's next in
line for this? This is very important.

Speaker 3 (17:30):
So when we know who is ready for a family,
ready just to quit this job?

Speaker 16 (17:37):
Oh yeah, plane until the plane comes to a safe land,
dropped and.

Speaker 11 (17:47):
We crashed. She's going down with the plan.

Speaker 3 (17:49):
He's ready for a family. He's ready to get out
of here. He doesn't like this job. It doesn't like
anything it brings.

Speaker 9 (17:56):
Yeah, we're kind of the opposite, but I still love you.

Speaker 3 (17:58):
Scary Okay, So what do you you know Jamie? For
a year?

Speaker 4 (18:01):
We all have, But what are your feelings about what
she's doing here?

Speaker 16 (18:04):
I almost cried for you yesterday and you told me
in the garage and we hugged it out because honestly,
you I know how long you've wanted all this and
there's no way that any of that could really happen
with the hours that you keep, the demands of your job,
distresses and the struggles. So I for one, am very happy.
And I got to say, I'm super proud of you.
You're a stronger person than me because you actually you're

(18:25):
taking a leap of faith here.

Speaker 8 (18:27):
Thank you.

Speaker 9 (18:27):
I appreciate you.

Speaker 18 (18:27):
Do you want us to solicit for like a gom Yes,
Farmer's Only? So I mean, I'm ready.

Speaker 11 (18:38):
She has Farmers Only?

Speaker 3 (18:42):
Who is Candace High? Candace Hi? You did the same
exact thing back in May that Jamie's doing right now.

Speaker 9 (18:50):
I did, and I'm.

Speaker 21 (18:51):
So proud of you, Jamie, Like it's so scary, take
the leap. I'm so proud of you. I got out
of a toxic work environment. It was best for my
mental health. I have a ten year old son. I said,
you know what, I want more time with my kid
and more time for me.

Speaker 3 (19:04):
Well see there's a kid involved here. So you walked
away from a career with a child because a lot
of people say, well, god, you know, I'm lucky I
can walk away because I don't have any children. You
have a child. How was that? Hew frightening? Was that
for you?

Speaker 21 (19:17):
Oh my god, it was the scariest thing I've ever done.
Like she said, it's like jumping out of a plane
with no parachute, right, But the universe.

Speaker 19 (19:24):
Had my back.

Speaker 21 (19:24):
I picked up a bartending job. My son and I
have had the beach and let me tell you something,
it was the best decision ever. I'm happier. My mental
health is through the roof.

Speaker 22 (19:34):
You know, my.

Speaker 21 (19:35):
Biggest rewarded friends and families saying, you know what, you're glowing.
You look like you're happy.

Speaker 9 (19:40):
So happy for you. That sounds amazing.

Speaker 5 (19:43):
Wow, thank you.

Speaker 21 (19:44):
I'm so happy for you, Jamie.

Speaker 9 (19:45):
Thank you, Candace.

Speaker 3 (19:47):
As we hear the story between Candace and Jamie doesn't matter,
you can admit it. Maybe you're thinking, look what if
I did that?

Speaker 10 (19:56):
Danielle's all I'm thinking, is Jamie, when we see you
in like two weeks and you've reset from getting up
at this time of morning, you're gonna feel human again.

Speaker 9 (20:08):
Yeah, so good.

Speaker 21 (20:11):
We're ten years younger, sleeping in and getting your coffee
and going outside and grounding yourself and doing the bird
sturping and not stressing. Girl, You're gonna fall in love again?

Speaker 3 (20:22):
Is that what happens in the morning when we're working.

Speaker 10 (20:24):
Is that what happens birds out there?

Speaker 23 (20:27):
I forgot.

Speaker 22 (20:30):
Look at that.

Speaker 21 (20:31):
It's amazing.

Speaker 3 (20:32):
Well, Candace, congratulations and you know what, I love that
you hearing Jamie's story sparked you and made you reach
out to us. I love that.

Speaker 4 (20:40):
Congratulations and all the best to you and your son.

Speaker 21 (20:43):
Thank you so much. Good luck to you, Jamie.

Speaker 9 (20:45):
Thank you, Candace.

Speaker 4 (20:46):
So when you walked in, did you do the did
you know when you walked in?

Speaker 3 (20:51):
This is it?

Speaker 18 (20:51):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (20:52):
You walked into his office.

Speaker 18 (20:53):
I was, Yeah, I was. I was shaking. I was shaking.

Speaker 4 (20:57):
How did how did it roll out?

Speaker 18 (20:58):
I just sat down and shut the door, and I
had this conversation in my head and I just said,
I don't even really know how to get into this.
There's really no easy way, but I have to give
my resignation. Wow, after twenty one years in this industry,
more than half my life.

Speaker 9 (21:15):
That it was not an easy decision.

Speaker 18 (21:17):
But I have to put my health first and just
what I want more than anything in this family, which
in this world rather than is a family.

Speaker 3 (21:27):
That is wild. I'm so glad you told this story.

Speaker 9 (21:29):
Yeah, Oh, thank you.

Speaker 18 (21:30):
I'm so happy I hope I can just encourage at
least one person just to jump out of that airplane
and know that it will be okay and it will
change your life.

Speaker 4 (21:38):
Wow, it will all work out.

Speaker 8 (21:40):
Ye yah?

Speaker 9 (21:41):
Well, thank you? Are they panicking over there?

Speaker 3 (21:43):
I don't I think it is.

Speaker 9 (21:46):
I love them all. That's why I have to ask.
You know, they'll find somebody.

Speaker 18 (21:51):
Let me tell you, there's been three people that already
asked about it.

Speaker 3 (21:53):
But my life.

Speaker 9 (21:54):
He's not even cold yet.

Speaker 3 (21:59):
True.

Speaker 9 (21:59):
Sorry, that's about right good.

Speaker 1 (22:03):
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morning show Elvister Rand's after Party, a podcast we record
daily when the morning show is finished. He is literally
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(22:26):
Radio app or wherever you get your podcasts. Elvis Terran
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Morning Show.

Speaker 3 (22:37):
So I learned something about producer Sam. She's not in
the room, Issy good, No, she was talking about this.
I believe I've read it on social media somewhere. She
likes to have, and she says not in a sexual way.
She likes to have little little nibbles taken out of her.

Speaker 11 (22:55):
Back oh, I could see that.

Speaker 3 (22:58):
Maybe not taken out, that makes it sound like flesh
comes off. No, she likes it when will like bites
her back. How can that not be sexual? I'm sorry, Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 11 (23:08):
It being like playful, like a playful bite.

Speaker 10 (23:11):
But little love bites wouldn't turn you on. I would
think it would turn you on.

Speaker 4 (23:15):
I'm gonna turn on just thinking about it.

Speaker 3 (23:19):
Anyway. But Scary says something that he and his girlfriend
do is they talk like babies with each other. They
have baby talk?

Speaker 4 (23:26):
Do you only in our most private moments?

Speaker 3 (23:28):
And nobody has ever heard it except the two of us.

Speaker 4 (23:31):
Well, we all agree that's so far from sexual.

Speaker 3 (23:34):
It's not a sexual thing.

Speaker 16 (23:34):
We're just kind of it's like I would love.

Speaker 11 (23:37):
To hear it.

Speaker 3 (23:38):
Yeah, let's hear it.

Speaker 4 (23:40):
I'm sure she's advance to my girlfriend.

Speaker 10 (23:45):
Robin, like I'm hungry, you hungry, Let's get some food.

Speaker 3 (23:56):
That's awesome thing that we have and nobody else knows that.

Speaker 10 (24:03):
Does anybody else run around slapping each other's privates and
and stuff like that, because that's a hill and I do.

Speaker 5 (24:10):
Oh you do?

Speaker 8 (24:11):
Oh?

Speaker 10 (24:11):
Yeah, Like he'll be he'll be talking to me and
he'll be saying something and at the same time, I'll
put my hand forward and grab his stuff and he'll.

Speaker 11 (24:18):
Be like, what we do stop?

Speaker 10 (24:19):
We just stop, or he'll go and he'll grab my
boob while I'm running past the house, and we just
start cracking up, laughing at each other, just so stupid.

Speaker 11 (24:26):
The boob grab is great. Brandon still has done the
thing a couple of times where he tries to lift
me up with one arm, but he does it by
like right under the crotch, like grabbing right under there.

Speaker 3 (24:35):
I'm like, oh my goodness, like he's picking up a
bowling ball.

Speaker 11 (24:40):
It's a lot of wedgies and the pulling down of
the pants.

Speaker 3 (24:43):
So these are fun, froggy and we sha do that
all the time.

Speaker 4 (24:49):
Yeah, I'm sorry, did weep king?

Speaker 6 (24:52):
No, I'm sorry. I got some sec on my throat
a second ago. I thought I had to give myself
the Hamblich maneuver. I couldn't get it out. Okay, we'll
stuck in my windpipe.

Speaker 4 (24:59):
We'll come back to you later.

Speaker 3 (25:01):
Hey, uh, don't don't you love when an old bank
becomes a restaurant. This is my thing. I love it
with those you know, when they build a bank, think
about the old school banks. All financial institutions were built
in a way to make you feel as if you
could not penetrate the front door they want you to.
They wanted to make you feel your money was safe,

(25:22):
like big huge, twenty foot steel doors and big columns,
and you walk in it looks like, oh, this place
is going to keep my forty five dollars very safe.

Speaker 4 (25:34):
And then you see in the back the big vault.

Speaker 11 (25:36):
Oh I love the vault.

Speaker 3 (25:37):
Well, then one day that bank goes boobs up, it's
no longer around, and it turns into a restaurant.

Speaker 4 (25:43):
I love those places.

Speaker 3 (25:44):
Yeah yeah, But then this is the other thing, Like
when a pizza hut turns into a dry cleaning place.
You definitely see the architecture of the old pizza hut,
but now you know it has a drive through where
you can pick up your laundry. Yeah, it's just when
they build these places, they build them, you know that
they have a style guide.

Speaker 4 (26:06):
If Pizza Hut builds a building, it has to look.

Speaker 3 (26:08):
Like a pizza hut, right, Yeah, there's no way to
get away from that. Look.

Speaker 4 (26:12):
It's always going to be a pizza hut in my mind.

Speaker 3 (26:14):
Do you guys have any places you know of that
used to be something else and you can still tell
it used to be that.

Speaker 8 (26:19):
Yeah.

Speaker 11 (26:20):
In Boston, there's a club that used to be a jail,
so it has all of these little cells where you
can just sit and pop bottles, but people used to
be locked up there, so it's very weird.

Speaker 8 (26:29):
But kind of fun.

Speaker 3 (26:31):
Wow.

Speaker 9 (26:31):
Wow.

Speaker 10 (26:32):
In Scranton, where they filmed the office they or where
it's based on, they have an old train station which
is now a hotel and it is the most gorgeous
hotel And when you're sitting in the lobby, you just
you picture all the people coming through the train station
and all the doors are still there, and it's just
it's so beautiful.

Speaker 3 (26:54):
There's a restaurant in the South called the Gray It
used to be a Greyhound bus station built back in
the days where they actually had a waiting room for
people who were black. So what they decided to do
was stir that end too, the current design because it's
a piece of history, right and and of course the
chef is she's just incredible. But they wanted they wanted,

(27:16):
they wanted it to tell a story of days gone by.
Thank God, we're not in those days anymore.

Speaker 20 (27:22):
Right.

Speaker 4 (27:22):
Yeah, and look up the gray I forget if it's
in Charleston.

Speaker 3 (27:26):
I found look it up. It's a restaurant I'm dying
to go to because they didn't want to erase the
stories that were in this lobby of this old great
Greyhound bus station. I find it fascinating. Yes, got Tobe.

Speaker 2 (27:39):
There's a great website called not Fooling Anybody dot com
and it has all these restaurants that used to be
restaurants that aren't anymore. Like if you look in the
Zoom Room, that used to be an Arby's, but they
just call it Hat Creek now because they didn't want
to change the sign out front.

Speaker 4 (27:51):
Oh they still use the Arby's hat.

Speaker 2 (27:53):
Yeah, but it's just a different place and they just
changed it to shape, you know, fit in the hat.

Speaker 3 (27:58):
We don't. You can always tell an I hoop like
the old I hop designs. Like there's a place on
Long Island it used to be an eye Hoop. Now
it's a real estate office. Yeah, can you you can't
mix those up?

Speaker 5 (28:10):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (28:11):
I bet it still has syrup dripping down the walls.

Speaker 11 (28:15):
I think there's one in Colorado. I don't know exactly where,
but it's an old airplane that they have taken and
gutted and you can go eat inside that airplane.

Speaker 1 (28:22):
Now.

Speaker 10 (28:23):
Yeah, cool too. There's a pizza place around here. Was
an old like trolley car and they gut it out,
the trolley car and it's like a little pizzaia.

Speaker 9 (28:30):
It's so cool.

Speaker 8 (28:31):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (28:32):
The gray by the way, is in Savannah, and uh
Mashama Bailey, who is the chef there, was originally from
Savannah and she always grew up with her you know,
eating her grandma's cooking. She left studied everything culinary arts wise,
and went back and now she's the chef. It's this
incredible restaurant and I want to go there. A former

(28:53):
Greyhound bus depot. I love that. See this is this
is the world we're living in. You know, you buy
a piece of real estate and you want to turn
it in to a retail office or whatever.

Speaker 4 (29:02):
It already has a really cool piece of history on it.

Speaker 3 (29:05):
Yeah, let that live. Why do we have to have
steel and glass as far as the eye can see?

Speaker 23 (29:10):
Right?

Speaker 3 (29:11):
You know?

Speaker 15 (29:12):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (29:12):
I know Sarah on line twenty four. Let's go talk
to her. Hey, Sarah, what's going on?

Speaker 24 (29:17):
Hi?

Speaker 21 (29:17):
How are you?

Speaker 22 (29:17):
Good morning?

Speaker 3 (29:18):
We're doing Okay, what's going happening with you?

Speaker 25 (29:22):
Oh I can't believe I'm talking to you.

Speaker 22 (29:23):
I've been listening to you for so long. This is incredible.

Speaker 3 (29:26):
Well, thank you, thank you very much. Talk about that,
talk about that liquor store in Jersey that you were
talking about on your tails.

Speaker 22 (29:34):
Yeah, so in South Jersey we have an old pizza hut,
like the really old school with the brown roof, and
it had closed and it became a liquor store and
they just kind of rolled with it and now it's
called the liquor Hut.

Speaker 9 (29:49):
That's so cute.

Speaker 10 (29:49):
Well it's cute and nasty. But you know, I'm going
over to the liquor Hut. I mean you, but my
mind is.

Speaker 3 (29:59):
You know, of course we know where your mind is.
All right, fine, So where in Jersey is the liquor Hut?
I may have to roll over there today.

Speaker 22 (30:06):
Oh my gosh, it's in Turnersville. It's in South Jersey,
right outside of Philly.

Speaker 3 (30:10):
All right, thank you very much, and it's a pleasure
speaking with you. Thanks for listening to us.

Speaker 22 (30:15):
You guys are amazing. I love you guys, Sarah, we.

Speaker 3 (30:17):
Love you more. Thanks for calling. Be careful getting to
work today Georgia Online twenty three. A coffee shop. Well
we're doing okay. So you know of a coffee shop
that used to be a.

Speaker 12 (30:27):
What no, a funeral home that turned into a coffee shop.

Speaker 11 (30:33):
Oh, whoa.

Speaker 9 (30:35):
I wonder if it's haunted.

Speaker 4 (30:36):
Yeah, it used to be a funeral home.

Speaker 26 (30:37):
I don't know.

Speaker 12 (30:38):
I would never go in there.

Speaker 3 (30:40):
Why not?

Speaker 26 (30:42):
I don't know.

Speaker 12 (30:42):
I just feel if I was going in there, Yeah,
into funerals and lakes there, So I don't know.

Speaker 3 (30:50):
You have a memory there, yeah, I don't know. The
the coffee tastes a little like from aldehyde. I feel pickled.
All right, very good, Georgia, thanks for listening. I've meant
to do a good business for the people who are alive.
I'd like to order a corpuccino a corps China. Sorry
I messed up your joke, Brody.

Speaker 10 (31:12):
Isn't there an old liquor store down the block from
us at the radio station that turned into like a clothing.

Speaker 3 (31:18):
Yes, it was a liquor store. It turned into Snyder. Yeah,
before that, it was a it was a was it's
the chain of of stores. The Crew. It was a
JA Crew. It was a Drake J Crew offshoot. Yeah,
absolutely and it is, but it still has the liquor
store signed. I'm like, hey, let's go get some tinos. Look,

(31:39):
it's a Cardigan.

Speaker 1 (31:42):
Hey, it's Nicki Minata. This is Rihanna.

Speaker 3 (31:45):
Hey, this is Lady Gaga.

Speaker 1 (31:47):
You're listening to Elvis Durant and the Morning Show.

Speaker 8 (32:00):
This in the Morning Show.

Speaker 3 (32:05):
You know what. I love it when we get a
text from a listeners saying, hey, because I listened to
your show, you got me thinking, I think I deserve
a better life. I think I really am at a
dead end job. It's time to move on to something better.
We had a caller on if you remember she was
quitting yesterday. She said, I hate this job. I just
I'd rather just do anything than this. And she had

(32:25):
the guts to go in knowing she had a plan
and she said I'm done and she walked out. Now,
Amanda online nineteen so excited. How excited are you today, Amanda?
On the scale of one to ten, ten being the
most excited. What number are you?

Speaker 9 (32:41):
You have no idea.

Speaker 11 (32:42):
I'm like at one hundred.

Speaker 3 (32:45):
That's a lot. Now tell everyone why you're so excited, Amanda.
This is great news.

Speaker 27 (32:50):
Oh my god, So I got married and I youm
Sam and was like, oh.

Speaker 22 (32:56):
My god, could I hear it from you guys?

Speaker 9 (32:58):
And now I got.

Speaker 27 (33:01):
A job at my dream place, this beauty company, and
I texted and Diamond called me and I was.

Speaker 3 (33:10):
Like, oh what, well, look, we wanted to talk to
you because your story is unbelievable. I mean, she said,
I am so excited to share with my favorite morning show.
I got the job of my dreams yesterday, so I'm
resigning my current job today.

Speaker 4 (33:25):
So today you're marching in.

Speaker 3 (33:27):
So what's going to be like? I mean, are you
leaving a job you hated or you're just going to
a job that you really really know you deserve? Which
one or both both?

Speaker 27 (33:35):
I mean I didn't, I don't hate my current job.

Speaker 21 (33:37):
I just know I deserve better.

Speaker 27 (33:40):
I deserve a place where I can.

Speaker 9 (33:42):
Grow and be more challenged.

Speaker 25 (33:45):
And I mean, my company's going to be so screwed
when I leave.

Speaker 4 (33:51):
But I mean, no, no, no, it's they'll be fine.

Speaker 3 (33:56):
They'll be okay. They may struggle, they may miss you,
but they'll be okay. But this is this isn't about them.
This is this is about you. It's like relationships. We
talk about people who come out of a bad relationship.
They deserve better, but they still, you know, want to
go slash their exes tires and tear their pictures and
have It has nothing to do with them. It has
everything to do with you and what you want out

(34:18):
of life, and you're gonna chase it.

Speaker 27 (34:20):
Good for you, Amanda, I'd thank you so much.

Speaker 18 (34:23):
I'm so excited.

Speaker 27 (34:24):
I'll probably start in two weeks and I'm going to
be doing what I love.

Speaker 9 (34:29):
It's all that matters. So nice to hear.

Speaker 3 (34:31):
How happy you Yeah, yeah, listen to that.

Speaker 27 (34:35):
I mean, there's so much going on well good.

Speaker 3 (34:39):
It's good when it arrange, it poors, and just just
understand that you deserve everything that's happening. I mean, are
you of that mindset anyway in life where the good
things happen You're like, yes, I deserve this. It's good.

Speaker 27 (34:50):
Not all the time, I'll be honest, but right now,
in this phase of life, I am, and I'll take it.

Speaker 3 (34:58):
There you go.

Speaker 26 (34:58):
Congratulations Amanda on that good mindset.

Speaker 3 (35:01):
Good for you, you know what, And I hope it's contagious.
I want the rest of us to feel it too,
because we all deserve. We all deserve to feel the
same way, go tackle what you got to do. Resign
from that job. But it's not about them. It's about
you and your new job. And good for you, Amanda,
congratulations standing out there, you go. Thank you, Amanda. So
a scariest interesting question on the tail end of that,

(35:24):
what is that?

Speaker 16 (35:25):
Yeah, if you were at a job that treated you
like complete garbage and then you leave for a better opportunity,
why isn't it wrong for you to wish bad things
on that company because.

Speaker 3 (35:35):
You can what comes from it, what comes from.

Speaker 4 (35:38):
It, satisfaction?

Speaker 3 (35:40):
Closure? Really yeah, they needed me.

Speaker 16 (35:42):
See now it's crumbling as I walk away from that
dumpster fire.

Speaker 11 (35:47):
I don't I feel like to wish for bad things
is bad for your personal karma cloud. But if bad
things happen and you just smirk about it, I think
that's difficult.

Speaker 3 (35:56):
So Gandhi says, a smirk, A smirk is as far
as you should take that.

Speaker 11 (36:00):
You shouldn't wish it.

Speaker 9 (36:01):
But if it happens.

Speaker 10 (36:02):
Whatever someone Plus, I feel like you had to be
one or two people at the company that maybe you
did like so you know what bad things to happen
to that person, but maybe other people I don't know.

Speaker 8 (36:13):
Yeah, So I'm you.

Speaker 3 (36:14):
Know, I get yelled at several I've been yelled at
several times by my best friend Nate. He'll say, you
know what, that person really ft you over and now
you're just like, well whatever, and you move on.

Speaker 4 (36:25):
How can you not despise them and hate them?

Speaker 3 (36:27):
And you know in which awful things you've actually said
those words to me? Yeah, but it does It does
mean no good.

Speaker 10 (36:35):
So there are some things that I know that I'm like, dude,
if it was me, you're a better person.

Speaker 8 (36:42):
Than I am.

Speaker 28 (36:42):
But Elvis does have the right mentality because when you
hang on too that it affects the rest of your life,
your outlook on life, and you should let it go.

Speaker 3 (36:50):
But you shouldn't forget about it. What's that all?

Speaker 24 (36:53):
Right?

Speaker 6 (36:53):
What you're saying, Elvis is absolutely beyond the shadow about
the right thing to do. But I'm just not to
do that.

Speaker 3 (37:01):
Okay. Well, I'm looking and you process whatever you need
to process the way you want to do it. But
you know, why, why do I want to despise people
who are no longer in my life or a part
of my life in decision making in my life when
I can just despise the people I work with every day.
Why waste it on those who can't receive it and
feel my hanger's truth?

Speaker 11 (37:22):
Okay, say the best friend is best revenge is a
good life.

Speaker 3 (37:27):
Right there you go.

Speaker 11 (37:29):
Absolutely, maybe your life is so amazing that you can
just get past all of this stuff.

Speaker 8 (37:32):
And are.

Speaker 3 (37:36):
I'm not saying my life is amazing. I'm just saying
for me, I'm not speaking for everyone. It's easier for
me to focus on the positive and things that I
need to be focused focusing on because you know me,
I'm as flawed as flawed can be, and I'm the
first one.

Speaker 10 (37:49):
And I could like to open the top and.

Speaker 4 (37:51):
That Okay, let me find a way to do it.

Speaker 1 (37:55):
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Speaker 8 (37:59):
You kidding me?

Speaker 29 (37:59):
Men?

Speaker 3 (38:00):
I grew up listening to you. I grew up listening
on the way see Elvis Durant. Sometimes you guys veer
into quote unquote vulgar territories. When my dad would say,
you know so, I couldn't listen to it.

Speaker 21 (38:12):
Really.

Speaker 3 (38:13):
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from testing their vehicles in desert heat and arctic cold
to creating AI that can anticipate your needs and preferences
on the road. They demand every car is worthy of
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Speaker 1 (38:29):
Benz, Elvis Duran in the Morning Show. That's weird, Elvis
dan in the Morning Show.

Speaker 3 (38:38):
Yeah. If I ask you, like what TV father most
influenced you when you're growing up, you know, look, you
look at these these sitcoms. You watch these shows on TV.
You are thinking, oh, okay, he's just a character on
the show. But sometimes they hit a nerve. Sometimes they're
really great dad. Sometimes they're goof ops whatever they are
who they are, and we're gonna put you to the test.

Speaker 4 (38:58):
I see, I'm older.

Speaker 3 (39:00):
I remember TV dad's like Ward Cleaver, the father of
a son named Beaver Beaver Cleaver.

Speaker 10 (39:09):
Who the hell would do that to the kid?

Speaker 3 (39:11):
Ward and his beautiful wife, June June Cleaver. She was
always worried about the Beaver. I'm the Beaver Cleaver anyway.
So uh, but you know what, there's still TV dads
that are very influential to this day. Let's go talk
to Chrissy from Superville, Ohio. Chrissy, Superville. I love the

(39:33):
name of your town, Superville. What makes Superville so super?

Speaker 20 (39:37):
You know what, when I find out, I will call.

Speaker 3 (39:39):
Back, Okay, love it all right? Well, the fact that
you're living there, Christy, that has something to do with it. Hey,
So can you think of just off the top of
your head, can you think of some of the dads
on TV shows you grew up watching.

Speaker 4 (39:51):
They were like, you know, cool dads.

Speaker 20 (39:53):
You liked them, cool dads. Well, I mean my parents
were influenced on my TV watching when I was little.
I also up watching Ward Cleaver, Herman Monster. What else
do we watch? A Little House on the Prairie? What's
your name?

Speaker 3 (40:07):
Michael Landon?

Speaker 20 (40:08):
Michael Landon? Yes, I mean call me Pickles. Dads, yeah,
like the old school dads, but also like the cartoon dads,
like Grandpa from Hey Arnold was a father figure, not
necessarily dad, but a father figure.

Speaker 3 (40:20):
Christy, you do know your TV This is gonna be great,
all right, America's favorite TV dads ten dollars each. Of course,
if you get them wrong, you lose ten dollars and
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Speaker 30 (40:39):
So stupid, I'm so stupid, so stupid.

Speaker 20 (40:44):
All right, name it who or Simpson?

Speaker 4 (40:51):
Right, we're off to aging start.

Speaker 19 (40:53):
All right.

Speaker 4 (40:54):
Here is TV dad number two.

Speaker 3 (40:56):
Cindy, you know you've done a very bad.

Speaker 31 (40:58):
Thing with your tattling.

Speaker 25 (41:00):
It's daddy.

Speaker 32 (41:02):
I know it's difficult for a little girl to know
what to say what not to say.

Speaker 25 (41:07):
Growing ups have that same problem.

Speaker 4 (41:08):
But mm hm TV Dad number two.

Speaker 20 (41:13):
Is that Michael Landon? Is that what hapened? Very?

Speaker 33 (41:15):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (41:15):
No, he was talking to little Cindy Brady about her
taddling before that was Mike.

Speaker 20 (41:22):
Brady gone, okay, I.

Speaker 3 (41:24):
Know, all right, your language? All right, Well you lost ten,
you're down to zero. We've just got ten bad guys. Yeah, yeah,
all right, let's see if we can move it up
a little bit.

Speaker 4 (41:35):
Here is TV dad number three.

Speaker 34 (41:37):
I mean, everybody makes mistakes with their kids. The important
thing is to admit when you're wrong and to apologize.

Speaker 3 (41:42):
How come you won't never do that?

Speaker 33 (41:44):
Question me?

Speaker 3 (41:48):
Sometimes TV dads aren't dads, but they're another member of
the family. Who is that?

Speaker 20 (41:54):
Can I hear it one more time?

Speaker 3 (41:56):
Yeah, and listen to that person he's talking to. Maybe
that voice will que you in.

Speaker 34 (41:59):
Here we go, and everybody makes mistakes with their kids.
The important thing is to admit when you're wrong and
to apologize.

Speaker 3 (42:05):
How come you won't never do that?

Speaker 29 (42:07):
Don't question me?

Speaker 3 (42:10):
Absolutely, Uncle Phil from The Fresh Prince.

Speaker 4 (42:19):
All right, here we go. Here's TV Dad number four.

Speaker 6 (42:22):
If you get pulled over for speeding, tell the policeman
your spouse has diarrhea.

Speaker 3 (42:27):
Philosophy.

Speaker 20 (42:29):
Hmm, that's a doubt from Modern Family.

Speaker 3 (42:33):
Yeah, Phil Dumphy, absolutely absolutely gotta. Here is TV Dad
number five.

Speaker 32 (42:40):
It's seventy five and Sonny, which means our street squad
is gonna be out looking for them super stickies. If
you don't got one, get down to Linoleum Depot this
Saturday from nine to two.

Speaker 3 (42:48):
I'll be there.

Speaker 32 (42:49):
How can you up fat one on your car? Win
one hundred bucks? Now I'm looking around and I'm seeing
the spin doctors with not one but two princes.

Speaker 18 (42:58):
There you go.

Speaker 4 (42:59):
Not a good raw guy, but he was a dad
name TV Dad number five.

Speaker 20 (43:04):
I honest say that I'm stumped on that one.

Speaker 4 (43:06):
On That was from Family guy. That was Peter Griffin.

Speaker 20 (43:11):
O God, I can not even believe I missed that.

Speaker 4 (43:15):
You just lost ten We got ten back, guys.

Speaker 3 (43:18):
Yeah, right, all right, it's not that we're against you,
but we just hately mean to give away Budy.

Speaker 4 (43:25):
It's okay, you're up to ten dollars.

Speaker 3 (43:26):
Here we go.

Speaker 4 (43:27):
Here is TV Dad number six.

Speaker 3 (43:29):
You all know exactly who I am.

Speaker 33 (43:32):
Say my name?

Speaker 35 (43:33):
You what?

Speaker 36 (43:34):
I don't have a damn cool well.

Speaker 26 (43:35):
You are, yeah you do.

Speaker 33 (43:37):
I'm the cook.

Speaker 3 (43:38):
I'm the man who killed Gus Fring.

Speaker 15 (43:41):
Now say my name.

Speaker 3 (43:44):
Wow, Walter White out cooking it up in the kitchen.

Speaker 4 (43:51):
All right, you're up to twenty dollars. Here is TV
Dad number seven.

Speaker 3 (43:55):
But the best part is peg.

Speaker 2 (43:57):
They're dedicating it to the most famous Pokai football legend
a hint four touchdowns in one game.

Speaker 8 (44:06):
You well, it's not official.

Speaker 4 (44:10):
All right, there you go TV Dad number seven.

Speaker 5 (44:12):
Who was that.

Speaker 4 (44:15):
Talking to his wife?

Speaker 3 (44:16):
Peg?

Speaker 37 (44:18):
Oh?

Speaker 20 (44:18):
Albumy album?

Speaker 3 (44:22):
You're doing really well.

Speaker 4 (44:23):
You're up to thirty dollars. Here is TV Dad number eight.

Speaker 31 (44:27):
Your mother doesn't one listen to mister mob boss?

Speaker 23 (44:30):
What did you call me?

Speaker 18 (44:32):
Hm?

Speaker 3 (44:32):
Who's that.

Speaker 4 (44:36):
Mister mob boss?

Speaker 3 (44:39):
I don't know, Mom, Tony soprano from the soprano. We
just got ten dollars back in. Now you're up to
twenty dollars. We're down to twenty. Here we go.

Speaker 4 (44:51):
Here is TV Dad number nine.

Speaker 23 (44:54):
George Festivus, is your heritage spawn of who you are?

Speaker 20 (45:01):
I can't think it's first mister Costanzo.

Speaker 4 (45:03):
Yeah, there you go from Seinfeld.

Speaker 3 (45:07):
There you go.

Speaker 4 (45:07):
You were up to thirty dollars. Here we go, TV
Dad number ten.

Speaker 3 (45:11):
Steve, what have you done to my window? But big guy,
I thought you said me casa sukassa. No, what I
said was mess with me cossa, and you're out on yurassa.

Speaker 4 (45:21):
Okay, TV Dad and number ten?

Speaker 3 (45:23):
Who was that?

Speaker 20 (45:28):
Can I hear that one more time?

Speaker 3 (45:29):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (45:29):
Sure, Steve, what have you done to my window?

Speaker 10 (45:32):
But big guy, I thought you said me casa sukassa.

Speaker 3 (45:36):
No, what I said was mess with me cossa and
you're out on yurassa.

Speaker 20 (45:41):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (45:42):
That's Carl Winslow from Family Matt. My guys, we just
got ten dollars back. Yeah all right, Well here we
are at a very interesting spot.

Speaker 4 (45:50):
Chrissy.

Speaker 3 (45:50):
You were at twenty dollars. You did, okay, but this
next one your bonus is worth fifty dollars.

Speaker 20 (45:59):
Here we go.

Speaker 3 (46:00):
Dsh you got such a good heart.

Speaker 38 (46:04):
You care about people, and that's why people care about
you and everybody who knows the real DJ.

Speaker 3 (46:11):
I think she's pretty terrific.

Speaker 25 (46:13):
I love you.

Speaker 3 (46:15):
I love you too.

Speaker 4 (46:17):
There you go TV dead number eleven?

Speaker 20 (46:19):
Who was that dandy Tanner rip?

Speaker 3 (46:21):
I'm all right, you know seventy. I will make it
one hundred dollars because yeah, and you know you gave
me goosebumps there at the end.

Speaker 4 (46:32):
We love you, Chrissy. That was awesome.

Speaker 20 (46:34):
I love you, guys, Thank you so much.

Speaker 3 (46:36):
This is the best you're of course.

Speaker 4 (46:38):
You got one hundred dollars. You just had to get
names of TV dads.

Speaker 3 (46:40):
That's pretty good.

Speaker 20 (46:42):
Take my morning as well, every morning.

Speaker 4 (46:44):
Well, thank you for listening to us.

Speaker 3 (46:45):
You tell everyone in Superville, Ohio that we said, Yo,
what's up?

Speaker 20 (46:49):
I will thank you guys. You have a good day.

Speaker 4 (46:51):
All right, Hold on one second, don't leave.

Speaker 9 (46:53):
What happened to Marty Bird?

Speaker 4 (46:56):
Well, you know we can't do all TV dads will
be an hour.

Speaker 10 (46:59):
Isn't he a fantastic Dadrummond?

Speaker 4 (47:02):
Oh Dark, Yeah, it's okay dad.

Speaker 3 (47:07):
At least he provides for his kids.

Speaker 11 (47:09):
Of course, Bill Cosby, Heathcliff Huxtable, Heaullist. No, but you
know I just took him off this.

Speaker 9 (47:15):
We know what happened there.

Speaker 3 (47:16):
Yeah, what's your your beef with me? Nate? You would
never make it as an accountant.

Speaker 38 (47:21):
Do you realize that person what won legitimately according to
the rules of the game, thirty dollars and then at
the end you're like fifty six, we'll give you one
hundred dollars.

Speaker 8 (47:31):
He's generous.

Speaker 24 (47:32):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (47:32):
I don't think anyone else is going to complain.

Speaker 38 (47:34):
No, no, listen, I'm just saying that if you were
playing with anybody else's money this, this might be an issue.

Speaker 5 (47:40):
He'd be a great parent.

Speaker 6 (47:41):
Like if you had chores around the house and they
were like five dollars a chore and you needed three
and be like you don when here's fifty bucks. Here
go ahead, just see you thanks for being a good kid. Like, see,
you'd be a great parent, Elvis, there you go.

Speaker 4 (47:52):
I don't know why everyone, why were you bitching at me?

Speaker 3 (47:54):
Go away, Nate.

Speaker 5 (47:55):
I'm not bitching at you.

Speaker 3 (47:56):
No, I'm talking Nate, Nate us why you're great at
what you do? Because I just don't he would have
made it as an account Okay.

Speaker 4 (48:03):
Nice, thank you, Nate.

Speaker 15 (48:05):
I think.

Speaker 3 (48:08):
I'm sorry. Was that funny?

Speaker 1 (48:09):
Elvis Daran in the morning show, Don't Answer the phone,
Elvis Duran, The Elvis Duran phone tapping, the Return of
Miss Mos.

Speaker 9 (48:27):
Oh, yes, all right.

Speaker 39 (48:28):
So Donna is working at a doctor's office. So her
daughter said, I want to call my mom and phone
tapper because she gets all weird people calling at the
doctor's So miss moscallopsis.

Speaker 9 (48:39):
Is Josh trying to make an appointment?

Speaker 8 (48:43):
She's just an old lady.

Speaker 3 (48:45):
Yeah, let's see what happens. Will she get the appointment?
Let's play it out in today's Daniel phone Tap doctor office.

Speaker 1 (48:52):
Hello, I need to make an appointment.

Speaker 35 (48:55):
Have you been here before?

Speaker 40 (48:56):
No, I'm a new patient.

Speaker 9 (48:58):
I can't sit down anymore, so I thank god.

Speaker 8 (49:00):
I need to come in, ma'am.

Speaker 15 (49:03):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 35 (49:04):
I don't understand it.

Speaker 25 (49:05):
Do you have some sort of gental problem?

Speaker 40 (49:08):
My son Marvin when he bought me the you know,
the cushion that you put on the knee when you
having the problems, and I put it underne but I can.

Speaker 9 (49:14):
I still can't sit down.

Speaker 40 (49:15):
I'm in so much pain.

Speaker 9 (49:16):
I really got to come in and see the doctor.

Speaker 25 (49:18):
Uh huh, ma'am, this is a dentist office. Do you
need to make an appointment for your teeth.

Speaker 9 (49:24):
I need to come in for my hemorrhoids. You're why
my hemorrhods?

Speaker 25 (49:29):
Wait a minute, you're a hemorrhoids do there? This is
This is to do with the mouth, ma'am, this is cheeth.
Are you having an issue like that?

Speaker 40 (49:39):
I don't have hemorrhoids in my mouth. I have hemorrhods
in my my butt talks area. That's where I have
my hemorrhoids.

Speaker 25 (49:45):
All right, well, ma'am, this is a dentist office.

Speaker 15 (49:50):
Like I said several times.

Speaker 37 (49:51):
I know.

Speaker 40 (49:52):
That's why I'm calling you, because you're a doctor and
I need a doctor's help.

Speaker 11 (49:56):
My name is missus marskallopsis.

Speaker 9 (49:57):
You want me to spell that for you?

Speaker 25 (49:59):
No, what I need you to do is hang up
with me.

Speaker 40 (50:04):
And but if I hang on with you, I haven't made.

Speaker 8 (50:06):
My palming yet.

Speaker 11 (50:07):
So I can be there tomorrow morning at eight am.

Speaker 25 (50:09):
All right, No, you can't be here at eight am
because we.

Speaker 11 (50:12):
Can't help you.

Speaker 8 (50:13):
You have do you open at eight thirty?

Speaker 25 (50:16):
Hemorrhids have to deal with the anal area.

Speaker 9 (50:19):
We do not handle that.

Speaker 40 (50:21):
I don't talk.

Speaker 11 (50:22):
That's my buttocks.

Speaker 1 (50:23):
Every ya, thank you?

Speaker 25 (50:24):
No, no, no, no, we handle teeth. Now, if you
have a two days, I don't have TAF. You need
an extraction or broom can out? Did you ever go
for cleaning or X rays?

Speaker 35 (50:35):
The disk of your time?

Speaker 9 (50:37):
You need my my butttoks area clean.

Speaker 8 (50:40):
It's fine.

Speaker 25 (50:40):
I do a good job unless you have a problem
like a hemorrhoid in your mouth, which we don't call
it that. It could be an abcess. We're not handling
your situation. We can handle peace, peace, but I don't
need it.

Speaker 3 (50:55):
But you keep throwing out of your backside.

Speaker 9 (50:58):
Ma'am what are you talking now? You talk crazy?

Speaker 25 (51:00):
I'm not talking crazy. Do you understand two different openings?
You not understand going in and the other one was
fool going out?

Speaker 40 (51:08):
You're ridden out.

Speaker 9 (51:09):
You're being rude.

Speaker 25 (51:12):
I told you we don't sit here.

Speaker 12 (51:16):
Go.

Speaker 9 (51:19):
You know you don't like old people?

Speaker 33 (51:20):
Is that what it is?

Speaker 5 (51:21):
You just don't like?

Speaker 9 (51:23):
It's not nice?

Speaker 40 (51:25):
Okay, I had not Well, maybe if my boss, if
I have my boss and make the palm of woman
you actually work.

Speaker 3 (51:33):
Yeah, you have a boss.

Speaker 9 (51:34):
Yeah, my boss's name is Elvis.

Speaker 35 (51:36):
Elvis.

Speaker 30 (51:37):
Elvis is a performer.

Speaker 9 (51:39):
He dies like in the se.

Speaker 8 (51:42):
No, he's not.

Speaker 9 (51:43):
He's really my boss.

Speaker 40 (51:44):
This is Me and Arrow from Elvis Durant in the
Morning Show.

Speaker 9 (51:47):
And you got phone to why.

Speaker 8 (51:54):
Your your daughter?

Speaker 25 (51:56):
She plays this O God, I am so I'm in
a work now, Carrie, I'm like a lunatic.

Speaker 1 (52:04):
The Elvis Duran phone tab.

Speaker 16 (52:08):
This phone table was pre recorded with permission granted by all.

Speaker 1 (52:10):
Participates the Elvis Duran phone tab only on Elvis Duran
in the Morning Show.

Speaker 3 (52:18):
So Danielle, our girlfriend gandhi, Hello, is going through something
that we've all been through from time to time. Oh yes, look,
you have a good friend.

Speaker 8 (52:26):
Yep.

Speaker 3 (52:27):
You want you want them to be happy, you want
them to be out there dating someone that's cool for them.
It just so happens you hate the person they're dating.

Speaker 10 (52:34):
To have plenty of times.

Speaker 3 (52:36):
So it's okay to talk about this, Yes.

Speaker 11 (52:38):
We can talk about it. I really dislike my friend's boyfriend,
and it's really tricky because I know my friend is
just so in love. So I don't know what to do.
And at first I thought, Okay, maybe it's a me
thing and I'm being a brat, I'm being possessive. I
need to be more open minded to the person. Every
one of our friends who has met this boyfriend hates
him too.

Speaker 5 (52:58):
So what to do?

Speaker 11 (53:00):
Do I tell my friend, Hey, uh, your boyfriend really sucks?
Or do you just let it go? Because I know
I'm going to lose this battle?

Speaker 3 (53:06):
So you know, So what's so weird here is Gandhi
You never ever hold back, And I think it's so
weird that your best friend you have not told this
best friend how you feel about the boyfriend.

Speaker 11 (53:17):
Because I know how much my friend is in love
with this person.

Speaker 3 (53:20):
That's a tough one.

Speaker 11 (53:21):
It's a tough one.

Speaker 10 (53:22):
She said she'll probably lose her friend if that she doesn't.

Speaker 11 (53:24):
I think I will. Like, I just know how the
relationship is. I know how smitten my friend is. I
think they're gonna get married, and I'm like, oh god,
she's gonna be part of my life forever.

Speaker 10 (53:36):
I guess she doesn't know how to be treated. Then
she must never been in a relationship where she knows that.

Speaker 11 (53:42):
Yeah, Nic, it's tricky and like the boyfriend's not even
nice to the family, which to me is the biggest run.

Speaker 3 (53:47):
So it's not you. It's not a problem you have,
it's it's this person's a bad person. Yeah, all right, Hey, Rachel.

Speaker 17 (53:54):
Are you there?

Speaker 21 (53:55):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (53:56):
Yeah, so you're going through the same thing Gandhi is
going through. You hate your best friend, boyfriend, You argue
with him all the time, so they know it's no secret.
They know how you feel about him, right yeah.

Speaker 35 (54:06):
No, And me and him, we do argue all the time.
He always thinks he's right. It's very annoying. So she
pulled me aside the other day and she goes, why
don't you like him? And I was like, I know,
you just got out of a relationship. He is a rebound.
He is not here forever. And she was like okay,
and she goes, well, can you tell me what you
don't like about him? I look at her and I go,

(54:27):
he crashed your brand new car and he did not
pay you back. Let's just start with that.

Speaker 3 (54:31):
Oh no, okay, well that's you know, oh my god,
he crashed cars. But overall he's just a not a
bad guy. You're not a good guy.

Speaker 35 (54:41):
No, he's not a good guy. And the reason he
was driving her cars because he doesn't have enough money
to put his car on the road. But I mean,
like whatever, I can still look past that. But the
other day we all went out, well not the other day.
It was in December, we went out for Christmas dinner,
me and two of my girlfriends. We all bring our
significant others, you know. She brought him and at the table,
he randomly started that unbuttoning his shirt and we're like,

(55:02):
what are you doing? And he's like, Mortimer needs to
join the party, and we're like, who's he? He has
a skull on his chest, it's a tattoo, and he
like randomly unbuttons it and says that he needs to join.

Speaker 11 (55:13):
The party, telling her to run the other director.

Speaker 3 (55:18):
I don't know, I'm sure like this guy, he and
his friend Mortimer. All right, so okay, okay, any question?
Does he treat your friend well? I mean, is he
good to her?

Speaker 35 (55:32):
Sometimes? But not always? He's let me start off also
by saying he's still married. He hasn't got a separation
from his wife.

Speaker 4 (55:38):
Shot are they living together?

Speaker 3 (55:40):
He and his wife?

Speaker 35 (55:42):
No, they're not living together, but they He says he
doesn't have enough money to separate from her. I don't
know if that's true or not, but yeah, he's still,
like I said, technically with his ex wife.

Speaker 19 (55:52):
He does live on his own.

Speaker 35 (55:54):
But he also has like anger issues too, And she's
said that to me before, and I'm like, well, what
are are you still doing?

Speaker 25 (56:01):
Then?

Speaker 35 (56:01):
She I love her, I do, I just she does
not have the best choice when it comes to boyfriend.

Speaker 4 (56:06):
Well, you know, here's the thing, well one of the
many things.

Speaker 29 (56:09):
Uh.

Speaker 3 (56:09):
You know, it's your friend, and you know she has
decided through through all the bad points this guy carries,
she likes him. She's she there's something there and even
though you feel like he is bad for her, he's
bad for everyone, including his skull Mortimer. You know what
I'm saying. You had you have to like, but you
have to back her up, and she's got to. She

(56:29):
has to learn her own lessons, you know. I mean,
I know you want to be a good friend. I
don't know, I am I wrong? Maybe I'm wrong.

Speaker 11 (56:35):
No, it's it's just so hard.

Speaker 8 (56:37):
You don't want to lose a friend.

Speaker 3 (56:39):
You don't want to lose your friends.

Speaker 35 (56:40):
Right, And that's the thing too. I feel like since
they started dating, me and her, I've hung out not
a lot anymore. And I don't know, it's just heartbreaking
because I feel like I am this in one of
my best friends and it's I just, you know, I
don't feel like hanging out with him that's really what
it's bad.

Speaker 3 (56:53):
Well, here's here's another way of looking at it. What
if this guy was a great guy and you really
did approve, but you still saw your friend less.

Speaker 4 (56:59):
I mean you to be upset you've come out.

Speaker 35 (57:01):
That would be, oh my gosh, that would be totally fine.
I wouldn't understand that. I just want her to be
happy in the end, and I want her to be
treated correctly and to be happy. But if she's not
treated correctly, that's kind of the issue.

Speaker 18 (57:11):
Now.

Speaker 10 (57:12):
It's a lot of times just to be careful too,
because they'll say, you're just jealous.

Speaker 11 (57:15):
You're just jealous, you know, mind your business.

Speaker 35 (57:18):
Yeah, it's I don't know, it's it's me, it's our
other friends. It's her family too, Like the family doesn't.

Speaker 25 (57:23):
Like me either.

Speaker 35 (57:24):
It's just it's hard.

Speaker 3 (57:25):
All right, Okay, here's my here's my thought, Rachel. As
you know, you heard Gandhi say the same thing you said.
The difference is is her best friend doesn't know how
she feels about the boyfriend. She keeps it quiet. She's
afraid of where that could go. She could lose her friend,
her best friend. So what advice, Rachel, do you have
for Gandhi.

Speaker 35 (57:45):
Okay, Well for me, she well, I mean, she flat
out asked me why I didn't like him, and you know,
I didn't say because I didn't say like he's discussing,
he's annoying. I didn't say anything like that. I just,
you know, flat out said a lot of us don't
like him. And that's when I told her, I feel
like he's your rebound and he's not your forever. Like
I put it in nicer terms, I guess than what

(58:06):
I could have, Like, I didn't want to. I don't
want to, like, you know, unload all this negative stuff
onto her. I was like I was said what I thought,
but in a nicer way. You have to sugar quote
it a little bit, like be very careful with the
words that you choose to tell her.

Speaker 3 (58:21):
So, so you're telling Gandhi Gandhi, maybe you could sort
of drive down that road a little bit, but proceed
with caution.

Speaker 10 (58:29):
Maybe do a poop sandwich positive about him, and then
make something up okay, and then a positive at the end.

Speaker 23 (58:38):
Right.

Speaker 3 (58:38):
Well, thank hey, Rachel, best of luck with you and
your friend. And we're gonna we're gonna make a poop
sandwich for a gandhi, thank you, thank you.

Speaker 4 (58:44):
Yeah, it's rough, but she's she's not holding back.

Speaker 32 (58:46):
Now.

Speaker 11 (58:47):
I was kind of thinking maybe I put it on
me and say, you know, so and so makes me uncomfortable.
I'm not really sure how to explain it, but I
feel weird around this person. Do you think that that
would work? I don't know versus he sucks. I don't
like your problem.

Speaker 3 (59:02):
Yeah, Hey, Katie, Hi, So you hate your brother's fiance and,
in the words of Katie, you call her a joyless wench.
Oh god, I.

Speaker 9 (59:12):
Can't even imagine.

Speaker 11 (59:15):
Then you got to live with the public. You've got
no choice.

Speaker 9 (59:18):
You know, he is marrying her, so you have no choice.

Speaker 3 (59:20):
Yeah, this isn't this isn't even a dating situation.

Speaker 4 (59:23):
They're getting married.

Speaker 3 (59:24):
So how do you feel about that? Katie? What are
you doing? And have you told your brother?

Speaker 22 (59:27):
I feel sick over it.

Speaker 13 (59:30):
I feel absolutely sick, And I.

Speaker 22 (59:32):
Feel terrible for my brother because I feel like it's
just similar to Rachel. It's a rebound gone wrong.

Speaker 25 (59:40):
It just went awry.

Speaker 22 (59:41):
And my brother is a great guy, but he's terribly lazy.

Speaker 12 (59:44):
And he just doesn't want to I think move on.

Speaker 20 (59:48):
So I oh, and I have told him how I
felt our entire family.

Speaker 3 (59:53):
You know, look, if you told your brother how you
feel about his fiance, if your family has told him,
there's nothing else you can do because it at some
point you got to let them live their lives. And
if they're making a mistake, they have to make their mistake.
You know, you got to stop chasing that car. You know,
there's only so much you can do. Yeah, it really is.
And after a while it turns into your problem.

Speaker 5 (01:00:12):
Right, you know.

Speaker 10 (01:00:12):
It's like, could there be something that maybe you don't
see about her that he sees?

Speaker 9 (01:00:17):
That's good, you know what.

Speaker 13 (01:00:18):
That's interesting, And that's what I was going to ask Gandhi,
what does she think her friend sees in this guy
that makes her happy?

Speaker 20 (01:00:25):
She's so in love with him?

Speaker 37 (01:00:26):
Well?

Speaker 20 (01:00:27):
Why why is she so in love with him?

Speaker 13 (01:00:29):
And that's what I want to say to my brother,
like why what is it about her that you think
is so wonderful.

Speaker 20 (01:00:34):
That we're not seeing?

Speaker 3 (01:00:35):
It's a fair question.

Speaker 11 (01:00:36):
Yeah, I think with my friend, what this person sees
in the boyfriend is just a completely different version of
a human than they've ever been in contact with. It's
you know, this person is a different race and just
comes from a completely different background and is introducing my
friend to all of these new things, which I appreciate
that stuff, and I get it.

Speaker 9 (01:00:54):
Yeah, this guy just sucks.

Speaker 3 (01:00:57):
At the end of the day, the guy just sucks.
I will Katie best of luck with your family. But
like I said, you know, you can only beat your
head against the wall so much. Did you got to
find a way to let it go.

Speaker 8 (01:01:07):
I'm trying.

Speaker 11 (01:01:08):
I'm really trying to let it go because I've had
conference calls with my friends who are on the same
page about this, like what do we do? Yeah, and
everyone has come to the same conclusion. We do nothing.
We just have to be there for the fallout when
it happened.

Speaker 3 (01:01:18):
Yeah, that's all you can do. Hey, Chris, hi, Hi,
You've lost three friends because of this. You did not
approve of you. They were dating and you obviously you
said something and that's why you lost your friends.

Speaker 15 (01:01:30):
Not quiet.

Speaker 3 (01:01:31):
Yeah, okay, So would you do it again? If a
friend number four comes up with a with a crappy boyfriend,
are you going to say something or have you kind
of learned your lesson to sit back or maneuver differently?

Speaker 13 (01:01:41):
I would still probably say something like honestly, I think
it was worth it because they, like in all of
those situations, they were putting their partner before their friends.
And I was like, hey, this isn't a good situation.
You know, you're taking everything that they're saying and they're
doing over top of what we're trying to help you,
you know, and they, you know, they decided to cut

(01:02:04):
me out instead, is how I see it ultimately, So well, wait.

Speaker 3 (01:02:07):
How much more could you have done? What else can
you do other than say what's on your mind? I
mean you can't.

Speaker 35 (01:02:13):
Yeah, exactly, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:02:14):
There's only so much you can do. I always thought,
and it's this is this is maybe Pollyanna ish of me.
If you have a problem with something I'm doing or
the way I'm doing it, give me the give me
the evidence.

Speaker 4 (01:02:27):
Tell me what it is.

Speaker 3 (01:02:28):
That's all you can do. I have to at that
point figure it out on my own, right Otherwise it's
going to drive you crazy, to drive everyone crazy.

Speaker 4 (01:02:35):
I don't want you to lose friends with the.

Speaker 13 (01:02:37):
Second the second friend that I lost, I went about
it completely the wrong way, Like I was pretty much
thing to both of them behind each other's backs. Trying
to break them up, and it worked for a second
and then they got back together and then yeah, that
was a really bad.

Speaker 3 (01:02:49):
Sit Wait wait wait, how did how did you try
to break them up? I'm curious, like, like, what did
you do?

Speaker 29 (01:02:55):
Well?

Speaker 13 (01:02:55):
They like they had an age of difference, and they
had religious differences, which wouldn't have been a big deal
if he wasn't constantly trying to like convert her. And
I yeah, so I was trying to tell him, like,
if you can't wake up every day next to this
person that you believe could be going to hell, then
like that's a problem. And he was like, well, we'll

(01:03:17):
cross that bridge when we get to it. And I'm like,
but it's been like a year and a half, so
you can probably.

Speaker 29 (01:03:21):
Hear that out.

Speaker 3 (01:03:22):
We'll cross that bridge to hell when we get to it, exactly.
So what Chris is saying, she's lost three friends over this,
and she and she's willing to lose another one if
she has to. But all right, you know you can.
It's the old lead the horse to water thing. You know,
there's only so much you can do. Chris, thanks for
listening to us. I appreciate you listening to your viewpoint.

Speaker 13 (01:03:40):
Yeah, thank you.

Speaker 3 (01:03:41):
There you go.

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Speaker 1 (01:04:03):
Elvis dan in the Morning Show. Yeah, this is Elvis
Duran in the Morning Show.

Speaker 3 (01:04:10):
So Alex and I went out to dinner last night
and we're sitting at the bar. We love to sit
at the bar, and someone said, hey, you know, where
do you guys live? And I looked at him and
it was a guy and his I guess his wife
right with an attack, he hat, well, okay, you never
know if they're listening, you know.

Speaker 4 (01:04:29):
So we're like, oh, we live, you know, over that way.
I didn't really give an address or anything. No, really,
what town do you live in.

Speaker 3 (01:04:36):
We're like, well, we live in you know, blah blah blah.
He said, well, we live right up the road. I
mean really like right up the road. He said, yeah.
He said, you guys should come over for dinner. And
then that's when I said, what's your name? I'm not
kidding you. That was exactly how the conversation went, right, Yes, totally.

Speaker 4 (01:04:54):
It was like from zero to sixty in three seconds.

Speaker 3 (01:04:58):
What are you doing? Or do you come here a lot?
How long have you lived around here? Again?

Speaker 37 (01:05:03):
We live?

Speaker 3 (01:05:03):
You should come to dinner. I'm a great cook, and
I'm like, oh again, what's your name?

Speaker 37 (01:05:09):
I don't even remember if they gave us the name? So,
you know, okay, So I believe that they were trying
to pick up Elvis.

Speaker 4 (01:05:19):
I think they were trying to pick up both of us.
And this was a straight couple, a man and a wife.

Speaker 3 (01:05:24):
Well straight to bed, well or he could like to go,
you know, he could like to experiment and she watches.
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (01:05:33):
You can fill in the blanks anyway.

Speaker 5 (01:05:34):
Anyway he hides in the closet while yeah, yeah, I
don't know.

Speaker 10 (01:05:37):
Doesn't make you nervous because nowadays, like you don't know
what the hell you could have and just to come
up to you and be like, hey, there, come overrond
make your.

Speaker 3 (01:05:46):
Dinner, Like, well, we're probably not going to make it
for dinner, maybe dessert, I don't know.

Speaker 5 (01:05:54):
Nothing nothing now serving the big bragiole at dinner or no.

Speaker 3 (01:05:58):
All right, so look, you know it, there is a
chance that we were way off base and it's just
our gut feeling and they could be wrong.

Speaker 4 (01:06:04):
But I don't know, it seems pretty obvious. No, I
think one hundred.

Speaker 3 (01:06:09):
I'm okay, that was all My gosh, that's so crazy. Well,
I know, you did hear him say something like behind
like we weren't he said, yeah.

Speaker 37 (01:06:18):
What I heard him whispering something that I forgot what
he said, but I looked at Elvis. I said he
said something about, yeah, that could be fun.

Speaker 3 (01:06:25):
That could be fund like that. Yeah, they could be fun.
They could be fun. Anyway, So here's my here's my point.
So we were assuming that we were approached. I'm not
I'm at ninety eight percent thinking that that was it
was like a swinger thing, right, So I'm guessing now,
if you're a swinger and you like to, you know,
approach people at bars or whatever, you have to be

(01:06:47):
very aggressive. Otherwise it's just someone being nice. You know,
you're like, oh the pleasantries, Hello, how are you? Other
than that, it's like Hi, who are you? Where do
you live? We live right up the street.

Speaker 32 (01:06:56):
Come have dinner.

Speaker 3 (01:06:57):
I mean, is that I got I got a swinger
on the line. Let me go ask her Brittany online seven.
Hey Brittany, good morning, Good morning Brittany. So you you
are a swinger. You're saying you liked they weren't swinger.
It's just so dated sounding. I don't know, it sounds
like something.

Speaker 14 (01:07:13):
From the nineteen I'm actually not a swinger, but me
and my gay best friend, an older couple tried to
pick us up and take us home to swing with him.

Speaker 4 (01:07:23):
Oh you've been asked to swing? Okay, I totally accuse.

Speaker 3 (01:07:26):
You of being a swinger.

Speaker 25 (01:07:27):
Okay, that's okay.

Speaker 4 (01:07:28):
Did you guys go home with him?

Speaker 21 (01:07:30):
No, we didn't.

Speaker 14 (01:07:31):
We were in our early twenties and they were probably
in their sixties. But they were a great looking couple
and they were so nice, just buying a shop all night,
and then all of a sudden, she was like, oh,
do you want to come home with us? And we
were like to hang out and she was like no,
to like, you know, have sex, and I was like, oh, no,
thank you.

Speaker 4 (01:07:51):
So there it goes my I think my theory is correct.

Speaker 3 (01:07:54):
If you want to pick people up, you've got to
be very direct and very aggressive and say no for sex.
You have to love them up with shots. By the way,
they didn't buy shots last night. I guess we're not
worthy of shots.

Speaker 14 (01:08:07):
They brought us a lot of shots. And my gay
best friend was like, I don't get with women, but
thank you.

Speaker 3 (01:08:13):
Yeah, all right, well there you go. So but you
knew exactly what was going on because she got to
the point and used the word sex. I mean there
was no way to Yeah, yeah, exactly. All right.

Speaker 4 (01:08:25):
Well, best of luck to you. Thanks for sharing that
with you.

Speaker 3 (01:08:28):
If ever you do decide to say yes to them,
you've got to call our show promise definitely.

Speaker 20 (01:08:33):
Well.

Speaker 14 (01:08:33):
I listened to you guys every morning, and you guys
are great.

Speaker 20 (01:08:37):
I love you guys.

Speaker 3 (01:08:38):
Thank you Brittany. By the way, someone Brittany so much
just sent a text and I bet they wanted to
take you home.

Speaker 11 (01:08:42):
And eat you, mister kidney or something.

Speaker 8 (01:08:47):
You never know.

Speaker 4 (01:08:48):
Yeah, oh god, you've heard the stories. Thank you, Brittany.

Speaker 3 (01:08:50):
Let's go talk to line four and Raven. Raven got
invited over and actually went and she's swung talk about it.
How was your night?

Speaker 33 (01:08:58):
Hi?

Speaker 30 (01:09:00):
Was very interesting?

Speaker 4 (01:09:02):
Interesting? Now is this something you've done before? Or was
this a like a one off thing or what?

Speaker 30 (01:09:06):
No, this is a one time thing. It was a
New Year's party. They had an open bar, so we
were drinking quite a bit and this couple approached us
and we went home with them, me and my best friend.

Speaker 4 (01:09:23):
Right, and did you stay, did you spend the night
or did you do your thing.

Speaker 3 (01:09:26):
And head out?

Speaker 30 (01:09:28):
No, we spent the night and they drove us back
to get my car after Well.

Speaker 3 (01:09:33):
And look, I'll be really clear, I'm I'm not condoning
anyone for swinging. That's that's not at all, that's not us. Well,
but you know, if you're trying to pick someone up
to go home with you and they don't, they're not
into it as we are. Not last night, we weren't anyway. Uh,
I'm like, it's okay, we're you do your thing, will

(01:09:55):
not do that thing. But you do that thing?

Speaker 4 (01:09:57):
So Raven, would have you done it again since that night?

Speaker 15 (01:10:00):
Uh?

Speaker 37 (01:10:01):
No?

Speaker 30 (01:10:01):
No, that was the one and only time that's ever happened.

Speaker 3 (01:10:05):
Right, I know. But you look back on it and
you laugh, and it's a part of your journey, part
of your story.

Speaker 22 (01:10:10):
Right exactly.

Speaker 30 (01:10:11):
That's one story that will stay with me forever.

Speaker 3 (01:10:15):
Yeah, and then you'll tell it on the radio, which
I'm loving. All right, Raven, Well, thank you, happy swinging.
If you change your mind, we're right here calling all right. Thanks? Yeah,
But okay, let me ask you this. Can we just
talk honestly?

Speaker 17 (01:10:29):
Now?

Speaker 5 (01:10:29):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:10:29):
What if you and I were out and it was
a guy and he was like really attractive, would we
consider it? Yeah, we would have a conversation.

Speaker 37 (01:10:38):
But the way they approached us last night, They're like, hey,
I want to come over to Iowa house for dinner.
We didn't even get to know their names nothing.

Speaker 36 (01:10:47):
There was no ice breaking. There was to break the
eel like, hey, you guys are cool. You want to
come over to our house for dinner. I'm a real
great chef.

Speaker 3 (01:10:58):
And I'm like why, Yeah, I was caught off God
yeah frog.

Speaker 5 (01:11:03):
Did either one of them have pineapples on of any kind?

Speaker 3 (01:11:06):
Okay?

Speaker 4 (01:11:06):
So you know the pineapple store?

Speaker 5 (01:11:08):
Yeah? I like, hope, I believe this.

Speaker 6 (01:11:09):
And I asked this because I posted a picture on
my Instagram story and it's got my dog standing at
the door and we said, this is the welcome committee.
Well on our door, is this artsy pineapple that's hanging
on the door, right, everybody says that's the way you
welcome swingers over. Well, we've lived here for two and
a half years with that pineapple in the door. Nobody's
ever come over to our house. So either we're unattractive

(01:11:30):
or the pineapple thing is not true.

Speaker 3 (01:11:31):
Well, okay, to be fair, pineapples are not just for swingers.
Pineapples like it's the universal old school sign of welcome,
you know, that kind of thing. So if you see
someone with a pineapple, don't automatically assume they want you
to do them.

Speaker 6 (01:11:43):
Okay, what about the pineapple and the grocery cart upside
down that's supposed to be looking for swingers.

Speaker 3 (01:11:48):
Yeah, now you're out of your mind.

Speaker 4 (01:11:49):
Yeah, gandhi.

Speaker 11 (01:11:50):
So for future reference for other people, I know you
guys said that this guy approached you in an aggressive way.
How would you like to be approached?

Speaker 9 (01:11:57):
What would work?

Speaker 25 (01:11:58):
Not like that?

Speaker 3 (01:12:00):
Small talk? Yeah? Yeah, let's just so you know, we're
sitting next to you at a bar and we just
start talking, we and we and you don't just jump
right into the where do you live? How far away
do you live?

Speaker 4 (01:12:09):
We live right down the street. Come on, come on, we're.

Speaker 3 (01:12:11):
Living right now. You don't need to know our names.
I tell you what we've got. Katherine. Catherine is online
twenty four. She can talk about how to approach people
at a bar as a swinger. Catherine, you you have
a little bit of experience. I'm not swing shaming you.
I'm just saying we've heard that you've done.

Speaker 20 (01:12:28):
That the game.

Speaker 19 (01:12:30):
We have a lot of fun, so there's no shame here.

Speaker 3 (01:12:33):
Okay, go right ahead. Now, the way they approached this
last night, do you find it was a little abrasive?

Speaker 19 (01:12:39):
Yeah, I mean I would have. I would have been.
You know, we kind of flirt or play with people
or you know, get to see if anybody's looking at us,
and if they are, then we you know, you just
it's kind of like dating. You know, you're not going
to sit in here and like go in and hurt somebody,
you know, emotionally. You're just here to have fun and
enjoy them. And if it's not, you know, something that

(01:13:00):
everybody wants to do, then we certainly wouldn't.

Speaker 23 (01:13:03):
Do what they did.

Speaker 4 (01:13:04):
No, well, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:13:06):
I've asked Alex three times. He has yet to give
me a yes or no. But I don't know. Something
tells me that we wouldn't rule it out.

Speaker 32 (01:13:14):
Night.

Speaker 19 (01:13:14):
No, last night, that was that we're in a stable
relationship and I've been married to my husband for twenty
five years, and to keep the spark alive, we like
we enjoy other people and other energy.

Speaker 3 (01:13:27):
So right now, I got that. But no, last night
ruled out because there was a woman involved in I
say that with all due respect. I'm sorry. Uh all right,
Well look, Catherine, so you're saying more of a more
of a flirty thing, like like you're talking to someone
that you want to go out on a date with
at a bar. It's just simple, no pressure, relaxing conversation

(01:13:50):
and you and at that point you just kind of
see where it goes.

Speaker 4 (01:13:52):
You don't try to force it, right, No, no, no.

Speaker 19 (01:13:56):
And if if they're not comfortable, then we're not comfortable,
and that you know, it's not like we go out.
Yeah yeah, I would not have done what they have done.

Speaker 37 (01:14:04):
No.

Speaker 3 (01:14:04):
Yeah, you don't want to take someone home that's nervous
and shaking. Sounds like kidnap, sounds like a scary states.
Well anyway, uh, well, thank you, Catherine. So when you
when you find out it's it's a no that they're
not interested. You're you're okay with that. You don't take
it personally, right, No?

Speaker 19 (01:14:21):
No, because it's not yeah, yeah, it's fine. It's you're
either in to us, you or not. It's not something
that we would be hurt about.

Speaker 3 (01:14:28):
No, there you go, all right, Catherine. So great to
hear your perspective. I appreciate it.

Speaker 19 (01:14:32):
Hey you guys, Doe you thanks mine.

Speaker 3 (01:14:34):
So Brody's asking some very can you get Brody on
the phone. He's asking some very juicy questions. Hey Brody, Hey, alos,
So Brody asks this. You have to know Brody to
understand that this is kind of weird coming from Brody.
Elvis and Alex take a hot guy home, who would
go first? And who would sit back and watch? Oh lord,

(01:14:55):
oh my god, Brody, what do you mean?

Speaker 23 (01:14:59):
I don't know a dynamic of a threesome personally, and
I don't know the dynamic between like Elvis and Alex.
Like if one of you guys is like the more
dominant one, would you like want to watch the other one?
Like I would never want to watch my partner with
another person, But you guys seem like you would.

Speaker 3 (01:15:16):
Now look at that's Aul.

Speaker 4 (01:15:20):
Yes, they gotta cut that off. Right, I'll tell you now,
there's a lot.

Speaker 5 (01:15:23):
Of assumptions going on here, thank you.

Speaker 3 (01:15:27):
Okay, No, no, no, you're you're making some assumptions about
us and what we're possibly what we could do. You're
we're not anywhere near any of that.

Speaker 23 (01:15:35):
So I don't even so you're saying, you're saying you
guys would go with the guy. At the same time,
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (01:15:41):
This is not the guy in the closet looking through
the louvers, like, see what's going on.

Speaker 3 (01:15:46):
I didn't say that, okay, but I'm trying to tell you,
and I don't think you're not hearing what I'm saying.
The dynamics of our relationship to this day are not
in a place where I could even answer that question.
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (01:15:58):
We haven't been there, have done that well not, you know,
if we have, we're not going to talk to you
about it.

Speaker 5 (01:16:11):
Anyway.

Speaker 4 (01:16:13):
What are you to say, Alex, isn't swingers? Two couples
aren't swingers. You can swing with one swing with one person,
I don't.

Speaker 3 (01:16:20):
Know, that's just a threesome.

Speaker 4 (01:16:22):
Then you could swing with one person that's a three swinging.

Speaker 3 (01:16:25):
I think that the concept of concept of swinging is
a couple are together and the other one is, oh, okay,
have a great time. Yeah, I know this is so confusing.

Speaker 9 (01:16:37):
All the pineapple thing for a minute, Yes please, because.

Speaker 10 (01:16:42):
Froggy's wife Lisa gave me a bracelet with a pineapple
on it, so I'm starting to think she wants to
swing with me.

Speaker 5 (01:16:49):
Oh cool, I'm cool with that.

Speaker 3 (01:16:51):
My god, what has become of our show today?

Speaker 5 (01:16:55):
Won't mind?

Speaker 10 (01:16:57):
No, Sheldon will right in there.

Speaker 3 (01:17:01):
All right, Well, there you go. So that's what happened
last night. The according to porn hub, actually Nate is
telling us give us the definition of swinging.

Speaker 28 (01:17:10):
According to uh this is actually dictionary dot com, the
practice of engaging in group sex, or the swapping of
sexual partners within a group, especially on an habitual basis.

Speaker 3 (01:17:20):
Oh yeah, that's not so.

Speaker 11 (01:17:22):
Just one person doesn't count, not a swinger, not according.

Speaker 3 (01:17:26):
To that definition. All right, are we all clear?

Speaker 20 (01:17:29):
Now?

Speaker 8 (01:17:30):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:17:30):
No, I'm not confused. Oh no, we gotta go.

Speaker 1 (01:17:43):
Elvis d Ran in the Morning Show. Elvis d Ran
in the Morning Show.

Speaker 3 (01:17:56):
They say, you know, you really find out how compatible
you are with someone when you go on a vacation
with them.

Speaker 8 (01:18:01):
You know, you've to.

Speaker 3 (01:18:01):
Wait for that you can actually pick things up at
the table.

Speaker 36 (01:18:05):
No.

Speaker 3 (01:18:06):
I mean they could have some really really offensive habits
and it makes you just go no, oh, my parents.

Speaker 11 (01:18:13):
I would break up with them if I went on
a date with either one of them because of the
way they act at restaurants.

Speaker 3 (01:18:17):
What do you mean?

Speaker 11 (01:18:18):
So as soon as food is placed on the table,
before they even try it, they will request hot sauce,
and if the hot sauce is not out quickly, they'll
ask again and again. They also immediately request a box
to go and put half their food in it, then
just leave the box on the table the whole time,
and they just kind of harass the staff, like every
time our waiter or waitress will come back, they ask

(01:18:39):
them for another thing. I'm like, for the love of God, parents,
just leave them alone. And if one of them orders fish,
they have an issue. So my dad hates the head
on a fish, my mom loves it. They'll fight with
the waitress standing right there about whether or not the
head can come out on the fish. It's so embarrassing
everything that it's.

Speaker 3 (01:18:56):
Awful you break up with your own parents.

Speaker 11 (01:18:59):
I love it with my parents, I love them, but
I can't go to restaurants with them.

Speaker 3 (01:19:03):
Well, they're saying here in this article that Froggy sent me,
these food opinions basically make you undtable for some people.

Speaker 4 (01:19:09):
Now look, I am a.

Speaker 3 (01:19:10):
Firm believer in uh hey, if you want to put
ketchup on your steak, it's offensive for some people.

Speaker 4 (01:19:16):
But if that's what you want to do, I support
it because you like it. It's something you like.

Speaker 3 (01:19:21):
And they say in some restaurants if you ask, if
you ask the staff for ketchup, they'll go ooh no,
if the chef found out, he would come out and
slice you in half.

Speaker 5 (01:19:32):
Of this butcher use, I'm paying for this steak whatever
I want on.

Speaker 3 (01:19:35):
It, exactly. Yeah. If the if the chef becomes bigger
than the customer, then that that's a problem in that
restaurant in my opinion. So they were asking some people
about what they find well kind of unattractive at dinner.

(01:19:55):
How do you prefer your steak? Well, this person says,
well done steaks are for mons. If you want your
steak well done, in my opinion, you go for it.
That doesn't offend me.

Speaker 9 (01:20:08):
Yeah, like hockey puck well done.

Speaker 3 (01:20:11):
Well, I know, but if that's what they want do
you do you is it really gonna ruin? Okay, Danielle,
if you were dating Sheldon and you found out he
likes his steak incinerated hockey puck done, would that be
a deal breaker in your row?

Speaker 4 (01:20:23):
Okay, I think that's what we're getting to here.

Speaker 5 (01:20:25):
Yeah, here's got to cook it that way for the
rest of your life if you stay with them.

Speaker 3 (01:20:29):
Okay, it's a pile of carcinogens. I agree, right, all right,
here's one for Nate. This person, she says cow cow's milk.
Drinkers like a whole glass of cow's milk and nothing else.

Speaker 5 (01:20:45):
No, that is a no.

Speaker 20 (01:20:47):
No.

Speaker 4 (01:20:50):
Nate loves to drink a big frosty glass of milk
with every meal.

Speaker 5 (01:20:53):
I'm sorry, that's wrong. Whoever wrote this is just wrong.

Speaker 4 (01:20:59):
Okay, oak is fantastic.

Speaker 3 (01:21:02):
I had a glass this morning.

Speaker 9 (01:21:03):
Not only babies are supposed to drink well, some.

Speaker 3 (01:21:07):
Doctors physicians say that drinking cow's milk is only for
babies because it's what they need to jump start their lives.

Speaker 4 (01:21:15):
And then once you get to the prime age of four,
you could start.

Speaker 21 (01:21:20):
Uh.

Speaker 3 (01:21:21):
This person says deal breaker. Last person I went with
said she never gets hungry. For pizza.

Speaker 4 (01:21:27):
Oh, she never craves pizza, she said.

Speaker 3 (01:21:29):
And this guy goes on to say, this is our
first and last date. No, that's okay. Person. Now about sharing,
she says, I would never date someone that wouldn't share
their food with me. If you ordered fries, they're our fries.
But there's something you agree with that, there's something totally
If you get your fork near my plate, I will
take my fork and I will stab your face. Oh
my gosh, I.

Speaker 11 (01:21:50):
Find that so horrible. I am such a food sharer.
As soon as I get it, I offer it to
other people. And if someone doesn't do the same thing, I'm.

Speaker 4 (01:21:56):
Like, who raised you?

Speaker 10 (01:21:58):
Oh God, my dad, God rest his soul. When my
mom put her fork in his plate once he threw
the salad.

Speaker 29 (01:22:04):
Hell like that.

Speaker 3 (01:22:09):
Someone who doesn't eat dessert or has convinced themselves that
they don't like desserts or sweets, are you human?

Speaker 4 (01:22:15):
June says, I will not date you.

Speaker 9 (01:22:17):
I agree.

Speaker 3 (01:22:18):
What's scary?

Speaker 4 (01:22:19):
Well, I got to eat a lot, as you know,
and I do.

Speaker 3 (01:22:22):
I eat a lot. Okay. Deal breakers for me are
if you eat, if you treat.

Speaker 16 (01:22:26):
The staff like crap, of course, and people who dumb
down the dish, don't order buttered macaroni. And meanwhile they
had the Catchua pepe on the menu and it was
all descriptive and beautiful, and you just say.

Speaker 4 (01:22:38):
No, I just want a plain pasta with butter, But
that's what they want. That's me scary. Then, you know what,
here's my question.

Speaker 3 (01:22:49):
I mean, Okay, look, I can see some things can
be a little offensive at dinner. But if I want
my meal done a certain way, it may be a
pain they asked to listen to. It may be asking
for too much of a chef. I get that, But
that doesn't make me a total jerk, but it makes
you a pain in the ass in life. Then, because
I read these lives everywhere, Okay, okay.

Speaker 4 (01:23:07):
You know what, I kind of see that, all right.

Speaker 9 (01:23:09):
I can totally see that.

Speaker 3 (01:23:10):
Here's someone I couldn't date anyone with a delicate stomach
because they wouldn't be able to handle my Mexican food
that I love to cook. My sister's boyfriend gets sick
every time we go to Mexico and she gets super
annoyed with it.

Speaker 4 (01:23:21):
So you got to be able to eat spicy food
or you're not in my life.

Speaker 3 (01:23:27):
Let's see. Once I went on a coffee date and
went to put my milk in my iced coffee. She
was informed by my date that that's illegal. It's a
deal breaker. You can't put milk in. You can put
milk and coffee, but you know, in Italy and in
your some European areas they say, you know, you only
have milk in your coffee for breakfast after breakfast time.

(01:23:47):
No cappuccinos. Oh for some people in Italy. Also putting
cheese on fish is oh yeah, I've heard that that's
a big milk yeah, gandhi.

Speaker 11 (01:23:58):
So one of the things that is a big deal
break for me, and I think Danielle can relate to this.
If you ever watch ninety Day Fiance, they're obviously from
different cultures, and when one meets the others, typically there's
a giant meal involved, and one person is always extremely
rude about what that food is. If you're rude about
another culture's food without even trying it, without even thinking
about how much they've put into it, how much effort

(01:24:20):
has gone into this, I find that disgusting. I think
it's so awful when people see foign dishes and just
immediately ew if you're not gonna try it, don't say
anything about it, and even if you try it, be
polite to the other people. That's horrible.

Speaker 10 (01:24:31):
It does it does happen on ninety day fiance every
time I'm not.

Speaker 3 (01:24:36):
Gonna eat that, try it, I can't carry its mouths. Okay, well,
you know what you need to eat it, you know,
and if you don't like it, and you form an
opinion and say, you know, here's why I don't really
care for curry, then I can buy that. People who
are cheap tippers, goodbye. Anyone who doesn't like cheese, good day, sir.
Unless you're lyctose, intolerant, and something you said earlier, I

(01:24:57):
think I think it was scary. If you're rude to servers,
Oh my god, my biggest pet peeve, you're out of
my life.

Speaker 32 (01:25:02):
Oh yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:25:02):
Picky eaters are a turnoff for some people in general.

Speaker 3 (01:25:05):
Are eating with someone who's eating with someone is a
good barometer for personality. This person says, you don't have
to like to eat weird things, but if you refuse
to try and make the decision after trying, you're not
an adventurous person and won't like and try new things
in life as well.

Speaker 4 (01:25:21):
You're out of my life, says this person.

Speaker 10 (01:25:23):
Yes, see, I'll try the food, but I can't promise
I won't spin.

Speaker 11 (01:25:27):
It across the table.

Speaker 9 (01:25:29):
It just happened several times.

Speaker 4 (01:25:31):
Okay, at least that's a very honest opinion.

Speaker 3 (01:25:34):
So there's this one guy, and I'm not going to
give his name, but he was on Hot Chef or
Best Chef or whatever the show is called, and he
does cooking videos with these crazy foods.

Speaker 4 (01:25:44):
He does this thing where he'll go to taste the food.

Speaker 3 (01:25:47):
He made, and he'll scrape his teeth on the fork
as he pulls the fork out of his mouth. Oh,
it makes my skin crawl. Stop it. Just use your lips,
don't use your teeth on the for you know, you
know that sound I'm talking about.

Speaker 21 (01:26:02):
Yes?

Speaker 4 (01:26:02):
Does anyone have a fork with him right now?

Speaker 20 (01:26:05):
Late?

Speaker 28 (01:26:08):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (01:26:08):
It drives me nuts.

Speaker 4 (01:26:10):
Jennifer Online twenty two.

Speaker 8 (01:26:12):
It's true, Jennifer.

Speaker 3 (01:26:13):
If you're on a date with someone and things pop
up at the table that turn you off, it sometimes
ends that relationship, doesn't it.

Speaker 20 (01:26:21):
Yeah.

Speaker 12 (01:26:23):
I was just telling Nate that there's a place in
New Haven called Lose Lunch.

Speaker 4 (01:26:28):
What's it called?

Speaker 18 (01:26:29):
He Lose Lunch?

Speaker 14 (01:26:31):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (01:26:31):
Lose lunch.

Speaker 12 (01:26:31):
Okay, okay, yes, and so he claims to make the
first like steam hamburg or they're amazing by the way,
but if you ask for a ketchup or any other condiments,
he will tell you to leave.

Speaker 3 (01:26:43):
If you want him, he'll tell you to leave. All right, Well, okay,
obviously that's his thing. Okay, lose lunch a little drastic, but.

Speaker 12 (01:26:52):
No, it's amazing though I'm not bashing him. It's amazing.
And if you guys are ever in New Haven, you have.

Speaker 8 (01:26:58):
To try it.

Speaker 5 (01:26:59):
And there a lot what he does.

Speaker 3 (01:27:02):
I will, well, look, you know, I bet the Histemburgers
are famous actually, but uh and there I hear they're fantastic.
But gosh, you know, if someone wants to catch up,
I don't know. If you're in the if you're in
the business to make a living, and sometimes you have
to bend to what a customer wants. Sometimes you have
to bend to what a customer wants. But I guess

(01:27:22):
he's doing so well that he's fine. Thank you, Jennifer,
have a great day, thanks for listening to us. I'm
coming up for some clam pie really soon.

Speaker 22 (01:27:30):
Yes with you, even though I don't eat it all right.

Speaker 25 (01:27:35):
I didn't know.

Speaker 9 (01:27:36):
I didn't think Elvis did either.

Speaker 5 (01:27:37):
I didn't know you like clam pie.

Speaker 4 (01:27:39):
Okay, thank guys.

Speaker 3 (01:27:41):
If you want to do the old he's gay, doesn't
eat clam jokes. It's wow. Wow, there's a there's a
new way of being funny than you. Hold one second, Jennifer,
thank you for your.

Speaker 4 (01:27:54):
Call and I appreciate it.

Speaker 21 (01:27:55):
Thank you, guys.

Speaker 3 (01:27:56):
Now what we're saying, Danielle, I was.

Speaker 11 (01:27:58):
Saying, it's the old way, but it's ill funny.

Speaker 5 (01:28:03):
Jesus, Why it's it always just Danielle and I?

Speaker 24 (01:28:06):
Why?

Speaker 3 (01:28:07):
What are you four years old?

Speaker 10 (01:28:09):
Yep?

Speaker 3 (01:28:09):
Sometimes Ashley Online twenty four Ashley, you're together with your husband.
Obviously he loves you, but there's something you do with
your steak that drives him nuts. What is that?

Speaker 13 (01:28:21):
I did my steak in ranch dressing?

Speaker 3 (01:28:23):
Okay?

Speaker 12 (01:28:24):
Oh wow, it's what you want to promise.

Speaker 20 (01:28:26):
It's good.

Speaker 11 (01:28:26):
Don't knock it.

Speaker 3 (01:28:28):
I'm not I'm not.

Speaker 4 (01:28:29):
I'm never gonna yuck your youm you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:28:32):
Where are you from, Ashley, South Georgia?

Speaker 4 (01:28:35):
Okay, so you're close.

Speaker 3 (01:28:37):
To Stek Country down there, and I'm sure there are
a lot of people who eat steaks, they have to
have it a certain way. It's like up here in
New York. If you pizza isn't a certain way, then
you really are stupid. They hate you. But yeah, you know,
but I gotta be honest. I'm a little picky about
pizza too. If you like breakfast pizza, no, can't do it.

Speaker 20 (01:28:55):
What is breakfast pizza?

Speaker 3 (01:28:56):
Well, they did put eggs and bacon on it. And also,
oh and here's what I'm gonna get my ass kicked
for this Hawaiian pizza with pineapple and ham on it.

Speaker 5 (01:29:05):
I'm with you.

Speaker 3 (01:29:11):
Speaking speaking of ranch dressing. Actually, a lot of people
love to put ranch dressing on their pizza. And I
was and I was like, I'm like, I don't know,
and I tried it. I loved it, So you know
who am I?

Speaker 12 (01:29:21):
Yeah, ranch is just one of those staples you always
have to have around.

Speaker 3 (01:29:26):
Well, don't take it to uh lose lunch in New Haven.

Speaker 4 (01:29:29):
Yeah, kicked you right out, all right.

Speaker 3 (01:29:32):
Thank you so much, Thank you, Ashley, have a great day,
Thanks for listening. Love you more. We love you. Have
a great day. There you go, just kind of picky
about our foods, but please, please don't use your teeth
on the fork as you pull it out of your Yeah, okay,
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Speaker 1 (01:30:22):
Elvis Duran in the Morning Show, Elvis Duran in the Morning.

Speaker 3 (01:30:29):
Show, what are you driving to have to fall apart?
You know our friend Scotty Bee here, the eater of
the Big Banana. He says every time every morning he
gets into his jeloppy and he prays it starts, and
then he praised the wheels don't fall off on the
l ie on that right, and he prays that it's
gonna start again after he turns off the ignition.

Speaker 2 (01:30:50):
I just one morning, I'm gonna call Nate and be like, dude,
I can't make it in because the wheel fell off.

Speaker 3 (01:30:56):
My question is how many people are driving this that
kind of nightmare every single day, Like, at the very least,
maybe the check engine LIGHTE is on every day?

Speaker 25 (01:31:06):
What is it?

Speaker 3 (01:31:07):
Exactly?

Speaker 37 (01:31:08):
What?

Speaker 3 (01:31:08):
It's a two thousand and five Chevy Tahoe Okay, with
lots and lots of miles on it, I guess because
you're coming in and out of Long Island.

Speaker 2 (01:31:15):
And yeah, over one hundred and fifty thousand miles. It's
older than my kids. Okay, Well, so he's just waiting.
He's waiting for that day where it just dies. It's
gonna die, you know that it's on its last leg.
So people started calling and texting.

Speaker 3 (01:31:29):
So many people are right now as we speak, probably
right next to you in traffic. They're driving something that's
that shouldn't even be street legal. Maybe it just barely
started today. You should see all these things people were
sending out texts.

Speaker 11 (01:31:45):
Have you seen some of these I used to be
one of these people, but yeah, I've seen some of
the stuff that's going on, and it makes me nervous
to even be on the road with anybody.

Speaker 21 (01:31:53):
Now.

Speaker 11 (01:31:53):
I'm like, oh, you're tireds.

Speaker 4 (01:31:54):
About to fall off.

Speaker 3 (01:31:55):
Oh oh my god.

Speaker 6 (01:31:57):
Well, nobody texted in their car has no sway bar,
and we're like, what's that. That's the that's basically what
keeps your car from swinging then flipping over.

Speaker 9 (01:32:04):
Wait, I never even heard of that. What is a
swee bar? He just told you that's exactly in the car.

Speaker 6 (01:32:11):
It's under in the suspension and he keeps the car
going straight instead of starting to flipping over.

Speaker 3 (01:32:16):
Maybe that's why you've had so many wrecks. You should
buy a car with a sway bar.

Speaker 9 (01:32:20):
I guess I forgot to do that my next one.

Speaker 3 (01:32:23):
I didn't know the sway bar was an option. Anyway,
here's it take. Someone tried to steal my cars. They
bashed the window out. Now it's the garbage bag and
a rolla duct tape and the steering wheel. Call umn
is gone.

Speaker 4 (01:32:33):
How could you drive a car without a steering wheel?

Speaker 3 (01:32:35):
Call them? That doesn't make sense to me. I can't
turn my head because my neck fell off. I have
a two thousand and eight Ultima. We put transmission fluid
every week, and every week the car acts like it
will stall out when idling and intersections when we slow
down and two tires are about to blow. That's the
day they're facing. Someone else in the text it earlier
saying they had to put a new anti freeze in

(01:32:56):
every single day, every day. What does the cost on that?
It's more of a gas per gallon?

Speaker 37 (01:33:04):
Right?

Speaker 3 (01:33:04):
I don't know? God? Yeah, Line twenty is Laura. Let's
see if she's still there. She named her.

Speaker 4 (01:33:13):
Okay, Hey Laura, how are you.

Speaker 19 (01:33:17):
Hi?

Speaker 20 (01:33:17):
Good?

Speaker 3 (01:33:17):
How are you guys doing well?

Speaker 4 (01:33:19):
Why did you name your car Karen?

Speaker 26 (01:33:22):
Because she always freaking needs something from my life. She's
always demanding something.

Speaker 15 (01:33:31):
Karen.

Speaker 3 (01:33:31):
The demanding Karen, your car is asking to speak to
the manager. Hey, so you took Karen to the shop
yesterday because you heard a weird noise.

Speaker 26 (01:33:38):
Right, yeah, So the weird noise was something that came loose,
and the guy at the shop was actually like, but
that's the sound that concerned you. I said, yeah, why
is there another sound? And he said, yeah, you have
a lot wrong with your car. So he put it
up on the lift and showed me that my exhaust
is literally falling off.

Speaker 35 (01:33:59):
It's really bad.

Speaker 26 (01:34:00):
I'm the one with the sway bar that's missing.

Speaker 23 (01:34:03):
No.

Speaker 3 (01:34:05):
Froggy says that without a sway bar. You're probably gonna
just fall off a bridge at some point.

Speaker 5 (01:34:10):
Oh my god.

Speaker 3 (01:34:12):
Yeah.

Speaker 26 (01:34:12):
So I asked him, I said, is that really dangerous
for me to be driving without the sway bar?

Speaker 11 (01:34:17):
And he was like, well, apparently you have been for
a while.

Speaker 13 (01:34:21):
So we're gonna get We're gonna get that thing.

Speaker 3 (01:34:28):
Okay, is there anything on the car that does work?
I mean, like winschle wipers and and like you the
wiper fluid thing.

Speaker 26 (01:34:38):
So well, the fluid thing is a little broken. So
when I spray my winchleed wiper fluid, it just goes
right over the hood of the car.

Speaker 4 (01:34:50):
So, now, how much longer do you think?

Speaker 3 (01:34:52):
How much longer do you think she has in her
I mean, I mean, at what point do you do
you give up?

Speaker 26 (01:34:58):
He gave me a week to get it all things.
He said, if you don't come back within a week,
then you're you're going to be in trouble when you're
on the road. So you need to make sure that
you got this fixed quickly.

Speaker 3 (01:35:08):
Would please do us a favorite?

Speaker 26 (01:35:10):
And we're going to get this fixed within the next
couple day.

Speaker 3 (01:35:12):
Okay, Laura, do us a favorite. When it's fixed, will
you call us and let us know you're okay. Please.

Speaker 19 (01:35:18):
Oh well, it's so good to talk to you.

Speaker 27 (01:35:19):
Guys.

Speaker 3 (01:35:20):
Thank you, it's good to talk to you. But we're worried.
We're very, very concerned about you. Right, okay, thank you,
Thank you, Laura, I have a safe day. I ask
a friend to give you a ride. A line twenty
one is Bonnie? Now, Bonnie like the rest of us,
you know, you look down and that check engine light
is on. It's like, okay, I'll get to it right
YouTube forever? Yep. Yeah, So tell us what happened. Take

(01:35:42):
us back to the first moment you saw the check
engine light on, and then what happened?

Speaker 21 (01:35:48):
My check engine light is on?

Speaker 3 (01:35:50):
So I just kind of look the other way for
a while.

Speaker 35 (01:35:53):
Then I turned my car on one day and apparently.

Speaker 20 (01:35:56):
My car fixed itself. The check engine light is lost there.

Speaker 5 (01:35:59):
You or maybe the bull burned out.

Speaker 11 (01:36:04):
She has an amazing car.

Speaker 3 (01:36:06):
Well that's a miracle. That's a good old fashioned miracle
right there. Well, so you're just so you never knew
why the check engine light was on at all.

Speaker 20 (01:36:15):
Nope, I'm still driving it now. My amazing car fixed itself.
Check every time it's still on.

Speaker 25 (01:36:22):
I don't know.

Speaker 29 (01:36:22):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:36:23):
If my check engine light went off, I would assume, okay,
some fluid found out where it needed to go and
it found its way. That's what we don't I agree, all.

Speaker 6 (01:36:31):
Right, cars don't fix themselves. What happens is probably the
bull burned out.

Speaker 8 (01:36:35):
That was something like that.

Speaker 3 (01:36:37):
All right, you have the censor fried. All right, Well,
good luck with that, Bonnie. Let us know what it
comes back on, because it may come on today. Maybe
you'd never know.

Speaker 11 (01:36:43):
Oh, dear God, thank you guys, I love you all.

Speaker 3 (01:36:46):
Thank you. Bonnie. On line twenty four, is Alyssa my favorite? Hey, Alyssa,
how are you good?

Speaker 4 (01:36:53):
My favorite thing?

Speaker 3 (01:36:53):
I heard Nate pick up your call? Uh while the
song was playing, and I go and he goes, hey,
So tell me about your Chevy and Paula. And I
knew we were going to talk to you. What is
going on with your Chevy and Paula?

Speaker 20 (01:37:08):
Okay?

Speaker 19 (01:37:08):
So at the two thousand and eight Chevy.

Speaker 29 (01:37:10):
And Paula and it has like things in miles right now.
My husband bought it just before reading each other. It's
like back in and eight with like twenty thousand miles
on it. So he hasn't driven all of those miles,
and the very first few years he lived in Florida,
so the body is into in really good shape because

(01:37:31):
he never had to deal with the salt for like
the first five or six years of his life. But
he moved up to Illinois. But so now when you
about forty miles an hour's a stake and then.

Speaker 3 (01:37:42):
Ship wait hold on, let me I'm writing this down.
I'm riding this.

Speaker 4 (01:37:45):
He starts shaking at forty miles per hour.

Speaker 3 (01:37:48):
Oh okay, you.

Speaker 29 (01:37:49):
Had about like fifty or fifty five. It starts to
the back out and then you don't want to go
over sixty five miles an hour.

Speaker 3 (01:37:57):
That's okay, Okay, let me get this straight in case
I have to orrow your Chevy and Paula, Alissa, it's
gonna start shaking right around forty, but it levels out
right around fifty five. So between forty and fifty five
that's like a sweet spot of just vibration. And so
fifty five is as probably as fast as you want
me to drive your own Paula, right sixty five about

(01:38:17):
the limit, okay, So I have a sweet spot between
fifty five and sixty. So right in there's Okay, no shaky.
Now are you planning on getting rid of your Chevy
and Paula with over three hundred thousand miles anytime? Okay,
keep it rolling.

Speaker 29 (01:38:34):
It's funny because even like the ignition, my husband can
get in the car and start it right away. I
have to sit there and like shake the key and
try to like wiggle it because I think it kind
of stunk at some point like within the if you
sit there and.

Speaker 30 (01:38:47):
Wiggle it and wigle it, I do it, and I
do it, and I want.

Speaker 21 (01:38:50):
To do it, I know.

Speaker 3 (01:38:51):
But you know what, we gotta we gotta give her
some credit. She still gets you where you need to go,
and she still starts if you just give her a
little wiggle, you know.

Speaker 4 (01:38:58):
Yeah, best of law.

Speaker 3 (01:39:00):
Just be safe on the roads, okay, promise. Oh all right,
thanks for listening to us. A Line twenty two is Ali.
She has a two thousand and seven Honda Odyssey with
one hundred and seventy three thousand miles on it. Ali,
how's she rolling?

Speaker 33 (01:39:13):
Uh?

Speaker 37 (01:39:13):
You know?

Speaker 20 (01:39:14):
I mean it gets me a point A to point B.

Speaker 9 (01:39:16):
So can't complain too much.

Speaker 4 (01:39:17):
Right, Like, what's the problem?

Speaker 33 (01:39:19):
Well, so you know, one time I was driving on
the highway and the automatic flighting door it just kind
of flew open and no real reason. I don't really
know what happened there.

Speaker 20 (01:39:30):
Of course, my son was in.

Speaker 3 (01:39:31):
The car in his car seat.

Speaker 9 (01:39:33):
He's like, MoMA, door open.

Speaker 3 (01:39:34):
I'm like, oh, oh, oh my god.

Speaker 33 (01:39:38):
So yeah, that was that was not great. And then actually,
my favorite thing though, is so I got in twenty
seven and twenty seventeen, this little alert popped up on
my GPS. So that said, I'm ten years old, it's
time to buy a new car, and I should have listened.

Speaker 26 (01:39:53):
Are you serious?

Speaker 3 (01:39:54):
Oh my god, Yeah, I'm read of that.

Speaker 33 (01:39:56):
I'm trying to find the photo to send to you guys,
because I have it, and I because I saw it
and I was in total displace.

Speaker 3 (01:40:02):
I would love to see that your car is actually
saying just just kill me, just kill me. Oh my god.
All right, we'll best of luck with that. Ali.

Speaker 4 (01:40:14):
When your car is begging for mercy, you know you
got a problem.

Speaker 8 (01:40:18):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:40:18):
Anyway, there you go, the two thousand and seven Honda
Odyssey where the door just flew open on the highway
and her son in the car seat almost perished. All right, Well,
thanks for listening to us, Ali, you have a great day, Okay,
who chooses to get up.

Speaker 6 (01:40:30):
At this morning?

Speaker 1 (01:40:33):
Elvis ter Ran in the Morning Show. Elvis ter Oran
in the Morning Show.

Speaker 4 (01:40:47):
Hey, I don't know if you follow We see you
Karen on Instagram?

Speaker 3 (01:40:53):
I know I do, we see you Karen. Oh, here's
this lady on the bicycle. I have a right ride
my bike on this street. Like you just yelling at
the guy driving the car, you know, please? The thing
is the guy driving the car. He's sure head that
camera up really fast, yep to catch her. Sometimes do
you wonder if these Karen videos are which one is

(01:41:15):
the Karen here?

Speaker 33 (01:41:16):
Yes?

Speaker 3 (01:41:17):
Look, a lot of times they do catch people doing
heinous things like going into fast food restaurants and throwing
trays and throwing a fit. And you know I deserve
to be I get that. But sometimes do you feel
that having that camera roll up into your face makes
a situation ten times worse?

Speaker 27 (01:41:35):
Of course?

Speaker 11 (01:41:35):
Absolutely?

Speaker 10 (01:41:36):
At Eggs, John, totally, I wonder.

Speaker 3 (01:41:39):
I mean, I've never had a camera like thrust into
my face. I guess I don't not yet anyway, But
the Karen videos, I don't know. Then it always goes
up for debate. People posting, and a lot of times
they side with the person who's being recorded and not
the person who decided to turn them in.

Speaker 10 (01:41:58):
And sometimes I think people egg people on just so
they can get a video. Like there was one video
where the guy chased this woman down in his car,
went on sidewalks and kept following her. I'm like, there's
really no need to keep doing this, but he was
recording and he had a great video, so you know,
he was just kept going.

Speaker 3 (01:42:17):
Tell you what, it's a tricky thing, these videos. There
have been so many situations in our society where people
being wronged would never have been vindicated ever, if someone
had not been there to record it right without doubt.
I mean, we're talking about people losing their lives. We're
also talking about people who see someone doing something a

(01:42:37):
little jankity, then they whip out that camera and it
automatically is multiplied by dozens of times of intensity. The
level of intensity multiplies to the point where it doesn't
make sense anymore. You know, have you guys ever caught
anyone doing something on camera just to kind of try

(01:42:58):
to froggy did? Remember what'd you get from?

Speaker 32 (01:43:01):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (01:43:01):
Remember the lady that she tried to she tried to
raw a liquor store and she got it. She took
money out of the liquor store and took out and
they got her in the parking lot and blocked her.

Speaker 5 (01:43:12):
I recorded the whole thing.

Speaker 6 (01:43:14):
But at the same time, when you're doing stuff like that, you,
like you said, sometimes they side with the other person,
like why didn't you just leave her alone? Like so
there really is no upside to it. But you see
people doing stuff sometimes and then I think taking out
the phone exacerbates the situations that.

Speaker 3 (01:43:31):
Yes, yeah, but like I said, you know, you draw
the line where there are things that do need to
be caught, and we do have the power of video,
so we can catch these people. So if you know,
God forbid they hurt someone or kill someone, they are
caught doing it and we got them. But you know,
just you know, being a turd in public, I mean,

(01:43:52):
I mean, you know what I'm saying, Yes, Producer.

Speaker 31 (01:43:53):
Sam, there are definitely those occasions where, like you're saying,
someone kind of needs to be held accountable through the video,
But there are other people I think who fool themselves
into thinking they're helping just by recording. And there's a
lot of situations where if you really feel like you
need to help someone and nothing's actually dangerous, you could
just like step in and say something instead of just
pulling out your phone and staring at the person like

(01:44:15):
I've done that. A woman was getting her assd and
a couple of us went up to her instead of
just recording it and watching it happen.

Speaker 3 (01:44:20):
How fast can you can you whip your phone out
and start videoing?

Speaker 4 (01:44:23):
Let's see one fast, two, three, four, and you're on here.

Speaker 3 (01:44:28):
It took you five seconds to whip it out? Crazy now, no, gandhi,
can you get it? Can you? Can you pull yours
out of the holster faster and start recording?

Speaker 11 (01:44:35):
Bam, mine's usually in a pocket, Let's go.

Speaker 3 (01:44:38):
Yeah.

Speaker 11 (01:44:39):
But I agree, and I totally agree with what Sam said,
And I definitely think that it makes a situation worse
when you bust that camera out, And I wish people
would understand sometimes people are having a mental breakdown when
this stuff is happening. Recording it is not helping the situation.
I know that there are situations where it needs to
be handled that way, but when you post it for likes,
it's kind of disgusting. And when you see somebody trying

(01:44:59):
to you walk away from a situation. Let them go,
Let people walk away. You don't know what's going to
happen if you follow.

Speaker 3 (01:45:06):
Scary's afraid of whip his cameraun because he's afraid he's
going to become a target. They're gonna come after him.

Speaker 16 (01:45:11):
Yeah, all of a sudden, if they see some a
third party, you know, just whip out their phone and
start recording. They may come after me because they know
the consequences.

Speaker 3 (01:45:18):
If that ends up online.

Speaker 8 (01:45:19):
That is true.

Speaker 3 (01:45:20):
I don't want to be part of that. I walk away.
There you go.

Speaker 4 (01:45:22):
It's a whole new world we're living in.

Speaker 11 (01:45:24):
Scary turns us back on the whole thing, leaves everyone
to die exactly.

Speaker 3 (01:45:30):
People are on your own now, don't call me anyway.
There you go. So that's why when you watch all
these Karen's being called out in public, are you really
being a part of the problem or not? I don't know,
just a just a tho.

Speaker 1 (01:45:49):
This is Elvis Da ran in the morning show.

Speaker 3 (01:45:55):
All right, shows done, let's get out of here until
next time. Say peace out, everybody, he said, everybody