FULL SHOW: The Day We Let Them with Mel Robbins

Mel Robbins stopped by to talk about her new book and the Let Them method. We talk about what we did over the weekend, plus our listener Jenna plays one of Gandhi's games!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Yeah, I'm going I lost that slim right off of
my beat. So funny.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
Everything about this show was great.

Speaker 3 (00:09):
It's everything that's just funny.

Speaker 1 (00:10):
Like I love it, Jass, it's time for Barbie to
get a bush.

Speaker 4 (00:15):
It's just hilarious.

Speaker 1 (00:17):
National Radio holds.

Speaker 3 (00:19):
Elvis Duran is back with us.

Speaker 2 (00:21):
Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (00:24):
Well look at that. The weekend is over. I got
bad news. The weekend is over, Kling, Why did you
tell us you stuck? Well, the good news is the
week has begun and we're together. Hey, hey, it is
Monday four fourteen. Shut up, Froggy, Welcome to the day.
I hope you had a great weekend. Good morning, Froggy.
How you feeling. Good morning, I'm good. I'm good. Yep, yep. Danielle,

(00:45):
how are you feeling?

Speaker 4 (00:45):
I'm good?

Speaker 1 (00:46):
Thank you, Gandhy.

Speaker 5 (00:48):
Good morning, feeling good, feeling great wends.

Speaker 1 (00:53):
Just Scatty and Scatty, good morning, Good morning. Producer. Sam's
in the house. Hey, hey girl, By the way, Sam,
I will be calling upon you in a moment to
pick our first song of the week. Hold up, Scottie
Bees in the house. Hi, Scotty Bees A right, good morning,
there's Diamond. There's Garrett Andrews should be rolling through it
at one point today. But right now, let's get into

(01:13):
the first song of the week, as requested by producer Sam.
What is it you want to hear?

Speaker 3 (01:19):
I would love to hear Roses by Outcast?

Speaker 1 (01:23):
Oh my god, remember this? This is the song that
talks about roses spelling like poop poo. Okay, let's investigate
did they really?

Speaker 4 (01:33):
Let's find out right now?

Speaker 1 (01:47):
Look at that. Your ish don't dying, but you like
poop poo? What a weird song. We haven't played this
song since what your twenties tea? Yeah, I wonder what?
Thank you Sam? What a great song. Anyway, we'll welcome
to the day. Our first caller of the week is

(02:08):
Michelle Online three. Good morning, Michelle. Michelle met one of
her celebrity crushes. Well, good morning, So Michelle met one
of her celebrity questions this weekend. Tell everyone who it
was is?

Speaker 6 (02:21):
God Michael Murray?

Speaker 7 (02:22):
Oh wow, oh wow, you've got three names.

Speaker 4 (02:26):
He could be a beautiful.

Speaker 1 (02:28):
He has three names. He could be an assassin. As
we know, most great killers have three names. Anyway, So
where did you meet Chad Michael Murray at.

Speaker 6 (02:38):
The Gilmore Girls Convention in New for Connecticut.

Speaker 1 (02:41):
But of course the Gilmore Girls convention. We weren't even
invited to that convention. So where any of you guys
at Gilmore Girls fan like.

Speaker 7 (02:53):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:55):
So what's Chad Michael Murray like these days? Is he
still dreaming?

Speaker 6 (03:00):
Oh, he's so dreaming. He's got long hair, he's tall,
he's so nice. He hugged everybody. He talked to everybody.
It was amazing. So patient.

Speaker 1 (03:10):
He still has original teeth and everything.

Speaker 6 (03:12):
Yes he does.

Speaker 8 (03:16):
Too.

Speaker 1 (03:16):
If anybody watches WHOA Well, I love how you say
he's so patient. I mean, were the fans of crawling him?

Speaker 2 (03:23):
Like?

Speaker 1 (03:23):
Was here they crawling up him like a tree?

Speaker 7 (03:26):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (03:26):
Well, it was supposed to be like a photo op
where you just kind of go in there just for
a minute, take a picture, and leave. They're not really
supposed to talk to you. But he talked to every
single person that was there. Oh wow, he took his time. Hi,
how are you? He was very He weren't rushed at all.
It was amazing.

Speaker 7 (03:40):
How crazy was it?

Speaker 9 (03:41):
Like?

Speaker 7 (03:41):
Crazy packed?

Speaker 6 (03:44):
It wasn't awful. The lines were pretty long, but because
it was done in a little town, it was very
spaced out, so you didn't actually see everybody all the time.
You know, people were in the shops and people were
like on the green and people were you know, in
all different places. You got to collect stamp sun. It
was fun.

Speaker 1 (04:00):
So did anyone else on the show meet their childhood superstar? Anyone?

Speaker 2 (04:04):
No?

Speaker 5 (04:04):
Mine follows me on Instagram? Now that makes me so happy.

Speaker 1 (04:07):
Yeah, there you go, you have that. I mean, I
mean scary and Nate went to see Barry Manilow last week. Yeah,
they didn't get to meet him. You did see him
from Afar and when you said that was cool to
be very Madelow cool. Yeah, it's so cool very to
see where a yank.

Speaker 10 (04:28):
I got to meet him once in an awkward moment.

Speaker 1 (04:30):
He's a whole other story. Well, look, you are the
first caller of the week, Michelle, and you have you've
got that spunky, great sassy attitude. We love that. What
do you have for our friend, Michelle? Any good? Elvis
Durrant in the Morning show hoodie thanks to Hackensack.

Speaker 11 (04:42):
Meridine that's dying for that.

Speaker 6 (04:43):
Thank you so much.

Speaker 1 (04:45):
There you go, next time you see.

Speaker 6 (04:48):
Uh, this is my third shirt from you guys, actually
second you ruined one God for the Pandemic a T shirt,
and then I bought your twenty five year anniversary one
with you and the guitar on it.

Speaker 1 (04:58):
Oh wow, you have more of our merch than I do.
I don't even have any of our merch. I see
all the great hoodies and shirch we have, I have
no I have none of them. They don't give me anything.
Next time you see Chad Michael Murray telling we said
hi and you have a great week. Okay, Michelle, thank
you so much. Oh okay, hold on one second. Hey,

(05:18):
you know who's on later, and we're all very excited
about about Mel Robbins on the show. Love her, She's
gonna beyond later. Just kind of set us straight. We
need her Mel Robins in about two hours. So here
you go. On the way. Hey, let's get into the
three things we need to know from Gandhi. Let's go
on with the day. So much going on today, Gandhi,
Where do you start?

Speaker 5 (05:38):
Let's start in Pennsylvania. A man is in custody and
we'll face attempted murder and arson charges following a Sunday
morning fire at the Pennsylvania Governor's mansion. According to the
Pennsylvania State Police. Firefighters responded to the Harrisburg residents of
Governor Josh Shapiro at about two a m. He's and
his family say that they were home at the time,

(05:58):
and we're obviously able to escape un harmed, thank god.
He went on to say the attack was targeted, but
a specific motive is still not known. The FAA says
the tour company that operated the fatal flight that crashed
into the Hudson River Thursday is officially shutting down. The
announcement came just hours aftertor Senate Minority leader Chuck Schumer

(06:18):
called on the FAA to suspend the company's operating license.
The news comes as the FAA and the NTSB continue
to investigate and attempt to recover parts of the helicopter
from the Hudson River.

Speaker 12 (06:29):
And finally, I'm really.

Speaker 5 (06:31):
Not a huge golfer, okay, but I don't know if
any of you guys watched Masters yesterday.

Speaker 7 (06:35):
Froggy, I knowed it.

Speaker 12 (06:37):
And it was crazy.

Speaker 5 (06:38):
History has officially been made at Augusta National after Rory
McElroy won the Masters to become the sixth player in
history to compete the complete the Grand Slam. He defeated
Justin Rose in a one whole playoff to capture his
first career green jacket. He's thirty five years old and
joins Froggy. Can please help if I get this wrong?
Gene Sarazen saraz Ben Hogan, Gary Player, Jack Nicholas and

(07:02):
Tiger Woods as the only players to win the Masters,
PGA Championship, US Open and the Open Championship as well.

Speaker 7 (07:10):
This kid hit the ball and it went in.

Speaker 12 (07:13):
Oh the first day, it was like the first.

Speaker 7 (07:15):
Yes, justed it and it rolled all the way into
the hole. I'm like, what the hell? Yeah, it's crazy.

Speaker 12 (07:23):
It was crazy. Like I find golf so boring for
the most part, but yesterday I was like, what is happening?
This is crazy. It was great And those are your
three things.

Speaker 1 (07:31):
See, I can't play golf unless there's a windmill and
like a clown. I'm with you. Hey, are you ready
for your Monday? Yes, let's fly baby, let's go. I'm
sorry the button I didn't I'm not trigging. Let's fly baby,
let's go. It's not working. My button's not working.

Speaker 4 (07:52):
Justin.

Speaker 1 (07:54):
This is Elton Jump.

Speaker 3 (07:55):
This is Prettey's fears in the morning.

Speaker 1 (07:57):
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Speaker 3 (08:17):
Hey, it's Sat McCrae with Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (08:21):
There she has Tate McCray stopping by saying good morning.
She always tells play at this time every day. Do
you notice that? Yes, I mean the day that Tate
McCray doesn't stop by, it's gonna be a weird day.
It's gonna be like what we do now, you know,
good morning, do you Tate? Now you go have a
nice day. Hey. So Mel Robbins in just about two
hours from now, we'll have her on. A lot of

(08:42):
us had great discussions over the weekend about her big,
huge book called Let Them Let Them Theory. How far
are you into that, Danielle? Did you listen to some more?

Speaker 2 (08:51):
Oh?

Speaker 7 (08:51):
Yes, I've listened to it a lot over the weekend,
So I'm doing very well. I'm almost done with it
and it's it's awesome. I love going on my walks
and listening to it.

Speaker 1 (08:58):
What are you getting from it, I mean, just for you,
And what are you getting from I'm.

Speaker 7 (09:01):
Getting that a lot of times that I get upset
about things and I shouldn't be getting upset about them,
that that's just what a person is going to do,
and that's just them, and I have to just take
a deep breath and say, Okay, don't let it bother you.
It's not a big deal, you know. And I'm also
taking away that a lot of times I have to
do things because it's not just about letting them, it's
also about let me. And so a lot of times

(09:24):
I feel I procrastinate with things, and I can't procrastinate
with things. I have to just do things.

Speaker 6 (09:30):
You know.

Speaker 1 (09:30):
My dad told me a long time ago, and it
kind of rolls into what we're talking about. And I
hate it when he told me this, but it's so true.
You have to lower your expectations from other people or
of other people. You have to just let people off
the hook. They're going to disappoint you, You're going to
disappoint yourself. He's got to move on, just let it go.

(09:51):
Letting go is just a very difficult thing to do,
is it not.

Speaker 7 (09:54):
Yes, Yeah, there's also a problem with this book, because
you know, my husband and I are both we both
love her, right, so now we're using the let them
theory on each other.

Speaker 1 (10:05):
Way, give me an example, what are you doing? Are
you torturing each other?

Speaker 7 (10:09):
Over the weekend, we were on a track meet and
he made a comment about something and I said, you
know what, let them? And I looked at him and
he goes, oh, no, you don't. I go, oh, yeah,
I'm gonna let you, just like Mel says, let them,
and I walk away from him and he's like, wait
a second. Wow, started using it on each other, but
telling each other that we're using it on each other.

Speaker 1 (10:28):
You're using her as a tool to fight your husband,
I have.

Speaker 7 (10:31):
It's so funny.

Speaker 1 (10:32):
I don't know if that's sort of counterproductive.

Speaker 12 (10:34):
I think that's what she wanted out of it for.

Speaker 1 (10:36):
Sure, exactly. Really just kind of stick that knife in
and turn it. Yeah, let them anyway, So Mel robbins
on a little bit, So hang on, I can't wait
to have our discussion with her. Let's get into the
horoscopes producer, Sam, Hi, who are you doing these with today?

Speaker 3 (10:53):
So I asked Scotty B.

Speaker 13 (10:54):
But now I feel badly because I see his daughter
Cooper is sleeping in his studio.

Speaker 1 (10:58):
Okay, well, okay, this is a working show. People cannot
take is a daycare center, we will not. That's like
when Scary falls asleep here in the studio. No, no,
this is a working studio. We've got things to do.
We will not let sleeping children slowest down. That's there,
I said it. Let's go all right.

Speaker 14 (11:18):
If it's your birthday today, you share it with Adrian Brody,
Rob Mceellanie and Sarah Michelle Geller.

Speaker 1 (11:24):
Capricorn. I don't know who he is.

Speaker 12 (11:29):
Oh my gosh, my god, Mac, it's always funny.

Speaker 14 (11:31):
I didn't want part of I was just gonna leave
it out, but people would yell at me anyway. Capricorn,
enjoy that sometimes your mind plays games with you. Now
is the time to disengage and recenter. Your day is
an eight Aquarius.

Speaker 13 (11:46):
Instead of pushing yourself harder, try putting rest and rejuvenation
at the top of your to do list.

Speaker 7 (11:51):
Your day's a nine Pisces.

Speaker 14 (11:52):
Don't make yourself deal with pain alone. Reach out to
a loved one to hold your hand through emotional chaos.
Your day is a seven Aries.

Speaker 13 (11:59):
Your assertiveness. This may take some time to get used to,
but you hold your ground and let others adjust.

Speaker 15 (12:04):
Your day's a six Taurus.

Speaker 14 (12:05):
Today, your superpower is being an observer rather than engage
with your emotions.

Speaker 1 (12:09):
Your day is a ten Gemini.

Speaker 3 (12:11):
Vulnerability is a strength.

Speaker 13 (12:13):
Being honest with the situation you're in will create room
to better cope with it.

Speaker 3 (12:16):
Your day's a nine.

Speaker 14 (12:17):
Cancer Today, try to go with the flow and let
life happen rather than forcing it. Your day is a
six Leo. Don't doubt your own wisdom. Doubting yourself too
hard will be the real reason something doesn't work out.
Your day's an eight Virgo. You've been oblivious to the
signs for a while. Start paying attention or you'll keep
getting burned. Your day is a seven Wow Libra.

Speaker 13 (12:37):
Keep an open mind. Respecting other's opinion like your own
will actually help you learn something new.

Speaker 1 (12:42):
Your day's a nine Scorpio.

Speaker 14 (12:43):
The only way to hear your own voice clearly is
by turning down the noises outside. Protect your piece. Your
day is an eight ten.

Speaker 13 (12:51):
Finally, Sagittarius, don't start a fire you can't handle. Instead
of getting triggered, shift your focus to a new perspective.
Your day's of five and those your Monday morning horscopes.

Speaker 1 (13:00):
I don't know if you've been watching, but Coachella closed
down last night and it looked like it was the
most amazing Coachella of all time, even though there were
some complaints about you know, getting in and out and
you know, the heat being at one hundred and two degrees.
Other than that, into the crowd, yeah, there is that.
Benson Boone was the star of the entire weekend. Benson.

(13:22):
But did you see some of the footage of him
coming out and doing Bohemian Rhapsody? Yeah, doing backflips off.
He's getting higher and higher with his back flips. He's
going to break an ankle. But I mean, what a
superstar of this, Benson Boone. And how lucky were we
to have him on our jingle Ball tour?

Speaker 7 (13:39):
You know, and Gaga was incredible. Oh I know, gosh,
so incredible. But I'm going to talk about that in
my entertainment the oats. The complaints of Coachella, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (13:49):
There were some. There's some complaints, especially if you're sleeping there.
You know, people stunk, They stunked a high. Hell, I'm sure,
but that Benson Boone.

Speaker 7 (13:57):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (13:58):
Anyway, if you Uh, if you weren't online this weekend,
you missed, but he was everywhere. He was the star
of social media over the weekend. What a guy anyway,
So that story and more on the way with Danielle.

Speaker 2 (14:08):
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Speaker 16 (14:37):
Elvista ran in the morning show. Welcome to the day,
Elister ran in the morning.

Speaker 1 (14:42):
Show, Welcome back from the weekend. I gotta tell you
it was a good weekend. I'm so sad to see
you go, but it's gone. Gotta let it go, We
gotta let it go. How was your weekend, Danielle? What'd
you do?

Speaker 7 (14:53):
It was amazing. We had a track meet, we had
I did a lot of organizing in my closet, which
made me feel good. But I got to see you
know Judy Torres, our friend Judy Torres. Oh yeah, so
she produced and she had a part in this show
called Freestyle A Love Story at Lehman College in the Bronx,
And so I got to go there and it was
an amazing show. Not only was an amazing show, but

(15:15):
it was so cool because I got to relive my
childhood all the freestyle music and there were references in
the show like you know, iraq z Z Cavalricci, the
Limelight Dance Materia. The crowd was incredible, screaming and dancing
and we just had the best time.

Speaker 1 (15:34):
Danielle, you gotta stop, You got to stop. You wear
me out? Daniel Do you guys agree she wears me out?
Does she wear you out? Danielle is always going somewhere
and doing something. It's like you're un It's like you're
running from something. What are you running from?

Speaker 17 (15:46):
I don't know.

Speaker 7 (15:46):
I'm going to two shows this week too. I'm so excited.

Speaker 1 (15:49):
What do you see this week?

Speaker 7 (15:50):
Well, Wednesday, I'm going with Deanna to see the one
that you and Gandhi saw, the one with.

Speaker 12 (15:54):
Chris maybe Happy Ending.

Speaker 7 (15:56):
Yeah, And tomorrow tomorrow I'm going to see The Stranger
Things play on Broadway.

Speaker 15 (16:03):
I can't wait.

Speaker 1 (16:03):
So seriously, it's like Daniel's always on the run and
it just it wears me out just listening to what
you're saying. Does anyone agree with me? Yeah? No, don't
apologize for it. God, I wish I had your energy, Godi.
How was your weekend? What was the highlight?

Speaker 12 (16:19):
My weekend was great?

Speaker 5 (16:20):
Well, the highlight I guess Brandon popped up yesterday kind
of unannounced, like he told me a few hours before
he was coming that he was coming because he had
some business he had to handle here.

Speaker 12 (16:29):
So that was fun.

Speaker 5 (16:30):
And then I went to Conveyor Belt Sushi, always a
good time.

Speaker 12 (16:34):
And then I went out to dinner on Friday night
as well.

Speaker 1 (16:37):
Yeah, Froggie, I was your weekend?

Speaker 2 (16:39):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (16:39):
It was great.

Speaker 18 (16:39):
On Saturday, we actually Friday night and Saturday and went
to Daytona to a charity event Provision Packs. They provide
food to lower income families who so children don't go
to school hungry. We went and did a charity event
for them, spent the day on the on the water
in Daytona, and then yesterday I literally sat down in
front of my television at two o'clock and I did
not get off my couch until eight o'clock. I watched

(17:01):
every single shot of The Masters yesterday on TV.

Speaker 1 (17:04):
So it's a good day.

Speaker 15 (17:05):
It's crazy.

Speaker 1 (17:05):
Wow, what about you, Nate, what'd you do?

Speaker 19 (17:08):
I tell you I had the opposite of all y'all's weekends. I,
as you know, on Friday, I wasn't feeling one hundred percent.
So I went home and I slept for thirty six
hours in the span of forty eight hours.

Speaker 1 (17:19):
I was exhausted. I don't know what happened. I diagnosed
myself with sleeping sickness, but there were no ct flies around,
so I don't know how I got it, but it
was it was insane. Well, I love it. You're like,
I don't know what happened and there were no teach flies. No,
I don't know what happened to me.

Speaker 19 (17:40):
I told you some of the symptoms I had, and
I'm like, right, maybe I should see a doctor, but fine, now,
maybe I don't know.

Speaker 1 (17:46):
Sometimes the body just says shut down.

Speaker 7 (17:48):
But here's the thing. I'm Trigandhia agrees. When you have
a past like you do, where you had two strokes,
you had surgery, when something like this is happening. Yep,
probably should go see somebody. I'm just saying, you.

Speaker 1 (18:03):
See him in like a month and a half and
you could be dead. You asked, well, well, know what
it was.

Speaker 5 (18:08):
I'm telling you what I checked on Nate. I tried
to check on him every few hours. He told me,
if you don't hear back from me in three hours,
call nine one one. I'm not sure how that's supposed.

Speaker 7 (18:17):
To help him in any way.

Speaker 1 (18:18):
It doesn't.

Speaker 12 (18:19):
But there were a.

Speaker 5 (18:19):
Couple times where I'm like, Nate, it has been two hours.
I am calling nine one one in fifty four minutes.
And then he would text back.

Speaker 12 (18:25):
I'm like, OA, take it.

Speaker 1 (18:26):
Yeah, I was. Have you been like that all of it?
I just got hit by a trust. You know what,
Sometimes your body they say you should always listen to
your body. Your body will tell you what you need
and what you don't need. And your body was saying
you need to sleep. Yeah, I don't. I don't think
he's about to have a stroke or no pass away.
Barry Manilow was the thing that was taking me over

(18:47):
the edge last week. I mean going to a Barry Manilow,
a Barry Manilo concert, is the closest thing to having
a stroke as you can ever have. If ever you
want to feel what a stroke feels like, go see
a Berry Manilow coach. It's scary. How was your weekend?
It was great. Friends were in town.

Speaker 10 (19:02):
I had dinner with my friend British Warren, and then
I had a bunch of Chicago Brian.

Speaker 1 (19:08):
Yesterday, my father, my sister and I we.

Speaker 10 (19:09):
Went out to the Holy Root Cemetery in Long Island
and we planted the palms for Palm Sunday for all
the deceased, including my mom, my grandparents, my great grandparents.
And then we went over to the other cemetery in
Brooklyn from my other side of the family. It was
a day of that, but it was you know what,
it was awesome. It was so cool, and it was
just I take a lot of pride.

Speaker 1 (19:29):
In this stuff these days.

Speaker 10 (19:30):
So and we had a nice bunch of Copper Hill
in Williston Park.

Speaker 1 (19:34):
Long Island. Wow, look at that. Well me, you know
where I am every Sunday a clockwork I met Almah. Yeah,
did you do anything?

Speaker 20 (19:43):
Oh?

Speaker 1 (19:43):
Yeah, absolutely at Alma. You know every Sunday for Sunday Sauce.
We have to be there and a lot of our
listeners were there. And you know what happens if you
show up to Almah even if I'm not there, and say, hey,
I heard about your restaurant from Elvis Durant on the
morning show. They have to give me a glass of wine.
What I had four glasses yesterday complimentary.

Speaker 10 (20:04):
I must tell you a whole venue at this point.

Speaker 1 (20:06):
Oh he does, he does, vats he owes me that
we had. We had a great day with some friends.
It was it was a beautiful day. All right. Let's
get into the Danielle report. So much going on. Like
I said, the headline with me anyway watching social media
over the weekend was Benson Boone at Coachella, I mean,
and Lady Gaga. Yeah, Coachella this year, even with all
the complaints, they said, it was just an amazing show.

(20:28):
So you want to get deeper into that show.

Speaker 7 (20:30):
We'll start out with the show. So Travis, Scott, Gaga,
Benson Boone, I mean, the list goes on and on.
Who took the stage for the first weekend and it
was amazing. People thought the show was great. But Coachella
ticket holders that paid hundreds of dollars for access to
that car camping area said that they waited in line
to get in ten to twelve hours, so they called

(20:52):
it Coach Hella, and they said that people had rushed
to get to the festival because they wanted to catch
Lady Gaga, Fry, Charlie XCX, and Travis Scott. They performed
Saturday night. Post Malone closed the show on Sunday and
a lot of people were saying it was one hundred
degrees outside. People's cars were overheating, they were running out
of gas, there were no bathrooms anywhere, and they said,

(21:15):
and we paid over six hundred dollars to be here,
so absolutely ridiculous. So yeah, but other than that, the
performances were fantastic. So this is it. This is the
morning where Katie Perry, Jeff Bezos is soon to be
a wife, Lauren Sanchez, Gail King, and others. The all
female crew are going into space on Jeff Bezos's Blue Origin.

(21:36):
The launch window is around nine thirty Eastern time, which
is six thirty Pacific time this morning. I know Katie
Perry took to social yesterday and she was talking about
how she had good feelings about this because her mom
called her a couple of nicknames that were associated with
the flight and the launch. So Jeff Bezos is soon
to be wife is actually the flight commander. She is

(21:59):
in show. So there you go. So I guess it's
all gonna be happening while we're on the air this morning, right,
So it'll be cool to see how it goes down.
Did any of you see a Minecraft movie over the weekend?

Speaker 2 (22:09):
No?

Speaker 7 (22:09):
Okay, So it once again won the North American box
office brought an eighty point six million dollars in a
second weekend. The movie basically is a ridiculous success, passing
five hundred and fifty million at the global box office.
Now it's now expected to be the first movie of
twenty twenty five to pass the one billion dollar mark
at the box offow. And of course there are still

(22:32):
the idiots that are throwing things at the screen. So
Sebastian Manuscalco, one of our favorite comedians, took the social
to tell us what he would do to his kids
if he acted like if they acted like that in
the movie.

Speaker 8 (22:43):
Well, what the hell's going on with this movie Minecraft?
Why does the theater look like nineteen grenades went off
after this movie's done? Teenagers thrown around popcorn, soft drinks,
candy because of some chicken jackie. Any parents out there saying, hey,
don't act up at the theater. My son throws popcorn
and drinks all over. He ain't going again. That's its
m that's a good at home. Look at the wall again.

Speaker 12 (23:07):
It's so expensive. Why are you throwing gold around candy
at the movies?

Speaker 1 (23:12):
It's part of the experience. Hit this particular film.

Speaker 7 (23:14):
Yes, I don't know it's fair. I mean a popcorn
isn't bad, but don't start throwing slushies and all that
stuff all over. The people are walking out of the
movie theater sticky because they got hit with a slush
with a drink.

Speaker 1 (23:26):
Yeah, that's not cool. Guys, where's last time, Nate? When's
the last time you went to a movie theater and
came out sticky? No nasty?

Speaker 17 (23:43):
All right?

Speaker 7 (23:43):
We all love the original of the Bodyguard movie with
Kevin cost and Whitney used him from nineteen ninety two
that pulled in over four hundred million dollars globally. Well,
they're making it over again. They're doing a little remake.
They tapped Eras toward director Sam Wrench to lead the charge.
So I'll keep you posted on that. It was so perfect?
Why mess with it? But okay, and a blind item

(24:04):
for you from our boy Rob Shooter. Now, this came
out last week, but I was intrigued by it, so
I wanted to bring it to you. Now you ready.
This popular late night host known for his witty remarks
and a list guest list may be killing it on camera,
but insiders say he's gag worthy off screen, and not
in a good way. According to multiple staffers and former guests,
this funny man suffers from seriously bad breath, so bad

(24:26):
that some team members have learned to keep a polite
distance during meetings and rehearsals. One source even claimed a
guest jokingly offered him a mint during the commercial break,
but it wasn't a joke. Despite his charm in comedic timing,
he's earned the not so flattering nickname Halatosis Harry among
the crew. Some say it is due to stress, skip meals,

(24:47):
or too much booze, but whatever the cause, the smell
is very real and very unwelcome.

Speaker 1 (24:52):
Well, I don't think it's Jimmy Fallon because he always
has very sweet breath.

Speaker 7 (24:55):
Oh yeah, whenever he comes here, he smells.

Speaker 12 (24:58):
Who could it be?

Speaker 15 (25:00):
I don't know, but I want to know.

Speaker 7 (25:01):
I'm gonna I'm gonna text Rob and see if he'll
tell me. Yeah, because sometimes he'll tell me as long
as I don't tell everyone else.

Speaker 15 (25:07):
Okay.

Speaker 7 (25:07):
So American Idols on tonight, part two of the Top
twenty four performing in Disney. You've got the Voice the
second season premiere of Holy Marvel's with Dennis Quaid. You've
got all your NCIS shows, and were you talking to
Nate about a show before that?

Speaker 1 (25:19):
You're loving Elvis, Oh my god. Mobland that is on.
It's a Guy Ritchie production. It's on Paramount Plus. It's
so great. But you know, even though it's British, they're
speaking the Queen's English. I do have to turn them
the subtitles on so I can understand what they're saying.
It is fantastic, cool.

Speaker 7 (25:39):
Yep, and that's my Danielle report.

Speaker 1 (25:40):
Marblin, Well, thank you, daniel Hey. The countdowns on till
Mel Robbins is here and talking to us from now
till then? Is hell long? Roughly an hour, just a
cutting hour, Mel Robbins all the way.

Speaker 2 (25:53):
We're not normal hell, mister ran in the Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (25:57):
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Speaker 16 (26:20):
Elvis, Duran and The Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (26:24):
I don't think so. I don't feel like I'm running
the show at all, cause you guys are you're in
charge here. I just show up all that, okay, you
know me, I just show up whatever you whatever you say,
we do, we do, and I just kind of follow along.

Speaker 12 (26:40):
Someone to cut that sound. Oh really have it forever?

Speaker 1 (26:44):
You know me? I'm more passive, yes, laughing? What is
it with you people? Well, anyway, it's a beautiful, beautiful
day shaping up here in the in the Northeast. Anyway,
it looks like a great day on the way. Maybe
some rain later possible.

Speaker 10 (27:00):
Maybe tomorrow morning, but not today.

Speaker 1 (27:02):
Okay, God, I'm so ready for winter to be over that.
If you're living in Miami right now, you have no
idea what we're talking about. But I mean, it was Saturday.
I opened the door to walk outside and it was
this freezing cold mist. Did you feel that Saturday snow.

Speaker 12 (27:20):
For a second.

Speaker 7 (27:22):
Wait, so Saturday morning there was ice on the ground.
Did you notice that? So my son still had a
track meet in the ice and that rain. The kids
were running, Thankfully the track didn't have that on it.
It was I've never seen kids wetter. And when he
came home, his entire bag was I had to take

(27:43):
everything out. It was disgusting.

Speaker 15 (27:45):
It was disgusting.

Speaker 1 (27:46):
I bet the smell of a wet kid.

Speaker 7 (27:48):
It's just not a sweaty wet kid. Yuckie.

Speaker 1 (27:53):
Oh God.

Speaker 5 (27:54):
Andrew and I walked to dinner on Friday and we
were so excited to walk home. And as soon as
we walked out, the rain and the wind hit us
at the same time.

Speaker 12 (28:02):
We both screamed and called a car.

Speaker 1 (28:06):
What a bogie problem? It was all you call it?

Speaker 6 (28:09):
Car?

Speaker 5 (28:10):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (28:11):
Can you imagine? Hey, let's talk about the women heading
into outer space today? So who all is on board?
You you told us a second ago. It's Katy Perry.

Speaker 12 (28:25):
And Katy Perry, Gail King, Lauren Sanchez.

Speaker 7 (28:29):
Yeah, Lauren Sanchez. Wait, there's a couple more home on.
Let me find that story.

Speaker 5 (28:32):
Yeah, Lauren Sanchez is a pilot and she actually founded
like an aviation company.

Speaker 1 (28:37):
That's so cool.

Speaker 7 (28:38):
Yeah, she's actually in charge of the whole thing. She's
the flight commander. So aerospace engineer Aisha Bow, civil rights
activist Amanda how do you say her last name? N?
G u y e n. You want to say it wrong? Yes,
and film producer Carrie Anne Flynn.

Speaker 1 (28:57):
Okay, So they take off of her what.

Speaker 7 (29:00):
Am say, nine six thirty Pacific?

Speaker 1 (29:03):
And so where are they going? What are they doing
and how long will they.

Speaker 7 (29:05):
So it says, first of all, you can watch it
on CBS and Paramount Plus if you want to. It
will be traveling sixty two miles above the Earth and
will return gently under parachutes. They say the round trip
flight takes about eleven minutes. It's eleven minutes, and it's
in West Texas where it's you know, taking place. So yeah, wow,

(29:27):
that's a lot of money for eleven Well did they
have to pay for it? Because I think isn't it
very expensive to do this flight?

Speaker 12 (29:34):
Jeff Bezos could foot that bill?

Speaker 7 (29:36):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 1 (29:37):
Yeah, I think Jeff Bezos is actually where we're footing
the bill. Every time you order from Amazon, we're paying
for this intergalactic trip for eleven minutes intergalactic Do we
have any beast boys? Do you dare me? I dare
you do it? All right? For these beautiful ladies who
are flying into outer space today for eleven minutes.

Speaker 21 (30:01):
This is for you.

Speaker 1 (30:02):
Let's go all right, well, entered Galactic bac boys did
not stand the test of time.

Speaker 12 (30:23):
I love that song so much.

Speaker 1 (30:25):
You like this song?

Speaker 10 (30:26):
Yeah, okay, my eyes, but I don't.

Speaker 12 (30:31):
Know about that, but I like the song.

Speaker 7 (30:32):
I never heard this song before, really, yeah nice.

Speaker 1 (30:35):
We used to play a lot.

Speaker 7 (30:37):
I didn't never heard it.

Speaker 1 (30:39):
It's okay, it's okay, it's over. Let's pretend it didn't happen. Hey,
So we love it when Gandhi brings us her games,
her music games or sound games. Today is a really
special one. I mean, just after we played a song
that was twenty two years old. That, yeah, twenty eight
years old. Gandhi says, it was just ten years ago

(31:02):
that we had so many hits that are still they're
still standing up to the test of time, right, I.

Speaker 12 (31:07):
Can't believe these songs are ten years old.

Speaker 1 (31:09):
Yeah yeah, When you find out these songs are ten
years old, it will make you feel old. Yes, So
if you can figure out what these songs are. It's
a simple contest. We'll play little snippet right from the
first beat.

Speaker 12 (31:21):
Maybe it's actually from the first lyric.

Speaker 5 (31:25):
Oh okay, yeah, slightly different.

Speaker 1 (31:29):
So if you can tell us the name, what title
and artist or just title or artist? Which one you want?

Speaker 12 (31:34):
I would say title?

Speaker 1 (31:35):
Okay, if you get the titles of these songs that
are ten years old, you win a glaborous prize from Nate.
Call now if you know your music, your ten year
old music called Diamond now at eight hundred two four
two zero one hundred, and we'll see if you can
figure this out. I know that Froggy and Scary would
win this contest. Yeah, because you guys you're great with

(31:57):
old songs. Right, So call now, and hey, we haven't
checked in with Diamond. How's she doing? Is she over here?
What's wrong? What's wrong with you?

Speaker 7 (32:06):
It doesn't matter, Diamond.

Speaker 1 (32:07):
Is she tired? Is she worn out on the weekend?

Speaker 12 (32:10):
She's tired.

Speaker 2 (32:11):
She went to see Vibes Cartel on.

Speaker 1 (32:13):
Friday and you're still paying the price on Monday.

Speaker 15 (32:16):
Oh yeah, I am. Actually I'm dragging wagons dragging.

Speaker 1 (32:21):
That's cool, you guys, you do so much. I mean
This is the most active room of people I've ever met,
especially Danielle and now Diamond.

Speaker 7 (32:29):
It's good.

Speaker 1 (32:30):
So the people it's scary actually went got off the
couch and didn't rot this weekend. I did a lot
this weekend.

Speaker 10 (32:35):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (32:37):
Anyway, well we're all paying the price today. But it
sounds like you had a great weekend. Okay, called Diamond. Now,
if you can identify songs that are believer here not
ten years old eight hundred and two four to two
zero one hundred.

Speaker 7 (32:49):
Podcast.

Speaker 10 (32:51):
I want to read his nuts long because she gave
us true straws out of five?

Speaker 1 (32:54):
How's your corn beef? If take another bike? Okay? Well
what is his review of our podcast? Abe seventy seven?

Speaker 10 (33:00):
Yeah, Ab says, stop eating during the podcast, dummies.

Speaker 16 (33:05):
Listen to the Brooklyn Boys podcast on the iHeartRadio app,
Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. Eh, mister
ran in the morning show, Mister Rann in the morning show.

Speaker 1 (33:17):
So exciting. The countdown is on Mel Robbins. He's gonna
be on with this in just a little bit. Of course.
Everyone's reading this book, The Lettin Theory. I know Daniel's
listening to it on audible yep. And and you know what,
let's talk to her about that, about the difference between
reading it and listening to her do her sidebars.

Speaker 7 (33:36):
There has to be extras because she goes off page
all the time. I know it just the way she talks,
and she goes, well, wait a minute, let me tell you,
and then she I'm like, I love it. I love it.

Speaker 1 (33:48):
A good friend of mine considers her to be his therapist.
Just listening to or reading this book. I mean, mel
Robbins is one of the smartest people I've ever heard
speak about relationships, getting along with people, lowering your expectations
of people, letting yourself off the hook, all of the above,

(34:08):
the countdowns on, she's on how far from now? A
little under an hour now? Elvish? God, can we just
rush it up? Can we just go faster?

Speaker 7 (34:16):
You know what else I downloaded this weekend because of you, Elvis.
What's that Jefferson Fisher?

Speaker 1 (34:22):
Oh, he's amazing.

Speaker 7 (34:23):
So Sheldon follows him as well on Instagram, and I'm like, well,
let me start following this guy. So we were talking
about him over the weekend in his new book, The
Next Conversation. And he is also the narrator on Audible,
so I downloaded it because I'm so excited to hear
him talk and read it to us. So that'll be next.

Speaker 1 (34:39):
Yeah, get to know Jefferson Fisher like Danielle's doing it
is she He He's an attorney, a trial attorney from Texas.
He started doing these motivational thoughts sitting in his car,
like behind the steering wheel, and he would just you know,
do a selfie video and he would put him out
in the universe and it's just great stuff.

Speaker 7 (34:58):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (34:59):
And actually mel Robbins interviewed him on her podcast and
the two of them together like, whoa mind blowing cool.
I don't know if you're into this stuff like self help,
what do you want to call it?

Speaker 7 (35:11):
Yeah, it is like self help, but it's self help,
I feel like in a different way. I don't know.
It's not the self help from back in the day
where they shove this stuff down your throat. The thing
I love about her is that she she wants you
to learn from examples, Like she tells you exactly what
she went through and why you don't have to go
through it as well. And she uses tons of examples

(35:32):
in the book of her life story.

Speaker 1 (35:34):
So it's good will melt.

Speaker 15 (35:35):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (35:35):
Yeah, she's great and that's a good way to set
the table with her. I mean that is how she
does it. She's great anyway, we'll find out for you'll
find out on your own when you hear her with us.
In less than an hour, Meil Robbins is on the way,
all right, scary, give me some music here. Gandhi has
come up with another incredible game, this one. What do

(35:56):
you call this? A decade old? Is that what we
call this?

Speaker 7 (35:58):
Sure sounds good.

Speaker 1 (36:01):
These songs are like ten years old, and you're gonna
freak out when you find out they're that old.

Speaker 12 (36:06):
Yeah, Like ten years just seems like so long ago,
a decade.

Speaker 5 (36:09):
It's a long time. Yeah, and then you hear these
songs that are like they're ten years old. Oh my god,
we're all.

Speaker 1 (36:14):
Dying at yeah. Timers rolling fast. Hey, Jenna, how are
you feeling? How was your weekend?

Speaker 11 (36:20):
Good r good morning? It was wonderful. Did you guys
know that I talked to you two years ago, like
exactly two years ago, playing Gandhi's music game?

Speaker 1 (36:29):
Really?

Speaker 11 (36:30):
Wow?

Speaker 22 (36:32):
Did you do?

Speaker 1 (36:32):
How did you do?

Speaker 7 (36:33):
Then?

Speaker 11 (36:34):
I did really well? So I really hope not to
disappoint this.

Speaker 1 (36:37):
Okay, Well, if if the game you played with us
two years ago was songs that are eight years old,
they could be the same songs today that are ten
years old.

Speaker 7 (36:46):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (36:48):
So these songs Gondi did her research, as she does
with these great games. She did her research. These songs
were a hit ten years ago. Is that the best
way to discrive these songs.

Speaker 12 (36:57):
In the year twenty fifteen. Wow, they'll all take you back.
Maybe they won't because they feel new.

Speaker 1 (37:02):
So, Jenna, she's looking for the name of the song.
But you can guess the artist too. But that that's
not going to get you closer to winning the grand prize.
You have a big prize for this something that you
have nothing. Maybe you'll have to get to the end
to find out. I we'll find out when we get there,
all right, So, Jenna, here we go, a decade old

(37:24):
song number one? What is this?

Speaker 6 (37:29):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (37:32):
The name?

Speaker 11 (37:32):
There's so many names? Yeah, I know it's Taylor I.
Actually you can kind of live near her in p
ah Okay.

Speaker 1 (37:40):
If only that would help.

Speaker 12 (37:41):
Yeah, you.

Speaker 1 (37:43):
Scary way you hit the buzzer so fast. Scary. That's
not your call to hit a buzzer because you don't
think she's gonna get it. Who do you think you
are buzzing our listener? How rude?

Speaker 5 (37:54):
Bad blood?

Speaker 12 (37:54):
It just no, it's not.

Speaker 1 (37:56):
Bad blood buzzer. Is he scary?

Speaker 12 (37:59):
You're right lyric of every song?

Speaker 1 (38:01):
So yeah, that was blank space Taylor.

Speaker 3 (38:04):
Space space and all right, you.

Speaker 1 (38:09):
Know there you go, big hit ten years ago. My god,
it was ten years ago. All right, let's let's make
sure you don't get buzzed on this one. This is
a decade old song number two.

Speaker 23 (38:19):
And I know she'll be the death of me.

Speaker 11 (38:24):
What's the weekend?

Speaker 20 (38:25):
Mm hmmm, oh maybe I know. My artists are not
the song names you can hear all the time, and
she'll be the death of me.

Speaker 1 (38:41):
Mm hmmm.

Speaker 20 (38:42):
I'm getting.

Speaker 17 (38:45):
There.

Speaker 1 (38:45):
It is can't feel my face a weekend that was
ten years old? Yes, oh my god, are you sure?

Speaker 12 (38:56):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (38:57):
Oh my god? How old does that make us? Don't
don't answer that? All right, here we go. Here is
a song ten years old, number three, Elius to call me?

Speaker 21 (39:07):
Oh my.

Speaker 11 (39:10):
Okay, drake, okay, my artists.

Speaker 20 (39:14):
Why are these guys looking nervous? Because I love you?

Speaker 1 (39:20):
Okay, listen to the listen to the Larry he gives us.
It may give you a little bit of a clue. Okay,
play it again. Eli used to call me, oh my okay,
m h oh that's hot line blank yeah, I know,
line blak.

Speaker 7 (39:42):
Man. That's when Drake was on top of the world.

Speaker 17 (39:45):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (39:45):
Remember, maybe you'll get this one. This song ten years
ago was a huge hit. Number four, great song song.

Speaker 20 (39:56):
Oh my gosh, I love it too, Major Laser.

Speaker 1 (40:02):
Done it something to right, something to.

Speaker 15 (40:11):
Your morning.

Speaker 1 (40:12):
No, no, it's an excellent song from Ajor Laser. That's
lean on. Okay, so you've watched four of them. Let's
see if you can get Okay, what is the name
of this song? It came out ten years ago. Number five.
It's been ten years ago. Wow, I see you again.

(40:43):
You did?

Speaker 4 (40:43):
You got it?

Speaker 17 (40:45):
That was important?

Speaker 1 (40:47):
Whiz Khalifa, Charlie Pooth's excellent. All right, let's see how
you do with this one. This song is ten years
old as well. Number six, Love.

Speaker 20 (40:56):
It, dance a thing, No, shut up, A dance with me.

Speaker 24 (41:02):
Sugar.

Speaker 1 (41:05):
Walk the moon shout all right now, you got to
you got to. Let's see if you can get this one.
Number seven.

Speaker 23 (41:15):
Mm hm.

Speaker 1 (41:18):
Hm hmmm mm hmmm. One more time.

Speaker 11 (41:24):
Let's five.

Speaker 20 (41:26):
Yeah, oh, I listened to that one a lot too.

Speaker 1 (41:32):
All Right, Sugar, it's sugar, right, sugar, all right, all right,
you know what you're like me though I wouldn't. I
wouldn't get these right. I can get the artists, I
can't get the titles. All right. Let's see if you
can get a decade old song number eight. Here.

Speaker 21 (41:49):
It is when your legs don't look like they used
to before, cheering.

Speaker 1 (41:55):
Yeah, hmmm, I know song. Okay, faking out loud at Sharon,
thinking that.

Speaker 4 (42:12):
Maybe.

Speaker 1 (42:14):
All right, let's see. Okay, hold on, now you've got
a couple of them. Let's see if you can figure
out a decade old song number nine from Fetti Wop
Stop Okay, buzzer. That is trap, Queen time, queen big song.

(42:38):
All right, I'm gonna give you one more. It's all
or nothing. If you get this one right, we'll give
it all to you. That's how generous Gandhi is. This
is decade old song number ten.

Speaker 20 (42:52):
Bruno Mars, I know every word that is this song.

Speaker 11 (42:59):
My mom's gonna kill me.

Speaker 22 (43:00):
Can't sing it, no, God, Jenna, if you're not, it's
uptown funk.

Speaker 1 (43:15):
People are texting and people are yelling. At you on
the text. They're screaming like got it.

Speaker 11 (43:20):
You know what, most people can get through and talk
to you and see how nervous they are.

Speaker 1 (43:25):
I know, Jenna, we love you. At least if only
we were testing your knowledge on artists, you would have
won clean sweet Yeah. Anyway, so I guess we gotta
he can't let her go empty handed. You're the one
that's said nothing on that all or nothing there, Duranne.
You're right, you got nothing. You got nothing, Jenna, But

(43:47):
you know we we have to play about the rules,
right You want nothing, absolutely nothing.

Speaker 4 (43:53):
But we love you.

Speaker 1 (43:55):
You're fabulous all right? Well, Jenna, haven't I hate to
like send you away like starting your week like this,
but you're really You're gonna have a bad week.

Speaker 12 (44:05):
I can get better. Yeah, you start at rock bottom,
it's gonna be.

Speaker 15 (44:09):
Better for.

Speaker 2 (44:13):
You.

Speaker 1 (44:13):
Should see the awful texts are coming through. This is
this is bull blank. Get somebody else to play.

Speaker 14 (44:22):
We love.

Speaker 1 (44:25):
We love you, Jenna anyway, have a beautiful day and
the you know, come back and try it again into morning.

Speaker 19 (44:30):
Idea, how about we give our a chance at redemption
tomorrow with something Okay.

Speaker 1 (44:36):
By the way, Diamond says that when you were on
two years ago, you won six hundred dollars from us.

Speaker 11 (44:41):
Oh wow, really well, because I got all the artists
right in some.

Speaker 20 (44:45):
Of the songs.

Speaker 1 (44:47):
All right, six hundred dollars. We had a budget two
years ago. We have nothing like that now. All right.
If you want to bring Jenna back tomorrow and give
her a chance to try again, we will. Okay, you're
you're the producer, it's up to you. Sure, Yeah, let's try.
We'll do something different with you, Jenna. All right, Jenna,
when if you lose tomorrow, you owe us just yeah,
you owe six hundred dollars. Done, all right, Jenna, Hold

(45:09):
on one second. Let's make sure we connect with you tomorrow.
But how generous you are, Nate, that's a good idea.
We're gonna bring her back, give her another chance. Yeah,
all right, So enough of that. We do have a
phone tap on the way. It's not a free money
phone tap because obviously we have no budget. Jenna took
her six hundred dollars two years ago. We still haven't recovered.
All right, Let's get into the three things we need

(45:31):
to know from Gandhi coming up, and I guess less
than thirty minutes mel Robbins is on with us, so excited.
She's gonna be awesome. Wait till you hear her. If
you're running late for work, to stay in the car
and listen to this interview, or you can always listen
to it on the Elvis Duran demand on demand channel.
What do we call it? Elvistrant on demand on the podcast?
Right here we go three things from Gandhi and then

(45:53):
let's move on. What's going on Gandhi?

Speaker 12 (45:55):
All right?

Speaker 5 (45:55):
A man is in custody and will face attempted murder
and arson charges following a Sunday morning fire at the
Pennsylvania governor's mansion. The suspect has now been identified as
Cody Balmer, according to the Pennsylvania State Police. Firefighters responded
to the Harrisburg residence of Governor Josh Shapiro at about
two am. Shapiro says his family was home at the
time and they were able to escape unharmed, Thank god.

(46:19):
President Trump is calling on the FCC chair to give
substantial penalties to CBS. According to the Huffington Post, the
President is furious over the sixty minutes Sunday broadcast about
the opposition from Greenlanders as far as becoming part of
the US and the failed immediate promise to end the
Ukrainian War. Trump is urging FCC chair Brendan Carr to

(46:39):
issue the network maximum fines and punishment and saying they
should have their license revoked. And finally, today, April fourteenth
is look up at the Sky Day. Not only apparently
do you experience feelings of wonder and amazement. We all
know that's true, but you're be nicer to yourself. Researchers
discovered that when people felt awe, they were kinder to

(47:00):
themselves and made choices that actually reflected self compassion.

Speaker 12 (47:04):
Did any of you guys see the pink moon last night?
It was beautiful. She was so big and it was lovely.

Speaker 5 (47:11):
So if you can go outside and stare at the sky,
do that today, you might feel a little better.

Speaker 12 (47:14):
And those are your three things.

Speaker 1 (47:15):
So we feel better about ourselves if we are in
awe the things that are bigger and more powerful than us.

Speaker 5 (47:22):
Yes, think about that feeling when you're standing right on
the beach and you stare out at the ocean and.

Speaker 12 (47:26):
How vast it is.

Speaker 7 (47:27):
Yeah, I think it's a very.

Speaker 5 (47:29):
Calming, centering moment. When you're hiking and you see a
massive mountain, any of that kind of stuff.

Speaker 15 (47:33):
It's great.

Speaker 1 (47:34):
You have to be in awe. I mean, it's the
same way you feel when you walk into a room
and I'm.

Speaker 5 (47:37):
There right when we're all a doubt without down, I
nearly faint every time.

Speaker 1 (47:43):
Wow. Pretty incredible. All right, So thank you for that.
I like that, so be in awe. Yes, Like I
remember the first time I saw the Grand Canyon, I
was like, oh my god. It's always good to remember
that we are just a small minuscule dot in the universe.
In the universe is so so important, so powerful. I
love that great story. All Right, you're no money, free money,

(48:08):
no money phone tap is. We're gonna call it that. Yeah, yeah,
a zero money phone tap.

Speaker 2 (48:12):
Is coming up.

Speaker 16 (48:13):
Elvis d Uran, the haggiest Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.
Don't answer the phone, Elvis Duran, the Elvis Duran phone tapp.

Speaker 1 (48:27):
All right, Garrett, Yes, what's it all about? So Rachel
wants to play a phone tap on her friend Andy. Now.
Andy asked Rachel to do a simple favor pick up
his son's birthday cake because they're going to be celebrating
later on today, and Rachel starts the call to Andy
from the cake store. Then I play the cake decorator.
Oh okay, let's see what happens in Garrett's.

Speaker 9 (48:45):
Phone tap Hello, Hey, it's me.

Speaker 17 (48:49):
I'm not the cake place, and there's kind of a
problem with my cake.

Speaker 9 (48:55):
Was they didn't put the trucks on it.

Speaker 17 (48:57):
The guy wrote happy birthday, bitch.

Speaker 9 (49:02):
What why?

Speaker 6 (49:03):
I don't know that.

Speaker 17 (49:05):
I don't know. I wrote it out last week and
wrote happy birthday, Mitch. I say, you know, the be
doesn't even look like an m I don't know. And
he won't change it for me.

Speaker 9 (49:13):
He won't change it.

Speaker 17 (49:15):
Yeah, he's saying that it's the custom design blah blah
blah they did for birthday. I know, but it's like
air brushed, and you know what.

Speaker 9 (49:23):
The so just don't pay them and say we're not
going to give you and we're not gonna pay you
until you changed the cake.

Speaker 17 (49:29):
Well, we gave them a thirty dollars deposit already and
they won't give it back to me.

Speaker 9 (49:33):
They won't give it back to you. What is his problem.

Speaker 17 (49:36):
Well, he's telling me that he won't change the cake
and he won't give me my money back.

Speaker 9 (49:39):
That's why I'm called this kid, go talk to the manager.
Where's the manager?

Speaker 1 (49:42):
What are you still doing here?

Speaker 4 (49:44):
Yo?

Speaker 23 (49:44):
And he talked to him, Hello, what is the problem again?

Speaker 9 (49:48):
The problem is that you, when we told you to
write happy birthday, mitch on a birthday cake for a
five year old, wrote happy birthday, bitch, and you won't
change it. So I need you to rape off the
dam b and put on the ends. Make it happy
birthday miss.

Speaker 1 (50:04):
Listen.

Speaker 23 (50:04):
Dude, dude, I need you to really mellow out right now,
come down to where I'm at, because then you better
understand what what what I'm doing here?

Speaker 6 (50:12):
Wait?

Speaker 9 (50:12):
Wait, what universe do you live in?

Speaker 25 (50:13):
Like?

Speaker 9 (50:14):
Do you not know that we are customers? Are your store?

Speaker 1 (50:16):
Dude?

Speaker 23 (50:16):
You're talking way too loud right now for this time
in the afternoon. First off, why in God's name are
you having a birthday party for a dog?

Speaker 9 (50:24):
No, it's a five year old kid, dude.

Speaker 23 (50:28):
Why would you write happy birthday, bitch on your son's
birthday cake?

Speaker 9 (50:32):
Birthday bitch? What is your name? What's your name? You're
the bitch? Okay o, my.

Speaker 1 (50:36):
Bitch, you're writing names on birthday cakes.

Speaker 9 (50:38):
Go in the back and make a cake as fast
as you can't dude.

Speaker 23 (50:41):
I'm not a keibler, elf I cannot do it that fast, right,
Who are you?

Speaker 9 (50:45):
Who are you? Get off the damn phone. Just get
off the phone. Kind up bringing me to leave work
to come down to the store.

Speaker 17 (50:53):
Okay, So what do you want me to do? He won't
do it for me. We have to have a cake,
so we kind of have to take the happy birthday
bitch cake. I don't know what you want me to do.

Speaker 9 (51:03):
That is not an option taking the bitch cake. What
is the name of this store? I'm calling the city.

Speaker 23 (51:08):
The name of the store is Elvis Duran's House of Cakes.
What this is Garret from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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And you got phone tapped.

Speaker 6 (51:15):
Oh my, I have never heard you talk so fast.

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And you're entire.

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I had to walk out of the parking lot.

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Fly from the Mercy Ben's Interview Lounge.

Speaker 1 (52:02):
Mel Robbins, thank you for dropping by. I know you're
the busiest person in show business.

Speaker 15 (52:08):
Oh no, that's not true.

Speaker 1 (52:09):
I think you are.

Speaker 15 (52:10):
Now I'm not. I live in Vermont. I am not
the busiest person in show business.

Speaker 1 (52:15):
Well, welcome to our show. Thank you. We're so excited
that you're here.

Speaker 15 (52:19):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (52:19):
It's a dream come true to be honest, but I'm
not going to butter your biscuit anymore.

Speaker 15 (52:24):
That sounds very sexual, biscuits buttered.

Speaker 1 (52:27):
The number one New York bestseller, The Let Them Theory
is out, and we're talking about a book that people
in the publishing industry are saying, well, maybe one of
the biggest selling books of all time, which has got
to freak you out just a little bit. Or do
you believe it? Are they liars?

Speaker 15 (52:44):
I I you know, you know, it's a weird thing
to talk about. It is like, there is no doubt.
This is my legacy, this book, this book, this is
my legacy. It's so I can't believe it. Mister Craying again,
I am so blown away by the impact it's making
and the fact that people are interested in reading a

(53:07):
book you know that is not helping you escape your life,
but helping you turn toward your life.

Speaker 1 (53:16):
Wow, now I'm gonna start crying, so you can.

Speaker 12 (53:18):
People need that right now so desperately.

Speaker 15 (53:21):
Yes, I feel you know, there are so many moments
in your life where you're going to feel impatient and
where you're going to feel like you're not quite sure
where things are going. And I know over the past
sixteen years in particular, I've certainly felt that way. And
what has happened with this theory and the way it's
spread around the world is I now can look back

(53:44):
and go, oh, all of those reps you were putting in,
all of those days you got yourself out of bed,
all of those days you didn't quit, all of those
times you kept going even though you got fired or
that didn't work out, or you didn't think it was
going to happen. It's because you were being held for
this moment. And I really believe that there are two

(54:05):
skills that I would love to talk about today that
have made a huge difference in my life that anybody
can learn. Number One, it is a skill in life
to learn how to make yourself do the things you
don't feel like doing. Like, if you only did the
things you don't feel like doing, you'd have everything you've
ever wanted. Motivation is complete garbage. Stop sitting around waiting
for it. It's not coming. Nobody's coming to save you.

(54:28):
You have everything you need inside you. That's not some
sort of wizard of Oz gobblygoo woo woo crap. The
truth is you have the ability to push yourself through anxiety,
through depression, through overwhelm, through fear, through anything that is
currently holding you back, and do the simple things that
will change your life.

Speaker 1 (54:49):
And what was the second? Do you remember?

Speaker 10 (54:50):
Yes?

Speaker 15 (54:50):
And the second is teaching yourself how to believe in
a bigger possibility that things are going to work out
for you.

Speaker 1 (55:00):
I just wanted people to hear those two things because
I well, people always.

Speaker 15 (55:04):
Ask me how did you how did you become Mel Robbins,
And I'm like, how did you become Mel Robbins By
teaching myself how to get out of bed on those
moments when the anxiety and depression was so crushing and
I felt like what was the point?

Speaker 1 (55:20):
Right?

Speaker 7 (55:20):
And there's at one point in the book where you go.
I walked into my friend's house and she had just
renovated the whole house, and you were so jealous. Yes,
and you were so and that's and that's the point
where I feel you were like, f this, I gotta
do something.

Speaker 15 (55:33):
Well, you know, there's again. Life is always teaching you something,
so you know, for for if you're listening and this
is the first time that you're either watching or hearing
my voice. My story begins sixteen years ago when we
were eight hundred thousand dollars in debt and my husband's
restaurant business was going under and I was unemployed at
the time, and we had three kids ten and under,
and that was not the vision for my life. And

(55:54):
what you will find is that it's easy to give
other people advice, but when the you know what hits
the fan in your own life, you get paralyzed with
the fear that you're not going to figure it out.
And that was me. And instead of doing what I
knew I needed to do, which was get a job,
stop screaming at Chris, get out of bed, get the
kids on the bus, ask for help, I did the opposite.
I drank myself into the ground and I would lay

(56:15):
in bed like a human pot roast, staring at the ceiling.

Speaker 1 (56:17):
This sounds good.

Speaker 15 (56:18):
Yeah, I wouldn't open the bills. They just kept piling
up on the counter and it gets worse and worse,
and then you start to convince yourself there's nothing you
can do, and that's a lie. There is always something
you can do to improve even the worst of situations
through your attitude, through your actions, and through the way
you process your emotions. And this is not a new idea,
by the way, this is Victor Frankel's man search for meaning.

(56:42):
This is what's true about the human experience. And so
I became the success that you see today due to
sixteen years of boring, grueling reps that I would put
in every day that began with just get your butt
out of bed on the morning. You don't feel like it.

Speaker 1 (57:00):
Wow, you know, very simple the five four three two
one theory of the the countdown. There's always something we're
procrastinating about. I don't want to go out of bed.
I don't want to do this. You got to be
that rocket at Cape Canaveral that's about to take off.
And once the countdown is done, down one and then
blast off, you have no choice but to go to

(57:21):
outer space. And it actually works. I've actually applied this
to my life and it works. When I first read that,
I'm like, this is what this is stupid.

Speaker 15 (57:28):
Yes I agree, So number one.

Speaker 1 (57:29):
Bell out of this crap.

Speaker 15 (57:31):
Yes it works, it works.

Speaker 1 (57:32):
Tell everyone.

Speaker 15 (57:34):
Five second rul is super simple. It's a It's a
hack you can use for instant courage or motivation. Any
moment where you have this instinct that you should do something,
whether it's speaking up at work, or it's getting out
of bed, or it's putting the phone down and actually
stepping outside for a walk, whatever it may be. Just
start counting five four three two one. You got to
count backwards. Does not work if you count up, because

(57:54):
you've been taught to count up your entire life, so
it's already recorded in your subconscious. The trick works be
is if you count backwards five four three two one.
It requires a moment where you have to focus on
the counting, and that pulls the front part of your brain,
the prefrontal cortex online. So now you've just activated the
part of the brain that you need to change behavior

(58:16):
or to actually push yourself to do something. You're now
in control for a moment. And the other reason why
it works is because it's like the first domino. Counting
is an action, and if you've actually decided to count
five four, three two one, you've already decided to do it,
So you're going to do it the first domino. Yeah,
and then you move five, fourth, three to one.

Speaker 1 (58:34):
Move.

Speaker 2 (58:34):
Now.

Speaker 15 (58:34):
I didn't know any of this when I invented it.
I invented it after having four bourbon Manhattans and seeing
a rocket ship launch across a television screen, right and thinking,
oh my god, Okay, that is a sign from God.
Tomorrow morning, I'm gonna launch my.

Speaker 1 (58:49):
Ideas happened to the bar. I have no problem with that, you.

Speaker 15 (58:51):
Know, I always say that, you know, my expertise comes
from being life tested, right, Like when you're in that hole,
there's a lot of things that you learn about life.

Speaker 7 (59:01):
But that's the best part about the book is that
you're so honest about that, where you're not just like
shoving this information down people's throats. You're saying, Okay, here's
an example. This is what happened to me.

Speaker 15 (59:10):
Yeah, totally, Like I am the villain in my own
book for sure, Like the person they find that. You know,
as you read the let them theory, or like you
hear the stories from it, you're like, oh my gosh,
old Mel was pretty awful, jealous friend, immature, constantly taking
her emotions out on her family. You know, Wow, this
either reminds me of me or it reminds me of

(59:30):
somebody in my life that I wish would change. And
so I also think the success of this is is
because let them and let Me is so simple and
it's a tool. You don't have to think about it,
you just use it and it works. And also, this
is a book that is largely about stories, but the
stories are what translates the research.

Speaker 1 (59:49):
But I'm sure from time to time you still throw
sharp objects. You're crazy, okay, just making sure I need
to know that God.

Speaker 5 (59:55):
Yes, So from all the things that you're saying, it's
not about the end, it's more about the beginning and
getting started. Yes, how can you I know you're saying
get out of bed. But for people who are just
super sad and they're having a tough time that day,
aside from get out of bed, what do you tell them?

Speaker 15 (01:00:10):
Well, if you're having a tough day, the first thing
I want you to understand is that in order to
have good days, you gotta have bad days, and reminding
yourself that this is temporary and that another wave is
going to come and you have the ability to just
ride this wave. You don't have to gaslight yourself into positivity.
You can just allow yourself to be sad. One of

(01:00:31):
the things that is very helpful for me is to
say things like I'm sad because I'm going to allow
myself to be a little down today because and the
because is important because then sadness doesn't become your identity.
You've identified the thing that makes you sad, and there
are going to be times where being sad or heartbroken
or down is a mentally healthy response to the things

(01:00:53):
that are going on in life. And you know, the
other thing that I would tell you is I do
think they'll let them. Theory will help a lot, because
if you find that you're at a point in your
life where you're overwhelmed, you're struggling, you're worried, you're sad,
you're tired, or you just are working very hard and
nothing's clicking. The problem isn't you. The problem is that

(01:01:14):
you unknowingly are giving so much of your power to
other people, to what they think, to their expectations, to
their moods, to the drama that's going on, to their beliefs.
And when you give power to other people, you have
none left for yourself. That's why you're tired. And so
this book and the Let Them Theory is actually about

(01:01:35):
power and control. What can you can control, what can
you not control? Where is power and where are you
giving it away?

Speaker 1 (01:01:43):
Well, the let Them theory there is actually a theory.
There's actually so short of easy to figure out outline
to that. I want to get into that in a second.
We'll be right back. Hey, I'm at sharing.

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Speaker 2 (01:02:19):
Elvister ram in the Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (01:02:22):
And we're back more with Mel Robbins. So when you
and your daughter together wrote the Let Them Theory, they
knew they had a hit already. They knew this thing
was going to be big.

Speaker 15 (01:02:30):
Well, I'll tell you why, because it was excruciating to
write this together. So she does this research project where
I wanted her to go and look at all the
comments online from the podcast and from some of the
social media posts that we had put up, look at
articles that were starting to get written about let Them.
And she came back and was like, you can't write
this book And I was like why, and she said, well,

(01:02:52):
everybody loves it, except for there's like this slice of
people they're saying let them feels good to it's making
them lonely. And then you're kind of left sitting with
now what. My brothers and sisters don't reach out unless
I do. My friends aren't checking in on me unless
I check out what now what? And she says, you
can't put a book out that makes people lonely and
kind of arrogant. And she said there has to be
a second part. And that was the genesis for let

(01:03:14):
Me right, because you have to let them is when
you stop worrying about other people's opinions and feelings and
moods and making it your responsibility to make everybody else happy.
And then you got to go, okay, but now what
let me remind myself that my power is actually in
how I think about things and what I do or
don't do, and how I process my emotions. And so

(01:03:36):
she is the reason why they let me part start.
And then I was like, well, then we got to
write this together. So now we have two totally different
working styles. Like my brain is like take a bunch
of mice in a cardboard box and tip it over
in a kitchen, and she's a walking Excel spreadsheet. Plus
her mother daughter, we.

Speaker 12 (01:03:51):
Were like.

Speaker 15 (01:03:52):
I would come and be like I wanted to write
this story about my friends and being a jealous, you know, jerk,
and she's like, my age cares about that story. And
then we fight about it and we get mad, and
then and then we'd both be like let her, and
then she would leave and go to a different room,
and then I would leave as we'd get frustrated. And
so we actually sorted through every aspect of the book
and we argued over everything because she wanted to make
it relevant to twenty somethings. I wanted to make it relevant,

(01:04:15):
you know, to kind of like a little bit older demographic.
And the result was we argued over every word. And
in fact, another incredible story is that when we wrote
the love section, we're getting near the end of the book.
There's eight sections. Her boyfriend of two years, the one
she thought that was going to be the end of
the aisle dumb sir. She's like, I hate this theory.

(01:04:36):
What am I supposed to do? Just let him leave,
let him sleep with somebody else?

Speaker 2 (01:04:39):
What? Ha?

Speaker 15 (01:04:40):
And so we wrote the breakup guide and using the
let them theory as she was going through it in
real time. And I got to say it was incredible
because she had to use let them to manage her
emotions and the let me part, and I had to
use let them and let her to give her the

(01:05:03):
dignity of her own experience without wanting to solve it,
Like I wanted to text the other mom constantly. I
wanted to reach out to him, like you know when
she's when she's like you know. One of the piece
of advice is nobody actually goes through the detox in
a breakup. This is why you don't get over people
when you break off a relationship. What you don't realize

(01:05:25):
is that you are neurologically and in your nervous system
hardwired to be connected to this person. So for the
first couple of weeks, when you think you hear them talking,
that's not because they miss you, that's not because you
should get back together. That's because your brain has patterns
that have been encoded that it's just repeating. And if

(01:05:45):
you've never gone thirty days without looking at a photo
or listening to a voice memo or watching their social
media profile, then you've never fully actually given your nervous
system in your brain a chance to get over them.
Every time you listen to a voicemail, every time you
look at a photo, you reactivate that circuitry. It's just

(01:06:06):
like an alcoholic who has a drink. And so you
have to do this thirty day thing where you don't
look at anything, put their stuff in a box. I
had to go through the digital frame in the kitchen.
Pause pause because I'm not I don't want to delete,
because I'm holding out hope, right pause pause pause, you know,
because but I have to let her have this experience.

(01:06:29):
And what's interesting is when you have somebody in your
life who's going through something it's so uncomfortable that you
want to save them from it. If you can learn
to give them a little space while you're standing on
the sidelines in support, like, how would you like me
to show up? What's interesting is you actually signal to somebody,
I believe in your capacity to change. I believe in

(01:06:52):
your capacity to move through this. And as a mom,
it's been incredible to recognize that my innate desire to
want my husband to change doesn't make him change. It
also creates distance between us learning how to let him
be who he is and forcing myself to accept and
love him as he is. Like, that's a whole different

(01:07:15):
way to be with somebody. It's they always I heard
somebody say once that second marriages are amazing, especially when
it's with the same person.

Speaker 1 (01:07:22):
Wow.

Speaker 15 (01:07:23):
And when you change how you show up, you change
the relationship. But we've always put the pressure on other
people to change, when actually you've got the power based
on your energy and your attitude towards somebody, and creating
space for somebody to be themselves is actually the best
way to love them.

Speaker 5 (01:07:40):
When you were writing this, did you have any idea
how many people were going to tattoo let them on
their bodies?

Speaker 12 (01:07:44):
Because it's all I see everywhere.

Speaker 15 (01:07:46):
Well, it's apparently because we you know, we went through
the process of contacting every tattoo studio that you see
in here and getting rights for it. Really, and every
one of them are like, I got to tell you,
this is the number one tattoo that everywhere. Well because
seeing it, and I love seeing now the let me
tattoos because let them. When you say it, it's instant peace,

(01:08:07):
because you're reminding yourself this drama or this situation does
not deserve to be stressing me out. My time and
energy is worth protecting. So when you say let them,
it's a boundary. So a big mistake that people have
about this is that, well, aren't you just letting them
treat you like garbage? I'm like, no, they already are.
You're explaining it away. When you say let them, you're

(01:08:28):
erecting a boundary between yourself and the other person, and
you're saying yourself, Okay, let them be who they are,
let them do what they're doing, because their behavior is
giving me data.

Speaker 1 (01:08:37):
There you go.

Speaker 15 (01:08:38):
Now I get to choose.

Speaker 1 (01:08:39):
See, that's the thing. When I first saw the book
and the title, I automatically go to, well, let them.
Let me just make an assumption what this is about.
Let them Okay, someone said something just really disrespectful to me. Whatever, Okay,
let them because what they're saying doesn't matter. Well, I
don't get I'm not giving them the power. That's the
point to mess with my power. So that's that was my.

Speaker 15 (01:09:03):
But here's the other thing. One of the things that
you'll recognize when you start saying this, let them and
let me is that the one thing in life you
have no control over is what another human being thinks, says, believes,
does no control. And so it is the biggest form
of gaslighting to yourself to think that there is absolutely
something you could do that would guarantee that somebody has

(01:09:25):
a thought. And I'll give you an example. We've all
had the experience where you've bent over backwards. You go
to some party you don't want to go to. You
do it because you don't want people to be mad
at you, or you feel guilty, and then you get
to the party and the host is kind of annoyed
because you're not as fun as you normally are. And
so even though you bent over backwards and you did
this thing hoping that somebody would feel a certain way
about you, it didn't work. There's a better way. To

(01:09:46):
live your life, which is let people feel what they're
going to feel, think what they're going to think, follow
you or unfollow you, misunderstand, just let them because they're
going to anyway, So why would you waste any time
on it.

Speaker 7 (01:09:56):
I can't listen because I feel like I'm listening to
you on audible because that's how I read the book.
And I know you do side bars all the time,
and like, I know it's different because you buried your
had things, but I feel like you know that she's
with me.

Speaker 1 (01:10:08):
In the cars right now, and I feel like.

Speaker 7 (01:10:10):
That's my friend, MOUs.

Speaker 15 (01:10:13):
Your friend mo.

Speaker 1 (01:10:14):
Yeah, Mel Robbins. Of course the let them theory. It's
out and I expect everyone listening to the sound of
my vooks to buy fourteen copies because they're really decorative,
these books. Yes, I mean they designed this cover to
show up on a beach.

Speaker 15 (01:10:25):
Actually, I love that you said that because the color
of it. We were told green books don't sell and
it's bad luck to do a green book. And it
was inspired by Corda Thorne and Rose's book two. I'm
a big fantasy reader, and so my daughter and I
were like, oh, we love the cover of book too,
let's do green and yellow. And then we did it.
And as we were designing it, I said to my daughter,
this cover has to if you're walking down the beach,

(01:10:46):
you have to be able to go, oh, there's that book.

Speaker 1 (01:10:48):
It's everywhere, Yes, in the airport, everywhere, well, everywhere I
see it. I have to say that, you know, Jay
Shatty's a good friend of ours. Jefferson Fisher. I've fallen
in love with this guy. If you've ever seen him,
he's usually in his car telling you, like how to
cut people off and they're trying to f with your head.
He's great. And I saw the podcast for the two
of you. Yeah, are there other people like that emerging

(01:11:09):
that could be the next best seller that we should
be following. I love I love to collect these incredible
forces on my.

Speaker 15 (01:11:17):
Instagram Jefferson Fisher fantastic human being. I also love doctor Julie.
Do you know doctor Julie's in the UK?

Speaker 1 (01:11:25):
Who's that Well?

Speaker 15 (01:11:26):
I love her because she's a psychiatrist or psychologist that
uses all these models to explain different principles. So she'll
like take out kids toys and show you these intellectual concepts.
And she's a mom of three kids, and when she
flew over to be on the podcast, she brought her
three kids and it was just really fun and we
did all these things with physical models. So I really

(01:11:46):
like her too. Look at that, but there's a lot
of it, like look, I here's my philosophy in life
is you can learn from anybody because on the road
of life, you know, you might be ahead of me
by three steps because you've gone through something that I haven't,
so you can help me. I might be ahead of
you at another time because I've gone through something with
my son, and now I can help you. You are

(01:12:07):
best equipped to help the person you used to be.
And I don't think that you need some fancy credentials
or a New York Times bestselling book to make a
difference in another person's life. I think we all have
important stories to share, lessons that we can teach other people,
things that we can learn from our lives. And if
you look at everybody around you with the potential that

(01:12:27):
you could learn something from them, it changes everybody's ability
to lift each other up. And that's a really cool thing.
And so you can be the next Jefferson Fisher. You
could be the next person that does something online that
really reaches somebody halfway across the world that really needed
to hear it. Like, there's eight billion people on this planet,

(01:12:48):
and so there's something about the way that you're going
to say something that is going to reach somebody in
a way that I can't because my life experience is
different than yours.

Speaker 1 (01:12:57):
I'm over halfway through the book and now I want
to reach read by listening to the audible version. I
know them over halfway through the book. Because you're getting
into friendships and how important they are. Our friend Barbara
Krkman was here the other day, said, Barbara still one
of my best friends. Barbara's I look at her. She's
sitting in this is she's sitting in this chair. I said, Barbara,
you're almost one hundred and five years old. What is

(01:13:17):
it in life that you're loving the most? And she said,
surrounding myself with the people I love friends and talk
about that because I think this is such an important,
powerful thing people need to pay more attention to, and
that's the people they surround themselves with.

Speaker 15 (01:13:31):
Absolutely Well, it's easy to forget that this all ends
the same way for all of us, and at the
end of your life, you're not going to be in
a hearse that's pulling a U haul full of crap,
and people aren't going to care much about your acknowledgments.
Like if you do it right, you actually reflect on
your life and you say to yourself, I am proud

(01:13:51):
of the way that I used my time and energy,
that I was a good boss, I was a good parent,
I was a good friend. And if you do it right,
you're by people that you care about who love you,
and it's easy to get caught up. I know I
certainly have in the day to day or in chasing
the next thing, that you forget that it's really about

(01:14:12):
the people. And one thing that has helped me a
lot with the let them theory is really understanding the
nature of friendship. And in order to create friendships, three
things have to be present. Proximity, timing, and energy. That's it,
and these factors have been proven by research. In order
to be a casual friend with somebody, you got to

(01:14:33):
spend about seventy hours. To be a good friend, you
got to spend two hundred. And when we were little,
from zero to twenty, we were around people our same
age going through life at the exact same time celebrating
the same milestones, the same vacations, the same everything. So
you were in proximity with so many people your age.
You're in the same timing of life, and schools set
up the structure for it, and you could understand, Okay,

(01:14:55):
do I click do I not click with these people?
Then you hit your twenties and what I call the
great sky mattering happens. Everybody suddenly is going in different directions.
But you don't realize that it's always about these three
things proximity, timing, and energy. And so it begs the
question why aren't you just best best best friends with
everybody at work, Because from the age of twenty to sixty,
you'll spend more time at work with people than you

(01:15:16):
will friends and family combined. Well, the reason why is timing.
So if you're in your twenties at work and you
work with people that are in their fifties, you may
love these people and have great energy, but you're in
different time of life. You know, my daughter's out partying
and throwing up in a garbage can and she comes
in on a Monday. You know she's not really gonna
click with people talking about what they did at the

(01:15:38):
soccer field with their kids on the weekend. And that's
why you can love people at work, but they're just
not the best of friends. And this is also why
I hate this trend. Got to break up with that
toxic friend. No, you don't let them come in and
out of your life, let them come and go. Just
because you don't see them doesn't mean you're not friends.
What if you took a flexible approach and recognize that

(01:15:59):
everybody you've ever met, unless you had some massive destructive
falling out, everybody's still your friend, and your job isn't
to sit back and be transactional and wait for them
to reach out. If you want good relationships, it's not
on them, it's on you.

Speaker 5 (01:16:13):
Is there ever a time, though, that you say, no,
I'm not gonna let them, I'm not gonna let that
person treat me this way or do that thing.

Speaker 15 (01:16:19):
Okay, great, So yes, all the time, I hope, because
you're gonna say let them. So do you have an
example me.

Speaker 1 (01:16:28):
I mean, in the.

Speaker 5 (01:16:28):
Past, I had worked with people who were terrible to
be around every single day. Okay, it was terrible, and
I used to think, Okay, I'm just gonna let this
person do whatever they're gonna do, because I cannot control that.
Correct However, there were boundaries, yes, where it came to
which like that, I'm not gonna let you break like
that they let.

Speaker 15 (01:16:44):
Me part because you can't ever control whether or not
the words are going to come out in a particular tone.
Let me is where you have to take the power
back and ask yourself, how am I going to respond
to this? And how you respond to things, especially when
it's a disrespect is going to depend on a lot
of things. It's going to depend on your energy today.

(01:17:06):
It's going to depend on the situation that you're in.
You get to choose if you speak up and be like, look,
I realize you're stressed out, but you're gonna have to
apologize for how your stress is impacting me. You get
to choose if you're going to go to HR. You
get to choose if you're going to stay in that job,
because you have the power. I'm going to recognize this
is who this person is. But now it's on me
to hold a boundary and respect myself enough to either

(01:17:28):
get out of this job or go to HR, or
call out the tone of voice and do what I
need to do. See I think this if we extend
it into dating, Like, one of the big crises in
dating right now is that people explain away crappy behavior,
like people like if you're going out on a date
with somebody, or if you're in a situationship and you

(01:17:48):
know you're sleeping with somebody and they slink like a
cat out the door in the morning, let them because
that's data they're showing you they don't want to hang
out with you, and you have to decide if this
is a attractive or what you deserve in your life.
They're not the problem, you are if you allow it.
And that's not victim blaming. It is a conversation about

(01:18:09):
where's the control and the power. Most of us get
in these relationships and we explain away the disrespect or
we cling onto the fantasy and we don't look at
the reality that we're in. And if you could look
at people's behavior when they gohos to you, when you
have to chase them, like you inserting yourself into somebody's
friend group and really thinking, oh, if I just hang
around them more, maybe they're going to like me. No,

(01:18:29):
they're already showing you they don't like you, and then
take a step back and go, let me remind myself,
it's up to me to decide if this is what
I deserve.

Speaker 1 (01:18:37):
Wow, this is sort of goes back to the theory
we always talk about. Arranged marriages are actually sometimes a
great thing because your friends and family know you and
how you're going going to totally be in denial with
someone you're dating, but they see it. No, that's just
another theory. There's something interesting going on here in the
room now. Danielle, of course a huge fan of yours,
but her husband Sheldon, over you. They fight their own

(01:19:00):
they fight over who knows your best.

Speaker 15 (01:19:02):
You're the third part.

Speaker 1 (01:19:02):
So Sheldon, you've been quiet, I have unleash. Well, here's
the thing.

Speaker 25 (01:19:06):
For the last month, my wife, Danielle has been peacocking
around our house saying, oh, listen, I've I've found this
new great person who's going to influence our life. I'm like,
ohe great, who's that Mel Robins? I'm like, really, where
you've been? I said, I've been best friends with Mel
Robbins in my head for ten years? Can you tell
me what the three two one method is of getting
a better night sleep? Can you do that?

Speaker 1 (01:19:26):
No? No, exactly and when.

Speaker 25 (01:19:28):
Was the last time you used the five four three
two one method in actuality?

Speaker 1 (01:19:32):
I know you read it.

Speaker 14 (01:19:32):
But have you done it?

Speaker 2 (01:19:33):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:19:34):
I did it this morning. How about that?

Speaker 25 (01:19:36):
I couldn't if I didn't want to get out of
bed this morning. I simply imagine New Year's even I'm
counting down to five four three two one, and there's
thirty other people in my bedroom right now, and they're
cheering for me to get out of bed. So why
wouldn't I get out of bed with a pep in myself?

Speaker 1 (01:19:50):
This?

Speaker 8 (01:19:50):
Wait?

Speaker 20 (01:19:50):
The other day.

Speaker 7 (01:19:51):
The other day, we were at a track meet and
there was a guy and he was acting like a
total ass right, and I wanted to say something. I
was ready, I had the words, and I said, Mel
said let them, so I'm like, I'm just gonna let them.
So then we got in the car and I started
cursing the guy out in the car and he turns
to me and he goes, what did Mel say? Final
let them? So then I let them, and I actually

(01:20:13):
did feel better. So I take credit for that, And
I think I'm your friend more than.

Speaker 15 (01:20:17):
That, both yours. I'll let you both think whatever you want.

Speaker 1 (01:20:21):
So they go on and on and I just let them. Yeah,
I want to go down, Thank you, I want to
go down this I just just notes, okay, from the
Latin theory, maybe as I see it, Stop wasting energy
on things you cannot control. Stop comparing yourself to other people.
Break free from fear and self doubt, release the grip
of people's expectations. Loving that build the best friendships of

(01:20:45):
your life. We talked about that, create that love you deserve.
Pursue what truly matters to you with confidence, build resilience
against everyday stressors distractions, define your own past to success,
joy and fulfillment, and so much more. That's a taller order,
it sure is, and it's in one book.

Speaker 15 (01:21:00):
It is because all you need is one tool. The
only person that can keep you from what's meant for
you in life is you. No other human being is
blocking your way.

Speaker 1 (01:21:11):
We are our own worst enemies.

Speaker 15 (01:21:14):
But look, I didn't realize this. I was fifty four.
Like I was, I constantly let other people stress me out.
I was constantly tired and overwhelmed and jealous and pissed
off about stupid things, and then blaming my stress and
my emotions on the world around me. It wasn't until
I started to say those words let them that I
erected a boundary between the outside world and how I

(01:21:38):
was allowing it to stress me out and drain me.
And once you stop draining yourself, you start to get
your energy back, and you start to realize your time
matters and your energy is everything. Your experience of life
is determined by what you spend time on and what
you pour energy into.

Speaker 7 (01:21:58):
Full stop those days though where you're like, I can't
do it today, of how do you get yourself back
on track?

Speaker 15 (01:22:04):
Well, I let myself have that day like so, I
think it's important like that. There are times in life
where the mentally healthy response. This goes to your question
about sadness. There are times in life where it's important
to just be down. But often when things are bad,
you're still carrying the weight of how this is impacting

(01:22:25):
other people, like when you're down like I with a
lot of people. My husband's has struggled with depression, and
a lot of what he felt other than that dark cloud,
was this sense of added shame that he wasn't able
to show up in those moments for the family, you know,
carrying this burden that somehow he is responsible for showing

(01:22:48):
up a certain way because we need it. I wish
we had had let them because it would give you
the grace to be able to release the responsibility of
everybody else so that you can actually take care of yourself.
And let's look at the word responsibility. Responsibility is just
the ability to respond. And life is going to be

(01:23:08):
happening out there all the time. The headlines are going
to be what they're going to be. People in your
life are going to struggle, jobs are going to come
and go. Think the economy is going to go up
and down. Let it. Your response to what's happening is everything.
And in fact, you know, I spoke to doctor Martin
Luther King the third during you know that when we
were talking about this book, and it was incredible to

(01:23:28):
hear him reflect you know this s mouth is my
father's legacy that the power is in your response to
what's happening. You get to choose peace, you get to
choose what you fight for, You get to choose how
you're going to show up in the face of things
that seem dark, and so understanding that you have more

(01:23:49):
power than you realize is a very incredible thing.

Speaker 1 (01:23:53):
The power of the word no remembered to preset all
the time.

Speaker 7 (01:23:56):
It's a full sentence.

Speaker 1 (01:23:56):
Remember, Yeah, no is the sentence years ago. And you
gave you hats no on it, which is my favorite
hat to wear. But that was my first foray into like, Okay,
I do have the power to be in control here
say no. Saying no is just the most wonderful.

Speaker 15 (01:24:12):
Word, and then let them be disappointed.

Speaker 1 (01:24:14):
Does this were you at, by the way, well these
questions when you're done with this in these these interviews,
does she go to the car and just go, damn,
I'm done. I'm gonna take off my spanks and just
explode and just no.

Speaker 15 (01:24:27):
You know I because I think what's standing in people's
way most is discouragement, right, the sense that it doesn't
matter what you do, nothing's going to change. And if
there's anything that I hope to offer people, especially at
a very dark moment, I really want to be a
light that activates a sense of hope and encouragement in

(01:24:51):
you that yes, things can get better, and yes there
are things that you can use, and yes it matters,
it matters profoundly.

Speaker 1 (01:24:58):
So this charges you up, this conversation absolutely, all right, Yes,
go ahead, gondw Okay.

Speaker 5 (01:25:02):
So you've obviously been very inspirational to so many people
and they're getting let them tattooed on them. I see
a tattoo on your wrists. I can't read the entire thing.
It says, it shall be what it shall.

Speaker 15 (01:25:12):
Be, It shall be? It shall be is a reminder
in your ability to figure it out. Like I really
do believe that. I think you can look backwards in
your life and even the horrible things that happened that
you didn't deserve, you can see how every twist in
turn led you to where you are today. You can
see the lessons in it. You can kind of understand

(01:25:32):
how it shaped you and led you to this moment
it shall be. And this skill that I believe that
everybody can learn is standing in this moment and actually
doing that to the future, that this moment, too, is
but a brick on the path of your life that
is leading you somewhere, and you can stand in this

(01:25:52):
moment and even when it's devastating or heartbreaking or overwhelming
and scary, that you can hold your own hand and
remind yourself that this is but a moment, and some
point in the future there is such a bigger possibility
that is waiting for you, and your job is not
to doubt that. Your job is to trust that it

(01:26:14):
is coming, and that at some point you'll look back
and understand why this happened and what you learned from it,
because it was preparing you for something bigger that was coming.

Speaker 1 (01:26:25):
And that's why that tattoo is there to remind you. Wow, Wow,
you're my best friend who passed away his line and
his tattoo was just be it that thinks that's my
first and only tattoo I'm gonna get. Danielle, I don't.

Speaker 7 (01:26:37):
Even know what to say. I love the book. It's great,
it's so inspirational. I love the I think a lot
of younger people should read it as well. I think
that in Trash Cans because I know our son was
just going through something, you know, something similar to what
we all do. Yeah, and I think that he would
take a lot from this book, So I don't think
it's It's definitely geared to so many different people.

Speaker 1 (01:27:00):
I cannot tell you how grateful I am that you
spent time with us today.

Speaker 15 (01:27:02):
Well, thank you for inviting me.

Speaker 1 (01:27:03):
The let them theory is out, of course, why don't
you be one of the ka billions of people who
have made it the best selling book.

Speaker 15 (01:27:09):
Here's something you don't even need to buy it. We
just told you how to use it.

Speaker 1 (01:27:11):
Yeah, something from Sheldon. I mean, I'm thrilled to be here.

Speaker 25 (01:27:16):
I love the fact that this is a moment that
I have pictured in my mind for many, many years.

Speaker 1 (01:27:21):
But you are exactly who I thought you would be.
So thanks for everything you gift to everyone. Mel Robbins.
Of course the let them theory, it's out, go get it.
Thank you.

Speaker 5 (01:27:30):
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Speaker 16 (01:27:54):
Elvis Duran and the Morning Show That's Slim right off
of my.

Speaker 7 (01:28:02):
Everything about the show was great.

Speaker 3 (01:28:06):
This everything that's just funny, Like I love it.

Speaker 1 (01:28:09):
It's time for Barbie to get a Bush National Rachel Holds.

Speaker 2 (01:28:15):
Elvis is with us Telvis Duran in the Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (01:28:21):
I can I tell you how honored we were to
have Mel Robbins on our show. She was just incredible.
If you've missed our conversation with her, uh, you need
to listen to it. Listen to us on demand wherever
you get your podcast, The Elvis Drane Morning Show, it's there.
Just search for it and look for the Mel Robbins interview.
She How fabulous was she? And is she?

Speaker 7 (01:28:43):
It's amazing, she's we want to keep her.

Speaker 1 (01:28:48):
The name of the book if you're wondering, is the
let them theory and uh, it's everything and anything you
would need uh to uh happy your holster, you know
what I'm saying through life. She's just amazing. So thank
you so much to Mel Robbins. I can't wait to
have her back on again. You know I love CBS
Sunday Morning. It's one of my favorite shows. If you

(01:29:08):
don't watch CBS Sunday Morning on Sundays, you're really missing
out on really the best TV has to offer. It
really is an incredible show. The stories are just well
paced and interesting and deep and wonderful. So one of
the reporters on CBS Sunday Morning, her name is Martha Tysner.
I believe she's been there for one hundred years. She's great.

(01:29:30):
She did a story about Vermont's Dog Mountain, this dog
chapel up in Vermont where people will go to grieve
and say goodbye to their dogs. And you go into
the dog Chapel in Vermont and you see just walls
covered with photos that people bring in and tack up.
They also bring their other dogs, and there's dogs running around.
It's just an unbelievable place. And you know, for some reason,

(01:29:54):
a lot of people don't give dog lovers and cat
lovers room to grieve when they lose arguably one of
the most important parts of their lives. Right and closer
to home here in Central Park. I don't know if
you know about the Secret Pet Memorial Tree. We've talked
about it before. There's a part of Central Park called

(01:30:14):
the Ramble. It's just a very, very just It's a wooded,
hilly kind of behind the scenes walk through Central Park
and right in the middle of it is this tree
decorated by pet owners with photos of their pets that
passed away. Have you ever been to the pet Memorial
Tree in Central Park?

Speaker 15 (01:30:35):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:30:35):
No, Oh, it'll take your breath away. It's incredible. So
go check it out next time you're in the ramble
in a beautiful Central Park. What another great way to
pay tribute to these pets of ours. So, a really
good friend of ours who we work with here at
Z one hundred in New York, they had to let

(01:30:57):
their dog go. I'm sorry. It just it kills me.
I'm so sorry. It just kills me when people have
to let let them go, you know, because we are
all they know. We adopt them, or they come into

(01:31:18):
our lives when their little puppies or kittens and where
all they know. So the day they leave us, we've
been with them the entire time. Can someone say something, please?

Speaker 5 (01:31:30):
Yeah, someone, I'm thinking about our engineer Jeff right now because.

Speaker 1 (01:31:34):
He just that's what I was talking about.

Speaker 5 (01:31:36):
Yeah, he just cross his dog and it makes me
very sad for him because that's your little buddy that's
in your house with you unconditionally through everything, your crappiest moods.

Speaker 7 (01:31:44):
They're right there and it sucks that we have lived
them like you know, I mean, I wish that was
a magic pill that, oh God help us, you know,
maybe one day don't come out with something.

Speaker 1 (01:31:54):
Well, Gandhi told us there is a pill that could
prolong your dog's life.

Speaker 15 (01:31:59):
Amazing.

Speaker 18 (01:32:00):
I always say that I've seen the meme that says
this all the time, is that we are here for
they are here for a portion of our lives.

Speaker 1 (01:32:07):
We are their entire life.

Speaker 7 (01:32:09):
That's exactly trust us to make those decisions, you know, absolutely.

Speaker 5 (01:32:13):
I just wish they could speak and you could talk
to them and they could say, hey, you know I'm
not feeling good.

Speaker 12 (01:32:18):
You get me checked out, or hey, don't keep doing
the surgery. Yeah you know, I'm good, let me.

Speaker 18 (01:32:22):
Get If you remember Elvis when we lost Kobe, it,
I mean it's been nine years ago now, we knew
things aren't good with him, and we took him to
the vet and I'll never ever, ever forget. Doctor Berg
looked at me in the face and he said, do
you love him more than you love yourself?

Speaker 1 (01:32:36):
And I said yes. He said, then do what's right
for him, not what's right for you.

Speaker 18 (01:32:40):
And I did And it was hard, and I missed
Kobe every day, but I had to do what was
right for him, because that's your responsibility as a pet owner,
is to take care of them.

Speaker 1 (01:32:49):
You have to let them go, you do. Our friend
Phil Cross his dog left them Saturday this weekend. They do,
you know. They come into your lives and then just
as soon as you get wrapped up, they leave us,
you know. And I'm so sorry, I got some emotional
But so if you have a friend who is a

(01:33:10):
pet and you just don't understand why they're so connected
to that pet, you don't understand why they treat that
pet like their child, it's because they are connected. It's
because they are their child. They are their children. And anyway, yeah,
when I heard the news about Jeff's dog Jackie, I'm
so so sad. But anyway, so yeah, the memorial pet tree,

(01:33:31):
it's usually I think it's usually around Christmas time. It's
it's up in Central Park, So take a walk and
go check it out when next Christmas rolls around. And
so there you go. I truly think that, you know,
when we lose our pets, it's like it is losing
a member of your family. There's days you need to
take off, you need to and give people that space

(01:33:52):
to grieve. All right, So if you do a CBS
Sunday Morning search for that memorial dog park in Vermont.
Watch that story. It'll totally move you. It really is
a great It's actually a very happy story at the end,
So give it a watch. All right. I didn't mean
to like like poop pool on everyone's festive Monday.

Speaker 5 (01:34:13):
I always think when it comes to people in their pets,
I love seeing good pet owners with their pet because
I feel like it's the best version of themselves.

Speaker 12 (01:34:18):
You can meet the menus.

Speaker 5 (01:34:20):
Old bastard and you see them with their dog, and
they're just so loving and adorable.

Speaker 12 (01:34:23):
I'm like, Okay, they're there, are looking at me. I
was looking right at you.

Speaker 1 (01:34:28):
She said, God, yes, So there's that. And so you
go to work and you know they're at home waiting
for you. I bet you can't wait to get home
and see them. So go home. Give them all the
love you can give them. They're just they're everything. All right,
let's go around the room. Let's see what's on the
minds of everyone in the room. I want to start

(01:34:48):
with Froggy, what's on your mind today?

Speaker 18 (01:34:52):
So normally when you watch golf, it's almost like you
get to rest and relax, you just watch golf. Maybe
you take a little nap GANDHI will to this. Yesterday
was not a napping golf day. Watching the Masters yesterday,
when it was over, I needed a nap. It was
the most bipolar, just wild round of golf. One minute,
it was like players would do good things and then

(01:35:13):
absolutely crazy things, and I'm sitting there on my couch going,
how did you do that? At that point and I
realized that golf is hard.

Speaker 1 (01:35:19):
I get it. At play it, I understand it. But
yesterday was such a wild day.

Speaker 18 (01:35:23):
But I really truly enjoyed it watching with my son,
getting so many texts. Danielle called during the middle of
the Masters. I had to had to put her off.
I mean, Danielle, I'll call you back when it's over.
So funny, I can't talk to you right now. Connie
was texting me. It really was just a fun day.
I enjoyed it. I can't wait till next year, only
three hundred and sixty one days from AUGUSTA again.

Speaker 1 (01:35:41):
Can look at you. I can't wait. You You should
buy one of those green jackets.

Speaker 18 (01:35:46):
Did you know that. I looked on Amazon. You can
buy one for forty dollars. You can have your own
green jacket.

Speaker 7 (01:35:51):
You can he sell them on Amazon Costume next year.
Very easy go was.

Speaker 1 (01:35:57):
A professional golfer. What would I do if you? If
you wore that the tournament, I'm pretty sure they'd kick
you out.

Speaker 4 (01:36:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:36:02):
Yeah, it's like wearing a wedding dress to someone else's wedding.
You don't want to do that.

Speaker 5 (01:36:05):
No, No, I didn't know golf could be a nail
bier until yesterday.

Speaker 1 (01:36:10):
Gandhi, what's up with you today?

Speaker 5 (01:36:11):
I know we've talked about this before, but you know
you always say, take a different way home, check out
other things. Take a walk outside your building today if
you have a lunch break or like a recess, whatever
it is, and go explore things. Because there's so much
to see around here. We don't really ever get to
get out. But I ran out in the commercial break
to check some things out, which is why I was like.

Speaker 1 (01:36:28):
Coming back, would you see you see?

Speaker 5 (01:36:29):
I got peanut butter toast. I've seen some places where
there are like little encampments around here that I had
not seen before. I saw the new Blue not new,
but it's new to us, the blue kitchen that everybody
talks about up on the twelfth floor.

Speaker 12 (01:36:42):
It was just a good time. I got some steps
in go exploring.

Speaker 5 (01:36:44):
It's great now I feel like I'm reinvigorated and ready
to face the day again. So it's good.

Speaker 1 (01:36:50):
Excellent. How about you, scary? What's on your mind today?

Speaker 10 (01:36:53):
Okay, we really should outlaw table pictures.

Speaker 1 (01:36:58):
Pictures.

Speaker 10 (01:36:58):
Table at the picture when people are in a restaurant,
they're sitting around, they're hanging out, and they're literally sitting
there and everyone is misaligned. Half the places, half the
bodies are in the dark. This happened on Satriday night.
Might we wanted to commemorate the moment and we took
a table pick. It's the absolute worst idea. Which table
pick have you ever posted for with the entire table

(01:37:21):
where someone of the waiter takes the picture that actually
turned out good that you were proud of. None. I
could tell you that.

Speaker 1 (01:37:27):
We like this one.

Speaker 10 (01:37:28):
You can see the the the Neon exit sign in
the background. There's too much ceiling, all the all the
dirty table you know, plates are on the table in
your phone.

Speaker 1 (01:37:37):
You are trash.

Speaker 12 (01:37:39):
You're saying, don't commemorate a moment unless it's well lit.

Speaker 10 (01:37:41):
Do not commemorate a moment by sea, a bunch of
people seated in a line at at a table, A
giant group shot sitting at a table where faces are
poking out from other people's bodies.

Speaker 1 (01:37:51):
It's just awful.

Speaker 10 (01:37:52):
It's an awful thing.

Speaker 1 (01:37:53):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 10 (01:37:54):
I know there are bigger things in the world that
complain about today, But we missed our mark with British
War because we had a great moment.

Speaker 1 (01:38:01):
We hadn't seen each other and it was a great
reunion and we have. All we have is this awful
memory of this table picture. So then to take a picture,
take a picture somewhere else then, I know, but but
that that's the go to.

Speaker 10 (01:38:11):
Everyone does that. Hey, he could give the waitress a
big bi I.

Speaker 1 (01:38:16):
Was begged to differ. I have some of my favorite
photos taken at tables and they were great. I don't know,
but you tell that waiter, you know, give me a
point five on that camera. Let's go.

Speaker 7 (01:38:24):
Maybe it's the angle.

Speaker 1 (01:38:25):
I don't know what it was, but I just just awful.
And then I have to look at people's dirty food
on the table.

Speaker 7 (01:38:32):
Yead, you can edit it now, okay or just yeah.

Speaker 10 (01:38:34):
And I'm complaining about something that's probably not very important in.

Speaker 1 (01:38:38):
Life, but I okay, very well, producer Sam, what's up
with you today?

Speaker 4 (01:38:43):
All right?

Speaker 3 (01:38:43):
I gotta be selfish and mentioned two things.

Speaker 13 (01:38:45):
First of all, congratulations to my husband William, who.

Speaker 3 (01:38:48):
Are on the Jersey City Marathon this weekend.

Speaker 13 (01:38:50):
It was his third marathon, but the first time that
he made the time he wanted, which was under three
hours and thirty minutes.

Speaker 3 (01:38:57):
He's it in three twenty seven.

Speaker 1 (01:39:00):
Super proud of him.

Speaker 3 (01:39:01):
Great job anyone who participated yesterday.

Speaker 12 (01:39:04):
And I also want to thank our listeners.

Speaker 3 (01:39:06):
If you weren't around it, didn't hear it.

Speaker 13 (01:39:08):
Last week I said that William and I are going
through IVF after a year of trying, and now we
have a year of IVF behind us.

Speaker 3 (01:39:14):
We are still thick in this very fun journey.

Speaker 13 (01:39:17):
But I just got such a wonderful outpour of really
great comments and personal stories and the other ones that
I was hoping for, which is people saying thank you
so much for sharing because this is me and it
helped to hear it.

Speaker 3 (01:39:29):
So if it's you, I'm with you. I'm part of
the club.

Speaker 13 (01:39:32):
My fingers are crossed for all of us, and thanks
so much for making such a safe space for me
to share.

Speaker 1 (01:39:37):
Absolutely we Love You, Love You? What took me U
straight and eight? Okay, so you've heard me raving about
The Pit.

Speaker 19 (01:39:43):
It's on Max. I finished it. The season finale was
last Thursday. I watched it over the weekend and oh
my god, what a fantastic show. And what I'm about
to say is this it's a feel good show.

Speaker 1 (01:39:57):
And I know it's.

Speaker 19 (01:39:58):
About a hospital drama and people dying, but the great
thing about it is that you're watching this er and
it's all of these people and I know they're actors,
but they represent all of the people out there that
run to the danger and take care of us when
things go bad. So it just made me feel good
that there are people like that. Because of course, like

(01:40:18):
most people, I did a deep dive afterwards. I go
in and see what the real thoughts were on the
show online, and everybody was just raving.

Speaker 1 (01:40:25):
About it, especially people in the medical profession.

Speaker 19 (01:40:27):
So if you had a part in making this show,
thank you very much, and more importantly, if you have
a part in saving people in any way, shape or form,
thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Speaker 1 (01:40:38):
Wow, so thank you. Wow. You said every single episode
of The Pit was so moving, and you cried and
I did in the last one. I do want to
see that.

Speaker 7 (01:40:47):
Yeah, yeah, me too.

Speaker 1 (01:40:48):
I'm in Danielle's help with your well.

Speaker 7 (01:40:50):
I'm going to, you know, say thank you to people
who help people as well. So you guys know, Hack
and Sack HMH is actually a sponsor of ours, but
years before they became a sponsor. I have been a
patient a Hackensack University Medical Center is my hospital, A
lot of my doctors are there, and so on Friday
I went and got my annual mammogram there, right, So Stelle,

(01:41:11):
shout out to Stella and Michelle and the amazing people
who run the breast cancer Center, because they're absolutely amazing. Thankfully,
everything is fine, but I just want you to know
that you really should go and get that mammogram. I
was hearing while I was there that they're finding more
and more younger women having breast cancer, women in their

(01:41:32):
thirties for some reason. They don't know why. So if
you have any questions, if you think something's different, if
you think something's off when you do your self examinations,
you know, or try and go a little earlier than
forty if you can, if your insurance will let you,
you know, even just for a checkup. If it's in
your family. All these things play a difference, and if
you catch it early then the odds are much much

(01:41:55):
much better. So please get your mammogram. And again, thank
you everybody at Hackensack University Medical Center. I love you guys.
You are always amazing.

Speaker 1 (01:42:04):
There you go. Did I get everyone? I think we're
all in right, We're good. I think we're good. Everyone's
tucked in. Uh, let'll tell you what. Let's do sound
coming up, Danielle, what do you have coming up? In
your last report of the day.

Speaker 7 (01:42:15):
Shahboozy. He's not putting out a new album, but he's
putting out his other album that he just had out
with some new songs. Okay, and the carpenter is doing
something very special for Espresso you'll see.

Speaker 1 (01:42:29):
And she did a great job at Coachella as well.
Everyone's just Coachella. I think we should have been there. Yeah,
I heard people. People were kind of miserable while they
were there.

Speaker 7 (01:42:37):
One hundred degrees. I'd rather watch it on the stream.

Speaker 1 (01:42:40):
But Benson Boone and Gaga by far are getting the
most the most play on on social media from from Coachella.
How cool? All right? So that and a lot more
time coming up.

Speaker 2 (01:42:52):
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Speaker 16 (01:43:19):
This is Lady Gaga and you're listening to my friend
Elvis Duran and the Morning Show.

Speaker 1 (01:43:25):
Well, thank you Gaga. She did a great job at Coachella.
She was amazing. People just thought she was I mean,
it's Lady Gaga. She just really knows how to do it.

Speaker 7 (01:43:34):
She puts on a show wherever she goes. It's amazing.

Speaker 1 (01:43:37):
And Benson Boone super super huge. A lot of people
just couldn't get enough. A hem, when he's doing Bohemian Rhapsody. Sure,
let's play some Benson Boone in just a second. Gosh,
the countdown is on for the Countdown Blue Origin, the
all female crew including Katy Perry and Lauren Sanchez and
many more, Miguel King, They're taking off.

Speaker 7 (01:44:02):
Thirty twelve minutes and fourteen seconds. I'm watching it live
right now. Oh really Yeah, MPR dot Org has it
if you want to watch it.

Speaker 1 (01:44:09):
Oh cool, How cool is that? Let's get some sound
in here with Garrett. Yeah, what do you have today?
All right, let's uh some music that dropped over the weekend,
including some Coachella artists. We'll start though with Jelly Roll.
This is called Dreams, Don't.

Speaker 18 (01:44:22):
Die, Hanna, out of Crowd, No Love.

Speaker 4 (01:44:29):
Hana. I've been doing it.

Speaker 1 (01:44:34):
He said it was one of his most important songs
he ever put out. So he seems like every song
Jelly Role does it's really important. Yeah, he figured. I
mean it's it's hard. It's this thing. Uh. Chaboozi, he
was at Coachella over the weekend. But Danielle is about
to do a story about him putting out some new music.
This is with Miles Smith called Blink twice wh.

Speaker 4 (01:45:00):
Just alive.

Speaker 1 (01:45:04):
All right? And by the way, Shaboozy and Miles Smith
met at Chingle Ball Uh Green Day put this one
out to you. They played Coachella. This is called smash
It like Blushi. Sounds good? Yes, all right, now let's

(01:45:26):
move over to some Coachella performances. This one's for Scary
weird Aw made his first ever Coachella appearance with Yo
Gabba Gabba and this is them doing Rainbow Connection.

Speaker 12 (01:45:36):
I've heard it too, man too.

Speaker 1 (01:45:40):
We know something then I'm supposed to be really bomb.
We'll bind it. Hey, Coachella great, the Dreamers and me.

Speaker 7 (01:45:56):
Okay, you know you ga Gabba's still around.

Speaker 1 (01:45:59):
Yeah, all right. Now this is the performance everyone's been
talking about, Benson Boone with Brian May from Queen doing
a little Bohemian rhapsody. Unbelievable. I gotta tell you, and

(01:46:22):
I've told this to Benson before at jingle Ball, I said,
you got to stop jumping so much on stage because
you're gonna break an ankle. He was jumping from really
far up spaces and tumbling down to the ground and
he's nuts. He flicked over Brian May at one point
two during that performance, and Brian May didn't even know it. Yeah, exactly,
and then we didn't happen that fast. You're a good American, Garrett.

(01:46:44):
Take you that, all right, Danielle, give us, give us
your headlines, and I'm gonna play some Benson Boone for you. Okay,
let's go, She.

Speaker 7 (01:46:50):
Says, Sush, what's your name? Gary? Since Garage is talking,
it sounds like me in my house. Uh, Garic just
talked about this, so shoe boozy. He's not putting out
a new album. Is where I've been, isn't where I'm going.
He put that out last year. He's putting that out again,
but he is improving it. So he's gonna give you
some new features, some new songs, stuff like that. So

(01:47:12):
that's gonna be on the way. Let's see Sabrina Carpenter Espresso.
Can you believe it? She is celebrating that Espresso came
out last year. So what is she doing. She's giving
us a caffeinated piece of merchandise. It's a custom vinyl
of Espresso that's actually filled with espresso. Yes, I don't

(01:47:32):
know how she got it in there. I'm not even
sure if it's really coffee or really caffeine in there,
but it's in there, and it's this liquid. And she
only pressed like a thousand copies. It's a special edition
to special release. So if you can get your hands
on that, that's awesome. I don't know if you saw
Kanye taking to Twitter over the weekend and basically dumping
all over Taylor Swift, he said that she had sex

(01:47:54):
with Justin Bieber and Harry Style, So she had to
send a season desist over to him. And then Travis
Kelsey apparently is not having it. He is so pissed
off and he wants to have a man to man
with Kanye. So we'll see if that happens.

Speaker 15 (01:48:08):
I do not.

Speaker 5 (01:48:09):
The man's obsessed and he's insane. What the she's going
to restraining order?

Speaker 7 (01:48:13):
It's ridiculous, It's absolutely ridiculous. Ah and yeah, so okay,
seven minutes and fifty eight seconds until the ladies launch
into space. I don't know why I'm so obsessed with this,
but I am.

Speaker 1 (01:48:23):
You are, we are?

Speaker 7 (01:48:24):
I really am.

Speaker 2 (01:48:25):
Katy Perry.

Speaker 7 (01:48:26):
You know she's going up there, Gail King, a bunch
of others are going up there. The rocket ship travel
sixty two miles above the Earth, returns gently under parachutes.
Round trip flight time is eleven minutes. And like I said,
seven minutes and thirty seven seconds to launch. What are
we watching? American Idol, The Voice, Holy Marvels with Dennis Quaid,
all your NSAI yeah shows, and don't forget mob Land.

(01:48:48):
That's the one Elvis is liking on Paramountain, loving it.
That is my Danielle report.

Speaker 1 (01:48:52):
And even though it's in English, you do have to
watch it with subtitles.

Speaker 7 (01:48:55):
Unless you unless you live with the brit.

Speaker 1 (01:48:57):
Then you don't exactly all right. The star of Coachella,
Benson Boone. I love this song. It's as new and
it's sorry I'm here for someone else.

Speaker 21 (01:49:04):
I'm sorry you're here for someone else. But it's good
to see your faces. Already hope if you do, and
will I.

Speaker 4 (01:49:15):
Hope you do? And well.

Speaker 24 (01:49:23):
She was rather than Lake for tennis, southside town.

Speaker 1 (01:49:26):
Left the phat a little bit of but it's cool
for now.

Speaker 24 (01:49:29):
Far from Pepec bote each other, but bore, we're getting out.

Speaker 19 (01:49:32):
I suppose.

Speaker 24 (01:49:35):
Now we'll wait and never Dina looking traumatize Chris.

Speaker 2 (01:49:39):
You walk up to the table with the noder rising.

Speaker 1 (01:49:43):
It's an it gets at you.

Speaker 24 (01:49:48):
And say, oh sorry you cue for song one knows
it's good to see your face and already hope you do,
and will ho be do we will see.

Speaker 15 (01:50:06):
Allaby to stay out, stay and talk.

Speaker 24 (01:50:09):
At the bar or by r sou But I'm here
for some wee now whatever they ready go for where
she finally.

Speaker 1 (01:50:18):
Walks into the restaurant.

Speaker 4 (01:50:21):
Hate to say your bottom now it was already gone.

Speaker 24 (01:50:24):
Oh fly, don't do it till you break it apart fairly.

Speaker 4 (01:50:28):
Don't do it fairly, don't do it.

Speaker 1 (01:50:33):
To it's person. I said, so, she is a soul. News.

Speaker 4 (01:50:48):
It's good to see face.

Speaker 1 (01:50:51):
You'll go ready home?

Speaker 14 (01:50:52):
You do in a world?

Speaker 4 (01:50:55):
How sorry?

Speaker 1 (01:50:58):
You said?

Speaker 24 (01:51:01):
Insteady talk at the bar by so, but I'm here.

Speaker 7 (01:51:08):
For so.

Speaker 4 (01:51:32):
Again.

Speaker 2 (01:51:37):
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Speaker 16 (01:52:06):
Waiting Elvista ran in the morning show.

Speaker 1 (01:52:10):
All right, shows done, Let's get out of here until
next time. Say peace out, everybody, peece out, everybody,