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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Get your hit us together and we're going to start
to party.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I'm ready to party.
Speaker 3 (00:06):
See Elvis Duran after party.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
You have to Party podcast.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
Here we are.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
There's Danielle and Gandhi and Garrick and Scottie B. And
there's uh Nate and I see scary and doesn't mention everyone.
I think I think I did.
Speaker 4 (00:27):
Hi.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Everyone who's going to a wedding this summer? Anyone?
Speaker 5 (00:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Yeah, yep, we all going to wedding and winter.
Speaker 5 (00:34):
Yeah they're coming.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Yeah, they're lining up on the runway. Did you read
about this thing going viral? There's a bride who got
so pissed off at people who RSVP'd yes to the
wedding and they didn't show up, so she's sending them invoices.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
I don't blame her.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
I don't charging a fee.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
This happened to me. Don't you remember?
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Oh yeah, I do remember. I remember who did it.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
There was we won't speak of the person, but there was.
When you are a s VP and you give your
final number, a lot of times they charge you for
that head, so you still have to pay for it.
So unless the person is sick and has an issue, whatever,
some excuses are not excuses, and the excuse that this
person gave me, I won't say, wasn't really an excuse,
And so I actually said something to them, and you
(01:17):
know what they did. They wrote me a check and
handed it to me and said, well, let me cover
my plate. I ripped the check up and threw it out,
and I said, it doesn't have anything to do with that.
The fact it's just to me that it's a rude thing,
that it is whatever, because the excuse was stupid. But anyway,
so sometimes so I totally understand totally.
Speaker 2 (01:35):
You know, the solution is just say no, you're not
going right exactly.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
That's it, just saying and this wait, this person asked
to be invited to the wedding as well.
Speaker 5 (01:43):
Okay, that's even weird.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Yeah, well we know that person and we're glad that
they're no longer in our lives.
Speaker 5 (01:50):
I'm so curious now.
Speaker 2 (01:51):
But just actually is picking up steam and going very
viral about the bride who's charging people and no show
fee for not showing up. I guess you don't really
want to put that on the invitation.
Speaker 4 (02:01):
Do you?
Speaker 2 (02:02):
No, you don't, that'd be very So how do you
let it be known?
Speaker 5 (02:08):
I guess maybe you just talk to them individually, or
you hit them with a VENMO request. I'm going to
look up exactly how she did it, because I mean,
you could do the thing like you know what you
RSVP for, or you reserve a restaurant reservation and then
you have to put your credit card down and if
you don't show up, then you get charged. I wonder
if you could do that with your.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
I mean, if you cancel an appointment at a doctor's
office less than twenty four hours, you got to pay something.
Speaker 4 (02:32):
So you know, I have a question.
Speaker 6 (02:37):
If you are SVP NO to a wedding, Yeah, do
you still have.
Speaker 4 (02:41):
To give them the gift? Do you have to still?
Do you still owe them something?
Speaker 3 (02:44):
I think I don't think you do, but I think
it's nice to give a little something.
Speaker 4 (02:48):
Maybe absolutely it is.
Speaker 7 (02:49):
It depends on who it is.
Speaker 5 (02:50):
Yeah, it depends on how well you know.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
And when does that time run out? I heard it
was a year?
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Isn't it a year?
Speaker 4 (02:55):
Year?
Speaker 7 (02:56):
Can I add something to that? Because this happened to me.
I was invited to go to a wedding. They're very
close friends. It's the it's the son of a very
close friend of mine. I was not able to go,
but I sent a very large gift because they're close,
and I never got to thank you. So I don't
know if he ever actually got.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
It or not. But why did you ask?
Speaker 7 (03:18):
I don't, Hey, did you get my gift?
Speaker 3 (03:19):
L Hey, I'm just making sure that it got to you.
You know, I never heard, so I'm just curious, that's all.
Speaker 5 (03:23):
What if they didn't get it and then they hate you?
Speaker 8 (03:25):
Right?
Speaker 4 (03:26):
I thought that also, you know what it is.
Speaker 7 (03:28):
It was one of those websites where you can like
add money to something for an experience. So I did it,
so I like paid for like their their tour of
the bamboo factory or something in Japan. And I've never
heard that they went to the bamboo factory. They make
bamboo in Japan. Well, whatever it is, some bamboo tour
at a factory.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
A Well, look, you know, this is why I've never
understood this theory of you need to give a gift
that's equal to the amount they spent on the plate
of food, which I think it's you give a gift
because you're happy for them. I thought, I mean, I
want you to do well in life, and here, you know.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Don't you remember when Scary would bring a blank check,
he would whip it out and depending on how.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
The dinner was they didn't have, if they didn't have
a shrimp station, he was going to put a little
smaller amount of the check. Oh my god, no shrimp, no,
no gift.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
I don't know.
Speaker 7 (04:22):
My wedding must have sucked. I got a box of
hanger from someone.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
Oh what did you really?
Speaker 7 (04:28):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (04:29):
I had people at my wedding that were so wasted
that they lost the checks, three of them. So hammered.
Came to me at the end of the wedding, like
your gift, it's somewhere they resent us checks Because that's
what I did.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
There was no problem.
Speaker 5 (04:46):
See, I'm just gonna throw myself a big birthday party
and register for a thing.
Speaker 2 (04:48):
That's because it should I would, I would RSVP no,
but send you a gift.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
Okay.
Speaker 5 (04:54):
You guys also think that we get invited to a
lot of weddings. I feel like I get invited to
a ton of weddings of people I don't really know
that well, yeah, specifically because they want a gift, right,
But I'm like, I don't even know any It could
be a.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Lot of people will invite me knowing full well I
can't make it. Yeah.
Speaker 6 (05:11):
I found out once that I was a second wave
invite where people would invite people they said no, and
then I was like the B list.
Speaker 4 (05:20):
I think that because they already they.
Speaker 6 (05:22):
Demand the catering hall says you're going to you're gonna
have an X amount of people.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
You got to guarantee that amount so I will see.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
Well, I'm glad you showed up to my wedding. But
in hindsight, it was a lot of fun to be with.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
Sometimes I also think is you do want to invite
that person, but you have too many people, so you
have a B list where you go, okay once people
start saying no, I'll move over to these people. And
it's not that you don't like them, it's just that
you know.
Speaker 4 (05:49):
It's a lot of people.
Speaker 1 (05:50):
You can't have everything right.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
You can't have everybody right.
Speaker 2 (05:52):
I didn't have a B list. It was everyone was
the A list. There are A listers I couldn't put
on there because I had too many other listers. So
I guess that was Listen.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
I do have people now that I regret that I
didn't invite that I wish and I look back and
I go, shit, I should have Oh can I say
shit on this one? I wish I had invited them,
and I feel bad that I didn't. To this day,
I still don't.
Speaker 6 (06:14):
If you get the invite two weeks out, you're on
the list, maybe the seed.
Speaker 1 (06:18):
List and not even the B list at that point, you.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Know, don't send an invite two weeks out. That's rude, right,
that's I wouldn't do that.
Speaker 8 (06:26):
Elvis I, your wedding was amazing, and after that, I
was like, how do I go to another wedding and
like compare it? Given you're not supposed to, but let's
be honest, you had an amazing wedding. I was like,
I'll never find anything close to this ever again. On
vacation there was a couple from Israel that flew in
with two hundred people and constructed this big, massive apparatus
(06:50):
building on the beach with and had a dance floor
brought in and painted. I was like, well, I found
the number two wedding behind you. I mean, they were
serving Tomahawk's stakes. Normally it's like a shrimp latter, they
were serving Tomahawk State.
Speaker 4 (07:03):
It's a big gift.
Speaker 3 (07:04):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
I love they built their own.
Speaker 4 (07:08):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Well look, you know so if you were into that theory,
well you have to write a check for a gift
equals the amount of how much they spent on the wedding.
Here's a check for forty five thousand dollars, right right.
Speaker 5 (07:23):
Like, what would you get Jeff Bezos for his wedding?
What did people do?
Speaker 3 (07:26):
The guy owned Amazon?
Speaker 2 (07:29):
What do you get? I'm just giving giving a gift
card for.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
Amazon, or at that point, donate to a charity, maybe
in their name.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
Well, I wonder if they requested that.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
I think it was a charity.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Probably did, Yeah, it would make sense.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
I have a lot of friends who will do that
because they have everything they need, you know, they don't
need any more in the house. I'm the same way.
We were having a birthday gathering for a friend of mine.
I knew this, This friend wanted nothing, so I said,
do not bring anything, do not bring a gift. Gifts
will be thrown in the trash. And of course people
brought gifts because they're like, we don't think you really
mean meant we thought maybe we should bring one, Okay.
Speaker 7 (08:03):
And asking for a friend, is it tacky to request
a plus one?
Speaker 4 (08:07):
Yes?
Speaker 1 (08:08):
No, No, you're not asking, you're asking for yourself.
Speaker 3 (08:10):
By the way, Yes, yes, yes, because different people have
like if you're if you're in a relationship for a while.
I think it depends. Some people say it depends on
how long you've been in the Relationtip before you get
invited to like the wedding.
Speaker 4 (08:23):
You want to ask carl, Maria and Anthony for you?
Speaker 2 (08:26):
Oh my god, I mean.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
I would think Carlin, Marian Anthony are going to give
you a plus one.
Speaker 7 (08:31):
They know they did because they said that they were
giving plus ones for people that were in committed.
Speaker 3 (08:35):
Reallysh So you're fine.
Speaker 7 (08:36):
I believe that she was just unaware.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
So how do you How do you break this to
your new girlfriend or boyfriend? Hey, the only way I
would love for you to come to a good friend's
wedding with me as my guest. But the only way
for you to be allowed is if we are in
a committed relationship. Let's have that conversation, my lord.
Speaker 7 (08:59):
Yeah, well she's coming, So there's that.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
So you're in a committed relationship. Yes, Oh, just checking
the wedding for.
Speaker 8 (09:07):
The plus one them if you were invited, No, I was.
Speaker 7 (09:12):
I got to save the date, but it only came
to me because it was pre It's a whole long.
Speaker 2 (09:17):
Story, gotcha, gotcha, I know, I know. But you say
a lot about your relationship, you ring when you tell it.
Speaker 1 (09:21):
That's a bigger check that they're going to get, because.
Speaker 7 (09:23):
That's that's what I said. I said, you'll get more
money if two people come.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
You said that. I'm pretty of course he did.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
He's spend more money if two people come as well.
You realize, right, and you're probably not covering which.
Speaker 7 (09:38):
No, no, I'm definitely not coming.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
And they're inviting someone they've never met before.
Speaker 5 (09:41):
Yeah, they're gonna have a random person in all their pictures.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
This is turning into a party you're paying for for them.
I hate this.
Speaker 4 (09:47):
You gotta down though.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
If you have a guest, you have to Oh, yeah,
you're gonna pay in twos.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
You have to pay twos if you have a guest.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
What's that to pay more two dollar bills?
Speaker 4 (09:56):
Yes, definitely don't do that.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
Yes, don't be that guy again.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
He is again tacky tacky and more tacky tacky tacky.
All right, I think you we're done, tacky do taxy.
Speaker 4 (10:12):
We'll see at the wedding.
Speaker 2 (10:13):
Bye, all right, don't screw up that relationship. If you did,
you could save some money. That's very November.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
You have some time.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
Yeah yeah, you get a half half off sale. Get
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