August 27, 2025 • 8 mins
Is Nate the red flag… or just dating out of his league?
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Get your hands together, and we're going to start to
part I'm reading a party.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
The Elvis ran after party.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Okay, cool, So we got derailed last time, so we're
going to pick it back up. Who's the next car
on the on the tracks?
Speaker 4 (00:26):
So this one I thought was very interesting. You're the
red flag? Flip the script? What do you do that
makes someone ghost? You know what?
Speaker 3 (00:34):
I've thought about this quite a lot recently. Am I
the red flag? I've had two dates, two dates that
brushed me off at the last second.
Speaker 5 (00:43):
Wait, wait, wait did you go out with them at all?
Or did they just had gone.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Out with them and met them previously? So you had
on date under your and then I got brushed off?
Speaker 6 (00:53):
Oh yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:54):
And then actually no, the second one, the first supposed
date was a brush off. So my question is, I don't.
Speaker 5 (01:02):
Know what you just said.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
You're supposed to go out the first night? She said
that I can't.
Speaker 7 (01:05):
Okay, So you never hung out with the second one
just ghosted, you know, hanging out.
Speaker 5 (01:09):
First girl you hung out with once and then she
goes to and then she.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Did she canceled twice and then I was like, I'm
not doing it.
Speaker 5 (01:15):
Okay, yeah, Okay.
Speaker 8 (01:17):
The flag you might be.
Speaker 5 (01:20):
It sounds like it.
Speaker 7 (01:21):
You're asking if she hung out with you once and
then didn't talk to you.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
Again, there's something there, the one that never hung out
with you.
Speaker 7 (01:27):
I wouldn't really worry about that, because you know she
might have.
Speaker 8 (01:31):
Felt something before she even hung out with What are you.
Speaker 5 (01:33):
Saying to these women?
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Mate?
Speaker 5 (01:35):
Using my usual charming sounds, are using words like hubbub.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Idubbb or None of those were used in any of
the text conversations. Thank you very much.
Speaker 5 (01:46):
I'd have to give me your phone. I'd like to
see the text conversations.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Are you in love with yourself too much?
Speaker 2 (01:50):
No? I am not.
Speaker 8 (01:52):
Do they know you are a murderer?
Speaker 4 (01:53):
God, I'm ader Wait so sorry, just to go back
to it. So you're sending texts but there not being answered.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
No, they're answering. It's when it comes to actually meeting
up in person. I'm being brushed off.
Speaker 5 (02:05):
Okay, I have a question.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
Interesting.
Speaker 8 (02:06):
Did you ever meet them in person in the first place?
Or did you like see them online? Because if that's
the case, then maybe the Okay, I was gonna say.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
I know you know the one. Yeah, yeah, So give
your give your analysis.
Speaker 5 (02:19):
Oh lord, yeah, she's.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
Got about twenty guys sliding into the d MS, and
she's just taking her best shot at whatever the best
plans are for the night. I know that's for that's
for a fact, and I know that's what a lot
of a lot of people when you've got options.
Speaker 6 (02:34):
See if you got.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Two hot people, each hot person has options a lot
of options. So it takes a lot to get that
those two people together again. So no, I know you
have options, but she's got more. And so she might
have seven better things to do that are more interesting,
that are more interesting. I hate to say it, maybe
some guys, are you know you have a more compelling plan.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Hey, the jets fueling up on the tarmac, let's go
sweet cheeks exactly, so she aborts the mission.
Speaker 7 (03:03):
Are you advocating for Nate to aim lower and go
for sort of like wounded Gazelle's No.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
I just I think he should bring it back down
to earth and date someone a little bit more homely, or.
Speaker 6 (03:18):
Is what kills upon this very get go for the
low hanging fruit, not saying go for the fruit that's
that's on the floor and rodding away you are I'm making.
Speaker 7 (03:29):
Sure Nate never gets a date again, because anybody who
hears this, if he asks them out, they're gonna be.
Speaker 5 (03:32):
Like, Oh, I'm the low hanging fruit. I'm holy. The
word holy man is killing me.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
I'm talking about It's like the hot of the girl.
The more options she has, the less chance you're gonna
have this.
Speaker 8 (03:48):
There was a song written in nineteen sixty Jimmy, if
you want to be happy for the rest of your life,
never make a pretty woman your wife.
Speaker 5 (03:57):
That is thank you very much.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
There you go.
Speaker 5 (04:00):
I don't think you're the red flag. I think scary is.
Speaker 7 (04:05):
Translating into your dating life, but in some capacity it is.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
This is real talk. Unfortunately, I know what's going on.
And have you ever have you any of you seen
a woman's got for guys? You guys are your ladies,
but you guys are taking you're spoken for.
Speaker 5 (04:21):
It's different.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Look at a single woman's d MS. It's going nuts
in there.
Speaker 5 (04:27):
Crazy.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
There's a lot of noise, there's a lot of distractions.
It's splintered, it's fractured.
Speaker 7 (04:32):
There's single or not people sliding to DMS. It's just
it's a thing that people do.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Yeah, I do know where he's coming from and competing
with the very best.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
But are they the best? I know, if they're just
going on one off dates on the jet or but
then they come home and they're alone, is that really good?
Speaker 1 (04:50):
He's competing amongst the best of men. This girl's probably
got five guys trying to fly to eleven different continents, right,
and she's.
Speaker 5 (05:00):
Gonna worry about name.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
I actually would like to see too, because I'm keep.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Talking amongst yourselves, Andrew, what's the next question on your list?
Speaker 5 (05:10):
I think we're still on this red Flag.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
Yeah, I'm I totally understand what you're saying, but it's
it's starting to sound very You got to be an alpha,
like seek out what you want and then you get
it on.
Speaker 5 (05:20):
A couch in a basement doing a podcast.
Speaker 4 (05:22):
Yeah, yeah, like I get it. But I'm also kind
of like, red flag is so true.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
So maybe maybe it's the one she's hot.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Just turn it.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
You don't think seventeen different guys are are dming her
every single day. Sure, so that's why he gets brushed
off because a better plan comes up.
Speaker 7 (05:43):
But what if Nate could just be a better plan.
Maybe that's where he's dropping the ball. Maybe he could
easily compete with these people.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
To combat that and to answer that. I am working
on myself love that, trying to get into shape. I'm
trying to get myself to a point in life where
I know I'm the best option out there. So that's
what I'm doing.
Speaker 7 (06:00):
You're the best option for the person that's best for you.
If this person isn't seeing that already, they're not the best.
Speaker 8 (06:05):
And to be honest, she's cute, she's kind, that doesn't
mean she's the best option, especially if she's swinging from
this and from that one.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
You should be someone's first option.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
People their non committals. I hate to say it. That's terrible,
you know, and I feel bad for people like you.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
I don't think this is everyone though, Like it's very general.
Speaker 5 (06:27):
Of the wrong people.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
You have the worst word ever right now?
Speaker 5 (06:33):
Yeah, guns are you almost see?
Speaker 1 (06:38):
I see from my single guy other single guy friends
that they get brushed off too.
Speaker 5 (06:43):
If there are reasons for that. Scary, let's talk about
your single guy.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
No, let's not to defend themselves.
Speaker 7 (06:51):
Look at what they post online and you'll be like, Okay.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
There we go, jerk off Jerry doing at the end
of the night.
Speaker 7 (07:00):
We see them on Instagram with you They're like, eh,
we are.
Speaker 5 (07:04):
We've gotta go on, man, come on, come on, sweet cheeks.
I got twenty dollars. What do you mean, I'm just
waiting in long all my.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
Friends, they are far from the best option for anyone.
I'm sorry. They got the same problem you would do, Robert, was.
Speaker 5 (07:22):
To pick any of your friends to go out with.
Would does? She haven't like, is there one of them?
I think there maybe two unacceptable option? Which one?
Speaker 1 (07:32):
But I think one?
Speaker 6 (07:33):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
I don't even know what the answer.
Speaker 5 (07:35):
I never asked her, But okay, you probably picked Will.
Will Nobody Will is good. I think Will is the
only except he watch normal Normal, was a normal guy.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Normal guy.
Speaker 5 (07:44):
He doesn't have a nicka. He's the only I tried.
Speaker 7 (07:49):
I tried to start Will the white because he's a
white guy, but it didn't work.
Speaker 5 (07:52):
Nobody kicked out I Will, Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
Elster ran after party m
Get your hands together, and we're going to start to
part I'm reading a party.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
The Elvis ran after party.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Okay, cool, So we got derailed last time, so we're
going to pick it back up. Who's the next car
on the on the tracks?
Speaker 4 (00:26):
So this one I thought was very interesting. You're the
red flag? Flip the script? What do you do that
makes someone ghost? You know what?
Speaker 3 (00:34):
I've thought about this quite a lot recently. Am I
the red flag? I've had two dates, two dates that
brushed me off at the last second.
Speaker 5 (00:43):
Wait, wait, wait did you go out with them at all?
Or did they just had gone.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Out with them and met them previously? So you had
on date under your and then I got brushed off?
Speaker 6 (00:53):
Oh yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:54):
And then actually no, the second one, the first supposed
date was a brush off. So my question is, I don't.
Speaker 5 (01:02):
Know what you just said.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
You're supposed to go out the first night? She said
that I can't.
Speaker 7 (01:05):
Okay, So you never hung out with the second one
just ghosted, you know, hanging out.
Speaker 5 (01:09):
First girl you hung out with once and then she
goes to and then she.
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Did she canceled twice and then I was like, I'm
not doing it.
Speaker 5 (01:15):
Okay, yeah, Okay.
Speaker 8 (01:17):
The flag you might be.
Speaker 5 (01:20):
It sounds like it.
Speaker 7 (01:21):
You're asking if she hung out with you once and
then didn't talk to you.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
Again, there's something there, the one that never hung out
with you.
Speaker 7 (01:27):
I wouldn't really worry about that, because you know she
might have.
Speaker 8 (01:31):
Felt something before she even hung out with What are you.
Speaker 5 (01:33):
Saying to these women?
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Mate?
Speaker 5 (01:35):
Using my usual charming sounds, are using words like hubbub.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Idubbb or None of those were used in any of
the text conversations. Thank you very much.
Speaker 5 (01:46):
I'd have to give me your phone. I'd like to
see the text conversations.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
Are you in love with yourself too much?
Speaker 2 (01:50):
No? I am not.
Speaker 8 (01:52):
Do they know you are a murderer?
Speaker 4 (01:53):
God, I'm ader Wait so sorry, just to go back
to it. So you're sending texts but there not being answered.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
No, they're answering. It's when it comes to actually meeting
up in person. I'm being brushed off.
Speaker 5 (02:05):
Okay, I have a question.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
Interesting.
Speaker 8 (02:06):
Did you ever meet them in person in the first place?
Or did you like see them online? Because if that's
the case, then maybe the Okay, I was gonna say.
Speaker 3 (02:14):
I know you know the one. Yeah, yeah, So give
your give your analysis.
Speaker 5 (02:19):
Oh lord, yeah, she's.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
Got about twenty guys sliding into the d MS, and
she's just taking her best shot at whatever the best
plans are for the night. I know that's for that's
for a fact, and I know that's what a lot
of a lot of people when you've got options.
Speaker 6 (02:34):
See if you got.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
Two hot people, each hot person has options a lot
of options. So it takes a lot to get that
those two people together again. So no, I know you
have options, but she's got more. And so she might
have seven better things to do that are more interesting,
that are more interesting. I hate to say it, maybe
some guys, are you know you have a more compelling plan.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Hey, the jets fueling up on the tarmac, let's go
sweet cheeks exactly, so she aborts the mission.
Speaker 7 (03:03):
Are you advocating for Nate to aim lower and go
for sort of like wounded Gazelle's No.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
I just I think he should bring it back down
to earth and date someone a little bit more homely, or.
Speaker 6 (03:18):
Is what kills upon this very get go for the
low hanging fruit, not saying go for the fruit that's
that's on the floor and rodding away you are I'm making.
Speaker 7 (03:29):
Sure Nate never gets a date again, because anybody who
hears this, if he asks them out, they're gonna be.
Speaker 5 (03:32):
Like, Oh, I'm the low hanging fruit. I'm holy. The
word holy man is killing me.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
I'm talking about It's like the hot of the girl.
The more options she has, the less chance you're gonna
have this.
Speaker 8 (03:48):
There was a song written in nineteen sixty Jimmy, if
you want to be happy for the rest of your life,
never make a pretty woman your wife.
Speaker 5 (03:57):
That is thank you very much.
Speaker 4 (04:00):
There you go.
Speaker 5 (04:00):
I don't think you're the red flag. I think scary is.
Speaker 7 (04:05):
Translating into your dating life, but in some capacity it is.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
This is real talk. Unfortunately, I know what's going on.
And have you ever have you any of you seen
a woman's got for guys? You guys are your ladies,
but you guys are taking you're spoken for.
Speaker 5 (04:21):
It's different.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Look at a single woman's d MS. It's going nuts
in there.
Speaker 5 (04:27):
Crazy.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
There's a lot of noise, there's a lot of distractions.
It's splintered, it's fractured.
Speaker 7 (04:32):
There's single or not people sliding to DMS. It's just
it's a thing that people do.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Yeah, I do know where he's coming from and competing
with the very best.
Speaker 4 (04:42):
But are they the best? I know, if they're just
going on one off dates on the jet or but
then they come home and they're alone, is that really good?
Speaker 1 (04:50):
He's competing amongst the best of men. This girl's probably
got five guys trying to fly to eleven different continents, right,
and she's.
Speaker 5 (05:00):
Gonna worry about name.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
I actually would like to see too, because I'm keep.
Speaker 3 (05:06):
Talking amongst yourselves, Andrew, what's the next question on your list?
Speaker 5 (05:10):
I think we're still on this red Flag.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
Yeah, I'm I totally understand what you're saying, but it's
it's starting to sound very You got to be an alpha,
like seek out what you want and then you get
it on.
Speaker 5 (05:20):
A couch in a basement doing a podcast.
Speaker 4 (05:22):
Yeah, yeah, like I get it. But I'm also kind
of like, red flag is so true.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
So maybe maybe it's the one she's hot.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Just turn it.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
You don't think seventeen different guys are are dming her
every single day. Sure, so that's why he gets brushed
off because a better plan comes up.
Speaker 7 (05:43):
But what if Nate could just be a better plan.
Maybe that's where he's dropping the ball. Maybe he could
easily compete with these people.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
To combat that and to answer that. I am working
on myself love that, trying to get into shape. I'm
trying to get myself to a point in life where
I know I'm the best option out there. So that's
what I'm doing.
Speaker 7 (06:00):
You're the best option for the person that's best for you.
If this person isn't seeing that already, they're not the best.
Speaker 8 (06:05):
And to be honest, she's cute, she's kind, that doesn't
mean she's the best option, especially if she's swinging from
this and from that one.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
You should be someone's first option.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
People their non committals. I hate to say it. That's terrible,
you know, and I feel bad for people like you.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
I don't think this is everyone though, Like it's very general.
Speaker 5 (06:27):
Of the wrong people.
Speaker 3 (06:30):
You have the worst word ever right now?
Speaker 5 (06:33):
Yeah, guns are you almost see?
Speaker 1 (06:38):
I see from my single guy other single guy friends
that they get brushed off too.
Speaker 5 (06:43):
If there are reasons for that. Scary, let's talk about
your single guy.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
No, let's not to defend themselves.
Speaker 7 (06:51):
Look at what they post online and you'll be like, Okay.
Speaker 3 (06:54):
There we go, jerk off Jerry doing at the end
of the night.
Speaker 7 (07:00):
We see them on Instagram with you They're like, eh,
we are.
Speaker 5 (07:04):
We've gotta go on, man, come on, come on, sweet cheeks.
I got twenty dollars. What do you mean, I'm just
waiting in long all my.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
Friends, they are far from the best option for anyone.
I'm sorry. They got the same problem you would do, Robert, was.
Speaker 5 (07:22):
To pick any of your friends to go out with.
Would does? She haven't like, is there one of them?
I think there maybe two unacceptable option? Which one?
Speaker 1 (07:32):
But I think one?
Speaker 6 (07:33):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
I don't even know what the answer.
Speaker 5 (07:35):
I never asked her, But okay, you probably picked Will.
Will Nobody Will is good. I think Will is the
only except he watch normal Normal, was a normal guy.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Normal guy.
Speaker 5 (07:44):
He doesn't have a nicka. He's the only I tried.
Speaker 7 (07:49):
I tried to start Will the white because he's a
white guy, but it didn't work.
Speaker 5 (07:52):
Nobody kicked out I Will, Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
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