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Speaker 1 (00:02):
What would you talk about on your on your podcast?
Firm Elvis Represents show you want to play? Who's chewing
those chips? Who could it be? Who could it be?
Who was in the room? Uh? Gandhi scary Garrett, Danielle
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Straight and a Elvis do dad? All right? Okay, let's
I'll be quiet and let's see if we can guess
who's chewing those chips. Don't say anything, obviously it's not me.
Here we go, okay, Chip tour scary, scary? Before we
before we even cracked the mic, all you heard in
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the background wasn't I gotta tell you scary? And I'm amazed?
Uh that your jaw isn't getting larger because it must
have the strongest muscles because you chew from six am
to ten am every day. I really do you? Really?
You're a NonStop chewer. He's like a pit bull of humans.
He is just a strong jaw. He can lock it
and then run down everything you've eaten this morning. He's
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not impressive. No, no, it is impressive. You should keep
a food journal for one day. You would, You would
be shocked. Do you know what else is really funny
about his food is if you are paying attention. He
talks about it before he goes for it. So like
today we ordered breakfast from a place and he specifically
said I don't want anything, and then the food was
sitting here and there was a little pile of bacon
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and he was leaning over and I don't think he
thought anyone was listening, but he was like, Oh, I
should try this. This looks good. I should probably have
some of this. He said, Did I really say that
to myself? Your justification? You really you already talked to yourself,
Like did you know that you talked to yourself? Like
you know, I don't know. It looks pretty good. Maybe
should like good. Actually he does that whenever we get
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a birthday cake. He's like, said, anybody could cut the cake?
Should I just take it out there? Should I take
it out there and get some plates? I'll take it
out there and get some plate Amazing, just do it?
You really are amazing. I love you, scary, I love
you too. But he always does that when you're eating
something too, like he'll go, hey, Daniel, got over there,
what is that. I'm like, it's a chocolate Today I
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was I was disappointed because I just saw a shiny
bag and I'm like, what's over there? And she said
candy corn and I'm like, because I thought it was chocolate,
And I'm like, he doesn't like the candy. Listen to this.
He doesn't like candy corn. And we already established all
the candy corn you could buy. This is like some
of the worst, but he still eats. It was like
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yesterday too, with the bagels. He walked in with the
plate of bagels. These are the worst baseels ever. Days
are shitty bagels and he ate ten of them. Hey,
Daniels there, Hey, hey, don't call her that. She calls
herself that. How you doing, Daniel? And I just got
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a text from your husband. He texted me, how are
you doing? Alex? Yeah? Yeah, he and I. I don't know.
We had a bad day yesterday. We had a bad day.
I could tell Alex was in a like rambunctious, feisty
mood yesterday based solely on the text he was, you know,
he was like he is having a ball today. Yeah,
he needed like double up a med yesterday calmed out.
But I'm saying that with all due respects. No, but
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what's he texting you about? Oh? So I said, Hey,
I'm trying to find out when me and your husband
are going to hang out, and he goes, well, I'm
I said, what are you guys doing? Lady you around?
He goes, I'm in sating down tonight. I go, oh,
how you don't you don't want very intellectually stimulated. Conversation
was very intellectually stimulated. Get him, get him riled up.
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We'll go out, get him to take us out. He
owes us, he owes us. He does us Alex, but
so so the other. A while ago we were talking
about how you know, Alex and I the honeymoon is over.
We've been we've been married for a month and a half,
and we finally, like I think two days ago, spe
yesterday we we we had a speed bump. Was it
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a specific incident? Uh no, he's just being an asshole.
But he apologized today he did. But here's my thing,
so scary, says, and you're telling me I should get married?
I mean, yeah. The difference is I said this earlier.
I'll say it again. When you're just dating someone and
you have a fight, you can go, okay, effort, I'm done.
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I can walk away and go find someone else. When
you're married, you're like, Okay, I gotta work it out
and you you'll work it out, and I know, I
know it will be worked out. Do you and Robin
have a lot of fights? We never fight? Never, And
now I'm thinking that that's not very healthy because I've
been I've been hearing reports to fight every once in
a we we have disagreements. We have times where I
know that she's angry with me, but we always solve it.
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But good, Yeah, you want to solve it, but you
have to. That's the big things you're gonna disagree upon. So,
daniel Delilo down here. She's out there in the dating world. Yeah,
it's wild out there, I tell you. I mean, are
you running across some some good guys? Yeah? No, really,
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I mean there's got to be like a good one
here or there here and now, I mean I talked
to some nice gentlemen. But because you're such a catch,
you're such a nice person. Yeah, you think so? Do
we all agree, Danielle, Yes, I'll have to see you naked,
but I think so. I mean I could show you now,
she's very quickly. I mean, no, you it's got to
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be rough in the dating world. I sometimes miss it
and most times don't. Yeah, I can understand that. I mean,
I do miss having that someone that you go home
to every day. But at the same time, it's like
I don't miss the arguing, So that makes me feel better,
and I know I made the right decision, but I
do miss having that someone I could have there to
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help me and to say, oh, I'll get that for you, Danielle,
or you know, Okay, listen, I need my medication picked up. Oh,
I'll go get it for you. No, I gotta do
everything myself. Look at you like a butler, concierge or something. Honey,
I'm paying rent now. I never had to pay any
bills six months. I'm paying everything. You're doing okay, though,
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you should be very proud of yourself. You're doing really well.
But daniel is a catch. And there are so many
people that are listening to this podcast right now. They're
out there in the dating world, and it's I'm sure
it's you want to just bash your head against the
wall sometimes with the people you meet. Yeah, you know
it just you know, just keep keep at it. If
you want to date someone great. If you don't, you
don't have to. There's no pressure. Just be happy. I
think you're a little silent over the Nathaniel, What do
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you want me to say? We're talking about something else now,
let meyone, we're talking about something else. Relationship. About those
dolphins and when you're in a relationship, I mean they're hard. Yeah,
not like Daniel. You've been married for how many years?
A long time, and it's it's there's there's challenges. Of course,
there's challenges all the time, but like you said, you
worked through them. You can mathew fight. But you know, Garrett,
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you guys have been married how long? Five years? Five
and and so obviously you have those moments, of course,
but you know at the end of the day, you're married,
you're gonna work it out exactly. So like for Scary
not to have. When I hear couples go, oh, we've
never had a relate a fight ever in the relationship,
I kind of called BS. But I know Scary doesn't
fight because of their they barely see each other during
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the week, so they don't have time to fight. Plus
they're living in denial. But a lot of our friends,
a lot of our friends go, oh, we never thought
that's BS. Like you're you're you're front and in front
of everybody else just to say I have a perfect relationship.
That's not a perfect relationship, though, I feel like it's
better to fight and figure out how you get past
the fight. Relations God, let's talk about what a fight is.
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I mean, so scary. Did say that they do have disagreements.
Sometimes you get on each other's nerves, right, I guess,
Or sometimes you do something that that person disagrees with,
so you have to find a solution. You have to
talk it out logically. Um. But see, for me, you know,
I just want to sometimes just be alone in those cases,
like like Danielle, Like Danielle the little for instance, you
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were talking earlier about wanting somebody to come home too,
and I want to be there for me to do this.
I don't know about you, but like there's a lot
of times of the week where I just want to
just go home, detox and go to sleep, and that's
all I want to do. We just want to be alone,
and it has nothing to do with another person other
than myself. I get it. So, and I'm sure you
could get into that mode too, because I don't know.
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I say I have two or three nights a week
I am by myself, that's good for you, and I
love it. And and we sometimes talk about, you know,
getting a house and moving in together, and then the
only bad part about that is would be moving in together.
It's not that we don't like each other, is I
think we both love our time always so Gandhi now
that you're in a serious relationship, but he doesn't lave
for a full time, you love you love that. I
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think distance is good. I mean, I'm not necessarily like Scary,
Like if I came home and he was there, it
wouldn't bother me. But I think it's great to be
a part because then when we're together, we have a
really good time and we just appreciate the time together.
We're not fighting about things. We always go do fun stuff.
It's great we fight when we're not around each other.
I think what's interesting if Scary lived with her, he'd
find more to fight about. I think so too. I
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think we'd be in more fights. I absolutely can guarantee
you that would be there. I've already heard some of
the arguments that they do get into, and I'm like, Scary,
what in the hell like they get into an argument
the temperature of water that he keeps in his house.
She likes it cold and he likes room temperature. But
instead of just being a gentleman and putting half of
it in the fridge, he's like, no, she can have
room for water. I'm like, dude, put it in the fridge,
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just like water. I know some of it. I just
I'm lazy. That is just not that's another forget to play. Forget,
I forget. I've got to put what she's coming for
the weekend. I forgot to put water in the fridge
for the stupid things. But oh, we have a baby,
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I forgot to feed it. It's just a trade I
was born with. I I want you to always get
the best of me when I'm the happiest of my
weekend modes, when I'm in the mood to go out.
So all the rest of those times is all downtime,
is all bs, it's all garbage time. So I'm just
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so so that's the times I want to see you.
I want to see see you when when you when
you can see me at my most time. Do you
think that you have tricked her into thinking you're a
different person on the weekends than you are in a
week I certainly am during the week she knows. So
during the week, I'm a bump on a look at
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week the weekday scary? Is weekday scary? Will will will?
You know? Do go to some meetings, record what I
have to record. Maybe I'll be hung around noon or one,
and then maybe I look at the refrigerator, grab what's there,
some scraps, and then I will the funk out until
like five six o'clock is scary? Which weekend scary? Weekend scary?
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To make some great dinner plans and then go to
a great bar after maybe meet up with even has
some friends around us and go into some nice night
spot and restaurants. Yeah, and then and then and on
Sunday mornings, then we go off of no, no, no, no no, no,
what do you do Sunday morning? Watch six CBS Sunday morning,
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and you have your your weekend scheduled six always something
than to sixty minutes. No Sunday morning, Well it just
happens to be, you know. But now it's football season,
so now there's some disagreements in the air. He wants
to watch the Food Network all day or something going
on with the Kardashians, and I want to I want
to watch football. I want to see what my fantasy
team is. We have one crazy You're fine, alright, Okay,
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So the secret in your relationship, working your working relationship, Garrett,
is what in your opinion, it's compromised at the end
of the day. It's cliche, but it really just moves
things forward because it's give and take. If if somebody's
taking everything, the other person is kind of like screwed
out of the situation, so you've got to kind of
like meet in the middle of all the time. What
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about you, Gandhi, Well, I have a question about this compromise.
What's that? So everyone says in life you should go
after what you want and never settle. What is the
difference between settling and compromising. There's a difference settling, I
think a big huge fundamental things. Uh, like integrity they
have Do they have the integrity that they need to
have or should I just settle and let them be
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a scumbag? And said, I mean, but compromises. Well, we
already had pizza this week, so let's try Chinese. We'll
try Chinese. It's just the level of the thing. Yeah,
the thing is but in a world of compromise, all
those little things add up it's like, wait a minute,
you wanted Chinese, so we had Chinese, and today you
want to go see movies, so we're gonna go see
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a movie. And tonight you want to go get some
shoes at the mall, and we're gonna go to the mall.
But I want to do something I want to do.
Can we do one little thing I want to do?
And that's when compromise turns into a major thing. I
tell you what the definition of compromise for a guy. God,
You basically do what she wants. That's the definite. Because
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this past Halloween weekend, I wanted to be a certain costume.
She didn't want to be that, so I said, well,
let's figure something out together. Well, she went ahead and
did that on her own, and I was told what
to wear. So I basically had to compromise for her
and do what she wanted. She wanted to dress up
literally as a hooker, and then I had to dress
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up as a guy in a seat because she wanted
to be pretty woman. So the compromise was just doing
what she wanted. And I'm okay with that. Well, then
what's the point. That's what a compromise is. I know,
But obviously you're not okay with what sounds like you settled,
you know, Oh yeah, tell what you wanted to I
wanted to be Grandpa Joe and Charlie Buckets. You want
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to be Grandpa Joe from Willy Wonka and tell you
the guys sleeping in the bed for and dirty Soiled.
And then he wanted his girlfriend to be a young
boy for Halloween. Okay, so the compromises. I realized she
doesn't want to be a boy, so I wanted to
be funny. You could have been Grandpa Joe and she
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could have been a hooker. I realized that hilarious by
the time. Yeah, so there was no compromise. We just
did what she wants. That's the relationship. That's a compromise
in a relationship for a manow it sounds like you're
enjoying it, okay, Beccrow. He and my son came up
with the pumpkin scarecrow, and if he didn't want to
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be the pumpkin scarecrow, he would not be the pumpincrol.
That's how he is. He's not he's not going to
do something that he does not sacrifices. You're describing this
isn't a this isn't a compromise, and it's not the line.
And I think in my relationship, I'm a little lucky
because if I need to be by myself, I can
just say, hey, I'm really tired. He goes go to sleep.
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I got it. So I'm kind of lucky. Is that respect?
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