July 16, 2025 • 7 mins
Today, we talked about how we’d feel if our partners were to cheat on us with someone of the opposite sex, someone better looking, and more!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Get your hands together, and we're going to start to
party and start.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I'm ready to party.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
The Elvis Duran after Party.
Speaker 4 (00:14):
Look at this, the after Party podcast is on and
there's Danielle and there's Scottie B and Scary and Gandhi
and Straight and eight and uh, let's go.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Ready to go?
Speaker 4 (00:24):
Yeah yeah, So Danielle is about to say something.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
I think it's just absurd.
Speaker 5 (00:30):
I can't wait.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Go ahead, honey.
Speaker 5 (00:32):
I was down the shore this week, you guys know,
for the day, spent the day down there, so a
lot of the teenagers that we are all friends with
with their families were there, so they were nineteen twenty.
And I said, okay, guys, I have a question. So
I said, if somebody was to cheat on you, now
they have to cheat on you, you have no choice. Would
you rather than cheat on you with somebody hotter than you,
(00:54):
or somebody uglier than you, or somebody from the same
sex that.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
They are.
Speaker 5 (01:00):
Different answers, same sex, same sex.
Speaker 6 (01:04):
The guys are going to say.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Those same sex is acceptable because I'm not offended because
I can't supply what that same sex is doing.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
So it's like, okay, good, you're all.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
And that's not cheating as far as I now, what
about me in same sex?
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Wait? You see, for Elvis, if Alex cheated with.
Speaker 5 (01:22):
If Alex cheated with a girl, would you add that
was less.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Offensive to you? Elvis? No, it's not fact.
Speaker 4 (01:29):
This is why I said, this is absurd. How do
you sit there and justify Okay, it's okay.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
It's better if they're uglier than me.
Speaker 5 (01:36):
Right ahead, Because some people were saying, Okay, if they're
uglier than me, then I feel good about myself. I'm like, oh,
you got uglier. I'm better looking, absolutely, But if they're
better looking than you, then you can say, well, I
kind of get it. I kind of understand what. Okay,
these really different answers. Different answers.
Speaker 6 (01:59):
I was getting what I would rather be cheated on
with somebody who's a lot hotter than me. Yes, okay,
yeah for sure, because if they weren't hotter than me,
then I would be like, oh my god, their personality
is that much better. Oh that's more devastating.
Speaker 5 (02:11):
What they cheated on someone uglier than me. I'm like,
the hell, what the hell did they think of?
Speaker 2 (02:16):
What I'm thinking on that?
Speaker 4 (02:17):
See, I'm thinking of this step further it's like, well,
if they cheat on me with someone that's hotter than me,
then I will I have a chance to get them
back at this point because that they found someone hotter
and now and now I'm like yesterday's news.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
I'm like the ugly old guy.
Speaker 5 (02:29):
Oh man, Well, why would you want them back if
they cheated on you? Anyway?
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Why are we having this conversation. I don't have a pig.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
If you cheat on me, I don't care what they
look like. You're you're you're out, You're gone.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Last, that ruins the conversation if I say that, Yeah, well.
Speaker 6 (02:45):
The absolute last thing I would want is for someone
i'm dating to cheat on me with a man. I
would not be happy with you would because it would
just tick me off because I'd be like, you did
not disclose this ahead of time.
Speaker 5 (02:55):
I don't know, they didn't figure it out.
Speaker 6 (02:58):
Well, now you figured it out. Now, I'm just not
that should be more acceptable to you, not to me, because.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
You're because it's a guy, and then he can get
what he wants out of a guy. You can't give
him what he wants. Oh yes you can, but if
he wants the feeling of another man, it's like I'm out.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
I'm not a man.
Speaker 5 (03:15):
I had one of the team.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
You could peg this guy and you can keep him.
Speaker 6 (03:19):
Right, But I can't peg him. But I think I
would be more upset with the dishonesty through the entire relationship.
Like I could have been pegging him from the beginning
and kept him from cheating.
Speaker 4 (03:27):
But wait, okay, let me give you another level to
think about it in that. Okay, Okay, let's say if
you're saying you're upset because you find out he's gay, Yes,
but what if he's bisexual.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Still, yes, it's a little different.
Speaker 6 (03:41):
Though still no, I mean, yeah, I would be like
what we could have just you could have just told me.
I mean, I don't think. I just don't think i'd
be into it. No shade to anybody who's bisexual and
is into that, but like, I would not be.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
My favorite was one of the kids said, I would
feel like I turned them that way, and I had
to say to them, guys, that's not how it works.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Robin could turn into the biggest lick a lot have fun.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Hey, hey, hey, edit that out, Edit that out. Okay, Uh,
I think we got to pick.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
Up Robin could not use a different word Rob Robin
could cheat on me with women.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Hold on, you can't use that. You can't use that. Hello, Okay,
start over. Robin could cheat on me with women all
day long. I wouldn't care. It's not cheating.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
So if she hooked up with me or Gandhi, you
be fine with.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
That, It's still cheating.
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Is Sheldon hooked up with Nate Off?
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Sure?
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Straight guys. Straight guys have this whole different view. It
is different woman and a woman.
Speaker 5 (04:49):
I guess it's so cheating.
Speaker 6 (04:51):
Guys think it's hot, and I think they think about
inserting themselves into.
Speaker 4 (04:54):
That whatever I mean, and they totally sexualized it. They
forget there could be emotion and in there too. That
would make them upset.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
Right, I can't believe we're talking about this.
Speaker 6 (05:05):
I still want to know everybody's answers, because everybody did
not answer.
Speaker 5 (05:08):
Yeah, you guys didn't all answer different sex.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
No, you cheat on me, You're out? It does matter.
I can't answer that because it's just it doesn't compute
with me. I can't answer that.
Speaker 7 (05:22):
Yeah, for you, I kind of agree with Elvis because
like the hotter person, Okay, I'm gonna get an inferior
you are to your complex over not being that attractive
an uglier person, I'd be like, well, what do they
have that I don't have? And then somebody of the
same sex, I'd be kind of like gandhi, like you've
been lying this whole time.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Sex and hotter guy I'm okay with.
Speaker 5 (05:41):
Yeah, yeah, you understand the hotter guys.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
I understand it because you described it.
Speaker 5 (05:45):
Perfect how you look at it, Like, woa, I kind.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Of understand cheated with a ten woman, You're cool with it.
Speaker 5 (05:54):
What are you trying to say, I'm only like a
sex wow? Whatever. I would be pissed, of course i'd.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Be pissed, But also back to something Nate was saying,
if you're cheating on me with someone who I feel
as uglier.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Than me, and then we'll wait a minute, maybe they're
not uglier than me. Maybe I'm really ugly.
Speaker 5 (06:14):
That's an issue, right, That is a total issue. There
really isn't.
Speaker 6 (06:20):
But I had to pick which.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
One, Danielle.
Speaker 5 (06:23):
They all said different things. One of them said the uglier,
one of them said hotter, one of them said they'd
rather be the you know, with the same sex. That
They all had different, different fakes. So was it. I
thought it was very interesting. So I was like, okay,
maybe look at things.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
They don't ask why I bring up these conversations down
the shore with the kids.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Why not at dinner, which sounds like you had fun
with it.
Speaker 5 (06:46):
So I'm around the cheeseboard. Yeah, you know, they were
awesome around the cheard. It actually was cheesing cracker. There
was cheese and crackers. Other time we were we were
just having a good time in laughing and they were
talking about their relationships. One just found out that their
ex had moved on and it was the first time
they were dealing with that, and so we were talking
about that. So I don't know, I kind of just
(07:08):
brought it up and it was like, so let's say, you.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Know, wow, I'm going to go down the shore with
you next time.
Speaker 5 (07:15):
For sure, they were older, they were nineteen twenty. They
weren't little kids.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
The elvist Ran after party
Get your hands together, and we're going to start to
party and start.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I'm ready to party.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
The Elvis Duran after Party.
Speaker 4 (00:14):
Look at this, the after Party podcast is on and
there's Danielle and there's Scottie B and Scary and Gandhi
and Straight and eight and uh, let's go.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Ready to go?
Speaker 4 (00:24):
Yeah yeah, So Danielle is about to say something.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
I think it's just absurd.
Speaker 5 (00:30):
I can't wait.
Speaker 2 (00:31):
Go ahead, honey.
Speaker 5 (00:32):
I was down the shore this week, you guys know,
for the day, spent the day down there, so a
lot of the teenagers that we are all friends with
with their families were there, so they were nineteen twenty.
And I said, okay, guys, I have a question. So
I said, if somebody was to cheat on you, now
they have to cheat on you, you have no choice. Would
you rather than cheat on you with somebody hotter than you,
(00:54):
or somebody uglier than you, or somebody from the same
sex that.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
They are.
Speaker 5 (01:00):
Different answers, same sex, same sex.
Speaker 6 (01:04):
The guys are going to say.
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Those same sex is acceptable because I'm not offended because
I can't supply what that same sex is doing.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
So it's like, okay, good, you're all.
Speaker 4 (01:12):
And that's not cheating as far as I now, what
about me in same sex?
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Wait? You see, for Elvis, if Alex cheated with.
Speaker 5 (01:22):
If Alex cheated with a girl, would you add that
was less.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Offensive to you? Elvis? No, it's not fact.
Speaker 4 (01:29):
This is why I said, this is absurd. How do
you sit there and justify Okay, it's okay.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
It's better if they're uglier than me.
Speaker 5 (01:36):
Right ahead, Because some people were saying, Okay, if they're
uglier than me, then I feel good about myself. I'm like, oh,
you got uglier. I'm better looking, absolutely, But if they're
better looking than you, then you can say, well, I
kind of get it. I kind of understand what. Okay,
these really different answers. Different answers.
Speaker 6 (01:59):
I was getting what I would rather be cheated on
with somebody who's a lot hotter than me. Yes, okay,
yeah for sure, because if they weren't hotter than me,
then I would be like, oh my god, their personality
is that much better. Oh that's more devastating.
Speaker 5 (02:11):
What they cheated on someone uglier than me. I'm like,
the hell, what the hell did they think of?
Speaker 2 (02:16):
What I'm thinking on that?
Speaker 4 (02:17):
See, I'm thinking of this step further it's like, well,
if they cheat on me with someone that's hotter than me,
then I will I have a chance to get them
back at this point because that they found someone hotter
and now and now I'm like yesterday's news.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
I'm like the ugly old guy.
Speaker 5 (02:29):
Oh man, Well, why would you want them back if
they cheated on you? Anyway?
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Why are we having this conversation. I don't have a pig.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
If you cheat on me, I don't care what they
look like. You're you're you're out, You're gone.
Speaker 2 (02:42):
Last, that ruins the conversation if I say that, Yeah, well.
Speaker 6 (02:45):
The absolute last thing I would want is for someone
i'm dating to cheat on me with a man. I
would not be happy with you would because it would
just tick me off because I'd be like, you did
not disclose this ahead of time.
Speaker 5 (02:55):
I don't know, they didn't figure it out.
Speaker 6 (02:58):
Well, now you figured it out. Now, I'm just not
that should be more acceptable to you, not to me, because.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
You're because it's a guy, and then he can get
what he wants out of a guy. You can't give
him what he wants. Oh yes you can, but if
he wants the feeling of another man, it's like I'm out.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
I'm not a man.
Speaker 5 (03:15):
I had one of the team.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
You could peg this guy and you can keep him.
Speaker 6 (03:19):
Right, But I can't peg him. But I think I
would be more upset with the dishonesty through the entire relationship.
Like I could have been pegging him from the beginning
and kept him from cheating.
Speaker 4 (03:27):
But wait, okay, let me give you another level to
think about it in that. Okay, Okay, let's say if
you're saying you're upset because you find out he's gay, Yes,
but what if he's bisexual.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Still, yes, it's a little different.
Speaker 6 (03:41):
Though still no, I mean, yeah, I would be like
what we could have just you could have just told me.
I mean, I don't think. I just don't think i'd
be into it. No shade to anybody who's bisexual and
is into that, but like, I would not be.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
My favorite was one of the kids said, I would
feel like I turned them that way, and I had
to say to them, guys, that's not how it works.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
Robin could turn into the biggest lick a lot have fun.
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Hey, hey, hey, edit that out, Edit that out. Okay, Uh,
I think we got to pick.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
Up Robin could not use a different word Rob Robin
could cheat on me with women.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Hold on, you can't use that. You can't use that. Hello, Okay,
start over. Robin could cheat on me with women all
day long. I wouldn't care. It's not cheating.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
So if she hooked up with me or Gandhi, you
be fine with.
Speaker 2 (04:35):
That, It's still cheating.
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Is Sheldon hooked up with Nate Off?
Speaker 3 (04:43):
Sure?
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Straight guys. Straight guys have this whole different view. It
is different woman and a woman.
Speaker 5 (04:49):
I guess it's so cheating.
Speaker 6 (04:51):
Guys think it's hot, and I think they think about
inserting themselves into.
Speaker 4 (04:54):
That whatever I mean, and they totally sexualized it. They
forget there could be emotion and in there too. That
would make them upset.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
Right, I can't believe we're talking about this.
Speaker 6 (05:05):
I still want to know everybody's answers, because everybody did
not answer.
Speaker 5 (05:08):
Yeah, you guys didn't all answer different sex.
Speaker 2 (05:12):
No, you cheat on me, You're out? It does matter.
I can't answer that because it's just it doesn't compute
with me. I can't answer that.
Speaker 7 (05:22):
Yeah, for you, I kind of agree with Elvis because
like the hotter person, Okay, I'm gonna get an inferior
you are to your complex over not being that attractive
an uglier person, I'd be like, well, what do they
have that I don't have? And then somebody of the
same sex, I'd be kind of like gandhi, like you've
been lying this whole time.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Sex and hotter guy I'm okay with.
Speaker 5 (05:41):
Yeah, yeah, you understand the hotter guys.
Speaker 2 (05:43):
I understand it because you described it.
Speaker 5 (05:45):
Perfect how you look at it, Like, woa, I kind.
Speaker 2 (05:49):
Of understand cheated with a ten woman, You're cool with it.
Speaker 5 (05:54):
What are you trying to say, I'm only like a
sex wow? Whatever. I would be pissed, of course i'd.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Be pissed, But also back to something Nate was saying,
if you're cheating on me with someone who I feel
as uglier.
Speaker 2 (06:10):
Than me, and then we'll wait a minute, maybe they're
not uglier than me. Maybe I'm really ugly.
Speaker 5 (06:14):
That's an issue, right, That is a total issue. There
really isn't.
Speaker 6 (06:20):
But I had to pick which.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
One, Danielle.
Speaker 5 (06:23):
They all said different things. One of them said the uglier,
one of them said hotter, one of them said they'd
rather be the you know, with the same sex. That
They all had different, different fakes. So was it. I
thought it was very interesting. So I was like, okay,
maybe look at things.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (06:38):
They don't ask why I bring up these conversations down
the shore with the kids.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Why not at dinner, which sounds like you had fun
with it.
Speaker 5 (06:46):
So I'm around the cheeseboard. Yeah, you know, they were
awesome around the cheard. It actually was cheesing cracker. There
was cheese and crackers. Other time we were we were
just having a good time in laughing and they were
talking about their relationships. One just found out that their
ex had moved on and it was the first time
they were dealing with that, and so we were talking
about that. So I don't know, I kind of just
(07:08):
brought it up and it was like, so let's say, you.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Know, wow, I'm going to go down the shore with
you next time.
Speaker 5 (07:15):
For sure, they were older, they were nineteen twenty. They
weren't little kids.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
The elvist Ran after party
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