IADGAF
Welcome to IADGAF (formerly known as The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast & The Love Atiya Experience) a sensual rebellion disguised as a podcast created as an unapologetic “f**k you” to the patriarchy. This is the playground for every part of you that society attempted to tame! That means the too emotional, too loud, too sexual, too sensitive, too powerful parts if you get to come out, stretch, shake off the shame, and maybe even twerk a little under the moonlight (highly recommended.) This is where we decolonize our minds, undomesticate our desires, decenter men, recenter ourselves, redefine what femininity looks like outside of the male gaze (eeeeyuck) and literally practice not giving a f*ck. It’s time for us to step out of the cage the world built for you and walk barefoot into your own wildness.
Episodes
Hey beautiful butterfly!
Welcome to yet another episode of IADGAF
In today’s episode we’re talking about dating as well as:
What even is a womb
Can men’s breast produce milk?
Freeing the nipple
Pre Covid dating vs Post Covid dating
The dating app dopamine boost from people shopping
Challant ass men (and how I get the ick from them)
Absolute “NOs” for dating profiles
A guide on what not to have on your profile
Why don’t...
Welcome to season 4 of THE IADGAF podcast (formally known as The Love Atiya Experience & The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast) I am sooooooo excited for this newly revamped and rebranded version of my podcast. We made it to year 4 baby! This is a big F you to anyone who says I have a problem with commitment LOL
THIS EPISODE IS DEDICATED TO MY FUR DAUGHTER TAM WHO IS THE CATALYST IN TEACHING ME HOW TO SET BOUNDAR...
Hey! So my laptop started glitching while I was trying to fix the sound (peep my pristine intro with my NEW mic) anyways in honor of not giving a fuck i'm posting it as it because I refuse to let my glitching laptop stop me from releasing this LMAO so just turn it down when I start doing the breathing otherwise it may blow your eardrums out jk jk lmao enjoy babes
I can't wait for ya'll to enjoy m...
HEY BEAUTIFUL SOULS! This episode was WAAAAAY too juicy for the main feed so I decided to upload it onto Patreon instead. Wanna hear the rest of the episode? Become a Butterfly (Patron) TODAY! https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience
This episode is all about:
Soooooo many damn lessons
My amazing ass flower, fruit, water, moldy soup analogy (somebody write this down for me please!)
I need more “acknowledgers” in...
Sometimes You Just Don’t Got It To Give… and That’s OKAY
“I was the loudest one clapping in the room, eventually I learned how to start clapping for myself”
Question of the day: are we (humans) a little too sentient? or maybe we’re not sentient enough?! Idfk
If this patreon bonus left you wanting more you can check out all of my exclusive content by becoming a patron today! https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperien...
Friendship archetypes and feeling more pleasure with friends (Part 2)
Where is part one?: Part one can be found on my Patreon! Listen for FREE by becoming a patron today!
https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience
Affirmation: “I accept myself”
This episode is all about:
How I woke up to a scream from my higher self
Visualizing me and my mom being on tv together
The fleeting need for validation
Doing...
TRIGGER WARNING
Hey beautiful souls, this episode of The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast includes discussion and mention of sexual assault.
These conversations may be activating or emotionally challenging for some listeners.
Please listen with care, honor your boundaries, and pause or step away at any time if needed.
i love you.
In this episode we talk all about:
Stories of Me and my 1st lesbian lover’s second...
Heyyyyy beautiful souls! So happy to have you here.
This episode is all about:
Me flying in fake first class on JetBlue
My failed attempts trying to connect with men
How New York tried to steal my soul
I just don’t have it to give to the men in my life anymore (a tough pill to swallow)
Being naturally enthusiastic (perfect for energy vampires)
Men are who they are (and they’re ok with that)
Holding out hope for men (no...
Hey beautiful souls!
Welcome to yet another dope ass episode where I talk all about:
- Not being a normal human
- Faux healers & energy leeches
- Having friends I’m excited to listen to
- Charging money to people I’m not excited to listen to
- My thoughts on reciprocity
- Listening to my friends talk about men & the dumb sh*t they do
- Turning 31 and giving less fucks
- Calling out abusive sh*t (to your friend who’s in a r...
Hey beautiful souls!
In today's episode I'm talking all about:
- Platonic intimacy
- What if relationships aren’t all bad?
- Why I don’t need a roster (& taking the pressure off my roster search)
- Removing the moochers from my life before I could elevate and ascend
& SO MUCH MORE
Want to join my pleasure oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy
Wanna learn how to pleasure...
Hey beautiful souls!
Todays episode is all about:
Love island games
Men being unintentionally queer
How my ancestors have my back
Lesbianism vs queerness
My strange ass old friend
Having energy that can’t be penetrated
Are there other energies other than masculine and feminine?
Why bi men are looked at as gay and bi women are looked at as straight (hint: it’s misogyny)
The power of lesbian relationships
& MORE...
Hey beautiful souls!
I’m so excited for this wonderful Patreon episode that’s all about platonic intimacy! I was going to post it exclusively for my Patreons but I decided to post this as a preview into the type of bonus content you can enjoy on my Patreon! ❤️
In today’s episode I talk all about:
Platonic touch & intimacy
My amazing ass first Reiki session
How it feels like everytime I go outside I’m e...
Hey beautiful souls!
Today's episode is all about:
- Loving every version of myself
- Meeting every version of myself and falling in love again and again
- Having regrets everytime I go outside
- Protecting myself from passport bros
- Practicing no longer caring about what people think
- How you can’t fail a test if you’re trying your best
- Peeping patterns of fear
- How I got a text from an old flame a few weeks ago
- Energetic ...
Was everyone in my life using me? LOL
Hey beautiful souls! In today’s episode we talk all about:
Asking for help & grief in your 30’s
Letting go of all the people who aren’t truly aligned (and possibly never were)
Grieving who I used to be and the life I THOUGHT I used to have
Friend Pushers
Energetic cut offs & navigating the world
Want to join my pleasure oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theether...
Hey beautiful souls,
HAPPY EPISODE 69!
For Episode 69 I wanted to do something HUGE and this episode is probably THE most informative one yet.
We’re talking about:
Gender and sexuality before colonization
How a spanish colonizer strapped a non binary person to a cannon in brazil because they thought they were dominic
How the christian missionaries went into Amazonia and raided their communities teaching them about th...
Hey beautiful souls,
In today’s episode I talk all about how the white man literally tried to wipe indigenous people off of the earth and dive deep into some research about the world of pleasure before our bodies were colonized.
Enjoy!
First Article: https://www.ualberta.ca/en/folio/2016/02/indigenous-erotica-gives-new-meaning-to-all-my-relations.html
Second Article: https://www.fairobserver.com/reg...
If you were one of the 50 people with very fast hands who were able to catch my last accidental upload. Please go back and re-listen because I've officially uploaded the REAL and ACTUAL episode that was supposed to go out last week LMAO
& it has some great info on dual stimulation.
Ok love you byeeeee
Wanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/...
Hey beautiful souls!
In today’s amazing episode we talk all about:
The Ethereal Pleasure Camp (an adult summer camp)
Dual Stimulation
My latest experience with penetrating myself (hint: it was a success!)
Explaining why it’s SO IMPORTANT for us to show up exactly as we are
Tryna figure out how much energy to give people
Why I’m making a burn book for the people in my life
How To Self Pleasure To Your Higher Self & My Penetration Experiment
IT’S MY MF BIRTHDAAAAAAAAY!!!!!!!
In today’s episode we talk about:
Me & my amazing therapy session
How penetration has been a pain (literally and figuratively)
How living honestly & in solitude triggers others (f*ck them)
How I think I wanna start a podcast book club (maybe)
How people pleasing is lowkey a mix of us trying to avoid mak...
Get those mf OUTTA HERE!
Who is it? Cause it's not you.
We weren't born hating ourselves, unless that's the energy that was pumped into from the womb and even then, there's hope for you to free yourself but first we have to figure out who's voice we are hearing.
Most things people say about you are a reflection of their projection... move accordingly
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