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December 26, 2025 12 mins

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We found a list of what makes most couples fight... can you relate?

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Speaker 1 (00:03):
And now another gray moment from twenty twenty five Alvis
Duran in the Morning Show. Yeah, you always read the
number one reason couples fight is over what money?

Speaker 2 (00:16):
Money?

Speaker 1 (00:16):
It's usually money. So we were having this conversation earlier,
GANI was talking about this list of reasons by couples
fight written by who wrote this list?

Speaker 3 (00:26):
Let me look, this was done by Visual Capitalist.

Speaker 1 (00:31):
Is it from a couple's therapist or something like that? Okay,
so an interesting list of reasons couples fight. Is money
on the list?

Speaker 3 (00:39):
Money is on the list?

Speaker 1 (00:40):
Yes, okay, So okay, ready, tell me why I'm fighting
all the time, because you're probably going to get it
right right.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
So they say that it's kind of different depending on
the age group that you're in. So eighteen to forty four,
most people are fighting about money and communication style, while
couples over the age of forty five are arguing more
about relationships with extended family and life decisions. But the
biggest reasons people are fighting, there were like ten of them.
You want all of them? Yeah, okay, I'm gonna start

(01:07):
with ten and then go to number one.

Speaker 1 (01:08):
Tell us why we're miserable.

Speaker 3 (01:09):
I want to know, are you and your significant other
arguing about sex. That is a big one, apparently. Number ten.
Number nine how each person argues. So arguing is okay,
but sometimes one person is more of a jackass to
the other.

Speaker 1 (01:23):
Yeah, yeah, how you handle it? That's a major issue.

Speaker 4 (01:26):
That's a communication thing.

Speaker 3 (01:27):
So yeah. I was actually talking to one of my
friends the other day about how I think the most
important thing that you don't find out about a relationship
until it's too late is how the other person suffers. Like,
when somebody is going through something, how do they deal
with that thing? That's bad? Because it's such a big
deal in a relationship, and some people are terrible, some
people are great. Number eight Health or lifestyle decisions. People

(01:49):
are arguing about that.

Speaker 4 (01:50):
Yeah, like go to the doctor if something is wrong.

Speaker 3 (01:53):
You stop smoking all day every day. That's not good
for you, froggy, I could us a list.

Speaker 1 (02:01):
I'm going to I've been whatever.

Speaker 3 (02:04):
Number seven life decisions. I guess that's a pretty big one.
Number six amount of quality time spent together?

Speaker 1 (02:13):
Should we argue about the amount of So if I
am with you and I'm having an opportunity to have
quality of time, why should I spend it arguing with you?

Speaker 3 (02:21):
Exactly.

Speaker 1 (02:22):
Well, you need to get you need to get these
things out of the way. I get it.

Speaker 3 (02:25):
That is a good point. Number five relationships with family,
for sure. I can't tell you that. Number four household chores.
Number three communications styles, which I think kind of goes
along with how they argue. Number two was money. And
number one tone of voice or attitude.

Speaker 4 (02:48):
Oh boy, I've I getting told them for that all
the time.

Speaker 3 (02:51):
Oh my god, the amount of times that I've been
in an argument and I'm like, whoa, hey, start over,
I don't like that tone. You need to back that up.

Speaker 1 (02:59):
Wow. Okay, So we're most of us, so some of
us are in relationships. Do any of these things apply
to us?

Speaker 3 (03:05):
Yes, of course, Oh my god. Number one tone of attitude, sure.

Speaker 4 (03:09):
That I always get in trouble.

Speaker 3 (03:10):
You said, I get to jump with my tone gratitude.

Speaker 4 (03:13):
And then I always tell my husband I'm like, I
don't think you hear how you're talking right now, And
he's like, oh no, I know.

Speaker 1 (03:18):
I'm like, I don't think that.

Speaker 3 (03:19):
I always be like, why are you yelling? I don't
understand this. What's the volume about?

Speaker 4 (03:23):
I just said that the Spencer yesterday, Spencer, why are
you what talk to me?

Speaker 3 (03:28):
Yeah, And then you know Brandon on the other side
of I'm not yelling. Well now you're not yelling, but
you were yelling a second ago.

Speaker 1 (03:34):
So Nate out there in the dating roold, you really
want to do that.

Speaker 2 (03:40):
Much?

Speaker 1 (03:41):
Yeah? Scary? What's up? I get dinged on the quality
time thing because after a long day and night and
we go out and we party or do whatever, I
come home and I just fall asleep, and she goes,
you can fall asleep on me. This is my time.

Speaker 4 (03:55):
Now she doesn't spend enough time with you.

Speaker 1 (03:59):
You spend is supposed to all be quality, but I
still need my sleep. So sometimes all this does off
and she'll be like and she'll go into the bathroom
and then come back out and I'm already like snoring,
and she goes, what are you doing? So yeah, so
that that's a point of contention. Well, I know, but
you know what, she's mad that you're falling asleep on her.
You should look at her and say, well, at least
I'm on you. This is my material baby. Look, you know,

(04:27):
relationships are hard. They just are. You know, there's payoff,
you know when they work, but they don't always work.

Speaker 4 (04:32):
You know, everybody's got something that they there. If someone says, oh,
our relationship is perfect, you are full life?

Speaker 3 (04:40):
Are you lying about something?

Speaker 1 (04:42):
The brown word? Texting? Uh? What about kids on that list?
Parenting styles and arguing over you know, raising your kids?

Speaker 3 (04:50):
Of course, I mean I think that would be family members.

Speaker 1 (04:52):
Huh. Yeah, you're right, you're right, you're right. And I
think Nate is queuing something up over there and he's
talking to someone. Nate, you you don't he's flirting with people?
Why he's always flirting anyway? What do you got, Nate? Evan? Okay,
give me Evan here? Hello, Evan, what's going on? Evan?

Speaker 2 (05:13):
Hi? I would just lap into that list as I'm
driving at work.

Speaker 1 (05:17):
Well, what's so funny about the reasons we fight? Talk
about it?

Speaker 2 (05:22):
Well, my partner and I just have kind of complicated
families and it's always interesting dealing with that. It's just
I don't know, I need to I need to see
the list of the ten things because I'm driving at.

Speaker 3 (05:38):
Work and so I've been texted in for you guys
to post it.

Speaker 1 (05:41):
Okay, let's do that. Can you post that and give
We'll give you your credit where you got it from.

Speaker 2 (05:45):
Yes, okay.

Speaker 1 (05:47):
Arguing about family though, Evan, Arguing about family is an
interesting thing because you're stuck in the middle between your
family and your partner, you know, and sometimes you have
to take your family's side because or your family, and
sometimes you take your partner's side because they're your partner.
And I can see how that can get really tricky.
Is that? Is that the issue with you guys?

Speaker 2 (06:08):
Sometimes? Yeah, but we're I mean, we've got the best
this is the best healthiest relationship I've ever had. We're
about to have three years. And so just navigating through
all ten of those types of things for relationships has
been really great. You know. Definitely tone and like when
to call the doctor, when to do all that.

Speaker 1 (06:29):
Wow, So a lot of these things on this list
apply to you. Is that what you're saying?

Speaker 2 (06:33):
Yeah, I think I think all ten of them.

Speaker 1 (06:37):
You know what, relationships are tricky, and it's like walking
through a minefield. Sometimes you got to walk on eggshells
because you know what can trigger some issues. And so
you that's a part of being a partner with someone.
It's it's the same time thinking you're going to change
someone or they're going to change you know that that's
that's the tricky one. That's not going to happen.

Speaker 2 (06:58):
You have realistic yeah, yeah, especially when you're already adults.
You've already got your you know, communications ways and your
love language and everything's set in stone so that when
you're lucky enough to find a partner that it just
messes with it works out. But there's still those challenging days.

Speaker 1 (07:16):
Of course, without doubt, and that's normal.

Speaker 4 (07:18):
What are your mother's coming and you booked a one
way ticket, right.

Speaker 1 (07:24):
It's also important, I think, and I'm just kind of
thinking out loud as I'm coming up with this, it's
important to sift through what's important and what isn't the
things what is worth the fight, like the little petty
things like they never you know, put the lid on
the peanut butter and leave it out, versus the deep
rooted communication issues.

Speaker 2 (07:43):
And where you're not being lais the toilet toothpaste out.
The toothpaste is a.

Speaker 1 (07:47):
Thing, Yeah, the toothpaste.

Speaker 2 (07:50):
Why are we going to argue about toothpaste?

Speaker 5 (07:51):
You know?

Speaker 1 (07:52):
Yeah, But it's those little things add up and after
all you're like, God, you irritate a living crap out
of me, all right, Looking look, Evan, it's great talking
to you. Best of luck and and here's for another
three years for you guys. Congratulations.

Speaker 2 (08:02):
Oh absolutely, thank you. Have a great day everyone, you two.

Speaker 1 (08:05):
Kelly Online twenty says the list is missing something. Oh
let's see, hey, Kelly, what's missing from this list?

Speaker 5 (08:14):
I didn't hear anyone mentioned chores. I had a fight
with my husband yesterday about how he doesn't do enough
chores around the house.

Speaker 3 (08:20):
Yeah, I think there was something on the list that
was actually I think like number six or seven. Let
me double check.

Speaker 1 (08:26):
Yeah, she's double checking choice.

Speaker 3 (08:28):
That's okay.

Speaker 1 (08:29):
So so he has and you have assigned chores things
that you are responsible for getting done around the house.

Speaker 5 (08:36):
You know, we should have a better system like that.
But you know, we're actually driving to Disney World right now,
and we had to clean the whole house yesterday, and
I felt like I was doing everything. So I novel.

Speaker 1 (08:45):
Him out to things, you know, and how does he
respond to that?

Speaker 5 (08:51):
Pretty well? But then you know, he gets a little
bit defensive sometimes and that's where the argument comes by.
But then once you're done, you come back together and
you're like, sorry, that was so dramatic.

Speaker 1 (08:59):
For no second, Kelly, You're on the way to Disney World.
Is he in the car with you?

Speaker 5 (09:05):
He is, he's sitting right next to me at.

Speaker 1 (09:10):
Well, so is he driving?

Speaker 5 (09:13):
Yeah, he's driving? And yeah, okay, hey, do you argue
about his driving? What was that? Do you argue about
his driving? You know, that's also a little thing thing
that we argue about sometimes the right lane. Don't get
pulled over. I'm like, please, don't get a ticket while
we're driving twelve hours. Thank you?

Speaker 1 (09:34):
Okay, Well, you're looking at you're looking out for him. Yeah,
I just find this very interesting that you're talking about
in me right there.

Speaker 5 (09:42):
You do know that, right, we're very open about this.
He's aware, no secrets.

Speaker 1 (09:47):
Okay, but that was your point of view. What would
he say on that list that you feel he feels
you should work on.

Speaker 6 (09:54):
Let's see, so the same thing about it, Like about yesterday.
I have a different point of view of like I
look at the bigger picture and Kelly focuses on the details.
I was like, hey, let's make the furniture. Let's like
get the big things done first and then focus on
like organizing and stuff. That's why we disagree, and that's
when things get heated sometimes.

Speaker 5 (10:11):
Yeah, we have different priorities.

Speaker 1 (10:13):
That's okay. Well, it sounds like you agree on the
things that you find about, which is interesting.

Speaker 5 (10:20):
That's the one thing I guess.

Speaker 1 (10:21):
Yeah, Well, to be able to be able to point
out and admit your your shortcomings. I mean, that's a
great thing. It's it's it's good. I guess if you
don't have any shortcomings, you you do have shortcomings, Foggy,
and you know you do.

Speaker 5 (10:37):
I'm just kidding for eight years, so let's go with it.

Speaker 1 (10:42):
Do you sound overall just you know, speaking with you
this few moments, you sound like it's all, well, what's up?

Speaker 3 (10:47):
CONDI Well, I was just wondering in the room. I
know Danielle said maybe tone for her elvis. What is
it that you think causes the most fights between the
two of you? From Alex's perspective.

Speaker 1 (10:57):
Uh, i'd have if it's a list of you know
what I would like to know. I mean, he's he's,
He's not here to answer that I would like to
I would like for him to tell me he's. I
don't think he's ever told me the things I should
work on to make our relationship better.

Speaker 3 (11:14):
Okay, really, wow, I'm damn sure gonna find out.

Speaker 1 (11:21):
But I can come up with a list of his,
of course. But if he doesn't tell me, then maybe
there isn't a problem. Maybe I'm more perfect than I think.

Speaker 3 (11:31):
Anyway.

Speaker 1 (11:32):
All right, look, best of luck for your trip together
to Disney World, and thanks for listening to us. We
appreciate it. Thank you, thank you so much, Oh Disney World.
I wish we were with you.

Speaker 2 (11:43):
Thank you.

Speaker 1 (11:44):
Have a safe drive. Hey, thank you to Luigi's Italian
Ice for dropping by. And what a perfect day. It's
gonna be like ninety something here in the city. In
plot ninety, what's your favorite flavor of Italian ice?

Speaker 5 (11:55):
Mine?

Speaker 1 (11:56):
Red? Yeah, I like.

Speaker 3 (12:00):
The red, white and blue.

Speaker 4 (12:01):
You know they have the red, white and blue together.

Speaker 3 (12:04):
Yeah, I love that one.

Speaker 4 (12:05):
All right, I still like to ask you the mango
is good too, and lemon and they have a lemon
and strawberry together one too, which is good.

Speaker 1 (12:12):
To Luigi's Italian Nice, I mean it's Luigi's, so you know,
it's very Italian. Let's get into the three things we
need to again, Thank you Luigi's. We appreciate it very much.
We love you, Godhi, three things? What's going on?

Speaker 3 (12:24):
I also did post that list if people need to
go look at it.

Speaker 1 (12:26):
Oh, okay, where did you post it?

Speaker 3 (12:28):
I posted it on my Instagram page at Baby Hot
Sauce in the stories, but I also tag this show
so whenever they take a look, they'll be able to
repost it.

Speaker 1 (12:35):
Okay, perfect, Thank you guy,
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