October 14, 2024 • 35 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's the Flavor Podcast Network, the Flavor Breakfast podcast with
stace A, Zorah and.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Charlie coming up in the podcast. The community page that
you're just lurking on. You don't even live there.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
And we all did the Stone of Light. Tim you're
sneaking into a concert and.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
The Simpsons, why are they predicting the future so accurately?
You'll find out here? Okay to be how you guys
are doing. How you doing, Charlie, Oh, I'm so good.
I'm on the Rapid Calms this morning.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Stay. So this is the first time I've ever tried this.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
This doesn't make sense anyone who doesn't know what a
rapid karma is. So rapid karma is basically like Baraka.
And I was given it last week at a chemistphare
House event and I thought it was energy one. It
says rapid calm and so I don't really know what
hasn't it but I had one. Obviously yummy. It's not
offered one to Charlie, and rather than making you calm,
(00:55):
it seems to get you up.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
Yeah, I've drank this and it's like giving me like
one two three one too, slip two three upper cut
two in the mouth, you know what I mean, It's like, whoa,
what's happening here? A rapid come?
Speaker 2 (01:07):
You thought it attacked you.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Yeah, it's good though, This is what I mean. You
just need to be punched like to wake up.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
So it's just like a little a little fuzzy basically
like a baroka. But yeah, it seems to work very
well on him, and it is supposed to be coming.
So there's only that. Ah.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
That's like how.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Richlin works for people who have ady HD.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
I'm just saying, Charlie, we were talking about the legend
of Bob Marley used today and Ma rang up and
said she went to his one New Zealand concert at
Western Springs. What year was it, you remember the time?
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Yeah, nineteen seventy nine, Yes, nineteen seventy.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Nine, went as a teenager, because she's snuck into the concerts.
And I think it was a Western Springs thing because
I think sneaking into that venue I'm not saying now,
but it used to be easier easier. I know that
because even my mother in law, who must have been
in the fifties at the time, jumped off one of
(02:06):
the houses that are on the border of Western Springs. Well,
I'm hearing this from my housband. I wasn't there, but
jumped over a fence to come down to Oh man,
I can't remember which whose concert was. It was like
a big, really big band, something like you two, something
like that. Whoa, yeah, I know that is a very
very rule breaking.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Well back then it was doable. And I remember clearly
a time where I snug into a nightclub and this
is too what this wasn't an international act, but this
is when Three Houses Down was on the come up,
and there weren't really many reggae bands other than Herbs
back in the Dace, you know. But Herbs sort of
like not died out, but they just stopped creating music
(02:47):
when we were on the come up with Three Houses Down.
But there was a band that was based in Hamilton
at this time that had one hit song and we
just loved this name of them, catch a Fire. Oh yeah,
And this was their song diddy Up. And my cousin
was telling me about a story where he was like
a bouncer at the Sheepies Bar and there was like
(03:10):
a competition. There was a competition for a band and
the and the prize was that you get to record
a song and you get to distribute and whatever was
this song? Right? But anyways, so catch if I won that,
and catch if I won it? Right? So then my
cousin was also a bouncer at the sub Sonic bar
in Monaco, and he told me at church was that, hey,
(03:32):
we got Catch a Fire coming to play here at
Subsonic and Monaco and if you know, you know the spot,
so you snuck it in to watch Catch a Fire? Yep,
I did, and you know he told us you. I
was fourteen at this time. Oh wow, you guys need
to come through. The back door was the kitchen, and
I remember him opening up the back door and it
was the kitchen and he just opened up the little
window you know where the kitchen takes the orders for
(03:54):
chips and whatever its dreams and we're just listening to
Catch a Fire.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
And I was like, oh, so you want to actually
end the venue, but just let's.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
I wasn't in yet, but then we listened and then
we heard them say this will be our last two songs.
But then people were like more and more, and then
we are like, no stuff this. I knew you see
this in the flesh. So then I ended up going
into the front and I remember just they had this
guy that had like like a mock tarmaca on his face,
and I was like, holy heck, this is the voice
(04:20):
that's singing this guy here. But then I remember them
playing gideat the song and listening to Jamie Ferguson sing
this old Yeah, you know this.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Is the song you should have paid like it's naughty,
I know. And we're not saying like condoning it. We
were just saying people have done it. So if you're
willing to admit it. When he text through to h Doublo,
give us a call, I hand for flavor, is you
Italian chicken sneak into a concert or like mar did
all like Beef did, then let us know about it.
I mean, it's it's in the past, we've done it.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Let it out.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
So it's not ideal, but you have done it, sneaking
into a concert. Mar sid He said it was the
only reason she got to see Bob Marley. I did it,
yeah ninety seven. No, you did it for catch Fire.
It was a great story. He had people going sub
sonic and she is, Wow, what the hangouts? Who else
is done it? Snuck? Into a concept Kyler, it's you,
isn't it.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
It is?
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Tell us more.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
Trying to think of what the event was called.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
It was years ago in Hamilton and it was a
skateboarding had the big skateboarding competition. But anyway, while I
was with my older brother and we didn't have enough
tickets for all of us, and he ended up throwing
us over the fence around the back.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Oh no, he threw you.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
I was only like, oh.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
My gosh, like eight or nine.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
I was real young, and I remember like, what the hell.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Yeah, my brother is out the gate, so he had
a ticket, but you didn't have a ticket.
Speaker 5 (05:52):
The older there was a few older.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Ones and I'm being the youngest, wanted to go along
as well.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
So I ended.
Speaker 4 (05:59):
Up getting to long but just not going through the
front gate, I guess like everybody else, but you got in.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Do you reckon? It was about two thousand or when
do you reckon? It might have been it would have
been like you know, the votaphone extreme ear. Yes, yeah,
he says, back in the day, you got some extreme
ear yourself. Didn't naught Kyla over the fence.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
So if her brother threw you over the face, how
did he get in.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
I'm pretty sure he just jumped the fence with her.
Speaker 4 (06:30):
Ah.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Yeah, was it worth it? Though?
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I think it was so long ago that I will
just remember this memory forever. And it's funny too, is
that that's the part that you remember? And other people
have said this too. I go, well, look, there's nothing
worse than trying to get in for free and then
getting bummed out and security goes, nah nah, I see
you so, Kyler, she does she make I was saying
(06:54):
to producer Anna, who's with us helping out well as
there is away, that I noticed something that happened in
your former community in christ.
Speaker 6 (07:04):
Yes, in the new Branding community, a couple of mirrors
were being stolen from a.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Public toilet toilet, I think they were over the other
side of town with they aren't they isn't it horsewall
or something? But it ended up on one of the
community pages and you were, yeah, it's a weird thing
because this woman stole a mirror. Do you reckon it
was from the toilets?
Speaker 6 (07:27):
Yeah, it was from the I'm pretty sure they said
it was from the bathroom at club or something, and
she had stolen and then she came back the next
day to.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
Steal the last time. Yeah, but no, it wasn't a
New Brighton. But Anna's point was, how did I know
about that?
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Right?
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Yeah? Well you can be on community pages without actually
living in that community. No, yeah, I used to live there.
My family's New Brighton hard and so it just pops up.
I think it was one of my friends she did
as well. But I can just don't we all like
belong to community pages and we don't actually live in
that community.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
I'm in a high Buscus Coast community.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Hy, you've ever lived there?
Speaker 3 (08:09):
No, but we used to work out in Audiowa and
it was a lot easier finding like laborers and things
like that when we were on the community page, like
especially out that out that wait.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
This is this would be I reckon what sixty seventy
case from where you live.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
Yeah, it's fun so it makes more sense just finding
people within the area. Hence, while I was on the
community page. But yeah, I just stayed on. I'm still on.
I'm still on there, and it's pretty funny how people
because the community page, I'm guessing everybody knows everybody is
like just home and away, where half knows Irene and
Irene knows. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
And it's a particular Facebook thing. When we're talking about
a community page and you don't live in christ anymore,
you're still on the community page.
Speaker 6 (08:53):
Yeah, I'm still part of so many regions and I'm
like south Shore, South.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Brandon, New Bran. Surely I think I would like all
around christ Church. Yeah. Well I'm still in the eighties
nineties hangouts page from christ Church as well. But someone
put me in there. Then I felt like I needed
to be welcomed into the Maketu one. And it was
only because the cousin brought me into that one. But
(09:18):
I don't feel very like, you know, I'm not I'm
not really worthy of.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
They should have given you like a proper world.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
Well, then the cousins are proper well welcome. I also
have a friend who were two guys I know actually
who just joined a community group CHET because there was
an issue going on and they just wanted to fight
about it and have debates with people, and so they
live nowhere near it.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
No, that's that's what I mean. On the community page,
I see a lot of arguing in debates that are
that are on the community I'm just I'm in the
comment section with the popcorn brow. I didn't even know
these people.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Is anybody else on a community page of a community
that they don't actually live in?
Speaker 4 (09:58):
Come on?
Speaker 5 (09:59):
I know?
Speaker 3 (10:00):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (10:01):
Oh wow? Is this just us? Texted at HB gives
Ball I went had for flavor. We were just talking
about being on a community page that you really kind
of have no place on because I lived there, but
we were a lot of us are doing it.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
I was staying a welcome and well.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
One here is my mom's from PA and my dad's
from Dargaville, and I'm on both the community pages. I
was born and raised in Auckland. This is this Texter.
I know. It's good self awareness. And Sarah, what about you?
What community page are you on and you don't actually
live there.
Speaker 4 (10:35):
I'm on the Mournsville one. My mom moved here a
few years ago and then she just kept like trying
to tag me and things and share them. So I
joined it and it's more active than my local one,
and often I'll like go to events and like recognize
people like, oh, that's the lady that sells the cakes and.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
No, they're so cute. Where do you actually live?
Speaker 4 (10:57):
I live in Auckland and like to be honest, more gossip. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
They just put it all out there, don't they.
Speaker 4 (11:05):
Yeah, and everyone knows, you know, they don't even mention
the names. Everyone knows who they're talking about.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
Do you know what, sir? I have a feeling that
a lot of direct just look at these little you
know the content. Yeah, you know, the cake lady, what,
the soup guy, you know what?
Speaker 4 (11:23):
And you just see the face and it's like, oh, yeah,
that's they tell the cakes every week.
Speaker 2 (11:27):
Yeah, that's when neighbors become good friends. And I love
that you're snooping on it. Thank you so much for
validating the faith that we're not the only ones doing that.
Think you.
Speaker 3 (11:39):
Are. Zorah and Charlie. We remember the time just like
not long ago, but Stace is still in that time
and she's still playing wordle Yeah that's wow. They see.
The thing is when Stacey puts her mind and body
and soul into something, it's that's that she commits to it.
I just heard her like get angry, Like I was like, oh,
(12:01):
what's going on? This is she goes word stupid word.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
Sometimes they're throwing a really dumb word and you go
and I'd had to check if it was the American spelling.
Is it not with me on this or is it
just me? I know my sister and my cousins that
are still on the wordle buzz and I am my
son actually so and we do that and we do
connections and we do strands and I'm just pretty disgusted
with myself because i lost a day, Like I missed
a day. Must have been Saturday or Sunday.
Speaker 3 (12:26):
And everyday thing. Yeah, please make just make talk.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
I'm not alone here. It's going to be at least
one person who takes through. I'm sure.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
Please somebody, man, is there anyone else playing wordle still?
Come on now?
Speaker 2 (12:43):
Kicking at old school as always, Charlie, feel free to apologize, all.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
Right, I'd just like to formally apologize to all you
wordal fans who are still playing right up to eleven pm.
Coma also look and also and who's texting through? I'm sorry.
I thought that this game was done in dusted so stays.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
You're not alone, thank you. Some of us are still learning. Okay,
nice time for a japo.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
True.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
So we put a question on our flavor Instagram flavor
social is really simple one today? What do you prefer
an inside gig or an outside gig?
Speaker 3 (13:28):
And the votes have come in so inside gig thirty
five percent, outside gig sixty five percent. So what what
this is telling me is that regardless of the weather,
it could be sunny, rainy, kiwis, we are built different.
Sixty five percent any weather would like to have a
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concert outside.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
I think everyone is predicting to summer when it's a good,
you know, premium kind of built day and then you know,
you got your outfit, yeah, and feeling great and you're
loving it.
Speaker 3 (14:00):
I just made it. I just wanted to make us
sound tough, you know what I mean, Like sixty five
percent of us just any weather, we're out there storming it.
Speaker 2 (14:07):
They go okay, like in an ultimate sent Anario, yes
to outside, but how often is it ultimate? So there's
nothing wrong with inside as well. Someone extra private messaged
me on this and they said, well, yeah, I want
inside unless I know for sure that it's going to
be perfect outside and I don't have anything else to do.
Speaker 3 (14:26):
Geez et, These these benefits for both. You know, when
it's inside, you don't have to worry about your hair
getting are you worried about your hair? Well, what's left
of it?
Speaker 2 (14:37):
That's your churn, both guys for participating and apologetically me
by Bree Thomas sal it's an amazing book that's out.
I love the cover. I must say, she's looking flying.
She's here right now in.
Speaker 3 (14:50):
A bree more than no.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Thanks for having me so you know how they do
a little blue? But think, by the way, can we
just quickly talk about the cover short? How happy are
you with it? Oh?
Speaker 7 (14:59):
Mate, I can't take any credit for that. I had
I'm pretty sure that's your Bristoin. I just did you
go to sex cells?
Speaker 3 (15:07):
Right?
Speaker 2 (15:07):
Yeah? You got to get the girls out, get the
choosies out. So you hadn't just rolled off the seat
of celebrities you're arend at the time.
Speaker 7 (15:12):
Then no, no, definitely not because I would have probably
had a bit of sunburn and chapped lips.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
And then you say and the press release that, oh
whither if what I have written a book? And way
is that? What's the answer?
Speaker 7 (15:25):
A question I asked myself many times when I was
approached to do this, and I actually said to the publisher,
I was like, I'm not gonna lie. I've never actually
read a book because I don't have the attention spend
and she goes, Oh, I think you've got a story
to tell that could help people.
Speaker 2 (15:41):
And when it came down to it, that was the one.
Speaker 7 (15:44):
Goal of this book where I thought, I need to
be as honest and gritty as possible, or else there's
no point in writing it. And if it helps some
people and some people relate to it, then I've done
my job.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
So what is that that you need to talk about
that will help people people don't know already.
Speaker 7 (16:02):
Yeah, there's a lot of stuff in there. I don't
shy away from any of the hard stuff. I talk
about my sexuality, struggling with anxiety and all the stuff
that comes with that, and the shame that was bred
into me over the years where I hid parts of
myself for a long time.
Speaker 3 (16:21):
And I.
Speaker 7 (16:24):
Just think in the book it shows that that keeping
secrets and not truly being yourself in the end is
so much worse than taking it on head on, you know,
And I hope that's that's what it does.
Speaker 3 (16:43):
What was the whole process, like the making of this book,
how on the it take?
Speaker 2 (16:47):
The book?
Speaker 7 (16:48):
Publishers were like, Oh, you'll probably be done in six months.
I was like, give me a year and a half,
I think all up, it took just over a year,
and it was a long year. I'd tell you that
I feel like it nearly killed me writing a book.
I feel like the process it forces a lot of
conversations and you probably haven't had with people.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
And even Honey hit him is smile as.
Speaker 7 (17:08):
Yeah, which in the end has been amazing, Like it's
been the most cathartic process, and it's actually made a
lot of my relationships with people close in my life
a lot better. But then it was also weird, like
when you write a book, it goes to a lawyer
who then has to check it in case there's any
like things in there where the publisher might get suit
(17:30):
And then they'll come back with all these points and
they're like, Okay, you need to talk to these people
and you need.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
To send them the chandors.
Speaker 7 (17:36):
And I felt like I was messaging all these people
from my past, people I've dated, like to tell them
that I had gone a rea or something so weird.
I was like, hey, you haven't heard from me in
ten years, but I've written about you.
Speaker 2 (17:50):
With the baby's doing fine.
Speaker 7 (17:51):
Yeah, exactly, Like it was so weird, but yeah, all round,
amazing process.
Speaker 2 (17:57):
I think we'll be surprising to people to know that you,
of all people who felt like you had to hide
some parts of yourself because your PERSONA and Or is
like she's out there, she just lives your life, and
on social media you just bold and say it. So
we should then understand that people who come across like
that might actually be hiding something even deeper because they
(18:18):
built up this front.
Speaker 7 (18:20):
Yeah, totally, And I think I had a front for many,
many years, and it took me such a long time
to get to the point where I could truly be
my real, authentic self.
Speaker 2 (18:31):
People should know you talk about anxiety, ADHD, sexuality, you know,
being attacked. So she's really laid it all out. But
now we know why and you've done it beautifully. So
you've won the challenge on Slibertirol and you are congratulations.
Speaker 3 (18:47):
It's been six seasons.
Speaker 2 (18:48):
Finally and apologetically me it's Breeze book and it's out today. Yes,
now I must give proper credit because I was inspired
to remember this particular time from an article by Aren Z.
It's about how newspapers had social pages and those were
the places to be seen before we had the social media.
(19:10):
So we're talking early two thousands here, and you had
the Sunday Times, you had about Town, you still have
Spy and a few of those christ Church Metropole Magazine,
all of that, what you got daily Post. But the
thing is this was the only option then and back
in the day. You go, oh look there's Nikki Watson,
(19:31):
Oh look there's Silly Ridge. Peture bag is still constant
through all of that. And so you go to events
and a guy called Nori Montgomery or a woman called Carmen,
they generally be the people who were there taking your photo.
And I'm saying this from experience. Nor he's a nice
guy and he's always you know, he'll like jump in
there and you're like, get you going, and you take
your photo and then you have to wait till Sunday.
(19:54):
So Sunday start time Sunday and you'd go, oh my gosh,
there's a photo of me, and you know, and if
it's a terrible photo, nothing you can do. No deleting
like on Instagram.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
No filters, no, you know what I mean. So it's like,
so if Nori was there, it's not about the angles.
You got to stay ready at all times. This is
the beauty about back in the days, there's like, bro,
there is no going back. It's no, you can't go
to him and say can I look at the photo?
Maybe now you can, but but not then. And so
for Metro Magazine especially, they had a bit was like.
Speaker 2 (20:24):
A finella Felicity Farret, and so she was this little
fake character who could write things kind of like Carrie
on Sex and the City. And she was anonymous, so
you didn't even know who she was gossiping about, but
people didn't really And then she'd also have photos of
people in the social pages in the early two thousands,
but if they didn't know who that person was, they
just called them a visitor from hawks Bay, Like what
(20:47):
an Auckland thing? Right? If I don't know you, you
must be a visitor from hawks Bay? Hawks Bay, what
do we think of that?
Speaker 3 (20:53):
A What a random little place?
Speaker 2 (20:54):
What a random one? And also beautiful column ethera Jeffrey
He was in every social page and so they actually
revealed in this Range article that if he wasn't in it,
people would go and send them an actual letter and say,
by the way, he forgot to put Colin in the Spacer.
I don't actually know if it's the spy. I don't
even know if it's the social pages if we don't
have colin. But now these days just go straight to
(21:17):
the gram actually make events, just to go straight to Instagram, right,
that's right. But we remember the time when social media
pages on an actual piece of newspaper coming out on
a Sunday, that was the vibe and that was the
spot to be seen, or just to have a photo
that your mum cuts out and saves it and go
it's a horrible photo.
Speaker 3 (21:34):
Anyway, you can remember the time.
Speaker 2 (21:35):
It's about time the kids get up for school. Did
you notice that it was day one of two and
four years today?
Speaker 3 (21:42):
The kids were tired or wasted. They were wasted. I
can't even tell you how many naps my kids had
late during the day after school. I came home off
of the gym to my son running on the treadmill
at the back of the house.
Speaker 2 (21:56):
What time would that have been.
Speaker 3 (21:57):
This would have been like about quarter to four.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
And did you hear yourself saying running on the trim
at the back of the house And you've just been
to the gym, so you okay, yeah, yeah, so you
have to go to the gym store even though you
have a.
Speaker 3 (22:10):
Yeah, I don't like running. So and I found him
doing this little workout and he goes to me, Dad,
November second, I'm gonna have apps. I'm like, whoa, Okay. Then,
so he started showing me this app that he's got
on his phone, and it's like all these workouts stay one, rest, day, two,
day three. It's like a whole full on program that
he's doing. How is he He's only ten no no, no,
(22:32):
no guy, Yeah, I know. And he's even telling me, Dad, So,
what food sure I eat when it comes to dinner
and all this. So you said we had like chicken
Froy Brice and I've just seen him picking on the
chicken and eating that. But going back to how tired
these kids were, you know what I mean, Like now
they're back in full school mode, and he is like,
for a whole day, for a whole day. Bright It
(22:54):
really got them. It got them good.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
Yeah, that's right. That's your life now. Although I remember
at one o'clock in the afternoon, it's go go ah,
I just don't know if I can do the rest
of the day. You're finishing a three kid, suck it up.
You'd enjoy it. Turn for you and nearly there. Some
of you are on study leave soon as well. And
by the way, abs are made in the kitchen, but
not when you're teen.
Speaker 3 (23:16):
Okay, stays Azora and Charlie. Now the inner ral is done.
It's representative forty now. So you got the mate Ma
Donga taking on the Kangaroos this Friday at sun Corp Stadium.
It's all on. So we had a guy named Harve
at six seven six who's quite big on social media,
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doing a lot of media work with the boys, doing
some interviews and I came across this interview. I had
to watch this like about like two or three times.
You're like, you know, I had a I had a
moment like we work because I'm not perfect when it
comes to English and and all this. You know this,
would you like to say it again, I'm not I'm
not perfect when it comes to this. But then they
did my boy dirty with this one man. Check this out, Jason,
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mom and.
Speaker 7 (24:03):
Nice.
Speaker 2 (24:03):
Nice. If you had one superpower on the field, what.
Speaker 3 (24:06):
Would it be. Transportation straight to the trail line. That's it.
We were transportation, like we my I was like, wait,
now that doesn't sound right. I'm sure he was meant
to say teleportation or do you think so for transportation
(24:27):
or like make it make sense. I know who in
delas our college and that that that's fine, Like you know,
I'll give him that. But the thing is, like transportation,
You're not a truck or anything like that. I mean,
you're tough carries, but like you know, it's a superpower.
We already know that Jason has this power. No, you're
transporting the ball to the line. Okay, I just I
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thought that he was to say teleportation.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, transportation. He wants to go
forward drive.
Speaker 3 (25:05):
I am here and I'm with you, and you know what, man,
this is I say this all the time and Stace
is like our mom, wow here it w.
Speaker 2 (25:14):
Wow just even.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
Okay, went there off here, like we have our group
chat and they know that I'm always online late at
night scrolling. So she sends me this piece of audio
and tell me you're not a mom without telling me
you're a mom.
Speaker 2 (25:30):
Go to be here, you scrolling, scrolling, scrolling, scroll, Go.
Speaker 5 (25:35):
And take your ass to be it because you gotta
be up in just a few hours.
Speaker 2 (25:41):
And you are here looking across the internet. Ain't nothing
out there.
Speaker 3 (25:46):
See that's stay speaking to me.
Speaker 2 (25:50):
Oh, I got the lady to speak to you, you know,
outsourcing the nagging. But where's the lie, Charlie? As they true?
Do you sometimes need to hear that fact?
Speaker 3 (25:58):
That's facts? Sometimes I do need to And when I
heard that last night, I'm like nine o'clock early.
Speaker 2 (26:05):
I just said nine because I knew it was unreasonable.
So what time is reasonable?
Speaker 3 (26:08):
Then? Yeah, about ten o'clock. Okay, yeah, I'm in bed
bite ten. But then I'm scrolling up till like yeah, midnight, midnight,
midnightrish Yeah.
Speaker 2 (26:21):
So one more time, just a little bit, go to bed,
go bed. You scrolling, you scroll, scrolling, scroll and scroll,
and take your ass to bed because you gotta be up. Yeah,
it's just a few hours pross the internet. Ain't nothing that,
ain't nothing out there, child the findiest parts where she goes,
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go and get some picture because I know.
Speaker 3 (26:43):
You don't put picture in the cars like.
Speaker 2 (26:47):
Morning guys to go to bed.
Speaker 1 (26:49):
The latest celebrity goes from around the world favor breakfast.
Speaker 3 (26:53):
Oh am, go you call Glorrella. In one of the
recent interviews with charlamagnea God, she talks about pregnancy, but
this time around She's like, m no, man, not this womb.
I want somebody else paying my baby.
Speaker 2 (27:09):
I want them to have my DNA, but I don't
want to have you.
Speaker 3 (27:11):
Like, but that's smart.
Speaker 4 (27:12):
Why just because of your career or just you just don't.
Speaker 2 (27:15):
I just don't want to actually have a baby.
Speaker 4 (27:17):
Yeah, Like all my friends got kids and they just
like they can't do it.
Speaker 3 (27:21):
They restricted a lot. They're restricted. Man, I'm not. I'm
not looking off her hustle. Like this is quite smart.
Like she's she's on a roll with her career. But
if she wants a baby, she's going to give to
somebody else. Man, Like she said, uh uh no, man,
not this woman. She's twenty five though, so you know,
I don't know. She might change your mind, but then against.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
You might not and getting chicked on those claims because
probably she will get chicked on that. As soldier boy,
So he put up an Instagram video and now it's okay.
He filmed himself in the cuppit of a JIT just
before takeoff and this is what he said, is your
boy sold your boy?
Speaker 3 (27:54):
You know what's going on?
Speaker 2 (27:55):
I was the curst rapper to fly airplane.
Speaker 3 (27:59):
Let's go be back good are you ready.
Speaker 4 (28:01):
Read told this?
Speaker 2 (28:02):
And one person who commented on that post was ludicrous
who just put on an emoji with a raised eyebrow,
because he actually did that in twenty twenty one. He's
got his own plane and it looks like he's been
going for his pilot's licenses. Well, it's like, ah, okay,
whatever you want to say. And that is your Owen Goss,
which has carefully avoided all of the trials, all of
(28:25):
the issues, all of the horrible things that are happening
that we could be mentioning right now. So Chalie, on
the weekend, you know, I went to Big Horns that
we've been talking about Schaeffu King's boat on a LA
massive lineup. Massive muss is so good at the power station.
And it's funny because I saw a couple of women
I know and like we're friends and stuff, but we
(28:46):
saw each other on the dance floor for the first time.
And you know, when you see someone you haven't like,
you're not really expecting to see, like I was in
my friends and then you see each other, dants all.
Speaker 3 (28:56):
Starts breaking it down.
Speaker 2 (28:58):
Yeah, and I feel like our friendship has greased as
a result, and it ends up. That's a thing. It's
dance psychology. So Dr Peter Lovett listen to his proviery voice.
He tells us why when you dance with people, you
end up actually liking them more.
Speaker 5 (29:14):
If I'm dancing with three or four people and we're
all dancing together and moving together, why is it after
that that we like each other more, that we trust
each other more, and that we're more likely to help
one another. We know that when we dance in an
improvised way, it changes the way that we think and
solve problems. That the way you move your body is
linked to your hormones and your genes. Even just having
(29:34):
a little groove is influenced by your hormonal and genetic makeup.
Speaker 2 (29:39):
Okay, hormonal, well yeah, the genetic part.
Speaker 3 (29:44):
Yeah. I guess that some people you know always a
lining it because you know, once you start dancing, you
could be dancing with strangers. This is why a lot
of people like going out right, Like, if you're in
the class I'm not saying this but not much of
a dancer. But if I'm on the dance floor and
I'm dancing all random people, automatically you become friends. I mean,
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it's not a Lie.
Speaker 2 (30:07):
We did the same at the Pink Reben Wook at
the Domain on Sunday. Well, Stella and I the n
c's dead. We're just like dance for three hours, and
I just wish my kids were there to be embarrassed
by me. I'm but you know, like when you dance
with people, you're not talking, You're like talking a different way.
Speaker 3 (30:22):
And now body language.
Speaker 2 (30:23):
Yeah, doctor Peter love it. He told us. Why so
now you can dance along to Disney Child and know
that you know, if you're going along, you've got hormono.
It's genetic, it's vibe. Charlte's been doing work on the tools.
Speaker 3 (30:41):
Honestly. You know, at night, I'm finding myself scrolling through
the Internet. But then I've sort of circled back and
I'm watching Simpsons, a lot of Simpsons, And you know,
this is crazy. We have psychics and whatnot, but Simpsons
has been telling us all these things throughout our whole
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entire life.
Speaker 2 (31:03):
Yeah, so the Simpsons predicting the future is definitely a thing,
isn't it. One put something out on the episode and
you go, that's so crazy. Yeah, that will happen in
the Simpsons episode. It wouldn't happen in real life.
Speaker 3 (31:15):
And then it happens, and it happens, it happens, and
you know, like one episode in season eleven, episode seventeen,
where they predicted Donald Trump was going to be president,
And this was an episode in year two thousand where
Lisa was the President of America and she had to
come in and fix all the mess that Donald Trump
(31:39):
like made when he was a president. In twenty sixteen, it's.
Speaker 1 (31:43):
Another flash forward to the future as Bart is an
adult and Lisa is the president of the United States. Unfortunately,
she is tasked with the gargantuan task of cleaning up
after the disastrous job left by Donald Trump.
Speaker 7 (31:55):
I do know, we've inherited quite a budget crunch from
President Trump.
Speaker 2 (31:58):
How bad is it? Second, we're broke, The country is broke.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
We're broke.
Speaker 2 (32:06):
So they brought out that episode in what year, in
the year two thousand, two thousand, and then Donald Trump
actually became the president in twenty seventeen.
Speaker 3 (32:14):
Yeah, that's what I'm talking about. Its crazy.
Speaker 2 (32:18):
But then the idea, I know, I watched that when
you know what I should do that?
Speaker 3 (32:22):
What if Simpsons is all part of this whole planet?
Do you know what I mean, but then they they
we go back to the year ninety five where Lisa
is talking to Marge through a FaceTime call. What this
is crazy? You know, So this is year nineteen ninety five,
but then FaceTime was getting invented. In twenty ten.
Speaker 1 (32:42):
Lisa visits a fortune teller at affair and we're transported
fifteen years into the future.
Speaker 3 (32:46):
She's talking to Marge using her phone's.
Speaker 1 (32:48):
Video chat feature called a picture phone, which was ahead
of its time but finally became a reality in twenty
ten and now we all use it.
Speaker 2 (32:58):
They were onto it. They had been fun of that
writer's table, aren't they.
Speaker 3 (33:00):
That's what I mean.
Speaker 2 (33:01):
What's probably gonna happen in the future, although you know,
talking to a phone, I guess you could go, yeah,
it was obviously going to happen one, you know at
some point, I.
Speaker 3 (33:09):
Know, it's just crazy. Now I'm beginning to go back
and look, I'm looking through all the Simpsons episodes now,
like just to see what's going to happen next, you
know what I'm.
Speaker 2 (33:18):
Saying, Like, yeah, Simpsons are the best predictor of the future.
So you just go and ask them, you know, watch
the episodes and find out what's going to happen.
Speaker 3 (33:26):
What's going to happen next? America's wild Man, the.
Speaker 2 (33:29):
Simpsons a while. The Simpsons are onto it though. I
seems to tell you who's going to be And you know,
like say the Grand Final next year, and you can
make a lot of money out of it.
Speaker 1 (33:38):
There you go.
Speaker 2 (33:42):
Charlie's got to take off and go and stand by
your letterbox.
Speaker 3 (33:44):
Right, it's like Christmas come early. You know the guy
that just hangs around the mailbox or just around the tree.
Speaker 2 (33:51):
You know the tree, I mean the tree. Oh, I
got to go to that because I'm speaking to live it.
Speaker 3 (33:59):
Oh man, you know, I feel funny talking about this.
But and I blame my algorithm and the ads that
are that are on Instagram, Facebook and all the state
enticed me to buy the most silliest items. And this
item that I bought that I purchased, it's a heel raiser.
It's like a little high It changes your height, like
up to three centimeters, so he raise me up.
Speaker 2 (34:22):
A little bit taller my shoe. Why do make your
shoes uncomfortable? I mean we did talk about this briefly.
So it's a heel raiser, not like the exercise, but
something's going to give you like basically a little yeah,
a little hill heel boosts, like basically little high heelside
your shoe. If you see me and you're like, what's changed,
then ask, well, ask it all arrived today hopefully fingers crossed,
(34:45):
and you do the little traker thing the post and
then tomorrow your wheel one.
Speaker 3 (34:50):
Okay, yeah, I go, I'll do that. It's really exciting.
Speaker 2 (34:53):
Ye have a great day as you're waiting anticipation.
Speaker 3 (34:56):
I want to hear more of Station and Charlie.
Speaker 7 (34:58):
Catch them weekday Morning from Sex or Trivia of the
Record podcast
It's the Flavor Podcast Network, the Flavor Breakfast podcast with
stace A, Zorah and.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Charlie coming up in the podcast. The community page that
you're just lurking on. You don't even live there.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
And we all did the Stone of Light. Tim you're
sneaking into a concert and.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
The Simpsons, why are they predicting the future so accurately?
You'll find out here? Okay to be how you guys
are doing. How you doing, Charlie, Oh, I'm so good.
I'm on the Rapid Calms this morning.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
Stay. So this is the first time I've ever tried this.
Speaker 2 (00:32):
This doesn't make sense anyone who doesn't know what a
rapid karma is. So rapid karma is basically like Baraka.
And I was given it last week at a chemistphare
House event and I thought it was energy one. It
says rapid calm and so I don't really know what
hasn't it but I had one. Obviously yummy. It's not
offered one to Charlie, and rather than making you calm,
(00:55):
it seems to get you up.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
Yeah, I've drank this and it's like giving me like
one two three one too, slip two three upper cut
two in the mouth, you know what I mean, It's like, whoa,
what's happening here? A rapid come?
Speaker 2 (01:07):
You thought it attacked you.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Yeah, it's good though, This is what I mean. You
just need to be punched like to wake up.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
So it's just like a little a little fuzzy basically
like a baroka. But yeah, it seems to work very
well on him, and it is supposed to be coming.
So there's only that. Ah.
Speaker 3 (01:25):
That's like how.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
Richlin works for people who have ady HD.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
I'm just saying, Charlie, we were talking about the legend
of Bob Marley used today and Ma rang up and
said she went to his one New Zealand concert at
Western Springs. What year was it, you remember the time?
Speaker 3 (01:42):
Yeah, nineteen seventy nine, Yes, nineteen seventy.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
Nine, went as a teenager, because she's snuck into the concerts.
And I think it was a Western Springs thing because
I think sneaking into that venue I'm not saying now,
but it used to be easier easier. I know that
because even my mother in law, who must have been
in the fifties at the time, jumped off one of
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the houses that are on the border of Western Springs. Well,
I'm hearing this from my housband. I wasn't there, but
jumped over a fence to come down to Oh man,
I can't remember which whose concert was. It was like
a big, really big band, something like you two, something
like that. Whoa, yeah, I know that is a very
very rule breaking.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Well back then it was doable. And I remember clearly
a time where I snug into a nightclub and this
is too what this wasn't an international act, but this
is when Three Houses Down was on the come up,
and there weren't really many reggae bands other than Herbs
back in the Dace, you know. But Herbs sort of
like not died out, but they just stopped creating music
(02:47):
when we were on the come up with Three Houses Down.
But there was a band that was based in Hamilton
at this time that had one hit song and we
just loved this name of them, catch a Fire. Oh yeah,
And this was their song diddy Up. And my cousin
was telling me about a story where he was like
a bouncer at the Sheepies Bar and there was like
(03:10):
a competition. There was a competition for a band and
the and the prize was that you get to record
a song and you get to distribute and whatever was
this song? Right? But anyways, so catch if I won that,
and catch if I won it? Right? So then my
cousin was also a bouncer at the sub Sonic bar
in Monaco, and he told me at church was that, hey,
(03:32):
we got Catch a Fire coming to play here at
Subsonic and Monaco and if you know, you know the spot,
so you snuck it in to watch Catch a Fire? Yep,
I did, and you know he told us you. I
was fourteen at this time. Oh wow, you guys need
to come through. The back door was the kitchen, and
I remember him opening up the back door and it
was the kitchen and he just opened up the little
window you know where the kitchen takes the orders for
(03:54):
chips and whatever its dreams and we're just listening to
Catch a Fire.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
And I was like, oh, so you want to actually
end the venue, but just let's.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
I wasn't in yet, but then we listened and then
we heard them say this will be our last two songs.
But then people were like more and more, and then
we are like, no stuff this. I knew you see
this in the flesh. So then I ended up going
into the front and I remember just they had this
guy that had like like a mock tarmaca on his face,
and I was like, holy heck, this is the voice
(04:20):
that's singing this guy here. But then I remember them
playing gideat the song and listening to Jamie Ferguson sing
this old Yeah, you know this.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
Is the song you should have paid like it's naughty,
I know. And we're not saying like condoning it. We
were just saying people have done it. So if you're
willing to admit it. When he text through to h Doublo,
give us a call, I hand for flavor, is you
Italian chicken sneak into a concert or like mar did
all like Beef did, then let us know about it.
I mean, it's it's in the past, we've done it.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Let it out.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
So it's not ideal, but you have done it, sneaking
into a concert. Mar sid He said it was the
only reason she got to see Bob Marley. I did it,
yeah ninety seven. No, you did it for catch Fire.
It was a great story. He had people going sub
sonic and she is, Wow, what the hangouts? Who else
is done it? Snuck? Into a concept Kyler, it's you,
isn't it.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
It is?
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Tell us more.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
Trying to think of what the event was called.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
It was years ago in Hamilton and it was a
skateboarding had the big skateboarding competition. But anyway, while I
was with my older brother and we didn't have enough
tickets for all of us, and he ended up throwing
us over the fence around the back.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Oh no, he threw you.
Speaker 4 (05:40):
I was only like, oh.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
My gosh, like eight or nine.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
I was real young, and I remember like, what the hell.
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Yeah, my brother is out the gate, so he had
a ticket, but you didn't have a ticket.
Speaker 5 (05:52):
The older there was a few older.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Ones and I'm being the youngest, wanted to go along
as well.
Speaker 2 (05:57):
So I ended.
Speaker 4 (05:59):
Up getting to long but just not going through the
front gate, I guess like everybody else, but you got in.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
Do you reckon? It was about two thousand or when
do you reckon? It might have been it would have
been like you know, the votaphone extreme ear. Yes, yeah,
he says, back in the day, you got some extreme
ear yourself. Didn't naught Kyla over the fence.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
So if her brother threw you over the face, how
did he get in.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
I'm pretty sure he just jumped the fence with her.
Speaker 4 (06:30):
Ah.
Speaker 3 (06:31):
Yeah, was it worth it? Though?
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I think it was so long ago that I will
just remember this memory forever. And it's funny too, is
that that's the part that you remember? And other people
have said this too. I go, well, look, there's nothing
worse than trying to get in for free and then
getting bummed out and security goes, nah nah, I see
you so, Kyler, she does she make I was saying
(06:54):
to producer Anna, who's with us helping out well as
there is away, that I noticed something that happened in
your former community in christ.
Speaker 6 (07:04):
Yes, in the new Branding community, a couple of mirrors
were being stolen from a.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
Public toilet toilet, I think they were over the other
side of town with they aren't they isn't it horsewall
or something? But it ended up on one of the
community pages and you were, yeah, it's a weird thing
because this woman stole a mirror. Do you reckon it
was from the toilets?
Speaker 6 (07:27):
Yeah, it was from the I'm pretty sure they said
it was from the bathroom at club or something, and
she had stolen and then she came back the next
day to.
Speaker 2 (07:35):
Steal the last time. Yeah, but no, it wasn't a
New Brighton. But Anna's point was, how did I know
about that?
Speaker 3 (07:44):
Right?
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Yeah? Well you can be on community pages without actually
living in that community. No, yeah, I used to live there.
My family's New Brighton hard and so it just pops up.
I think it was one of my friends she did
as well. But I can just don't we all like
belong to community pages and we don't actually live in
that community.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
I'm in a high Buscus Coast community.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Hy, you've ever lived there?
Speaker 3 (08:09):
No, but we used to work out in Audiowa and
it was a lot easier finding like laborers and things
like that when we were on the community page, like
especially out that out that wait.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
This is this would be I reckon what sixty seventy
case from where you live.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
Yeah, it's fun so it makes more sense just finding
people within the area. Hence, while I was on the
community page. But yeah, I just stayed on. I'm still on.
I'm still on there, and it's pretty funny how people
because the community page, I'm guessing everybody knows everybody is
like just home and away, where half knows Irene and
Irene knows. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (08:47):
And it's a particular Facebook thing. When we're talking about
a community page and you don't live in christ anymore,
you're still on the community page.
Speaker 6 (08:53):
Yeah, I'm still part of so many regions and I'm
like south Shore, South.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Brandon, New Bran. Surely I think I would like all
around christ Church. Yeah. Well I'm still in the eighties
nineties hangouts page from christ Church as well. But someone
put me in there. Then I felt like I needed
to be welcomed into the Maketu one. And it was
only because the cousin brought me into that one. But
(09:18):
I don't feel very like, you know, I'm not I'm
not really worthy of.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
They should have given you like a proper world.
Speaker 2 (09:25):
Well, then the cousins are proper well welcome. I also
have a friend who were two guys I know actually
who just joined a community group CHET because there was
an issue going on and they just wanted to fight
about it and have debates with people, and so they
live nowhere near it.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
No, that's that's what I mean. On the community page,
I see a lot of arguing in debates that are
that are on the community I'm just I'm in the
comment section with the popcorn brow. I didn't even know
these people.
Speaker 2 (09:53):
Is anybody else on a community page of a community
that they don't actually live in?
Speaker 4 (09:58):
Come on?
Speaker 5 (09:59):
I know?
Speaker 3 (10:00):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (10:01):
Oh wow? Is this just us? Texted at HB gives
Ball I went had for flavor. We were just talking
about being on a community page that you really kind
of have no place on because I lived there, but
we were a lot of us are doing it.
Speaker 3 (10:16):
I was staying a welcome and well.
Speaker 2 (10:17):
One here is my mom's from PA and my dad's
from Dargaville, and I'm on both the community pages. I
was born and raised in Auckland. This is this Texter.
I know. It's good self awareness. And Sarah, what about you?
What community page are you on and you don't actually
live there.
Speaker 4 (10:35):
I'm on the Mournsville one. My mom moved here a
few years ago and then she just kept like trying
to tag me and things and share them. So I
joined it and it's more active than my local one,
and often I'll like go to events and like recognize
people like, oh, that's the lady that sells the cakes and.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
No, they're so cute. Where do you actually live?
Speaker 4 (10:57):
I live in Auckland and like to be honest, more gossip. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (11:02):
They just put it all out there, don't they.
Speaker 4 (11:05):
Yeah, and everyone knows, you know, they don't even mention
the names. Everyone knows who they're talking about.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
Do you know what, sir? I have a feeling that
a lot of direct just look at these little you
know the content. Yeah, you know, the cake lady, what,
the soup guy, you know what?
Speaker 4 (11:23):
And you just see the face and it's like, oh, yeah,
that's they tell the cakes every week.
Speaker 2 (11:27):
Yeah, that's when neighbors become good friends. And I love
that you're snooping on it. Thank you so much for
validating the faith that we're not the only ones doing that.
Think you.
Speaker 3 (11:39):
Are. Zorah and Charlie. We remember the time just like
not long ago, but Stace is still in that time
and she's still playing wordle Yeah that's wow. They see.
The thing is when Stacey puts her mind and body
and soul into something, it's that's that she commits to it.
I just heard her like get angry, Like I was like, oh,
(12:01):
what's going on? This is she goes word stupid word.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
Sometimes they're throwing a really dumb word and you go
and I'd had to check if it was the American spelling.
Is it not with me on this or is it
just me? I know my sister and my cousins that
are still on the wordle buzz and I am my
son actually so and we do that and we do
connections and we do strands and I'm just pretty disgusted
with myself because i lost a day, Like I missed
a day. Must have been Saturday or Sunday.
Speaker 3 (12:26):
And everyday thing. Yeah, please make just make talk.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
I'm not alone here. It's going to be at least
one person who takes through. I'm sure.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
Please somebody, man, is there anyone else playing wordle still?
Come on now?
Speaker 2 (12:43):
Kicking at old school as always, Charlie, feel free to apologize, all.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
Right, I'd just like to formally apologize to all you
wordal fans who are still playing right up to eleven pm.
Coma also look and also and who's texting through? I'm sorry.
I thought that this game was done in dusted so stays.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
You're not alone, thank you. Some of us are still learning. Okay,
nice time for a japo.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
True.
Speaker 2 (13:18):
So we put a question on our flavor Instagram flavor
social is really simple one today? What do you prefer
an inside gig or an outside gig?
Speaker 3 (13:28):
And the votes have come in so inside gig thirty
five percent, outside gig sixty five percent. So what what
this is telling me is that regardless of the weather,
it could be sunny, rainy, kiwis, we are built different.
Sixty five percent any weather would like to have a
(13:48):
concert outside.
Speaker 2 (13:50):
I think everyone is predicting to summer when it's a good,
you know, premium kind of built day and then you know,
you got your outfit, yeah, and feeling great and you're
loving it.
Speaker 3 (14:00):
I just made it. I just wanted to make us
sound tough, you know what I mean, Like sixty five
percent of us just any weather, we're out there storming it.
Speaker 2 (14:07):
They go okay, like in an ultimate sent Anario, yes
to outside, but how often is it ultimate? So there's
nothing wrong with inside as well. Someone extra private messaged
me on this and they said, well, yeah, I want
inside unless I know for sure that it's going to
be perfect outside and I don't have anything else to do.
Speaker 3 (14:26):
Geez et, These these benefits for both. You know, when
it's inside, you don't have to worry about your hair
getting are you worried about your hair? Well, what's left
of it?
Speaker 2 (14:37):
That's your churn, both guys for participating and apologetically me
by Bree Thomas sal it's an amazing book that's out.
I love the cover. I must say, she's looking flying.
She's here right now in.
Speaker 3 (14:50):
A bree more than no.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
Thanks for having me so you know how they do
a little blue? But think, by the way, can we
just quickly talk about the cover short? How happy are
you with it? Oh?
Speaker 7 (14:59):
Mate, I can't take any credit for that. I had
I'm pretty sure that's your Bristoin. I just did you
go to sex cells?
Speaker 3 (15:07):
Right?
Speaker 2 (15:07):
Yeah? You got to get the girls out, get the
choosies out. So you hadn't just rolled off the seat
of celebrities you're arend at the time.
Speaker 7 (15:12):
Then no, no, definitely not because I would have probably
had a bit of sunburn and chapped lips.
Speaker 2 (15:18):
And then you say and the press release that, oh
whither if what I have written a book? And way
is that? What's the answer?
Speaker 7 (15:25):
A question I asked myself many times when I was
approached to do this, and I actually said to the publisher,
I was like, I'm not gonna lie. I've never actually
read a book because I don't have the attention spend
and she goes, Oh, I think you've got a story
to tell that could help people.
Speaker 2 (15:41):
And when it came down to it, that was the one.
Speaker 7 (15:44):
Goal of this book where I thought, I need to
be as honest and gritty as possible, or else there's
no point in writing it. And if it helps some
people and some people relate to it, then I've done
my job.
Speaker 2 (15:57):
So what is that that you need to talk about
that will help people people don't know already.
Speaker 7 (16:02):
Yeah, there's a lot of stuff in there. I don't
shy away from any of the hard stuff. I talk
about my sexuality, struggling with anxiety and all the stuff
that comes with that, and the shame that was bred
into me over the years where I hid parts of
myself for a long time.
Speaker 3 (16:21):
And I.
Speaker 7 (16:24):
Just think in the book it shows that that keeping
secrets and not truly being yourself in the end is
so much worse than taking it on head on, you know,
And I hope that's that's what it does.
Speaker 3 (16:43):
What was the whole process, like the making of this book,
how on the it take?
Speaker 2 (16:47):
The book?
Speaker 7 (16:48):
Publishers were like, Oh, you'll probably be done in six months.
I was like, give me a year and a half,
I think all up, it took just over a year,
and it was a long year. I'd tell you that
I feel like it nearly killed me writing a book.
I feel like the process it forces a lot of
conversations and you probably haven't had with people.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
And even Honey hit him is smile as.
Speaker 7 (17:08):
Yeah, which in the end has been amazing, Like it's
been the most cathartic process, and it's actually made a
lot of my relationships with people close in my life
a lot better. But then it was also weird, like
when you write a book, it goes to a lawyer
who then has to check it in case there's any
like things in there where the publisher might get suit
(17:30):
And then they'll come back with all these points and
they're like, Okay, you need to talk to these people
and you need.
Speaker 2 (17:35):
To send them the chandors.
Speaker 7 (17:36):
And I felt like I was messaging all these people
from my past, people I've dated, like to tell them
that I had gone a rea or something so weird.
I was like, hey, you haven't heard from me in
ten years, but I've written about you.
Speaker 2 (17:50):
With the baby's doing fine.
Speaker 7 (17:51):
Yeah, exactly, Like it was so weird, but yeah, all round,
amazing process.
Speaker 2 (17:57):
I think we'll be surprising to people to know that you,
of all people who felt like you had to hide
some parts of yourself because your PERSONA and Or is
like she's out there, she just lives your life, and
on social media you just bold and say it. So
we should then understand that people who come across like
that might actually be hiding something even deeper because they
(18:18):
built up this front.
Speaker 7 (18:20):
Yeah, totally, And I think I had a front for many,
many years, and it took me such a long time
to get to the point where I could truly be
my real, authentic self.
Speaker 2 (18:31):
People should know you talk about anxiety, ADHD, sexuality, you know,
being attacked. So she's really laid it all out. But
now we know why and you've done it beautifully. So
you've won the challenge on Slibertirol and you are congratulations.
Speaker 3 (18:47):
It's been six seasons.
Speaker 2 (18:48):
Finally and apologetically me it's Breeze book and it's out today. Yes,
now I must give proper credit because I was inspired
to remember this particular time from an article by Aren Z.
It's about how newspapers had social pages and those were
the places to be seen before we had the social media.
(19:10):
So we're talking early two thousands here, and you had
the Sunday Times, you had about Town, you still have
Spy and a few of those christ Church Metropole Magazine,
all of that, what you got daily Post. But the
thing is this was the only option then and back
in the day. You go, oh look there's Nikki Watson,
(19:31):
Oh look there's Silly Ridge. Peture bag is still constant
through all of that. And so you go to events
and a guy called Nori Montgomery or a woman called Carmen,
they generally be the people who were there taking your photo.
And I'm saying this from experience. Nor he's a nice
guy and he's always you know, he'll like jump in
there and you're like, get you going, and you take
your photo and then you have to wait till Sunday.
(19:54):
So Sunday start time Sunday and you'd go, oh my gosh,
there's a photo of me, and you know, and if
it's a terrible photo, nothing you can do. No deleting
like on Instagram.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
No filters, no, you know what I mean. So it's like,
so if Nori was there, it's not about the angles.
You got to stay ready at all times. This is
the beauty about back in the days, there's like, bro,
there is no going back. It's no, you can't go
to him and say can I look at the photo?
Maybe now you can, but but not then. And so
for Metro Magazine especially, they had a bit was like.
Speaker 2 (20:24):
A finella Felicity Farret, and so she was this little
fake character who could write things kind of like Carrie
on Sex and the City. And she was anonymous, so
you didn't even know who she was gossiping about, but
people didn't really And then she'd also have photos of
people in the social pages in the early two thousands,
but if they didn't know who that person was, they
just called them a visitor from hawks Bay, Like what
(20:47):
an Auckland thing? Right? If I don't know you, you
must be a visitor from hawks Bay? Hawks Bay, what
do we think of that?
Speaker 3 (20:53):
A What a random little place?
Speaker 2 (20:54):
What a random one? And also beautiful column ethera Jeffrey
He was in every social page and so they actually
revealed in this Range article that if he wasn't in it,
people would go and send them an actual letter and say,
by the way, he forgot to put Colin in the Spacer.
I don't actually know if it's the spy. I don't
even know if it's the social pages if we don't
have colin. But now these days just go straight to
(21:17):
the gram actually make events, just to go straight to Instagram, right,
that's right. But we remember the time when social media
pages on an actual piece of newspaper coming out on
a Sunday, that was the vibe and that was the
spot to be seen, or just to have a photo
that your mum cuts out and saves it and go
it's a horrible photo.
Speaker 3 (21:34):
Anyway, you can remember the time.
Speaker 2 (21:35):
It's about time the kids get up for school. Did
you notice that it was day one of two and
four years today?
Speaker 3 (21:42):
The kids were tired or wasted. They were wasted. I
can't even tell you how many naps my kids had
late during the day after school. I came home off
of the gym to my son running on the treadmill
at the back of the house.
Speaker 2 (21:56):
What time would that have been.
Speaker 3 (21:57):
This would have been like about quarter to four.
Speaker 2 (22:00):
And did you hear yourself saying running on the trim
at the back of the house And you've just been
to the gym, so you okay, yeah, yeah, so you
have to go to the gym store even though you
have a.
Speaker 3 (22:10):
Yeah, I don't like running. So and I found him
doing this little workout and he goes to me, Dad,
November second, I'm gonna have apps. I'm like, whoa, Okay. Then,
so he started showing me this app that he's got
on his phone, and it's like all these workouts stay one, rest, day, two,
day three. It's like a whole full on program that
he's doing. How is he He's only ten no no, no,
(22:32):
no guy, Yeah, I know. And he's even telling me, Dad, So,
what food sure I eat when it comes to dinner
and all this. So you said we had like chicken
Froy Brice and I've just seen him picking on the
chicken and eating that. But going back to how tired
these kids were, you know what I mean, Like now
they're back in full school mode, and he is like,
for a whole day, for a whole day. Bright It
(22:54):
really got them. It got them good.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
Yeah, that's right. That's your life now. Although I remember
at one o'clock in the afternoon, it's go go ah,
I just don't know if I can do the rest
of the day. You're finishing a three kid, suck it up.
You'd enjoy it. Turn for you and nearly there. Some
of you are on study leave soon as well. And
by the way, abs are made in the kitchen, but
not when you're teen.
Speaker 3 (23:16):
Okay, stays Azora and Charlie. Now the inner ral is done.
It's representative forty now. So you got the mate Ma
Donga taking on the Kangaroos this Friday at sun Corp Stadium.
It's all on. So we had a guy named Harve
at six seven six who's quite big on social media,
(23:37):
doing a lot of media work with the boys, doing
some interviews and I came across this interview. I had
to watch this like about like two or three times.
You're like, you know, I had a I had a
moment like we work because I'm not perfect when it
comes to English and and all this. You know this,
would you like to say it again, I'm not I'm
not perfect when it comes to this. But then they
did my boy dirty with this one man. Check this out, Jason,
(24:00):
mom and.
Speaker 7 (24:03):
Nice.
Speaker 2 (24:03):
Nice. If you had one superpower on the field, what.
Speaker 3 (24:06):
Would it be. Transportation straight to the trail line. That's it.
We were transportation, like we my I was like, wait,
now that doesn't sound right. I'm sure he was meant
to say teleportation or do you think so for transportation
(24:27):
or like make it make sense. I know who in
delas our college and that that that's fine, Like you know,
I'll give him that. But the thing is, like transportation,
You're not a truck or anything like that. I mean,
you're tough carries, but like you know, it's a superpower.
We already know that Jason has this power. No, you're
transporting the ball to the line. Okay, I just I
(24:49):
thought that he was to say teleportation.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, transportation. He wants to go
forward drive.
Speaker 3 (25:05):
I am here and I'm with you, and you know what, man,
this is I say this all the time and Stace
is like our mom, wow here it w.
Speaker 2 (25:14):
Wow just even.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
Okay, went there off here, like we have our group
chat and they know that I'm always online late at
night scrolling. So she sends me this piece of audio
and tell me you're not a mom without telling me
you're a mom.
Speaker 2 (25:30):
Go to be here, you scrolling, scrolling, scrolling, scroll, Go.
Speaker 5 (25:35):
And take your ass to be it because you gotta
be up in just a few hours.
Speaker 2 (25:41):
And you are here looking across the internet. Ain't nothing
out there.
Speaker 3 (25:46):
See that's stay speaking to me.
Speaker 2 (25:50):
Oh, I got the lady to speak to you, you know,
outsourcing the nagging. But where's the lie, Charlie? As they true?
Do you sometimes need to hear that fact?
Speaker 3 (25:58):
That's facts? Sometimes I do need to And when I
heard that last night, I'm like nine o'clock early.
Speaker 2 (26:05):
I just said nine because I knew it was unreasonable.
So what time is reasonable?
Speaker 3 (26:08):
Then? Yeah, about ten o'clock. Okay, yeah, I'm in bed
bite ten. But then I'm scrolling up till like yeah, midnight, midnight,
midnightrish Yeah.
Speaker 2 (26:21):
So one more time, just a little bit, go to bed,
go bed. You scrolling, you scroll, scrolling, scroll and scroll,
and take your ass to bed because you gotta be up. Yeah,
it's just a few hours pross the internet. Ain't nothing that,
ain't nothing out there, child the findiest parts where she goes,
(26:42):
go and get some picture because I know.
Speaker 3 (26:43):
You don't put picture in the cars like.
Speaker 2 (26:47):
Morning guys to go to bed.
Speaker 1 (26:49):
The latest celebrity goes from around the world favor breakfast.
Speaker 3 (26:53):
Oh am, go you call Glorrella. In one of the
recent interviews with charlamagnea God, she talks about pregnancy, but
this time around She's like, m no, man, not this womb.
I want somebody else paying my baby.
Speaker 2 (27:09):
I want them to have my DNA, but I don't
want to have you.
Speaker 3 (27:11):
Like, but that's smart.
Speaker 4 (27:12):
Why just because of your career or just you just don't.
Speaker 2 (27:15):
I just don't want to actually have a baby.
Speaker 4 (27:17):
Yeah, Like all my friends got kids and they just
like they can't do it.
Speaker 3 (27:21):
They restricted a lot. They're restricted. Man, I'm not. I'm
not looking off her hustle. Like this is quite smart.
Like she's she's on a roll with her career. But
if she wants a baby, she's going to give to
somebody else. Man, Like she said, uh uh no, man,
not this woman. She's twenty five though, so you know,
I don't know. She might change your mind, but then against.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
You might not and getting chicked on those claims because
probably she will get chicked on that. As soldier boy,
So he put up an Instagram video and now it's okay.
He filmed himself in the cuppit of a JIT just
before takeoff and this is what he said, is your
boy sold your boy?
Speaker 3 (27:54):
You know what's going on?
Speaker 2 (27:55):
I was the curst rapper to fly airplane.
Speaker 3 (27:59):
Let's go be back good are you ready.
Speaker 4 (28:01):
Read told this?
Speaker 2 (28:02):
And one person who commented on that post was ludicrous
who just put on an emoji with a raised eyebrow,
because he actually did that in twenty twenty one. He's
got his own plane and it looks like he's been
going for his pilot's licenses. Well, it's like, ah, okay,
whatever you want to say. And that is your Owen Goss,
which has carefully avoided all of the trials, all of
(28:25):
the issues, all of the horrible things that are happening
that we could be mentioning right now. So Chalie, on
the weekend, you know, I went to Big Horns that
we've been talking about Schaeffu King's boat on a LA
massive lineup. Massive muss is so good at the power station.
And it's funny because I saw a couple of women
I know and like we're friends and stuff, but we
(28:46):
saw each other on the dance floor for the first time.
And you know, when you see someone you haven't like,
you're not really expecting to see, like I was in
my friends and then you see each other, dants all.
Speaker 3 (28:56):
Starts breaking it down.
Speaker 2 (28:58):
Yeah, and I feel like our friendship has greased as
a result, and it ends up. That's a thing. It's
dance psychology. So Dr Peter Lovett listen to his proviery voice.
He tells us why when you dance with people, you
end up actually liking them more.
Speaker 5 (29:14):
If I'm dancing with three or four people and we're
all dancing together and moving together, why is it after
that that we like each other more, that we trust
each other more, and that we're more likely to help
one another. We know that when we dance in an
improvised way, it changes the way that we think and
solve problems. That the way you move your body is
linked to your hormones and your genes. Even just having
(29:34):
a little groove is influenced by your hormonal and genetic makeup.
Speaker 2 (29:39):
Okay, hormonal, well yeah, the genetic part.
Speaker 3 (29:44):
Yeah. I guess that some people you know always a
lining it because you know, once you start dancing, you
could be dancing with strangers. This is why a lot
of people like going out right, Like, if you're in
the class I'm not saying this but not much of
a dancer. But if I'm on the dance floor and
I'm dancing all random people, automatically you become friends. I mean,
(30:05):
it's not a Lie.
Speaker 2 (30:07):
We did the same at the Pink Reben Wook at
the Domain on Sunday. Well, Stella and I the n
c's dead. We're just like dance for three hours, and
I just wish my kids were there to be embarrassed
by me. I'm but you know, like when you dance
with people, you're not talking, You're like talking a different way.
Speaker 3 (30:22):
And now body language.
Speaker 2 (30:23):
Yeah, doctor Peter love it. He told us. Why so
now you can dance along to Disney Child and know
that you know, if you're going along, you've got hormono.
It's genetic, it's vibe. Charlte's been doing work on the tools.
Speaker 3 (30:41):
Honestly. You know, at night, I'm finding myself scrolling through
the Internet. But then I've sort of circled back and
I'm watching Simpsons, a lot of Simpsons, And you know,
this is crazy. We have psychics and whatnot, but Simpsons
has been telling us all these things throughout our whole
(31:02):
entire life.
Speaker 2 (31:03):
Yeah, so the Simpsons predicting the future is definitely a thing,
isn't it. One put something out on the episode and
you go, that's so crazy. Yeah, that will happen in
the Simpsons episode. It wouldn't happen in real life.
Speaker 3 (31:15):
And then it happens, and it happens, it happens, and
you know, like one episode in season eleven, episode seventeen,
where they predicted Donald Trump was going to be president,
And this was an episode in year two thousand where
Lisa was the President of America and she had to
come in and fix all the mess that Donald Trump
(31:39):
like made when he was a president. In twenty sixteen, it's.
Speaker 1 (31:43):
Another flash forward to the future as Bart is an
adult and Lisa is the president of the United States. Unfortunately,
she is tasked with the gargantuan task of cleaning up
after the disastrous job left by Donald Trump.
Speaker 7 (31:55):
I do know, we've inherited quite a budget crunch from
President Trump.
Speaker 2 (31:58):
How bad is it? Second, we're broke, The country is broke.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
We're broke.
Speaker 2 (32:06):
So they brought out that episode in what year, in
the year two thousand, two thousand, and then Donald Trump
actually became the president in twenty seventeen.
Speaker 3 (32:14):
Yeah, that's what I'm talking about. Its crazy.
Speaker 2 (32:18):
But then the idea, I know, I watched that when
you know what I should do that?
Speaker 3 (32:22):
What if Simpsons is all part of this whole planet?
Do you know what I mean, but then they they
we go back to the year ninety five where Lisa
is talking to Marge through a FaceTime call. What this
is crazy? You know, So this is year nineteen ninety five,
but then FaceTime was getting invented. In twenty ten.
Speaker 1 (32:42):
Lisa visits a fortune teller at affair and we're transported
fifteen years into the future.
Speaker 3 (32:46):
She's talking to Marge using her phone's.
Speaker 1 (32:48):
Video chat feature called a picture phone, which was ahead
of its time but finally became a reality in twenty
ten and now we all use it.
Speaker 2 (32:58):
They were onto it. They had been fun of that
writer's table, aren't they.
Speaker 3 (33:00):
That's what I mean.
Speaker 2 (33:01):
What's probably gonna happen in the future, although you know,
talking to a phone, I guess you could go, yeah,
it was obviously going to happen one, you know at
some point, I.
Speaker 3 (33:09):
Know, it's just crazy. Now I'm beginning to go back
and look, I'm looking through all the Simpsons episodes now,
like just to see what's going to happen next, you
know what I'm.
Speaker 2 (33:18):
Saying, Like, yeah, Simpsons are the best predictor of the future.
So you just go and ask them, you know, watch
the episodes and find out what's going to happen.
Speaker 3 (33:26):
What's going to happen next? America's wild Man, the.
Speaker 2 (33:29):
Simpsons a while. The Simpsons are onto it though. I
seems to tell you who's going to be And you know,
like say the Grand Final next year, and you can
make a lot of money out of it.
Speaker 1 (33:38):
There you go.
Speaker 2 (33:42):
Charlie's got to take off and go and stand by
your letterbox.
Speaker 3 (33:44):
Right, it's like Christmas come early. You know the guy
that just hangs around the mailbox or just around the tree.
Speaker 2 (33:51):
You know the tree, I mean the tree. Oh, I
got to go to that because I'm speaking to live it.
Speaker 3 (33:59):
Oh man, you know, I feel funny talking about this.
But and I blame my algorithm and the ads that
are that are on Instagram, Facebook and all the state
enticed me to buy the most silliest items. And this
item that I bought that I purchased, it's a heel raiser.
It's like a little high It changes your height, like
up to three centimeters, so he raise me up.
Speaker 2 (34:22):
A little bit taller my shoe. Why do make your
shoes uncomfortable? I mean we did talk about this briefly.
So it's a heel raiser, not like the exercise, but
something's going to give you like basically a little yeah,
a little hill heel boosts, like basically little high heelside
your shoe. If you see me and you're like, what's changed,
then ask, well, ask it all arrived today hopefully fingers crossed,
(34:45):
and you do the little traker thing the post and
then tomorrow your wheel one.
Speaker 3 (34:50):
Okay, yeah, I go, I'll do that. It's really exciting.
Speaker 2 (34:53):
Ye have a great day as you're waiting anticipation.
Speaker 3 (34:56):
I want to hear more of Station and Charlie.
Speaker 7 (34:58):
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I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!