OFF THE RECORD: Finding LOVE

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In today's episode, Charlie is once again bringing his friends into the conversation to deal their problems. 

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's the Flavor Podcast Network. You're listening to Stacissura and
Charlie's off the record, your record.

Speaker 2 (00:12):
And welcome back everyone to off the record everything that
we kind of want to sign the radio, but we
just reckon this right here to save space to share.
And Charlie, you've got something. I don't know what you're
going to talk about.

Speaker 1 (00:22):
Nah, but man's I want your take on this. See
my friend and his baby mama, they are really civil.
They're quite close as well. Okay, but now he's seeing
somebody as maybe three months ago. Okay, so it's a
new relationship.

Speaker 2 (00:38):
Okay.

Speaker 1 (00:38):
But the thing is my friend and his baby mama,
they date. They go on date so they could just
you know, get more understanding because they have four kids.

Speaker 2 (00:46):
Loved it for them and it's it's healthy. They still
have love, so they're trying to just find their other loves. Well,
I'm a firm believer that we have many soul mates.
So go on your mate and his baby.

Speaker 1 (00:57):
And they go on these dates and it's pretty cool,
and they people know on social media and things like
that because they're not hiding anything. But now he's decided
that he wants to sort of step out and get
into a relationship, because we ask the question all the time,
how come you two just don't get back together? It's
not the same. We're great parents, but you know, as couples, na.

(01:18):
But you know when they're when they're going out on
these dates. I wouldn't say dates, but it's more planning
on you know, the kids' futures and what they need
to do and so forth. But they make it out
as a date. But don't you think, man, that when
you're going out on these dates with your ex and
you have beautiful children together, do you feel that the

(01:38):
you know, the candle sort of reignites between the two
of you.

Speaker 2 (01:43):
Oh that is such a good question, which you know
what I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:46):
But see, this is the thing. Save that question, save
your thought. Now has new partner, right, yep, she doesn't
like it one, but BRO doesn't like it one. But
even though she understands the situation, you know, so she
took on this relationship.

Speaker 2 (02:02):
Knowing that, knowing that an ex kids with the.

Speaker 1 (02:04):
Ex exactly, so she doesn't like this Bro and they
and they argue about this, They argue about the whole
dating thing. So now he's sort of protective of X
and saying no, that I got to do this for
the kids, you know what I mean, Like, I'm not
really just sort of drop this thing because it's working
for my kids and I and and for her as well.

(02:27):
Right now, this whole thing is starting to get a
little bit ugly because now she's having to choose, making
him choose. You either cut the date all these little
dates that you two are going on, or I'm done.
So he's caught up in a rock and a hard
place here. Oh my, I'm bringing it to RecA so

(02:49):
that you know, get your feel on this, bro. I'm
one of your thoughts is tough, Like my thoughts is
he's only known the skill for three months or maybe
a little bit longer yep. But still, and she's coming
into the game or into his life and wanting to
change what works for him and his kids and his ex.

Speaker 2 (03:09):
Yeah. And I guess is that the issue because is
the issue her or is the issue the kids? Or
is it the whole dating thing? Because in my opinion,
you mentioned this talk of dates. I think it's like
the terms of reference say, I think the way that
they refer to them getting together, that's a little bit.

Speaker 1 (03:25):
Sus It is but that's what I'm saying. You know,
I understand where the exit, sorry, I understand where the
partners can be from. Yeah, like, bro, because I wouldn't
want my my partner now to be dating or going
on these little planning dates well with my partner, Like
I'll feel some type of way, Bro.

Speaker 2 (03:45):
I guess I would want my partners. I would want
my partner to be close with their kids like that.
The kids come first in any situation. I think where
you start to get into muddied water is when you're
just pushing the boat out just a little bit more
each and every time.

Speaker 1 (04:05):
And that's what I'm saying, Like I'm sure, like I've
asked him, do you guys, does it re rekindle anything
like between YouTube and nothing? Oh so they're going into
these little date plans or whatever it is or the
clear conscience like there's nothing gonna nothing's gonna happen between them.
So I'm like, okay, So if nothing's going to happen

(04:25):
between you guys, you guys both need to move on
with your lives. Let this man date this lady and
they could just plan like via text or email or
from a distance. Does it need to be a date.

Speaker 2 (04:38):
Yeah, yeah, man, I wouldn't have an answer for you, Bro.
I know, Bro, got no partner, got no damn kids.

Speaker 1 (04:45):
So's eldest is eighteen and his youngest is five.

Speaker 2 (04:49):
Okay, you know so it's like, okay, so we do
need a co perencing relationship because there's a five year
old in the picture. Okay. Oh food for thought. If
they find out, what would you do in this situation?
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