OFF THE RECORD: It's not my problem!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
The Flavor Podcast Network.

Speaker 2 (00:02):
You're listening to Stacis Zura and Charlie's Off the Records
your record.

Speaker 3 (00:11):
Welcome to Off the Record with a Zorra and Shalie.
This is weird things you know, then don't get talked
about on air. Things get a bit more juicy, get
a bit more No da, I was gonna say naughty,
but I'm like, oh yeah, just say that. It doesn't
need to be like that. No, because this one, you
know what, you're pushing me off.

Speaker 1 (00:30):
You I don't care you're putting me off.

Speaker 3 (00:34):
No, I I am. I'm a little bit pissed off
because you know, when you try to keep your your
name out of a situation. Oh my gosh, you try
to go I'm gonna do the right thing.

Speaker 1 (00:43):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (00:44):
I have been given information, but this is not this
is not my thing. Yeah, the story is not right,
it's not but it's.

Speaker 1 (00:50):
Not my story to tell. It's not my story to
be involved with.

Speaker 2 (00:53):
But somehow you've been dragged into this.

Speaker 1 (00:55):
Yeah yeah, yea yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah. And
that's happened to me. That's that's happened to me.

Speaker 3 (01:01):
It's funny to me to hear stories about myself you know,
because you're hearing about a story and you're like, but
that story never happened, so it's just a story, do
you know what I mean? Like that's a proper story. Yeah,
And that happened to me Basically I found something out
and then, you know, I thought, I'm gonna I'm not
sure I'm doing the right thing, but I'm actually gonna
not say anything to this person. Maybe I should have

(01:24):
said something to the person. That's too late now, too
late now maybe decision not too.

Speaker 2 (01:30):
So how did you find out this person? How did
you find out your name was? Like draked into this
whole story.

Speaker 3 (01:37):
Well, it turned out that I got pulled the person
that I tried to protect slash, you know, not the
person that it was about. Okay, person that it was about.
And I didn't tell them this thing I heard about them.
They found out anyway that I knew and then and

(01:58):
they hit me up. Ah see, bro is, Look, I
can't give details because you know, there's actually laws guys
with with radio where you can't actually say people's names
because it's called deformation. So I cannot say who and
not that.

Speaker 2 (02:14):
It had an opportunity to tell this person, right, Yeah,
like the first time you heard it, and if you.

Speaker 1 (02:20):
I'm not sure what good that would have brought. That's
that's that's that's.

Speaker 2 (02:25):
Like backfight.

Speaker 1 (02:26):
I'm not sure it was a good deed.

Speaker 3 (02:27):
I was really conflicted about what to do with the
information I had learned. And you know, some may argue
that I should have maybe just told the person what
I had.

Speaker 1 (02:34):
Heard, but I didn't know if it was true.

Speaker 3 (02:36):
I didn't know if there was any truth in what
I had heard. I think I just thought, you know what,
that I I have no idea whether that's true, So
I'm just going to stay out of them.

Speaker 2 (02:46):
You always, you always do the right thing. If you
don't know the facts.

Speaker 3 (02:49):
Why even why why do something? That's what That's what
I thought. This is where gossip started, exactly. I don't
know the fact.

Speaker 2 (02:55):
You didn't see it your own eyes, you didn't hear it,
or you know, I mean, you have please to say.

Speaker 1 (03:00):
I hate I hate this sort of stuff as well.

Speaker 3 (03:03):
And if you're listening and you're thinking, I'm confused, well
guess what so am I We're all confused. This shit
is missy, like this is why gossip is missy. And
I just think unless you are brave enough to talk
to that person directly about it.

Speaker 1 (03:18):
Why are you talking to other people about it? You
know what I mean? Like, it's like when.

Speaker 3 (03:22):
People say, oh, you know, she's gone off the rouse
and she's you know, we have a friend that's that's
going through some stuff at the moment.

Speaker 1 (03:30):
Yeah, so we just sit straight to her.

Speaker 3 (03:32):
You know, what good is it going to do if
I'm talking about it with everyone else? Exactly, it's just gossiping.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
It doesn't hurt to just go up to the person
and tell them, Yeah, you know what I mean, Like,
that's always the right thing to do if you know
this person or and you're calling this person your friend.
I think that's the right thing to do at all times.
Just hit it, tackle it straight on, man.

Speaker 3 (03:52):
But it's also moments, you know, it's it's missy moments
in life. Maybe you've heard some gossip about someone or
someone you know, blah blah blah blah. It's always those
missy moments that really show people's true colors too. That's
a big thing that I've taken away from from multiple
situations I've been in over my life, is you know,
you have a choice to be honest, especially when you've

(04:17):
stuffed up, and sometimes just running it straight and admitting
your wrongs is so much better and done so much
better the more that, because the thing is, you lie once,
you lie again, you like, and you dig it deeper
and deeper. You're absolutely righty And I've been there, I've
been on the on the end where I have lied

(04:37):
to protect myself and it just it just gets messy, and.

Speaker 1 (04:42):
It does so moral of the story, mind your business,
stay and business.

Speaker 3 (04:50):
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