November 6, 2024 • 41 mins
- Matty's "how are you? "good!" observation
- How stingy are you?
- Battle of The Hits - USA America themed for the Election!
- Matty tries to lip read PJ without hearing, after he admits he's amazing at lip reading... and yes, he fails
- What was found in the bin?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The Hits Drive with medi and PJ thanks to chimis
Wee House the Real House of Fragrances on that. Okay,
and it's time for the pododcast. Big day for one
of us tomorrow receiving a treatment for the first time.
We can talk about this on the podcast. We won't
go into like too much detail.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
But yeah, I think we can. I'm getting a laser treatment.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
On your face or eyes.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Lower, you taste lower.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Steel, fluoty, your snails.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Trou lower than that, you're Willie John John John. I'm
getting laser. Well, I'm getting I'm having an appointment to
actually make sure that i can get laser. Oh okay,
but but if as long as I can, I'm getting
it done tomorrow, like first treatment tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
I've had quite a bit of laser in the past.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Say I've got a shave before.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Yeah, that was the part I didn't like about it. It
feels counterproductive. But you do have to do.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
It fully shave, Yeah, I think so.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
I would always forget and I got quite close like
my therapy made therapist she was amazing. This is a
Melbourne and she would actually do the shave before.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Okay, Well I'm not I've never met this person.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Yeah, so I definitely do it. You want to be
on a closely well for that to be okay.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Like just clip like my clippers that I would normally
use or I can't remember.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Hang on, how much do you need to shave? Do
you need to shave before a laser treatment? Hang on?
It may sound a little strange, but you do shave
the area you're getting laser treated to three days prior
to your first.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Oh no, going boy, I'm just gonna.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Do I'm gonna be fine, I think I Yeah, I
mean she did it right then there, right before the tree.
Don't shave on the debut sessions. Of course, you're going
to be a little more sensitive, right, so you just
might back around to a little rest.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
I'll do it tonight.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
I'm an.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
Is it gonna hurt?
Speaker 1 (02:27):
I always thought the nurse was the least painful mm
hmm yep. Okay, but let me know how you go,
because pain is relative.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
I've got i've got a high pain three shoulders. Well,
i've got a low pain.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
Three shold you mean you feel pain quite easily.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Very easily. Yeah, that's a low I went once we
went to like a time as Susan. He was like,
he said to me, oh, you're very weak, because I
was like wincing and pain while he was massaging me.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Oh you're very weak, but you're like, no, it's still amazing.
It's so good, So good luck. I'm excited for you.
I can't get laser right now because I'm girl and
a child.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
How are you feeling?
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Feeling pretty good? I think I'm like this. The second
trime myster is the sweet spot. So the first one sucks.
It's probably the worst when you're tired, and second stuff
seecond one sweet. The third one your body is just
so ky v u and yeah, everything swells off. And
so I'm just trying to make use of the golden days.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
And have you guys landed on what you're going to
Last time we talked about it, you're like you weren't
sure whither you were going to find out what you're
having or not?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Ah, ask Beige and he'll say, no, I'm still tempered. Yeah,
well I'm still gonna like timp It is so cute.
That will make you tin.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
You not like a not a car burnout or anything. No, No,
what would you doll, how would you do it? What
would what would you do?
Speaker 1 (04:12):
Just a cute little cake? Okay, No, I don't know,
Like I'm so torn. I think this surprise on the
day is pretty amazing, what with.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Charlie, right, you didn't find out Charlie. Yeah? Did you think?
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Did you?
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Did you feel pretty confident it was a boy?
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Yeah? Yeah, but I thought he's sort of sort of
willy on it. But then hindsight, I think the willy
and the girl, I think it's like a little I
don't know, it all looks the same. At the beginning,
he was like, no, it's boy, but I just had
boy vibes and we were right, And I've got girl vibs, sister.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
I mean, you've got a fifty fifty chance to getting
it right exactly. I've got girl vibes this time as well,
have you? Yeah, although it also wouldn't surprise me if
you were a boy, mum, if.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
You just had my I would be classic boy mamma,
which I'd love. I'd love her boys, but I'd also
love a little girl a little. I want to have
the relationship that my mum and I have really tired.
She's like a sister to me. But anyway, I haven't
talked about on the podcast, but our dogs have gone,
so I haven't wanted to broadcast her. It's been so
(05:18):
fucking stressful. It's harding nearly three nights now.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
I don't know, like, I don't know what to do.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Oh, it's I'm too scared to talk about it because
it's happened a couple of times, and I'm just worried
people will think I'm negligent. It's our dog off with
the other dog. Which that was the number one era, Like,
FIG's fine. If she's home by herself, she's fine, but
which is with another dog? And they went off and
they just went within five ten minutes. Oh now they
(05:46):
just haven't come back, and it's just the worry of
them peastering neighboring stock. Really that's quite scary.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
We'll come back, They will come back.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
I'm just trying to visualize it. Big Jake had been
told by everyone, just literally visualize it, and they'll like,
you know what you do with the Yeah, the park theory.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
What do you call it? The parking theory?
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Yeah, yeah, the parking theory. So quite a few people like, honestly,
it works. You visualize them exactly where they're running through
and so BJ was like sitting on his quad on
this neighboring block visualizing and then literally he was like
I tried it and it worked straight away, and they
what he saw them. So this was the painful part.
(06:29):
He saw them like on this property nearby, and so
he went over and that they wouldn't call. They didn't
come to him. So he saw them as he was visualizing.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
I reckon. Part of it is like they know they've
been naughty and they do.
Speaker 4 (06:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Now they're like, shit, we can't go home. Yeah, anyway,
onwards it if you see a chocolate lab by chance
and a GSPT anyway, they'll come back.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
I'm sorry, they will come back. They will come back.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
But anyway, coming up in the podcast, we had a
fun show today. We talked about stingy people not people
to daub either yourself in or a friend in.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
We gave my lips reading ability a go because I
feel like I'm pretty good at reading lips. So you'll
find out how that went down.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
A bittle of the hurts had a twist inspired by
the US election, and we talked what did you find
in the ben All of that and more were coming up.
Speaker 5 (07:30):
Enjoy many podcast.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
My page. How are you? Hi, Well, how are you good?
Thank you? Now the reason awkward, this is the reason,
the reason I asked this question is just before the show,
I heard that there was ten percent off at Chemishehouse.
Now it's not a plug, No, it's not.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
He literally was like, guys, I've got to run off
to Chemishehouse. There's a special little.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Well you know me. I'm in my athletic era and
so I'm doing protein powder and electrolytes and we've run
out of electrolytes today. So I thought I need to
go and get some. They sell them at chemis Wee House.
Tempac off. I'll go down and I'll get the sale, go.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
Get your musashi musashi.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
So I just love saying that word. It's a great
word to say. So I hid down, I get the electrolytes,
temping off, go to the counter and the lady says, hi,
how are you? And I said good? Thanks, and I
said how are you? And she said I'm great, Thank
you so much for asking. And then it was just
(08:35):
caught me off guard because it was such a you
like it was just not the expect the response I
was expecting from someone working behind the counter.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
You're just saying, oh, good, thanks, and then that will
be getting that and then you get on with your
your by today.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
And then I left the store and I was thinking
about it on the walk back to work, and I thought, man,
we really do just ask that question with little to
no kia at all for how the person actually is,
don't we.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
How are you? You don't expect them to give you
a full blown monologue. Imagine what their internal emotions are.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
Imagine if I went into chemists warehouse and said to
Judith behind the counter, how are you? And she said,
I've had a hell of a day. You wouldn't believe it.
Missed the bus, got like to work, I forgot my lunch,
you know, and just chat himself told me all of
these things about her day. And I went, Judith, I
don't care. I just wanted a good thanks.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
But if you are going to ask the question, you
have to be prepared to get the full response.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
You have to be prepared for it. But are we
prepared for it? I think we're walking around and blissful
ignorance that we'll ever get the full response. I'm not
expecting anyone to be honest with me, are you?
Speaker 1 (09:48):
I love it. I love it when someone just out
of the blue starts actually offline and going to be honest,
the day could have been better. A friendly have a
moment a friend.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Sure, if I asked you how are you and you
gave me a genuine response, I would expect that because
you and I in each other's lives, and when I
ask you, I'm genuinely care. No offense to Judith at
kimus Weehouse, and I've made her name up. Her name
was not Judath, but no offense to her. I don't
care about what her day has been.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
I'm gonna make you for really, really bad for a seconds.
You might be the only person who is engaged in
a proper conversation with Judah for the last three days.
Everyone else has come up and said hi bye. You
may have been the first person who cheeked in with
her to see how she truly was, and she felt
(10:40):
that sincerity in your boy.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
It was a lovely, lovely response. But it just made
me realize we do ask the question with little to
no thought as to what someone might actually say back
to us.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
So I think this is a friendly reminder. If you
are feeling like it's bottled up.
Speaker 2 (10:56):
Get it out, Get it out out up.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
To the next media at the counter, tell ask how
you truly.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
Get it out? But a good reminder of everyone else
be prepared when you ask the question, you might get
the response.
Speaker 5 (11:07):
Many in the podcast.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
We've talked about this a bit on the show, about
how much our husbands feel like they've got great radio
content ideas.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
I've got to be careful what I say because I
think my husband's currently in the car listening to the show,
which is a rarity. But yes, they both have got
quite big for their boats, and they think that when
it comes to content, they reign supreme.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
The annoying thing is they often are help and do.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
It's because I've got that outside, fresh perspective.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
I think that's true. We're living at day in, day out.
Oh my god, we can't be jog joke joke joke
joke all the time. It's exhausting being that's funny. God,
it's hard. So it is nice to get an outside
perspective or a couple of ideas from elsewhere. And my
(12:01):
husband went to an event last night for the Melbourne
Cup and he came home and he went, I've got
a great yarn for the radio is it a good Ryan?
Speaker 1 (12:14):
Do you reckon? It sounded a bit more lady than Ryan. Yeah,
but he's got kite, like I want to say, a
christ Church voice, Christ for Christ, so I can say that.
But he's got a little bit of punts in there.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
He grew he grew up on a farm, Thank you
very much. He will be horrified to hear that.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
He's got tons of ladiness. He's not one hundred percent.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
Yeah, nobody is quite his fancy. He's a fancy pants
farmer boy, you know. But he came on. He said,
I've got a great arm for the radio. He said,
I met this guy. He said, guess how much is powerbillism?
And I went, this is not, first of all, not
this is not ringing great radio content alarm bells in
(13:04):
my head? How much was your bill?
Speaker 6 (13:07):
This man?
Speaker 2 (13:08):
But I entertained a human as you do with your
husband from time to time, you know, go on, honey,
what is it? Tell me?
Speaker 1 (13:15):
Yes, he'd had a couple of lemonades after the race,
one or two. He just thought everything was a bit
more hilarious.
Speaker 2 (13:21):
No, but he said, guess how much? And I said,
I don't know, Like I thought, well, it's obviously impressive.
Either it's really big or really low. So I took
a stab at the dark and I thought, I said,
I don't know, seventy bucks he said lower. I said
fifty bucks lower. I said, well, how just put me
(13:41):
out of my misery. How much was this guy's monthly powerful?
He said eighteen dollars a month.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
No, that's not possible in the age how.
Speaker 2 (13:52):
And then I thought, well, actually that is very impressive.
Eighteen dollars. I don't even want to tell you how
much ours is a month. No, it's higher than eighteen.
I'll tell you that.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
Much, four hundred and fifteen.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Now lower than that, but higher than eighteen. Let's stop
it me. But I thought, wow, that is impressive, and
he goes. This guy is, admittedly, like on his own accord,
very stingy with power, like everything's turned off. He's walking
around in darkness half the time. He said, it drives
his wife crazy. I said, he has a wife. I
(14:26):
just assumed he was like a single bachelor who was
living this life with eighteen dollars a month power. He said, no, no, no,
he's got a wife. And the wife's furious because every
light has to be switched off every switches off, and
I thought that is crazy eighteen dollars a month. But
it maybe he must just.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
Wear like seven layers of clothing through winter.
Speaker 2 (14:47):
I live in the South Island. Oh my god, the
not on the tropics of the far North.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
It's impossible. Seja's Auntie, she keeps. She claims that she
keeps her tiny I'm warm by lighting tea like candles
and putting no she does doesn't where she goes. You
wouldn't believe the heat that it emits. I'm like, no,
there's one thing. There's a fire hesits. You are not
getting sufficient age from a tea.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
Like candles, aren't even giving you like light alone heat?
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Should we talk stingy people? Emma, you can dub yourself
and or dob someone else in how stingy are you?
Or someone you know?
Speaker 5 (15:33):
Mary J. May and PJ the podcast The Head?
Speaker 2 (15:38):
Sorry, can I just can I sidetrack with a funny
little story here. We once asked my mum, who's married
to my dad, Steve's very like love my dad, but
very like plain white man. We asked mom what her
hall past celebrity hall passed words once and she said
Denzel Washington, And we said mom, that is like the
(15:58):
furthest from my dad. You could possibly keep watch out
do you?
Speaker 1 (16:06):
So comes to town? We want to know are you
stingy or someone you know? Ohe hundred the hats dob
n the stinger and we could be sort of go
out with tickets gladiated two Kylie, and one of two
is joining us, kid, I, Kylie, Hi, are you good?
Speaker 2 (16:25):
Now? Is this you? Are you the stingy person or
is someone in your life stingy?
Speaker 3 (16:30):
No?
Speaker 4 (16:31):
It's a that why is an awkward conversation? So my
husband's a farm in a journey head is having some
farm issues and talking to the boss's son and he's like,
you know, they don't like spending money. They're old. They
don't want to spend money if they don't see initially
getting returned. And then the son was like, well, we
(16:52):
are talking about people that used to hang their tea
bags on the washing line when I was a child
growing up. And this is like a thirty five year
old child, so like where adults now thirty five? And yeah,
they hung their wash their tea bags on the washing
line to reuse them. I've never even heard of that myself,
So I mean it's since.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
But how much potency do they lose each time you
hang them out?
Speaker 4 (17:15):
I don't know. But it's not even worse like I mean,
I'm sure its.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
Like for not even Kylie. You could get you could
get a pack of like two hundred and fifty T bags,
I swear to God for like five dollars that were
like two cents a bag.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
I just love coming over and like, no, no, not
the washing hour. It's just just tea bags from the
you know how the universal symbol of when people hang
shoes up outside the tea bag.
Speaker 2 (17:43):
Tea bag means you're stingy. T bag means you stinch.
Speaker 1 (17:46):
Gray Sie, welcome to the show.
Speaker 7 (17:49):
Hello, So my mega strnge.
Speaker 2 (17:53):
Okay, why what does she do?
Speaker 7 (17:55):
So when we were kids, our family dog he was
getting to be sex. My mom were like took him
to the vet right and they said he's got heart failure.
He's going to need this medication. He's going to need
to come in like every couple of weeks, et cetera.
My mum, being as sent was like absolutely not not
paying that much for his heart medication. She's a doctor,
(18:16):
so she was like, okay, So she prescribed our dad
heart medication and gave it to the dog. And when
this was the nineties, right, so the pharmacists actually like
knew our family and everything, and when we meet to
pick up the prescription, they were like, Oh, my gosh,
is your father Okay he's so young and we were like, oh,
he's doing really well. He lived for like another ten years.
Speaker 2 (18:40):
The dog lived for another teen years, so.
Speaker 1 (18:43):
Sure did Yeah, heart medication for humans. Surely would said
it should be a bit different for a dog, wouldn't it.
Speaker 7 (18:51):
I know, And this is before like Google was very popular.
Speaker 6 (18:54):
I'm like, how did you know?
Speaker 4 (18:55):
Was a trial and.
Speaker 2 (18:56):
Era like she was like no, I just was really really.
Speaker 7 (19:02):
She still treats all our pets because she'll be like,
I'll just give him this. I'm like, I'm actually just
gonna play the sixty dollars an actual animal doctor.
Speaker 1 (19:13):
Gray. See, you're going to see Paul mescal Pedro, Pascal
and Denzel Washington and Cinema's next week. We've got tickets
to go see Gladdy out.
Speaker 2 (19:22):
Of Toe you.
Speaker 7 (19:23):
Oh my gosh, I might take my mom because she
won't pay for it.
Speaker 5 (19:30):
Mary and PJ. Mary and PJ the podcast The Heads
Battle of the Heads.
Speaker 1 (19:41):
Alrighty battle of the heads if you don't have those works.
Every week we are given an artist, Emry and I
have to come to the table with what we believe
is the artist's best track. But sometimes we're cookie and
we think, oh, how can we incorporate bettle of the
hits with actual news, newsy things going on? Or you know,
how can we make this actually top cool and relevant.
So today, I don't know if you've heard, there's a
(20:02):
small little election going on over the United States. I
was there and we thought we could paytribute to the
States and do an Americana thing. So think tracks with
America in it. Think the quintessential American song. Do you
want to go first?
Speaker 2 (20:22):
I can definitely go first. I am taking you back
to the year two thousand and eight. This is an
iconic track that just has this beautiful beat, really feel
good song. As soon as the as soon as the
HOWK starts, you'll just want to get up and dance.
(20:46):
It's so deeply woven into the two thousand soundtrack, but
it really really resonates. It topped the charts here and
in the UK it reached number nine on the Billboard
Hot one hundred. It had so much success all around
the world and you were going to love Love Love
my peck for Battle of the Hits Americana Edition. It
(21:09):
is the one and only American Boy.
Speaker 5 (21:14):
That's a girls, take me to your Love to see.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
A great song. I was sinking it was either that
or American idiot Green Dave. It doesn't match up with
the year. Yeah, okay, I hear your American Boy and
I Raise You, a track that does not feature America
in the title, but it is a quintessential American theme,
came out in nineteen seventy four and the song has
(21:47):
actually inspired a number of other artists, including Kid Rocks
All Summer Long You've Got You hear a sample of
the song in that In two thousand and two, the
song inspired the title and plot of the film Sweet
Home Alabama from Leonard's Gonna My track has to be
yours truly Sweet Home Alabama. Well, they both got They're
(22:21):
both very different.
Speaker 2 (22:23):
Very different tracks this week, which is exciting, really exciting
to go to.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
Sweet Home Alabama because whenever I watched that, I feel
like I'm recent with a spoon and I've gone from
the city fallen in love with the country guy. Anyway,
This is where you need to vote, Team Matty or
Team PJ. Start casting your vote. Eight hundred of the hits.
Do you want Sweet Home Alabama? Or Estelle and Kanye
Wests American Boy?
Speaker 5 (22:50):
Maddy and PJ. Mady and PJ. The podcast The Heads
twenty one past four Battles.
Speaker 2 (22:58):
Of the Heads. Didn't want to save the time anyway?
Speaker 1 (23:05):
All right? At his time for Battle of the Hurts
again and this week inspired by what's happening in the
States today. Of course it is election day. We've decided
to go for an Americana fame. Mattie, what did you
bring to the table?
Speaker 2 (23:18):
I went with the absolute banger that is Estelle and
Kanye West's American Boy.
Speaker 5 (23:27):
It's as Love Tell Me to your Gun Love to.
Speaker 1 (23:31):
See and I took her back a few decades to
nineteen seventy four. Leonard skinnered Sweet Home Alabama producer Sira.
Can we have a check out with the school board? Please?
How are we currently going in the year twenty twenty four?
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Who is in the front?
Speaker 2 (23:54):
YEP, pretty sure it's up to date this time. We're
sitting on seventeen all seventeen? Allow?
Speaker 1 (24:03):
All right? So how this week's is the best of three.
You cast your vote with team METI or PJ on
our eight hundred the Hits and the winner we will
play out in its entirety. Bridget is joining us first
high bridget.
Speaker 2 (24:18):
Bridge hit us. Who do you want to vote for?
For betterle of the hets?
Speaker 8 (24:23):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (24:23):
I'm sorry many, go go Page.
Speaker 2 (24:25):
It's cliffic.
Speaker 1 (24:26):
Yeah, thank you, Bridgete, Thank you very much. All right,
Le's go to Sonya and christ Church. Oh eight hundred
the hets? Hi, Sonia, how are you hi? Good?
Speaker 5 (24:35):
Things are very well?
Speaker 1 (24:39):
A clear winner in your mind? Who would you like
to vote for?
Speaker 6 (24:42):
Mady?
Speaker 5 (24:43):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (24:45):
Okay, thank you, son I truly was thinking this could
be a whitewash this week for you. Page.
Speaker 1 (24:51):
Well, this just got exciting, so one of pace. All right, Sandy,
don't want to put the pressure on you, but the
pressure is on you because.
Speaker 4 (25:00):
I know I might be getting a new spring.
Speaker 2 (25:04):
And in the enemy at the same time. Indeed, it's
high stakes.
Speaker 1 (25:08):
Wisely peck wisely. Okay, who do you want to vote for?
Speaker 4 (25:13):
Sorry, but I'm going for PG.
Speaker 2 (25:19):
It's okay.
Speaker 1 (25:21):
She was trying to get me there.
Speaker 2 (25:22):
She was trying to for whatever. It's a good one.
It's a good.
Speaker 8 (25:25):
One, winner of Americana Battle of the Hts Today turn
it up from nineteen seventy four, Let it Skidders at
his Sweet Home, Alabama on the Hurts.
Speaker 5 (25:39):
Maddy and PJ medi and PJ the podcast The Heads.
Speaker 1 (25:44):
Now, you very confidently came to me yesterday met and
You're like, do you know I've discovered this something? I'm
really good at it? And there is lepreading.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
Well, what I realized is that when I'm having a deeper,
meaningful conversation with someone, rather than looking them in the eyes,
when I'm having the conversation, I watched their lips and
I don't know, I fight into it. It's creepy, isn't it.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
My best rendered that she used to always steer at
my lips and I didn't know if it was just
me she thought I had luscious lips, or if she
did it to everyone, but she felt kind of special.
Speaker 2 (26:17):
Yeah, I think it's just my way of tracking the conversation,
like I'm watching the ellipse move and I'm following along
with the story they're telling or that interesting little thing
talking about. And then it got me thinking, this is
my super bad am I really good at reading lips?
Because that's all I do is I look at people's
lips when I'm talking to them.
Speaker 1 (26:35):
Yeah, you look at them when you can actually hear
words coming out of the mouth. But what about if
it's on the other side of the glass, or you know,
you can't actually hear what they're saying. How do you
go there?
Speaker 2 (26:46):
Well? I don't know because I haven't even put it
to the tears.
Speaker 1 (26:50):
Okay, well that's what I want to do this afternoon.
You've got some headphones with some rain sounds ready to go. Yep,
you're going to take off your radio headphones so you're
not gonna be a to hear me. Okay. Now I'm
going to say some phrases to you, and you have
to tell me what you think I'm saying. Okay, okay,
so take your headphones off now, but the rain sounds
(27:12):
in and I'll read you my first sentence.
Speaker 2 (27:14):
Okay, are you ready? The rain sounds are n.
Speaker 1 (27:18):
Okay, Okay, here we go. I can't find my keys.
Speaker 2 (27:24):
Oh my god, Oh no, I'm going to fall short
at the first hood. Wait can you start that again?
Speaker 1 (27:30):
I can't find my keys.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
I love your cookies. Say that one more time.
Speaker 1 (27:39):
I can't find my keys.
Speaker 2 (27:42):
I can't hear what you're talking about. Am I clothes?
Speaker 1 (27:51):
I can't find my keys? Okay, do you want to
go on to the next one? Next one?
Speaker 2 (27:56):
Okay, okay, we're going number two.
Speaker 1 (27:58):
Yeah. I like your sh shows.
Speaker 2 (28:03):
I am a turtle. Is it one more time? I
like your shoes, I like you, you like me?
Speaker 3 (28:14):
Close?
Speaker 1 (28:16):
I like your shows.
Speaker 2 (28:19):
Okay, next one, I like your noodle. Okay, oh god,
this is going well. Another three, number three, number three,
and final one.
Speaker 1 (28:30):
I have a hairy hedgehog in my bathroom.
Speaker 2 (28:34):
I need to go to the bathroom.
Speaker 1 (28:37):
Close. I have a hairy hedgehog in my bathroom.
Speaker 2 (28:43):
I never had say it one more time.
Speaker 1 (28:48):
You're just tuning in right now. I have a hairy
hedgehog and my bathroom.
Speaker 2 (28:55):
I never looked at you in the bathroom. Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (28:59):
But okay, okay, so if you're just turning in now.
We were putting to the teas Many's reading skills. He
thought it'd be good.
Speaker 2 (29:10):
Mate. You got zero out of even close to any
of them.
Speaker 1 (29:14):
No, that last one was I have a hairy hudgehog
in my bathroom, bathroom, everything else. No, the first one was,
I can't find my keys. The segam was I like,
your shoes were.
Speaker 5 (29:32):
Many podcast, we're.
Speaker 1 (29:37):
Gonna ask the question, what did you find in the rubbish?
I have a story to tell. Something epen to me
this morning as I was lighting our fire, because yes,
I know that summer is fast approaching, but we still
need to light the fire to get hot water in
our house. We're working on it. We're getting a hot
we're getting a little guess system soon it's coming. Anyway,
(29:59):
I was carry on.
Speaker 2 (30:01):
To say, I do love like I love your house.
I loved visiting.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
It's just hot in summer.
Speaker 2 (30:06):
Every day.
Speaker 1 (30:10):
You get like a couple of days grace. But now
we're working on it. We'll get it sorted. But we
have like a little drawer where we've got papers and
like if there's a paper bag, we'll put it in there.
Just little things to like start the fire with. So
you've got a bit of kindling and a bit of
paper and stuff. And I was working my way through it,
and I was just trying to find a bit of
paper to screw up and get the fire going. And
(30:33):
then all of a sudden I see a fresh envelope
and I'm like, oh, hang on, it's not been opened.
Hang on that scissor dress to Polly and bj hang
on what do we have here? And certainly like my
(30:53):
stomach sunk because I was like, oh, God, tell me,
this wasn't like a fine or something. I still document
that I'm so per late to pay. But no, it
was actually a beautifully handwritten letter, well handwritten envelope. I
open it and it's a wedding floor. It was a boucher.
(31:20):
And I don't know how long this has been sitting here,
but it must have been quite some time, because I
don't know if you remember we got married in March.
Oh I remember, yeah, And so all I can think
is that it somehow got tossed in the air. It
was one hundred and fifty dollars to spend at a
nice getaway, to go away, like to a canopy camping
(31:43):
retreat to or wherever we want, like a little badge.
So it was like Christmas this morning when I opened
this up, I just found this belated, well not intentionally,
but belated with inger and.
Speaker 2 (31:56):
You nearly let it on fire.
Speaker 1 (31:57):
I nearly let it on fire. Can you imagine? So
I should actually probably go on rummage through that draw
a little bit, but I thought what a win to
start the day is more than just five bucks. It
was one hundred and fifty dollars voucher for accommodation.
Speaker 2 (32:14):
Can I say you wouldn't normally be that lucky?
Speaker 1 (32:18):
You know, specifically, normally that thing would be tossed in
the fire, and I'd only think afterwards talking about what
was that? I think you'd me thinking though, oh, eight
hundred heads, what did you find in the rubbish? Because
as they say, one man's trash is another man's treasure.
Maybe you know it was a similar situation to me,
(32:41):
and it was after the fact, and you went through
your bin and you actually found something quite important. Maybe
you'd lost it or you actually found it in a
bin and you're a bit of a pro bin diver
and you you got some goodies.
Speaker 2 (32:54):
A dumpster diver.
Speaker 1 (32:56):
A dumpster diver. Look, we're not going to shame you. You
can stand anonymous. But what did you find and the
rubbish is the question we want to ask this evening.
You can text through four four eight seven to the podcast.
What did you find and the rubbish is the question
we're asking this afternoon. I was going through our drawer
(33:19):
of paper and like old paper bags, and stuff this
morning to light the fire when all of a sudden
I came across quite a heavy on the life and
I opened it up. Turns out it was a wedding
present that we must have been gifted back in March,
and I just found it today and it was one
hundred and fifty dollars towards accommodation?
Speaker 2 (33:40):
Did you have to send?
Speaker 5 (33:41):
So?
Speaker 2 (33:41):
Did you have to send off an awkward thank you
so much for the gift message today?
Speaker 1 (33:47):
Well, because we are doing a thank you thank you
still to come out, I'm going to put it in
the message so it'll be nicely with a nice fancy card.
Speaker 2 (34:00):
Those cards that.
Speaker 1 (34:03):
I need to send the text. I know I need
to send the.
Speaker 2 (34:05):
Text that's not going to happen.
Speaker 1 (34:08):
We want to know, so what did you find in
the bin? They say, one man's trash is another man's treasure,
and none is joining us high and on.
Speaker 2 (34:20):
Oh hey there, good, how are you good? Things? What'd
you find?
Speaker 6 (34:25):
This has been going dumpster diving and he's found some
old worlders and.
Speaker 1 (34:33):
Stuff like that.
Speaker 6 (34:34):
But the other night he came home with like one
hundred and fifty regulators that go on the wilders.
Speaker 1 (34:41):
What so hang on talk to me, like, really done
this down? For me? What's a regulator is like a tool.
Speaker 6 (34:47):
It's something that controls the worlders.
Speaker 1 (34:49):
Like but I'm like, oh.
Speaker 2 (34:53):
God, what do you do with one hundred and fifty?
Speaker 7 (34:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (34:58):
And these worlders are like ancient? But he thinks he's
onto a gold mine?
Speaker 5 (35:03):
Question?
Speaker 1 (35:03):
And nine is that just through one bin? Or is
this really going across town? He's gone hard and there's
just one bin? Oh my, I mean look that head
off to you have you're bold enough to get in there,
go for it. Jor Dane is joining us. Get a Jordaane?
How are you?
Speaker 6 (35:22):
Hi? Not too bad?
Speaker 1 (35:23):
What was found in the bin?
Speaker 6 (35:25):
Well, I was working one day and we had a
big skipp in because everyone was clearing stuff out.
Speaker 4 (35:31):
And I saw my bass drive up and.
Speaker 7 (35:33):
Start emptying stuff from his car out into this bin.
Speaker 4 (35:37):
And I'm on the second story and I.
Speaker 6 (35:38):
Was like and I yell at him, opened the window
and I was like, hey, what are god there?
Speaker 5 (35:43):
And he looked at me as look what is that?
Speaker 4 (35:45):
And it was like a really old antique globe and.
Speaker 7 (35:49):
Don't throw that out.
Speaker 1 (35:50):
I'll come and get it.
Speaker 7 (35:50):
And I ran downstairs and I now ten years later.
Speaker 5 (35:54):
Still have this like old globe that hung.
Speaker 7 (35:57):
Around in the office for a while and people were
so annoyed.
Speaker 6 (36:00):
Should I take that globe home?
Speaker 4 (36:01):
I was saying, And then I finally brought it home
because everyone was complaining. And whenever people come over, they're
just like, man, it's such a cool globe.
Speaker 3 (36:11):
Man.
Speaker 1 (36:12):
I got a friend this six store called the Dump.
Speaker 7 (36:17):
Yeah exactly.
Speaker 4 (36:18):
I don't really tell the Actually I'm an honest, pious
and I was like, oh my god, put in the pan.
Speaker 1 (36:22):
I was like, oh, that.
Speaker 4 (36:25):
Behind it.
Speaker 5 (36:29):
Maddy and PJ. Maddy and PJ, the podcast, The Heads,
the People's Poll, the.
Speaker 3 (36:35):
People's Poll, everybody comes together.
Speaker 1 (36:37):
It's the People's Poll another day and other people's pole
and you can always weigh in on our Instagram page,
The Heads Drive with Matti and PJ.
Speaker 2 (36:46):
So I've been invited to like a friend's birthday dinner
in next month, like in December, so it's coming up.
I've got a month to go and this friend's birthday
dinner is coming up, and yeah, it's nice, it is nice,
and I'm excited about it. But then I just got
invited to another event on the same night, and I
(37:12):
kind of want to do the other event.
Speaker 1 (37:15):
Maybe don't say this out large more. What's the other review?
Speaker 2 (37:22):
It's like just another friend.
Speaker 1 (37:24):
Catch up, but you've already agreed to go to the dinner.
Speaker 2 (37:27):
But I've already agreed to go to the dinner.
Speaker 1 (37:30):
So it's sealed, it's done.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
I've got a month to go until this dinner though,
So my quest I'm wondering, is it okay to cancel, No,
the dinner I've already agreed to, No, to go to
the planes that I'd rather do. No.
Speaker 1 (37:48):
I think if it was okay, there might be a
few scenarios will be okay. Maybe there's like a once
in a lifetime opportunity. You get flown to London, you're
sitting down, you're interviewing, uh Julia Roberts, right, you know
it's a once in a lifetime interview. Then I think
that would be acceptable. But if it's just to go
to another friend's catch up, absolutely not. You cannot just say, hey,
(38:12):
I'm just going to cancel. Why because you've already committed.
Speaker 2 (38:16):
Yeah, but life's for living, Like, you shouldn't do things
you don't want to do just because you've already well,
you shouldn't have committed.
Speaker 1 (38:23):
Then that's fine. I agree, don't do things you don't
want to do, but don't be the yes man. And
then it's you just like you cannot just go all
I've said yes, but I want to say no that
I would say there is behavior. So you're just doing
(38:43):
that hapothetically, right.
Speaker 2 (38:45):
Yea, yea yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah. I'm not.
I'm not already I'm not already thinking of excuses for
to get out of the birthday dinner.
Speaker 1 (38:57):
Okay. The People's Poll today is pretty straight up. Is
it okay to cancel a plan if a better plan
comes along? I'm gonna firmly hold my ground here and
say no, you can't. It's road unless it's a once
in a lifetime opportunity that perhaps your friends can understand.
But if you're just switching it out to go to
a better friend, gig, no, it's not okay, Diggs, your
(39:23):
thoughts right now? Is acceptable behavior to four four eight seven.
We'll read the results out next.
Speaker 5 (39:31):
Maddy and PG Many and PJ. The podcast.
Speaker 3 (39:36):
That's the People's Poll, the People's Pole. Everybody comes together.
It's the People's Poll.
Speaker 1 (39:43):
And the meantime, more pressing issues, many many you have
been ganged up on on the dicks machine.
Speaker 2 (39:52):
Look, I knew the answer. I knew what the answer was.
I'm not this, I'm really not there out of a friend,
but I just you're curious. Next month, I've got a
birthday party to go to and some friends of mine
just misses me who I don't see very often. That's
some context. And they invited me to another event, and
(40:14):
I thought it would be really nice to go and
see those friends. But I have already said yes to
this birthday party. Is it okay to cancel plans with
one friend to go and hang out with another friend?
Speaker 1 (40:24):
Okay, you didn't say that in the first part, that
you don't see these friends as much. Now I'm feeling
a little bit more empathy for you. Someone did say,
can't you just do both on one night? Close? Could you?
Speaker 2 (40:35):
Eventually?
Speaker 6 (40:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (40:38):
I could, but I could try and do that.
Speaker 1 (40:42):
Other people have said no, never, don't be flaky.
Speaker 5 (40:44):
No.
Speaker 1 (40:45):
You said yes, it's like a handshake flaky No, Mady, no,
and no much sums it up on the text machine.
Speaker 2 (40:54):
Yeah, someone said you cannot do that. We call that
a bob, a better off a bill.
Speaker 1 (41:01):
I thought it was babe on board that was the
code word for a hottie on the plane.
Speaker 2 (41:04):
Oh yes, it was too for where you use that,
it's true.
Speaker 1 (41:08):
So it's the overall percentage.
Speaker 2 (41:10):
So in the text machine it is an overwhelming no.
Everyone said you cannot do that, I will say. In
the in the Instagram pole, it's a lot closer. Fifty
seven percent of people say no, you cannot cancel plants
if a better one comes along. Forty percent, though, said
it's okay to do it. I don't know. Life is
(41:31):
short and you've got to do it.
Speaker 1 (41:33):
Makes you be kind along the way, that's all I'll say.
Speaker 5 (41:40):
Maddy and PJ. Mady and Pj the podcast The Heads
The Hits Drive with medi and PJ thanks to chimis
Wee House the Real House of Fragrances on that. Okay,
and it's time for the pododcast. Big day for one
of us tomorrow receiving a treatment for the first time.
We can talk about this on the podcast. We won't
go into like too much detail.
Speaker 2 (00:21):
But yeah, I think we can. I'm getting a laser treatment.
Speaker 1 (00:26):
On your face or eyes.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Lower, you taste lower.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Steel, fluoty, your snails.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Trou lower than that, you're Willie John John John. I'm
getting laser. Well, I'm getting I'm having an appointment to
actually make sure that i can get laser. Oh okay,
but but if as long as I can, I'm getting
it done tomorrow, like first treatment tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
I've had quite a bit of laser in the past.
Speaker 2 (01:04):
Say I've got a shave before.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Yeah, that was the part I didn't like about it. It
feels counterproductive. But you do have to do.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
It fully shave, Yeah, I think so.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
I would always forget and I got quite close like
my therapy made therapist she was amazing. This is a
Melbourne and she would actually do the shave before.
Speaker 2 (01:30):
Okay, Well I'm not I've never met this person.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Yeah, so I definitely do it. You want to be
on a closely well for that to be okay.
Speaker 2 (01:40):
Like just clip like my clippers that I would normally
use or I can't remember.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
Hang on, how much do you need to shave? Do
you need to shave before a laser treatment? Hang on?
It may sound a little strange, but you do shave
the area you're getting laser treated to three days prior
to your first.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
Oh no, going boy, I'm just gonna.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Do I'm gonna be fine, I think I Yeah, I
mean she did it right then there, right before the tree.
Don't shave on the debut sessions. Of course, you're going
to be a little more sensitive, right, so you just
might back around to a little rest.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
I'll do it tonight.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
I'm an.
Speaker 2 (02:25):
Is it gonna hurt?
Speaker 1 (02:27):
I always thought the nurse was the least painful mm
hmm yep. Okay, but let me know how you go,
because pain is relative.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
I've got i've got a high pain three shoulders. Well,
i've got a low pain.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
Three shold you mean you feel pain quite easily.
Speaker 2 (02:49):
Very easily. Yeah, that's a low I went once we
went to like a time as Susan. He was like,
he said to me, oh, you're very weak, because I
was like wincing and pain while he was massaging me.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Oh you're very weak, but you're like, no, it's still amazing.
It's so good, So good luck. I'm excited for you.
I can't get laser right now because I'm girl and
a child.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
How are you feeling?
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Feeling pretty good? I think I'm like this. The second
trime myster is the sweet spot. So the first one sucks.
It's probably the worst when you're tired, and second stuff
seecond one sweet. The third one your body is just
so ky v u and yeah, everything swells off. And
so I'm just trying to make use of the golden days.
Speaker 2 (03:42):
And have you guys landed on what you're going to
Last time we talked about it, you're like you weren't
sure whither you were going to find out what you're
having or not?
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Ah, ask Beige and he'll say, no, I'm still tempered. Yeah,
well I'm still gonna like timp It is so cute.
That will make you tin.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
You not like a not a car burnout or anything. No, No,
what would you doll, how would you do it? What
would what would you do?
Speaker 1 (04:12):
Just a cute little cake? Okay, No, I don't know,
Like I'm so torn. I think this surprise on the
day is pretty amazing, what with.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
Charlie, right, you didn't find out Charlie. Yeah? Did you think?
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Did you?
Speaker 2 (04:26):
Did you feel pretty confident it was a boy?
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Yeah? Yeah, but I thought he's sort of sort of
willy on it. But then hindsight, I think the willy
and the girl, I think it's like a little I
don't know, it all looks the same. At the beginning,
he was like, no, it's boy, but I just had
boy vibes and we were right, And I've got girl vibs, sister.
Speaker 2 (04:47):
I mean, you've got a fifty fifty chance to getting
it right exactly. I've got girl vibes this time as well,
have you? Yeah, although it also wouldn't surprise me if
you were a boy, mum, if.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
You just had my I would be classic boy mamma,
which I'd love. I'd love her boys, but I'd also
love a little girl a little. I want to have
the relationship that my mum and I have really tired.
She's like a sister to me. But anyway, I haven't
talked about on the podcast, but our dogs have gone,
so I haven't wanted to broadcast her. It's been so
(05:18):
fucking stressful. It's harding nearly three nights now.
Speaker 2 (05:22):
I don't know, like, I don't know what to do.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Oh, it's I'm too scared to talk about it because
it's happened a couple of times, and I'm just worried
people will think I'm negligent. It's our dog off with
the other dog. Which that was the number one era, Like,
FIG's fine. If she's home by herself, she's fine, but
which is with another dog? And they went off and
they just went within five ten minutes. Oh now they
(05:46):
just haven't come back, and it's just the worry of
them peastering neighboring stock. Really that's quite scary.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
We'll come back, They will come back.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
I'm just trying to visualize it. Big Jake had been
told by everyone, just literally visualize it, and they'll like,
you know what you do with the Yeah, the park theory.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
What do you call it? The parking theory?
Speaker 1 (06:09):
Yeah, yeah, the parking theory. So quite a few people like, honestly,
it works. You visualize them exactly where they're running through
and so BJ was like sitting on his quad on
this neighboring block visualizing and then literally he was like
I tried it and it worked straight away, and they
what he saw them. So this was the painful part.
(06:29):
He saw them like on this property nearby, and so
he went over and that they wouldn't call. They didn't
come to him. So he saw them as he was visualizing.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
I reckon. Part of it is like they know they've
been naughty and they do.
Speaker 4 (06:44):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
Now they're like, shit, we can't go home. Yeah, anyway,
onwards it if you see a chocolate lab by chance
and a GSPT anyway, they'll come back.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
I'm sorry, they will come back. They will come back.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
But anyway, coming up in the podcast, we had a
fun show today. We talked about stingy people not people
to daub either yourself in or a friend in.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
We gave my lips reading ability a go because I
feel like I'm pretty good at reading lips. So you'll
find out how that went down.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
A bittle of the hurts had a twist inspired by
the US election, and we talked what did you find
in the ben All of that and more were coming up.
Speaker 5 (07:30):
Enjoy many podcast.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
My page. How are you? Hi, Well, how are you good?
Thank you? Now the reason awkward, this is the reason,
the reason I asked this question is just before the show,
I heard that there was ten percent off at Chemishehouse.
Now it's not a plug, No, it's not.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
He literally was like, guys, I've got to run off
to Chemishehouse. There's a special little.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Well you know me. I'm in my athletic era and
so I'm doing protein powder and electrolytes and we've run
out of electrolytes today. So I thought I need to
go and get some. They sell them at chemis Wee House.
Tempac off. I'll go down and I'll get the sale, go.
Speaker 1 (08:12):
Get your musashi musashi.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
So I just love saying that word. It's a great
word to say. So I hid down, I get the electrolytes,
temping off, go to the counter and the lady says, hi,
how are you? And I said good? Thanks, and I
said how are you? And she said I'm great, Thank
you so much for asking. And then it was just
(08:35):
caught me off guard because it was such a you
like it was just not the expect the response I
was expecting from someone working behind the counter.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
You're just saying, oh, good, thanks, and then that will
be getting that and then you get on with your
your by today.
Speaker 2 (08:50):
And then I left the store and I was thinking
about it on the walk back to work, and I thought, man,
we really do just ask that question with little to
no kia at all for how the person actually is,
don't we.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
How are you? You don't expect them to give you
a full blown monologue. Imagine what their internal emotions are.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
Imagine if I went into chemists warehouse and said to
Judith behind the counter, how are you? And she said,
I've had a hell of a day. You wouldn't believe it.
Missed the bus, got like to work, I forgot my lunch,
you know, and just chat himself told me all of
these things about her day. And I went, Judith, I
don't care. I just wanted a good thanks.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
But if you are going to ask the question, you
have to be prepared to get the full response.
Speaker 2 (09:38):
You have to be prepared for it. But are we
prepared for it? I think we're walking around and blissful
ignorance that we'll ever get the full response. I'm not
expecting anyone to be honest with me, are you?
Speaker 1 (09:48):
I love it. I love it when someone just out
of the blue starts actually offline and going to be honest,
the day could have been better. A friendly have a
moment a friend.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Sure, if I asked you how are you and you
gave me a genuine response, I would expect that because
you and I in each other's lives, and when I
ask you, I'm genuinely care. No offense to Judith at
kimus Weehouse, and I've made her name up. Her name
was not Judath, but no offense to her. I don't
care about what her day has been.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
I'm gonna make you for really, really bad for a seconds.
You might be the only person who is engaged in
a proper conversation with Judah for the last three days.
Everyone else has come up and said hi bye. You
may have been the first person who cheeked in with
her to see how she truly was, and she felt
(10:40):
that sincerity in your boy.
Speaker 2 (10:41):
It was a lovely, lovely response. But it just made
me realize we do ask the question with little to
no thought as to what someone might actually say back
to us.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
So I think this is a friendly reminder. If you
are feeling like it's bottled up.
Speaker 2 (10:56):
Get it out, Get it out out up.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
To the next media at the counter, tell ask how
you truly.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
Get it out? But a good reminder of everyone else
be prepared when you ask the question, you might get
the response.
Speaker 5 (11:07):
Many in the podcast.
Speaker 2 (11:12):
We've talked about this a bit on the show, about
how much our husbands feel like they've got great radio
content ideas.
Speaker 1 (11:19):
I've got to be careful what I say because I
think my husband's currently in the car listening to the show,
which is a rarity. But yes, they both have got
quite big for their boats, and they think that when
it comes to content, they reign supreme.
Speaker 2 (11:33):
The annoying thing is they often are help and do.
Speaker 1 (11:37):
It's because I've got that outside, fresh perspective.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
I think that's true. We're living at day in, day out.
Oh my god, we can't be jog joke joke joke
joke all the time. It's exhausting being that's funny. God,
it's hard. So it is nice to get an outside
perspective or a couple of ideas from elsewhere. And my
(12:01):
husband went to an event last night for the Melbourne
Cup and he came home and he went, I've got
a great yarn for the radio is it a good Ryan?
Speaker 1 (12:14):
Do you reckon? It sounded a bit more lady than Ryan. Yeah,
but he's got kite, like I want to say, a
christ Church voice, Christ for Christ, so I can say that.
But he's got a little bit of punts in there.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
He grew he grew up on a farm, Thank you
very much. He will be horrified to hear that.
Speaker 1 (12:37):
He's got tons of ladiness. He's not one hundred percent.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
Yeah, nobody is quite his fancy. He's a fancy pants
farmer boy, you know. But he came on. He said,
I've got a great arm for the radio. He said,
I met this guy. He said, guess how much is powerbillism?
And I went, this is not, first of all, not
this is not ringing great radio content alarm bells in
(13:04):
my head? How much was your bill?
Speaker 6 (13:07):
This man?
Speaker 2 (13:08):
But I entertained a human as you do with your
husband from time to time, you know, go on, honey,
what is it? Tell me?
Speaker 1 (13:15):
Yes, he'd had a couple of lemonades after the race,
one or two. He just thought everything was a bit
more hilarious.
Speaker 2 (13:21):
No, but he said, guess how much? And I said,
I don't know, Like I thought, well, it's obviously impressive.
Either it's really big or really low. So I took
a stab at the dark and I thought, I said,
I don't know, seventy bucks he said lower. I said
fifty bucks lower. I said, well, how just put me
(13:41):
out of my misery. How much was this guy's monthly powerful?
He said eighteen dollars a month.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
No, that's not possible in the age how.
Speaker 2 (13:52):
And then I thought, well, actually that is very impressive.
Eighteen dollars. I don't even want to tell you how
much ours is a month. No, it's higher than eighteen.
I'll tell you that.
Speaker 1 (14:03):
Much, four hundred and fifteen.
Speaker 2 (14:04):
Now lower than that, but higher than eighteen. Let's stop
it me. But I thought, wow, that is impressive, and
he goes. This guy is, admittedly, like on his own accord,
very stingy with power, like everything's turned off. He's walking
around in darkness half the time. He said, it drives
his wife crazy. I said, he has a wife. I
(14:26):
just assumed he was like a single bachelor who was
living this life with eighteen dollars a month power. He said, no, no, no,
he's got a wife. And the wife's furious because every
light has to be switched off every switches off, and
I thought that is crazy eighteen dollars a month. But
it maybe he must just.
Speaker 1 (14:44):
Wear like seven layers of clothing through winter.
Speaker 2 (14:47):
I live in the South Island. Oh my god, the
not on the tropics of the far North.
Speaker 1 (14:54):
It's impossible. Seja's Auntie, she keeps. She claims that she
keeps her tiny I'm warm by lighting tea like candles
and putting no she does doesn't where she goes. You
wouldn't believe the heat that it emits. I'm like, no,
there's one thing. There's a fire hesits. You are not
getting sufficient age from a tea.
Speaker 2 (15:16):
Like candles, aren't even giving you like light alone heat?
Speaker 1 (15:21):
Should we talk stingy people? Emma, you can dub yourself
and or dob someone else in how stingy are you?
Or someone you know?
Speaker 5 (15:33):
Mary J. May and PJ the podcast The Head?
Speaker 2 (15:38):
Sorry, can I just can I sidetrack with a funny
little story here. We once asked my mum, who's married
to my dad, Steve's very like love my dad, but
very like plain white man. We asked mom what her
hall past celebrity hall passed words once and she said
Denzel Washington, And we said mom, that is like the
(15:58):
furthest from my dad. You could possibly keep watch out
do you?
Speaker 1 (16:06):
So comes to town? We want to know are you
stingy or someone you know? Ohe hundred the hats dob
n the stinger and we could be sort of go
out with tickets gladiated two Kylie, and one of two
is joining us, kid, I, Kylie, Hi, are you good?
Speaker 2 (16:25):
Now? Is this you? Are you the stingy person or
is someone in your life stingy?
Speaker 3 (16:30):
No?
Speaker 4 (16:31):
It's a that why is an awkward conversation? So my
husband's a farm in a journey head is having some
farm issues and talking to the boss's son and he's like,
you know, they don't like spending money. They're old. They
don't want to spend money if they don't see initially
getting returned. And then the son was like, well, we
(16:52):
are talking about people that used to hang their tea
bags on the washing line when I was a child
growing up. And this is like a thirty five year
old child, so like where adults now thirty five? And yeah,
they hung their wash their tea bags on the washing
line to reuse them. I've never even heard of that myself,
So I mean it's since.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
But how much potency do they lose each time you
hang them out?
Speaker 4 (17:15):
I don't know. But it's not even worse like I mean,
I'm sure its.
Speaker 2 (17:19):
Like for not even Kylie. You could get you could
get a pack of like two hundred and fifty T bags,
I swear to God for like five dollars that were
like two cents a bag.
Speaker 1 (17:33):
I just love coming over and like, no, no, not
the washing hour. It's just just tea bags from the
you know how the universal symbol of when people hang
shoes up outside the tea bag.
Speaker 2 (17:43):
Tea bag means you're stingy. T bag means you stinch.
Speaker 1 (17:46):
Gray Sie, welcome to the show.
Speaker 7 (17:49):
Hello, So my mega strnge.
Speaker 2 (17:53):
Okay, why what does she do?
Speaker 7 (17:55):
So when we were kids, our family dog he was
getting to be sex. My mom were like took him
to the vet right and they said he's got heart failure.
He's going to need this medication. He's going to need
to come in like every couple of weeks, et cetera.
My mum, being as sent was like absolutely not not
paying that much for his heart medication. She's a doctor,
(18:16):
so she was like, okay, So she prescribed our dad
heart medication and gave it to the dog. And when
this was the nineties, right, so the pharmacists actually like
knew our family and everything, and when we meet to
pick up the prescription, they were like, Oh, my gosh,
is your father Okay he's so young and we were like, oh,
he's doing really well. He lived for like another ten years.
Speaker 2 (18:40):
The dog lived for another teen years, so.
Speaker 1 (18:43):
Sure did Yeah, heart medication for humans. Surely would said
it should be a bit different for a dog, wouldn't it.
Speaker 7 (18:51):
I know, And this is before like Google was very popular.
Speaker 6 (18:54):
I'm like, how did you know?
Speaker 4 (18:55):
Was a trial and.
Speaker 2 (18:56):
Era like she was like no, I just was really really.
Speaker 7 (19:02):
She still treats all our pets because she'll be like,
I'll just give him this. I'm like, I'm actually just
gonna play the sixty dollars an actual animal doctor.
Speaker 1 (19:13):
Gray. See, you're going to see Paul mescal Pedro, Pascal
and Denzel Washington and Cinema's next week. We've got tickets
to go see Gladdy out.
Speaker 2 (19:22):
Of Toe you.
Speaker 7 (19:23):
Oh my gosh, I might take my mom because she
won't pay for it.
Speaker 5 (19:30):
Mary and PJ. Mary and PJ the podcast The Heads
Battle of the Heads.
Speaker 1 (19:41):
Alrighty battle of the heads if you don't have those works.
Every week we are given an artist, Emry and I
have to come to the table with what we believe
is the artist's best track. But sometimes we're cookie and
we think, oh, how can we incorporate bettle of the
hits with actual news, newsy things going on? Or you know,
how can we make this actually top cool and relevant.
So today, I don't know if you've heard, there's a
(20:02):
small little election going on over the United States. I
was there and we thought we could paytribute to the
States and do an Americana thing. So think tracks with
America in it. Think the quintessential American song. Do you
want to go first?
Speaker 2 (20:22):
I can definitely go first. I am taking you back
to the year two thousand and eight. This is an
iconic track that just has this beautiful beat, really feel
good song. As soon as the as soon as the
HOWK starts, you'll just want to get up and dance.
(20:46):
It's so deeply woven into the two thousand soundtrack, but
it really really resonates. It topped the charts here and
in the UK it reached number nine on the Billboard
Hot one hundred. It had so much success all around
the world and you were going to love Love Love
my peck for Battle of the Hits Americana Edition. It
(21:09):
is the one and only American Boy.
Speaker 5 (21:14):
That's a girls, take me to your Love to see.
Speaker 1 (21:23):
A great song. I was sinking it was either that
or American idiot Green Dave. It doesn't match up with
the year. Yeah, okay, I hear your American Boy and
I Raise You, a track that does not feature America
in the title, but it is a quintessential American theme,
came out in nineteen seventy four and the song has
(21:47):
actually inspired a number of other artists, including Kid Rocks
All Summer Long You've Got You hear a sample of
the song in that In two thousand and two, the
song inspired the title and plot of the film Sweet
Home Alabama from Leonard's Gonna My track has to be
yours truly Sweet Home Alabama. Well, they both got They're
(22:21):
both very different.
Speaker 2 (22:23):
Very different tracks this week, which is exciting, really exciting
to go to.
Speaker 1 (22:27):
Sweet Home Alabama because whenever I watched that, I feel
like I'm recent with a spoon and I've gone from
the city fallen in love with the country guy. Anyway,
This is where you need to vote, Team Matty or
Team PJ. Start casting your vote. Eight hundred of the hits.
Do you want Sweet Home Alabama? Or Estelle and Kanye
Wests American Boy?
Speaker 5 (22:50):
Maddy and PJ. Mady and PJ. The podcast The Heads
twenty one past four Battles.
Speaker 2 (22:58):
Of the Heads. Didn't want to save the time anyway?
Speaker 1 (23:05):
All right? At his time for Battle of the Hurts
again and this week inspired by what's happening in the
States today. Of course it is election day. We've decided
to go for an Americana fame. Mattie, what did you
bring to the table?
Speaker 2 (23:18):
I went with the absolute banger that is Estelle and
Kanye West's American Boy.
Speaker 5 (23:27):
It's as Love Tell Me to your Gun Love to.
Speaker 1 (23:31):
See and I took her back a few decades to
nineteen seventy four. Leonard skinnered Sweet Home Alabama producer Sira.
Can we have a check out with the school board? Please?
How are we currently going in the year twenty twenty four?
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Who is in the front?
Speaker 2 (23:54):
YEP, pretty sure it's up to date this time. We're
sitting on seventeen all seventeen? Allow?
Speaker 1 (24:03):
All right? So how this week's is the best of three.
You cast your vote with team METI or PJ on
our eight hundred the Hits and the winner we will
play out in its entirety. Bridget is joining us first
high bridget.
Speaker 2 (24:18):
Bridge hit us. Who do you want to vote for?
For betterle of the hets?
Speaker 8 (24:23):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (24:23):
I'm sorry many, go go Page.
Speaker 2 (24:25):
It's cliffic.
Speaker 1 (24:26):
Yeah, thank you, Bridgete, Thank you very much. All right,
Le's go to Sonya and christ Church. Oh eight hundred
the hets? Hi, Sonia, how are you hi? Good?
Speaker 5 (24:35):
Things are very well?
Speaker 1 (24:39):
A clear winner in your mind? Who would you like
to vote for?
Speaker 6 (24:42):
Mady?
Speaker 5 (24:43):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (24:45):
Okay, thank you, son I truly was thinking this could
be a whitewash this week for you. Page.
Speaker 1 (24:51):
Well, this just got exciting, so one of pace. All right, Sandy,
don't want to put the pressure on you, but the
pressure is on you because.
Speaker 4 (25:00):
I know I might be getting a new spring.
Speaker 2 (25:04):
And in the enemy at the same time. Indeed, it's
high stakes.
Speaker 1 (25:08):
Wisely peck wisely. Okay, who do you want to vote for?
Speaker 4 (25:13):
Sorry, but I'm going for PG.
Speaker 2 (25:19):
It's okay.
Speaker 1 (25:21):
She was trying to get me there.
Speaker 2 (25:22):
She was trying to for whatever. It's a good one.
It's a good.
Speaker 8 (25:25):
One, winner of Americana Battle of the Hts Today turn
it up from nineteen seventy four, Let it Skidders at
his Sweet Home, Alabama on the Hurts.
Speaker 5 (25:39):
Maddy and PJ medi and PJ the podcast The Heads.
Speaker 1 (25:44):
Now, you very confidently came to me yesterday met and
You're like, do you know I've discovered this something? I'm
really good at it? And there is lepreading.
Speaker 2 (25:54):
Well, what I realized is that when I'm having a deeper,
meaningful conversation with someone, rather than looking them in the eyes,
when I'm having the conversation, I watched their lips and
I don't know, I fight into it. It's creepy, isn't it.
Speaker 1 (26:09):
My best rendered that she used to always steer at
my lips and I didn't know if it was just
me she thought I had luscious lips, or if she
did it to everyone, but she felt kind of special.
Speaker 2 (26:17):
Yeah, I think it's just my way of tracking the conversation,
like I'm watching the ellipse move and I'm following along
with the story they're telling or that interesting little thing
talking about. And then it got me thinking, this is
my super bad am I really good at reading lips?
Because that's all I do is I look at people's
lips when I'm talking to them.
Speaker 1 (26:35):
Yeah, you look at them when you can actually hear
words coming out of the mouth. But what about if
it's on the other side of the glass, or you know,
you can't actually hear what they're saying. How do you
go there?
Speaker 2 (26:46):
Well? I don't know because I haven't even put it
to the tears.
Speaker 1 (26:50):
Okay, well that's what I want to do this afternoon.
You've got some headphones with some rain sounds ready to go. Yep,
you're going to take off your radio headphones so you're
not gonna be a to hear me. Okay. Now I'm
going to say some phrases to you, and you have
to tell me what you think I'm saying. Okay, okay,
so take your headphones off now, but the rain sounds
(27:12):
in and I'll read you my first sentence.
Speaker 2 (27:14):
Okay, are you ready? The rain sounds are n.
Speaker 1 (27:18):
Okay, Okay, here we go. I can't find my keys.
Speaker 2 (27:24):
Oh my god, Oh no, I'm going to fall short
at the first hood. Wait can you start that again?
Speaker 1 (27:30):
I can't find my keys.
Speaker 2 (27:33):
I love your cookies. Say that one more time.
Speaker 1 (27:39):
I can't find my keys.
Speaker 2 (27:42):
I can't hear what you're talking about. Am I clothes?
Speaker 1 (27:51):
I can't find my keys? Okay, do you want to
go on to the next one? Next one?
Speaker 2 (27:56):
Okay, okay, we're going number two.
Speaker 1 (27:58):
Yeah. I like your sh shows.
Speaker 2 (28:03):
I am a turtle. Is it one more time? I
like your shoes, I like you, you like me?
Speaker 3 (28:14):
Close?
Speaker 1 (28:16):
I like your shows.
Speaker 2 (28:19):
Okay, next one, I like your noodle. Okay, oh god,
this is going well. Another three, number three, number three,
and final one.
Speaker 1 (28:30):
I have a hairy hedgehog in my bathroom.
Speaker 2 (28:34):
I need to go to the bathroom.
Speaker 1 (28:37):
Close. I have a hairy hedgehog in my bathroom.
Speaker 2 (28:43):
I never had say it one more time.
Speaker 1 (28:48):
You're just tuning in right now. I have a hairy
hedgehog and my bathroom.
Speaker 2 (28:55):
I never looked at you in the bathroom. Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (28:59):
But okay, okay, so if you're just turning in now.
We were putting to the teas Many's reading skills. He
thought it'd be good.
Speaker 2 (29:10):
Mate. You got zero out of even close to any
of them.
Speaker 1 (29:14):
No, that last one was I have a hairy hudgehog
in my bathroom, bathroom, everything else. No, the first one was,
I can't find my keys. The segam was I like,
your shoes were.
Speaker 5 (29:32):
Many podcast, we're.
Speaker 1 (29:37):
Gonna ask the question, what did you find in the rubbish?
I have a story to tell. Something epen to me
this morning as I was lighting our fire, because yes,
I know that summer is fast approaching, but we still
need to light the fire to get hot water in
our house. We're working on it. We're getting a hot
we're getting a little guess system soon it's coming. Anyway,
(29:59):
I was carry on.
Speaker 2 (30:01):
To say, I do love like I love your house.
I loved visiting.
Speaker 1 (30:05):
It's just hot in summer.
Speaker 2 (30:06):
Every day.
Speaker 1 (30:10):
You get like a couple of days grace. But now
we're working on it. We'll get it sorted. But we
have like a little drawer where we've got papers and
like if there's a paper bag, we'll put it in there.
Just little things to like start the fire with. So
you've got a bit of kindling and a bit of
paper and stuff. And I was working my way through it,
and I was just trying to find a bit of
paper to screw up and get the fire going. And
(30:33):
then all of a sudden I see a fresh envelope
and I'm like, oh, hang on, it's not been opened.
Hang on that scissor dress to Polly and bj hang
on what do we have here? And certainly like my
(30:53):
stomach sunk because I was like, oh, God, tell me,
this wasn't like a fine or something. I still document
that I'm so per late to pay. But no, it
was actually a beautifully handwritten letter, well handwritten envelope. I
open it and it's a wedding floor. It was a boucher.
(31:20):
And I don't know how long this has been sitting here,
but it must have been quite some time, because I
don't know if you remember we got married in March.
Oh I remember, yeah, And so all I can think
is that it somehow got tossed in the air. It
was one hundred and fifty dollars to spend at a
nice getaway, to go away, like to a canopy camping
(31:43):
retreat to or wherever we want, like a little badge.
So it was like Christmas this morning when I opened
this up, I just found this belated, well not intentionally,
but belated with inger and.
Speaker 2 (31:56):
You nearly let it on fire.
Speaker 1 (31:57):
I nearly let it on fire. Can you imagine? So
I should actually probably go on rummage through that draw
a little bit, but I thought what a win to
start the day is more than just five bucks. It
was one hundred and fifty dollars voucher for accommodation.
Speaker 2 (32:14):
Can I say you wouldn't normally be that lucky?
Speaker 1 (32:18):
You know, specifically, normally that thing would be tossed in
the fire, and I'd only think afterwards talking about what
was that? I think you'd me thinking though, oh, eight
hundred heads, what did you find in the rubbish? Because
as they say, one man's trash is another man's treasure.
Maybe you know it was a similar situation to me,
(32:41):
and it was after the fact, and you went through
your bin and you actually found something quite important. Maybe
you'd lost it or you actually found it in a
bin and you're a bit of a pro bin diver
and you you got some goodies.
Speaker 2 (32:54):
A dumpster diver.
Speaker 1 (32:56):
A dumpster diver. Look, we're not going to shame you. You
can stand anonymous. But what did you find and the
rubbish is the question we want to ask this evening.
You can text through four four eight seven to the podcast.
What did you find and the rubbish is the question
we're asking this afternoon. I was going through our drawer
(33:19):
of paper and like old paper bags, and stuff this
morning to light the fire when all of a sudden
I came across quite a heavy on the life and
I opened it up. Turns out it was a wedding
present that we must have been gifted back in March,
and I just found it today and it was one
hundred and fifty dollars towards accommodation?
Speaker 2 (33:40):
Did you have to send?
Speaker 5 (33:41):
So?
Speaker 2 (33:41):
Did you have to send off an awkward thank you
so much for the gift message today?
Speaker 1 (33:47):
Well, because we are doing a thank you thank you
still to come out, I'm going to put it in
the message so it'll be nicely with a nice fancy card.
Speaker 2 (34:00):
Those cards that.
Speaker 1 (34:03):
I need to send the text. I know I need
to send the.
Speaker 2 (34:05):
Text that's not going to happen.
Speaker 1 (34:08):
We want to know, so what did you find in
the bin? They say, one man's trash is another man's treasure,
and none is joining us high and on.
Speaker 2 (34:20):
Oh hey there, good, how are you good? Things? What'd
you find?
Speaker 6 (34:25):
This has been going dumpster diving and he's found some
old worlders and.
Speaker 1 (34:33):
Stuff like that.
Speaker 6 (34:34):
But the other night he came home with like one
hundred and fifty regulators that go on the wilders.
Speaker 1 (34:41):
What so hang on talk to me, like, really done
this down? For me? What's a regulator is like a tool.
Speaker 6 (34:47):
It's something that controls the worlders.
Speaker 1 (34:49):
Like but I'm like, oh.
Speaker 2 (34:53):
God, what do you do with one hundred and fifty?
Speaker 7 (34:56):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (34:58):
And these worlders are like ancient? But he thinks he's
onto a gold mine?
Speaker 5 (35:03):
Question?
Speaker 1 (35:03):
And nine is that just through one bin? Or is
this really going across town? He's gone hard and there's
just one bin? Oh my, I mean look that head
off to you have you're bold enough to get in there,
go for it. Jor Dane is joining us. Get a Jordaane?
How are you?
Speaker 6 (35:22):
Hi? Not too bad?
Speaker 1 (35:23):
What was found in the bin?
Speaker 6 (35:25):
Well, I was working one day and we had a
big skipp in because everyone was clearing stuff out.
Speaker 4 (35:31):
And I saw my bass drive up and.
Speaker 7 (35:33):
Start emptying stuff from his car out into this bin.
Speaker 4 (35:37):
And I'm on the second story and I.
Speaker 6 (35:38):
Was like and I yell at him, opened the window
and I was like, hey, what are god there?
Speaker 5 (35:43):
And he looked at me as look what is that?
Speaker 4 (35:45):
And it was like a really old antique globe and.
Speaker 7 (35:49):
Don't throw that out.
Speaker 1 (35:50):
I'll come and get it.
Speaker 7 (35:50):
And I ran downstairs and I now ten years later.
Speaker 5 (35:54):
Still have this like old globe that hung.
Speaker 7 (35:57):
Around in the office for a while and people were
so annoyed.
Speaker 6 (36:00):
Should I take that globe home?
Speaker 4 (36:01):
I was saying, And then I finally brought it home
because everyone was complaining. And whenever people come over, they're
just like, man, it's such a cool globe.
Speaker 3 (36:11):
Man.
Speaker 1 (36:12):
I got a friend this six store called the Dump.
Speaker 7 (36:17):
Yeah exactly.
Speaker 4 (36:18):
I don't really tell the Actually I'm an honest, pious
and I was like, oh my god, put in the pan.
Speaker 1 (36:22):
I was like, oh, that.
Speaker 4 (36:25):
Behind it.
Speaker 5 (36:29):
Maddy and PJ. Maddy and PJ, the podcast, The Heads,
the People's Poll, the.
Speaker 3 (36:35):
People's Poll, everybody comes together.
Speaker 1 (36:37):
It's the People's Poll another day and other people's pole
and you can always weigh in on our Instagram page,
The Heads Drive with Matti and PJ.
Speaker 2 (36:46):
So I've been invited to like a friend's birthday dinner
in next month, like in December, so it's coming up.
I've got a month to go and this friend's birthday
dinner is coming up, and yeah, it's nice, it is nice,
and I'm excited about it. But then I just got
invited to another event on the same night, and I
(37:12):
kind of want to do the other event.
Speaker 1 (37:15):
Maybe don't say this out large more. What's the other review?
Speaker 2 (37:22):
It's like just another friend.
Speaker 1 (37:24):
Catch up, but you've already agreed to go to the dinner.
Speaker 2 (37:27):
But I've already agreed to go to the dinner.
Speaker 1 (37:30):
So it's sealed, it's done.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
I've got a month to go until this dinner though,
So my quest I'm wondering, is it okay to cancel, No,
the dinner I've already agreed to, No, to go to
the planes that I'd rather do. No.
Speaker 1 (37:48):
I think if it was okay, there might be a
few scenarios will be okay. Maybe there's like a once
in a lifetime opportunity. You get flown to London, you're
sitting down, you're interviewing, uh Julia Roberts, right, you know
it's a once in a lifetime interview. Then I think
that would be acceptable. But if it's just to go
to another friend's catch up, absolutely not. You cannot just say, hey,
(38:12):
I'm just going to cancel. Why because you've already committed.
Speaker 2 (38:16):
Yeah, but life's for living, Like, you shouldn't do things
you don't want to do just because you've already well,
you shouldn't have committed.
Speaker 1 (38:23):
Then that's fine. I agree, don't do things you don't
want to do, but don't be the yes man. And
then it's you just like you cannot just go all
I've said yes, but I want to say no that
I would say there is behavior. So you're just doing
(38:43):
that hapothetically, right.
Speaker 2 (38:45):
Yea, yea yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah. I'm not.
I'm not already I'm not already thinking of excuses for
to get out of the birthday dinner.
Speaker 1 (38:57):
Okay. The People's Poll today is pretty straight up. Is
it okay to cancel a plan if a better plan
comes along? I'm gonna firmly hold my ground here and
say no, you can't. It's road unless it's a once
in a lifetime opportunity that perhaps your friends can understand.
But if you're just switching it out to go to
a better friend, gig, no, it's not okay, Diggs, your
(39:23):
thoughts right now? Is acceptable behavior to four four eight seven.
We'll read the results out next.
Speaker 5 (39:31):
Maddy and PG Many and PJ. The podcast.
Speaker 3 (39:36):
That's the People's Poll, the People's Pole. Everybody comes together.
It's the People's Poll.
Speaker 1 (39:43):
And the meantime, more pressing issues, many many you have
been ganged up on on the dicks machine.
Speaker 2 (39:52):
Look, I knew the answer. I knew what the answer was.
I'm not this, I'm really not there out of a friend,
but I just you're curious. Next month, I've got a
birthday party to go to and some friends of mine
just misses me who I don't see very often. That's
some context. And they invited me to another event, and
(40:14):
I thought it would be really nice to go and
see those friends. But I have already said yes to
this birthday party. Is it okay to cancel plans with
one friend to go and hang out with another friend?
Speaker 1 (40:24):
Okay, you didn't say that in the first part, that
you don't see these friends as much. Now I'm feeling
a little bit more empathy for you. Someone did say,
can't you just do both on one night? Close? Could you?
Speaker 2 (40:35):
Eventually?
Speaker 6 (40:37):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (40:38):
I could, but I could try and do that.
Speaker 1 (40:42):
Other people have said no, never, don't be flaky.
Speaker 5 (40:44):
No.
Speaker 1 (40:45):
You said yes, it's like a handshake flaky No, Mady, no,
and no much sums it up on the text machine.
Speaker 2 (40:54):
Yeah, someone said you cannot do that. We call that
a bob, a better off a bill.
Speaker 1 (41:01):
I thought it was babe on board that was the
code word for a hottie on the plane.
Speaker 2 (41:04):
Oh yes, it was too for where you use that,
it's true.
Speaker 1 (41:08):
So it's the overall percentage.
Speaker 2 (41:10):
So in the text machine it is an overwhelming no.
Everyone said you cannot do that, I will say. In
the in the Instagram pole, it's a lot closer. Fifty
seven percent of people say no, you cannot cancel plants
if a better one comes along. Forty percent, though, said
it's okay to do it. I don't know. Life is
(41:31):
short and you've got to do it.
Speaker 1 (41:33):
Makes you be kind along the way, that's all I'll say.
Speaker 5 (41:40):
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