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Speaker 1 (00:00):
The hit Strive with Media and paj thanks to Chemist
Warehouse the Real House of Fragrances.
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Many on that.
Speaker 3 (00:09):
Hi everyone, welcome to the podcast.
Speaker 4 (00:13):
Okay, I have a question, and I'm going to be
careful about this question, but you you just told me
a story about like a psychic friend of yours who
told you that they've had a feeling that something is
going to happen. Right, yes, yes, now does part of you.
It's not a great.
Speaker 5 (00:33):
Thing that is potentially going to happen.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
It's a great thing.
Speaker 5 (00:37):
So here's my question to you.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
What's the percentage of I hope it doesn't happen because
it wouldn't be lovely, but also I hope it does
happen so that I can say, see no, like psychic no,
they know.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
No, no, because he didn't say it's a sure thing.
It just there's a lot of things pointing towards a
just wanted to give me heads up. But my hope
is one hundred percent that it doesn't.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
Hundred's not even a two percent chance of you that's like, oh,
it would be good if it happened, just so that
I could like I'm not.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
That spiteful or nasty. I don't crave satisfaction like you
may think I would. But it is a tricky position.
Speaker 5 (01:24):
Yeah I told that. Yea, what do you do with
that information?
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Well, I told you guys, I don't look, ye there's
many there's many predictions all the time, and look, this
is just one of those ones that something may occur.
Then I can tell you, well I did give this.
Speaker 6 (01:44):
There is.
Speaker 4 (01:46):
It is like not in this situation, but there is
like the the old I told you so. There is
something satisfying about a good I told you so sometimes,
but not not in this but in some situation.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Yeah, oh yeah, when everyone thinks you're an idiot and
you're like, I told you so. But anyway, So coming
up on the podcast, we have a number of things
to get across. We talked about what you should think
should be banned because something across the ditch in Australia
(02:23):
is going to be bad.
Speaker 4 (02:24):
That was great, and I want to share a couple
because there were We got actually quite a lot of
texts about this, and some of the texts we didn't
get around to reading, so I thought, actually, maybe I'll
read some of them out on the podcast.
Speaker 5 (02:35):
Is like a good.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
Little extra tea little extra tease. Someone said, ban excessive packaging,
which I totally understand.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Honestly, not from a winky perspective, but you see get
sent like a lot of pr the amount of packaging
that would outweigh what you're actually receiving. It will be
like packaging on packaging, on packaging. I couldn't believe it.
I couldn't believe that it was still like okay, that
they were doing.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
That during I I got seent like a bottle of
gin earlier this year and it came in this massive
like chiller box with all of these ice packs.
Speaker 5 (03:13):
And I was like, it's a bottle of gin, and
what do I now? What do I do with the
like the big box that it's coming?
Speaker 1 (03:19):
I didn't want to do find that with certain food boxes.
Did you find that was in a shore with the ice?
Speaker 5 (03:26):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (03:27):
Never know what to do with it all?
Speaker 5 (03:30):
What do you do with it all?
Speaker 4 (03:31):
I I just cut the cut the you can just
empty and.
Speaker 5 (03:38):
Then I just but then I just ended up throwing
those ice things away.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
I don't know what else they're doing.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
Someone said, how annoying that razor blades are more expensive
than a whole new razor. Why are we living in
such a throll a society.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
One hundred percent. Look at look at our ego minded people.
You know, I know what else came through? Disgusting camel?
Speaker 5 (04:07):
Did he hate it?
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Just at home?
Speaker 1 (04:13):
I'll just fucking chuck on anything. And sometimes the bike
shorts are quite short.
Speaker 4 (04:19):
What's the other one? What's the mother snuckle? Yeah, snuckle thing? Yeah,
I think I get a camel time. I think that's
that's a guy's version of a camera tar is a
most snuckle?
Speaker 5 (04:32):
Yeah, because you're.
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Yours could go either side of the material.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Looking at most snuckle and it's it's a slang term
for when the outline of men's genital I thought, so,
it's really funny camelton a most snuggle. Anyway, On that note,
enjoy the podcast.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
My brain's a bit dilapidated. Is that a word? It's
a word, but it's probably not appropriate for that setting.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
Yeah, yeah, dilipidapidated, dilapidators in a state of disrepair. Quite
my brain feels a bit dilipidated. My son had a
fever all night, so I was just up a bit.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
But that's all right. But yeah, coming up, we have
Are You a bar Resta Edition?
Speaker 4 (05:22):
Yeah, and I needed to tell you about something I
tried this morning for the very first time that got
quite intimate, quite intimate.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
Very intimate. Enjoy the podcast everyone.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
Many in the podcast.
Speaker 1 (05:37):
News coming out for Across the Ditch in Australia today
is that they are proposing a ban on social media
for those under sixteen. The Prime Minister Anthony Almanzi has
said that the government would leadis say for a ban
on social media for children under sixteen. Now, obviously this
is a very contentious issue and there's always quite heated
(05:59):
debates on both. I'm saying prohibition never works. Other people like, yes,
we need to do what we can to get kids
off phones. Somewhere in between, I think we definitely need
to do something. I don't know if this is the
exact answer, but yeah.
Speaker 5 (06:12):
It's a big call. It's a big call to mate.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
But boy, boy, like, I just think back to when
I was that age, under the age of sixteen. Even
as an adult, I feel like social media is a
tricky thing to navigate, and that is with all of
the tools at my disposal that I've learned over the
year years, and so I just imagine imaging Yeah sure, yeah,
so it'll be interesting to see what happens. Obviously, this
(06:35):
is what they're legislating for, but we'll wait and see
whether it actually gets put into practice.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Now, we're not like a heavy show. I know how
heavy the world has been over the last twenty four
hours with this little thing that's gone over in the States.
So we're going to keep it light and bright. But
what should be added to the band list? Like what
things daily in your life do you come into contact
with and you're like, why is this still a thing?
Like we need to ban this a sap. You can
(07:02):
call all light hundred the hat. So it takes four
for eight seven I thought of one. So I quite
like a this's gonna make me sound really like poncey
go on.
Speaker 4 (07:12):
I quite like a like a parthey. You know, like
if you go to a nice restaurant and you get
like a chicken liver parthe whenever a restaurant brings out
like a dip or a parthay or something like that,
they never give you enough breed, Like they never give
you enough stuff to spread your dip onto many.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
I'm gonna be so honest as a friendie right now.
This is the most out of touch statement.
Speaker 4 (07:35):
Even I hear it, I hear it, who's eating part fai?
Speaker 5 (07:41):
I hear But also am I wrong? Am I wrong?
Speaker 1 (07:47):
No? I I do hate it when the dip to
whatever the dep is, whether it's whatever, but like when
you've got a dep to bread ratio.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
And it's out no good, no good. Surely that's a
crucial a part of formulating that dish.
Speaker 5 (08:03):
Yes exactly.
Speaker 4 (08:04):
And it's really like breed is on the lower level
of cost in terms of incurred at a restaurant.
Speaker 5 (08:10):
So just double up the bread.
Speaker 3 (08:12):
I want to be in the.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Saying no offense, because whenever someone says no offense, they
are going into a statement that is usually offensive, not offence.
But I would also like to ban those incredibly short
phone charges that I've fallen victim to purchasing at the
petrol station.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
Every time, every time. Why do they sell them? They're
like literally ten centimeters. They are so impractical, they hag,
they dangle from the wall and.
Speaker 4 (08:40):
It yes, you can't. You can't even lay your phone
flat on the ground, even in the car.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
It struggles like it is just can someone please lend
an explanation to why on earth they have such short
phone charges available?
Speaker 4 (08:59):
You just need to well, A, you need to not
lose your charges, because you lose them all the time.
You've even lost other peoples within the teams that have
lent you their charges. Attack and two when you do
then go to replace it, you just need to look
at how long it is. It's not their hearts. It's
right there on the package.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
I just always go over the one closest to me
thirteen centimeters.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
Anyway, what would you like to add to the band list?
Speaker 2 (09:25):
Many the podcast.
Speaker 1 (09:30):
And we're talking things that should be banned. News across
the Ditch that they are looking to legislate anyone under
sixteen being banned from social media, and we thought, on
a lighter note, what else should be added to the
band list? Matty thinks that disproportionate dip to bridge ratios.
Speaker 5 (09:53):
Tell me I'm wrong, tell me you're so right.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
But I just love that you use the example of
a what was it, a chicken liver puffer. I do
love a chicken liver puffer liver puffer. I said, extremely
short phone charges that you can give the virtual station
need to be banned because they're benefiting no one. Leah
is joining us, all right, hundred the hats Leah, welcome
(10:16):
to the show. What would you like to ban active
wear as normal day to day?
Speaker 3 (10:21):
Where I feel targeted?
Speaker 1 (10:24):
I'm wearing active wear pants as we speak.
Speaker 4 (10:27):
You're pregnant though, Can you get away with it with
your pregnant Yeah?
Speaker 3 (10:30):
Can I get away with that?
Speaker 5 (10:31):
Is that an exception to the rule?
Speaker 7 (10:33):
Leah?
Speaker 8 (10:33):
That's acceptable? Acceptable?
Speaker 1 (10:34):
It's the one that's got like the rooshing down the
back scene.
Speaker 9 (10:38):
I just know.
Speaker 1 (10:42):
Mine it kind of covered like I've got a cute
long linen shirt, but then I've just got comfy people.
Speaker 3 (10:48):
I can't thank you, Leah.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
Thank you very much for Wayne. And we've got a
Chimus warehouse bries coming away.
Speaker 3 (10:53):
It's gone to And.
Speaker 4 (10:55):
It's crazy when I see see people that have clearly
that are like in a care fe sitting outside him
and a coffee and they're in their gym gear but
with like a full face of makeup.
Speaker 5 (11:05):
And I'm like, you have not gone to the gym,
don't like and you.
Speaker 1 (11:10):
Do not plan on going to the gym? Angela and
Navie is joining us today and how.
Speaker 9 (11:15):
You thanks guysing yourself very well?
Speaker 5 (11:20):
What do you want to add to the band list?
Speaker 9 (11:23):
Well, I'm actually I'm I'm with you as far as
the ratio with those dips, thank you, But yeah, this
is another clothing one. And seriously, the people that we're
pajamas outside of their house, like why you just it's
like me of lazy necessary.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
I feel like the more you kind of travel regionally,
it's more maybe excitable.
Speaker 5 (11:52):
I don't think so, PJ.
Speaker 1 (11:55):
And what are your thoughts on the introduction of a
lot of pajama like sets that people wear as regular
clothing now, you know how like it's like, oh, is
it pajamas or is it a cute designer sets?
Speaker 8 (12:09):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (12:10):
Absolutely, asking just hypothetically Angela hypothetically there's no way that
she's gone out and bought herself a set of satin
pajamas that she wears.
Speaker 1 (12:18):
Just from the time that I was at the Palmi
airport and the woman said, I love that.
Speaker 3 (12:23):
You're wearing the particular pajamas to the airport. Never forgets
Maddy and PJ.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Mady and PJ the podcast The Heads.
Speaker 1 (12:35):
I've got a question, and I don't know, like I
suptimes forget if I've I've talked.
Speaker 3 (12:40):
About sending things on the show before.
Speaker 1 (12:42):
I'm like, you know what, I've probably thrown this out before.
I've got a goldfish memory at the moment. Anyway, when
is it okay to ask someone's age? Like, do you
think in every scenario it's actually socially acceptable to go
up to someone and ask how old they are?
Speaker 4 (12:59):
There's that old that you should never ask a woman
in their age, right, But I don't know. I feel
like in this day, in this day and age, we
should be celebrating getting older. Man, It's a privilege, right,
So I go for it.
Speaker 1 (13:15):
Asking, Yeah, the chicken in twenty twenty four? Does it
still feel like one of those to boot topics or
is it actually sweet airs and just like another part
of your whole fabric?
Speaker 4 (13:28):
I guess it depends the circum Like, what what's the
circumstances surrounding it?
Speaker 1 (13:33):
There is there is there a need to know how
old this person was? Well, we had a guest over
for lunch. He's from Ireland, he's visiting, and he's staying
at our workers place down the road.
Speaker 3 (13:45):
And I couldn't help but think.
Speaker 1 (13:49):
Man, this guy looks like quite baby faced, but maybe
he's the same age as us, because like, I don't know,
I just because he.
Speaker 3 (13:56):
Was friends with our friend and so I was like,
is he this early thirties, mid thirties, or where is
he just quite a bit younger?
Speaker 4 (14:08):
And here's the here's the thing about you and I.
I cannot just sit on my hands and not ask
the question. If I've got an itch, an itch, a
burning little itch, I need to scratch it and I
need to know the answer.
Speaker 1 (14:22):
So I think I started by going so instead of
like directly asked in the age, I probably made it worse.
But I was like, so, have you got a partner
back home? What's your sort of situation? He said, well night,
Actually no, not at the moment. And then I go, okay,
so you're not settled down phase. Have your friends got kids?
(14:43):
He goes no, and I go okay, okay.
Speaker 4 (14:46):
And then you were like, young, did you enjoy home
alone as a kid or were you more of a
jaw's kind of a godsends?
Speaker 1 (14:55):
And then I just said to me straight up and
I was like, how old are you if you don't
mind me asking? And he said twenty two? And I
was like, oh my god.
Speaker 3 (15:03):
That makes much sense.
Speaker 4 (15:05):
And when you're twenty two, you do not care if
someone asks you how old you are.
Speaker 1 (15:09):
No, you don't you be stoked if you looked older.
So it paid off in the end, but it just
got me thinking, like, what is that general consensus? Would
you be offended if someone actually asked your age?
Speaker 3 (15:24):
Mary and PJ?
Speaker 2 (15:26):
Mary and PJ the podcast The Heads Are you.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
All Right?
Speaker 1 (15:33):
It is chimed a stereotype some jobs around the country
it is called are you a? And this week we
want to hear from baristas real all fake. You just
call up oh light hundred the hats, convince us that
you're a barista and we have to work out if you'
lying or not. Have you ever worked in a hospital, Matthew.
Speaker 4 (15:53):
I worked at a restaurant, but I haven't done cafe work.
Speaker 5 (15:56):
But I frequent cafes often.
Speaker 3 (16:00):
Okay, okay, there's there's pretty good research.
Speaker 1 (16:02):
I once worked as a barrista at Untouched World Cafe
in christ.
Speaker 5 (16:06):
Were you good? Did you make a good coffee?
Speaker 1 (16:09):
I was good until the day where I was outside
sitting tables. You didn't realize the overall like massive manager
of the whole business have flown down from Auckland and
I dropped a knife and then I put it back
on the table.
Speaker 5 (16:24):
Like an episode of Undercover Boss.
Speaker 3 (16:27):
Many many years ago.
Speaker 1 (16:28):
She's lovely though all at least go to Caleb in Waikato.
Good afternoon, Caleb, you're a barista. Yes, okay, I've got
a quick question. Let's just get into that good coffee chat.
What's the difference between a flat white? What's the difference
between a flat white and the latte?
Speaker 8 (16:47):
Oh whole good question. Is going to have a lot
more milk and than a flat white. Flat white, it's
just going to have a normal out of milk, usually
in a small medium, but a laste is going to
be a much bigger usually if you serve on a
couple that's take away, it's going to be a bigger,
must last, a kind of bowl cup.
Speaker 3 (17:05):
I had a lot of words.
Speaker 4 (17:08):
It did sound it did sound correct, but you're right,
there was a lot of talking.
Speaker 3 (17:14):
Yeah, I think it was. It was almost like nervously
filling the gaps.
Speaker 1 (17:18):
I thought there was something to do with air in
there isn't there isn't there more air on one of them?
Speaker 3 (17:22):
Or is that the cap chaina this is the.
Speaker 8 (17:24):
This is the has more going to be a cat
So it's like that's why I got basically a cap
of farm on the top.
Speaker 3 (17:32):
He does again you you follow up with another Christians.
Speaker 5 (17:38):
This is the problem, though, pages.
Speaker 4 (17:40):
We put these questions down and then we go, well, okay,
here's a simple one for you. What is the most
pretentious coffee ordered? Do you reckon Caleb?
Speaker 1 (17:51):
Oh?
Speaker 8 (17:52):
The most pretentious coffee order would probably be the one
that I drink, which is a piccolo.
Speaker 2 (17:59):
He's not wrong.
Speaker 1 (18:00):
Something very pretentious about a because I feel like you
have to drink a piccolo with your pinky finger, don't you?
Speaker 3 (18:08):
I reckon Caleb exactly, bloody good lie. Or he's a barista.
I'm gonna say, Caleb, you're a barista? Are we right?
Speaker 8 (18:17):
No?
Speaker 3 (18:18):
I I had a feeling, but that hurts.
Speaker 1 (18:23):
He's just a coffee enthusiast. Asia, good afternoon.
Speaker 5 (18:28):
Hi, how are you good?
Speaker 3 (18:30):
Very well? Now you are a barrista? Correct?
Speaker 9 (18:34):
Sure?
Speaker 6 (18:34):
I am?
Speaker 5 (18:34):
Okay? Great? Asia?
Speaker 4 (18:37):
Can you repeat the following line like you're shouting it
out of the cafe? Can you say one medium double
shot oat flap white for PJ.
Speaker 6 (18:45):
One medium oat double shot flip white for PJ.
Speaker 5 (18:48):
Oh, that was good good, she had me their solid
it was solid.
Speaker 3 (18:52):
Okay?
Speaker 5 (18:53):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (18:54):
Asia?
Speaker 1 (18:54):
Do you provide complimentary treats with your coffees at your
cafe and.
Speaker 6 (18:59):
All pins so like with our coffees, it all depend
if you are an elderly person or like I know
that sounds a little bit picky, but you know, just
it all just depends if you like it's a little
bit more special than some people. You know.
Speaker 5 (19:17):
No, she's lying, she's lying.
Speaker 4 (19:20):
I think we've caught her out.
Speaker 5 (19:21):
I think we've caught her out and a lie.
Speaker 3 (19:24):
I'm going to come up, Asia. You're not a barista,
are you?
Speaker 6 (19:30):
I am A I am.
Speaker 10 (19:36):
I've been a barista for the last five years, damn Asia, So.
Speaker 1 (19:39):
You have preferential treatment to the cute customers.
Speaker 3 (19:45):
An interesting inside.
Speaker 4 (19:47):
She's just like she's just lying to us, bold face.
All right, quickly, we've got the time for one more Sam. Hi, guys, Sorry,
Barista Sam, I see, I see, I see Arista Sam.
Speaker 3 (19:58):
Welcome to the show.
Speaker 1 (19:59):
Okay, look, I'm going to do a memory game, because
you've got to have a good memory when you're behind
the counter. Can you please, what can you remember of
the following trim flat whites Makachino, Laste decaf, Kaffa and
a long black.
Speaker 9 (20:14):
Please the caf are long black two trim flat whites
and a last.
Speaker 3 (20:22):
Not bad, not just missed and the last but I'd
give that to you.
Speaker 4 (20:27):
That's pretty good, Sam, You've got to write it down.
Speaker 8 (20:35):
So many orders, we get so busy.
Speaker 5 (20:37):
So anyway, I think she's a barista.
Speaker 1 (20:39):
I think she has straight out the gates. Sam, are
you a barista?
Speaker 4 (20:42):
I'm not. I'm a teacher.
Speaker 5 (20:47):
What is going on?
Speaker 10 (20:49):
That's from three this week Peage Its Depable, Mad and
Mad and PJ the podcast.
Speaker 5 (21:02):
Do you remember the concept of what's the word for it.
It's like a metro a metro sexual.
Speaker 1 (21:15):
Oh yes, yeah, a metro sexual back in the day
would have been a guy who was very you know,
I loved to take care of himself and how he
looked and smell good and had good clothes.
Speaker 5 (21:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (21:27):
And for a long time it was such a like
unique concept that if you were a metrosexual, you were
such a like you.
Speaker 5 (21:32):
Were an odd ball, you were like in the minority.
Speaker 4 (21:35):
Well, I think times of day have changed, Page and
I think a lot of us, if we, if we
care to admit it, would tell ourselves that we are
a little bit of a little bit of a metrosexual.
So today I thought I'm going to take it up
a notch and I went and did something for the
very first time.
Speaker 5 (21:57):
And got a laser here removal.
Speaker 1 (22:01):
Now I've had many of these over the years. I
don't want to ask too many details, but did you
have to fully fully de clove or sure did?
Speaker 5 (22:16):
Sure did? And here's the thing, because you know, I've
been to a doctor.
Speaker 4 (22:22):
I've been to a doctor's office where you do that
and see something about that feels very normal, Like there's
something about getting getting unchanged in front.
Speaker 5 (22:32):
Of the doctor where you just go, well, this is
very stock standard.
Speaker 3 (22:36):
They say it all the time. It's fine.
Speaker 4 (22:41):
I have never gotten that. I've never gotten that intimate
with someone other than a doctor before, and it is
a very very unique experience.
Speaker 1 (22:51):
I know it is quite confronting the first time, but
you have to remember they do it literally all the time.
Speaker 3 (23:00):
She and you were no different to the next person.
Speaker 4 (23:02):
She did say, I've seen it all before, and I
guess they have, right, But it's also the first time
she's seen me.
Speaker 3 (23:09):
So did she know you from the telly?
Speaker 5 (23:12):
And this is the.
Speaker 4 (23:18):
This is the thing, because you are like, it's quite
a vulnerable position. You're lying back on this table. I
had this time the funny thing is you get derobed.
She gives you this like piece of cloth to lay
over your like over yourself, but then immediately she's taken
the cloth off.
Speaker 3 (23:37):
I think that's mean to give you like a bit
of interim sense of comfort.
Speaker 4 (23:41):
Yeah, but the comfort doesn't last long because I've been
whipped off within seconds and then you are just lying
there free for all.
Speaker 5 (23:51):
Did you get a little stage right, No?
Speaker 3 (23:54):
Did you get a little nervy?
Speaker 9 (23:56):
No.
Speaker 4 (23:56):
Here's what I will say. She was very, very lovely,
She was very professional. She did an amazing job. And
even though it felt very vulnerable and there was a
lot of can you just you know, she said, can
you just pick it up and move it to the side,
you know, she made me feel very like, very comfortable.
(24:17):
And here's what I will say about laser treatment. I
thought it was going to hurt to buggery some parts,
so I didn't feel thing.
Speaker 5 (24:26):
I keep waiting.
Speaker 4 (24:27):
I was like, wait, have you started, and she was
like yeah, halfway through, I'm not feeling anything.
Speaker 3 (24:33):
Did you try and engage in regular conversation?
Speaker 5 (24:36):
Yes, yes, absolutely, you know.
Speaker 4 (24:38):
I like this scene from Love Actually when doing that
really is I was like, oh, the weather ouse it's
getting hotterer, isn't it getting hotter?
Speaker 5 (24:45):
Outside?
Speaker 2 (24:48):
Maddy and Maddy and PJ the Podcast.
Speaker 4 (24:53):
I caught up with my friend, really good friend recently
because she came up for my best friend's wedding that
we had a couple of weeks ago, and it was
so nice to see her. But she does something every
time we see each other. She makes sure that she
puts into like a notestep on her phone, a list
of discussion discussion points topics.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
There are just certain types of people better like that.
Speaker 4 (25:22):
And so she's but she says, you know, because she
lives in Wellington and I live in Auckland, and we
don't get to catch up on the phone all that often.
So she goes, I just want to make sure I'm
not missing anything, so I have a think about the
topics I want to questions I want to ask, and
then we can tack them off and then we can
get through everything. But she's maybe has like three questions
that specific questions that she wants to know, and then
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the rest of the conversation is just friends catching up.
Speaker 5 (25:45):
So it's not yeah, right, So.
Speaker 1 (25:46):
It's not like because I was gonna say, it does
add a sense of urgency. But if it's just like right,
we'll get through that and then you can relax.
Speaker 4 (25:53):
She's like, I just want to make sure that I
don't leave our catch up having not asked these like
three things that I've been wanting to ask you. But
I saw a video online today of a woman whose
dad goes to a bar with his friends every Friday,
and every Friday he makes a list of about ten
topics for an agenda to go through with his friends.
(26:19):
And I was looking at this list and some of
them are so funny and weird, Like one of the lists.
One of the items on the agenda is work out footwear.
Speaker 3 (26:30):
Oh, wasn't it just like a pair of snakes.
Speaker 4 (26:33):
Yes, So there's no there's there's no actual like concept
as to what the question is or what the discussion
point is. So I don't know why he wanted to
bring up workout footwear, but that was on there. Soup
was on there, as was the Menendez Brothers that you know,
(26:54):
there's the TV show at the moment, the Harvest Moon.
Speaker 5 (26:59):
You would have been into that one page.
Speaker 3 (27:01):
Oh yes, yes, I could do a bit of moon chat.
Speaker 5 (27:05):
And these are all things that they do.
Speaker 4 (27:06):
This group of guys every Friday when they catch up
at the bar, they have a list of agender topics
to go through.
Speaker 3 (27:13):
And so are they as random as that? Every time?
Speaker 1 (27:15):
They're like literally out of the blue, and then they
just know that it's just going to be pretty random
content per one hundred percent.
Speaker 4 (27:23):
But you've got to wonder how how much is it
is an agenda item of soup, Like how long is
that going to take to get through?
Speaker 1 (27:31):
Well, if you're in summer, pretty shorty, I'd say it's
a bit more lengthy midwinter, midwinter, you know, getting into
the minnestrones and garlic bread.
Speaker 5 (27:39):
You watch your recipe, what are you having? On the side,
I do like that.
Speaker 1 (27:43):
Creative way of engaging with your friends, so it's not
just like, hey, how's it.
Speaker 3 (27:48):
Going, how's Daniel?
Speaker 5 (27:49):
Yeah, the kids are good totally.
Speaker 4 (27:52):
And I also love the idea that so many different
friend groups will have just their weird and abnormal rituals
that they do when they get together.
Speaker 3 (28:02):
So for this group, so the wine stay does that count?
Speaker 5 (28:04):
Absolutely? It does.
Speaker 1 (28:06):
For the podcast, we're talking cute, unique, random rituals that
you do with your friends when you catch up. Maybe
it's not like every week, but maybe once a month,
once a year, something you like to do when catching
up with your mates.
Speaker 4 (28:24):
We have a group of friends and a bunch of
them live in the Bay of Plenty, and so then
whenever all of us get together as a group, we've
started this thing where we each have to draw one
of the other people out of a hat and then
we have to make a cocktail based on that person's
personality or I like that, so we share it. Then
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we share the cocktail with the group. We kind of
explain the story behind the cocktail, and then everyone has
to guess who they think the cocktail relates.
Speaker 5 (28:55):
To in the group.
Speaker 3 (28:56):
You're not getting quite offensive, No, no, no, no.
Speaker 4 (28:58):
They're fun and funny, always like harvest.
Speaker 3 (29:01):
Punchy, Punchy. Who's the mantini?
Speaker 5 (29:04):
And you're all, that's a good question. I'll tell you
what mine was last time. It was very fruity, Cosmo.
It's very fruity, and it had like pink candy floss
on top.
Speaker 1 (29:17):
And it's gonna get some more non alcoholic cocktails. All right,
he's got a nicatakta.
Speaker 11 (29:24):
Hi there?
Speaker 3 (29:26):
What do you do with your friends when you catch up?
Speaker 11 (29:29):
We catch up weekly, so and we see each other. Yeah,
every week it's not as cool as cocktails. But every
time we made up, I voice go around the table
in high five everyone they lack as a high and
then when we leave, it's a high five when we
leave as well. It's just I don't know something that
it's every time we catch up.
Speaker 5 (29:49):
It's really it's really wholesome.
Speaker 3 (29:52):
It's really awesome.
Speaker 4 (29:54):
You just feel like it was very awesome.
Speaker 3 (29:56):
Yeah, I feel like they would really left the morale
of the team. Give me cab.
Speaker 1 (30:03):
Like that.
Speaker 11 (30:03):
Yeah, sometimes we have a gender items as well.
Speaker 5 (30:07):
You gotta have the gender items, Nikata, you got it.
Speaker 11 (30:10):
But William, we can put money into a bank account
so that we can have a nice to know every
once in a while.
Speaker 5 (30:18):
I love that.
Speaker 3 (30:20):
Got some more tickes coming through four f as even.
Speaker 4 (30:22):
Yeah, someone said, at the end of each meetup with
my friends, we choose who was the most dramatic for
the hanger, and they win the most Dramatic Moment awards.
Speaker 3 (30:30):
Oh that's good. Another one here.
Speaker 1 (30:32):
We do a spontaneous road trip, so we pack a
random destination on a map, and then on that journey
we literally catch up on everything.
Speaker 7 (30:39):
I love.
Speaker 3 (30:39):
I regain driving is the best time to debrief on everything.
Speaker 5 (30:44):
I love that.
Speaker 2 (30:46):
The podcast.
Speaker 7 (30:49):
That's the pole, the big post pole. Everybody comes together.
It's the people.
Speaker 3 (30:55):
It is time for the Beabulls pile.
Speaker 1 (30:56):
We checked thisulf on our Instagram page, The Hats Drive
with medi and PJ. If you don't already follow, go
hit the follow button and weigh in on today's poll
where we can get an accurate insight into the percentage.
Speaker 5 (31:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (31:11):
And this was sparked by something that happened in Head
or Miss, which we do every day after six o'clock
on the show where producers here, it comes to the
table with a bunch of topics and PJ and I
have to weigh in with a head or a miss.
Speaker 1 (31:22):
Do we like it?
Speaker 5 (31:23):
Or do we not like it?
Speaker 8 (31:24):
Do we do it?
Speaker 5 (31:24):
Do we not do it?
Speaker 1 (31:26):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (31:26):
And yesterday's topic was about showering, showering every day? Yes,
and I said, heck, because I sometimes I can rake
up three showers.
Speaker 9 (31:37):
A day.
Speaker 4 (31:40):
Only if the occasion calls for it, you know, like
I'll get up in the morning, I'll have a shower
to get ready. Then sometimes I'll exercise during the day,
so that's another shower, and then sometimes I've then gone
and done lots of stuff at night time, and I
really want to have a shower before bed, So three
showers I have done it.
Speaker 3 (31:58):
But that is not the normal for me.
Speaker 1 (31:59):
And yes, I actually had a bit of post show
anxiety because I was like, oh, no, everyone thinks I'm
stinky because I said that I don't always always shout
every single day, but the normals that I would shower
most days.
Speaker 3 (32:09):
But I have found that actually sometimes I can go
a day. My husband will give me grief for it, though,
and he's like, go and clean.
Speaker 4 (32:16):
Yourself up well, because it's not just the shower, it's
the fact that you have the natural deodorant as well.
Speaker 1 (32:23):
So I do.
Speaker 9 (32:25):
I do.
Speaker 1 (32:25):
I have a good natural deodor at that works at
the moment, thank you very much. But I don't know
if as humans have to wash every single day. I
would say I'm most days, but sometimes I will take
a day off.
Speaker 4 (32:37):
So we thought, well, who's more normal, like the guy
that would sometimes shower three day, three times a day
or the woman that will sometimes not shower at.
Speaker 5 (32:46):
All in the day.
Speaker 3 (32:48):
Actually not a grub though, No, I know you're not.
Speaker 5 (32:51):
I know you're not.
Speaker 3 (32:53):
I'm just a bit more relaxed now.
Speaker 4 (32:54):
I think, and I'm also not some like weird anal
clean free though just you know, sometimes calls a day
calls for an extra shower.
Speaker 3 (33:03):
So okay. So the question is how often do you show?
Speaker 1 (33:06):
Once every two days, once a day, twice a day,
more than twice a day. You can text through four
four eight seven or weigh in on our Instagram page.
Speaker 3 (33:16):
We'll reveal the results.
Speaker 2 (33:17):
Nick Maddy and PJ.
Speaker 7 (33:22):
Maddy and PJ, the podcast, the heads, the People's Poll,
the peg pos poll, everybody comes together.
Speaker 2 (33:29):
It's the people's pole.
Speaker 3 (33:31):
How filthy are you?
Speaker 1 (33:32):
It's the question we're asking tonight other people's poll.
Speaker 5 (33:35):
Let's be fair and PJ can I say is fie?
Speaker 4 (33:41):
No?
Speaker 3 (33:42):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (33:42):
This came off the back of a conversation we had
on the show yesterday and Maddie said sometimes he'll have
up to three showers a day. I said, that's excessive.
I have obviously done that in the past. Sometimes you
have your working out lots or whatever. But on the
whole it would be usually one shower a day. Sometimes,
if I'm not too much of a sweaty mess, I
might forgot a shower.
Speaker 3 (34:03):
So we wanted to know how the environment thanking me.
Do you can hear in the background, You're a hero.
Speaker 5 (34:10):
You're a hero.
Speaker 3 (34:11):
Thank you do what I can.
Speaker 4 (34:13):
So we wanted to know how often do you shower
less than once a day, once a day, twice a day,
or more than twice a day?
Speaker 1 (34:22):
Look at the ticks for shine once a day, shower
once every two days. I show once every other day
most of the time, and least I've worked out. I
shower twice every second day. I shower to Oh so
you do double up, right, So not just one rense
but to rent says I'm a shower twice a day
at least sometimes three. Always showers straight after work. Then
(34:43):
I work out, shower sometimes work out twice two times
a day.
Speaker 3 (34:48):
The more the merria, Yeah, the.
Speaker 5 (34:50):
More the meria. That's what I say.
Speaker 4 (34:52):
The overwhelming majority, though, is just once a day. Seventy
five percent of people said once and all thirteen percent
said twice a day.
Speaker 5 (35:03):
Eleven percent see less than once a day.
Speaker 4 (35:06):
Those are your friends page well, and only one percent
said more than twice a day.
Speaker 3 (35:14):
Yeah, that's a bit excessive.
Speaker 4 (35:18):
So me and my three showers, I'm actually in the
extreme minority minority.
Speaker 3 (35:24):
Yes you are.
Speaker 5 (35:25):
I could have told you.
Speaker 2 (35:26):
That Mary and PJ Mady and PJ the podcast the Heads.
Speaker 5 (35:35):
Head or Mess.
Speaker 3 (35:38):
And I don't know why.
Speaker 1 (35:41):
Please like when I say cent thirty of most, I
don't need to go into the foll ax might anyway
producer seras and for another roundom Head of Mess. She's
got a few topics. We cannot sit on the fence.
We have to weigh with a head of a mess.
Speaker 5 (35:56):
Now, big question? How was the buffet in the last night?
Speaker 3 (36:00):
Fet was perfect. I had two.
Speaker 12 (36:04):
Main meals, like two dinner plates, and then I was like,
I'm going to go for a third. My partner was like, no,
let it sit. You fit in the dessert. And then
as soon as I had the dessert, I was like, okay,
I'm actually really full, and then I went back for
second dessert. I finished off with some ice cream. They
had pistachio ice cream.
Speaker 5 (36:20):
Did you go in with a game plan or did
you wing it?
Speaker 9 (36:22):
No?
Speaker 5 (36:23):
Wing it?
Speaker 4 (36:24):
Yeah?
Speaker 12 (36:24):
I ended up getting curry twice, like two lots of curry,
and I was like.
Speaker 3 (36:28):
Oh, I get it. No, I get it because they
do good curry. Where you went?
Speaker 1 (36:32):
I wonder if anyone has ever walked into a buffet
bar and then walked out without feeling absolutely hearing this.
Speaker 5 (36:39):
It would be a rare person serious self restrain. It
was young though, all right.
Speaker 12 (36:45):
Number one buying something to wear it once and then
just return.
Speaker 5 (36:49):
It mess mess mass.
Speaker 12 (36:54):
No, if I like it, I'll just want to have
a You can be honest here, I've.
Speaker 5 (36:58):
Never done that, but I am like, so we had
to go to the same geek.
Speaker 4 (37:01):
Remember my friend had like an Indian cere money and
I had to go and buy a special outfit for that,
which was wonderful, but I'm unlikely to probably wear it again.
Speaker 5 (37:11):
So now I am kind of like, what do I
do with this outfit? Do I just hold on to it?
Speaker 9 (37:16):
You know?
Speaker 4 (37:16):
And it becomes one of those things that just is
like stored at our house or do I You could
sell it?
Speaker 5 (37:21):
Yeah, you could sell it.
Speaker 1 (37:23):
It is one of those things you're like, oh, man,
would be so great to have this for the memory. Yeah,
just accumulates us, which is really sad. Yeah, so maybe
maybe do like a meddies buyes.
Speaker 5 (37:41):
No, they they don't want it, all right.
Speaker 12 (37:45):
Number two, go and grow through shopping without a list
mess mess I, but I do go shopping.
Speaker 3 (37:55):
With out the list.
Speaker 5 (37:56):
You look at me, like, you're all surprised that I
would not.
Speaker 12 (38:00):
I know that you're just organized and you have a
lot going on, but I just thought you'd be like, okay,
like milkile paper, blah blah blah, and then go in
with a game plan.
Speaker 9 (38:07):
No.
Speaker 1 (38:08):
I do often just go in and but but then
that's when I just end up getting so much or
a mess everything I do.
Speaker 3 (38:15):
Like, I am so much more effishient.
Speaker 1 (38:17):
It is so much more satisfying when I ride a
list and I take it off as I go around.
Speaker 4 (38:21):
I did for a little bit of a ap, and
it was like Ryan could link up to it as well,
and then you could add things to the But then
we do that.
Speaker 5 (38:28):
We did that a few times and then I forgot
all about it.
Speaker 3 (38:31):
So well, when you can tick it off and it disappeared.
Speaker 12 (38:35):
Sorry to disappoint you, all, right, last one having a
pit that's not a dog or a cat.
Speaker 5 (38:43):
Mess mess.
Speaker 3 (38:45):
We once said a rat called Lingusta.
Speaker 7 (38:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (38:48):
I was like, one of you better have not had
a were you were a rat girl.
Speaker 1 (38:53):
I think it was my brother's. I think they brought
it back from boarding school and he had that. He
was white with beady red and I remember we I
don't know why he was called Langaster, quite an European
name for a little like pasta or.
Speaker 3 (39:11):
Yeah, since the they're just like they just carry a
lot of and I think you were, like, my.
Speaker 5 (39:21):
God, you had it like crawling your here then and then.
Speaker 1 (39:27):
Board Broadcasting School wheel flattered together and decided to get pit,
my ja.
Speaker 3 (39:35):
But now I look back on that time of my
life and I'm like, that was rent?
Speaker 4 (39:40):
Were they pick or was it just it wasn't just
a university.
Speaker 5 (39:46):
Flat, they actually pit.
Speaker 2 (39:49):
Vi Mady and PJ. Mady and PJ the podcast The
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