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September 19, 2024 17 mins

The pressure of the cost-of-living crunch has been felt by most of us for a few years now.

Many of us hope that the more we earn, the less we have to worry about bills, unexpected costs and living week to week.

This week though, Wellington Mayor Tory Whanau revealed she’s had to sell her car - in order to help pay her bills.

So if a mayor on a salary of just under $190,000 a year is finding it tough – can you really earn enough to avoid financial pressure?

Today on The Front Page, we’re joined by Katie Wesney, head strategic coach at EnableMe, to discuss how to survive the cost of living and why those on high salaries are struggling as well. 

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Speaker 1 (00:06):
Cyta. I'm Susie Nordquitzt and for Chelsea Daniels. And this
is the Front Page, a daily podcast presented by Benny
Zealand Herald. The pressure of the cost of living crunch
has been felt by most of us for a few
years now. Many of us hope that the more we earn,
the less we have to worry about bills, unexpected costs

(00:28):
and living week to week. This week, though, Wellington Mayor
Tory Farno revealed she's had to sell her car in
order to help pay her bills. So if Amia on
a salary of just under one hundred and ninety thousand
dollars a year is finding it tough, can you really
earn enough to avoid financial pressure? Today on the Front Page,
we're joined by Katie Wesney, head strategic coach. It enable

(00:52):
me to discuss how to tackle the cost of living Katie.
When did a six figure income suddenly become not enough?

Speaker 2 (01:03):
There is so much pressure at the moment economically for people.
Interest rates are higher than they have been for a
very long time, inflation, we have an incredible amount of
pressure from a cash flow perspective. If I'm really honest
with you, though, This is not a new problem and

(01:24):
I think that often in New Zealand, the thing we
think that will fix our personal financial situation is that
we need to earn more money. And in all reality,
the more that we earn, the more that we spend,
and the more we disconnect from our finances. And I

(01:48):
think the average household income of I think it's about
one hundred and thirty thousand in New Zealand at the moment,
means that some households will really struggle in terms of
level of debt they have their lifestyle, and others will
be very comfortable being able to invest, et cetera. So
it's horses for courses in terms of personal situation.

Speaker 1 (02:12):
Speaking to the lifestyle creep, is there an element of
people falling into a trap of feeling like they have
to keep up with the jones is? And if so,
what would you say to them?

Speaker 2 (02:22):
To be honest, that's the basis of capitalism. Again, the
more that you earn, the more that you spend. And
it is not what you earn get through your head,
it's what's left over. And there is a balance to
be had of living a great life, but you have
to balance that with making progress otherwise, often you feel
like you are just maintaining a system, and that is exhausting.

(02:46):
And I see lots of examples every day in terms
of the clients that I see who are very clever,
They are earning much more than average, but that is
not translating to the financial press that they know that
they deserve, and there's often a sense of almost shame

(03:09):
around that. And I actually think it's really brave to
acknowledge that you have an issue, and it's about calling
out what do I do about said issue?

Speaker 1 (03:20):
Could you single out a particular worst case kind of
scenario that you're seeing at the moment.

Speaker 2 (03:24):
There's lots of studies and it all gives you the
same kind of metrics and information. I was reading the
other day that fifty six percent of kiwis worry about
money daily or weekly. So I think my key messages
if you are worried, you are certainly not alone. But
worrying doesn't solve anything. It's well, what are the actions

(03:46):
or strategies that can put in place to be better
and do better. I think that stats from the Financial
Services Council financial Resilience indexed in April, and fascinatingly, I
think This is shocking. Forty two percent of US have
credit card did and thirty one percent of us have

(04:06):
buy now Pay later did it?

Speaker 3 (04:11):
So seventy percent of New Zealanders are worrying about money daily, weekly,
or monthly. That's pretty alarming. You know how many people
are going to bed at night going can I pay
my credit card bill? Can I make my mortgage repayment?
Do I need to make trade offs? Are there any
things that I need to do? What are people most
concerned about? Inflation is nuts? Eighty nine percent are really

(04:32):
concerned about inflation in twenty twenty four, interest rates not
far behind about seventy five percent, and house prices. You
can start to see that cooling.

Speaker 2 (04:45):
I can give you a client example. Lovely clients that
I saw this week. They have a household income double
that or more than double that average household income. So
their income household was three hundred and fifty k, so
working incredibly long hours, very clever people. But in the

(05:07):
same breath, they have one home with a one point
one million mortgage and at seven percent interest, that means
eighty eight thousand is just gone per year on one
line item. In terms of that accommodation piece, and when
they came to see me, we really feel like we

(05:28):
shouldn't be in the situation that we are, Katie. We
are honestly living paycheck to paycheck. We just don't know
where we're going wrong, and really hard to say that,
really brave to come along. They have to have a plan,
and they have to have a better structure and a
system in place from a cash flow perspective that sets

(05:52):
them up for success in the future, so they're not
reliant on the uncontrollable often of having to earn more
or pedal faster, because often you feel like you're just
a hamster in a well. You know you're peddling really fast,
but the system has got so big that you're just
not getting ahead.

Speaker 1 (06:10):
Is that what a lot of people are feeling like
at the moment, that they are hamsters on a wheel?

Speaker 2 (06:15):
Unequivocally but really interesting because I get I think you
get to a spot that there's always been enough money
coming in that you haven't really had to think terribly
hard around what you do, and with all due respect,
most people get comfortably inefficient in that they aren't doing

(06:36):
what needs to be done. Things are a little bit loose,
so they end up paying more interest back to the bank,
and we have really profitable banks in New Zealand in
terms of interest rates and fees. And you get what
you focus on. And if you are focused on doing better,
there are rules around all of this. You understand them,

(06:59):
you execute on them, and then you do better.

Speaker 1 (07:02):
Okay, where were those high income earners you spoke about
going wrong with their finances?

Speaker 2 (07:07):
They're just spending everything they earn. It's that lifestyle creep
that they've bought a house that felt doable from a
mortgage perspective when rates were two three percent less so
at seven so they've over extended themselves. They are buying
more expensive cars than they should, and I think there

(07:29):
is grace in reading that some people are getting to
the point where they're like, Oh, do I really need
that car? Can I sell that car and alleviate a
bit of pressure build in a little bit of a
buffer in my situation, because that is absolutely critical, getting
that really strong foundation in terms of being able to

(07:52):
call upon reserves if something goes wrong, because things will
always go wrong, and I think we're naive to think
that it wouldn't. There's a really interesting stat that I read,
what is it over two million New Zealanders and not
prepared for loss of income of the main income earner,
which actually scares me, that stat And that's the first

(08:13):
piece we put in place for our clients is to
make sure they have that really strong foundation in terms
of resilience. So they have a buffet that they can
draw upon. Do you know what that might not even
necessarily be savings. If they have a mortgage, that might
be a line of credit available to them, so if
anything goes wrong, they can hold their line and their

(08:35):
hand is never forced. And I think that's really important
in terms of that foundation piece of that strong plan
into the future.

Speaker 1 (08:55):
You spoke before about people having flashy cars than they need.
I'm not saying too had to flash a car then
she needed. But are you surprised to hear that she
had to sell her car despite her high salary and
having one lotto two decades ago.

Speaker 2 (09:09):
No, I'm not surprised at all, to be honest, And
I say, good honor for acknowledging that, you know, if
you find yourself maybe in a little hole, and obviously
we don't know the backstory, well good on her for
looking at her position and saying, well, how do I
free up cash flow, How can I be more purposeful?

(09:29):
In my mind, cars a depreciable asset. They get you
from A to B. But for some people they're important.
But you live below your means and that's a non negotiable,
and sometimes you can get a little carried away. Things
can change and you focus on the controllables. And if
you are looking at getting a little bit leaner, well
good on them for looking at that and doing that.

Speaker 1 (09:50):
What are people increasingly going without? That might surprise some.

Speaker 2 (09:55):
It worries me often that the first thing people sometimes
go and cut is that insurance protection, which does worry
me because again futures promised to no one and it
can just leave you really exposed. In my experience, from

(10:18):
an inefficiency perspective, often you can find money elsewhere, more accessible,
with less risk to cut back on, to make a
real difference. Again, coming back to what we know to
be true in New Zealand, we frit are about fifteen
percent of our net income, a little bit of overspending,

(10:41):
a lot of pain, too much interest to the bank.
So that fretter piece or inefficiency is where I look
at first for my clients versus exposing them to more risk.
Than they really need to if they lost their job,
for example, if something happened in terms of natural weather events.
I mean it's a very rocky road in New Zealand

(11:03):
just in terms of risk. So again I would be
looking and suggesting that people look first at that almost
lazy money that can so easily slip through the cracks,
spending too much on food, often a little bit of
entertainment piece looking at subscriptions, etc. Ay of itself seems minuscule,

(11:27):
but it all adds up and you think fifty you
do the math. Fifteen percent of your net income generally
is not used to give any more benefit in terms
of enjoying life. If you find that and put that
to better use, your whole financial trajectory shifts in effect.

(11:48):
And I think often the focus has been on that
income side, but actually living a purposeful life certainly not
living a miserable life. There's always a balance to be had,
but again finding those in efficiencies around mortgage, around cost
load that can make a huge difference in terms of

(12:09):
financial momentum and where you land longer term from a
wealth creation perspective.

Speaker 4 (12:15):
That there have been periods when I considered dropping health
insurance because I seem to be living a pretty healthy
life and not really needing to make any claim. But
this is the interesting thing. As my health insurance got
more expensive as I got older, the value of great
health outcomes from the treatments that I or my partner

(12:37):
had outweighed the additional cost. It's a funny ottle game
health insurance. But I'm so glad that we kept at it.

Speaker 1 (12:47):
Do you think budgeting being taught in schools could help
address some of these issues that you're seeing?

Speaker 2 (12:53):
Unequivocally, unequivocally, it's a really good start. I think though
we have a response ability. I have three children as
parents to role model that behavioral element ourselves. It's a
really important pillar for all of my clients who have children,
that we are creating financially independent children and how you

(13:17):
do that while you sort yourself out and they do
what you do in effect from a behavioral perspective, and
that budgeting piece, I call it a spending plan, but
that cash flow and getting that right that is the
engine room of what comes next. And that budgeting piece.
It's a really good first step. But you've got to

(13:39):
also layer that with a strategy. Knowing that people can't
save themselves to wealth. It's what they do with what's
left over. But you've got to have something left over
to start with.

Speaker 1 (13:51):
Certainly, is it a case of if your parents were
bad with money, you were likely to be bad at
handling money yourself.

Speaker 2 (13:59):
It's definitely aallenge because generally speaking, we start learning about
money from the age of three and you replicate the
behaviors that you see. But all is not lost though,
and what I know to be true from all of
my clients who I see again, what they've done in

(14:19):
the past is no indication of what they can do
in the future. But again it's making sure that they
have a better structure and that really strong foundation. I
don't use credit cards. Make sure they have a really
good goal, make sure they're being efficient, so they have
a really good bank account structure, and they've got goals
to clear a mortgage, to look at where they need

(14:43):
to be in retirement, and that we're tracking to be
where we need to. That really makes a difference. And again,
if our children are watching us on that journey, they're
going to be better off. And I know for my
kiddies again twelve fourteen and sixt it's going to be
harder for them. They have to hit the ground running,

(15:04):
and we have a duty of care to make sure
that they know what needs to be done and if
they're doing that by watching us as well. But yeah, great,
great start in schools, certainly.

Speaker 1 (15:17):
And just finally you spoke to the amount of credit
card debt that we have. Should we be cutting our
credit cards up and throwing them away?

Speaker 2 (15:25):
Yes? Please, yes, please? And I can get then arguments
around this point. But we know from a behavioral economics perspective,
people spend about fifteen percent more than they would otherwise
by using credit cards, just because it's a less transparent
form of payment. You know, you can have I paid

(15:45):
who knows who cares? You never quite know where you're at.
You always do better when you work in the constraints
of what you have.

Speaker 1 (15:52):
Certainly, that's a really interesting stat Is there anything else
you'd like to add before we wrap up?

Speaker 2 (15:57):
I would really encourage people if they are struggling, and
it's just not an adding up. You know, you feel
like you know you're a good salary. You are certainly
not alone, but understand where you're at, even if it's
going through your bank statements for the last you know,
a few months, cash in, cash out, what's left over.

(16:19):
If you're going backwards or holding your ground, I think
that's unacceptable. You need to be looking at leavers to
do better. And if it's all too hard, please reach
out for support, speak to a qualified financial advisor. They're
there to help. And it's a crying shame. I personally
think that only twenty percent of New Zealanders take professional

(16:41):
financial advice because when they do, that is stronger and again,
they understand the rules and they make sure how hard
they work, they make the financial progress they deserve. And
that's what we lean into going forward.

Speaker 1 (16:55):
Thanks for joining us, Katie. That's it for this episode
of the Front Page. You can read more about today's
stories and extensive news coverage at zherld dot co dot enzet.
The Front Page is produced by Ethan Sills. Patty Fox
is a sound engineer. I'm Susie Nordquist. Subscribe to the

(17:18):
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