June 16, 2024 • 35 mins
Today on the show we discuss the man who got caught cheating and is blaming Apple, the first sighting on Princess Catherine in months, and a problem Toni has with her bosoms?!
0:00 Intro
0:40 Cheating Man Sues Apple
3:20 Gordon Ramsey’s Injury
5:15 How Many People Get Enough Sleep
6:50 Princess Catherine Returns to Public
10:00 How Has Your Workload Increased
16:30 Do You Believe in Your Cravings
18:55 Bridgerton High Tea
22:20 The Chasers
25:30 Crowded Nest Syndrome
32:00 Toni’s Bosom Problem
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Coast Breakfast brought to you by Bargain Chemist their policy
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Speaker 2 (00:06):
Tony Jason Sam's feel Good Breakfast Can't Shut podcast.
Speaker 1 (00:11):
Today on the show, I talked about my first mammogram
and how my breasts are going to turn up to
this in Git.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Here has been an injury to a breast on breast
screening day. It's not great And Tomato cravens, what does
that say about you?
Speaker 4 (00:25):
And is a craving a sign of a real deficiency.
Speaker 5 (00:27):
I'm craving chocolate.
Speaker 6 (00:29):
So also crowded in the syndrome you've heard about Indian
new syndrome. What happens when the kids move out, then
they move back in, but they bring extras. For one guy,
it is over. I'm talking about his marriage. So you
might think, oh, that's a shame. They call you an
unfaithful husband, though, so strike strike one for me. Unfaithful
husband right saying he's a middle aged man and he's
suing Apple here.
Speaker 5 (00:50):
Strike too, middle aged man.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Jeez, anything else, Jason, Well, he's.
Speaker 6 (00:55):
Saying that Apple is the blame for his wife divorcing him.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Ooh, he's passing the buck. He is, even though he
was in faithful. Well, he sounds like a great character.
Speaker 6 (01:07):
Doesn't either. I think she might have dolge the bullet here. Anyway,
he was messaging ladies behind his wife's back.
Speaker 5 (01:12):
Ladies or ladies ladies, yes.
Speaker 6 (01:15):
And arranging hookups and say he's meeting these lovely ladies,
and you know, discussing in all his messages. Then he's
deleting the messages. No one will ever find these on
my phone, deleting the messages, and the little thing comes up,
you're sure you want to leat this message. I'm very
sure I want to leate this message. So he deletes
the messages.
Speaker 5 (01:31):
Is just on his phone.
Speaker 6 (01:32):
This is on his phone. So the wife goes on too,
the old family I'm you know, the big computer in
the lounge or wherever it is, and she's on, she
finds these messages.
Speaker 5 (01:40):
Did he did he forget about the cloud?
Speaker 6 (01:42):
Clearly he's forgotten about the cloud and the.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
Way he deletes stuff off one and it doesn't It's
just it's still living there, isn't it.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
He's lucky it didn't hang up to the kids iPads.
Speaker 5 (01:52):
Lucky they can't read because connected.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
And it's just an absolute mystery. I was trying to
sign into a new tablet. I mean, we've got a
new table for the kids just because we're going to Italy.
Speaker 4 (02:04):
Don't know if I've told you in a couple of weeks.
So we figured, like, it's a long flight, so we
get them a tablet. But in order to get into it,
we had to sign on. Well.
Speaker 3 (02:13):
I put my email address in first and foremost, and
then when we got to the long and it needed
to be Google, and I was like, do you have.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
A Google account? And then I put my wife's email
into that. Who's that connected to?
Speaker 7 (02:22):
No?
Speaker 4 (02:22):
I know, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
I am literally running the scootlet at the moment. So
what I've actually just done for both my nine and
nearly twelve year old is I've set up separate gmails
for them because currently they were undermine. And my daughter
was coming in from eavy droom and going, mom, you
got an email from blah blah blah. I was like, what,
she's reading your email? Yeah, what about if these you know,
(02:45):
private stuff in the air. It probably has been and
she's probably been private to it already.
Speaker 6 (02:49):
Christmas present ideas and things, Yeah, all worse.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
I think the only way you can cheat these days.
If you're going to send communication is to do it
by wood pigeon, right, you.
Speaker 6 (03:00):
Know what lamped The woman will go to the wrong window.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
And I feeling this guy is not going to win
his case against ad.
Speaker 6 (03:09):
So the wife found them dating Max several years and
she's pretty furious. She's divorcing him. He's blaming Apple. Here's
the funny thing. Apple has not responded, neither his wife.
Tragedy slipping the shift. Gordon Ramsey had a bike crash
so bad that he lifted up his top to show
everyone and he's just dark purple.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
He's lucky to be like, yeah, well, the best description
I heard was he looked like a coumera don't you.
Speaker 4 (03:35):
But it was like his whole abdomen and his whole side.
Do we know what's happened there?
Speaker 6 (03:40):
Yeah, he's crashed, but he really didn't break any bones.
Speaker 4 (03:43):
I want details on the crash.
Speaker 5 (03:46):
Solid bruise too. Normally you see it in patches, but
it's just a big chunk.
Speaker 6 (03:50):
Yeah, yeah, cover bund.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
It's funny. It's funny how quickly things can turn to custard.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
I was talking to my dad recently and he had
an incident and he reckons it's the day he almost died.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
So he my dad was a roof for right.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
And he was painting a school roof and he was
doing i think the second coat.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
And one of the one of the idiots that had.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Done the first coat, had painted over a skylight so
you couldn't even see he was.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
He was on a gym.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Roof, noting that what dad or the guy that he
uniqually said my dad, But this is I think the
luckiest moment of his life because he fell three stories
through a gym roof and landed on the gym mats.
If you're going to fall through any I'm glad it
was the gym, not a classroom, straight onto a hard
(04:40):
disk or a cheer.
Speaker 5 (04:45):
Like, how was he injured?
Speaker 3 (04:47):
It's fine, good up was just ad a somersault for
roll and got back up on the roof.
Speaker 6 (04:56):
From the Swedish judge though le.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
It's a great story, like Gordon Ramsay did he he
didn't even get the bruises to show for I don't
even believe him.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
No, some would say.
Speaker 6 (05:13):
So they reckon on average twenty only twenty six percent
of us do this every single night.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Do you know what specifically New Zealanders or is this
world wild?
Speaker 6 (05:23):
This is around the world.
Speaker 5 (05:24):
I thought it was brush your teeth at night.
Speaker 6 (05:27):
No, I'd like to hope more than too.
Speaker 5 (05:30):
But people are inherently grubby.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
You're right, I suggested flossing.
Speaker 6 (05:35):
That's not that either.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Every night.
Speaker 5 (05:36):
It's a lot though I never floss.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
I know it's a bad, bad thing, added a bad
bad thing, but I don't.
Speaker 6 (05:43):
Yeah, do you love it? When the ding to see
is do you floss? And you're like, you can? You
can food?
Speaker 5 (05:48):
Every time? I say sometimes don't even know.
Speaker 8 (05:53):
Well.
Speaker 6 (05:53):
On two six nine we said before you know what
do you reckon? It is a lot of people have
already nailed it. Get eight hours sleep only six to
see the will's population get eight hours every night.
Speaker 5 (06:03):
I'm not surprised every night that's hard to achieve.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
I agree, I'm definitely the most likely to get it
in this room, though, with my sleepy knacalypsis.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
Yeah, you're amazing at sleeping.
Speaker 5 (06:12):
Last night, I reckon was six and a half.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
I was six and a half last night. That's a
good night for me.
Speaker 6 (06:17):
Six hours eleven minutes last night.
Speaker 5 (06:19):
This is the difference. That's a bad night.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
For me.
Speaker 5 (06:21):
That's a good night for you.
Speaker 4 (06:24):
Blind last night. Do you know what though?
Speaker 3 (06:27):
It's if you want to look young, if you want well,
if you want to grow muscle, if you want a
healthy sex life, they say, if you want any kind
of benefit femal life, they reckon sleepe.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
Sleep is the elixir of life.
Speaker 6 (06:42):
This is it?
Speaker 5 (06:42):
So why do we not sort it out?
Speaker 4 (06:44):
Because of Netflix.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Princess Catherine, Oh my goodness, we saw her for the
first time.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
Wasn't it great to see her out and about.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
So if you've missed this, the Princess of Wales has
been having chemotherapy, so she basically had a procedure done.
They went sure whether it was cancerous, but when they
went in and finished the procedure they found that it
was in fact cancerous. She came out and made a
big announcement and said I'm now going to be undergoing chemotherapy,
so which she's been off duty for a long time,
(07:14):
but she did right the day before say no, I'm
going to make it to the trooping of the color Parade.
So you saw her with her three children. Prince William
was on a horse, wasn't it. He came in on
his own and then enjoyed his family. It was so
nice to see dangious.
Speaker 4 (07:30):
Isn't it Going to a public affair and arriving on
a horse. Things can go wrong.
Speaker 6 (07:34):
I see the kingdom to the day's not I'll got
the carriage things.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
And she actually I felt like Catherine looked really well,
remarkably well. And Jace, you actually said to me off
hear before and just said, you know, she's going through chemotherapy.
It's interesting she's still got her hair.
Speaker 6 (07:48):
Because I wondered, is that because she looks stunning like thin? Obviously,
but she's always been thin.
Speaker 5 (07:53):
She did look very thin, I thought too, But I wonder.
Speaker 6 (07:55):
Is that her real here if she's going through chemotherapy.
I mean, I don't know. I'm really sorry if it's
an ignorant comment. I don't.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
But if you look at the SOO, you probably think
William's going through it, wouldn't you, just I.
Speaker 5 (08:05):
Would ignorant was just bad taste.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
So technology has advanced so much to the point now
where you don't necessarily lose your hair with chemotherapy. It
depends on the type of chemo you go through. What
they have made such huge advancements that a lot of
people actually don't lose their hair anymore.
Speaker 5 (08:25):
Great, you know what, It's both a good.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
And bad thing because on one side, I feel like
it's great because you keep your identity and a lot
of people, you know, you look at Cap Middleton, She's
got the most beautiful hair and it's part of who
she is. But on the flip side of that, people
don't know you're sick. And when people don't know you're sick,
they can't make the same allowances, you know what I mean,
like day to day, Yeah, and expect you to be
(08:49):
well of them?
Speaker 5 (08:49):
Perhaps you are, And she did look really well.
Speaker 6 (08:51):
What I love this is this one photo that was
splashing across all the newspapers around the wood, all of
social media yesterday. Who's smiling out of the carriage? One
of the most stunning working photos I've ever seen of her.
Just beautiful and it is nice to.
Speaker 3 (09:02):
See a pretty smile too, because one hundred and fifty
days she's pretty much been in hiding under treatment, hasn't she?
Speaker 4 (09:07):
Wow? Louis still the show once again?
Speaker 5 (09:10):
Did? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (09:13):
And can we also just talk about Kate Middleton's outfit?
So what she did was very classy. She recycled an
outfit that she had already worn and just added some
black trim.
Speaker 5 (09:22):
Gosh, it looked beautiful. She is just so class, isn't She.
Speaker 6 (09:26):
Is a class and you I also thought it was
another classy thing from the royal family over the weekend.
So it's Father's Day, right? Did you see the photo?
Speaker 4 (09:31):
I did.
Speaker 8 (09:32):
So.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
It's got Prince William with his children and they're all
looking out towards the sea. I think it looks like
or they're looking out towards something the sea.
Speaker 4 (09:41):
Yeah, and amongst what looks like some kind of meri
and grass.
Speaker 5 (09:43):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
And apparently it was Kate Middleton who took that photo
for Father's Day.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
Oh what do you think she's gone on with their
photoshop again?
Speaker 4 (09:52):
Just everything.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
Yourself photos, post breakfast, Instagram and Facebook.
Speaker 6 (09:59):
Now, how are you feeling as you get stuck into
your Monday off the work in a few minutes? Maybe
you already started? See the stats up of the weekend.
Forty seven percent of workers feel exhausted after work because
of an excessive workload. Half of our workers across Altiato
in New Zealand are at breaking point.
Speaker 9 (10:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
I have to say I feel like that most weeks
and It's just the nature of the biz, isn't it.
Lease people And take media for example, maybe five, six,
seven years ago, when we first came into radio, you
did your radio job and that was basically it.
Speaker 5 (10:35):
That was your sole focus.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
But with the invention of social media, now the expectations
are in that space. Podcasting has started video content in general,
and I think that would be the case of if
I was still sitting in television, it would be the
same thing. You're having to do video for social You're
having to write articles for the website.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
They've even got you know, the title VJ up there,
don't they, which is a video journalist, which means you're
a journalists who literally has to turn up, set up lights,
set up a live link, set up a camera, set
it all back.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
You have to pretty much do everything.
Speaker 6 (11:05):
You even look in this in this studio here, right,
we're a radio show. Right. But now in the last
couple of years, we now have cameras at every angle,
We have lights in the studio. So it's a fall
on studio setup because a lot of the stuff actually
goes out to social media.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
Say, that's probably one of the biggest things I got
when I switched from television to radio was oh, at
least you don't have to do makeup anymore, Like yeah,
if I if I want to go on social media
every morning looking like I've just climbed out of bed.
Speaker 6 (11:29):
The worst thing that used to happen in radio. If
you listen to this right now, the worst is to happen.
Right You'd show up, you'd be your baseball camp and
your your your dirty hoodie or whatever, and then the
school group would come from oh god, pull go now
you are fleeving watched right now.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
But even in the time that I was in television,
and I was at TVND for about fifteen years, right
and in that time, we went from having our specific
editors for every story we did to then me having
to be able to edit every story that went to air.
So responsibilities have been added, and I think this is
the same for a lot of other industries.
Speaker 5 (12:01):
And you too wonder when when does it end? At
what point is.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
There a lid where you physically can't just keep adding
responsibility when the work doesn't suffer.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
Has a conversation changed, you know, just a few years
ago everyone was talking about what we do to retain stuff,
you know, is it extra holidays.
Speaker 4 (12:18):
Is it a couple of days working from home?
Speaker 3 (12:19):
But right now the conversation is in a very different
place because we're in a financial crisis and that all
the power is now with the employer. So it's how
do you retain your job before the layoffs and everything?
Like everyone has to basically go above and beyond at
the moment to retain their job.
Speaker 5 (12:35):
And when you had to ask yourself, at what cost?
Speaker 1 (12:37):
And there are a lot of people I look around,
not just here in this building, but a lot of
people are at breaking point, at burnout. Where you're expected
to do a lot, not just in your workplace, but
outside of work as well. And there must be a
limit because we're only human after all.
Speaker 4 (12:52):
That's exactly.
Speaker 6 (12:53):
And they they keep saying, you can't keep giving from
an empty cup. Everyone's cups seem pretty empty at the moment.
So what about you, right, Excuse me, Like, how has
your person workload at your job increase over the past
couple of years, Because remember there's a great resignation. A
couple of years ago, it was, oh, I'm over this,
I'm now going to find another job. Well that's not
so easy anymore.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
Yeah, give us your examples what are you doing now
that you didn't have to do five years ago at
your workplace?
Speaker 6 (13:14):
Would love to hear a story.
Speaker 2 (13:17):
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Tony Jason, Sam.
Speaker 6 (13:23):
You may have seen this in the news. Over the weekend,
forty seven percent caught half half of workers across New
Zealand feel exhausted after work because of an excessive workload.
So we're we're asking before right, what's been happening in
your world and your work. It's over and above what
used to be a couple of years ago. On the
text on two six nine nine, Annabel says, I'm a
dental assistant, but I also now have to do reception
duties as well for no extra pay.
Speaker 5 (13:43):
Oh gosh, that's hard.
Speaker 1 (13:45):
You wouldn't want to be with your mouth open and
suddenly the phone rings.
Speaker 5 (13:48):
Would you hang on a second. I'm just gonna grab.
Speaker 6 (13:51):
That, all right.
Speaker 4 (13:52):
I just put it on speaker.
Speaker 5 (13:55):
Just put your headphones on while I do this.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
What about you, Jenny, what are you having to do
in terms of your workload?
Speaker 8 (14:03):
Well, things mainly leaving for work early in the morning.
Now I used to leave at quarter across six in
the morning to get to work. I've now got to
leave at quarter plus five to make sure that I
get to work our times, So the commute is just horrendous.
And then obviously the same issue going home so adds
to the stress, like you can't believe in fatigue.
Speaker 4 (14:24):
I mean some nights were a steep on the couture
a d.
Speaker 5 (14:28):
We can relate to that.
Speaker 1 (14:30):
And is it so is that actually from your work
or is that just the traffic that's impacting or is
it that you got stuff at work as well that's
adding No, it's.
Speaker 8 (14:39):
Probably more the traffic more than anything else. Just the
stress that I mean. My bosses are fantastic. They know,
and I mean they've even mentioned to me that they are.
You know, we can see when you get to work
that it's been a bad run in some morning. So
then they sort of lay off a weep in terms
of the workload just because they can see what the streets.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
So it wasn't like that's nice, that's really nice they
do that. Just one quite question. Is your job one
that you could potentially work from home at all or
is it not possible.
Speaker 8 (15:07):
I have had the luxury of being able to work
from home two days a week, so it does make
a different.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
Amazing So with a five point fifteen start, what time
do you if you do go to work, what times
you get home?
Speaker 8 (15:23):
Probably a round about six.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Yeah, and anyone that's anti working from home have a
look at that example.
Speaker 5 (15:31):
Take that example and see why it's so needed.
Speaker 6 (15:33):
And even if you don't work from home, if you're
out in traffic right now, you know that when it rains,
everyone forgets how to drive, which just adds to the
stree is even more. That's even worse on the text
as well. Two six ninety nine. The guys work for
regional council computer work, it's increased two to threefold. We're
being introduced to new and improved systems, are going to
deal with thumbers and contractors and rate pays all the time.
Is now it's just impacting and taking impacting. So again,
(15:54):
more skills pretty much same pain.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
And technology is definitely an added it's supposed to make
life easier, but it actually.
Speaker 5 (16:01):
Just can add another level.
Speaker 4 (16:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
See that's an interesting one from Ian who works at
a regional council because he's talking about the new system
coming in, so he's having to soak up the extra
workload of adapting that new system.
Speaker 5 (16:15):
Days free just to get across it. You've still got
to do the rest.
Speaker 6 (16:19):
I'm hoping. I'm hoping we get to a stage we
can really fully enjoy our weekends. I know it's a
lot to give, but you know you're to try and
recharge over the weekends as much as you can, but
work seeps into the weekends.
Speaker 4 (16:29):
Listen to this.
Speaker 6 (16:30):
I'll tell you what on weather like this muld wine,
that's the key mould wine.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
We are in the mouldwine season. Like that, you're craving
that are jsld wine?
Speaker 6 (16:39):
You maybe crackling fire and a muld wine?
Speaker 4 (16:42):
What is it about the mould wine that you're that
you're craving. I don't knowhol that's not helping anyone.
Speaker 5 (16:49):
Maybe everyone thought it was going to be me craving
this morning.
Speaker 4 (16:53):
No it's not. That's the question. Do you believe in
your cravings?
Speaker 3 (16:57):
Because I've been having weird cravings and I'm not aving
is kind of going. I'm very good at resisting temptation,
but I am craving the humble tomato.
Speaker 5 (17:04):
Trust Sam.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
Everyone else is craving chocolate and old mates, craving no fruit.
Speaker 3 (17:09):
No, you know, I think the thing is that I
think my craving might be coming from the fact that
I saw tomato constructed into a McDonald's burger on a commercial.
It's not going to help the cow did something about
the acidity and the tomato that right now I am
craving and I don't know why.
Speaker 5 (17:26):
Well, I think I've found it out for you.
Speaker 4 (17:27):
Tell me.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
I've googled this because, like any craving, that usually means
something is not right, you're unbalanced.
Speaker 4 (17:35):
Is that actually a fact?
Speaker 3 (17:36):
Because I had never believe my mum's cravings because my
mum always you said it should be eating ice cream,
is like, must have needed the calcium, and I'm.
Speaker 5 (17:43):
Like, ah, you're my hero.
Speaker 1 (17:55):
So this is apparently an insatiable craving for tomatoes or
tomato product. Here. It's got a name. It's called tomato fagier.
You've got a condition, You've got the fashier. Tomatophagier may
sometimes be associated with nutritional deficiencies, especially in pregnant women.
It may also we've cleared that up, it's not that
(18:18):
it may also occur in people with iron deficiency anemia,
even though raw tomatoes are actually low in iron. So
it's like you'd think you'd crave meat, but it's not.
You crave tomatoes because you low an iron.
Speaker 4 (18:30):
That is amazing. We can trust our cravings.
Speaker 5 (18:33):
I think you need what you need and I've thought
this for a while. Is a good steak, Sam.
Speaker 1 (18:38):
Just get the steak in your stop eating your abbit
food and all will be well.
Speaker 5 (18:44):
You can CHLC was also lacking, so have a bobble
of wipes.
Speaker 4 (18:48):
It's taking some ice cream.
Speaker 6 (18:50):
So as human, maybe you were like us. And spent
the week in Bringe watching Bridget and oh one word sublime.
Absolutely loved it.
Speaker 5 (19:02):
So why Jays?
Speaker 1 (19:03):
I loved every minute of her and I had watched
the first episode of the Latest Drop, which was that
nudie scene, and then after going to the British and
Breakfast on Friday that we hosted at Hills in Auckland,
it just got me excited to watch more of it.
And I think part of that was because we shared
the excitement with so many people that came to the
(19:24):
High Tea, like Sue and her family. We have Sue,
Caroline and Emma here.
Speaker 5 (19:29):
Three generations at the High Tea. What are you celebrating.
Speaker 6 (19:34):
The tree?
Speaker 1 (19:35):
Congratulations fantastic? What do you think of Jace.
Speaker 4 (19:40):
I think he is absolutely amazing, beautiful, beautiful.
Speaker 5 (19:45):
Chris didn't want to come along to the Bridgiston I
we didn't ask him fair enough. This is the largest event,
isn't it, Jace.
Speaker 6 (19:53):
Yes, Queen Charlotte, thanks again.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
And Chris was Sue's so so Sue was there with
her daughter and her granddaughter and Chris was left at home.
Speaker 5 (20:06):
I'm sure he actually did want to attend.
Speaker 4 (20:09):
Yeah, it was a wonderful, wonerful morning.
Speaker 3 (20:10):
We also had our expert that Mary v remember she
spoke on the radio just a few days earlier, who's
an expert in the regency area in the eighteen hundreds.
Speaker 4 (20:18):
And we also asked her about what she thought about outfits.
Tony's looking very on brand.
Speaker 5 (20:23):
You're looking great. Love the waist coat, thank you, Jason.
The little French but pretty good anyway. You know, he's
a bit Marie antoineer.
Speaker 4 (20:31):
But it's all.
Speaker 5 (20:32):
It's around about the same time, so quite accurate.
Speaker 6 (20:34):
Actually, in my defense, Mirrorbility Bridge an expert. I didn't
choose my outfort. That happened to me while I was away.
She is, guys, it.
Speaker 1 (20:42):
Was, but she didn't go on to say that Bridges
and the show. They kind of pulled from a few
different eras. They don't stay and I remember when we
went out to first scene and we were told the
same thing, and they kind of muddle the erarors when
it comes to wanting to put it on good dress
or wanting to bring it something certain in.
Speaker 3 (20:58):
Isn't it unusual that having a exposed chest plate cleavage
is a chest plate is more acceptable than showing you
your arms.
Speaker 1 (21:07):
I thought that too, but only you're only allowed to
get the chest out for special occasions. So I was
allowed at the High Tea, but I wouldn't be getting
it out now. I'm back to being covered up here.
Speaker 6 (21:16):
I'm exactly the same as Tony.
Speaker 1 (21:18):
Actually, speaking of chess, I need to talk to you
after eight about what happened with my ample bosom and
why it's caused me a world of pain for something
I have to do today because it was an unexpected
consequence of having to strap those puppies.
Speaker 10 (21:34):
Up right now though, okay, one thousand and three hundred
dollars could be.
Speaker 6 (21:45):
Yours if you beat us in a general knowledge quiz.
This is the chases. We do it every day. None
of us want to play, so we have to roll
the dice.
Speaker 1 (21:52):
Can I just say I played I think three or
maybe four times in a row, last word, so if
this lends on me, it'll be very unfair. There we
go the door, Yes, Jace, Oh how good queen?
Speaker 6 (22:06):
Yes Green, Oh wait, one hundred double ow four Coast
South phone number. Just be called a team right now.
There are five questions coming. No matter what you get,
because if I can't match you, you will win one thousand,
three hundred dollars right now, the jasus on coast more
than I'm idle have.
Speaker 8 (22:27):
I'm from fday and I hope to one again to
Jace this morning and have some I'm spending money for
me and my kids.
Speaker 5 (22:33):
Yes, yes, it's a lot of money to thirteen hundred dollars. Jace,
how do you feel you've been nervous at defending this?
Speaker 6 (22:40):
I haven't played for a couple of weeks. It's been
that long. I'm really nervous.
Speaker 4 (22:44):
Shapes.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
Oh god, Yeah, we've done happy, Yeah, we've done all
the work here, Jace. Well, this money goes mate, But
you know the last.
Speaker 4 (22:56):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (22:57):
I wish you we were a success, my friend.
Speaker 4 (22:58):
Good luck right.
Speaker 1 (23:00):
Adaha is sending Jason out of the soundproof studio, and
in true Jay's form, he's already got his fingers in.
Speaker 5 (23:06):
His ears at a half.
Speaker 1 (23:11):
But he's such, he's honest to a vault. Hey, listen,
I think it's a path three today. I think a
four would win. So just remember, I feel like people
fall into this trap when it's a guessable question. Just yes,
don't leave it open, Okay, just have a stab, all right,
Adam haf for thirteen hundred dollars, Your time starts now?
Speaker 4 (23:32):
Who sings beat it?
Speaker 6 (23:34):
Michael Jackson?
Speaker 9 (23:35):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (23:36):
And American football? How many points is the touchdown worth? Oh?
Speaker 7 (23:41):
Or no?
Speaker 4 (23:42):
Madrid is the capital of which country?
Speaker 7 (23:46):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (23:47):
What famous chef has been in a cycling accident?
Speaker 5 (23:50):
Oh?
Speaker 8 (23:52):
Jamie Oliver?
Speaker 4 (23:52):
Know how many pounds are in one stone?
Speaker 6 (23:58):
Five?
Speaker 3 (23:59):
No?
Speaker 5 (24:00):
Him hard?
Speaker 1 (24:02):
Like, good on you for having a stab at those questions.
You never know when you guess is correct.
Speaker 5 (24:07):
So he's chasing a two. Let's bring him back in.
Speaker 1 (24:09):
I'd reverse the questions, chase you two to which I
think is one under part today?
Speaker 6 (24:16):
Do you reckon?
Speaker 5 (24:17):
I reckon past three? Excuse me? Allergies?
Speaker 1 (24:21):
All right, Jace, you need a two to prevent the
thirteen hundred dollars from flying out of our boss's wallet.
Speaker 4 (24:27):
And I'm going to reverse the order of the questions. People,
I'll follow.
Speaker 5 (24:30):
You, okay, the dad's your time starts now.
Speaker 4 (24:34):
How many pounds are in one stone?
Speaker 6 (24:38):
Plus?
Speaker 4 (24:39):
What famous ship has been injured in a cycling accident?
Speaker 6 (24:42):
Gordon Ramsey?
Speaker 4 (24:43):
Yes, Madrid is the capital of what country?
Speaker 1 (24:46):
Done it?
Speaker 5 (24:46):
Everybody?
Speaker 4 (24:48):
Pounds?
Speaker 6 (24:48):
Pounds of stones?
Speaker 4 (24:50):
Fourteen?
Speaker 5 (24:52):
See if you'll be a three or four?
Speaker 3 (24:54):
In American football? How many points is a touchdown worth?
Speaker 8 (24:57):
Two?
Speaker 1 (24:57):
No?
Speaker 4 (24:58):
Touchdown two?
Speaker 1 (25:00):
I don't know, you know it's like a try five
plus six?
Speaker 4 (25:05):
Who things beat it?
Speaker 6 (25:07):
Michael Jackson's three?
Speaker 5 (25:11):
You know what that means? Fourteen hundred dollars for Tuesday?
It's getting up there, really.
Speaker 6 (25:17):
Is, so your chance to play? Just after half past
seven tomorrow.
Speaker 5 (25:21):
Thanks for listening to.
Speaker 2 (25:22):
The Feel Good Breakfast catch Up podcast with cost Tony Street,
Jace Reeves and Sam Wallas.
Speaker 6 (25:29):
I'm lucky enough to grow up in a family where
my mum and dad have always said to me, if
poop goes wrong, move home, just come home. And I
don't know, you guys are exactly the same time, do
you hope? I like to hope we'll all become those
sort of parents ourselves. So things go wrong for our kids,
will say to them, just come on home.
Speaker 5 (25:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
I feel like, absolutely i'd be that parent, But there
is there are times where it's convenient and other times
where you think.
Speaker 5 (25:49):
I don't know if this is a good idea.
Speaker 1 (25:51):
And I've got friends of mine whose daughter finished high
school and then her boyfriend asked to stay right very young,
and they and this boy has moved into their family
home and she has younger siblings as well, And I
don't know if I'd be okay with that. Look, I'm
not there and you don't know the circumstances. And then
(26:11):
I think, well, am I being hypocritical because I look
at my own situation. I left home at seventeen to
go to university. My now husband, when he was my boyfriend,
went and lived with my parents without me because I
was still in Canterbury when he played for the Taranaki
rugby team, so they had a lodger and.
Speaker 5 (26:30):
They always say he was easier than me.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
To them, do you think it comes down to if
you like the partner or not sure? In the alternative
to that is if you say no, he can't stay here,
and then one of your children decides to leave, then
you know it's under a different roof. So you kind
of dann with if you're doing your damn if you don't.
And the problem with it is with the market right now.
You know, with the costs of universities and everything like that,
it's so expensive to find a flat or to.
Speaker 4 (26:56):
Low and behold buy a house.
Speaker 6 (26:57):
It's impossible.
Speaker 1 (26:58):
I just don't think I'd want my eighteen year old
moving in with their partner at that age.
Speaker 5 (27:02):
It's like go and flat and stuff. First.
Speaker 6 (27:04):
This is what they're saying is it's called crowded nest syndrome.
The series of problems that occur when the kids move
out then they move back in. Now that's gonna happen
later in life too, Like your husbands and wives are.
They set their own family up, then something goes wrong,
they lose the house, got to move back in with
the grandparents slash mom and dad. Intergenerational living is a
massive thing in New Zealand right now.
Speaker 1 (27:20):
Can you imagine Leat's just say the twin girls are
eighteen right now, right one of them says, can my
boyfriend come and you you come into the house and
he's sitting there in his jocks eating all your protein
shakes like your.
Speaker 4 (27:37):
TV greet him at the door like a singles on
a beanie.
Speaker 3 (27:43):
I'd probably got a vivid and drawn a tatto on
my face and I have a baseball bat tecked into
by underwear.
Speaker 5 (27:48):
So you want to stay.
Speaker 6 (27:50):
So we're asking the question this morning, like would you
I mean maybe your face, the sort of dilemming yourself,
the whole crowded nest syndrome, what sort of problems or
did it work out for you? We'd love to hear
the story. Would you do it? Have you let us
know we're talking about crowded their syndrome, the series of
problems that occur when the kids move out in they
move back and bringing extras, and Samuel just saying before that,
you know, when you get to the age where your
(28:11):
daughters are saying eighteen, your twin daughters are eighteen, you
don't want no dude hanging around.
Speaker 4 (28:15):
Well, I say that with all the provado in the world.
Speaker 3 (28:16):
But the truth, as you do anything to kind of
keep your family together and happy, is the truth.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
I don't reckon I'll be as nice as you. I'll
think I'll say, you're eighteen, you're not living together yet?
Speaker 5 (28:26):
Go and Flo.
Speaker 6 (28:27):
Well, Dad just rang me just then and he said,
you know, when we first met Cam and my sister's
now husband, Hember, he said to Cam, what steps will
you take if you my daughter pregnant?
Speaker 5 (28:35):
And this poor bugger's like, oh my gosh, and do
you know what? Jas? Do you know what?
Speaker 1 (28:39):
He's not the only one. We've just had a tips
come through on two six ninety nine. Hell no, we
quickly sold the big house and downsized once they got
on There ain't no coming back, extint when we're on
holiday from overseas. All my friends were like, but what
if they want to come back?
Speaker 4 (28:55):
Are no shut the door?
Speaker 6 (28:57):
I get it, I get it. Maria, what have you got?
Did you do the old crowded ness thing? How did
it work out?
Speaker 8 (29:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (29:03):
Morning, Yeah, Well, just before COVID, the first round of COVID,
before my son had a reasonably new girlfriend and asked
if she could move in for the lockdown, or come
and stay for the lockdown, or talk me.
Speaker 5 (29:17):
Through your thought process.
Speaker 7 (29:19):
When he asked, well, it's better than him going away,
because I didn't want him to go away. But it
was very uncertain timed, and my thing was if you
move and you stay in, because you're not coming and
going and breaking the bubble thing because I'm very really.
Speaker 8 (29:35):
It was.
Speaker 7 (29:36):
So they argued and she left or she didn't come
back till COVID was over, but they didn't they sheaed.
She actually moved in and didn't leave for a couple
of years, but was very lovely, drama free. They're both
real people and no arguing, no dramas.
Speaker 1 (29:54):
It probably it probably actually made your bubble a bit
more exciting. I could have done with another couple of
el's when I had my three kids there.
Speaker 6 (30:02):
The company, so many breeds you can make exactly Weindy,
what about you crowded this to go? Okay for you.
Speaker 9 (30:07):
Guys know, I love it like I've got I've got
full boys. So two have moved out and the other
two have moved out, but they've both moved back in
and one of them has got his girlfriend with them,
and yeah, hey it's great having another female and these Yeah,
so you like it.
Speaker 7 (30:26):
Yeah, No, I wouldn't change anything, you know, if it
helps him get on their feet and stuff like that
as well.
Speaker 4 (30:32):
Yeah, you're used to having a lot of people around before, aren't.
Speaker 9 (30:35):
You you know, yeah, well exactly, and like all in
mates come over as well, like, but they've been mate
since primary school and stuff.
Speaker 7 (30:45):
So it's just like extra kids as well. So I
love having a busy house.
Speaker 5 (30:50):
Do you know what you sound like?
Speaker 1 (30:51):
Exactly how I want to be in another teen or
twenty years mine are a bit older. I just hope
that I too enjoy the girlfriends and boyfriends as much.
Speaker 5 (31:01):
And I'm not looking at them going I just don't know.
Speaker 4 (31:04):
You were just saying it out though.
Speaker 1 (31:06):
Yeah, they're not living with us when they're eighteen, no way.
If I feel like, if they're in living with us,
I'm like, what's happening here? I want them to be
able to experience going out and having a little fit
for themselves. I'll always be there as a backup, but
I don't want that to become three years down the line, right,
So that's the situation.
Speaker 6 (31:23):
If they moved out and went flatting and went protably wrong
and then they came back, you'd be okay with that.
Speaker 5 (31:26):
Oh, of course, there'll always be a backstop.
Speaker 1 (31:28):
But I just I don't know if I want my
daughter or my son living like a married couple before
the time.
Speaker 5 (31:34):
I haven't got a lot of years to do that.
Speaker 4 (31:37):
Traditional values now, is it?
Speaker 6 (31:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (31:39):
Because you know, you know what it's like to be married, Sam,
it's a long time to be like that.
Speaker 5 (31:45):
You don't need to rage into it. In your team.
Speaker 6 (31:47):
Shout out to our lovely wives and husbands is wanting
loving you lots and softly.
Speaker 4 (31:54):
It's a long time married.
Speaker 1 (31:58):
We need to talk about now, yep, and the breast
region because we should be getting mammograms once you hit
the age of forty five. It's a thing that you
should be getting regularly.
Speaker 5 (32:09):
Now.
Speaker 1 (32:10):
I'm only forty, so I've still got five years, well
four and a half years until I'm meant to But
I've been told by my GP, because I'm going through
early peri menopause, that i should get them earlier. So
I've been doing my as you know, I've been getting
every check under the sun. I've had heart I've had
air noos and throat and today is my mammogram, my
first one.
Speaker 5 (32:28):
Either never had one.
Speaker 1 (32:30):
We don't get them in you're thirty, nervous, Nah, I
feel like I've been I've had enough blood tests and
enough procedures. I feel like that's the least my worries.
All I know about it is that they get pretty squished.
And I'm going to find out today whether I have
dense breasts or not. And the density apparently has something
to do with your chances of potentially developing breast cancer.
(32:52):
And I don't have any history of breast cancer in
my family. But can we just talk about the state
of my boobs for a seconds?
Speaker 3 (32:58):
And I'm not going to be held response for the
stadium boobs, even though there was accusations flying around this morning.
Speaker 1 (33:03):
No, no, I just wish I'd had a bit of sympathy,
is all I'm saying, particularly from producer Rosie who's a female.
Speaker 5 (33:09):
No one gave me some. And look, I am actually
to blame for this.
Speaker 1 (33:15):
Well, the show is to blame for this, because I
had to try and look my most Penny Featherington on
Friday for Bridgington and to do that you don't wear
a bra and the dresses from that era because they've
got this tiny little shelf that you have to put
them into and then they need to be pushed up
to get the full bosom look.
Speaker 5 (33:33):
So to get that I had.
Speaker 1 (33:34):
To tape my boobs. Now I'm not someone that does
that all the time. A lot of the young ones do.
They don't wear bras because they want all the backstraps
and all that showing, and they take them so on
the morn.
Speaker 4 (33:46):
You know, holding in there pretty well.
Speaker 5 (33:48):
I have had three children.
Speaker 1 (33:49):
Sam On the morning of the bridges in Hi Ti
on Friday morning at four am, I decided, oh no, I.
Speaker 5 (33:56):
Don't have any tape. So I rifled through.
Speaker 1 (33:58):
The medical cabinet and I found some bright blue strapping
tape that my daughter uses for netball, and I was like,
this will do. So I squashed the girls together, strapped
them all up, had them in the right spot and went.
That actually worked surprisingly well, and it feels quite soft.
It should be easy to take off.
Speaker 4 (34:13):
I love it will support a faulty ankle. I suspect
it will hold a bosom in place.
Speaker 1 (34:19):
So the Britain and it ends and we're up in
the hotel room cleaning up, getting all of the gear,
and I had to get my costume off to give
to producer Rosie so she could return it.
Speaker 5 (34:29):
And what did I do?
Speaker 1 (34:31):
I thought back to when I was a child, and
it hurts less when the band aid off fast and furious.
Speaker 6 (34:38):
Something what's happened?
Speaker 5 (34:41):
My skin.
Speaker 4 (34:44):
Stuck there on the tap.
Speaker 1 (34:48):
My nipples are still in place, but on one side
of my leaft boob. I have got what looks like
a tiger coloring at me with an actual.
Speaker 5 (34:58):
Wound and un underneath. I've got a wound as well.
And this happens to be on the day I have
my first mammogrand. Look at me today like what is
going on in her household? Animals taking her and I
don't know if it's going to make the mammogram worse
or if it's just going to be the shame of
having to expose a wounded bosom.
Speaker 6 (35:19):
I wish you were a success with this. And by
the way, if you want to see photo SAMs on
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Speaker 1 (00:11):
Today on the show, I talked about my first mammogram
and how my breasts are going to turn up to
this in Git.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Here has been an injury to a breast on breast
screening day. It's not great And Tomato cravens, what does
that say about you?
Speaker 4 (00:25):
And is a craving a sign of a real deficiency.
Speaker 5 (00:27):
I'm craving chocolate.
Speaker 6 (00:29):
So also crowded in the syndrome you've heard about Indian
new syndrome. What happens when the kids move out, then
they move back in, but they bring extras. For one guy,
it is over. I'm talking about his marriage. So you
might think, oh, that's a shame. They call you an
unfaithful husband, though, so strike strike one for me. Unfaithful
husband right saying he's a middle aged man and he's
suing Apple here.
Speaker 5 (00:50):
Strike too, middle aged man.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
Jeez, anything else, Jason, Well, he's.
Speaker 6 (00:55):
Saying that Apple is the blame for his wife divorcing him.
Speaker 1 (00:58):
Ooh, he's passing the buck. He is, even though he
was in faithful. Well, he sounds like a great character.
Speaker 6 (01:07):
Doesn't either. I think she might have dolge the bullet here. Anyway,
he was messaging ladies behind his wife's back.
Speaker 5 (01:12):
Ladies or ladies ladies, yes.
Speaker 6 (01:15):
And arranging hookups and say he's meeting these lovely ladies,
and you know, discussing in all his messages. Then he's
deleting the messages. No one will ever find these on
my phone, deleting the messages, and the little thing comes up,
you're sure you want to leat this message. I'm very
sure I want to leate this message. So he deletes
the messages.
Speaker 5 (01:31):
Is just on his phone.
Speaker 6 (01:32):
This is on his phone. So the wife goes on too,
the old family I'm you know, the big computer in
the lounge or wherever it is, and she's on, she
finds these messages.
Speaker 5 (01:40):
Did he did he forget about the cloud?
Speaker 6 (01:42):
Clearly he's forgotten about the cloud and the.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
Way he deletes stuff off one and it doesn't It's
just it's still living there, isn't it.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
He's lucky it didn't hang up to the kids iPads.
Speaker 5 (01:52):
Lucky they can't read because connected.
Speaker 3 (01:55):
And it's just an absolute mystery. I was trying to
sign into a new tablet. I mean, we've got a
new table for the kids just because we're going to Italy.
Speaker 4 (02:04):
Don't know if I've told you in a couple of weeks.
So we figured, like, it's a long flight, so we
get them a tablet. But in order to get into it,
we had to sign on. Well.
Speaker 3 (02:13):
I put my email address in first and foremost, and
then when we got to the long and it needed
to be Google, and I was like, do you have.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
A Google account? And then I put my wife's email
into that. Who's that connected to?
Speaker 7 (02:22):
No?
Speaker 4 (02:22):
I know, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
I am literally running the scootlet at the moment. So
what I've actually just done for both my nine and
nearly twelve year old is I've set up separate gmails
for them because currently they were undermine. And my daughter
was coming in from eavy droom and going, mom, you
got an email from blah blah blah. I was like, what,
she's reading your email? Yeah, what about if these you know,
(02:45):
private stuff in the air. It probably has been and
she's probably been private to it already.
Speaker 6 (02:49):
Christmas present ideas and things, Yeah, all worse.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
I think the only way you can cheat these days.
If you're going to send communication is to do it
by wood pigeon, right, you.
Speaker 6 (03:00):
Know what lamped The woman will go to the wrong window.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
And I feeling this guy is not going to win
his case against ad.
Speaker 6 (03:09):
So the wife found them dating Max several years and
she's pretty furious. She's divorcing him. He's blaming Apple. Here's
the funny thing. Apple has not responded, neither his wife.
Tragedy slipping the shift. Gordon Ramsey had a bike crash
so bad that he lifted up his top to show
everyone and he's just dark purple.
Speaker 3 (03:26):
He's lucky to be like, yeah, well, the best description
I heard was he looked like a coumera don't you.
Speaker 4 (03:35):
But it was like his whole abdomen and his whole side.
Do we know what's happened there?
Speaker 6 (03:40):
Yeah, he's crashed, but he really didn't break any bones.
Speaker 4 (03:43):
I want details on the crash.
Speaker 5 (03:46):
Solid bruise too. Normally you see it in patches, but
it's just a big chunk.
Speaker 6 (03:50):
Yeah, yeah, cover bund.
Speaker 4 (03:51):
It's funny. It's funny how quickly things can turn to custard.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
I was talking to my dad recently and he had
an incident and he reckons it's the day he almost died.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
So he my dad was a roof for right.
Speaker 3 (04:01):
And he was painting a school roof and he was
doing i think the second coat.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
And one of the one of the idiots that had.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Done the first coat, had painted over a skylight so
you couldn't even see he was.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
He was on a gym.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
Roof, noting that what dad or the guy that he
uniqually said my dad, But this is I think the
luckiest moment of his life because he fell three stories
through a gym roof and landed on the gym mats.
If you're going to fall through any I'm glad it
was the gym, not a classroom, straight onto a hard
(04:40):
disk or a cheer.
Speaker 5 (04:45):
Like, how was he injured?
Speaker 3 (04:47):
It's fine, good up was just ad a somersault for
roll and got back up on the roof.
Speaker 6 (04:56):
From the Swedish judge though le.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
It's a great story, like Gordon Ramsay did he he
didn't even get the bruises to show for I don't
even believe him.
Speaker 4 (05:09):
No, some would say.
Speaker 6 (05:13):
So they reckon on average twenty only twenty six percent
of us do this every single night.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
Do you know what specifically New Zealanders or is this
world wild?
Speaker 6 (05:23):
This is around the world.
Speaker 5 (05:24):
I thought it was brush your teeth at night.
Speaker 6 (05:27):
No, I'd like to hope more than too.
Speaker 5 (05:30):
But people are inherently grubby.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
You're right, I suggested flossing.
Speaker 6 (05:35):
That's not that either.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Every night.
Speaker 5 (05:36):
It's a lot though I never floss.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
I know it's a bad, bad thing, added a bad
bad thing, but I don't.
Speaker 6 (05:43):
Yeah, do you love it? When the ding to see
is do you floss? And you're like, you can? You
can food?
Speaker 5 (05:48):
Every time? I say sometimes don't even know.
Speaker 8 (05:53):
Well.
Speaker 6 (05:53):
On two six nine we said before you know what
do you reckon? It is a lot of people have
already nailed it. Get eight hours sleep only six to
see the will's population get eight hours every night.
Speaker 5 (06:03):
I'm not surprised every night that's hard to achieve.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
I agree, I'm definitely the most likely to get it
in this room, though, with my sleepy knacalypsis.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
Yeah, you're amazing at sleeping.
Speaker 5 (06:12):
Last night, I reckon was six and a half.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
I was six and a half last night. That's a
good night for me.
Speaker 6 (06:17):
Six hours eleven minutes last night.
Speaker 5 (06:19):
This is the difference. That's a bad night.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
For me.
Speaker 5 (06:21):
That's a good night for you.
Speaker 4 (06:24):
Blind last night. Do you know what though?
Speaker 3 (06:27):
It's if you want to look young, if you want well,
if you want to grow muscle, if you want a
healthy sex life, they say, if you want any kind
of benefit femal life, they reckon sleepe.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
Sleep is the elixir of life.
Speaker 6 (06:42):
This is it?
Speaker 5 (06:42):
So why do we not sort it out?
Speaker 4 (06:44):
Because of Netflix.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
Princess Catherine, Oh my goodness, we saw her for the
first time.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
Wasn't it great to see her out and about.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
So if you've missed this, the Princess of Wales has
been having chemotherapy, so she basically had a procedure done.
They went sure whether it was cancerous, but when they
went in and finished the procedure they found that it
was in fact cancerous. She came out and made a
big announcement and said I'm now going to be undergoing chemotherapy,
so which she's been off duty for a long time,
(07:14):
but she did right the day before say no, I'm
going to make it to the trooping of the color Parade.
So you saw her with her three children. Prince William
was on a horse, wasn't it. He came in on
his own and then enjoyed his family. It was so
nice to see dangious.
Speaker 4 (07:30):
Isn't it Going to a public affair and arriving on
a horse. Things can go wrong.
Speaker 6 (07:34):
I see the kingdom to the day's not I'll got
the carriage things.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
And she actually I felt like Catherine looked really well,
remarkably well. And Jace, you actually said to me off
hear before and just said, you know, she's going through chemotherapy.
It's interesting she's still got her hair.
Speaker 6 (07:48):
Because I wondered, is that because she looks stunning like thin? Obviously,
but she's always been thin.
Speaker 5 (07:53):
She did look very thin, I thought too, But I wonder.
Speaker 6 (07:55):
Is that her real here if she's going through chemotherapy.
I mean, I don't know. I'm really sorry if it's
an ignorant comment. I don't.
Speaker 3 (08:00):
But if you look at the SOO, you probably think
William's going through it, wouldn't you, just I.
Speaker 5 (08:05):
Would ignorant was just bad taste.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
So technology has advanced so much to the point now
where you don't necessarily lose your hair with chemotherapy. It
depends on the type of chemo you go through. What
they have made such huge advancements that a lot of
people actually don't lose their hair anymore.
Speaker 5 (08:25):
Great, you know what, It's both a good.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
And bad thing because on one side, I feel like
it's great because you keep your identity and a lot
of people, you know, you look at Cap Middleton, She's
got the most beautiful hair and it's part of who
she is. But on the flip side of that, people
don't know you're sick. And when people don't know you're sick,
they can't make the same allowances, you know what I mean,
like day to day, Yeah, and expect you to be
(08:49):
well of them?
Speaker 5 (08:49):
Perhaps you are, And she did look really well.
Speaker 6 (08:51):
What I love this is this one photo that was
splashing across all the newspapers around the wood, all of
social media yesterday. Who's smiling out of the carriage? One
of the most stunning working photos I've ever seen of her.
Just beautiful and it is nice to.
Speaker 3 (09:02):
See a pretty smile too, because one hundred and fifty
days she's pretty much been in hiding under treatment, hasn't she?
Speaker 4 (09:07):
Wow? Louis still the show once again?
Speaker 5 (09:10):
Did? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (09:13):
And can we also just talk about Kate Middleton's outfit?
So what she did was very classy. She recycled an
outfit that she had already worn and just added some
black trim.
Speaker 5 (09:22):
Gosh, it looked beautiful. She is just so class, isn't She.
Speaker 6 (09:26):
Is a class and you I also thought it was
another classy thing from the royal family over the weekend.
So it's Father's Day, right? Did you see the photo?
Speaker 4 (09:31):
I did.
Speaker 8 (09:32):
So.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
It's got Prince William with his children and they're all
looking out towards the sea. I think it looks like
or they're looking out towards something the sea.
Speaker 4 (09:41):
Yeah, and amongst what looks like some kind of meri
and grass.
Speaker 5 (09:43):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
And apparently it was Kate Middleton who took that photo
for Father's Day.
Speaker 3 (09:47):
Oh what do you think she's gone on with their
photoshop again?
Speaker 4 (09:52):
Just everything.
Speaker 1 (09:56):
Yourself photos, post breakfast, Instagram and Facebook.
Speaker 6 (09:59):
Now, how are you feeling as you get stuck into
your Monday off the work in a few minutes? Maybe
you already started? See the stats up of the weekend.
Forty seven percent of workers feel exhausted after work because
of an excessive workload. Half of our workers across Altiato
in New Zealand are at breaking point.
Speaker 9 (10:17):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
I have to say I feel like that most weeks
and It's just the nature of the biz, isn't it.
Lease people And take media for example, maybe five, six,
seven years ago, when we first came into radio, you
did your radio job and that was basically it.
Speaker 5 (10:35):
That was your sole focus.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
But with the invention of social media, now the expectations
are in that space. Podcasting has started video content in general,
and I think that would be the case of if
I was still sitting in television, it would be the
same thing. You're having to do video for social You're
having to write articles for the website.
Speaker 3 (10:54):
They've even got you know, the title VJ up there,
don't they, which is a video journalist, which means you're
a journalists who literally has to turn up, set up lights,
set up a live link, set up a camera, set
it all back.
Speaker 4 (11:04):
You have to pretty much do everything.
Speaker 6 (11:05):
You even look in this in this studio here, right,
we're a radio show. Right. But now in the last
couple of years, we now have cameras at every angle,
We have lights in the studio. So it's a fall
on studio setup because a lot of the stuff actually
goes out to social media.
Speaker 1 (11:16):
Say, that's probably one of the biggest things I got
when I switched from television to radio was oh, at
least you don't have to do makeup anymore, Like yeah,
if I if I want to go on social media
every morning looking like I've just climbed out of bed.
Speaker 6 (11:29):
The worst thing that used to happen in radio. If
you listen to this right now, the worst is to happen.
Right You'd show up, you'd be your baseball camp and
your your your dirty hoodie or whatever, and then the
school group would come from oh god, pull go now
you are fleeving watched right now.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
But even in the time that I was in television,
and I was at TVND for about fifteen years, right
and in that time, we went from having our specific
editors for every story we did to then me having
to be able to edit every story that went to air.
So responsibilities have been added, and I think this is
the same for a lot of other industries.
Speaker 5 (12:01):
And you too wonder when when does it end? At
what point is.
Speaker 1 (12:05):
There a lid where you physically can't just keep adding
responsibility when the work doesn't suffer.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
Has a conversation changed, you know, just a few years
ago everyone was talking about what we do to retain stuff,
you know, is it extra holidays.
Speaker 4 (12:18):
Is it a couple of days working from home?
Speaker 3 (12:19):
But right now the conversation is in a very different
place because we're in a financial crisis and that all
the power is now with the employer. So it's how
do you retain your job before the layoffs and everything?
Like everyone has to basically go above and beyond at
the moment to retain their job.
Speaker 5 (12:35):
And when you had to ask yourself, at what cost?
Speaker 1 (12:37):
And there are a lot of people I look around,
not just here in this building, but a lot of
people are at breaking point, at burnout. Where you're expected
to do a lot, not just in your workplace, but
outside of work as well. And there must be a
limit because we're only human after all.
Speaker 4 (12:52):
That's exactly.
Speaker 6 (12:53):
And they they keep saying, you can't keep giving from
an empty cup. Everyone's cups seem pretty empty at the moment.
So what about you, right, Excuse me, Like, how has
your person workload at your job increase over the past
couple of years, Because remember there's a great resignation. A
couple of years ago, it was, oh, I'm over this,
I'm now going to find another job. Well that's not
so easy anymore.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
Yeah, give us your examples what are you doing now
that you didn't have to do five years ago at
your workplace?
Speaker 6 (13:14):
Would love to hear a story.
Speaker 2 (13:17):
Your daily feel Good breakfast catch up podcast with Coasts
Tony Jason, Sam.
Speaker 6 (13:23):
You may have seen this in the news. Over the weekend,
forty seven percent caught half half of workers across New
Zealand feel exhausted after work because of an excessive workload.
So we're we're asking before right, what's been happening in
your world and your work. It's over and above what
used to be a couple of years ago. On the
text on two six nine nine, Annabel says, I'm a
dental assistant, but I also now have to do reception
duties as well for no extra pay.
Speaker 5 (13:43):
Oh gosh, that's hard.
Speaker 1 (13:45):
You wouldn't want to be with your mouth open and
suddenly the phone rings.
Speaker 5 (13:48):
Would you hang on a second. I'm just gonna grab.
Speaker 6 (13:51):
That, all right.
Speaker 4 (13:52):
I just put it on speaker.
Speaker 5 (13:55):
Just put your headphones on while I do this.
Speaker 1 (13:57):
What about you, Jenny, what are you having to do
in terms of your workload?
Speaker 8 (14:03):
Well, things mainly leaving for work early in the morning.
Now I used to leave at quarter across six in
the morning to get to work. I've now got to
leave at quarter plus five to make sure that I
get to work our times, So the commute is just horrendous.
And then obviously the same issue going home so adds
to the stress, like you can't believe in fatigue.
Speaker 4 (14:24):
I mean some nights were a steep on the couture
a d.
Speaker 5 (14:28):
We can relate to that.
Speaker 1 (14:30):
And is it so is that actually from your work
or is that just the traffic that's impacting or is
it that you got stuff at work as well that's
adding No, it's.
Speaker 8 (14:39):
Probably more the traffic more than anything else. Just the
stress that I mean. My bosses are fantastic. They know,
and I mean they've even mentioned to me that they are.
You know, we can see when you get to work
that it's been a bad run in some morning. So
then they sort of lay off a weep in terms
of the workload just because they can see what the streets.
Speaker 1 (14:56):
So it wasn't like that's nice, that's really nice they
do that. Just one quite question. Is your job one
that you could potentially work from home at all or
is it not possible.
Speaker 8 (15:07):
I have had the luxury of being able to work
from home two days a week, so it does make
a different.
Speaker 3 (15:16):
Amazing So with a five point fifteen start, what time
do you if you do go to work, what times
you get home?
Speaker 8 (15:23):
Probably a round about six.
Speaker 1 (15:25):
Yeah, and anyone that's anti working from home have a
look at that example.
Speaker 5 (15:31):
Take that example and see why it's so needed.
Speaker 6 (15:33):
And even if you don't work from home, if you're
out in traffic right now, you know that when it rains,
everyone forgets how to drive, which just adds to the
stree is even more. That's even worse on the text
as well. Two six ninety nine. The guys work for
regional council computer work, it's increased two to threefold. We're
being introduced to new and improved systems, are going to
deal with thumbers and contractors and rate pays all the time.
Is now it's just impacting and taking impacting. So again,
(15:54):
more skills pretty much same pain.
Speaker 1 (15:56):
And technology is definitely an added it's supposed to make
life easier, but it actually.
Speaker 5 (16:01):
Just can add another level.
Speaker 4 (16:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
See that's an interesting one from Ian who works at
a regional council because he's talking about the new system
coming in, so he's having to soak up the extra
workload of adapting that new system.
Speaker 5 (16:15):
Days free just to get across it. You've still got
to do the rest.
Speaker 6 (16:19):
I'm hoping. I'm hoping we get to a stage we
can really fully enjoy our weekends. I know it's a
lot to give, but you know you're to try and
recharge over the weekends as much as you can, but
work seeps into the weekends.
Speaker 4 (16:29):
Listen to this.
Speaker 6 (16:30):
I'll tell you what on weather like this muld wine,
that's the key mould wine.
Speaker 3 (16:35):
We are in the mouldwine season. Like that, you're craving
that are jsld wine?
Speaker 6 (16:39):
You maybe crackling fire and a muld wine?
Speaker 4 (16:42):
What is it about the mould wine that you're that
you're craving. I don't knowhol that's not helping anyone.
Speaker 5 (16:49):
Maybe everyone thought it was going to be me craving
this morning.
Speaker 4 (16:53):
No it's not. That's the question. Do you believe in
your cravings?
Speaker 3 (16:57):
Because I've been having weird cravings and I'm not aving
is kind of going. I'm very good at resisting temptation,
but I am craving the humble tomato.
Speaker 5 (17:04):
Trust Sam.
Speaker 1 (17:06):
Everyone else is craving chocolate and old mates, craving no fruit.
Speaker 3 (17:09):
No, you know, I think the thing is that I
think my craving might be coming from the fact that
I saw tomato constructed into a McDonald's burger on a commercial.
It's not going to help the cow did something about
the acidity and the tomato that right now I am
craving and I don't know why.
Speaker 5 (17:26):
Well, I think I've found it out for you.
Speaker 4 (17:27):
Tell me.
Speaker 1 (17:28):
I've googled this because, like any craving, that usually means
something is not right, you're unbalanced.
Speaker 4 (17:35):
Is that actually a fact?
Speaker 3 (17:36):
Because I had never believe my mum's cravings because my
mum always you said it should be eating ice cream,
is like, must have needed the calcium, and I'm.
Speaker 5 (17:43):
Like, ah, you're my hero.
Speaker 1 (17:55):
So this is apparently an insatiable craving for tomatoes or
tomato product. Here. It's got a name. It's called tomato fagier.
You've got a condition, You've got the fashier. Tomatophagier may
sometimes be associated with nutritional deficiencies, especially in pregnant women.
It may also we've cleared that up, it's not that
(18:18):
it may also occur in people with iron deficiency anemia,
even though raw tomatoes are actually low in iron. So
it's like you'd think you'd crave meat, but it's not.
You crave tomatoes because you low an iron.
Speaker 4 (18:30):
That is amazing. We can trust our cravings.
Speaker 5 (18:33):
I think you need what you need and I've thought
this for a while. Is a good steak, Sam.
Speaker 1 (18:38):
Just get the steak in your stop eating your abbit
food and all will be well.
Speaker 5 (18:44):
You can CHLC was also lacking, so have a bobble
of wipes.
Speaker 4 (18:48):
It's taking some ice cream.
Speaker 6 (18:50):
So as human, maybe you were like us. And spent
the week in Bringe watching Bridget and oh one word sublime.
Absolutely loved it.
Speaker 5 (19:02):
So why Jays?
Speaker 1 (19:03):
I loved every minute of her and I had watched
the first episode of the Latest Drop, which was that
nudie scene, and then after going to the British and
Breakfast on Friday that we hosted at Hills in Auckland,
it just got me excited to watch more of it.
And I think part of that was because we shared
the excitement with so many people that came to the
(19:24):
High Tea, like Sue and her family. We have Sue,
Caroline and Emma here.
Speaker 5 (19:29):
Three generations at the High Tea. What are you celebrating.
Speaker 6 (19:34):
The tree?
Speaker 1 (19:35):
Congratulations fantastic? What do you think of Jace.
Speaker 4 (19:40):
I think he is absolutely amazing, beautiful, beautiful.
Speaker 5 (19:45):
Chris didn't want to come along to the Bridgiston I
we didn't ask him fair enough. This is the largest event,
isn't it, Jace.
Speaker 6 (19:53):
Yes, Queen Charlotte, thanks again.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
And Chris was Sue's so so Sue was there with
her daughter and her granddaughter and Chris was left at home.
Speaker 5 (20:06):
I'm sure he actually did want to attend.
Speaker 4 (20:09):
Yeah, it was a wonderful, wonerful morning.
Speaker 3 (20:10):
We also had our expert that Mary v remember she
spoke on the radio just a few days earlier, who's
an expert in the regency area in the eighteen hundreds.
Speaker 4 (20:18):
And we also asked her about what she thought about outfits.
Tony's looking very on brand.
Speaker 5 (20:23):
You're looking great. Love the waist coat, thank you, Jason.
The little French but pretty good anyway. You know, he's
a bit Marie antoineer.
Speaker 4 (20:31):
But it's all.
Speaker 5 (20:32):
It's around about the same time, so quite accurate.
Speaker 6 (20:34):
Actually, in my defense, Mirrorbility Bridge an expert. I didn't
choose my outfort. That happened to me while I was away.
She is, guys, it.
Speaker 1 (20:42):
Was, but she didn't go on to say that Bridges
and the show. They kind of pulled from a few
different eras. They don't stay and I remember when we
went out to first scene and we were told the
same thing, and they kind of muddle the erarors when
it comes to wanting to put it on good dress
or wanting to bring it something certain in.
Speaker 3 (20:58):
Isn't it unusual that having a exposed chest plate cleavage
is a chest plate is more acceptable than showing you
your arms.
Speaker 1 (21:07):
I thought that too, but only you're only allowed to
get the chest out for special occasions. So I was
allowed at the High Tea, but I wouldn't be getting
it out now. I'm back to being covered up here.
Speaker 6 (21:16):
I'm exactly the same as Tony.
Speaker 1 (21:18):
Actually, speaking of chess, I need to talk to you
after eight about what happened with my ample bosom and
why it's caused me a world of pain for something
I have to do today because it was an unexpected
consequence of having to strap those puppies.
Speaker 10 (21:34):
Up right now though, okay, one thousand and three hundred
dollars could be.
Speaker 6 (21:45):
Yours if you beat us in a general knowledge quiz.
This is the chases. We do it every day. None
of us want to play, so we have to roll
the dice.
Speaker 1 (21:52):
Can I just say I played I think three or
maybe four times in a row, last word, so if
this lends on me, it'll be very unfair. There we
go the door, Yes, Jace, Oh how good queen?
Speaker 6 (22:06):
Yes Green, Oh wait, one hundred double ow four Coast
South phone number. Just be called a team right now.
There are five questions coming. No matter what you get,
because if I can't match you, you will win one thousand,
three hundred dollars right now, the jasus on coast more
than I'm idle have.
Speaker 8 (22:27):
I'm from fday and I hope to one again to
Jace this morning and have some I'm spending money for
me and my kids.
Speaker 5 (22:33):
Yes, yes, it's a lot of money to thirteen hundred dollars. Jace,
how do you feel you've been nervous at defending this?
Speaker 6 (22:40):
I haven't played for a couple of weeks. It's been
that long. I'm really nervous.
Speaker 4 (22:44):
Shapes.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
Oh god, Yeah, we've done happy, Yeah, we've done all
the work here, Jace. Well, this money goes mate, But
you know the last.
Speaker 4 (22:56):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (22:57):
I wish you we were a success, my friend.
Speaker 4 (22:58):
Good luck right.
Speaker 1 (23:00):
Adaha is sending Jason out of the soundproof studio, and
in true Jay's form, he's already got his fingers in.
Speaker 5 (23:06):
His ears at a half.
Speaker 1 (23:11):
But he's such, he's honest to a vault. Hey, listen,
I think it's a path three today. I think a
four would win. So just remember, I feel like people
fall into this trap when it's a guessable question. Just yes,
don't leave it open, Okay, just have a stab, all right,
Adam haf for thirteen hundred dollars, Your time starts now?
Speaker 4 (23:32):
Who sings beat it?
Speaker 6 (23:34):
Michael Jackson?
Speaker 9 (23:35):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (23:36):
And American football? How many points is the touchdown worth? Oh?
Speaker 7 (23:41):
Or no?
Speaker 4 (23:42):
Madrid is the capital of which country?
Speaker 7 (23:46):
Yes?
Speaker 4 (23:47):
What famous chef has been in a cycling accident?
Speaker 5 (23:50):
Oh?
Speaker 8 (23:52):
Jamie Oliver?
Speaker 4 (23:52):
Know how many pounds are in one stone?
Speaker 6 (23:58):
Five?
Speaker 3 (23:59):
No?
Speaker 5 (24:00):
Him hard?
Speaker 1 (24:02):
Like, good on you for having a stab at those questions.
You never know when you guess is correct.
Speaker 5 (24:07):
So he's chasing a two. Let's bring him back in.
Speaker 1 (24:09):
I'd reverse the questions, chase you two to which I
think is one under part today?
Speaker 6 (24:16):
Do you reckon?
Speaker 5 (24:17):
I reckon past three? Excuse me? Allergies?
Speaker 1 (24:21):
All right, Jace, you need a two to prevent the
thirteen hundred dollars from flying out of our boss's wallet.
Speaker 4 (24:27):
And I'm going to reverse the order of the questions. People,
I'll follow.
Speaker 5 (24:30):
You, okay, the dad's your time starts now.
Speaker 4 (24:34):
How many pounds are in one stone?
Speaker 6 (24:38):
Plus?
Speaker 4 (24:39):
What famous ship has been injured in a cycling accident?
Speaker 6 (24:42):
Gordon Ramsey?
Speaker 4 (24:43):
Yes, Madrid is the capital of what country?
Speaker 1 (24:46):
Done it?
Speaker 5 (24:46):
Everybody?
Speaker 4 (24:48):
Pounds?
Speaker 6 (24:48):
Pounds of stones?
Speaker 4 (24:50):
Fourteen?
Speaker 5 (24:52):
See if you'll be a three or four?
Speaker 3 (24:54):
In American football? How many points is a touchdown worth?
Speaker 8 (24:57):
Two?
Speaker 1 (24:57):
No?
Speaker 4 (24:58):
Touchdown two?
Speaker 1 (25:00):
I don't know, you know it's like a try five
plus six?
Speaker 4 (25:05):
Who things beat it?
Speaker 6 (25:07):
Michael Jackson's three?
Speaker 5 (25:11):
You know what that means? Fourteen hundred dollars for Tuesday?
It's getting up there, really.
Speaker 6 (25:17):
Is, so your chance to play? Just after half past
seven tomorrow.
Speaker 5 (25:21):
Thanks for listening to.
Speaker 2 (25:22):
The Feel Good Breakfast catch Up podcast with cost Tony Street,
Jace Reeves and Sam Wallas.
Speaker 6 (25:29):
I'm lucky enough to grow up in a family where
my mum and dad have always said to me, if
poop goes wrong, move home, just come home. And I
don't know, you guys are exactly the same time, do
you hope? I like to hope we'll all become those
sort of parents ourselves. So things go wrong for our kids,
will say to them, just come on home.
Speaker 5 (25:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (25:42):
I feel like, absolutely i'd be that parent, But there
is there are times where it's convenient and other times
where you think.
Speaker 5 (25:49):
I don't know if this is a good idea.
Speaker 1 (25:51):
And I've got friends of mine whose daughter finished high
school and then her boyfriend asked to stay right very young,
and they and this boy has moved into their family
home and she has younger siblings as well, And I
don't know if I'd be okay with that. Look, I'm
not there and you don't know the circumstances. And then
(26:11):
I think, well, am I being hypocritical because I look
at my own situation. I left home at seventeen to
go to university. My now husband, when he was my boyfriend,
went and lived with my parents without me because I
was still in Canterbury when he played for the Taranaki
rugby team, so they had a lodger and.
Speaker 5 (26:30):
They always say he was easier than me.
Speaker 3 (26:33):
To them, do you think it comes down to if
you like the partner or not sure? In the alternative
to that is if you say no, he can't stay here,
and then one of your children decides to leave, then
you know it's under a different roof. So you kind
of dann with if you're doing your damn if you don't.
And the problem with it is with the market right now.
You know, with the costs of universities and everything like that,
it's so expensive to find a flat or to.
Speaker 4 (26:56):
Low and behold buy a house.
Speaker 6 (26:57):
It's impossible.
Speaker 1 (26:58):
I just don't think I'd want my eighteen year old
moving in with their partner at that age.
Speaker 5 (27:02):
It's like go and flat and stuff. First.
Speaker 6 (27:04):
This is what they're saying is it's called crowded nest syndrome.
The series of problems that occur when the kids move
out then they move back in. Now that's gonna happen
later in life too, Like your husbands and wives are.
They set their own family up, then something goes wrong,
they lose the house, got to move back in with
the grandparents slash mom and dad. Intergenerational living is a
massive thing in New Zealand right now.
Speaker 1 (27:20):
Can you imagine Leat's just say the twin girls are
eighteen right now, right one of them says, can my
boyfriend come and you you come into the house and
he's sitting there in his jocks eating all your protein
shakes like your.
Speaker 4 (27:37):
TV greet him at the door like a singles on
a beanie.
Speaker 3 (27:43):
I'd probably got a vivid and drawn a tatto on
my face and I have a baseball bat tecked into
by underwear.
Speaker 5 (27:48):
So you want to stay.
Speaker 6 (27:50):
So we're asking the question this morning, like would you
I mean maybe your face, the sort of dilemming yourself,
the whole crowded nest syndrome, what sort of problems or
did it work out for you? We'd love to hear
the story. Would you do it? Have you let us
know we're talking about crowded their syndrome, the series of
problems that occur when the kids move out in they
move back and bringing extras, and Samuel just saying before that,
you know, when you get to the age where your
(28:11):
daughters are saying eighteen, your twin daughters are eighteen, you
don't want no dude hanging around.
Speaker 4 (28:15):
Well, I say that with all the provado in the world.
Speaker 3 (28:16):
But the truth, as you do anything to kind of
keep your family together and happy, is the truth.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
I don't reckon I'll be as nice as you. I'll
think I'll say, you're eighteen, you're not living together yet?
Speaker 5 (28:26):
Go and Flo.
Speaker 6 (28:27):
Well, Dad just rang me just then and he said,
you know, when we first met Cam and my sister's
now husband, Hember, he said to Cam, what steps will
you take if you my daughter pregnant?
Speaker 5 (28:35):
And this poor bugger's like, oh my gosh, and do
you know what? Jas? Do you know what?
Speaker 1 (28:39):
He's not the only one. We've just had a tips
come through on two six ninety nine. Hell no, we
quickly sold the big house and downsized once they got
on There ain't no coming back, extint when we're on
holiday from overseas. All my friends were like, but what
if they want to come back?
Speaker 4 (28:55):
Are no shut the door?
Speaker 6 (28:57):
I get it, I get it. Maria, what have you got?
Did you do the old crowded ness thing? How did
it work out?
Speaker 8 (29:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (29:03):
Morning, Yeah, Well, just before COVID, the first round of COVID,
before my son had a reasonably new girlfriend and asked
if she could move in for the lockdown, or come
and stay for the lockdown, or talk me.
Speaker 5 (29:17):
Through your thought process.
Speaker 7 (29:19):
When he asked, well, it's better than him going away,
because I didn't want him to go away. But it
was very uncertain timed, and my thing was if you
move and you stay in, because you're not coming and
going and breaking the bubble thing because I'm very really.
Speaker 8 (29:35):
It was.
Speaker 7 (29:36):
So they argued and she left or she didn't come
back till COVID was over, but they didn't they sheaed.
She actually moved in and didn't leave for a couple
of years, but was very lovely, drama free. They're both
real people and no arguing, no dramas.
Speaker 1 (29:54):
It probably it probably actually made your bubble a bit
more exciting. I could have done with another couple of
el's when I had my three kids there.
Speaker 6 (30:02):
The company, so many breeds you can make exactly Weindy,
what about you crowded this to go? Okay for you.
Speaker 9 (30:07):
Guys know, I love it like I've got I've got
full boys. So two have moved out and the other
two have moved out, but they've both moved back in
and one of them has got his girlfriend with them,
and yeah, hey it's great having another female and these Yeah,
so you like it.
Speaker 7 (30:26):
Yeah, No, I wouldn't change anything, you know, if it
helps him get on their feet and stuff like that
as well.
Speaker 4 (30:32):
Yeah, you're used to having a lot of people around before, aren't.
Speaker 9 (30:35):
You you know, yeah, well exactly, and like all in
mates come over as well, like, but they've been mate
since primary school and stuff.
Speaker 7 (30:45):
So it's just like extra kids as well. So I
love having a busy house.
Speaker 5 (30:50):
Do you know what you sound like?
Speaker 1 (30:51):
Exactly how I want to be in another teen or
twenty years mine are a bit older. I just hope
that I too enjoy the girlfriends and boyfriends as much.
Speaker 5 (31:01):
And I'm not looking at them going I just don't know.
Speaker 4 (31:04):
You were just saying it out though.
Speaker 1 (31:06):
Yeah, they're not living with us when they're eighteen, no way.
If I feel like, if they're in living with us,
I'm like, what's happening here? I want them to be
able to experience going out and having a little fit
for themselves. I'll always be there as a backup, but
I don't want that to become three years down the line, right,
So that's the situation.
Speaker 6 (31:23):
If they moved out and went flatting and went protably wrong
and then they came back, you'd be okay with that.
Speaker 5 (31:26):
Oh, of course, there'll always be a backstop.
Speaker 1 (31:28):
But I just I don't know if I want my
daughter or my son living like a married couple before
the time.
Speaker 5 (31:34):
I haven't got a lot of years to do that.
Speaker 4 (31:37):
Traditional values now, is it?
Speaker 6 (31:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (31:39):
Because you know, you know what it's like to be married, Sam,
it's a long time to be like that.
Speaker 5 (31:45):
You don't need to rage into it. In your team.
Speaker 6 (31:47):
Shout out to our lovely wives and husbands is wanting
loving you lots and softly.
Speaker 4 (31:54):
It's a long time married.
Speaker 1 (31:58):
We need to talk about now, yep, and the breast
region because we should be getting mammograms once you hit
the age of forty five. It's a thing that you
should be getting regularly.
Speaker 5 (32:09):
Now.
Speaker 1 (32:10):
I'm only forty, so I've still got five years, well
four and a half years until I'm meant to But
I've been told by my GP, because I'm going through
early peri menopause, that i should get them earlier. So
I've been doing my as you know, I've been getting
every check under the sun. I've had heart I've had
air noos and throat and today is my mammogram, my
first one.
Speaker 5 (32:28):
Either never had one.
Speaker 1 (32:30):
We don't get them in you're thirty, nervous, Nah, I
feel like I've been I've had enough blood tests and
enough procedures. I feel like that's the least my worries.
All I know about it is that they get pretty squished.
And I'm going to find out today whether I have
dense breasts or not. And the density apparently has something
to do with your chances of potentially developing breast cancer.
(32:52):
And I don't have any history of breast cancer in
my family. But can we just talk about the state
of my boobs for a seconds?
Speaker 3 (32:58):
And I'm not going to be held response for the
stadium boobs, even though there was accusations flying around this morning.
Speaker 1 (33:03):
No, no, I just wish I'd had a bit of sympathy,
is all I'm saying, particularly from producer Rosie who's a female.
Speaker 5 (33:09):
No one gave me some. And look, I am actually
to blame for this.
Speaker 1 (33:15):
Well, the show is to blame for this, because I
had to try and look my most Penny Featherington on
Friday for Bridgington and to do that you don't wear
a bra and the dresses from that era because they've
got this tiny little shelf that you have to put
them into and then they need to be pushed up
to get the full bosom look.
Speaker 5 (33:33):
So to get that I had.
Speaker 1 (33:34):
To tape my boobs. Now I'm not someone that does
that all the time. A lot of the young ones do.
They don't wear bras because they want all the backstraps
and all that showing, and they take them so on
the morn.
Speaker 4 (33:46):
You know, holding in there pretty well.
Speaker 5 (33:48):
I have had three children.
Speaker 1 (33:49):
Sam On the morning of the bridges in Hi Ti
on Friday morning at four am, I decided, oh no, I.
Speaker 5 (33:56):
Don't have any tape. So I rifled through.
Speaker 1 (33:58):
The medical cabinet and I found some bright blue strapping
tape that my daughter uses for netball, and I was like,
this will do. So I squashed the girls together, strapped
them all up, had them in the right spot and went.
That actually worked surprisingly well, and it feels quite soft.
It should be easy to take off.
Speaker 4 (34:13):
I love it will support a faulty ankle. I suspect
it will hold a bosom in place.
Speaker 1 (34:19):
So the Britain and it ends and we're up in
the hotel room cleaning up, getting all of the gear,
and I had to get my costume off to give
to producer Rosie so she could return it.
Speaker 5 (34:29):
And what did I do?
Speaker 1 (34:31):
I thought back to when I was a child, and
it hurts less when the band aid off fast and furious.
Speaker 6 (34:38):
Something what's happened?
Speaker 5 (34:41):
My skin.
Speaker 4 (34:44):
Stuck there on the tap.
Speaker 1 (34:48):
My nipples are still in place, but on one side
of my leaft boob. I have got what looks like
a tiger coloring at me with an actual.
Speaker 5 (34:58):
Wound and un underneath. I've got a wound as well.
And this happens to be on the day I have
my first mammogrand. Look at me today like what is
going on in her household? Animals taking her and I
don't know if it's going to make the mammogram worse
or if it's just going to be the shame of
having to expose a wounded bosom.
Speaker 6 (35:19):
I wish you were a success with this. And by
the way, if you want to see photo SAMs on
his pe, keep.
Speaker 11 (35:24):
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