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October 6, 2011 25 mins

The next time your car breaks down, count the number of vehicles that pass you by. That's the bystander effect in action. But why do people in crowds tend not to help those in need? Tune in to learn more about crowd apathy and what it says about humans.

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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Welcome to Stuff to Blow Your Mind from how Stuff
Works dot com. Hey, welcome to Stuff to Blow your Mind.
My name is Robert Lamb and I'm Julie Douglas. Julie
takes back to nine. We're we're picking up a newspaper.
What's going to be the big big news, like, what's captivating?
What's what's the juicy story that everyone is outraged about. Well,

(00:27):
there is a woman named Kitty Genovese and this New
York City, this is in It was actually in Queen's
and she is a twenty eight year old bar manager
and she's coming back from her job something like three
o'clock in the morning, and she gets out of her
car and she's walking and she is all of a sudden,
she's in hot pursuit by this guy wielding a knife,

(00:48):
and she happens to be in a neighborhood right um,
and she calls out for help. He begins to stab her,
and the story goes like this that for thirty five
in it's during three different attacks because this guy like
attacks her and then he realizes that his cars in
the open and people will I d his car, so

(01:08):
he goes and he moves his car and he comes back,
and he starts attacking her, and then so on and
so forth, three different attacks. Her cries were heard by
an estimated thirty eight people, and all of this unprovoked,
just out of the blue, random attack, and and she dies. Um.
Finally the one person telephones the police. One person out

(01:30):
of the thirty eight. This is the story, and it
absolutely shocks the United States. Um, the people in the
United States, they're just horrified that we could let this
happen to a fellow human, particularly when they say that
the people who overheard this, Yeah, I heard of this
lady screaming and I didn't know what was going on
or I didn't want to get involved. That was something

(01:52):
that they heard. Um, And you know, it's it's just
awful to think that we could allow something like this
to happen to another person. Yeah, I mean it is.
It is a really um to hear this story, as
it was popularized in the New York Times that year
and has since. This is and has since become a
popularized version of this story. Um. Yeah, it's really it's

(02:14):
really damning information because the ideas, hey, I could be
that one that one person you know, and then and
then you feel shameful to think, But then am I
one of those thirty people that in any other situation
would do nothing right? Yeah, people really took it um
to heart, and it became known as the genevase syndrome,
but also known as the bystander effect, which is something

(02:34):
that's probably know that term is known better now or
just bystander apathy, right by standard apathy. Yeah. This, and
but what we found out though, is that this story
was actually greatly exaggerated. Yes, Kitty Genevase A was killed
by a man who went out that night and decided
that he was going to kill a woman. Um, and
and and he was very open about this, Like there
this guy was was mentally disturbed and was very open

(02:57):
about I went out to kill somebody that night. And
he's still in prison h to this day. Um yeah.
But it turns out that there weren't as many bystanders
as previously thought. There was something around the order of
six people. And in fact, she was at one point
dragged to this one part of the building I think
it was in maybe like the portico, and one guy

(03:19):
could hear her essentially being finished off, so to speak.
But he, you know, he still didn't contact the police.
He was inebriated. He didn't want to um get involved,
so he did ask his neighbor to call the police. Yeah,
there's an American psychologist paper from two thousand seven where
they went back and they were they were going beyond

(03:39):
the New York Times article and looking at legal documents,
court transcripts, and some recent historical research into the the event,
into the attack, and they had found that there were
two attacks, not three, that the kind of the way
that the crime scene was configured would have made it
impossible for all but one of the known witnesses to
have seen the crime in its entirety. Yeah, and the people, uh,

(04:01):
the police may have been called him much earlier than thought,
and she may have been alive when the cops arrived.
So okay, And the reason why we're bringing all this
up is because you know, whether or not the story
was exaggerated, what it did is it actually helped people
to put a term to to something that actually is
a real condition, the bystander effect. You kicked off enough
outrage and public interest that we named it, and a

(04:24):
lot of really solid research went into why this kind
of behavior exists in the crowd. Yeah, and we've seen
this again and again, And in fact, Joseph DeMay, who
who talks about the story and how it's exaggerated, was
asked on the show on the Media NPR show, it's
really great if you checked it out. Um. He was asked, well, so, okay,
if that story was exaggerated, that doesn't really exist, and

(04:46):
he said, well, of course, the bystandard effect exists. Just
look around you. You know, there was that incident where
poor worker was trampled at the Green Acres shopping center
by shoppers anxious to get an electronic sale. We've seen
this again and again, I think just most recently there
was a pregnant woman who was trampled and lost her baby.
Um with this same sort of excitement that was happening

(05:06):
around around a sale. Yeah, and you don't even really
have You don't even have to go to outrageous newspaper
stories to to get examples of it. Just any time
you've ever driven down the highway and passed that that
poor guy, that poor family that has a flat tire,
because you you just keep going and you probably don't
even really think anything about it. Well you think someone

(05:27):
else will help. Well, yeah, even if you if you
even consciously, uh, you know, turn the wheels like maybe
you know it's having a subconscious level a lot of
the time, but but you know, you might think, oh,
well someone else will help them, or oh they probably
called triple away or they got it well. And even
even in the circumstance like this, DeMay points out like, okay,
there was a woman in the King's County psychiatric ward
who collapsed on the floor there where where she's being

(05:48):
taken care of, right in theory. So basically the staff
just left her there to die, you know, four hours
later she died. Um. And then he also said, you
know there that you can look in the newspaper on
any given da and see something that is reflective of
the bystander effect. Um. And he says that, you know,
it's a it's this diffusion of responsibility, and it's impossible

(06:09):
to say that such a phenomenon of some sort does
not exist. Yeah, So there are four key components in
the bystander effect, like you said, one of them is
diffuse responsibility. That's just the simple idea that if thirty
people were witnessing something, that if I'm one of thirty
people witnessing an event, well, they're twenty nine other people
that could do something. It's like if I'm driving down

(06:30):
an interstate and I see somebody with a flat tire,
they're countless cars. Like, there are plenty of other people.
I'm just one of many. Somebody will do something about that.
But if I am on a like say a deserted
road in the middle of nowhere, that and I know
that I'm probably one of the only people that are
going to go down that road today, and I see
somebody with a flat tire, well, then there's not really
much in the way of diffused responsibility unless I have

(06:52):
some sort of mistaken idea that a woodchuck is going
to help this guy with his tire. A woodchuck could,
if a witch could, that's true. That's that's to saying.
Another one is self awareness. All right. This is the
perceived or actual presence of an audience to your actions
that inhibits you from acting all right, you don't want
to appear foolish or inappropriate. An example of this um

(07:13):
takes me back to this weekend when I was at
the dentist office and I go in. I'm sitting down
at the Nednist office, and they always have you know,
the TVs on it's playing something annoying. I was the
only person in there, and they were playing an episode
of UM Law and Order of Special Victims Unit, and
it was like this whole thing like some it all
has to do with like sexual assault, like very much

(07:34):
the kind of thing that we covered, The kind of
story we covered with at the beginning's not necessarily something
you want to watch while you are in a dentist chair. Yeah,
but I'm kind of like, all right, I don't feel
like like complaining about it. But then a mother and
two kids comes in come into the dnist dopice and
they sat down, they like start feeling out the paperwork.
But it's like two little kids and they're they're reading
their little children's books, and the mom sitting there looking

(07:56):
at a magazine and the TV is Special Victims Unit
with you know, in in investigators looking into like sexual
offenses and and some pretty graphic discussion of what these uh,
these these crimes consisted of. And so I'm sitting there
and part of me is like I should get up
and go tell the lady the front desk, Hey, there

(08:17):
are kids here. Why don't you change to Disney Channel
or something um, you know, or something less um potentially traumatic.
But the other voice was saying, no, the mom setting
right there, I'm gonna come off looking like a total
jerk because I'm gonna be implying that she doesn't know
what she's doing, or she, you know, isn't exerting enough
responsibility for these kids. So that's a self awareness factor

(08:37):
of it. We're afraid, you know, somebody needs help, but
are we gonna look stupid getting up and going to
help them? So we're afraid of being judged right right?
Then the next one is social clues. All right, Individuals
actively look to one another for for queues about how
to behave in the situation. The pluralistic ignorance. Yeah, I
think so this is like you say, you're on on
the on the subway train and there's some by the acting,

(09:00):
there's somebody acting strange there. You sort of look to
everybody else to say, hey, we should we be concerned
about this? Is this? Is this for real? Is this
a deal? You know? And uh? And if nobody everyone
else is ignoring it, you're kind of like, all right,
I guess this is nothing. I'm just gonna you know,
I straight ahead right back to my book or something.
But if everyone else is looking a little weird, then
you're like, all right, this is something serious. Some one

(09:21):
of us is gonna pick it up and go push
the alert button. That kind of situations, and then there's blocking.
This is a realization that if somebody needs help, all
thirty of us cannot help in this particular situation. Like
if if it's a situation where do you just need
one person maybe to to help this individual with their situation,
thirty people is just gonna overwhelm them and possibly make

(09:42):
a situation worse. So is that that same idea of
just shirking off the responsibility because you figure that someone
else is going to help, or like like you're they're
thirty people. And then there's another person who has a
cut on their finger. If if we all go and
put a band aid on it, that's the person doesn't
need thirty band needs. They need one, maybe two band aids,
you know, if they want to do the cross thing.

(10:03):
But um, that would be kind of awesome in that
and and horrible too, crushed by thirty people just trying
to get your hand bandaged. Um yeah, I mean this again,
this diffusion of responsibility. I think is really interesting. And um,
there are two rules that we usually operate in under
when we're in society, one that we ought to help
right and too that we ought to do what everyone

(10:25):
else is doing. So these temporary rules bubble up that
we inadvertently create when we're a group, which we have,
we're not even communicating to one another, you know, with language, right,
we're not even saying, hey, let's not do this because
we all feel okay with it. But somehow we all
know that, you know, we're all bouncing off of each

(10:46):
other and somehow are thinking to ourselves, okay, well if
you're not concerned about it, that I'm not concerned about
And I think that's fascinating. And there are a bunch
of BBC shorts um that were experiences that you can
go on YouTube and see them where they show us
in action and I thought it was pretty fascinating. They
did one UM set of videos at the Liverpool Street

(11:07):
station in London and there was an actor dressed in
jeans and overcoat and sneakers and he's crumpled up at
the foot of the stairs and he's sanging to people
as they passed by, please help me, Please help me.
And he lays there for twenty minutes, twenty minutes without
anybody helping him, which I think in and of itself
is pretty interesting. But then they have a female actor

(11:27):
do the same thing. She's dressed in a skirt and
a jacket, she has a purse on, and she's not
saying help me, but she actually she kind of looks
dead actually, but she sprawled out on the stairs and
thirty four people pass in four minutes and they don't
help her. And finally there's a woman who is uh.
You see her behavior, it's very interesting. She starts to
pass by, and then she starts, she stops, and she

(11:49):
kind of looks around at other people like, Hey, isn't
this weird? And then she kind of circles and hangs out,
but she's not quite going to do anything yet. Out
of nowhere, this guy comes directly to the woman and says,
are you okay? And then all of a sudden she's
right by his side and she's saying, you know, can
I help you? You know, she needed that guy to

(12:09):
come to to corroborate her concern. Yeah, And you see
that happen a lot, a lot. You know, it's like
the first person to actually come forward and try to
help somebody. Then suddenly there are a few other people
as well. Yeah, maybe not all thirty, but suddenly it'll
go from you know, from nothing to five or six
just like that. Yeah. Well, and this was the most
interesting one. This is the the third person in this experiment.

(12:31):
It was the same actor from the from the first
that was crumpled on the stairs with his jeans on.
But um, now he comes back and he's dressed in
like an impeccable expensive suit and he's crumpled up at
the bottom of the stairs, and it takes just six
seconds for one person to help him, which then attracts
this crowd of people who are now around him saying yeah, yeah,

(12:52):
can you can I help you? So there is this
one element where where yeah, we're we're sort of seating
our decisions to other people. But then it's sort of like, well,
if you're if you look socially like in in the
most correct role, then you're probably going to get more help,
right right, because he looked important. All right, we're gonna
take a quick break and when we come back, we're
gonna look at some of that hard research that that

(13:17):
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(13:41):
and we're back. So, like we said, the Genovic case, Uh,
some of the details are kind of contested, were not contested,
but it is proven today and the version of the
story that is sometimes um referenced in papers and textbooks, etcetera,
is is maybe not the true version of what happened.
It's kind of kind of has become a parable. But
the research, as we said, is still pretty solid. Like

(14:04):
people were outraged enough by this they were like, let's
do some studies and uh. And the first big study
was this one by um Darley and Latine, Right, yeah,
John Darlie and Biblitaine that this whole Jenevase syndrome or
by sing or effect really inspired them to to try
to look at this in multiple models and really ferret

(14:25):
out what was going on. Um And I think one
of the ones that I think is most interesting to
me is the lady in distress, and this experiment, subjects
either waited alone with a friend or with a passive
confederate meaning an actor who was acting passively right, or
with a stranger in a room. And the room was

(14:45):
separate from another room by a curtain which they would
pass on their way to their waiting room, and the
experiment or who led them there returned to the other
room and left, turning on a tape recording um of
of what sounded like someone falling and then moaning in
that other room. So they couldn't see that person, but

(15:06):
for hundred and thirty seconds, they could hear this person
in some sort of distress. And they measured the percent
of people who took action and how long it took
for them to act. And overall, sixty one percent of
people pulled back the curtain to check on the experiment or,
because they assumed it was the experimenter who fell right,
entered via another door to check on the experiment simply

(15:31):
called out to say hey, are you okay, But nobody
went to actually report the accident okay, to say, hey,
there's someone hurt in the other room. Um. And this
is where the data gets really interesting. Sevent of alone
subjects reacted, but only seven percent of those with another
person in the in the room the passive confederate, the

(15:51):
actor who just sat there and pretending like everything was okay,
only seven percent of them reacted. So it means if
you're if you're by yourself, you're probably going to be
a lot more responsible, right, But if someone else is
in the room, they don't seem concerned. Boom, it doesn't matter.
The subjects with confederates became confused and they frequently looked

(16:13):
over at the person. And when they were paired with
a stranger, only um of those people in the room
with a stranger actually acted out or said hey, are
you okay? So when they had their friends in the room,
seventy of the time they helped um, which shows you
know that they felt responsibility with someone that they knew okay.

(16:36):
But what's interesting about that is that that's the same
percent as if they were alone. So you would think,
and this is this is what the researchers say, that
you would think that if they were alone, like of
the time, they would have reacted. So based on the
findings of that study, if I am also say I'm
feeling like like, let's say I've been stabbed. No, no,
that's what it's said. Let me let's say I have,

(16:58):
UM I'm feeling really sick, and I'm I'm about to puke,
and I'm I'm on the market train taking the train
to work, and I get to choose which car I'm
going to throw up in. Um, and and after I
throw up, I'm really going to hope somebody helps me
and gets me to a hospital. What is the appropriate
number of people on the train? Oh my goodness, is

(17:20):
this like a test? Yeah, this is the test? Or
you know, just asking your learning opinion? Oh my goodness,
Oh yeah, even even better. I'm just gonna say that
maybe one or two other people in the train with
you is greatly going to increase your chances of getting aid.
But not one, it's just one person. If it's one,
even better. That's my opinion, right, just from what we've

(17:41):
seen that the lower the amount of people around you,
the more app they are to help you. Correct. But
if you're if you're about to puke all over the
place and thirty people are in the train with you,
they're all going to back away. Yeah, or I've already
changed cars. What's it's it? Definitely provides a lot of
insight into how crowds think. I mean, there's more to
health crowds think. We have believe we've covered some of

(18:03):
this in the past, talking about the group think and
and how crowds are respond h on a on a
mental level. In in our very very recent episode, we
discussed uh sort of the physics of crowds and how
a large number of people can can quickly spiral out
of control and then become this like the movement, the
physical movement of the crowd becomes something that cannot be

(18:24):
predicted or control well. In the psychology is so interesting
because going back to the Lady in distress um experiments
that Lobott did UM, is that the interveners, the people
who did something, they claimed that they acted that way
because the fall seems serious and it was the right
thing to do. But the non interveners who were with

(18:44):
the other people said that they were unsure what happened, UM,
and they decided it wasn't serious, and some felt that
they didn't want to embarrass the researcher, which was that
whole judgment part right, UM. So they were really influenced
by the people that were in the room with them,
and you don't think that when when you're you're making
individual decisions, you don't even realize that on that level,

(19:05):
you're sitting there calculating whether or not the person next
to you is unless you're highly self aware, right right,
usually don't realize that that person is having an effect
on your decision making processes, which again brings into the
whole question of free will about whether or not it
really exists. And this the study is especially interesting given
the way our lives have been affected by social media

(19:29):
and the internet, because you you everyone has seen stories
in the past year or two where somebody, um, you know,
basically put out a cry for help on Facebook on
their Facebook profile and then in and in some of
these cases, nobody really did anything and then the person
dies or you know, it ends up trying to take
their own life or something to this effect. And uh,

(19:50):
and people are like, why didn't we do anything? Why
did we just sit there and just scan over there?
They're they're depressing Facebook status update or why did we
even maybe us ignore you know, why didn't we do something? Yeah,
I was thinking about that too, that that when we
talk about crowds these days, we really need to probably
redefine what a crowd is because it's not doesn't have

(20:11):
to be a bunch of people in a physical room together.
I mean, we have a crowd action via the internet
these days with just as many community ties. Yeah, I saw.
I was looking at a paper earlier UM from Georgian
Student of Technology Georgia Tech here in town, and they
were actually using the bystander effect UM as a as
a way to try and understand patterns of participation in

(20:34):
online classrooms. So I found that interesting, Like they were
kind of you know, taking it slightly out of its
context because bystander effect deals more specifically with people responding
to uh, you know, a bad situation, someone that's injured,
somebody that's endanger, more of a life and death type
of a thing, rather than are you paying attention to
the lecture or not? Or are you participating in class?

(20:57):
But but but it did supply some insight into how
these classrooms behave and to what degree they're going to
interact with the class That makes total sense to me.
In fact, that's you know, being in a classroom. I'm
sure everybody knows that. Um. You know, whether or not
you are eight years old at the time or twenty
years old. When someone says something or something happens, don't

(21:18):
you all look at each other to see how you're
going to react, right, And it's a classic case of
how a crowd affects one another. Yeah, and you know
it's one of those things too. If you're in a
classroom where most people just do not care, I feel
like a lot of times you're gonna be less likely
to be the brainy egghead who's going to interact with
the teacher. You could have an amazing lecturer, but if

(21:39):
most of the people in there are sleeping or just
kind of you know, shooting evilize at each other then
drawing unicorns, drawing unicorns, then then you get it feels
like you're gonna be less less likely to interact. Whereas
if the class, the class as a whole is really engaged,
is going to be this energy of engagement and you're
gonna want to be like, yeah, these are my thoughts
on you know, fall Byzantium. Speaking of unicorns and doodling,

(22:03):
didn't you just post something recently on Facebook about how
that actually helps you retain information in a meeting? Yes? Yeah,
I was really uh yeah that was just came out
the other day, I put it on the Facebook um
profile for stuff to blow your mind, and uh and yeah,
yeah that it was a ted talk Actually yeah, yeah,
I didn't want to check that out because I was
pretty excited about that. Yeah. Yeah, I headed on, but

(22:24):
I was doling, so I didn't really of course. Yeah yeah,
but you retained everything. Yeah, but you don't know that
makes sense because I I doodle a lot, and and
some of my note taking is borderline doodling. It's just
kind of well, I've noticed just when you and I
talked about podcast subjects sometimes, um, when we meet beforehand
just to say, hey, we're going to talk about that,
you draw a lot of pictures when when you're talking

(22:45):
about this up to you you want to explain, you're
illustrating it. It's pretty great. We should post those actually
sometimes well sometimes it's about like you know, I do
a lot of talking with my hands sometimes, but that's
that's that's sometimes instead of doing that, I'll just you know,
you just sort of doodle and sort of draw the
motions on the paper. I don't know why, but I
don't know. There you go. So I actually do not

(23:07):
have any listener mail because I forgot to get some
because there's there's a similarly endless supply of it. But
I forgot to dip the ladle into the bucket. Um.
I can't believe you forgot your ladle. Yeah, you didn't
hear the scream on the inside, did you on the
inside of the Yeah, when you said that we'll survive
that I spose gut. The name of Brandon did come

(23:29):
up to me at a campfire this weekend because you
were out of camp fire? Okay, yeah, well it was
in the backyard. I don't know IF's really a camp
fires in the backyard. Nobody's camping, but you know there's
a fire and uh. And so he came up and said, Hey,
this show is really great, you know. So thanks Brandon.
So if you know me and you would like to
approach me and tell me the show is great, do so.
It will not be awkward at all. It'll be it'll

(23:50):
be kind of awesome, and we'll we'll grow closer for
the experience. I heard too that if someone does that
to you, that you'll start crooning stuff to blow your
mind song to them. Is that true? We have a
song for a pleasant train. You mean the secret lyrics
to the intro song play every time. Oh, yeah, it's true. Yeah,
it's only available if you approach me in person, though, UM,

(24:13):
try not to do it at a funeral because I'm
I'm oath bound to break into song and I would
prefer not to do it in front of an open casket. Yeah,
awkward places where you probably shouldn't do it. All right,
So there you go. UM. I hope that you guys
have all enjoyed, UM some interesting facts about the by
Center effect, and it certainly made me think about my
own reactions to circumstances in my life. Um, and whether

(24:36):
or not I was unknowingly under the power of it. Yeah,
and I should I should also add that the at
the didneral office, they eventually did change the TV to
Disney Channel, but it was more. It was more it
was a situation where the lady we're working the front
desk kind of figured out it's like, oh, maybe I
should change off of um a special Victims unit and

(24:57):
maybe go to like Donald Tuck or something. That's all
right because they just went home and played Grand Auto
Theft and killed a couple of hookers. Anyway, Grand Theft Auto.
But it's adorable that you thought it was Grand Auto.
I always say it that way, so there you can anyway.
So if you have anything you would like to share
with us, be it about Grand Auto, theft, or uh

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I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!

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