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KT (00:07):
Good morning everybody. It is August 28th, 2025, and we
would like to welcome you to the Women and Money
Ask KT and Suze Anything podcast.
Suze (00:19):
Oh, you did so good.
KT (00:20):
That was good, right? Before this one we did 5 takes,
and she said, no, no, no, KT, we have to
give them one. They're not gonna want to listen to
all your, your, your redos. OK. My first question is from...
Suze (00:34):
For some reason, everybody, she can't get it that she
should say the date.
KT (00:37):
I never get the date first. I welcome you to
the Women and Money podcast.
Suze (00:41):
But KT, the date is really important. Know why?
KT (00:43):
Because it changes the information changes...
Suze (00:46):
and what I told you to do four years ago
is not what I'm telling you to do now. So
everybody pay attention to the date that you're listening to
something and the date that you're listening to it, and
then you'll know,
how you should listen to it.
KT (01:02):
Hi, Suze, I'm 57, continuing my 39 plus year career. Wow, congratulations, Chrystal.
Suze (01:10):
What did she do?
KT (01:11):
I don't know.
Suze (01:12):
On something she must like something's been doing it for
40 years like me. I've been doing this 40 years
and I love what I do.
KT (01:19):
So Crystal says I have a 401k and two Roth IRAs.
I have four and a half years left to pay on my mortgage.
My domestic partner and I...
Suze (01:29):
Did you notice how she just said "my mortgage?"
KT (01:32):
Yes. My domestic partner and I want to pay off
the mortgage now just in case something happens to one
of our jobs.
Yeah, I would do it,
Suze (01:41):
And what does that tell you that says that if
they don't have income coming in, they don't have enough
money to pay the mortgage.
KT (01:48):
She says, I have about 85,000 liquid of which 50,000
would go towards paying my half.
Suze (01:54):
Yeah, but she's 57. Go on.
KT (01:57):
OK, I would only have 35,000 liquid left, but I
would keep building
my emergency fund after paying off the mortgage, my interest
rate is 3.3%.
Suze (02:08):
Right now wait, stop, stop really. What this tells us, KT,
is if her half would be $50,000 that means her
partner's half would be $50,000. That means they owe $100,000
left on this mortgage.
And that mortgage is at 3.3%, which is going to
be paid off in four and a half years anyway. Now this is
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all key what I'm saying to you. All right, go on.
KT (02:35):
I've been paying $750 extra on the principal every month.
Suze (02:41):
Notice as she said,
"I have been."
KT (02:43):
Yes, yes, yes, for three years since my partner moved in. OK,
partner's only been there for a little bit. My guess
is
that you will tell me to keep doing that. We
are just eager to get out from under a mortgage
and we have no other bills.
Suze (03:00):
So that's
the first time she
said "we."
KT (03:02):
We have no other bills, so I thought I would
just ask. So this is really you...
Suze (03:09):
Crystal, as I look into my crystal ball anyway, it's,
it bothers me, right? And that the house obviously is
in your name.
The mortgage is in your name. Everything is in your name.
Your partner has moved in with you, and the reason
that you're able to pay extra money towards your mortgage
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is they are paying you in essence rent. For this,
you have to be very careful because if all of
a sudden your partner puts a lump sum of money
like $50,000 into this.
That very well could make this house in their opinion, theirs,
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and there's just something about it that I don't like.
Your partner has only been living with you for three years.
Now I don't know how long you've been with your partner.
But I like when you own your own home when
it's all yours that you're taking rent from your partner
and that your partner really doesn't have a say in this. Now,
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obviously you were doing OK before your partner moved in
and you were able to pay this mortgage.
Rather than you taking money from your $85,000 that you
have liquid, if you're afraid if something happens to you
and you lose your job or whatever, why don't you
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just keep that money safe and sound in an account
that if something happened you would be able to continue
from it to still pay your mortgage because with only
four and a half years left.
You've already paid all the interest up front. You're paying principal,
so it makes no sense for you to give up
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money that's probably making 4.55% where in a high yield
savings account to pay off a 3.3% interest mortgage that
really you've already paid that all up front doesn't make
any sense whatsoever, so I don't want you to do it, however.
Maybe to protect yourself, your partner should get a term
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insurance policy on him or her, and if they're around
the same age as you, you know, even a $100,000
term policy if something happened to them besides losing a job.
It's only like $400 a year for 100,000. So maybe
it's $300 a year at this age, if they're in
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good health, a non-smoker and everything like that.
For their half, so they could do that, but no,
I would not be doing this and do not make
this both of your homes. This is your home. You're
going to keep it in just your name. Their money
that they pay goes for rent because they're living there
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and you keep it like that, girlfriend, trust me on
this one. All right, go on, KT.
KT (06:11):
Trust her, Crystal. OK, yeah, because we've read these emails before.
Trust her, Crystal,
Suze (06:18):
But after the fact of what's gone wrong.
KT (06:20):
OK.
Suze (06:21):
I don't want anything to go wrong.
KT (06:22):
This next question is from Juan. Hi ladies, thank you
for your podcast. I started listening during the COVID shutdown,
and I found it very, very, very helpful. My husband
and I both turned
60 this year we've been married for over 10 years.
We aspire to hold off collecting Social Security till we're 70.
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Barring major health or market events. Our financial plan will
let us do this. My Social Security check is projected
to be 30% higher than my husband's. If I die
before him,
and I have not started collecting Social Security. Will he
be able to collect my higher Social Security?
Suze (07:06):
Yes.
KT (07:07):
Well, there you go.
Suze (07:08):
Yeah, very simple, different than a spousal Social Security claim.
Where their spouse or ex-spouse has had to start claiming
Social Security for you to get a percentage of it,
a survivor benefit is very different. You do not need
to be collecting it. In fact, let's just say at 67,
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your full retirement age really, your primary insurance amount is $2,500.
Let's say you die at 69.
He can collect that increase even though you didn't claim
yet at 2,900. So yes, he can claim your Social Security.
All right, KT.
KT (07:52):
OK, so next question's from Tim. Hi Suze and KT.
My wife is about to leave her current employer. She
has approximately 148,000 in a Roth 401k,
that will need to be moved to a rollover IRA.
She does not currently have a Roth IRA, but if
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she were to open one at Fidelity prior to leaving
her employer, could the Roth 401k be rolled into the
Roth IRA?
Suze (08:25):
Yes, absolutely. However...
KT (08:26):
Are... wait, are her employer's contributions.
to her Roth also after tax or tax deferred, is
there a way to
tell?
Suze (08:35):
Yeah, I'm sure if she looks she will see that
the match from her 401k contributions from her employer is
in a pre-tax account, so that could go into an
IRA and her other money could go into a Roth IRA. However,
the five year clock will start the day that she
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converts there. If she opens a Roth IRA today, even
with a dollar if she qualifies for one, then the
5 year clock has started, and the five year clock
has run.
And then she put her 401k Roth money into a
Roth IRA. She would have met the five year rule.
(09:17):
That is why I tell all of you open up
a Roth IRA in your individual name. I don't care
if you only fund it with a dollar, especially if
you have money in a Roth 401k. Start the clock now,
all right, KT.
KT (09:33):
So when they do
the rollover, there's no starting a clock
again.
Suze (09:37):
That's so if she's now, depending on her age, if
she wants to take out money, the earnings, and everything,
it's all tax free. She doesn't have to wait five years.
All right.
KT (09:48):
OK, next is from Sharon. Hi Suze and KT. Thank
you for sharing your wisdom. Every time I listen, I
always learn something new from you and KT. So.
I have a question about the use of limited orders
when buying or selling a stock, especially in this volatile market.
(10:08):
I don't have the time to watch the market each day.
I realize I wouldn't catch the highs or lows of
the market this way, but that's hard
to do anyway, what are your thoughts on limited buys
and sells? She's an 83 year old still with a
lot to learn, so appreciate you both sharing your wisdom. OK,
(10:29):
this isn't both sharing wisdom. This is Suze sharing her wisdom, uh, Sharon,
this isn't a KT.
Suze (10:36):
You know what a limit order is KT?
KT (10:38):
No.
Suze (10:39):
Do you know what a market order is?
Why are you looking at her email?
KT (10:44):
Well, I'm just trying to figure out a market order.
No.
Suze (10:49):
There you go. That's that, that's...
KT (10:50):
There you go. That's why this is a Suze wisdom,
not KT's.
Suze (10:54):
When you are buying or selling a share of stock,
when you put in your order, if it's online or
if you deal with a financial advisor, they'll ask you
this question.
Do you want it to be a market order? A
market order simply is you put it in to buy
or sell, and whatever the stock is trading in the
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market at that time, you get that price period, so
it will automatically be filled.
A limit order is you want to buy or sell
it at a specific price, so you're limiting what you
can buy or sell it at. The next question you're
going to be asked is it a good till cancel
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order or a day only order? So you could put
in a limit order to buy or sell a share
of stock or all of your stock however you want
to do it, and you can make it just for
that day.
You just want to see what happens that day, or
in this case, Sharon doesn't want to watch it. She
doesn't care, right? She's got better things to do, so
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therefore she could make it good till cancel. So until
she physically cancels it, that limit order is good and
if the price of the stock hits her limit order,
whatever amount she put in, it will automatically sell, so
up
to you if you want to do that or not,
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a lot of times if you put a limit order
too close to the market of what's happening, the traders
will just have it go down there, pick up your
limit order, and then wipe it out because they know
that they have orders showing the stock's going to be
going up. So just be careful with limit orders, however.
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It doesn't hurt if you know you want to sell
something to just glance on it or get an alert
when a stock hits a certain price. Make sure that
you get a text or an email saying, Oh, Sharon,
the stock just hit this price. Maybe you need to
do something. Pay attention. Pay attention. All right.
KT (13:08):
Do you remember, um, I remember my brother Johnny was
working on the Chicago exchange.
I'll never forget this. He went on vacation and he
was responsible for a great deal of money for one
of his clients, and he put it on a limit.
He did that, and we had that big crash, that
unforeseen huge crash. John became a hero overnight because he
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put it on a limit, so that guy, that client
didn't lose anything.
And John was like this hero. Everyone thought, like, how
did you know? And he didn't. It just happened that
he went on vacation that week.
Suze (13:46):
Go on. All right, but a limit order can also
work against you.
KT (13:50):
OK, next question.
Suze (13:51):
That
was KT's very sweet way of being able to mention
her brother Johnny, who she loves. She loves this boy
so much even though he's no longer a boy, he
just turned 60.
God, she loves him. And guess what, everybody...
KT (14:05):
So do you.
Suze (14:06):
So do I.
KT (14:07):
All right,
Suze (14:08):
I want to hear something even more amazing. He seriously
loves me.
KT (14:14):
The most, the most. Hey, Suze, I'm sure you've probably
answered this question before, but I've just started listening to
your podcast. I want to move my 401k into something
since I'm about to retire next year at 68. Where
should I move it?
Suze (14:34):
Well, you know, again, these questions are kind of all similar, KT, but...
KT (14:39):
I would put a roll, I would roll it over
to a Roth IRA.
Suze (14:42):
But she has a 401k. She didn't tell you she
had a Roth 401(k). She said she has a 401(k).
KT (14:49):
Yeah, where should she move it?
Suze (14:51):
You don't say how much money you have in this 401(k).
The only number you use here is the number 68.
So for a long time, obviously you've gotten very used
to how the 401k works, the investments in the 401k,
and you probably feel very comfortable with it.
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When you roll it to let's say an IRA rollover,
and it would be a traditional IRA rollover, why? Because
you don't want to owe taxes on it when you
do so, and it would be a custodian to custodian rollover.
You want it to go directly from your employer sponsored 401(k)
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into your IRA rollover at a brokerage firm.
When you do that, they have to liquidate everything that's
in your 401(k), all the mutual funds and everything, and
it's cash that will roll over. Now you're going to
have to decide on your own how do you want
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to invest that money? Do you want to invest it
all at once? Do you want a dollar cost average?
So the question I turn back to you is how
comfortable do you feel doing that?
Because I can tell you if it's a large amount
when you roll it over to a brokerage firm, oh,
you're going to have some financial adviser saying I think
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you should do this, I think you should do that,
let's buy an annuity, let's do this, let's do that.
So just depending on your knowledge, your comfort level, because
remember the goal of money is for you to be secure.
And it may just be that you are secure with
it in your 401(k) at your ex-employers where it happens
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to be invested. Maybe it's all invested in a Standard
and Poor's 500 fund or something like that. So the
question now reverts right back to you, girlfriend. Are you
comfortable where it is, or do you feel secure enough
for it to go to an IRA rollover.
And invest it once it's at the IRA rollover little
(17:02):
by little you could convert it to a Roth IRA
so that as you get older you have more and
more money in your Roth IRA and then you won't
have to be subjected to required minimum distribution. What KT?
KT (17:17):
I have a question. Can she leave that for as
long as she wishes
Suze (17:23):
in her 401(k)...
yeah, yeah, as long as it's $5000 or more, she
can leave it at her ex-employer's 401(k) plan, which she
may feel more comfortable with. Again, the goal of money
is for you to be secure. So the question is also,
you don't have to do it all.
Maybe you take half of it and roll it to
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an IRA rollover and see how it feels, or a
small amount of money, but just because you're not exactly
sure and you're saying where should I move it.
It makes me a little bit protective of you because
if you don't even know where to move it, I
don't know you would know what to do with it
once you moved it. So probably I would be telling
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you to leave it exactly where it is until you know.
KT (18:08):
I would too.
Suze (18:09):
All right, well, there you go. All right, KT.
KT (18:12):
So next question is from Michelle. Michelle, my belle...
Suze (18:16):
Here she goes...
KT (18:20):
I used to know the French words that go after that, but...
Suze (18:21):
Here's the thing that's
so funny. KT thinks she can sing.
KT (18:24):
I can sing. I sing all the time.
Suze (18:27):
That's...
KT (18:27):
I don't have a great singing voice, but I love
to sing. I can sing.
Suze (18:31):
You know, there's a saying, not my saying, but sing
like nobody can hear you, dance like nobody is watching.
KT (18:38):
I danced...
Suze (18:39):
And KT does both those things to the extreme. All right,
go on.
KT (18:43):
Like no one's watching except Suze.
And sometimes she records it, which I get very angry,
and then posts it on the wall. All right, ready.
I know that you are not a fan of life
insurance policies, but I'm wondering if it makes sense for
tax purposes and income in my case.
Suze (19:03):
No, no, no.
KT (19:04):
You're already answering her.
Suze (19:05):
Because it never makes sense for tax purposes.
KT (19:08):
I am a 50-year-old single woman with no kids. I
have a paid off house and I have $2.3 million
in savings between brokerage, 401(k) IRA, and Roth IRA accounts.
Suze (19:24):
You know why she has so much money?
KT (19:26):
Yeah, single and no kids.
Suze (19:27):
That's
right. That's the key.
KT (19:30):
All right, so about 700,000 is in my brokerage, which
is how I would fund the annuity policy. What should
I be aware of and look out for before getting
this type of annuity?
Suze (19:43):
She didn't say what type it is.
KT (19:44):
I think she means uh insurance annuity.
Suze, in your opinion, is it better to just buy
rental property for the same purpose?
Suze (19:55):
So the purpose obviously is avoiding taxes with it. See,
here's what I don't understand Michelle.
KT (20:02):
Rental property
Suze (20:03):
And even rental property, right now she can do rental property.
She could do an REIT. REITs are starting to come
up nicely now, but they will pay you income that's taxable, Michelle.
You have to understand that on no level do I
want you to touch an annuity, to touch any type
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of life insurance policy or any insurance investment on any level.
It makes no sense. Do you hear me? That's it, period. However,
if you continue investing this money in dividend paying stocks
and or growth stocks value stocks, you just keep investing it.
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Dollar cost averaging in your brokerage firm. You're not paying
taxes on the growth of that money. You don't buy
a stock just to own it for a year. And
then later on in life, as this money has been
growing up and up and up, if you decide to sell,
so it's at the capital gains tax rate.
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Don't worry about taxes. You're saying you're wondering if it
makes sense for tax purposes income in your case. Listen,
do a municipal bond, do things like that, and not
pay taxes on it. But no, the answer is very simple.
You are not going to do this over my dead body,
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and as you can tell, my body is not dead.
All right.
KT (21:34):
That was funny. OK, final question from Barbara. Dear Suze
and KT, when you talk about the benefits of a
revocable trust, you mention the incapacity clause. My husband and
I have a revocable trust, as well as the other
must have documents, but I was curious as to why
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a financial power of attorney would not address the incapacity issue.
There you go. She wants you to make her more
financially secure.
Suze (22:07):
So here's the scoop, everybody, right? A revocable trust with
an incapacity only governs the assets that are in a trust.
There are assets like an IRA, an employer retirement plans,
assets not titled in the trust that a power of
attorney governs. It is just that simple, so you need both,
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but I will tell
you this a power of attorney at a bank when
you present it may give you problems because they don't
like dealing with power of attorneys because they don't know
is it null and void, what does it govern, all
these things. So both of those documents are essential.
KT (22:51):
That is a wrap.
Suze (22:53):
It is?
KT (22:55):
Yes.
Suze (22:55):
Are you making these podcasts shorter and shorter?
KT (22:57):
A little bit.
Yeah, ask me why.
Suze (23:00):
Why?
KT (23:00):
People remember more information if there's less.
They do. I do. And if I can remember it,
if I can quote you on what to do with
a Roth because you didn't give me so many options
front door, back door, side door, under, then that's how
I learn. Less is more.
Suze (23:24):
You know, KT loves to back herself into a corner with me.
KT (23:28):
No corner, no corner.
Suze (23:30):
This is a corner that you backed yourself into.
KT (23:32):
OK, we're gonna say...
there's only one thing we want to remember...
Suze (23:36):
Because no matter how short or long or whatever, she
still doesn't know anything about a Roth.
KT (23:41):
There's only one thing we want you to remember, and
it's this. We want your money to make more money.
Suze (23:47):
All right, everybody, until next time, you stay safe and healthy.
KT (23:53):
Bye bye.