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Speaker 1 (00:01):
You are now angel what I call her?
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Ye, yeah, it is the middle of the week on
a Wednesday, and ooh, Jazzon Briand is here with me.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
I'm here again, Angela.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
I know that's right. And we are gonna have a
great show for you guys. Today. We have an author
and a doctor in emergency room. Doctor doctor Rob Gore
is gonna be joining us today. He has a book
out right now. It's called Treating Violence, an emergency room
doctor takes on a deadly American epidemic. He just talks
about this cycle of violence and how we have to
get to the root cause of things. And so it's
(00:39):
gonna be a great conversation. You're gonna love this guy.
And of course we have a really fun show plan
for y'all. And we started off with some love and
some positivity. Eight fifty is a number to call this up.
Let's shine a light, let's bread some love, because guess
what what we needed more than all right, eight hundred
fifty one fifty when we come back, Let's shine a
light this way.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
Turn your lights on y'all, spreading love to those who
are doing greatness.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Shine the light on them, Shine the light on them.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
It's time to shine a light.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
On what's up his way up at Angela. Yee, I'm Angela. Yee.
Jasmine Brand is here.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
What's up Angela?
Speaker 2 (01:20):
And when I tell y'all we had an amazing weekend,
I can't stop talking about Dallas. But I want to
shine a light on certain people do their job above
and beyond and Erica, Tony and Shade they work with
us at together Land Festival for the podcast days and
they made sure everything was taken care of. And sometimes
on a day like that when things can get really busy,
which they were and was. You know, y'all saw the
(01:41):
video footage of Summer Walker doing her split. You saw
everybody that was out there. I know you saw a
lot of hitting that stage, little Wayne hype for some
little Wain. But imagine you're in the midst of all
these things going on and you're sending text messages asking
for credentials and other things, and the person really gets
back to you. You know that. That's why we absolutely
love Erica, Tony and shah Day for really making sure
(02:04):
we were good, taking care of prioritized. Even if we weren't,
we felt like it.
Speaker 5 (02:08):
The thing is, they were amazing and this was the
first year that they had this, so to get on.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Yeah, they did a really amazing.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Job and Dallas battling terrible weather, I know on the
second day, but you know, shout out to y'all. We
love to see people who actually care about their job
go above and beyond, and we respect it all. Right, now,
who do you guys want to shine a light on?
Eight hundred two ninety two fifty one fifty Joelene, what's good?
Who do you want to shine a light on? Anisia Anderson?
(02:35):
Tanisha Anderson tell us about her.
Speaker 6 (02:38):
Wow, she my big sister, and she literally upholds that
to the highest standard. Okay, doesn't get to recognize that
she's supposed to.
Speaker 7 (02:47):
So I thought it.
Speaker 5 (02:48):
Did she hear this, She would really appreciate it.
Speaker 6 (02:50):
So I just want to not appreciate her.
Speaker 5 (02:52):
I love her, want her.
Speaker 6 (02:53):
To continue to do her big fun, continue to time right,
continue to be great and all the pork, continue to
go forward on this journey that we're currently coming on.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Oh, sisterhood one of the most important things. And to
have a great big sister who you could follow and
have footsteps, who supports you. Nothing like it, nothing.
Speaker 6 (03:12):
Like it is ma'am you already Knowliot.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
All right, well, thank you, Toline, shout out to you,
tennay shah. All right, well that was Shining Light eight
hundred two nine two fifty one fifty just in case
you couldn't get through. And when we come back, we
have your yet. And this is so funny because we
were talking about Robert de Naro over the weekend. Yes, yes, yes,
and how versatile he's always been with all of his roles.
Well right now he is speaking out and elections are
(03:34):
coming up, and we'll tell you what he had to
say outside of Donald Trump's trial. As we're doing closing arguments.
It's way up, they say.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
In the rooms, from industry shade to all the gossip
out sending Angela's feeling that yet, what's up.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
This way up at Angela? Ye, I'm Angela, yee. Jasmine
brand is here, I'm here and we got your yet
for you. Okay. So Robert de Niro was outside the
Donald Trump child and you know he had a closing
statements where yesterday actually this is the criminal for our
case sent it on payment to Stormy Daniels, the adult
film star that Donald Trump allegedly paid off right. Well, anyway,
(04:14):
Rapat De Niro had this to say about why you
better make sure that you vote and what could potentially
happen if Donald Trump makes it back in office.
Speaker 7 (04:21):
I love this city. I don't want to destroy it.
Speaker 8 (04:24):
Donald Trump wants to destroy not only the city but
the country and eventually he could destroy the world.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
He ain't wrong, He's not And I appreciate when an
actor or these Hollywood stars, I appreciate when they give
us their honest opinion about politics because.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
It can't actually affect their pockets. There's people that are
Trump supporters who also love Robert de Niro, who are
going to come for him, and he doesn't care. His
opinion is his opinion. There's a lot of people who
are nervous to say who they support and don't want
to pick aside and you say different things, but I
think it's important. He was outside the courtroom saying that,
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and he does love this city, as we know. Speaking
of people who love their city. Isaiah Thomas, he said
he had a terrifying experience over the weekend. He was
on social media. He was on ex aka Twitter, and
he said, really tripping on how these young kids are
moving around. I really had a life changing moment yesterday
when a kid pulled an AK forty seven out on
me and the homies. And if it wasn't for who
(05:21):
I was and him recognizing me in my own city,
he probably would have ended all of our lives. Be safe, Wow,
can you?
Speaker 9 (05:27):
I'm Mary.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
He was with his friends and they were in Tacoma, Washington,
in his hometown, and that's when they were approached. And
he said, it was a really frightening moment. I bet
for that, and you know, he grew up there, played
college ball a short drive away, and yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
That's superki, I can't imagine. That's super scary.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
And then he said, we just got to pray for
these young men. God was working yesterday for real, for real.
It could have been all over that quick for no
reason at all, you know, And hopefully the kid who
pulled out the AK forty seven that made him think
twice about what it was that he was doing, because
God forbid that he didn't recognize Isaiah Washington or with
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somebody else that could have been it. And that's a
scary experience for him, but it does show you something
has to be done.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
Yep, for sure, you know, but that and what do
you walk around with AK forty seven before?
Speaker 2 (06:15):
I have no idea. But this also is going to
bring me to our interview that we have today with
doctor Rob Gore. He has a book out right now
that's called Treating Violence, and it's about treating trauma and
healing inner city trauma. And he discusses scenarios just like this.
All right, and when we come back, we have about
last night. That's where we discussed what we did last night.
(06:38):
I feel like as much as we're apart, we're together
quite a bit, right, no am, I about last night?
To deal with me and Jasmine Brand and our adventures.
All right, it's wait n so about last night? Yes,
I went down what's up? Its way up at Angela Yea,
I'm Angela yee. Jasmine Brand is here?
Speaker 3 (06:58):
What's up?
Speaker 2 (06:59):
What up? Time for about last night? So, as you know,
I've been in this process of like moving. This has
been like a months long process, more than really years
years ago. But it's hard because right now IM at
the point where I'm buying all these last minute things
and it's adding up a lot. Waisconces, chandeliers, all kinds
of things. And I was telling y'all earlier about saving
(07:21):
money by buying open box items. But there's a lot
of other things and ways that I can save money.
And you know, I am the queen of trying to
get a coupon. So I want to talk about some
of those hacks right there, because maybe somebody out there
is trying to redo their home. One thing I will
say that is quite possible if you don't have all
the money right now is a lot of credit cards
will let you plan it where you don't have to
(07:43):
pay everything at once. You can do monthly installment payments.
So I did that for my security system, and I've
done that for some other items, a little planet thing
where you just pay a set monthly fee with no
interest interest. Okay. Another thing is signing up for those
text messages. So Jess and if you get a weird
text message, you know I signed up for something.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
You're adamant about that too.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Yes, I do love to get a little twenty percent
off and buy whatever it is that I need to
buy with that little percentage off. But yeah, signing up
for things another thing that is a really great hack.
If you see an item that you like, copy and
paste that into Google and see if you can find
it somewhere else cheaper.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
That's really good.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Yeah, yeah, I do that with clothes too all the time,
and it works amazingly.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
So I've ever done that.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
I even do that while I'm in the store sometimes
I did that. Actually last week, I was buying something
I should and I asked them, I said, do you
guys price mess? They always do, and they actually did
price match for me. So these are just little tips
if you need to buy certain things and you want
to save some money and not pay top dollar for it.
Also a lot of times when things do go on sale,
you can keep your receipt or let them know I
(08:49):
purchased this, but I see it's on sale now can
I And a lot of times they will refund you
the difference.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Let me ask you this. Do you ever buy floor models?
Because those are always.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Buy floor models. I told you that when we were
we were looking at lighting and I told you, I said,
I've gotten some amazing floor models. And the other day,
while we were at Bloomingdale's at their Memorial Day sale,
there were some items that are discontinued, and I bought
some sheets that were originally two hundred and ninety eight
dollars and I got them for thirty dollars.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
That was a and I. At first, I was like Angela,
and I was like, well, shoot, they're only thirty dollars.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
I know I started almost So those are just some
of my hacks you guys, just so you know, and
also like you don't have to do things at the
last minute. I love to get whatever items I need
to get as soon as I can, but sometimes rushing
like that will make you pay a lot more for
an item than you need to. So those are just
some things that I wanted to share with you guys
as I'm trying to, you know, save some money my damnself.
(09:44):
And points. Remember those reward systems, those points. Make sure
you sign up for them. There's no reason to leave
that money on the table. Okay, okay, all right, Well,
when we come back, we have tell us a secret
eight hundred two ninety two fifty one fifty call us up.
Let us know if you have any seat great that
you want to tell us. I feel like we haven't
done this because Monday was a holiday, so we didn't
(10:04):
have tell us a secret. So you know what I know, y'all,
secrets is backed up. Call us up eight hundred two
ninety two fifty one fifty and tell us I said,
it's way up.
Speaker 7 (10:14):
This is a judgment free zone. Tell us a Secret.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
What's up? Its way up with Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee.
And you know what time it is. This is the
part of the show that you love to hate. Okay,
This is when y'all sit back and listen on y'all
little radios and yell little phones and judge people during
tell Us a Secret. But I sit up here straight
faced and let you tell me anything, and I don't
judge you, because that's the whole point of it. You
get to remain anonymous and tell me any secret. One
(10:40):
eight hundred two nine two fifty one to fifty anonymous,
call it, what is your secret?
Speaker 10 (10:44):
I work for this particular company that winds up closing
down because they were doing some bad bad anyway.
Speaker 7 (10:51):
They dropped the bag.
Speaker 10 (10:52):
The guy, he was a mean, nasty guy, that Cooper Boxer.
He dropped the bag one day and I got the
bag and found about ten thousand dollars and the never
said nothing, Nobody never knew.
Speaker 2 (11:04):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (11:05):
So would you do with the money?
Speaker 10 (11:07):
Yeah, I paid my mortgage that for about six Okay,
I went on vacation. Oh yeah, definitely, right, I got
some bills all up.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
But it's responsible.
Speaker 10 (11:18):
But the lame guy that dropped it, he wound up
going to jail for money wandering.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
Well, we see what he was doing. Yeah, or maybe
it was because it dollars. Let me ask you this
what you were You ever nervous that you were going
to get caught?
Speaker 9 (11:32):
Negative?
Speaker 10 (11:32):
Because the area that he dropped it in. I already
knew that area. It was down in the back part
of the parking lot and nah, nobody and it's been
it's been six years.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
Ago, so okay, so yeah it was there.
Speaker 7 (11:46):
Yeah, yeah, yes, yes.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
Happy like somebody else dropped some money. All right, Well
thank you indeed, yeah, indeed. Hanging out a miss caller.
How are you?
Speaker 10 (11:58):
I'm doing fine.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
How about to fail? I'm great? Thank you. It's me
and Jasmine. We want to hear your secret.
Speaker 6 (12:03):
My secret is when I was twelve years old, I
was taking weed from my mama. Now my twelve year
old daughter taking weed from me?
Speaker 2 (12:11):
Have you checked her or you just letting her do it?
Because it's a cycle.
Speaker 6 (12:14):
I checked her.
Speaker 7 (12:15):
I want her doing that, So.
Speaker 3 (12:17):
I was kind of young though.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
Oh wait, I thought I'm sorry. I thought you said,
oh you know, I'm sorry, you said twelve years old
his daughter?
Speaker 7 (12:23):
Yeah, so what are you?
Speaker 2 (12:24):
Where are you going to hide this week now so
she can't get to it? That's wild. I'm sorry. I
didn't realize she was twelve.
Speaker 7 (12:29):
She's angela like this news generation.
Speaker 6 (12:32):
It's a social media thing, got everything, kids want to
do everything.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Now, did you have a talk with her about it?
Because she probably knows you smoke something and they see
their parents doing something. What do you say to a
twelve year old?
Speaker 5 (12:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (12:44):
I had to talk with her about it. She said,
she see me doing it, and eventually, when she gets older,
she going to do it.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Oh did that make you feel bad?
Speaker 10 (12:52):
It made me feel some type of way, but nothing
I could do when.
Speaker 6 (12:55):
She get older.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
You sound like you hide right now, perhaps already smoked
already today?
Speaker 6 (13:02):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (13:04):
All right, product, okay, all right, all right, Well thank
you for calling. Yeah, all right, Well that was tell
us a secret eight hundred two nine two fifty one fifty.
If you couldn't get through, we still want to hear
your dirty dark is secret, all right, and when we
come back, we have your yee tea. And you know,
one of my favorite topics money in real estate. And
we're going to talk about some things that are for
(13:25):
sale on the real estate market. And somebody who just
bought a brand new home for fifteen million dollars. It's
way up.
Speaker 4 (13:31):
Shure, she's about to blow the lid ab off this fot.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
Let's get it.
Speaker 4 (13:34):
Oh yeah, angelus feeling that yee tea, Come.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
And get your tea. What's up his way up at
Angela yee? I'm Angela yee. And Jasmine brand is here, yes,
and it's ye tea time, all right. Drake bought a
three hundred and thirteen acre Texas estate for fifteen million dollars.
By the way, that is not expensive for three hundred
and thirteen acres.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
Well, Texas, which had a lot of land.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
Yeah, that's amazing. It's a ranch. It's a two hours
south of Dallas. It's called Brenham, the town that he's in,
and there's a fourteen thousand square foot house and then
there's some aciendas and casitas. I like that accent here,
thank you. It is also a seller with seven thousand
bottles of wine. You need a seller, a shooting range,
multiple basketball courts and tennis courts, a stable, a writing ring,
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and hers of horses.
Speaker 8 (14:22):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
Wow. I actually posted about this purchase last September and
did a post of himself driving around the property. But yeah,
he paid all of that money and now we know
everything that's there.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
So congratulations Drake.
Speaker 2 (14:39):
You know people are talking about his purchase, they're talking
about Kendrick Lamar, who also purchased Penhouse in Brooklyn last
year in November. Yeah. You know me, I'm interested in
things like you love real estate talking. I do love
talking about real estate. And by the way, a house
that's for sale and I don't know if anybody would
be interested in this, but it's the Home Alone house.
So everybody who loves the movie Home Alone. Now this
(15:00):
house has hit the market five point two five million dollars.
It was last sold in twenty twelve. Five bedrooms and
six bathrooms. It was built in nineteen twenty one. Okay,
so anybody that loves Home Alone and was like, man,
I would love to get this house and own it.
It's for sale.
Speaker 5 (15:16):
So I have two houses that I would like if
I could. Okay, A realistic house would be the house
that was on Cosby Show because it's a royal house.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
Yeah, that's a real house. That's you know that that
was actually supposed to be in Brooklyn, but the outside
of the house is in Manhattan.
Speaker 5 (15:26):
Just okay, I didn't realize it was really in Manhattan,
kne it wasn't in Brooklyn.
Speaker 3 (15:29):
So that's realistic. And on the non realistic.
Speaker 5 (15:31):
Side of a house I would always want is that
big old mansion that they hadn't coming to America.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
Oh okay, listen, Jaz, but nothing is unrealistic. I'm not.
I would never.
Speaker 3 (15:40):
I just wouldn't want it. That's just too much.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
Well, you know what, for this sake of me loving prince,
I would love to own Paisley Park.
Speaker 5 (15:48):
Oh yeah, can you imagine that? Would that would be
happening for you? That's your guy.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
The story's in there, all right. Well that is your yeete.
And when we come back, we have under the radar.
These are the stories that are not necessarily in the headlines.
They are flying under the radar. It's way up the news.
Speaker 7 (16:04):
News.
Speaker 4 (16:04):
This in the news that relates to you. These stories
are flying under the radar.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
What's up his way up at Angela? Yeah, I'm here, Jason,
and brand is here I'm here Angelo, and let's get
into some of these under the radar stories.
Speaker 6 (16:16):
All right.
Speaker 2 (16:16):
Larry Connor, he's a real estate investor. He's a billionaire
by the way, from Dayton, Ohio, and he and Trenton
Submarines co founder Patrick Leahy are going to plunge more
than two point three miles to go see the Titanic site.
I don't like this, he said. I want to show
people worldwide that while the ocean is extremely powerful, it
can be wonderful and enjoyable and really kind of life
(16:37):
changing if you go about it the right way. So
they have a twenty million dollar vessel and they said
it can carry out the voyage repeatedly. They want to
prove that it can be done without disaster.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
Oh I just I'm uneasy.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
Yeah, I mean, listen, there was an implosion of the
titan submersible in June. All five people on board were killed. Yeah,
and it was headed to the Titanic site when it
suddenly had a catastrophe implosion.
Speaker 5 (17:00):
I thought it was super sad too, But I guess
he wants to reassure us that it can be done.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
Right.
Speaker 3 (17:06):
I would you travel now? Negative? Not no way?
Speaker 2 (17:10):
Nothing, all right, Well, you know what, best of luck
to them, God bless them. I would hope somebody would say, no,
don't do it, you cannot do it, all right, And
one in nine US children now have ADHD. There's been
a surgeon diagnosed since twenty sixteen. So that's seven million
kids from ages three to seventeen that have been diagnosed
with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, all right, and this equates
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to about one in nine children. Like we said, that's
tough because a lot of people feel like kids get
diagnosed and get put on medication that may not be necessary.
But you know, a child with ADHD may often daydream.
A kid doesn't do that, forget or lose things, talk
too much, squirm or fidget, have difficulty getting along with others,
(17:54):
have trouble taking turns, and make careless mistakes according to
the CDC. But there's no test that can diagnose this.
Speaker 3 (18:00):
That description as me as an adult. So I don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:02):
I was gonna say, I didn't want to do that,
but yes, and you know what, and I do want
to say, sometimes people like kids have too much sugar.
There's a lot of reasons. Yeah, you know, and so
hopefully when you become aware of that. There's a way.
And I think certain kids are diagnosed more frequently than
others too. You know, sometimes people just don't feel like
(18:22):
dealing with the kids attention span. All right, well that
is you're under the radar now, you know, we do
have a Wealth Wednesday guest. Today, doctor Rob Gore is
going to be joining us. He is the author of
Treating Violence. He's an emergency room doctor taking on a
deadly American epidemic. It's going to be some great valuable information.
Like I was telling you guys earlier. He's a clinical
(18:43):
assistant professor at King's County Hospital Center in Brooklyn, New York.
And he was an inaugural TED resident and in twenty
eighteen he was also named as CNN hero. You're gonna
want to hear what he has to say. And we
also have the way It Mixed for you guys at
the top of the hour, because you know, we like
the power, like the funniest way up.
Speaker 5 (19:03):
Just like the talk like they Angela Jean, like they
Angela Jean.
Speaker 4 (19:06):
Man, she's spilling it all this is.
Speaker 2 (19:09):
Yet, well, what's up his way up? At Angela Yee?
I'm Angela Yee And Jasmine brand is here.
Speaker 3 (19:16):
What up though?
Speaker 2 (19:17):
What up though? That's right to trade me outside. And
let's get into some of these stories that I actually
saw on the Jasmine brand. Make sure you follow them
on the Jasmine brand three sixty five on Instagram. Okay,
because I'm Hayes, got your page taken down. But remember
hay and ain't happy and happy, ain't hate.
Speaker 3 (19:34):
In I know that's.
Speaker 2 (19:36):
So. Lavelle Crawford was on Club Shasha okay, and he
said a few different things. He talked about little Duball
threatening him. I don't know how that would go if
they had to fight, but here's what he has to say.
Speaker 1 (19:47):
The ball threatened to beat me up anyway eight pounds.
I said, what side you're gonna beat up.
Speaker 8 (19:54):
You?
Speaker 2 (19:55):
You ain't? You got this lived on me? If I
put it on you let the club. Another thing that
he discussed was Ricky Smiley bailing him out of jail. Yeah,
and how listen, if anybody ever bailed me out of jail,
you are my friend for life.
Speaker 3 (20:11):
I know that's right.
Speaker 1 (20:12):
I'm sitting them saying, oh crid, and I was scared
to death with my phone. My cell phone rang and
it was Ricky Smiley and they seen Rieky s Miney,
you know, Riky Smiley, so that you know he had
got a name down there, Ricy Smiley keep calling you
and I was saying, oh man, and he said, man,
we ain't really see what happened. The police just probably
then because they thought, y'all just disrupt the peete. We
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can let you out of here if you're gonna come down,
says you know Riggy Smiley, I said, and he said
he could vouch for me that I'm a.
Speaker 2 (20:39):
Good personal all right, And you know, in the beginning
of that, he also said, e Freky Smiley. But he
was kidding, and so people took those comments seriously. But
he went on social media and said if you would
listen to the whole damn thing, well we do that.
Speaker 3 (20:50):
You know, people don't.
Speaker 2 (20:51):
People don't do that. It was a joke. And also
from the Jasmine brand, let's talk about our guy Lorenz tape.
He is getting ready to play Barry Gordy and Michael
Jackson biopic. And here's what he posted.
Speaker 6 (21:02):
That's what you what to do.
Speaker 8 (21:04):
Get into my song, get into my mode, over my material, cap.
Speaker 2 (21:08):
Shure, y'all. Stuff that's gonna be a good movie.
Speaker 3 (21:10):
Yeah, I could definitely see him in their role.
Speaker 5 (21:12):
So he's good at playing portraying significant you know figures
in Hollywood.
Speaker 7 (21:17):
Song.
Speaker 2 (21:17):
I can see him in their training the artists and
you know, making sure they work with each other and
do their media training. And yeah, all right, well shout
out to you, Lawrence, say that's dope and that is
your yee t. And when we come back, we have
asked yee. Eight hundred two nine two fifty one fifty
is a number. Call us up any question that you have.
We are here to help you out. Me and Jasmine
Brand is way up.
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This relationship with Korea advice, Angela's dropping facts.
Speaker 2 (21:41):
You should you should know. This is ask gee, what's up?
Its way up with Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee and
Jasmine Brand is here with me and it's time for
ask ye. Eight hundred two nine two fifty one fifty
is a number. We have Mariah on the line. What's up? Mariah?
Speaker 11 (21:55):
Hey girl?
Speaker 2 (21:56):
How you doing good? How are you girl? Power? What's good?
Speaker 11 (22:01):
I know That's where I'm like, let me call my
homegirl cause she gets the best advice.
Speaker 2 (22:05):
And I need it. Okay, we're listening. I was having
a three year affair.
Speaker 11 (22:09):
Everything was good, coup esthetic, and then I got pregnant.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
Baby comes wife finds.
Speaker 11 (22:16):
Out because I had to tell her because you're not
gonna not take care of my kids.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
Wow, you tell he didn't tell his wife? You did?
Speaker 11 (22:24):
Yeah, I had to because after I got pregnant, he
started acting kind of iffy. So I have the baby
or whatever, and everything's good for like the first three months,
and then he wanted me to sit on the side
when I was the side, Like, how is that possible?
So he went back to the white and han't heard
(22:44):
from him since.
Speaker 2 (22:45):
I go put him on child support.
Speaker 11 (22:47):
So now he's mad that he's on child support, but
he hasn't paid it.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
Oh well, if he doesn't pay his child support, that's
gonna be his own legal issues that he's gonna have
to deal with. That's on him. And just so you know,
we can't condone like you know, you know what it was.
You were the side piece. You got pregnant, told his wife.
He was mad, but then his wife kicked him out.
He ended up coming with you and then he did
the same thing to you that he did to her.
He got a lot of issues. Yes, you have a
(23:14):
beautiful child now. But you have a father who was
never really going to be the man that he needed
to be for any woman or you know, let alone
a child. So I just feel like all you can
do is make him pay what he needs to pay
if he wants to see his child. You know, hopefully
he'll come around to be a better co parent. As
(23:35):
far as dating, is it somebody you still want to be.
Speaker 11 (23:37):
With, No, not at all.
Speaker 10 (23:39):
You know.
Speaker 11 (23:40):
Honestly, with me not having my first daughter's dad around,
I really was just trying to make it so that
my other daughter can have a dad, I guess, but
I never really wanted him.
Speaker 6 (23:52):
The thing about it is, you know I already moved on.
Speaker 11 (23:55):
I'm pregnant already with a whole other situation.
Speaker 3 (23:58):
Well, fertile girl, okay, you got yours.
Speaker 2 (24:02):
Okay, So who is this guy now?
Speaker 11 (24:05):
Same situations?
Speaker 10 (24:06):
What not?
Speaker 3 (24:07):
Come on, Mariah, they don't come married.
Speaker 11 (24:10):
You just find it out later.
Speaker 5 (24:11):
You see little things, Yeah, you see little red flags
that you probably ignore.
Speaker 11 (24:15):
Yeah, every time.
Speaker 2 (24:17):
Don't ignore those red flags? All right? Well, Mariah, all
I can tell you is, you know, be the best
mom that you can be from this point moving forward.
But I do want you to take some accountability and
make some better, smarter decisions for yourself. Sure, accountability is key, Okay,
(24:38):
we could try. All right, Well, our best of luck
to you, and please have a safe pregnancy and don't
stress yourself out over things you can't control. I'm not
that's right, okay, girl, that was ask ye eight hundred
two nine fifty fifty. You can always leave a message
and we will answer your question that way and when
we come back. The author of Treating Violence emergency room
(24:58):
doctor to Rob Gore is joining us. He's from Brooklyn,
by the way. Okay, Yeah, we went to the same
elementary school. Oh wow, randomly Okay, But he's going to
be joining us to talk about what he has seen
and witnessed and why he decided he needed to start
his own organization after seeing what goes on in the
emergency room. All right, He's got some amazing stories and solutions.
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It's way out.
Speaker 5 (25:21):
I kind of dream of wealthy, and I don't mind
sharing my wealth.
Speaker 4 (25:24):
Dogs getting you straight financially, mentally, and physically. This is
wealth Wednesday on Way Up with Angela Yee?
Speaker 2 (25:31):
What's up? Is Way up with Angela?
Speaker 6 (25:32):
Yee?
Speaker 2 (25:32):
I'm Angela yee on a Wealth Wednesday, and my Wealth
Wednesday partner, Stacy Tisday is here. Happy Wealth Wednesdays.
Speaker 9 (25:38):
Well, you're so excited, sit down and enjoy the conversation
that's about to come to you with doctor Rob Gore.
Speaker 7 (25:46):
Right, thanks for having me today.
Speaker 2 (25:47):
But the reason why this is a Wealth Wednesday is
because when it comes to treating violence, you work in
the emergency room. A lot of what happens with our
youth can be traced back to trauma they've had as
a child. Things do get passed down. A lot of
it have to do with the influences and how we
grew up and opportunities, and so this is just something
(26:08):
that I want to make sure we talk about because
it's such an important topic.
Speaker 8 (26:11):
So I've been an emergency physician this is year twenty
two since I finished medical school. And being somebody who
grew up in the community with people of color and
practicing medicine, emergency medicine with populations who are also of color,
things start to resonate a little bit differently, and we
start seeing people coming into the hospital with repeat injuries
and repeat conditions. You have to start asking yourself why,
(26:34):
And so I began looking at violence and trauma through
a lens of public health under meaning that if you
understand the risk factors, were understand the conditions in which
people come from, if we can help tweak those and
modify or at least provide levels of support for those conditions,
that we can change the scope about violence and particularly
recurrent violence. There are a series of studies that talk
about adverse childhood experiences, and when they talk about stress,
(26:57):
hormones and these things impact your immune systems.
Speaker 7 (27:00):
So if you're.
Speaker 8 (27:00):
Constantly stressed and fight or flight, you don't fight off infection.
Speaker 10 (27:03):
Well.
Speaker 8 (27:03):
But people who experience a lot of average childhood experiences,
they have earlier deaths, they are more prone to develop
autoimmune problems, they're more prone to develop heart disease purely
because of this repeated trauma that they experience without having
any period to really process it. And so we've got
to start looking at this stuff through a very protective lens,
through a very preventative lens, because prevention is a lot
(27:24):
cheaper than paying for emergencies.
Speaker 2 (27:26):
Right now, I'm talking to doctor Rob Gore. He is
the founder of the Kings Against Violence initiative, but he's
also a physician and an author.
Speaker 9 (27:34):
Doctor Gore was chosen as a Presidential Leadership Scholar and
created KAVI.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
Brag about KAVI.
Speaker 8 (27:41):
Kave itself is a hospital school, and community based violence
intervention and prevention program that I found it as a
way to provide this effort and provide these services, but
really as a way to help young people understand and
process trauma that they've experienced and create resources so that
violent and trauma that people have experienced doesn't become recurrent.
Speaker 2 (28:00):
And that's Kings Against Violent and Violence Initiatives just stands for.
Speaker 7 (28:05):
So you can check us out at Copybrooklyn dot org.
Speaker 2 (28:08):
Is it what do you call it? Like an intervention?
Speaker 8 (28:09):
It's an intervention. Actually, even with covin me, I actually
probably clarify a couple of things.
Speaker 7 (28:14):
So we were a hospital school and community based.
Speaker 8 (28:16):
The school and community based work to do more preventative work,
and some of the community work also works with people
who are very high risks who've been impacted by violence.
And then we do the intervention work for people who've
been shot and stab and due to violence who passed
through King's County Hospital Center, which is where I work
as an emergency physician.
Speaker 2 (28:36):
Doctor Rob Gore is here. He is the author of
Treating Violence. He works in the emergency room and he
also has a nonprofit, Kings Against Violence Initiative. Hear more
about this when we come back. It's way up, not on.
Speaker 4 (28:48):
Mind sharing, my Wealth Dog getting you straight financially, mentally
and physically. This is Wealth Wednesday on Way Up with
Angela Yee.
Speaker 2 (28:56):
What's up? His way up at Angela Yee. I'm Angela
Yee am my Wealth Wednesday partners. Stacy Tisdale is here
and we are talking to doctor Rob Gore. He is
the founder of KAVE Kings Against Violence Initiative and the
author of Treating Violence, and he's an emergency room physician.
Speaker 8 (29:10):
In the book, I speak about one of my close friends,
Willis Willis Young who call Young, who was one of
our intervention team members.
Speaker 7 (29:16):
He grew up in Bedsty.
Speaker 8 (29:17):
He lived on the block that I moved to and
he's one of the first people I met, even though.
Speaker 7 (29:21):
He wasn't living there anymore. He was always on the
block hanging out until we developed his.
Speaker 8 (29:24):
Friendship almost mentor mentee, and we had just launched programming
for Covey about two years later in twenty thirteen.
Speaker 7 (29:31):
He was one of our first hire reads and so
his job, he.
Speaker 8 (29:34):
Was a violence intervention specialist in hospital responder, and his
job was to make sure that he intervened with people
when they were injured. He provided a lot of support system,
talking to them about just doing basic check ins like YO,
are you okay? And so that was that thing that
what I'm providing is a real benefit to people that
in our circle, because I know I can speak the
(29:54):
language very different than the docs.
Speaker 7 (29:56):
But a few years later, my morning wake up.
Speaker 8 (29:59):
Call was that he was stat multiple times and taken
to the emergency department, the same place where he did
the intervention work, and he wound up dying two weeks
later in the ICU, the same place.
Speaker 7 (30:07):
And he would also comfort people. And I never shut off.
Speaker 8 (30:10):
And it wasn't until the day of his funeral, which
was like maybe a month or two months later, that
everything just kind of came crashing down. And I was working,
I was coming in for a shift. I was running late,
and I called the er and said, look, I'm running late.
The nurse who picked up the phone with somebody that
I grew up with, and she said.
Speaker 7 (30:28):
You're not gonna believe who's here.
Speaker 8 (30:29):
It was the pay of the person who came in
and shot multiple times, but he was the brother of
another person who I pronounced dead. And the kid who
I pronounced dead was a sixteen year old kid who
was killed by the police. And I see this guy
who shot multiple times.
Speaker 7 (30:42):
Who's stable.
Speaker 8 (30:43):
And then his mother came in, who recognized me immediately.
She said, I know who you are. You cut your locks.
She looks at me, and she said, did my son
say anything to.
Speaker 7 (30:51):
You before he died?
Speaker 8 (30:53):
And like, my body just froze because this is a
kid who was like, you know, who came in alive
and he was like mumbling, don't let me die and
stuff like that. And then she says, why does this
keep happening to my family? And then here her other
son is lying on a stretcher who's been shot multiple times.
And I couldn't answer. My body just snapped, hyperventilating. I
just had to run out of the room. And so
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I was having panic attacks, and this was happening repeatedly,
and so I started going back to therapy.
Speaker 7 (31:18):
And she told me that, you know, you've been taking
care of people for so long.
Speaker 8 (31:23):
You've been taught to be empathetic, but not really taught
to be compassionate. You can have trauma, you can have injurer,
but you've got to recover, So you got to have
these periods of reflection and processing it. And so you know,
I do a lot of physical activity and those are
ways to kind of help regulate and process a lot
of the trauma and stress that I deal with on.
Speaker 7 (31:40):
A day to day basis. But it's intentional.
Speaker 8 (31:42):
And so the delineation of wellness really being a lifestyle
and something that's a part of who you are and
integrated into every aspect of what you do has to
be paramount so that we can continue doing that stuff.
That therapist said, I got to keep doing the work.
Speaker 2 (31:55):
Yeah, I mean it's like what they always say, put
your oxygen mask on first, Yeah, and then you can
say everybody else, and that's what you have to do.
Speaker 9 (32:03):
So everybody's going to go to Amazon and they're gonna
get your book Treating Violent and Emergency Room Doctors take
on a Deadly American American Epidemic.
Speaker 2 (32:13):
You can get that on Amazon.
Speaker 9 (32:15):
Thank you for being my glass.
Speaker 2 (32:16):
I know.
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But between the book Wealth Wednesdays, I thank you for
giving us such a powerful segment during health.
Speaker 2 (32:45):
Something we haven't done before. We appreciate that exact rab
gre and I know how great it has to be
if something happens to have you as the er physician
at least, because you know, it's not too often that
you'll see somebody that you can fail connected to and
that does help a lot.
Speaker 7 (33:00):
Thank you, Thank you for having me.
Speaker 2 (33:02):
You can watch that for interview on my YouTube channel
Way Up with Ye And when we come back, you
guys have the last word.
Speaker 4 (33:08):
Take up the phone Tapian, it gets your voice heard.
Speaker 2 (33:11):
What the word is? He is the last word?
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On Way Up with Angela Yee?
Speaker 2 (33:16):
What's up this Way Up with Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee.
And Jasmine Brand is here. I'm here and how could
people follow you? Jasmine Brand?
Speaker 5 (33:22):
You go follow our new page, the Jasmine Brand three
sixty five.
Speaker 2 (33:26):
That's her new Instagram page. So if you go there
and you're like Danny only got ten thousand followers she
had like a million before.
Speaker 5 (33:32):
Right, that sucks, I know, but you know what, Everything
happens for a reason. And uh, yeah, I love your
positive outlook, pride, it would be ye, I mean, listener,
but listen honestly. Make sure y'all follow her because he
has a lot of great stories there. Uh and they
actually do research and so we love that for us,
all right, and thank you to doctor Rob Gore for
(33:53):
joining us too for wealth Wednesday. He has his nonprofit
Kings Against Violence Initiative, but he is also an emergency
room physician, the author of Treating Violence, and he is
a clinical assistant professor at King's County Hospital. So love
the fact that he came through and really dropped some knowledge.
You can watch that phoot and off you on my
YouTube channel Way up with Ye And of course you
guys have the last word.
Speaker 10 (34:14):
Hey, Angelo, I got a secret.
Speaker 6 (34:16):
I drive for a living and I drive out of
high That's my secret. I don't like to shine the
light on my daughter. She's in the tenth grade. Her
name is Haley. She goes to cast Tech here in Detroit.
She's a four point zero student and she this summer
she was invited to Stamford Law School for a law program,
also to Washington, d C. To work with the Senate
(34:40):
and the House to representive that's my
Speaker 4 (34:42):
Girl's going way out out with Angela Yee
You are now angel what I call her?
Speaker 2 (00:06):
Ye, yeah, it is the middle of the week on
a Wednesday, and ooh, Jazzon Briand is here with me.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
I'm here again, Angela.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
I know that's right. And we are gonna have a
great show for you guys. Today. We have an author
and a doctor in emergency room. Doctor doctor Rob Gore
is gonna be joining us today. He has a book
out right now. It's called Treating Violence, an emergency room
doctor takes on a deadly American epidemic. He just talks
about this cycle of violence and how we have to
get to the root cause of things. And so it's
(00:39):
gonna be a great conversation. You're gonna love this guy.
And of course we have a really fun show plan
for y'all. And we started off with some love and
some positivity. Eight fifty is a number to call this up.
Let's shine a light, let's bread some love, because guess
what what we needed more than all right, eight hundred
fifty one fifty when we come back, Let's shine a
light this way.
Speaker 4 (01:04):
Turn your lights on y'all, spreading love to those who
are doing greatness.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Shine the light on them, Shine the light on them.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
It's time to shine a light.
Speaker 2 (01:14):
On what's up his way up at Angela. Yee, I'm Angela. Yee.
Jasmine Brand is here.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
What's up Angela?
Speaker 2 (01:20):
And when I tell y'all we had an amazing weekend,
I can't stop talking about Dallas. But I want to
shine a light on certain people do their job above
and beyond and Erica, Tony and Shade they work with
us at together Land Festival for the podcast days and
they made sure everything was taken care of. And sometimes
on a day like that when things can get really busy,
which they were and was. You know, y'all saw the
(01:41):
video footage of Summer Walker doing her split. You saw
everybody that was out there. I know you saw a
lot of hitting that stage, little Wayne hype for some
little Wain. But imagine you're in the midst of all
these things going on and you're sending text messages asking
for credentials and other things, and the person really gets
back to you. You know that. That's why we absolutely
love Erica, Tony and shah Day for really making sure
(02:04):
we were good, taking care of prioritized. Even if we weren't,
we felt like it.
Speaker 5 (02:08):
The thing is, they were amazing and this was the
first year that they had this, so to get on.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Yeah, they did a really amazing.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Job and Dallas battling terrible weather, I know on the
second day, but you know, shout out to y'all. We
love to see people who actually care about their job
go above and beyond, and we respect it all. Right, now,
who do you guys want to shine a light on?
Eight hundred two ninety two fifty one fifty Joelene, what's good?
Who do you want to shine a light on? Anisia Anderson?
(02:35):
Tanisha Anderson tell us about her.
Speaker 6 (02:38):
Wow, she my big sister, and she literally upholds that
to the highest standard. Okay, doesn't get to recognize that
she's supposed to.
Speaker 7 (02:47):
So I thought it.
Speaker 5 (02:48):
Did she hear this, She would really appreciate it.
Speaker 6 (02:50):
So I just want to not appreciate her.
Speaker 5 (02:52):
I love her, want her.
Speaker 6 (02:53):
To continue to do her big fun, continue to time right,
continue to be great and all the pork, continue to
go forward on this journey that we're currently coming on.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Oh, sisterhood one of the most important things. And to
have a great big sister who you could follow and
have footsteps, who supports you. Nothing like it, nothing.
Speaker 6 (03:12):
Like it is ma'am you already Knowliot.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
All right, well, thank you, Toline, shout out to you,
tennay shah. All right, well that was Shining Light eight
hundred two nine two fifty one fifty just in case
you couldn't get through. And when we come back, we
have your yet. And this is so funny because we
were talking about Robert de Naro over the weekend. Yes, yes, yes,
and how versatile he's always been with all of his roles.
Well right now he is speaking out and elections are
(03:34):
coming up, and we'll tell you what he had to
say outside of Donald Trump's trial. As we're doing closing arguments.
It's way up, they say.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
In the rooms, from industry shade to all the gossip
out sending Angela's feeling that yet, what's up.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
This way up at Angela? Ye, I'm Angela, yee. Jasmine
brand is here, I'm here and we got your yet
for you. Okay. So Robert de Niro was outside the
Donald Trump child and you know he had a closing
statements where yesterday actually this is the criminal for our
case sent it on payment to Stormy Daniels, the adult
film star that Donald Trump allegedly paid off right. Well, anyway,
(04:14):
Rapat De Niro had this to say about why you
better make sure that you vote and what could potentially
happen if Donald Trump makes it back in office.
Speaker 7 (04:21):
I love this city. I don't want to destroy it.
Speaker 8 (04:24):
Donald Trump wants to destroy not only the city but
the country and eventually he could destroy the world.
Speaker 5 (04:31):
He ain't wrong, He's not And I appreciate when an
actor or these Hollywood stars, I appreciate when they give
us their honest opinion about politics because.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
It can't actually affect their pockets. There's people that are
Trump supporters who also love Robert de Niro, who are
going to come for him, and he doesn't care. His
opinion is his opinion. There's a lot of people who
are nervous to say who they support and don't want
to pick aside and you say different things, but I
think it's important. He was outside the courtroom saying that,
(05:00):
and he does love this city, as we know. Speaking
of people who love their city. Isaiah Thomas, he said
he had a terrifying experience over the weekend. He was
on social media. He was on ex aka Twitter, and
he said, really tripping on how these young kids are
moving around. I really had a life changing moment yesterday
when a kid pulled an AK forty seven out on
me and the homies. And if it wasn't for who
(05:21):
I was and him recognizing me in my own city,
he probably would have ended all of our lives. Be safe, Wow,
can you?
Speaker 9 (05:27):
I'm Mary.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
He was with his friends and they were in Tacoma, Washington,
in his hometown, and that's when they were approached. And
he said, it was a really frightening moment. I bet
for that, and you know, he grew up there, played
college ball a short drive away, and yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
That's superki, I can't imagine. That's super scary.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
And then he said, we just got to pray for
these young men. God was working yesterday for real, for real.
It could have been all over that quick for no
reason at all, you know, And hopefully the kid who
pulled out the AK forty seven that made him think
twice about what it was that he was doing, because
God forbid that he didn't recognize Isaiah Washington or with
(06:05):
somebody else that could have been it. And that's a
scary experience for him, but it does show you something
has to be done.
Speaker 3 (06:11):
Yep, for sure, you know, but that and what do
you walk around with AK forty seven before?
Speaker 2 (06:15):
I have no idea. But this also is going to
bring me to our interview that we have today with
doctor Rob Gore. He has a book out right now
that's called Treating Violence, and it's about treating trauma and
healing inner city trauma. And he discusses scenarios just like this.
All right, and when we come back, we have about
last night. That's where we discussed what we did last night.
(06:38):
I feel like as much as we're apart, we're together
quite a bit, right, no am, I about last night?
To deal with me and Jasmine Brand and our adventures.
All right, it's wait n so about last night? Yes,
I went down what's up? Its way up at Angela Yea,
I'm Angela yee. Jasmine Brand is here?
Speaker 3 (06:58):
What's up?
Speaker 2 (06:59):
What up? Time for about last night? So, as you know,
I've been in this process of like moving. This has
been like a months long process, more than really years
years ago. But it's hard because right now IM at
the point where I'm buying all these last minute things
and it's adding up a lot. Waisconces, chandeliers, all kinds
of things. And I was telling y'all earlier about saving
(07:21):
money by buying open box items. But there's a lot
of other things and ways that I can save money.
And you know, I am the queen of trying to
get a coupon. So I want to talk about some
of those hacks right there, because maybe somebody out there
is trying to redo their home. One thing I will
say that is quite possible if you don't have all
the money right now is a lot of credit cards
will let you plan it where you don't have to
(07:43):
pay everything at once. You can do monthly installment payments.
So I did that for my security system, and I've
done that for some other items, a little planet thing
where you just pay a set monthly fee with no
interest interest. Okay. Another thing is signing up for those
text messages. So Jess and if you get a weird
text message, you know I signed up for something.
Speaker 3 (08:04):
You're adamant about that too.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
Yes, I do love to get a little twenty percent
off and buy whatever it is that I need to
buy with that little percentage off. But yeah, signing up
for things another thing that is a really great hack.
If you see an item that you like, copy and
paste that into Google and see if you can find
it somewhere else cheaper.
Speaker 3 (08:21):
That's really good.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Yeah, yeah, I do that with clothes too all the time,
and it works amazingly.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
So I've ever done that.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
I even do that while I'm in the store sometimes
I did that. Actually last week, I was buying something
I should and I asked them, I said, do you
guys price mess? They always do, and they actually did
price match for me. So these are just little tips
if you need to buy certain things and you want
to save some money and not pay top dollar for it.
Also a lot of times when things do go on sale,
you can keep your receipt or let them know I
(08:49):
purchased this, but I see it's on sale now can
I And a lot of times they will refund you
the difference.
Speaker 3 (08:54):
Let me ask you this. Do you ever buy floor models?
Because those are always.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
Buy floor models. I told you that when we were
we were looking at lighting and I told you, I said,
I've gotten some amazing floor models. And the other day,
while we were at Bloomingdale's at their Memorial Day sale,
there were some items that are discontinued, and I bought
some sheets that were originally two hundred and ninety eight
dollars and I got them for thirty dollars.
Speaker 3 (09:16):
That was a and I. At first, I was like Angela,
and I was like, well, shoot, they're only thirty dollars.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
I know I started almost So those are just some
of my hacks you guys, just so you know, and
also like you don't have to do things at the
last minute. I love to get whatever items I need
to get as soon as I can, but sometimes rushing
like that will make you pay a lot more for
an item than you need to. So those are just
some things that I wanted to share with you guys
as I'm trying to, you know, save some money my damnself.
(09:44):
And points. Remember those reward systems, those points. Make sure
you sign up for them. There's no reason to leave
that money on the table. Okay, okay, all right, Well,
when we come back, we have tell us a secret
eight hundred two ninety two fifty one fifty call us up.
Let us know if you have any seat great that
you want to tell us. I feel like we haven't
done this because Monday was a holiday, so we didn't
(10:04):
have tell us a secret. So you know what I know, y'all,
secrets is backed up. Call us up eight hundred two
ninety two fifty one fifty and tell us I said,
it's way up.
Speaker 7 (10:14):
This is a judgment free zone. Tell us a Secret.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
What's up? Its way up with Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee.
And you know what time it is. This is the
part of the show that you love to hate. Okay,
This is when y'all sit back and listen on y'all
little radios and yell little phones and judge people during
tell Us a Secret. But I sit up here straight
faced and let you tell me anything, and I don't
judge you, because that's the whole point of it. You
get to remain anonymous and tell me any secret. One
(10:40):
eight hundred two nine two fifty one to fifty anonymous,
call it, what is your secret?
Speaker 10 (10:44):
I work for this particular company that winds up closing
down because they were doing some bad bad anyway.
Speaker 7 (10:51):
They dropped the bag.
Speaker 10 (10:52):
The guy, he was a mean, nasty guy, that Cooper Boxer.
He dropped the bag one day and I got the
bag and found about ten thousand dollars and the never
said nothing, Nobody never knew.
Speaker 2 (11:04):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (11:05):
So would you do with the money?
Speaker 10 (11:07):
Yeah, I paid my mortgage that for about six Okay,
I went on vacation. Oh yeah, definitely, right, I got
some bills all up.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
But it's responsible.
Speaker 10 (11:18):
But the lame guy that dropped it, he wound up
going to jail for money wandering.
Speaker 2 (11:23):
Well, we see what he was doing. Yeah, or maybe
it was because it dollars. Let me ask you this
what you were You ever nervous that you were going
to get caught?
Speaker 9 (11:32):
Negative?
Speaker 10 (11:32):
Because the area that he dropped it in. I already
knew that area. It was down in the back part
of the parking lot and nah, nobody and it's been
it's been six years.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
Ago, so okay, so yeah it was there.
Speaker 7 (11:46):
Yeah, yeah, yes, yes.
Speaker 2 (11:49):
Happy like somebody else dropped some money. All right, Well
thank you indeed, yeah, indeed. Hanging out a miss caller.
How are you?
Speaker 10 (11:58):
I'm doing fine.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
How about to fail? I'm great? Thank you. It's me
and Jasmine. We want to hear your secret.
Speaker 6 (12:03):
My secret is when I was twelve years old, I
was taking weed from my mama. Now my twelve year
old daughter taking weed from me?
Speaker 2 (12:11):
Have you checked her or you just letting her do it?
Because it's a cycle.
Speaker 6 (12:14):
I checked her.
Speaker 7 (12:15):
I want her doing that, So.
Speaker 3 (12:17):
I was kind of young though.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
Oh wait, I thought I'm sorry. I thought you said,
oh you know, I'm sorry, you said twelve years old
his daughter?
Speaker 7 (12:23):
Yeah, so what are you?
Speaker 2 (12:24):
Where are you going to hide this week now so
she can't get to it? That's wild. I'm sorry. I
didn't realize she was twelve.
Speaker 7 (12:29):
She's angela like this news generation.
Speaker 6 (12:32):
It's a social media thing, got everything, kids want to
do everything.
Speaker 2 (12:36):
Now, did you have a talk with her about it?
Because she probably knows you smoke something and they see
their parents doing something. What do you say to a
twelve year old?
Speaker 5 (12:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 6 (12:44):
I had to talk with her about it. She said,
she see me doing it, and eventually, when she gets older,
she going to do it.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Oh did that make you feel bad?
Speaker 10 (12:52):
It made me feel some type of way, but nothing
I could do when.
Speaker 6 (12:55):
She get older.
Speaker 2 (12:55):
You sound like you hide right now, perhaps already smoked
already today?
Speaker 6 (13:02):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (13:04):
All right, product, okay, all right, all right, Well thank
you for calling. Yeah, all right, Well that was tell
us a secret eight hundred two nine two fifty one fifty.
If you couldn't get through, we still want to hear
your dirty dark is secret, all right, and when we
come back, we have your yee tea. And you know,
one of my favorite topics money in real estate. And
we're going to talk about some things that are for
(13:25):
sale on the real estate market. And somebody who just
bought a brand new home for fifteen million dollars. It's
way up.
Speaker 4 (13:31):
Shure, she's about to blow the lid ab off this fot.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
Let's get it.
Speaker 4 (13:34):
Oh yeah, angelus feeling that yee tea, Come.
Speaker 2 (13:36):
And get your tea. What's up his way up at
Angela yee? I'm Angela yee. And Jasmine brand is here, yes,
and it's ye tea time, all right. Drake bought a
three hundred and thirteen acre Texas estate for fifteen million dollars.
By the way, that is not expensive for three hundred
and thirteen acres.
Speaker 3 (13:55):
Well, Texas, which had a lot of land.
Speaker 2 (13:57):
Yeah, that's amazing. It's a ranch. It's a two hours
south of Dallas. It's called Brenham, the town that he's in,
and there's a fourteen thousand square foot house and then
there's some aciendas and casitas. I like that accent here,
thank you. It is also a seller with seven thousand
bottles of wine. You need a seller, a shooting range,
multiple basketball courts and tennis courts, a stable, a writing ring,
(14:21):
and hers of horses.
Speaker 8 (14:22):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
Wow. I actually posted about this purchase last September and
did a post of himself driving around the property. But yeah,
he paid all of that money and now we know
everything that's there.
Speaker 3 (14:37):
So congratulations Drake.
Speaker 2 (14:39):
You know people are talking about his purchase, they're talking
about Kendrick Lamar, who also purchased Penhouse in Brooklyn last
year in November. Yeah. You know me, I'm interested in
things like you love real estate talking. I do love
talking about real estate. And by the way, a house
that's for sale and I don't know if anybody would
be interested in this, but it's the Home Alone house.
So everybody who loves the movie Home Alone. Now this
(15:00):
house has hit the market five point two five million dollars.
It was last sold in twenty twelve. Five bedrooms and
six bathrooms. It was built in nineteen twenty one. Okay,
so anybody that loves Home Alone and was like, man,
I would love to get this house and own it.
It's for sale.
Speaker 5 (15:16):
So I have two houses that I would like if
I could. Okay, A realistic house would be the house
that was on Cosby Show because it's a royal house.
Speaker 2 (15:21):
Yeah, that's a real house. That's you know that that
was actually supposed to be in Brooklyn, but the outside
of the house is in Manhattan.
Speaker 5 (15:26):
Just okay, I didn't realize it was really in Manhattan,
kne it wasn't in Brooklyn.
Speaker 3 (15:29):
So that's realistic. And on the non realistic.
Speaker 5 (15:31):
Side of a house I would always want is that
big old mansion that they hadn't coming to America.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
Oh okay, listen, Jaz, but nothing is unrealistic. I'm not.
I would never.
Speaker 3 (15:40):
I just wouldn't want it. That's just too much.
Speaker 2 (15:43):
Well, you know what, for this sake of me loving prince,
I would love to own Paisley Park.
Speaker 5 (15:48):
Oh yeah, can you imagine that? Would that would be
happening for you? That's your guy.
Speaker 2 (15:53):
The story's in there, all right. Well that is your yeete.
And when we come back, we have under the radar.
These are the stories that are not necessarily in the headlines.
They are flying under the radar. It's way up the news.
Speaker 7 (16:04):
News.
Speaker 4 (16:04):
This in the news that relates to you. These stories
are flying under the radar.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
What's up his way up at Angela? Yeah, I'm here, Jason,
and brand is here I'm here Angelo, and let's get
into some of these under the radar stories.
Speaker 6 (16:16):
All right.
Speaker 2 (16:16):
Larry Connor, he's a real estate investor. He's a billionaire
by the way, from Dayton, Ohio, and he and Trenton
Submarines co founder Patrick Leahy are going to plunge more
than two point three miles to go see the Titanic site.
I don't like this, he said. I want to show
people worldwide that while the ocean is extremely powerful, it
can be wonderful and enjoyable and really kind of life
(16:37):
changing if you go about it the right way. So
they have a twenty million dollar vessel and they said
it can carry out the voyage repeatedly. They want to
prove that it can be done without disaster.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
Oh I just I'm uneasy.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
Yeah, I mean, listen, there was an implosion of the
titan submersible in June. All five people on board were killed. Yeah,
and it was headed to the Titanic site when it
suddenly had a catastrophe implosion.
Speaker 5 (17:00):
I thought it was super sad too, But I guess
he wants to reassure us that it can be done.
Speaker 2 (17:05):
Right.
Speaker 3 (17:06):
I would you travel now? Negative? Not no way?
Speaker 2 (17:10):
Nothing, all right, Well, you know what, best of luck
to them, God bless them. I would hope somebody would say, no,
don't do it, you cannot do it, all right, And
one in nine US children now have ADHD. There's been
a surgeon diagnosed since twenty sixteen. So that's seven million
kids from ages three to seventeen that have been diagnosed
with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, all right, and this equates
(17:33):
to about one in nine children. Like we said, that's
tough because a lot of people feel like kids get
diagnosed and get put on medication that may not be necessary.
But you know, a child with ADHD may often daydream.
A kid doesn't do that, forget or lose things, talk
too much, squirm or fidget, have difficulty getting along with others,
(17:54):
have trouble taking turns, and make careless mistakes according to
the CDC. But there's no test that can diagnose this.
Speaker 3 (18:00):
That description as me as an adult. So I don't know.
Speaker 2 (18:02):
I was gonna say, I didn't want to do that,
but yes, and you know what, and I do want
to say, sometimes people like kids have too much sugar.
There's a lot of reasons. Yeah, you know, and so
hopefully when you become aware of that. There's a way.
And I think certain kids are diagnosed more frequently than
others too. You know, sometimes people just don't feel like
(18:22):
dealing with the kids attention span. All right, well that
is you're under the radar now, you know, we do
have a Wealth Wednesday guest. Today, doctor Rob Gore is
going to be joining us. He is the author of
Treating Violence. He's an emergency room doctor taking on a
deadly American epidemic. It's going to be some great valuable information.
Like I was telling you guys earlier. He's a clinical
(18:43):
assistant professor at King's County Hospital Center in Brooklyn, New York.
And he was an inaugural TED resident and in twenty
eighteen he was also named as CNN hero. You're gonna
want to hear what he has to say. And we
also have the way It Mixed for you guys at
the top of the hour, because you know, we like
the power, like the funniest way up.
Speaker 5 (19:03):
Just like the talk like they Angela Jean, like they
Angela Jean.
Speaker 4 (19:06):
Man, she's spilling it all this is.
Speaker 2 (19:09):
Yet, well, what's up his way up? At Angela Yee?
I'm Angela Yee And Jasmine brand is here.
Speaker 3 (19:16):
What up though?
Speaker 2 (19:17):
What up though? That's right to trade me outside. And
let's get into some of these stories that I actually
saw on the Jasmine brand. Make sure you follow them
on the Jasmine brand three sixty five on Instagram. Okay,
because I'm Hayes, got your page taken down. But remember
hay and ain't happy and happy, ain't hate.
Speaker 3 (19:34):
In I know that's.
Speaker 2 (19:36):
So. Lavelle Crawford was on Club Shasha okay, and he
said a few different things. He talked about little Duball
threatening him. I don't know how that would go if
they had to fight, but here's what he has to say.
Speaker 1 (19:47):
The ball threatened to beat me up anyway eight pounds.
I said, what side you're gonna beat up.
Speaker 8 (19:54):
You?
Speaker 2 (19:55):
You ain't? You got this lived on me? If I
put it on you let the club. Another thing that
he discussed was Ricky Smiley bailing him out of jail. Yeah,
and how listen, if anybody ever bailed me out of jail,
you are my friend for life.
Speaker 3 (20:11):
I know that's right.
Speaker 1 (20:12):
I'm sitting them saying, oh crid, and I was scared
to death with my phone. My cell phone rang and
it was Ricky Smiley and they seen Rieky s Miney,
you know, Riky Smiley, so that you know he had
got a name down there, Ricy Smiley keep calling you
and I was saying, oh man, and he said, man,
we ain't really see what happened. The police just probably
then because they thought, y'all just disrupt the peete. We
(20:33):
can let you out of here if you're gonna come down,
says you know Riggy Smiley, I said, and he said
he could vouch for me that I'm a.
Speaker 2 (20:39):
Good personal all right, And you know, in the beginning
of that, he also said, e Freky Smiley. But he
was kidding, and so people took those comments seriously. But
he went on social media and said if you would
listen to the whole damn thing, well we do that.
Speaker 3 (20:50):
You know, people don't.
Speaker 2 (20:51):
People don't do that. It was a joke. And also
from the Jasmine brand, let's talk about our guy Lorenz tape.
He is getting ready to play Barry Gordy and Michael
Jackson biopic. And here's what he posted.
Speaker 6 (21:02):
That's what you what to do.
Speaker 8 (21:04):
Get into my song, get into my mode, over my material, cap.
Speaker 2 (21:08):
Shure, y'all. Stuff that's gonna be a good movie.
Speaker 3 (21:10):
Yeah, I could definitely see him in their role.
Speaker 5 (21:12):
So he's good at playing portraying significant you know figures
in Hollywood.
Speaker 7 (21:17):
Song.
Speaker 2 (21:17):
I can see him in their training the artists and
you know, making sure they work with each other and
do their media training. And yeah, all right, well shout
out to you, Lawrence, say that's dope and that is
your yee t. And when we come back, we have
asked yee. Eight hundred two nine two fifty one fifty
is a number. Call us up any question that you have.
We are here to help you out. Me and Jasmine
Brand is way up.
Speaker 4 (21:38):
This relationship with Korea advice, Angela's dropping facts.
Speaker 2 (21:41):
You should you should know. This is ask gee, what's up?
Its way up with Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee and
Jasmine Brand is here with me and it's time for
ask ye. Eight hundred two nine two fifty one fifty
is a number. We have Mariah on the line. What's up? Mariah?
Speaker 11 (21:55):
Hey girl?
Speaker 2 (21:56):
How you doing good? How are you girl? Power? What's good?
Speaker 11 (22:01):
I know That's where I'm like, let me call my
homegirl cause she gets the best advice.
Speaker 2 (22:05):
And I need it. Okay, we're listening. I was having
a three year affair.
Speaker 11 (22:09):
Everything was good, coup esthetic, and then I got pregnant.
Speaker 2 (22:14):
Baby comes wife finds.
Speaker 11 (22:16):
Out because I had to tell her because you're not
gonna not take care of my kids.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
Wow, you tell he didn't tell his wife? You did?
Speaker 11 (22:24):
Yeah, I had to because after I got pregnant, he
started acting kind of iffy. So I have the baby
or whatever, and everything's good for like the first three months,
and then he wanted me to sit on the side
when I was the side, Like, how is that possible?
So he went back to the white and han't heard
(22:44):
from him since.
Speaker 2 (22:45):
I go put him on child support.
Speaker 11 (22:47):
So now he's mad that he's on child support, but
he hasn't paid it.
Speaker 2 (22:52):
Oh well, if he doesn't pay his child support, that's
gonna be his own legal issues that he's gonna have
to deal with. That's on him. And just so you know,
we can't condone like you know, you know what it was.
You were the side piece. You got pregnant, told his wife.
He was mad, but then his wife kicked him out.
He ended up coming with you and then he did
the same thing to you that he did to her.
He got a lot of issues. Yes, you have a
(23:14):
beautiful child now. But you have a father who was
never really going to be the man that he needed
to be for any woman or you know, let alone
a child. So I just feel like all you can
do is make him pay what he needs to pay
if he wants to see his child. You know, hopefully
he'll come around to be a better co parent. As
(23:35):
far as dating, is it somebody you still want to be.
Speaker 11 (23:37):
With, No, not at all.
Speaker 10 (23:39):
You know.
Speaker 11 (23:40):
Honestly, with me not having my first daughter's dad around,
I really was just trying to make it so that
my other daughter can have a dad, I guess, but
I never really wanted him.
Speaker 6 (23:52):
The thing about it is, you know I already moved on.
Speaker 11 (23:55):
I'm pregnant already with a whole other situation.
Speaker 3 (23:58):
Well, fertile girl, okay, you got yours.
Speaker 2 (24:02):
Okay, So who is this guy now?
Speaker 11 (24:05):
Same situations?
Speaker 10 (24:06):
What not?
Speaker 3 (24:07):
Come on, Mariah, they don't come married.
Speaker 11 (24:10):
You just find it out later.
Speaker 5 (24:11):
You see little things, Yeah, you see little red flags
that you probably ignore.
Speaker 11 (24:15):
Yeah, every time.
Speaker 2 (24:17):
Don't ignore those red flags? All right? Well, Mariah, all
I can tell you is, you know, be the best
mom that you can be from this point moving forward.
But I do want you to take some accountability and
make some better, smarter decisions for yourself. Sure, accountability is key, Okay,
(24:38):
we could try. All right, Well, our best of luck
to you, and please have a safe pregnancy and don't
stress yourself out over things you can't control. I'm not
that's right, okay, girl, that was ask ye eight hundred
two nine fifty fifty. You can always leave a message
and we will answer your question that way and when
we come back. The author of Treating Violence emergency room
(24:58):
doctor to Rob Gore is joining us. He's from Brooklyn,
by the way. Okay, Yeah, we went to the same
elementary school. Oh wow, randomly Okay, But he's going to
be joining us to talk about what he has seen
and witnessed and why he decided he needed to start
his own organization after seeing what goes on in the
emergency room. All right, He's got some amazing stories and solutions.
(25:20):
It's way out.
Speaker 5 (25:21):
I kind of dream of wealthy, and I don't mind
sharing my wealth.
Speaker 4 (25:24):
Dogs getting you straight financially, mentally, and physically. This is
wealth Wednesday on Way Up with Angela Yee?
Speaker 2 (25:31):
What's up? Is Way up with Angela?
Speaker 6 (25:32):
Yee?
Speaker 2 (25:32):
I'm Angela yee on a Wealth Wednesday, and my Wealth
Wednesday partner, Stacy Tisday is here. Happy Wealth Wednesdays.
Speaker 9 (25:38):
Well, you're so excited, sit down and enjoy the conversation
that's about to come to you with doctor Rob Gore.
Speaker 7 (25:46):
Right, thanks for having me today.
Speaker 2 (25:47):
But the reason why this is a Wealth Wednesday is
because when it comes to treating violence, you work in
the emergency room. A lot of what happens with our
youth can be traced back to trauma they've had as
a child. Things do get passed down. A lot of
it have to do with the influences and how we
grew up and opportunities, and so this is just something
(26:08):
that I want to make sure we talk about because
it's such an important topic.
Speaker 8 (26:11):
So I've been an emergency physician this is year twenty
two since I finished medical school. And being somebody who
grew up in the community with people of color and
practicing medicine, emergency medicine with populations who are also of color,
things start to resonate a little bit differently, and we
start seeing people coming into the hospital with repeat injuries
and repeat conditions. You have to start asking yourself why,
(26:34):
And so I began looking at violence and trauma through
a lens of public health under meaning that if you
understand the risk factors, were understand the conditions in which
people come from, if we can help tweak those and
modify or at least provide levels of support for those conditions,
that we can change the scope about violence and particularly
recurrent violence. There are a series of studies that talk
about adverse childhood experiences, and when they talk about stress,
(26:57):
hormones and these things impact your immune systems.
Speaker 7 (27:00):
So if you're.
Speaker 8 (27:00):
Constantly stressed and fight or flight, you don't fight off infection.
Speaker 10 (27:03):
Well.
Speaker 8 (27:03):
But people who experience a lot of average childhood experiences,
they have earlier deaths, they are more prone to develop
autoimmune problems, they're more prone to develop heart disease purely
because of this repeated trauma that they experience without having
any period to really process it. And so we've got
to start looking at this stuff through a very protective lens,
through a very preventative lens, because prevention is a lot
(27:24):
cheaper than paying for emergencies.
Speaker 2 (27:26):
Right now, I'm talking to doctor Rob Gore. He is
the founder of the Kings Against Violence initiative, but he's
also a physician and an author.
Speaker 9 (27:34):
Doctor Gore was chosen as a Presidential Leadership Scholar and
created KAVI.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
Brag about KAVI.
Speaker 8 (27:41):
Kave itself is a hospital school, and community based violence
intervention and prevention program that I found it as a
way to provide this effort and provide these services, but
really as a way to help young people understand and
process trauma that they've experienced and create resources so that
violent and trauma that people have experienced doesn't become recurrent.
Speaker 2 (28:00):
And that's Kings Against Violent and Violence Initiatives just stands for.
Speaker 7 (28:05):
So you can check us out at Copybrooklyn dot org.
Speaker 2 (28:08):
Is it what do you call it? Like an intervention?
Speaker 8 (28:09):
It's an intervention. Actually, even with covin me, I actually
probably clarify a couple of things.
Speaker 7 (28:14):
So we were a hospital school and community based.
Speaker 8 (28:16):
The school and community based work to do more preventative work,
and some of the community work also works with people
who are very high risks who've been impacted by violence.
And then we do the intervention work for people who've
been shot and stab and due to violence who passed
through King's County Hospital Center, which is where I work
as an emergency physician.
Speaker 2 (28:36):
Doctor Rob Gore is here. He is the author of
Treating Violence. He works in the emergency room and he
also has a nonprofit, Kings Against Violence Initiative. Hear more
about this when we come back. It's way up, not on.
Speaker 4 (28:48):
Mind sharing, my Wealth Dog getting you straight financially, mentally
and physically. This is Wealth Wednesday on Way Up with
Angela Yee.
Speaker 2 (28:56):
What's up? His way up at Angela Yee. I'm Angela
Yee am my Wealth Wednesday partners. Stacy Tisdale is here
and we are talking to doctor Rob Gore. He is
the founder of KAVE Kings Against Violence Initiative and the
author of Treating Violence, and he's an emergency room physician.
Speaker 8 (29:10):
In the book, I speak about one of my close friends,
Willis Willis Young who call Young, who was one of
our intervention team members.
Speaker 7 (29:16):
He grew up in Bedsty.
Speaker 8 (29:17):
He lived on the block that I moved to and
he's one of the first people I met, even though.
Speaker 7 (29:21):
He wasn't living there anymore. He was always on the
block hanging out until we developed his.
Speaker 8 (29:24):
Friendship almost mentor mentee, and we had just launched programming
for Covey about two years later in twenty thirteen.
Speaker 7 (29:31):
He was one of our first hire reads and so
his job, he.
Speaker 8 (29:34):
Was a violence intervention specialist in hospital responder, and his
job was to make sure that he intervened with people
when they were injured. He provided a lot of support system,
talking to them about just doing basic check ins like YO,
are you okay? And so that was that thing that
what I'm providing is a real benefit to people that
in our circle, because I know I can speak the
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language very different than the docs.
Speaker 7 (29:56):
But a few years later, my morning wake up.
Speaker 8 (29:59):
Call was that he was stat multiple times and taken
to the emergency department, the same place where he did
the intervention work, and he wound up dying two weeks
later in the ICU, the same place.
Speaker 7 (30:07):
And he would also comfort people. And I never shut off.
Speaker 8 (30:10):
And it wasn't until the day of his funeral, which
was like maybe a month or two months later, that
everything just kind of came crashing down. And I was working,
I was coming in for a shift. I was running late,
and I called the er and said, look, I'm running late.
The nurse who picked up the phone with somebody that
I grew up with, and she said.
Speaker 7 (30:28):
You're not gonna believe who's here.
Speaker 8 (30:29):
It was the pay of the person who came in
and shot multiple times, but he was the brother of
another person who I pronounced dead. And the kid who
I pronounced dead was a sixteen year old kid who
was killed by the police. And I see this guy
who shot multiple times.
Speaker 7 (30:42):
Who's stable.
Speaker 8 (30:43):
And then his mother came in, who recognized me immediately.
She said, I know who you are. You cut your locks.
She looks at me, and she said, did my son
say anything to.
Speaker 7 (30:51):
You before he died?
Speaker 8 (30:53):
And like, my body just froze because this is a
kid who was like, you know, who came in alive
and he was like mumbling, don't let me die and
stuff like that. And then she says, why does this
keep happening to my family? And then here her other
son is lying on a stretcher who's been shot multiple times.
And I couldn't answer. My body just snapped, hyperventilating. I
just had to run out of the room. And so
(31:14):
I was having panic attacks, and this was happening repeatedly,
and so I started going back to therapy.
Speaker 7 (31:18):
And she told me that, you know, you've been taking
care of people for so long.
Speaker 8 (31:23):
You've been taught to be empathetic, but not really taught
to be compassionate. You can have trauma, you can have injurer,
but you've got to recover, So you got to have
these periods of reflection and processing it. And so you know,
I do a lot of physical activity and those are
ways to kind of help regulate and process a lot
of the trauma and stress that I deal with on.
Speaker 7 (31:40):
A day to day basis. But it's intentional.
Speaker 8 (31:42):
And so the delineation of wellness really being a lifestyle
and something that's a part of who you are and
integrated into every aspect of what you do has to
be paramount so that we can continue doing that stuff.
That therapist said, I got to keep doing the work.
Speaker 2 (31:55):
Yeah, I mean it's like what they always say, put
your oxygen mask on first, Yeah, and then you can
say everybody else, and that's what you have to do.
Speaker 9 (32:03):
So everybody's going to go to Amazon and they're gonna
get your book Treating Violent and Emergency Room Doctors take
on a Deadly American American Epidemic.
Speaker 2 (32:13):
You can get that on Amazon.
Speaker 9 (32:15):
Thank you for being my glass.
Speaker 2 (32:16):
I know.
Speaker 9 (32:21):
And also everybody, we have so many free resources on
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Entrepreneurs. We have our Entrepreneurs group.
Speaker 9 (32:39):
But between the book Wealth Wednesdays, I thank you for
giving us such a powerful segment during health.
Speaker 2 (32:45):
Something we haven't done before. We appreciate that exact rab
gre and I know how great it has to be
if something happens to have you as the er physician
at least, because you know, it's not too often that
you'll see somebody that you can fail connected to and
that does help a lot.
Speaker 7 (33:00):
Thank you, Thank you for having me.
Speaker 2 (33:02):
You can watch that for interview on my YouTube channel
Way Up with Ye And when we come back, you
guys have the last word.
Speaker 4 (33:08):
Take up the phone Tapian, it gets your voice heard.
Speaker 2 (33:11):
What the word is? He is the last word?
Speaker 4 (33:14):
On Way Up with Angela Yee?
Speaker 2 (33:16):
What's up this Way Up with Angela Yee. I'm Angela Yee.
And Jasmine Brand is here. I'm here and how could
people follow you? Jasmine Brand?
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You go follow our new page, the Jasmine Brand three
sixty five.
Speaker 2 (33:26):
That's her new Instagram page. So if you go there
and you're like Danny only got ten thousand followers she
had like a million before.
Speaker 5 (33:32):
Right, that sucks, I know, but you know what, Everything
happens for a reason. And uh, yeah, I love your
positive outlook, pride, it would be ye, I mean, listener,
but listen honestly. Make sure y'all follow her because he
has a lot of great stories there. Uh and they
actually do research and so we love that for us,
all right, and thank you to doctor Rob Gore for
(33:53):
joining us too for wealth Wednesday. He has his nonprofit
Kings Against Violence Initiative, but he is also an emergency
room physician, the author of Treating Violence, and he is
a clinical assistant professor at King's County Hospital. So love
the fact that he came through and really dropped some knowledge.
You can watch that phoot and off you on my
YouTube channel Way up with Ye And of course you
guys have the last word.
Speaker 10 (34:14):
Hey, Angelo, I got a secret.
Speaker 6 (34:16):
I drive for a living and I drive out of
high That's my secret. I don't like to shine the
light on my daughter. She's in the tenth grade. Her
name is Haley. She goes to cast Tech here in Detroit.
She's a four point zero student and she this summer
she was invited to Stamford Law School for a law program,
also to Washington, d C. To work with the Senate
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and the House to representive that's my
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