November 3, 2025 • 46 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Scrubbing In with Bea Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast. Hello everybody,
we are scrubbing in.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Do you feel any different?
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Are you talking about age wise?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:20):
No, although I do feel really tired, Like I don't
think that's anything to do with age, maybe, like maybe
i'd be less tired in my at twenty seven. But yeah,
I do feel tired, but that's it mentally feel great? Sharp? Sure?
Sharp is a dull knife.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Sharp is a tool.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Chest, a chest? What is it a tool? I don't know.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Sharp is a You could be the sharpest knife in
the drawer, sharpest knife for the but you can't be
as sharp as a tool chest.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
I mean that might actually be accurate to how sharp
I feel a tool chest. How are you doing?
Speaker 2 (01:01):
I'm tired too? Thank you for asking? You know this
daylight savings I thought would make me feel more refreshed.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
It's supposed to.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
It has not.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Why I don't know? You need more than just an hour?
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:12):
I need just like you need to fall back like five.
It is so weird. Though I got home yesterday, we
went to so we had my birthday on Thursday, Halloween
party Friday. Saturday, we chilled and then yesterday Haley and
I went to Vegas for the day and we set
our alarms for five, so it was like a rough
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wake up, and I thought, well, we get an extra hour,
so'll I feel like six, which is still not great
for me. But then I got home and it was
six and it was pitch black, and I was trying
to wait until nine to go to sleep because I'm
so tired, and so I was just watching the clock
waiting till it was nine.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
And then once it hit nine, you I got.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
I got did my routine and got in bed. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Nice.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
I could have gone earlier, but I was scared I'd
wake up in the middle of the nine.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
You know what the problem with me is?
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Tell me.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
I got into this new show. It's not a new show,
but it was new for me. It's spoiler alert. It's
called The Girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Oh, I haven't.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Watched it, and I became so obsessed with it. Robbie
was out after the first episode. He was like, it's
just like not realistic. I'm like, it's TV anyway, So
he was out. So it was me on my own
and me on my own. She gets her done, and
I had one app like I basically spent. I was
up till eleven pm last night finishing the girlfriend my
(02:28):
own fault.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Yeah yeah, well so you watched the whole thing? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (02:33):
I finished?
Speaker 1 (02:34):
How was it so good? I was going to get
into it? So maybe Haley's out of town this week,
so maybe, y'all.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
It's a great one to get into solo.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Okay, yes? Is it scary though?
Speaker 2 (02:44):
No, that's why I didn't. I don't really like suspense
like scary. It's more like campy.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Okay, Okay, yeah, all right, I'll give it a shot.
I don't know that you and I aligned fully on
our TV shows, but I'll give it a shot.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
I did watch Grey's Anatomy though. I am all caught up,
and I'm very happy to see Sophia Bush back in
action again.
Speaker 4 (03:06):
Although spoiler alert, I if you would have told me
ever in the history of watching Grayce that I would
be watching Teddy as the one hooking up with Sopia Bush,
I feel no way.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Yeah, it's not the person I expected.
Speaker 5 (03:23):
And she's still all nervous about it. Teddy, but she's
she's going there.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Yeah, I have a bad feeling she's gonna get really invested,
and then Sophia Bush's character is gonna.
Speaker 5 (03:32):
Because she's married Die.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
I don't know. That's how they always do it. They
did Teddy dirty with Henry. I'm just like, are they
going to recircle back? And then she goes back to Owen.
I cannot, I need her, no one to just be done.
I'm over it. They've been back and forth for twenty seasons. Basically.
Speaker 5 (03:51):
No, but at a certain point, aren't they each other's endgame?
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Yeah? No, they missed their opportunity. We're past that. Perhaps,
so I'm rooting I guess for Cast and so Teddy.
Speaker 5 (04:02):
And you're rooting for Owen and his ex that he
walked off with at the end of the episode.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
I guess I don't care. I don't care.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Do you care about the Dodgers?
Speaker 1 (04:16):
I do.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Did you watch the game we weren't done talking about? Sorry,
I just get bored.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Well, that's you talk about Joe's that none of us watch,
but we try to act interested for a whole conversation.
Speaker 5 (04:32):
Show is called scrubbing in after all.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
I actually don't know if there's anything else to that
I don't care about. I thought something like a little
more dramatic. Was gonna happen to Link.
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Was that they're doing the thing on grays where certain
cast members get the week off. Yes, save the network money.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
It's bugging me Joe.
Speaker 5 (04:51):
Why would Joe have not been there? When Link returns
to the hospital, it makes zero sense. Didn't even see
her face, not at once.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Amelia is going through whatever she's going to through, we
don't see her. I guess we get home YEP.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
Isn't that interesting? Like, I don't mind give the doc.
You have so much cast, you can give them weeks off.
But this one was poorly timed. I thought, well, it's.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Also like have them shoot a scene from the next.
Speaker 5 (05:13):
The whole episode. Oh, I think that's the issue.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Well, they need to lessen the cast, I think, I
think because I don't think we ever had that problem
with with watching the old cast. You saw them in
every episode, which, by the way, our friend Brittany is watching,
and she was at my birthday dinner and she just
watched the Shooter episode, which I have to say her
two of my favorite episodes from Grey's Anatomy history. I
was pacing my room when they were on. I remember
(05:38):
it so specifically, and so she comes up and we're
talking about it, and I go, oh, my gosh, Tanya,
britt just watched the shooting episodes and she goes, does
Derek die before or after those episodes? And Britt's like,
he dies.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
That's not how it went down.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Exactly.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
It's not in vouch because I didn't have a sip
of alcohol and everybody else did. I didn't either know
you had wine.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Okay, but I was very sad.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
I'm just saying that gives me a leg up. Brittany
said she just watched the shooter episode and she said,
I was not prepared for that, like I am prepared
for Derek's death. She's she prompted Derek.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
She did not say that. She did not.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
She did not call her right now tell her to
set the scene. She brought up Derek's death in the
in the thing.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
I think she said, I was so scared that Derek
was going to die.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Maybe okay, maybe that's what she said.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
But she almost died in that episode.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
So so she brought up Derek's death and I said, oh,
does Derek die? I didn't realize Derek dad after the
shooter episode. It's a very normal.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Thing to say. He died for seasons after the shooter episode,
which is crazy.
Speaker 5 (06:52):
But the point that say, the point stands your story
in Becca story are the same. You spoiled Derek's death.
But what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Is Brittany brought up she had I wouldn't have mentioned
Derek Seth had she not brought up in the sentence,
but she.
Speaker 6 (07:04):
Said I was scared Derek was gonna die, which was
a huge storyline of that on the shooter.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
It was a mistake. I could even come back from it.
I literally it was just like deer in headlights. And
then I was like we all just.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Like stared at each other because I was thinking, like
how can I salvage this for her? And then I
couldn't come up with anything but neither.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
I was just like I did tell her comes back
in her dreams for COVID, like.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
I told her of her text. I go, I prompted
Tanya to tell you say that so that you would
think that was going to happen. She didn't believe it.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
Yeah, but in all fairness, and Robbie even came to
my defense. He was like, I've never watched Gray's Anatomy
in my life, and I knew Derek Shepherd died.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Because he's a scrubber.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
No, he was in store combos just because it was
like a pop culture moment. It was Yeah, so deep
down Brittany knew I didn't spoil anything.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Oh wow, you really so.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
That's right.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
But anyway, she has a long journey ahead.
Speaker 5 (08:07):
I'm enjoying this season.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Okay, it's fine, it's fine. I failed the same I
felt about it for.
Speaker 5 (08:14):
I'm gonna say it's slightly better than fine.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Them bringing Sophia Sophia cars Sophia bush Back is salvaging.
That's helping me personally. But yeah, anyways, Dodgers.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
I feel like we didn't talk about your birthday.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Oh well you Dodgers. Well, let's go back to your birthday. Okay,
let's go back to my birthday. My birthday was great.
My sister and her girlfriend flew in from Denver, and
so my youngest sister, Hank and so he went to
the spa and Tanya met us there and we had
a cute little pool day.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
They introduced me to the most fun game I have
played ever, and I want to play it this week.
Speaker 5 (08:58):
We should try it right now? Yeah, no, right.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
Out, Maybe Thursday episode or maybe Thursday our designated game days.
We moved on to from advice.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
I played after your Birthday. I played that game every
single day since, and I'm having a ball.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
So it's basically, if you know the game Wavelength, you
know the game, it's like you basically, this will be
a Thursday episode. I'll explain it. But it's a very
simple game. But there's a really funny story associated with
Tonya playing it for the first time because.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
Well, I didn't understand the concept.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Should I is it worth giving a rundown of it?
Or do I wait? Do we actually thirst? Okay, we'll wait.
But anyway, so we played the game, we ate food,
we lay by the pool. It was a very hot
day in La that day.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
It was like one hundred degrees.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Yeah, so if you're having fall weather, just no, bless up,
bless up. And then we all got massages, which was
really lovely, and then everyone came for a dinner to
celebrate my birthday at a restaurant called Lolo's. Lolo It's
a little wine bar and it was really special. I
did cry. I cried a lot on my birthday. But yeah,
(10:10):
like it felt like you know the song clean by
Taylor swift. It's like you it was almost like a
symbolic release of letting go and it's like moving forward. Yeah,
so I did. I did cry, show a lot of tears.
I also started my period that day, so it was
it was tough. And then the one thing I was saying,
(10:33):
we did the Halloween party the next day on Halloween,
and I definitely felt the season of like the shift
of life of people having kids, because it was since
it was on Halloween, people had to you know, they
were like trigger treating or doing things and weren't able
to come. And so I really was like, oh, there's
that shift that people you feel a little more like
(10:54):
you talk about, oh, life changes, but you don't really
feel it till certain moments. Until I felt I was like, oh,
this is a shift, you know if you just did well, yeah,
I mean just like it. Because it was a moment
of noticing specifically my friends that were like not able
to be there because of this new life season of
having kids. And I think planning a Halloween party after
(11:17):
my birthday the day after was a little much for me. Yeah,
I was very tired. Yeah, it was a lot, And
so I told Haylee, I was like if I think
maybe we just do the Christmas party, yeah, moving forward,
let other people do Halloween. Yeah, celebrate my birthday and
let it.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
Yeah, because like you should either combine them, like you
should make your Halloween party a big party for your birthday, yes,
or do what you suggested with making it just Christmas.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
That was what I said. I was like, either we
just do a joint thing and it's a Halloween birthday
celebration and that would be great, or just celebrate my
birthday if we want to dress up and do like
pumpkin carving with like an intimate group, do that, don't.
I don't need a big like Halloween thing. So but
our costumes did? I have to say so. Years ago
(12:12):
when we did our Grinch costumes, which was actually a
Christmas party, we had like a special makeup artist do
like the prosthetics in our makeup. He's amazing. His name
is Celton, and he was like incredible. And so when
we were doing these Monsters inc Costumes, I thought, we,
I think we need to have someone do good makeup
(12:32):
because our costumes are so dy that we need something
to look shit. So he air in like two seconds
airbrushed Haley's foam board that had duct tape on it.
He just like airbrushed the eye and then made her
the pupil and it made it look so much better.
(12:53):
It's like, thank god we hired him. And so yeah,
her costume was just too foam boards with green duck
tape wrapped around. I thought it was good, I know,
but without him it'd be bad, trash. It would have
been trash. So he really had it come together. But
I had been in the makeup since eleven am.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
That's crazy.
Speaker 1 (13:16):
I was bloated from my period, so I had tights
on and I put spanks over my tights because I
didn't have the energy to take off the tights again,
and input sinks on. So I was a level of
discomfort that I wouldn't wish on anyone.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
Yeah, but you do have to suck it up for
Halloween sometimes.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
And I did. Yeah, but like by the time it
was the party was over, I was like, I could
need everyone to go so I can take these clothes
off stat But yeah, it was. It was a good time.
And then Saturday we just were worthless. Watched the Dodgers game,
so fun, such a fun world series. I don't watch
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baseball at all but the past two years I've watched
the World Series and this one was one of the most.
It made me go, oh, baseball isn't boring if it's
a good game.
Speaker 2 (14:06):
Yeah, that's totally right. Like I always thought baseball was
so boring, and I've found myself the last this series
very invested as well.
Speaker 1 (14:15):
How do you feel about these statements of No, I
love baseball loed for my whole life, and I understand
where you're coming from.
Speaker 5 (14:21):
And I do think that the changes they've made in
recent years that you probably wouldn't notice as non fans
or casual fans, they've sped the game up a lot
and it's made it a lot more fun to watch. Well, though,
pitchclock you have to pitch within fifteen seconds of getting
that ball back. We're in the old days, good lord,
the player would step out of the box, he'd justice
batting gloves. Between every single pitch, players, the pitcher would
(14:42):
take a walk behind the mound, really think about that
next pitch. And the games we're getting to be three
and a half hours long. They are again that because
the commercials that Fox adds during the World Series, but
the game itself really moves because they have to pitch.
Speaker 2 (14:54):
Yeah, and like now like the walk people. Yeah, like
before like they would intentionally walk people, but you have
to sit through for whatever how many pits to bad pitches,
so it takes up time. So I can just be like,
we're gonna walk him.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
Go, I think they've done that. For a minute.
Speaker 5 (15:07):
That's been but that's that is one of the things
that the game.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 5 (15:11):
Also I also limit visits to the mountain too. The
coach can constantly wait.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
Was the you know the thing when the pitcher threatens
to throw the ball to second that's new too, because
or is it new that if if he does it
to three times?
Speaker 5 (15:25):
Yes, that's new as well. Same thing same trying to
speed up the game. You cannot throw to first base
more than twice. If you do a third time, you can,
but you got to get him out otherwise they get
a free base.
Speaker 1 (15:34):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (15:35):
You know.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
It was really sweet though, so I like really genuinely
got into it, and to the point where like I
put on the Dodger game one night before Robe even
got home from work and he saw on the TV
and he was like, are you watching baseball? And I
was like, yeah, I put it on don't tell any once,
like so not my brand. But we watched. We were
watching the seventh game, and we went over to his
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brother's house and we're all watching together. And then when
they won. The minute they won, he had this like
look of like like such joy and glee in his
eyes and he like kissed me like with this look
that I've never seen before, and I was like, wow,
like he loves me being a part of this like
weird sports thing that he loves so much, you know,
(16:17):
And it made me like think twice about wanting to
be into sports.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
Wow, it's powerful.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
It was powerful. It was like this look in his
eye and I was like, I've never seen that before.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
Just the Dodgers winning brought out the most joyful.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
But it was the Dodgers winning and me being into
it and like being there and like experiencing it together.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
It was a moment of that he loved to have
and that you were there watching with him.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Yes, Yes, that you cared.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
Yes, So maybe you need to be into the football
games this year.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
I don't know if I can get into football, but
baseball I could do again next year maybe, and basketball
I enjoy, so maybe I can watch those with him.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
It's all that matters.
Speaker 2 (16:55):
I Yeah, I don't think I can get there with football.
I've tried. I've tried to get it up with football.
Speaker 1 (16:59):
Them. With the football thing though, is he's not just
watching his one team play a game every week. He's
watching everything because of the fantasy football thing. So you're
not getting like a one you're not rooting for one team.
Does he have a team?
Speaker 2 (17:14):
No, he has his fantasy team.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
Are you a KRM Bay fan?
Speaker 5 (17:17):
Yes, I am, thank you for asking.
Speaker 7 (17:18):
Probably.
Speaker 3 (17:19):
Does it have like a main team, No, he doesn't.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
Wow, whoever's on his fantasy team, which.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
Is so interesting a collective. It's just a collection of
different players from different teams.
Speaker 5 (17:28):
I think that's not uncommon though, people grew up in
La because there was not a team in La. Yeah
he was growing up.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
Yeah, well the Lakers. He likes the Dodgers because.
Speaker 5 (17:37):
They were here the whole time. The Rams last Yeah,
he was a kid.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
And the Chargers were in San Diego just until recently
A wrecked. Yeah, it was really fun to watch this yeraries.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
It was so fun and.
Speaker 5 (17:51):
Buffering.
Speaker 2 (17:53):
Well, I was thinking we should take a break and
then come back.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
Oh yeah, we should.
Speaker 5 (17:58):
Tease what you're going to talk about when we come back,
just kind.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Of talking about six seven, because what does that tell you? Okay,
we'll be right back.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
We're back.
Speaker 1 (18:26):
We are back. So you and Robbie for Halloween, we're
six seven, Yes, not to be confused with sixty seven.
Speaker 2 (18:33):
Yes. So I really wanted for because we did Glenda
and Alphaba the day the weekend before Halloween. So for Halloween,
I wanted to switch and me be Alphaba and Robbie
b Glinda. He was not a fan because we were
going trick or treating with the kids and the kids'
friends and the parents, and so it was just like
too much, like for him to walk around high heels
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with like a blonde wig. It was just like too much.
So I was like, what's like a cool, fun, low
list Halloween costume. So I bought these big balloons, six
seven balloons, and we were six seven, And we surprised
the kids we like walked downstairs. One of them thought
we were super cool. One thought we were super lame.
(19:17):
But I will tell you when we were taking the
kids around trigger treating, every kid that walked by us
was like six because they were giant. They were like
these giant gold numbers. We're not low key about it.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
No, they were six seven.
Speaker 2 (19:30):
Yeah, we were, and I thought it was pretty cool.
Speaker 1 (19:35):
I thought really cool. So can someone do you, now
that you've been six seven, can you describe what six
seven is?
Speaker 5 (19:42):
It's like, so, so that's not really what it is.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
Yeah, it is.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
Well, if you look at it and it's perfect.
Speaker 1 (19:46):
It is.
Speaker 5 (19:47):
It's not. Look, I've been studying six seven for a
long time because my daughter has been into it for
a long time.
Speaker 1 (19:54):
What is your research show?
Speaker 5 (19:56):
Look, it kind of means nothing, and that's what they
love about it. That's the best part is there's really
no meaning to it and it's only described as meanings.
So so when the elders try to explain it to people,
because it doesn't really have a meeting. It comes from
the song Dude by Scroll and all that stuff, but
it went from there to a basketball player kind of
use it and then it cannot went viral out of
(20:16):
a basketball game doing the hand gesture for it, and
then it just exploded. But it doesn't mean anything.
Speaker 1 (20:21):
But what I'm saying is what do they say it for?
Speaker 2 (20:24):
That's what I'm saying. Like, if I'm like, oh, do
you want to go like, do you want to have
sushi tonight? And he's like, ah, six seven, not.
Speaker 5 (20:29):
How it's used. I promise you that's not how it's used.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
Can we get alf the phone.
Speaker 5 (20:35):
It's simply something funny to say, and when other people
say six seven or sixty seven or says something about
numerica like that, they all laugh and do it. It
doesn't it's not used conversationally, so like we can't.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
We can't use it casually, like it's not for us to.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
It's not a feeling that asked me how I'm feeling.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
I think if that was what it meant, there would
have been a discription for a long time.
Speaker 5 (21:00):
Ago, correct if that makes sense.
Speaker 1 (21:02):
If it was like, oh, six seven like so.
Speaker 5 (21:04):
So it's not I think that you.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
I think because it sounds like.
Speaker 5 (21:10):
Trying to look at the hand gestures you're trying to
explain some day unexplainable that.
Speaker 6 (21:15):
Your day six, that's not your I feel like there's
more energy when they say like, well, I appreciated the effort.
Speaker 1 (21:30):
I enjoyed my connect to the youth.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
Yeah, I am the youth. Yes I am, I am
the youth of a nation.
Speaker 1 (21:38):
M P O D.
Speaker 2 (21:42):
I didn't even know what I was thinking.
Speaker 3 (21:45):
With all due respect Tanya, but when the parents start
embracing this kind of thing, is this the.
Speaker 1 (21:52):
Of the end?
Speaker 5 (21:53):
Yeah? I've told this to my daughter recently because I said,
I said, just so you know, it's it's coming to
an answer. No, no, no, I think it's gonna go forever.
I'm like, trust me, millennials are about to ruin it
for you. And she's like, oh, you're right, that's what's
gonna happen.
Speaker 3 (22:07):
Millennials and corporations are rooting this.
Speaker 5 (22:09):
It's already happening. I was watching a baseball and O
six seven. My kids keeps doing six seven. I'm like,
this is when it starts to become mainstream, and that
when it's over.
Speaker 1 (22:17):
Dang.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
Two of the like really cute kids in his class
were also six seven, like the girl I think. I
was like, hey, girls, do you think they saw you?
Speaker 1 (22:25):
They're like.
Speaker 2 (22:28):
No, they're like that mom is so they were even
like oh my gosh, that's so cool.
Speaker 1 (22:33):
Or they're like.
Speaker 2 (22:35):
They're like his that mom, she she gets it, she
got it. Yeah, shes no cap.
Speaker 3 (22:44):
Cap.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
I mean, we had we had our things right. I
guess I don't the way the description of things like
there's not really a description for the things that the
youth are said in Ohio or whatever.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
Yes, no, But the thing is, I think when we
were younger, their things didn't go viral, so it wasn't
like you know what I mean, Like we would play
Sonic and Mario Brothers, so we have like this lingo
that we would do, but nothing was like virals because
we didn't have viral access to viral activities and viral
that's true.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
Our viral access is like what we saw in magazines
and like Vonda chats and juicy couture pants. Right, yeah, okay,
that's fair. So they have They're just they're just experiencing
it in a very different way.
Speaker 2 (23:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (23:34):
Yeah, and I think that's part of the part of
the joy of it.
Speaker 1 (23:41):
I like, I love Jenelfa. I think they're they're not judging,
they're not judging, and you know what, I think they're
ten not judging yet. They're not judging yet.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
Why do you learn a little from jen Alpha? Okay, boomer.
Speaker 5 (23:59):
Not a boomer?
Speaker 2 (24:00):
Aha, what are you?
Speaker 5 (24:01):
I'm an ex I'm gen.
Speaker 1 (24:02):
X Robbie is gen xer. Yeah. Yeah, Jenatha's great And
I always think about when I would we would do
things in our youth and my parents are like, I
just don't get it. And now we're those stun age.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
Of being like hot about you guys. I get it.
Speaker 1 (24:18):
You don't get it, and that's what I love, because
you have to you gotta be a part. You gotta
try to understand, you have to be a part. So
you and I both did the bird theory on our partners. Yes,
did Robbie see the camera? Like, did he see you filming?
Because he was laughing so hard that time.
Speaker 2 (24:40):
I tried to put it behind it was like I was,
it was behind my couch, behind his head, not my
best angle. I thought I was just going to use
the audio for the radio, but it was too funny,
so I was like, I'm gonna post this.
Speaker 1 (24:51):
Oh, so did he see the camera though?
Speaker 2 (24:53):
No, he didn't see that.
Speaker 1 (24:54):
No, so he just had no idea what you were doing.
Speaker 2 (24:56):
No, but his tone makes me feel like he knew
something was up.
Speaker 1 (25:01):
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (25:02):
Like with me, like there's always something up, and.
Speaker 1 (25:04):
Robbie's pretty on line with the trends. Yeah, like he's
harder to prank because going on rank. Yeah, yeah, Haley
had no idea, and she was she was in the bath,
so I had set it up on the She like
couldn't see my phone, huh, And so I was I
was asking her if she saw the bird, and then
she starts telling me about a bird. No.
Speaker 2 (25:25):
Hers is like way too innocent and sweet, I know.
Speaker 1 (25:28):
So then I got locked in on what she was
telling me about the bird she was describing and then
she was like, was it in the front or the back?
And I was like, oh wait, what am I doing?
Speaker 2 (25:37):
Oh yeah, I think if the roles were reversed and
he did the bird theory on me, I would literally
react so bad. Really yeah, because like we always have
this not like fight, but like every day at the
end of the day when we get home and we're
making dinner, we always ask each other, like He'll ask
me how my day was, and I'll go on about
my day. We talked about this in the morning, and
(25:57):
then I had this for lunch, and then Becca came
and we did the podcast. I went here, I did,
got my hair done. Oh, Tawny just said that, you know,
like I'll give him like a full play by play,
how was your day?
Speaker 1 (26:08):
It was good?
Speaker 2 (26:11):
What'd you do? I just went to work, came home.
Now I'm here. Wait, so you think it's so, I'm like,
I feel like I'm always trying to get more out
of him. So I feel like if I if he
told me like I saw bird today, I'd be like,
you're lying, Like shut up, like he's making fun of
me or something. Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (26:25):
Oh? Like you wantn't you wouldn't trust that he was
just telling you about a bird. Yeah, Oh, I see
what you're saying. So for people who don't know, because
I had a lot of people be like, what is
the bird theory? It's from us John John John Gottman.
He and his wife do like, uh, basically a couple
(26:47):
of therapy like connections and it's the concept of bids
for connections. So it basically he says that he can
tell if a couple has longevity based on this theory,
which is one partner says like a comment about seeing
a bird and how the other partner responds to it
is just he's able to tell like if they have
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basically a future in terms of like how they can
communicate and connect with each other, and like if something
as simple as seeing a bird can like spark a
conversation an interest, So that's where it comes from. But
I haven't seen anyone like post one where it was
they were ignored or brushed off.
Speaker 2 (27:28):
You haven't seen you seen anyone post you have?
Speaker 7 (27:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (27:32):
Is it sad?
Speaker 2 (27:32):
No, it's hilarious because I think that's like totally. I
honestly feel like if the rules were reversed, I'd be like, Okay, cool,
what do you come on? What really happened with your day?
Speaker 1 (27:43):
But it's not. This is just it's the bird theory.
But it could be anything like if Robbie was like,
I saw this amazing the coolest car today, right, something
that he would care about that you wouldn't have like
red flags, you know what I'm saying, Like there's a
genuine interest in something that he cared about, and then
you just brushed them off because you didn't care. Six
(28:06):
what's for dinner?
Speaker 2 (28:07):
Six?
Speaker 1 (28:10):
But yeah, I mean I I've like read books by
John Gotman, so I believe in the bird theory.
Speaker 2 (28:17):
You do? Yeah, well, you read by John Gotman.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
Relationships relationship books like which one they're like main book,
which is like I don't know, it's probably called like
bid for Connections or something. I don't know, but I
I love like learning about that stuff because I felt
like in a lot of my relationships just in general,
(28:41):
I always lacked the communication part. So I'm really interested
in the communication of relationships personally.
Speaker 2 (28:50):
You know, are celebrating this week, what six years of dating?
Speaker 1 (28:55):
What two?
Speaker 2 (28:56):
Me and my husband.
Speaker 1 (28:59):
Six years dating?
Speaker 5 (29:00):
Wow?
Speaker 2 (29:01):
Wow, your birthday always reminds me of it because I
will never forget. At your birthday dinner six years ago,
I sat next to Ali and she was telling me
about this guy that she met on Hinge that was
so amazing, and I was like, I haven't tried that one.
Oh downloaded it that night on Halloween, the good night
after so Halloween, and then we matched on November first. Wow.
(29:26):
It's a nice memory.
Speaker 1 (29:28):
Y'all matched on November first. Wow.
Speaker 2 (29:30):
Yeah, that is crazy.
Speaker 1 (29:33):
Six years ago. Now you're married.
Speaker 2 (29:35):
Married. It's so crazy that I married. I still think
how crazy that is. Never thought i'd see the day. No,
I'm kidding.
Speaker 1 (29:46):
Oh what. We're also celebrating something very special this week. Yes,
we are Easton's birthday. Oh my god, are you turning?
Speaker 3 (30:00):
I'm going to be thirty eight years old?
Speaker 1 (30:02):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (30:03):
Wow, that's when the bones start hurting. Yeah, when the
bone matter.
Speaker 1 (30:10):
I feel like Easton has a just like young, a
youth about him. You know what I was thinking about
the other day. But oh, in Vegas yesterday I was
just like, get me back to the hotel. I need
to lay down. I'm so tired. I thought Easton and Allison,
if they were here, they would have gone to the
work thing, headed to the roller coaster, gone to somewhere
off the strip, and then like booked it to the
(30:31):
airport to get on their fight.
Speaker 2 (30:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (30:33):
I kind of embrace the life and seize the day
like Easton.
Speaker 2 (30:37):
I think it's the no alcohol.
Speaker 1 (30:39):
I didn't drink what I didn't drink yesterday?
Speaker 2 (30:42):
Did your guarden?
Speaker 1 (30:43):
No sober?
Speaker 2 (30:46):
Godspeed.
Speaker 3 (30:48):
We just went to Wilmington, North Carolina for the drama
Queen's Finale, and Allison came with me, and you've ever
we packed a lot in days.
Speaker 1 (30:57):
That y'all were on every tour.
Speaker 3 (30:59):
We went on a ghost tour, went and saw where
they filmed the Conjuring. We went to the Museum of
the Bizarre. We watched a guy swallow swords. It was great.
Speaker 5 (31:07):
It's so much fun.
Speaker 1 (31:07):
I love that. I love that about y'all, Like It's
truly such a it's such a cool thing, and I
love that you found your match and Allison, who loves
to do it.
Speaker 3 (31:18):
I know everyone in this room feels this way about
their partners, but like, there's so many moments where I'm
just like, God, there's no one else in the world
would be this excited about this but you. And I'm
so grateful that you were in my life. There's so
many moments like that with us.
Speaker 4 (31:30):
It's so I see, I feel, I feel it through
all the strips and photos and videos.
Speaker 1 (31:35):
It's really special. Well, we're happy you were born.
Speaker 3 (31:39):
Oh thank you.
Speaker 2 (31:39):
You know there's saying there's a song for every foot.
Speaker 3 (31:44):
That's right. Wait, do you know what else happening Thursday
besides my birthday? What new Hillary Duff music? Thursday Thursday?
A new single called Mature.
Speaker 1 (31:55):
Yeah, she did that.
Speaker 3 (31:56):
I think she did it intentionally. She's been getting my
letters and that's my birthday because music normally comes out
on Fridays.
Speaker 2 (32:03):
But why is she doing that.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
Because it's my birthday. I don't know why she's doing that, honestly,
but it's so exciting and I can't wait to spend
all day listening to it.
Speaker 1 (32:12):
Wait, is it not Thursday at like nine am?
Speaker 3 (32:15):
In the announcement, she says Thursday, November sixth, like and
normally when it's like Thursday nine pm, they'll they'll still
say Fridays. It's right, But she says, so, I don't
if it's gonna be Wednesday at nine pm, I don't
know what that means.
Speaker 1 (32:26):
WHOA very interesting, I'm very excited. I love Hilarya, I.
Speaker 2 (32:31):
Love Hillary daff She you know what's so fascinating to me,
She's one of those people who've like stood the test
of time, remained relevant and lovable. Yes, throughout all.
Speaker 1 (32:45):
The years, with no cancelizations.
Speaker 2 (32:48):
No cancels and no like like what she's been in
younger I loved and then she did how I Met
your Father? Yes, but like other than that, she's remained
pretty low key, yeah, but still so relevant.
Speaker 1 (33:01):
Everyone love she do that? Do you know what I
was saying, Hank and I were talking about this too,
that she like years for people joke about it now,
But when she did that commercial when someone's like that
shirt's gay or whatever, and she goes, you know, you
really shouldn't say that, and they're like, say what, She's like, Well,
saying something is gay, meaning that it's bad, and she was.
Speaker 7 (33:25):
Like ahead or she was a trailblazer for the Alley
Allies of the world, and we were just saying, like
she's just remained who she is and never got canceled.
Speaker 1 (33:37):
But everyone's always just like oneted more from her.
Speaker 3 (33:40):
Yeah, I think the closest thing and everyone was on
her side, But do you remember there was like a
paparazzi was like taking pictures of her, like her kid's
soccer game or something, and she like told him off,
Oh yeah, and everyone's like she shouldn't have acted that way,
like yeah.
Speaker 1 (33:52):
She should oh yeah, you know.
Speaker 3 (33:54):
Yeah, But that's like the closest thing. Like that's she's
so far away from like because she's such an incredible person.
Speaker 1 (34:00):
I think she I always feel very when celebrities say
something to paparazzi when their kids are involved. I'm like, yeah,
you yeah, But then when they're just like it's just
them and they're being like.
Speaker 2 (34:11):
Stop following me, okay.
Speaker 1 (34:14):
But even now I can't even know. It's so less
intense than it was during the height of like magazines
and stuff.
Speaker 2 (34:22):
Yeah, I really hope the song is good.
Speaker 3 (34:25):
How funny is it going to be if it sucks.
Speaker 2 (34:26):
Yeah, Like I really like, I'm really hoping that it's
like a banger.
Speaker 3 (34:32):
I hope so too, because I love her so much. Yeah,
but I'm not. You know, I'll say the albums she
put out diminishing returns as they went on, nothing was
as good as Metamorphosis. Yeah that was like I think
she'll say that too, you know. So I'm excited about this.
(34:52):
I'm going in with trepidation. It's her first single in
a decade.
Speaker 2 (34:56):
Crazy, I love it.
Speaker 1 (34:58):
Must be so nervous, right, Yeah, I bet I bet
she's really nervous. I'd be nervous because you watch, like
if you're an artist and you're watching other music come out,
and how people respond to the to the music, but
also the musicians and how they criticize everything.
Speaker 2 (35:18):
Yeah. Yeah, that's the thing, is like I feel like everybody,
everybody's ruthless nowadays, and.
Speaker 1 (35:27):
She's brave. Everyone's everyone's so excited to give an opinion, yes,
because if it can make you viral. It's like, I
don't care if I'm being rude, I don't care what
I'm doing. I'm just gonna give an opinion because I
know this has a chance to get on the for
you page and go viral.
Speaker 3 (35:45):
I'm excited that it's an original song and not because
she could have just re recorded come Clean and like
still yeah, yes, yeah, she could have easily done that
and it would have been a slam dunk. But this
is a risk and I like that. I think it's fun.
Speaker 1 (35:59):
I think it's that would be great. Maybe it's the
pop of the fall, I really hope. So we did
a really bad job guessing our songs of the summer.
Speaker 2 (36:07):
So them speaking of when you're saying everybody has an
opinion about something, I have like a really really hot take,
hot take.
Speaker 1 (36:20):
I have a really what's happening.
Speaker 2 (36:26):
I'm so tired today. I have a very passionate hot
take on something that happened last week that I just
want to stand on my soapbox and just say to
the people that are listening and watching. But I'm gonna
do it when we come back.
Speaker 1 (36:39):
Nice time we're back.
Speaker 2 (37:01):
I understand that none of you watch Love is Blind,
So I'm going to be speaking to myself. This is
a hyperbole.
Speaker 5 (37:08):
We talked to ourselves for gris Anatomy, Feel Free for
Love is Blind.
Speaker 2 (37:11):
So this is just to the power.
Speaker 1 (37:13):
This is the power. I'm so confused what's happening.
Speaker 2 (37:17):
This is just the powers that that. Powers that be
have a gripe with the reunion. When I'm watching a
reunion for Love Is Blind, especially, I want to get
to the meat and potatoes of what is going on
with the couples since we last left them. I do
not want to see a five minute basketball showdown between
two of the people from the cast that I did
(37:39):
not care about and some basketball star that's in the audience.
And it happened within like ten minutes of the reunion.
So this is my complaint. I just want to say
it loud and proud as a as a huge lover
of the show, fan of the show, a viewer of
the show, so excited to watch the union, and then
(38:01):
Vanessa Lasha getting involved and making her get the ring
back from the guy that was just trying to get
the ring back from the girl, and then she was
like telling him to give.
Speaker 1 (38:08):
It back to her.
Speaker 2 (38:09):
It was all that whole section of the reunion needed
to be gone.
Speaker 1 (38:13):
I agree they could have just exited. They could have
just cut that out completely and gone straight to the
point that It's just like I feel like every reunion
show does this, Like I was watching.
Speaker 2 (38:23):
Never seen this before a basketball shootout reunion.
Speaker 1 (38:27):
Were they trying to promote something right though?
Speaker 2 (38:30):
And if it was promoting something, by all means get
your money, do your thing. I'm all for money, doing
your integrations, whatever you gotta do. But this was not
I don't think unless it got to that's a very
bad one. If it was, because I did not, I
didn't leave with any lasting impression.
Speaker 1 (38:48):
They did this on Golden Bachelor Woman Tell All, which
I think I might be the only person watching the show,
but I was like the things that they were doing
updates on I was like, this is so bad. What
is happening right now? It was like someone's back spasm,
like checking in on your backspasom like into that Tanya
(39:10):
gets in the Golden batchist What did.
Speaker 2 (39:12):
She do for her backspasm? I'm like to take notes. No,
but the basketball shootout was come on.
Speaker 1 (39:18):
It just I don't get what it has to do
with the show.
Speaker 2 (39:21):
And nothing and the two people that I could care
less about.
Speaker 1 (39:24):
So did anyone have is anyone secretly together or anything?
I mean there was like some Megan have a baby.
Speaker 2 (39:31):
With she does have a baby with someone else. Crazy crazy,
But the show had been wrapped for like over a year.
Speaker 1 (39:37):
Yeah, I know.
Speaker 2 (39:38):
They so like they met him, she met him, she
went through the timeline, but it was quick. It was
like she met him two months after she broke up
at Jordan and then two months later she got pregnant.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
It's quick, she said, I'm ready. Yeah, no time to waste. No. Well,
thanks for sharing that.
Speaker 2 (39:52):
I'm sure a lot of off my chest.
Speaker 1 (39:53):
I'm sure a lot of the Love is Blind fans
feel similarly.
Speaker 2 (39:57):
It's been really bothering me.
Speaker 1 (39:58):
I feel like a lot of reunion and shows that
they don't get to anything that you want to hear about.
They just kind of gab, They talk about things you
don't care about. They do ads. It's just kind of like,
what are we doing here? I'd rather some people just
sit down on the Instagram live or TikTok live and
just hash it out, you.
Speaker 2 (40:14):
Know what I realized, Like with the Lowe Island reunions lately,
everybody's just talking about what people said on podcasts, like
it was like you went on this podcast and you
said this, You went on this podcast, and it's like
I can't even keep up.
Speaker 1 (40:28):
Well, they shouldn't let them do those until they have
to bring in I agree.
Speaker 2 (40:32):
Another note to be caught. Please lock them up from
press until after the union.
Speaker 1 (40:37):
I mean for a long time they did that. But
they want people to watch the show, so.
Speaker 2 (40:42):
So have Ariano Maddox run around.
Speaker 1 (40:44):
I agree, I agree. I'm on your side.
Speaker 2 (40:46):
Yeah, I'm happy to run around do promo for it too.
Speaker 1 (40:49):
Okay. Wait, Mark has the audio from Tanya trying the
bird theory on Robbie.
Speaker 5 (40:54):
I think Robbie passed with flying collars. You were a
little concerned about his tone.
Speaker 1 (40:58):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (40:58):
I thought he did a great job. I thought this
boded really well for your relationship. Here's Tanya testing the
bird theory. The bird test on Robbie.
Speaker 2 (41:08):
Was really good. I saw a bird in the backyard.
Speaker 5 (41:11):
In the backyard, m h, what kind.
Speaker 7 (41:13):
Of bird was?
Speaker 2 (41:14):
It was like a really pretty like red one, A
pretty red bird.
Speaker 5 (41:20):
Yes, how.
Speaker 7 (41:24):
Is it?
Speaker 5 (41:29):
What's great about it is like whatever that doctor Becca
mentioned earlier. He's turning into it. Yes, he is suspicious.
He thinks something is going on, and he thinks you're
probably full of it. But he is turning toward your
bid for attention.
Speaker 2 (41:43):
He talked about it for a long time, and he
was like, you know how Sonny always barking at the
birds in the backyard. And I was like, yeah, he is,
because there's a lot of birds in the back yard.
I forgot about that.
Speaker 1 (41:55):
You want to hear Haley's yes, I do.
Speaker 5 (41:58):
I enjoy the bird test.
Speaker 6 (42:03):
I still not burning and.
Speaker 1 (42:05):
You want us all the other day? Oh yeah, should
you look it up?
Speaker 5 (42:11):
No?
Speaker 1 (42:12):
I should?
Speaker 2 (42:13):
Why if you.
Speaker 4 (42:16):
Maybe it's just like the color or something I've never
seen before.
Speaker 7 (42:20):
Ladies a vagrant's a bigger black and task and said,
we're in.
Speaker 2 (42:26):
That strays so far well and doesn't not that.
Speaker 1 (42:32):
Is that sun? I was like that have in line
started on that?
Speaker 2 (42:43):
You say where was in there?
Speaker 1 (42:46):
But the back maybe it has a mess. Yeah, maybe
I've just never seen it before.
Speaker 5 (42:57):
Same thing turning beautiful. It's well you at the Taylor
swift makes it gives a poignancy to the whole thing.
It makes it all just kind of a moving exchange.
Speaker 3 (43:08):
It was, Yeah, it was beautiful, this like avy and vagrant.
Speaker 5 (43:12):
Yeah and if through a fan blowing right on, because.
Speaker 1 (43:16):
Yeah, I think I did have it. I just had
it under Oh it was her the bath running, the bathrun.
She was in the bathroom. I was sitting in like
the entryway, and so I just had like propped it
on the like a frame, so it's like up against
where she was.
Speaker 5 (43:31):
Taking a bath. Yeah, and she likes to have little
tailor playing while.
Speaker 1 (43:34):
She No, no, no, she was. She just likes to
talk while she She'll be like, come show me us.
Speaker 5 (43:45):
I mean, really casts a mood.
Speaker 1 (43:48):
I actually loved listening to music while I take a bath.
Speaker 2 (43:50):
So that's what that taking a bath since like twenty nineteen.
Speaker 1 (43:54):
Oh, you should look into it, I know, really relaxing.
It'd probably really be good for my bath.
Speaker 2 (43:59):
Yeah, back and just life in general.
Speaker 1 (44:01):
Mental yeah, rest facts. Yeah, well that note. I think
it's time to end this podcast.
Speaker 2 (44:13):
Tis time.
Speaker 1 (44:17):
Oh we never talked about that. Oh yeah we did,
we did all yeah, but we congratulated the Dodgers two
years in a row World Series champ the Blue There
was a to be honest, I would have been happy
if either team won wow, because I.
Speaker 2 (44:34):
Love an under story outside your door.
Speaker 1 (44:37):
I like, I like an underdog story. And I was like,
the Dodgers just have like so much more money and
power in the league, and I felt like the Blue
Jays were like this underdog and.
Speaker 5 (44:47):
It felt like yeah, and their fans were so passionate.
Speaker 1 (44:50):
I know they hadn't been there since nineteen seventy somethings
of nineteen ninety three.
Speaker 5 (44:56):
Last year, I know, it was just not an empty seat.
They even filled up the basketball arena next door people
to watch every pitch of the game. Well, Dodger Stadium.
They paned the crowd. There's so many NBCs, like, I
know they're all sold, but you wouldn't believe in many NBCs.
You see when they panned the crowd. I don't know.
I was kind. I was pulling for Toronto too.
Speaker 1 (45:13):
Yeah, it's just I'm just one of I was happy
either way, and I loved the comeback from the Dot
Like it was really cool that they just like didn't stop.
But I was, you know, it was it was sad
to watch them lose to I felt all the emissions.
Speaker 2 (45:26):
I bleed blue.
Speaker 1 (45:28):
Just kidding, Well, they're blue too, the Blue Days. We'll
be back Thursday for Easton's birthday, some games and I
don't know, just more Shenanigans.
Speaker 2 (45:45):
To play the best game ever.
Speaker 1 (45:47):
Yeah, we'll be back on Thursday. We love you, some mudy.
Speaker 5 (45:51):
Let me
Scrubbing In with Bea Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
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we are scrubbing in.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
Do you feel any different?
Speaker 1 (00:18):
Are you talking about age wise?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (00:20):
No, although I do feel really tired, Like I don't
think that's anything to do with age, maybe, like maybe
i'd be less tired in my at twenty seven. But yeah,
I do feel tired, but that's it mentally feel great? Sharp? Sure?
Sharp is a dull knife.
Speaker 2 (00:41):
Sharp is a tool.
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Chest, a chest? What is it a tool? I don't know.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
Sharp is a You could be the sharpest knife in
the drawer, sharpest knife for the but you can't be
as sharp as a tool chest.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
I mean that might actually be accurate to how sharp
I feel a tool chest. How are you doing?
Speaker 2 (01:01):
I'm tired too? Thank you for asking? You know this
daylight savings I thought would make me feel more refreshed.
Speaker 1 (01:06):
It's supposed to.
Speaker 2 (01:07):
It has not.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Why I don't know? You need more than just an hour?
Speaker 2 (01:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (01:12):
I need just like you need to fall back like five.
It is so weird. Though I got home yesterday, we
went to so we had my birthday on Thursday, Halloween
party Friday. Saturday, we chilled and then yesterday Haley and
I went to Vegas for the day and we set
our alarms for five, so it was like a rough
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wake up, and I thought, well, we get an extra hour,
so'll I feel like six, which is still not great
for me. But then I got home and it was
six and it was pitch black, and I was trying
to wait until nine to go to sleep because I'm
so tired, and so I was just watching the clock
waiting till it was nine.
Speaker 2 (01:50):
And then once it hit nine, you I got.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
I got did my routine and got in bed. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Nice.
Speaker 1 (01:56):
I could have gone earlier, but I was scared I'd
wake up in the middle of the nine.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
You know what the problem with me is?
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Tell me.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
I got into this new show. It's not a new show,
but it was new for me. It's spoiler alert. It's
called The Girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
Oh, I haven't.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
Watched it, and I became so obsessed with it. Robbie
was out after the first episode. He was like, it's
just like not realistic. I'm like, it's TV anyway, So
he was out. So it was me on my own
and me on my own. She gets her done, and
I had one app like I basically spent. I was
up till eleven pm last night finishing the girlfriend my
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own fault.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
Yeah yeah, well so you watched the whole thing? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (02:33):
I finished?
Speaker 1 (02:34):
How was it so good? I was going to get
into it? So maybe Haley's out of town this week,
so maybe, y'all.
Speaker 2 (02:39):
It's a great one to get into solo.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Okay, yes? Is it scary though?
Speaker 2 (02:44):
No, that's why I didn't. I don't really like suspense
like scary. It's more like campy.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Okay, Okay, yeah, all right, I'll give it a shot.
I don't know that you and I aligned fully on
our TV shows, but I'll give it a shot.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
I did watch Grey's Anatomy though. I am all caught up,
and I'm very happy to see Sophia Bush back in
action again.
Speaker 4 (03:06):
Although spoiler alert, I if you would have told me
ever in the history of watching Grayce that I would
be watching Teddy as the one hooking up with Sopia Bush,
I feel no way.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
Yeah, it's not the person I expected.
Speaker 5 (03:23):
And she's still all nervous about it. Teddy, but she's
she's going there.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
Yeah, I have a bad feeling she's gonna get really invested,
and then Sophia Bush's character is gonna.
Speaker 5 (03:32):
Because she's married Die.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
I don't know. That's how they always do it. They
did Teddy dirty with Henry. I'm just like, are they
going to recircle back? And then she goes back to Owen.
I cannot, I need her, no one to just be done.
I'm over it. They've been back and forth for twenty seasons. Basically.
Speaker 5 (03:51):
No, but at a certain point, aren't they each other's endgame?
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Yeah? No, they missed their opportunity. We're past that. Perhaps,
so I'm rooting I guess for Cast and so Teddy.
Speaker 5 (04:02):
And you're rooting for Owen and his ex that he
walked off with at the end of the episode.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
I guess I don't care. I don't care.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Do you care about the Dodgers?
Speaker 1 (04:16):
I do.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Did you watch the game we weren't done talking about? Sorry,
I just get bored.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Well, that's you talk about Joe's that none of us watch,
but we try to act interested for a whole conversation.
Speaker 5 (04:32):
Show is called scrubbing in after all.
Speaker 1 (04:35):
I actually don't know if there's anything else to that
I don't care about. I thought something like a little
more dramatic. Was gonna happen to Link.
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Was that they're doing the thing on grays where certain
cast members get the week off. Yes, save the network money.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
It's bugging me Joe.
Speaker 5 (04:51):
Why would Joe have not been there? When Link returns
to the hospital, it makes zero sense. Didn't even see
her face, not at once.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Amelia is going through whatever she's going to through, we
don't see her. I guess we get home YEP.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
Isn't that interesting? Like, I don't mind give the doc.
You have so much cast, you can give them weeks off.
But this one was poorly timed. I thought, well, it's.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Also like have them shoot a scene from the next.
Speaker 5 (05:13):
The whole episode. Oh, I think that's the issue.
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Well, they need to lessen the cast, I think, I
think because I don't think we ever had that problem
with with watching the old cast. You saw them in
every episode, which, by the way, our friend Brittany is watching,
and she was at my birthday dinner and she just
watched the Shooter episode, which I have to say her
two of my favorite episodes from Grey's Anatomy history. I
was pacing my room when they were on. I remember
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it so specifically, and so she comes up and we're
talking about it, and I go, oh, my gosh, Tanya,
britt just watched the shooting episodes and she goes, does
Derek die before or after those episodes? And Britt's like,
he dies.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
That's not how it went down.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Exactly.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
It's not in vouch because I didn't have a sip
of alcohol and everybody else did. I didn't either know
you had wine.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
Okay, but I was very sad.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
I'm just saying that gives me a leg up. Brittany
said she just watched the shooter episode and she said,
I was not prepared for that, like I am prepared
for Derek's death. She's she prompted Derek.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
She did not say that. She did not.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
She did not call her right now tell her to
set the scene. She brought up Derek's death in the
in the thing.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
I think she said, I was so scared that Derek
was going to die.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Maybe okay, maybe that's what she said.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
But she almost died in that episode.
Speaker 2 (06:37):
So so she brought up Derek's death and I said, oh,
does Derek die? I didn't realize Derek dad after the
shooter episode. It's a very normal.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Thing to say. He died for seasons after the shooter episode,
which is crazy.
Speaker 5 (06:52):
But the point that say, the point stands your story
in Becca story are the same. You spoiled Derek's death.
But what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Is Brittany brought up she had I wouldn't have mentioned
Derek Seth had she not brought up in the sentence,
but she.
Speaker 6 (07:04):
Said I was scared Derek was gonna die, which was
a huge storyline of that on the shooter.
Speaker 2 (07:12):
It was a mistake. I could even come back from it.
I literally it was just like deer in headlights. And
then I was like we all just.
Speaker 1 (07:19):
Like stared at each other because I was thinking, like
how can I salvage this for her? And then I
couldn't come up with anything but neither.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
I was just like I did tell her comes back
in her dreams for COVID, like.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
I told her of her text. I go, I prompted
Tanya to tell you say that so that you would
think that was going to happen. She didn't believe it.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
Yeah, but in all fairness, and Robbie even came to
my defense. He was like, I've never watched Gray's Anatomy
in my life, and I knew Derek Shepherd died.
Speaker 1 (07:48):
Because he's a scrubber.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
No, he was in store combos just because it was
like a pop culture moment. It was Yeah, so deep
down Brittany knew I didn't spoil anything.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Oh wow, you really so.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
That's right.
Speaker 1 (08:04):
But anyway, she has a long journey ahead.
Speaker 5 (08:07):
I'm enjoying this season.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
Okay, it's fine, it's fine. I failed the same I
felt about it for.
Speaker 5 (08:14):
I'm gonna say it's slightly better than fine.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Them bringing Sophia Sophia cars Sophia bush Back is salvaging.
That's helping me personally. But yeah, anyways, Dodgers.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
I feel like we didn't talk about your birthday.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
Oh well you Dodgers. Well, let's go back to your birthday. Okay,
let's go back to my birthday. My birthday was great.
My sister and her girlfriend flew in from Denver, and
so my youngest sister, Hank and so he went to
the spa and Tanya met us there and we had
a cute little pool day.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
They introduced me to the most fun game I have
played ever, and I want to play it this week.
Speaker 5 (08:58):
We should try it right now? Yeah, no, right.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
Out, Maybe Thursday episode or maybe Thursday our designated game days.
We moved on to from advice.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
I played after your Birthday. I played that game every
single day since, and I'm having a ball.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
So it's basically, if you know the game Wavelength, you
know the game, it's like you basically, this will be
a Thursday episode. I'll explain it. But it's a very
simple game. But there's a really funny story associated with
Tonya playing it for the first time because.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
Well, I didn't understand the concept.
Speaker 1 (09:36):
Should I is it worth giving a rundown of it?
Or do I wait? Do we actually thirst? Okay, we'll wait.
But anyway, so we played the game, we ate food,
we lay by the pool. It was a very hot
day in La that day.
Speaker 2 (09:47):
It was like one hundred degrees.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
Yeah, so if you're having fall weather, just no, bless up,
bless up. And then we all got massages, which was
really lovely, and then everyone came for a dinner to
celebrate my birthday at a restaurant called Lolo's. Lolo It's
a little wine bar and it was really special. I
did cry. I cried a lot on my birthday. But yeah,
(10:10):
like it felt like you know the song clean by
Taylor swift. It's like you it was almost like a
symbolic release of letting go and it's like moving forward. Yeah,
so I did. I did cry, show a lot of tears.
I also started my period that day, so it was
it was tough. And then the one thing I was saying,
(10:33):
we did the Halloween party the next day on Halloween,
and I definitely felt the season of like the shift
of life of people having kids, because it was since
it was on Halloween, people had to you know, they
were like trigger treating or doing things and weren't able
to come. And so I really was like, oh, there's
that shift that people you feel a little more like
(10:54):
you talk about, oh, life changes, but you don't really
feel it till certain moments. Until I felt I was like, oh,
this is a shift, you know if you just did well, yeah,
I mean just like it. Because it was a moment
of noticing specifically my friends that were like not able
to be there because of this new life season of
having kids. And I think planning a Halloween party after
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my birthday the day after was a little much for me. Yeah,
I was very tired. Yeah, it was a lot, And
so I told Haylee, I was like if I think
maybe we just do the Christmas party, yeah, moving forward,
let other people do Halloween. Yeah, celebrate my birthday and
let it.
Speaker 2 (11:35):
Yeah, because like you should either combine them, like you
should make your Halloween party a big party for your birthday, yes,
or do what you suggested with making it just Christmas.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
That was what I said. I was like, either we
just do a joint thing and it's a Halloween birthday
celebration and that would be great, or just celebrate my
birthday if we want to dress up and do like
pumpkin carving with like an intimate group, do that, don't.
I don't need a big like Halloween thing. So but
our costumes did? I have to say so. Years ago
(12:12):
when we did our Grinch costumes, which was actually a
Christmas party, we had like a special makeup artist do
like the prosthetics in our makeup. He's amazing. His name
is Celton, and he was like incredible. And so when
we were doing these Monsters inc Costumes, I thought, we,
I think we need to have someone do good makeup
(12:32):
because our costumes are so dy that we need something
to look shit. So he air in like two seconds
airbrushed Haley's foam board that had duct tape on it.
He just like airbrushed the eye and then made her
the pupil and it made it look so much better.
(12:53):
It's like, thank god we hired him. And so yeah,
her costume was just too foam boards with green duck
tape wrapped around. I thought it was good, I know,
but without him it'd be bad, trash. It would have
been trash. So he really had it come together. But
I had been in the makeup since eleven am.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
That's crazy.
Speaker 1 (13:16):
I was bloated from my period, so I had tights
on and I put spanks over my tights because I
didn't have the energy to take off the tights again,
and input sinks on. So I was a level of
discomfort that I wouldn't wish on anyone.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
Yeah, but you do have to suck it up for
Halloween sometimes.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
And I did. Yeah, but like by the time it
was the party was over, I was like, I could
need everyone to go so I can take these clothes
off stat But yeah, it was. It was a good time.
And then Saturday we just were worthless. Watched the Dodgers game,
so fun, such a fun world series. I don't watch
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baseball at all but the past two years I've watched
the World Series and this one was one of the most.
It made me go, oh, baseball isn't boring if it's
a good game.
Speaker 2 (14:06):
Yeah, that's totally right. Like I always thought baseball was
so boring, and I've found myself the last this series
very invested as well.
Speaker 1 (14:15):
How do you feel about these statements of No, I
love baseball loed for my whole life, and I understand
where you're coming from.
Speaker 5 (14:21):
And I do think that the changes they've made in
recent years that you probably wouldn't notice as non fans
or casual fans, they've sped the game up a lot
and it's made it a lot more fun to watch. Well, though,
pitchclock you have to pitch within fifteen seconds of getting
that ball back. We're in the old days, good lord,
the player would step out of the box, he'd justice
batting gloves. Between every single pitch, players, the pitcher would
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take a walk behind the mound, really think about that
next pitch. And the games we're getting to be three
and a half hours long. They are again that because
the commercials that Fox adds during the World Series, but
the game itself really moves because they have to pitch.
Speaker 2 (14:54):
Yeah, and like now like the walk people. Yeah, like
before like they would intentionally walk people, but you have
to sit through for whatever how many pits to bad pitches,
so it takes up time. So I can just be like,
we're gonna walk him.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
Go, I think they've done that. For a minute.
Speaker 5 (15:07):
That's been but that's that is one of the things
that the game.
Speaker 1 (15:10):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 5 (15:11):
Also I also limit visits to the mountain too. The
coach can constantly wait.
Speaker 1 (15:16):
Was the you know the thing when the pitcher threatens
to throw the ball to second that's new too, because
or is it new that if if he does it
to three times?
Speaker 5 (15:25):
Yes, that's new as well. Same thing same trying to
speed up the game. You cannot throw to first base
more than twice. If you do a third time, you can,
but you got to get him out otherwise they get
a free base.
Speaker 1 (15:34):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (15:35):
You know.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
It was really sweet though, so I like really genuinely
got into it, and to the point where like I
put on the Dodger game one night before Robe even
got home from work and he saw on the TV
and he was like, are you watching baseball? And I
was like, yeah, I put it on don't tell any once,
like so not my brand. But we watched. We were
watching the seventh game, and we went over to his
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brother's house and we're all watching together. And then when
they won. The minute they won, he had this like
look of like like such joy and glee in his
eyes and he like kissed me like with this look
that I've never seen before, and I was like, wow,
like he loves me being a part of this like
weird sports thing that he loves so much, you know,
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And it made me like think twice about wanting to
be into sports.
Speaker 1 (16:22):
Wow, it's powerful.
Speaker 2 (16:25):
It was powerful. It was like this look in his
eye and I was like, I've never seen that before.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
Just the Dodgers winning brought out the most joyful.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
But it was the Dodgers winning and me being into
it and like being there and like experiencing it together.
Speaker 1 (16:37):
It was a moment of that he loved to have
and that you were there watching with him.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Yes, Yes, that you cared.
Speaker 1 (16:44):
Yes, So maybe you need to be into the football
games this year.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
I don't know if I can get into football, but
baseball I could do again next year maybe, and basketball
I enjoy, so maybe I can watch those with him.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
It's all that matters.
Speaker 2 (16:55):
I Yeah, I don't think I can get there with football.
I've tried. I've tried to get it up with football.
Speaker 1 (16:59):
Them. With the football thing though, is he's not just
watching his one team play a game every week. He's
watching everything because of the fantasy football thing. So you're
not getting like a one you're not rooting for one team.
Does he have a team?
Speaker 2 (17:14):
No, he has his fantasy team.
Speaker 1 (17:15):
Are you a KRM Bay fan?
Speaker 5 (17:17):
Yes, I am, thank you for asking.
Speaker 7 (17:18):
Probably.
Speaker 3 (17:19):
Does it have like a main team, No, he doesn't.
Speaker 2 (17:21):
Wow, whoever's on his fantasy team, which.
Speaker 1 (17:24):
Is so interesting a collective. It's just a collection of
different players from different teams.
Speaker 5 (17:28):
I think that's not uncommon though, people grew up in
La because there was not a team in La. Yeah
he was growing up.
Speaker 2 (17:33):
Yeah, well the Lakers. He likes the Dodgers because.
Speaker 5 (17:37):
They were here the whole time. The Rams last Yeah,
he was a kid.
Speaker 1 (17:39):
And the Chargers were in San Diego just until recently
A wrecked. Yeah, it was really fun to watch this yeraries.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
It was so fun and.
Speaker 5 (17:51):
Buffering.
Speaker 2 (17:53):
Well, I was thinking we should take a break and
then come back.
Speaker 1 (17:56):
Oh yeah, we should.
Speaker 5 (17:58):
Tease what you're going to talk about when we come back,
just kind.
Speaker 1 (18:01):
Of talking about six seven, because what does that tell you? Okay,
we'll be right back.
Speaker 2 (18:26):
We're back.
Speaker 1 (18:26):
We are back. So you and Robbie for Halloween, we're
six seven, Yes, not to be confused with sixty seven.
Speaker 2 (18:33):
Yes. So I really wanted for because we did Glenda
and Alphaba the day the weekend before Halloween. So for Halloween,
I wanted to switch and me be Alphaba and Robbie
b Glinda. He was not a fan because we were
going trick or treating with the kids and the kids'
friends and the parents, and so it was just like
too much, like for him to walk around high heels
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with like a blonde wig. It was just like too much.
So I was like, what's like a cool, fun, low
list Halloween costume. So I bought these big balloons, six
seven balloons, and we were six seven, And we surprised
the kids we like walked downstairs. One of them thought
we were super cool. One thought we were super lame.
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But I will tell you when we were taking the
kids around trigger treating, every kid that walked by us
was like six because they were giant. They were like
these giant gold numbers. We're not low key about it.
Speaker 1 (19:28):
No, they were six seven.
Speaker 2 (19:30):
Yeah, we were, and I thought it was pretty cool.
Speaker 1 (19:35):
I thought really cool. So can someone do you, now
that you've been six seven, can you describe what six
seven is?
Speaker 5 (19:42):
It's like, so, so that's not really what it is.
Speaker 1 (19:44):
Yeah, it is.
Speaker 2 (19:45):
Well, if you look at it and it's perfect.
Speaker 1 (19:46):
It is.
Speaker 5 (19:47):
It's not. Look, I've been studying six seven for a
long time because my daughter has been into it for
a long time.
Speaker 1 (19:54):
What is your research show?
Speaker 5 (19:56):
Look, it kind of means nothing, and that's what they
love about it. That's the best part is there's really
no meaning to it and it's only described as meanings.
So so when the elders try to explain it to people,
because it doesn't really have a meeting. It comes from
the song Dude by Scroll and all that stuff, but
it went from there to a basketball player kind of
use it and then it cannot went viral out of
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a basketball game doing the hand gesture for it, and
then it just exploded. But it doesn't mean anything.
Speaker 1 (20:21):
But what I'm saying is what do they say it for?
Speaker 2 (20:24):
That's what I'm saying. Like, if I'm like, oh, do
you want to go like, do you want to have
sushi tonight? And he's like, ah, six seven, not.
Speaker 5 (20:29):
How it's used. I promise you that's not how it's used.
Speaker 1 (20:33):
Can we get alf the phone.
Speaker 5 (20:35):
It's simply something funny to say, and when other people
say six seven or sixty seven or says something about
numerica like that, they all laugh and do it. It
doesn't it's not used conversationally, so like we can't.
Speaker 1 (20:49):
We can't use it casually, like it's not for us to.
Speaker 2 (20:52):
It's not a feeling that asked me how I'm feeling.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
I think if that was what it meant, there would
have been a discription for a long time.
Speaker 5 (21:00):
Ago, correct if that makes sense.
Speaker 1 (21:02):
If it was like, oh, six seven like so.
Speaker 5 (21:04):
So it's not I think that you.
Speaker 1 (21:06):
I think because it sounds like.
Speaker 5 (21:10):
Trying to look at the hand gestures you're trying to
explain some day unexplainable that.
Speaker 6 (21:15):
Your day six, that's not your I feel like there's
more energy when they say like, well, I appreciated the effort.
Speaker 1 (21:30):
I enjoyed my connect to the youth.
Speaker 2 (21:33):
Yeah, I am the youth. Yes I am, I am
the youth of a nation.
Speaker 1 (21:38):
M P O D.
Speaker 2 (21:42):
I didn't even know what I was thinking.
Speaker 3 (21:45):
With all due respect Tanya, but when the parents start
embracing this kind of thing, is this the.
Speaker 1 (21:52):
Of the end?
Speaker 5 (21:53):
Yeah? I've told this to my daughter recently because I said,
I said, just so you know, it's it's coming to
an answer. No, no, no, I think it's gonna go forever.
I'm like, trust me, millennials are about to ruin it
for you. And she's like, oh, you're right, that's what's
gonna happen.
Speaker 3 (22:07):
Millennials and corporations are rooting this.
Speaker 5 (22:09):
It's already happening. I was watching a baseball and O
six seven. My kids keeps doing six seven. I'm like,
this is when it starts to become mainstream, and that
when it's over.
Speaker 1 (22:17):
Dang.
Speaker 2 (22:18):
Two of the like really cute kids in his class
were also six seven, like the girl I think. I
was like, hey, girls, do you think they saw you?
Speaker 1 (22:25):
They're like.
Speaker 2 (22:28):
No, they're like that mom is so they were even
like oh my gosh, that's so cool.
Speaker 1 (22:33):
Or they're like.
Speaker 2 (22:35):
They're like his that mom, she she gets it, she
got it. Yeah, shes no cap.
Speaker 3 (22:44):
Cap.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
I mean, we had we had our things right. I
guess I don't the way the description of things like
there's not really a description for the things that the
youth are said in Ohio or whatever.
Speaker 2 (23:03):
Yes, no, But the thing is, I think when we
were younger, their things didn't go viral, so it wasn't
like you know what I mean, Like we would play
Sonic and Mario Brothers, so we have like this lingo
that we would do, but nothing was like virals because
we didn't have viral access to viral activities and viral
that's true.
Speaker 1 (23:20):
Our viral access is like what we saw in magazines
and like Vonda chats and juicy couture pants. Right, yeah, okay,
that's fair. So they have They're just they're just experiencing
it in a very different way.
Speaker 2 (23:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (23:34):
Yeah, and I think that's part of the part of
the joy of it.
Speaker 1 (23:41):
I like, I love Jenelfa. I think they're they're not judging,
they're not judging, and you know what, I think they're
ten not judging yet. They're not judging yet.
Speaker 2 (23:52):
Why do you learn a little from jen Alpha? Okay, boomer.
Speaker 5 (23:59):
Not a boomer?
Speaker 2 (24:00):
Aha, what are you?
Speaker 5 (24:01):
I'm an ex I'm gen.
Speaker 1 (24:02):
X Robbie is gen xer. Yeah. Yeah, Jenatha's great And
I always think about when I would we would do
things in our youth and my parents are like, I
just don't get it. And now we're those stun age.
Speaker 2 (24:15):
Of being like hot about you guys. I get it.
Speaker 1 (24:18):
You don't get it, and that's what I love, because
you have to you gotta be a part. You gotta
try to understand, you have to be a part. So
you and I both did the bird theory on our partners. Yes,
did Robbie see the camera? Like, did he see you filming?
Because he was laughing so hard that time.
Speaker 2 (24:40):
I tried to put it behind it was like I was,
it was behind my couch, behind his head, not my
best angle. I thought I was just going to use
the audio for the radio, but it was too funny,
so I was like, I'm gonna post this.
Speaker 1 (24:51):
Oh, so did he see the camera though?
Speaker 2 (24:53):
No, he didn't see that.
Speaker 1 (24:54):
No, so he just had no idea what you were doing.
Speaker 2 (24:56):
No, but his tone makes me feel like he knew
something was up.
Speaker 1 (25:01):
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (25:02):
Like with me, like there's always something up, and.
Speaker 1 (25:04):
Robbie's pretty on line with the trends. Yeah, like he's
harder to prank because going on rank. Yeah, yeah, Haley
had no idea, and she was she was in the bath,
so I had set it up on the She like
couldn't see my phone, huh, And so I was I
was asking her if she saw the bird, and then
she starts telling me about a bird. No.
Speaker 2 (25:25):
Hers is like way too innocent and sweet, I know.
Speaker 1 (25:28):
So then I got locked in on what she was
telling me about the bird she was describing and then
she was like, was it in the front or the back?
And I was like, oh wait, what am I doing?
Speaker 2 (25:37):
Oh yeah, I think if the roles were reversed and
he did the bird theory on me, I would literally
react so bad. Really yeah, because like we always have
this not like fight, but like every day at the
end of the day when we get home and we're
making dinner, we always ask each other, like He'll ask
me how my day was, and I'll go on about
my day. We talked about this in the morning, and
(25:57):
then I had this for lunch, and then Becca came
and we did the podcast. I went here, I did,
got my hair done. Oh, Tawny just said that, you know,
like I'll give him like a full play by play,
how was your day?
Speaker 1 (26:08):
It was good?
Speaker 2 (26:11):
What'd you do? I just went to work, came home.
Now I'm here. Wait, so you think it's so, I'm like,
I feel like I'm always trying to get more out
of him. So I feel like if I if he
told me like I saw bird today, I'd be like,
you're lying, Like shut up, like he's making fun of
me or something. Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (26:25):
Oh? Like you wantn't you wouldn't trust that he was
just telling you about a bird. Yeah, Oh, I see
what you're saying. So for people who don't know, because
I had a lot of people be like, what is
the bird theory? It's from us John John John Gottman.
He and his wife do like, uh, basically a couple
(26:47):
of therapy like connections and it's the concept of bids
for connections. So it basically he says that he can
tell if a couple has longevity based on this theory,
which is one partner says like a comment about seeing
a bird and how the other partner responds to it
is just he's able to tell like if they have
(27:10):
basically a future in terms of like how they can
communicate and connect with each other, and like if something
as simple as seeing a bird can like spark a
conversation an interest, So that's where it comes from. But
I haven't seen anyone like post one where it was
they were ignored or brushed off.
Speaker 2 (27:28):
You haven't seen you seen anyone post you have?
Speaker 7 (27:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (27:32):
Is it sad?
Speaker 2 (27:32):
No, it's hilarious because I think that's like totally. I
honestly feel like if the rules were reversed, I'd be like, Okay, cool,
what do you come on? What really happened with your day?
Speaker 1 (27:43):
But it's not. This is just it's the bird theory.
But it could be anything like if Robbie was like,
I saw this amazing the coolest car today, right, something
that he would care about that you wouldn't have like
red flags, you know what I'm saying, Like there's a
genuine interest in something that he cared about, and then
you just brushed them off because you didn't care. Six
(28:06):
what's for dinner?
Speaker 2 (28:07):
Six?
Speaker 1 (28:10):
But yeah, I mean I I've like read books by
John Gotman, so I believe in the bird theory.
Speaker 2 (28:17):
You do? Yeah, well, you read by John Gotman.
Speaker 1 (28:20):
Relationships relationship books like which one they're like main book,
which is like I don't know, it's probably called like
bid for Connections or something. I don't know, but I
I love like learning about that stuff because I felt
like in a lot of my relationships just in general,
(28:41):
I always lacked the communication part. So I'm really interested
in the communication of relationships personally.
Speaker 2 (28:50):
You know, are celebrating this week, what six years of dating?
Speaker 1 (28:55):
What two?
Speaker 2 (28:56):
Me and my husband.
Speaker 1 (28:59):
Six years dating?
Speaker 5 (29:00):
Wow?
Speaker 2 (29:01):
Wow, your birthday always reminds me of it because I
will never forget. At your birthday dinner six years ago,
I sat next to Ali and she was telling me
about this guy that she met on Hinge that was
so amazing, and I was like, I haven't tried that one.
Oh downloaded it that night on Halloween, the good night
after so Halloween, and then we matched on November first. Wow.
(29:26):
It's a nice memory.
Speaker 1 (29:28):
Y'all matched on November first. Wow.
Speaker 2 (29:30):
Yeah, that is crazy.
Speaker 1 (29:33):
Six years ago. Now you're married.
Speaker 2 (29:35):
Married. It's so crazy that I married. I still think
how crazy that is. Never thought i'd see the day. No,
I'm kidding.
Speaker 1 (29:46):
Oh what. We're also celebrating something very special this week. Yes,
we are Easton's birthday. Oh my god, are you turning?
Speaker 3 (30:00):
I'm going to be thirty eight years old?
Speaker 1 (30:02):
Wow.
Speaker 2 (30:03):
Wow, that's when the bones start hurting. Yeah, when the
bone matter.
Speaker 1 (30:10):
I feel like Easton has a just like young, a
youth about him. You know what I was thinking about
the other day. But oh, in Vegas yesterday I was
just like, get me back to the hotel. I need
to lay down. I'm so tired. I thought Easton and Allison,
if they were here, they would have gone to the
work thing, headed to the roller coaster, gone to somewhere
off the strip, and then like booked it to the
(30:31):
airport to get on their fight.
Speaker 2 (30:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (30:33):
I kind of embrace the life and seize the day
like Easton.
Speaker 2 (30:37):
I think it's the no alcohol.
Speaker 1 (30:39):
I didn't drink what I didn't drink yesterday?
Speaker 2 (30:42):
Did your guarden?
Speaker 1 (30:43):
No sober?
Speaker 2 (30:46):
Godspeed.
Speaker 3 (30:48):
We just went to Wilmington, North Carolina for the drama
Queen's Finale, and Allison came with me, and you've ever
we packed a lot in days.
Speaker 1 (30:57):
That y'all were on every tour.
Speaker 3 (30:59):
We went on a ghost tour, went and saw where
they filmed the Conjuring. We went to the Museum of
the Bizarre. We watched a guy swallow swords. It was great.
Speaker 5 (31:07):
It's so much fun.
Speaker 1 (31:07):
I love that. I love that about y'all, Like It's
truly such a it's such a cool thing, and I
love that you found your match and Allison, who loves
to do it.
Speaker 3 (31:18):
I know everyone in this room feels this way about
their partners, but like, there's so many moments where I'm
just like, God, there's no one else in the world
would be this excited about this but you. And I'm
so grateful that you were in my life. There's so
many moments like that with us.
Speaker 4 (31:30):
It's so I see, I feel, I feel it through
all the strips and photos and videos.
Speaker 1 (31:35):
It's really special. Well, we're happy you were born.
Speaker 3 (31:39):
Oh thank you.
Speaker 2 (31:39):
You know there's saying there's a song for every foot.
Speaker 3 (31:44):
That's right. Wait, do you know what else happening Thursday
besides my birthday? What new Hillary Duff music? Thursday Thursday?
A new single called Mature.
Speaker 1 (31:55):
Yeah, she did that.
Speaker 3 (31:56):
I think she did it intentionally. She's been getting my
letters and that's my birthday because music normally comes out
on Fridays.
Speaker 2 (32:03):
But why is she doing that.
Speaker 3 (32:05):
Because it's my birthday. I don't know why she's doing that, honestly,
but it's so exciting and I can't wait to spend
all day listening to it.
Speaker 1 (32:12):
Wait, is it not Thursday at like nine am?
Speaker 3 (32:15):
In the announcement, she says Thursday, November sixth, like and
normally when it's like Thursday nine pm, they'll they'll still
say Fridays. It's right, But she says, so, I don't
if it's gonna be Wednesday at nine pm, I don't
know what that means.
Speaker 1 (32:26):
WHOA very interesting, I'm very excited. I love Hilarya, I.
Speaker 2 (32:31):
Love Hillary daff She you know what's so fascinating to me,
She's one of those people who've like stood the test
of time, remained relevant and lovable. Yes, throughout all.
Speaker 1 (32:45):
The years, with no cancelizations.
Speaker 2 (32:48):
No cancels and no like like what she's been in
younger I loved and then she did how I Met
your Father? Yes, but like other than that, she's remained
pretty low key, yeah, but still so relevant.
Speaker 1 (33:01):
Everyone love she do that? Do you know what I
was saying, Hank and I were talking about this too,
that she like years for people joke about it now,
But when she did that commercial when someone's like that
shirt's gay or whatever, and she goes, you know, you
really shouldn't say that, and they're like, say what, She's like, Well,
saying something is gay, meaning that it's bad, and she was.
Speaker 7 (33:25):
Like ahead or she was a trailblazer for the Alley
Allies of the world, and we were just saying, like
she's just remained who she is and never got canceled.
Speaker 1 (33:37):
But everyone's always just like oneted more from her.
Speaker 3 (33:40):
Yeah, I think the closest thing and everyone was on
her side, But do you remember there was like a
paparazzi was like taking pictures of her, like her kid's
soccer game or something, and she like told him off,
Oh yeah, and everyone's like she shouldn't have acted that way,
like yeah.
Speaker 1 (33:52):
She should oh yeah, you know.
Speaker 3 (33:54):
Yeah, But that's like the closest thing. Like that's she's
so far away from like because she's such an incredible person.
Speaker 1 (34:00):
I think she I always feel very when celebrities say
something to paparazzi when their kids are involved. I'm like, yeah,
you yeah, But then when they're just like it's just
them and they're being like.
Speaker 2 (34:11):
Stop following me, okay.
Speaker 1 (34:14):
But even now I can't even know. It's so less
intense than it was during the height of like magazines
and stuff.
Speaker 2 (34:22):
Yeah, I really hope the song is good.
Speaker 3 (34:25):
How funny is it going to be if it sucks.
Speaker 2 (34:26):
Yeah, Like I really like, I'm really hoping that it's
like a banger.
Speaker 3 (34:32):
I hope so too, because I love her so much. Yeah,
but I'm not. You know, I'll say the albums she
put out diminishing returns as they went on, nothing was
as good as Metamorphosis. Yeah that was like I think
she'll say that too, you know. So I'm excited about this.
(34:52):
I'm going in with trepidation. It's her first single in
a decade.
Speaker 2 (34:56):
Crazy, I love it.
Speaker 1 (34:58):
Must be so nervous, right, Yeah, I bet I bet
she's really nervous. I'd be nervous because you watch, like
if you're an artist and you're watching other music come out,
and how people respond to the to the music, but
also the musicians and how they criticize everything.
Speaker 2 (35:18):
Yeah. Yeah, that's the thing, is like I feel like everybody,
everybody's ruthless nowadays, and.
Speaker 1 (35:27):
She's brave. Everyone's everyone's so excited to give an opinion, yes,
because if it can make you viral. It's like, I
don't care if I'm being rude, I don't care what
I'm doing. I'm just gonna give an opinion because I
know this has a chance to get on the for
you page and go viral.
Speaker 3 (35:45):
I'm excited that it's an original song and not because
she could have just re recorded come Clean and like
still yeah, yes, yeah, she could have easily done that
and it would have been a slam dunk. But this
is a risk and I like that. I think it's fun.
Speaker 1 (35:59):
I think it's that would be great. Maybe it's the
pop of the fall, I really hope. So we did
a really bad job guessing our songs of the summer.
Speaker 2 (36:07):
So them speaking of when you're saying everybody has an
opinion about something, I have like a really really hot take,
hot take.
Speaker 1 (36:20):
I have a really what's happening.
Speaker 2 (36:26):
I'm so tired today. I have a very passionate hot
take on something that happened last week that I just
want to stand on my soapbox and just say to
the people that are listening and watching. But I'm gonna
do it when we come back.
Speaker 1 (36:39):
Nice time we're back.
Speaker 2 (37:01):
I understand that none of you watch Love is Blind,
So I'm going to be speaking to myself. This is
a hyperbole.
Speaker 5 (37:08):
We talked to ourselves for gris Anatomy, Feel Free for
Love is Blind.
Speaker 2 (37:11):
So this is just to the power.
Speaker 1 (37:13):
This is the power. I'm so confused what's happening.
Speaker 2 (37:17):
This is just the powers that that. Powers that be
have a gripe with the reunion. When I'm watching a
reunion for Love Is Blind, especially, I want to get
to the meat and potatoes of what is going on
with the couples since we last left them. I do
not want to see a five minute basketball showdown between
two of the people from the cast that I did
(37:39):
not care about and some basketball star that's in the audience.
And it happened within like ten minutes of the reunion.
So this is my complaint. I just want to say
it loud and proud as a as a huge lover
of the show, fan of the show, a viewer of
the show, so excited to watch the union, and then
(38:01):
Vanessa Lasha getting involved and making her get the ring
back from the guy that was just trying to get
the ring back from the girl, and then she was
like telling him to give.
Speaker 1 (38:08):
It back to her.
Speaker 2 (38:09):
It was all that whole section of the reunion needed
to be gone.
Speaker 1 (38:13):
I agree they could have just exited. They could have
just cut that out completely and gone straight to the
point that It's just like I feel like every reunion
show does this, Like I was watching.
Speaker 2 (38:23):
Never seen this before a basketball shootout reunion.
Speaker 1 (38:27):
Were they trying to promote something right though?
Speaker 2 (38:30):
And if it was promoting something, by all means get
your money, do your thing. I'm all for money, doing
your integrations, whatever you gotta do. But this was not
I don't think unless it got to that's a very
bad one. If it was, because I did not, I
didn't leave with any lasting impression.
Speaker 1 (38:48):
They did this on Golden Bachelor Woman Tell All, which
I think I might be the only person watching the show,
but I was like the things that they were doing
updates on I was like, this is so bad. What
is happening right now? It was like someone's back spasm,
like checking in on your backspasom like into that Tanya
(39:10):
gets in the Golden batchist What did.
Speaker 2 (39:12):
She do for her backspasm? I'm like to take notes. No,
but the basketball shootout was come on.
Speaker 1 (39:18):
It just I don't get what it has to do
with the show.
Speaker 2 (39:21):
And nothing and the two people that I could care
less about.
Speaker 1 (39:24):
So did anyone have is anyone secretly together or anything?
I mean there was like some Megan have a baby.
Speaker 2 (39:31):
With she does have a baby with someone else. Crazy crazy,
But the show had been wrapped for like over a year.
Speaker 1 (39:37):
Yeah, I know.
Speaker 2 (39:38):
They so like they met him, she met him, she
went through the timeline, but it was quick. It was
like she met him two months after she broke up
at Jordan and then two months later she got pregnant.
Speaker 1 (39:46):
It's quick, she said, I'm ready. Yeah, no time to waste. No. Well,
thanks for sharing that.
Speaker 2 (39:52):
I'm sure a lot of off my chest.
Speaker 1 (39:53):
I'm sure a lot of the Love is Blind fans
feel similarly.
Speaker 2 (39:57):
It's been really bothering me.
Speaker 1 (39:58):
I feel like a lot of reunion and shows that
they don't get to anything that you want to hear about.
They just kind of gab, They talk about things you
don't care about. They do ads. It's just kind of like,
what are we doing here? I'd rather some people just
sit down on the Instagram live or TikTok live and
just hash it out, you.
Speaker 2 (40:14):
Know what I realized, Like with the Lowe Island reunions lately,
everybody's just talking about what people said on podcasts, like
it was like you went on this podcast and you
said this, You went on this podcast, and it's like
I can't even keep up.
Speaker 1 (40:28):
Well, they shouldn't let them do those until they have
to bring in I agree.
Speaker 2 (40:32):
Another note to be caught. Please lock them up from
press until after the union.
Speaker 1 (40:37):
I mean for a long time they did that. But
they want people to watch the show, so.
Speaker 2 (40:42):
So have Ariano Maddox run around.
Speaker 1 (40:44):
I agree, I agree. I'm on your side.
Speaker 2 (40:46):
Yeah, I'm happy to run around do promo for it too.
Speaker 1 (40:49):
Okay. Wait, Mark has the audio from Tanya trying the
bird theory on Robbie.
Speaker 5 (40:54):
I think Robbie passed with flying collars. You were a
little concerned about his tone.
Speaker 1 (40:58):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (40:58):
I thought he did a great job. I thought this
boded really well for your relationship. Here's Tanya testing the
bird theory. The bird test on Robbie.
Speaker 2 (41:08):
Was really good. I saw a bird in the backyard.
Speaker 5 (41:11):
In the backyard, m h, what kind.
Speaker 7 (41:13):
Of bird was?
Speaker 2 (41:14):
It was like a really pretty like red one, A
pretty red bird.
Speaker 5 (41:20):
Yes, how.
Speaker 7 (41:24):
Is it?
Speaker 5 (41:29):
What's great about it is like whatever that doctor Becca
mentioned earlier. He's turning into it. Yes, he is suspicious.
He thinks something is going on, and he thinks you're
probably full of it. But he is turning toward your
bid for attention.
Speaker 2 (41:43):
He talked about it for a long time, and he
was like, you know how Sonny always barking at the
birds in the backyard. And I was like, yeah, he is,
because there's a lot of birds in the back yard.
I forgot about that.
Speaker 1 (41:55):
You want to hear Haley's yes, I do.
Speaker 5 (41:58):
I enjoy the bird test.
Speaker 6 (42:03):
I still not burning and.
Speaker 1 (42:05):
You want us all the other day? Oh yeah, should
you look it up?
Speaker 5 (42:11):
No?
Speaker 1 (42:12):
I should?
Speaker 2 (42:13):
Why if you.
Speaker 4 (42:16):
Maybe it's just like the color or something I've never
seen before.
Speaker 7 (42:20):
Ladies a vagrant's a bigger black and task and said,
we're in.
Speaker 2 (42:26):
That strays so far well and doesn't not that.
Speaker 1 (42:32):
Is that sun? I was like that have in line
started on that?
Speaker 2 (42:43):
You say where was in there?
Speaker 1 (42:46):
But the back maybe it has a mess. Yeah, maybe
I've just never seen it before.
Speaker 5 (42:57):
Same thing turning beautiful. It's well you at the Taylor
swift makes it gives a poignancy to the whole thing.
It makes it all just kind of a moving exchange.
Speaker 3 (43:08):
It was, Yeah, it was beautiful, this like avy and vagrant.
Speaker 5 (43:12):
Yeah and if through a fan blowing right on, because.
Speaker 1 (43:16):
Yeah, I think I did have it. I just had
it under Oh it was her the bath running, the bathrun.
She was in the bathroom. I was sitting in like
the entryway, and so I just had like propped it
on the like a frame, so it's like up against
where she was.
Speaker 5 (43:31):
Taking a bath. Yeah, and she likes to have little
tailor playing while.
Speaker 1 (43:34):
She No, no, no, she was. She just likes to
talk while she She'll be like, come show me us.
Speaker 5 (43:45):
I mean, really casts a mood.
Speaker 1 (43:48):
I actually loved listening to music while I take a bath.
Speaker 2 (43:50):
So that's what that taking a bath since like twenty nineteen.
Speaker 1 (43:54):
Oh, you should look into it, I know, really relaxing.
It'd probably really be good for my bath.
Speaker 2 (43:59):
Yeah, back and just life in general.
Speaker 1 (44:01):
Mental yeah, rest facts. Yeah, well that note. I think
it's time to end this podcast.
Speaker 2 (44:13):
Tis time.
Speaker 1 (44:17):
Oh we never talked about that. Oh yeah we did,
we did all yeah, but we congratulated the Dodgers two
years in a row World Series champ the Blue There
was a to be honest, I would have been happy
if either team won wow, because I.
Speaker 2 (44:34):
Love an under story outside your door.
Speaker 1 (44:37):
I like, I like an underdog story. And I was like,
the Dodgers just have like so much more money and
power in the league, and I felt like the Blue
Jays were like this underdog and.
Speaker 5 (44:47):
It felt like yeah, and their fans were so passionate.
Speaker 1 (44:50):
I know they hadn't been there since nineteen seventy somethings
of nineteen ninety three.
Speaker 5 (44:56):
Last year, I know, it was just not an empty seat.
They even filled up the basketball arena next door people
to watch every pitch of the game. Well, Dodger Stadium.
They paned the crowd. There's so many NBCs, like, I
know they're all sold, but you wouldn't believe in many NBCs.
You see when they panned the crowd. I don't know.
I was kind. I was pulling for Toronto too.
Speaker 1 (45:13):
Yeah, it's just I'm just one of I was happy
either way, and I loved the comeback from the Dot
Like it was really cool that they just like didn't stop.
But I was, you know, it was it was sad
to watch them lose to I felt all the emissions.
Speaker 2 (45:26):
I bleed blue.
Speaker 1 (45:28):
Just kidding, Well, they're blue too, the Blue Days. We'll
be back Thursday for Easton's birthday, some games and I
don't know, just more Shenanigans.
Speaker 2 (45:45):
To play the best game ever.
Speaker 1 (45:47):
Yeah, we'll be back on Thursday. We love you, some mudy.
Speaker 5 (45:51):
Let me
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