December 1, 2022 • 41 mins
Becca and Tanya are answering questions from Scrubbers and NOTHING is off limits!
Find out Tanya’s tips to dating apps, how Becca truly feels about PDA, and what “era” our girls are living in!
Plus… the age old debate about hot dogs.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya ret An I
Heart Radio podcast. Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. It's
a Thursday episode which we haven't had in a minute.
Thursday Thursday, but instead of alcohol, we're drinking questions. Oh,
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it is also the first day of December. It should
be noted. Oh my gosh, I gotta pay my rent.
Oh my gosh, don't forget it. Oh my gosh, golly,
can you believe that my apartment complex still does checks
like we can't do direct. They don't take anything direct deposit.
They just make you write a check and put it
in the box. My apartment, my old apartment was the
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same way, and I it was horrible, honestly, it annoying.
I had to take it to the our office in
Beverly Hills. It was a very Oh my god, Yeah,
it wasn't great. Um on the first of every month,
you know, I typically got it there or by the fourth.
I'd say that. But direct deposit benefits everybody. I think
(01:13):
they if you can set it up and forget it,
then they're going to get more regular checks. No one's
going to be able to forget it. I know it's
you I'm with you. Um, well, today's episode is strictly
questions from descrubbing an instagram that you all submitted our
scrubber so um, we're just here to answer your your
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burning questions. And I don't know who's in charge of
asking the questions of us, Mark, who is and who's
doing this? I've decided I'm going to be unless anybody
wants to wrestle that away from me. Great, I would think, yeah,
but it did say that we get to choose what
we want to answer. But how fun is that? Not? Fun? Zero? Fun?
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Very last question about my g free Thanksgiving because I
was proud of it. We'll go ahead. Let's start with
that then, before we get too much farther away from Thanksgiving?
How did you go gluten free over Thanksgiving? Thank you
so much? Um. You know you'd be shocked and amazed
to realize that not everything you think is gluten is gluten.
And I really got to enjoy my Thanksgiving just song's gravy.
I had the turkey, I had mashed potatoes, I had
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uh yams like the cream yam or whatever yam smash um.
I had my salad and I had no stuffing either.
And my cranberry sauce great, So it was a success.
It was a success. I still got my whole. What
I really like is the turkey, the mashed potato, and
the cranberry together as one. And I still got that.
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So it's so good. That's like the best combo. G
Free life is the way to be. You know, I
don't think I've ever eaten more sugar gluten over that
this past weekend. I I think I genuinely altered my
body chemistry the past weekend with what I did to it.
And the world made a gluten free uh lemon pie.
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It's my favorite pie. He made a gluten free one,
and yeah, really navigated the water is nicely. Thank you
very much. I'm glad you've come around on pie. That's great.
The lemon pie in particular is amazing. Hailey made a
you know, she has all her allergy, so she made
a pie that she could eat, like a pumpkin pie.
And every year, like her last pie she made literally
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tasted like straight black pepper. We all took a bite
and we're like, what in the actual hell. And so
this year she made a pumpkin pie and so we
were just waiting. I was like waiting for everyone to
take a bite, and her mom took a bite and
was like just silently nodding her head, and Haley took
a bite and she goes the you know, the cress
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could be get the crest could use a little bit work. That, yeah,
could use a little bit of work. So it wasn't
a complete fail, but it wasn't like a success. It's
like that episode of Friends when Jenner for Jennifer Anderson
when Rachel makes the what is it called the fawn? No,
she makes like that, however, and she ends up like
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the layer cake, and she ends up the recipe stick
together and she makes half of the shepherd's pie and
half of the thing, and everybody's like grossed out eating it,
and Joey's like, what's not to love? Jam amazing custard,
great lady fingers, yum minced meat with peas and sauteped carrots. Delicious.
It isn't that the one where Ros says it tastes
like feet feet Yeah? Great episode. Great episode. All right,
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well this is kind of topical because you guys did
a lot of shows separately there for a little while
a few weeks. Anyway, what is the one thing you
missed the most about each other when the other was
on vacation and can't do the pod with you. There's
a level of like comfort, like it's like almost like
what I'm doing the podcast, I feel like it's like home.
Like it's like I know it's a job, but also
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just like it's so when when Becca is near me,
like when she's in like the spit zone, I feel
at home and I feel at peace. And when she's gone,
I don't feel that same home and that same piece. Wow,
that's so nice. Yeah, I think because we've been doing
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this for so long, there's a level of comfort that, like,
even if it's a guess that I like love and
I'm comfortable with, there's just something very like we know
the rhythm of the podcast, it's very easy, the ebb
and flow. I think it just is very comfortable. I
guess I agree, like it's a very comfy homie feeling
um when we're together as opposed to being a part.
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But when I'm not there, like i I'm never like,
oh no, Tania can't do it without me. I'm just
like she's got it unlocked. You know, I'm not worried
about I don't know, I don't worry about it, like
I don't worry when I'm gone. I just miss you
when I'm gone. You know I'm when I'm gone. You
don't miss me when I ad question? How can I
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find my person if I don't like dating apps? Oh? Well,
you know at one point Tanya too was very anti
dating apps. She was like, I'm not doing it. When
was this in two thousand nine? Roll the tape, somebody,
I know that there's a podcast if you talking about
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how you did not want to join dating apps. You
wanted to meet someone in a very natural like setting
that wasn't a dating app through a friend at a bar.
Dating apps, I didn't. I wasn't poop pooh. I was
on them all. Anyone anyone knows stuff in here? Anyone? Anyone? Anyone? Anyone?
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Anyone remember this conversation or I make it up in
my head? Or was this a conversation Dannia and I
had off the podcast? No, I mean it does ring
a bit of a bell. But the fact that she
was on them, she mustn't have been too serious about it. Yeah,
there's something about a real life meet cute. I mean,
I'm Tandy seen in a romantic comedies that you can
see why she would want that in real life. Yeah,
I think I got burnt out from the apps, and
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maybe for a while I was like, I'm done with
the apps. I can't do anymore, and I'm gonna go
oh natural with it. You know what you did, Like
you were pretty headstrong about that, and I agree, Like
I get the appeal of wanting to meet someone in
a more natural setting because I would be exhausted on
dating apps right now, to be honest, like when people
talk about it or like post some of the things
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that they see and what what people say on dating apps,
I'm like, how do you not get discouraged in this?
But Tommy and I think this is a good, um
good one for you to answer specifically, Well, I'm gonna
riddle me this. I would think about why you don't
want to be on a dating app and really assess
that question, because I think if you really want to
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find your person, you should exhaust all odds. So get
on the dating apps, give your number at the gym,
eat the barista, go to a new workout class, go
to a new Bible study, like get involved with different
places and things and like make it so where you
can bet people more naturally, but also be on the
dating app, so that way you're exhausting all options. Net
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cast a wide net, because you know what a fisherman
does with When a fisherman just has one hook, they're
going to catch catch a fish. But if you go
out with a net, you can get a whole school. Honestly, Tony,
that may have been some of your best work. That
may have been your best work. You can ride out
of my brain. It really it all made sense. That
was great, good job, Thank you, thank you. I agree.
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I think it's easy, like I said, to get discouraged,
because the thing about dating apps is it makes it
just makes it so easy to move on to the
next person. Like that, they've made it so easy for
someone to go on a date and be like, I
didn't fully like connect on every single thing. So I'm
just gonna get back on the app and swipe. But
I do think that what Tony always says, like it
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just takes one and I think if you can go
on with that mentality and also you know, put yourself
out there in the real world two off the dating apps,
I think you just expand your odds of meeting meeting
someone that song. You know, it just takes two. It
just takes one. It takes one baby what it takes
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one baby bit to make a dream come true? Yeah?
Me and me, me and you the dating app. Okay,
one more follow up question for you too. What was
the update with that sexy photo shoot? Did that ever happen? Nope,
it didn't. And you know, I wish that I had
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done it back in the time where I was like
doing pilates every day and eating healthy. But we've moved
on past that. So what what do you want to
do for that, Tony? And do you wanna let me
tell you? I you know my body right now. She
hasn't worked out in a while, she's been a little sick,
and I love her still like a raunchy foodoir. Shoot. Well,
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we can shoot your photos and then when I feel
ready for that uh that moment again, which I will eventually,
I'm sure we can do mine. But you have all
your gear ready so we can. Oh yeah, I have
some gear ready. So so is that really gonna come
to fruition or should we talk that? I would love it.
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I just need you to take the photos. I'm ready,
I'm ready. I am ready, d A re a d
y set a date, Set a date. I'll bring my
ring light and everything. Okay, so we don't have an
answer ready, Okay, I have an idea. Is it scrubbing
in appropriate? Because those I'll side bar with you later,
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dear lord. Okay, wait a minute. We'll talk about it eventually.
But I don't want to like jinx anything, you know,
surprised people with this raunchy photo. Correct, she doesn't want
there to be any mental images of it. She just
wants it to be right there for no one's going
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to see this photo maybe maybe maybe maybe not maybe Okay, alright,
moving on to some lighter stuff. How do you two
feel about p d A? Are you public displays of
affection people with your significant others? I feel like Tanya
is and Becca isn't I am? Actually are you? Yeah? Like, well,
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I mean I'm not like I try not to be gross,
like I try not to be like overdo it. But
we we are always like holding hands or touching and
we kiss, but we're not like like, I'm not extraddling
or making out anywhere. But I'm not opposed to p
d A. Okay. P d A is my love language.
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And I need it in all ways shapes and forms.
I need it in public, I need it on social
media public. I need it like and I need it
from all everybody. I need it from my significant other
like I needed from Robbie. I need it from Becca.
I need it from my friends like I need them
to show me they love me physically, publicly, emotionally, all
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the ways we're exhausted. All of us are exhausted. Oh
my wait, Becca just posted this reels of us for nothing?
How sweet is that? I have been at Tanya or
with Tanya and Robbie like me Hayley, Tanya and Robbie
where I'm sitting across or sometimes it's just me, which
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this might make it worse, and Tanya will probably like
Tanya stop, and I'm like, Tanya's reaching over, like grabbing,
can you just not yes under the table but like
not secretly. And he's stressed, So it's like I'm like,
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do I act like I'm not? Do I act like
I'm just focused on my food? Like where do I look?
You know? So she's not lying when she says she
needs it, and all public way weighs shapes and forms. Alright,
one more to wrap up segment number one of the
Human A episode. I'd like you to shoot to think
about this. You can eat one food for the rest
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of your life. Now you're not going to be considering
here the effects the health effects of this food. But
you can only eat one food for the rest of
your life. What food do you choose? Pizza? I think
that's the correct answer. I think that's what I would
go with. Pasta. Pasta was my other choice, but pizza,
I think wins. It'd be pizza for me for sure.
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You Red, it would be what was the flavor that
I told you about that I had in the Hamptons.
It was the ice cream Rocky Uh was like chocolate,
and then there's like like fudge Moose. I would have
Moose Tracks ice cream for the rest of my life. Wow. Yeah,
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probably three deals a day of Moose Tracks ice creams.
Never Moose Track, no, because it has different flavors in it.
So if I really wanted to, I could deconstruct it
and get like vanilla for breakfast and little chocolate for
lunch and then the fudge, have the fudge in for dinner.
Just still the ice cream together. Right, Like Becca, we
if we wanted to, we could just like, you know,
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do the cheese for lunch and like the like the
crust for dinner if we wanted to change it up. Okay, fine,
I'll give you that. Yeah, that's how I feel. Yeah,
but I mean I feel like we will pause, We'll
come back and look back with the next questions. I
can't wait. All right, we are back with more questions?
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Are these reflection questions? Mark? We have a couple of
reflection questions, but I thought I grouped them together. Looking
back on two and now, you've been talking about your
word for twenty three and twenty. You're refusing to share
that word with us for a one month from today.
As a matter of fact, we get to hear that word.
But looking back on twenty two, what is one word
you would use to describe your year? Now? Using the
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word you picked for this year might be a bit
of a cop out. Looking back now, with the benefit
of highesight hindsight, what word describes your twenty twenty two?
I don't even remember my word for two. Like that,
I said, so, I have no idea. My word for
two would be free. I felt very free. I feel
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like coming out with my relationship and just like living
my life and you know, setting maybe just set boundaries.
I think free encompasses at all. It's a great word,
Thank you so much. UM. So it's not that I'm
not sharing my words, just I want to leave room
in case something else, even better comes into my mind.
(16:18):
What yea. Yeah, I'm saying I'm not sharing it because
something better might like strike me the next month. So
I don't want to like say it and then like
you know, like I'm really going to decide on January
jan one on John Um. But my word for I
think would be um patient. Mm hmmm. I think I've
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been very patient this year for many in many different ways. Um,
in many ways. And patient is never something I would
have described myself as in the past. It was not
really a strong suit of mine. Um. But I feel
like I really um understood that word in a different
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way this year. I love that patient. It's a good word.
What was your word going into the year? Do you remember?
I don't, but I have it on my vision board.
I can go grab it. That's okay, all right, all right,
another looking, let me tell you what it was not.
It was not patient. Yeah, I never I never remember that.
I never remember Toronto. It was more like Toronto. It
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was more like impatient. I think it was more impatient. Yeah. Uh.
Another question kind of random, but what seasoning? If you
had to choose a seasoning from your kitchen describes your
question sounds like an Eastern question? What seasoning? M I?
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I got one? Okay. I picked tumeric because because you
can put tumeric like we put it in our in
our like taco Tuesday seasoning, like our meat seasoning. And
it's very delicious and it adds a nice flavor. So
it's delicious and it can go in many things. But
it's also good for you. And I feel like I
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was really leaning into things that are good for me
this year. Anti inflammatory properties, doesn't it? Yes? It does, baby,
And you know what we're going for anti inflammation that
spit it back out? Oh she got so close to
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do it. What was the random thing she said that
one time where she's like no, no, no, no, pay
no good. You have the same look on your face
when you were about talking about like it's like as
you know, when you're what's the word the bird circling
and then you like see where you're gonna go and
just like go down. Really horrible story about a bird.
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You just reminded me, you know, I'm talking about those
seagulls and they're gonna get the fish. Yeah, something really
tragic happened with a bird this week that you just
brought back to my memory and I just stopped thinking
about it. So thanks for that. Well, my seasoning would
be cinnamon because it's sweet and it's like sweetens things,
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but it's also kind of spicy, and I've tried to
be a little more like not spicy, but like strong
with like my words and my boundaries, which people would
say a little spicy, you know, they're like it's like
that scorpio stinger in you, you know, yeah, yeah, which
I don't really bring out that often. But um, I
like cinnamon. I like cinnamon. H thank you so much.
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And your hair kind of cinnamony. Yeah, my hair is
a little cinnamon. Uh huh. Yeah that full circle. Yeah,
while you really brought together there. All right, let's continue
reflecting not so much on the ear. This one's on
your relationship. When was the moment you two knew you
were in love with your significant other? You can do
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it in the silence, silence. When did I know that
I was in love with Haley. Yeah, the moment was there,
a moment you knew it. I always go back to
this moment we I mean, we barely had known each other,
had been like two weeks, and we had gone out
to Malibu because she had told me about her favorite
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restaurant out there. It's Malbou Seafood, and we went and
ate there, and then we were on the beach and
we were like going on a towel and I just
remember like looking at her and I was like, oh
my gosh, like this is like, this is what everyone
was talking about, this feeling. That's like a specific moment.
I remember two weeks beautiful. Um, I don't think I
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remember the exact moment. I remember like playing a card
game and it was like in the Pandemic, and I
remember playing the card game and just like in my
head thinking like, oh my gosh, I love you. But
I didn't say it to him until I remember we
were in Santa Barbara and it was May, and we
started dating in November, so it's about six months in.
Oh wow, hummus I said it to him then, and
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then he said it to me a month later. So
he said it to me seven months in. Let me
tell you that patients again to the word back to
that word patients, the brutal month. But I knew he
felt it when I knew he felt it when I
said it, but he was like just not prepared to
like say it back to me. Um. But yeah, it
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was during a card game when I think I realized it.
Just to clarify that, correct, Yeah, I like that. It
was kind of a mundane moment. Yeah, the great answers,
But that's kind of sweet, all right. And one more
in the reflective portion of the Q and a what
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era would you say you are currently living? Oh? Yeah,
that new Tan. You would be into this question. If
you have yours, you go first. I'm thinking I don't
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have it because I don't have it, but I could.
I could go with the Jeweled era. They could have
many reasons, you know, like there's many reasons, and I'll
just leave that up to everyone's minds. I think that's
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a great answer. That's a great answer, Tanya. I's believe
I'm still be jeweled and could be be jeweled, you know,
you know, yeah, yeah, yeah, we know winks. By the way,
if it was not watching the mm hmm, I'm in
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my I think I'm in my like I would say,
I'm just in my living era, and I'm about I
feel like I'm about to be in my bridesmaid era.
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That's what I feel like. I thought you were gonna say,
Diane Keaton era. What's that? Because you're like wearing that
little like Dianne. You've been like wearing like the Diane
Keaton hat, and you've been being very like, you know,
Grandma cheek. That wasn't the summer though in a minute
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is over. I don't know. I'm gonna think about that
because I like that question. I love the eras I
do too. I love that question. That was a good question.
I think I'm in my I think I think we're
in our rebrand era. Oh yeah, where are we on that?
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I don't know, but I feel like we're in and about. Yeah,
we're on the hill about okay, on the brink of change. Yes, well,
we've reflected on twenty two. The next questions are more
forward looking, and we'll get to those right after these
messages from our fantastic sponsors, all of whom are worth
(24:35):
your time, money and interest. We are back was more
forward thinking questions, according to Mark before the break, Yeah,
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I mean, it was a little bit of a stretch
get these into categories, but here we go. H Taylor
Swift will be touring in twenty three. One are the
top three songs you need her to play on the
eras tour. This woman, i assume, says, I am stressed
about hearing all of my favorites. Oh, you know what
(25:20):
I really want to hear is like the folklore evermore
songs like Invisible String and the One and Willow. Hopefully
she'll maybe do like a medley for those deserve more
than a medley. Yeah, I think live. I'm really wanting
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to hear Cruel Summer like that vibe. Are you kidding?
Like the hype in that room when Cruel Summer starts
because we've never heard it live? Eastern stressed, Yes, yes, um,
I want to hear that so bad. And then I think,
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I think be Jeweled Live will be very impactful too,
Like I just see like a lot of sparkles and
like hype in that room. And then what did I say?
So Cruel Summer, be Jeweled and all too well timid
aversion like she has to I need to, I have
to scream that. Yeah, I would say my top three
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but I mean there's way more than three that I
would need to hear. That's good though. Yeah, it's like I,
where's my laundry list? You know? But the Tanya makes
the point that there are a couple of albums have
gone by without a tour, so she's gonna have to
some of those as well. That's good, all right. Um,
if you two weren't in your current career paths, what
do you see yourself doing? Tanya, you never got into radio. Becca,
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you were on a different path than you're ever got on.
What would you have ended up doing with your life?
M I think I definitely would have done something with
kids involved, Like I honestly would like to think maybe
I would have gone back to school and done what
I was studying to do in college, which was to
be a child life specialist. I like to think I
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would have gotten to a point where I was I
wanted to get back into that because before I went
on The Bachelor and like the whole social media and
all that started, I was kind of I worked for
a chiropractor, but I wasn't really sure, like long term,
what I wanted to do. So I think I would
have liked to do that I would like to think
I would have been maybe traveling too still because that
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was always a like dream of mine. So I don't know.
I like the path I could see myself doing, like um,
like speaking engagements and like workshops and things like that,
like putting together programs or you know what I mean,
like those things that I wish I would have learned
in school that they didn't teach you, you know what
I mean, Like I could see myself doing that, like
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creating like a workshop, or like have somebody come in
that talks about like health insurance and how that works,
you know what I mean. It's like you're throwing out
of college and you have to like be a grown up,
and nobody like teaches you any of that stuff. I
feel like I was in the room when you learned
about the four one case. I forget exactly, but something
like that. Oh no, it was that you can write
off business expenses on your texas, right, I remember remember
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that day. But you're right, we don't learn that stuff.
They spent a lot of time teaching stuff in school
that you probably will never have to learn again. Like
they're teaching me about like a lion if a lion
is a bear, and a bear is a lion, then
what is an aunt? And it's like when am I
ever going to learn that? Like teach me about my
four oh one k Arizona And that was in place
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in my math class. It was like logic or something
and I was like, yeah, she does not stand for logic?
Is anti logic? Isn't like I am anti logic? I
am theological? Okay, So the lion and the lion is
a bear, then what is an aunt? Yeah? Do you
know what I'm talking about? Like those clubs, those those
classes Like an elephant can be a you know, a
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horse and a rat, but a rat can only be
a horse. Then what's a horse rat or whatever? A
horse rat? Well you're talking those logic questions and you're
just like I never no, yea lucky you went to
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a party school. One more looking forward question, what do
you imagine your friendship will be like in forty years?
The year is so it's actually interesting. I was talking
to a friend of mine the other day and I
was saying, how like I want to have a baby
at the same time as my friends have babies, So right,
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But the question is when you guys in your seventies
what's your friendship going to be? Like, I'm sure what
that was. That really just came out of left field. Um,
so we'll be seventy four seventy five respectfully. Yes, Yes,
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I was like knitting, oh, knitting, having like a knitting
club or something. I saw these women the other day
at lunch and they were probably in their like sixties
or seventies, and they had gone to we were at
Malbousie Food and they they there's like picnic tables there
and they had brought a tablecloth and had their own
wine and they were playing cards and I was like,
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it was four friends, and I was like, that is
the cutest thing. So I hope we go beyond knitting
and go to where we're like going out and doing
things and going to dinners and you know, I'm feeding
your grandchildren unhealthy snacks. It's top cats pop tarts, teaching
the young kids about butter on pop tarts, and I'm
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giving your children green juice freshly squeezed from my squeezer
farm farm guard in my garden. I don't know. I
see us being like the same, but just older, older. Yeah,
it will be a hell of a podcast by the
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different people's choice awards, we're gonna have to, like yeah,
and we'll have our podcast will be in its own studio,
and we'll have in our studio. We'll have all of
our awards. All right. Now we get to my favorite questions.
These are the three eye that made me smile. If
you two could switch lives for one day, what would
you be most excited about? I mean, I'd love to
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live back his life for a day, Like what specifically
what part of it? I'd love to sleep until ten am?
Like that would be in dream in that cozy bed
of hers, just wake up at ten am on a Tuesday.
Oh my gosh, that's like really that would be my dream,
Like I would love that, all right, that's an answer,
sleeping in it a weekday. That's good. Yeah, I think
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I would love of two. I would like to like
get up and have the energy to get as much
done as Tony gets done, like the productivity that she
has That would that intrigues me because I don't have that,
and like with the like energy and joy that she
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exudes while doing it. Well, you know, you gotta do
what you gotta do, like right, necessity creates that What
what time did you allow him go off on Monday
morning Tanya three forty. Yeah, mine was two thirty. We
don't have to get into why, but it was a
crazy day at kiss and so we are to get
(32:43):
up super super early. But you know, we wouldn't choose
to do that, We wouldn't choose to have energy doing that.
But you kind of don't have a choice. So that's
not quite a great answer. Well, not so much like
the work stuff, because I agree, like there's things that
I have to do for work that I'm not like
like I have to do them because I have to
get them done. It's not like I would do them
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without having to do that. I'm talking about just like
the the extra things that you go to the rough to,
like like my thankful turkeys. Those are a little much
personally for me, But I don't like, I don't know
if that's how I'd spend my time. I had air
pods in I had like Christmas music and my AirPods,
and Robbie was taking a nap and I was making
these like thankful turkeys, and so I guess he was
(33:26):
trying to talk to me from upstairs, but I had
my headphones and so I couldn't hear him, and and
he like, he goes, I poked my head out the
door to see where you are what you're doing, and
you're just like sitting on the dining room table with
your head bouncing around, cutting like construction paper and like
singing all the day music. And I was like, that's
pretty much my era right now. I think I'm in
(33:50):
my I think I'm in my gratitude era. Like I'm
really like I find myself being like acknowledging things out loud,
like gratitude wise, so I would saying my gratitude. I
hope I stay in this era. But anyways, I think
I would like to be Tania on the day that
she interviewed Harry Styles and then he called her that's
that's that's where. That's a great day. It was a
(34:13):
great day. If I could change. We're going to say
that you wish you could see Robbie's hands cutting like
a raw fish or something. We care about his hands,
Like yeah, And I think that's what you're thinking until
you see them. No, I think that's a good thing.
He has great hands. But I think it's good that
you love them the most. How you do, thank you?
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All right, This one's kind of silly, but it made
me smile. Please help me end this debate with my friends.
Is cereal? A soup? Is a hot dog a sandwich? No?
And no, why and why? Cereal is cereal? It is
not soup. If you go down the soup aisle at
this store, you're not going to find cereal. And a
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hot dog is not a sandwich, It's a hot dog.
If you get on the sandwich, if you go to
the story get a sandwich, You're not gonna get a
hot dog. You're gonna sandwich. You know this answer from
your is a hor If a horse is a bear
and a bear is a lion, what isn't aunt logic
to that logic is a big range. But I don't
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think cereal is a suit because, like I think of
soup is like hot and cozy, and I love Cereal
and I love soup, but I don't consider them the
same thing. The hot dog is a sandwich intrigues me
because you put the same ingredients. It's kind of like
all the same thing in between two pieces of bread
is just shaped differently. It's a hot dog, I know,
(35:43):
But the question sandwich hot dog bun is often one
piece though that has been sliced split. It's been sliced,
but not completely in half. It's not two separate slices
like a sandwich with sand in Easton. I'd like to
hear your opinion on this. I mean, I think the
hot dog is not a sandwich. I think is a
hot dog. And I don't think there's one cold soup
(36:06):
I can think of, and that's gospaco. I don't even
know what I'm saying that, right, but that's that's the
one cold soup I can name. Uh. And therefore I
don't think cereal falls into that category. Um. And I
don't think hot dog is a sandwich because you just
eat a hot dog bun is connected usually by a
by a sea hot dogza. But so if you it's
(36:29):
like a slap thing with like a thing go on.
But so what if you split that seem suddenly it's
a sandwich. Yes, Like I've made entire circumstances. I've made
a hot dog using two pieces of white bread as
the bus uh, and I still would not consider that
(36:54):
a sandwich. I think there's other factors that come into play. Uh,
Like could you if you take like two slices of
sour to bread and like tomato and cheese and lettuce,
like every sandwich factor except for add a hot dog
in as the meat. I still don't think that counts.
I think it becomes a hot dog. I'm changing my rule.
The presence of hot dog meat makes it a hot Okay,
(37:15):
that's where I was leading into. I think what it's
I think it's less about the bread and more about
the shape of the hot dog versus like deli meat.
But can't a hot dog be a type of sandwich?
You can't say, like, oh, it's not a sandwich, it's
a b LT. It's because belt it's a type of sandwich.
A hot dog could be a type of sandwich, but
you couldn't say a sandwich is a hot dog. You
(37:37):
know what I'm saying, Well, a sandwich dogwich isn't a
b LT either, it goes it's it's a category. No
BALT is a sandwich though, Yeah, I'm saying, Okay, So
the answer across the board, I think is that cereal
is not a soup. Agree with that because, by the way,
(37:58):
a soup is a liquid food made by boy think
we're simmering meat, fish or vegetables with added ingredients. So
that's not Cereal, And I think that there's probably a
better argument to say that a hot dog is a sandwich.
But I think there are two separate things, two separate entities. Yeah,
(38:18):
I think a hot dogs closely to being a sandwich
than cerealist to being a soup. I can agree to that.
All right, thank you? All right? Last question, because they
maybe laugh, Here we go. If you had to choose
a new name for each other, what would you choose
a new name for each other? Like a new name?
That's right, Becca will start with you. She is no
(38:42):
longer Tanya? What what? What should her name be? This
is so unexpected? I think, Do I just go Tanya? No,
I don't think that's a cop out? Cop out? Do
you have one for me? Tanya? It can't be Tatiana either,
(39:06):
and so I can't. I'm thinking. I'm thinking like like
Harmon or something. Okay, Karmen is nice. I could actually
hate Carmen Issa Issa? Oh wait? What Issa? Okay? Carmen
(39:26):
or Issa? All right, I'm gonna go. You know what
I see, Tanya? Is it an Izzy? Really? Yeah? Something?
It's like is he is like a like cute, like
happy name? Yeah? That would be a fun should be
a fun is He and Issa? Should that be our
(39:48):
new podcast name? Just and Izzy? Is it time with
Issa and Isy? I? Is it? Is it? Or what
is it with is He and Issa? Wow? Alright our
(40:09):
new alter egos? Yeah? Is He and Issa? I liked Carmen.
I felt Carmen was like more me was more you, Carmen. No,
I'm pretty just. I don't think I get. I don't
think I deserve like a like accent or anything. I'm
just very huh. I don't think that. I don't know
(40:33):
what that accent is. But is that it? For today?
That's it. That's our Q and A show on this
first of December. I hope everyone has a wonderful December
and December to remember, if you will, I do hope
it's a December to remember. Tanya is only just starting
the month. Is it's just starting. It's been a long day.
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She's she's she's tired, she's she's done, and we're done,
and we love you all, and we'll be back on
Monday with a new episode. Hopefully we're all back in
the student together. We belong, back in the student where
we belong. And I hope you have a wonderful weekend
(41:16):
and we love you so much. I love you, Bye bye,
Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya ret An I
Heart Radio podcast. Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. It's
a Thursday episode which we haven't had in a minute.
Thursday Thursday, but instead of alcohol, we're drinking questions. Oh,
(00:26):
it is also the first day of December. It should
be noted. Oh my gosh, I gotta pay my rent.
Oh my gosh, don't forget it. Oh my gosh, golly,
can you believe that my apartment complex still does checks
like we can't do direct. They don't take anything direct deposit.
They just make you write a check and put it
in the box. My apartment, my old apartment was the
(00:48):
same way, and I it was horrible, honestly, it annoying.
I had to take it to the our office in
Beverly Hills. It was a very Oh my god, Yeah,
it wasn't great. Um on the first of every month,
you know, I typically got it there or by the fourth.
I'd say that. But direct deposit benefits everybody. I think
(01:13):
they if you can set it up and forget it,
then they're going to get more regular checks. No one's
going to be able to forget it. I know it's
you I'm with you. Um, well, today's episode is strictly
questions from descrubbing an instagram that you all submitted our
scrubber so um, we're just here to answer your your
(01:37):
burning questions. And I don't know who's in charge of
asking the questions of us, Mark, who is and who's
doing this? I've decided I'm going to be unless anybody
wants to wrestle that away from me. Great, I would think, yeah,
but it did say that we get to choose what
we want to answer. But how fun is that? Not? Fun? Zero? Fun?
(01:58):
Very last question about my g free Thanksgiving because I
was proud of it. We'll go ahead. Let's start with
that then, before we get too much farther away from Thanksgiving?
How did you go gluten free over Thanksgiving? Thank you
so much? Um. You know you'd be shocked and amazed
to realize that not everything you think is gluten is gluten.
And I really got to enjoy my Thanksgiving just song's gravy.
I had the turkey, I had mashed potatoes, I had
(02:22):
uh yams like the cream yam or whatever yam smash um.
I had my salad and I had no stuffing either.
And my cranberry sauce great, So it was a success.
It was a success. I still got my whole. What
I really like is the turkey, the mashed potato, and
the cranberry together as one. And I still got that.
(02:43):
So it's so good. That's like the best combo. G
Free life is the way to be. You know, I
don't think I've ever eaten more sugar gluten over that
this past weekend. I I think I genuinely altered my
body chemistry the past weekend with what I did to it.
And the world made a gluten free uh lemon pie.
(03:05):
It's my favorite pie. He made a gluten free one,
and yeah, really navigated the water is nicely. Thank you
very much. I'm glad you've come around on pie. That's great.
The lemon pie in particular is amazing. Hailey made a
you know, she has all her allergy, so she made
a pie that she could eat, like a pumpkin pie.
And every year, like her last pie she made literally
(03:26):
tasted like straight black pepper. We all took a bite
and we're like, what in the actual hell. And so
this year she made a pumpkin pie and so we
were just waiting. I was like waiting for everyone to
take a bite, and her mom took a bite and
was like just silently nodding her head, and Haley took
a bite and she goes the you know, the cress
(03:48):
could be get the crest could use a little bit work. That, yeah,
could use a little bit of work. So it wasn't
a complete fail, but it wasn't like a success. It's
like that episode of Friends when Jenner for Jennifer Anderson
when Rachel makes the what is it called the fawn? No,
she makes like that, however, and she ends up like
(04:11):
the layer cake, and she ends up the recipe stick
together and she makes half of the shepherd's pie and
half of the thing, and everybody's like grossed out eating it,
and Joey's like, what's not to love? Jam amazing custard,
great lady fingers, yum minced meat with peas and sauteped carrots. Delicious.
It isn't that the one where Ros says it tastes
like feet feet Yeah? Great episode. Great episode. All right,
(04:37):
well this is kind of topical because you guys did
a lot of shows separately there for a little while
a few weeks. Anyway, what is the one thing you
missed the most about each other when the other was
on vacation and can't do the pod with you. There's
a level of like comfort, like it's like almost like
what I'm doing the podcast, I feel like it's like home.
Like it's like I know it's a job, but also
(04:57):
just like it's so when when Becca is near me,
like when she's in like the spit zone, I feel
at home and I feel at peace. And when she's gone,
I don't feel that same home and that same piece. Wow,
that's so nice. Yeah, I think because we've been doing
(05:18):
this for so long, there's a level of comfort that, like,
even if it's a guess that I like love and
I'm comfortable with, there's just something very like we know
the rhythm of the podcast, it's very easy, the ebb
and flow. I think it just is very comfortable. I
guess I agree, like it's a very comfy homie feeling
um when we're together as opposed to being a part.
(05:39):
But when I'm not there, like i I'm never like,
oh no, Tania can't do it without me. I'm just
like she's got it unlocked. You know, I'm not worried
about I don't know, I don't worry about it, like
I don't worry when I'm gone. I just miss you
when I'm gone. You know I'm when I'm gone. You
don't miss me when I ad question? How can I
(06:01):
find my person if I don't like dating apps? Oh? Well,
you know at one point Tanya too was very anti
dating apps. She was like, I'm not doing it. When
was this in two thousand nine? Roll the tape, somebody,
I know that there's a podcast if you talking about
(06:23):
how you did not want to join dating apps. You
wanted to meet someone in a very natural like setting
that wasn't a dating app through a friend at a bar.
Dating apps, I didn't. I wasn't poop pooh. I was
on them all. Anyone anyone knows stuff in here? Anyone? Anyone? Anyone? Anyone?
(06:47):
Anyone remember this conversation or I make it up in
my head? Or was this a conversation Dannia and I
had off the podcast? No, I mean it does ring
a bit of a bell. But the fact that she
was on them, she mustn't have been too serious about it. Yeah,
there's something about a real life meet cute. I mean,
I'm Tandy seen in a romantic comedies that you can
see why she would want that in real life. Yeah,
I think I got burnt out from the apps, and
(07:09):
maybe for a while I was like, I'm done with
the apps. I can't do anymore, and I'm gonna go
oh natural with it. You know what you did, Like
you were pretty headstrong about that, and I agree, Like
I get the appeal of wanting to meet someone in
a more natural setting because I would be exhausted on
dating apps right now, to be honest, like when people
talk about it or like post some of the things
(07:31):
that they see and what what people say on dating apps,
I'm like, how do you not get discouraged in this?
But Tommy and I think this is a good, um
good one for you to answer specifically, Well, I'm gonna
riddle me this. I would think about why you don't
want to be on a dating app and really assess
that question, because I think if you really want to
(07:54):
find your person, you should exhaust all odds. So get
on the dating apps, give your number at the gym,
eat the barista, go to a new workout class, go
to a new Bible study, like get involved with different
places and things and like make it so where you
can bet people more naturally, but also be on the
dating app, so that way you're exhausting all options. Net
(08:16):
cast a wide net, because you know what a fisherman
does with When a fisherman just has one hook, they're
going to catch catch a fish. But if you go
out with a net, you can get a whole school. Honestly, Tony,
that may have been some of your best work. That
may have been your best work. You can ride out
of my brain. It really it all made sense. That
was great, good job, Thank you, thank you. I agree.
(08:38):
I think it's easy, like I said, to get discouraged,
because the thing about dating apps is it makes it
just makes it so easy to move on to the
next person. Like that, they've made it so easy for
someone to go on a date and be like, I
didn't fully like connect on every single thing. So I'm
just gonna get back on the app and swipe. But
I do think that what Tony always says, like it
(08:59):
just takes one and I think if you can go
on with that mentality and also you know, put yourself
out there in the real world two off the dating apps,
I think you just expand your odds of meeting meeting
someone that song. You know, it just takes two. It
just takes one. It takes one baby what it takes
(09:21):
one baby bit to make a dream come true? Yeah?
Me and me, me and you the dating app. Okay,
one more follow up question for you too. What was
the update with that sexy photo shoot? Did that ever happen? Nope,
it didn't. And you know, I wish that I had
(09:44):
done it back in the time where I was like
doing pilates every day and eating healthy. But we've moved
on past that. So what what do you want to
do for that, Tony? And do you wanna let me
tell you? I you know my body right now. She
hasn't worked out in a while, she's been a little sick,
and I love her still like a raunchy foodoir. Shoot. Well,
(10:11):
we can shoot your photos and then when I feel
ready for that uh that moment again, which I will eventually,
I'm sure we can do mine. But you have all
your gear ready so we can. Oh yeah, I have
some gear ready. So so is that really gonna come
to fruition or should we talk that? I would love it.
(10:31):
I just need you to take the photos. I'm ready,
I'm ready. I am ready, d A re a d
y set a date, Set a date. I'll bring my
ring light and everything. Okay, so we don't have an
answer ready, Okay, I have an idea. Is it scrubbing
in appropriate? Because those I'll side bar with you later,
(10:55):
dear lord. Okay, wait a minute. We'll talk about it eventually.
But I don't want to like jinx anything, you know,
surprised people with this raunchy photo. Correct, she doesn't want
there to be any mental images of it. She just
wants it to be right there for no one's going
(11:16):
to see this photo maybe maybe maybe maybe not maybe Okay, alright,
moving on to some lighter stuff. How do you two
feel about p d A? Are you public displays of
affection people with your significant others? I feel like Tanya
is and Becca isn't I am? Actually are you? Yeah? Like, well,
(11:37):
I mean I'm not like I try not to be gross,
like I try not to be like overdo it. But
we we are always like holding hands or touching and
we kiss, but we're not like like, I'm not extraddling
or making out anywhere. But I'm not opposed to p
d A. Okay. P d A is my love language.
(12:00):
And I need it in all ways shapes and forms.
I need it in public, I need it on social
media public. I need it like and I need it
from all everybody. I need it from my significant other
like I needed from Robbie. I need it from Becca.
I need it from my friends like I need them
to show me they love me physically, publicly, emotionally, all
(12:23):
the ways we're exhausted. All of us are exhausted. Oh
my wait, Becca just posted this reels of us for nothing?
How sweet is that? I have been at Tanya or
with Tanya and Robbie like me Hayley, Tanya and Robbie
where I'm sitting across or sometimes it's just me, which
(12:45):
this might make it worse, and Tanya will probably like
Tanya stop, and I'm like, Tanya's reaching over, like grabbing,
can you just not yes under the table but like
not secretly. And he's stressed, So it's like I'm like,
(13:06):
do I act like I'm not? Do I act like
I'm just focused on my food? Like where do I look?
You know? So she's not lying when she says she
needs it, and all public way weighs shapes and forms. Alright,
one more to wrap up segment number one of the
Human A episode. I'd like you to shoot to think
about this. You can eat one food for the rest
(13:28):
of your life. Now you're not going to be considering
here the effects the health effects of this food. But
you can only eat one food for the rest of
your life. What food do you choose? Pizza? I think
that's the correct answer. I think that's what I would
go with. Pasta. Pasta was my other choice, but pizza,
I think wins. It'd be pizza for me for sure.
(13:52):
You Red, it would be what was the flavor that
I told you about that I had in the Hamptons.
It was the ice cream Rocky Uh was like chocolate,
and then there's like like fudge Moose. I would have
Moose Tracks ice cream for the rest of my life. Wow. Yeah,
(14:16):
probably three deals a day of Moose Tracks ice creams.
Never Moose Track, no, because it has different flavors in it.
So if I really wanted to, I could deconstruct it
and get like vanilla for breakfast and little chocolate for
lunch and then the fudge, have the fudge in for dinner.
Just still the ice cream together. Right, Like Becca, we
if we wanted to, we could just like, you know,
(14:37):
do the cheese for lunch and like the like the
crust for dinner if we wanted to change it up. Okay, fine,
I'll give you that. Yeah, that's how I feel. Yeah,
but I mean I feel like we will pause, We'll
come back and look back with the next questions. I
can't wait. All right, we are back with more questions?
(15:12):
Are these reflection questions? Mark? We have a couple of
reflection questions, but I thought I grouped them together. Looking
back on two and now, you've been talking about your
word for twenty three and twenty. You're refusing to share
that word with us for a one month from today.
As a matter of fact, we get to hear that word.
But looking back on twenty two, what is one word
you would use to describe your year? Now? Using the
(15:33):
word you picked for this year might be a bit
of a cop out. Looking back now, with the benefit
of highesight hindsight, what word describes your twenty twenty two?
I don't even remember my word for two. Like that,
I said, so, I have no idea. My word for
two would be free. I felt very free. I feel
(15:54):
like coming out with my relationship and just like living
my life and you know, setting maybe just set boundaries.
I think free encompasses at all. It's a great word,
Thank you so much. UM. So it's not that I'm
not sharing my words, just I want to leave room
in case something else, even better comes into my mind.
(16:18):
What yea. Yeah, I'm saying I'm not sharing it because
something better might like strike me the next month. So
I don't want to like say it and then like
you know, like I'm really going to decide on January
jan one on John Um. But my word for I
think would be um patient. Mm hmmm. I think I've
(16:44):
been very patient this year for many in many different ways. Um,
in many ways. And patient is never something I would
have described myself as in the past. It was not
really a strong suit of mine. Um. But I feel
like I really um understood that word in a different
(17:07):
way this year. I love that patient. It's a good word.
What was your word going into the year? Do you remember?
I don't, but I have it on my vision board.
I can go grab it. That's okay, all right, all right,
another looking, let me tell you what it was not.
It was not patient. Yeah, I never I never remember that.
I never remember Toronto. It was more like Toronto. It
(17:31):
was more like impatient. I think it was more impatient. Yeah. Uh.
Another question kind of random, but what seasoning? If you
had to choose a seasoning from your kitchen describes your
question sounds like an Eastern question? What seasoning? M I?
(18:02):
I got one? Okay. I picked tumeric because because you
can put tumeric like we put it in our in
our like taco Tuesday seasoning, like our meat seasoning. And
it's very delicious and it adds a nice flavor. So
it's delicious and it can go in many things. But
it's also good for you. And I feel like I
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was really leaning into things that are good for me
this year. Anti inflammatory properties, doesn't it? Yes? It does, baby,
And you know what we're going for anti inflammation that
spit it back out? Oh she got so close to
(18:44):
do it. What was the random thing she said that
one time where she's like no, no, no, no, pay
no good. You have the same look on your face
when you were about talking about like it's like as
you know, when you're what's the word the bird circling
and then you like see where you're gonna go and
just like go down. Really horrible story about a bird.
(19:06):
You just reminded me, you know, I'm talking about those
seagulls and they're gonna get the fish. Yeah, something really
tragic happened with a bird this week that you just
brought back to my memory and I just stopped thinking
about it. So thanks for that. Well, my seasoning would
be cinnamon because it's sweet and it's like sweetens things,
(19:32):
but it's also kind of spicy, and I've tried to
be a little more like not spicy, but like strong
with like my words and my boundaries, which people would
say a little spicy, you know, they're like it's like
that scorpio stinger in you, you know, yeah, yeah, which
I don't really bring out that often. But um, I
like cinnamon. I like cinnamon. H thank you so much.
(19:55):
And your hair kind of cinnamony. Yeah, my hair is
a little cinnamon. Uh huh. Yeah that full circle. Yeah,
while you really brought together there. All right, let's continue
reflecting not so much on the ear. This one's on
your relationship. When was the moment you two knew you
were in love with your significant other? You can do
(20:19):
it in the silence, silence. When did I know that
I was in love with Haley. Yeah, the moment was there,
a moment you knew it. I always go back to
this moment we I mean, we barely had known each other,
had been like two weeks, and we had gone out
to Malibu because she had told me about her favorite
(20:41):
restaurant out there. It's Malbou Seafood, and we went and
ate there, and then we were on the beach and
we were like going on a towel and I just
remember like looking at her and I was like, oh
my gosh, like this is like, this is what everyone
was talking about, this feeling. That's like a specific moment.
I remember two weeks beautiful. Um, I don't think I
(21:07):
remember the exact moment. I remember like playing a card
game and it was like in the Pandemic, and I
remember playing the card game and just like in my
head thinking like, oh my gosh, I love you. But
I didn't say it to him until I remember we
were in Santa Barbara and it was May, and we
started dating in November, so it's about six months in.
Oh wow, hummus I said it to him then, and
(21:28):
then he said it to me a month later. So
he said it to me seven months in. Let me
tell you that patients again to the word back to
that word patients, the brutal month. But I knew he
felt it when I knew he felt it when I
said it, but he was like just not prepared to
like say it back to me. Um. But yeah, it
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was during a card game when I think I realized it.
Just to clarify that, correct, Yeah, I like that. It
was kind of a mundane moment. Yeah, the great answers,
But that's kind of sweet, all right. And one more
in the reflective portion of the Q and a what
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era would you say you are currently living? Oh? Yeah,
that new Tan. You would be into this question. If
you have yours, you go first. I'm thinking I don't
(22:29):
have it because I don't have it, but I could.
I could go with the Jeweled era. They could have
many reasons, you know, like there's many reasons, and I'll
just leave that up to everyone's minds. I think that's
(22:49):
a great answer. That's a great answer, Tanya. I's believe
I'm still be jeweled and could be be jeweled, you know,
you know, yeah, yeah, yeah, we know winks. By the way,
if it was not watching the mm hmm, I'm in
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my I think I'm in my like I would say,
I'm just in my living era, and I'm about I
feel like I'm about to be in my bridesmaid era.
(23:32):
That's what I feel like. I thought you were gonna say,
Diane Keaton era. What's that? Because you're like wearing that
little like Dianne. You've been like wearing like the Diane
Keaton hat, and you've been being very like, you know,
Grandma cheek. That wasn't the summer though in a minute
(23:55):
is over. I don't know. I'm gonna think about that
because I like that question. I love the eras I
do too. I love that question. That was a good question.
I think I'm in my I think I think we're
in our rebrand era. Oh yeah, where are we on that?
(24:15):
I don't know, but I feel like we're in and about. Yeah,
we're on the hill about okay, on the brink of change. Yes, well,
we've reflected on twenty two. The next questions are more
forward looking, and we'll get to those right after these
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(24:35):
your time, money and interest. We are back was more
forward thinking questions, according to Mark before the break, Yeah,
(24:58):
I mean, it was a little bit of a stretch
get these into categories, but here we go. H Taylor
Swift will be touring in twenty three. One are the
top three songs you need her to play on the
eras tour. This woman, i assume, says, I am stressed
about hearing all of my favorites. Oh, you know what
(25:20):
I really want to hear is like the folklore evermore
songs like Invisible String and the One and Willow. Hopefully
she'll maybe do like a medley for those deserve more
than a medley. Yeah, I think live. I'm really wanting
(25:41):
to hear Cruel Summer like that vibe. Are you kidding?
Like the hype in that room when Cruel Summer starts
because we've never heard it live? Eastern stressed, Yes, yes, um,
I want to hear that so bad. And then I think,
(26:02):
I think be Jeweled Live will be very impactful too,
Like I just see like a lot of sparkles and
like hype in that room. And then what did I say?
So Cruel Summer, be Jeweled and all too well timid
aversion like she has to I need to, I have
to scream that. Yeah, I would say my top three
(26:23):
but I mean there's way more than three that I
would need to hear. That's good though. Yeah, it's like I,
where's my laundry list? You know? But the Tanya makes
the point that there are a couple of albums have
gone by without a tour, so she's gonna have to
some of those as well. That's good, all right. Um,
if you two weren't in your current career paths, what
do you see yourself doing? Tanya, you never got into radio. Becca,
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you were on a different path than you're ever got on.
What would you have ended up doing with your life?
M I think I definitely would have done something with
kids involved, Like I honestly would like to think maybe
I would have gone back to school and done what
I was studying to do in college, which was to
be a child life specialist. I like to think I
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would have gotten to a point where I was I
wanted to get back into that because before I went
on The Bachelor and like the whole social media and
all that started, I was kind of I worked for
a chiropractor, but I wasn't really sure, like long term,
what I wanted to do. So I think I would
have liked to do that I would like to think
I would have been maybe traveling too still because that
(27:28):
was always a like dream of mine. So I don't know.
I like the path I could see myself doing, like um,
like speaking engagements and like workshops and things like that,
like putting together programs or you know what I mean,
like those things that I wish I would have learned
in school that they didn't teach you, you know what
I mean, Like I could see myself doing that, like
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creating like a workshop, or like have somebody come in
that talks about like health insurance and how that works,
you know what I mean. It's like you're throwing out
of college and you have to like be a grown up,
and nobody like teaches you any of that stuff. I
feel like I was in the room when you learned
about the four one case. I forget exactly, but something
like that. Oh no, it was that you can write
off business expenses on your texas, right, I remember remember
(28:13):
that day. But you're right, we don't learn that stuff.
They spent a lot of time teaching stuff in school
that you probably will never have to learn again. Like
they're teaching me about like a lion if a lion
is a bear, and a bear is a lion, then
what is an aunt? And it's like when am I
ever going to learn that? Like teach me about my
four oh one k Arizona And that was in place
(28:33):
in my math class. It was like logic or something
and I was like, yeah, she does not stand for logic?
Is anti logic? Isn't like I am anti logic? I
am theological? Okay, So the lion and the lion is
a bear, then what is an aunt? Yeah? Do you
know what I'm talking about? Like those clubs, those those
classes Like an elephant can be a you know, a
(28:54):
horse and a rat, but a rat can only be
a horse. Then what's a horse rat or whatever? A
horse rat? Well you're talking those logic questions and you're
just like I never no, yea lucky you went to
(29:15):
a party school. One more looking forward question, what do
you imagine your friendship will be like in forty years?
The year is so it's actually interesting. I was talking
to a friend of mine the other day and I
was saying, how like I want to have a baby
at the same time as my friends have babies, So right,
(29:41):
But the question is when you guys in your seventies
what's your friendship going to be? Like, I'm sure what
that was. That really just came out of left field. Um,
so we'll be seventy four seventy five respectfully. Yes, Yes,
(30:07):
I was like knitting, oh, knitting, having like a knitting
club or something. I saw these women the other day
at lunch and they were probably in their like sixties
or seventies, and they had gone to we were at
Malbousie Food and they they there's like picnic tables there
and they had brought a tablecloth and had their own
wine and they were playing cards and I was like,
(30:29):
it was four friends, and I was like, that is
the cutest thing. So I hope we go beyond knitting
and go to where we're like going out and doing
things and going to dinners and you know, I'm feeding
your grandchildren unhealthy snacks. It's top cats pop tarts, teaching
the young kids about butter on pop tarts, and I'm
(30:51):
giving your children green juice freshly squeezed from my squeezer
farm farm guard in my garden. I don't know. I
see us being like the same, but just older, older. Yeah,
it will be a hell of a podcast by the
(31:13):
different people's choice awards, we're gonna have to, like yeah,
and we'll have our podcast will be in its own studio,
and we'll have in our studio. We'll have all of
our awards. All right. Now we get to my favorite questions.
These are the three eye that made me smile. If
you two could switch lives for one day, what would
you be most excited about? I mean, I'd love to
(31:37):
live back his life for a day, Like what specifically
what part of it? I'd love to sleep until ten am?
Like that would be in dream in that cozy bed
of hers, just wake up at ten am on a Tuesday.
Oh my gosh, that's like really that would be my dream,
Like I would love that, all right, that's an answer,
sleeping in it a weekday. That's good. Yeah, I think
(31:59):
I would love of two. I would like to like
get up and have the energy to get as much
done as Tony gets done, like the productivity that she
has That would that intrigues me because I don't have that,
and like with the like energy and joy that she
(32:21):
exudes while doing it. Well, you know, you gotta do
what you gotta do, like right, necessity creates that What
what time did you allow him go off on Monday
morning Tanya three forty. Yeah, mine was two thirty. We
don't have to get into why, but it was a
crazy day at kiss and so we are to get
(32:43):
up super super early. But you know, we wouldn't choose
to do that, We wouldn't choose to have energy doing that.
But you kind of don't have a choice. So that's
not quite a great answer. Well, not so much like
the work stuff, because I agree, like there's things that
I have to do for work that I'm not like
like I have to do them because I have to
get them done. It's not like I would do them
(33:05):
without having to do that. I'm talking about just like
the the extra things that you go to the rough to,
like like my thankful turkeys. Those are a little much
personally for me, But I don't like, I don't know
if that's how I'd spend my time. I had air
pods in I had like Christmas music and my AirPods,
and Robbie was taking a nap and I was making
these like thankful turkeys, and so I guess he was
(33:26):
trying to talk to me from upstairs, but I had
my headphones and so I couldn't hear him, and and
he like, he goes, I poked my head out the
door to see where you are what you're doing, and
you're just like sitting on the dining room table with
your head bouncing around, cutting like construction paper and like
singing all the day music. And I was like, that's
pretty much my era right now. I think I'm in
(33:50):
my I think I'm in my gratitude era. Like I'm
really like I find myself being like acknowledging things out loud,
like gratitude wise, so I would saying my gratitude. I
hope I stay in this era. But anyways, I think
I would like to be Tania on the day that
she interviewed Harry Styles and then he called her that's
that's that's where. That's a great day. It was a
(34:13):
great day. If I could change. We're going to say
that you wish you could see Robbie's hands cutting like
a raw fish or something. We care about his hands,
Like yeah, And I think that's what you're thinking until
you see them. No, I think that's a good thing.
He has great hands. But I think it's good that
you love them the most. How you do, thank you?
(34:35):
All right, This one's kind of silly, but it made
me smile. Please help me end this debate with my friends.
Is cereal? A soup? Is a hot dog a sandwich? No?
And no, why and why? Cereal is cereal? It is
not soup. If you go down the soup aisle at
this store, you're not going to find cereal. And a
(34:56):
hot dog is not a sandwich, It's a hot dog.
If you get on the sandwich, if you go to
the story get a sandwich, You're not gonna get a
hot dog. You're gonna sandwich. You know this answer from
your is a hor If a horse is a bear
and a bear is a lion, what isn't aunt logic
to that logic is a big range. But I don't
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think cereal is a suit because, like I think of
soup is like hot and cozy, and I love Cereal
and I love soup, but I don't consider them the
same thing. The hot dog is a sandwich intrigues me
because you put the same ingredients. It's kind of like
all the same thing in between two pieces of bread
is just shaped differently. It's a hot dog, I know,
(35:43):
But the question sandwich hot dog bun is often one
piece though that has been sliced split. It's been sliced,
but not completely in half. It's not two separate slices
like a sandwich with sand in Easton. I'd like to
hear your opinion on this. I mean, I think the
hot dog is not a sandwich. I think is a
hot dog. And I don't think there's one cold soup
(36:06):
I can think of, and that's gospaco. I don't even
know what I'm saying that, right, but that's that's the
one cold soup I can name. Uh. And therefore I
don't think cereal falls into that category. Um. And I
don't think hot dog is a sandwich because you just
eat a hot dog bun is connected usually by a
by a sea hot dogza. But so if you it's
(36:29):
like a slap thing with like a thing go on.
But so what if you split that seem suddenly it's
a sandwich. Yes, Like I've made entire circumstances. I've made
a hot dog using two pieces of white bread as
the bus uh, and I still would not consider that
(36:54):
a sandwich. I think there's other factors that come into play. Uh,
Like could you if you take like two slices of
sour to bread and like tomato and cheese and lettuce,
like every sandwich factor except for add a hot dog
in as the meat. I still don't think that counts.
I think it becomes a hot dog. I'm changing my rule.
The presence of hot dog meat makes it a hot Okay,
(37:15):
that's where I was leading into. I think what it's
I think it's less about the bread and more about
the shape of the hot dog versus like deli meat.
But can't a hot dog be a type of sandwich?
You can't say, like, oh, it's not a sandwich, it's
a b LT. It's because belt it's a type of sandwich.
A hot dog could be a type of sandwich, but
you couldn't say a sandwich is a hot dog. You
(37:37):
know what I'm saying, Well, a sandwich dogwich isn't a
b LT either, it goes it's it's a category. No
BALT is a sandwich though, Yeah, I'm saying, Okay, So
the answer across the board, I think is that cereal
is not a soup. Agree with that because, by the way,
(37:58):
a soup is a liquid food made by boy think
we're simmering meat, fish or vegetables with added ingredients. So
that's not Cereal, And I think that there's probably a
better argument to say that a hot dog is a sandwich.
But I think there are two separate things, two separate entities. Yeah,
(38:18):
I think a hot dogs closely to being a sandwich
than cerealist to being a soup. I can agree to that.
All right, thank you? All right? Last question, because they
maybe laugh, Here we go. If you had to choose
a new name for each other, what would you choose
a new name for each other? Like a new name?
That's right, Becca will start with you. She is no
(38:42):
longer Tanya? What what? What should her name be? This
is so unexpected? I think, Do I just go Tanya? No,
I don't think that's a cop out? Cop out? Do
you have one for me? Tanya? It can't be Tatiana either,
(39:06):
and so I can't. I'm thinking. I'm thinking like like
Harmon or something. Okay, Karmen is nice. I could actually
hate Carmen Issa Issa? Oh wait? What Issa? Okay? Carmen
(39:26):
or Issa? All right, I'm gonna go. You know what
I see, Tanya? Is it an Izzy? Really? Yeah? Something?
It's like is he is like a like cute, like
happy name? Yeah? That would be a fun should be
a fun is He and Issa? Should that be our
(39:48):
new podcast name? Just and Izzy? Is it time with
Issa and Isy? I? Is it? Is it? Or what
is it with is He and Issa? Wow? Alright our
(40:09):
new alter egos? Yeah? Is He and Issa? I liked Carmen.
I felt Carmen was like more me was more you, Carmen. No,
I'm pretty just. I don't think I get. I don't
think I deserve like a like accent or anything. I'm
just very huh. I don't think that. I don't know
(40:33):
what that accent is. But is that it? For today?
That's it. That's our Q and A show on this
first of December. I hope everyone has a wonderful December
and December to remember, if you will, I do hope
it's a December to remember. Tanya is only just starting
the month. Is it's just starting. It's been a long day.
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She's she's she's tired, she's she's done, and we're done,
and we love you all, and we'll be back on
Monday with a new episode. Hopefully we're all back in
the student together. We belong, back in the student where
we belong. And I hope you have a wonderful weekend
(41:16):
and we love you so much. I love you, Bye bye,
Hosts And Creators
Tanya Rad
Rebecca Tilley
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