Ep. 30 Breaking Wind & Breaking Away

After a whole weekend apart, Doctors Becca and Tanya reconvene to compare notes from the last few days. Then, both Becca and Tanya get a revealing look at their lives, from Mystic Michaela, and they hear why Becca might be better suited with a “green” person. And the emails have been pouring in, so the doctors give their diagnosis on what to do if your date suggests going to the gym, and whether it’s good to prescribe a year off of dating.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and I Heart Radio podcast.
Good morning everybody, it's still morning, right, we're scrubbing in.
I am I Will. Woke up with construction outside my
window at seven am this morning, and it literally I
thought they were coming into my window. Oh that's the worst. Yeah,

(00:24):
I feel out of it today. I am brutal. Man.
Tania wakes up at like four in the morning, so
she was like rolling her eyes at me right now.
But I am a brutal It is. It is when
you go to sleep at one thirty am. Um, how
is Coachella? Oh my god, so good. I'm so sad.
I almost had Becca. I almost had her on Saturday.

(00:46):
I literally was packing a bag to drive up, but
I couldn't find a ticket last minute. But you did
get a ticket and I said, just no, I couldn't
by the time I want. Yeah, yeah, I was gonna
We're gonna frolic Her and watched Beyonce together. Yeah I know.
I Actually I really missed you this weekend. I missed you.

(01:07):
I was texting her the whole weekend saying like I
wish you were here because I had, like we had
a house and the bed that I had in my
room was huge. You could have easily fit in it.
And I had my own and I had my own bathroom,
so like I had this whole like section and I
didn't have like a buddy. I know. I feel like
I was like I like and she like. We did

(01:30):
texts all weeken, but it wasn't as like consistent as
you normally are because it was only because of the service. Okay, yeah,
it was like, oh, my bud's gone. I know, Sad,
I really wish you would have been there. Yeah, it
looked amazing. I did watch the Beyonce live stream, which
I almost was like, this is really cool watching it

(01:51):
because I saw it up close on that my Giant TV.
I watched it Sunday night from my house, and I
was like, this is actually way better for you than
I had the show. I'm sure like the energy of
being there was amazing, but it was really she's have
you been to Coachella before, Becca or is it not
your vibe? I did. I went last year. But here's
the thing, this is my deal with Coachella. I went

(02:12):
for work, and so the whole time it was like
going to parties and events and like having to post
certain pictures at certain times, and I think that aspect
of it. I didn't love that, Like, if I were
to go, I'd want to go layout by the pool
a day, get ready to go to the show, and
not have to worry about like taking photos, being in
like the perfect outfit. You know. Yeah, it is like

(02:35):
a lot because I go for work also and it
is very stressful, like trying to like get everything done.
So we were trying to get everything done during the day.
So I was going to festival, like I got there
before the gates opened on but that's just in general,
there's an event, she's there before the doors open, but
we were there before the doors up, and so we
wanted to get like a ton of stuff done, like

(02:56):
when it was like light out and it was just
like it was a lot and the best celebrity siding
of the weekend Jackson Avery, But why don't you talk
to him? So I remember Becca has had a run
in with Jackson a very before. Yeah, and so I
just go and mentally all this is going through my

(03:16):
head because I was like, should Air drop him, should
I talk to him? Should I get a photo? I know?
And then my boss was with my boss and Beaudle
was like, just pretend he's a hot guy at Coachell
and you don't even know who he is. I'm like,
I can't pretend that he's a hot guy. So I
decided to just just forego and I didn't ask him
for anything because I just didn't want to taint like
the sweet image I have in my head of him.

(03:39):
But it's tainted, right because Becca had chalk it up
to a bad day. But if he was double do
you remember, like even at the Paley Fest thing we did,
he just like blocked. He just has a too. But
you also had a great experience with Ellen Pompeio and
we had that caller who told us all about that
I didn't have. I made that up in my head,

(03:59):
remember that, like it was just anticipated happening if I
asked her. But um, Jackson Avery was not. And his wife,
his ex wife, I guess now, was so rude. Maybe
now he's in a better place because he is Sand's wife.
Maybe yeah, maybe maybe he's like happier and nicer. I know,

(04:21):
I just couldn't do it. And I'm gonna tell you
I brushed shoulders with him, like I literally like felt
Jackson Avery, it was could have been a very quick
like oh my gosh, I love you. Can I get
a photo? I don't love that? As an open line. No,
I think we've established that the best way to go
about this is to say like, oh my gosh, I
love you on the show like it's amazing. Just want

(04:42):
to say hi and see the reaction of that before
you moved for the photo. I think it's it's better
to like approach them with like a compliment and just
like words, rather than bombarding them with I should have
just said words. I couldn't even I couldn't get I
couldn't get words. It was just like you know when
you see have you ever seen actually never seen a ghost,

(05:03):
but I imagine if I saw ghosts, that's what I
would look. I would look at him and I just
felt like this, I'm sure he saw they can't see
your face, but like her mouth was half open and
she just like stared at all stars in her eyes
and just my head just went a total three sixty
like an owl. I saw you. I bet he saw
you were like some of his friends saw you or something.

(05:25):
He was like security, keep an eye on her. Are
we coming around? It? All? On? Dr Avery and Maggie
not even at all. Did you watched this week? I
didn't watch it, Oh, Tanya, that should be homework. I
was like Coachella. You watched Coachella last night, that could
have been time to watch Grace. Yeah, it was my party,

(05:49):
b But when you're watching, you're doing couch ella last night.
You could have been watching Grace anatomy I watched. Yeah.
Well yeah, I'm not coming around on Maggie and Jackson. Well,
we can't spoil it now for Tania, Oh, well, they
could spoil it. I mean they just mean they what
consummated their relationships? I guess. But she was mad at

(06:10):
him the whole episode because she found out that April
had kissed. Remember the end of the episode Jackson and
Maggie had sex. Well, yeah, I mean it was insinuated.
I guess it's not you, But what is there is
something you? It's not them, Like it's not like physically
looking at them having sex. It's like it's like it's

(06:31):
the thing that I don't like about them together, their siblings.
It's not that, it's just something else. I can't like.
Pinpoint why I don't like it. It's just not there
for me. I love Jackson April together so much that
I'm like, it's almost like a Meredith and Derek thing.
I'm like, well, well, anyone ever compared to Derek. I

(06:52):
don't think so. No, but Scott Speedman, the guy from
last week. He's been gone, but I do like him.
But April and Matthew we might be getting some seeds planned.
It could be sweet. I think that could be a
nice ending. Matthew Hurt, the guy that she left at
the altar his wife died and calls her like spiral basically,

(07:15):
but I still don't know what's going to happen with Like,
so what she Where does she go from here? Alive?
Assuming that she doesn't get killed? I don't know. I
just thought like the idea of she and Matthew maybe
they were always meant to be. I know I like
that too. It's to be exactly. Um, can you tell

(07:40):
us about your spray tend eventually? The other night beers.
I think it's so funny. Yes, Becca is heavily involved
in this as well. Yeah. Um, so I wanted to
get a spright hand before Coachella and our friend Crystal
she has like a mom and pop spray tan oh
it's a it's not a mom and pop. It's like
a mobile spray dan business. She started herself a mom

(08:01):
and Paul. Isn't that like she started it herself. It's
a good company. But it's good because you can't get
a spray tan in l A the week before. Yeah,
so she comes to you and she sprays you. So
she comes to me, I'm like, fully naked, ready to go.
I got all my STI like, at, you've got all
your stuff on a couple of naked and then she

(08:23):
puts like the hat on you don't get your hair,
and then sticky feet and uh and like lotion on
your fingernails, so you know. So she's about to start
spraying me and then all of a sudden power goes out.
So I'm like, it's okay, it's totally fine. We'll get
some flashlights. It's all good. And she's like, no, my
spray tan machine like plugs into the wall, like I

(08:43):
can't do it. I was like no, So she goes, Okay,
I have to go to Santa Monica and then I
have an appointment at eleven thirty back over here by
your place. Um, let me ask the girls if they
don't mind if you come there and I'll spray you
really quick before I do them. I was like okay,
and I don't say awake till eleven o'clock, so I
loving thirty to start a spray. Tann was like, already

(09:06):
given anxiety and you're you were leaving early the next morning. Yeah,
we were leaving like five o'clock. It's money. So FaceTime
with Becca, did I tell you to come over? Do
you just come over now? I was like, I FaceTime
then because I saw their insto story being like, oh
my gosh, the electricity just went out and I had electricity,
and I was like, y'all can come over here if
you want and spray. That was very nice of you.

(09:28):
But then Crystal had to go and swarry someone in
saying the money there was like she was like squeezing
me and essentially so that she couldn't go Tobecca's house.
That there's a woman in a car that drives around
spray tanning people all night long. It's very It's very
Crystal because she just like does it because she loves
her friends, and she'll be like I can fit you in,
even if she really can. Yeah, I don't think she

(09:49):
really could have physically sprayed me in time, to be honest,
and you do it in the bathtub. I assume like
a tint like it's a tint that like sets up,
and so you stand in there and shout out, shout
out to cheek ms. Honestly, if you're in l a
you want is not sponsored. Um. So she calls an
offers and I was like, thank you so much. So

(10:09):
the Crystal says I can't. I gotta go shose crystal leaves.
And then Becca bless her heart, Becca was best friend
goals that whole night because not only did she come
over and helped me like just I was gonna pitch
black dark like, she entertained me for three hours, kept
me awake so that I could make it till thirty.
And then my car was stuck in my garage because

(10:31):
the electricity couldn't I couldn't get out of the garage.
So Becca drove me to these random people's apartment to
get my spright hands. And I go to a random
person's apartment and taking all of your clothes off to
get spray hand. Here's the kicker, you know, Patrick Schwartzinger
HiT's his girlfriend's apartment and his little sister or her

(10:54):
little sister was the one that was getting the spray
hands with all her friends. And they also live with
Demilvato's assistant Kelsey, that I've known through work for like
the last year and a half. What are the odd world?
And then Patrick showed up? Then Patrick shows up and
he was, please don't tell me you live in this
was like your girlfriend's apartment. And then not only did

(11:21):
she entertain me for two hours, drive me to my
spray tand she waited until I finished and drove me
home after my spray tan. Wow, you too, I feel
like you've gotten another level. I know, I really feel
like I've tried to step up because and not even
that this was after a full day of her she

(11:41):
hates taking me shopping because I just hate shopping, and
Rebecca is really like stylish and good at picking out
off its. She spent a whole three hours shopping with
me the day before. Wow, can you believe it? This
is next level? And then she missed you all weekend
like that wasn't enough Tania for her? Yeah, I did.

(12:03):
It's so great. Did you go into the apartment and
I went, Well, the girl lived like down the street
from me. So I went home, got Phoebe, took her
for a little walk because she's been indoors, and then
I was like, really tired someone, I'm just gonna drive
around listen to music till she texted me and said
she's ready to go. What did you do this weekend
when you weren't in the desert? What did I do?

(12:25):
I went and saw a movie. I saw Love Simon. Oh,
I hear, that's great, y'all. It was I haven't been
to a movie in so long, and it was so
cute and so it was like one of the cutest,
sweetest movies I've seen her a long time, Like it
was so well casted. Jennifer Gardner and Joshda mel As
the parents were like amazing. I don't know that actor

(12:46):
that plays the main character. Yeah, I don't think. I
think he's like up and coming he was. It was
so great A boy myself, you love. I love going
to movies about myself though, So this is like, you know,
that's interesting. Why I don't know why I can't Why
is that interesting? Because I think that because I've have

(13:08):
I ever been to a movie by myself. I'll let
you talk about that while I see what my wife wants.
But um, that's interesting going to move by yourself, especially
when you're somebody who has some fame that people might recognize. Interesting.
I've never even considered that. I mean, I would never
go to a movie by myself, never but talking and

(13:28):
then you're just like sitting in the dark. Because to me,
I'm never like, I really want to go see this
movie enough to go by myself, do you know what
I mean? All theself, I'm not kidding. I prefer it
because I don't like, I don't even like I get
uncomfortable when people whisper to me in movies, and I'm
just like, you don't like having to be like so
I feel like it's just easier to go alone and
eat my popcorn and drink my doctor pepper. I just

(13:52):
go all out. Yes, it's like a date for myself.
It's fun. I'm glad that you went solo because I
would have been jealous that I want to. I know,
I know, but um, I was just kind of I
was actually going to go out on Saturday night with
Brittany and all of them, but I just I had
such an intense week of going out last week that

(14:13):
I was like, you know, there's times where you're in
the mood to go out and you're like, I don't
know if you experienced this where you're just like, I
want to drink, I wanna have fun, I want to dance,
be with my friends. And then there's times where I think,
if I go out right now and drink or do anything,
I'm gonna bring down the energy of the group because
that's the mood I'm in. So I kind of realized
I was in that state, and I was like, what

(14:33):
do I need to do right now? I'm gonna go
see a movie I haven't been in a long time.
That just makes me like, do you know I only
had two drinks the whole weekend at Coachella. Wow, isn't
that wild? It really is, because everyone else there is
running around just like just out of their mind, out
of their minds. We had to drinks. Wow. So, so

(14:58):
like who was the best act? Like, what was the
best part of it? Beyonce? It by far, So I
wanted to see her as close as I possibly could.
So I I kind of was by myself on Saturday
night because beyond my boss and her friend, just like
we're at this person's house. So I fully went to
the festivals, but they were in the house. I could
have had their ticket. The houses on the premises weirdly

(15:20):
they know someone who like owns the grounds and so
like they have like a house that's like on the grounds. Um.
But uh, so I fully did Saturday Night completely solo,
which was so crazy, and I tried to get as
close to stage as possible and I ended up like
in like this like mosh pit. I was like on
the floor. Someone stepped on me. So then I moved
back to the IP area and watched it from a

(15:43):
little pillar. Um. Do you go to concerts by yourself? No?
Not usually. I've gone to a couple by myself. I've
never been to a concert by myself. It's another thing
I've done. I don't have a lot of friends. It's
but it's it's not even like I have a ton
of friends, but I'm specific on who I would do
certain things. You know, like some people aren't fun at

(16:05):
a concert and then some are like ideal at a concert.
So yeah, but it was really weird being at Coachella
by myself on Saturday because you realize also how many
people you know. Because I was not alone for like ever,
I kept literally bumming into like different people that I knew.
It was the weirdest thing. Yeah, I saw Robert took
your bags for you, rolled them through grass. It looked

(16:27):
like showed up on Sunday too, because they did church
at that. It's such a I mean, it's amazing. But
was everyone just like hungover and super hungover, super hungover.
But it was such a nice vibe. But it was
funny because I showed up because I was getting picked
up straight from the service and so I had like
my rollie bag and I was having a really tough

(16:48):
time rolling in through the gravel, so Robert rolled it
for me. I got a lot of messages about that,
but yeah, what a gentleman, because they were like, Tanya,
can you, you know, assist before we get our first
guest on? Can you tell the Nil Salon story real quick? Wait,
but I want to talk about our guests that we're
going to have because and then we'll tell the Nelson Okay,

(17:11):
So our guest we have coming on, she's a she's
a psychic, she's a medium, she's a mystic, and I,
I don't know, I've never been one to believe in
this stuff. And I think growing up in the church
and you know, as a Christian and having certain things
that you don't necessarily mess with. I guess I don't

(17:35):
know how to explain it. More than that is, I'm
like a little bit nervous because I've never even gone
to a psychic or talked to a mystic or anything.
So I'm kind of nervous. What about you? Have you
ever done it? Have you ever talked to a secicd
Are you out of your mind? No? But I have
friends who are like are so you don't act like
nobody's into No, I'm just saying me personally, I don't

(17:55):
like because to me, if you were to say you're
going to be married by thirty two or whatever the is,
maybe I'll have that in my head and what if
that doesn't happen? Then you know what I mean? Do
you believe a lot of different kind of ethereal things,
So I think I think and stuff crystals? Yeah, I mean, yeah,
I'm interested to see what she says, but I'm I'm curious,

(18:15):
like how to do it over the phone, because I
feel like you meet people and you get like Aura's
or whatever it is. But I it's gonna be interesting to. Like,
my roommate Rachel lives and breathes by psychic She like
has one that she goes to. She I think she
was once a month. It's almost like a therapy personally. Yeah, okay,

(18:36):
so I'm really I'm very interested, excited, nervous to talk
to her in a little bit. But so you're a skeptic,
you would say, yeah, I'm a skeptic, Dania. You are
just kind of your head. I believe if when I
see it, that's that's okay, great, all right, Eric is
dialing up. Go ahead and tell us the nails a
lot story. Do you do? You want to start right?

(18:58):
I feel like it's better as a bystand than okay,
So just spoiler alert, We're gonna be talking about partying,
and I don't some people are uncomfortable with it. I
grew up with that humor in my family, so I
think it's hilarious. So I'm not bothered by it at all.

(19:19):
It's literally I'm relieving it in my head, and it's
it's like I'm dying inside. So and your Tanya has
given us permission to talk about this. I don't think
I'm like being a bully or anything. But we're at
the nail salon. This was last Monday, after we did
the podcast, and I was getting our friend Brett and
I were getting pedicure. So we're in the pedicure chairs
and then Tanya was in like a manicure chair like

(19:41):
across from us. So she finishes first and stands looks
preface it by saying, I chewed a lot of gum
that day, a lot of gum. So she stands up
and she's walking of pain that she first, and then

(20:08):
it stops, but then it like another one happened and
keeps going. She's walking and bred I like started dying
laughing immediately, and I remember Brett looks at me and goes,
what was that? Because that se or something. So I'm

(20:32):
looking at Tany, like what just why didn't you stop that?
Like why did that just keep going? It kept going
like it didn't It didn't stop, It just kept going,
and like I couldn't control it, Like I've never had
an experience where like I was clenching so hard that
it wouldn't stop. I literally didn't know what to do.

(20:55):
I was completely red. And I go there often, like
go every two weeks more. If I had to find
a new place. I guess my I couldn't even look
at the girl doing my pedicure because I was laughing
so hard. But our friend Britt said, she was like
trying not to laugh because she was like in the
line of fire. She was. I downloaded far up just

(21:20):
to show this is like, we'll do a demonstration, do
a demonstration of the length of time that I think
it was just like this. It didn't really trail off
like that. It was like a consistent loud and then
it just stopped and then one again though and then again. Anyways,

(21:44):
it was hilarious, like one of the hardest laughs I've
had in a long time. Too. That makes me like unlady,
like her wife. Whatever. It was funny, No, it came
out of me, like I'm just saying though. The fact
that I found it so funny and like I just
needed to tell everybody was like, why am I five
years old and a boy? Like a five year old boy,
I felt the same way a lot. All right, tell

(22:07):
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(22:27):
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(22:50):
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But I didn't realize that they they bleach the cotton
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They bleach that and then you're putting it. Oh. Yeah,
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(23:10):
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(23:32):
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(23:54):
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(24:17):
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they use them all. I'm like, do y'all or maybe
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(24:38):
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(25:01):
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(25:21):
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I feel like that's something probably a ton of people
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(25:42):
customize beautiful. Yeah, Mystic MICHAELA is on the line. Oh
I'm so excited. I'm so nervous. What are you gonna
ask her? Mystic Michaela? Are you there? Yes, i am,
How are you? I'm really great. I'm kind of nervous.
I'm not gonna lie. It's okay. How are you? I'm great?
Thank you for having me on. It's just like I'm

(26:04):
having a fan moment. I have to be honest with you.
I am, thank you, I'm really excited. I'm never I
was just talking earlier before we got you on the line.
I've never talked to a psychic, a mystic. Nothing. I
was kind of raised in, you know, a very um
Christian I am Christian, but I I was raised in

(26:24):
a very church dominant where it wasn't necessarily you didn't
talk to a psychic or any anyone about anything like that.
So this is I'm kind of nervous and I'm excited.
So and I tell people. I tell people too. You know.
The way that I work is that I don't like
challenge any belief or something like that. It's about authenticity,

(26:45):
getting closer to yourself where you know God lives. So
that's kind of my message for people. But I see
colors around people. That's like my thing. It's like the
aura colors. So there's like an energy around everybody. And
I had to pull up like I do, follow you
guy on Instagram, So all right, I'll help a picture.
So I'm looking at a picture of you Antonia right now,

(27:05):
and I can see colors around you. And I just
do this naturally in my life. I always see colors
around people. It's like the life energy. And there's five
main colors and they all mean something and those people
have a combination. And even though there's only five or
of colors, I have never read the same or as plice.
They're like no blakes. So that's that's basically what I do. Well,

(27:28):
what colors did you stay around the antime? Well? You Becca?
All right? So Becca your very purple. You have a
huge couple aura with blue. But this isn't forest thing
because like I said, I people's colors don't generally change,
but they can like move around depending on like what
you're doing in life, and it will make sense in

(27:50):
a second because like when you were originally on I
think your first season, when I watched you on The Bachelor,
I was like, um, you were flip flaps. You were
more blue than purple. So I think it all makes
sense once I explain a few So purple means you know, artistic, intuitive,
Like I feel like you're good at kind of reading
energy on people, um, you know, really quickly people's intentions,

(28:13):
things like this. I feel like as you've grown, as
we all do, um, if we're paying attention, as you've grown,
that part of you've gotten bigger and you know, just
like your um, you know, how's your career has progressed
and whatnot. It's more of a purple reflective career, you know,
like spotlight. Um, just things like that, like where your

(28:33):
voice is heard and you don't find it so much
like the blue which will always see there that's your
heal or help or like that. When I see a
blue person, usually they work like in the medical field
or they're like teachers. Yeah, so you're you're very purple
with blue. So I feel like you the way that
you have a platform. I feel like if you use

(28:55):
it to kind of relate to people and give messages
and relate and how and make people feel not so alone.
And you're like that fraind of this thing. You're like
a like a good friend to people. That's what I
get from now. Um, so that's show me to do
all right. So, Tany and you're super yellow and purple,

(29:16):
so you both have that purpball in you, but the
yellow but you, Tanya is like that man like yellow
people get sucked on. So like yell like that's like
you're organized. I feel like you don't mind like a
ton of projects. Like well, I mean just in your
role is get your a producer right in like this world? Yeah,
so like that is that's a very like the way

(29:38):
that you do produce. I feel like you're organized about it.
Like maybe you don't feel organized, but I feel like
other people looking at you would be like, Okay, Tanya's
got this. I feel like you don't. I'm pretty organized.
I'm pretty organized. And I get stepped on all the time.
Yeah right, like literally literally, but no, I feel like

(29:58):
I get stepped on a lot in for sure. Yeah,
you've got to learn to like advocate that, like your
thing is, I feel like you will logically talk yourself
out of being treated a certain way. You single right now, Okay,
So I feel like in relationships if we can go there,
I don't know, are we allowed to go there? There?

(30:19):
It all right? So like in relationships because like when
we see ourselves better, we can like choose better, you
know what I mean. So like with you, I feel
like you're very like yellow people are very logical, so
you can come up with but your purple which teams
are very emotional and energetic and artistics. So just because
you have a feeling about somebody, I don't always feel

(30:39):
like you always listen to that. You'll kind of go
more to the well, you know, and you'll kind of
explain it out to yourself. So in relationships like meeting people,
I feel like it in work relationships and certain friendships
things like that, Um, you have to be careful that
you don't talk yourself into being treated a certain way
just because it makes sense from or end of things.

(31:00):
Like you, if you have a feeling, it's dude, this
is so crazy because I totally feel that, and it's
just until like really recently that I've started to kind
of fight back a little bit and like like kind
of not letting myself be treated crappy anymore, right, because
the way that you treat people, you know, it's not

(31:24):
that way like I feel like you're very considerate and
you're very and you're very you know that way. But
the way that I feel like you allow people to
treat you when this is everybody by the way, like
you will tract relationships that are reflective of the one
you have with yourself. So with you, as you said,
like you're starting to be like fight back a little bit,
you're probably also within yourself starting to pay attention a

(31:46):
little bit to like, hey, I don't feel so good
about this interaction I just had with this person and
I don't like that, and like you're open to it
instead of and I feel like in your world to
like with with work and career and I don't know
anything about that, but a lot of it's like kind
of like, um, I guess like where you are on
the chopping block a little bit, Like it's like hierarchy
kind of stuff. But don't translate that to dating, okay,

(32:09):
Like that's differently you are the queen church life, like
I literally live in church life. I'm actually freaking out
right now Wait I want to hear about my relationship
life now, yeah, okay, So with you with relationships, you
I okay, you're You're sorry. How do I put this?

(32:30):
You're very psychic. I know like you grew up in
this life world while Um like a religious I was.
I was raised Catholic truth, so I actually really get it. Um.
But you're a raised person. I understand that. But you're
very intuitive. So I feel like you own other people's
emotions and you kind of wear them on yourself, so
like you'll and I feel like you do this, but
you've learned how to compart to menalize it so that

(32:53):
you don't get so effected anywhere. Like Purple people can
watch a scenario and like eat pop earn and be like, Okay,
this is interesting. Blue people can absorb it and kind
of like internalize and be like, oh my god, how
is this my fault that I'm being treated this way?
Obviously it's not. So I feel like you've flip flopped
with that, and now you're more in relationships. I feel

(33:14):
like you're projecting down the road a little bit. Like
if you meet somebody, you're like, oh, well, this, this, this,
and this is gonna happen, so I don't know if
it's gonna work. Oh my god. Yep. Sometimes you gotta
let things play out. Like if you pay attention as
your emotions and you're feeling so much, this is great.
But sometimes like you'll you'll skip to the end already,

(33:36):
you know. So it's kind of like you have to
let other people show themselves to you, even if you
have what you do a good vibe, but who they are.
I also feel like the guys that you attract docta
have been too green. You have to date read people.
And I'm gonna explain this personally. I want to know
who the green ones are and who the red ones are. Okay,

(33:58):
Like green people like are like this is very general
and everybody is different, but like green people are usually
like they come I'm super strong, so all of a sudden,
they're like all over you and it feels like really
intense and it's really past met and are all over
and then they like so they're like where did they go?
Like what was that about? Like who are Like? That's

(34:18):
a that's a good example of like an unbalanced screen.
I feel like they're attracted to because who are very mysterious,
so like people want to like understand it and then
want to see them because green people don't like to
be seen. They're like really like emotionally like to front
a lot, so like they'll come across the way they
want you to see them. They'll project something and like

(34:39):
you're like, oh, let me figure you out and then
let me tell you about you, and then they like
runaway because they don't want to be seen or whatever.
I feel like you need more of like a red
red guy. So like red people are like people. They're
like leaders. I mean like they're in charge of teams
of people. They're like business people. They're like business owners.
Screen people are usually like, um, it's different. It's more

(35:02):
like corporate in charge of things like whereas red people
are more like hands on in charge of things, if
that makes sense. They're more like risk takers. The green
people are more like strategic. I mean, this is a
major le down. If I had like pictures of people
I do better like individually. But I feel like you
need to stay away from green. No more greens. You
just a little bit more about red. Like what's a

(35:24):
red like characteristics like can you say, can you like
name anyone like off the top of your head, celebrity wise,
and it's like a red red like a red person. Yeah, okay, yeah,
that's a good one. Um oh my god, Like this
is no lie. The first person that came to my
mind was Judge Duty, like I know this time, but
that's the first thing I was thinking of. Like red

(35:44):
people's saying you alwaysn't read. But this is a terrible example.
Like Ari from last season, Ari Aluin, I'll never be
able to say his last name like he was red,
but he's like red purple and that's like narcissist kind
of energy to get a lot of red people are
like in charge like let me, Um, you know, I'm

(36:07):
not gonna network my way and I'm going to be
the person people have to network too, Like, um, what's
another are you saying? Like are they like the hard
workers who like build their being there themselves, like they
don't feel their name themselves. Yeah, like in your in
the entertainment world, it's mostly green people and like the

(36:27):
quote real quote world, it's a lot of red guys.
Like they're usually like um uh yeah, like I do
see a lot of fire fights by your men, like
police office. Like those people are red, like I see
um a lot of like like business business owners, like
they own a chain of whatever, Like they're red, Like
that's the color. I feel like you need Rebecca's purposes,

(36:49):
Like I feel like you need somebody to kind of
just come in and like who do you off your
feet and protect you and just be like front. Usually
they're very up front, even though they can be a
little coop rolling, whereas green people are more like micromanaging,
which is different. Like green people will care. It's like
what are you wearing? Like green people getting out now?
Like what? Like I don't like that at all, you know,

(37:11):
he does. Not that I'm putting green people down. It's
just that I feel like, for you, Becca, you've got
to stay away from the green. Yeah. I think it's
like I don't think you're saying anything bad about people.
I think certain people don't mesh well. And I think
that's how I'm trying to explain, like some green people
like Dr Oz is green, you know, like some I'm
trying to think, like, um, you know, then Higgins was

(37:35):
really green, like he was really he was like green
and blue and that was like a whole other issue.
But like and then who else like Chris Souls, I'm
just thinking bad like for something like Chris was really green.
Like so they're kind of like ums won as you
start to see them, they start to shut down a

(37:56):
little bit. And with you, Becca, you always are going
to see somebody in side it out like there's people
can't have secrets from you. You're like a lie detector
for people. I've always felt like I had this like
a weird ability to like yeah, but I just thought
it was like what you'd like tell me everything about you,

(38:18):
like writting on your forehead, and these people just like
are like tell you everything when people try to lie
to me, I know. And even if yeah, it's an
energy thing you like you'll feel it when somebody's being
just honest and like you tn you to like you,
but you can handle a green person or a red

(38:39):
person like it doesn't matter so much because like you're
always going to be really not that you're not back
the but like you you're super independent, Like I feel
like you're always gonna need to have your own lights.
That's like super about. Like it's busy and it's you
and it's like there's identity that's like distinct, and a
green person would be good for you because they're the
same way usually so like they need it so like

(39:02):
it's it's like nobody will take it personally, if that
makes sense, you know. I like, you do your thing,
I'll do my thing. We'll meet for dinner. It's cool
you like that kind of a thing. Um, hi is
my pleasure. That's essentially what's happening here. If I see
any green like swap people, yeah, like just make sure
if they're green, that could get no part of it.

(39:24):
Oh my gosh, well this is actually really really what's
the word I'm looking at spot on? Yeah, I'm lightning.
That's the word of lightening. What color is Tim Tebow?
Oh my god, he's green? He's green? You let me
say because yeah, yeah, I believe he's green. Um. Athletes

(39:49):
I notice are usually red, but the ones who like
make crazy names for themselves, like, um, who's the guy
on here? I am, I'm I'm being a girl right now.
Who's the one the quarterback guy that just lost the
Super Bowl? Tom Brady? Thank you? Okay, Like he's very
green and now they're very strategic, you know, like their

(40:12):
heads in the game, they're like, Okay, I do this,
I do that. Um. Also, like the Tim Tebow, he's
very strategic, like with his image, so he's really good
at like presenting himself different ways. Strategically. He's green purple,
so like he's he's um. He knows exactly how he's
coming off the people. He knows. He usually green people
do have like a global perspective on things, like they

(40:34):
want to touch a lot of people all at the
same time, Like you'll see them in high influence situations.
So that's that's interesting. All right, Well, thank you so much,
really really appreciate the time. Thank you for all Thank you.
Will you tell everyone your website so they can check
check you out. I'm people are gonna be curious about this.

(40:55):
Oh yeah, and I love doing my little write ups
on auras and celebrities on my Instagram Anikaela and my
website isakla dot com. Amazing. Thank you so much. It
was so fun. Thank you so much. Bye bye, dude. Wow,
I'll look at it later. But you're less skeptic now.

(41:16):
Tania is independent though. That was like and like it's
interesting because I do feel like I'm independent, super independent
but um by yourself. I mean that's independent. Yea, you
are independent in certain ways. Yeah, like could you could
throw me into a party by myself and thrive? But
I enjoy spending time with people, like I really do

(41:38):
enjoy like like, yeah, I think I'm not glory. So
I'm like a little bit stressed about that. If I was, like,
I don't know. She was giving you like an example, right,
independent doesn't mean loners. So you are independent? Am I
a loner? You're independent? Definitely independent? But in my independent loan,

(41:58):
you enjoy a loan. Yeah, you're a hint of a loner,
but it's because you enjoy it. Right. That was interesting. Yeah,
I liked that, dude. Yellow. I was like, I'm so
yellow in my head yellow. I think of you as yellow,
But I think of you as yellow because of like
sunshine and like happiness and like that kind of thing,

(42:20):
not necessarily like being stepped on, Like I'm the gum
on the sidewalk that gets stepped on. And guess what,
no more discounts. I always get you guys. You know,
when she started describing it, I was like, how you
like talk yourself and you're like, I logically talk myself
into somebody treating me like which is so bad. Yeah, yeah,

(42:44):
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(43:04):
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(43:29):
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(44:12):
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they also have like body suits and cute things that
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(44:36):
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(45:24):
com slash scrubbing in doesn't roll off the time, but
still a unique code. Emails. I love emails Brianna and
Texas wants to take a year off from dating and
I picked this one because I feel like did this
yeah single? She loves the show. She's been bidging it
like a TV show. She finds herself doing activities per

(45:45):
podcast listening so she could listen to the podcast. Just
twenty two about to graduate college and start the journey
of her adult life. She just read a book called
The New Rules for Love, Sex, and Dating by Andy Stanley.
In this book is seriously amazing. It gives you a
new inside in today's dating world, changed your perspect of
its faith based. At the end of the book, the
author proposes taking a year off from dating to become
the person you're looking for is looking for? Do you

(46:07):
get that? To become the person that you're looking for
is looking for? I'm really wanting to try this year off,
and I'm a little hesitant. I wanted to get some
input from y'all on things you all do to stay
preoccupied when in a single season of life. But also
what do you do to work on yourself, your character,
your passions, your professions, self reflection, all this stuff. She'd
love to hear about this stuff. She says, thanks for
creating such an inspiring podcast. Seriously, a breath of fresh

(46:30):
air for young women everywhere. And Becca, I would happily
forego the year off for your brother. Seriously, he seems perfect.
He is that's so cute. Well he is in Texas. Brianna,
this is Yeah. I feel like you can really speak
to this because you did this right. So I did
it in a little bit of a different intention because
I did it because every guy was going on a

(46:52):
date with I was putting the pressure on, is this
guy going to be my husband? So I said, if
I committed being single for a full year, I'm at single,
not in a relationship, but I was still dating. Oh
that's right. You would go on dates without expectation, without expectations,
and it helped me a lot because I literally would
get approached by a guy. And if you like, uh,
the one guy that was like young, he's twenty five,

(47:12):
and immediately I would write him off like that, I'm
not going to marry this guy. He's too young for me,
blah blah. And then I was like, why not, like
get to know somebody, you know what I mean, and
see if it goes somewhere, and you know, take that
pressure off. And I think it helped me a lot.
You're looking at the end instead of just drink of
a straw. You don't like when you think by I'm

(47:34):
never going to marry you, not worth my time, totally
drinking out of a straw. Yeah, oh oh my gosh.
Like when he gets a drink, like you know you
should like pull the straw back and drink it like
a man. Yeah, I mean, not sipping it like you
sipping like the beach in Hawaii like, but sometimes like

(47:54):
drinking through a straw keeps your teeth white unhealthy. I'm
pro straw don't look like. I love straw. So I'm like,
I don't I see someone wanting to use one. I
get what you're saying. However, I don't know if it'd
be a deal breaker for me. Yeah, So I don't
know about like taking an off of dating completely, So
like if somebody asked her out, would she say no?

(48:15):
I think that's a good advice, though, Oh, I think
what you're doing is giving good advice. I think I
think if someone asks you out, you say yes, but
knowing you're going to be single, that this is not
going to be the person you marry. Probably you're just
gonna get to know this person a little better. That's
a better attitude to have going into any date. I
think I'm interested in wondering what the book says though
about it that has her inspired to do this, because

(48:36):
clearly there was something in it that she's like, wait,
I want to do that, you know. But I also
think sometimes you meet people and you don't expect to
meet them, and they come out of nowhere, and sometimes
like you plan for things, like you plan and date
for a year, but then someone might come along and
change everything. So I think you have to be prepared
for maybe that happening, and like maybe you think about

(48:58):
it more before you just start dating them, or you know,
maybe there's more thought put into it. But I think
that you are optimistic about what could happen in that time.
But I should read this. I know I'm interested. And
I also love the the concept of being like being ready,

(49:20):
like being a for when you meet someone, so that
you're not looking to be fulfilled by them, like you're
already a complete person by the time you meet them.
Like I'm all, I'm very big on that. So this
is interesting and I'm like curious to see how this goes,
and I want to read the book too. I think,
for um, for me, when I got out of my
serious long relationship, I um, I feel like I lost

(49:44):
a lot of like myself, Like I was so anxious
about going to like a wedding by myself, and like
I had planned so much and I did everything for
this one man, Like I didn't even know what I
enjoyed doing anymore. That makes sense, Like I knew what
I enjoyed doing, but I was so wrapped up in
this relationship that I lost so much sight of things.
And I think that it's like a lesson I had
to learn because now I'll never I'll never make that

(50:07):
same mistake again. Yeah, I think it's very interesting. I
um so. I think by like taking your really developing
like yeah, like self reflection, like what you want to do,
what your passion is what like what you like to
do in your free time. I think that's the right
good thing to do. Yeah, excellent. Here's our next one
from an anonymous emailer. I think I know the answer

(50:27):
to this one, but I think it'll be fun. May
being found of the podcast listen every Monday morning. But
I recently met a guy in need some dating advice.
I met him a wee could go at a bar.
We hit it off and I was definitely attracted to him.
We exchanged numbers and we're texting for a couple of days,
and he wanted we wanted to hang out, and he
suggested going to the gym. His exact words were, wanted
to the gym tomorrow night. I just feel like this

(50:49):
is a decent data idea for some reason, that's the quote.
I didn't know how to respond to this because I've
never been asked on a date like this. I can't
tell if he's trying to be creative or different some back.
And I'm twenty three, he's twenty seven. We didn't hook
operating in the night. We just exchanged numbers and we've
been trying to get to know each other. Thank you, Becca,
Tania Mark, Amy Easton can't wait to hear back from you.
I'd run for the hills from this guy. I'm just kidding.

(51:13):
I don't like I'm just saying because I don't I
don't go to the gym, so I don't like it either.
Are you kidding? If you can't plan a day? I
just feel like this is a decent date idea for
some reasons, It's no, it's how can I still get
my gym in for the day, try to see you
and make it all work on my time, in my

(51:33):
convenience by I don't like that for a day, especially
you're just getting to know each other. Like, I'm sorry,
but I personally am not someone who looks cute at
the gym, Like I'm not trying to go to the
gym and be like, oh, let's lift some weights. It
sounds like, hey, you want to go to the launcherman
and do some launch date idea. For some reason, that's
exactly how I feel about the gym to east and

(51:55):
I compared to do it. Are we always wonder on
the show could guy be less invested in these things?
And the guys continue to lower the bar and he's like, well,
I'm on my way to the gym if you want
to come along, and I want like the girls that
listen to our podcast that I read about on the
Facebook group and send an emails like I genuinely think

(52:18):
y'all are so amazing and so to even have to
question if this is okay, Like you are so much
better than this, Like you deserve a guy who's like
I would love to take you out, Like, let's have
a fun night together. What do you like to do? Oh?
You like sushi. I have an amazing sushi place I'd
love to take you to. You know what this is?
This is a fifty percent off coupon. You're giving this.

(52:41):
It is if you go out with him, you're giving
him a cop and you don't want that. I'm going
to be in the Frozen Foods Island Ralph for about
ten minutes later if you want to be there. Honestly,
we're driving on Fairfax. You're going to wave as I drive.
Forget it? Well, I have something, Oh yeah, way threw
it to y'all. You're gonna see if any um. I

(53:02):
was just talking to our Britt and we were talking
about dating apps and bumble and so on. Bumble for
those of you who know you know this, but for
those of you who don't know, the girl is in charge.
So once you match, the girl has to reach out first.
The guy can't. He literally cannot make the first move. Um.
But we were talking about it and she was like, yeah,
my friend was telling me or I said, what's your

(53:22):
opening line on bumble? Like I'm so curious to know
what people say, like do you try to be funny
or sarcastic? And she's like, I literally just send the
emoji with the girl like with her hand up like hi,
but it's no words or anything. So almost I'm saying
I'm putting it out there, but he's making the first
move as far as what is said. And then she
said she never asked questions, so like if he's saying like, hey,

(53:44):
what did you do today, she's like, oh, I had
work and then I went to the gym and then
I went home and had a glass of wine, but
never says like what did you do? And got yeah,
she said she did it. And it was like I
just had the guy like eating out the pull of
her hand because it's like I always end of a
question every single message, because your goal is to keep

(54:04):
the conversation going. Goal is to keep kind of a
status situation, the upper hand in the conversation, making him
ask the question kind of jump through some hoo. And
I wonder if justin I don't know if in real
life obviously, if you're on a date face to face,
you're like, I think it's polite to say, oh, what
are you doing? But I wonder if on these apps

(54:26):
to have the interest or to make things different or
maybe a little more challenging from the next girl that
he might match with. If this is a but think
about it if he so, she says that I went
to the gym and then went home, and then she
says what did you do? Then he says, oh, I
went to the class and I did this, and then
I watched the Game of Thrones. Now it's on her
to keep it going right right. I love keeping the

(54:48):
ball on his cart, Dude, I know it's a game changer.
This just rocked my world because every message I sent
has a question what do you do? The difficult? A
breaking Oh my gosh, what's your feeling? Do you like
your I mean God's name. Yeah, I'm like the interviewer
on isn't I know? I'm fascinated. So I'm curious to see, like,

(55:12):
what what happens if we use this tactic? Yeah, that's
a good one. Actually, I is in the building, building
and get you on the micro quick. Hey, can you
get on that micro quick? It's been I know. I
feel like I was seeing you like for a while
and then I just haven't seen your face. Also going
to see you guys. I don't know how she wants

(55:33):
to go to all this weekend. I'm not gonna lie.
I had some It was like weird between having fomo
and then being so happy I wasn't. There was like extreme.
I text you to be like, how happy are you
right now? I was just like Saudia loves socializing constantly though.
That's the thing she like, even if it's work related,

(55:53):
she loves it. Yeah, he doesn't get spent. I wish
I think in my head, I wish I would have
gone and just like on gott in a house with
the pool, late out during the day, gone to the
show when I wanted to see someone and not done
like the work and the parties and stuff. I think
that was where I felt like I missed out a
little bit. But it's okay. I almost literally almost did.

(56:15):
I really did. What did you do? You were like
to where were you? Um? I went to batting cages. Yeah,
there's this place in Sherman oak because that has an
arcade as batcades so much fun. So I kind of
killed at the softball last time I went. I didn't

(56:37):
hit a ball, and then this weekend just like boom,
have you been practicing just going by yourself bucket a
ball Sherman Oaks. Look at that. I said it was
because I was wearing a sundress and it was allowing
me full moving at my bachelor party. So the castle
has been around what you're saying, Kanya, Um, I do

(57:02):
want to talk about one of our all of our
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every time we really do like get one. I'm thinking, okay,
they're like upping the game. I don't know what they're
going to have in there in like two thousand. Yeah,
I brought the Um. I brought the eyem asked to

(57:24):
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didn't suite your burning eyeballs. Yeah, and they were like
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(58:05):
They have the Rachel Pally reversible clutch. They have three
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little like candle. I love candles. Towny can't light candles
in her apartment because her roommate hates the smell. She
does hate the smell, but when her power went out
on Thursday, I had to light probably how many candles
do you think I had? It smells like a like

(58:28):
a candle bomb in my loving life. She was like,
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(58:49):
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This is the thing about fit fun. All the products
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(59:10):
sample and it's spawn in a week, so you can
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(59:30):
just quick. To the Facebook groups scrubbing in with Becca
Tilly on Facebook, a lot of stuff they want to
know if Becca and Dean or an item not an item,
And I would just like to say I'm about to
go on a little rent right now before we wrap up.
Please do because if I think you're still going to
say what I think you're gonna say, I'm gonna jump
on it. Okay. Dean is one of my favorite people

(59:51):
that I know. I love him so much. He is
not only he is, I will say, one of the
most stunningly beautiful men I've ever seen in my entire
of life. But he has the sweetest soul in such
an amazing heart and so kind and everyone that meets him,
I feel like, feels this way about And so for
me to have a friend that people bash because he

(01:00:12):
tried to have a relationship on TV that didn't work out,
I don't think it's fair to judge someone based on that.
I will get the same mess because I saw him
a lot. I spent a lot of time with him
actually Coachella this weekend, and I was posting videos and
I was getting the same thing. I was getting messages
of people saying, like, really mean things, and I was
going to town because first of all, it's so not

(01:00:34):
okay to just say that about somebody. First of all,
I mean, yeah, we all like judge. We know, we
all talked about celebrity life and whatever. But he is
so kind and he like lights up a room like
I'll never forget. Like you know, a lot of people
coming in out of these hallways and like they don't
necessarily say hi to everybody. Dean's one of those people
that literally says hi to everybody. He makes people feel included,

(01:00:56):
he makes people smile, and it just breaks my heart
that he's getting me. I'm sure he's probably getting gnarly message.
That's the craziest thing. People can like villainize somebody for
a relationship ending, like for a relationship ending. And I
feel like I'm missing something though, because after out of
all the Bachelor contestants, Dean gets it the worst because

(01:01:18):
he's just the best and people need to know him
in order to get that. And maybe maybe there's a
stigma because he is so good looking. They're like, oh,
he's good looking, and they want they almost want to
come up with something bad to say. That's how I
feel too, But let me just say, l you haters,
if you met Dean in person, your mind would change.
That's how I feel about. I agree, and I'm not

(01:01:41):
standing for it. If you're going to message me, don't
message me these things. I literally I respond. I've been
responding and like going like really back like back at
them with it. Oh I can't. I can't when people
send me like I said, that's not me, So why
are you sending me purple things like message your friend
about it? Don't message me who is his friend about it?
Like it's just so rude and consider like I would

(01:02:02):
never message you about your friend. I don't know that.
I don't like them. I weirdly got a lot from
the chain smoker guy, Remember the one that just cheating
on his girlfriend. I had so many d m s
of people being like, like, just saying the nastiest stuff
about him. I'm like, that guy is not my friend.
But second of all, I'm not gonna crucify somebody for
making a mistake like he cheated on his girlfriend. I don't.

(01:02:23):
I don't advertate nothing of I'm like, yeah, So anyways,
that was my rant. Okay, So there we go. Who
is Ethan Thompson. He's somebody verified on Instagram and he
was all over your stuff this weekend and people are
a buzz. Ethan Thompson is the lead singer of Ocean
Park Standoff the Van, you know the van. I need

(01:02:46):
some good news, baby's gone crazy. Good news, baby, give
it to me. We're not okay. He's like young though,
Is that the reason? Uh? Yeah, he's young, and he's
like leading her Bandy's hot as hell, so he's doing
just fine. Laura Fritz posted her gender reveal, and everyone
else started posting their gender reveals. And it's the sweetest

(01:03:08):
a couple of minutes you'll ever spend just watching people
react to gender reveal. And my thing her husband hit
a golf ball that exploded into a powder And I
did see that. Sweet so cute. I loved gender reveal.
And the last question somebody asked, which I thought was
really a good question on dating apps, why do you
guys message you and then you reply and then they

(01:03:29):
never respond again? What are you doing questions? Did you
ask a question? No, I'll tell you why they do this.
These guys will just pretend like you're fishing, okay, and
you just want to throw out a bunch of worms.
So you throw out ten worms, and which everyone bites.
That's the thickest mediat fish is the one that they're
going to eat for dinner. Got it? So you throw
out ten hayes, you get four back, and you go

(01:03:53):
through the four and you pick your favorite. Okay, this
is that actually is true? And I don't know where
you came up that, but it's the yellow in me,
you know, it's her yellow, her yellow or a color. Yeah,
it's a stepped on first and just getting stepped on whatever.
I'm over that. You're not getting stepped on anymore, no more,

(01:04:14):
no more. Okay, we have to wrap up, unfortunately, but
we love you so much. Um scrubbing in at iHeartMedia
dot com, email us. And then the group the girls
with the shirts, and you see the shirts. I didn't
see the shirts. I saw the shirts. The shirts are
really cool. I wan't one to They said a heart
like Tanya, an attitude like Becca. I made that one day.

(01:04:38):
They say a heart like Becca. But I'll take attitude,
I guess. And they have a little like the what's
it called the like the grays anatomy like thing at
the bottom. Did you see that? It's yeah that those
are so freaking cute. I need one. Yeah, that's great.

(01:04:58):
And Jane tar Button, Um, okay, thank you all so much.
We love y'all so much. Keep sending us an email much. Well,
you can't give the time a gut to the tone,
so you're you're giving him more time. Just thank you,
do one. It's fine. We're gonna go to have lunch
after this anyway.