August 26, 2024 • 53 mins
Becca and Tanya are on a weekend getaway in Palm Springs and they are feeling the vortex! But since we’re in the desert… we have to do another round of Truth or Drink!
You won’t believe the secrets that are revealed! And Tanya shows some major growth when it comes to her biggest challenge.
Plus, we might have an update about when Becca might drop to one knee!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap an iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in, scrub a dub duve,
rubbing in from our Airbnb and Palm Springs.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Yes we are. I'm experiencing symptoms from the vortex. The
vortex is not a real thing. What are you talking about?
You didn't even know what the vortex was five minutes ago.
I still don't know what it is.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
It's like energy. There's energy in the desert like I felt.
I felt it in Sedona, I felt it in Joshuachery.
So when we pulled up here, I meania dizzy. Really
that may have been from four hours in the car
with you. Sorry, I met in the car four hours
you said with you. I know, well, like because I
(00:51):
was with you. But you didn't cause the dizziest the vortex. Yeah,
but I was also saying we were in the car
for four hours. Took us four hours to get here.
It did, but boy was it worth it? And boy
was it pleasureful for me? Pleasure a bull and pleasureful, Yes,
for uninterrupted hours of bliss. Nice.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
It keeps turning, but so did yours.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
Before we drove up we did some Oh, here I
go again.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
The vortex. It literally is the vortex before we drove up. Yes,
we had a very important appointment that we did. I'm
spinning back vortex. What and now I'm spinning this way?
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Anyways, I finally got to be a part of watching
Tanya try on wedding dresses because you've done it multiple
times that.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
This was my third round. I'm just happy to be apart.
I was happy that you were apart and both of
your native honors were a part of today's appointment. Yes,
and I'll let you announce. But how did it go?
Speaker 1 (02:04):
I think I found the one. Wow, I'm not sure though.
I didn't have that say yes to the dress moment.
It wasn't like yes, it.
Speaker 5 (02:16):
Was like said maybe to the dress.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
Yeah, I said maybe to the dress.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
But I've been thinking about it NonStop since I left,
So I feel like that's.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
The time if it's in the indication.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
We were in the car for four hours after and
I kept hearing Tonya from this next to me going.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Shit, and I'm every time I'm like, what are you doing?
And she's like, I'm looking. I see she's looking at
photos of herself in this dress. So I don't know
what dress would make you do that.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Yeah, I don't know. I've never experienced anything like it.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
You cried when you put on the dress, but you
said you cried.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
A couple of times. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
I think for some reason, it's like when the veil
gets put on, it's very it like takes it from like.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
A dress address to like a we wedding.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Yeah, and then I'm like myself walking up to Robbie
and then I do the whole thing and I just
like lose it.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
I do.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
You did mention that you've never been someone that saw
a vision of your wedding or like you never envisioned
your wedding dress, which I find so fascinating because you
are the definition of someone I would think would have that,
Like at.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Least I have an idea going in. Yeah, No, never
had the idea.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
It was more about just like getting to the wedding,
like getting the finding the guy, and like getting there.
Like I never envisioned aesthetically what the wedding looked like,
which is why I think I'm having such a hard
time figuring it out many different ways. Oh my god,
I see a wedding here and I'm like, oh, I
love that. I see a wedding there. I'm like, oh,
I love that.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
So what do you do such for such occasions?
Speaker 2 (03:44):
You just go with your gut, and your gut was
saying this might be the dress.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
My gut said this might be the dress.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
I couldn't tell because I was getting rushed out of
there so fast. I'm like, I'm like, this is the dress.
I'm crying. My best friends are hugging me the like
ten more minutes, ma'am. I was like, geez.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
They were on a tight schedule schedule.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
I was like, Okay, I don't know, I need a
more minute in this.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Yeah, you needed to I need to it for a
little yeah. And it was like, let's go, ma'am.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
I still had like five other dresses to try and
I couldn't even try them all on.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
She was like, we're literally like kind of hugging and
like this is the one.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
And she's like, Hi, I'm sorry to interrupt, but you
have ten minutes.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
I'm like, can we have some wiggle room please?
Speaker 3 (04:30):
I'm crying. I'm just putting shoes on for the first time.
I'm taking pictures in this. They're hitting me a fake
bouquet of flowers. I'm like, I'm really in it. Yeah,
they're like ten minutes. They sucked us right out of it,
right out of it.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Yeah, so I feel like I need more time in
it to really Yeah, well.
Speaker 4 (04:50):
There's gonna be a lot of time in it come
spring of next year.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
Yeah know what I mean, I'm gonna wear that thing asleep.
Let me tell you those price.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Tags after locking you in that corse.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
That does not sound like a comfortable sleep, But it
was very comfortable.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Yeah, it was tough to get in, snatched me right up,
but once I was in it, it was like weirdly comfortable.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
I think this is nice for people to hear, though,
because I have always thought that someone who's always wanted
to get married would go into a dress shop and
like immediately know what they wanted and find it. And
I feel like everyone that I know that has gone
through the process says that it is so hard because
there's so many options. Yeah, you don't really know what
(05:34):
you're gonna like on your body, right, And I think
it's a little more overwhelming than it seems to be
like on TV and stuff.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
It's so overwhelming.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
I think the only thing that I knew I didn't
want is I didn't want like I knew I didn't
want like sparkles or rhinestones or pearls or I didn't
want any sort of like stuff on my dress.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Yeah, that's really the only thing I knew.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
You did try on a few that I was shocked
you came out of.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Me because the problem is I've been trying on the
same kind of like silhouette, and so I'm like, I
need to change it up just to see if there's
anything like that could tickle my fancy that looks a
little bit different.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
So I was trying to like, I.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Also don't think she had you like snap, like she
didn't have the clamp on, right.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
Yeah, a lot of fabric, a lot of fabric.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
But what I said, it's more like avant garde. And
you were like I am avant garde and Pauline and
was like, no, you're not, which neither are we? Like
we're not saying that in a way of like we
are a judgy. Oh really, yeah, I never want that.
I'm sorry, No, it's okay, but I do want to
be like honest with you because there's your wedding dress.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Yeah, no, it isn't me.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
So I got to be like a little stern yeah,
but encouraging.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
And that's the thing I think you get in your
head because you're like, I know what I like, I
know what. It looks good on me. But then I'm like,
this is my wedding, this is my my once in
a lifetime, this is my wedding. So I wanted to
like be grand and be this like wedding dress, but
then I put on the grand wedding.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
Dress and I feel like I just look so silly. Well, yeah,
because it's not a dress.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
I think it makes sense because it's not a dress
that you would wear at any other point, and you
never want it before, right, And that's the whole idea,
is that you're wearing something you've never worn or will
never wear again.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
Correct. But then you wear it and you're like, I
feel like I'm playing dress up correct.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
And I want to feel like me. I want to
look back and like feel like this.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
Was yeah me, I think the one that might be
the one feels like me felt like it was made
for you.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
Yeah, it was made It was actually made for me.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
If I ever put a dress on and it looked
like that, I'd be like I'm out.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Of here, I'm wearing it out, never taking it all.
It was pretty crazy.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
And the even crazier thing was I had it on
and like having this moment, and the minute I went
back into the dressing room, Robbie facetimed Paulina, Yeah, which.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
She said, he hasn't done. She's like, he hasn't called
me once about this whole process.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Yeah, which is assigned telling symbolics significance.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
It was like, what's the word we always use? Anyways,
we're in pump Springs.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Yeah, that was earlier today in Los Angeles.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
Yeah, lots has happened since then we got here. We
had an amazing chef, Stephen for Master Chef season six
and twelve. He was a returning contestant season twelfth. The
Poverty of Master Chef.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
Yeah, he just said, he went on, you know, why
wouldn't he go back when you're a fan favorite, Why
wouldn't you go back?
Speaker 3 (08:24):
Right? And he made us an amazing meal.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
Allison's here, Sam's here, Easton's here.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
But I guess the best part is, Oh, we're sharing
a room.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
And you know what's interesting about this is there there
was a whole extra room with two extra beds, and
yet Tanya gilted me into sharing a room with her.
Speaker 3 (08:49):
We do have separate beds, separate beds. You have your
own bed, but I could in my own room, I know.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
But whenever again, like when these times, it's like we're
back in college again, sleeping in the same room.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
I didn't do that, and I loved it.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
It's like I get to like relive those days I
loved so much.
Speaker 5 (09:07):
Okay, should we make a sleeping porch?
Speaker 3 (09:10):
Yeah? Like that, like it feels like a sleeping porch. Okay, well,
I already agreed.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
To it, so it's you don't have to convince me
anymore guilt to me about your colleages. That was good
if I didn't already agree to it, that was sentimental.
Speaker 3 (09:24):
Yeah, it was a good yeah, thank you.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
So we are here, Yeah, we are here to play
truth or drink. The last time we were in Palm Springs,
I don't remember half of it, but Eastern and Alison
do because they don't drink alcohol, and luckily they have
vivid memories I assume of our actions.
Speaker 5 (09:48):
All too vivid recurring nightmares.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
I would say, yeah, I can imagine.
Speaker 5 (09:53):
It was a lot of fun.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
I did not see that there was a microphone in
front of your face because you're right behind my like
ring light.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
So I was like, is.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Eastern gonna come talk to talking about the microphone?
Speaker 5 (10:05):
You know we're in headphones. You can't hear the dulcin
tones in my voice coming through. Oh, there's always a
microphone near me. No, it's great to return to the
scene of the crime. I love being back in Pump
Springs with you guys. I can't wait to see what
happens next.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
I just can't the pressure I felt of like, how
do you beat that episode of our last Pump Springs.
Speaker 1 (10:26):
Well, we did try to get Sabrina Carpenter as a
guest this weekend.
Speaker 3 (10:31):
Unfortunately she's out grown up. She's a bit busy. Well.
I think it was just the timing.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
Honestly, I feel like if it was album released weekend,
she would have come on. That's so her album just
came out today.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
You and Haley both do this. It's really cute. What
just like delusion.
Speaker 5 (10:54):
She's in the scribbing in Two Timers Club.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
She has scrub.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
But she is one of the biggest pop stars in
the world right now, and we can't even get someone
from Love Island.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
Hey, they are very popular. Right now, we'll good of
it about a month.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
I'm just saying, I think that we are so grateful
that we had Sabrina three times.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Yes, I didn't realize so iconic if we had her
on I know.
Speaker 4 (11:25):
And she's a busy, busy girl.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
Right.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
So I'm saying, launching an album door with Taylor Swift
launching it going on?
Speaker 2 (11:31):
Yeah, but why why, even like in the past, try
to relive something that's so iconic, right, you know what
I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
That honestly, that image lives rent free in my head
twenty four to seven, I think about as much as
I think about weens.
Speaker 3 (11:51):
Which wasn't not a lot of people agreed with you,
but some did. Well. I knew that would be the
case because you're never alone in your weird thoughts.
Speaker 1 (11:59):
Let's let that be a reminder. You're never alone in
your thoughts.
Speaker 4 (12:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
My sister texted me and or responded to my like
the clip of it, and she was like, you're coloring
in this video? Like because I was like, green, oh
this video.
Speaker 3 (12:24):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (12:24):
Yeah? Yeah, it just wasn't good and I would never
intentionally do that to myself.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
It was such an accident.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
But I wish that Allison would join us and recap
her experience.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
Because she don't want to.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
I will not I will not have the Robbie slander Calander.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
We're just trying to give Alison the credit where credit
has been due for many years.
Speaker 3 (12:47):
But what's funny is.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
That I was facetiming with Robbie and I was like,
Allison is over here slandering your name because she whatever whatever.
And she goes, uh because I told her that I
the trash can, and he goes, oh, yeah, that's that
is what happened.
Speaker 5 (13:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
Yeah, we won a full like recap from one because
you and Easton were standing over me and I just
y'all were like a like those wavy mirrors at the
fair and you're like, hey, Becca, we're about to start
the podcast, and I was like, huh okay.
Speaker 6 (13:20):
Well we got to the room because we were a
little worried. We were all having drinks hanging out at
the pool. I drink like maybe four drinks a year,
so I had like my one margarita and you guys
were like having a few margaritas, and then Easton and
I left, and then we didn't hear anything for two hours,
and I don't know what happened in that two hours,
but you guys were out of control. When we got
to the room, we opened the door, Tanya was just
(13:43):
out of control and somehow pulled it together for the podcast,
which was the most amazing part to me. I mean,
you were like incoherent, and then as soon as you
guys got like the phone set up, you were fine.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
It was you were like such a journalist. I was amazing.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
Like honestly though I was blacked out, like I don't
really remember much.
Speaker 6 (13:59):
But you seemed so professional together and it was just
like like a like a switch fliped.
Speaker 3 (14:03):
It was incredible. Then see this person to the side
of me falling down.
Speaker 6 (14:09):
That seemed fine when we got there, and then I
don't know what happened because as soon as you guys
started going, she just was not fine anymore. But the
part I would like to just clear my name on
is that I noticed things are not going well, ran
to get an ice bucket, and then Robbie ran up
and was like, no, I'm going to be the one
to be the hero and hand it.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
Off to bet.
Speaker 6 (14:30):
I cannot say that he didn't say that, but he did.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
I'm so cringe. He would never say, I'll never see that.
But what I didn't realize.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
I told him this and he was like, yeah, she
did bring in he goes, but you were giving me
the devil eyes to like help and do something. And
I was like, I do remember being like I kept
looking at and being like somebody helped me, Like like
you know my eyes where I like don't open.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
Yes, I was like help me. So I think he
just was like trying to do.
Speaker 6 (14:56):
You know, we're both cancers. Our birthdays are a week apart.
Where in pathic I think you and I knew immediately
things were not good, and we just like knew something
had to be done.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
And I knew.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
I felt like I just saw her falling and I
just felt like nobody was doing anything. So I kept
stare because he was just watching me, and I was
like do something.
Speaker 5 (15:15):
Do you remember Becca leaning over to me and going
it's like saying like it's not good or something. I
thought she was joking and like, ah, it starts to
sink dad out of frame.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
Man.
Speaker 2 (15:25):
That's my final memory is me looking at you being
it's not good.
Speaker 3 (15:29):
The color like truly drained out of your face.
Speaker 4 (15:31):
It was honestly scary at the moment I.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
Filled that ice bucket up. Yeah, it was. It happened
after that, I don't remember, Like I swear, I really
blacked out because, like she did the full interview. Was
I just laying there? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (15:48):
Yeah, well, I mean, I don't know how much this
curd we'd like to pull back. We did the interview
and then we all decided it would be a good
idea if we took a break for a few hours
and then we came back later.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
Oh I remember in the bathrobe and finishing it.
Speaker 2 (16:01):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I remember a pizza, pizza, yeah, Gatorade too, Gatorades.
But I'm saying, like so during the Sabrina interview, I
was just laying on the ground next to you.
Speaker 3 (16:12):
All.
Speaker 5 (16:13):
Yeah, let me see if I have my notes from
that episode. Still, what was I asking her?
Speaker 3 (16:18):
That's the other thing, is like, what am I talking
to her about? Yeah? I don't know. Wow.
Speaker 4 (16:24):
I went on a bike ride in between during your recovery.
Speaker 6 (16:27):
That was like the funniest sort. We did a full
bike ride and then came back.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
It was it was It was something I never want
to experience again.
Speaker 3 (16:36):
But I'm glad that there's footage of it. Yeah, I know.
I'm glad we have it. I'm glad we have it too.
It was quite the most. I hope that it never
happens again.
Speaker 5 (16:44):
I really admire you for being so cool about reliving it. Yeah,
taking us through this riot again. Yeah, you're just I
really appreciate that.
Speaker 3 (16:52):
Anything for the scrubbers.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
Yeah, you know, we are interviewing Aurora Colpo tomorrow, so
I could happen like nine am.
Speaker 3 (17:02):
Could you imagine. Yeah, She's like for you guys good.
Speaker 4 (17:06):
She would say something though, yeah, all right, we're back ago.
Speaker 1 (17:09):
That's the other thing, was just like, at all she's
coming back, you know nothing.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
She probably saw my coloring as soon as that she
answered him as like she might not be here for
a minute. She might only be here for a minute.
That is what I meant. But anyways, that's about that.
That's about last time. Yeah, we're here to focus on
this time. So I think there's some questions that have
been submitted for truth or drink break. I was gonna
(17:39):
get to that good joll broadcast pros.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
We're gonna take a break. We'll be right back.
Speaker 5 (17:58):
Who wants to go first? How do we JUSTI this
paper scissors.
Speaker 3 (18:02):
Okay, helper scisors. Shoot Yeah, rock paper scissors, Shoot rock
paper scissor, Shoot, rock paper scissors, shoot shoot.
Speaker 5 (18:12):
You go first, okay with the listener, that was two
ties and then becka one good rock All right, here
we go, Tanya oh Man the first one.
Speaker 3 (18:23):
Oh my gosh, as to make a mard.
Speaker 5 (18:26):
Yeah, I mean this is awkward for me to read. Okay, ready,
f Mary kill Easton, Mark and Ryan, are you going
to answer that? Or are you going to take a drink?
Speaker 3 (18:42):
I have to take a drink. I can't. I can't.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
I can't do any of those with any of you.
So that's my answer.
Speaker 3 (18:53):
No, no, no, that's not don't try to weasle your
way out of business. That's the answer. I really can't.
I thought about her for a second, Wheelstir and I
got scared.
Speaker 5 (19:07):
As we discussed last week, it's very hard to find
questions that tiny will not answer, and that's one of them.
Speaker 3 (19:12):
No, I'll answer it, but that's not the answer you
want to hear.
Speaker 5 (19:16):
Oh, it looks like I'm getting killed.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
Not you what I'm saying in general, like I can't, Yeah,
I can't do it?
Speaker 3 (19:26):
Wow, I can't.
Speaker 5 (19:29):
Yeah, great, great, great, question. M M, she's sipping.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
I would marry all three of you, and I'll leave
it on that.
Speaker 2 (19:40):
Yeah, I've all right, all right, beca truth or drink.
Speaker 5 (19:48):
If you never met Haley, do you think you'd still
be dating men?
Speaker 3 (19:55):
Interesting? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (20:01):
Wow, I do.
Speaker 3 (20:04):
I think she changed everything so romantic. Yeah, I think
I think she changed everything. And I don't know that
like I think for sure too.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
Yeah, but I don't know that I would have ever
experienced what I experienced with Haley with dating man.
Speaker 3 (20:21):
I mean I want it. Are you crying? That's every
time I Are you crying? Are you gonna cry? I
have the dress shop? I thought she was crying. She's
like no. I was like, God, shed a tear. You're here.
I think it's the one I was waiting for. I
(20:41):
said yes to the dress. Okay, we're ready.
Speaker 5 (20:45):
All right, Tanya your turn. What did Tanya and Robbie
do when she first met the kids?
Speaker 3 (20:54):
What did we do.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
The first my first time, like unofficially meeting them. I
brought over medicine. Robbie was sick and I brought over
like some like juices or whatever. And one of our
one of the kids remembers that like memory, like he
remembered me bringing over medicine for his dad. But like
(21:17):
my first time actually meeting them like officially officially was
we did a barbecue in the backyard and it was
like lunch, and so I went over to the house
for lunch. We all sat outside and I brought them
both like a gift, but it wasn't like an expensive gift.
Speaker 3 (21:36):
It was like a thoughtful gift. So like.
Speaker 1 (21:40):
One of them like didn't like spiders, and so I
made him like a spider repellent that was like.
Speaker 3 (21:46):
I don't know what the word is.
Speaker 1 (21:48):
I can't remember what it was, but it was some
like natural scent that like keeps like the spiders away.
Speaker 3 (21:53):
It was like a vanilla or something, yeah, like something.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
It's not vanilla, but it was like something lavender or
something like that. So I put during like a bottle
and I made it like his like, you know, spider
for spray or whatever.
Speaker 3 (22:05):
I know this, I never told you this.
Speaker 1 (22:08):
And then I got the other one was like very
really into like architecture. So I got in like a
little pencil set with like his.
Speaker 3 (22:14):
Name on it. Cute, And that was my first time
like officially meeting them.
Speaker 5 (22:20):
I've never heard so sweet, sweet, but a special moment
to remember too.
Speaker 1 (22:24):
Yeah, I remember like it was yesterday. I don't remember
what we ate though, probably straight steak and some shrimps
specialty Robbie's specialty.
Speaker 3 (22:36):
All right, right, I have a feeling I.
Speaker 5 (22:38):
Know what was I'm sorry? What was it? I did
not come up with these questions as scrubbers did. What
was it like hooking up with a girl versus hooking
up with a guy for the first time?
Speaker 2 (22:51):
Oh, this is interesting, so, I I think because I
was a virgin for majority of my life, like even
before I met Halea, I'd only like been with two
people before Haley, like I guess sexually speaking. So I
didn't feel like I was overly experienced, but I never
(23:12):
felt like I always felt confident with men, but weirdly
I felt way more intimidated.
Speaker 3 (23:19):
Well, yeah, I would be. I wouldn't know what to do, like,
but a lot of people are like, oh, but you're
a woman, you know what you like. But it's like,
I don't know it was It was definitely more like
I I definitely always felt more comfortable with men in
that way, but then I felt very intimidated hooking up.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
But it was great I wouldn't know what to do.
Speaker 3 (23:45):
I really want you've you'd figure it out, you think, Yeah,
although I don't know. You seemed to really prefer you
really lean heavy one way.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
I do, but I think I'm like, I just don't
think I would know I would know what to do.
Speaker 5 (24:01):
Thank you for that answer, Becket, Thanks for being so
honest and.
Speaker 3 (24:05):
Just did not want that tequila gonna be.
Speaker 5 (24:08):
A good shows.
Speaker 3 (24:10):
Uh.
Speaker 5 (24:11):
Oh, man, tell you what's the most embarrassing thing that's
happened to you during an intimate moment.
Speaker 1 (24:19):
Uh, I'm not really embarrassed by anything that happens.
Speaker 3 (24:24):
What would a.
Speaker 4 (24:24):
Normal person be embarrassed? Abyll, that's happened.
Speaker 1 (24:28):
One time I got really sick in the middle of
it and had to like literally hop off and then
and and like went straight to the bathroom. Ended up
like like laying on the floor of the bathroom like
not well, like come like sick, hop off, yeah.
Speaker 3 (24:51):
OK, hop off the bike?
Speaker 1 (24:53):
Yeah the old Yeah that was pretty embarrassing, but like
not embarrassing because it.
Speaker 3 (24:59):
Was like I was actually just like sick, right, Like
that's just human, that's just being human.
Speaker 1 (25:04):
Yeah, but like not nice because I was like naked,
you know, yeah. And then I think I took like
the the bath Matt like.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
Because I was like, ah, yeah, this feels clean. Yeah yeah, yeah,
that's tough. Yeah it's tough.
Speaker 5 (25:23):
Well, I'd say that counts, all right? Becca? Who is
the guy Becca went on a date with that? She
said it was well known, but acted like a complete
fool when they were out. I believe his name started
with an M.
Speaker 3 (25:37):
I didn't act like a complete fool.
Speaker 5 (25:39):
H No, I think he did.
Speaker 3 (25:40):
He didn't act like a complete fool. That story is
not accurate.
Speaker 4 (25:43):
Yeah, that's not I know what you're talking too. And
I'm gonna dream you're gonna never is that going to
go with you to the grave?
Speaker 3 (25:55):
It's so mad to the I don't know to the grave.
Speaker 5 (26:02):
But for now, all right, Becca has taken? Are we
keeping track of this? Should there be like a winner
at the end?
Speaker 3 (26:11):
I don't know there's one taken one? All right?
Speaker 5 (26:17):
Tanya. Have you ever met any of Robbie's exes?
Speaker 3 (26:23):
Yeah? A lot, actually a lot of his Actually, yeah,
one of them I'm obsessed with and I follow her
on Instagram. She's really cute.
Speaker 1 (26:33):
And then I met his first kiss one recently last year.
And then I met her wife, So I felt about that.
Speaker 3 (26:44):
Yeah, yeah, that's always comforting. Yeah yeah, yeah, You're like
pointed at means and her wife. I'm like, are we
you know.
Speaker 5 (27:01):
You've probably seen her at the meetings.
Speaker 4 (27:03):
Yeah, you'll know each other, right, w l W.
Speaker 5 (27:11):
I'm sorry. I don't want I don't want this to
be a follow up question. You don't have to truth
or drink this. I'm just curious, like when you made
his first kiss, Like did you ask her like, whoa,
what was it? Like? This seems like something you do.
Speaker 3 (27:22):
No, it was like it was like at a fair.
We were like at what is it? The cookout? The
Malibu cookout. We're like it Yeah, it was like yeah.
Speaker 5 (27:30):
And he knows. She's like, that's my first kiss.
Speaker 3 (27:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (27:33):
Or not?
Speaker 1 (27:34):
I think we I think I can't remember how I was.
Either she said she was his first kiss or he
was like she was my first kiss or something like that.
Speaker 3 (27:43):
It was I was out in the open, all.
Speaker 5 (27:46):
Right, beca your turn, uh rank easiest hardest to come
out to Jojo, Ali and Tanya.
Speaker 3 (27:58):
No one was hard like there.
Speaker 2 (27:59):
I would say they were all even but for the
sake of me not having a drink.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
Tanya Ali Jojo that was the easiest, sure, so nice.
Speaker 5 (28:11):
Yeah, jo Is the hardest.
Speaker 3 (28:14):
Was so scary. I was so nervous about her.
Speaker 2 (28:17):
Why you were all very equally. I did not feel
nervous coming out to either of y'all, and I loved
every single one of your reactions. It was so fun funny.
Speaker 3 (28:29):
What tell me more? That's crazy? Yeah? Crazy?
Speaker 5 (28:35):
Yeah, Tanya? What is something illegal? You've done?
Speaker 3 (28:41):
What's illegal? But like, I mean.
Speaker 5 (28:49):
Anyway, I can say jay walking, but like, is there
have you ever committed a crime?
Speaker 3 (28:54):
You were stolen anything?
Speaker 5 (28:57):
A felony would be great?
Speaker 3 (28:59):
Yeah, ever committed a crime?
Speaker 4 (29:02):
I imagine College Tatiana.
Speaker 3 (29:05):
Was probably committed. I had to take ID. Oh yeah, counts, yeah,
I had to take ID.
Speaker 5 (29:11):
I was expecting like a public in decency thing or something.
Speaker 3 (29:13):
I have Pete in very public in public, yes, And Marty.
Speaker 5 (29:18):
Grass, you're in some beads.
Speaker 3 (29:22):
Yeah yeah, yeah, all right, so quite a lot actually
all right, quite fell in times.
Speaker 5 (29:45):
All right, Beck, this person wants us to know who
asked this is from Maureen? Maureen, who is the better
kisser crystals or Ben Higgins and then tongue out emoji.
Speaker 3 (29:58):
Interesting. I'm not going to answer out of respect to
my girlfriend? Oh, is disrespectful to answer that I like
Chris and Ben? What I like Chris and Ben?
Speaker 1 (30:15):
Who would I say I respectful to Haley if you
were to answer I want to care, okay, because I I.
Speaker 3 (30:21):
Worry about that sometimes with I don't think Hailey would care.
Speaker 2 (30:25):
I would say, it's just so hard because I really
feel like Ben thought of me as a friend the
whole time, So I felt it like I thought I did,
but like looking back, I don't think so right because
I felt like he just was like nine too me.
But Chris I did feel like was into me, and
(30:45):
they were both good kissers. So I would say they
were both good kissers. But I do feel like Ben's from.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
It was more platonic than your.
Speaker 4 (30:52):
Yeah, Like I think I was trying to make it happen,
but it just wasn't you know.
Speaker 1 (30:55):
I have so many questions, would like how much tongue
was used?
Speaker 3 (31:00):
Oh, watch the.
Speaker 2 (31:01):
Show, Watch the show, Watch the whole season?
Speaker 5 (31:06):
Did they show that much?
Speaker 2 (31:08):
I mean, I do I feel like if you I
was so nervous to kiss, like all I could think
about when I was kissing Chris, like knowing that it.
Speaker 3 (31:17):
Was gonna come on camera, it was gonna happen.
Speaker 2 (31:19):
Yeah, Like thinking about my dad seeing me kiss someone,
I was like, this is so weird, like my parents
watching me kiss someone on TV?
Speaker 3 (31:27):
Like everyone seeing me kiss? What if I don't look
good when I kiss? I know I've never seen myself kiss.
I don't recommend it in that moment.
Speaker 5 (31:35):
How many cameramen are around generally, is there like one
or two?
Speaker 2 (31:39):
Well, they knew that I was nervous, and I think
they were like wanting it to happen so much. So
I was on our one on one date, which was
like pretty far into the season, so I hadn't kissed
him on any of the group dates or anything, and
because I had voiced him, I'm like, this is so
strange to me. And so on our date they had
someone like really far away like I would say, like
(32:01):
the window over there, wow, with a camera.
Speaker 5 (32:04):
Because I'm justure.
Speaker 3 (32:04):
I felt very like.
Speaker 1 (32:07):
Isolated, but the lenses like zoom in because I always
felt like they were like in your face.
Speaker 2 (32:12):
No, I mean they have some good quality cameras there, yeah,
some Love Island.
Speaker 3 (32:17):
So they gave me, they gave me the respect they deserved.
Speaker 5 (32:21):
Pretend they weren't there.
Speaker 3 (32:22):
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (32:23):
Even though I knew it was coming and I knew
I was like just just like like, oh, like god,
you know.
Speaker 1 (32:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (32:29):
Every time I see those scenes, I just picture like
a guy like me wearing like a tight eyed shirt,
just holding a camera like getting so close to you,
and I'm like, how do.
Speaker 2 (32:34):
You Yeah, no, there, It's funny. They're very good at
not being noticed. Wow, even if they're close like they
could be with.
Speaker 1 (32:41):
That when you see like when you watch Love Island,
like you're like, how are these people not saying all
this stuff, not realizing they're on camera, And then you
look at these shots and the cameras are.
Speaker 3 (32:50):
Like so far away from them. Yeah, I know, so
it's easy to forget.
Speaker 2 (32:55):
Yeah, and you're you, weirdly are in this kind of bubble,
so theyre always around you.
Speaker 3 (33:00):
You know that they're listening at all times. And then
and then poof what I was thinking about how every
time I go to the bathroom, I'd be so stressed.
Speaker 2 (33:11):
I'd like turn off my MIC because I figured out
how to turn it off, so I just like turn
it off when I went to the bathroom because I was.
Speaker 3 (33:15):
Like, what if they're listening right now? Yeah, and you said, poof,
And I don't real sa poop when you can. Oh yeah, anyways,
that was a detour.
Speaker 1 (33:27):
I've always thought about that whenever, like I was miked
up for like award shows, and then I go to
the bathroom, I'm like, how gross they have to.
Speaker 3 (33:36):
Like hear me. I think they don't care. I mean
they're not listening, but still it's yeah, I was way
more paranoid.
Speaker 5 (33:43):
I mean, like, on this side of it, we want
to listen the least about possible, even when it's happening.
So uh, Tanya, Yes, let's see. Here's the scenario, Truth
or Drink. Beca quits the podcast, She's gone. You have
to pick a new co hosting A will continue without Becca.
(34:04):
Who are you going to pick?
Speaker 3 (34:05):
Are you gonna call Ghostbusters?
Speaker 5 (34:10):
Have the Ghostbusters?
Speaker 3 (34:10):
Yeah? They feel like a good group to call.
Speaker 1 (34:15):
I mean, I'll answer it because I don't want to drink,
but I wouldn't I wouldn't want to do with anybody else.
Speaker 4 (34:21):
That's unfortunately, not how Truth or Drink works. You're just
like dodging quid. You're just dodging answers.
Speaker 3 (34:26):
That's not true. They're asking me what would I do
if Becca were to lead.
Speaker 5 (34:31):
It's not so what would you do? It's you have
to pick a host? Who would you pick? You can't quit.
You're in an iron clad contract with Iheartradia. You have
to host this podcast with a co host. Who's it
going to be?
Speaker 3 (34:48):
I don't like that?
Speaker 5 (34:50):
Well, then you drink. I think there's an easy way
out of this.
Speaker 3 (34:54):
I mean, if I had to pick someone, I'd probably
pick Robbie.
Speaker 5 (34:58):
That'd be fine.
Speaker 3 (35:02):
It's nice, he's nice to talk to.
Speaker 5 (35:03):
Yeah, that's I think the scrubbers would I mean, obviously
if Beca was gone, they would write. But I think
that'd be the great, the best alternative.
Speaker 1 (35:10):
But if if my option, if the if the question
wasn't you had to find someone, I would not do
it without her.
Speaker 5 (35:16):
Well, so if leaves a show, scrubbing In is going away,
we're putting that on record.
Speaker 3 (35:23):
Yeah, Tanya's gone.
Speaker 5 (35:24):
To's gone, it's.
Speaker 3 (35:27):
Just scrubbing in.
Speaker 5 (35:29):
Beca.
Speaker 3 (35:30):
Oh no, my stomach's already hurting.
Speaker 5 (35:32):
Tanya quits the podcast, you have to pick a new
co host. Who are you gonna call? Right the show goes.
Speaker 3 (35:42):
On, I can't drink. My stomach hurts so bad.
Speaker 2 (35:51):
Just bumm easton up scrubbing in with Beck back Easton. Wow,
but if I had, if I didn't have to have
a co.
Speaker 3 (36:05):
Host, i'd quit. It took her a long time to
get there. Didn't anybody hear that?
Speaker 5 (36:15):
I'm very happy with the answer, Uh, Tanya, I like
this one.
Speaker 3 (36:21):
Uh?
Speaker 5 (36:22):
Did you follow through on your word? And KIV Robbie
the best BJ of his life when he got home
from his fourth of July trip.
Speaker 3 (36:29):
Sure? Did.
Speaker 1 (36:31):
I don't know if it was the best in his
life because I give some good ones, but it was
up there.
Speaker 2 (36:38):
Do you know you give good ones because you just
feel like confident that you have good ones, or just
do you get verbal confirmation?
Speaker 3 (36:45):
Well, I mean there's only one confirmation you need, Yeah, confirmation.
But I can tell when there are better than others.
Speaker 1 (36:55):
Yeah yeah yeah through results results, Yeah, positive, ratings, rating review?
Speaker 3 (37:05):
What is it? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (37:10):
Alright?
Speaker 3 (37:11):
Uh?
Speaker 5 (37:12):
Becca? Tanya had in f Mary Killer earlier. Now it's
your turn, crystals, Ben Higgins, Robert Graham, M.
Speaker 3 (37:22):
Hmm, I'm going to drink out of my girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (37:30):
But is it disrespectful if you answered that. I'm trying
to understand, like, where the where the where the respect
lies for me or for you?
Speaker 3 (37:39):
No?
Speaker 1 (37:39):
In general, like if you have a significant other, I
think it's just different.
Speaker 3 (37:42):
For whoever, I wouln't want to hear her talk about
who she would like her exes.
Speaker 5 (37:48):
That was I was gonna have a question, like, do
you have you and Haley talked about each other's exes
and stuff.
Speaker 1 (37:53):
Yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (37:56):
Don't like care about any of it. Yeah yeah, and
I just she probably doesn't care as much as I do.
But I just like to err on the side of
caution for that.
Speaker 5 (38:05):
Yeah yeah, yeah, well we love respect on the show.
Speaker 3 (38:11):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (38:13):
It's just interesting because it's like she also is in
this industry and like speaks and can be asked stuff,
you know what I mean. It's different because like Robbie
doesn't speak, do you know what I'm saying? He has
no voice, But it's not like people are asking him
questions on a daily basis, and like if he were
to answer something like that, like, yeah, I wouldn't like
(38:33):
that either, but I don't have to deal with that.
Speaker 3 (38:35):
Oh right, right, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (38:36):
Yeah, Like I can see the other side of it
of that happening, how I would feel like that.
Speaker 3 (38:41):
Would never happen, right, But that's like messed up you
would care if sure Mary kill his ex. No, I
know you're acting. I was being crazy for not no yeah, no, no, no,
I feel I feel. I feel good about not answer.
Speaker 2 (38:56):
I feel good about that tequila that's burning a hole
in my stomach.
Speaker 3 (39:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (39:00):
Do you watch Haley's interviews, like when she gets interviewed,
do you watch to see if you're mentioned?
Speaker 3 (39:06):
No? Not always, but people sometimes will message me and
be like, oh, this was so sweet that Haley said that.
Speaker 2 (39:11):
So they don't go listen or watch or read. But
she doesn't mention me that much. Really, she could mention
me more. Yeah, gotta note that for her.
Speaker 3 (39:20):
I was like, hey, you feel free to talk. I've
talked about you.
Speaker 5 (39:26):
I'm sure you asked your biggest inspirations all the time.
It'd be great music.
Speaker 3 (39:30):
Yeah, what are her initials? Your favorite sandwich? She doesn't
mention me enough? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (39:40):
No, she I just I didn't say she doesn't mention
me enough. She could just mention me more. That's clear
the air.
Speaker 5 (39:47):
Uh, Tanya, this is a deep cut that I was
not familiar with. But earlier in the podcast Days you
mentioned that you wanted Charlie Pooth to sing at your wedding.
Are you still friends with him and will he still
be singing at your wedd.
Speaker 1 (40:00):
I am still friends with him. I have not asked
him to sing at my wedding. I don't know. Especially
now that I'm doing Destination, I don't think I will
ask him to partake. But I do want one of
my friends to sing my first dance. So I haven't
officially asked her because I don't know exactly what song
(40:22):
it is yet.
Speaker 3 (40:23):
But oh yeah.
Speaker 5 (40:25):
We're gonna get it. This is this person a professional
singer much.
Speaker 3 (40:31):
It's like I asked Becca my first gig.
Speaker 1 (40:37):
I would be sweet, though. What if I had all
my bridesmaids singing harmonize.
Speaker 3 (40:45):
The chaos? Yeah? Yeah we could. I'm happy to do
whatever you need me to do.
Speaker 1 (40:49):
Thank you so much. Welcome wear whatever color you need.
I want whatever you need.
Speaker 3 (40:53):
Just let me know so I can figure out what
hair color I need for that color? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (40:58):
Uh, Becca, Who is the most famous person in your
contact list?
Speaker 3 (41:02):
Oh? Blake Lively. I don't want Blake, Kim Kardashian, not
Kim Kardashian. I don't have a lot of famous people
on my phone. People. I think people think that I have,
like Taylor Swis's phone number, because I like took a
picture with her and have met her several pictures with her. No,
(41:22):
I don't just have one. I mean I have a
few from the same night, but just one. Dang, But
I've been around her more than a picture show. But
I don't have her number. They like I really, I'm
trying to think. I don't know who I don't. Really,
(41:43):
I can't think of anyone famous that I have their number.
Why you me, I'm trying to get you to help me.
Oh well, I thought Kim Kardashian was a good one.
I don't have Kim's number.
Speaker 2 (41:55):
No, Norm Blake like Robin, I do have Robin Lively.
Speaker 3 (42:02):
Okay, that's up there. Circle back, Let me think about
my Let me brows browsing.
Speaker 5 (42:12):
Browsing.
Speaker 3 (42:12):
Wow, no browsing Like I don't there's no way. Yeah,
go ahead, go.
Speaker 5 (42:18):
Ahead, Tanya. Yes, have you ever had a threesome?
Speaker 3 (42:23):
No? All right, never have, never will spoiler alert?
Speaker 5 (42:30):
Wow off the table.
Speaker 3 (42:31):
Off the table. Yes, that's off the table. Oh yeah, yes,
I still don't know.
Speaker 1 (42:40):
I think I'm too jealous of a gal to for that.
I would not enjoy that. It never once like was
like a fantasy or anything that I wanted to try.
Speaker 2 (42:49):
I did have Kelsey Ballerini, but it's not her number anymore,
so I don't.
Speaker 3 (42:54):
Know if that's that counts at the time. Yeah at
one time, oh only to lot Oh yeah yeah, whoa,
I have more than I realized in here. Okay, good one, Becca,
Thank you so much.
Speaker 5 (43:12):
That was pretty exciting. Becca. I know you've been asked
this a lot. Today we're going to ask you again.
(43:32):
Oh my god, do you have an engagement to Haley planned?
Is she planning to ask? And then the next year?
Speaker 3 (43:40):
Am I planning to ask? Or is she planning?
Speaker 5 (43:43):
I mean I think it's probably you. Is she here? Uh?
Does Beca have an engagement to Haley planned? Or is
she playing asking the next year? I guess that is you.
Speaker 3 (43:50):
I don't have it planned, so.
Speaker 2 (43:55):
I would say no, but if and here's the thing,
I was telling Tawny that, like, I don't have an idea,
but I know that I wanted to be something super
meaningful and thoughtful, Like it doesn't even need to be
a grand gesture, but just something that has a lot
of thought behind it. So if I if something comes
to me, then I can like get things into motion.
Speaker 3 (44:15):
But I've been saying, what are you waiting for it
to come to you?
Speaker 2 (44:17):
No? No, no, I just kind of like, you know,
just like the juices flow, Let the juices flow.
Speaker 3 (44:23):
So like, okay, let's say but also, this is.
Speaker 2 (44:26):
What I told Tony because she asked me this question
four times on our four hour drive, so once an hour,
and I would say, like, we just moved in together,
which even though we basically live together, it's that's the
focus right now, is that step in our lives, and
then you know, we'll move on to the next.
Speaker 1 (44:43):
So let's say like tomorrow you're having like an epiphany
and you're like, this.
Speaker 3 (44:47):
Is I know what I want to do?
Speaker 1 (44:49):
Would that be like the thing that got you started
to like get the process going.
Speaker 2 (44:54):
I mean I think I would maybe just start trying
to figure out, like subtly what kind of ring she likes,
you know, just think about things that would ignite that process.
Speaker 4 (45:03):
But we're just happy to be living together.
Speaker 3 (45:07):
And all right, all right, no rush, just curiosity, So
much for not rushing me.
Speaker 2 (45:12):
No, you haven't eve been super chill last a couple
of times on the.
Speaker 1 (45:18):
Drive, because you know why why I'm triggered from when
you said that you weren't going to tell me or
anybody when it was gonna happen.
Speaker 3 (45:28):
It's so funny that this is your way of handling that,
as if you repeatedly asking me, it's gonna make me
want to tell you more.
Speaker 1 (45:37):
It's not even about that, like it was like, I
feel like if I don't ask you, you're not just
gonna forthright tell me. But I feel like if I
asked you, you're gonna tell me, like you're not gonna
hide it.
Speaker 2 (45:49):
Yeah, Like if I have a plan, I'm not gonna
tell you just because you asked me.
Speaker 1 (45:52):
Really, Yeah, even if I just flat out asked you,
you would just lie to my face like that.
Speaker 3 (45:59):
Yeah. Wow.
Speaker 4 (46:00):
Because you didn't respect that boundary.
Speaker 3 (46:03):
Oh my god. I have to respect so many boundaries
with her these days.
Speaker 2 (46:07):
Boundaries, boundaries, respect boundaries here, so I don't want to
check my phone.
Speaker 1 (46:13):
So now every time you don't answer me for twelve hours,
I'm like, chill, I don't.
Speaker 3 (46:18):
Spend a week of that. And it's been very.
Speaker 2 (46:21):
Respectful, I know, thank you very what other boundary?
Speaker 3 (46:25):
That boundary takes a lot of boundary.
Speaker 1 (46:29):
Yeah, a lot of my boundary with and I'm just
like respecting Becca's boundaries.
Speaker 3 (46:35):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (46:36):
Oh oh. And then uh, there was the Papa shot.
There was like we were watching some papa shot tournament
on ESPN, and I was like, oh my gosh, this
is so funny. And I said it to Becca and
I sent you the video and then Robbie posted on
his Instagram and you responded to Robbie's Instagram and not
my text, and I was like, you know what, I'm
respecting her boundaries.
Speaker 3 (46:55):
She'll respond when she wants to. I think I looked
at my Instagram before I looked at my phone my text. Yeah,
is a Instagram on your phone? I looked at my
instagram if I looked at my text yeaheah. So just
like bad timing of what I saw first. Yeah, it's
those respecting boundaries. I'm so proud of you for doing that. Yeah.
(47:15):
How and by the time you responded, I didn't even
care about it anymore. See how that works? You just
move on, You forget and move on. Wow. I'm just saying,
don't you feel empowered by that?
Speaker 1 (47:27):
No, Because Paulina was telling me about some text she
sent you and you responded right away, and I was like, wow.
Speaker 3 (47:32):
There's a business opportunity. It sad. Well, No, it's timely.
It's timely. It feels like the boundary has only been
set with me, please, is it?
Speaker 1 (47:47):
No, it's just like a boundary that you're like setting
in general, or is it.
Speaker 4 (47:52):
I don't respond a lot to people.
Speaker 2 (47:54):
Oh, I'm not bragging, like, I'm not saying that it's
like that's a good quality I have.
Speaker 3 (47:58):
I'm just saying it's not only with you. Oh yeah,
that makes me feel better? Good? Should Yeah?
Speaker 5 (48:03):
Irresponds like thirty percent of the time when I text her, Yeah,
and I don't tell you. I just know that.
Speaker 3 (48:08):
You know that's Becca.
Speaker 5 (48:09):
Yeah, this is how it is. I know she. I
know she loves me. I know she cares about me,
and I know that when I see her we will
have a conversation about something meaningful. But maybe she doesn't
want to see the doctor Pepper donut I found, you know,
Yeah I did.
Speaker 3 (48:21):
I got sent that a lot. Yeah, that's you said.
I think I've tasted it just from the messages I've
got about it.
Speaker 2 (48:29):
But I do want to taste it actually, and it
makes me feel love that people think like that.
Speaker 3 (48:32):
Sorry I didn't respond.
Speaker 5 (48:33):
That's okay, I truly my feelings are never heard. Thank you, Tanya.
Speaker 3 (48:40):
I can take a note from Meton. I am not Easton,
that's true. I have cancer feelings. I am cancer too.
Speaker 1 (48:51):
You're not cancer, you're my mood is cancer. Well, then
you should empathize.
Speaker 3 (48:56):
I do my best. I've scorpio. They're conflicting, they are
it out very interesting.
Speaker 1 (49:03):
It's a it's a very interesting dichotomy. Its inside THEE,
inside thee.
Speaker 3 (49:09):
It's complicated.
Speaker 5 (49:10):
Yeah, right back to the truth or drink? Tanya? What
gets you off in bed every time? I?
Speaker 3 (49:23):
H what do you think my fiance? Is that the answer? No?
Speaker 5 (49:35):
I think the specific action like is there like like
what just the presence of Robbie gets he just.
Speaker 2 (49:43):
Walks boom, Yeah, he.
Speaker 3 (49:49):
Is a walk in the room like oh there she goes. Wow. Yeah,
it's a truth.
Speaker 2 (49:55):
No no, no, no, drink your drink your little no.
Speaker 3 (49:59):
No, that's the shot. That's fucking really fool What kind
of sister. This reminds me when you're taking the fireball
shot and tall it's actually so bad. You mind your
own business.
Speaker 1 (50:15):
My boundary, I want you to respect my boundary. I'm
gonna use that from now on.
Speaker 3 (50:19):
This is my boundary? All right? All right, all right Becca,
Oh no, after that one, I'm very stressed. Becca. I
wouldn't even know the answer to that, really, I mean,
I just like, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (50:35):
There's not something that.
Speaker 3 (50:37):
Position. They're all great, they all work on me.
Speaker 5 (50:41):
There's not like a surefire thing though, Like, no.
Speaker 3 (50:44):
They all they all work great, no complaints, Rave reviews.
Speaker 5 (50:51):
Things are looking great over yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, alright Becca,
what gets you off in bed every time?
Speaker 3 (51:04):
M hmm. She's going to answer it. She's going to
answer it.
Speaker 4 (51:10):
You're going to answer it.
Speaker 2 (51:13):
I would say, wow, Wow, stress.
Speaker 3 (51:19):
Captive audience of all time. Right then she's drinking. That
was a good teaser. That. Yeah, that's a good teaser clip.
Speaker 5 (51:39):
That's it. That's truth or drinking.
Speaker 3 (51:41):
Whoa we almost finished one whole shot.
Speaker 5 (51:44):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (51:47):
The thing that the problem with this was that we
didn't get drunk. We're supposed you're supposed to get drunk.
Speaker 2 (51:52):
Before well, should we do another one tomorrow or something
while we've been drinking.
Speaker 1 (51:57):
Maybe, because like it's like we have to get drunk
to be drunk while we're doing it.
Speaker 4 (52:02):
So then it's like, yeah, all right, are there more
to answer?
Speaker 3 (52:08):
I mean, but yeah, but we got to wrap it up,
say yeah.
Speaker 2 (52:14):
If we need to do, if we if we choose
to do another one tomorrow.
Speaker 5 (52:19):
There's no shortage of these questions, So if you want
to do another one, I'm sure the scribers would love.
Speaker 3 (52:24):
This is like the Delilah verse. De Liilah love someone
to intro You never.
Speaker 2 (52:35):
Listened to Delilah. This is like the Delilah version of
truth or drink?
Speaker 3 (52:40):
Is that like Miss Rachel?
Speaker 5 (52:42):
No, Delilah is for a softer, lighter sometimes the older
audience she plays. She's a member of the iHeartRadio.
Speaker 3 (52:52):
Family, ask Delilah.
Speaker 2 (52:54):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, a legend. On that note, it's
time for us to go to bed.
Speaker 3 (53:01):
Yeah, mama's gotta go to our same room.
Speaker 1 (53:05):
We didn't start this podcast until after I go to
sleep normally. Yeah, anybody's worried about my energy levels? The
energy is low because homatose, because ready for bed.
Speaker 3 (53:20):
For four hours now. So we love you so much.
Thank you for your question, Thank you.
Speaker 2 (53:27):
Thank you Airbnb for our perfect pump spring stay.
Speaker 3 (53:31):
Yes, we love you so much. We love you Airbnb.
Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap an iHeartRadio podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in, scrub a dub duve,
rubbing in from our Airbnb and Palm Springs.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Yes we are. I'm experiencing symptoms from the vortex. The
vortex is not a real thing. What are you talking about?
You didn't even know what the vortex was five minutes ago.
I still don't know what it is.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
It's like energy. There's energy in the desert like I felt.
I felt it in Sedona, I felt it in Joshuachery.
So when we pulled up here, I meania dizzy. Really
that may have been from four hours in the car
with you. Sorry, I met in the car four hours
you said with you. I know, well, like because I
(00:51):
was with you. But you didn't cause the dizziest the vortex. Yeah,
but I was also saying we were in the car
for four hours. Took us four hours to get here.
It did, but boy was it worth it? And boy
was it pleasureful for me? Pleasure a bull and pleasureful, Yes,
for uninterrupted hours of bliss. Nice.
Speaker 3 (01:10):
It keeps turning, but so did yours.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
Before we drove up we did some Oh, here I
go again.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
The vortex. It literally is the vortex before we drove up. Yes,
we had a very important appointment that we did. I'm
spinning back vortex. What and now I'm spinning this way?
Speaker 2 (01:38):
Anyways, I finally got to be a part of watching
Tanya try on wedding dresses because you've done it multiple
times that.
Speaker 3 (01:47):
This was my third round. I'm just happy to be apart.
I was happy that you were apart and both of
your native honors were a part of today's appointment. Yes,
and I'll let you announce. But how did it go?
Speaker 1 (02:04):
I think I found the one. Wow, I'm not sure though.
I didn't have that say yes to the dress moment.
It wasn't like yes, it.
Speaker 5 (02:16):
Was like said maybe to the dress.
Speaker 3 (02:17):
Yeah, I said maybe to the dress.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
But I've been thinking about it NonStop since I left,
So I feel like that's.
Speaker 4 (02:23):
The time if it's in the indication.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
We were in the car for four hours after and
I kept hearing Tonya from this next to me going.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
Shit, and I'm every time I'm like, what are you doing?
And she's like, I'm looking. I see she's looking at
photos of herself in this dress. So I don't know
what dress would make you do that.
Speaker 3 (02:43):
Yeah, I don't know. I've never experienced anything like it.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
You cried when you put on the dress, but you
said you cried.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
A couple of times. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
I think for some reason, it's like when the veil
gets put on, it's very it like takes it from like.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
A dress address to like a we wedding.
Speaker 1 (02:58):
Yeah, and then I'm like myself walking up to Robbie
and then I do the whole thing and I just
like lose it.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
I do.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
You did mention that you've never been someone that saw
a vision of your wedding or like you never envisioned
your wedding dress, which I find so fascinating because you
are the definition of someone I would think would have that,
Like at.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Least I have an idea going in. Yeah, No, never
had the idea.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
It was more about just like getting to the wedding,
like getting the finding the guy, and like getting there.
Like I never envisioned aesthetically what the wedding looked like,
which is why I think I'm having such a hard
time figuring it out many different ways. Oh my god,
I see a wedding here and I'm like, oh, I
love that. I see a wedding there. I'm like, oh,
I love that.
Speaker 4 (03:40):
So what do you do such for such occasions?
Speaker 2 (03:44):
You just go with your gut, and your gut was
saying this might be the dress.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
My gut said this might be the dress.
Speaker 2 (03:50):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:51):
I couldn't tell because I was getting rushed out of
there so fast. I'm like, I'm like, this is the dress.
I'm crying. My best friends are hugging me the like
ten more minutes, ma'am. I was like, geez.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
They were on a tight schedule schedule.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
I was like, Okay, I don't know, I need a
more minute in this.
Speaker 3 (04:09):
Yeah, you needed to I need to it for a
little yeah. And it was like, let's go, ma'am.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
I still had like five other dresses to try and
I couldn't even try them all on.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
She was like, we're literally like kind of hugging and
like this is the one.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
And she's like, Hi, I'm sorry to interrupt, but you
have ten minutes.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
I'm like, can we have some wiggle room please?
Speaker 3 (04:30):
I'm crying. I'm just putting shoes on for the first time.
I'm taking pictures in this. They're hitting me a fake
bouquet of flowers. I'm like, I'm really in it. Yeah,
they're like ten minutes. They sucked us right out of it,
right out of it.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Yeah, so I feel like I need more time in
it to really Yeah, well.
Speaker 4 (04:50):
There's gonna be a lot of time in it come
spring of next year.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
Yeah know what I mean, I'm gonna wear that thing asleep.
Let me tell you those price.
Speaker 2 (04:59):
Tags after locking you in that corse.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
That does not sound like a comfortable sleep, But it
was very comfortable.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Yeah, it was tough to get in, snatched me right up,
but once I was in it, it was like weirdly comfortable.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
I think this is nice for people to hear, though,
because I have always thought that someone who's always wanted
to get married would go into a dress shop and
like immediately know what they wanted and find it. And
I feel like everyone that I know that has gone
through the process says that it is so hard because
there's so many options. Yeah, you don't really know what
(05:34):
you're gonna like on your body, right, And I think
it's a little more overwhelming than it seems to be
like on TV and stuff.
Speaker 3 (05:41):
It's so overwhelming.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
I think the only thing that I knew I didn't
want is I didn't want like I knew I didn't
want like sparkles or rhinestones or pearls or I didn't
want any sort of like stuff on my dress.
Speaker 3 (05:55):
Yeah, that's really the only thing I knew.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
You did try on a few that I was shocked
you came out of.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Me because the problem is I've been trying on the
same kind of like silhouette, and so I'm like, I
need to change it up just to see if there's
anything like that could tickle my fancy that looks a
little bit different.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
So I was trying to like, I.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Also don't think she had you like snap, like she
didn't have the clamp on, right.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
Yeah, a lot of fabric, a lot of fabric.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
But what I said, it's more like avant garde. And
you were like I am avant garde and Pauline and
was like, no, you're not, which neither are we? Like
we're not saying that in a way of like we
are a judgy. Oh really, yeah, I never want that.
I'm sorry, No, it's okay, but I do want to
be like honest with you because there's your wedding dress.
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Yeah, no, it isn't me.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
So I got to be like a little stern yeah,
but encouraging.
Speaker 1 (06:42):
And that's the thing I think you get in your
head because you're like, I know what I like, I
know what. It looks good on me. But then I'm like,
this is my wedding, this is my my once in
a lifetime, this is my wedding. So I wanted to
like be grand and be this like wedding dress, but
then I put on the grand wedding.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
Dress and I feel like I just look so silly. Well, yeah,
because it's not a dress.
Speaker 2 (07:00):
I think it makes sense because it's not a dress
that you would wear at any other point, and you
never want it before, right, And that's the whole idea,
is that you're wearing something you've never worn or will
never wear again.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
Correct. But then you wear it and you're like, I
feel like I'm playing dress up correct.
Speaker 1 (07:14):
And I want to feel like me. I want to
look back and like feel like this.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
Was yeah me, I think the one that might be
the one feels like me felt like it was made
for you.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
Yeah, it was made It was actually made for me.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
If I ever put a dress on and it looked
like that, I'd be like I'm out.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Of here, I'm wearing it out, never taking it all.
It was pretty crazy.
Speaker 1 (07:37):
And the even crazier thing was I had it on
and like having this moment, and the minute I went
back into the dressing room, Robbie facetimed Paulina, Yeah, which.
Speaker 2 (07:45):
She said, he hasn't done. She's like, he hasn't called
me once about this whole process.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Yeah, which is assigned telling symbolics significance.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
It was like, what's the word we always use? Anyways,
we're in pump Springs.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
Yeah, that was earlier today in Los Angeles.
Speaker 3 (08:02):
Yeah, lots has happened since then we got here. We
had an amazing chef, Stephen for Master Chef season six
and twelve. He was a returning contestant season twelfth. The
Poverty of Master Chef.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
Yeah, he just said, he went on, you know, why
wouldn't he go back when you're a fan favorite, Why
wouldn't you go back?
Speaker 3 (08:24):
Right? And he made us an amazing meal.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
Allison's here, Sam's here, Easton's here.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
But I guess the best part is, Oh, we're sharing
a room.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
And you know what's interesting about this is there there
was a whole extra room with two extra beds, and
yet Tanya gilted me into sharing a room with her.
Speaker 3 (08:49):
We do have separate beds, separate beds. You have your
own bed, but I could in my own room, I know.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
But whenever again, like when these times, it's like we're
back in college again, sleeping in the same room.
Speaker 3 (09:01):
I didn't do that, and I loved it.
Speaker 1 (09:03):
It's like I get to like relive those days I
loved so much.
Speaker 5 (09:07):
Okay, should we make a sleeping porch?
Speaker 3 (09:10):
Yeah? Like that, like it feels like a sleeping porch. Okay, well,
I already agreed.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
To it, so it's you don't have to convince me
anymore guilt to me about your colleages. That was good
if I didn't already agree to it, that was sentimental.
Speaker 3 (09:24):
Yeah, it was a good yeah, thank you.
Speaker 2 (09:26):
So we are here, Yeah, we are here to play
truth or drink. The last time we were in Palm Springs,
I don't remember half of it, but Eastern and Alison
do because they don't drink alcohol, and luckily they have
vivid memories I assume of our actions.
Speaker 5 (09:48):
All too vivid recurring nightmares.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
I would say, yeah, I can imagine.
Speaker 5 (09:53):
It was a lot of fun.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
I did not see that there was a microphone in
front of your face because you're right behind my like
ring light.
Speaker 3 (10:00):
So I was like, is.
Speaker 1 (10:01):
Eastern gonna come talk to talking about the microphone?
Speaker 5 (10:05):
You know we're in headphones. You can't hear the dulcin
tones in my voice coming through. Oh, there's always a
microphone near me. No, it's great to return to the
scene of the crime. I love being back in Pump
Springs with you guys. I can't wait to see what
happens next.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
I just can't the pressure I felt of like, how
do you beat that episode of our last Pump Springs.
Speaker 1 (10:26):
Well, we did try to get Sabrina Carpenter as a
guest this weekend.
Speaker 3 (10:31):
Unfortunately she's out grown up. She's a bit busy. Well.
I think it was just the timing.
Speaker 1 (10:36):
Honestly, I feel like if it was album released weekend,
she would have come on. That's so her album just
came out today.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
You and Haley both do this. It's really cute. What
just like delusion.
Speaker 5 (10:54):
She's in the scribbing in Two Timers Club.
Speaker 3 (10:59):
She has scrub.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
But she is one of the biggest pop stars in
the world right now, and we can't even get someone
from Love Island.
Speaker 3 (11:09):
Hey, they are very popular. Right now, we'll good of
it about a month.
Speaker 2 (11:15):
I'm just saying, I think that we are so grateful
that we had Sabrina three times.
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Yes, I didn't realize so iconic if we had her
on I know.
Speaker 4 (11:25):
And she's a busy, busy girl.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
Right.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
So I'm saying, launching an album door with Taylor Swift
launching it going on?
Speaker 2 (11:31):
Yeah, but why why, even like in the past, try
to relive something that's so iconic, right, you know what
I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
That honestly, that image lives rent free in my head
twenty four to seven, I think about as much as
I think about weens.
Speaker 3 (11:51):
Which wasn't not a lot of people agreed with you,
but some did. Well. I knew that would be the
case because you're never alone in your weird thoughts.
Speaker 1 (11:59):
Let's let that be a reminder. You're never alone in
your thoughts.
Speaker 4 (12:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (12:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:07):
My sister texted me and or responded to my like
the clip of it, and she was like, you're coloring
in this video? Like because I was like, green, oh
this video.
Speaker 3 (12:24):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (12:24):
Yeah? Yeah, it just wasn't good and I would never
intentionally do that to myself.
Speaker 3 (12:30):
It was such an accident.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
But I wish that Allison would join us and recap
her experience.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
Because she don't want to.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
I will not I will not have the Robbie slander Calander.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
We're just trying to give Alison the credit where credit
has been due for many years.
Speaker 3 (12:47):
But what's funny is.
Speaker 1 (12:49):
That I was facetiming with Robbie and I was like,
Allison is over here slandering your name because she whatever whatever.
And she goes, uh because I told her that I
the trash can, and he goes, oh, yeah, that's that
is what happened.
Speaker 5 (13:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
Yeah, we won a full like recap from one because
you and Easton were standing over me and I just
y'all were like a like those wavy mirrors at the
fair and you're like, hey, Becca, we're about to start
the podcast, and I was like, huh okay.
Speaker 6 (13:20):
Well we got to the room because we were a
little worried. We were all having drinks hanging out at
the pool. I drink like maybe four drinks a year,
so I had like my one margarita and you guys
were like having a few margaritas, and then Easton and
I left, and then we didn't hear anything for two hours,
and I don't know what happened in that two hours,
but you guys were out of control. When we got
to the room, we opened the door, Tanya was just
(13:43):
out of control and somehow pulled it together for the podcast,
which was the most amazing part to me. I mean,
you were like incoherent, and then as soon as you
guys got like the phone set up, you were fine.
Speaker 3 (13:53):
It was you were like such a journalist. I was amazing.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
Like honestly though I was blacked out, like I don't
really remember much.
Speaker 6 (13:59):
But you seemed so professional together and it was just
like like a like a switch fliped.
Speaker 3 (14:03):
It was incredible. Then see this person to the side
of me falling down.
Speaker 6 (14:09):
That seemed fine when we got there, and then I
don't know what happened because as soon as you guys
started going, she just was not fine anymore. But the
part I would like to just clear my name on
is that I noticed things are not going well, ran
to get an ice bucket, and then Robbie ran up
and was like, no, I'm going to be the one
to be the hero and hand it.
Speaker 3 (14:30):
Off to bet.
Speaker 6 (14:30):
I cannot say that he didn't say that, but he did.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
I'm so cringe. He would never say, I'll never see that.
But what I didn't realize.
Speaker 1 (14:39):
I told him this and he was like, yeah, she
did bring in he goes, but you were giving me
the devil eyes to like help and do something. And
I was like, I do remember being like I kept
looking at and being like somebody helped me, Like like
you know my eyes where I like don't open.
Speaker 3 (14:52):
Yes, I was like help me. So I think he
just was like trying to do.
Speaker 6 (14:56):
You know, we're both cancers. Our birthdays are a week apart.
Where in pathic I think you and I knew immediately
things were not good, and we just like knew something
had to be done.
Speaker 3 (15:05):
And I knew.
Speaker 1 (15:06):
I felt like I just saw her falling and I
just felt like nobody was doing anything. So I kept
stare because he was just watching me, and I was
like do something.
Speaker 5 (15:15):
Do you remember Becca leaning over to me and going
it's like saying like it's not good or something. I
thought she was joking and like, ah, it starts to
sink dad out of frame.
Speaker 3 (15:24):
Man.
Speaker 2 (15:25):
That's my final memory is me looking at you being
it's not good.
Speaker 3 (15:29):
The color like truly drained out of your face.
Speaker 4 (15:31):
It was honestly scary at the moment I.
Speaker 3 (15:35):
Filled that ice bucket up. Yeah, it was. It happened
after that, I don't remember, Like I swear, I really
blacked out because, like she did the full interview. Was
I just laying there? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (15:48):
Yeah, well, I mean, I don't know how much this
curd we'd like to pull back. We did the interview
and then we all decided it would be a good
idea if we took a break for a few hours
and then we came back later.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
Oh I remember in the bathrobe and finishing it.
Speaker 2 (16:01):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I remember a pizza, pizza, yeah, Gatorade too, Gatorades.
But I'm saying, like so during the Sabrina interview, I
was just laying on the ground next to you.
Speaker 3 (16:12):
All.
Speaker 5 (16:13):
Yeah, let me see if I have my notes from
that episode. Still, what was I asking her?
Speaker 3 (16:18):
That's the other thing, is like, what am I talking
to her about? Yeah? I don't know. Wow.
Speaker 4 (16:24):
I went on a bike ride in between during your recovery.
Speaker 6 (16:27):
That was like the funniest sort. We did a full
bike ride and then came back.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
It was it was It was something I never want
to experience again.
Speaker 3 (16:36):
But I'm glad that there's footage of it. Yeah, I know.
I'm glad we have it. I'm glad we have it too.
It was quite the most. I hope that it never
happens again.
Speaker 5 (16:44):
I really admire you for being so cool about reliving it. Yeah,
taking us through this riot again. Yeah, you're just I
really appreciate that.
Speaker 3 (16:52):
Anything for the scrubbers.
Speaker 1 (16:54):
Yeah, you know, we are interviewing Aurora Colpo tomorrow, so
I could happen like nine am.
Speaker 3 (17:02):
Could you imagine. Yeah, She's like for you guys good.
Speaker 4 (17:06):
She would say something though, yeah, all right, we're back ago.
Speaker 1 (17:09):
That's the other thing, was just like, at all she's
coming back, you know nothing.
Speaker 2 (17:16):
She probably saw my coloring as soon as that she
answered him as like she might not be here for
a minute. She might only be here for a minute.
That is what I meant. But anyways, that's about that.
That's about last time. Yeah, we're here to focus on
this time. So I think there's some questions that have
been submitted for truth or drink break. I was gonna
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get to that good joll broadcast pros.
Speaker 3 (17:42):
We're gonna take a break. We'll be right back.
Speaker 5 (17:58):
Who wants to go first? How do we JUSTI this
paper scissors.
Speaker 3 (18:02):
Okay, helper scisors. Shoot Yeah, rock paper scissors, Shoot rock
paper scissor, Shoot, rock paper scissors, shoot shoot.
Speaker 5 (18:12):
You go first, okay with the listener, that was two
ties and then becka one good rock All right, here
we go, Tanya oh Man the first one.
Speaker 3 (18:23):
Oh my gosh, as to make a mard.
Speaker 5 (18:26):
Yeah, I mean this is awkward for me to read. Okay, ready,
f Mary kill Easton, Mark and Ryan, are you going
to answer that? Or are you going to take a drink?
Speaker 3 (18:42):
I have to take a drink. I can't. I can't.
Speaker 1 (18:48):
I can't do any of those with any of you.
So that's my answer.
Speaker 3 (18:53):
No, no, no, that's not don't try to weasle your
way out of business. That's the answer. I really can't.
I thought about her for a second, Wheelstir and I
got scared.
Speaker 5 (19:07):
As we discussed last week, it's very hard to find
questions that tiny will not answer, and that's one of them.
Speaker 3 (19:12):
No, I'll answer it, but that's not the answer you
want to hear.
Speaker 5 (19:16):
Oh, it looks like I'm getting killed.
Speaker 1 (19:18):
Not you what I'm saying in general, like I can't, Yeah,
I can't do it?
Speaker 3 (19:26):
Wow, I can't.
Speaker 5 (19:29):
Yeah, great, great, great, question. M M, she's sipping.
Speaker 1 (19:37):
I would marry all three of you, and I'll leave
it on that.
Speaker 2 (19:40):
Yeah, I've all right, all right, beca truth or drink.
Speaker 5 (19:48):
If you never met Haley, do you think you'd still
be dating men?
Speaker 3 (19:55):
Interesting? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (20:01):
Wow, I do.
Speaker 3 (20:04):
I think she changed everything so romantic. Yeah, I think
I think she changed everything. And I don't know that
like I think for sure too.
Speaker 2 (20:12):
Yeah, but I don't know that I would have ever
experienced what I experienced with Haley with dating man.
Speaker 3 (20:21):
I mean I want it. Are you crying? That's every
time I Are you crying? Are you gonna cry? I
have the dress shop? I thought she was crying. She's
like no. I was like, God, shed a tear. You're here.
I think it's the one I was waiting for. I
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said yes to the dress. Okay, we're ready.
Speaker 5 (20:45):
All right, Tanya your turn. What did Tanya and Robbie
do when she first met the kids?
Speaker 3 (20:54):
What did we do.
Speaker 1 (20:56):
The first my first time, like unofficially meeting them. I
brought over medicine. Robbie was sick and I brought over
like some like juices or whatever. And one of our
one of the kids remembers that like memory, like he
remembered me bringing over medicine for his dad. But like
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my first time actually meeting them like officially officially was
we did a barbecue in the backyard and it was
like lunch, and so I went over to the house
for lunch. We all sat outside and I brought them
both like a gift, but it wasn't like an expensive gift.
Speaker 3 (21:36):
It was like a thoughtful gift. So like.
Speaker 1 (21:40):
One of them like didn't like spiders, and so I
made him like a spider repellent that was like.
Speaker 3 (21:46):
I don't know what the word is.
Speaker 1 (21:48):
I can't remember what it was, but it was some
like natural scent that like keeps like the spiders away.
Speaker 3 (21:53):
It was like a vanilla or something, yeah, like something.
Speaker 1 (21:56):
It's not vanilla, but it was like something lavender or
something like that. So I put during like a bottle
and I made it like his like, you know, spider
for spray or whatever.
Speaker 3 (22:05):
I know this, I never told you this.
Speaker 1 (22:08):
And then I got the other one was like very
really into like architecture. So I got in like a
little pencil set with like his.
Speaker 3 (22:14):
Name on it. Cute, And that was my first time
like officially meeting them.
Speaker 5 (22:20):
I've never heard so sweet, sweet, but a special moment
to remember too.
Speaker 1 (22:24):
Yeah, I remember like it was yesterday. I don't remember
what we ate though, probably straight steak and some shrimps
specialty Robbie's specialty.
Speaker 3 (22:36):
All right, right, I have a feeling I.
Speaker 5 (22:38):
Know what was I'm sorry? What was it? I did
not come up with these questions as scrubbers did. What
was it like hooking up with a girl versus hooking
up with a guy for the first time?
Speaker 2 (22:51):
Oh, this is interesting, so, I I think because I
was a virgin for majority of my life, like even
before I met Halea, I'd only like been with two
people before Haley, like I guess sexually speaking. So I
didn't feel like I was overly experienced, but I never
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felt like I always felt confident with men, but weirdly
I felt way more intimidated.
Speaker 3 (23:19):
Well, yeah, I would be. I wouldn't know what to do, like,
but a lot of people are like, oh, but you're
a woman, you know what you like. But it's like,
I don't know it was It was definitely more like
I I definitely always felt more comfortable with men in
that way, but then I felt very intimidated hooking up.
Speaker 2 (23:38):
But it was great I wouldn't know what to do.
Speaker 3 (23:45):
I really want you've you'd figure it out, you think, Yeah,
although I don't know. You seemed to really prefer you
really lean heavy one way.
Speaker 1 (23:57):
I do, but I think I'm like, I just don't
think I would know I would know what to do.
Speaker 5 (24:01):
Thank you for that answer, Becket, Thanks for being so
honest and.
Speaker 3 (24:05):
Just did not want that tequila gonna be.
Speaker 5 (24:08):
A good shows.
Speaker 3 (24:10):
Uh.
Speaker 5 (24:11):
Oh, man, tell you what's the most embarrassing thing that's
happened to you during an intimate moment.
Speaker 1 (24:19):
Uh, I'm not really embarrassed by anything that happens.
Speaker 3 (24:24):
What would a.
Speaker 4 (24:24):
Normal person be embarrassed? Abyll, that's happened.
Speaker 1 (24:28):
One time I got really sick in the middle of
it and had to like literally hop off and then
and and like went straight to the bathroom. Ended up
like like laying on the floor of the bathroom like
not well, like come like sick, hop off, yeah.
Speaker 3 (24:51):
OK, hop off the bike?
Speaker 1 (24:53):
Yeah the old Yeah that was pretty embarrassing, but like
not embarrassing because it.
Speaker 3 (24:59):
Was like I was actually just like sick, right, Like
that's just human, that's just being human.
Speaker 1 (25:04):
Yeah, but like not nice because I was like naked,
you know, yeah. And then I think I took like
the the bath Matt like.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
Because I was like, ah, yeah, this feels clean. Yeah yeah, yeah,
that's tough. Yeah it's tough.
Speaker 5 (25:23):
Well, I'd say that counts, all right? Becca? Who is
the guy Becca went on a date with that? She
said it was well known, but acted like a complete
fool when they were out. I believe his name started
with an M.
Speaker 3 (25:37):
I didn't act like a complete fool.
Speaker 5 (25:39):
H No, I think he did.
Speaker 3 (25:40):
He didn't act like a complete fool. That story is
not accurate.
Speaker 4 (25:43):
Yeah, that's not I know what you're talking too. And
I'm gonna dream you're gonna never is that going to
go with you to the grave?
Speaker 3 (25:55):
It's so mad to the I don't know to the grave.
Speaker 5 (26:02):
But for now, all right, Becca has taken? Are we
keeping track of this? Should there be like a winner
at the end?
Speaker 3 (26:11):
I don't know there's one taken one? All right?
Speaker 5 (26:17):
Tanya. Have you ever met any of Robbie's exes?
Speaker 3 (26:23):
Yeah? A lot, actually a lot of his Actually, yeah,
one of them I'm obsessed with and I follow her
on Instagram. She's really cute.
Speaker 1 (26:33):
And then I met his first kiss one recently last year.
And then I met her wife, So I felt about that.
Speaker 3 (26:44):
Yeah, yeah, that's always comforting. Yeah yeah, yeah, You're like
pointed at means and her wife. I'm like, are we
you know.
Speaker 5 (27:01):
You've probably seen her at the meetings.
Speaker 4 (27:03):
Yeah, you'll know each other, right, w l W.
Speaker 5 (27:11):
I'm sorry. I don't want I don't want this to
be a follow up question. You don't have to truth
or drink this. I'm just curious, like when you made
his first kiss, Like did you ask her like, whoa,
what was it? Like? This seems like something you do.
Speaker 3 (27:22):
No, it was like it was like at a fair.
We were like at what is it? The cookout? The
Malibu cookout. We're like it Yeah, it was like yeah.
Speaker 5 (27:30):
And he knows. She's like, that's my first kiss.
Speaker 3 (27:32):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (27:33):
Or not?
Speaker 1 (27:34):
I think we I think I can't remember how I was.
Either she said she was his first kiss or he
was like she was my first kiss or something like that.
Speaker 3 (27:43):
It was I was out in the open, all.
Speaker 5 (27:46):
Right, beca your turn, uh rank easiest hardest to come
out to Jojo, Ali and Tanya.
Speaker 3 (27:58):
No one was hard like there.
Speaker 2 (27:59):
I would say they were all even but for the
sake of me not having a drink.
Speaker 3 (28:03):
Tanya Ali Jojo that was the easiest, sure, so nice.
Speaker 5 (28:11):
Yeah, jo Is the hardest.
Speaker 3 (28:14):
Was so scary. I was so nervous about her.
Speaker 2 (28:17):
Why you were all very equally. I did not feel
nervous coming out to either of y'all, and I loved
every single one of your reactions. It was so fun funny.
Speaker 3 (28:29):
What tell me more? That's crazy? Yeah? Crazy?
Speaker 5 (28:35):
Yeah, Tanya? What is something illegal? You've done?
Speaker 3 (28:41):
What's illegal? But like, I mean.
Speaker 5 (28:49):
Anyway, I can say jay walking, but like, is there
have you ever committed a crime?
Speaker 3 (28:54):
You were stolen anything?
Speaker 5 (28:57):
A felony would be great?
Speaker 3 (28:59):
Yeah, ever committed a crime?
Speaker 4 (29:02):
I imagine College Tatiana.
Speaker 3 (29:05):
Was probably committed. I had to take ID. Oh yeah, counts, yeah,
I had to take ID.
Speaker 5 (29:11):
I was expecting like a public in decency thing or something.
Speaker 3 (29:13):
I have Pete in very public in public, yes, And Marty.
Speaker 5 (29:18):
Grass, you're in some beads.
Speaker 3 (29:22):
Yeah yeah, yeah, all right, so quite a lot actually
all right, quite fell in times.
Speaker 5 (29:45):
All right, Beck, this person wants us to know who
asked this is from Maureen? Maureen, who is the better
kisser crystals or Ben Higgins and then tongue out emoji.
Speaker 3 (29:58):
Interesting. I'm not going to answer out of respect to
my girlfriend? Oh, is disrespectful to answer that I like
Chris and Ben? What I like Chris and Ben?
Speaker 1 (30:15):
Who would I say I respectful to Haley if you
were to answer I want to care, okay, because I I.
Speaker 3 (30:21):
Worry about that sometimes with I don't think Hailey would care.
Speaker 2 (30:25):
I would say, it's just so hard because I really
feel like Ben thought of me as a friend the
whole time, So I felt it like I thought I did,
but like looking back, I don't think so right because
I felt like he just was like nine too me.
But Chris I did feel like was into me, and
(30:45):
they were both good kissers. So I would say they
were both good kissers. But I do feel like Ben's from.
Speaker 1 (30:51):
It was more platonic than your.
Speaker 4 (30:52):
Yeah, Like I think I was trying to make it happen,
but it just wasn't you know.
Speaker 1 (30:55):
I have so many questions, would like how much tongue
was used?
Speaker 3 (31:00):
Oh, watch the.
Speaker 2 (31:01):
Show, Watch the show, Watch the whole season?
Speaker 5 (31:06):
Did they show that much?
Speaker 2 (31:08):
I mean, I do I feel like if you I
was so nervous to kiss, like all I could think
about when I was kissing Chris, like knowing that it.
Speaker 3 (31:17):
Was gonna come on camera, it was gonna happen.
Speaker 2 (31:19):
Yeah, Like thinking about my dad seeing me kiss someone,
I was like, this is so weird, like my parents
watching me kiss someone on TV?
Speaker 3 (31:27):
Like everyone seeing me kiss? What if I don't look
good when I kiss? I know I've never seen myself kiss.
I don't recommend it in that moment.
Speaker 5 (31:35):
How many cameramen are around generally, is there like one
or two?
Speaker 2 (31:39):
Well, they knew that I was nervous, and I think
they were like wanting it to happen so much. So
I was on our one on one date, which was
like pretty far into the season, so I hadn't kissed
him on any of the group dates or anything, and
because I had voiced him, I'm like, this is so
strange to me. And so on our date they had
someone like really far away like I would say, like
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the window over there, wow, with a camera.
Speaker 5 (32:04):
Because I'm justure.
Speaker 3 (32:04):
I felt very like.
Speaker 1 (32:07):
Isolated, but the lenses like zoom in because I always
felt like they were like in your face.
Speaker 2 (32:12):
No, I mean they have some good quality cameras there, yeah,
some Love Island.
Speaker 3 (32:17):
So they gave me, they gave me the respect they deserved.
Speaker 5 (32:21):
Pretend they weren't there.
Speaker 3 (32:22):
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 2 (32:23):
Even though I knew it was coming and I knew
I was like just just like like, oh, like god,
you know.
Speaker 1 (32:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (32:29):
Every time I see those scenes, I just picture like
a guy like me wearing like a tight eyed shirt,
just holding a camera like getting so close to you,
and I'm like, how do.
Speaker 2 (32:34):
You Yeah, no, there, It's funny. They're very good at
not being noticed. Wow, even if they're close like they
could be with.
Speaker 1 (32:41):
That when you see like when you watch Love Island,
like you're like, how are these people not saying all
this stuff, not realizing they're on camera, And then you
look at these shots and the cameras are.
Speaker 3 (32:50):
Like so far away from them. Yeah, I know, so
it's easy to forget.
Speaker 2 (32:55):
Yeah, and you're you, weirdly are in this kind of bubble,
so theyre always around you.
Speaker 3 (33:00):
You know that they're listening at all times. And then
and then poof what I was thinking about how every
time I go to the bathroom, I'd be so stressed.
Speaker 2 (33:11):
I'd like turn off my MIC because I figured out
how to turn it off, so I just like turn
it off when I went to the bathroom because I was.
Speaker 3 (33:15):
Like, what if they're listening right now? Yeah, and you said, poof,
And I don't real sa poop when you can. Oh yeah, anyways,
that was a detour.
Speaker 1 (33:27):
I've always thought about that whenever, like I was miked
up for like award shows, and then I go to
the bathroom, I'm like, how gross they have to.
Speaker 3 (33:36):
Like hear me. I think they don't care. I mean
they're not listening, but still it's yeah, I was way
more paranoid.
Speaker 5 (33:43):
I mean, like, on this side of it, we want
to listen the least about possible, even when it's happening.
So uh, Tanya, Yes, let's see. Here's the scenario, Truth
or Drink. Beca quits the podcast, She's gone. You have
to pick a new co hosting A will continue without Becca.
(34:04):
Who are you going to pick?
Speaker 3 (34:05):
Are you gonna call Ghostbusters?
Speaker 5 (34:10):
Have the Ghostbusters?
Speaker 3 (34:10):
Yeah? They feel like a good group to call.
Speaker 1 (34:15):
I mean, I'll answer it because I don't want to drink,
but I wouldn't I wouldn't want to do with anybody else.
Speaker 4 (34:21):
That's unfortunately, not how Truth or Drink works. You're just
like dodging quid. You're just dodging answers.
Speaker 3 (34:26):
That's not true. They're asking me what would I do
if Becca were to lead.
Speaker 5 (34:31):
It's not so what would you do? It's you have
to pick a host? Who would you pick? You can't quit.
You're in an iron clad contract with Iheartradia. You have
to host this podcast with a co host. Who's it
going to be?
Speaker 3 (34:48):
I don't like that?
Speaker 5 (34:50):
Well, then you drink. I think there's an easy way
out of this.
Speaker 3 (34:54):
I mean, if I had to pick someone, I'd probably
pick Robbie.
Speaker 5 (34:58):
That'd be fine.
Speaker 3 (35:02):
It's nice, he's nice to talk to.
Speaker 5 (35:03):
Yeah, that's I think the scrubbers would I mean, obviously
if Beca was gone, they would write. But I think
that'd be the great, the best alternative.
Speaker 1 (35:10):
But if if my option, if the if the question
wasn't you had to find someone, I would not do
it without her.
Speaker 5 (35:16):
Well, so if leaves a show, scrubbing In is going away,
we're putting that on record.
Speaker 3 (35:23):
Yeah, Tanya's gone.
Speaker 5 (35:24):
To's gone, it's.
Speaker 3 (35:27):
Just scrubbing in.
Speaker 5 (35:29):
Beca.
Speaker 3 (35:30):
Oh no, my stomach's already hurting.
Speaker 5 (35:32):
Tanya quits the podcast, you have to pick a new
co host. Who are you gonna call? Right the show goes.
Speaker 3 (35:42):
On, I can't drink. My stomach hurts so bad.
Speaker 2 (35:51):
Just bumm easton up scrubbing in with Beck back Easton. Wow,
but if I had, if I didn't have to have
a co.
Speaker 3 (36:05):
Host, i'd quit. It took her a long time to
get there. Didn't anybody hear that?
Speaker 5 (36:15):
I'm very happy with the answer, Uh, Tanya, I like
this one.
Speaker 3 (36:21):
Uh?
Speaker 5 (36:22):
Did you follow through on your word? And KIV Robbie
the best BJ of his life when he got home
from his fourth of July trip.
Speaker 3 (36:29):
Sure? Did.
Speaker 1 (36:31):
I don't know if it was the best in his
life because I give some good ones, but it was
up there.
Speaker 2 (36:38):
Do you know you give good ones because you just
feel like confident that you have good ones, or just
do you get verbal confirmation?
Speaker 3 (36:45):
Well, I mean there's only one confirmation you need, Yeah, confirmation.
But I can tell when there are better than others.
Speaker 1 (36:55):
Yeah yeah yeah through results results, Yeah, positive, ratings, rating review?
Speaker 3 (37:05):
What is it? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (37:10):
Alright?
Speaker 3 (37:11):
Uh?
Speaker 5 (37:12):
Becca? Tanya had in f Mary Killer earlier. Now it's
your turn, crystals, Ben Higgins, Robert Graham, M.
Speaker 3 (37:22):
Hmm, I'm going to drink out of my girlfriend.
Speaker 1 (37:30):
But is it disrespectful if you answered that. I'm trying
to understand, like, where the where the where the respect
lies for me or for you?
Speaker 3 (37:39):
No?
Speaker 1 (37:39):
In general, like if you have a significant other, I
think it's just different.
Speaker 3 (37:42):
For whoever, I wouln't want to hear her talk about
who she would like her exes.
Speaker 5 (37:48):
That was I was gonna have a question, like, do
you have you and Haley talked about each other's exes
and stuff.
Speaker 1 (37:53):
Yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (37:56):
Don't like care about any of it. Yeah yeah, and
I just she probably doesn't care as much as I do.
But I just like to err on the side of
caution for that.
Speaker 5 (38:05):
Yeah yeah, yeah, well we love respect on the show.
Speaker 3 (38:11):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (38:13):
It's just interesting because it's like she also is in
this industry and like speaks and can be asked stuff,
you know what I mean. It's different because like Robbie
doesn't speak, do you know what I'm saying? He has
no voice, But it's not like people are asking him
questions on a daily basis, and like if he were
to answer something like that, like, yeah, I wouldn't like
(38:33):
that either, but I don't have to deal with that.
Speaker 3 (38:35):
Oh right, right, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (38:36):
Yeah, Like I can see the other side of it
of that happening, how I would feel like that.
Speaker 3 (38:41):
Would never happen, right, But that's like messed up you
would care if sure Mary kill his ex. No, I
know you're acting. I was being crazy for not no yeah, no, no, no,
I feel I feel. I feel good about not answer.
Speaker 2 (38:56):
I feel good about that tequila that's burning a hole
in my stomach.
Speaker 3 (39:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (39:00):
Do you watch Haley's interviews, like when she gets interviewed,
do you watch to see if you're mentioned?
Speaker 3 (39:06):
No? Not always, but people sometimes will message me and
be like, oh, this was so sweet that Haley said that.
Speaker 2 (39:11):
So they don't go listen or watch or read. But
she doesn't mention me that much. Really, she could mention
me more. Yeah, gotta note that for her.
Speaker 3 (39:20):
I was like, hey, you feel free to talk. I've
talked about you.
Speaker 5 (39:26):
I'm sure you asked your biggest inspirations all the time.
It'd be great music.
Speaker 3 (39:30):
Yeah, what are her initials? Your favorite sandwich? She doesn't
mention me enough? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (39:40):
No, she I just I didn't say she doesn't mention
me enough. She could just mention me more. That's clear
the air.
Speaker 5 (39:47):
Uh, Tanya, this is a deep cut that I was
not familiar with. But earlier in the podcast Days you
mentioned that you wanted Charlie Pooth to sing at your wedding.
Are you still friends with him and will he still
be singing at your wedd.
Speaker 1 (40:00):
I am still friends with him. I have not asked
him to sing at my wedding. I don't know. Especially
now that I'm doing Destination, I don't think I will
ask him to partake. But I do want one of
my friends to sing my first dance. So I haven't
officially asked her because I don't know exactly what song
(40:22):
it is yet.
Speaker 3 (40:23):
But oh yeah.
Speaker 5 (40:25):
We're gonna get it. This is this person a professional
singer much.
Speaker 3 (40:31):
It's like I asked Becca my first gig.
Speaker 1 (40:37):
I would be sweet, though. What if I had all
my bridesmaids singing harmonize.
Speaker 3 (40:45):
The chaos? Yeah? Yeah we could. I'm happy to do
whatever you need me to do.
Speaker 1 (40:49):
Thank you so much. Welcome wear whatever color you need.
I want whatever you need.
Speaker 3 (40:53):
Just let me know so I can figure out what
hair color I need for that color? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (40:58):
Uh, Becca, Who is the most famous person in your
contact list?
Speaker 3 (41:02):
Oh? Blake Lively. I don't want Blake, Kim Kardashian, not
Kim Kardashian. I don't have a lot of famous people
on my phone. People. I think people think that I have,
like Taylor Swis's phone number, because I like took a
picture with her and have met her several pictures with her. No,
(41:22):
I don't just have one. I mean I have a
few from the same night, but just one. Dang, But
I've been around her more than a picture show. But
I don't have her number. They like I really, I'm
trying to think. I don't know who I don't. Really,
(41:43):
I can't think of anyone famous that I have their number.
Why you me, I'm trying to get you to help me.
Oh well, I thought Kim Kardashian was a good one.
I don't have Kim's number.
Speaker 2 (41:55):
No, Norm Blake like Robin, I do have Robin Lively.
Speaker 3 (42:02):
Okay, that's up there. Circle back, Let me think about
my Let me brows browsing.
Speaker 5 (42:12):
Browsing.
Speaker 3 (42:12):
Wow, no browsing Like I don't there's no way. Yeah,
go ahead, go.
Speaker 5 (42:18):
Ahead, Tanya. Yes, have you ever had a threesome?
Speaker 3 (42:23):
No? All right, never have, never will spoiler alert?
Speaker 5 (42:30):
Wow off the table.
Speaker 3 (42:31):
Off the table. Yes, that's off the table. Oh yeah, yes,
I still don't know.
Speaker 1 (42:40):
I think I'm too jealous of a gal to for that.
I would not enjoy that. It never once like was
like a fantasy or anything that I wanted to try.
Speaker 2 (42:49):
I did have Kelsey Ballerini, but it's not her number anymore,
so I don't.
Speaker 3 (42:54):
Know if that's that counts at the time. Yeah at
one time, oh only to lot Oh yeah yeah, whoa,
I have more than I realized in here. Okay, good one, Becca,
Thank you so much.
Speaker 5 (43:12):
That was pretty exciting. Becca. I know you've been asked
this a lot. Today we're going to ask you again.
(43:32):
Oh my god, do you have an engagement to Haley planned?
Is she planning to ask? And then the next year?
Speaker 3 (43:40):
Am I planning to ask? Or is she planning?
Speaker 5 (43:43):
I mean I think it's probably you. Is she here? Uh?
Does Beca have an engagement to Haley planned? Or is
she playing asking the next year? I guess that is you.
Speaker 3 (43:50):
I don't have it planned, so.
Speaker 2 (43:55):
I would say no, but if and here's the thing,
I was telling Tawny that, like, I don't have an idea,
but I know that I wanted to be something super
meaningful and thoughtful, Like it doesn't even need to be
a grand gesture, but just something that has a lot
of thought behind it. So if I if something comes
to me, then I can like get things into motion.
Speaker 3 (44:15):
But I've been saying, what are you waiting for it
to come to you?
Speaker 2 (44:17):
No? No, no, I just kind of like, you know,
just like the juices flow, Let the juices flow.
Speaker 3 (44:23):
So like, okay, let's say but also, this is.
Speaker 2 (44:26):
What I told Tony because she asked me this question
four times on our four hour drive, so once an hour,
and I would say, like, we just moved in together,
which even though we basically live together, it's that's the
focus right now, is that step in our lives, and
then you know, we'll move on to the next.
Speaker 1 (44:43):
So let's say like tomorrow you're having like an epiphany
and you're like, this.
Speaker 3 (44:47):
Is I know what I want to do?
Speaker 1 (44:49):
Would that be like the thing that got you started
to like get the process going.
Speaker 2 (44:54):
I mean I think I would maybe just start trying
to figure out, like subtly what kind of ring she likes,
you know, just think about things that would ignite that process.
Speaker 4 (45:03):
But we're just happy to be living together.
Speaker 3 (45:07):
And all right, all right, no rush, just curiosity, So
much for not rushing me.
Speaker 2 (45:12):
No, you haven't eve been super chill last a couple
of times on the.
Speaker 1 (45:18):
Drive, because you know why why I'm triggered from when
you said that you weren't going to tell me or
anybody when it was gonna happen.
Speaker 3 (45:28):
It's so funny that this is your way of handling that,
as if you repeatedly asking me, it's gonna make me
want to tell you more.
Speaker 1 (45:37):
It's not even about that, like it was like, I
feel like if I don't ask you, you're not just
gonna forthright tell me. But I feel like if I
asked you, you're gonna tell me, like you're not gonna
hide it.
Speaker 2 (45:49):
Yeah, Like if I have a plan, I'm not gonna
tell you just because you asked me.
Speaker 1 (45:52):
Really, Yeah, even if I just flat out asked you,
you would just lie to my face like that.
Speaker 3 (45:59):
Yeah. Wow.
Speaker 4 (46:00):
Because you didn't respect that boundary.
Speaker 3 (46:03):
Oh my god. I have to respect so many boundaries
with her these days.
Speaker 2 (46:07):
Boundaries, boundaries, respect boundaries here, so I don't want to
check my phone.
Speaker 1 (46:13):
So now every time you don't answer me for twelve hours,
I'm like, chill, I don't.
Speaker 3 (46:18):
Spend a week of that. And it's been very.
Speaker 2 (46:21):
Respectful, I know, thank you very what other boundary?
Speaker 3 (46:25):
That boundary takes a lot of boundary.
Speaker 1 (46:29):
Yeah, a lot of my boundary with and I'm just
like respecting Becca's boundaries.
Speaker 3 (46:35):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (46:36):
Oh oh. And then uh, there was the Papa shot.
There was like we were watching some papa shot tournament
on ESPN, and I was like, oh my gosh, this
is so funny. And I said it to Becca and
I sent you the video and then Robbie posted on
his Instagram and you responded to Robbie's Instagram and not
my text, and I was like, you know what, I'm
respecting her boundaries.
Speaker 3 (46:55):
She'll respond when she wants to. I think I looked
at my Instagram before I looked at my phone my text. Yeah,
is a Instagram on your phone? I looked at my
instagram if I looked at my text yeaheah. So just
like bad timing of what I saw first. Yeah, it's
those respecting boundaries. I'm so proud of you for doing that. Yeah.
(47:15):
How and by the time you responded, I didn't even
care about it anymore. See how that works? You just
move on, You forget and move on. Wow. I'm just saying,
don't you feel empowered by that?
Speaker 1 (47:27):
No, Because Paulina was telling me about some text she
sent you and you responded right away, and I was like, wow.
Speaker 3 (47:32):
There's a business opportunity. It sad. Well, No, it's timely.
It's timely. It feels like the boundary has only been
set with me, please, is it?
Speaker 1 (47:47):
No, it's just like a boundary that you're like setting
in general, or is it.
Speaker 4 (47:52):
I don't respond a lot to people.
Speaker 2 (47:54):
Oh, I'm not bragging, like, I'm not saying that it's
like that's a good quality I have.
Speaker 3 (47:58):
I'm just saying it's not only with you. Oh yeah,
that makes me feel better? Good? Should Yeah?
Speaker 5 (48:03):
Irresponds like thirty percent of the time when I text her, Yeah,
and I don't tell you. I just know that.
Speaker 3 (48:08):
You know that's Becca.
Speaker 5 (48:09):
Yeah, this is how it is. I know she. I
know she loves me. I know she cares about me,
and I know that when I see her we will
have a conversation about something meaningful. But maybe she doesn't
want to see the doctor Pepper donut I found, you know,
Yeah I did.
Speaker 3 (48:21):
I got sent that a lot. Yeah, that's you said.
I think I've tasted it just from the messages I've
got about it.
Speaker 2 (48:29):
But I do want to taste it actually, and it
makes me feel love that people think like that.
Speaker 3 (48:32):
Sorry I didn't respond.
Speaker 5 (48:33):
That's okay, I truly my feelings are never heard. Thank you, Tanya.
Speaker 3 (48:40):
I can take a note from Meton. I am not Easton,
that's true. I have cancer feelings. I am cancer too.
Speaker 1 (48:51):
You're not cancer, you're my mood is cancer. Well, then
you should empathize.
Speaker 3 (48:56):
I do my best. I've scorpio. They're conflicting, they are
it out very interesting.
Speaker 1 (49:03):
It's a it's a very interesting dichotomy. Its inside THEE,
inside thee.
Speaker 3 (49:09):
It's complicated.
Speaker 5 (49:10):
Yeah, right back to the truth or drink? Tanya? What
gets you off in bed every time? I?
Speaker 3 (49:23):
H what do you think my fiance? Is that the answer? No?
Speaker 5 (49:35):
I think the specific action like is there like like
what just the presence of Robbie gets he just.
Speaker 2 (49:43):
Walks boom, Yeah, he.
Speaker 3 (49:49):
Is a walk in the room like oh there she goes. Wow. Yeah,
it's a truth.
Speaker 2 (49:55):
No no, no, no, drink your drink your little no.
Speaker 3 (49:59):
No, that's the shot. That's fucking really fool What kind
of sister. This reminds me when you're taking the fireball
shot and tall it's actually so bad. You mind your
own business.
Speaker 1 (50:15):
My boundary, I want you to respect my boundary. I'm
gonna use that from now on.
Speaker 3 (50:19):
This is my boundary? All right? All right, all right Becca,
Oh no, after that one, I'm very stressed. Becca. I
wouldn't even know the answer to that, really, I mean,
I just like, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (50:35):
There's not something that.
Speaker 3 (50:37):
Position. They're all great, they all work on me.
Speaker 5 (50:41):
There's not like a surefire thing though, Like, no.
Speaker 3 (50:44):
They all they all work great, no complaints, Rave reviews.
Speaker 5 (50:51):
Things are looking great over yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, alright Becca,
what gets you off in bed every time?
Speaker 3 (51:04):
M hmm. She's going to answer it. She's going to
answer it.
Speaker 4 (51:10):
You're going to answer it.
Speaker 2 (51:13):
I would say, wow, Wow, stress.
Speaker 3 (51:19):
Captive audience of all time. Right then she's drinking. That
was a good teaser. That. Yeah, that's a good teaser clip.
Speaker 5 (51:39):
That's it. That's truth or drinking.
Speaker 3 (51:41):
Whoa we almost finished one whole shot.
Speaker 5 (51:44):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (51:47):
The thing that the problem with this was that we
didn't get drunk. We're supposed you're supposed to get drunk.
Speaker 2 (51:52):
Before well, should we do another one tomorrow or something
while we've been drinking.
Speaker 1 (51:57):
Maybe, because like it's like we have to get drunk
to be drunk while we're doing it.
Speaker 4 (52:02):
So then it's like, yeah, all right, are there more
to answer?
Speaker 3 (52:08):
I mean, but yeah, but we got to wrap it up,
say yeah.
Speaker 2 (52:14):
If we need to do, if we if we choose
to do another one tomorrow.
Speaker 5 (52:19):
There's no shortage of these questions, So if you want
to do another one, I'm sure the scribers would love.
Speaker 3 (52:24):
This is like the Delilah verse. De Liilah love someone
to intro You never.
Speaker 2 (52:35):
Listened to Delilah. This is like the Delilah version of
truth or drink?
Speaker 3 (52:40):
Is that like Miss Rachel?
Speaker 5 (52:42):
No, Delilah is for a softer, lighter sometimes the older
audience she plays. She's a member of the iHeartRadio.
Speaker 3 (52:52):
Family, ask Delilah.
Speaker 2 (52:54):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, a legend. On that note, it's
time for us to go to bed.
Speaker 3 (53:01):
Yeah, mama's gotta go to our same room.
Speaker 1 (53:05):
We didn't start this podcast until after I go to
sleep normally. Yeah, anybody's worried about my energy levels? The
energy is low because homatose, because ready for bed.
Speaker 3 (53:20):
For four hours now. So we love you so much.
Thank you for your question, Thank you.
Speaker 2 (53:27):
Thank you Airbnb for our perfect pump spring stay.
Speaker 3 (53:31):
Yes, we love you so much. We love you Airbnb.
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