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December 1, 2025 27 mins

We’re recovering from Thanksgiving, but how did hosting go?? 

Tanya and Becca are working their way through leftovers, the best TV to binge, and a love of laying. Have we mentioned we love laying?

Plus, it’s the year of parasocial and we dive into the clothing items we “can’t wear”!

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Scrubbing In with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast.

Speaker 2 (00:10):
Hello everybody, we are scrubbing it.

Speaker 3 (00:15):
Yes, we are coming in hot.

Speaker 2 (00:17):
Coming in hot. Day after break. Yeah, always tough. You know.

Speaker 4 (00:23):
I have the.

Speaker 5 (00:24):
Worst sleep, always whenever we have any sort of break
from work, because I get used to like sleeping with
on an alarm and just kind of waking up whenever
I wake up, and so I go it with panic.
And sure enough, last night, I woke up at twelve thirty.
I woke up at two forty five, and then my
alarm goes off at four, So basically I just woke
up at two forty five.

Speaker 2 (00:42):
Oh that's tough. Yeah, he'd be coughed all night, So
gotta get that situated again. But we are going on
a trip, which I get really anxious about leaving her,
no matter like how long we're going, yeah, or we're
gonna be gone for a minute, And I'm really anxious
about it. But I'm also like, oh, may I'm going
to get some good night's sleep. I mean, it's like

(01:07):
having a newborn who's like a hacking in your ear.

Speaker 5 (01:11):
I know, but I thought you discovered it that it
was like synthetic fragrances I have.

Speaker 2 (01:17):
It just depends on the night. Sometimes I feel like
I've gotten it figured out and then she comes up
with another He's cough in my ear, and I'm like,
here we are, Yeah, just square one. So it's a
little bit about me.

Speaker 5 (01:28):
Yeah, Becca's off for a little vak. So we apologize
in advance for some short episodes this week, but you
know we're getting it in, yeah when we can.

Speaker 4 (01:36):
Well, we wanted to. We wanted to get our episodes out.

Speaker 6 (01:40):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:41):
I been out for our for our gallas and guys, for.

Speaker 5 (01:43):
Our scrubbers, because next week Robbie's going to be filling in,
filling in, so it's important. This week we had the BECA.

Speaker 4 (01:51):
How was Thanksgiving?

Speaker 3 (01:53):
It is good.

Speaker 5 (01:54):
It was a lot. It was just a lot.

Speaker 4 (01:56):
Y'all did a lot for preparation for the day.

Speaker 5 (02:00):
We we took on a lot because we were just like,
there's all these little things around the house that we've
been wanting to do, and so we decided doing them
before Thanksgiving was what we were going to do. And
like it was NonStop for I feel like two weeks
before leading up, little things like the knacks on the
you know, on the walls. We were painting those, to

(02:20):
like painting windowsills, to hydro jetting the Amazon and pieces
I didn't even know existed.

Speaker 3 (02:27):
I mean it was just like NonStop.

Speaker 4 (02:30):
It felt like you were preparing for your wedding. It
maybe more so, yes, and the more preparation I think.

Speaker 5 (02:36):
Yeah, Robbie was like really wanting to make this beautiful
little artwork for the table, and he wanted the menu
to be like cute and fun and yeah, we like
went all out. Yeah, so after Thanksgiving, I literally felt
like I was hit by a truck.

Speaker 4 (02:51):
But you could just rested.

Speaker 5 (02:53):
Yeah, I just rested. I understand the appeal of just laying.

Speaker 3 (02:56):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (02:57):
Yeah, we can get into We'll get into that later.
I really like I thought about it. I was like wow,
because Friday we didn't get out of it. We didn't
even get out of bed until probably like one o'clock.
I mean we like got out to pee and like
eat breakfast and stuff, but like.

Speaker 4 (03:15):
Right, the only the essentials, yeah, only that they needed.

Speaker 5 (03:17):
And I was like, wow, I have this at fifty
And I was like, I understand Becca's love for Lang
so nice.

Speaker 2 (03:23):
Yeah, I love Lang yeah, we laid a lot too.

Speaker 3 (03:28):
How was your Thanksgiving?

Speaker 2 (03:29):
Well, we were supposed to host and some some of
the family members in Haley's family went Now all all
majority went down, like her nephew got sick, and so
their whole family was quarantining together and we were like,
y'all stay there, we don't need that. And then her

(03:51):
dad was sick and I was like, let's just push
it so everyone's feeling better. Yeah, So we I had
set up like a whole table setting and I had
ordered everything, so I was like, I'm setting it out. Yeah,
I'm just gonna take pictures and we're gonna have it.
It's just gonna be me and you with a long
table having our Thanksgiving dinner.

Speaker 4 (04:12):
So that's what I did. I said it all out,
but like flowers.

Speaker 2 (04:14):
And everything on the table and then we just and
it was nice because I just have to say we
rented chairs and I'm I don't know, they have no
idea that.

Speaker 4 (04:24):
I have a podcast, but.

Speaker 2 (04:27):
A shout out as rentals in North Hollywood. I had
told them because it was last minute that we found
out everyone was sick.

Speaker 4 (04:35):
So I was like, I'm so sorry.

Speaker 2 (04:39):
I know it's the night before but is there any
way we could just move the delivery to Sunday, And
she was like, they're already loaded, but I can have
them cancel the delivery if you don't need them. And
I was like, well, if I'm not getting a refund
or anything, just go on and bring them off. Figure
out something to do with them. But I got heaters
and stuff too, and so they delivered them and they

(05:01):
didn't pick them up yesterday.

Speaker 4 (05:03):
So we had them for yesterday for our Thanksgiving.

Speaker 2 (05:06):
And I don't know if it was intentional or if
they were just taking the weekend off, but.

Speaker 5 (05:09):
I like, I was gonna say that ours are getting
picked up today. Okay, well then he took the weekend off.

Speaker 2 (05:16):
Anyways, it worked out and so her family came over yesterday,
her sister and the kids still were not they were down,
but we had Thanksgiving with her parents and her brother
and her uncle and it was it was so fun.
It was our first time having an actual dinner in
our new backyard. So we had like, we played ping pong,
we got in the jacuzzi.

Speaker 4 (05:37):
It was just so it was so nice.

Speaker 5 (05:39):
So we two had a member two members of our
three members of our family down with illness for Thanksgiving,
and then I heard Becca's debacle and I was like, well,
why don't you guys just read rover on over to
the ad pad for Thanksgiving? And Becka Nily said no, well.

Speaker 2 (05:56):
Yeah, because it's like we had the we were excited
to have at our place and be at home because
we were always going places for Thanksgiving, so we were
just like we just wanted to chill at home and
we were so content, like we had so much fun.

Speaker 4 (06:09):
We played horse in the.

Speaker 3 (06:10):
Backyard, they played horse in my house.

Speaker 2 (06:12):
We played ping pong, and then we just like cooked
and ate and played scrabble. It was so fun just us.
You know, it was just so fun. But I did appreciate.
I really we had everyone being like come over, like
everyone felt like bad for us, and we were very content.

Speaker 6 (06:34):
You know.

Speaker 5 (06:34):
I spared you a lot of phone calls because.

Speaker 3 (06:36):
I can't remember I said something.

Speaker 5 (06:38):
I was like, I'm trying to get back and Haley
to come over here, like they're family sick and they're
just the lone and like everybody in my family was.

Speaker 4 (06:44):
Like, I'll call them, I'll call them, I'll call them.

Speaker 5 (06:46):
I was like, no, no, I don't think they want
to come over.

Speaker 3 (06:48):
Please do not everybody start.

Speaker 4 (06:50):
Calling them no, No, I really appreciate it.

Speaker 2 (06:52):
And it made me feel like anytime we need a home,
we can go to the rad pad. Yeah, and I
and the yad pad is what I.

Speaker 3 (06:58):
Meant, Yeah, the rad yad pad.

Speaker 4 (06:59):
Yeah. So yeah, we had a lot of food. Oh weekend.
It was wonderful.

Speaker 3 (07:06):
I had.

Speaker 5 (07:07):
We had so many leftovers. I think, like when we
heard thirty people, we prepared for like a hundred people.
And because I think I overestimate how much people eat.

Speaker 2 (07:21):
Yeah, I like you think people get like the seconds
and thirds like I do.

Speaker 5 (07:26):
And I also think, like I in my head, I
think like a turkey is like a chicken, and so
I'm like, well, we usually get one chicken for like
our family of four, so we need like a lot
of turkey for thirty people, you know what I mean.

Speaker 4 (07:36):
So how many turkeys did you get too?

Speaker 7 (07:38):
Oh? My god?

Speaker 2 (07:39):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (07:41):
So I had leftovers literally until yesterday. I had my
last cranberry mashed potato turkey meal. You ate that every
day every day for lunch and dinner, Thursday, Friday, Saturday,
and half of Sunday.

Speaker 4 (07:54):
I'm overwhelmed.

Speaker 5 (07:55):
Yeah, I didn't do you want me to the same thing,
except instead of mashed potatoes, he did rice.

Speaker 4 (08:01):
I can't do a repetitive thing like that.

Speaker 5 (08:04):
When you have so much leftovers, you just do what
you gotta do, I know, and you would reposition it
into different things, like a sandwich or something with a moistmaker.

Speaker 4 (08:15):
What a moist maker?

Speaker 5 (08:18):
You don't know that from friends? No?

Speaker 3 (08:22):
Have you not seen that episode?

Speaker 2 (08:23):
I have?

Speaker 5 (08:23):
I have to Ross like has the special Thanksgiving sandwich
that his sister makes. She puts the moistmaker in it,
and somebody ate his sandwich.

Speaker 4 (08:31):
Oh oh yeah.

Speaker 2 (08:32):
Yeah yeah yeah No no moist makers. No, but my
Hayley made my mom's roast on actual Thanksgiving. That so
we didn't We had turkey yesterday, but we had like roast,
and we we like put We made mac and cheese
when she just did craft mac and cheese, which we
were both so.

Speaker 4 (08:51):
Excited about because we haven't had it in so long,
and she.

Speaker 2 (08:53):
Posted a picture and everyone was like, is that craft
back cheese. Anyways, we divvied up all the helpings and
then we went and delivered them to the family so
that they had dinner.

Speaker 4 (09:04):
That's so we didn't have any leftover roast and we
were so sad, were like, dang.

Speaker 5 (09:09):
It, we did that too.

Speaker 6 (09:11):
Week.

Speaker 5 (09:12):
I got these like to go things to pack all
the left somebody could take whatever they wanted home, and
I bought these like biodegradable good for the planet once
and like they the tops just didn't like.

Speaker 4 (09:24):
I know what you're talking.

Speaker 3 (09:25):
Yes, yes, they just like.

Speaker 5 (09:28):
They were such a disasters on like taping all these
things shuting.

Speaker 2 (09:33):
Did you do is get rubber bands? You know, yes,
like how they do it.

Speaker 3 (09:37):
That's what I was missing, the rub bands.

Speaker 4 (09:39):
Next year, maybe you can be a real host.

Speaker 5 (09:41):
Yeah, I do feel like I really just got to
shut it out because I get really overwhelmed with the
timing of the food preparations. Like I was just so
all day I was fixated. I'm like, okay, we have
our doors or starters out when we bring like when
do we eat? We didn't have like a set time,
so like we kind of just kept like asking people
are you hungry?

Speaker 3 (10:01):
And then like we put the stuff out.

Speaker 5 (10:02):
But then like it was like hunger games for the oven,
you know, like you get to put their food in
a like what temperature?

Speaker 3 (10:07):
And that was just like as stressful.

Speaker 4 (10:10):
Yeah, I will say we well yesterday.

Speaker 2 (10:13):
Since it was just a small group of us, we
had our Adu kitchen, so it was the first time
we used that. So we had that oven, which was helpful,
truly amazing because the turkey was just in there. Yeah,
and everything else was just its own, like spot he
needs its own moment.

Speaker 5 (10:28):
Yeah, we don't have that. We just have one old oven.

Speaker 4 (10:30):
Yeah, well that's pretty standard. We're very fortunate to have
the second oven. But it was great. I love Lane,
I love Lane. I love laying.

Speaker 5 (10:43):
Yeah, Like, do you know how much I laid?

Speaker 4 (10:45):
Did you watch any shows while you laid?

Speaker 3 (10:48):
I watched so many shows.

Speaker 2 (10:50):
Let's talk about what you watch and what you loved
and recommend when we come back.

Speaker 6 (10:56):
Okay, all right, we're back.

Speaker 4 (11:13):
Okay, so what did you watch while whilst laying?

Speaker 5 (11:18):
So I want to say my number one recommendation and
the show that I was absolutely obsessed with that I
honestly would watch again was The Beast in Me.

Speaker 4 (11:25):
Oh Hailey wall I was a little too scary. I
was on the couch. I thought it scary. What he
was pretty scary? Yes, So I had shocked.

Speaker 5 (11:35):
And confirm that fun because I usually don't like scary things,
and I was fine with the show.

Speaker 4 (11:42):
Well, I would love to be there's definitely suspense.

Speaker 5 (11:44):
Yeah, it's a thriller.

Speaker 4 (11:46):
It's a thriller.

Speaker 2 (11:46):
When he was getting the text right before he was
about to throw the phone, I was like screaming at
the DV.

Speaker 5 (11:54):
I was like, this is too much. Matthew Reese has
become my favorite actor on the planet, like I like
my My lore for him goes deep into did you
ever watch the show Brothers and Sisters?

Speaker 4 (12:08):
No?

Speaker 5 (12:09):
Oh, you would love it?

Speaker 4 (12:11):
Really yes, it's like back in the day.

Speaker 5 (12:13):
I can't remember. It was like one of those like
what was it on?

Speaker 7 (12:17):
Was it back in two thousand and six? It was
on ABC?

Speaker 5 (12:19):
Yeah, I was on ABC. It was kind of like
Seventh heaveny ish, I would say.

Speaker 4 (12:23):
Sorry, Sally, a tough comparison.

Speaker 5 (12:27):
Watch I wasn't Seventh Heaven good When see them happy
faces smiling back at me and it's.

Speaker 7 (12:40):
Comp time has not been kind to Seventh Heaven.

Speaker 5 (12:44):
Oh really?

Speaker 4 (12:45):
Yeah? No?

Speaker 5 (12:47):
Wait, okay, then what's another show about like family? So
I can't compare it to that?

Speaker 8 (12:54):
Well, uh yeah, there's an actor us. This is this
is us is a good good win O. There's a
Who's and Brothers and Sisters and the beast in me.

Speaker 5 (13:02):
Yeah, I know that's getting at Matthew Rece.

Speaker 4 (13:07):
I'm so sorry.

Speaker 5 (13:10):
That's why I was saying it, because Matthew re because
in Brothers and Sisters so long ago. I used to
watch this when I was a kid. And then he
was in the show The Americans with Carrie Russell, which
was so excellent television. And now this show that I'm
obsessed with, I'm like, Matthew rees is now my number
one favorite actor.

Speaker 4 (13:28):
Wait do you know? Sorry this is off topic, but
I just saw this thing Carrie Russell.

Speaker 2 (13:34):
She was Felicity, right, Yes, I just saw this clip
where you know.

Speaker 4 (13:39):
She had like long, beautiful, curly hair.

Speaker 2 (13:42):
Yeah, and then there's this episode where she like cuts
her hair really short.

Speaker 5 (13:46):
Again.

Speaker 3 (13:46):
I watched it, but I don't remember any of this.

Speaker 4 (13:48):
Okay, well, I weirdly remember this. I didn't watch it either,
but I remember the controversy.

Speaker 2 (13:56):
And I saw TikTok about it and people are like
in the comments, the ratings were never the same after
she cut her hair, and I was like, there's.

Speaker 4 (14:03):
No way that's true, and it was.

Speaker 5 (14:05):
Shoo, why'd they ever cut her hair?

Speaker 4 (14:08):
Maybe she wanted to do.

Speaker 5 (14:10):
I forget she had that curly hair. It's not curly
anymore on the Americans.

Speaker 4 (14:13):
Well, she put a treatment on it.

Speaker 5 (14:15):
Yeah, it's like very straight in the Americans. Actually, they've
come a long way with the tools. But she has
gorgeous curly hair. Yeah. So anyway, Yeah, Matthew Race the
beast in me was so phenomenal. Like Robbie and I
are one of those people were like, we can be
watching something and then at nine o'clock, when it hits
nine o'clock, we're like, okay, TV off bedtime.

Speaker 4 (14:35):
Whoa.

Speaker 5 (14:35):
But this show we were on like episode seven and
we were like, there's no way we could go to
sleep without seeing the end of it. So we're up
till one o'clock in the morning watching this. Oh and
you loved it ten out of ten. I give it
ten stars.

Speaker 4 (14:49):
Yeah, Hailey says it's probably one of the best shows.
She's what.

Speaker 5 (14:52):
She also loved all her fault and she hated that.

Speaker 2 (14:56):
No, And the more people are hyping it up, the
more we're feeling like, what's it.

Speaker 4 (15:01):
Either something's wrong with all of you or something's wrong
with us.

Speaker 3 (15:03):
I think something's wrong with y'all.

Speaker 4 (15:05):
I think y'all are too satisfied with easy television. Easy television,
like I think someone can throw out like one weird
twist and everyone's like, oh as opposed to it being
like the beast.

Speaker 2 (15:18):
In me, it felt like it was like really well,
it was like a good script.

Speaker 4 (15:22):
It was really well acted.

Speaker 2 (15:23):
I don't know, I felt like all her fault the
scenes I saw it felt like a soap oper and
the music was like.

Speaker 3 (15:31):
You're just wrong. It's you're absolutely wrong.

Speaker 5 (15:34):
I only gave it like a nine point five because
the ending like was like a little bit soap opera
to me, like, well.

Speaker 2 (15:43):
Now that I know you like seventh even, all of
your REGs are out the door.

Speaker 4 (15:48):
It's see.

Speaker 5 (15:48):
Oh I don't remember seventh even, but I remember that
it was like a family. It was like a show
about a family.

Speaker 2 (15:54):
Yes, yeah, A lot of shows are like what a
Whole House?

Speaker 4 (16:01):
It's literally about a family in a full house.

Speaker 5 (16:04):
I know, but it was like drama. It was like
during day. It wasn't like a daytime show. What Brothers
and Sisters was like a nighttime show. It was like
a little bit on like the risqueer side.

Speaker 7 (16:14):
Full House at night. What It's on?

Speaker 5 (16:17):
A thing?

Speaker 7 (16:17):
Called Prime Time.

Speaker 8 (16:19):
Interesting, the Evening interesting. So you want like drama shows
about families, that's what you're looking for.

Speaker 5 (16:25):
No, no, no, no, I was just trying to give give
Brothers and.

Speaker 3 (16:27):
Sisters some sort of no no, no did it?

Speaker 4 (16:31):
How many seasons did it run?

Speaker 5 (16:33):
You think? Can you fact check that? I'm not sure?

Speaker 4 (16:35):
But a lot?

Speaker 7 (16:35):
I think Brothers and Sisters five?

Speaker 6 (16:38):
Five?

Speaker 7 (16:38):
Yes, exactly? Fine?

Speaker 4 (16:40):
Oh wow, okay, okay.

Speaker 5 (16:42):
And then I watched the Celebrity UK Traders. Oh yeah,
I was gonna see a nominal television.

Speaker 4 (16:49):
Who are the celebrities on?

Speaker 5 (16:51):
I don't know any of them except for the one
guy from uh, what's the show with the soccer the
soccer balls? Funny with the oh till ted Lasso. He
was like one of the coaches and Ted Laso.

Speaker 2 (17:04):
We had a hold this whole thing about ted Lasso
and how I didn't get into it.

Speaker 3 (17:08):
It was your favorite Mohammed.

Speaker 5 (17:09):
Yes, So he was the only Trader that I recognized
as a celebrity. I didn't know who any of the
rest of them were. And it was amazing. Really it's
a good season, great season. I highly recommend it. It was
a nice palate cleanser after the beast in me because
it was very intense to very light, right right, right.
Then we went into the Jonahs Brothers Christmas Movie and
it was great, actually really good. And now we're about

(17:33):
to start Landman, oh.

Speaker 4 (17:36):
The yellowst Is that a Yellowstone series?

Speaker 2 (17:38):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (17:38):
And we didn't like Yellowstone.

Speaker 3 (17:40):
I'm a little bit interesting.

Speaker 5 (17:41):
Yeah, I'm a little.

Speaker 3 (17:42):
Concerned to start.

Speaker 5 (17:43):
But everybody's recommending it. Yeah, no, keeps recommending it now
exactly you who what have you been watching?

Speaker 2 (17:54):
I just kind of sit on the couch and like
scroll while Hailehy watches stuff, watch anything.

Speaker 4 (17:58):
I don't really really just lay and have I not
said I love to lay.

Speaker 3 (18:04):
Wow, I can't just lay and do nothing.

Speaker 4 (18:06):
High squirrel.

Speaker 1 (18:07):
I'm watching my squirrels, my doom squirrels.

Speaker 2 (18:28):
I didn't watch the Call Her Daddy episode of Whitney
Love It, but I watched the dance performance, which was
pretty spectacular. But I also go, like, I wonder if
every because Dancing with the Stars. What's so cool about
it is that it is live, so like if they
mess up for something, there's no redo, and there's looked amazing.
Mark and Whitney's because it was pre taped, well pre

(18:49):
taped and edited in different. You know, there was a
lot going on, but it was amazing and I just.

Speaker 4 (18:56):
Saw she got the lead role of Roxy on Chicago
on Broadway.

Speaker 3 (19:01):
Oh my god.

Speaker 5 (19:03):
Yeah, I didn't realize. Like I had to text Becca
because I was like, I don't understand why is this
such a big deal that they're doing a freestyle dance
on Call her Daddy? But now Becca has informed me
why it was such a big deal.

Speaker 8 (19:14):
And the fact that Dancing with the Stars was like
part of it, I thought was interesting because I thought
it was just gonna be like Whitney coming on to
like redeem herself and go and call her daddy. But
like it was like a sanctioned I mean, it wasn't
like part of the competition, but like right, Dancing with
the Stars was like.

Speaker 7 (19:26):
All in on it. They were promoting it, they agreed
to it.

Speaker 4 (19:28):
I thought that was cool.

Speaker 3 (19:29):
Yeah, they're smart.

Speaker 4 (19:30):
Interesting. Yeah, it was smart.

Speaker 2 (19:33):
And it's funny because every time every season on Into
the Stars people.

Speaker 4 (19:37):
Get kicked off early that people riot.

Speaker 2 (19:40):
Against you know, yeah, but this one did feel like
bigger and different. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (19:44):
Was it just because of the Mormon wives lore of
it all?

Speaker 8 (19:47):
I think it was the Mormon wives lore and also
my personal theory. I don't know if you guys saw this,
but like she and Mark were doing this like giveaway
for tickets to a taping, and they posted on TikTok
and like we're gonna pick one lucky fan to come
to a taping, and like you're not allowed to do that,
and so they took it down like a couple hours
later and then put a video saying, hey, sorry, so

(20:08):
it turns out actually we.

Speaker 7 (20:09):
Can't really give away a ticket, but.

Speaker 4 (20:10):
You should still still vote for it on the wrist.

Speaker 7 (20:14):
Yeah, it seemed like they were like bribing people for votes.
That what it felt like.

Speaker 8 (20:18):
And so the next week after that happened because they
do like the bottom three, but it's not really the
bottom three, and it was like Mark and Whitney and
the bottom two. So like everyone thought, like the producers
were like, you want to try and give away.

Speaker 7 (20:31):
Tickets, We're gonna we're gonna make you feel like you're
getting kicked off right now.

Speaker 5 (20:34):
Day dang, And people think.

Speaker 7 (20:36):
That had to do with them getting eliminated before the finals.

Speaker 4 (20:41):
We cut the throat.

Speaker 5 (20:42):
I know, I saw this guttle bit about Whitney Carson's
like leaked text message or whatever, and I was like,
all I saw was going, I see Whitney Carson.

Speaker 4 (20:50):
Slammed and all the stuff.

Speaker 5 (20:52):
So I was like, I want to see what she said.
So I clicked the article clickbait. I'm like, this is
literally nothing she said. Yeah, zach Affron's there because they
want votes.

Speaker 2 (21:00):
Obviously we need to start putting some crazy teas tea's.

Speaker 4 (21:05):
Headlines on ours, like Tanya, but just some clickbait because
it made it look so much worse.

Speaker 2 (21:18):
Like Whitney Carson slams and then it's like she just like, yeah,
they're trying to get votes.

Speaker 4 (21:22):
Yeah, yeah, and it works.

Speaker 2 (21:24):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (21:24):
Are we all like?

Speaker 5 (21:25):
If I had a zach Efron, I'd just love him
out there too.

Speaker 2 (21:28):
I'd be like, wait until I really need you. If
you're only coming to one show.

Speaker 5 (21:31):
Yeah, I'm going to bring out the big guns.

Speaker 2 (21:34):
She didn't say anything wrong, no, no, but we are
very happy for our girl, Whitney Carson. Yeah, Mirror Ball champ,
which is so funny because in my mind I feel
like Whitney's won the Mirrorball so many times.

Speaker 5 (21:50):
Her second one, I know, I think she always.

Speaker 4 (21:52):
Makes it so far that it feels like she's right there.

Speaker 9 (21:55):
Yeah, but so happy for her and Roberts And did
you want to hear about Cambridge's Dictionary Words of the Year.

Speaker 4 (22:06):
It has to do a tailor and Travis.

Speaker 5 (22:08):
Maybe we can hear that on Thursday.

Speaker 8 (22:10):
Oh oh my god, so many.

Speaker 4 (22:19):
You can hear this. That's crazy, not even fair. No,
I'm not going to make the white for that.

Speaker 3 (22:27):
Okay.

Speaker 4 (22:27):
The word is parasocial.

Speaker 3 (22:29):
Yes, I already knew the answer spoiler alert.

Speaker 4 (22:33):
And it was the rise in attention was linked to
Taylor Slift in Travis Kelsey's engagement because of the strong
emotional reaction. Yeah, which is very parasocial.

Speaker 5 (22:45):
It is pretty crazy.

Speaker 4 (22:47):
I mean our world is parasocial though, totally.

Speaker 3 (22:50):
People that I know that, like I haven't seen since Like.

Speaker 4 (22:53):
Yeah, we know what they're doing.

Speaker 3 (22:54):
Yeah, I know what you're doing.

Speaker 5 (22:56):
I know what your kids look like, I know where
you went to dinner last night, I know what you ate.

Speaker 4 (23:00):
WHOA And they didn't even post it.

Speaker 3 (23:04):
I have them on fine mine.

Speaker 5 (23:06):
No.

Speaker 2 (23:06):
It is crazy though, because there was I know we've
talked about this before, but there was that like excitement
you had seeing your favorite celebrities doing something in magazines
and paparazzi shots, and then now it's like we know
everything about everybody, and it's like when you know so
much about people, it's natural as a human to have
this like parasocial dynamic.

Speaker 4 (23:27):
But people take it really far on the internet. I
mean literally, I think.

Speaker 2 (23:32):
About all this, even all this stuff with Dancing with
the Stars, it became so like fans of the person
that didn't win becoming I do.

Speaker 5 (23:42):
This myself, Like I there's a girl people, I'm like,
oh no, no, there's a girl I follow. Her name's Maye.
She's a stylist and I just follow her on Instagram.
I never met her, and I started walking down the
street one day and I just roll up to her like, hey,
may have a full blown conversation with her, because but
I prefaced it with what you never meant, no, nonta.

(24:03):
I went up to her, was randomly on the street
and I was like, hey, I follow you and I
really relate to a lot of your story. And then
we talked on the corner for like twenty minutes.

Speaker 4 (24:14):
Well that's like not parasocial, because.

Speaker 5 (24:17):
It is because it was totally one sided. She had
no idea who I was.

Speaker 2 (24:21):
Yeah, but you made a connection irl, like if people
made a connection in real life.

Speaker 5 (24:26):
I know, but previous to my encounter with her, but I've.

Speaker 4 (24:29):
Never known her, you were like tru.

Speaker 2 (24:31):
I'm saying, yeah, sure you had a parasocial friendship with her.

Speaker 4 (24:35):
That was one scited. But I'm talking about the parasocial
of like this emotional attachment of trolling and having really
big feelings about something you see like two percent of
someone's life.

Speaker 6 (24:50):
You know.

Speaker 5 (24:50):
Like when May said I couldn't wear a certain thing,
I got like really sad about it because.

Speaker 4 (24:54):
What was it?

Speaker 5 (24:55):
I don't remember, you know what.

Speaker 4 (24:57):
I got kind of sad about what.

Speaker 2 (24:59):
One time someone was like if you have a long
denim skirt, like what are you doing? And I was
cleaning up my closet the other day and I found
I found my long denim skirt, and I thought, do
I need this?

Speaker 5 (25:16):
No?

Speaker 4 (25:16):
I got rid of it.

Speaker 5 (25:17):
You know what I'd love I would love to go
through your closet.

Speaker 4 (25:20):
Why.

Speaker 3 (25:21):
I feel you have a lot.

Speaker 5 (25:22):
Of gems in there, Gems like bad like like old,
like nostalgic things that'll bring me back. I don't pedal pushers.

Speaker 2 (25:30):
And.

Speaker 5 (25:32):
I don't pusher, yeah, like the capri huh, I don't
have those.

Speaker 3 (25:36):
You don't know.

Speaker 4 (25:38):
Have you ever seen me wear pedal pushers?

Speaker 5 (25:40):
No, but I feel like you might have back in
the day, Like what do you have?

Speaker 4 (25:43):
You think I saved clothes from when I was like thirteen.

Speaker 5 (25:45):
When did you get this denim skirt, this long denim skirt.

Speaker 4 (25:48):
I got it from Reformation, like a couple of years ago.
It's like your own denim dress that you have.

Speaker 5 (25:55):
Dress is good, it's stylish, it's.

Speaker 4 (26:00):
Basically it's basically that without the top.

Speaker 5 (26:03):
Had skirt is not dress, and a dress is not
a denim skirt.

Speaker 2 (26:09):
So what if I wore denim top with my denim
skirt it looked the exact same as your denim dress,
it would not. She shifted in her seat when I
called her it's being given away, and it was. It
was a little funky. It was kind of like I
was feeling a little flair. It has like a mermaid bottom.

Speaker 3 (26:30):
Oh wow.

Speaker 4 (26:32):
Oh all right.

Speaker 2 (26:34):
On that note, we do have to go because we
have to get to Thursday's episode.

Speaker 4 (26:38):
But we love you all so much.

Speaker 2 (26:40):
We love you, and we'll be back on Thursday with
just some good old laughter, fun and cheer, and we
can't wait for that moment.

Speaker 4 (26:48):
So have a wonderful week.

Speaker 5 (26:50):
Holidays are near.

Speaker 4 (26:51):
Yeah, enjoy your week back from you know, I know
a lot of people had a long weekend. If you
didn't have a long weekend, then enjoy your week.

Speaker 2 (26:58):
But if you okay, are you?

Speaker 5 (27:01):
Are you gardened?

Speaker 2 (27:04):
I wish, but have a great week okay. So I
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