October 27, 2025 • 51 mins
Tanya and Roby defied gravity this weekend when Roby embodied the spirit of Elphaba… even if he hasn’t seen Wicked.
We get a fully produced DJ version of Tanya’s latest hit song, and Becca reveals which track she plays to start her day.
Plus, we dive deep into our love of lying down! Are you snoozers? Or do you jump out of bed once the alarm goes off??
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Scrubbing In with Becka Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio
and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Hello everyone, we are scrubbing in?
Speaker 1 (00:16):
Yes, we we are.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
What were you going to say something on the tip
of your tongue there?
Speaker 1 (00:21):
I just caught myself, But it's fine.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
You're gonna say tubs and the scrubbing in pad.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Yeah, yeah, tubs and yad.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
I was just talking to Jeff Chubbs. I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (00:32):
Oh, I thought you were talking about scrubbing dub dub.
It was like tough, all it works?
Speaker 1 (00:38):
Yeah, yeah, it's.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Just an early morning here, early morning for me, early
early Yeah. I normally come at twelve and it's ten.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Hey, how did you get yourself up today? It was tough,
but I did it. And what time did you have
to sell your alarm?
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Well?
Speaker 4 (00:52):
I said, I always set my alarm at eight.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Ah, yeah, so I woke up at eight, but I
was like, I could sleep longer.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
You're not going to.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
When your alarm goes off at eight and you don't
have anything immediate you have to do? Is it hard
to get up and not just keep snoozing?
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Yeah, for sure, a lot of snooze there's a lot
of snoozing happened. Do you ever snooze?
Speaker 3 (01:12):
I seize one time.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
You give me a no snooze vibe, Thank you very much.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
There's always one snooze.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
Your energy gives no snoozes.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
I do one. I always do one.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
How long is it?
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Like?
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Good?
Speaker 4 (01:22):
Nine minutes?
Speaker 3 (01:22):
You know, I appreciate that the iPhone allows me to
now customize the length of my snooze. I don't know
that it does on the new iOS twenty six very much. Stuck.
I stuck with the traditional nine minutes though, Oh nice.
I think that's there for a reason. I think it
has to do with your cycle.
Speaker 5 (01:35):
Oh do you go back to sleep in that snooze?
Speaker 3 (01:37):
I sometimes do. Sometimes I just lay there in contemplate life.
But sometimes you go back to Yeah, that's.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Why I hate snoozing. I'd rather have that nine minutes
of rem cycle then wake up and sit in my
own thoughts like who wants to understand that?
Speaker 3 (01:50):
But I like my routine. Sometimes I doze back off.
Sometimes I don't.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Are you a snoozer?
Speaker 3 (01:55):
I'm a souezer.
Speaker 5 (01:56):
Yeah, okay, big time snoezer.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
I do it too.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
I don't know that it necessarily makes me feel better
when it's actually time to get up, because I do
most of the time fall back and sleep.
Speaker 6 (02:06):
I set my alarm for earlier than I actually have
to get up so that I can snooze and still
get up by the time I'm supposed to do, because
it gives me the illusion that I'm like sleeping in
and like leterally getting out of bed.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
I used this was a really sinister thing I used
to do to myself. I used to set my alarm
for four am, just so I could hit snooze and sleep.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
For my job, I had to wake up at seven,
so I knew.
Speaker 5 (02:28):
I had three hours wow, so it.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
Was a long snooze. I set an alarm for four
and then seven.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
It's so bad.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
It probably was horrible for it, but I was just
like it made me feel like I can sleep in.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
My large prostate takes care of that for me, I do.
I used to do a thing where, like you'd get
up at six in the morning every day or whatever
your life was. On Saturday, I'd set my alarm for
six am just to have the joy of, oh my gosh,
it's Saturday. I don't have to get up after all.
Off and go back and sleep smiling.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
I suppose it's just not setting an alarm.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
That is so bizarre. My alarm goes off, it goes
one ring, like one round of the alarm, and my
foot's aready on the floor.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Wow. Yeah, we have to talk about Tanya's alarm though.
But because last Friday, I was trying to get a
hold of Tanya because it's a long story, but she
was doing news for Sisiny that morning, so she had
a gap even earlier, and so I was calling her
to say, hey, hey, it's time, because I hadn't heard
from her yet, which was weird. And I called her
(03:30):
nine times and she did not answer. And it comes
to turn out she keeps her phone in her sock drawer.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Yeah, it's just still next to my bed, and it's
not like across the room or I'm a nice thing. Yeah,
the very bottom drawer.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Okay, but the socks would dampen the sound.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
I don't need the sound.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
You clearly do is your sound on.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Though my alarm goes off. My alarm goes off.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
So you weren't gonna hear that whether it was in
your sock drawer.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
That I had mark in my Favorites cut through lists,
so in my mind, his calls would always cut through
my like no ringer. At least that's what I thought
the past fifteen years.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
They do not disturb, It doesn't turn your sound off.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Interesting, he thought it just like his call over overrides
every Yes.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Yes I did, because I remember for some reason doing
this a long time ago. But it was so stressful.
I've never in my life I didn't sleep through my alarm.
I forgot to set my alarm. Wow, I forgot I
was doing the news for ssany. I just totally blanked
and just didn't set my alarm. So I woke up
(04:42):
Robbie from the bathroom is going?
Speaker 3 (04:44):
I called Robbie.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Oh wow, that's how I got up.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
Wow, that's a very stressful.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
It is the most. It was so stressful. I can't
tell you. Like my heart was beating. I felt like
I was gonna pass out, Like I was sweating because
I was like, I don't think I'm gonna be able
to do it in time before he gets here, Like
you didn't think I was going to do it all
and like be able to get in on time, and
I was four minutes to spare.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Yeah, it's pretty good.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
I thought.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
So the robby's having his morning constitutional and I'm calling
him and he's like and then he doesn't want to
yell loud and make up the whole house.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Yeah, the kids are sleeping, so he's like trying to
like yell at me from the bathroom.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Saying, well, you did it. I sometimes those days just happen.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Not to me.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Yeah they do.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
They did, just did it did And I didn't like it.
It set me off the whole rest of the day.
I was like stressed and like anxious, Like, so.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Now you've started do not disturb what you would resist him?
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Yeah, So now I'm trying this whole do not disturb thing.
I have a list of people who can like cut
through this wall again, right, and I'm just gonna put
my phone on do not disturb, but keep the ringer on.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
I'm honored to be on that list. Yes, do you
have it set from what time to what time is?
Speaker 2 (05:47):
You know?
Speaker 1 (05:48):
I'm just going to turn it on and off every
night manually.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Yeah, that's another point of failure, potential point of failure.
Why because if you have it automatically, you know, don't
have to worry about it.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
I know, but I don't want to automatic because what if,
like I'm raging on a Friday night and I want
people to do to call me at a.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Lot and only set it from Monday through Thursday overnights
or Sunday through Thursday overnights. You can do that. What
if I'm raging on a Thursday, I could set it
for anything you want.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
I'm with you, tany, I like the main Yeah, that's flexibility,
Like every day is different.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Yeah, I it's a control thing, like you're not going
to tell me when it's going on.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
Do not disturb it.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Im Like some mornings I might want it off earlier
than six am. Maybe I wanted to go off at
for it right, sure, but now I can do that,
I guess.
Speaker 5 (06:29):
So I Alsa doesn't use an alarm. She sets a
timer she.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
Said, like a seven hours.
Speaker 6 (06:35):
So interesting, and I'm like, this is like serial killer,
And she's like, oh, I'm concerned about like not maybe
she's afraid that I'm gonna have with the clock, you know,
like like or like.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
If your phone updates overnight. I do fear that sometimes.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
Yeah, but that would be the same issue, wouldn't it.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
It would, But I don't know.
Speaker 6 (06:53):
And also she's like, well, I'm not really concerned about
what time'm getting Up's more like how long do.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
I want to sleep?
Speaker 4 (06:58):
But how many hours?
Speaker 5 (06:59):
So she said it's like eight or something that's in true.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
I might try. I might dry that interesting because then
you're you're basically just guaranteeing yourself you're getting the same
amount of hours at night.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
Exactly is that your motivation? What's your what is the
motivation for time or over alarm?
Speaker 6 (07:17):
I know that she was also like concerned about like
not I think there's one time where we were like
in a different.
Speaker 5 (07:22):
Time zone and she's like, I don't know what time
tomorrow is? Do not know what time it is? Or
you know.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Yeah, we were hanging out this couple over the weekend
and they were we were talking about like our morning
routines or whatever, and they were like, yeah, we both
just get up naturally when our bodies wake up. And
I'm like, what a decaded life? Like me too, it
is decadent, Like I wake up to an alarm seventy
percent of my life.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
Yeah, it's tough, but that's also most people.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
I think it is.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
But I couldn't imagine just like letting my body wake
up when it wants like that's the I was like
trying to envision that on a weekday. I was like,
I would never get up.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Yeah, you get up eventually because you feel you feel rested,
and then you're like, what do I want to do next?
Speaker 5 (08:09):
Just rip Van Winkle and sleep multiple years.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
I think I would like this weekend, like on Sunday
alarm we never see Yeah, Like on Sunday, we had
no plans and I didn't get out of bed till
like eleven, just laying there.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
I was like.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Dozing on, you know, wake up a little to let
Sunday out of her crate, take her to pee. You
went back up to bed. Scrolled on Instagram, laugh laugh,
laughed as some comments laid back down.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
Texted Becca, I love laying.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
I love laying I do. I love laying.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
Like I don't even need to be doing anything. I
just love being horizontal in a comfortable position.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
Yeah, dine, Yeah yeah, but how you lie is very
important as well. Pillows under the knees, the way you lie.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Yeah yeah, well you gotta have that love bar.
Speaker 4 (09:00):
Okay, Well, how was your weekend?
Speaker 1 (09:02):
Weekend was action packed? How was your weekend?
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Tell me about yours before we move on to mine.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
We had a birthday shabbat for our twin, our twins
our nieces that are twins birthday.
Speaker 4 (09:18):
If you want to consolidate that.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
So we did that. We had that on Friday night,
and then Saturday we had like our first Halloween costume party.
Oh yeah, so I was Linda and Robbie was Alphaba
from Wicked.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
But did he he really channeled the Wicked Witch more
than he channeled Alpha Ba.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Yeah. Well, he's never seen Wicked and so he's only known.
He's like, he would talk, he'd be like, come here pretty.
I'm like, it's not You're not really I tried. So
Friday night, after the shabbat, I was like, let's watch
Wicked so you can get into character. And he fell
asleep within two minutes. I don't musicals are his thing.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
I love Wicked.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Yeah me too.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
I mean, I'm on the I don't love musicals, but
Wicked is amazing, astonishing.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Yeah, he's missing out, I agree. But so we got
dressed and we went to this like nice sushi restaurant
and we were the only ones dressed up because Halloween
is the following weekend. And we get out of the
car at vallet, and this girl starts cracking up, just
(10:30):
like literally to herself, is like cracking up, pointing at Robbie. Ah,
that's so amazing. And then she looks at me. She's like,
how did you get in to do that? I was like,
it's actually pretty easy. Then we walk into the restaurant,
some guy asks us to take a selfie with him,
like literally asks to take a selfie with us.
Speaker 3 (10:48):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
So yeah, I was like I was felling. I was
walking with like a spectacle. People kept coming up to
our table.
Speaker 3 (10:55):
But it's what six days before Halloween when you did this,
that's not unheard of to be in comfe He.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
Just looked very scary, Like I think he just like
looked disturbing.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
Last year when the movie came out, I dressed his
alpha butt to go to the theater. I have never
gotten so much attention, even post Bachelor, the attention I've
ever had.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
I think it's something about the costume and the green
face that like really shocks people.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
I mean, it's like the biggest movie in the world.
It's about to come out, the second part's about to
come out.
Speaker 3 (11:23):
It's very exciting.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
But Robbie's mustache with the braid. There was a lot happening.
I was very I.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Wouldn't shave the mustache. I was like, just shave it.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
It's funny with it though, I'm with him.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
Yeah that's what he said.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
Yeah, it was funny. It was scary visually, but.
Speaker 4 (11:41):
It was funny. I was dying at the photos Tanya posted.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
I kept zooming in and making stickers of Robbie as.
Speaker 1 (11:52):
But the best part is all weekend he kept singing
sack refice love. It really does go both ways.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
And let me tell you something, we also were singing
that all weekend. Hailey's like, I have Donia's song stuck
in my head.
Speaker 4 (12:06):
I was like the same.
Speaker 3 (12:07):
Do we need to explain this to people because I feel.
Speaker 4 (12:10):
Like, no, no, you're saying it.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
Mark doesn't know because he doesn't listen to the podcast
when he's not here. Oh so so this is new
news to him.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
So you didn't see Tonya's story or anything.
Speaker 3 (12:20):
I missed one story I missed.
Speaker 4 (12:22):
Oh my gosh, I'm up to speed.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
Now. Wait, we should play in the DJA version of
the DJ version.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
I've heard it.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Well, the listeners may not.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
Oh yeah, the listeners may not have heard it. But yeah,
and then Taylautner wrote me and said, Taylor and I
are also can't stop singing it.
Speaker 3 (12:40):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (12:42):
Hailey said, it's a it's a hook. She said, hookie.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
So I think I'm gonna like fully write this song
and get into a studio and like put it on iTunes.
Claudia Ostre did this many years ago. She like recorded
a song and put an iTunes. So maybe I can
hit her up and say how does one go about
doing this?
Speaker 4 (12:59):
And he does have a very beautiful singing voice.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
But I'm definitely gonna need auto tune as much Autois.
Speaker 3 (13:07):
You are on that right?
Speaker 1 (13:08):
And the Okay, so DJ Let's get her name right Poppins,
Oh that's cute. DJ Poppins remixed it.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
So this was just you were hiking, you're hiking, what
do you want? I'm sorry, I'm just explaining to anybody. Mark,
We're okay, fine, all right, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (13:31):
I had to podcasts about here we go.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
Here's the DJ j pop bated a song.
Speaker 4 (13:37):
How does it go?
Speaker 5 (13:55):
You sack.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
Sacrifice?
Speaker 3 (14:01):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (14:03):
I feel like DJ Poppins didn't use my voice there.
Speaker 2 (14:06):
This literally is not seen in Friends or Phoebe does
Smelly Cat. And then they come in and they do,
and she's like, I sounds amazing and it's not her
voice at all.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
That is your voice. So I think she took your voice.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
There's no way.
Speaker 5 (14:23):
There's some additional voices. Yeah, human voices.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
They might be Tanya's voice pitched up and pitched down.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
Run in there though, like A yeah, I definitely.
Speaker 4 (14:35):
She unfortunately didn't that it's catchy.
Speaker 2 (14:42):
I personally it's a song. I think you get in
the stew and record it. But I do.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
I but I'm gonna need maybe I reach out to
DJ Poppins and and like, yeah.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
You should produce it because I can't just do it
dry right, Yeah, you need something.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
We heard it last week.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
Yeah you're not good to clean up the lyrics and
like vocals a little.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
Bits and verses. Yeah, rich Robbie goes, get in there
today and do it while you're at work. I'm like,
I need to write the song.
Speaker 2 (15:13):
Like does he not know the process of a song? Right?
I know?
Speaker 1 (15:17):
And like I am like I need some time on this.
You can't just cook when you tell me the cook.
Speaker 4 (15:22):
No, no, you gotta get you gotta be in the kitchen.
Speaker 1 (15:24):
I need to be in the kitchen.
Speaker 2 (15:27):
Yeah, we sing it all weekend and then you know
what song I start every day with recently?
Speaker 1 (15:32):
Wait, I want to guess. Okay, where's my husband?
Speaker 2 (15:37):
What's that? Babe? Where the hell is my husband? Right?
Speaker 1 (15:41):
Yeah, it's not that.
Speaker 4 (15:43):
No, does that feel like a song I'd sing?
Speaker 1 (15:46):
I sing that every morning?
Speaker 4 (15:47):
Does it feel like a song?
Speaker 3 (15:48):
I'd sing?
Speaker 1 (15:49):
Yeah, it's so cute?
Speaker 2 (15:51):
Isn theer one? I would like? Yeah, yeah, I'm that's
been out for ages.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
Okay, so it's new new, Huh, I want to get
the song.
Speaker 4 (16:00):
No, it's not new.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
It's could take a while.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
Every song in the history of the world.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
Yeah, no, okay, what's the Tanache song?
Speaker 2 (16:12):
It's no book?
Speaker 1 (16:12):
Boys, man, I need love, but no, maybe give us
a hint. At this point, it's opa light was on
the right track a fatal ophelia, No show Life of
a Show Go Honey, yeah, honey.
Speaker 4 (16:25):
Yeah, it gets me so high for the day.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
Yeah, I love it.
Speaker 4 (16:30):
I make breakfast and I'm just like, I make.
Speaker 1 (16:34):
Sure every time I drive into work since the album
came out that I always end on honey in Life
of a Showgirl before I get into the parking garage. Wow,
that's sick.
Speaker 3 (16:43):
No, it's great.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
Yeah, and my drive is not that long.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
I like a routine.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
I love I love the lyric when she says, when
anyone called me lovely, they were finding ways not to
praise me.
Speaker 1 (16:55):
But you say it like you're in awe of me,
so you say it in the morn. Is that the lyric?
Speaker 2 (17:02):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:04):
This weekend we didn't really do a whole lot. We
had a pretty chill weekend. We watched a show called
Task Ause anyone watched it, Yeah, I've.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
Seen it, but yeah, I heard it's good.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
Mark Ruffalo, Yeah, pretty good, pretty intense. Haley's able to binge.
I'm like, after an episode, I'm kind of just twiddlet
on my phone and then it's not good and she goes, Babe,
what and I go, oh, what happened? And then she goes,
are you not watching?
Speaker 1 (17:27):
There's nothing more annoying than that.
Speaker 2 (17:28):
I know with her.
Speaker 4 (17:29):
I know, I know, I know she's totally valid.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
Yeah, but I also I don't think it's fair to
expect me a child to sit and.
Speaker 4 (17:37):
Watch watch it.
Speaker 1 (17:40):
Go to your room or something.
Speaker 4 (17:43):
No, because we like being together, Well, then.
Speaker 1 (17:45):
Suck it up.
Speaker 5 (17:46):
I do.
Speaker 4 (17:47):
I tune in.
Speaker 3 (17:47):
I like a double binge. Have you ever tried that
where you do an episode of Task meanwhile you're binging.
I don't know the diplomat, jump over the diplomat.
Speaker 4 (17:54):
Oh, that kind of takes me out, sends.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
Me from getting bored with one of them. We've done
that before.
Speaker 5 (17:59):
It's very fine.
Speaker 3 (18:00):
I like it, And also you could do something that's
a totally different vibe from Task. You just have light
and fun and cute Love is Blind like Love is
Blind and then back to the Task. I don't know
some to think about.
Speaker 1 (18:10):
Yeah, I'm sure to do that when there's multiple shows
that we like, are obsessed with, but I don't enjoy it.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
What do you think about the Love is Blind finale?
Speaker 1 (18:16):
I'm upset.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
We'll be right back. All right, we're back. So Love
(18:45):
is Blind had a bad ending.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
Yes, spoiler alert, Yeah, give the.
Speaker 2 (18:48):
People because you did something spoiler alert about it on
another episode and people like, can we get a real
spoiler alert for things that are happening right now? Spoiler
alert If you're watching Love is Blind and you're not
caught up, Tony's about to spoil it.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
Nobody gets married? Oh wow, not one marriage?
Speaker 2 (19:07):
Or did any of them stay together?
Speaker 1 (19:09):
No broke cup what Yes awful. I did enjoy the season, though,
so it's hard to It's hard to hate because I
really liked this season.
Speaker 4 (19:19):
Wasn't it a good finale?
Speaker 1 (19:20):
Even though one no, so too go to the altar?
The first girl no, which I was happy about. I
was proud of second girl says no. And that one
broke my heart because Barkle Megan No, they didn't. Sparkle
Meghan didn't even go to the altar. She broke up
with him before they even got into their wedding dresses,
so I didn't even get to to get suspense on
that one. It just cuts to them and they're sitting
on a couch. I was like, Oh, it's over.
Speaker 2 (19:41):
Wait.
Speaker 4 (19:42):
Did were you fearful that he was going to end
it with her?
Speaker 1 (19:44):
Sparkle MEGANA. Iough, they're gonna get married. I thought they
were going to walk down to say nd and I
was like, they're saving the last couple for the last
one because they're all. That's going to be the love
story that we've been wanting all season. And then she
broke up with him. The memes have been hilarious though
about it, because they're like, they'll take a picture and
they're like, it's because of the It's because of the
chicken smoothie, isn't it. It's because I'm rich, you're rich
(20:06):
and I'm poor, isn't it? Or like they just did
it like a bunch of memes.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
Yeah, yeah, all right, so lackluster ending very much like
a great season.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
But great season, and the reunion I think is gonna
be spectacular.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
I have a feeling one of the couples gets back
together just for the like that they're together when the
reunion comes, because they filmed the show like a year
in advance.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
Yeah, and like allegedly sp Sparkle Megan now has like
a baby with someone else.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:35):
It was like these duoi photos or somebody I don't know,
some some tabloid posted photos of her with like a
baby and some random dude. I'm like, okay, is that
her baby? Spoiler?
Speaker 3 (20:47):
Oh my god, I just knocked over. That was so loud,
so bad.
Speaker 1 (21:03):
Can we take a break.
Speaker 3 (21:04):
Sure we're not supposed to now, but yes, we'll take
a break to fix things up and put the studio
back together again, live right back.
Speaker 2 (21:28):
Tanya just knocked a whole cabinet down onto.
Speaker 3 (21:33):
My That was.
Speaker 5 (21:36):
Sorry.
Speaker 3 (21:36):
The noise came from beccavert off the back.
Speaker 1 (21:42):
It's like a really large cabin.
Speaker 5 (21:44):
We just swinging your legs, willy nilly.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (21:47):
So I usually have a stool that I put my
feet on when I'm at work because our chairs are
so high, I can't touch the ground and my feet
just swing. And so I was just kicking this thing
and okay, not again, trying feet on it too to rest.
Speaker 2 (22:02):
Oh my gosh, that was really touched lip gloss and
there was like goo on my hand.
Speaker 4 (22:08):
I don't like it.
Speaker 1 (22:09):
I forgot we were talking about it. Got so distracted.
Speaker 4 (22:11):
Well that's okay.
Speaker 1 (22:12):
Anyways, I'm looking forward to the reunion.
Speaker 2 (22:15):
Okay, anyways, Yeah, what do you know what show I.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
Binged this last week? What any guesses?
Speaker 2 (22:25):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (22:25):
Here we go. I'll give you a hint. It came
out in this year.
Speaker 3 (22:30):
Was it a reality show? No show?
Speaker 2 (22:33):
Yes? I know?
Speaker 3 (22:34):
Did you guy out of this one?
Speaker 4 (22:36):
What network?
Speaker 2 (22:39):
Hulu? Oh uh?
Speaker 4 (22:42):
Paradise?
Speaker 2 (22:43):
Yes? Becca, Yeah, it was amazing. I didn't realize you
had just now watched that.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
Just now watching it's so good, so good, and apparently
they are making they made season two and it's coming
out to the top of twenty twenty six.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
That's right, so not much long, not much longer when
you binge it late in year, you got.
Speaker 4 (23:00):
Another one, right up.
Speaker 1 (23:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (23:03):
I love James Marston.
Speaker 5 (23:04):
I love.
Speaker 1 (23:06):
I mean, he's amazing.
Speaker 2 (23:08):
I know, I know it wasn't really to be honest,
I didn't love the finale because I felt like they
could have left it on a cliffhanger and then told
us who killed him and continued it into season two
a little bit, because it felt like it was really
like rushed and kind of just a story thrown together
to me for the finale instead of just going, let's play,
(23:31):
let's like leave it on a cliffhanger and start it
from season two.
Speaker 1 (23:34):
Yeah, but that's just me personally.
Speaker 2 (23:37):
Sometimes this stuff with the government and what they what
they could be doing around us reached me out. Yeah,
me too.
Speaker 4 (23:43):
I was like, like, it doesn't feel that far fetched sometimes.
Speaker 3 (23:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:50):
Wait, So I was gonna saying there's a lot of
things to.
Speaker 1 (23:54):
Talk about that happened on pod Weekends.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
Did we talk about No, I was thinking about did
you see Rachel Kirconnell say that she hadn't had sex
in like years or something?
Speaker 1 (24:05):
So I don't does that mean her and Matt James
never had sex.
Speaker 2 (24:07):
Well that's what people's question was, like, Wait, you just
ended your relationship in January.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
Yeah, it means they weren't having sex, So maybe they
were just ghosting.
Speaker 4 (24:20):
What's ghosting?
Speaker 1 (24:22):
Like, I don't know, I just came up with it.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
But Chloe Kardashian also said that she hasn't had sex
in over three years.
Speaker 1 (24:31):
Well, she's not been in a relationship.
Speaker 2 (24:33):
So she must be in the same boat. Yeah, needing
to have a emotional.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
I was the same way before Robbie was four years Well.
Speaker 4 (24:42):
That was like, yeah, that was like a choice of
yours for your to protect your heart.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Yes, yeah I am, and my mental health.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
Meant yeah, yeah, I mean I'm the same. I would
say that I definitely would be the same way. I
mean I was for majority of my life, but that
was based on you know, religion and purity culture. Yeah,
when I saved myself.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (25:03):
But I think it's normal if you are someone who
wants to have an emotional attachment, that you can't have
casual sex without getting attached. Correct. I think that's a
very I think people see the culture which is like
very sex forward and positive and like just do what
you want, but I don't. I think people think that
(25:24):
if they can't be that, that there's something wrong with them.
Speaker 1 (25:26):
But I think, what, that's what's happening to me. I
feel like I was single and everybody kept saying, oh,
this is the best time of your life. Go sleep
around and sew your oats, like do the things, and
that's what I was like, Okay, I'll do that everybody
says to do, and that's what I'll do. That's how
you find the one. And then I was like always
left feeling so hurt and like shattered, and I was like,
(25:47):
why do I keep doing this to myself? And I
said no more, no Moss.
Speaker 2 (25:51):
She said no more until Robbie Yadegar comes in.
Speaker 1 (25:56):
Well, oh we did it before I wanted to. I
mean I would, It's not like yeah, like I told him.
I was like, I'm not having sex until I'm in
a committed relationship. And then we did before we were
like committed, but I didn't. It wasn't like.
Speaker 2 (26:12):
I was yes, thank you, yeah right. You were just
in the moment and you were like, oh everything worked out.
Speaker 1 (26:23):
It did it did work out.
Speaker 4 (26:24):
That's the beauty of it.
Speaker 2 (26:27):
Jennifer Anderson said, on the podcast with Dax Shepherd. She
was on Armchair Expert Yes, and I saw I had
started it, and I didn't listen to the whole thing,
but I saw a clip on TikTok and she was
saying how she had wanted kids, right and she wanted
you know, people are like, well, why don't you adopt
or you know, I think that's what the question was,
(26:50):
like why don't you adopt if you want kids? Because
she can't have biological kids, and she was like, I
want to. I want to have a baby that is
biologically mine. And it was a kind of a People
had a controversial take on it, which I get, and
also I think it's totally valid if that's what she wants.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
I can't with people why I missed the days of
no comments, no, but like everybody like, that's your life,
you can choose, and like that's what she's she didn't
want to do that, and that's totally fine, totally.
Speaker 2 (27:26):
This is one of those things though, where I I
guess if you have experienced adoption or you are adopted,
it's probably a more sensitive thing than from us who
are not in that position.
Speaker 1 (27:37):
You know what I'm saying, Yes, and I think maybe
I'm like projecting because I feel like I in my
fertility journey, I'm like I do all the things like
I'm taking note of like I'm doing a lot of
Chinese medicine, so like I'm sleeping with socks now to
keep my body warm, and like all this stuff, and
people are like looking at me and telling me that
I'm being so stupid and silly and like just it's
(27:57):
you don't have to do all this stuff, and I'm like,
I'm choosing to do this because i want to do this,
so let me do this.
Speaker 2 (28:02):
You know.
Speaker 1 (28:03):
That's why I feel like I'm protecting Jennifernison because I
feel like she said that she's.
Speaker 4 (28:08):
The same I feel. I feel the same way.
Speaker 2 (28:10):
I think it's the thing with social media now, like
what you said, Mark U mess today have no comments,
is that you can be like I love a peanut
butter and jelly sandwich, and then someone's like, but what
about a turkey sandwich.
Speaker 3 (28:23):
I'm allergic to peanut butter? Thank you?
Speaker 1 (28:25):
Yeah, what about the people who are allergic to peanut butter?
Speaker 2 (28:28):
Yeah? And you just kind of go, That's not what
I was talking about, you know. But there's this sense
of needing to have everything validated.
Speaker 3 (28:36):
The jelly I would if I wasn't diabetic, thanks a lot, Yeah, weird.
Speaker 2 (28:41):
So, but on this topic, I I do see where
it's more sensitive for someone who either struggled and then
ended up adopting and has so much joy and is
able to go like, but it's so beautiful, or someone
who's been adopted is like I've had such an amazing
life because someone did that for me.
Speaker 3 (28:58):
That's fine totally, But that's not I'm sure that's not
what the kinds right, No, correct.
Speaker 2 (29:07):
Yeah, Yeah, it's a what do we call a lose
lose situation out there on social media.
Speaker 1 (29:13):
Yeah, but that's the problem.
Speaker 3 (29:14):
People are gonna stop doing interviews and podcasts and stuff
because what's what's the upside? You're just gonna get railed
for anything you say that's remotely honest or different or unscripted.
Speaker 2 (29:23):
Yeah, it really is true. I mean I think there's
there's a lot of encouragement for these celebrities that we've
never heard a lot from, Like these people that you're like,
we never see them, we don't see photos of them,
we don't hear interviews with them, and then they're probably
encouraged to do it because social media is the way
of the world. And then they do it and they
just get obliterated in the comments, and it's like, why
(29:44):
would they give the fans anything?
Speaker 4 (29:47):
Yeah, if they don't need to.
Speaker 1 (29:49):
I think you just got to come from a place
of not caring, which I know is so much easier
said than done.
Speaker 2 (29:53):
But like, but you either don't care or you just
don't even put yourself in that position.
Speaker 1 (29:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (29:58):
But my thing is is if I see something negative,
Like if I'm reading comments or messages and I see
something negative, I just go, Okay, I'm not checking those anymore.
Speaker 1 (30:08):
Oh, I go go to that.
Speaker 2 (30:09):
I know it's where you thrive.
Speaker 1 (30:13):
Yeah, I'm like, I want to sleep with socks on.
I'm gonna sleep with socks on. If it makes me
feel better, I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 2 (30:18):
Have you watched the new season of Nobody Wants This?
Speaker 1 (30:20):
No?
Speaker 2 (30:21):
Oh, we started it, But she talks about like sleeping
with socks on her feet.
Speaker 1 (30:26):
Shut up.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
It is so weird how parallel it is to your life.
Speaker 1 (30:32):
Is she sleep for fertility purposes?
Speaker 2 (30:34):
No?
Speaker 4 (30:35):
I think just because her feet or cold or something.
Speaker 1 (30:37):
Oh, because I don't enjoy it?
Speaker 2 (30:39):
Oh? Yeah, I don't think i'd sleep a wink, but yeah,
it is we Haley and I were watching and we
were like, this is so Tanya's life.
Speaker 1 (30:47):
It is crazy. It's like identical to our love story.
Speaker 4 (30:51):
Yeah, but yeah, you're his family's like way more.
Speaker 1 (30:54):
Oh yeah, yeah, they're like wonderful, yeah, and welcome me
right in?
Speaker 2 (30:57):
Right or right?
Speaker 4 (30:58):
There were no if ants are butts new.
Speaker 1 (31:02):
We but I have I heard that season two wasn't
as good as season one.
Speaker 4 (31:06):
It's not hard.
Speaker 2 (31:09):
Farm so far.
Speaker 4 (31:11):
We're two episodes in.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
Does criftin Bell's character put cones out in front of
her house or no? What it would be very parallel
to Tanya's life. They're putting cones out in front of
their house because that's something else Tiny's been up too lately.
Speaker 2 (31:23):
What are you putting cones out there for?
Speaker 1 (31:25):
Because the guy that lives two houses down from us,
at like three pm every day, drives his car and
parks it in front of our house and then gets
out and walks back to his house. And I'm like,
that's my spot, That's where I park my car.
Speaker 3 (31:39):
Think she owns that street.
Speaker 2 (31:41):
That they live.
Speaker 1 (31:41):
It's in front of my house. It's the part of
the street that's in front of my house.
Speaker 5 (31:45):
You give me so much fun as an old woman.
Speaker 2 (31:47):
Oh my god, she's gonna be neighborhood patrol. Really says,
I'm neighborhood patrol because I'll be walking I'm like, who
what is that doing here? Also those robot things, Yeah,
they're parking in our neighborhood lately and we're so freaked out.
We're like, what are they doing?
Speaker 4 (32:05):
I called and said, can you move?
Speaker 3 (32:07):
Oh my god?
Speaker 4 (32:09):
They have a camera on them, and I'm like.
Speaker 1 (32:11):
I don't know, it feels I guess, yeah, we're cameras
and microphone. They don't have a home.
Speaker 2 (32:15):
And one of them name was Nancy, and that's my
mom's name. And I was like, Mom, are you out here?
Speaker 1 (32:20):
Where's it in your front yard?
Speaker 2 (32:22):
It's out like on the street, but in the front Yeah.
I know.
Speaker 4 (32:27):
So anyways, that's been.
Speaker 2 (32:28):
But Haley's like, you're literally those old people that patrol
the neighborhood and report things.
Speaker 4 (32:33):
I'm like, fine, it's safe.
Speaker 1 (32:36):
Not me who yeah, And it's not when when when
you're not here where That's what I'm saying. So if
we don't put these cones out and.
Speaker 2 (32:44):
This man just so you just line the whole curve
of cones or do you just have like a section
that your carvel bit.
Speaker 1 (32:49):
In it's based on like a section for two cars
blocked off.
Speaker 5 (32:53):
Where'd you get the cones Amazon Angeles?
Speaker 1 (32:58):
No, they do not even look like they're like foldable
ones like Robbie got the ones that like fold down,
so you just like PLoP them right up. They don't
even look like fabric.
Speaker 4 (33:06):
Yes, I'd kick those. I would pick that up and
set it on the curve.
Speaker 2 (33:14):
For the first few days.
Speaker 1 (33:15):
So the first few days it was working, he was
parking in front of the cones in front of our
neighbor's house, and I was like, hah, robb and I
were like, sock excitedly, Yeah, we got our house back.
The other day he moved one of them onto the
sidewalk and parked right there.
Speaker 3 (33:28):
Good for him, I'm telling you, he's allowed to park
where he wants to park. He kept parking a driveway
because that's your property.
Speaker 2 (33:36):
But that's it. I get annoyed too. I hate when
someone's parked in front of my spot. I mean my
spot which is in front of the house. But I'm
always like and they park right in the center so
instead of being able to fit two clocks, yeah, they
only can fit there.
Speaker 4 (33:53):
And I'm like, okay, if you're gonna take my spot,
at least move.
Speaker 1 (33:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (33:59):
Same should we started neighborhood Patrol Club.
Speaker 1 (34:03):
I wanted to paint our curb bread.
Speaker 2 (34:08):
Your own car gets toned.
Speaker 1 (34:11):
And Rob is like, I don't think we should do that.
Speaker 2 (34:13):
But why don't you just talk to him and say, Hey,
if you're going to park here, could you just either
park forward or backwards?
Speaker 1 (34:21):
Well that's the funniest thing. So the first time he
did it. He has a convertible and our tree sheds
a lot like it just like pummels your car, and
which is why I park in the specific spot that
I park in as to not dirty and sap yet
my car. His cars are convertible and he left the
top open, so I was like, oh, he's never going
to park here again. Then no, now he moved into
(34:43):
the spot that I park.
Speaker 3 (34:47):
But you haven't talked to him, no, because I'm very
curious why he doesn't park in front of his own house.
I know, even though he's not required too legally, I'm
still just curious because it seems more convenient, right, Yeah,
why would he make his w longer.
Speaker 1 (35:00):
So do you want to something crazy though, love? Do
you remember that accident that I got into It was
I wasn't. It wasn't I didn't get into it. But
this cart like midnight.
Speaker 2 (35:08):
Hit hit on my car.
Speaker 1 (35:10):
Yes, So there was a gold car that was parked
in front of our house for like weeks. We'd reported it,
like Robbie had called it in, Like it was just
sitting in this spot, didn't move. So I'm like, it's
an abandoned car. At this point, when the car sword
in that accident and they hit my car, the car
behind me got totaled. That was the car, the gold car,
the gold car that was behind me. So the cops
(35:32):
come and they're investigating and they're running the license plate
and they're like, oh, this person lives down the street.
So they call them. This person comes up and Robbie
was like, lived down the street. We called and reported it.
We thought it was an abandoned like why did would
you leave your car here? For weeks? They had family
visiting or whatever, and the family had their cars and
they could only fit two in their driveway, and so
(35:54):
they had it. They just kind of were like leaving
it for a few weeks while their family was in town,
and now it was totally with an accident.
Speaker 3 (36:01):
If I did that, I would move it every couple
of days just to not be.
Speaker 2 (36:07):
On it.
Speaker 3 (36:08):
Yeah, it's weird.
Speaker 1 (36:09):
Yeah, I don't know why. Everyone just likes the park
in front of our house cozy. See it's like at
the right part of the street and that's always covered
the s.
Speaker 3 (36:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (36:21):
Wait. So I went to the Regretting You premiere on Monday. Good.
Speaker 4 (36:26):
Yeah, it was good, And but.
Speaker 2 (36:29):
Iris and TJ were there you talked to that I did,
and the girls that I was talking to that knew them,
they're like, they're they're pretty shy, and I was like, Okay,
I don't want to like bombard them because they were
definitely everyone was wanting to talk to them. And so
I finally was like, I'm just gonna go say hi.
And so I remember you had a friend or something
(36:50):
that knew her that she worked for something. Yes, So
I went up and I was like, a friend of
my best friend and her husband are friends with someone
that you worked for. And she was like, oh my god.
Speaker 4 (37:00):
She was so warm and she got it, like they're
the best.
Speaker 2 (37:04):
And we talked and then I was like, oh, hi,
I'm Becca and said hi to TJ too, because I
was just talking to Irish. And then after the show,
I was making a reel and so I was like,
can y'all just wave and say hey? And so they were.
It was kind of awkward because they're like, what do
you want to do? And I was like, just say hey,
like in the bog or whatever. So they didn't.
Speaker 4 (37:25):
She was like, can't wait to see.
Speaker 2 (37:28):
Wait?
Speaker 1 (37:29):
Was she so cute?
Speaker 2 (37:30):
She's so cute.
Speaker 4 (37:31):
She's so cute. She's like a little Barbie.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
She's so small, she is tiny. Yeah, and he's very
cute too.
Speaker 1 (37:37):
He's much more handsome than I thought he was on
the show.
Speaker 2 (37:41):
Oh yeah, he looked They literally look like Ken and Barbie.
Speaker 1 (37:44):
Yeah. I didn't think he was that hot. And then
I saw like all these paparazzi shots of him now
and I'm like, dangs.
Speaker 4 (37:50):
You know what I like about him?
Speaker 2 (37:51):
He's very well kept, like he looks very clean.
Speaker 1 (37:55):
Very clean, which I like. And he's not smelly.
Speaker 4 (37:57):
No, no, no, he sounds good. I imagine. One of
the things I will say, did you ask her to
come on the podcast?
Speaker 1 (38:04):
No?
Speaker 2 (38:05):
I don't know. I was like gonna because whenever I
brought her up in the past, you were just kind
of like, mehh, I see, yeah, so I didn't so
I didn't know if that was something that was like
you wanted to go down. Yeah, like, do I make
myself vulnerable here and ask that because you had been
like whatever? Yeah, I still like her, Okay, next time
(38:28):
I see her, I'll let her know, definitely.
Speaker 1 (38:30):
But did you tag her in the video? No?
Speaker 2 (38:34):
Shoot, because I felt like it was a little funny
sarcasm when she said can't wait to see it, but
like in a way that I would say it right right,
you know, I thought it was funny. I wasn't like, oh,
you know, funny.
Speaker 1 (38:46):
She doesn't seem mean at all.
Speaker 2 (38:48):
No, not at all. I just feel like she's dry
and kind of sarcastic, which I appreciate.
Speaker 1 (38:51):
That dry and sarcastic scares me.
Speaker 4 (38:56):
Yeah, Haley too. Yeah, I'm literally dating.
Speaker 2 (38:58):
I'm not dating. I Meananya, Like it is the craziest thing.
Speaker 3 (39:03):
I'm like, Sarkas doesn't work with a Tanya.
Speaker 2 (39:05):
Do you know what she she said, I want to
go and I would love to sit down and just
like plan all of our like hopes and dreams that
we have as like a couple of places we want
to go and things we want to do.
Speaker 1 (39:17):
And I was like, good luck, Hayley, I haven't trying
to do that for years.
Speaker 2 (39:21):
I said, Tanya and Robbie do monthly family meetings.
Speaker 1 (39:24):
Yeah, She's like what. So we had a we had
the longest agenda yesterday on Sunday for our family meeting.
We had no plans, and I was like, we had
so much to get through, like ten bullet points of
an agenda. We got through two in the whole Sunday.
I mean there were two very big, long, like intense ones.
But I'm like, we gotta say, on top of this,
(39:47):
you and Haley should do a family monthly meeting mm
hmm and just have.
Speaker 4 (39:51):
Phoebe in there with us.
Speaker 1 (39:53):
No, I'm fine.
Speaker 2 (39:56):
I'm fine with just like going week by week of
what we have going on that week. You know, we
don't have to plan that far in advance.
Speaker 1 (40:08):
I'm dating a Becca. I'm married to a Becca.
Speaker 2 (40:10):
Yeah, Becca, Your Becca does what you want. Your Becca
dresses alphabet Recca.
Speaker 4 (40:17):
He does his family nighting. He does he is the
sacrificer of love.
Speaker 3 (40:22):
Would to Becca's be a problem? Would two Tonys be
a problem in a relationship. Okay, Yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (40:28):
Don't know that two Becca's would get much accomplished. It
would be very chill vibes. I don't know that there'd
be a lot going on, a lot. You know. She
gets me out and about communicating.
Speaker 4 (40:39):
It's good for me.
Speaker 2 (40:40):
You have to have a yin and a yang.
Speaker 1 (40:42):
Yeah. I agree that the Becca, it's good to have
the Becca in my relationship is too amazing.
Speaker 2 (40:48):
She comes to me like if she if she and
Robbie are having a disagreement, she comes to.
Speaker 1 (40:53):
Me and to get Becca's perspective.
Speaker 4 (40:55):
Yeah, and then I would tell her that's what Robbie said.
Speaker 1 (40:59):
But I know if I come to Becca and and
she sides with me, then I know I'm really right.
It's like a nice little secret weapon. No, but it
is a nice secret weapon to have. Yes, even Becca
agrees and he's like really, and that makes.
Speaker 2 (41:16):
Him going, you can't do that in arguments?
Speaker 1 (41:18):
Yes you can.
Speaker 4 (41:19):
It's like the worst thing you can do.
Speaker 1 (41:21):
I that used you all the time. Yes, because it's
like a good barometer because I feel like he knows
that you're level head and like on his side. Usually,
so when I pull out the even Becca thinks, so
it really hits home at Lands.
Speaker 3 (41:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (41:37):
Okay, well then use me all you want.
Speaker 1 (41:39):
You can use me too.
Speaker 2 (41:40):
Yeah, feel free.
Speaker 1 (41:43):
Use me as much as you want.
Speaker 2 (41:45):
Easton do this weekend for your Halloween partase.
Speaker 6 (41:48):
Oh, we went to uh we went to friends Halloween
like a movie thing and we dressed up as Allison
was a full moon and I was a werewolf.
Speaker 5 (41:56):
Wow, it's very fun.
Speaker 6 (41:58):
Uh and uh yeah, we watched Poultrygeist and it was
scary and uh, you know, we we did a gender
reveal for our neighbor on some Yeah, our neighbor asked
us to do a She asked Alison kind of late
in the day right here, like could you just do
like a put some balloons in a box and like
(42:20):
bring it over and uh, because her friends like weren't
doing it and we don't do anything half assed.
Speaker 1 (42:24):
Okay, so by the way, like her friends wouldn't do it,
so she needed to ask her neighbor.
Speaker 3 (42:30):
Like, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (42:30):
That makes me sad, Yeah, me too.
Speaker 6 (42:32):
Which is why we we were like, okay, well we're
gonna do this, like you know, we're gonna wrap the
box and everything, and her her boyfriend they they got
pregnant kind of suddenly.
Speaker 5 (42:43):
They went to the early ultrasound.
Speaker 6 (42:45):
The tech was like, it looks like a girl to me,
and boyfriend got really bummed, really mad about this and
has been like uninterested ever since.
Speaker 5 (42:53):
And we're not a big fan of this guy, okay
not yeah, he sucks and uh.
Speaker 6 (43:00):
Then Elson gets asked to do this and she gets
the information from like the doctor, the official like gender information.
Speaker 3 (43:06):
She texted me.
Speaker 6 (43:07):
She's like, call me, I gotta talk to you right now.
And I get on the phone. She's like, it's a boy.
They're gonna it's a boy, Like, it's not a girl.
He's gonna like this dude that sucks is going to
be so happy, which is like it was in a
weird spot, you know.
Speaker 5 (43:23):
It's like, uh and it got me thinking.
Speaker 6 (43:25):
About like the whole gender disappointment things and that's a
real thing, and like that's okay, but also this guy
is like such a jerk.
Speaker 5 (43:31):
I didn't want him to be happy.
Speaker 3 (43:35):
Anyway.
Speaker 5 (43:35):
We put a lot aside, put the blue balloons in there,
and it was he was thrilled. He was over the moon.
Speaker 6 (43:42):
She was kind of bummed because she'd gotten used to
having a girl Yeah, it was kind of like a weird,
weird advibes.
Speaker 2 (43:48):
But wow, I didn't know the story behind the Box
of Blue Blues.
Speaker 5 (43:54):
It was so funny because they filmed it and sent
us the video and you can tell like it's.
Speaker 1 (43:57):
You can see it on their faces.
Speaker 5 (43:59):
It's it's very awkward.
Speaker 6 (44:00):
And then we were all getting coffee and we come
home and we could see them doing Take two in
the driveway.
Speaker 2 (44:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (44:09):
Instagram versus reality.
Speaker 2 (44:11):
Yes, yes, when you see that video, Yeah, it might
come up on your for you page since we're talking
about it, I could.
Speaker 1 (44:18):
Gender reveals or this specific one, this specific one.
Speaker 5 (44:22):
Who knows.
Speaker 2 (44:22):
Wait. I wanted to ask about your East Awards poll
because I felt the absolute rage that you felt towards
the people who voted.
Speaker 6 (44:32):
I will not come and I will not watch I
I okay, so you're listening. I do think every year
called the East Awards. If you listen these podcasts, you
probably know what it is. Everyone in this room has
been involved and it's so fun.
Speaker 2 (44:45):
Uh.
Speaker 5 (44:46):
I did a I did a poll.
Speaker 6 (44:48):
Oh, because I've got a lot of new followers since
Tanya's wedding. There's a lot of people.
Speaker 5 (44:53):
Who are new to the Eastern train. He was he
was a content I was promising behind the.
Speaker 6 (44:58):
Scenes, which it was like two weeks after the ESEC Awards,
so like they didn't see it before. And I was like, okay,
why better get all these tiny tots on board, like
I'm because we're doing it live in twenty twenty six,
it's gonna be in a bigger place, and I kind
of want to see how big do I need to
you have, how many.
Speaker 5 (45:13):
Thousands do I need?
Speaker 6 (45:15):
And so I put up a poll like, you know,
are you going to come in person or you like
if we put up a stream, like do you want
to watch a stream? And a surprising amount of people said,
I will not be going in person, nor will I
be watching it.
Speaker 1 (45:28):
Oh, there was three options.
Speaker 6 (45:29):
There was I will not watch, there was there was
I want to come in person, I would watch online,
I will not be watching at all, and then I
don't know what this is?
Speaker 5 (45:39):
Who are you?
Speaker 2 (45:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (45:40):
And then which one had the most votes.
Speaker 5 (45:42):
The most votes was I will watch.
Speaker 3 (45:43):
It on a stream.
Speaker 2 (45:44):
Okay, yeah no, but he was like he posted the
ones that said I will not come in person, I
will not watch it at all, and he was like,
why do you follow me?
Speaker 4 (45:52):
If you voted for this, why do you follow me?
Speaker 1 (45:55):
Well, maybe they'd follow you because of the other content.
Speaker 6 (45:58):
So I got some real actions. And so a lot
of people are just want they just want scrubbing in.
They just want to see what happens on scrubbing it.
And I was like, these sewards are basically scrubbing in. Okay,
it's basically the same.
Speaker 5 (46:09):
It's adjacent, it's very adjacent.
Speaker 6 (46:10):
Yeah, but then you know, I'm glad to put that
up because a lot of people are like, I like
these seawards.
Speaker 3 (46:16):
I like you.
Speaker 5 (46:16):
I bet I don't want to pay for a stream.
Speaker 6 (46:18):
Oh say wait, I thought you did it on Instagram
live because I'm thinking if I'm doing like a higher
quality one, yeah, it's gonna.
Speaker 3 (46:25):
Cost some money.
Speaker 4 (46:26):
Yeah, he's upgrading.
Speaker 1 (46:29):
But it used to be free.
Speaker 4 (46:31):
It's up until now it's been we will still be free.
Speaker 5 (46:34):
Okay. I haven't decided.
Speaker 6 (46:37):
You know, this is March twenty twenty six, but I'm thinking, like,
maybe you can pay to watch it live as it's
happening and it'll be high quality, and then it'll be
on YouTube like three days later for.
Speaker 4 (46:48):
Free, okay, Taylor Swift.
Speaker 6 (46:50):
Yeah, or but also I really like the idea have
to be on Instagram live, and I like it being
like fuzzy and hard to see.
Speaker 5 (46:57):
That's something I think adds to the charm. So that'll
probably still be.
Speaker 3 (47:01):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (47:01):
Yes, Yes. Speaking of d Y, Haley and I have
been trying to make her costume. I'm not revealing what
are you going to be?
Speaker 4 (47:10):
No, I'm not revealing because I don't know.
Speaker 2 (47:13):
Depending on how this costume turns out, we might have
to switch gears. It might be all of us in
alpha Bunglin.
Speaker 1 (47:21):
Oh, I have a green face made by the way, No,
it's we are not DIY. People like we are either
of a couple's costume.
Speaker 4 (47:30):
I guess it's kind of a couple's costume.
Speaker 2 (47:32):
Yeah. But Hailey had this stand made for some of
her music instruments or whatever, and the guy came over
and he brought hit the prototype because he's gonna he
wanted to see sizing wise and stuff.
Speaker 4 (47:45):
It's beautiful.
Speaker 2 (47:46):
It's like this beautiful custom would stand and it like
has an electrical thing that moves up down is stunning.
Speaker 4 (47:53):
And then Haley as they're leaving, she's like.
Speaker 2 (47:55):
Do you want to see the costume we've been working on?
Speaker 4 (47:57):
And it is like a foam board with a duct ta.
Speaker 2 (48:02):
I was like, Babe, we do not show this is
our beautiful craftsman, our DIY projects.
Speaker 4 (48:10):
She was so proud though, so send thoughts and prayers.
Speaker 1 (48:14):
Do you know I realized about myself over the weekend
that I hate and I want to improve on.
Speaker 2 (48:18):
Tell me.
Speaker 1 (48:19):
I'm just Mark. Sorry heard this story, but I'm gonna
just make it quick. Long story short. I had to
order my Glinda costume on Amazon, but the only ones
I had left were like extra large. So it's like,
I'll just take it to the tailor and have them
take it in and like shorten it.
Speaker 2 (48:30):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (48:31):
So much effort, but I got it and I had
enough time to do all that, so I was like fine,
So I take it and I pick it up and
it wasn't as short as I wanted it to be,
and so I was like, oh. I was like, do
you think it could be shorter? And he was like no, no, no,
it's perfect, It's perfect. I was like, okay, so take
it home and I'm like, I just wanted it shorter,
and so Robbie ended up cutting it and I'm like,
(48:51):
why did I not just like ask for what I wanted.
So I was like, I was paying for the service,
do you know what I mean? Because I'm a people pleaser, right,
I don't sand up for myself, and I hate that
about myself.
Speaker 2 (49:01):
But what did he get out of you being a
people pleaser about your dress? What did the man get
out of saying this is perfect?
Speaker 4 (49:09):
What did he get out of it?
Speaker 1 (49:10):
He didn't have to shorten it, Yeah, but like beyond.
Speaker 2 (49:17):
That, he just was.
Speaker 3 (49:20):
He's cost himself money, right though he probably should have
shortened it the way I want it.
Speaker 2 (49:25):
Yeah, So you're saying he didn't have to redo it correct? Yeah,
you It's an unfortunate thing and we all do it
like it's the nail thing, yes, where you're like, I
love this color, and then you just sort like why did.
Speaker 1 (49:37):
I rights later to get it repainted?
Speaker 2 (49:39):
Why didn't I immediately just say yes, I thought that
it's gonna look different. I know.
Speaker 1 (49:44):
Why do we do that?
Speaker 2 (49:46):
Because we don't want to inconvenience people.
Speaker 1 (49:48):
I don't like that, I know, I know. So that's
something I'm going to work on. Twenty twenty six. My
word for the new year might be resilient. No, that's
not the right word.
Speaker 2 (49:58):
You can't get No, we gotta to have a good
one because your past two have been so good, so good.
You can't lower your stage. It can't just be like,
can't be just resilient.
Speaker 1 (50:08):
Yeah, what's the pizza?
Speaker 2 (50:12):
Yeah, no, pizzazz.
Speaker 4 (50:13):
Wait, we gotta go, Yeah, we gotta go. We have
another episode to do.
Speaker 2 (50:17):
We'll be back Thursday, your birthday. It is my birthday
on Thursday, and we will be back with an episode
because that's what we do for you guys. We're gonna
do is crank out an episode for you guys. But
(50:37):
we will be back with a dear bonya episode which
we haven't done in a minute.
Speaker 4 (50:40):
It's going to well, it's birthday and then.
Speaker 1 (50:44):
We're gonna play some game. No, it's going to be different.
It's gonna be a different Okay.
Speaker 2 (50:47):
Okay, great, Well stay tuned for that. See it Thursday.
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Speaker 2 (00:11):
Hello everyone, we are scrubbing in?
Speaker 1 (00:16):
Yes, we we are.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
What were you going to say something on the tip
of your tongue there?
Speaker 1 (00:21):
I just caught myself, But it's fine.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
You're gonna say tubs and the scrubbing in pad.
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Yeah, yeah, tubs and yad.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
I was just talking to Jeff Chubbs. I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (00:32):
Oh, I thought you were talking about scrubbing dub dub.
It was like tough, all it works?
Speaker 1 (00:38):
Yeah, yeah, it's.
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Just an early morning here, early morning for me, early
early Yeah. I normally come at twelve and it's ten.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
Hey, how did you get yourself up today? It was tough,
but I did it. And what time did you have
to sell your alarm?
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Well?
Speaker 4 (00:52):
I said, I always set my alarm at eight.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Ah, yeah, so I woke up at eight, but I
was like, I could sleep longer.
Speaker 4 (01:00):
You're not going to.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
When your alarm goes off at eight and you don't
have anything immediate you have to do? Is it hard
to get up and not just keep snoozing?
Speaker 2 (01:07):
Yeah, for sure, a lot of snooze there's a lot
of snoozing happened. Do you ever snooze?
Speaker 3 (01:12):
I seize one time.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
You give me a no snooze vibe, Thank you very much.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
There's always one snooze.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
Your energy gives no snoozes.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
I do one. I always do one.
Speaker 4 (01:20):
How long is it?
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Like?
Speaker 1 (01:21):
Good?
Speaker 4 (01:22):
Nine minutes?
Speaker 3 (01:22):
You know, I appreciate that the iPhone allows me to
now customize the length of my snooze. I don't know
that it does on the new iOS twenty six very much. Stuck.
I stuck with the traditional nine minutes though, Oh nice.
I think that's there for a reason. I think it
has to do with your cycle.
Speaker 5 (01:35):
Oh do you go back to sleep in that snooze?
Speaker 3 (01:37):
I sometimes do. Sometimes I just lay there in contemplate life.
But sometimes you go back to Yeah, that's.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Why I hate snoozing. I'd rather have that nine minutes
of rem cycle then wake up and sit in my
own thoughts like who wants to understand that?
Speaker 3 (01:50):
But I like my routine. Sometimes I doze back off.
Sometimes I don't.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Are you a snoozer?
Speaker 3 (01:55):
I'm a souezer.
Speaker 5 (01:56):
Yeah, okay, big time snoezer.
Speaker 4 (01:59):
I do it too.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
I don't know that it necessarily makes me feel better
when it's actually time to get up, because I do
most of the time fall back and sleep.
Speaker 6 (02:06):
I set my alarm for earlier than I actually have
to get up so that I can snooze and still
get up by the time I'm supposed to do, because
it gives me the illusion that I'm like sleeping in
and like leterally getting out of bed.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
I used this was a really sinister thing I used
to do to myself. I used to set my alarm
for four am, just so I could hit snooze and sleep.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
For my job, I had to wake up at seven,
so I knew.
Speaker 5 (02:28):
I had three hours wow, so it.
Speaker 4 (02:30):
Was a long snooze. I set an alarm for four
and then seven.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
It's so bad.
Speaker 2 (02:34):
It probably was horrible for it, but I was just
like it made me feel like I can sleep in.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
My large prostate takes care of that for me, I do.
I used to do a thing where, like you'd get
up at six in the morning every day or whatever
your life was. On Saturday, I'd set my alarm for
six am just to have the joy of, oh my gosh,
it's Saturday. I don't have to get up after all.
Off and go back and sleep smiling.
Speaker 2 (02:57):
I suppose it's just not setting an alarm.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
That is so bizarre. My alarm goes off, it goes
one ring, like one round of the alarm, and my
foot's aready on the floor.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Wow. Yeah, we have to talk about Tanya's alarm though.
But because last Friday, I was trying to get a
hold of Tanya because it's a long story, but she
was doing news for Sisiny that morning, so she had
a gap even earlier, and so I was calling her
to say, hey, hey, it's time, because I hadn't heard
from her yet, which was weird. And I called her
(03:30):
nine times and she did not answer. And it comes
to turn out she keeps her phone in her sock drawer.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
Yeah, it's just still next to my bed, and it's
not like across the room or I'm a nice thing. Yeah,
the very bottom drawer.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
Okay, but the socks would dampen the sound.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
I don't need the sound.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
You clearly do is your sound on.
Speaker 1 (03:52):
Though my alarm goes off. My alarm goes off.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
So you weren't gonna hear that whether it was in
your sock drawer.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
That I had mark in my Favorites cut through lists,
so in my mind, his calls would always cut through
my like no ringer. At least that's what I thought
the past fifteen years.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
They do not disturb, It doesn't turn your sound off.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Interesting, he thought it just like his call over overrides
every Yes.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Yes I did, because I remember for some reason doing
this a long time ago. But it was so stressful.
I've never in my life I didn't sleep through my alarm.
I forgot to set my alarm. Wow, I forgot I
was doing the news for ssany. I just totally blanked
and just didn't set my alarm. So I woke up
(04:42):
Robbie from the bathroom is going?
Speaker 3 (04:44):
I called Robbie.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
Oh wow, that's how I got up.
Speaker 4 (04:48):
Wow, that's a very stressful.
Speaker 1 (04:50):
It is the most. It was so stressful. I can't
tell you. Like my heart was beating. I felt like
I was gonna pass out, Like I was sweating because
I was like, I don't think I'm gonna be able
to do it in time before he gets here, Like
you didn't think I was going to do it all
and like be able to get in on time, and
I was four minutes to spare.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (05:06):
Yeah, it's pretty good.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
I thought.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
So the robby's having his morning constitutional and I'm calling
him and he's like and then he doesn't want to
yell loud and make up the whole house.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Yeah, the kids are sleeping, so he's like trying to
like yell at me from the bathroom.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Saying, well, you did it. I sometimes those days just happen.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Not to me.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Yeah they do.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
They did, just did it did And I didn't like it.
It set me off the whole rest of the day.
I was like stressed and like anxious, Like, so.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
Now you've started do not disturb what you would resist him?
Speaker 1 (05:34):
Yeah, So now I'm trying this whole do not disturb thing.
I have a list of people who can like cut
through this wall again, right, and I'm just gonna put
my phone on do not disturb, but keep the ringer on.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
I'm honored to be on that list. Yes, do you
have it set from what time to what time is?
Speaker 2 (05:47):
You know?
Speaker 1 (05:48):
I'm just going to turn it on and off every
night manually.
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Yeah, that's another point of failure, potential point of failure.
Why because if you have it automatically, you know, don't
have to worry about it.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
I know, but I don't want to automatic because what if,
like I'm raging on a Friday night and I want
people to do to call me at a.
Speaker 3 (06:03):
Lot and only set it from Monday through Thursday overnights
or Sunday through Thursday overnights. You can do that. What
if I'm raging on a Thursday, I could set it
for anything you want.
Speaker 1 (06:13):
I'm with you, tany, I like the main Yeah, that's flexibility,
Like every day is different.
Speaker 2 (06:18):
Yeah, I it's a control thing, like you're not going
to tell me when it's going on.
Speaker 4 (06:22):
Do not disturb it.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
Im Like some mornings I might want it off earlier
than six am. Maybe I wanted to go off at
for it right, sure, but now I can do that,
I guess.
Speaker 5 (06:29):
So I Alsa doesn't use an alarm. She sets a
timer she.
Speaker 3 (06:33):
Said, like a seven hours.
Speaker 6 (06:35):
So interesting, and I'm like, this is like serial killer,
And she's like, oh, I'm concerned about like not maybe
she's afraid that I'm gonna have with the clock, you know,
like like or like.
Speaker 1 (06:45):
If your phone updates overnight. I do fear that sometimes.
Speaker 3 (06:49):
Yeah, but that would be the same issue, wouldn't it.
Speaker 5 (06:51):
It would, But I don't know.
Speaker 6 (06:53):
And also she's like, well, I'm not really concerned about
what time'm getting Up's more like how long do.
Speaker 3 (06:56):
I want to sleep?
Speaker 4 (06:58):
But how many hours?
Speaker 5 (06:59):
So she said it's like eight or something that's in true.
Speaker 2 (07:02):
I might try. I might dry that interesting because then
you're you're basically just guaranteeing yourself you're getting the same
amount of hours at night.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
Exactly is that your motivation? What's your what is the
motivation for time or over alarm?
Speaker 6 (07:17):
I know that she was also like concerned about like
not I think there's one time where we were like
in a different.
Speaker 5 (07:22):
Time zone and she's like, I don't know what time
tomorrow is? Do not know what time it is? Or
you know.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Yeah, we were hanging out this couple over the weekend
and they were we were talking about like our morning
routines or whatever, and they were like, yeah, we both
just get up naturally when our bodies wake up. And
I'm like, what a decaded life? Like me too, it
is decadent, Like I wake up to an alarm seventy
percent of my life.
Speaker 3 (07:49):
Yeah, it's tough, but that's also most people.
Speaker 4 (07:53):
I think it is.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
But I couldn't imagine just like letting my body wake
up when it wants like that's the I was like
trying to envision that on a weekday. I was like,
I would never get up.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Yeah, you get up eventually because you feel you feel rested,
and then you're like, what do I want to do next?
Speaker 5 (08:09):
Just rip Van Winkle and sleep multiple years.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
I think I would like this weekend, like on Sunday
alarm we never see Yeah, Like on Sunday, we had
no plans and I didn't get out of bed till
like eleven, just laying there.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
I was like.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Dozing on, you know, wake up a little to let
Sunday out of her crate, take her to pee. You
went back up to bed. Scrolled on Instagram, laugh laugh,
laughed as some comments laid back down.
Speaker 2 (08:34):
Texted Becca, I love laying.
Speaker 1 (08:37):
I love laying I do. I love laying.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
Like I don't even need to be doing anything. I
just love being horizontal in a comfortable position.
Speaker 1 (08:45):
Yeah, dine, Yeah yeah, but how you lie is very
important as well. Pillows under the knees, the way you lie.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
Yeah yeah, well you gotta have that love bar.
Speaker 4 (09:00):
Okay, Well, how was your weekend?
Speaker 1 (09:02):
Weekend was action packed? How was your weekend?
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Tell me about yours before we move on to mine.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
We had a birthday shabbat for our twin, our twins
our nieces that are twins birthday.
Speaker 4 (09:18):
If you want to consolidate that.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
So we did that. We had that on Friday night,
and then Saturday we had like our first Halloween costume party.
Oh yeah, so I was Linda and Robbie was Alphaba
from Wicked.
Speaker 2 (09:34):
But did he he really channeled the Wicked Witch more
than he channeled Alpha Ba.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Yeah. Well, he's never seen Wicked and so he's only known.
He's like, he would talk, he'd be like, come here pretty.
I'm like, it's not You're not really I tried. So
Friday night, after the shabbat, I was like, let's watch
Wicked so you can get into character. And he fell
asleep within two minutes. I don't musicals are his thing.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
I love Wicked.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
Yeah me too.
Speaker 2 (10:03):
I mean, I'm on the I don't love musicals, but
Wicked is amazing, astonishing.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Yeah, he's missing out, I agree. But so we got
dressed and we went to this like nice sushi restaurant
and we were the only ones dressed up because Halloween
is the following weekend. And we get out of the
car at vallet, and this girl starts cracking up, just
(10:30):
like literally to herself, is like cracking up, pointing at Robbie. Ah,
that's so amazing. And then she looks at me. She's like,
how did you get in to do that? I was like,
it's actually pretty easy. Then we walk into the restaurant,
some guy asks us to take a selfie with him,
like literally asks to take a selfie with us.
Speaker 3 (10:48):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
So yeah, I was like I was felling. I was
walking with like a spectacle. People kept coming up to
our table.
Speaker 3 (10:55):
But it's what six days before Halloween when you did this,
that's not unheard of to be in comfe He.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
Just looked very scary, Like I think he just like
looked disturbing.
Speaker 2 (11:05):
Last year when the movie came out, I dressed his
alpha butt to go to the theater. I have never
gotten so much attention, even post Bachelor, the attention I've
ever had.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
I think it's something about the costume and the green
face that like really shocks people.
Speaker 2 (11:18):
I mean, it's like the biggest movie in the world.
It's about to come out, the second part's about to
come out.
Speaker 3 (11:23):
It's very exciting.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
But Robbie's mustache with the braid. There was a lot happening.
I was very I.
Speaker 1 (11:31):
Wouldn't shave the mustache. I was like, just shave it.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
It's funny with it though, I'm with him.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
Yeah that's what he said.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
Yeah, it was funny. It was scary visually, but.
Speaker 4 (11:41):
It was funny. I was dying at the photos Tanya posted.
Speaker 2 (11:47):
I kept zooming in and making stickers of Robbie as.
Speaker 1 (11:52):
But the best part is all weekend he kept singing
sack refice love. It really does go both ways.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
And let me tell you something, we also were singing
that all weekend. Hailey's like, I have Donia's song stuck
in my head.
Speaker 4 (12:06):
I was like the same.
Speaker 3 (12:07):
Do we need to explain this to people because I feel.
Speaker 4 (12:10):
Like, no, no, you're saying it.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
Mark doesn't know because he doesn't listen to the podcast
when he's not here. Oh so so this is new
news to him.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
So you didn't see Tonya's story or anything.
Speaker 3 (12:20):
I missed one story I missed.
Speaker 4 (12:22):
Oh my gosh, I'm up to speed.
Speaker 1 (12:24):
Now. Wait, we should play in the DJA version of
the DJ version.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
I've heard it.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Well, the listeners may not.
Speaker 2 (12:31):
Oh yeah, the listeners may not have heard it. But yeah,
and then Taylautner wrote me and said, Taylor and I
are also can't stop singing it.
Speaker 3 (12:40):
Wow.
Speaker 4 (12:42):
Hailey said, it's a it's a hook. She said, hookie.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
So I think I'm gonna like fully write this song
and get into a studio and like put it on iTunes.
Claudia Ostre did this many years ago. She like recorded
a song and put an iTunes. So maybe I can
hit her up and say how does one go about
doing this?
Speaker 4 (12:59):
And he does have a very beautiful singing voice.
Speaker 1 (13:02):
But I'm definitely gonna need auto tune as much Autois.
Speaker 3 (13:07):
You are on that right?
Speaker 1 (13:08):
And the Okay, so DJ Let's get her name right Poppins,
Oh that's cute. DJ Poppins remixed it.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
So this was just you were hiking, you're hiking, what
do you want? I'm sorry, I'm just explaining to anybody. Mark,
We're okay, fine, all right, I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (13:31):
I had to podcasts about here we go.
Speaker 1 (13:34):
Here's the DJ j pop bated a song.
Speaker 4 (13:37):
How does it go?
Speaker 5 (13:55):
You sack.
Speaker 1 (14:00):
Sacrifice?
Speaker 3 (14:01):
Wow?
Speaker 1 (14:03):
I feel like DJ Poppins didn't use my voice there.
Speaker 2 (14:06):
This literally is not seen in Friends or Phoebe does
Smelly Cat. And then they come in and they do,
and she's like, I sounds amazing and it's not her
voice at all.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
That is your voice. So I think she took your voice.
Speaker 2 (14:21):
There's no way.
Speaker 5 (14:23):
There's some additional voices. Yeah, human voices.
Speaker 3 (14:28):
They might be Tanya's voice pitched up and pitched down.
Speaker 2 (14:31):
Run in there though, like A yeah, I definitely.
Speaker 4 (14:35):
She unfortunately didn't that it's catchy.
Speaker 2 (14:42):
I personally it's a song. I think you get in
the stew and record it. But I do.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
I but I'm gonna need maybe I reach out to
DJ Poppins and and like, yeah.
Speaker 2 (14:53):
You should produce it because I can't just do it
dry right, Yeah, you need something.
Speaker 1 (14:59):
We heard it last week.
Speaker 2 (15:01):
Yeah you're not good to clean up the lyrics and
like vocals a little.
Speaker 1 (15:05):
Bits and verses. Yeah, rich Robbie goes, get in there
today and do it while you're at work. I'm like,
I need to write the song.
Speaker 2 (15:13):
Like does he not know the process of a song? Right?
I know?
Speaker 1 (15:17):
And like I am like I need some time on this.
You can't just cook when you tell me the cook.
Speaker 4 (15:22):
No, no, you gotta get you gotta be in the kitchen.
Speaker 1 (15:24):
I need to be in the kitchen.
Speaker 2 (15:27):
Yeah, we sing it all weekend and then you know
what song I start every day with recently?
Speaker 1 (15:32):
Wait, I want to guess. Okay, where's my husband?
Speaker 2 (15:37):
What's that? Babe? Where the hell is my husband? Right?
Speaker 1 (15:41):
Yeah, it's not that.
Speaker 4 (15:43):
No, does that feel like a song I'd sing?
Speaker 1 (15:46):
I sing that every morning?
Speaker 4 (15:47):
Does it feel like a song?
Speaker 3 (15:48):
I'd sing?
Speaker 1 (15:49):
Yeah, it's so cute?
Speaker 2 (15:51):
Isn theer one? I would like? Yeah, yeah, I'm that's
been out for ages.
Speaker 1 (15:57):
Okay, so it's new new, Huh, I want to get
the song.
Speaker 4 (16:00):
No, it's not new.
Speaker 1 (16:03):
It's could take a while.
Speaker 3 (16:04):
Every song in the history of the world.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
Yeah, no, okay, what's the Tanache song?
Speaker 2 (16:12):
It's no book?
Speaker 1 (16:12):
Boys, man, I need love, but no, maybe give us
a hint. At this point, it's opa light was on
the right track a fatal ophelia, No show Life of
a Show Go Honey, yeah, honey.
Speaker 4 (16:25):
Yeah, it gets me so high for the day.
Speaker 1 (16:29):
Yeah, I love it.
Speaker 4 (16:30):
I make breakfast and I'm just like, I make.
Speaker 1 (16:34):
Sure every time I drive into work since the album
came out that I always end on honey in Life
of a Showgirl before I get into the parking garage. Wow,
that's sick.
Speaker 3 (16:43):
No, it's great.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
Yeah, and my drive is not that long.
Speaker 3 (16:46):
I like a routine.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
I love I love the lyric when she says, when
anyone called me lovely, they were finding ways not to
praise me.
Speaker 1 (16:55):
But you say it like you're in awe of me,
so you say it in the morn. Is that the lyric?
Speaker 2 (17:02):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (17:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:04):
This weekend we didn't really do a whole lot. We
had a pretty chill weekend. We watched a show called
Task Ause anyone watched it, Yeah, I've.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
Seen it, but yeah, I heard it's good.
Speaker 2 (17:11):
Mark Ruffalo, Yeah, pretty good, pretty intense. Haley's able to binge.
I'm like, after an episode, I'm kind of just twiddlet
on my phone and then it's not good and she goes, Babe,
what and I go, oh, what happened? And then she goes,
are you not watching?
Speaker 1 (17:27):
There's nothing more annoying than that.
Speaker 2 (17:28):
I know with her.
Speaker 4 (17:29):
I know, I know, I know she's totally valid.
Speaker 2 (17:32):
Yeah, but I also I don't think it's fair to
expect me a child to sit and.
Speaker 4 (17:37):
Watch watch it.
Speaker 1 (17:40):
Go to your room or something.
Speaker 4 (17:43):
No, because we like being together, Well, then.
Speaker 1 (17:45):
Suck it up.
Speaker 5 (17:46):
I do.
Speaker 4 (17:47):
I tune in.
Speaker 3 (17:47):
I like a double binge. Have you ever tried that
where you do an episode of Task meanwhile you're binging.
I don't know the diplomat, jump over the diplomat.
Speaker 4 (17:54):
Oh, that kind of takes me out, sends.
Speaker 3 (17:56):
Me from getting bored with one of them. We've done
that before.
Speaker 5 (17:59):
It's very fine.
Speaker 3 (18:00):
I like it, And also you could do something that's
a totally different vibe from Task. You just have light
and fun and cute Love is Blind like Love is
Blind and then back to the Task. I don't know
some to think about.
Speaker 1 (18:10):
Yeah, I'm sure to do that when there's multiple shows
that we like, are obsessed with, but I don't enjoy it.
Speaker 2 (18:14):
What do you think about the Love is Blind finale?
Speaker 1 (18:16):
I'm upset.
Speaker 2 (18:18):
We'll be right back. All right, we're back. So Love
(18:45):
is Blind had a bad ending.
Speaker 1 (18:46):
Yes, spoiler alert, Yeah, give the.
Speaker 2 (18:48):
People because you did something spoiler alert about it on
another episode and people like, can we get a real
spoiler alert for things that are happening right now? Spoiler
alert If you're watching Love is Blind and you're not
caught up, Tony's about to spoil it.
Speaker 1 (19:04):
Nobody gets married? Oh wow, not one marriage?
Speaker 2 (19:07):
Or did any of them stay together?
Speaker 1 (19:09):
No broke cup what Yes awful. I did enjoy the season, though,
so it's hard to It's hard to hate because I
really liked this season.
Speaker 4 (19:19):
Wasn't it a good finale?
Speaker 1 (19:20):
Even though one no, so too go to the altar?
The first girl no, which I was happy about. I
was proud of second girl says no. And that one
broke my heart because Barkle Megan No, they didn't. Sparkle
Meghan didn't even go to the altar. She broke up
with him before they even got into their wedding dresses,
so I didn't even get to to get suspense on
that one. It just cuts to them and they're sitting
on a couch. I was like, Oh, it's over.
Speaker 2 (19:41):
Wait.
Speaker 4 (19:42):
Did were you fearful that he was going to end
it with her?
Speaker 1 (19:44):
Sparkle MEGANA. Iough, they're gonna get married. I thought they
were going to walk down to say nd and I
was like, they're saving the last couple for the last
one because they're all. That's going to be the love
story that we've been wanting all season. And then she
broke up with him. The memes have been hilarious though
about it, because they're like, they'll take a picture and
they're like, it's because of the It's because of the
chicken smoothie, isn't it. It's because I'm rich, you're rich
(20:06):
and I'm poor, isn't it? Or like they just did
it like a bunch of memes.
Speaker 2 (20:09):
Yeah, yeah, all right, so lackluster ending very much like
a great season.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
But great season, and the reunion I think is gonna
be spectacular.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
I have a feeling one of the couples gets back
together just for the like that they're together when the
reunion comes, because they filmed the show like a year
in advance.
Speaker 1 (20:29):
Yeah, and like allegedly sp Sparkle Megan now has like
a baby with someone else.
Speaker 2 (20:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (20:35):
It was like these duoi photos or somebody I don't know,
some some tabloid posted photos of her with like a
baby and some random dude. I'm like, okay, is that
her baby? Spoiler?
Speaker 3 (20:47):
Oh my god, I just knocked over. That was so loud,
so bad.
Speaker 1 (21:03):
Can we take a break.
Speaker 3 (21:04):
Sure we're not supposed to now, but yes, we'll take
a break to fix things up and put the studio
back together again, live right back.
Speaker 2 (21:28):
Tanya just knocked a whole cabinet down onto.
Speaker 3 (21:33):
My That was.
Speaker 5 (21:36):
Sorry.
Speaker 3 (21:36):
The noise came from beccavert off the back.
Speaker 1 (21:42):
It's like a really large cabin.
Speaker 5 (21:44):
We just swinging your legs, willy nilly.
Speaker 2 (21:47):
Yes.
Speaker 1 (21:47):
So I usually have a stool that I put my
feet on when I'm at work because our chairs are
so high, I can't touch the ground and my feet
just swing. And so I was just kicking this thing
and okay, not again, trying feet on it too to rest.
Speaker 2 (22:02):
Oh my gosh, that was really touched lip gloss and
there was like goo on my hand.
Speaker 4 (22:08):
I don't like it.
Speaker 1 (22:09):
I forgot we were talking about it. Got so distracted.
Speaker 4 (22:11):
Well that's okay.
Speaker 1 (22:12):
Anyways, I'm looking forward to the reunion.
Speaker 2 (22:15):
Okay, anyways, Yeah, what do you know what show I.
Speaker 1 (22:21):
Binged this last week? What any guesses?
Speaker 2 (22:25):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (22:25):
Here we go. I'll give you a hint. It came
out in this year.
Speaker 3 (22:30):
Was it a reality show? No show?
Speaker 2 (22:33):
Yes? I know?
Speaker 3 (22:34):
Did you guy out of this one?
Speaker 4 (22:36):
What network?
Speaker 2 (22:39):
Hulu? Oh uh?
Speaker 4 (22:42):
Paradise?
Speaker 2 (22:43):
Yes? Becca, Yeah, it was amazing. I didn't realize you
had just now watched that.
Speaker 1 (22:48):
Just now watching it's so good, so good, and apparently
they are making they made season two and it's coming
out to the top of twenty twenty six.
Speaker 2 (22:56):
That's right, so not much long, not much longer when
you binge it late in year, you got.
Speaker 4 (23:00):
Another one, right up.
Speaker 1 (23:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (23:03):
I love James Marston.
Speaker 5 (23:04):
I love.
Speaker 1 (23:06):
I mean, he's amazing.
Speaker 2 (23:08):
I know, I know it wasn't really to be honest,
I didn't love the finale because I felt like they
could have left it on a cliffhanger and then told
us who killed him and continued it into season two
a little bit, because it felt like it was really
like rushed and kind of just a story thrown together
to me for the finale instead of just going, let's play,
(23:31):
let's like leave it on a cliffhanger and start it
from season two.
Speaker 1 (23:34):
Yeah, but that's just me personally.
Speaker 2 (23:37):
Sometimes this stuff with the government and what they what
they could be doing around us reached me out. Yeah,
me too.
Speaker 4 (23:43):
I was like, like, it doesn't feel that far fetched sometimes.
Speaker 3 (23:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (23:50):
Wait, So I was gonna saying there's a lot of
things to.
Speaker 1 (23:54):
Talk about that happened on pod Weekends.
Speaker 2 (23:56):
Did we talk about No, I was thinking about did
you see Rachel Kirconnell say that she hadn't had sex
in like years or something?
Speaker 1 (24:05):
So I don't does that mean her and Matt James
never had sex.
Speaker 2 (24:07):
Well that's what people's question was, like, Wait, you just
ended your relationship in January.
Speaker 1 (24:14):
Yeah, it means they weren't having sex, So maybe they
were just ghosting.
Speaker 4 (24:20):
What's ghosting?
Speaker 1 (24:22):
Like, I don't know, I just came up with it.
Speaker 2 (24:27):
But Chloe Kardashian also said that she hasn't had sex
in over three years.
Speaker 1 (24:31):
Well, she's not been in a relationship.
Speaker 2 (24:33):
So she must be in the same boat. Yeah, needing
to have a emotional.
Speaker 1 (24:38):
I was the same way before Robbie was four years Well.
Speaker 4 (24:42):
That was like, yeah, that was like a choice of
yours for your to protect your heart.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Yes, yeah I am, and my mental health.
Speaker 2 (24:49):
Meant yeah, yeah, I mean I'm the same. I would
say that I definitely would be the same way. I
mean I was for majority of my life, but that
was based on you know, religion and purity culture. Yeah,
when I saved myself.
Speaker 3 (25:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (25:03):
But I think it's normal if you are someone who
wants to have an emotional attachment, that you can't have
casual sex without getting attached. Correct. I think that's a
very I think people see the culture which is like
very sex forward and positive and like just do what
you want, but I don't. I think people think that
(25:24):
if they can't be that, that there's something wrong with them.
Speaker 1 (25:26):
But I think, what, that's what's happening to me. I
feel like I was single and everybody kept saying, oh,
this is the best time of your life. Go sleep
around and sew your oats, like do the things, and
that's what I was like, Okay, I'll do that everybody
says to do, and that's what I'll do. That's how
you find the one. And then I was like always
left feeling so hurt and like shattered, and I was like,
(25:47):
why do I keep doing this to myself? And I
said no more, no Moss.
Speaker 2 (25:51):
She said no more until Robbie Yadegar comes in.
Speaker 1 (25:56):
Well, oh we did it before I wanted to. I
mean I would, It's not like yeah, like I told him.
I was like, I'm not having sex until I'm in
a committed relationship. And then we did before we were
like committed, but I didn't. It wasn't like.
Speaker 2 (26:12):
I was yes, thank you, yeah right. You were just
in the moment and you were like, oh everything worked out.
Speaker 1 (26:23):
It did it did work out.
Speaker 4 (26:24):
That's the beauty of it.
Speaker 2 (26:27):
Jennifer Anderson said, on the podcast with Dax Shepherd. She
was on Armchair Expert Yes, and I saw I had
started it, and I didn't listen to the whole thing,
but I saw a clip on TikTok and she was
saying how she had wanted kids, right and she wanted
you know, people are like, well, why don't you adopt
or you know, I think that's what the question was,
(26:50):
like why don't you adopt if you want kids? Because
she can't have biological kids, and she was like, I
want to. I want to have a baby that is
biologically mine. And it was a kind of a People
had a controversial take on it, which I get, and
also I think it's totally valid if that's what she wants.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
I can't with people why I missed the days of
no comments, no, but like everybody like, that's your life,
you can choose, and like that's what she's she didn't
want to do that, and that's totally fine, totally.
Speaker 2 (27:26):
This is one of those things though, where I I
guess if you have experienced adoption or you are adopted,
it's probably a more sensitive thing than from us who
are not in that position.
Speaker 1 (27:37):
You know what I'm saying, Yes, and I think maybe
I'm like projecting because I feel like I in my
fertility journey, I'm like I do all the things like
I'm taking note of like I'm doing a lot of
Chinese medicine, so like I'm sleeping with socks now to
keep my body warm, and like all this stuff, and
people are like looking at me and telling me that
I'm being so stupid and silly and like just it's
(27:57):
you don't have to do all this stuff, and I'm like,
I'm choosing to do this because i want to do this,
so let me do this.
Speaker 2 (28:02):
You know.
Speaker 1 (28:03):
That's why I feel like I'm protecting Jennifernison because I
feel like she said that she's.
Speaker 4 (28:08):
The same I feel. I feel the same way.
Speaker 2 (28:10):
I think it's the thing with social media now, like
what you said, Mark U mess today have no comments,
is that you can be like I love a peanut
butter and jelly sandwich, and then someone's like, but what
about a turkey sandwich.
Speaker 3 (28:23):
I'm allergic to peanut butter? Thank you?
Speaker 1 (28:25):
Yeah, what about the people who are allergic to peanut butter?
Speaker 2 (28:28):
Yeah? And you just kind of go, That's not what
I was talking about, you know. But there's this sense
of needing to have everything validated.
Speaker 3 (28:36):
The jelly I would if I wasn't diabetic, thanks a lot, Yeah, weird.
Speaker 2 (28:41):
So, but on this topic, I I do see where
it's more sensitive for someone who either struggled and then
ended up adopting and has so much joy and is
able to go like, but it's so beautiful, or someone
who's been adopted is like I've had such an amazing
life because someone did that for me.
Speaker 3 (28:58):
That's fine totally, But that's not I'm sure that's not
what the kinds right, No, correct.
Speaker 2 (29:07):
Yeah, Yeah, it's a what do we call a lose
lose situation out there on social media.
Speaker 1 (29:13):
Yeah, but that's the problem.
Speaker 3 (29:14):
People are gonna stop doing interviews and podcasts and stuff
because what's what's the upside? You're just gonna get railed
for anything you say that's remotely honest or different or unscripted.
Speaker 2 (29:23):
Yeah, it really is true. I mean I think there's
there's a lot of encouragement for these celebrities that we've
never heard a lot from, Like these people that you're like,
we never see them, we don't see photos of them,
we don't hear interviews with them, and then they're probably
encouraged to do it because social media is the way
of the world. And then they do it and they
just get obliterated in the comments, and it's like, why
(29:44):
would they give the fans anything?
Speaker 4 (29:47):
Yeah, if they don't need to.
Speaker 1 (29:49):
I think you just got to come from a place
of not caring, which I know is so much easier
said than done.
Speaker 2 (29:53):
But like, but you either don't care or you just
don't even put yourself in that position.
Speaker 1 (29:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (29:58):
But my thing is is if I see something negative,
Like if I'm reading comments or messages and I see
something negative, I just go, Okay, I'm not checking those anymore.
Speaker 1 (30:08):
Oh, I go go to that.
Speaker 2 (30:09):
I know it's where you thrive.
Speaker 1 (30:13):
Yeah, I'm like, I want to sleep with socks on.
I'm gonna sleep with socks on. If it makes me
feel better, I'm gonna do it.
Speaker 2 (30:18):
Have you watched the new season of Nobody Wants This?
Speaker 1 (30:20):
No?
Speaker 2 (30:21):
Oh, we started it, But she talks about like sleeping
with socks on her feet.
Speaker 1 (30:26):
Shut up.
Speaker 2 (30:27):
It is so weird how parallel it is to your life.
Speaker 1 (30:32):
Is she sleep for fertility purposes?
Speaker 2 (30:34):
No?
Speaker 4 (30:35):
I think just because her feet or cold or something.
Speaker 1 (30:37):
Oh, because I don't enjoy it?
Speaker 2 (30:39):
Oh? Yeah, I don't think i'd sleep a wink, but yeah,
it is we Haley and I were watching and we
were like, this is so Tanya's life.
Speaker 1 (30:47):
It is crazy. It's like identical to our love story.
Speaker 4 (30:51):
Yeah, but yeah, you're his family's like way more.
Speaker 1 (30:54):
Oh yeah, yeah, they're like wonderful, yeah, and welcome me
right in?
Speaker 2 (30:57):
Right or right?
Speaker 4 (30:58):
There were no if ants are butts new.
Speaker 1 (31:02):
We but I have I heard that season two wasn't
as good as season one.
Speaker 4 (31:06):
It's not hard.
Speaker 2 (31:09):
Farm so far.
Speaker 4 (31:11):
We're two episodes in.
Speaker 3 (31:12):
Does criftin Bell's character put cones out in front of
her house or no? What it would be very parallel
to Tanya's life. They're putting cones out in front of
their house because that's something else Tiny's been up too lately.
Speaker 2 (31:23):
What are you putting cones out there for?
Speaker 1 (31:25):
Because the guy that lives two houses down from us,
at like three pm every day, drives his car and
parks it in front of our house and then gets
out and walks back to his house. And I'm like,
that's my spot, That's where I park my car.
Speaker 3 (31:39):
Think she owns that street.
Speaker 2 (31:41):
That they live.
Speaker 1 (31:41):
It's in front of my house. It's the part of
the street that's in front of my house.
Speaker 5 (31:45):
You give me so much fun as an old woman.
Speaker 2 (31:47):
Oh my god, she's gonna be neighborhood patrol. Really says,
I'm neighborhood patrol because I'll be walking I'm like, who
what is that doing here? Also those robot things, Yeah,
they're parking in our neighborhood lately and we're so freaked out.
We're like, what are they doing?
Speaker 4 (32:05):
I called and said, can you move?
Speaker 3 (32:07):
Oh my god?
Speaker 4 (32:09):
They have a camera on them, and I'm like.
Speaker 1 (32:11):
I don't know, it feels I guess, yeah, we're cameras
and microphone. They don't have a home.
Speaker 2 (32:15):
And one of them name was Nancy, and that's my
mom's name. And I was like, Mom, are you out here?
Speaker 1 (32:20):
Where's it in your front yard?
Speaker 2 (32:22):
It's out like on the street, but in the front Yeah.
I know.
Speaker 4 (32:27):
So anyways, that's been.
Speaker 2 (32:28):
But Haley's like, you're literally those old people that patrol
the neighborhood and report things.
Speaker 4 (32:33):
I'm like, fine, it's safe.
Speaker 1 (32:36):
Not me who yeah, And it's not when when when
you're not here where That's what I'm saying. So if
we don't put these cones out and.
Speaker 2 (32:44):
This man just so you just line the whole curve
of cones or do you just have like a section
that your carvel bit.
Speaker 1 (32:49):
In it's based on like a section for two cars
blocked off.
Speaker 5 (32:53):
Where'd you get the cones Amazon Angeles?
Speaker 1 (32:58):
No, they do not even look like they're like foldable
ones like Robbie got the ones that like fold down,
so you just like PLoP them right up. They don't
even look like fabric.
Speaker 4 (33:06):
Yes, I'd kick those. I would pick that up and
set it on the curve.
Speaker 2 (33:14):
For the first few days.
Speaker 1 (33:15):
So the first few days it was working, he was
parking in front of the cones in front of our
neighbor's house, and I was like, hah, robb and I
were like, sock excitedly, Yeah, we got our house back.
The other day he moved one of them onto the
sidewalk and parked right there.
Speaker 3 (33:28):
Good for him, I'm telling you, he's allowed to park
where he wants to park. He kept parking a driveway
because that's your property.
Speaker 2 (33:36):
But that's it. I get annoyed too. I hate when
someone's parked in front of my spot. I mean my
spot which is in front of the house. But I'm
always like and they park right in the center so
instead of being able to fit two clocks, yeah, they
only can fit there.
Speaker 4 (33:53):
And I'm like, okay, if you're gonna take my spot,
at least move.
Speaker 1 (33:57):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (33:59):
Same should we started neighborhood Patrol Club.
Speaker 1 (34:03):
I wanted to paint our curb bread.
Speaker 2 (34:08):
Your own car gets toned.
Speaker 1 (34:11):
And Rob is like, I don't think we should do that.
Speaker 2 (34:13):
But why don't you just talk to him and say, Hey,
if you're going to park here, could you just either
park forward or backwards?
Speaker 1 (34:21):
Well that's the funniest thing. So the first time he
did it. He has a convertible and our tree sheds
a lot like it just like pummels your car, and
which is why I park in the specific spot that
I park in as to not dirty and sap yet
my car. His cars are convertible and he left the
top open, so I was like, oh, he's never going
to park here again. Then no, now he moved into
(34:43):
the spot that I park.
Speaker 3 (34:47):
But you haven't talked to him, no, because I'm very
curious why he doesn't park in front of his own house.
I know, even though he's not required too legally, I'm
still just curious because it seems more convenient, right, Yeah,
why would he make his w longer.
Speaker 1 (35:00):
So do you want to something crazy though, love? Do
you remember that accident that I got into It was
I wasn't. It wasn't I didn't get into it. But
this cart like midnight.
Speaker 2 (35:08):
Hit hit on my car.
Speaker 1 (35:10):
Yes, So there was a gold car that was parked
in front of our house for like weeks. We'd reported it,
like Robbie had called it in, Like it was just
sitting in this spot, didn't move. So I'm like, it's
an abandoned car. At this point, when the car sword
in that accident and they hit my car, the car
behind me got totaled. That was the car, the gold car,
the gold car that was behind me. So the cops
(35:32):
come and they're investigating and they're running the license plate
and they're like, oh, this person lives down the street.
So they call them. This person comes up and Robbie
was like, lived down the street. We called and reported it.
We thought it was an abandoned like why did would
you leave your car here? For weeks? They had family
visiting or whatever, and the family had their cars and
they could only fit two in their driveway, and so
(35:54):
they had it. They just kind of were like leaving
it for a few weeks while their family was in town,
and now it was totally with an accident.
Speaker 3 (36:01):
If I did that, I would move it every couple
of days just to not be.
Speaker 2 (36:07):
On it.
Speaker 3 (36:08):
Yeah, it's weird.
Speaker 1 (36:09):
Yeah, I don't know why. Everyone just likes the park
in front of our house cozy. See it's like at
the right part of the street and that's always covered
the s.
Speaker 3 (36:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (36:21):
Wait. So I went to the Regretting You premiere on Monday. Good.
Speaker 4 (36:26):
Yeah, it was good, And but.
Speaker 2 (36:29):
Iris and TJ were there you talked to that I did,
and the girls that I was talking to that knew them,
they're like, they're they're pretty shy, and I was like, Okay,
I don't want to like bombard them because they were
definitely everyone was wanting to talk to them. And so
I finally was like, I'm just gonna go say hi.
And so I remember you had a friend or something
(36:50):
that knew her that she worked for something. Yes, So
I went up and I was like, a friend of
my best friend and her husband are friends with someone
that you worked for. And she was like, oh my god.
Speaker 4 (37:00):
She was so warm and she got it, like they're
the best.
Speaker 2 (37:04):
And we talked and then I was like, oh, hi,
I'm Becca and said hi to TJ too, because I
was just talking to Irish. And then after the show,
I was making a reel and so I was like,
can y'all just wave and say hey? And so they were.
It was kind of awkward because they're like, what do
you want to do? And I was like, just say hey,
like in the bog or whatever. So they didn't.
Speaker 4 (37:25):
She was like, can't wait to see.
Speaker 2 (37:28):
Wait?
Speaker 1 (37:29):
Was she so cute?
Speaker 2 (37:30):
She's so cute.
Speaker 4 (37:31):
She's so cute. She's like a little Barbie.
Speaker 2 (37:33):
She's so small, she is tiny. Yeah, and he's very
cute too.
Speaker 1 (37:37):
He's much more handsome than I thought he was on
the show.
Speaker 2 (37:41):
Oh yeah, he looked They literally look like Ken and Barbie.
Speaker 1 (37:44):
Yeah. I didn't think he was that hot. And then
I saw like all these paparazzi shots of him now
and I'm like, dangs.
Speaker 4 (37:50):
You know what I like about him?
Speaker 2 (37:51):
He's very well kept, like he looks very clean.
Speaker 1 (37:55):
Very clean, which I like. And he's not smelly.
Speaker 4 (37:57):
No, no, no, he sounds good. I imagine. One of
the things I will say, did you ask her to
come on the podcast?
Speaker 1 (38:04):
No?
Speaker 2 (38:05):
I don't know. I was like gonna because whenever I
brought her up in the past, you were just kind
of like, mehh, I see, yeah, so I didn't so
I didn't know if that was something that was like
you wanted to go down. Yeah, like, do I make
myself vulnerable here and ask that because you had been
like whatever? Yeah, I still like her, Okay, next time
(38:28):
I see her, I'll let her know, definitely.
Speaker 1 (38:30):
But did you tag her in the video? No?
Speaker 2 (38:34):
Shoot, because I felt like it was a little funny
sarcasm when she said can't wait to see it, but
like in a way that I would say it right right,
you know, I thought it was funny. I wasn't like, oh,
you know, funny.
Speaker 1 (38:46):
She doesn't seem mean at all.
Speaker 2 (38:48):
No, not at all. I just feel like she's dry
and kind of sarcastic, which I appreciate.
Speaker 1 (38:51):
That dry and sarcastic scares me.
Speaker 4 (38:56):
Yeah, Haley too. Yeah, I'm literally dating.
Speaker 2 (38:58):
I'm not dating. I Meananya, Like it is the craziest thing.
Speaker 3 (39:03):
I'm like, Sarkas doesn't work with a Tanya.
Speaker 2 (39:05):
Do you know what she she said, I want to
go and I would love to sit down and just
like plan all of our like hopes and dreams that
we have as like a couple of places we want
to go and things we want to do.
Speaker 1 (39:17):
And I was like, good luck, Hayley, I haven't trying
to do that for years.
Speaker 2 (39:21):
I said, Tanya and Robbie do monthly family meetings.
Speaker 1 (39:24):
Yeah, She's like what. So we had a we had
the longest agenda yesterday on Sunday for our family meeting.
We had no plans, and I was like, we had
so much to get through, like ten bullet points of
an agenda. We got through two in the whole Sunday.
I mean there were two very big, long, like intense ones.
But I'm like, we gotta say, on top of this,
(39:47):
you and Haley should do a family monthly meeting mm
hmm and just have.
Speaker 4 (39:51):
Phoebe in there with us.
Speaker 1 (39:53):
No, I'm fine.
Speaker 2 (39:56):
I'm fine with just like going week by week of
what we have going on that week. You know, we
don't have to plan that far in advance.
Speaker 1 (40:08):
I'm dating a Becca. I'm married to a Becca.
Speaker 2 (40:10):
Yeah, Becca, Your Becca does what you want. Your Becca
dresses alphabet Recca.
Speaker 4 (40:17):
He does his family nighting. He does he is the
sacrificer of love.
Speaker 3 (40:22):
Would to Becca's be a problem? Would two Tonys be
a problem in a relationship. Okay, Yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (40:28):
Don't know that two Becca's would get much accomplished. It
would be very chill vibes. I don't know that there'd
be a lot going on, a lot. You know. She
gets me out and about communicating.
Speaker 4 (40:39):
It's good for me.
Speaker 2 (40:40):
You have to have a yin and a yang.
Speaker 1 (40:42):
Yeah. I agree that the Becca, it's good to have
the Becca in my relationship is too amazing.
Speaker 2 (40:48):
She comes to me like if she if she and
Robbie are having a disagreement, she comes to.
Speaker 1 (40:53):
Me and to get Becca's perspective.
Speaker 4 (40:55):
Yeah, and then I would tell her that's what Robbie said.
Speaker 1 (40:59):
But I know if I come to Becca and and
she sides with me, then I know I'm really right.
It's like a nice little secret weapon. No, but it
is a nice secret weapon to have. Yes, even Becca
agrees and he's like really, and that makes.
Speaker 2 (41:16):
Him going, you can't do that in arguments?
Speaker 1 (41:18):
Yes you can.
Speaker 4 (41:19):
It's like the worst thing you can do.
Speaker 1 (41:21):
I that used you all the time. Yes, because it's
like a good barometer because I feel like he knows
that you're level head and like on his side. Usually,
so when I pull out the even Becca thinks, so
it really hits home at Lands.
Speaker 3 (41:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (41:37):
Okay, well then use me all you want.
Speaker 1 (41:39):
You can use me too.
Speaker 2 (41:40):
Yeah, feel free.
Speaker 1 (41:43):
Use me as much as you want.
Speaker 2 (41:45):
Easton do this weekend for your Halloween partase.
Speaker 6 (41:48):
Oh, we went to uh we went to friends Halloween
like a movie thing and we dressed up as Allison
was a full moon and I was a werewolf.
Speaker 5 (41:56):
Wow, it's very fun.
Speaker 6 (41:58):
Uh and uh yeah, we watched Poultrygeist and it was
scary and uh, you know, we we did a gender
reveal for our neighbor on some Yeah, our neighbor asked
us to do a She asked Alison kind of late
in the day right here, like could you just do
like a put some balloons in a box and like
(42:20):
bring it over and uh, because her friends like weren't
doing it and we don't do anything half assed.
Speaker 1 (42:24):
Okay, so by the way, like her friends wouldn't do it,
so she needed to ask her neighbor.
Speaker 3 (42:30):
Like, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (42:30):
That makes me sad, Yeah, me too.
Speaker 6 (42:32):
Which is why we we were like, okay, well we're
gonna do this, like you know, we're gonna wrap the
box and everything, and her her boyfriend they they got
pregnant kind of suddenly.
Speaker 5 (42:43):
They went to the early ultrasound.
Speaker 6 (42:45):
The tech was like, it looks like a girl to me,
and boyfriend got really bummed, really mad about this and
has been like uninterested ever since.
Speaker 5 (42:53):
And we're not a big fan of this guy, okay
not yeah, he sucks and uh.
Speaker 6 (43:00):
Then Elson gets asked to do this and she gets
the information from like the doctor, the official like gender information.
Speaker 3 (43:06):
She texted me.
Speaker 6 (43:07):
She's like, call me, I gotta talk to you right now.
And I get on the phone. She's like, it's a boy.
They're gonna it's a boy, Like, it's not a girl.
He's gonna like this dude that sucks is going to
be so happy, which is like it was in a
weird spot, you know.
Speaker 5 (43:23):
It's like, uh and it got me thinking.
Speaker 6 (43:25):
About like the whole gender disappointment things and that's a
real thing, and like that's okay, but also this guy
is like such a jerk.
Speaker 5 (43:31):
I didn't want him to be happy.
Speaker 3 (43:35):
Anyway.
Speaker 5 (43:35):
We put a lot aside, put the blue balloons in there,
and it was he was thrilled. He was over the moon.
Speaker 6 (43:42):
She was kind of bummed because she'd gotten used to
having a girl Yeah, it was kind of like a weird,
weird advibes.
Speaker 2 (43:48):
But wow, I didn't know the story behind the Box
of Blue Blues.
Speaker 5 (43:54):
It was so funny because they filmed it and sent
us the video and you can tell like it's.
Speaker 1 (43:57):
You can see it on their faces.
Speaker 5 (43:59):
It's it's very awkward.
Speaker 6 (44:00):
And then we were all getting coffee and we come
home and we could see them doing Take two in
the driveway.
Speaker 2 (44:07):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (44:09):
Instagram versus reality.
Speaker 2 (44:11):
Yes, yes, when you see that video, Yeah, it might
come up on your for you page since we're talking
about it, I could.
Speaker 1 (44:18):
Gender reveals or this specific one, this specific one.
Speaker 5 (44:22):
Who knows.
Speaker 2 (44:22):
Wait. I wanted to ask about your East Awards poll
because I felt the absolute rage that you felt towards
the people who voted.
Speaker 6 (44:32):
I will not come and I will not watch I
I okay, so you're listening. I do think every year
called the East Awards. If you listen these podcasts, you
probably know what it is. Everyone in this room has
been involved and it's so fun.
Speaker 2 (44:45):
Uh.
Speaker 5 (44:46):
I did a I did a poll.
Speaker 6 (44:48):
Oh, because I've got a lot of new followers since
Tanya's wedding. There's a lot of people.
Speaker 5 (44:53):
Who are new to the Eastern train. He was he
was a content I was promising behind the.
Speaker 6 (44:58):
Scenes, which it was like two weeks after the ESEC Awards,
so like they didn't see it before. And I was like, okay,
why better get all these tiny tots on board, like
I'm because we're doing it live in twenty twenty six,
it's gonna be in a bigger place, and I kind
of want to see how big do I need to
you have, how many.
Speaker 5 (45:13):
Thousands do I need?
Speaker 6 (45:15):
And so I put up a poll like, you know,
are you going to come in person or you like
if we put up a stream, like do you want
to watch a stream? And a surprising amount of people said,
I will not be going in person, nor will I
be watching it.
Speaker 1 (45:28):
Oh, there was three options.
Speaker 6 (45:29):
There was I will not watch, there was there was
I want to come in person, I would watch online,
I will not be watching at all, and then I
don't know what this is?
Speaker 5 (45:39):
Who are you?
Speaker 2 (45:39):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (45:40):
And then which one had the most votes.
Speaker 5 (45:42):
The most votes was I will watch.
Speaker 3 (45:43):
It on a stream.
Speaker 2 (45:44):
Okay, yeah no, but he was like he posted the
ones that said I will not come in person, I
will not watch it at all, and he was like,
why do you follow me?
Speaker 4 (45:52):
If you voted for this, why do you follow me?
Speaker 1 (45:55):
Well, maybe they'd follow you because of the other content.
Speaker 6 (45:58):
So I got some real actions. And so a lot
of people are just want they just want scrubbing in.
They just want to see what happens on scrubbing it.
And I was like, these sewards are basically scrubbing in. Okay,
it's basically the same.
Speaker 5 (46:09):
It's adjacent, it's very adjacent.
Speaker 6 (46:10):
Yeah, but then you know, I'm glad to put that
up because a lot of people are like, I like
these seawards.
Speaker 3 (46:16):
I like you.
Speaker 5 (46:16):
I bet I don't want to pay for a stream.
Speaker 6 (46:18):
Oh say wait, I thought you did it on Instagram
live because I'm thinking if I'm doing like a higher
quality one, yeah, it's gonna.
Speaker 3 (46:25):
Cost some money.
Speaker 4 (46:26):
Yeah, he's upgrading.
Speaker 1 (46:29):
But it used to be free.
Speaker 4 (46:31):
It's up until now it's been we will still be free.
Speaker 5 (46:34):
Okay. I haven't decided.
Speaker 6 (46:37):
You know, this is March twenty twenty six, but I'm thinking, like,
maybe you can pay to watch it live as it's
happening and it'll be high quality, and then it'll be
on YouTube like three days later for.
Speaker 4 (46:48):
Free, okay, Taylor Swift.
Speaker 6 (46:50):
Yeah, or but also I really like the idea have
to be on Instagram live, and I like it being
like fuzzy and hard to see.
Speaker 5 (46:57):
That's something I think adds to the charm. So that'll
probably still be.
Speaker 3 (47:01):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (47:01):
Yes, Yes. Speaking of d Y, Haley and I have
been trying to make her costume. I'm not revealing what
are you going to be?
Speaker 4 (47:10):
No, I'm not revealing because I don't know.
Speaker 2 (47:13):
Depending on how this costume turns out, we might have
to switch gears. It might be all of us in
alpha Bunglin.
Speaker 1 (47:21):
Oh, I have a green face made by the way, No,
it's we are not DIY. People like we are either
of a couple's costume.
Speaker 4 (47:30):
I guess it's kind of a couple's costume.
Speaker 2 (47:32):
Yeah. But Hailey had this stand made for some of
her music instruments or whatever, and the guy came over
and he brought hit the prototype because he's gonna he
wanted to see sizing wise and stuff.
Speaker 4 (47:45):
It's beautiful.
Speaker 2 (47:46):
It's like this beautiful custom would stand and it like
has an electrical thing that moves up down is stunning.
Speaker 4 (47:53):
And then Haley as they're leaving, she's like.
Speaker 2 (47:55):
Do you want to see the costume we've been working on?
Speaker 4 (47:57):
And it is like a foam board with a duct ta.
Speaker 2 (48:02):
I was like, Babe, we do not show this is
our beautiful craftsman, our DIY projects.
Speaker 4 (48:10):
She was so proud though, so send thoughts and prayers.
Speaker 1 (48:14):
Do you know I realized about myself over the weekend
that I hate and I want to improve on.
Speaker 2 (48:18):
Tell me.
Speaker 1 (48:19):
I'm just Mark. Sorry heard this story, but I'm gonna
just make it quick. Long story short. I had to
order my Glinda costume on Amazon, but the only ones
I had left were like extra large. So it's like,
I'll just take it to the tailor and have them
take it in and like shorten it.
Speaker 2 (48:30):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (48:31):
So much effort, but I got it and I had
enough time to do all that, so I was like fine,
So I take it and I pick it up and
it wasn't as short as I wanted it to be,
and so I was like, oh. I was like, do
you think it could be shorter? And he was like no, no, no,
it's perfect, It's perfect. I was like, okay, so take
it home and I'm like, I just wanted it shorter,
and so Robbie ended up cutting it and I'm like,
(48:51):
why did I not just like ask for what I wanted.
So I was like, I was paying for the service,
do you know what I mean? Because I'm a people pleaser, right,
I don't sand up for myself, and I hate that
about myself.
Speaker 2 (49:01):
But what did he get out of you being a
people pleaser about your dress? What did the man get
out of saying this is perfect?
Speaker 4 (49:09):
What did he get out of it?
Speaker 1 (49:10):
He didn't have to shorten it, Yeah, but like beyond.
Speaker 2 (49:17):
That, he just was.
Speaker 3 (49:20):
He's cost himself money, right though he probably should have
shortened it the way I want it.
Speaker 2 (49:25):
Yeah, So you're saying he didn't have to redo it correct? Yeah,
you It's an unfortunate thing and we all do it
like it's the nail thing, yes, where you're like, I
love this color, and then you just sort like why did.
Speaker 1 (49:37):
I rights later to get it repainted?
Speaker 2 (49:39):
Why didn't I immediately just say yes, I thought that
it's gonna look different. I know.
Speaker 1 (49:44):
Why do we do that?
Speaker 2 (49:46):
Because we don't want to inconvenience people.
Speaker 1 (49:48):
I don't like that, I know, I know. So that's
something I'm going to work on. Twenty twenty six. My
word for the new year might be resilient. No, that's
not the right word.
Speaker 2 (49:58):
You can't get No, we gotta to have a good
one because your past two have been so good, so good.
You can't lower your stage. It can't just be like,
can't be just resilient.
Speaker 1 (50:08):
Yeah, what's the pizza?
Speaker 2 (50:12):
Yeah, no, pizzazz.
Speaker 4 (50:13):
Wait, we gotta go, Yeah, we gotta go. We have
another episode to do.
Speaker 2 (50:17):
We'll be back Thursday, your birthday. It is my birthday
on Thursday, and we will be back with an episode
because that's what we do for you guys. We're gonna
do is crank out an episode for you guys. But
(50:37):
we will be back with a dear bonya episode which
we haven't done in a minute.
Speaker 4 (50:40):
It's going to well, it's birthday and then.
Speaker 1 (50:44):
We're gonna play some game. No, it's going to be different.
It's gonna be a different Okay.
Speaker 2 (50:47):
Okay, great, Well stay tuned for that. See it Thursday.
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