Paging Dr. O'Malley with T.R. Knight

T.R. Knight aka Dr. George O’Malley is our very special guest resident in the O.R. this week

He reveals an off screen surprise during his characters final moments on Greys Anatomy.

Plus we reflect on the aftermath of last week’s “Truth or Drink” game and answer some bonus questions.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Scrubbing in with beck Atilly and Tanya rat and I
Heart Radio and People's Choice Award winning podcasts. Hello, everybody,
I wanted to say a loha, but we're not in
Hawaii anymore. No, we're not. We're not in Kansas City, Dorothy,

(00:21):
I don't think it was Kansas City. I think it's
just Kansas Okay, And Dorothy said to Dorothy's she's talking
in third person to herself, hording to Tanya's version. Really
messed that one up. But it's fine because we're back
in l A. We had a really fun episode last
week in Hawaii. We had a lot of uh scuttle

(00:43):
about that episode. I have never received more texts, phone calls, messages,
tweets about how much people were laughing. They said they
were laughing the entire episode. Now, the people who listen
to this podcast at work in headphones had a really
hard time with that episode. So I have a new
suggestion to implement. Okay, barring everybody's agreement, you're saying that's

(01:09):
the right one in this podcast. Um, I'm suggesting we
play truth or Drink once a month on this once
a month, Yeah, at ten in the morning. There's questions
I'm for it. Yeah, but we're just gonna have to
the Facebook group. You're really going to have to deep up.

(01:32):
Maybe it's for special occasions, like we're going to be
doing the show more on the road or more. Maybe
it's just an audience or whatever. Like I feel like
we save it for special occasions. I think monthly it's
going to get old. You think so too. Could we
had a ring on my parade? But all we should
do it more. I think that's a good solid our
games in general. I think that's a fun, you know,

(01:52):
interactive situation. Sorry about that. It was really fun, though.
You didn't drink a much as me, though you had
one drink, but I was drinking during the whole episode.
I was drinking rose. Yeah, not really. You were like
you had the microphone propped up with two hands on
your stomach, lean back or not, and they were rarely

(02:13):
a drink in your hand. I didn't want to drink
the wrong though. That's why it has answered everything I knew.
I was like, I really need the Facebook group if
we're going to do it again, to really think of
what Tanya want to answer. Granted, she answered the biggest
thing that's ever been in her, you know, so I
don't know what she wanted to answer. That was the

(02:36):
biggest challenge for that game for Eastern, and I put
the questions was what something Tanya would not want to answer.
That's why we did that kiss Mary kill with the staff,
like we're trying to make her uncomfortable because she's so
comfortable doing anything. And then Becky, you presented your own
challenges with some of these questions because we don't want
to just drink every time, so want something that you
might answer. So it's a whole thing. Yeah, quite the process. Yeah,

(02:59):
really is. That's why he's like, we can't do this
every month. A lot of work. Yeah, don't put me
through that. No, it was a fun episode. I felt like, Um,
some of this stuff was stuff that was easy to answer,
but then some it was I could have if I
had just really let myself, I could have drank on

(03:20):
every question. I'm glad you did it because I would
have would have been fun and I would have felt
horrible the next day. Yeah, but it also would have
been like anticlimactic. It would have been right. Yeah. So, um,
Dean texted me and was like, you killed me. I
thought of all people he would not listen to this podcast.

(03:42):
People probably told him he probably no offensive it was
like in Mexico right now that I don't either, but
I thought maybe he was. I had heard rumors that
he was in Mexico, and so I I thought it
was a safe, safe thing. So that's that's why I
couldn't kill any of my people. So I don't know.

(04:04):
You guys are well if the rumors were wrong or what,
But he heard it, that's all I know. Yikes. Yeah, Well,
we got a lot of questions, and we got something
that I kind of set aside because I didn't think
they were good. Truth there questions, but the great conversational questions.
Would you like to hear a few of those? Like,
for example, Delaney Clatterbuck has a question for Becca, And
by the way, props on your name, Delaney Clatterbuck. That's

(04:25):
a fantastic name. Would you give up fast food for
I let's say here, you have to get up at
five o'clock in the morning every day, or give up
fast food for a year. What would you do? I
would give up fast food. You would get up and wait? No,
I would sleep in Okay, got it? Okay. I feel
like i'd be I'd look amazing. I'd be like, healthy,

(04:46):
well rested, tany you can only interact with two people
for the next year, who would you choose? You cannot
interact with anyone other than these two people for an
entire year. That's hard. I'd probably be like probably probably
be Becca and Paulina. Oh wow, no parentals or anything.

(05:09):
But they're not They're they're like people. Yeah, there are people.
I was considering you more of like a friend question.
But then, okay, my mom and my dad. You might
want to say Ryan inicity just for professional purposes, Well,
Ryan and my mom? Yeah, what about Becca? It's okay,

(05:29):
I can love it here. I'm just saying I could
sacrifice you for a year if you needed to keep
your job with Ryan and your moms are important. I
was just saying it's sacrifice, needing the to be what
I want you to sacrifice that. I'm pissed that you
didn't choose me. I'm upset. That's what I need from you.
I am so angry. Yes, okay, um. This is a

(05:56):
thoughtful question from Amy Mata Jack. What was your original
expectation for this podcast and how has it changed? How
have your expectations changed over time and how has this
podcast changed you? Wow? I mean my original like what
I expected from the podcast was just another outlet too

(06:18):
like talk and talk about my life. And um, originally
Tanya wasn't on it, so my thing was just like, oh,
this is fun. I enjoyed talking, but it was a
lot more fun once Tanya came on. And it's totally
changed my life. I think it's really put into perspective
that there's so many amazing people out there and how
many people value friendship and um like kindness to each other. Yeah.

(06:45):
I think for me, it was like I was just
filling in for helping Becca for a week and then
just turned into being a full time part of it.
And um, I think that it really has opened my
eyes to how much people. I guess I never realized
how much people um yearn for friendship and have a

(07:08):
hard time making friends, and like when we're together, I
get so many messages about how like I wish I
had a friend that I could travel with, or I
wish I had a friend that would you know what
I mean? And and I guess I never realized that
because I do have such good friendships in my life. Um,
so that's been really eye opening. And I think being
able to like create just this community and just like

(07:30):
we're creating sisterhoods across the country with people that I've
never met before. Like, it's really special and it's really cool,
and it's hope it continues to grow and grow and
grow and people can have the community where they don't
feel judged or and they can just be themselves. You know,
that's the kind of thing you never would have thought
of that people around the country would be getting together
to talk about you guys, and and meeting through this podcast.

(07:50):
I would not have anticipated sisters and that there's people
in the Facebook group. This is a great question. I love.
This question is from Christina Christina oh Strander. What would
you do if you were the opposite sex for forty
eight hours? It's a fun one, right, It's not a
good truth of dear question, but it's a fun discussion.
You're a guy for the next forty eight hours, what
are you gonna do? I would definitely like play with

(08:12):
my wiener, like just forty eight hours. For the whole
forty eight hours, I would whip it a rock, I'd
see what it could do. I'd pee like, I'd be
as much as I can stand up down, See how
far I can? If I could write my name on
a wall, that's what I would do. I don't even know.

(08:40):
Play with my wiener wiping around. It looks like I
would probably, honestly like for a certain amount of time, probably,
but I don't think the whole forty eight hours that
would be my focus. You'd be surprised. Do you know
that I could do with it? I don't know. What

(09:02):
can you all? If you'll have answers for this? If
you were the opposite sex for forty eight hours, what
would you do if we were women? That's similar? I
think just play with the parts that we don't already have.
What they can do? How cool? Where bras? If that
feels like doing anything it hurts to run, let me
try that. I'd see if I could flirt my way

(09:23):
into more things than I am as a man, I
feel like I could get into some free movies and
stuff like that. Yeah, I don't know. I would be
more comfortable in my in my thong underpants. What's the
thing that's um that people like make videos? Slime or
what's the thing I put my wiener and slime? I
just like put it in different things like Kanye's weird fantasy.

(09:46):
It's like, this is not coming out of nowhere, you guys,
I've thought about this question before. No, that's probably what
I do, though, I'm trying to think like of other things,
but like for some reason, that's the only thing I
can think of, Like, well, kick it, because you know, guys,
that's the worst pain ever. Like I guarantee, it's not
the worst pain ever. Want to do that though, pretty

(10:07):
I don't think it compares to childbirth, but it's pretty painful.
We'll see about that when I happen. But you're right,
men have no pain threshold, so for us it's the
worst pain imaginable. But that's all we got, so who knows.
The other weird thing is that there's a delay sometimes
like how long like it can get if it gets grazed,
you kind of just sit there. Was that did that connect?
Is that? Oh? Dead? And then you go down. It's weird. Yeah,

(10:31):
And I also want to see how, like how hard
I could get it by my thoughts, Like that's like
a superpower, I feel like, so without touching it, just
your imagination, what can you do? The penis really fascinates
me I'm so fascinated by it. Yeah, you know, I

(10:52):
obviously did a boyfriend because I just really I enjoy.
Like it's funny that we had the whole Facebook threat
about like giving head is I was always my mission
to like how can I do it better? How can
I make it faster? How can I make it different?
Like you know what I mean? Like I was always
trying to totally like it was like a game to me. Sick,

(11:12):
but you quit? I quit? How's your quitting? It's going
freaking great? First of all, but I realized I need
to name it something different. Yeah, because I was some
confusion over the I quit. I quit has a negative connotation,
and I feel like what I'm doing is more surrendering. Um,
so I feel like it just needs a new word.

(11:34):
I surrender. Surrender, I think is good. I mean that
could be negative too, but maybe it's not. Maybe it's okay.
Surrenders definitely better better than quit quite or like I'm
giving up right because I'm not giving up, Like I'm
still open. I'm just like not making it my objective
with every conversation. Do we have any updates with the

(11:54):
DH You said on last week's podcast that there is
an update okay that I wanted to share. Um, because
here's the thing. So where we left off, I got
ghosted and I was just like, that's it, I'm done right. Yeah,
well walst in Hawaii. Beck and I imbbed a little

(12:15):
and I was talking to her about it, and I
was like this, just so you know, we drank a little. Yeah.
When she says imvibed, people know what that means, right,
I never knew until you were saying never heard it.
We're the week what teaches me new things? Um um.
And I was like, I just don't feel as though

(12:36):
this is this is in his character, Like something just
seems so off about it, because the last you've gotten
from him was a picture we had made planned earlier. Yeah,
and it just seemed it just seemed out of character.
And yeah, it's still was still knew, but it just
seemed like something that this guy wouldn't do. And so
I was just like talking to Beck and saying how
I just had such a hard time with it, and
I and I said, you know, I want to reach out.

(12:57):
I need to just put a button on this. It's
going to eat at me. So we came up with
this is more Rebecca's doing than mine. Thank god I
went with the suggestion because it was brilliant. Um I said,
full disclosure, that's like our thing, are you alive? And
it was perfect. First of all, disclosure are you alive?
She had when we got to Hawaii. She emphasized the

(13:22):
photo he said her, so you get to learn, and
we talked about just like yeah, and he put an
excla point. Yes, he did not respond, didn't that? So
then she said full disclosure. Are you alive? Yeah? And
I got a response and he thought I had written
him off. It was a total miscommunication and the fact

(13:44):
that you didn't respond to the picture immediate originally yeah,
And because we've gone like a week without talking, so
he's just like, you know, I think guys are just
more simple. It was probably like, oh, she just creatures. Yeah,
and it made more sense, Like I thought, this makes
me feel better about situation. That makes sense. Yes, I don't.
I still wish guies would just step up totally, but

(14:06):
but it made me feel not as I felt so
crummy after that, like really really bad. It made me
have like a sense of closure and peace and like
I feel just like closure. It sounds like it's the litten.
I mean, that's so like. But here's the thing. It's
not like it hasn't gone anywhere. I'm not like holding anything. No,

(14:28):
and it might not, but I'm okay with it. I'm
totally But if he does, are you saying yes, Um,
I don't know, we'll see. I don't know. You gotta
take it as it comes like yet that yeah. So,
but I just it just felt good because it was
something that was like eating away at me, and so
I feel good that I just know that it was

(14:49):
a miscommunication and like it was what it was, and
and now I can like move forward. Its rendering m
there all right. Uh, it's a holl the day when
a cast member of Gray's Anatomy comes to our podcast
and it's like a major holiday. It's like a like
a no school, no work kind of a holiday when

(15:10):
it's an og cast. Yeah, we have A'maley in the
building today, Georgia Malley. Do we go with him? Like,
do we go in hard with our fandom or do
we like chill it out? I don't just I just
don't think I can chill it out, honestly, because like
this is our this is our chance, you know, to
be nerds. You know what we need to do. We

(15:34):
need to get in his good graces so that he
like tells other Grays cast members like, oh, this is
a cool thing with some of them. I feel like
he is. Wasn't it at Katherine Heigl's wedding. I think
he was in the wedding. Yeah, okay, that'd be great.
I feel like I'm just excited. I hope he I
hope he wants to talk about it, and where you
don't annoy him, you know, like when people have moved

(15:56):
on from things like poor Jennifer Anderson, who's still talking
about Friends. She's like, I've had quite the career since then,
but you guys are still talking to me about Jennifer
off of Friends still, So I think she's got to
get by the way that show, it's still I've watched
every episode. Can I tell the story? So on the

(16:21):
way back from Hawaii, we were separated, truly unfortunate Tanya
and I we're not sitting next was real bummed about that.
Tanya was very needy on fights. I found out on
this trip. But anyways, she was sitting next to this
couple and when we sat down in our seats, I
was like, alright, take care of her. She needs lots
of attention and wants to talk. So at one point

(16:43):
I get up to go to the bathroom because the
whole time I'd had headphones on, like listening to music
and watching movies, and I walked by an Tanya's a lot,
you know how loud her laugh is laughing out loud,
like hysterically, and I'm like, oh god, there's poor people
next to her. So afterward, I was like, what were
you watched kind of like this, yes, literally, and like, oh,

(17:07):
if anyone doesn't have their headphones on, their upset, And
she was like, I was watching Friends. Oh she wasn't
talking to anyone, she had her earphones that Oh my god,

(17:30):
just watching Friends. That show just could just it brings
it every time. I mean, that's so good. It really is.
It really is. Oh yeah, so I don't know. Oh yeah,
I'm going in. I'm going in hard with the fan questions. Okay, alright, alright,
well he's here, so shall we let's bring them in?

(17:53):
You know, we get excited when we have anyone from
our beloved Gray's anatomy. We have an O G building today,
we have t R nine, Thank you, George O'Malley. I
like the o G. Yeah, oh yeah, because I mean

(18:16):
there's been a lot of characters that have come through,
so an o G is like that's a special that's
a special face to thanks for the welcome. Oh no,
this is like like I'm trying to be cool, but
like fully inside having a moment like who okay, like

(18:37):
who's somebody that you just are obsessed with? Do you
have somebody? I think like, uh, like other actors the show.
When you think essentially it's like meeting Opra, I don't
think so that's you're lying to me. You've just said
It's not like nobody's like only Oprah. It's like Oprah

(18:57):
President Oprah in my world. Not because like I still
and I stand by this, like even till this day,
season fifteen, Danny and Izzy are still two my favorite characters,
and they're like O G two, But we need to
talk having another cast member on here, maybe he can
can side with me. Danny and Izzy storyline was powerful

(19:23):
and it was great. However, she tries to compare it
to the deaths of the characters from like the Becca's
very Mari and Dare and I'm like he was like
she's trying to compare the death of like make Dreamy
to Dinny. It's just it was a different level. You
can see what he was on quite a bit, wasn't he.

(19:45):
My memory is so bad. I do remember being on
it myself, but no, I remember I remember Jeffrey being
on a lot. Was he? It wasn't It was more
than one season, wasn't it. Well, yeah, I think it's
like the ghost use everybody was so upset ghosts and

(20:06):
there is some ghost Tanky Pink. We've just met you.
Can I be honest with you that when we talk
about your death, like I kind of brush over it
because I think that was the start of me being
bitter about all the deaths that were to come. Like

(20:27):
that was the first time where I was like, wait,
what this isn't how it's supposed to. This isn't right,
Like he's part of my life, so like for him
to just get hit by a bus and go like
that and then it just happened, but in such a
chival chivalrous way. Yeah, but he could have lived. Were

(20:49):
you happy with your character? I thought that was actually
a pretty cool way because you were gone from the show.
So it's kind of up to them, like, how do
we do this? No, I thought I thought it was
for me just personally. Um, it started my uh, this
fascination with prosthetics, um, because that was the first time
I've ever had prosthetics on. And um, it was like

(21:09):
seven hours to get that rig on because he was
like not only hit by the bus but kind of
like dragged on his face for a while. I'm not
sure how long enough to make it look kind of immediate.
Um so uh so, and and he was and the
guy who did it, um, well, the the entire that
entire team was amazing. But the guy who actually applied
it that day worked for Lord of the Rings, and

(21:32):
so I was just nerd ing out and like as
long as I could talk, I was, I was asking
him questions and I just found it fascinating. And luckily
i've worked on I've had been able to do prosthetics
since then, and I just, uh, it's one of the
most fascinating things to do because it's kind of melding
like acting and puppetry and it's just it's just fascinating.

(21:56):
But um, yeah, I think that what I really love
out the and I think I've talked about this before.
But um what I what I really loved about the
death was the elevator scene. Uh was that that was
the end of it, right, So the elevator scene, so, uh,
Izzy is going up the elevator and the elevator doors open.

(22:18):
The way we filmed it, Jeffrey was on the other
side of the elevator, so that's how we filmed it.
And so Jeffrey Dean you know, was the on the
other side. And then I got a call like a
day or two, maybe it was the day after we
shot filming again my memory, but they said, we'd like
you to come back and do a secret filming. It

(22:38):
was just like a very bare bones kind of crew.
Maybe there was like four people there, and uh, I
was on the other side of the so they wanted
that to kind of be a reveal. But I had
just shaved my head because I thought I was done,
so I had shaved all my head off. So it
was Shanda's brilliant idea to all of a sudden put
him in the army dress uniform arm So it became

(23:01):
kind of like you know, the vision of you know,
what he wanted to be, what he had hoped to,
you know, have been so it's just kind of like
a series of accidents. But then Shanda's a brilliant mind
to all of a sudden make him, you know, I
don't know how to exactly describe it, but make him
like the man he wanted to be, who he inspired
to be, because what I loved about George is that

(23:23):
he just kept on making mistake after mistake after mistake,
and he wasn't necessarily a good person. He wanted to
be a good person, but he really wasn't a good person.
He kind of held grudges, He kind of was, you know, uh,
you know, kind of little martyrs syndrome a little bit
in there um. But ultimately I think he wanted to
be better. He wanted to do good. And that's what

(23:43):
I loved playing because that's like, you know, I just
think that was exciting. So it was nice to have
that kind of like whoever's image that was, if that
was disease or if he was if it was some
other world, that kind of you know, that he that
he made it somehow I felt like it is our
I mean I remember watching as it like watching it
and thinking, oh, that's what it gave. It gave you

(24:06):
like this sense of peace, of like, oh that's how
that's how we will remember him. And it's like military
like what he was like leaving to go do when
he got hit. Yeah, I like, yeah, so I thought
that was for me, for me, yeah, and it is moving.
I think it's so crazy to me as like, because

(24:26):
you're just like a human, you know, like we're all
just human, and as an actor, you take on this
role of just like a character and you like, to me,
it's so hard to like differentiate the person and the character,
but you're playing something that's so not you. Yeah, But
I mean I think there's in any role. It's just

(24:47):
you know, certain roles are closer, or certain roles you
bring yourself. You can bring yourself two more. I think,
you know, I think there's a certain aspect. When we
started that, um, we spend a lot of time. Unfortunately,
Justin wasn't with us because he wasn't in the pilot.
We added him later, so happily he was um um.

(25:10):
But so I think, you know, we did. Peter Horton
was the director, and Shonda and you know, the interns.
We spent time together and I think that was kind
of you know, I think certain parts of our personality.
I hope not the bad parts, but um, you know,
I think she used I think I think so I
think incorporated that or in some or was a jumping

(25:32):
off point at some point because we spent a lot
of time talking. I just remember talking in a group.
You know, Peter had us do exercises. It was all
very kind of like worked great for my kind of
nerdy actor brain. I was coming from the theater, so
I was like, trust exercise I love, and it doesn't exist.
I've never experienced it after that at all, so in

(25:55):
in in in in the you know, Hollywood kind of world.
So I was very happy to have it because I
was very much a fish out of water or felt
like that. But to be honest, I still feel like that.
It's kind of like a daily, oh, wake up kind
of occurrence. So um, so it was nice to have
that kind of you know, kind of quiet lead into

(26:15):
this because we didn't know what we were doing, or
I didn't know what we were doing. We certainly didn't
know what was going to happen with the show, did
you you know how the I don't even know if
you know this or this is like creepy fan stuff,
but the interns original interns first initials spelled Magic, Meredith, Alex, George, Indy, Christina.
That's really cool, so embarrassing. You didn't make that up though,

(26:39):
I don't cam or something. She's like blaming it on
the Yeah, yeah, that's sweet, that's very sweet. I don't
I don't judge any of that what you call creepy stuff,
because like I have that I'm like transmitting anything like
Star Wars or Muppets, especially in my mind like a

(27:02):
you know, the claimation, they're not the claimation but the
stop motion animation studio, like all that kind of stuff.
That's like I'm basically a stalker for that. Oh I'm
piss We didn't wear scrubs. I know I almost suggested it,
but I was like I get nervous and like the
graz you know, would have been really uncomfortable if I

(27:22):
would have been, like, I just can't get over it,
and like, hi, guys, we went We went to Pailey
Past a couple of years ago, and we were like pressed,
so we're like on the press line but back and
were in our scrubs doing the interviews, and some of
the Gray's Anatomy cast members were like, that's awesome and
we're like so down, And then the other ones were like,

(27:43):
who are they avoided? It's truly hit or miss. But
I feel like you'd be down, Yes, yeah, you'd like
to appreciate it. Yeah, for sure. Someone just posted this.
So we have a Facebook group for the podcast, and
they're like, you know a lot of them are huge
Gray's Anatomy fans. And this someone posted a meme today
and it says some of y'all never stayed up till

(28:03):
five am balling over Georgia Malley's death, and it shows
like they like didn't experience the like pain we were there,
we went through that. Some people are good jumping on
the bad wagon now and like the comments are like,
by far the most emotional episode for me. My husband
came in the room and thought one of my family

(28:24):
members had died because I was crying so hard. I
mean it affected people, Yeah, it affected me. I was
not the same. It's good writing. I mean, are you
still close them any of that? I just went over
my husband. I just went over to Ellen's place. We
had dinner over there like a couple of weeks ago. Okay,

(28:48):
we just moved back. My husband. My husband's never lived here,
but I used to because I was but after Grace
I moved back to New York before, so we just
moved back here two years ago and then hate Walsh
like a month before moved to New York. So I
think she's avoiding me. But no, but we hang out
to so her and and and Peebers two or Justin

(29:11):
but I call him Peepers Justin chambers Ers, And he's
probably gonna hate this, but I'm gonna do it because
I like it, because he's it's a shortened version of
pretty baby, so pretty babies peeber beaber so and he
hated being called pretty baby or peep beaver, so you

(29:32):
just you know, you call him that all the more
you know that he used to be a model pretty baby.
Just no, But like, were you the only one who
called him that? Was that like a cass thing? I don't.
Probably maybe some other people did too, but I don't know.
I probably did it the more the most obnoxiously is
that the way noxiously wait, that makes me so happy.

(29:57):
He's brilliant, and his wife is brilliant, and his kids
are brilliant. They're graduate to have just graduated I think recently,
Like I think like a month, this series five Kids,
five times. He's one of those guys that plays kind
of a you know, shork on TV, but it's the
nicest guy in real life. He's he's great. God he
was a carpet for sure. He's a great guy. He's

(30:23):
so much cooler than I can ever hope to be.
His youngest when his youngest Jackson was five, was cooler
than I'll ever be. But and they're just getting more
and more cool. I mean, just because you know, and
you end up because of like the Instagram, you end
up seeing the Instagram. I'm nine, but you you end
up seeing and it's just like I don't know, and

(30:45):
I think, uh um, anyway, they're just they're just amazing.
They're amazing. Two of his uh two of was that
Maya and Kayla. Oh my god, my brain. Yes, they
sang at our wedding at and it was just like
the most we didn't end up filming or videotaping anyone

(31:06):
who's sang at our wedding. We have been a bunch
of our friends who are talented sing and I wish
we would have but it but I kind of it's
okay because it just exists in my brain. It's a
very special moment. And they were, I mean even then
they were like, I don't know, Yeah, they're just amazing.
Can I tell you something that's so strange? And No,

(31:29):
I really like your ring, Like it just looks very
like just chic and just I'm really like it a lot. Thanks,
it's my wedding ring, she's referring to. Um, it's it's old.
Actually I got it at an old like h like
a flea market kind of shop, because my husband had
a ring that had been in his family for like

(31:51):
three generations, so like from or I think it's about
three generations. I think the first inscription is like from
and then it was went to another cup. I don't
know what happened. I mean I guess once stay so
and then so we're the third couple on his ring.
And so I didn't have that because let's just say,
they weren't a successful marriage in my and so, um,

(32:17):
there was no ring and so yeah, I just got
mine at an old chop and so it's like from
the I don't know, like from the forties. Let's say
thank you though, how did you and your husband meet?
That was my question? Uh, my friend's birthday party. Do
you know Bridget Everett? Um, sounds familiar, She's anyway you

(32:39):
should She's yeah, Yeah, she's amazing. She's singer and an
actor and she and also a friend, Zach Bridget Zach
Schaefer had like they have birthdays like two days apart,
three days apart, so they had a joint birthday in
New York. I was visiting, and you know, they knew

(33:00):
Patrick as well, and I didn't at the time, and
so yeah, we just made an intro just like we
met that Yeah, we met that night. So it was
nice because then it's like you're like vetted. It's like, yeah,
I don't know what they said about me to him,
but I know they said very nice things about him
to me. I'm sure it went both ways. I don't know.
I don't know. They probably like, are you sure. It's

(33:21):
a lot, a lot to put up with that one? Well,
I know, sorry interrupted, what did you say? No, well,
I asked how long? How long ago? That was children?
That's nine years ago. Yeah, and we got married in
two thousand. I'm bad with math. Smart one over here. Yeah, Um,

(33:44):
we could bother you with Gray's anatomy questions all day,
but we do want to talk about the new series
that you have coming out. Yeah. Um, it's called The
Brave The Bravest Night, right, the Bravest Night? Yeah, Whoever Lived?
It's based off a book, The Bravest Night, who Ever Lived?
That's the full title of the book. But this, this
the animated series is just called The Bravest Night. And

(34:07):
it's like kind of a really kind of a groundbreaking
cartoon in the sense it's based on a character who
has there's two dads. Is that the Yeah, yeah, yeah,
it's the little Girl and it's played by Storm Read
Oh yeah, Wrinkland time. And then she's now in Euphoria
who I just was doing an interview with her today.

(34:28):
I guess Euphoria started last night. I can't wait to
see it. And then she's also in uh when they
see us, she's she's remarkable. It's amazing. And what was
really cool is because my dream again I remember the
nerd part I was talking about earlier, was to also
do a voice, do a voice and animation that's not

(34:50):
how people talk, but you know what I mean, Yeah,
that's it. Do the voice. So I did the voice.
I finally got to do a voice, and that's this
is I'm really yeah, I'm really excited about it because anyway,
and then also what was really cool, it's because a
lot of time from my stocking I've seen from watching

(35:11):
those you know, the special features in the DVD ad nauseum,
it's like that a lot of times people record them
by themselves, their their own stuff, and then you go
and they animated. But I got to do all of uh,
we got to do all our scenes together. So I
got to be in the little studio with her, and
that was really exciting to actually, like really cool that

(35:34):
there's like a it's like a kid's series that is
doing has two dads and like it's I don't have
children yet songs kids, but I have any sept you
and it's my word of the week. And my sister
she loves Frozen because it's not the love of a
princess saves her, it's the love between her sister and her.

(35:56):
And so it's kind of changing these like well you know,
these these ways that we used to see cartoons and
these love stories and kind of changing the dynamic of
like how we see families and families. Everything looks different
now and it has for so long. In yeah, in
Hollywood and I didn't see it growing up, and that's
what you know, and I think that I think that,

(36:17):
uh that yeah, there's no question that that affects um
affects someone. And not to go too dark, but it's like,
you know, you you know, the Trevor Project and they
just released this the report of you know, the suicide
rates and kids, and I just think it's a you know,
it's all about representation. I think we're changing a lot

(36:37):
in every aspect, whether it be uh, you know, about
gender or sexuality or race. I think things are starting.
It's it's an exciting time to see it because it
seems like there's um and I don't know if it's
like the what's going on in politics say, but I
think it almost feels like a rebellion against that. And

(36:58):
it's like, I think there is um a real hunger
to see the world as it is and not pretend
it's something else, some you know, bigoted kind of racist world.
That's it, right, that's the blonde characters. Yeah, yeah, that's
that's a storm with a little uh starfishing. He's It's

(37:24):
great because the show is not about the fact that
there's a gay night right, the show is just about
nights who happen to Mary like be a boring Actually yeah,
I mean it's I mean it's kind of like because
once you get that information that that's done. U No,
But I think I liken it to like, um Sesame Street.

(37:44):
I grew up watching that and you know those lessons
that it taught about, um, And what was exciting about that.
You know, it was set in a city, so you've
got you know, it wasn't all just one race. It
was you saw a world where will had to people
were different and people had to learn how to get along.
And they hit it very well in these stories with

(38:07):
these little cloth muppets, and it was really beautiful. And
I think it's the same kind of idea. It's the
whole ideas to their uh. You know, this character, the
older Cedric, the old Cedric is who I play, is teaching,
you know, trying to teach his daughter lessons a lot
of times. You know she's a lot crafty and a
lot smarter than he is, but these are you know

(38:29):
the lessons of friendship and and and being true to
your word and all these kind of like just values.
That's what he's trying to do. Um, and it's kind
of hidden in this, you know, how to be a
brave knight. You know. I was reading my daughter Who's
him a book the other day and it was about
a dog a girl and she goes on some trip
or whatever, and very very incidentally to the story, she

(38:51):
had to interracial gay fathers. And I thought, that's that's
that's where change really starts to happen, is when it's
in the background. On most it's just normal. There's no
need to draw attention to it because it just is right.
That's progress, in my opinion. It's just about seeing yourself
and about seeing you know, because I mean, things are changing,

(39:11):
things are changing now. Storm and just had a great
uh comment about about that. She thinks her generation is
is much more accepting in it and and it's so
and it just kind of hit me because you know,
you go, first of all, you go, oh god, how
many generations older am I than her? You go, okay, yeah,

(39:31):
you're just getting old, that's it. So and it's just like,
but it's also beautiful because it's like I don't because
it's it's it's not if you buy the false script
that was sold to me when I was younger. About
what it means to be gay. Uh and and you
can you know that can be to anything. I think

(39:53):
that there's a lot of correlation to that in in life.
But uh, the you know, no body should have to
buy that script. Nobody should have to because it's a
it's oh pucky, as Rachel matt I would say. But
I don't know if you can say, can you say
s h I t okay? Well I didn't say, so
you know puy um. So yeah. So it's um, we're

(40:19):
so behind as far as representation, uh everywhere, And it's
just and it's it's an exciting I'm excited by what
I'm starting to see more and more on the Netflix
and all that. It's just like it's just, um, it's
it's a it's not too late, I won't say, but

(40:40):
it feels too late, but it also feels exciting if
that makes sense? Does that make sense? You know what
I mean? I hope this generation does change the world
because we were all let down by the hippies. They
all failed on the whole thing. So I'm hoping that
it's the one that makes a difference. I hope. So,
I hope. So it would be nice to see I can't. Uh,
it excites me, especially in this kind of you know,

(41:02):
political climate currently, It's just like it excites me. That's
where kind of like that's you know, that's just so depressing,
you know, to wake up and to see, you know,
what has been said in the news and what is
the you know what ban is now being enacted and
you just feel like whoa, whoa, whoa. You're just like
it's like, you know this, you're slipping back in the sand. Yeah,

(41:24):
that's the legacy of this era is that this younger
generation is so horrified by it that they actually do
something about it. But maybe that's we all have to
endure this to get to the positive things that are
in the future because of it. And the whole idea
of being so connected with our phones and the internet
and all that. That's something that I didn't have growing up.

(41:44):
The Instagram. So the Instagram, I know, I know, but yeah,
so it's it's you know, so I think that also
helps because you can't you know, uh, lies are harder
to uh stay it's just harder to have them stay lies,
you know. Anyway, Sorry, it's true and it is very important,

(42:08):
and it's like the fact that we're talking on talking
about it on like you know, animated series is I
think it's that's like Mark said, that's where the change
is happening. So what age group is this? If this
parents listening, what age group is really good at groove
on the Bravest Night. I think it's They're only twelve
minute episodes, so I think it's anyone for a short

(42:30):
attention span there. It's so I don't know technically because
I'm not part of the marketing area and I'm so
bad at the selling aspect, so I suppose I should
know it. But it's you know, it's about you know,
this little girl and her adventures. Uh you know, uh,

(42:51):
her adventures. I'm just gonna leave it at that. And
I think that's just really exciting. I personally like it,
but again, you know, anything that has him up at
in it, I'm just like, I haven't already had a
memorize yeah, nerd, and if you in part have kids someday,
how perfect. I don't know. I'm getting a little long

(43:12):
in the tooth that I am, and that might have
sadly passed me by, But I don't know. We'll see
what's long in the tooth mean saying, okay, I've never
heard that before either, but I just went I'm based
on what we were talking. Yeah, I don't do That's okay.
I'd just like to be informed, knows sans questions. I

(43:36):
just looked in the teeth. When horses get older, their
gums recede in their teeth appear longer and long in
the toothy. Wait before you go, because you have been
I have a few questions. I was gonna. I wanted
some like rapid fire, like just like a couple of
things and like whatever comes to your mind grays related, okay, okay,

(43:59):
So do maybe we pink pong like I pay you palm? Okay,
So it's like whatever comes your head. Are these one
word answers or is it just canby can bey? So
it's not rule no, No, we just made this game up.

(44:19):
Um uh. Who did on the set of grades? Who
did you learn the most life lessons from? Shaundra Wilson?
No question about it. I still do, I still do.
You're still friends with Yeah, she's amazing. She's I mean,
she's one of those people that I think, who was it?

(44:39):
I'm sure I didn't come up with it's probably probably
it was probably Sandra because she's smarter than I am.
But I think it was Sandra that we would talk
about how how Schandra is. She's like almost ready to
become just light that she is. She is somehow so elevated,

(45:00):
and yeah, yeah, I wish I she should teach classes
because I would. I mean she's Bailey, Oh yeah, I mean,
I mean she has that like feeling of like in
a kinder way, she's she's Bailey. She was super nice
to us when yeah, she's she's an amazing person. Um,

(45:21):
mine's not as heartfelt. But who if you could have
who did you if you had to choose someone that
you were on set with for George to end up
with romantically, who would you have chosen? Oh that's a
good I don't know. I think that girl on the bus,

(45:45):
the girl on the bus. I don't know because he
I don't know if that you know what? Because okay,
so if he didn't die, right, I'm just trying to
think this true because he had such because he was
so I don't know, because who would you have become?

(46:06):
Would he have finally learned stuff or would he still
just be failing and falling on his face? Because if
he'd still be failing and falling on his face. That's
kind of one route. But if he like actually kind
of like grew up, let's go grew up. If he
grew up and stuff, wouldn't it be cool to see
if Meredith and he would work in like if he
was actually like a grown up instead of this like child. Still,

(46:29):
if if this is post McDreamy dying, of course, I'm
so sorry. I wouldn't sorry. I'm so so. You're at
the doctor's office and you have to fill out your
emergency contact and you can only choose from grace cast numbers.
Who would you choose to be emergency contact? Thank you?

(46:53):
That is good? I mean could I go with I
mean Schandra again, I think out, No, you can't reuse Ellen?
Then okay, good choice, sounds like a good one. Pompio, Yeah,
who made you laugh the most on set? We all laugh?

(47:17):
I mean those uh us five when you got us together,
I mean it's a collective. I hope that doesn't sound
like a cheat, but we didn't. I didn't laugh as
hard when we were all together, and just we're five
such very different people and just kind of nuts and
we were just and I think probably the crew wasn't.

(47:39):
As you know, I didn't find it as funny as
we did. But I just remember getting in a lot
of trouble from laughing so much when we were all together.
You know what, you could feel that really, oh my gosh,
like you really could feel it through the screen, like, yeah,
it was, it was, And I said, we obviously still
love it. Well, we'll watch it till the day that's done.

(48:02):
But it was a way different. Yeah, it was a
way different energy in the beginning for sure. Better. I'm
not just saying that because you're here. I'm just saying that.
I haven't just say I'm just saying that and then
you just say that to the next person. No, no, no, no.
I think I even told when we had Kamilla in here,

(48:23):
I was gonna nervous I say her name and like,
fully know it Kamilla, Like I enjoyed Camilla a lot,
But I'm like the own g is like where it's at.
Do you know? Kamilla is the name of the hen
that Gonzo loved and always comes back to the puff
In case she comes out again, you might want to
ask her about that. She did say she wanted to
come back, but she has that. I feel like Kamila

(48:46):
was very nice, and you know, she also said she
wanted to watch Grays together. She did, you know, anything,
just to be nice. Summer it still could happen. Yeah,
she was like she was leaving and she was like,
I want to come back. I'd love to watch Grace
with you girls, and I was like, here's my number.
She's like, give it to my publicist. I'm full. I

(49:12):
feel full. I feel full from that mark. I'm good.
I'm I think this has been an epic epic visit. Yeah, truly, Okay,
I have one more. I do feel like we should
let him get on with his life. It's like just
one more. It's it's my life too. I'm on a
press tour, I have places to go. What was your

(49:38):
if you could have chosen your death, like you're like,
they're like, you're gonna die. How would you like to die? Right?
What would you have chosen? And I can't choose the
one that happened right obviously, because then that'd be a
I really like the way it happened. I have to
say another death, another death. I've never thought about this before. Okay,

(50:03):
so another death. Um, I don't think I would want
something long and terrible, you know, because that can happen,
So I don't think so. I think so I might
go along with a lot something that's a little more sudden. Um,
you know what, if I have to choose, then then
I think it'd be have to something like really extreme

(50:26):
like they were going, because it takes place in Seattle,
as you know Seattle, so it's not even called Seattle Grace, right,
it's like not even like eight names Memorial, but something else,
not not on Medley Hospital. Um, so I think a
visit to the zoo. George visited the zoo and he

(50:50):
had like a little like slurpy cup and dropped it
into the like hippocage because hippos are really dangerous awful. Yeah,
I mean not in their world, but to us they're
gonna they're awful. So and he didn't want them to
choke on the cup, so he tries to go down
and get it and then he gets attacked and brutally

(51:10):
mauled by the hippopotamus. Glad they didn't let you wait.
So back to the proesthetics. So it was you and
the scene when you were drawing on her hand, that
was you under I would assumed it was just kind
of a stunt double because you had moved on. No,
because you were unrecognizable. It was and it was so
it was so amazing too, because that seven hours of work,

(51:32):
they've sculpted these things, and this artist, all these artists,
all their hard work, you know, spending hours and these
tiny little dots of makeup and making it, and then
all of a sudden, Linda Kline, the amazing Linda Kline,
who's still there. She's the scrub nurse. She's on it
a lot, yea. She so she um so she's the

(51:54):
you know, the person who makes it all real or
as real as they'll let her. I mean, she's just
she's amazing. And then so they, you know, wheel me
in with the thing on, and then all of a
sudden she takes a little catchup thing of blood and
just goes all over it. And I was just like, no,
because you have to make it bloody, and they weren't
putting the blood on. So I was just like anyway,

(52:15):
it was just it was just you you see, you know,
but she had to make it look real, and it's
like that's and so it was like the combination of
those two things, but I think you know, but yeah,
I love the prospectives say that word sons. Oh you
can't say sons because it's adding. But anyway, so that

(52:39):
was yeah, So that was that was me underneath it.
I'm looking at the picture now. That was a lot
where yeah, and I got to do uh. I just
played these two people who aged like twenty years or
more older than I was, and so they did a
lot of prosthetic work two and it's just it's it's

(53:02):
so amazing to be able to sit there and watch
because you know how like you do your thing, you know,
the costumes and everyone thing kind of comes together. You
film it really quick and then you go and to
be able to sit there and watch them create this
and you're just the model, and it's it's a it's
a really exciting Is this when you were jar Hoover? Yeah,

(53:22):
and then also for yeah, for the two for the
two Geniuses, for Picasso and for uh Einstein that's great.
And also by the way, you were great, Oh, thank you.
I really enjoyed you and that I love doing that
the great book and it was a great show. I
loved it and just the people were so cool. Yeah,
he didn't end up well either. A poke. He got

(53:45):
a poker to the temple and it killed him. Yeah,
he wasn't a very nice guy. We don't need him.
Before you go, I just need to pick us. I
need you to pick a side. Okay, sons um, you

(54:06):
need to pick a side. Are you team Izzy and
Denny or team Meredith and Derek. I just need you
to choose one. Well, I was just over at Ellen's house,
So what am I going to choose? Sorry? Personally, now
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(56:49):
do you think we scared him? For sure? Like I
felt like we scared him a little bit, but he
went with it. Yeah. I don't know if he's gonna
be like telling other cast members to come in here
nobody story for his husband when he gets home tonight.
I think that'll be talked about at the dinner table.
Out of all the press he did today, this one
will probably stand out, don't you think. Yeah? Yeah, sure,

(57:13):
his next dinner at Ellen's house they'll be talking about.
By the way, beck and I had a mutual friend,
Becka Tobin, who is on the Lady Gang text us
and just said, like, I saw Ellen Pompeo at the
grocery store. Oh my gosh. A and I was like,
why don't you go say hi to her? But then
I forget that normal people are normal and don't know
if you saw her at the grocery store, you would
lose your mind. Uh No, So we ran this, we

(57:36):
were in this scenario. I would approach it more like, hey,
oh my gosh, I'm such a fan of like just
going with like I'm a fan of the show, and
then before I depart her grab a selfie like aloha,
So you'd keep it cool. Yeah, it wouldn't be not
with Ellen. It wouldn't be that. I don't think she

(57:57):
would respond with it. I think it'd be creepy. Yeah, okay, okay,
I'm wondering if you could actually do that. I would try.
It's hard for you to keep the past half an.
I feel like you but you saw her. Yeah, but
I never went up to her. I think if I

(58:17):
saw her, if I were to even have the guts
to go up to her, I would be like, I'm
such a huge fan of the show. I don't even
have to say right now, I love you. And I
don't even think I would try for a selfie because
I'll be so nervous. Yeah, you think it's too much,
maybe because you know that the last thing she wants
she said she had Whole Foods, right. I know what's

(58:39):
funny though, I'm pretty fearless, but I think i'd be
a little intimidated to walk up to her totally, because
that's one of those if it goes bad, it's it's traumatized. Yeah, sat, Yeah,
So you might be right. I might just admire from
a far and see what she's putting in her cart
and call it in. And he was just picking like
four thousand like things of celery. She's like a baby

(59:03):
diaper aisle and I'm like a hunt and what size
does my Nie swear? I'm like, oh, do you use
that brand? Oh? Is that a good one? I would
maybe make small talk about what she's buying at the
grocery store. That might be good. Are you from I
recognized you from somewhere? Are you on ABC Show? Are

(59:24):
you Meredith? Great? No? Alright, we're ready for some more
um some emails. All right, let's see what we got here.
This is from E. I haven't seriously dated to be
in a relationship in a very long time, but then
I'm at the love of my life through a dating
app from the moment this guy messaged me, I had

(59:46):
a strong gut in less than a week. We've gone
on three days, but there was a dark cloud over me.
I'm leaving for a two month backpacking trip at the
end of June. From the time we've met to the
time I leave is three weeks. I don't know what
to do or say, because I really like him, but
I don't want to lose him. And is it too
forward to say, wait for me three weeks. She's gone

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three weeks and she's calling him the love of her
life and we're not even at three weeks yet, which
is interesting. She's going very fast here. Um, yes, very
exciting that you met someone you really liked though, that's
a that's a win right there. I mean, you are
going on it sounds like a once in a lifetime
trip and you've been planning this, I imagine for a while.

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So I would say keep that mentality and go and
be excited to come home to someone that you really like.
I don't think he's going to go out dating people
and like trying to find someone new in the next
two or three weeks. If he has the same connection
with you, which has gone two months. I mean she's
gone till what she's gone too much together. Three weeks

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will have been by that time, and she's leaving for
too much. He's going to Labor Day. Basically, she's gone
to all of July and all of a. I'm gonna say, I,
you know, I am sympathetic for these very heartfelt emotions
that you're feeling for this man. However, you're about to
go backpacking through Europe. You might meet a European love

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of your Yeah. When I was studying abroad, I met
out with three guys in a night, so like fully
was like making out with one and then I would
like turn around and make out with another. What is happening? Yeah, yeah,
Mojo through the roof and I have the receipts. I
think Hillary Hillary Hood, Um, I think Hillary saw me
or Sarah. But yeah, So what I'm saying is when

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you study abroad, things happen, and I just feel like
you're gonna So it's better for her to go single
or at least with a single mentality to Europe than
to think I've got this guy back there because it's
only been three weeks. For sure, that's pretty good advice.
I was more optimistic reading this because she obviously she's
all in after a very short period of time, which
is a little concerning. My feeling is if he feels
the way you do, he's going to wait for you.

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You don't have to ask him too. If you guys
are on the same page, he's gonna wait around for you,
and he's gonna text you while you're there, and it's
gonna be sweet and you guys can face time and whatever.
So I'm optimistic. I think this might be okay. But
either way, I don't think you. I think you don't
go with a mentality I have a boyfriend. You go
and see how it goes, because in today's age, it's
not like you're never going to speak to him. There's
going to be communication, and that will tell you a

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lot for sure. And Melissa as a question for Tanya,
Tanya mentioned that she was kind of over Nick Jonas
after the documentary. So whilst I'm aware from listening to
the podcast that Nick doesn't get the beauty of Tania Rysms,
I don't know what this means. It sounds like you
wrote this. It never seems to have bothered Tanya much before.
I just need to know what's the t oh, I

(01:02:41):
just I just had this. I never realized that Nick
was the one that broke them up. And when I
watched the documentary, I just I learned a lot of
things that I didn't know before. I mean, my reaction
was like silly and like, I obviously love I'm obsessed
with all of the Jonas brothers. However, I do look
at Nick a little bit differently after the documentary. All right, yeah, okay,

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I didn't have like a strong opinion on them at
first at all, because I'm not like a Jonas natter
like you, m h. And I just didn't get like,
I know that you've always said Nick was the most
like shy or doesn't get you as much. But I
couldn't tell if he was shy or just like that's
just him. Yeah, I think it's just him and Katie.

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I met up with a very good guy friend for
happy Hour. We've been friends for eight years. I'm in college.
We traveled the world together. When I was at his wedding,
I'm very good friends with his wife. She even called
me his second wife, ha ha ha. At Happy Hour,
he overindulged in a bit and told me he thinks
his wife is jealous of our friendship. I'm not really
sure if I should talk to her about this or
bring it up with him again when he's sober, or
ignored it altogether. I just feel weird that she may

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have some issue that she hasn't shared with me. If
they actually talked about it, I feel like he'd scale
back on hanging in with me without her, right. Yeah,
this doesn't seem like it's your issue. I think you still.
I think you ignore this. Yeah, yeah, I think unless
it comes up again and he's not schmasty wasted face.

(01:04:11):
Wait what I think he's If he comes up again
and he's not super wasted, then that's maybe a sign
that maybe you shove a conversation. Oh he said it
to her when he was wasted. Uh yeah. I feel
like the when you're married the opposite sex best friend,
it goes away. I'm with you on that. I don't

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know people are gonna say, oh my gosh, that's not true.
We've been married for fifty years and my husband's best
friend has always been a part of all. I think
that's the exception to the rule. Yeah, And I'm like
kind of with you on that kind of stuff, because
even I like, even if I have to all of
a sudden mark stuff for work, like any hour of
the day. And I always I met your wife multiple
times and I love her and I'm sure she does

(01:04:54):
not care at all. But I always feel weird if
I send you a text after like nine pm or
something because you're married. Do you know what I mean? Like,
there's something a little bit like I appreciate that it's
you're welcome to semi tex seven. It's fine, and I
appreciate getting them because it's usually really good content for
the show and I love that that makes me, it
relaxes me. Yeah, But there's something about like whereas if

(01:05:15):
I was just going to be sending this to like
Sisney or like do you know what I mean, somebody else,
it just doesn't feel as I don't know, there's like
something where I'm like, oh, a married man, it just
seems like you shouldn't like you respect. Yeah. So if
if one of my best friends was a guy and
he got married, I would that dynamic that relationship would
change for me. Does that happen one of your best

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friends a guy you got married and he's kind of
backed off a bit out of respect. I think that's
normal and I think that's going to happen to you too, Katie,
and I'm sorry and that, but it's okay. In the
long run, it's fine. Yeah, it'll be okay. It's gonna
be okay. It's gonna be okay. Okay, it's gonna be okay. Okay.
And if it's not, it's not the end because you

(01:05:59):
are sung problems your son's best friend. Yeah, clearly, we
are delirious. This is a great show, you guys, a
great showr Night. He's in the Hall of Fame now
of Gray's Anatomy and scrubbing in. I think we should

(01:06:20):
have like a chart of all the Grey's Anatomy members
that we want on the podcast, and then we just
like cross them off of the list as we get them,
kind of Yeah, do you like that idea. I'll make
it a volunteers tribute. Okay, I'm not going to stop you.
So all I need from you guys is just names
of the people that we want, and then I'll make
like a little flow chart and you'll put Joe and

(01:06:42):
O'Malley on this. We can cross them off glasses. I'll
put all the ones we've had on there. Janine Huh,
put her on there and then yeah, so we'll cross off. Actually,
we won't cross them on more. And do you know
what I'll do. I'll put like a little um, like
a little heart or something over them better than cross
more positive, Like we'll put like a little like grace loan,
like pan or something. I don't know, I'll figure it out,

(01:07:03):
but it will be like some sort of little things
that we can drink it. Yeah, and then like so
we can put it up if we have somebody come
in and be like, look at this hall of fame
you're joining. Love it? They love it, they'll love it.
That's where I take things too far. We already made
to your night do an elevator scene with us great content.

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By the way, he's probably still thinking, like, what did
I just do? Uh? Time of Death three