October 16, 2025 • 55 mins
The O.R. gets a squeeze when Tay Lautner stops by! We may be close to Halloween, but it’s not too late for a full discussion of “The Summer I Turned Pretty”! It’s not long before we delve into the world of “Twilight”, and we finally find out if Tay’s husband Taylor Lautner is Team Conrad or Team Jeremiah.
Tay has a HOT take on “The Life of a Showgirl” and she spills on which guest on her podcast surprised her the most.
Plus, when looking back on her wedding to Taylor Lautner, she shares some advice for any upcoming brides!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Scrubbing In with Betha.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio and two times People's
Choice Award winning podcast.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in, but it ain't just.
Speaker 4 (00:17):
Scrubbing in pad.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Yeah, we got another podcaster herself here with us today.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Yes, she's a podcaster. She is a philanthropist, she is
a mental health advocate.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
She does it all, she really does it all.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
And we've had her here before, but we're so happy
to have her back.
Speaker 5 (00:36):
Everyone. Welcome Tay Loudner.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Did I say the name right, Louner Loutner, okay, because
for a long time.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Said no, yes, yes, okay, yeah it is Loutner.
Speaker 5 (00:54):
But you can, okay because I discriminate.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
I'll say Loutner and people be like it's Loutner and
I'm like, but I was corrected on that.
Speaker 5 (01:02):
So you're here.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Just set the record straight. You can say whatever you want,
but the correct way is Loudner. Yes, okay, thank you,
welcome back. Thanks, We're so happy to have you here.
Speaker 5 (01:12):
We were just talking about how when.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
You you were last year with Taylor, but we wanted
to do you by yourself.
Speaker 5 (01:19):
It's just like we didn't need we didn't need a time.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
We didn't need Taylor with the full name.
Speaker 5 (01:24):
We just needed to take.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
Yeah, I feel like there's been so much that has
happened in your life since we saw you though. Yeah,
you had both yours too, all of us. Really you
had just gotten well married a few months before we
talked to you. Yes, but it's been three years since
you started your podcast, your foundation, because that was all
(01:47):
kind of around the same time, right, Yeah, And I
feel like y'all's podcast y'all have just crushed it. It's
hard to I mean, podcasts, they were gone, they come
and gone, And I think people the thing about podcasts is,
at the end of the day, it's easy because you're
just talking about things that you love and you're talking
to people that you love and have interest in. Yeah,
(02:09):
but it's harder in this I think it's harder than
people realize to keep it going.
Speaker 5 (02:13):
Sure.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Yeah, I always tell my friends because I've had multiple,
multiple people come up to me and be like, I
think I want to start a podcast, Like Okay, you've
really got to think about it, Like, do you have
more than like three weeks of content you can talk about?
Speaker 5 (02:25):
Because it's so fun and.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
There is like an ease to it, but also like
it is. I didn't realize how like full time it is.
And I'm like very hands on with like I'm giving
like my editor, like I'm watching every episode, giving the cuts,
giving the time stamps, like I'm very involved in every episode,
which I love because it's like my child.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
But yeah, I love it.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
How does it work? Because y'all have had some guests.
I mean, obviously you get really big guests in the
sense of big and pop culture and like people that
are relevant in terms of like TV shows and whatnot.
But you've also had guests where you had more serious
conversations like Stacy Chapin, who is than Chapin's mom and
he was one of the victims from the University of Idaho,
(03:05):
And those are really hard, heavy conversations.
Speaker 5 (03:10):
Yeah, how do you do that?
Speaker 1 (03:12):
You know? I honestly don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
And it's a like a form of journalism that I
really never like thought I would do.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
In those episodes are truly my favorite.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Uh. It really just starts with when we have those stories,
like we had Chad Frankie on who's one of the
Ruby Frankie's kids. We've had Gabby Petito's mom, on. So
we've had like these really heavy episodes that are like
are like real I call the episodes, but I just
it's really important for me to provide the guest with
(03:44):
the right questions so that they can share their story
and are like number one thing is we always want
people to feel like safe, like have a space, safe space,
because you know, Taylor's been in the industry for a
really long time and he has had word twisted and
that's just like a very like common thing of they're
gonna ask these questions and not these and that's a
big thing.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
That we strive for.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
So I really just have wanted to provide people like
that safe spaces to share their story to where they know,
like I'm not just doing it for a clickbait, Like
I actually genuinely think that these people like need like
a platform to just amplify their story more. And it's
been the most rewarding thing. It's been really cool. And
(04:27):
also like Stacy, like I still text her, like we
still keep in touch, and it's really cool, like with
the closure of the case and stuff, being able to
like talk with her, and I spent a decent amount
of my summer up in Idaho and I actually had
multiple people come up to me and just thank us
for doing that episode. And I didn't really realize how
(04:47):
much of an impact it had on the people of
Idaho specifically, but I've had multiple people come up to
me and like cry to me in the middle of
a store base just from that episode. So it's just
been like, it's really cool, Like I have chills thinking
about it.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Just the impact that me wanting to have this human.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
On because they have a really incredible stories like has
become it's awesome.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Well, I also think you're you're giving them a platform
to keep their kids' stories alive and their lives, to
keep saying their name and talking about them in a
way that's not because obviously what happened to a lot
of these people is the most traumatic thing that can happen,
and you're giving them a space to talk about them
in a way that keeps their spirit and who they
are alive. And it's really beautiful. And I'm so impressed
(05:30):
because you do. I mean, it's a flip from doing
a normal podcast, like a culture podcast, so it's really impressive.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
I feel like, so the podcast Lemon's by Tay the Foundation,
everything is geared towards mental health.
Speaker 4 (05:47):
Yeah, so I wanted to ask.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
You just in general, generally speaking, how is your mental
health right now?
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Yeah? I think it's in a great spot right now.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
I feel like I had a little bit of summer
to rest in kind of reset myself. I'm definitely the
type of person that is like just I go one
hundred miles an hour, like all the time, and I
don't stop.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
And my husband's very.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Like, okay, like just take a moment, calm down, and
he catches me before I'm like spiral d. Yeah, because
bernot is definitely something that I experienced when I was nursing,
so it's a little easier for me to catch it,
but he definitely will help me catch it.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
But but yeah, what was the question?
Speaker 5 (06:27):
Well I forgot how was your mental health?
Speaker 1 (06:30):
I'm happy though, I'm like in such a fun place
right now. I feel like we're.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Entering like the time of year that is like my
favorite too, So I'm like, yeah, I love fall.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
This is this is like your time to shine.
Speaker 5 (06:40):
Yeah, this is like my time of year. What is it?
Speaker 4 (06:42):
Is it Halloween or what Thanksgiving or Christmas or all
of it?
Speaker 5 (06:45):
I think all of it.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
I don't know I love Fall.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
I mean, we got married in Fall, so I'm just
like like leaves turning like cozy fireplace cloudy.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
I also associate y'all with Halloween because the parties.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Yeah, I know, I know Taylor's been really wanting to
do another one party and I just don't.
Speaker 5 (07:01):
I just don't know if I can I can do
it because it's a lot of work.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
It is a lot of work.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
And also the house that we used to have those
parties in really like could fit like two hundred people,
and now I don't. I don't want my house cannot
fit that many people. But also I don't really want
that many people in my house now.
Speaker 5 (07:18):
So now like I really love my home.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
Like that house was like Taylor's house before I were
like together, so it was like man cave and it
could do it.
Speaker 5 (07:26):
But now like I have like my sweet.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Little home, and I'm like, I don't really want that
many people in there.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
Yeah, that house was the house.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
It was a.
Speaker 5 (07:35):
Huge I know it was. It was insane. It was
way too big.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
I was gonna ask about you were talking about, So
does is there something you do or like say where
he goes hey time for a break, because like I
feel like Haley, it's probably like I start picking fights
and she's like, hey, you're at capacity, what's going on?
Speaker 5 (07:56):
Yeah, and it like halts me.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
I think it's just when I'm like absent, like I
could like lock myself in my office and just be
on my computer like all day. So if I'm not
like having a moment like a meal with Taylor or
like we're not like sitting down watching football or watching
whatever show we're watching, like, that's like our time to
just like not be on the phones or on the
computer and doing stuff. So it's probably that when I've
(08:20):
been like running around like crazy and he's like, Hi,
like where have you been.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
I'm here too, So I think it's that that makes sense.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
I knew that time every day, every day, all day,
every day. At the end of the day, Yeah, how's
your day. I want to know what you had for breakfast,
what you ate for lunch, what clients you saw, what
videos you saw on Instagram, Like I'm like catching me
up on your day. Yeah, you know, like I'll spill
everything and he just says, oh, that's good.
Speaker 4 (08:46):
Yeah, really need more than that.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Haley is a Tanya and she needs to recap and
know everything too, And I'm like, oh, I didn't know this,
not any I don't have any more details to give.
Speaker 5 (08:57):
This is just what it is. That's so funny.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
I know I see Taylor because like I work from
home and he's home right now, and like we're just home,
Like we're just home.
Speaker 5 (09:04):
Together all the time.
Speaker 4 (09:06):
And my dream.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
I'm like, I'm gonna go like take a work a
class or whatever. He's like, oh, but lunch. I'm like, honey,
we we This is what I love about him so much.
Speaker 5 (09:14):
I'm like we just had.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
We had the whole day and the whole week before.
Speaker 5 (09:17):
I need to like go leave the home.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
I'm like a leave the home person. Taylor could stay
in the house for forever.
Speaker 5 (09:23):
He loves his time. I'm gonna stay in the house.
Speaker 4 (09:25):
Person.
Speaker 5 (09:25):
Haley's to leave the home person.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
I'm to say, in the house person, Robbie's to leave
the house person.
Speaker 5 (09:29):
I need, I need, I need to leave.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
I love the house, but I just need to go,
like to target and do a lap and then come
back and I'm like fresh and ready to.
Speaker 5 (09:36):
Go, ready to sit. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
Speaking of shows, you, I feel like I also think
of you when I think of the summer.
Speaker 5 (09:44):
I turn pretty.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
I had that topic prepared because we have to talk about.
Speaker 5 (09:49):
Oh, the rage bait that she puts out.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
Yeah, it's weird right now, because you've gone back and forth,
You've gone back and forth.
Speaker 3 (09:56):
It's so apparent that this show is ske to make
us all want Conrad. It is so unbelievably skewed in
that direction when you really look.
Speaker 4 (10:07):
At the facts.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Yeah, that she should just not be with either of them.
Speaker 3 (10:13):
Fair, I take that over the Conrad stands. Yeah, it's
just like, it's so obvious. I know, it's exactly like
the Edward Jacob thing. I know we're all meant to
love Edward, but Jacob was the one.
Speaker 5 (10:27):
I think.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
I think the it's hard because I feel like the
Twilight franchise made Jacob more likable than has made Jeremiah.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
No, no, yes, because in the books, I was so
team Edward, but then in the movies of Twilight, I
was like, wait, yeah.
Speaker 5 (10:43):
I'm team and my team Edward. It was the New Moon.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
It was when respectfully he took his shirt off.
Speaker 5 (10:53):
And had the hour. I get it, I get it, But.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
Yeah, they I do feel like and I didn't read
the summary term pretty books, so I don't know like
how they made him look I need to I've read.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
I've read the first one. I want to read the
last two to like see what how it is.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
Jeremiah always loved her. Conrad, on the other hand, like
a pickle did.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
I just went back and started watching the first season though,
and it does, yes, tell me, it does start.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
The first like inkling that someone like someone is. Belly
and Conrad are standing at the end of the thing though,
and Jeremiah shoots the fire work at them, and that's
I feel like the first time he's like jealous, and
then he's starting to like show, so then that makes
me feel like it actually has been Conrad, though, I.
Speaker 5 (11:54):
Was like, I'm not she's not gonna like what I'm
gonna say what I'm rewatching them.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
I actually did just rewatch the first season and like
an entire day, and you're still Conrad.
Speaker 4 (12:04):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
I was torn the first two seasons, and then I
realized this last season that I am Conrad.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
Because of the way that it was fixated, fixed to
make you want them to end up together.
Speaker 4 (12:24):
Maybe I don't know, see I'm swaying her.
Speaker 5 (12:28):
I don't know. I don't think you are.
Speaker 4 (12:30):
I think I am come to my side day.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
I'm just excited for the movie.
Speaker 5 (12:34):
I mean too, but.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
Is carew predictable the Conrad girls, but that's what we want.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
We literally were like starving for this whole season and
barely got fed the last like three episodes.
Speaker 4 (12:46):
So it's not what I wanted. So there's still time.
There's still time.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
Can you imagine she literally makes the movie that she
like leaves them at the altar?
Speaker 1 (12:58):
Suredy did that superdictable?
Speaker 5 (13:00):
I'm just leaving the altar.
Speaker 4 (13:02):
It's not rage bait. This is like legit.
Speaker 5 (13:03):
It's feeling.
Speaker 4 (13:04):
No.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
I feel that Taylor, I think feels the same way
his team Jeremiah.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Well, I mean yeah, he has been because it's like
Jacob so he's were friends with Gavin, so he's like
he's sinking by Gavin.
Speaker 2 (13:17):
But no, I think this season was hard though, because
Taylor hasn't watched the first two seasons. I think he
watched the finale of the second season with me because
I had like all my girlfriends over and we watched together,
and he's just like he's one of the.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
Girls, so he wanted to be a part of the fun.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
And then he was like, what am I watching, but
this whole last season he had to watch with me
because I didn't have anyone with me, and he would
go on like tangents, like after each episode for like eight.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Minutes about yeah, just like how they wrote him.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
He's like, they make him so unlikable and blah blah blah,
and so they do.
Speaker 3 (13:49):
But in the third season, Yeah, it's not till this
last season, Robert, they did.
Speaker 5 (13:53):
There was a shift.
Speaker 4 (13:54):
Yeah, for sure. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
I also just don't think they had as much chemistry
as Oh my god, I don't.
Speaker 4 (13:59):
I don't.
Speaker 5 (14:00):
You can't make that up. You either have a really
great chemistry you don't.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
And I feel like Belli and Conrad had better chemistry.
They were really good actors and had bad chemistry on purpose.
Speaker 5 (14:13):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (14:14):
Respectfully, we can agree to disagree, Okay.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Well, one thing I was thinking about that we never
talked about because it happened. It already had happened when
you all came on the podcast, But what we saw
about it was after the podcast, We're gonna take a
break and come back.
Speaker 4 (14:28):
Away way, why what are you talking about?
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Wow? That left everyone in the room me at the
edge of their seat literally, just like out of her chair.
So after y'all came on the podcast, Uh Taylor Slush
released a music video I can see You she did
where Taylor was in this in the music video, and
(15:20):
y'all kept that.
Speaker 5 (15:21):
We were just.
Speaker 1 (15:22):
Talking to y'all, looking at you in the eye, talking
all things. Taylor stillft and no mention of it.
Speaker 6 (15:28):
Lockdown, no easter, not a nothing was hatched.
Speaker 5 (15:36):
How are your what are your thoughts on life of
a showgirl? It you love it? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (15:40):
It's I mean I love a moodie Taylor album, but
this one is just just happy.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
She's in love, but it's it's fun.
Speaker 2 (15:47):
I'm convinced that people that I know that don't like
it aren't in love and aren't happy. Oh very small
pooled my five girlfriends, and four out of the five
of us are in relationships, and the one girlfriend that
doesn't like it is single.
Speaker 5 (16:07):
Oh, she's just gonna say this back.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
I was literally texting her this morning and I didn't
call her out on it, but I was being a
nice friend.
Speaker 5 (16:12):
But she's gonna say this now. It's no.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
I don't know if there's truth to that, but you
might be onto something, but it's just like it's happy
like I feel like it like reminds me of like
just a happy like Sabrina carving her rout, like she's
just happy she's in love. Like I think of my
Taylor and half the songs like it's just happy she's
in love.
Speaker 4 (16:33):
That's an interesting take. Were you gonna do a little research.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
Were you in Taylor friends before y'all uh like became
romantic or were y'all ever?
Speaker 2 (16:42):
I mean not, well, in my brain we were friends,
not his brain, because his sister brought me over to
his house and she had told him that she was
bringing someone that she wanted to set him up with.
Speaker 5 (16:55):
But I was just going as like a friend. She
didn't tell you. It was like a yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
So Taylor was like talking to me, and I was like, oh,
he's just like a really intentional talker and he was
actually just like trying to hit on me, but you know,
he's so nice, so he's like he was not whenever
I say tell the story, He's like, baby, make me
look like I have like no swagger like anything. I'm like, no,
I think that's hot. Like he like genuinely was just
talking to me. Wasn't trying to like get it.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
With my girl the first five seconds of knowing me.
Speaker 3 (17:23):
No, yeah, it's nice, refreshing, green flag all around, Yeah,
the greenest of flags.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
Yeah. How is it working together? It's fun because okay,
but but in all honesty, be honest here, No, Hayley
will always be like like there's been talks of like, oh,
should we do something we're working together?
Speaker 5 (17:45):
Yeah, and I'm just like, you know, I think that
we are.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
Better not doing that, like just knowing, like thinking about
if we were to do like a podcast or something, yea,
that it would be hard if like, yeah, it's called
scrubbing out with not getting Haley. But I just think
about working like having to go, you know, having a
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relationship and either bickering or getting to fight and then
having to sit down and be on and talking.
Speaker 5 (18:16):
You know.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
But have y'all have y'all run into that or I
feel like y'all are very just weird.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
I mean for sure, like if you're we've been doing
the podcast for however long, and I'm of course we've
like disagreed or like someone thought something different than the other.
Speaker 5 (18:33):
But no, I think it's really fun.
Speaker 1 (18:35):
It's been cool because you know, Taylor's.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
Like lived a whole He's lived a whole life before
me even knowing him, so it's really cool for me
to like learn from him too.
Speaker 5 (18:46):
And he's so creative with stuff, so it's fun.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
We're actually planning a we have we're filming with someone
tomorrow who we're really excited about, and we're filming the
like promo like teaser. We're filming a teaser radio to
tease who it is. So like when it comes to
stuff like that, it's interesting.
Speaker 4 (19:07):
Yeah, who is this guest?
Speaker 3 (19:11):
I don't know, but you're both excited and you're filming
it tomorrow.
Speaker 5 (19:18):
Do they have the same name as you? No, No,
I can't. It's something exciting.
Speaker 2 (19:28):
It's someone from Taylor's past, but we're filming that's the Again,
he's lived a life, so there's a lot of people
in his past that's true.
Speaker 1 (19:35):
There's Oh yeah, that's so.
Speaker 3 (19:39):
I do think about that because I feel like, what if, like,
have you have you ever got have you ever been
in a fight and then had to, like you have
work the next morning, you're working together and you just
have to kind of suck it up and do it.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
We don't really like fight because I just don't.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
It's because I don't speak, that's that's actually it's and
it's a problem I need to like address wren therapy,
So you just like internalize, yeah, in the sense of
like Taylor will express to me if he's upset or
something's going on, and I just say sorry, and I
can't like process. He's like, no, like I want to
hear like what you're feeling, and I'm like my brain
like tweaks out and I can't.
Speaker 5 (20:15):
I know, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (20:16):
No, I think that's Oh, I like I've had to
work on there so much. Yeah, I need time, and
Healey's like wants to resolve it right there. Yeah, but
I'm like I'm not ready and I I I guess
it's like an avoidant thing, like maybe avoidant attach it
like there's something from that part of my life where
I just shut down. And in my mind I've always
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thought that being silent mean like keeping the peace, but
it really just lingers.
Speaker 2 (20:43):
Yeah no, yeah, yeah, it's probably not. Probably it is
definitely way healthier to like talk about it in the moment, but.
Speaker 5 (20:52):
You do have like if but I can't.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
So yeah, we don't really find that's so crazy.
Speaker 3 (20:59):
Actually, like I always I don't believe people when they
say that they don't fight.
Speaker 1 (21:02):
I know, but we really don't ever, like.
Speaker 3 (21:07):
Because like if somebody expresses something like you're saying, if
he expresses something, you just take it and you're like okay,
like you don't like fight back.
Speaker 4 (21:13):
Oh wow, I should learn that.
Speaker 2 (21:17):
There's pros and cons, right, I think to it. But
we're also like so I think because we have gone
through so much like mental health stuff each of us,
we've really learned to like communicate with the other. And
I think also like we when we first started dating,
we were like long distance. We speed dated for like
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two weeks and then we did long distance for like
two and a half months. So I feel like we
got really good at talking.
Speaker 1 (21:44):
So we were really good at communicating kind of from
the beginning.
Speaker 5 (21:48):
And we both know.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
I mean, we've been together for like eight years, so
I feel like I know, like if he's upset about something,
I know, like like maybe it's not actually what's going on,
it's something else happened, So I know, like that's what's
going on. If yeah, I'm sad or he knows if
I'm like being quiet, then I'm dealing with something. So
I think there's maybe like a level of that, but yeah,
I think we're also just like kind of very similar
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in a lot of ways, so we kind of know
what the other is thinking.
Speaker 4 (22:16):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (22:17):
But I gotta learn to talk, and you would agree
with that.
Speaker 5 (22:21):
It's so my therapist tomorrow.
Speaker 3 (22:23):
I gotta learn to shut up because I just, I
just I wish I could do that.
Speaker 2 (22:30):
Yeah, if I I think I I think I could.
But then I feel like if I were to say,
like what I'm thinking, it wouldn't like come out right
because my brain just like it like fires off, and
I feel like I can't like formulate a thought. So
if I were to like try to say my thoughts, it.
Speaker 4 (22:46):
Would be like a little jumble. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
Yeah, like it doesn't come out as in my head
what I want to say never comes out as eloquent
or like concise as I want it too. So then
she's like wait what, And then I'm like what, That's.
Speaker 5 (23:00):
What I meant. I just I'll just shut up. It's
better if I don't talk.
Speaker 2 (23:05):
I know.
Speaker 5 (23:05):
I feel that.
Speaker 1 (23:07):
Have you had a guest on the podcast where you
had a I don't know impression of them and then
they came on and they like blew you away, either
change your impression, yeah, or change your impression. Oh yeah,
I definitely feel like I've had a few of those.
Let me think, I.
Speaker 2 (23:25):
Think the first person that that happened with, if I'm
like remembering correctly, would probably be Charlie Dimilio. We had
like the best time with her, and like, I feel
like she said a lot of very like profound things
and she's just like a young TikTok coming on I
don't know what to It was.
Speaker 5 (23:41):
Like a really good conversation. We both like adored her.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
I met her at an event and I was blown
away by how personable she was because I also think
you meet people and they might have a big personality
in front of the camera and like doing tiktoks because
they're comfortable in that like alone space with just their
phone and so I and she's young, so I didn't know, yeah,
if she'd just kind of be like awkward and shy,
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and she was so warm and asked questions and I
was like so impressed by her.
Speaker 5 (24:10):
Yeah, just like wow, she.
Speaker 1 (24:11):
Is really I don't know, you meet people and you're
you're just kind of impressed with how they handle this
attention and fame and how it affects them. For sure,
and it was cool to see how like wonderful and personal.
Speaker 5 (24:25):
She was.
Speaker 3 (24:25):
Yeah, what do you see for the future of the
podcast and the foundation? Oh maybe not even five years,
just like the next year, twenty twenty six.
Speaker 2 (24:37):
Yeah, that's a really great question because I'm the type
of person that like wants to do, as I said,
everything like all at once.
Speaker 1 (24:45):
And I don't know.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
I mean, I just want to continue to have like
really intentional conversations. I think it's cool because I feel
like with our podcast we kind of have like a
cool level of like really heavy conversations and then like
the next week can be like a super light one
that's just like chatty and.
Speaker 1 (25:02):
Talking about whatever is, you know, pop culture stuff.
Speaker 2 (25:05):
So I feel like I want to continue to have
maybe more of those harder conversations because I think those
ones are the most impactful. Like for me, we just
filmed an episode that was the first of its kind
because we had an interpreter in the studio, and so
things like that I want to continue to do.
Speaker 5 (25:27):
Obviously, I love your face so much. I love you.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
Yes, we had an ASL interpreter in the studio, which
was really cool.
Speaker 4 (25:40):
WHOA.
Speaker 2 (25:40):
Yeah, So continue like having those like real conversations and
giving people that you know maybe don't aren't the same
as like you and I those platforms, which I think.
Speaker 5 (25:53):
That's so and also so important.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
And I also think that it can be very intimidating
stepping into something that you're not familiar with, Like obviously
having a conversation with someone and having an interpreter is
like not something that you're doing on a regular basis.
And to give someone a platform of coming on your podcast,
which is so huge and like reaches so many people,
I think is literally the goal of having a platform,
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so like you're literally doing it, you know.
Speaker 5 (26:20):
It's so fun.
Speaker 2 (26:21):
I literally left that interview like on a high, Like
I was like bubbling, like bouncing around all day.
Speaker 1 (26:26):
It is. It's just really cool.
Speaker 2 (26:28):
So just things like that, like intentional conversations. And we
just had our mental health summit, our first ever one, and.
Speaker 4 (26:34):
Yeah I saw that congratulations and.
Speaker 2 (26:39):
It like the day literally like blew every single expectation
I had.
Speaker 1 (26:43):
Like I'm still like in shock that we did that.
Speaker 2 (26:47):
So I want to do that like in different states,
like across the country and like reach.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
More people, just make people feel loved.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
I think that's like obviously it's like mental health that
we talk about like real conversations. But I want people
to like not alone as cliche as it sounds, like, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (27:02):
I'm definitely like an EmPATH.
Speaker 2 (27:04):
And I want to like hug everyone I see, So
like that's how I want people to feel after listening
to the podcast.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
I also feel like what you do is you bring
people who have followings and platforms, and I think it's
important for people who follow them and have put them
on a certain pedestal of thinking, like, oh, they don't
deal with the same like obviously there's different struggles of
like that, Like, for instance, someone who has a big
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platform and their careers TikTok or something, they might not
have the same like financial struggles as someone. But in
terms of mental health, it really encompasses every group of people.
Like that's something that can connect people on so many
different levels and.
Speaker 5 (27:45):
Like ways of life.
Speaker 1 (27:46):
I feel like you it's a it's a something that
brings people together because people can be have as image
of someone and be like they don't have any problems,
they don't have the same problems I have. But when
it comes to mental health things like it connects people. Yeah,
so I think that's amazing that you're not only giving
a platform to the people that speak, but for other
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people to connect with those people.
Speaker 5 (28:10):
Cool.
Speaker 3 (28:11):
When you're doing like when you did the Mental Health Summit,
when you're doing these things where you're engaging with people,
what do you find is the biggest thing that people
are struggling with? Like right now, ooh.
Speaker 2 (28:22):
I would say, and this isn't something that I feel
like is said to me a lot, but I feel
like we're still really lacking community. I think that's the
biggest thing that I've learned from like COVID too, is
how much we need like human human interaction and actually
coming together for you know, a day to listen to
some people talk. And there was I there were so
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many people just like meeting and mingling and learning about
each other. And I think having that interaction with people
and having like minded people together and just building that
community really helps you feel like not alone of them,
like reminds you like, oh, I'm struggling with my mental health,
and all these people here like they care about mental
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health enough to come and listen to this too. So yeah,
I think that's probably the biggest thing is really like
having that form of community do you feel like.
Speaker 1 (29:13):
Being on our phones, like since you're you talk to
people about this and do these summits and this is
your foundation, But do you feel like obviously having phones
in social media, it's it does connect us, but I
also feel like there's just this like right, and I
don't know if it's because we're seeing people talk about it.
It's like so accessible to hear people talk about their
mental health struggles, but it does feel like there's.
Speaker 5 (29:35):
A common.
Speaker 1 (29:38):
Like the timing of when we've seen an increase or
decrease in mental health. Yeah, and social media in like
COVID times, it feels like it was parallel in terms
of how they connected. Do you feel like that when
you're talking to people, Like the loneliness of because people
watch on their phone and they just scroll and they're not.
Speaker 3 (29:56):
About it now, like you keep up like we keep
we oh, okay, we keep up with you.
Speaker 4 (30:04):
You keep up with us all on social media.
Speaker 3 (30:05):
So it's like I haven't picked up the phone and
called you in like years, but I know everything that's
going on, and I feel like it tricks our mind
and thinking that we've like socialized with people and we're
keeping up with people by like watching their Instagram, watching
their social media whatever, but we're not actually having that
human interaction, do you know what I mean. So it's
like weird because you're still keeping up with your friends
(30:27):
and stuff, but you're really not doing like the work
of it of picking up the phone and like how
was your day. You're like, oh, I'm just like watching
your story, so I know what you did today, but
I don't know, you know what I mean. It's this
weird thing because I too, like all day yesterday I
was on my phone. I was just on my phone
and I didn't see a single person. I know this
thing yesterday whatever, the day before, and I still feel
(30:50):
like I had like a full social day because I
watched my phone the whole day.
Speaker 5 (30:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (30:55):
No, I definitely think there's I mean, there's even studies.
I don't want to butche of them.
Speaker 5 (30:58):
So I'm not going to give the number.
Speaker 2 (30:59):
But doctor Ayman talks about all the time, like the
if you give a child a phone or like a
tablet before the age of thirteen, their risks for their
suicide risks, Like it goes through.
Speaker 1 (31:14):
The roof, like it's just the risk for suicide, depression,
all of the stuff.
Speaker 2 (31:17):
So I think there's definitely pros to social media into
the phones, into all of the stuff, because I think
you can definitely and take you know, I feel like
I learn a lot, I mean, wellness and stuff from
my phone, but recipes. Yes, there definitely needs to be
like a like a limit. Like when when the Summer
(31:38):
I Turned Pretty premiere came out, all my girlfriends we
were like, no one's looking at any form of social
media today. We're not having the finale spoiled because we
all got together at the end of the night and
watched it and we were all like, oh my gosh,
I went the whole day not looking at our phones
and it was literally like the best thing like it.
I just the next day I was like, I don't
really need to look at my phone, so it's crazy.
And I actually was thinking about this because I saw
(32:00):
on TikTok it was like showing old school like commercials
like when we were kids, of like the different like
the rainbow painting like brushes, or like just like little
like what is it called, like the little I'm baking
on the name when you like.
Speaker 3 (32:16):
Bake the yes.
Speaker 2 (32:19):
And things like that, like you don't ever see commercials
for toys like that for kids to like go and
draw or to like blow these bubbles that stick together and.
Speaker 5 (32:29):
Like things like that. You don't see that anything.
Speaker 4 (32:31):
I know when I was twelve, like I was still
playing with my dolls.
Speaker 5 (32:34):
Absolutely, you walk in a prop top.
Speaker 3 (32:37):
Down the street, you know what I mean? Like in
my Berry's class. I swear with a berries the other
day and there was a twelve year.
Speaker 4 (32:42):
Old running next to me.
Speaker 5 (32:42):
I was like, this is actually like I think we're
gonna have.
Speaker 2 (32:45):
I think we're gonna have a big swing, Like I
think when our generation is having kids, I think it's
gonna be like like Kylie Kelsey talks about how she
wants to have which I love this idea. It's like
a communal phone, Like there's a cell phone.
Speaker 4 (32:58):
In bits, yeah, in the kitchen, kid Yeah, and they can.
Speaker 2 (33:01):
Like the kid like the girls will be able to
use it in the kitchen, but like they can't like
bring it up to bed with them.
Speaker 4 (33:05):
They can't, like it's like their home phone.
Speaker 2 (33:07):
Yeah, but they can like still like go on it
and use it, but it stays in the kit Like
I just think that's I feel like that's the swing
like we're about to have because yeah, when I think
about like having kids, like I want them to like
be self sufficient and like, I mean I was an
only child, so I really had to like make up
stuff in my brain to like keep myself busy.
Speaker 5 (33:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (33:27):
So, and I feel like that has kind of morphed
into why I love being creative and why I love
like doing stuff.
Speaker 5 (33:34):
So I think we're going to have a.
Speaker 1 (33:35):
Big shift to where the technology use is going to
go down. Well, I've seen people talk about how, especially
our age range everyone there's this sense of nostalgia that
no other like no one else seems to have.
Speaker 3 (33:49):
But the millennials have this like thank you Becca, you
say it loud, say.
Speaker 4 (33:54):
Proud, but we have it.
Speaker 5 (33:56):
We have nostalgia.
Speaker 4 (33:58):
Yeah yeah.
Speaker 1 (34:00):
But like like you remember going through magazines I don't
even know, like encircling or the items you wanted, like
you wanted to get something like the.
Speaker 2 (34:08):
Book Fair like whatever, that's what I'm on the name
of it, but like the book my mom to like
give me five bucks to like by freaking coloring magazine
like Eraser.
Speaker 4 (34:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (34:19):
Literally, I feel like everyone, like especially gen Z poo
poos millennials, and I'm like, uh, they're making a double
Wars product to the Jonas Brothers are back and Twilight's
back in theaters.
Speaker 5 (34:31):
So I keep forgetting that they're doing that. Oh yeah,
are y'all going to that?
Speaker 1 (34:35):
Well, y'all should, Yes, you should do it. You should
host like a yes viewing take over theater?
Speaker 4 (34:43):
Can you do that? I don't even know anything.
Speaker 5 (34:45):
I feel like they can make it happen.
Speaker 4 (34:46):
Yeah, totally should.
Speaker 5 (34:49):
It's like a movie a night. Is that what it is?
Speaker 4 (34:51):
You know, Tay, we don't know the details.
Speaker 5 (34:59):
My mom actually asked you that. I was driving the
other day.
Speaker 1 (35:01):
I was like, Oh, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (35:03):
I kind of thought it already happened.
Speaker 3 (35:04):
But no, but I'm sure there's like it'll be I
actually don't know.
Speaker 5 (35:08):
Sam.
Speaker 4 (35:09):
Are you listening? Sam could look it up.
Speaker 6 (35:11):
Yes, it's a movie a night, one one per night,
one movie per night.
Speaker 4 (35:16):
What day is it? Certain days starting the twenty ninth
of October?
Speaker 1 (35:20):
October? Yes, theaters on the thirtieth.
Speaker 4 (35:24):
Okay, okay.
Speaker 1 (35:41):
So this is another thing that a lot of gen
z or like, I've seen people talking about the Midnight
Show going to a midnight showing of the Twilight movies
about no one, No one could get back those moments just.
Speaker 5 (35:53):
No, I was like camp out.
Speaker 1 (35:54):
I literally camped out for the twilet movies.
Speaker 2 (35:57):
I would go to my movie theater and I would
like watch all the like they would like replay the
movie prior and so like by the fifth movie, I
was there all day because they were playing every single
movie before you.
Speaker 5 (36:07):
No, like the fact that you're married.
Speaker 4 (36:11):
Crazy, it will get old.
Speaker 5 (36:13):
No, that's story. It's so funny.
Speaker 4 (36:15):
It's very Travis Kelce.
Speaker 5 (36:18):
It is.
Speaker 4 (36:18):
Yeah, it is adjacent.
Speaker 2 (36:20):
Yeah, although I was team Edwards, don't really. Yeah, I
haven't met him, but funny enough. When I was flying
to visit Taylor when we first started.
Speaker 5 (36:30):
Dating, he was filming a show in London.
Speaker 2 (36:34):
I flew out to visit him and Rob was on
my plane.
Speaker 4 (36:39):
Rob, sorry, we've stood up.
Speaker 2 (36:44):
And I literally looked across the plane and I was
like this, you can't make this up. I'm literally flying
to go visit my new boyfriend who was in this
franchise that I've been obsessed with my whole life, and
the character I was actually obsessed with is not on
the plane as I'm going.
Speaker 5 (37:00):
And Taylor was like, you should said hi to him?
Like what am I going to say? Hey, Rob?
Speaker 2 (37:03):
I'm going to visit your old co star here, and
he would have been like, I would have been tackled
by security.
Speaker 3 (37:08):
Or yeah, yeah, there's really no like easy way into that.
Speaker 5 (37:12):
How long have you all been dating at that point? No,
we've it's a couple of months.
Speaker 1 (37:16):
Wow. Yeah, your story is just it's surely incredible.
Speaker 4 (37:21):
It's so good.
Speaker 5 (37:22):
But I love what.
Speaker 1 (37:23):
I was actually talking to Haley about you today because
she was like, oh's on who's coming on the podcast?
I was like hey, and she was like, she's so
amazing and like what she has done because she has
like said, like, obviously y'all are together, but you've been
able to separate, like have your own career and name,
even though the name is the same. You have your
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own name, like that is your thing. And I think
it's amazing because I don't know, I don't know that
I would would be like I don't know that I
would separate myself and be able to be so like
have my own thing. And it's I think it's impressive
what you've done because you I think of you now
as together but also a separate.
Speaker 5 (38:05):
In Yeah, yeah, that's it.
Speaker 2 (38:07):
Yeah, I know it's funny because I I'm like such
a like go getter, and I want to like be
my own person, and obviously, like being a wife is
my like literal favorite thing in this entire world, so
I wouldn't ever change that. But it is funny that
I'm like trying to like be my own person and
I literally have the exact same name as my husband.
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Like it's sometimes I lay in about it and I'm like,
this is so fun Like do you understand.
Speaker 3 (38:31):
How much I love, Like I wish I had the
same name as my husband, Like I I envy that
so much.
Speaker 4 (38:36):
I think it's the cutest thing.
Speaker 2 (38:37):
Ever.
Speaker 4 (38:38):
I'm like, I wish we'd the same name.
Speaker 5 (38:40):
You mean change? You're doing your name change? So you
could you could.
Speaker 3 (38:43):
Change through the hustle bustle to change my name. I
bet you don't have to go through this.
Speaker 5 (38:48):
It's a lot.
Speaker 3 (38:48):
It's to change your last name, right, yeah, I'm changing
my full name.
Speaker 4 (38:52):
Do I to go to court? I like file a thing.
Speaker 3 (38:55):
I had to put a I have a ad in
the newspaper right now, basically like saying if I even
he wants to protest my name, change to call the courts.
Speaker 1 (39:02):
Like it's so you could have changed it to Robbie
r O b B I E.
Speaker 4 (39:07):
Oh, like a different spelling of it. Yeah, I know, shoot,
I could have.
Speaker 5 (39:14):
That's funny. It cracks me up. Yeah, it's so cute.
It's a great story. It's just too much, do you
I know, we to.
Speaker 1 (39:22):
I don't like asking about kids, but you mentioned one day,
so I feel like it's a safe space of asking
if that is something you'll are wanting in your future
for sure.
Speaker 2 (39:31):
Yeah, I mean I've wanted to again, I'm an only child,
so I've always wanted to be a mom and that's
like been my goal for my life. But yeah, I
think that day will come sooner than later. That's excited
way yeah, because I'm.
Speaker 1 (39:47):
As an only as an only child, do you want multiple?
Speaker 5 (39:51):
Do you want a lot? Or do you are you
like let's go one at a time.
Speaker 4 (39:54):
See.
Speaker 2 (39:54):
I used to want five kids because I was like
I really wanted a big family, and now I'm like
it changed once. It actually changed once I met Taylor
because I used to like want to be married young.
I wanted to like start having a family young and
like all of that, and then when I met Taylor,
I was like, oh, I actually am like really content
with where I'm at.
Speaker 1 (40:13):
That's just like how you know you're like in the
right relationship.
Speaker 5 (40:19):
But then in nursing.
Speaker 2 (40:20):
School, I saw when I was doing my rotations, I
saw a vaginal birth for the first time.
Speaker 1 (40:26):
And I went home.
Speaker 2 (40:26):
I said, Hunt, I can't have a child until I
forget what that looked like, because it was there's a
reason our heads are placed up here and not down there. No,
this angle is a lot better than the receiving angle.
Speaker 1 (40:39):
No, so you're still remembering it.
Speaker 5 (40:43):
It's almost gone.
Speaker 1 (40:44):
Now.
Speaker 2 (40:44):
My best friend just had a baby and she's a
labor and delivery nurse, so if she literally does that
for her career.
Speaker 1 (40:49):
Then I can.
Speaker 5 (40:50):
I can. Yeah, birth one.
Speaker 2 (40:52):
Now it's gone, and I'm like, I'm ready to make
that next up.
Speaker 1 (40:57):
Yeah, but do you know what I always think, like,
how many people have multiple kids?
Speaker 5 (41:02):
They've done it once?
Speaker 1 (41:03):
If it was that bad or if your brain didn't
forget about it, not this many people would do it again.
Speaker 5 (41:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (41:10):
No, that's exactly what my best friend was like, because
I've always said I wanted to see section because I
was like, you can just make the time you go in,
they cut you up, and they take the baby, You're
all done. But that's so I've always said I want
to see section and she was like on the fence
about it.
Speaker 5 (41:25):
And now after having her own child.
Speaker 1 (41:26):
She was like, Okay, you can do the sea section.
I'll allow it.
Speaker 5 (41:29):
But she was like I literally like she was like,
I do it ten times over. I know, I know.
I guess we'll find.
Speaker 1 (41:38):
Out like the baby is Tay Junior Taylor.
Speaker 5 (41:46):
I gotta do something funny with that, Yeah you do.
Speaker 4 (41:50):
I don't know roll lot yet or like reverse Taylor
like legit.
Speaker 5 (41:58):
I don't know if they would like that name.
Speaker 4 (42:00):
Yeah, ro yet whatever, there's something there.
Speaker 1 (42:04):
Okay, you should just announce it like as a joke.
Speaker 5 (42:09):
I do like the name.
Speaker 1 (42:11):
And then tejjte yeah.
Speaker 5 (42:17):
I had to What is the future for podcast?
Speaker 1 (42:24):
Do you have any dream Who's your dream guests to
have on the podcast?
Speaker 2 (42:29):
I have a lot. The one that I like love
to say is Matthew McConaughey because I'm just like obsessed
with him.
Speaker 4 (42:34):
That's a good one.
Speaker 5 (42:35):
But I don't know.
Speaker 2 (42:36):
I feel like I have like a few people, but
I think him probably he's need to get someone from
the summer turned pretty.
Speaker 5 (42:45):
On the podcast to wait, how have it not happened? Schedules?
Speaker 1 (42:50):
Oh, yeah, because I feel like they would absolutely do it.
I mean, I feel like you've met album like like
you're all so sweet too.
Speaker 4 (42:56):
Schedules are tough.
Speaker 2 (42:58):
Schedules are really hard. Yeah, That's what I've really learned
since having this. It's actually been really cool to like
be on this other side of the podcast because like normally, like, oh,
like booking, like on the booking side, like we like schedule,
Like I'm in the emails and I'm like scheduling everyone.
So it's like cool to see like the other side
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of the industry because you don't really oh right outside yeah,
necessarily from like our position.
Speaker 5 (43:24):
What do you ever just reach out? Like when? Because
I feel like you probably have a.
Speaker 1 (43:28):
Lot of people on your phone, so you could just
well to call her up, but you could just text
and be like, hey, would you want to come on
the podcast or do you have do you go through
like the professional?
Speaker 2 (43:38):
We we definitely go either either Taylor and I will
like DM someone or we'll go through the professional because
we don't, like I never want someone to like feel
like uncomfortable for like, but just put someone in awkward
position if that's not something they're wanting to do right now,
then I don't want them to like feel like they
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have to answer that, So I rather like go through
their team and their team can say it, and of course,
like we don't carr either way, but I would rather
not like put someone in that position.
Speaker 1 (44:07):
Yeah right, I don't want to be the middleman. Yeah,
just keep it professional. Yeah, okay. So Matthew McConaughey, I
feel like we'll be seeing a teaser for Matthew McConaughey
coming on The Squeeze soon one day, or.
Speaker 2 (44:20):
Like Mark Wahlberg, I'm also obsessed with him. It's so random.
I feel like that's those are like my two answers
I always give, and that's a very random.
Speaker 5 (44:27):
Well.
Speaker 1 (44:28):
I love Matthew McConaughey, but Mark Wahlberg does random.
Speaker 4 (44:32):
Yeah, just because I feel like he like.
Speaker 1 (44:36):
Whatever energy high he has.
Speaker 4 (44:38):
Yeah, you're right, You're like so right.
Speaker 2 (44:40):
So Sude has like he's done four am, has worked out,
had breakfast, golf, eighteen holes. Like it's just he's he's
certainly done the whole day by eight thirty am.
Speaker 4 (44:50):
What is it?
Speaker 1 (44:51):
I that's why I want to talk to him, But
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (44:53):
Yeah, I'm with you on that. I always find that fascinating.
Speaker 5 (44:56):
Let's I explain that the people understand it.
Speaker 2 (44:58):
But like he's just like he's just grinding every day
and it's like so happy about it.
Speaker 4 (45:03):
Yeah, he's a grinder.
Speaker 5 (45:04):
I didn't know I know about him.
Speaker 3 (45:06):
No, people who have endless energy so fascinating. Like my
acupuncturist always ask every time I come in for acupuncture,
how's your energy been?
Speaker 4 (45:14):
I'm like, low, I mean every.
Speaker 3 (45:16):
Day, like I'm tired every day, Like what do you
want from me? And that's like does anybody ever say
that they like have a lot of energy? And she's
like yeah, actually, And I'm like I need to meet
these people.
Speaker 5 (45:26):
What are well?
Speaker 1 (45:26):
Like what are the things that you do for like
if you're noticing that you're feeling like off mental health wise,
what are the things that you do to like check
back in, like tune beck in.
Speaker 5 (45:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (45:37):
Recently I've really been into working out again. I feel
like I took a really long time like not wanting
to work out. In the past few weeks, I've been
like obsessed with it, just any like any bar, yoga,
going outside, walking, like literally anything. I've been loving that.
I love simple things like if I'm anxious during the day,
(46:00):
I'll go outside and literally like lay on the cement
in my backyard and just like lay in the sun
for like ten minutes and like get like the blood
flowing a little bit, get a little sweaty, and it
like is the best thing.
Speaker 1 (46:11):
Whoa, It's literally the easiest thing we've never done. That
we go and just like we'll go stand on our
in our yard in the front and with our feet
in the grass if we're feeling both feeling like off. Yeah,
trend of like touching grass, Like it's a funny trend,
but it's like it's it's.
Speaker 5 (46:29):
Actually exactly true.
Speaker 4 (46:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (46:32):
No, I think those are the biggest things.
Speaker 2 (46:33):
I think, making sure I'm taking time off my phone, Yeah,
spending time with Taylor the dogs. I love cleaning, so
like that's a good little I need to clean whenever
I'm like flustered.
Speaker 1 (46:46):
Yeah, I did that more because I always feel so
much better once I do it. But like getting to
the point of doing it takes everything in me.
Speaker 3 (46:55):
They always say, like, if you're feeling like you have
a walck going on your head, if you just like
organize your whatever, like your drawer, you know how you
always have like that junk dwarf. You organize it, it
like does so much for your mental health, and I'm
like I can attest to that.
Speaker 4 (47:10):
Yeah, yeah, very much.
Speaker 1 (47:11):
Do you have any places that you've traveled to that
you're like, this is like my safe space and somewhere
that I want to go when I'm overwhelmed. I mean definitely,
they're just like a little far.
Speaker 5 (47:24):
I know you spend time in You'll spend time.
Speaker 1 (47:27):
In Idaho, right, yeah, And I know people like always
talk about how beautiful it is up there.
Speaker 5 (47:32):
Yeah, what are the far places?
Speaker 2 (47:33):
I well, one of my favorite places ever. I love London,
but but it's a whole farmhouse.
Speaker 5 (47:40):
Oh yeah, I've heard it's amazing. It's a dream. It is.
Speaker 2 (47:44):
It's a dream, but it's a track obviously to get
over there.
Speaker 1 (47:48):
But it just feels so disconnected from world.
Speaker 2 (47:51):
So I feel like it's a really nice I love
like Montacido, Santa Barbara area too, like anywhere up there.
Speaker 1 (47:57):
Yeah, it's super super sweet.
Speaker 5 (48:00):
You Like, I love.
Speaker 2 (48:01):
Nature, so whether that's like an ocean or a mountain,
and I can just leave my phone somewhere and sit
and have a coffee and like look at a view.
Speaker 5 (48:08):
I'm so content.
Speaker 1 (48:09):
Yeah, I feel like you do a really good job
documenting things Because I associate you with like going to
I always think about like you going too, like beautiful places.
Speaker 5 (48:17):
Oh right, yeah.
Speaker 4 (48:18):
That's a nice association.
Speaker 3 (48:21):
Wait, I just had a Oh this is so so random,
so random, and I don't know, I feel like I
just got married, But I don't know why.
Speaker 4 (48:29):
I'm so maybe because you're getting married.
Speaker 3 (48:32):
I've been thinking about weddings a lot, and like thinking
about like what I would do. Is there anything if
you could go back and do anything differently from your wedding?
Is there anything you would do different or would you
keep it all the same?
Speaker 4 (48:43):
Um?
Speaker 2 (48:46):
Literally, the only thing I would change is I would
change into my second look sooner, sooner, because I missed
the first forty five minutes of the dance floor and
that's like, that's where.
Speaker 1 (48:58):
I meant to be, is the dance for that's where
my heart belongs.
Speaker 2 (49:01):
Yeah, and I missed the first like forty five minutes
to an hour of it, and so I was really
sad about that.
Speaker 1 (49:06):
So when did you can you? Because she had a
thing about this too.
Speaker 4 (49:10):
Wait, I'm so sad I didn't do it earlier.
Speaker 5 (49:12):
When do you do it earlier?
Speaker 1 (49:13):
Though, like when when did you do it versus when
you could have done it earlier?
Speaker 2 (49:17):
I did it after like once. I guess once, like
dinner was like about to wrap.
Speaker 5 (49:23):
Maybe so they did it.
Speaker 2 (49:24):
I know, I'm trying to think it was like after
the speeches and everything is.
Speaker 1 (49:28):
When I so you did like first dance, speeches, dinner
and then changed? Yeah? Wait when did we do our
first dance?
Speaker 5 (49:35):
Oh wait?
Speaker 4 (49:36):
Wait?
Speaker 5 (49:38):
So we did our first dance outside?
Speaker 1 (49:40):
This is really good.
Speaker 5 (49:41):
This is really good for me.
Speaker 1 (49:47):
What do I feel like?
Speaker 5 (49:47):
We did our first nance and then we went inside?
I could be wrong.
Speaker 1 (49:52):
Well, typically when you enter the reception, isn't that when
you do your first dance. Our first dance was outside
of our way.
Speaker 2 (49:59):
There was like we had this piano outside that had
we have a lot of like musically talented friends. So
our friend like played the piano and sang our first
stand song.
Speaker 5 (50:10):
And have you talked about what song that was? What
was your first Yeah?
Speaker 1 (50:13):
It was Lifetime by Jessin Bieber.
Speaker 4 (50:16):
Oh yeah, I love that.
Speaker 1 (50:19):
Yeah, I think it was Lifetime.
Speaker 5 (50:21):
No, it was it.
Speaker 2 (50:22):
It was one of those songs they are guys, you know,
I'm like upseessed with my husband.
Speaker 5 (50:27):
I forget these little details. So I'm just happy about
this Lifetime.
Speaker 1 (50:31):
I know, I know.
Speaker 2 (50:33):
It's it's confusing because I know he also sang our
friend Aiden also sang Heaven's Knife, which was the song
that I walked down the aisle to. And it's also
the song Taylor proposed to me too, Like you know,
I love that song. So our friend Aiden recorded it
and then Taylor played it while he was proposing, And
that was also the song that I walked on.
Speaker 5 (50:51):
The aisle too.
Speaker 1 (50:52):
It was lifetime.
Speaker 5 (50:53):
Wow, I have to fact check this out.
Speaker 2 (50:56):
I'm like second guessing myself because he has another sweet
song about Haley.
Speaker 5 (51:02):
Look, I think it's too much but much. I think
it was lifetime. It was thank you quick Google searchain,
we got it. Thank you. Yeah, I guess I need
to rewatch my wedding.
Speaker 1 (51:17):
Time to day till in the anniversary coming up that
you can rewatch. Y'all can have a night and watch
the video.
Speaker 5 (51:24):
Yeah, we're definitely. E'scared to see this clip and he's
gonna be like, bro, what is wrong with you?
Speaker 4 (51:30):
It's very funny because I think, like what anniversary would be?
Speaker 3 (51:34):
This is our third third? If I asked Robby and
our third wedding anniversary. If he doesn't remember our first dance.
Speaker 1 (51:40):
I think he'll remember it was He'll remember it was
blocked in was everywhere in the wedding.
Speaker 5 (51:48):
Wait, what are the have y'all done? The anniversary things?
Like every year there's a what.
Speaker 4 (51:53):
Is the gift that you like?
Speaker 1 (51:54):
The traditional gifts like the first one's paper, second one
is florals. I think I don't know he skipped the
floor on what's the third? You can really you can
impress them with the third. The third one is a
leather you.
Speaker 5 (52:11):
Could get she loves leathers. This is good.
Speaker 1 (52:15):
This could get and you could be like, why Ohana,
I was thinking.
Speaker 4 (52:23):
My mind went to like leather lingerie, she's crunching up
cow girl.
Speaker 5 (52:33):
Yeah. I was literally like a cute little wallet. He
loves the smell of leather, so he like loves.
Speaker 2 (52:40):
Even better All Saints, all Saints jacket.
Speaker 5 (52:44):
That'd because.
Speaker 2 (52:47):
My mind always goes because this could be this could
be dirty dirty.
Speaker 1 (52:53):
Yeah, well you could impress them and be like, I
don't know if you know, but every anniversary has a
theme and this year's leather, which which I direction you go,
I'll report back.
Speaker 3 (53:04):
Where would you even find naughty and nice. Oh my gosh,
a leather like crotches panty.
Speaker 4 (53:09):
I can find one right now.
Speaker 5 (53:10):
In her drawer.
Speaker 4 (53:11):
Yeah. Yeah, you don't think I have one, You are mistaken.
I can find you one right now.
Speaker 5 (53:18):
I just did.
Speaker 2 (53:18):
My girlfriend just got married in for her bachelorette we
all like got her lingerie and then she like modeled
it for us.
Speaker 5 (53:25):
It was the cutest thing.
Speaker 1 (53:26):
But I was like, I could literally never do that
for my girl.
Speaker 5 (53:29):
I would never. I could never. Yeah that's a lot.
Let me see on Amazon.
Speaker 4 (53:37):
Okay, yeah, I just because it was the easiest thing. Okay,
I'm just trying to give you inspiration.
Speaker 5 (53:47):
That didn't look croutchless to me.
Speaker 3 (53:49):
Yeah, you want to see crotches, Oh you can this
little situation.
Speaker 4 (53:53):
Wow, that looks like feather. Not really.
Speaker 5 (53:56):
Look, I don't know if I'm bad enough.
Speaker 4 (53:58):
Yeah, I'm just saying the world, the world is your oyster.
Oh wow?
Speaker 5 (54:02):
Is that?
Speaker 4 (54:02):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (54:02):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (54:03):
She would absolutely do a lingerie modeling, even with Crotchla's fancy.
She would have no problem doing that. For I did
her boudoir shoe. I I did that for my girlfriend,
and I was literally.
Speaker 4 (54:15):
Crap, you have the photos.
Speaker 5 (54:17):
Yeah, I called Taylor. I was like, I was just
creative director. It's fine, just like girls are weird, but like.
Speaker 4 (54:23):
It's so true.
Speaker 3 (54:24):
I was looking to hire somebody to do it, and
I was like, I'm going to pay thousands of dollars
and it's quite uncomfortable to be around, like in my
crossles panties in front of a stranger.
Speaker 4 (54:33):
Why not. Becca takes amazing photos.
Speaker 5 (54:36):
Really take them on my canon G seven X. Oh yeah,
I did, like polaroids.
Speaker 2 (54:42):
So we need a thing where you like go up
to him at the wedding and like show him the photo.
Speaker 5 (54:46):
Oh you seen that trend?
Speaker 2 (54:48):
Yeah, that that's what That's what we did for.
Speaker 5 (54:52):
It's funny.
Speaker 1 (54:53):
Well, I just want to say thank you for using
your outing of the house today to come and talk
to us.
Speaker 5 (55:00):
Yeah, we love you. I love what you do.
Speaker 1 (55:02):
I love your podcast, I love your foundation, I love you,
I love your husband. I think y'all are wonderful.
Speaker 3 (55:08):
And we support everything and anything that you guys do.
Speaker 5 (55:11):
Yeah, thank you for coming on.
Speaker 4 (55:13):
Can you plug where everybody can watch listen all the things.
Speaker 5 (55:16):
Yeah, the Squeeze podcasts.
Speaker 1 (55:19):
We're at the Squeeze on Instagram.
Speaker 2 (55:20):
If you look up the Squeeze podcast on YouTube, on Spotify,
wherever you get your.
Speaker 1 (55:25):
Podcast, and where can they follow you. I'm just at
tail ouner.
Speaker 2 (55:30):
I'm missus tail outner on TikTok because someone has tail
louner and they won't give it to me unless I
pay them.
Speaker 1 (55:35):
So we're missus tail outner even more of a just
a flex like, oh yeah, you know you don't want
me to have my name, let me add a little.
Speaker 5 (55:42):
M rs yeah.
Speaker 4 (55:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (55:45):
Thank you guys, thank you so much, thank you for
We love you.
Speaker 4 (55:49):
We love you.
Speaker 5 (55:50):
Bye bye
Scrubbing In with Betha.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio and two times People's
Choice Award winning podcast.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in, but it ain't just.
Speaker 4 (00:17):
Scrubbing in pad.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Yeah, we got another podcaster herself here with us today.
Speaker 3 (00:23):
Yes, she's a podcaster. She is a philanthropist, she is
a mental health advocate.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
She does it all, she really does it all.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
And we've had her here before, but we're so happy
to have her back.
Speaker 5 (00:36):
Everyone. Welcome Tay Loudner.
Speaker 1 (00:43):
Did I say the name right, Louner Loutner, okay, because
for a long time.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Said no, yes, yes, okay, yeah it is Loutner.
Speaker 5 (00:54):
But you can, okay because I discriminate.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
I'll say Loutner and people be like it's Loutner and
I'm like, but I was corrected on that.
Speaker 5 (01:02):
So you're here.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Just set the record straight. You can say whatever you want,
but the correct way is Loudner. Yes, okay, thank you,
welcome back. Thanks, We're so happy to have you here.
Speaker 5 (01:12):
We were just talking about how when.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
You you were last year with Taylor, but we wanted
to do you by yourself.
Speaker 5 (01:19):
It's just like we didn't need we didn't need a time.
Speaker 1 (01:21):
We didn't need Taylor with the full name.
Speaker 5 (01:24):
We just needed to take.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
Yeah, I feel like there's been so much that has
happened in your life since we saw you though. Yeah,
you had both yours too, all of us. Really you
had just gotten well married a few months before we
talked to you. Yes, but it's been three years since
you started your podcast, your foundation, because that was all
(01:47):
kind of around the same time, right, Yeah, And I
feel like y'all's podcast y'all have just crushed it. It's
hard to I mean, podcasts, they were gone, they come
and gone, And I think people the thing about podcasts is,
at the end of the day, it's easy because you're
just talking about things that you love and you're talking
to people that you love and have interest in. Yeah,
(02:09):
but it's harder in this I think it's harder than
people realize to keep it going.
Speaker 5 (02:13):
Sure.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
Yeah, I always tell my friends because I've had multiple,
multiple people come up to me and be like, I
think I want to start a podcast, Like Okay, you've
really got to think about it, Like, do you have
more than like three weeks of content you can talk about?
Speaker 5 (02:25):
Because it's so fun and.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
There is like an ease to it, but also like
it is. I didn't realize how like full time it is.
And I'm like very hands on with like I'm giving
like my editor, like I'm watching every episode, giving the cuts,
giving the time stamps, like I'm very involved in every episode,
which I love because it's like my child.
Speaker 5 (02:43):
But yeah, I love it.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
How does it work? Because y'all have had some guests.
I mean, obviously you get really big guests in the
sense of big and pop culture and like people that
are relevant in terms of like TV shows and whatnot.
But you've also had guests where you had more serious
conversations like Stacy Chapin, who is than Chapin's mom and
he was one of the victims from the University of Idaho,
(03:05):
And those are really hard, heavy conversations.
Speaker 5 (03:10):
Yeah, how do you do that?
Speaker 1 (03:12):
You know? I honestly don't know.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
And it's a like a form of journalism that I
really never like thought I would do.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
In those episodes are truly my favorite.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Uh. It really just starts with when we have those stories,
like we had Chad Frankie on who's one of the
Ruby Frankie's kids. We've had Gabby Petito's mom, on. So
we've had like these really heavy episodes that are like
are like real I call the episodes, but I just
it's really important for me to provide the guest with
(03:44):
the right questions so that they can share their story
and are like number one thing is we always want
people to feel like safe, like have a space, safe space,
because you know, Taylor's been in the industry for a
really long time and he has had word twisted and
that's just like a very like common thing of they're
gonna ask these questions and not these and that's a
big thing.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
That we strive for.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
So I really just have wanted to provide people like
that safe spaces to share their story to where they know,
like I'm not just doing it for a clickbait, Like
I actually genuinely think that these people like need like
a platform to just amplify their story more. And it's
been the most rewarding thing. It's been really cool. And
(04:27):
also like Stacy, like I still text her, like we
still keep in touch, and it's really cool, like with
the closure of the case and stuff, being able to
like talk with her, and I spent a decent amount
of my summer up in Idaho and I actually had
multiple people come up to me and just thank us
for doing that episode. And I didn't really realize how
(04:47):
much of an impact it had on the people of
Idaho specifically, but I've had multiple people come up to
me and like cry to me in the middle of
a store base just from that episode. So it's just
been like, it's really cool, Like I have chills thinking
about it.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Just the impact that me wanting to have this human.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
On because they have a really incredible stories like has
become it's awesome.
Speaker 1 (05:09):
Well, I also think you're you're giving them a platform
to keep their kids' stories alive and their lives, to
keep saying their name and talking about them in a
way that's not because obviously what happened to a lot
of these people is the most traumatic thing that can happen,
and you're giving them a space to talk about them
in a way that keeps their spirit and who they
are alive. And it's really beautiful. And I'm so impressed
(05:30):
because you do. I mean, it's a flip from doing
a normal podcast, like a culture podcast, so it's really impressive.
Speaker 3 (05:40):
I feel like, so the podcast Lemon's by Tay the Foundation,
everything is geared towards mental health.
Speaker 4 (05:47):
Yeah, so I wanted to ask.
Speaker 3 (05:48):
You just in general, generally speaking, how is your mental
health right now?
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Yeah? I think it's in a great spot right now.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
I feel like I had a little bit of summer
to rest in kind of reset myself. I'm definitely the
type of person that is like just I go one
hundred miles an hour, like all the time, and I
don't stop.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
And my husband's very.
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Like, okay, like just take a moment, calm down, and
he catches me before I'm like spiral d. Yeah, because
bernot is definitely something that I experienced when I was nursing,
so it's a little easier for me to catch it,
but he definitely will help me catch it.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
But but yeah, what was the question?
Speaker 5 (06:27):
Well I forgot how was your mental health?
Speaker 1 (06:30):
I'm happy though, I'm like in such a fun place
right now. I feel like we're.
Speaker 2 (06:33):
Entering like the time of year that is like my
favorite too, So I'm like, yeah, I love fall.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
This is this is like your time to shine.
Speaker 5 (06:40):
Yeah, this is like my time of year. What is it?
Speaker 4 (06:42):
Is it Halloween or what Thanksgiving or Christmas or all
of it?
Speaker 5 (06:45):
I think all of it.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
I don't know I love Fall.
Speaker 2 (06:47):
I mean, we got married in Fall, so I'm just
like like leaves turning like cozy fireplace cloudy.
Speaker 1 (06:54):
I also associate y'all with Halloween because the parties.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Yeah, I know, I know Taylor's been really wanting to
do another one party and I just don't.
Speaker 5 (07:01):
I just don't know if I can I can do
it because it's a lot of work.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
It is a lot of work.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
And also the house that we used to have those
parties in really like could fit like two hundred people,
and now I don't. I don't want my house cannot
fit that many people. But also I don't really want
that many people in my house now.
Speaker 5 (07:18):
So now like I really love my home.
Speaker 2 (07:21):
Like that house was like Taylor's house before I were
like together, so it was like man cave and it
could do it.
Speaker 5 (07:26):
But now like I have like my sweet.
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Little home, and I'm like, I don't really want that
many people in there.
Speaker 5 (07:31):
Yeah, that house was the house.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
It was a.
Speaker 5 (07:35):
Huge I know it was. It was insane. It was
way too big.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
I was gonna ask about you were talking about, So
does is there something you do or like say where
he goes hey time for a break, because like I
feel like Haley, it's probably like I start picking fights
and she's like, hey, you're at capacity, what's going on?
Speaker 5 (07:56):
Yeah, and it like halts me.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
I think it's just when I'm like absent, like I
could like lock myself in my office and just be
on my computer like all day. So if I'm not
like having a moment like a meal with Taylor or
like we're not like sitting down watching football or watching
whatever show we're watching, like, that's like our time to
just like not be on the phones or on the
computer and doing stuff. So it's probably that when I've
(08:20):
been like running around like crazy and he's like, Hi,
like where have you been.
Speaker 1 (08:24):
I'm here too, So I think it's that that makes sense.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
I knew that time every day, every day, all day,
every day. At the end of the day, Yeah, how's
your day. I want to know what you had for breakfast,
what you ate for lunch, what clients you saw, what
videos you saw on Instagram, Like I'm like catching me
up on your day. Yeah, you know, like I'll spill
everything and he just says, oh, that's good.
Speaker 4 (08:46):
Yeah, really need more than that.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Haley is a Tanya and she needs to recap and
know everything too, And I'm like, oh, I didn't know this,
not any I don't have any more details to give.
Speaker 5 (08:57):
This is just what it is. That's so funny.
Speaker 2 (08:59):
I know I see Taylor because like I work from
home and he's home right now, and like we're just home,
Like we're just home.
Speaker 5 (09:04):
Together all the time.
Speaker 4 (09:06):
And my dream.
Speaker 2 (09:07):
I'm like, I'm gonna go like take a work a
class or whatever. He's like, oh, but lunch. I'm like, honey,
we we This is what I love about him so much.
Speaker 5 (09:14):
I'm like we just had.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
We had the whole day and the whole week before.
Speaker 5 (09:17):
I need to like go leave the home.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
I'm like a leave the home person. Taylor could stay
in the house for forever.
Speaker 5 (09:23):
He loves his time. I'm gonna stay in the house.
Speaker 4 (09:25):
Person.
Speaker 5 (09:25):
Haley's to leave the home person.
Speaker 3 (09:26):
I'm to say, in the house person, Robbie's to leave
the house person.
Speaker 5 (09:29):
I need, I need, I need to leave.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
I love the house, but I just need to go,
like to target and do a lap and then come
back and I'm like fresh and ready to.
Speaker 5 (09:36):
Go, ready to sit. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:40):
Speaking of shows, you, I feel like I also think
of you when I think of the summer.
Speaker 5 (09:44):
I turn pretty.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
I had that topic prepared because we have to talk about.
Speaker 5 (09:49):
Oh, the rage bait that she puts out.
Speaker 1 (09:50):
Yeah, it's weird right now, because you've gone back and forth,
You've gone back and forth.
Speaker 3 (09:56):
It's so apparent that this show is ske to make
us all want Conrad. It is so unbelievably skewed in
that direction when you really look.
Speaker 4 (10:07):
At the facts.
Speaker 1 (10:09):
Yeah, that she should just not be with either of them.
Speaker 3 (10:13):
Fair, I take that over the Conrad stands. Yeah, it's
just like, it's so obvious. I know, it's exactly like
the Edward Jacob thing. I know we're all meant to
love Edward, but Jacob was the one.
Speaker 5 (10:27):
I think.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
I think the it's hard because I feel like the
Twilight franchise made Jacob more likable than has made Jeremiah.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
No, no, yes, because in the books, I was so
team Edward, but then in the movies of Twilight, I
was like, wait, yeah.
Speaker 5 (10:43):
I'm team and my team Edward. It was the New Moon.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
It was when respectfully he took his shirt off.
Speaker 5 (10:53):
And had the hour. I get it, I get it, But.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
Yeah, they I do feel like and I didn't read
the summary term pretty books, so I don't know like
how they made him look I need to I've read.
Speaker 2 (11:09):
I've read the first one. I want to read the
last two to like see what how it is.
Speaker 3 (11:14):
Jeremiah always loved her. Conrad, on the other hand, like
a pickle did.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
I just went back and started watching the first season though,
and it does, yes, tell me, it does start.
Speaker 2 (11:30):
The first like inkling that someone like someone is. Belly
and Conrad are standing at the end of the thing though,
and Jeremiah shoots the fire work at them, and that's
I feel like the first time he's like jealous, and
then he's starting to like show, so then that makes
me feel like it actually has been Conrad, though, I.
Speaker 5 (11:54):
Was like, I'm not she's not gonna like what I'm
gonna say what I'm rewatching them.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
I actually did just rewatch the first season and like
an entire day, and you're still Conrad.
Speaker 4 (12:04):
Okay.
Speaker 2 (12:05):
I was torn the first two seasons, and then I
realized this last season that I am Conrad.
Speaker 3 (12:13):
Because of the way that it was fixated, fixed to
make you want them to end up together.
Speaker 4 (12:24):
Maybe I don't know, see I'm swaying her.
Speaker 5 (12:28):
I don't know. I don't think you are.
Speaker 4 (12:30):
I think I am come to my side day.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
I'm just excited for the movie.
Speaker 5 (12:34):
I mean too, but.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
Is carew predictable the Conrad girls, but that's what we want.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
We literally were like starving for this whole season and
barely got fed the last like three episodes.
Speaker 4 (12:46):
So it's not what I wanted. So there's still time.
There's still time.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
Can you imagine she literally makes the movie that she
like leaves them at the altar?
Speaker 1 (12:58):
Suredy did that superdictable?
Speaker 5 (13:00):
I'm just leaving the altar.
Speaker 4 (13:02):
It's not rage bait. This is like legit.
Speaker 5 (13:03):
It's feeling.
Speaker 4 (13:04):
No.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
I feel that Taylor, I think feels the same way
his team Jeremiah.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Well, I mean yeah, he has been because it's like
Jacob so he's were friends with Gavin, so he's like
he's sinking by Gavin.
Speaker 2 (13:17):
But no, I think this season was hard though, because
Taylor hasn't watched the first two seasons. I think he
watched the finale of the second season with me because
I had like all my girlfriends over and we watched together,
and he's just like he's one of the.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
Girls, so he wanted to be a part of the fun.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
And then he was like, what am I watching, but
this whole last season he had to watch with me
because I didn't have anyone with me, and he would
go on like tangents, like after each episode for like eight.
Speaker 1 (13:40):
Minutes about yeah, just like how they wrote him.
Speaker 2 (13:44):
He's like, they make him so unlikable and blah blah blah,
and so they do.
Speaker 3 (13:49):
But in the third season, Yeah, it's not till this
last season, Robert, they did.
Speaker 5 (13:53):
There was a shift.
Speaker 4 (13:54):
Yeah, for sure. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
I also just don't think they had as much chemistry
as Oh my god, I don't.
Speaker 4 (13:59):
I don't.
Speaker 5 (14:00):
You can't make that up. You either have a really
great chemistry you don't.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
And I feel like Belli and Conrad had better chemistry.
They were really good actors and had bad chemistry on purpose.
Speaker 5 (14:13):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (14:14):
Respectfully, we can agree to disagree, Okay.
Speaker 1 (14:16):
Well, one thing I was thinking about that we never
talked about because it happened. It already had happened when
you all came on the podcast, But what we saw
about it was after the podcast, We're gonna take a
break and come back.
Speaker 4 (14:28):
Away way, why what are you talking about?
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Wow? That left everyone in the room me at the
edge of their seat literally, just like out of her chair.
So after y'all came on the podcast, Uh Taylor Slush
released a music video I can see You she did
where Taylor was in this in the music video, and
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y'all kept that.
Speaker 5 (15:21):
We were just.
Speaker 1 (15:22):
Talking to y'all, looking at you in the eye, talking
all things. Taylor stillft and no mention of it.
Speaker 6 (15:28):
Lockdown, no easter, not a nothing was hatched.
Speaker 5 (15:36):
How are your what are your thoughts on life of
a showgirl? It you love it? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (15:40):
It's I mean I love a moodie Taylor album, but
this one is just just happy.
Speaker 1 (15:45):
She's in love, but it's it's fun.
Speaker 2 (15:47):
I'm convinced that people that I know that don't like
it aren't in love and aren't happy. Oh very small
pooled my five girlfriends, and four out of the five
of us are in relationships, and the one girlfriend that
doesn't like it is single.
Speaker 5 (16:07):
Oh, she's just gonna say this back.
Speaker 2 (16:09):
I was literally texting her this morning and I didn't
call her out on it, but I was being a
nice friend.
Speaker 5 (16:12):
But she's gonna say this now. It's no.
Speaker 2 (16:15):
I don't know if there's truth to that, but you
might be onto something, but it's just like it's happy
like I feel like it like reminds me of like
just a happy like Sabrina carving her rout, like she's
just happy she's in love. Like I think of my
Taylor and half the songs like it's just happy she's
in love.
Speaker 4 (16:33):
That's an interesting take. Were you gonna do a little research.
Speaker 1 (16:35):
Were you in Taylor friends before y'all uh like became
romantic or were y'all ever?
Speaker 2 (16:42):
I mean not, well, in my brain we were friends,
not his brain, because his sister brought me over to
his house and she had told him that she was
bringing someone that she wanted to set him up with.
Speaker 5 (16:55):
But I was just going as like a friend. She
didn't tell you. It was like a yeah.
Speaker 2 (17:01):
So Taylor was like talking to me, and I was like, oh,
he's just like a really intentional talker and he was
actually just like trying to hit on me, but you know,
he's so nice, so he's like he was not whenever
I say tell the story, He's like, baby, make me
look like I have like no swagger like anything. I'm like, no,
I think that's hot. Like he like genuinely was just
talking to me. Wasn't trying to like get it.
Speaker 1 (17:21):
With my girl the first five seconds of knowing me.
Speaker 3 (17:23):
No, yeah, it's nice, refreshing, green flag all around, Yeah,
the greenest of flags.
Speaker 1 (17:30):
Yeah. How is it working together? It's fun because okay,
but but in all honesty, be honest here, No, Hayley
will always be like like there's been talks of like, oh,
should we do something we're working together?
Speaker 5 (17:45):
Yeah, and I'm just like, you know, I think that
we are.
Speaker 1 (17:50):
Better not doing that, like just knowing, like thinking about
if we were to do like a podcast or something, yea,
that it would be hard if like, yeah, it's called
scrubbing out with not getting Haley. But I just think
about working like having to go, you know, having a
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relationship and either bickering or getting to fight and then
having to sit down and be on and talking.
Speaker 5 (18:16):
You know.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
But have y'all have y'all run into that or I
feel like y'all are very just weird.
Speaker 2 (18:22):
I mean for sure, like if you're we've been doing
the podcast for however long, and I'm of course we've
like disagreed or like someone thought something different than the other.
Speaker 5 (18:33):
But no, I think it's really fun.
Speaker 1 (18:35):
It's been cool because you know, Taylor's.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
Like lived a whole He's lived a whole life before
me even knowing him, so it's really cool for me
to like learn from him too.
Speaker 5 (18:46):
And he's so creative with stuff, so it's fun.
Speaker 2 (18:50):
We're actually planning a we have we're filming with someone
tomorrow who we're really excited about, and we're filming the
like promo like teaser. We're filming a teaser radio to
tease who it is. So like when it comes to
stuff like that, it's interesting.
Speaker 4 (19:07):
Yeah, who is this guest?
Speaker 3 (19:11):
I don't know, but you're both excited and you're filming
it tomorrow.
Speaker 5 (19:18):
Do they have the same name as you? No, No,
I can't. It's something exciting.
Speaker 2 (19:28):
It's someone from Taylor's past, but we're filming that's the Again,
he's lived a life, so there's a lot of people
in his past that's true.
Speaker 1 (19:35):
There's Oh yeah, that's so.
Speaker 3 (19:39):
I do think about that because I feel like, what if, like,
have you have you ever got have you ever been
in a fight and then had to, like you have
work the next morning, you're working together and you just
have to kind of suck it up and do it.
Speaker 1 (19:52):
We don't really like fight because I just don't.
Speaker 2 (19:55):
It's because I don't speak, that's that's actually it's and
it's a problem I need to like address wren therapy,
So you just like internalize, yeah, in the sense of
like Taylor will express to me if he's upset or
something's going on, and I just say sorry, and I
can't like process. He's like, no, like I want to
hear like what you're feeling, and I'm like my brain
like tweaks out and I can't.
Speaker 5 (20:15):
I know, I don't know.
Speaker 1 (20:16):
No, I think that's Oh, I like I've had to
work on there so much. Yeah, I need time, and
Healey's like wants to resolve it right there. Yeah, but
I'm like I'm not ready and I I I guess
it's like an avoidant thing, like maybe avoidant attach it
like there's something from that part of my life where
I just shut down. And in my mind I've always
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thought that being silent mean like keeping the peace, but
it really just lingers.
Speaker 2 (20:43):
Yeah no, yeah, yeah, it's probably not. Probably it is
definitely way healthier to like talk about it in the moment, but.
Speaker 5 (20:52):
You do have like if but I can't.
Speaker 2 (20:55):
So yeah, we don't really find that's so crazy.
Speaker 3 (20:59):
Actually, like I always I don't believe people when they
say that they don't fight.
Speaker 1 (21:02):
I know, but we really don't ever, like.
Speaker 3 (21:07):
Because like if somebody expresses something like you're saying, if
he expresses something, you just take it and you're like okay,
like you don't like fight back.
Speaker 4 (21:13):
Oh wow, I should learn that.
Speaker 2 (21:17):
There's pros and cons, right, I think to it. But
we're also like so I think because we have gone
through so much like mental health stuff each of us,
we've really learned to like communicate with the other. And
I think also like we when we first started dating,
we were like long distance. We speed dated for like
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two weeks and then we did long distance for like
two and a half months. So I feel like we
got really good at talking.
Speaker 1 (21:44):
So we were really good at communicating kind of from
the beginning.
Speaker 5 (21:48):
And we both know.
Speaker 2 (21:50):
I mean, we've been together for like eight years, so
I feel like I know, like if he's upset about something,
I know, like like maybe it's not actually what's going on,
it's something else happened, So I know, like that's what's
going on. If yeah, I'm sad or he knows if
I'm like being quiet, then I'm dealing with something. So
I think there's maybe like a level of that, but yeah,
I think we're also just like kind of very similar
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in a lot of ways, so we kind of know
what the other is thinking.
Speaker 4 (22:16):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (22:17):
But I gotta learn to talk, and you would agree
with that.
Speaker 5 (22:21):
It's so my therapist tomorrow.
Speaker 3 (22:23):
I gotta learn to shut up because I just, I
just I wish I could do that.
Speaker 2 (22:30):
Yeah, if I I think I I think I could.
But then I feel like if I were to say,
like what I'm thinking, it wouldn't like come out right
because my brain just like it like fires off, and
I feel like I can't like formulate a thought. So
if I were to like try to say my thoughts, it.
Speaker 4 (22:46):
Would be like a little jumble. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (22:47):
Yeah, like it doesn't come out as in my head
what I want to say never comes out as eloquent
or like concise as I want it too. So then
she's like wait what, And then I'm like what, That's.
Speaker 5 (23:00):
What I meant. I just I'll just shut up. It's
better if I don't talk.
Speaker 2 (23:05):
I know.
Speaker 5 (23:05):
I feel that.
Speaker 1 (23:07):
Have you had a guest on the podcast where you
had a I don't know impression of them and then
they came on and they like blew you away, either
change your impression, yeah, or change your impression. Oh yeah,
I definitely feel like I've had a few of those.
Let me think, I.
Speaker 2 (23:25):
Think the first person that that happened with, if I'm
like remembering correctly, would probably be Charlie Dimilio. We had
like the best time with her, and like, I feel
like she said a lot of very like profound things
and she's just like a young TikTok coming on I
don't know what to It was.
Speaker 5 (23:41):
Like a really good conversation. We both like adored her.
Speaker 1 (23:44):
I met her at an event and I was blown
away by how personable she was because I also think
you meet people and they might have a big personality
in front of the camera and like doing tiktoks because
they're comfortable in that like alone space with just their
phone and so I and she's young, so I didn't know, yeah,
if she'd just kind of be like awkward and shy,
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and she was so warm and asked questions and I
was like so impressed by her.
Speaker 5 (24:10):
Yeah, just like wow, she.
Speaker 1 (24:11):
Is really I don't know, you meet people and you're
you're just kind of impressed with how they handle this
attention and fame and how it affects them. For sure,
and it was cool to see how like wonderful and personal.
Speaker 5 (24:25):
She was.
Speaker 3 (24:25):
Yeah, what do you see for the future of the
podcast and the foundation? Oh maybe not even five years,
just like the next year, twenty twenty six.
Speaker 2 (24:37):
Yeah, that's a really great question because I'm the type
of person that like wants to do, as I said,
everything like all at once.
Speaker 1 (24:45):
And I don't know.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
I mean, I just want to continue to have like
really intentional conversations. I think it's cool because I feel
like with our podcast we kind of have like a
cool level of like really heavy conversations and then like
the next week can be like a super light one
that's just like chatty and.
Speaker 1 (25:02):
Talking about whatever is, you know, pop culture stuff.
Speaker 2 (25:05):
So I feel like I want to continue to have
maybe more of those harder conversations because I think those
ones are the most impactful. Like for me, we just
filmed an episode that was the first of its kind
because we had an interpreter in the studio, and so
things like that I want to continue to do.
Speaker 5 (25:27):
Obviously, I love your face so much. I love you.
Speaker 2 (25:34):
Yes, we had an ASL interpreter in the studio, which
was really cool.
Speaker 4 (25:40):
WHOA.
Speaker 2 (25:40):
Yeah, So continue like having those like real conversations and
giving people that you know maybe don't aren't the same
as like you and I those platforms, which I think.
Speaker 5 (25:53):
That's so and also so important.
Speaker 1 (25:55):
And I also think that it can be very intimidating
stepping into something that you're not familiar with, Like obviously
having a conversation with someone and having an interpreter is
like not something that you're doing on a regular basis.
And to give someone a platform of coming on your podcast,
which is so huge and like reaches so many people,
I think is literally the goal of having a platform,
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so like you're literally doing it, you know.
Speaker 5 (26:20):
It's so fun.
Speaker 2 (26:21):
I literally left that interview like on a high, Like
I was like bubbling, like bouncing around all day.
Speaker 1 (26:26):
It is. It's just really cool.
Speaker 2 (26:28):
So just things like that, like intentional conversations. And we
just had our mental health summit, our first ever one, and.
Speaker 4 (26:34):
Yeah I saw that congratulations and.
Speaker 2 (26:39):
It like the day literally like blew every single expectation
I had.
Speaker 1 (26:43):
Like I'm still like in shock that we did that.
Speaker 2 (26:47):
So I want to do that like in different states,
like across the country and like reach.
Speaker 1 (26:51):
More people, just make people feel loved.
Speaker 2 (26:54):
I think that's like obviously it's like mental health that
we talk about like real conversations. But I want people
to like not alone as cliche as it sounds, like, Yeah.
Speaker 1 (27:02):
I'm definitely like an EmPATH.
Speaker 2 (27:04):
And I want to like hug everyone I see, So
like that's how I want people to feel after listening
to the podcast.
Speaker 1 (27:10):
I also feel like what you do is you bring
people who have followings and platforms, and I think it's
important for people who follow them and have put them
on a certain pedestal of thinking, like, oh, they don't
deal with the same like obviously there's different struggles of
like that, Like, for instance, someone who has a big
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platform and their careers TikTok or something, they might not
have the same like financial struggles as someone. But in
terms of mental health, it really encompasses every group of people.
Like that's something that can connect people on so many
different levels and.
Speaker 5 (27:45):
Like ways of life.
Speaker 1 (27:46):
I feel like you it's a it's a something that
brings people together because people can be have as image
of someone and be like they don't have any problems,
they don't have the same problems I have. But when
it comes to mental health things like it connects people. Yeah,
so I think that's amazing that you're not only giving
a platform to the people that speak, but for other
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people to connect with those people.
Speaker 5 (28:10):
Cool.
Speaker 3 (28:11):
When you're doing like when you did the Mental Health Summit,
when you're doing these things where you're engaging with people,
what do you find is the biggest thing that people
are struggling with? Like right now, ooh.
Speaker 2 (28:22):
I would say, and this isn't something that I feel
like is said to me a lot, but I feel
like we're still really lacking community. I think that's the
biggest thing that I've learned from like COVID too, is
how much we need like human human interaction and actually
coming together for you know, a day to listen to
some people talk. And there was I there were so
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many people just like meeting and mingling and learning about
each other. And I think having that interaction with people
and having like minded people together and just building that
community really helps you feel like not alone of them,
like reminds you like, oh, I'm struggling with my mental health,
and all these people here like they care about mental
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health enough to come and listen to this too. So yeah,
I think that's probably the biggest thing is really like
having that form of community do you feel like.
Speaker 1 (29:13):
Being on our phones, like since you're you talk to
people about this and do these summits and this is
your foundation, But do you feel like obviously having phones
in social media, it's it does connect us, but I
also feel like there's just this like right, and I
don't know if it's because we're seeing people talk about it.
It's like so accessible to hear people talk about their
mental health struggles, but it does feel like there's.
Speaker 5 (29:35):
A common.
Speaker 1 (29:38):
Like the timing of when we've seen an increase or
decrease in mental health. Yeah, and social media in like
COVID times, it feels like it was parallel in terms
of how they connected. Do you feel like that when
you're talking to people, Like the loneliness of because people
watch on their phone and they just scroll and they're not.
Speaker 3 (29:56):
About it now, like you keep up like we keep
we oh, okay, we keep up with you.
Speaker 4 (30:04):
You keep up with us all on social media.
Speaker 3 (30:05):
So it's like I haven't picked up the phone and
called you in like years, but I know everything that's
going on, and I feel like it tricks our mind
and thinking that we've like socialized with people and we're
keeping up with people by like watching their Instagram, watching
their social media whatever, but we're not actually having that
human interaction, do you know what I mean. So it's
like weird because you're still keeping up with your friends
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and stuff, but you're really not doing like the work
of it of picking up the phone and like how
was your day. You're like, oh, I'm just like watching
your story, so I know what you did today, but
I don't know, you know what I mean. It's this
weird thing because I too, like all day yesterday I
was on my phone. I was just on my phone
and I didn't see a single person. I know this
thing yesterday whatever, the day before, and I still feel
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like I had like a full social day because I
watched my phone the whole day.
Speaker 5 (30:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (30:55):
No, I definitely think there's I mean, there's even studies.
I don't want to butche of them.
Speaker 5 (30:58):
So I'm not going to give the number.
Speaker 2 (30:59):
But doctor Ayman talks about all the time, like the
if you give a child a phone or like a
tablet before the age of thirteen, their risks for their
suicide risks, Like it goes through.
Speaker 1 (31:14):
The roof, like it's just the risk for suicide, depression,
all of the stuff.
Speaker 2 (31:17):
So I think there's definitely pros to social media into
the phones, into all of the stuff, because I think
you can definitely and take you know, I feel like
I learn a lot, I mean, wellness and stuff from
my phone, but recipes. Yes, there definitely needs to be
like a like a limit. Like when when the Summer
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I Turned Pretty premiere came out, all my girlfriends we
were like, no one's looking at any form of social
media today. We're not having the finale spoiled because we
all got together at the end of the night and
watched it and we were all like, oh my gosh,
I went the whole day not looking at our phones
and it was literally like the best thing like it.
I just the next day I was like, I don't
really need to look at my phone, so it's crazy.
And I actually was thinking about this because I saw
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on TikTok it was like showing old school like commercials
like when we were kids, of like the different like
the rainbow painting like brushes, or like just like little
like what is it called, like the little I'm baking
on the name when you like.
Speaker 3 (32:16):
Bake the yes.
Speaker 2 (32:19):
And things like that, like you don't ever see commercials
for toys like that for kids to like go and
draw or to like blow these bubbles that stick together and.
Speaker 5 (32:29):
Like things like that. You don't see that anything.
Speaker 4 (32:31):
I know when I was twelve, like I was still
playing with my dolls.
Speaker 5 (32:34):
Absolutely, you walk in a prop top.
Speaker 3 (32:37):
Down the street, you know what I mean? Like in
my Berry's class. I swear with a berries the other
day and there was a twelve year.
Speaker 4 (32:42):
Old running next to me.
Speaker 5 (32:42):
I was like, this is actually like I think we're
gonna have.
Speaker 2 (32:45):
I think we're gonna have a big swing, Like I
think when our generation is having kids, I think it's
gonna be like like Kylie Kelsey talks about how she
wants to have which I love this idea. It's like
a communal phone, Like there's a cell phone.
Speaker 4 (32:58):
In bits, yeah, in the kitchen, kid Yeah, and they can.
Speaker 2 (33:01):
Like the kid like the girls will be able to
use it in the kitchen, but like they can't like
bring it up to bed with them.
Speaker 4 (33:05):
They can't, like it's like their home phone.
Speaker 2 (33:07):
Yeah, but they can like still like go on it
and use it, but it stays in the kit Like
I just think that's I feel like that's the swing
like we're about to have because yeah, when I think
about like having kids, like I want them to like
be self sufficient and like, I mean I was an
only child, so I really had to like make up
stuff in my brain to like keep myself busy.
Speaker 5 (33:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (33:27):
So, and I feel like that has kind of morphed
into why I love being creative and why I love
like doing stuff.
Speaker 5 (33:34):
So I think we're going to have a.
Speaker 1 (33:35):
Big shift to where the technology use is going to
go down. Well, I've seen people talk about how, especially
our age range everyone there's this sense of nostalgia that
no other like no one else seems to have.
Speaker 3 (33:49):
But the millennials have this like thank you Becca, you
say it loud, say.
Speaker 4 (33:54):
Proud, but we have it.
Speaker 5 (33:56):
We have nostalgia.
Speaker 4 (33:58):
Yeah yeah.
Speaker 1 (34:00):
But like like you remember going through magazines I don't
even know, like encircling or the items you wanted, like
you wanted to get something like the.
Speaker 2 (34:08):
Book Fair like whatever, that's what I'm on the name
of it, but like the book my mom to like
give me five bucks to like by freaking coloring magazine
like Eraser.
Speaker 4 (34:19):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (34:19):
Literally, I feel like everyone, like especially gen Z poo
poos millennials, and I'm like, uh, they're making a double
Wars product to the Jonas Brothers are back and Twilight's
back in theaters.
Speaker 5 (34:31):
So I keep forgetting that they're doing that. Oh yeah,
are y'all going to that?
Speaker 1 (34:35):
Well, y'all should, Yes, you should do it. You should
host like a yes viewing take over theater?
Speaker 4 (34:43):
Can you do that? I don't even know anything.
Speaker 5 (34:45):
I feel like they can make it happen.
Speaker 4 (34:46):
Yeah, totally should.
Speaker 5 (34:49):
It's like a movie a night. Is that what it is?
Speaker 4 (34:51):
You know, Tay, we don't know the details.
Speaker 5 (34:59):
My mom actually asked you that. I was driving the
other day.
Speaker 1 (35:01):
I was like, Oh, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (35:03):
I kind of thought it already happened.
Speaker 3 (35:04):
But no, but I'm sure there's like it'll be I
actually don't know.
Speaker 5 (35:08):
Sam.
Speaker 4 (35:09):
Are you listening? Sam could look it up.
Speaker 6 (35:11):
Yes, it's a movie a night, one one per night,
one movie per night.
Speaker 4 (35:16):
What day is it? Certain days starting the twenty ninth
of October?
Speaker 1 (35:20):
October? Yes, theaters on the thirtieth.
Speaker 4 (35:24):
Okay, okay.
Speaker 1 (35:41):
So this is another thing that a lot of gen
z or like, I've seen people talking about the Midnight
Show going to a midnight showing of the Twilight movies
about no one, No one could get back those moments just.
Speaker 5 (35:53):
No, I was like camp out.
Speaker 1 (35:54):
I literally camped out for the twilet movies.
Speaker 2 (35:57):
I would go to my movie theater and I would
like watch all the like they would like replay the
movie prior and so like by the fifth movie, I
was there all day because they were playing every single
movie before you.
Speaker 5 (36:07):
No, like the fact that you're married.
Speaker 4 (36:11):
Crazy, it will get old.
Speaker 5 (36:13):
No, that's story. It's so funny.
Speaker 4 (36:15):
It's very Travis Kelce.
Speaker 5 (36:18):
It is.
Speaker 4 (36:18):
Yeah, it is adjacent.
Speaker 2 (36:20):
Yeah, although I was team Edwards, don't really. Yeah, I
haven't met him, but funny enough. When I was flying
to visit Taylor when we first started.
Speaker 5 (36:30):
Dating, he was filming a show in London.
Speaker 2 (36:34):
I flew out to visit him and Rob was on
my plane.
Speaker 4 (36:39):
Rob, sorry, we've stood up.
Speaker 2 (36:44):
And I literally looked across the plane and I was
like this, you can't make this up. I'm literally flying
to go visit my new boyfriend who was in this
franchise that I've been obsessed with my whole life, and
the character I was actually obsessed with is not on
the plane as I'm going.
Speaker 5 (37:00):
And Taylor was like, you should said hi to him?
Like what am I going to say? Hey, Rob?
Speaker 2 (37:03):
I'm going to visit your old co star here, and
he would have been like, I would have been tackled
by security.
Speaker 3 (37:08):
Or yeah, yeah, there's really no like easy way into that.
Speaker 5 (37:12):
How long have you all been dating at that point? No,
we've it's a couple of months.
Speaker 1 (37:16):
Wow. Yeah, your story is just it's surely incredible.
Speaker 4 (37:21):
It's so good.
Speaker 5 (37:22):
But I love what.
Speaker 1 (37:23):
I was actually talking to Haley about you today because
she was like, oh's on who's coming on the podcast?
I was like hey, and she was like, she's so
amazing and like what she has done because she has
like said, like, obviously y'all are together, but you've been
able to separate, like have your own career and name,
even though the name is the same. You have your
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own name, like that is your thing. And I think
it's amazing because I don't know, I don't know that
I would would be like I don't know that I
would separate myself and be able to be so like
have my own thing. And it's I think it's impressive
what you've done because you I think of you now
as together but also a separate.
Speaker 5 (38:05):
In Yeah, yeah, that's it.
Speaker 2 (38:07):
Yeah, I know it's funny because I I'm like such
a like go getter, and I want to like be
my own person, and obviously, like being a wife is
my like literal favorite thing in this entire world, so
I wouldn't ever change that. But it is funny that
I'm like trying to like be my own person and
I literally have the exact same name as my husband.
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Like it's sometimes I lay in about it and I'm like,
this is so fun Like do you understand.
Speaker 3 (38:31):
How much I love, Like I wish I had the
same name as my husband, Like I I envy that
so much.
Speaker 4 (38:36):
I think it's the cutest thing.
Speaker 2 (38:37):
Ever.
Speaker 4 (38:38):
I'm like, I wish we'd the same name.
Speaker 5 (38:40):
You mean change? You're doing your name change? So you
could you could.
Speaker 3 (38:43):
Change through the hustle bustle to change my name. I
bet you don't have to go through this.
Speaker 5 (38:48):
It's a lot.
Speaker 3 (38:48):
It's to change your last name, right, yeah, I'm changing
my full name.
Speaker 4 (38:52):
Do I to go to court? I like file a thing.
Speaker 3 (38:55):
I had to put a I have a ad in
the newspaper right now, basically like saying if I even
he wants to protest my name, change to call the courts.
Speaker 1 (39:02):
Like it's so you could have changed it to Robbie
r O b B I E.
Speaker 4 (39:07):
Oh, like a different spelling of it. Yeah, I know, shoot,
I could have.
Speaker 5 (39:14):
That's funny. It cracks me up. Yeah, it's so cute.
It's a great story. It's just too much, do you
I know, we to.
Speaker 1 (39:22):
I don't like asking about kids, but you mentioned one day,
so I feel like it's a safe space of asking
if that is something you'll are wanting in your future
for sure.
Speaker 2 (39:31):
Yeah, I mean I've wanted to again, I'm an only child,
so I've always wanted to be a mom and that's
like been my goal for my life. But yeah, I
think that day will come sooner than later. That's excited
way yeah, because I'm.
Speaker 1 (39:47):
As an only as an only child, do you want multiple?
Speaker 5 (39:51):
Do you want a lot? Or do you are you
like let's go one at a time.
Speaker 4 (39:54):
See.
Speaker 2 (39:54):
I used to want five kids because I was like
I really wanted a big family, and now I'm like
it changed once. It actually changed once I met Taylor
because I used to like want to be married young.
I wanted to like start having a family young and
like all of that, and then when I met Taylor,
I was like, oh, I actually am like really content
with where I'm at.
Speaker 1 (40:13):
That's just like how you know you're like in the
right relationship.
Speaker 5 (40:19):
But then in nursing.
Speaker 2 (40:20):
School, I saw when I was doing my rotations, I
saw a vaginal birth for the first time.
Speaker 1 (40:26):
And I went home.
Speaker 2 (40:26):
I said, Hunt, I can't have a child until I
forget what that looked like, because it was there's a
reason our heads are placed up here and not down there. No,
this angle is a lot better than the receiving angle.
Speaker 1 (40:39):
No, so you're still remembering it.
Speaker 5 (40:43):
It's almost gone.
Speaker 1 (40:44):
Now.
Speaker 2 (40:44):
My best friend just had a baby and she's a
labor and delivery nurse, so if she literally does that
for her career.
Speaker 1 (40:49):
Then I can.
Speaker 5 (40:50):
I can. Yeah, birth one.
Speaker 2 (40:52):
Now it's gone, and I'm like, I'm ready to make
that next up.
Speaker 1 (40:57):
Yeah, but do you know what I always think, like,
how many people have multiple kids?
Speaker 5 (41:02):
They've done it once?
Speaker 1 (41:03):
If it was that bad or if your brain didn't
forget about it, not this many people would do it again.
Speaker 5 (41:10):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (41:10):
No, that's exactly what my best friend was like, because
I've always said I wanted to see section because I
was like, you can just make the time you go in,
they cut you up, and they take the baby, You're
all done. But that's so I've always said I want
to see section and she was like on the fence
about it.
Speaker 5 (41:25):
And now after having her own child.
Speaker 1 (41:26):
She was like, Okay, you can do the sea section.
I'll allow it.
Speaker 5 (41:29):
But she was like I literally like she was like,
I do it ten times over. I know, I know.
I guess we'll find.
Speaker 1 (41:38):
Out like the baby is Tay Junior Taylor.
Speaker 5 (41:46):
I gotta do something funny with that, Yeah you do.
Speaker 4 (41:50):
I don't know roll lot yet or like reverse Taylor
like legit.
Speaker 5 (41:58):
I don't know if they would like that name.
Speaker 4 (42:00):
Yeah, ro yet whatever, there's something there.
Speaker 1 (42:04):
Okay, you should just announce it like as a joke.
Speaker 5 (42:09):
I do like the name.
Speaker 1 (42:11):
And then tejjte yeah.
Speaker 5 (42:17):
I had to What is the future for podcast?
Speaker 1 (42:24):
Do you have any dream Who's your dream guests to
have on the podcast?
Speaker 2 (42:29):
I have a lot. The one that I like love
to say is Matthew McConaughey because I'm just like obsessed
with him.
Speaker 4 (42:34):
That's a good one.
Speaker 5 (42:35):
But I don't know.
Speaker 2 (42:36):
I feel like I have like a few people, but
I think him probably he's need to get someone from
the summer turned pretty.
Speaker 5 (42:45):
On the podcast to wait, how have it not happened? Schedules?
Speaker 1 (42:50):
Oh, yeah, because I feel like they would absolutely do it.
I mean, I feel like you've met album like like
you're all so sweet too.
Speaker 4 (42:56):
Schedules are tough.
Speaker 2 (42:58):
Schedules are really hard. Yeah, That's what I've really learned
since having this. It's actually been really cool to like
be on this other side of the podcast because like normally, like, oh,
like booking, like on the booking side, like we like schedule,
Like I'm in the emails and I'm like scheduling everyone.
So it's like cool to see like the other side
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of the industry because you don't really oh right outside yeah,
necessarily from like our position.
Speaker 5 (43:24):
What do you ever just reach out? Like when? Because
I feel like you probably have a.
Speaker 1 (43:28):
Lot of people on your phone, so you could just
well to call her up, but you could just text
and be like, hey, would you want to come on
the podcast or do you have do you go through
like the professional?
Speaker 2 (43:38):
We we definitely go either either Taylor and I will
like DM someone or we'll go through the professional because
we don't, like I never want someone to like feel
like uncomfortable for like, but just put someone in awkward
position if that's not something they're wanting to do right now,
then I don't want them to like feel like they
(43:58):
have to answer that, So I rather like go through
their team and their team can say it, and of course,
like we don't carr either way, but I would rather
not like put someone in that position.
Speaker 1 (44:07):
Yeah right, I don't want to be the middleman. Yeah,
just keep it professional. Yeah, okay. So Matthew McConaughey, I
feel like we'll be seeing a teaser for Matthew McConaughey
coming on The Squeeze soon one day, or.
Speaker 2 (44:20):
Like Mark Wahlberg, I'm also obsessed with him. It's so random.
I feel like that's those are like my two answers
I always give, and that's a very random.
Speaker 5 (44:27):
Well.
Speaker 1 (44:28):
I love Matthew McConaughey, but Mark Wahlberg does random.
Speaker 4 (44:32):
Yeah, just because I feel like he like.
Speaker 1 (44:36):
Whatever energy high he has.
Speaker 4 (44:38):
Yeah, you're right, You're like so right.
Speaker 2 (44:40):
So Sude has like he's done four am, has worked out,
had breakfast, golf, eighteen holes. Like it's just he's he's
certainly done the whole day by eight thirty am.
Speaker 4 (44:50):
What is it?
Speaker 1 (44:51):
I that's why I want to talk to him, But
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (44:53):
Yeah, I'm with you on that. I always find that fascinating.
Speaker 5 (44:56):
Let's I explain that the people understand it.
Speaker 2 (44:58):
But like he's just like he's just grinding every day
and it's like so happy about it.
Speaker 4 (45:03):
Yeah, he's a grinder.
Speaker 5 (45:04):
I didn't know I know about him.
Speaker 3 (45:06):
No, people who have endless energy so fascinating. Like my
acupuncturist always ask every time I come in for acupuncture,
how's your energy been?
Speaker 4 (45:14):
I'm like, low, I mean every.
Speaker 3 (45:16):
Day, like I'm tired every day, Like what do you
want from me? And that's like does anybody ever say
that they like have a lot of energy? And she's
like yeah, actually, And I'm like I need to meet
these people.
Speaker 5 (45:26):
What are well?
Speaker 1 (45:26):
Like what are the things that you do for like
if you're noticing that you're feeling like off mental health wise,
what are the things that you do to like check
back in, like tune beck in.
Speaker 5 (45:36):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (45:37):
Recently I've really been into working out again. I feel
like I took a really long time like not wanting
to work out. In the past few weeks, I've been
like obsessed with it, just any like any bar, yoga,
going outside, walking, like literally anything. I've been loving that.
I love simple things like if I'm anxious during the day,
(46:00):
I'll go outside and literally like lay on the cement
in my backyard and just like lay in the sun
for like ten minutes and like get like the blood
flowing a little bit, get a little sweaty, and it
like is the best thing.
Speaker 1 (46:11):
Whoa, It's literally the easiest thing we've never done. That
we go and just like we'll go stand on our
in our yard in the front and with our feet
in the grass if we're feeling both feeling like off. Yeah,
trend of like touching grass, Like it's a funny trend,
but it's like it's it's.
Speaker 5 (46:29):
Actually exactly true.
Speaker 4 (46:31):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (46:32):
No, I think those are the biggest things.
Speaker 2 (46:33):
I think, making sure I'm taking time off my phone, Yeah,
spending time with Taylor the dogs. I love cleaning, so
like that's a good little I need to clean whenever
I'm like flustered.
Speaker 1 (46:46):
Yeah, I did that more because I always feel so
much better once I do it. But like getting to
the point of doing it takes everything in me.
Speaker 3 (46:55):
They always say, like, if you're feeling like you have
a walck going on your head, if you just like
organize your whatever, like your drawer, you know how you
always have like that junk dwarf. You organize it, it
like does so much for your mental health, and I'm
like I can attest to that.
Speaker 4 (47:10):
Yeah, yeah, very much.
Speaker 1 (47:11):
Do you have any places that you've traveled to that
you're like, this is like my safe space and somewhere
that I want to go when I'm overwhelmed. I mean definitely,
they're just like a little far.
Speaker 5 (47:24):
I know you spend time in You'll spend time.
Speaker 1 (47:27):
In Idaho, right, yeah, And I know people like always
talk about how beautiful it is up there.
Speaker 5 (47:32):
Yeah, what are the far places?
Speaker 2 (47:33):
I well, one of my favorite places ever. I love London,
but but it's a whole farmhouse.
Speaker 5 (47:40):
Oh yeah, I've heard it's amazing. It's a dream. It is.
Speaker 2 (47:44):
It's a dream, but it's a track obviously to get
over there.
Speaker 1 (47:48):
But it just feels so disconnected from world.
Speaker 2 (47:51):
So I feel like it's a really nice I love
like Montacido, Santa Barbara area too, like anywhere up there.
Speaker 1 (47:57):
Yeah, it's super super sweet.
Speaker 5 (48:00):
You Like, I love.
Speaker 2 (48:01):
Nature, so whether that's like an ocean or a mountain,
and I can just leave my phone somewhere and sit
and have a coffee and like look at a view.
Speaker 5 (48:08):
I'm so content.
Speaker 1 (48:09):
Yeah, I feel like you do a really good job
documenting things Because I associate you with like going to
I always think about like you going too, like beautiful places.
Speaker 5 (48:17):
Oh right, yeah.
Speaker 4 (48:18):
That's a nice association.
Speaker 3 (48:21):
Wait, I just had a Oh this is so so random,
so random, and I don't know, I feel like I
just got married, But I don't know why.
Speaker 4 (48:29):
I'm so maybe because you're getting married.
Speaker 3 (48:32):
I've been thinking about weddings a lot, and like thinking
about like what I would do. Is there anything if
you could go back and do anything differently from your wedding?
Is there anything you would do different or would you
keep it all the same?
Speaker 4 (48:43):
Um?
Speaker 2 (48:46):
Literally, the only thing I would change is I would
change into my second look sooner, sooner, because I missed
the first forty five minutes of the dance floor and
that's like, that's where.
Speaker 1 (48:58):
I meant to be, is the dance for that's where
my heart belongs.
Speaker 2 (49:01):
Yeah, and I missed the first like forty five minutes
to an hour of it, and so I was really
sad about that.
Speaker 1 (49:06):
So when did you can you? Because she had a
thing about this too.
Speaker 4 (49:10):
Wait, I'm so sad I didn't do it earlier.
Speaker 5 (49:12):
When do you do it earlier?
Speaker 1 (49:13):
Though, like when when did you do it versus when
you could have done it earlier?
Speaker 2 (49:17):
I did it after like once. I guess once, like
dinner was like about to wrap.
Speaker 5 (49:23):
Maybe so they did it.
Speaker 2 (49:24):
I know, I'm trying to think it was like after
the speeches and everything is.
Speaker 1 (49:28):
When I so you did like first dance, speeches, dinner
and then changed? Yeah? Wait when did we do our
first dance?
Speaker 5 (49:35):
Oh wait?
Speaker 4 (49:36):
Wait?
Speaker 5 (49:38):
So we did our first dance outside?
Speaker 1 (49:40):
This is really good.
Speaker 5 (49:41):
This is really good for me.
Speaker 1 (49:47):
What do I feel like?
Speaker 5 (49:47):
We did our first nance and then we went inside?
I could be wrong.
Speaker 1 (49:52):
Well, typically when you enter the reception, isn't that when
you do your first dance. Our first dance was outside
of our way.
Speaker 2 (49:59):
There was like we had this piano outside that had
we have a lot of like musically talented friends. So
our friend like played the piano and sang our first
stand song.
Speaker 5 (50:10):
And have you talked about what song that was? What
was your first Yeah?
Speaker 1 (50:13):
It was Lifetime by Jessin Bieber.
Speaker 4 (50:16):
Oh yeah, I love that.
Speaker 1 (50:19):
Yeah, I think it was Lifetime.
Speaker 5 (50:21):
No, it was it.
Speaker 2 (50:22):
It was one of those songs they are guys, you know,
I'm like upseessed with my husband.
Speaker 5 (50:27):
I forget these little details. So I'm just happy about
this Lifetime.
Speaker 1 (50:31):
I know, I know.
Speaker 2 (50:33):
It's it's confusing because I know he also sang our
friend Aiden also sang Heaven's Knife, which was the song
that I walked down the aisle to. And it's also
the song Taylor proposed to me too, Like you know,
I love that song. So our friend Aiden recorded it
and then Taylor played it while he was proposing, And
that was also the song that I walked on.
Speaker 5 (50:51):
The aisle too.
Speaker 1 (50:52):
It was lifetime.
Speaker 5 (50:53):
Wow, I have to fact check this out.
Speaker 2 (50:56):
I'm like second guessing myself because he has another sweet
song about Haley.
Speaker 5 (51:02):
Look, I think it's too much but much. I think
it was lifetime. It was thank you quick Google searchain,
we got it. Thank you. Yeah, I guess I need
to rewatch my wedding.
Speaker 1 (51:17):
Time to day till in the anniversary coming up that
you can rewatch. Y'all can have a night and watch
the video.
Speaker 5 (51:24):
Yeah, we're definitely. E'scared to see this clip and he's
gonna be like, bro, what is wrong with you?
Speaker 4 (51:30):
It's very funny because I think, like what anniversary would be?
Speaker 3 (51:34):
This is our third third? If I asked Robby and
our third wedding anniversary. If he doesn't remember our first dance.
Speaker 1 (51:40):
I think he'll remember it was He'll remember it was
blocked in was everywhere in the wedding.
Speaker 5 (51:48):
Wait, what are the have y'all done? The anniversary things?
Like every year there's a what.
Speaker 4 (51:53):
Is the gift that you like?
Speaker 1 (51:54):
The traditional gifts like the first one's paper, second one
is florals. I think I don't know he skipped the
floor on what's the third? You can really you can
impress them with the third. The third one is a
leather you.
Speaker 5 (52:11):
Could get she loves leathers. This is good.
Speaker 1 (52:15):
This could get and you could be like, why Ohana,
I was thinking.
Speaker 4 (52:23):
My mind went to like leather lingerie, she's crunching up
cow girl.
Speaker 5 (52:33):
Yeah. I was literally like a cute little wallet. He
loves the smell of leather, so he like loves.
Speaker 2 (52:40):
Even better All Saints, all Saints jacket.
Speaker 5 (52:44):
That'd because.
Speaker 2 (52:47):
My mind always goes because this could be this could
be dirty dirty.
Speaker 1 (52:53):
Yeah, well you could impress them and be like, I
don't know if you know, but every anniversary has a
theme and this year's leather, which which I direction you go,
I'll report back.
Speaker 3 (53:04):
Where would you even find naughty and nice. Oh my gosh,
a leather like crotches panty.
Speaker 4 (53:09):
I can find one right now.
Speaker 5 (53:10):
In her drawer.
Speaker 4 (53:11):
Yeah. Yeah, you don't think I have one, You are mistaken.
I can find you one right now.
Speaker 5 (53:18):
I just did.
Speaker 2 (53:18):
My girlfriend just got married in for her bachelorette we
all like got her lingerie and then she like modeled
it for us.
Speaker 5 (53:25):
It was the cutest thing.
Speaker 1 (53:26):
But I was like, I could literally never do that
for my girl.
Speaker 5 (53:29):
I would never. I could never. Yeah that's a lot.
Let me see on Amazon.
Speaker 4 (53:37):
Okay, yeah, I just because it was the easiest thing. Okay,
I'm just trying to give you inspiration.
Speaker 5 (53:47):
That didn't look croutchless to me.
Speaker 3 (53:49):
Yeah, you want to see crotches, Oh you can this
little situation.
Speaker 4 (53:53):
Wow, that looks like feather. Not really.
Speaker 5 (53:56):
Look, I don't know if I'm bad enough.
Speaker 4 (53:58):
Yeah, I'm just saying the world, the world is your oyster.
Oh wow?
Speaker 5 (54:02):
Is that?
Speaker 4 (54:02):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (54:02):
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (54:03):
She would absolutely do a lingerie modeling, even with Crotchla's fancy.
She would have no problem doing that. For I did
her boudoir shoe. I I did that for my girlfriend,
and I was literally.
Speaker 4 (54:15):
Crap, you have the photos.
Speaker 5 (54:17):
Yeah, I called Taylor. I was like, I was just
creative director. It's fine, just like girls are weird, but like.
Speaker 4 (54:23):
It's so true.
Speaker 3 (54:24):
I was looking to hire somebody to do it, and
I was like, I'm going to pay thousands of dollars
and it's quite uncomfortable to be around, like in my
crossles panties in front of a stranger.
Speaker 4 (54:33):
Why not. Becca takes amazing photos.
Speaker 5 (54:36):
Really take them on my canon G seven X. Oh yeah,
I did, like polaroids.
Speaker 2 (54:42):
So we need a thing where you like go up
to him at the wedding and like show him the photo.
Speaker 5 (54:46):
Oh you seen that trend?
Speaker 2 (54:48):
Yeah, that that's what That's what we did for.
Speaker 5 (54:52):
It's funny.
Speaker 1 (54:53):
Well, I just want to say thank you for using
your outing of the house today to come and talk
to us.
Speaker 5 (55:00):
Yeah, we love you. I love what you do.
Speaker 1 (55:02):
I love your podcast, I love your foundation, I love you,
I love your husband. I think y'all are wonderful.
Speaker 3 (55:08):
And we support everything and anything that you guys do.
Speaker 5 (55:11):
Yeah, thank you for coming on.
Speaker 4 (55:13):
Can you plug where everybody can watch listen all the things.
Speaker 5 (55:16):
Yeah, the Squeeze podcasts.
Speaker 1 (55:19):
We're at the Squeeze on Instagram.
Speaker 2 (55:20):
If you look up the Squeeze podcast on YouTube, on Spotify,
wherever you get your.
Speaker 1 (55:25):
Podcast, and where can they follow you. I'm just at
tail ouner.
Speaker 2 (55:30):
I'm missus tail outner on TikTok because someone has tail
louner and they won't give it to me unless I
pay them.
Speaker 1 (55:35):
So we're missus tail outner even more of a just
a flex like, oh yeah, you know you don't want
me to have my name, let me add a little.
Speaker 5 (55:42):
M rs yeah.
Speaker 4 (55:45):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (55:45):
Thank you guys, thank you so much, thank you for
We love you.
Speaker 4 (55:49):
We love you.
Speaker 5 (55:50):
Bye bye
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